1 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all bag 2 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: a suit looking back to back down, giving the mos 3 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: like the mozing buck bus things and it's coble y'all 4 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: to me true good to Steve hard Yeah, listen to 5 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: move to other for stoo bar quickly, hobby. Don't you 6 00:00:38,800 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: join yeah by joining me said do go to turn 7 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: love go? Yeah, you go. You gotta turn you to 8 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: turn the time lovey got to turn out to turn 9 00:01:46,600 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: water wanter, come come on your back at it. Uh huh. 10 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: I shall will a good morning everybody. You're listening to 11 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:09,399 Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now one it only 12 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, okay, here's one 13 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: for you today. This is one that's deep inside of me. 14 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: So this one right here, I know this one very 15 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: very well. I want to talk to you today about success. 16 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: But I want to talk to you about it like 17 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: I usually do in terms of a principle of it, 18 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: but I want to share something with you about it. 19 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: And I was talking to my daughter about it. I've 20 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: talked about my son in law about it, talked about 21 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: it with all my children, and I'm really starting to 22 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: express it to them now, because I mean mine range 23 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: from age thirty one down to sixteen, so I'm talking 24 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: to a wide range of people constantly. But I want 25 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: to share something with you, and this is very, very real, 26 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: and there is no way around this. If you have 27 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 1: any aspiration of being successful, if you have any inkling 28 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: that you want to change for the better and become 29 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: successful in that change, I want you to realize, starting 30 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: right now, the effort that is going to require. And 31 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: that's why I think it stops a lot of people. 32 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are never told or 33 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: don't understand the sheer effort that's that it takes to 34 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: become successful at anything in any area of your life. 35 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: You know, I think people think that if they do 36 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: their best they can that that will cut it. Well, 37 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: that's not enough. Here, here is the lightbulb. That's not enough. 38 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: If you think that doing your best is enough, that 39 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: I got news for you. It's not. Well, Steve, what 40 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: if you've done your best, though, and your best ain't 41 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: good enough? Well, let me ask you that same question. 42 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: Hold on. If you want to be successful and you've 43 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: done your best and best isn't good enough? What you 44 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: threw that's it? But Stephen was my best. No no, no, 45 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: no no. It was the best you had at that time, 46 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: in that particular day. But tomorrow add something to it. 47 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: You've you've never done everything. There is no you can't 48 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,679 Speaker 1: go no more, you can't add no more. I've seen 49 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,799 Speaker 1: marathon runners end up crawling across the line. I've seen 50 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: triathlon people man just staggering in the street and didn't 51 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 1: want nobody to help him because they knew that would 52 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: disqualify him from the race. You got more? Have you 53 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 1: ever did into your reserve tank? That's what we're talking 54 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:07,119 Speaker 1: about now. See, all of us have a reserve tank, 55 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: you know. I you know, on my ranch, I like 56 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: to ride four wheelers. I have all terrain vehicles and 57 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: all of them have a gas tank on it and 58 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: a gas tank and most of mine, let me see 59 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: all of them. All of them have gas tank needles 60 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: on them, and it lets me know. When I get 61 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: down towards eat, there's a little lane that's read that 62 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 1: lets me know. Okay, Steve, you're in the danger zone. 63 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: Now you're riding into the lowest part of your tank. 64 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: But if I keep riding and I forget to get 65 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,559 Speaker 1: some gas in there, guess what when it runs out 66 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: of gas. All of my all terrain vehicles, all of them, 67 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:50,239 Speaker 1: Honda Polaris, all of them. Those are the makers. There's 68 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 1: a button on the gas tank itself that I can 69 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 1: click and it says reserve. That means they know that 70 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: for the hardcore riders, they're gonna ride somewhere, they're gonna 71 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: get themselves in a situation and they're gonna run out 72 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: of everything. They're gonna run out of road, they're gonna 73 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: run out of gas. They've prepared because they know for 74 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:17,799 Speaker 1: the hardcore rider, every hardcore rider needs a reserve tank. 75 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: And so there's a button that you can click on 76 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: the gas tank that clicks it into a reserve and 77 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,679 Speaker 1: it will give you about fifty miles or twenty miles 78 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: worth of gas in that Now, guess what in that 79 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: reserve that maybe all you need to get you the 80 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: where you're going, or get you back to safety so 81 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: you can refuel. Don't tell me you've done your best. 82 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: When your best don't cut it. What you're gonna do. 83 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 1: See when best is possible, then good enough ain't enough. 84 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: See you you you can flip that any kind of 85 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: way you where you want to. But if but if 86 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 1: the best is possible, then good enough. And it ain't enough. Man, 87 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: See that's good enough. But if the best is possible, 88 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: why would you not shoot for that? And you you 89 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: are all capable of making it. You are all capable 90 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: of being successful if you change your mind set. But 91 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: you've got to change your mind set and realize the 92 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: effort that has to be put forth in becoming successful. 93 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: You've got to do it relentlessly, over and over and 94 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: over and over and every day. I try to do 95 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: something to progress my life for the better. I try 96 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 1: to do something every day. I wake up every day 97 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: with the plan. Some phone calls, some meetings, some some 98 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: some some interviews, something. Man, that's going to advance and 99 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: move the brand forward. Because here's what's gonna happen. You 100 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: are Let's say you reach your goal. Let's say your 101 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: goal is to make me um a hundred thousand dollars. Well, 102 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: I got news for you. Listen to this. When you 103 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: the one hundred thousand dollars, you can't go on noway 104 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: and go on vacation and put your hand behind your 105 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: head and say I made a hundred thousand dollars. Guess 106 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: what you got to do? You got to find a 107 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: way now to maintain that a hundred thousand, to keep 108 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: it coming in. So you can't just get there and 109 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: stop and rest and whoa, it is harder to maintain 110 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: your success that it is to get successful. See let's say, 111 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: let me let me show you that supposed it takes 112 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: you five to eight years to find a way to 113 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 1: make fifty thousand dollars. Let's say it takes you five 114 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: to eight years to find a way to make an 115 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 1: extra fifty dollars, and you finally, through work and effort, 116 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: you get to the fifty thou dollar mare. That's that's 117 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: that's it's only just begun now, because guess what, in 118 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:57,719 Speaker 1: order to keep the fifty coming in, you got to 119 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: duplicate what you did to get there. And then, oh, 120 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: here's what you're going to have the audacity being a 121 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 1: human being. You're gonna want another fifty because you're a 122 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: human being, because you gotta have something else to shoot for. 123 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna want another fifty. Well, now, I guess 124 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: what you gotta do. Now, Now you gotta do what 125 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: you did before, plus you gotta come up with something else. 126 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: Then after that you're gonna have the audacity, because you're humans, 127 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 1: you're gonna want another fifty says how this works, and 128 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: see that that's the that that that's the importance of 129 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: your relationship with God because you're gonna constantly need it, 130 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: and another point where you're gonna be through needing it. 131 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: But there ain't gonna become a point in your life 132 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 1: where you're gonna through, won't be through, won't nothing unless 133 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: you just gave up. And if you don't gave up, 134 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: who wants that? Come on, y'all, this is going to 135 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: take quite a bit of effort, and if you think 136 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: it will come to you any other way, you're sadly mistaken. 137 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: Because of all the successful people I know, I know 138 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: that the effort they put out on a daily basis 139 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: is daunting, and I think that the average person just 140 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: doesn't understand the requirement of time and effort that it 141 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: takes to get that and willingness to put it out. 142 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: You gotta cut a lot of monkey business out your life, 143 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: all that hanging out, all that late and all that 144 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: club and all that drinking, all that. You gotta cut 145 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: a whole lot of monkey business out to be successful. Man, 146 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: if you're planning on being successful, get up early, stay 147 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: up late, work, try, think, meet, great, smile, attract. It 148 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: takes a lot, let's go, but you can do it. 149 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: God has pressed to plassing our blessings all day long. 150 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 1: Why are you not in line for yours? I'm telling 151 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: you right now, I want everything God got for me, 152 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: because what he's shown me so far cool if he 153 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 1: got some ore Man on man? How good is God hunts? 154 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. My name is Steve Harvey. This is 155 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This show would be nothing 156 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: without the following people, Ladies and gentlemen. Shirley Strawberry. Thank you, Steve, 157 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 1: Good morning, call it for real. Good morning Crew. Cure 158 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 1: Spates better known as Junior Morning j Anthony Brown, better 159 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: known as bitter Man, what Man, Ladies and Gentlemen. Thomas W. Miles, 160 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: better known as the Fool, a K eight Nephew, Tommy 161 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: Slash lot Man, Good morning everybody, and the little Man 162 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: is just for aggravation purposes. He's really not that small. 163 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: We know we know how to push each other's buttons. 164 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: Though we've worked together. Everybody knows everybody, but we're worked 165 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: together for so long. Yeah, we don't have a button. 166 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: We found it yet. Oh you have a button. Yeah, 167 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: he's marriage. Yes, it's what. Oh his button is called 168 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: marm marriage. Right, you bring it up? He started, Oh 169 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: the last time I brought it up, he snapped at me, remember, 170 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: went in, Oh, and I know another button, but I'll 171 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: only use it if you piss me off. Well, because 172 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 1: you know you've known him the longest. Yeah, you got some. 173 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 1: He got another, but he's being read. It's the one 174 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: same size. We'll see no truth. It's nuclear man, when 175 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: you're just talking about you know what it is then? Yeah. Yeah, 176 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 1: we've been together a long time. Being my boy right there. 177 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: Boy was the best thing. Putting him on this show. 178 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: Man kind of gave me like a balance punch, you know. 179 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: You know when you see how I talked to me 180 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: when I come into work like that. Yeah, no, but 181 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: you all have history. Man. Oh he talked to me 182 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: so crazy when I come to world. If we didn't know, 183 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: we would, yeah, we would think you hated each other. 184 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: The way you talk to each other. That's just us. 185 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: I don't do it on the other job. But that's 186 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: love though, that that's that's junior. He lied right now? 187 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: What did he say when he doesn't do it anywhere else. 188 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: He comes in there on the day, he come in 189 00:13:56,080 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: there and give us a gift. Wow, it's mont you're 190 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: listening to Steve Morning Show. All right, it is time 191 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: for something funny. Steven. I'm just gonna let you take 192 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:14,599 Speaker 1: it away right here. You and Jay with your reenactment. 193 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: This is for all me and listening today. We're going 194 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: to give you how it works when you're trying to 195 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: end the conversation with your wife or girlfriend and you're 196 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: trying to find a way to end it or not 197 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: have it at all, or not have this conversation. You're 198 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: gonna have it, but somehow it just goes on it. 199 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: You don't want to talk. Basically, you don't want to 200 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: talk at work day quiet. You just want to come 201 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: in and not talk to nobody. You don't understand that, man, 202 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: how come you don't want to talk? What I'm saying? 203 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: Here's had go? What's wrong with? Here's how it go? 204 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: You just walked in the house. Hey baby, how are 205 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: you doing? I'm doing good. How was your day to day? 206 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm tired, I'm beat up, man. It was a rough 207 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: out there to day going to it and nothing. It 208 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: was just a long day. Baby, you know I get 209 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: sometimes I just gonna sit down and chill, get my 210 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 1: thoughts a minute to myself. What happened? It was just 211 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: a long day, you know, just long, long like long 212 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: like what I mean, long like how like? But I've 213 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: been down there all day. No, I just been there 214 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: all day. If it been that all day working, I 215 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: got two jobs and just got home. You're just a 216 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 1: long day. I'm just tired, that's all. What happened the 217 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: first job? Just tell me that. Ain't nothing in particularly happened, 218 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: you know, it just was so you were that all 219 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: day and you're telling me nothing happened. No, I no, 220 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: not nothing meaningful. So something did happen? No, baby, listen, 221 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: listen what I'm saying is it just it was just 222 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: a long day, was just you know, you know, just 223 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: the day to day got in the way, and it's 224 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: just tired. So something happened that you don't want to 225 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: tell me about. Ain't nothing happening that I ain't wanna 226 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: tell you about. I'm just trying to tell you ain't 227 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: nothing really happened, but just what I'm just I'm tired. Well, 228 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 1: you know you sound like you're yelling. I mean, you 229 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: listen to him. Right, Look, I ain't I ain't trying to. Look, 230 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: I'm not yelling if I did forget, I just want 231 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: what happened to the second. Hey, look I'm tired, I 232 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: didn't have a good day. I'm just gonna go on 233 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: in here. I'm watching a little TV and he So 234 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: you don't want to talk. That basically what you're saying, 235 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: you don't want to talking. You all day and you 236 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: come home and now I want to talk. You want 237 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: to talk to me? Is that? Is that basically what 238 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: you're saying. You don't You've been talking to all other 239 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 1: people all day when I bounds at work though I'm 240 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: on at work, Well, I just want to check by, 241 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: just want to chill work at the house. There's no talk. No, 242 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: I just want to cheer, not just want to cheer 243 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: for a little while. Don't you have a talk show? 244 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: You have two shows that you just talk if you 245 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 1: come home, it's just no talking. That's well. I got 246 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: a radio show to do, radio show, dinner do to 247 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: talk show, and I got a brief in and I 248 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: do meeting. You're talking to meeting, y'all talking to meeting. 249 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: You're talking the show. Yeah, you're talking to radio show. Yeah, 250 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 1: but you can't talk home. But I'm tired of talking loud. Okay, 251 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 1: now you're getting loud, you get loud now, yeah, well 252 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 1: you ain't listening. I'm listening. I'm trying to talk. Now 253 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: you ain't hearing me. I'm my voice raising because you're 254 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 1: not listening. You know what, Forget it, just forget it, 255 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:55,120 Speaker 1: just to get the whole thing for get asked. Get 256 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: it all right? Now, I don't want to talk to 257 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: my mom. Okay, I'm going in here, simper, I'm going 258 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 1: to I'm not talking to you no more. You don't 259 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 1: have to worry about me talking to you. Okay, when 260 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 1: you coming from now, I will not be talking about Okay, 261 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 1: let's see how you like that. If you don't want 262 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: to talk, then I don't want to talk. No, no, no, 263 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: no no no. I tried to talk, but you didn't 264 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: want to talk. Now you want to talk. Talk baby, 265 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm going in here and just sit down the chill 266 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: because you can't talk to me. All right, baby, just 267 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: just look look look, just whatever you said, I didn't 268 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: even know are we talking? All I was going to 269 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: hear you said you want to talk to me no 270 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 1: more okay, then forget it. No, wout to talk. Let's stop. 271 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 1: You don't talk to me, and I won't talk to you. 272 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: All right, that's good, it works fine for me. Ever 273 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: talk to you? Now he walks away under his brow 274 00:18:55,840 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: and he so he thinks and he said, husband's crazy, 275 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: and then she follows him in the room. Yeah, she says, 276 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: I just have one question. I just I just had 277 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:18,880 Speaker 1: one more question to ask you. Why don't you want 278 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 1: to talk to me? What did I do? Yeah? What 279 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 1: did I do? Because I didn't do anything to you? No, 280 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 1: you ain't did nothing. I just told you I had 281 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 1: a long thing. And then you said you didn't want 282 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 1: to talk. I said, I'm going to hear the chill 283 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 1: and you to follow me and asked me again one 284 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: more thing. I got one more thing to ask you, 285 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 1: colombo ya come on? Well, okay, so one more time 286 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 1: under my breath. And I don't think she can hear this. 287 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 1: So I said to myself, this is helpful. Cz Oh, 288 00:19:55,280 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 1: I'm crazy now, I'm crazy. Now I'm ready want that one. 289 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: You've been crazy, but I'm crazy. No, I ain't say 290 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: he's crazy. I an't say who's crazy. I'm crazy now 291 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: I'm crazy. No, I said what I'm gonna show you crazy, Steve, 292 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you crazy. No, I don't know what 293 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: I said. I ain't say this crazy. And now I'm 294 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 1: gonna su you know I said this crazy. You you 295 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: want to see it, I'm show it to you. Well, 296 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 1: I'm looking at wait what he's already looking at him? 297 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: Every man who's winning way with good friend? Laugh when 298 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:41,199 Speaker 1: you get at work. Okay, oh my god, that's it right, 299 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: there were pretty much coverted. Huh yeah, good job, Jay. Yeah, 300 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: you played wifey very well, very well. You're listening Steve 301 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right now. It is for the reverend 302 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 1: and the deacon. They are here with church complaints. Wasn't 303 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 1: wasn't really ready for that? Don't weary about don't have 304 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 1: regular deck or regular or motown voice, motown have would 305 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 1: win a little Lord Sony Empy Columbia on them, and 306 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: really whoo. He heads out the best of I can. 307 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 1: But we are here again Calvary for church complaints. But 308 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: what is it, dear? I passed that to day we 309 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: have since the vera. Jean Gladmore is finally getting her 310 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: beard cut. He has gotten tired of the members calling 311 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: her Deacon Vernon, instead of verya passor he is request 312 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: in five cases of magic shave to get the entire 313 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 1: beard off. I was thinking more of a fund raising 314 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: event with her. Oh, I was gonna put it in 315 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: a cage in the basement of the church and help 316 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: people pay two dollars to see the bearded lady. Well 317 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: I'm not that's that and raised money for the building 318 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 1: fun at the circus. Or we could have a black 319 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: black or like like doing car wash, have her at 320 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: the end behind a drape. Yeah. I can bring this 321 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: up to it, but she's really focusing on getting the 322 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: magic saved, only getting the beard out. But that's we'll 323 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: run that by first. Before we're spending money on the 324 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: magic shade. We're not gonna get a case. Well, now 325 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 1: she needs more than a case pass to get all 326 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: that hell off. Well, see, first you have to shave 327 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: it or nephew, then you you magic check. You don't 328 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: put it over me. That's deacon. It's not nephew, it's beacon. 329 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: H Okay, Well get it together, Reverence. Here's something that 330 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 1: you need to know. Pastor. Our sister Deaconda Jenkins and 331 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 1: brother Lavon Terry Rivers Scarcter to be married in three weeks. 332 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: Instead of you doing the wedding, they are requesting Bishop Carry, 333 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: who just did the raw weddings for Prince Harry and 334 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,639 Speaker 1: making Marcael. They won't him as well as third of 335 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,119 Speaker 1: men on hearts escort him to the reception as they 336 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 1: ride in a carry. Well, well, well look like I 337 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: won't be doing the wind hu will will. I'm just 338 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: saying this, good luck in getting outside or help with 339 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 1: this wedding. You might didn't get the preacher that did. 340 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, maybe Marco with man you might be able to. 341 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: I don't know him, but you made you maybe a 342 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 1: brutal train come up with the necessary feet. But I 343 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: tell you what, you're not gonna have thirty damn horses 344 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: that I bet you don't have money for that. Alright, 345 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: I passed the wearing on pastor. I listen beyond say 346 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 1: just about eight new thirty dogs. I don't, nobody won't. 347 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 1: That's not elegant, damn Pastor. The elegance is when the horses, 348 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 1: and elegance costs money, Deacon, and I understand, I'm just 349 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 1: telling you what they wanted, but they quit what it was. 350 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 1: Well quit um now listen Beyond just by the church 351 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:49,439 Speaker 1: in New Orleans for eight hundred and fiftif thousand dollars. 352 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: The members have had an emergency meeting and want to 353 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,960 Speaker 1: put the J p j J up for sale for 354 00:24:56,119 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: a cool million. But they're also throwing you in on 355 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 1: the deal as well. If the sales. I'm just letting 356 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 1: you know, I'll be starting my own church with the money, 357 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 1: and the members are going with me. Well, let me 358 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 1: liken you to something. If they throw me in the 359 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 1: deal and pay the million, I'm gonna get the million. 360 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: They can clothed it ragged, and you want to wherever 361 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: you want to. You let somebody pay a million for 362 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 1: this hell and see them on our ticket. All right, man, 363 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: I'm just saying we're gonna be calling Beyond Faith about 364 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: buying the check. I don't think Beyond gonna buy another one. 365 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 1: Well some people have, you don't think. Just think of 366 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:45,880 Speaker 1: something around with having a chain of churches. Chain. You're 367 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: trying to act like we're fast food. That's not what 368 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: we are. U can't franchise churches. They did it with 369 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: the kicking, But all right, we don't have chicken. I know, 370 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: I know. Here's something you need to know passing the 371 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: trips the church roads have now been converted with the 372 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 1: pens in them. The choir would be singing a marathon 373 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 1: concert to raise money for their summer trip to Jerusalem. 374 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 1: Members are complaining. They're saying, this concert is going to stink. 375 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: It's up to you to fix this one. Pass once again. Well, 376 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: I understand no need for the quad to have a 377 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 1: marathon count. Do understand the application of the pens inside 378 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,879 Speaker 1: of the route being now hard? Do you? Now you 379 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 1: step into the road, You step into the road when 380 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 1: you actually you're stepping into the the pen as you 381 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 1: ride right right right, kind of like a jumper. Yeah, 382 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:58,640 Speaker 1: and you zip it out. Okay, well that's gonna be interesting. 383 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: System Burton, he needs help with pro assist to the 384 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: step down and hust him. And you know that woman, Lord, 385 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: she thought off creator of doing. I'm not talking about 386 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 1: the war down that out back. I'm talking about the 387 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: original bloom on you cry, put tears in your all 388 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: right pastor just that Glinda Fraser will be doing how 389 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: sug avery song and dance. He's asking it all the 390 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: men come out and making rain This Wednesday night at 391 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 1: the juke joint around the corner. She said, you gave 392 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 1: her a hundred dollars the last time I gave a 393 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: whole hundred dollars to stop. She might have been doing 394 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 1: the shoe gave it, but she looked just like shoes 395 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 1: like I just learned something that we shoot avery this 396 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 1: over time. I swart. God, I thought it was shooting night, 397 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 1: not death death roll shoes like look just like it 398 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: scared me to death. So that hen that I gave 399 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: her was to stop. Get out right girls, just like it, Lord, 400 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 1: before we go pafter we had one quick announcement from 401 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 1: I know it. You're going to start or let me 402 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:57,720 Speaker 1: know when you change your announcement. Yeah, I'm sorry that 403 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,040 Speaker 1: was out in my tears complaints that that was. I 404 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 1: only give you think you so much to let me 405 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: have that. There'll bill beating, they'll bill beating. Read after service, 406 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 1: blonde hair, black roots. If you'd like to participate, blonde hill, 407 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 1: black roots, it'll be beating rooms five. You're listening Steve 408 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, you you started telling 409 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 1: us about this woman. I met this girl and in college, Lord, 410 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: she was fine creole girl. My brother told me how 411 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 1: to get him and he gave me some money to 412 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 1: take out, so I told her pick a restaurant. She 413 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 1: picked a creole restaurant. I'm seventeen. I ain't had no 414 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 1: creole food, so I'm in. I go in there. She 415 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: didn't order all this spicy stuff there to faye, all 416 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 1: this but spicy though. Yeah, yeah, I'm eating stuff. Man 417 00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: ain't never been in my system there, f So I'm 418 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 1: taking her home and my stomach is turning. So we 419 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 1: get at the front of the house. I'm a walker 420 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 1: to the dough. She said, come on here for a 421 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: little while. My mama and I'm gone. My mama had 422 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 1: told me when your stomach is tolk, try to go home. Yeah, 423 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: but that didn't nobody else house. But she was so fine. 424 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 1: I just said, well, man, let me go in here 425 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 1: for a little while, because I what kind of man 426 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 1: would I be? Fine? Chicken? Bite you in and mom 427 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 1: and dad ain't there. Let me leave, go on in 428 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: here something but your stomach. I mean, really, Shirley, that's 429 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: a girl and man would have went in there. I'm 430 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: sitting down on the couch, We're watching TV. My stomach turning. 431 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: I can hear, so I said, can I go to 432 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 1: the bathroom? She said second dough on the left. I 433 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 1: go in there, and Lord have mercy the walls of Gibraltar. 434 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 1: You know what's coming the walls. I didn't grabbed the 435 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 1: tie rack in front of me to just try to 436 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 1: hang off. I'm twisting the guest tile in my head 437 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 1: like I'm bringing it out. I didn't knock the toilet 438 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 1: tissue holder off the wall screws out everything. I didn't 439 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: kicked over the trash. Can you can hear this right? 440 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: I don't get he wasn't feeling what I was feeling. 441 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: But I'm using the bathroom so much that is alarming 442 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, I've actually put more in there that 443 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: I've ever put in there in my life. Briar too, 444 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: I think I didn't know what you don't stop my 445 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: story shooting. This is for junior and time. So I'm 446 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: feeling the bowler. So finally I'm done. To my relief, 447 00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm but I'm sweating though. I'm talking about my shirt wide. 448 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 1: I put my whole shirt. It's wide. I had hung 449 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: my past up on the back of the door because 450 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: I used a bathroom like my daddy always hate my 451 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: pants and draws up on the back of the Yeah, 452 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 1: you don't ever use the bathroom. But I got my 453 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: shirt on, but I didn't open it up because it's hot. 454 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: I got just just water coming down out the front. 455 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 1: So I stand up and I flushed the toilet. Now 456 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: I'm putting my clothes on. But you know how you're 457 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: waiting to hear that sound that all I hear is 458 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 1: to swirl it. And I turned around and in this rise, 459 00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: I'm asking God not just do the is to me today. 460 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: I'm asking God, don't not today, Lord, We're not in here. 461 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 1: We have to have a part three. This ain't the 462 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: time for Lord, stop this swirl from rising. In your 463 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 1: name Father, they never now o God, Steve, we have 464 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 1: to go to Miss Anne's. I will, but Jesus real 465 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 1: in stop this swarl. But INSTEADY coming good. Part two 466 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show. Here we are, Steve, 467 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 1: just catch up. I'm over this fine girl house stomach 468 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 1: toe up in eight gree old food seventeen. Should have 469 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: went home and used the bathroom. Fine, Now I'm in 470 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 1: here using the bathroom and all held and proclusive. Here. 471 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm in here, neckid, sitting on the just my shirt 472 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: on because I like the ship whine. I like to 473 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 1: be open and free, and I need it because I 474 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 1: had to brace myself a couple of times. But she 475 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: never came in there. Not yet she coming. That's coming 476 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 1: in the store. So I get up. I finally get through. 477 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: But I've noticed that I'm putting more in the bowls 478 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:24,480 Speaker 1: and never been, so I'm a little bit concerned with them, 479 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,320 Speaker 1: ship argue. So I flushed the toilet as I'm putting 480 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 1: my pants back up on me, and I'm waiting to 481 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 1: hear that. But I don't hear it. And I look back. 482 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 1: That's going in a slow circle. So I go in. 483 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: I go to my heavenly father father dog boy, Now 484 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 1: long stop this rising time. Wow, somehow, don't let this 485 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 1: swirl get up by the top. But he didn't hear 486 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: me that ding. I guess it wasn't let the next 487 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 1: thing I know, it's at the very top of the tarlet. 488 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, and it's about to flow over. So 489 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: now I don't know what to do. So I looked 490 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 1: down and it's a trash can. So I dipped the 491 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 1: trash can down in it, and I got a trash 492 00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,760 Speaker 1: can full of it. Yeah, So I pulled a shower 493 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: curtin back and throw it in the bath too. When 494 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 1: here comes some moat. So I had to take another 495 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:39,399 Speaker 1: trash can full of it and throw another trash can 496 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,320 Speaker 1: in the bathtub. And here comes some damn moat. So 497 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:49,840 Speaker 1: now I realized they call it is broke. The backed 498 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:55,719 Speaker 1: up and it started going back down. I say, I 499 00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 1: gotta get some water and put it in here. So 500 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,879 Speaker 1: I started running water in the trash can to pour 501 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 1: down there and make the water go clean. So I 502 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: finally did that, and I said, thank you Lord. And 503 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: I looked over and the damn bathtub right shower Kirk, 504 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: it's trap. I look up. It's on the wall. Wait, wait, hold, 505 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: it's on the wall. Four part four, Hold on, this 506 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 1: is this is r Kellys in the closet, and this 507 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 1: is Steve Holly in the barn food trapped parts, Folks 508 00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 1: coming up right over, trap in the brown food part. Folk, 509 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: it's on the walls, the shower curve and the bathtub 510 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,799 Speaker 1: coming up. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at 511 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 1: thirty four after the hour. You're listening to the Steve 512 00:36:53,320 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Steve Trapped in the bath in the 513 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 1: close part. Folk. Yeah, I didn't bailed out three buckets 514 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: trash hands a pure mess, then throwed it in the 515 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: shower so without get all of the water back in 516 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,399 Speaker 1: the tarlet where I got it upside in the water clean, 517 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 1: I said, okay, cool, I look over the damn bathtub 518 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 1: and strike. So now I cut skis, people shower on 519 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 1: and I'm washing down the walls, the shower curtain with 520 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: the shower. The girl comes up to the girl because 521 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 1: I've been in here now about the minute all time, 522 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 1: so she said, you O came down everything fast. She said, 523 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:58,279 Speaker 1: it sounds like something wrong in that to get away 524 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: from the dun said, well, otky the house. So I'm 525 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: in there's this too late. But I noticed they got 526 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:10,719 Speaker 1: a candle in the bathrooms. I light it. I light 527 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 1: the candle, start striking matches and running tapwater. That's when 528 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 1: my mom always told me, strike some matches and run 529 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 1: some tap water and to help you get rid of older. 530 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 1: So I've been there, but now I'm washing down shower curtains, walls, 531 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: the bathtub, getting up stuff off the floe. Now now 532 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 1: you've probably saying, Steve, what is you washing it down with? Yeah? 533 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 1: What paper ties in there? But that tie rat that 534 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: I had grabbed when I first sat down and was 535 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,879 Speaker 1: twisting it. Yeah, they guest house there with the lace 536 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 1: in the Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I washed it down, 537 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:57,320 Speaker 1: not my good towel. That is tie is brown. I 538 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:01,280 Speaker 1: can't rising all because the color wasn't when it started 539 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 1: that was pink. This is awful now that tis it's running. 540 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 1: I don't wash all the walls down. Everything I'm in 541 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 1: that sweat has been on a construction site. So I've 542 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 1: been in there total about damn near hour. So I 543 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 1: pulled fastened my clothes, I look at the bathroom. I 544 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,359 Speaker 1: got everything up, but I got this big nasty ass tie, 545 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 1: and I don't know what to do with it. So 546 00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 1: I take it, put it in the waste paper can 547 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 1: that I've been bailing with, and stuck all that under 548 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 1: the sink. I figured this ain't gonna be good, no 549 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,839 Speaker 1: how ye. But at least when they come in here, 550 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 1: they're gonna they's gonna take a moment, because I know 551 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 1: when you're going there, you're gonna have to say what 552 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: they happened here. Because I couldn't remember how the shower 553 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: curtain was of none of that, and I got I look, 554 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,040 Speaker 1: I'm taking I got everything off, so I walked in 555 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 1: the hallway. She's sitting on the couch with the attitude 556 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 1: of folding. Then she looked at me and she said, 557 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 1: why are you pitting that so long? I had a 558 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 1: little accident this, She said, Oh my god, look at you. 559 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 1: What was I didn't realize when I was barely all 560 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:28,040 Speaker 1: that mess into the shower, it was splashing on my 561 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: pants below my knee. I ain't had time to look 562 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 1: at this because I'm too busy cleaning up their damn house. 563 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:44,399 Speaker 1: Now I looked down, It's just specks, splash marks from 564 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 1: my knee down my pass was trying. I looked at huh. 565 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 1: She looked at me and she said, oh my god, 566 00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: look at you. What have you been doing. I looked 567 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: at her, said you ain't got talk to me like that, 568 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 1: and walked up the fourth got in my car, had 569 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:12,160 Speaker 1: to ride home with all my wonders. Dad, I spank. 570 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: I smelled sitting in that call. That girl saw me 571 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,040 Speaker 1: on the campus next day and all her girlfriend was 572 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,920 Speaker 1: looking at me act like I had never met him. 573 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 1: And that was my seve hobbies. Wow, trapped, trapped claulton. 574 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:39,880 Speaker 1: I will put some music to that. Alright, alright, nephew, 575 00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 1: tell me coming up next with the prank phone call. 576 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Morning Show, all right at 577 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Coming up right about four 578 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry letter. You do not 579 00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,479 Speaker 1: want to miss that, But up next the Nephews prank 580 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:59,240 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got surely is football season. Getting 581 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 1: ready to jump on this right here is tailator to 582 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:10,360 Speaker 1: man man, I'll speak to t Rock speaking. Is this 583 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 1: t Rock? Yeah? What's up? Hey? Man? Let me ask 584 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 1: you something. All last year y'all was h tailgating here 585 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: in the parking lot at the apartments. Are y'all doing 586 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 1: that again this year? Yeah? Always, that's what we do. 587 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,560 Speaker 1: Hey man, Hey, listen, man, I just move here about 588 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,600 Speaker 1: a year ago. Let me tell you something. All that 589 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,360 Speaker 1: noisy y'all be making down there, Man, I need to 590 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 1: go to the cot to get you'all some money for 591 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 1: the game. Man, Hold on, hold on, man, hold on, 592 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on. First of all, I don't know 593 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 1: you want. My thing is that we we would do 594 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,799 Speaker 1: out here, man, we all get together rather go to work. Man. 595 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 1: At the end of we want we want to get 596 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,800 Speaker 1: together and throw a little barbecue whatever, that's what we do. 597 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:51,439 Speaker 1: Let me calling with that, dude. You anyway, come, y'all 598 00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: making too much. I don't want who are you? I 599 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 1: live here in an apartment too. Man, y'all making you 600 00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:58,839 Speaker 1: want to tell you what I tell you? We want 601 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:00,880 Speaker 1: to talk all that noise about you doing out here? Man, 602 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 1: I say you buy your bucket down here and say 603 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,799 Speaker 1: it to my place for you. Man, don't don't worry 604 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,839 Speaker 1: about who I am but one man first. Man, I'm 605 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: trying to have a good day, and I'm gonna hear 606 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,319 Speaker 1: some like, come on, man, who are you supposed to be? Man, 607 00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm t rock down. Come down, and we do what 608 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 1: we do. We all get together. We try have a 609 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:19,840 Speaker 1: good time with it. And you want to come with this? 610 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 1: Miss my day up? Gone with that? Do came? Man? Man? 611 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 1: You know y'all all that noise, man, disturbing people? Water 612 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: in there? No man, But let's say look here, I'm 613 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,239 Speaker 1: at the end of the week, man, brother, get together, 614 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 1: put the money together, man, and we get together and 615 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,399 Speaker 1: we try to have a good time. If you want 616 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,440 Speaker 1: to come down to join us, man, you more than welcome. 617 00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you more than welcome brother, come 618 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,640 Speaker 1: down to drive a play man. But man, please don't 619 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 1: try to miss my day of don't dot please don't man, please, man, 620 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying y'all missing month day up with all that 621 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,279 Speaker 1: thing I'm noise. Man, Come man, Look, this is what 622 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:53,360 Speaker 1: we do. You want to join, you to join, You 623 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 1: ain't gonna join. Shut the hell up. Man, Let me 624 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 1: do what you're gonna do. But let let us do 625 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,040 Speaker 1: what we do. This is we're doing the weekend. This 626 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 1: is how we are. We leave our fifth We're gonna 627 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,879 Speaker 1: try to do something, get together and have a good time. 628 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: You wanta try to mess that up? Make all that man, Man, 629 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,479 Speaker 1: all I'm staying is man, if y'all tell game, won't 630 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 1: y'all call y'all down to the stadium man and watch 631 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 1: the damn Cowboys play. We can't go there, man, We 632 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:17,920 Speaker 1: don't want to go down there. We want to get 633 00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,359 Speaker 1: together where we are right. This is what we do, man, 634 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 1: this is what we do. Ain't nobody ever complain now 635 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,279 Speaker 1: one time. Now, I want tell you the first time 636 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: to ever complain. We've been doing this spree is and 637 00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:29,840 Speaker 1: the first time we ever had a complaint. You know, 638 00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,879 Speaker 1: you know what's driving your mother down of white white white. 639 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,600 Speaker 1: Why y'all don't buy y'all some tickets to the damn game? Man? 640 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,520 Speaker 1: What want y'all go go to the game? Why the 641 00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,360 Speaker 1: game to be in my my parking lot? Well, un 642 00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,680 Speaker 1: feel like this. You know we can't afford a ticket, man, 643 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 1: So we do. We should get together. We do what 644 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,840 Speaker 1: we can. We put our money together, we get together, 645 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,080 Speaker 1: and that's what we do again. Like I said early, man, 646 00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 1: you more the well, come down? You want to bring 647 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,320 Speaker 1: this old monkey now? Yeah, man, gone with that doctor, 648 00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 1: gone with that. Man. If you ain't no cowboyna fan, 649 00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 1: move around, let me let me, let me, let me 650 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,240 Speaker 1: to tell you this right here. Man, if y'all find 651 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 1: up the pit on Sunday, I'm coming down there and 652 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 1: turning it. Don't trying what over you know what y'all 653 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,360 Speaker 1: want on, I'm turning y'all y'all find it picked up, 654 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,279 Speaker 1: and I promise you I'm gonna turning the damn bob 655 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 1: que Pito, and I promise you'd be staying at the 656 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,400 Speaker 1: top of the church. You will be staring at the 657 00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 1: top of church. And that should me to pick the flow. 658 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 1: You're gonna hit the flow and Man, you're gonna hit 659 00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,759 Speaker 1: the don't don't find and pit up Sunday you hit me, 660 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,719 Speaker 1: do not find this, you can't. It's gonna be no fact. 661 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:28,960 Speaker 1: I'm looking for the pit now, I'm looking for them 662 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 1: that it's gonna be out there. It's gonna be out there. 663 00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 1: I'm turning your mother there told you that you're disturbing people, 664 00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 1: and you're disturbing me more than anything, you know. And 665 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 1: y'alla here, I'm like all last year, y'all tell get 666 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 1: you right here in the damn apartments. Man, that's crazy, 667 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 1: you know what, dude, I would apologize you, but let 668 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 1: me say like this in Man, you don't y'all, I 669 00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,440 Speaker 1: don't say you come down and get a plate. You 670 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 1: come down and joining you know, we're just getting together, 671 00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 1: trying to make it a family down here. Just what 672 00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,279 Speaker 1: you want to bring with me. Man, you don't out 673 00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,400 Speaker 1: the hoppen. I'm on the other level. Now, come on 674 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,320 Speaker 1: that other level. I don't know my mont. I was 675 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,279 Speaker 1: on the other level midway through the season. Last years 676 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 1: went on that day, I'm noise, man. Man, Oh my god, man, look, 677 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:12,640 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. My men hit the show 678 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:14,920 Speaker 1: or somebody come boy in disturbment. What we do. When 679 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,759 Speaker 1: we do, it's gonna go down. I'm gonna tell you 680 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,719 Speaker 1: like that. We ain't trying to have no wish on. 681 00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:20,600 Speaker 1: They have no problems. We're gonna get down like that. 682 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: We try to have a good time. That's all we do. 683 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:26,040 Speaker 1: We're we're doing it for three years. We got the 684 00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: chids out here playing. We got the big screen out 685 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 1: where everybody to watch the game. You know, extended my 686 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,799 Speaker 1: some love about to come out half play with us. 687 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 1: But you're gonna talk about coming knocking my meal as 688 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,879 Speaker 1: long as I want. I promise you matter me touch 689 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,920 Speaker 1: the ground, You're gonna touch the ground. Come on, man, 690 00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: I'll go there with that. Many don't do that. Okay, 691 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,319 Speaker 1: look at him, man, I'm telling you right now, y'all. 692 00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,759 Speaker 1: Soon as I swar that bard q pit so when 693 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 1: I smell a little charcoal, I promise you I'm turning it. So, 694 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 1: y'all ain't doing this this year. Man, y'all ain't doing 695 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 1: it this year. You do, man, I'm won you lit 696 00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,040 Speaker 1: doc you, but the bunch you present yourself to me? Man, 697 00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 1: what you do that? You know what I mean? You 698 00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,719 Speaker 1: can meet me up at the leasing officer I'm at leasing. 699 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,880 Speaker 1: I will start walking right and after LEAs off right 700 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,759 Speaker 1: now far, I see who the hell I'm talking to. 701 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 1: You need man listen. Okay, well you need to see 702 00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 1: who's gonna turn this pit over. Y'all ain't going that? 703 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 1: Ye man, I want to see that. I want to 704 00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,040 Speaker 1: see that apple because Susan sis you touching my pit. 705 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,319 Speaker 1: They thought that mean hit the flow. You don't hit 706 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 1: the flow. Quicken in the meat will I'm trying to 707 00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,319 Speaker 1: have a good challenge or black you're trying to get together? Man, 708 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,279 Speaker 1: everybody comes and drinking bill. Nobody's saying nothing, but I 709 00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: do want to get your monkey's gonna come out. Okay, 710 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,880 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Ring up to the leasing office 711 00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 1: and I polish you. I'm I'm in ahead. I'm in ahead. 712 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,080 Speaker 1: You need you need to bring somebody with you. That's 713 00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: what you need to do. Okay, I'm about I tell 714 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 1: I'm a brain with me. I got two PM a 715 00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 1: brain with me. It's gonna be me, myself and I 716 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,719 Speaker 1: and I've been through this. Here. You wanta putting on 717 00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 1: meat on that grill comes sunday, Okay, I won't putting 718 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: all right on that crib. Tell what you and them 719 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 1: damn cowboys. Man, you know I'm talking about the cowboys 720 00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,120 Speaker 1: me like that, Doc. Now you rid me off, we'll 721 00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 1: all Cowboys fans. You're gonna need met. The leasing office 722 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,320 Speaker 1: is on. I'm a beat, and don't put a Tony 723 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 1: Romo short on your I promise you. Do you want? 724 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 1: You wanna be a fan of mine? Okay? Okay? But 725 00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 1: do you know who you? You? Do you know who 726 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 1: you're playing with? No? I don't, And I promise you 727 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,640 Speaker 1: when I find you, you don't know who you're playing with? 728 00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:16,799 Speaker 1: Let me let me let me tell you who I am. Yeah, 729 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 1: tell me who you are? For you, I am nephew 730 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,359 Speaker 1: telling from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got 731 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:37,480 Speaker 1: prank by your boy box? Uh yeah? You y'all, y'all, 732 00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:42,319 Speaker 1: y'all still each other? Man, Man, I'm nephing you lest 733 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,319 Speaker 1: you ma'a. I'm sorry, man, you if you will fired up? 734 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,120 Speaker 1: I am sorry. It says hot out here anyway. We 735 00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 1: don't care. We're gonna we can take it. Man. Yah sunday. Man, 736 00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:57,399 Speaker 1: that's what we do. Everybody pitching in and we all 737 00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 1: get together. Man. It's a it's a family thing. Oh man, 738 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 1: you could man, you could let me ask you, what's 739 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,720 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land, Man, Steve Harley 740 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,480 Speaker 1: Morning Show Brother, I think I might tellgate at least 741 00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,239 Speaker 1: a couple of times this year. What yall think you'll 742 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:16,040 Speaker 1: get out a little bit. Yeah, And people go to 743 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:22,080 Speaker 1: the game. Two different groups. But the tailgators getting their 744 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,560 Speaker 1: fights out there, they do a lot of a lot 745 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 1: of he go up against subpark competition people, decent looking 746 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:43,719 Speaker 1: people that but you know what section you got the 747 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 1: party you've been that park over there in a good 748 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 1: looking So they got an ugly tailgate right over there 749 00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 1: with all other people, got the biggest grial set up 750 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:03,400 Speaker 1: because they need a lot of moke around. Stand back. 751 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:07,759 Speaker 1: Then people are looking at ignorant. So if you go 752 00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 1: to the tailgate, you already know to just take yourself 753 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,759 Speaker 1: over to the ugly city. That's why I'm going right 754 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: on over there. That's why. But your situation is different. See, 755 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 1: because you're rich, So is there a rich ugly not 756 00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:30,960 Speaker 1: at all? Yes, they're fine, but whatever. My strawberry letter 757 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 1: is up next at four minutes after the hour. You're 758 00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:37,880 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right now, it 759 00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 1: is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice 760 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 1: on relationships, If you need advice on dating, sex, work, parenting, 761 00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:48,640 Speaker 1: and more, you can submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve 762 00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:52,520 Speaker 1: Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. And 763 00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 1: thanks to everyone who's been um, you guys have been 764 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,480 Speaker 1: really writing and well we may be reading your letter 765 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 1: live on the air like we're doing this one. You 766 00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 1: never know, you never know. Up hold on type We 767 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,359 Speaker 1: got it, Paul you here It is a Strawberry let 768 00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 1: us subject why is my son in law watching me? 769 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm writing you for advice and a 770 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,880 Speaker 1: family matter. When my daughter had her first child, she 771 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,880 Speaker 1: and her husband asked me to move in with them 772 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,880 Speaker 1: to help out with the baby. I was thrilled to 773 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,719 Speaker 1: be there to help with my grandchild. After living with 774 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:28,759 Speaker 1: them for about five months, my daughter came to me 775 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,120 Speaker 1: and said that her husband had been watching me move 776 00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,320 Speaker 1: around the house. I thought she meant that he was 777 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,759 Speaker 1: watching me to see how I handled the baby. I 778 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:39,319 Speaker 1: didn't think anything about it. Once again, my daughter came 779 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,400 Speaker 1: to me and said that her husband was watching me 780 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 1: and that she felt some type of way about it. 781 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:48,279 Speaker 1: Now she had my full attention. This was no joking matter. 782 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,520 Speaker 1: She told me that my son in law had been 783 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: watching me in an inappropriate way. My son in law 784 00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,040 Speaker 1: has always said that he doesn't like big women, and 785 00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:00,360 Speaker 1: I'm a big, curvy wop girl. So I took my 786 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:02,839 Speaker 1: daughter into the living room with me to confront him 787 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:06,120 Speaker 1: about his inappropriate behavior. He said that I wear tight 788 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,520 Speaker 1: pants and leggings to entice him, and I'm doing it 789 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,640 Speaker 1: on purpose. I moved out immediately to remove myself from 790 00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 1: the situation. I've always dressed decently and leggings are in style, 791 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 1: so I never thought about my clothes. Uh. I never 792 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,200 Speaker 1: thought that my clothes were a problem. Since I've moved out, 793 00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 1: my relationship with my daughter is rocky. I can't help 794 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,400 Speaker 1: but feel like she blames me for her husband's attraction 795 00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,800 Speaker 1: to me. This really bothers me, and I'm sad because 796 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,400 Speaker 1: I don't get to see my grandchild that much anymore. 797 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:38,600 Speaker 1: I don't know why my son in law will come 798 00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:40,960 Speaker 1: up with this mess, but it seems like he's turning 799 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,560 Speaker 1: my daughter against me. What can I do to make 800 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:49,000 Speaker 1: things right? Please help? This is crazy. I really don't 801 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 1: believe my eyes and ears. I mean, either they want 802 00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,879 Speaker 1: you gone immediately and that's what you did. Um after 803 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 1: five months of being there with them, or they're just 804 00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:01,160 Speaker 1: playing crazy. Um, you haven't done anything wrong. You you 805 00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,239 Speaker 1: asked what you know? What can you do to make 806 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,600 Speaker 1: things right? You haven't done anything wrong. You came there 807 00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 1: to help them, you know, because they requested that you do, 808 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,480 Speaker 1: so you did that. And now somehow it's turned on 809 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:16,600 Speaker 1: you because your son in law uh finds you attractive 810 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 1: in tight clothes. This sounds crazy. And then some for 811 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: some reason, he's gotten his daughter, your daughter to his wife, 812 00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:28,759 Speaker 1: to get on board with this foolishness. Um. Uh, And 813 00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 1: what is wrong? I don't understand what's wrong with your 814 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,600 Speaker 1: daughter to even go along with this. You're her mom. 815 00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,680 Speaker 1: Of course, she you know, is one with her husband 816 00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:39,759 Speaker 1: and everything. But you're her mom. And again you came 817 00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:43,120 Speaker 1: there to help them. So um, now your relationship with 818 00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,200 Speaker 1: her is rocky. You're gone, So why is there still 819 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:50,120 Speaker 1: a problem here? Uh? You don't get to see your grandchild. 820 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:54,200 Speaker 1: You lose in this situation, But the grandchild does too 821 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,160 Speaker 1: because they don't get the benefit of seeing their grandparents anymore. 822 00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 1: Because your son in law is attracted to you and 823 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,600 Speaker 1: your daughter feels some kind of way. This letter is crazy. 824 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,560 Speaker 1: If they wanted you to leave, they could have asked you. Uh, 825 00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:11,160 Speaker 1: just asked you or done it differently, not this crazy, 826 00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 1: ignorant way. Um. I don't think you have anything to 827 00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:17,800 Speaker 1: feel guilty or badly about except for not seeing your grandson. 828 00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 1: Maybe you and your daughter can sit down and talk 829 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:24,520 Speaker 1: about this. But she doesn't sound reasonable either the t 830 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 1: This is actually a bogus, really ignorant letter. To tell 831 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:39,000 Speaker 1: you the first of all, this lady says, uh, why 832 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,120 Speaker 1: is my son in law watching me? Well, that's the question, 833 00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:45,959 Speaker 1: why is he watching me? But this dude is wrong 834 00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:49,200 Speaker 1: on so many levels. I question. All of my questions 835 00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:53,359 Speaker 1: revert back to the motive of the son in law. 836 00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:58,440 Speaker 1: What is his objective? Because it serves no purpose man, 837 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:03,080 Speaker 1: unless it wall us to to to put some distance 838 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:07,040 Speaker 1: between you and your daughter. And he didn't care how 839 00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:10,239 Speaker 1: he go about it. That are manipulative men in this world, 840 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,160 Speaker 1: and I think that this kid happens to be one 841 00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:19,279 Speaker 1: of them. So she said they needed some help out 842 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,560 Speaker 1: with the baby. I was thrilled to be there to 843 00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:25,279 Speaker 1: help my grandchild. After living with him for about five months, 844 00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,000 Speaker 1: my daughter came to me and said, that her husband 845 00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:32,080 Speaker 1: had been watching me move around the house. I thought 846 00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:33,960 Speaker 1: she meant he was watching me to see how I 847 00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,920 Speaker 1: handle a baby. I didn't think nothing about it. Not 848 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,359 Speaker 1: all that's real. Right there, you can hear the truth 849 00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,880 Speaker 1: in this. Once again, my daughter came to me and 850 00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,920 Speaker 1: said that her husband was watching me and she felt 851 00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,840 Speaker 1: some type of way about it. Now she had my 852 00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,920 Speaker 1: full attention. This was no joking matter. She told me 853 00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,360 Speaker 1: that my son in law had been watching me in 854 00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:59,120 Speaker 1: an inappropriate way. Now right here, then we gotta address 855 00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:03,160 Speaker 1: what the hell wrong your son in law? Because she 856 00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:07,600 Speaker 1: said clearly that my son in law had been watching 857 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:12,879 Speaker 1: me in an inappropriate way. So this is all on him. 858 00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:17,959 Speaker 1: He looking at this girl's mama in an inappropriate way. 859 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:24,400 Speaker 1: That's him, that's him. See, fellas, don't nobody make you. 860 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:29,279 Speaker 1: Won't there. You have a choice, you cannot want them. 861 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,480 Speaker 1: So this woman wasn't trying to do nothing to you. 862 00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,880 Speaker 1: This is something you drummed up. Not with all of 863 00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:38,239 Speaker 1: that said, then she told me that So what she 864 00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:41,799 Speaker 1: did was my son law had been watching me inappropriate way. 865 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:44,320 Speaker 1: My son in law has always said he doesn't like 866 00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:47,080 Speaker 1: big women, and I'm a big curvy woman. So I 867 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 1: took my daughter into the living room with me to 868 00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:52,520 Speaker 1: confront him about this inappropriate behavior. Now, this woman going, 869 00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 1: hold up, let me bring you in front of him 870 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,520 Speaker 1: so you don't think I'm doing something to him, and 871 00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:59,520 Speaker 1: that we can ask him right now? What have I 872 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,799 Speaker 1: done to you directly to make you have my daughter 873 00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:04,560 Speaker 1: in here talking to me about this? So we can 874 00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:06,160 Speaker 1: just come on in here right now talk to this 875 00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,919 Speaker 1: little boy. Well, she went in there and a little 876 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:13,160 Speaker 1: boy didn't have nothing because he was lying. He said 877 00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:15,960 Speaker 1: that I wear tight pasts and leggings to entice him, 878 00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 1: and I'm doing it on purpose. Maybe she just had 879 00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:24,600 Speaker 1: the clothes on. It wasn't thinking nothing. She in a 880 00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,200 Speaker 1: She figured she at home, She had her daughter's house. 881 00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:32,960 Speaker 1: She figured she welcome. Now you're tripping My whole thing 882 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:39,280 Speaker 1: is It's not you, ma'am, it's all him. Why would he? 883 00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 1: First of all, why would he take this to his wife? 884 00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:47,640 Speaker 1: You've got to understand the motive behind him. What good 885 00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 1: are you trying to accomplish by bringing this to your wife? 886 00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:56,480 Speaker 1: He watching? He watching you? She she she'd be doing stuff. 887 00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,400 Speaker 1: I'll be I'll be looking at her some kind of way. Baby, 888 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,720 Speaker 1: I can't I don't even know how he said it. 889 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,560 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hang on a second. We'll have part 890 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,400 Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three after 891 00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:10,240 Speaker 1: the hour subject why is my son in law watching me? 892 00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:16,000 Speaker 1: You're listening, but right now it's your turn against Steve. 893 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,040 Speaker 1: We're part two of your response to today's Strawberry letter, 894 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 1: Why is my son in law watching me? Once again? 895 00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:25,800 Speaker 1: This woman been living with her daughter and her husband 896 00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,920 Speaker 1: and five months baby for about five months, trying to 897 00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:32,080 Speaker 1: help him out. The daughter says her husband came to 898 00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 1: him and started saying, you know, I've been watching your 899 00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:39,360 Speaker 1: mama move around. She takes the information to her mother 900 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,960 Speaker 1: and go, my husband is watching you move around. The 901 00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:45,360 Speaker 1: mother thinks she's talking about the way he handles the baby. 902 00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 1: He comes back, double's back again, you know, and tells 903 00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,600 Speaker 1: her now, like you know, she'd be just in front 904 00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,280 Speaker 1: of me baby, and I don't know what I'm doing 905 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,360 Speaker 1: with it now. All of a sudden, the daughter says 906 00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,960 Speaker 1: she's feeling some kind of way, so she confronts her 907 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:02,080 Speaker 1: mother about mother think thinking nothing of it, does the 908 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,560 Speaker 1: right thing takes her daughter into that to her husband 909 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:07,960 Speaker 1: to just lay it out on the line. How have 910 00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:11,560 Speaker 1: I done something directly to you, Dwayne or whatever Punk's 911 00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:14,000 Speaker 1: name is, and then you know, just to get it clear, 912 00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,800 Speaker 1: he's sitting up in here talking about something. You'd be 913 00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 1: wearing tight pants and leggings to entice me, and I'm 914 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,680 Speaker 1: doing You're doing it on purpose. So lady said, I 915 00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:28,360 Speaker 1: moved out immediately. No, she said, this ain't the game up, 916 00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,600 Speaker 1: and I move out immediately right now. I've always dressed 917 00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,560 Speaker 1: decently and and legings is in style, so I thought 918 00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:37,840 Speaker 1: my clothing was wasn't. What was a problem since I 919 00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,760 Speaker 1: moved out, My relationship with my daughter's rocking. I can't 920 00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,960 Speaker 1: help but feel like she blames me for her husband's 921 00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,800 Speaker 1: attracting to me. This really bothers me, and I'm sad 922 00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,240 Speaker 1: because I don't get to see my grandchild that much anymore. 923 00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:51,080 Speaker 1: I know my son in law would come up. I 924 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,040 Speaker 1: don't know why my son in law would come up 925 00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,680 Speaker 1: with this mess, but it seems like he's turning my 926 00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:58,320 Speaker 1: daughter against me. What can I do to make things right? 927 00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:03,480 Speaker 1: Please help? I think it's time for reenacting with Shirley. Yes, 928 01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:08,320 Speaker 1: I want you to be not Jake. No, No, he 929 01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:11,440 Speaker 1: don't be a little too much. I won't won't. Well, 930 01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,280 Speaker 1: let me see what I'm trying to react. I don't 931 01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:18,880 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna bring the information to you about your 932 01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:21,240 Speaker 1: mama then, Jay, I want you to be the mother. 933 01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:24,480 Speaker 1: But now surely I'm gonna bring this you my wife. 934 01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:27,640 Speaker 1: I'm think to bring this information then we're gonna take 935 01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:37,919 Speaker 1: it in there to Jay who is the mama? Yes, yes, honey, 936 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:39,560 Speaker 1: I need to talk to you about something. You got 937 01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:41,959 Speaker 1: a minute? Oh yeah, of course? What's up? Hey? Look, 938 01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:44,600 Speaker 1: you know it's I don't know what's up, but you 939 01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:48,360 Speaker 1: know your mom. We should be walking around and everything. 940 01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:52,240 Speaker 1: It's like crazy, you know what I'm saying. No, I 941 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,360 Speaker 1: don't know what you're saying. What do you mean crazy? 942 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 1: I mean it's crazy. You know I'd be like sitting 943 01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:59,080 Speaker 1: up watching TV and ship like walk right in front 944 01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 1: of the TV. Well maybe she's just trying to get by, honey, 945 01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:04,960 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Look? I know the how 946 01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:07,760 Speaker 1: small and everything we ain't got too bad, but damn, 947 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:11,440 Speaker 1: I mean, you know you couldn't go outside walk down 948 01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 1: the driveway to go around the house. You gotta walk 949 01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:17,920 Speaker 1: through the house. No, honey, she's where else is she 950 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:20,320 Speaker 1: gonna go? She's not gonna go outside just to walk 951 01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:25,680 Speaker 1: around the house. That that, yeah, I think. Fast forward 952 01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:30,560 Speaker 1: two weeks later, baby, what's up? I need to talk 953 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:33,480 Speaker 1: to you. Get your mama's talked to you a couple 954 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,560 Speaker 1: of weeks ago about your mama. Well, man, I mean 955 01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,320 Speaker 1: she's really going and she's throwing it at me. Now 956 01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:43,520 Speaker 1: she's throwing what at you? Honey? You know that thing? What? 957 01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,720 Speaker 1: What do you man? Your mama? Man? I like, I know. Look, look, 958 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:49,680 Speaker 1: I'm grown, man, I know when I'm getting hit on. 959 01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,480 Speaker 1: You know, your mama justin came up in here were 960 01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 1: all these tight aird pants, leggings and stuff. He's just 961 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,320 Speaker 1: moving around in front of me, and you know, I'm 962 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:00,919 Speaker 1: trying to be everything I can be from family. Well, honey, 963 01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:04,920 Speaker 1: leggings are in style. I think you're wrong with this. No, no, no, 964 01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,280 Speaker 1: what did you talking about leggans? What leggans got to 965 01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 1: do with bouncing in front of TV? Well, she's you know, 966 01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,040 Speaker 1: my mom is not a small woman, so you know, 967 01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:17,000 Speaker 1: she's just walking normally. I don't really know what you're 968 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:19,560 Speaker 1: saying about my mom here. No, your mama got on 969 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 1: heels and everything. You know, Well, you know what ending 970 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,240 Speaker 1: over big picking up bottles in front of me and everything. 971 01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:27,760 Speaker 1: I just want to bring your attention because you know 972 01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be I told you you know I'm 973 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,320 Speaker 1: trying to be everything I can be. Well, I appreciate that, honey. 974 01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:35,160 Speaker 1: I don't think that's the case, though, But I'll say 975 01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:40,960 Speaker 1: something to her if you want me to. Mama. Yeah, uh, 976 01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:44,000 Speaker 1: you aren't going to believe what Dwayne says. I don't 977 01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 1: believe Dwayne says. Dwayne says, you're enticing him, and yeah 978 01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:56,800 Speaker 1: with the clothes you wear, you know, your leggings and everything. 979 01:02:56,920 --> 01:03:00,280 Speaker 1: He's saying, you know you're doing it on purpose, doing 980 01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:02,760 Speaker 1: what being sexy in front of him? I'm being you know, 981 01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:07,160 Speaker 1: he's my husband. I'm surprised you won't, Wane, that's what 982 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 1: makes you think I won't waite? Well, now, Mom, you 983 01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:13,040 Speaker 1: know we've been together for quite something and I love Dwayne, 984 01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:19,080 Speaker 1: and he's surprising party. Now he's told me this, and 985 01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,280 Speaker 1: I'm starting to feel some type of way. Is this 986 01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:24,080 Speaker 1: the truth? Are you trying to entice? Do I look 987 01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:27,120 Speaker 1: like I won't Dwayne? Well, I don't know. I'm telling 988 01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:29,800 Speaker 1: you I don't won't Dwayne. I don't want nothing, Dwayne 989 01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:31,800 Speaker 1: got I don't won't Dwayne at all. Let me say 990 01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 1: that you can watch my lip I don't won't Dwayne, Well, 991 01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,400 Speaker 1: Dwayne things you want him, Dwayne like Dwayne do all 992 01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:40,240 Speaker 1: the time? Wayne do nothing. But let's go and talk 993 01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:44,560 Speaker 1: to don't get his as bring him in here, honey. Hey, 994 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,360 Speaker 1: so you were saying, what about my mom? Because I 995 01:03:47,520 --> 01:03:49,800 Speaker 1: just asked her about it and she says she doesn't 996 01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:53,640 Speaker 1: want you. He has no idea what you're talking about. Hey, 997 01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:59,360 Speaker 1: you don't know what Dwayne. You know, I was explaining 998 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:04,720 Speaker 1: to Rolanda. You all. You know you've been You've been 999 01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:07,480 Speaker 1: pressing upon me. You're pressing up only like one you know, 1000 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,640 Speaker 1: just all in front of me with your little take close. 1001 01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm a big woman. I I walk, i'ma be in 1002 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:13,800 Speaker 1: front of you. I'm a big as woman. I can't hide, 1003 01:04:14,600 --> 01:04:18,320 Speaker 1: not three well, you know. But you know with all 1004 01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:21,400 Speaker 1: that being said and done, you know, when I'm watching TV, 1005 01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:24,880 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to I'm a three X. You know, 1006 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,800 Speaker 1: I can't disappear. I'm just trying to be a man. 1007 01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,640 Speaker 1: Don't miss gladders and you up in here shaking and 1008 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,200 Speaker 1: moving all around. I think you're trying to knock me 1009 01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:35,800 Speaker 1: off my game. Now you have your game. You ain't 1010 01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:39,040 Speaker 1: had a job in two years. You off your damn game. 1011 01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 1: You know what, y'all came in here to me. I 1012 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:45,480 Speaker 1: was in my room watching my stories. You weren't watching 1013 01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,160 Speaker 1: the story the day you was trying to make a story. 1014 01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:54,040 Speaker 1: Nobody won't you tell them? Y'all rolling, Miss glad you 1015 01:04:54,040 --> 01:05:01,800 Speaker 1: don't know me like that's earl satisfies me being earl. 1016 01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:04,200 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta take a short break more with 1017 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:09,000 Speaker 1: Ms Gladys, Dwayne and Rolinda. So right after this you're 1018 01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:12,600 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here 1019 01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:15,400 Speaker 1: we are back with part what is this three of 1020 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:18,480 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter Today? Subject why is my son in 1021 01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:22,080 Speaker 1: law watching me? A young a woman wrote in she's 1022 01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:26,360 Speaker 1: a grandmother. Her daughter and her husband asked her to 1023 01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:29,480 Speaker 1: come and help them with their newborn child. So she came. 1024 01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:31,840 Speaker 1: She's been at the house for about five months. All 1025 01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:34,000 Speaker 1: of a sudden, her daughter came to her and said 1026 01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:37,440 Speaker 1: that her husband, her daughter's husband, her son in law, 1027 01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:41,400 Speaker 1: has been watching her, and uh. The grandmother didn't know 1028 01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:43,120 Speaker 1: what she meant by that. She thought she was just 1029 01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,600 Speaker 1: watching to see how she took care of the baby. 1030 01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:47,960 Speaker 1: But come to find out. No, he's been watching her 1031 01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:51,920 Speaker 1: in an inappropriate kind of way because supposedly she wears 1032 01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:56,840 Speaker 1: tight leggings and stuff and tight hants sou So the mother, 1033 01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:00,600 Speaker 1: grandmother and the daughter confronted the husband and asked him, 1034 01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:03,760 Speaker 1: why is he saying this? You know what I'm saying, though, 1035 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,280 Speaker 1: listen to me, miss Bladders, so we could be clear 1036 01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:12,000 Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, but no, listen, see the way you're 1037 01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:14,480 Speaker 1: in my face, you know, like that is I just 1038 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:19,440 Speaker 1: felt like it's disrespectful to Roland though. That's me. Well, 1039 01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,440 Speaker 1: I tell you what I can do. What is that? 1040 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:23,960 Speaker 1: I can do this right now. I can call Earle 1041 01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:29,400 Speaker 1: to come over here and get me my boyfriend, and 1042 01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:31,280 Speaker 1: I can get about this man because I don't need 1043 01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:33,280 Speaker 1: to let me call you. Hold let me call Earl 1044 01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:42,560 Speaker 1: right now. Hello, whatever, Hey, what's going on? It's foolishness 1045 01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,360 Speaker 1: going over here? What's going on? It's foolishness, it's fooling it. 1046 01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:47,360 Speaker 1: I tell you, when you come over here, come over here, 1047 01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:50,240 Speaker 1: bring some boxes. I'm ready to go. I don't want 1048 01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,400 Speaker 1: you to hurt nobody. Hold on, hold on, hold on, 1049 01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:57,240 Speaker 1: don't hold on, but you want to be telling nobody. 1050 01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:00,880 Speaker 1: I just no, no, no, check him. You bring it 1051 01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 1: all over if you won't to, I just hold on. 1052 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,800 Speaker 1: What's going on? Hold on, hold on, hold on all 1053 01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:11,120 Speaker 1: that old man, hold on, hold on, hold on. You 1054 01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:18,200 Speaker 1: couldn't hit me. I'm the radio. He can all that 1055 01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:22,080 Speaker 1: old as talking about some damn Honeywell you'll get on 1056 01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:24,160 Speaker 1: the phone. I don't care if I came here. I 1057 01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:29,320 Speaker 1: just heard you, all right. Let me let me take 1058 01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:36,040 Speaker 1: the phone on speaking phone on Bluetooth blue tooth. I'm 1059 01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:38,320 Speaker 1: on earl. Just come and get me. That's all I'm 1060 01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,520 Speaker 1: on my I just need you. I'm on my way 1061 01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:42,440 Speaker 1: because say't nothing but fooling it over here, and it's 1062 01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:44,800 Speaker 1: running my pleasure, and it's all in my spirit, and 1063 01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,160 Speaker 1: I don't need just got his nest in my spir 1064 01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:49,080 Speaker 1: But I will whip somebody that I do need to. 1065 01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:55,680 Speaker 1: Nobody's nobody. Hold on, hold on, hold on? Who in here? 1066 01:07:55,760 --> 01:08:00,760 Speaker 1: Keep talking about with somebody in Dayne house. He can't 1067 01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:06,080 Speaker 1: get me this Dwyane house, Well it's my house to 1068 01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:10,760 Speaker 1: Dwayne Rolando. Look if your mama had to come in 1069 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:13,360 Speaker 1: here with all these tight ass pays over everything I 1070 01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:17,280 Speaker 1: put them. I'm a big ass one, what I'm a 1071 01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:23,920 Speaker 1: three as well? Maybe you need to start buying some five. Oh, 1072 01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:31,720 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on, let me answer the door. Yeah, 1073 01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:34,920 Speaker 1: who is it? He is? Zero? Is up? Oh you 1074 01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:41,120 Speaker 1: will you damn right up? Don't tell me what's going on. 1075 01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:43,280 Speaker 1: I just need you to help me move. That's all 1076 01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:45,200 Speaker 1: I need doing. Do we need to move him? No, 1077 01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:48,000 Speaker 1: you ain't. Dun't. Dn't put your hand on don man, 1078 01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:51,559 Speaker 1: Oh man, you don't come up in, Dwayne. You call 1079 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:55,720 Speaker 1: moving nothing round? You calling old. I'm calling your ass old, 1080 01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,439 Speaker 1: old man. Don't don't. Just let's get up out here 1081 01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:00,840 Speaker 1: and leave. That's all we get. And Dwayne, are not 1082 01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:03,200 Speaker 1: enough for you? Why are you looking at my mama? 1083 01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:08,160 Speaker 1: And what are you talking like that? My pocket knife? 1084 01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:13,519 Speaker 1: Pocket knife? Don't make me grab my pocket? I lose 1085 01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:16,799 Speaker 1: your life. Brought the nie from being here. Let's jimmy rollingda. 1086 01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:19,320 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? I only wants you, That's 1087 01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:21,680 Speaker 1: why I told you how she would well? Why are 1088 01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:24,759 Speaker 1: you looking at her? To I can't she big? She said? 1089 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:28,120 Speaker 1: She big? She came. We asked her to come so 1090 01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:30,840 Speaker 1: she could help us with the baby. Him with the baby. 1091 01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:36,800 Speaker 1: She can't help herself to me, you don't want you, 1092 01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,960 Speaker 1: nobody want you? Wait a minute, Wait a minute, hold on, 1093 01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:49,640 Speaker 1: hold on, it's glass, Mr. That's Mr. Okay, let me 1094 01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:52,639 Speaker 1: play something to you. You. You're in my house sick, understand, 1095 01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:54,240 Speaker 1: and we're about to get at your house, and you 1096 01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:56,799 Speaker 1: need to be a little bit more respectful to the problem. 1097 01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:58,880 Speaker 1: Me is you like my baby and husband. That's what 1098 01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:01,720 Speaker 1: That's what the deal is. That's what the real deal live. 1099 01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:05,320 Speaker 1: And she hypnotizing, that's what it is. That's that's how 1100 01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:07,280 Speaker 1: she got you. That's how she got me. So I 1101 01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,479 Speaker 1: know exactly what's going on. You're like, what I see 1102 01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:12,760 Speaker 1: what was happening right here? She wasn't happen with your 1103 01:10:13,080 --> 01:10:15,840 Speaker 1: old earlier. You ain't trying to bacon like you used to. 1104 01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:20,000 Speaker 1: Thank you. You're looking over the young man like you 1105 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:25,080 Speaker 1: wanted the handless clip. The problem, the problem You want 1106 01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:27,720 Speaker 1: some of my banker that wanted is that's too that's 1107 01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:30,960 Speaker 1: too much woman for you. Gonna player, that's what that is. 1108 01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:51,519 Speaker 1: I'm be game me to some characters and some stuff 1109 01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:55,880 Speaker 1: because Junior, I wanted to get in there because I 1110 01:10:55,960 --> 01:11:00,320 Speaker 1: want to be Rolanda's sister. This man looking at your mom, Mom, 1111 01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:06,639 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the baby. Just something. We are crazy. 1112 01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:10,759 Speaker 1: But you know what that that argument has happened somewhere 1113 01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:15,000 Speaker 1: a bunch of a lot of But I just, you know, 1114 01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 1: the only thing I just didn't get how the wife 1115 01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:19,880 Speaker 1: was in with the husband on it. But that's what 1116 01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,519 Speaker 1: that happens all the time. You never get in a 1117 01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:25,360 Speaker 1: couple of arguments because they're gonna side up and be 1118 01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:30,080 Speaker 1: against you. But with her mother, her mother, it happens. 1119 01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:33,639 Speaker 1: Oh that's the thing I didn't get. It happens. Yeah, 1120 01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:36,880 Speaker 1: I was mad at her. That's your mom who can't 1121 01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:38,920 Speaker 1: who you asked to come? And then it helps with 1122 01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:48,080 Speaker 1: me admitted doing it. You know what, ste Come on, 1123 01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:53,560 Speaker 1: come on, no, you know y'all going to try to 1124 01:11:53,640 --> 01:12:01,400 Speaker 1: put all this for meeting? Yeah, finished your head? Oh 1125 01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:08,120 Speaker 1: all right, you guys can email us to tell us 1126 01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:11,080 Speaker 1: how you felt about today's Strawberry Letters subject why is 1127 01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:15,000 Speaker 1: my son in law watching me? Got? Is Steve Harvey FM. 1128 01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:21,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Show. Steve, you are 1129 01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:24,479 Speaker 1: the relationship expert on the show. H and I have 1130 01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:27,640 Speaker 1: a list of things that what women really want and 1131 01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:31,000 Speaker 1: what we want from our men. Women love to be protected. 1132 01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:33,960 Speaker 1: Women of course like men who smell good. We like 1133 01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:39,880 Speaker 1: men who surprise us galore. We love surprises. Women love surprises. 1134 01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 1: We don't care if it's chocolates, if it's love notes, 1135 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:46,080 Speaker 1: if it's gifts, or even bouquets of flowers. We love flowers. 1136 01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:49,920 Speaker 1: We love everything. Transparency and that's what we love from 1137 01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:53,000 Speaker 1: our men. We love honesty. All you liars out there, 1138 01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:56,760 Speaker 1: that's still the best policy. Never lie. We like when 1139 01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,320 Speaker 1: you dress well, when you look nice. We like when 1140 01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:01,920 Speaker 1: you're okay, like when you dress well. Nothing turns off 1141 01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:05,040 Speaker 1: a woman. Let me tell you the top three things 1142 01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:09,960 Speaker 1: the women wontay security absolutely, women want a future. Ye, 1143 01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:13,720 Speaker 1: women won't loyalty. If you give a woman some security, 1144 01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,559 Speaker 1: provide her with a good look at a great future, 1145 01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:23,520 Speaker 1: and you give her your loyalty, she writeed that for you, man, security, 1146 01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:27,479 Speaker 1: future and and flowers and chocolates. Don't leave that and 1147 01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:31,840 Speaker 1: love and give and transparency. We don't want you to 1148 01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:37,760 Speaker 1: lie to us. Where was that honesty? That is, if 1149 01:13:37,800 --> 01:13:41,960 Speaker 1: you're loyal, loyal to cover but in your honesty. The 1150 01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:52,479 Speaker 1: loyalty is honesty. Loyalty is honesty, and they want honesty 1151 01:13:54,000 --> 01:14:04,280 Speaker 1: like honest gonna be all over. You can't you can't 1152 01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,719 Speaker 1: tell everything. Okay, I agree, with that, you can't tell everything. 1153 01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:10,439 Speaker 1: But we're saying, don't lie. That's what we're saying. We 1154 01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:13,160 Speaker 1: don't want you to lie to us. Sometimes we have 1155 01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:16,600 Speaker 1: excuse me, sometimes we have Why would you have to 1156 01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:21,320 Speaker 1: protect you from the truth. We don't need protecting from 1157 01:14:21,400 --> 01:14:25,200 Speaker 1: the truth. Wants the truth. No, that is not true. 1158 01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:31,200 Speaker 1: That is not why I'm late. Sometimes will require a lie. No, 1159 01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:41,320 Speaker 1: you're protecting yourself. Down my car broke down? No, no, 1160 01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,200 Speaker 1: what was her name? No, the time you can do that. 1161 01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:46,599 Speaker 1: I can't go home to you, my wife. But here's 1162 01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:50,200 Speaker 1: the deal. I'm home, so I ain't. Now. Back in 1163 01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:53,639 Speaker 1: the day, you were the best at it. The lie 1164 01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:56,840 Speaker 1: is for the protection of me. It's protection of you, 1165 01:14:57,080 --> 01:15:00,679 Speaker 1: not of the woman. Protection of you too. No, it's 1166 01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:08,439 Speaker 1: not it's not protecting me. No, no, no, from the truth. 1167 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:12,760 Speaker 1: You don't. We need to hear the truth. We can handle. 1168 01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:20,120 Speaker 1: You can't handle our reaction to the truth. The lie 1169 01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:23,120 Speaker 1: is for you, not for us, for you, because I 1170 01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:27,439 Speaker 1: don't want you to have to go off. No, it's okayka, No, 1171 01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:29,920 Speaker 1: No I won't. Oh yeah, well know if I don't 1172 01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,680 Speaker 1: go off, that'll mess right there. When they tell you 1173 01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:37,960 Speaker 1: tell me the truth I'm not gonna be upset. That's okay, 1174 01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:41,519 Speaker 1: that's want to look like the bad guy. We have 1175 01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,920 Speaker 1: to say that, yeah, and we have to fix it. Yeah. 1176 01:15:43,960 --> 01:15:45,599 Speaker 1: We have to lie to you guys so we can 1177 01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:48,760 Speaker 1: get the truth out of me. And we know that 1178 01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:53,920 Speaker 1: we like lots of gifts, flowers, you know what about 1179 01:15:53,960 --> 01:16:01,120 Speaker 1: those things, Steve? Yeah, we love all in the yard 1180 01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:08,360 Speaker 1: she's seating. When she pulled in and pull up cheap car, 1181 01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:14,000 Speaker 1: she would go with the B words, so sham thing. 1182 01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:18,559 Speaker 1: J What do you have to say? Three times they 1183 01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:20,439 Speaker 1: didn't work out? I'm done, I'm out. Well did you 1184 01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:24,240 Speaker 1: do any of these things? And I still ended up 1185 01:16:24,280 --> 01:16:29,160 Speaker 1: in court? Now? What y'ellse she got a lot of 1186 01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:36,040 Speaker 1: stuff on that list. Did you give her chocolate? Love notes? Yes, 1187 01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:38,639 Speaker 1: give me an example of one of your love notes 1188 01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:47,160 Speaker 1: getting caught. That's love notes right there. What about honesty? 1189 01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:50,840 Speaker 1: Were you honest? Very honest that one? Where were you lasting? 1190 01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:58,599 Speaker 1: Where were you last night? While you come in so late? Yeah? 1191 01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:02,120 Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like questions. No, I 1192 01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:04,800 Speaker 1: don't like when you in your relationship you have to 1193 01:17:04,880 --> 01:17:10,519 Speaker 1: answer to people said, I don't like questions. I don't 1194 01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:13,439 Speaker 1: like them either, But Most men don't like questions. They 1195 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:17,080 Speaker 1: will not ask me where you going? Honey? You look 1196 01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:19,320 Speaker 1: all nice. You know you got all dressed up, you're 1197 01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:23,280 Speaker 1: smelling good. Where you going? It's nine o'clock, you know, 1198 01:17:23,400 --> 01:17:25,760 Speaker 1: the late in Europe. Oh, you're going to where we 1199 01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:33,360 Speaker 1: live in New York meeting? Where are you meeting? Perhaps 1200 01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:35,360 Speaker 1: I can join you. It will only take me a 1201 01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:38,320 Speaker 1: few minutes to get ready. Now we've meeting at a club. Oh, 1202 01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:41,120 Speaker 1: I love clubs. Oh, which one? The new one? No, 1203 01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:45,080 Speaker 1: it's Oh, it's just a men's club. No women allowed. 1204 01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:49,360 Speaker 1: There will be no women in the club. Hey, well, 1205 01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:52,360 Speaker 1: I know how you are. You don't like men serving you, 1206 01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:55,559 Speaker 1: So I'm surprised you're going to this club at all. Well, 1207 01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:57,479 Speaker 1: they got a shift. They just stick the stuff out 1208 01:17:57,520 --> 01:18:04,720 Speaker 1: to one. Can I ask you a question? Can you tell? 1209 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,000 Speaker 1: Can you say this at home? What you just said? 1210 01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:09,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to meet nine o'clock at night? We're just 1211 01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:12,560 Speaker 1: men at the club with it stick the food that 1212 01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:14,639 Speaker 1: the win. Yeah. I could say that, but the club. 1213 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:17,280 Speaker 1: You know what's different If I said the club, because 1214 01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:19,320 Speaker 1: you know I don't go. Yeah, but I could. I 1215 01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 1: could say I'm going to a late meet. I got 1216 01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:26,960 Speaker 1: the lives right there after ten o'clock. I could say what, 1217 01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:30,840 Speaker 1: but I'm in a different place in my life now. Yes, 1218 01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:34,360 Speaker 1: I told you settle down. Yeah, going to meeting the 1219 01:18:34,439 --> 01:18:36,840 Speaker 1: nine o'clock because that's the day. I'm oh, that's a 1220 01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:41,799 Speaker 1: raw chicken on your on your head, across your forehead, rack, chicken, 1221 01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:48,559 Speaker 1: you don't cook? Where are you getting? You know he's 1222 01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:50,800 Speaker 1: been hit with one, but it would never have been 1223 01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:55,160 Speaker 1: for me. You're right, and he was by and chicken. 1224 01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:02,360 Speaker 1: You're right though, And the fact that hang off the 1225 01:19:02,439 --> 01:19:10,000 Speaker 1: little tail kind of went in my mouth if I 1226 01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:12,439 Speaker 1: got take slapped out of my mouth with the potential 1227 01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:17,479 Speaker 1: Simonella poet. All right, we gotta go, We'll be back. 1228 01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:22,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1229 01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:24,800 Speaker 1: it is time guys for comedy rouelette. You pretty much 1230 01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:26,920 Speaker 1: know the rules, right, Jake, explain it quickly? You want 1231 01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,560 Speaker 1: to run it down? Man, just we already done this. 1232 01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:37,440 Speaker 1: Damn people new if you get new lists here wasting 1233 01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:44,439 Speaker 1: time with your nerves, nerves and that bad that needs 1234 01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:49,040 Speaker 1: to be one man, your nerves and day. Give us 1235 01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:54,080 Speaker 1: subject wheel, the subjects on the wheels, fund the wheel. 1236 01:19:54,720 --> 01:19:57,360 Speaker 1: Wad stop. We can do the damn thing. All right, 1237 01:19:57,400 --> 01:20:04,960 Speaker 1: here we go. That is on the wheel man, All right, 1238 01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:11,439 Speaker 1: here we go. Number one there in jail again too. 1239 01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:14,519 Speaker 1: You always take more food than you can bring from 1240 01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:21,960 Speaker 1: a party. Three whatever your uncle is, your daddy that 1241 01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:25,240 Speaker 1: for Look, dude, it's time for you to cut all 1242 01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:32,160 Speaker 1: of that off now. And number five, Man, your nerves 1243 01:20:32,200 --> 01:20:45,880 Speaker 1: are bad. Rolling wheel and do the last it stops. Yea, oh, 1244 01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:54,439 Speaker 1: Man loves you. That's your nerves are bad. Yeah, that's 1245 01:20:54,479 --> 01:20:56,240 Speaker 1: what we do. And we're gonna see. Now we're gonna 1246 01:20:56,240 --> 01:20:59,160 Speaker 1: find out who's really funny. Go ahead, jake. Man. When 1247 01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:02,000 Speaker 1: you say hello to somebody and they go hello, what 1248 01:21:02,160 --> 01:21:06,479 Speaker 1: you mean by hello? Hello? What man's got to be 1249 01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:08,760 Speaker 1: hello in the morning? Why can't it be in the afternoon. 1250 01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:11,439 Speaker 1: I'm tired of people speaking to me here in the 1251 01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:14,320 Speaker 1: damn morning. I ain't got started on my day yet. 1252 01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:17,800 Speaker 1: Every time I look around, somebody, good morning, good morning. 1253 01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:21,760 Speaker 1: What's so damn good about it? Come on, come on, 1254 01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:27,080 Speaker 1: I'll tell you. I'll tell you. When you know your 1255 01:21:27,120 --> 01:21:29,800 Speaker 1: nerve bad. When any sound you're here and you jump 1256 01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:34,040 Speaker 1: fars like a call backfire with you up to this table. 1257 01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:41,320 Speaker 1: Your nerve is bad. You ain't sounds scare you. Come 1258 01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:44,240 Speaker 1: on you when you at the funeral and you asked 1259 01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:48,439 Speaker 1: the pass holl you're gonna be man, We're gonna be 1260 01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:56,439 Speaker 1: with this man. Put it down now, all right? Come on, 1261 01:21:56,600 --> 01:22:00,160 Speaker 1: see your kids walk in the room and go, oh 1262 01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:10,000 Speaker 1: my daddy, and you turn up. What bad hell? Calling 1263 01:22:10,080 --> 01:22:14,639 Speaker 1: me fault? When you have people standing outside your office 1264 01:22:14,720 --> 01:22:17,519 Speaker 1: going no, you're gonna ask him? No you ask No, 1265 01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:21,040 Speaker 1: You're going no, you gonna ask him. I ain't gonna 1266 01:22:21,080 --> 01:22:26,120 Speaker 1: ask if you ask him. We're playing comedy rolettin stuff. Man, 1267 01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:28,559 Speaker 1: your nerves are bad. I'll tell you. You know your 1268 01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:31,680 Speaker 1: nerves bad when you're sitting there shaking, smoking a cigarette. 1269 01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:34,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're going through, but your nerves 1270 01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:36,960 Speaker 1: is bad. I don't know what the evidence is, but 1271 01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:40,920 Speaker 1: your ass is shaking. Let me tell you something. When 1272 01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:43,960 Speaker 1: you were at your house and you buy yourself and 1273 01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: ain't nobody else in there but some ice moving the 1274 01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:50,560 Speaker 1: glass in the sink, and your ass run through the 1275 01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:57,600 Speaker 1: pit of your dough. When I opened your nerves, this 1276 01:22:57,800 --> 01:23:01,840 Speaker 1: is an honor of our fearless leader, Steve Hardy, that 1277 01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:07,439 Speaker 1: you're talking about, Steve Man, your nerves is bad when 1278 01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:13,639 Speaker 1: you think all your co workers is lying on. You're 1279 01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:17,800 Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. When you know it's time 1280 01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:21,160 Speaker 1: to go back to church, it's time. You know when 1281 01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:25,000 Speaker 1: it's time to church. Okay, when you know it is 1282 01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:30,720 Speaker 1: time to take yo, but that the church. Somebody needs 1283 01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:35,280 Speaker 1: to lay hands on me right now. Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, 1284 01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:37,600 Speaker 1: How did I get here? When you wake up and 1285 01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:41,080 Speaker 1: you went somebody and you don't know their name, it 1286 01:23:41,320 --> 01:23:51,320 Speaker 1: is time? Who you talk about backsliding? Yeah? How long 1287 01:23:51,400 --> 01:24:01,000 Speaker 1: we've been laying I got handcuffs. You try to go 1288 01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:03,559 Speaker 1: back to church when you wake up in this bike box. 1289 01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:10,080 Speaker 1: You can't explain nothing. Who I'm doing it too much? 1290 01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:12,840 Speaker 1: I'm doing too much. You know, it's hard to go 1291 01:24:13,000 --> 01:24:16,240 Speaker 1: back to When you wake up and you got her 1292 01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 1: phone home? What the hell we have? And it's backwards? 1293 01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:33,000 Speaker 1: You in the back and in the back put in 1294 01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:41,200 Speaker 1: the front. That's a crazy, crazy visual right there. It's 1295 01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:43,759 Speaker 1: time you to go back to church. When you're starting 1296 01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:46,719 Speaker 1: to look at your boys grandmama and starting to feel 1297 01:24:46,840 --> 01:25:05,160 Speaker 1: some time. Yeah back, who is that youth? I never 1298 01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:08,320 Speaker 1: felt this way? Let you know it's time to go 1299 01:25:08,439 --> 01:25:11,599 Speaker 1: back to church. When you see spake marks on your 1300 01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:17,679 Speaker 1: behind and you don't know how they got that. Yeah, 1301 01:25:18,080 --> 01:25:22,200 Speaker 1: you can't excuse me, did you know? And it's a 1302 01:25:22,280 --> 01:25:31,000 Speaker 1: man hand. It's pretty rough way. You know what's time 1303 01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:35,559 Speaker 1: to actually happy day? When your lights watering gay get 1304 01:25:35,640 --> 01:25:40,120 Speaker 1: turned off the same day you can't do nothing. It's time. 1305 01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:44,599 Speaker 1: You know it's time to go back. When you wake 1306 01:25:44,720 --> 01:25:59,240 Speaker 1: up and your whole chest is peer, I need time 1307 01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:02,400 Speaker 1: for you to go back the church. You've been arguing 1308 01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:08,040 Speaker 1: with this fine girl for on ahead, trying to convince 1309 01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:15,280 Speaker 1: hard it ain't no way can be cause it's seven ago. 1310 01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:18,720 Speaker 1: We're not really cousin's now, Come on, how you figuring that? 1311 01:26:20,160 --> 01:26:25,120 Speaker 1: We right down to the fifth? The fifth? It's time 1312 01:26:25,200 --> 01:26:26,720 Speaker 1: to go back to church. You know it's time to 1313 01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:28,479 Speaker 1: go back to church. When you wake up with a 1314 01:26:28,600 --> 01:26:32,200 Speaker 1: tattoo that says Veronica and you don't know about name, run, 1315 01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:43,280 Speaker 1: it's it's time to go to church. When you start 1316 01:26:43,360 --> 01:26:48,200 Speaker 1: stalking anybody, oh little women talking about every way they 1317 01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:59,680 Speaker 1: coming up. Steve's closing remarks at forty nine after the 1318 01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:06,639 Speaker 1: or gather around everyone you're listening to give your closing remarks, 1319 01:27:06,680 --> 01:27:08,640 Speaker 1: are back what you got for us today? You know 1320 01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:11,519 Speaker 1: what I just want to remind people because it's it's 1321 01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:15,439 Speaker 1: a tough thing to cut people out your life. It's 1322 01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:20,280 Speaker 1: a tough decision for people to make because the average person, 1323 01:27:21,600 --> 01:27:25,240 Speaker 1: uh you know, that's a positive nature. They like positive 1324 01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:30,280 Speaker 1: things around them, positive energy, and it it's difficult when you, 1325 01:27:30,400 --> 01:27:36,040 Speaker 1: as a positive or decent or caring person, has to 1326 01:27:36,120 --> 01:27:39,040 Speaker 1: be faced with the decision to cut somebody out your life. 1327 01:27:40,040 --> 01:27:42,240 Speaker 1: And I've had to do it many times, and I'm 1328 01:27:42,360 --> 01:27:46,599 Speaker 1: faced with the decision again even this stage of my life, 1329 01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:49,360 Speaker 1: that are people who I really should not have around 1330 01:27:49,479 --> 01:27:53,320 Speaker 1: me now. Because I have a sense of guilt, I 1331 01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:56,680 Speaker 1: continue to keep them. You know, I come up with 1332 01:27:56,840 --> 01:28:01,040 Speaker 1: excuses for them. You know what they're gonna do? You know, 1333 01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:04,320 Speaker 1: if they're not here, what would they do if if 1334 01:28:04,439 --> 01:28:08,439 Speaker 1: if I remove them, what happens to them? Well, I 1335 01:28:08,520 --> 01:28:12,760 Speaker 1: mean that's because you're caring person, But can I tell 1336 01:28:12,840 --> 01:28:17,479 Speaker 1: you how much that ain't your business. It's really really not. 1337 01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:21,920 Speaker 1: It's not your business, nor should you make it yours, 1338 01:28:23,240 --> 01:28:27,479 Speaker 1: because what will happened is if you guilt yourself into 1339 01:28:27,600 --> 01:28:31,760 Speaker 1: holding on to this person, you will continue to possess 1340 01:28:31,920 --> 01:28:36,479 Speaker 1: that nagging, gnawing feeling that you have every time you 1341 01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:41,040 Speaker 1: around them, because they actually bring no real value to you. 1342 01:28:42,240 --> 01:28:45,960 Speaker 1: Oh they bring you a lot of promises. Oh they 1343 01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:48,960 Speaker 1: bring you a lot of Oh man, this is man. 1344 01:28:49,080 --> 01:28:52,080 Speaker 1: I got something big I'm working on. Oh you hear 1345 01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:55,759 Speaker 1: that all the time? Or I shall appreciate you. Lord, 1346 01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:59,280 Speaker 1: I don't know where I be without you. You've been 1347 01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:02,400 Speaker 1: You've been such a blessing to me. You know you're 1348 01:29:02,400 --> 01:29:05,200 Speaker 1: gonna get it all kinds of ways, and that makes 1349 01:29:05,280 --> 01:29:09,680 Speaker 1: you feel even worse about the inevitable decision that you 1350 01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:13,320 Speaker 1: know you have to make. But let me help y'all 1351 01:29:13,400 --> 01:29:19,160 Speaker 1: understand something right here. People can be manipulative. People can 1352 01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:22,840 Speaker 1: be very, very manipulative. And when a person know they're 1353 01:29:22,840 --> 01:29:26,080 Speaker 1: getting over on you, they say the things because they 1354 01:29:26,160 --> 01:29:29,200 Speaker 1: know you're a decent person, so they say the things 1355 01:29:29,680 --> 01:29:32,240 Speaker 1: to you to keep in the forefront of your mind. 1356 01:29:32,280 --> 01:29:35,400 Speaker 1: And how decent you are. God, bless you. You've been 1357 01:29:35,439 --> 01:29:37,680 Speaker 1: a blessing to me. Lord, I don't know what I 1358 01:29:37,840 --> 01:29:42,040 Speaker 1: do without you. I thank God for people like you. Well, 1359 01:29:42,080 --> 01:29:46,120 Speaker 1: when do I get to thank God for you? When 1360 01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:50,800 Speaker 1: do you become such a blessing to me? When at 1361 01:29:51,080 --> 01:29:55,240 Speaker 1: the point in this relationship where every relationship should be 1362 01:29:55,320 --> 01:29:58,479 Speaker 1: give and take. When do I get to take something out? 1363 01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:02,920 Speaker 1: Because right now, all I'm doing give it. I'm telling you, y'all, 1364 01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:05,320 Speaker 1: I know how you're feeling about cutting these people out 1365 01:30:05,360 --> 01:30:08,679 Speaker 1: your life, but you have got to because if there's 1366 01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:11,560 Speaker 1: a person in your life that's just on the receiving 1367 01:30:11,760 --> 01:30:14,759 Speaker 1: end of your friendship and give you nothing in return, 1368 01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:17,760 Speaker 1: they are on the receiving end of your paycheck and 1369 01:30:17,920 --> 01:30:21,200 Speaker 1: give you nothing in the return. They are receiving end 1370 01:30:21,280 --> 01:30:23,960 Speaker 1: of all your goodness and favors and give you no 1371 01:30:24,120 --> 01:30:28,080 Speaker 1: goodness and favors. You no longer have an obligation to 1372 01:30:28,160 --> 01:30:31,680 Speaker 1: that person. You really don't. And I remind you of 1373 01:30:31,800 --> 01:30:35,120 Speaker 1: something that Bishop Jake said. Sometimes you have to let 1374 01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:38,840 Speaker 1: people go so they can be freed up to their 1375 01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:43,479 Speaker 1: own destiny alone. See, because they keep tying their destiny 1376 01:30:43,560 --> 01:30:46,919 Speaker 1: to yours. But see, God didn't give them your destiny. 1377 01:30:47,479 --> 01:30:50,840 Speaker 1: They got their own destiny. You know, unless you're with 1378 01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:53,880 Speaker 1: your wife and your children, their destinies ain't tied to yours. 1379 01:30:54,120 --> 01:30:57,120 Speaker 1: And once your children get a certain age, your destiny 1380 01:30:57,160 --> 01:31:00,519 Speaker 1: don't belong to them no more. They have to they, 1381 01:31:01,040 --> 01:31:03,439 Speaker 1: as Marjorie says, their wings work. You gotta let them 1382 01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:06,400 Speaker 1: get out there and get the flapping so they can fly. 1383 01:31:07,600 --> 01:31:11,559 Speaker 1: So as you make your list of people who bring 1384 01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:15,920 Speaker 1: you nothing but bad news, they have to go. When 1385 01:31:15,960 --> 01:31:18,760 Speaker 1: you make your list of people who every time they 1386 01:31:18,920 --> 01:31:22,360 Speaker 1: call you they just won't something, they have to go. 1387 01:31:24,080 --> 01:31:28,840 Speaker 1: They have to go because they're slowing you down. They dead. Wait, 1388 01:31:28,920 --> 01:31:31,680 Speaker 1: they're sitting on the wagon and they ain't pushing. They 1389 01:31:31,720 --> 01:31:34,320 Speaker 1: ain't getting out the wig wagon to remove no rocks 1390 01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:36,280 Speaker 1: and debrie out the way. They ain't trying to fill 1391 01:31:36,320 --> 01:31:39,360 Speaker 1: a pothole for you. They don't even repair wagon wheels. 1392 01:31:39,560 --> 01:31:44,200 Speaker 1: They just own your wagon, sitting there, legs up and 1393 01:31:44,400 --> 01:31:48,439 Speaker 1: just chilling you out on a rope, just pulling. You 1394 01:31:48,560 --> 01:31:51,040 Speaker 1: got to get rid of them people. The other people 1395 01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:54,280 Speaker 1: you have to get rid of is sometimey people because 1396 01:31:54,320 --> 01:31:56,960 Speaker 1: you know what's so hard about some timeing people, because 1397 01:31:57,040 --> 01:32:00,400 Speaker 1: you don't never know when their time gonna be because 1398 01:32:00,479 --> 01:32:04,040 Speaker 1: they's some timey. So sometimes they're cool and sometime they ain't. 1399 01:32:04,320 --> 01:32:06,040 Speaker 1: And on the days when you need them be cool, 1400 01:32:06,400 --> 01:32:08,559 Speaker 1: that's what that's one of them. Some days where they are. 1401 01:32:09,240 --> 01:32:11,559 Speaker 1: So now you got on these sometime people in your 1402 01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:13,519 Speaker 1: life and you've been going, well, they're cool over here, 1403 01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:15,560 Speaker 1: but they ain't cool over there. If the people in 1404 01:32:15,640 --> 01:32:18,280 Speaker 1: your life ain't cool everywhere you take them and every 1405 01:32:18,320 --> 01:32:20,160 Speaker 1: time you talk to them, you got to get rid 1406 01:32:20,160 --> 01:32:24,400 Speaker 1: of them too. I'm sorry. Now that's gonna shorten your list, 1407 01:32:25,040 --> 01:32:26,640 Speaker 1: But what good is the list if it ain't a 1408 01:32:26,680 --> 01:32:31,519 Speaker 1: good list? Stop just trying to have a list. It's 1409 01:32:31,560 --> 01:32:34,000 Speaker 1: like people in a bad relationship. So you're gonna stay 1410 01:32:34,000 --> 01:32:36,639 Speaker 1: in the bad relationship just so you can say you're 1411 01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:40,920 Speaker 1: in a relationship. Or will you free yourself so that 1412 01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:43,400 Speaker 1: you can be freed up to your destiny to possibly 1413 01:32:43,520 --> 01:32:46,360 Speaker 1: be in a good relationship. But you're never getting a 1414 01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:49,280 Speaker 1: good relationship if you're gonna stay and sit in the 1415 01:32:49,360 --> 01:32:52,639 Speaker 1: bad relationship. What you's proven year after year after year 1416 01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:56,799 Speaker 1: to be of no substance and no just no goodness 1417 01:32:56,880 --> 01:32:59,479 Speaker 1: for you. It just does nothing for you. But you're 1418 01:32:59,479 --> 01:33:01,160 Speaker 1: gonna stay in it just so you can say you 1419 01:33:01,240 --> 01:33:06,200 Speaker 1: in a relationship. That's crazy, man, that's crazy. So y'all 1420 01:33:06,320 --> 01:33:09,080 Speaker 1: think about it. Those people that you gotta cut loose, 1421 01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:11,720 Speaker 1: You got a tough decision, but you have to do it. 1422 01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:14,360 Speaker 1: God to bless you for it too. And guess what, 1423 01:33:14,520 --> 01:33:16,840 Speaker 1: you have more more free time, You have more money 1424 01:33:16,840 --> 01:33:18,920 Speaker 1: and everything when you let them go and you don't 1425 01:33:18,920 --> 01:33:20,839 Speaker 1: even have to deal with the aggravation to them anymore. 1426 01:33:21,320 --> 01:33:24,680 Speaker 1: That's an amazing thing. So it's my clothes remarks. Just 1427 01:33:24,760 --> 01:33:27,240 Speaker 1: want to remind you all that have a great weekend, 1428 01:33:27,320 --> 01:33:43,599 Speaker 1: everybody for all Steve every contests. No purchase necessary, void 1429 01:33:43,640 --> 01:33:46,920 Speaker 1: where prohibited. 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