1 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: So I just did a do over. I had the 2 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 1: worstification Saint Bart's Christmas. I told you why. It was 3 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 1: a nightmare. I know it sounds ridiculous. It just was terrible. 4 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: A death, a bacterial infection, vile people, bad parenting, all 5 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: of it terrible. I had someone from the Core who 6 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: has a stunning, magnificent boat invite me on a trip 7 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: and I was hesitant. I almost canceled the last minute. 8 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 1: I was exhausted. Someone on the boat said to me, 9 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: just come, and I leaned in and I went. And 10 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 1: it was extraordinary and it reinforced so much that it's 11 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,639 Speaker 1: really not what you are doing, it's who you're with. 12 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: Like the people on this boat were so nice. The 13 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: person is a bonifid host. They just are an incredible host. 14 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: They surround themselves with incredible people, beautiful people, wonderful people, 15 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: good people. And I thought it's safe. And in the 16 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: past I've been friends with some like hedge fun private 17 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: equity guys that I've just known my whole life, and 18 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: like they hang out with young bimbos. They like buy 19 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: the Marimez bags on the first date. Like there's a 20 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: vibe of sleeves, there's like characters coming in and out, 21 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: and because I grew up at the racetrack, I'm sort 22 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: of used to that type of person and don't really 23 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: think about how they're living because it really doesn't necessarily 24 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: apply to me. But always the energy has sort of 25 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: rubbed off, and every time I've been around them, like 26 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: staying with them in different locations, or being on like 27 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: billionaires boats, which I've told you stories before. This one 28 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: big high profile billionaire whose boat I went on, Like 29 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: the people around are just superficial, and like the people 30 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: that are running the boat make you feel like they're 31 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: the boss. They're in charge. It's their program, it's their money, 32 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: it's their lunchtime, it's their plan. You feel like you're 33 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: walking on eggshells. This was a host as wealthy as 34 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: anyone and just was gracious and like everyone on the 35 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: boat was a reflection of that person, and it was 36 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: really wonderful. I have to say, like, I had such 37 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: a nice time, and it was this person said to me, 38 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you the Saint Barts that you did 39 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 1: not experience. And we hiked and saw baby goats and 40 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: ducks and hiked from beach to beach and just swam 41 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: and like went to nice lunches and workout clothes, and 42 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: it wasn't like a flex and it wasn't a waste 43 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: of money. It wasn't like sprang champagne all over each other. 44 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: It was just to say that it was lavish and elaborate, 45 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: it would be the most drastic understatement in the history 46 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: of mankind. But it was lavish and elaborate on the 47 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: right things, like on the massages, on the boats and 48 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: on the toys, and on the gorgeous food. And their 49 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: chef is like worked with like world leaders. But like 50 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: the food was immaculate. It wasn't like just the stuff 51 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: that shows. It was the stuff that we tasted, we smelled, 52 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: we slept on like it just it was the most 53 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: amazing trip I've ever had. And the people, everyone on 54 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: the trip was so not jaded and grateful, like this 55 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: is so amazing, and I'm so grateful to that person 56 00:02:58,040 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: who made me come, you know who you are, and 57 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: the person who invited me in the first place, and 58 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: to myself for going and being open and just it 59 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: was incredible. So you know, it's interesting, I was thinking 60 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: I canceled a trip to Aspen. I've been going my 61 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: entire life to Aspen, and I love it there and 62 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: I love snowboarding, and after my Saint Bart's Christmas experience, 63 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: I was hesitant to go. There was another thing that 64 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: happened in my household that made me cancel it. But 65 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: I canceled it because I had been seeing all these 66 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: pictures of like so many celebrities over Christmas dressed so 67 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: over the top to Aspen, like ten times Saint Bart's, 68 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: like furs and bikinis and like outfits that are head 69 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: to toe mesh or lace or like not at all 70 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: what you would wear in a snow location, because it's 71 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: just about theatrics now, because it's social media and it's impressions, 72 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: and it's like Aspen and Saint Bart's and Tuloom and Coachella, 73 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: and these places have become these costume parties like the Housewives. 74 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: When it first started, you be in a sweatshirt, and 75 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: then it evolved into this like met Gala, giant feathers 76 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: looking like a cockatoo in your interview looks, and everything 77 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: has gotten escalated and elevated because it's like a competition 78 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: and it is like the Hunger Games, and everyone wants 79 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: the most attention. So in asphen you're seeing these crazy 80 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: outlandish outfits when I've never gone to Aspen and not 81 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: packed just like jeans, a sweater, cowboy hat, like and yes, 82 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: maybe some leather pants and like, yes, you're over the 83 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: top of some furry boots and trapper hat. But like 84 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: now we're wearing like slutty Miami clothes in Aspen. And 85 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: of course I'm a social media influencer, but I don't 86 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: know if I want to like take the risk of 87 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: having Saint Bart's two point zero where something's totally jumped 88 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: the shark and change and you know it's gonna be 89 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 1: like just for theatrics, and I'm gonna feel a little 90 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: bit like a loser being there. I felt a little 91 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: bit like that over Christmas. Now full disclosure, somebody from 92 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: the Core, a member from the Core invited me on 93 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: a very big, beautiful, luxurious boat trip now off season, 94 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: and one and a half of the days it's in 95 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: Saint Bart's, but it's really out in the water, so 96 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 1: you're not like in the town doing all like the 97 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: douchey things. So I just I'm like cringing over myself 98 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: a little that like I'm going back to the scene 99 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: of the crime but I did say that it was 100 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: because it was like on season. I mean, Saint Bart's 101 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: is a great place, but I'm just laughing that I'm 102 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: going back. And I have literally seen five people and 103 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: spoken to one on this podcast who have said to me, 104 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to Saint Bart's next week, which is strange. 105 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: I don't know why everyone's going. I have to get 106 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: to the bottom of that. Because five people said this, 107 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: They all said, like, should I be scared because of 108 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: my situation my bacterial infections. So I'll let you know 109 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: when I get back if I run into anyone, and 110 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 1: that literally I'm the face of bacterial infections. And everyone 111 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: has said that they bought the disposable wipes, et cetera. 112 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 1: So it's insane, insane. I've been more proactive about my 113 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: health this year. It's a lot. We're all hearing about 114 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: all these different supplements. We're hearing about colostrum, We're hearing 115 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 1: about colladroom, We're hearing about NAD, We're hearing about peptides. 116 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 1: We're hearing about turmeric. You're hearing about daily supplements. You're 117 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: hearing about everything. It's big. Wellness is fucking here to 118 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: stay createen and all these things and it's hard to 119 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: know what to take. You got longevity mushrooms, you got 120 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: activated charcoal, you've got glutathione. Like, it's very hard to know. 121 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: And the last person you listen to who's very into this, 122 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: you're listening to them, but then someone else says something conflicting. 123 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: It happens when you get a facial. You get a 124 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: facial and they tell you everything you've been doing is 125 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 1: wrong and what they want you to do and you 126 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: really need to be doing this, and that product sucks, 127 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,559 Speaker 1: and like they're selling all these products. You don't believe 128 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: anything they're talking about because about your former products because 129 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: they're selling all these products, and then you're online asking 130 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: chat GBT. It's really hard. So I'm trying to like 131 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: find a way to like be part of health without 132 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: letting it take over my entire life. And I do 133 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: think there are a lot of gimmicks, and I do 134 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 1: think you have to listen to your body. But one 135 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: thing I really wanted to do with this concierge doctor 136 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: that I started in Florida and I had done one 137 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: in New York was do my blood work. And I 138 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: did my blood work so he could really fully do 139 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: a whole look at me, and several times my kidneys 140 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: were low and I ended up going to a kidney 141 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:26,239 Speaker 1: specialist and he diagnosed me with stage two chronic kidney disease. 142 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: And hearing something like that at a certain age is 143 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: validating because the doctor said to me, water is your medicine, 144 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: and I have been dehydrated for a while. I strongly 145 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: believe the vaccine has contributed to this. I strongly believe 146 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: that pots having this that where you get dizzy and 147 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: low blood pressure thing has contributed to this. And also 148 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: when I had my major near death allergy experience, I've 149 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: been told it's possible and everything is just possible that 150 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: I damaged my kidney. Then, so the medicine for it 151 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: is to be hydrated. And I'm constantly drinking water and 152 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: peeing in the middle of the night and feeling older 153 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: as a result of it, because it's embarrassing to be like, 154 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: I have this thing, and I talked about it just 155 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: to say to people, you must, just like you're saying, 156 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: get your mammogram, you must do your blood work, you 157 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: must look at your kidney, you must look at your anemia, 158 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: et cetera. And everybody on here and on social media 159 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: is a part time doctor, so people are like, wait, 160 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: you can't have cavia, And then I'm asking my doctor 161 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: and they're like, that's not true because you also have 162 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: low blood pressure. Most people with kidney issues have high 163 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: blood pressure, and the salt is bad for high blood pressure, 164 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: but in moderation it's okay. But then you're reading that 165 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 1: alcohol is terrible because it's your kidney and the rest 166 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: of it, because water is your best friend. So now 167 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: I'm hearing that red wine is better than white because 168 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: of the antioxidants, and that hard alcohol just has higher 169 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: alcohol content, so it's not the best for someone like 170 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 1: me with a kidney issue. So I'm just navigating all 171 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: of it, but I'm also feeling validating because it makes 172 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 1: you feel like you can poss let me take care 173 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: of it, and it's making me hydrate more and maybe 174 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: that'll affect my skin more, and you know, it's just 175 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: it's been a thing. So I'm just saying, many of 176 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: you are part time doctors, understand that thank you for 177 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: your interest, and that I am on the case taking 178 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: care of it. Have to do something else in a 179 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: couple of weeks. There's just a lot to navigate as 180 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: we get older, and there's a lot. You're navigating your 181 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: kids and their health and their tutors, and they're driving 182 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: and their healthy eating habits, and you're navigating your own 183 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: and it's a lot. Just being a person is a lot. 184 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: Lots to unpack things that matter, things that don't matter. 185 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 1: Let's start with things that don't matter. The Original Housewives 186 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:57,319 Speaker 1: of New York group Sons myself is defecting to E 187 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: so E and Bravo. We're both under NBCUniversal. For a 188 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 1: time prior to that, he was under a different parent company, 189 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: and now they're under another company. And in a savage move, 190 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: he has announced that there is a working title Golden 191 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 1: Life for Original Housewives Sonya, Ramona Luwan, Jill Zarren, Kelly Bensimone. 192 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: So they're doing the Housewives and it's called the Golden Life, 193 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: and I guess it's set in Florida because they all 194 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: live there. That's the working title. It feels like it 195 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 1: was a rushed announcement because they had just announced The 196 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: Ultimate Girls Trip. So on the coattails or getting the 197 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: current behind the Housewives boat, he came in in a savage, 198 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 1: sort of hostile takeover of the press announced that they 199 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: are doing this show, and the thing is that Bravo 200 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: can't hold on to women. They can for a certain 201 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: period of time that they have the right to exercise 202 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 1: a contract with them, but it's been a number of years. 203 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: And they also chose to launch a different reboot with 204 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: all the women together and then a new show, which 205 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: on record, I said was a boring announcement. It didn't 206 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:20,559 Speaker 1: make sense. They announced, we're going to do a new 207 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: show with a new cast, and then we're going to 208 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: do a show combining old cast members. And it flopped. 209 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: It flopped in the media, it flopped in the ratings. 210 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: They were gaslighting everyone, sort of pretending it was good, 211 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: but it wasn't. So this is like a savage move 212 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: and good for them, like good for good for e, 213 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 1: good for the housewives. Like you can't just hold on 214 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,319 Speaker 1: to people. You can't just want you know. At the 215 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: bottom line is you got to treat your talent really well. 216 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 1: You have to treat your talent really well or you 217 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: lose them. And it's like that in television. It's like 218 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: that in your office, it's like that in your relationship. 219 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: It's like that. So they're going over there. I don't 220 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: know how it affects the individual shows. I bet you, 221 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 1: like if Jill's doing the Ultimate Girls Trip, she had 222 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 1: already signed that and agreed to do that, and Bravo 223 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: doesn't know she's doing the other things. Someone like Derinda, 224 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: who'd be a great housewife on the show, has her 225 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 1: own show, Bluestone Manner, coming on Bravo, so she clearly 226 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: wasn't going to do it. And she also was on Traders, 227 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: so no one's loyal. It's not show friends, it's show business. 228 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: As I have always said, so good for everyone. Am 229 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: I doing it? The answer is no. I was asked, 230 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: someone asked me, and my answer is I've done so 231 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 1: much to protect my piece. I have created a business 232 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: that is exactly eight to ten times bigger than when 233 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: I was on the Housewives and when I sold Skinny Girl. 234 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 1: I have a pretty big business that most people don't 235 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: have been really realized, and I don't need them to realize. 236 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: I have a licensing business, I have this podcast. I 237 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: have a branding business. I have a venture capital business. 238 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: I invest in a lot of different CpG products and businesses. 239 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: I have many businesses that people don't know about. Years ago, 240 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 1: people never realized, like John Travolta all the things he 241 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: was invested in, or a Kathy Ireland all the things 242 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: she's invested in because people just thought of her as 243 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,079 Speaker 1: like a model. But if you really think about Ryan 244 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: Reynolds selling mobile for all this money, like, there are 245 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 1: things that people are doing that you don't know about, 246 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 1: which is how they really are making their money. So 247 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: the thing that you're seeing is not where they're really 248 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: making their money. So for me to suck time and 249 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 1: go on The Housewives and disrupt my peace because I 250 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: never really I wanted to be there to be successful. 251 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: I didn't want to be there to be there. Anyone 252 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 1: rich going on The Housewives has something wrong with them, 253 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: is deeply bored. Something like you need and want to 254 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: be relevant because if you are like majorly wealthy and 255 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: you make that choice, then you're missing something in your 256 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: life because it is toxic at any level. No matter 257 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: how you do it, there's something that's going to happen 258 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: that's going to really disrupt your life, your family, disrupts peace. 259 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: People go on antidepressants, anti anxiety drugs. Everyone will tell 260 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 1: you not while they're on it, but when they get 261 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:11,200 Speaker 1: off the truth about that it's not something that I 262 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,199 Speaker 1: choose to do. There were moments of humor the juice 263 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 1: is not worth the squeeze, and people in comments say, well, wait, 264 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: what about a cameo. Let me explain to you what 265 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: a cameo is on the Housewives. For me, a cameo 266 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: means allowing them to shoot me. This is why when 267 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: Denise Richards went back on The Housewives for a cameo, 268 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, this is playing checkers, 269 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 1: not chess. You're giving it away for free, You're having 270 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 1: sex without the ring. It would be millions and millions 271 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: and millions of dollars to get me to do the Housewives. 272 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: He cannot afford the number that it would cost to 273 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: get me to do the Housewives, But the number would 274 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: be the same to be on there for ten seconds 275 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: or ten hours or ten weeks, because the promotion that 276 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: they would use it for my name, my likeness would 277 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: be worth millions and they would be happier because they 278 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't have to pay me anything, and they'd get me 279 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: for two seconds, but they'd make that two seconds seem 280 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: like I was on the entire time, like they did 281 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 1: for Denise. So hell to the motherfucking know A cameo 282 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: is for people who play checkers. And that's anyone who 283 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: has suggested that doesn't understand business. And I'm here to 284 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: educate you because there's zero chance unless the cameo was 285 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: because I had gotten a get somewhere else. This is 286 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: how you do business. Like if there was something else 287 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: that I wanted from E where they could pay me 288 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: enough money to make it worth the cameo, than there's 289 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: a thought like the cameo's worth the same thing as 290 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: being on the show for the whole entire season to me. 291 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: So there'd have to be some other asset that I 292 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 1: would need E for that would be worth whatever it 293 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: would cost to have me on a whole season, because 294 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: they would just use me to get people to tune in. 295 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: Spencer Pratt is running for mayor. Fucking good for him. 296 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: Trump is the president, need I say more? Ronald Reagan 297 00:15:57,360 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 1: was an actor and he was the president. Arnold Schwarzenegger 298 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: was an actor that became governor. Need I say more. 299 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: Spencer's passionate. He lost his home in the fire. He 300 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: has a story, he has clicks, he has a fan base, 301 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: he has people listening. He is a nice guy from 302 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: my perspective, he seems to be trusted. I don't know, 303 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 1: it's the fucking difference. He wants it, he's passionate about it. 304 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: I don't even think he does want it. He just 305 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: doesn't want clowns and they're doing it. And also, politicians 306 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: also like attention, and that's okay. Spencer's been completely straightforward 307 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: about liking attention. He's been transparent about pouring himself out 308 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: for ratings. That works now, Telling the truth in that 309 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: way and being disruptive and being polarizing works. So go 310 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: for yours, Spencer. I can't wait for Heidi to be 311 00:16:49,440 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: the first lady. Most want back to the After, want 312 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: to back to the Conster