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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, It is Laala Kent. Welcome back to the

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Speaker 1: Give Them La La Podcast. We are coming off of

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Speaker 1: an epic high because I have officially done my first

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Speaker 1: show of Give Them Lala Live at the brand new tour.

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Speaker 1: By the time we're having to pre record this episode

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Speaker 1: because we will be on the road, but by the

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Speaker 1: time this comes out, I will have done another show

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Speaker 1: in Fort Lauderdale and hopefully it goes as well as

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Speaker 1: the one I just did in Irvine.

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Speaker 2: I think, well, how do you feel about Irvine?

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Speaker 1: I feel great about Irvine. I was super nervous. We

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Speaker 1: did the rehearsal and I walked out on stage and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, They're like, you don't want to rehearse, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, that's the thing is, I'm going to obviously

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Speaker 1: like we have a structure to the show, which by

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Speaker 1: the way, is very like Lucy Goose right now, because

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Speaker 1: it's my very first show. I've never done this in

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Speaker 1: my entire life, so this is the first show and

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Speaker 1: I want to give it my all, but it's also

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Speaker 1: going to be a learning experience. So thank you for

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Speaker 1: everyone who came out to Irvine, because you fucking slaved

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Speaker 1: my whole life. But it was hard during rehearsal because

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm literally talking to a bunch of empty chairs. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and once I'm on stage and there's people, it's going

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Speaker 1: to be completely different and I'm going to feed off

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Speaker 1: of them. But I always request when I do any

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Speaker 1: talk show, even the live tour, I'm like, we have

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Speaker 1: to have tissues on stage because I tend to I

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Speaker 1: can be very lalla, but then there's a part of

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Speaker 1: me that always sinks back into like Lauren from Utah,

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Speaker 1: who can't believe that she's doing the things that she's

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Speaker 1: been able to do, and that like just like strikes

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Speaker 1: something in me to where I get hyper sensitive and emotional.

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Speaker 1: And it happened to me at the Irvine improv. It did.

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Speaker 3: There were tears and then people just like your people

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Speaker 3: are so great, just like cheering, like supporting you, loving you.

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Speaker 3: I saw the tears and then immediately people were like.

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Speaker 1: Why here are you? It was just so sweet. There

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Speaker 1: was sold out. Ocean made a little appearance and then

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Speaker 3: Did you guys, So she made an appearance with Lalla,

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Speaker 3: and then I was kind of bopping between like Lisa.

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Speaker 3: Gigi had Ocean sort of backstage, and she would bop

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Speaker 3: same with me and Ocean would like after she went

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Speaker 3: on stage with her mama, she would like whine and

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Speaker 3: because that's what she did to the audience, like waved,

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Speaker 3: and she found it so exciting. And the rest of

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Speaker 3: the night she was like she would like trying to

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Speaker 1: She was a total hit. Yeah, And I had our

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Speaker 1: like tech guy play Bounce It. I know it's super inappropriate,

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Speaker 1: you guys when we're home. I've always played the edited version,

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Speaker 1: but last night I just had them play the far

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Speaker 1: from fart where it bounce it and then once five tens, twenties, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, and she did a little she did a

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Speaker 1: little like overwhelmed, the little just like whoa are all

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Speaker 1: was just the cutest And I'm like, I told Ocean,

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Speaker 1: if you perform tonight, then everyone is going to know

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Speaker 1: that it was a hit. Like I could literally go

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Speaker 3: And before the show actually even started, Gigi and I

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Speaker 3: Lala was like getting ready, and Gigi and I walked

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Speaker 2: She waved back. She did oh, she did yes and

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Speaker 3: And they were like, oh, she was like wit to

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Speaker 1: She loved it. No, it was phenomenal. I had Brittany

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Speaker 1: I still don't really want anyone to know what cities

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Speaker 1: God forbid someone flakes yes, And by the way, that

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Speaker 2: No, I think that the future. I think the future

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Speaker 1: You were great.

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Speaker 3: You were great with keeping it secret last night, like

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Speaker 3: Lalla snuck them in a back entrance. She wanted no

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Speaker 2: No one knew what they were there.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that I will feel as emotional in

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Speaker 1: every city or do you think that that will fade? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't think your emotions will fade at all. I

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Speaker 3: Gonna be probably even if you don't cry, it's just

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Speaker 1: Like the middle. Who knows.

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Speaker 3: And even if you don't cry, it's just going to

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Speaker 3: be like you're gonna be emotional, and that's great.

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Speaker 1: I bet I'll be more emotional because the more I

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Speaker 1: feel comfortable, Like last night, I was still you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and let me tell you, that energy in Irvine

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Speaker 3: improv last night from all of your people was some

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Speaker 1: Did you feel it? I felt it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was just like love and happiness and there was

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Speaker 3: It was exactly what you hoped as far as like

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Speaker 1: We saw the.

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Speaker 3: Men here and there that like we're forced, we're forced.

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Speaker 3: I saw like so many moms, single moms that were

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Speaker 3: like and also, you guys, thank you for like I

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Speaker 1: I was I was running.

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Speaker 3: I would like run out front to get a few people,

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Speaker 3: a few of Lala's friends that showed up. And I'm

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Speaker 3: not gonna I don't think people are gonna be like jesz.

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Speaker 3: I just and a lot of you did, and all

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Speaker 3: of you, a lot of you came up to me

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Speaker 3: And I was like, you didn't have to say that,

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Speaker 3: and like tell Aala, we said hi, but.

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Speaker 1: Also we love you so much.

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Speaker 3: And you guys know, I get some you know, I

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Speaker 3: get some hate here and there on the podcast, and

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Speaker 3: those are normal people, you know that right now?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Like normal people don't write negative comments on people's Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Right And it's like the negativity the activities sometimes really loud.

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Speaker 3: And then you just like see these people in person

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Speaker 3: and they're just like I'm like, oh you guys, are

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Speaker 3: you guys are the real ones?

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Speaker 1: Correct? Yeah? Those are the ones who fuck with you

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Speaker 1: hard because they don't. They don't owe me anything. They

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Speaker 1: to buy tickets to come see my show. No one's

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Speaker 1: forcing them to do anything. They're doing it because there's

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Speaker 1: to in them because I'm a reality TV personality. Yeah

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Speaker 1: you know I'm not. I'm not on a scripted show,

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Speaker 1: like I'm living my real, authentic life. So they're coming

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Speaker 3: And then to see the people because I'm just gonna

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Speaker 3: say Lala's merch is on point. We sold that were

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Speaker 1: I saw them like end of show and they were like,

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Speaker 3: But to see them all just like not only did

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Speaker 1: Which I thought was so cute.

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Speaker 3: So it was like a sea of pink hoodies and

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Speaker 3: like white shirts that said my p I knows all

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Speaker 1: I know. I loved that and so many people DMed me,

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Speaker 1: like where's the link to the shirt? I have the

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Speaker 1: white shirt that's what I wore last night that says

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Speaker 1: my p I knows all about you. Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: Like that's not going to be a part of shopwalacun

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Speaker 1: dot com. Yeah. And then she has Tor shirts too.

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Speaker 1: You have torhit Tor shirts were lit. They were so cute.

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Speaker 1: my Here's the thing, Jesse, you know me. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: tour march is like everything I want to live in. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it's perfect because it is for the show. So

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Speaker 3: Like it's comfy clothes. Obviously it's Lalla's merch. Of course

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Speaker 3: it has to be comfy. So I mean, you're just

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Speaker 3: like and sneakers. My mom was like pulling things out

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Speaker 3: last night. My Mom's like, you, you don't know what

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Speaker 1: But also, you said, sneakers.

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Speaker 2: If you show up to the show, you guys, yes, these,

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Speaker 2: tell them about your sneakers because these are my favorite.

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Speaker 1: Is breaking news. Uneventful, but it is breaking news. I

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Speaker 1: single one. I know, there's very funny people who may

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Speaker 1: never get that opportunity. But you could just tell that

435
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Speaker 1: she was like out of her element. Yeah, and you

436
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: can tell there's many times that you put the Kardashians

437
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Speaker 1: in that they kind of feel out of their element.

438
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Speaker 1: And they're more famous, more powerful, richer, have bigger empires

439
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,879
Speaker 1: than all the people in the fucking room, right, but

440
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 1: you can still tell that they're humbled by the fact that, like,

441
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Speaker 1: maybe I'm not the most talented actress or you know,

442
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Speaker 1: they really.

443
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Speaker 3: And she says that on the show, I think, right,

444
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 3: She's like, I told them I can't sing, I can't dance, I.

445
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Speaker 1: Can't funny when she says that, and she's because she's

446
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Speaker 1: that she's she's just being real.

447
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Speaker 2: She's like, I know what I can offer, and it's

448
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 2: me Kim Kardashian.

449
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Speaker 1: I loved it, and I used to like not mess

450
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Speaker 1: with the Courtney and Travis thing. I'm like, it's just there.

451
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 1: It seems a little like too forced, right, But that's

452
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Speaker 1: just me scrolling on Instagram. By the way, I'm not

453
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Speaker 1: a troll though, because I never commented that shit. I

454
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 1: only said it to my friends.

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Speaker 3: Good for you, Laala, some other people have to learn

456
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 3: those things. So your friend, Okay, you said it, but wait,

457
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Speaker 3: it has your tune changed?

458
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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like I want that. They're cute. Where's my

459
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: bald headed, tattooed drummer? Okay?

460
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Speaker 2: Do you think they will stay married?

461
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:26,880
Speaker 1: Yes? I do?

462
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Speaker 2: Do I think it's I'm like, oh, this is endgame.

463
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Speaker 1: I think it's like totally effortless and cute and sweet

464
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Speaker 1: and safe. And to see him with her daughter like

465
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Speaker 1: doing the drums, I was just like, this is the

466
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Speaker 1: this is the cutest I can get down with all

467
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Speaker 1: of this.

468
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Speaker 3: Do you think it's too much PDA? Or do you

469
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Speaker 3: think it's cute?

470
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Speaker 1: Because it's like, who cares? They're in love. They don't

471
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Speaker 1: give a shit, you know what I'm I have always said,

472
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Speaker 1: PDA is so annoying and gross, but I wish I

473
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Speaker 1: could find someone that I just wanted to like, I

474
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: couldn't keep my hands off of. Yeah.

475
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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, I think it's cute because I don't think

476
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 3: they're doing it to put on a show. I think

477
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 3: there's a big difference between doing it to put on

478
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Speaker 3: a show, which I've seen.

479
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Speaker 2: And doing it to.

480
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 3: Because you don't care what anyone else thinks, and doing

481
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 3: it because it's just in your world in that moment,

482
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 3: it's just you and your partner, and like, sure, I'll

483
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 3: grab her ass. I don't care if we're sitting at

484
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Speaker 3: the family table.

485
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Speaker 1: It's very sweet. Yeah, just tell that they are they

486
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: like want to be one, They want to be living

487
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Speaker 1: inside of each other and not in a sexual way

488
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: like the soul may kind of. Yeah. Yeah, I love it,

489
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Speaker 1: so I stand.

490
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Speaker 3: Congratulations. Yes, Lalla, welcome, Welcome to the world of Kardashian.

491
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Speaker 3: We're excited to see where this takes to you.

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Speaker 1: I'm very excited. I have the fourth episode waiting. Once

493
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: I wrap this podcast up, I will be back doing

494
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: that because after we talk about this all the time.

495
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Speaker 1: I had the best time last night, but I feel

496
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:57,719
Speaker 1: like my soul leaves my body. Yeah. When I have

497
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Speaker 1: a lot of interaction with anybody, people I know, I know,

498
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 1: family members. When there's a large group of people, I

499
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 1: have the most amazing time. But the next day, so

500
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: I'm feeling that today, Yeah, you've got to recharge alone, yes,

501
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: or with very close like Gigi, recharge. Put very little

502
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 1: on the books for today because I obviously want to

503
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 1: be present. Yeah, you know what's going on. So I

504
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 1: asked you guys last week because you all know I

505
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: won't bore you again with my male dating whatever, but

506
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: I asked a question like how many of you have

507
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: met your significant others on a dating app? Like are

508
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 1: you married and thriving with children? Are you still together?

509
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: Like who has? Is it like a normal thing now? Yes,

510
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: So you guys responded. By the way, I did listen

511
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: to Heather McDonald's podcast. She did like this one a

512
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: while ago, but anytime I drive anywhere, I always put

513
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: Heather's podcast on. And she had this like Billionaire Matchmaker,

514
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: which it really didn't have much to do. The podcast

515
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:07,199
Speaker 1: about introducing women to billionaires. She was going through profile

516
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: dating profiles, and this one girl I guess in her

517
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: profile was talking about like her grandmother and how she

518
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 1: loves her so much. And the woman said she's got

519
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: to take that out because she's not going to attract

520
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 1: any men, like they're gonna be worried, like, is are

521
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: we going to have to go visit.

522
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Speaker 2: Your grandma all the time? And for me, I thought

523
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 2: the opposite.

524
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Speaker 1: I'm like, if if you just like in my profile,

525
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: you need to know upfront that I come as a

526
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: package deal. You know, my mom is heavily involved in

527
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: my life, my little brother, my usband's you ess, and

528
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: then my baby. Obviously that goes without saying yeah, she's

529
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 1: glued at my head. Yes, if you're not down for that,

530
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: then you need to go away because I don't want

531
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Speaker 1: to attract you.

532
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Speaker 3: You're not trying to do the Let's entice them with

533
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 3: this one image of myself and once I get them,

534
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like, okay, but.

535
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 2: This is really how it is.

536
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: No, no, because then it goes down. You may and

537
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: you can keep something up. Like for example, I know

538
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: someone this woman who is like a friend of a

539
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:20,199
Speaker 1: friend whatever. Her mom is great at getting men. Keeping

540
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 1: them is a different story. I know who the mom

541
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: really is and she's fantastic, but she makes it seem

542
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: like she's down for sex all the time and she

543
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: wants to do this, that and the other, and then

544
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 1: you know, you become comfortable and she falls into who

545
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: she really is, which is an amazing human being. But

546
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: she's attracting men that are wanting something that it's like,

547
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: you don't even want those men.

548
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 2: Yes, right, she's attracting men.

549
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 3: She's putting out vibes that aren't genuine correct and attracting

550
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 3: men who are attracted to those vibes and that facade.

551
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 3: If she had put out maybe genuine vibes of this

552
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: is really me, she's going to attract the men or

553
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:08,479
Speaker 3: the women who are, oh, this is really her, this

554
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 3: is what she likes. She's whatever, not down for sex

555
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 3: all the time or whatever. Right, awesome, this is what

556
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 3: I like.

557
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: And I think there's a way to do it. Like, obviously,

558
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: on a first date, I'm not going to just talk

559
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: about my mom the whole time, Okay, but on a

560
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 1: first date, I'm letting you know, my mom is my

561
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: rider die and she's she's in my life. So yeah,

562
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: there it is. There's like a way to do it,

563
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:31,880
Speaker 1: don't you think?

564
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And it's interesting because this is you now

565
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 3: would this have been or was this your thinking when

566
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 3: you were let's say twenty three or no, did you put.

567
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: On I've put on? What do I think this person wants? Yeah,

568
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: it should be to do that. What do I want?

569
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,239
Speaker 1: Because a lot of people that I've dated, I'm like,

570
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: why am I hanging out with you? I don't even

571
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: like you. I enjoy you, you know, but what is that?

572
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: I know when I was younger, there were guys that

573
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: I was dating and I liked who they were, you.

574
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 3: Know, like what do you mean like their personality or

575
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 3: you know, my personality was shit, but it was like.

576
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: Oh, he's a football player, you know, people love him.

577
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: But at this point in time, I don't need you

578
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: for anything financially, I don't need you to put my

579
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: name out there. Like I'm solid standing on my own

580
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 1: and it's not like what can I do for you?

581
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: What can you do for me? And if that's good,

582
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: then I can do something for you as well. Right,

583
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: But I just I'm in a completely different zone. The

584
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: people that I would attract now are completely different than

585
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: the people I would attract back then.

586
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's like that's what you get for just

587
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 3: growing up.

588
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: I mean, some of the people, including myself.

589
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 3: I had to attract those people and put on a

590
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 3: facade when I was younger to note.

591
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: And learn what I don't work, vibe with which and

592
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: I don't think a lot of younger people are listening.

593
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: It was funny because last night I asked about the

594
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: emojis and I was like, see, you guys use emojis.

595
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 1: I was told it was only the older generation, but

596
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: you guys are using them, and the woman in front goes,

597
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: that's because we're all old.

598
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, A right, any bravo

599
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 3: for whoever said that, And I remembered, like, you're right,

600
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 3: like eighteen to twenty four year old or not following me.

601
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: But if there are any like you're, you're in that zone.

602
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: There's nothing I can tell you to make you switch

603
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: your way of thinking on how you approach a dude.

604
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: And that's fine because it's going to be a learning

605
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: experience for you and you're going to end up with

606
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: a great guy when you're older. Yeah, and go.

607
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 3: Through it and hopefully it's a learning experience because if

608
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: you are younger or not younger, but you do that,

609
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 3: you put on this facade. Be careful because I've done

610
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 3: it before. I remember it like eighteen, and it sort

611
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 3: of changed me as a person because I met this

612
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 3: guy who I I wanted and he wanted a certain

613
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 3: type of girl that I became. And then a year

614
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 3: and a half later, I was like and we broke up.

615
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, who was that?

616
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

617
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 2: Who was I for a year and a half like

618
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 2: what that was?

619
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: Not me?

620
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 3: And it's just like it gets a little scary, like,

621
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 3: oh wow, I don't ever want to do that again.

622
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: I love that you said that, because I actually relate

623
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: to that a lot, So I take back what I said.

624
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: Don't fucking be that person no matter how old you are,

625
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, let's teach self worth at a very

626
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,719
Speaker 1: young age. Yeah. And it also depends on where you

627
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: come from, because at twenty four, a lot of my

628
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: friends were like three babies in and married for five years.

629
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, And there are no women or men in their

630
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 3: sixties right now who still are putting on the facade

631
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 3: it's all.

632
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, by the way, I have a hole. And this

633
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: may make some people upset, but there are certain men

634
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: and women I see in La where the guy's like

635
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: old and I know, I know the drill. These old

636
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: men who are going for these young girls. It's a

637
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: very disturbing to me.

638
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 3: It's interesting to me because yeah, I mean I think

639
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 3: a lot of people feel the way you do. Part

640
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 3: of my mind feels that way, and then another part

641
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, scientifically, because I do this a lot.

642
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: What's happening, Well, biologically they are attracted because men can

643
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 3: impregnate women as they're older, like men can do it

644
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 3: for a long long time. Women it's younger that we

645
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: end up not being able to have babies or it

646
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 3: becomes a little more dangerous as I'm talking.

647
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: Way way older. But so then I think, oh, it's biological.

648
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 3: The men, you're in your sixties whatever, and you are

649
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 3: biologically attracted to a younger, more fertile and this might

650
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 3: I just sometimes like to apply science like tribal or bio.

651
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: You know, I'm telling you what Ocean Kent. She turns

652
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: twenty two to twenty three, and she tells me she's

653
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: with someone in their mid to late forties or fifties. Yeah,

654
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm going, what the fuck is wrong with this? Yeah?

655
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: And you're not dating him? No, absolutely not. And I

656
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: let a lot of shit go right if Ocean Kent

657
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: decides that she wants to go and be a stripper

658
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: one day. Mama will support her in anything and everything

659
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: she does. Again, I will guide her as well as

660
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: I can. But they come how they are. Their passions

661
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: are their passions. Where I will draw the line is

662
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: what is wrong with this sick buck that he wants

663
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: my twenty three year old little girl? Is there a

664
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: line drawn though?

665
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 3: For the age?

666
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: What if he's forty? Yeah? I have to think on that. Yeah,

667
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: I have to meet him. I'd have to deep dive.

668
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: I'd had to stick the PI on him, got to

669
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: get in touch with the ex's.

670
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 3: The PI is going to be here forever, you know. Yeah,

671
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 3: but that is interesting. But I was asking you because

672
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 3: I'm genuinely curious. I don't know how I'll feel when

673
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 3: I have a daughter. I'll probably be like, you're never

674
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 3: dating the end, right.

675
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: Right, right right? I think a twenty year age difference

676
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: is like, you have no business talking to my daughter. Yeah,

677
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: with a twenty year age gap, my daughter was just

678
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: born and you were twenty. You're a year shy of

679
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: being able to hit the fucking bottle? What do you

680
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: want with my kid?

681
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 3: But then I think when I hear a forty five

682
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 3: year old woman with a sixty five year old man.

683
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, my brain goes, oh, yeah, that's not that bad.

684
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: Well I'm a little scarred. Yeah that's true. You know,

685
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: you're talking to someone who was in a situation and

686
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: is making judgments based off of my own experience. Yeah,

687
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 1: I could very well get over that. So if I'm

688
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: offending anybody, that is not my intention. You're talking to

689
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: someone who is obviously going to have to do some work.

690
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm judging everything off of my own experience. So we

691
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: went on a rampage. Anyway, people have been talking to

692
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: me about their men or women that they met on

693
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: dating apps. So this girl that I met, her name

694
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: is Lisa Marie, and she said that she's a wedding photographer.

695
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 1: And she told me that eight out of the ten

696
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 1: couples that she photographs have met on dating apps.

697
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 2: No, yes, yes, as of how long? That's what I

698
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 2: would want to know.

699
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: She seemed young, she seemed she was younger. I mean

700
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: in the last year or two me, I mean, whatever

701
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 1: it is, I'm shocked eight out of ten.

702
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my god, Oh yeah, that is shocking.

703
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 1: Were you shocked? Yes?

704
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 3: I wonder what the most successful app.

705
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: Is, especially because I don't know how to send anything

706
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: but emojis. Once I get these boobies done, oh let

707
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: me post in the cleeve, won't. I'm so scared.

708
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 3: You're so scared really to get them done, or to

709
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 3: know to get them done, just to like deep dive

710
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 3: back into my sexuality right now.

711
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 1: Well, then again, last night I was talking about anal

712
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: but I'm like, safe, he wants to touch me? No,

713
00:35:54,760 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: it's so naughty. Absolutely not. Yeah, my mom asked me

714
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 1: questions my mom again, it's my best friend. I fuck

715
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: with her so hard and she's so funny. Because she

716
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: asked me the other night would you hit that? And

717
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: I was about this guy else, Lisa, So did you

718
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 1: hit that? I was like, Lisa, that's why you've been

719
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 1: hanging out too much, starting to talk like me, And

720
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: I was like, would I hit that? That is so inappropriate?

721
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:23,439
Speaker 1: I said that.

722
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 3: Yes, dear mom, that's hilarious.

723
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: Hitting that is inappropriate. We can talk about it all

724
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: day long, but I'm not responsible for my thoughts or

725
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: what I say. I'm only responsible for my actions. Would

726
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,959
Speaker 1: you hit that? I would though, if the time came,

727
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I would hit that anyway.

728
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 3: The podcast Instagram page got a lot of dms from

729
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 3: a ton of you about finding partners on a dating app,

730
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 3: so we're not going to be able to get to

731
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 3: all of them, but I'm just going to go in order.

732
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 3: In the case of you wanting to be anonymous, I

733
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 3: will just say your first name. So this is a

734
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 3: message from Jennifer. Hi, just listen to the episode. And

735
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 3: met my fiance on Bumble and we are getting married

736
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 3: in September. I was divorced after my ex husband cheated

737
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 3: on me with my work bestie.

738
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 1: So I totally get the.

739
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 3: Being grossed out by men, but I met the man

740
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 3: of my dreams on a dating app.

741
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 1: Wait do you think about really?

742
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Bumble, which I heard Bumble is the women I

743
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 3: think get like.

744
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: A man can't contact.

745
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 2: You unless the woman like So that's the first message.

746
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So her husband cheats on her, Yes, she dips

747
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: out on him. Good for you. I could never get

748
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: over cheating. There's just no fucking way. You're a badass.

749
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 1: I support you. And then she so she joins Bumble

750
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:45,720
Speaker 1: and meets the man of her dreams.

751
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: Yea, and they're married man of her dreams and she

752
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 3: put dreams in all caps. Oh, I know another one

753
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 3: from Caitlin met my now husband on Tinder. I had

754
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 3: been single for years and I just moved to Seattle,

755
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 3: where I didn't know anyone, so I did try to

756
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 3: decided to try out Tinder, Bumble, et cetera, just to

757
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 3: meet people. First person I met was my now husband

758
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 3: and it was an instant connection. That was seven years

759
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 3: ago and we are so happy and so in love,

760
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 3: truly my best friend and I always recommend trying it out.

761
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: Really m Yeah, okay, so I mean this. Can I

762
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:30,360
Speaker 1: tell you this makes me nervous? Why because I have

763
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 1: never by the way, I grew up with the girl

764
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: who started bumble okay, fucking genius, and everyone talks about

765
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: how that's always that's like their favorite one, yea, their

766
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: favorite Danny atte because the female gets to do the

767
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: make them make the first move. Yeah. This sounds so horrible,

768
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 1: but it takes me back to a time where like

769
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 1: I was young, like young, like a child, and my

770
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: mom's friends who would be like getting divorced and they

771
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: couldn't find anybody, would be like, well, I guess I'll

772
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: join this to see if I can find my partner.

773
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: And it just made me like so nervous. I'm like,

774
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: why do you need to join something to like? And

775
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: it gave you probably negative like well, no one worked out.

776
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: They were constantly going on these dates and it was

777
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:18,439
Speaker 1: never working.

778
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 3: Out, and it seemed like the last resort almost yes,

779
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 3: like I've tried everything, everyone sucks.

780
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: I guess, so I'll get online. That's how they made

781
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 1: it seem.

782
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, And at the time maybe that was it because

783
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 3: there weren't as many people online, right.

784
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: But now I feel like joining a dating app, like

785
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: there is no difference between me sliding in a DM

786
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 1: and me being on a dating app. Actually there is

787
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: a huge difference. People on dating apps actually want something

788
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: to happen. Sliding in the DM is just basically a

789
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: booty call. You think, I mean, not for me. When

790
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 1: I'm sliding in the DM, it's like I'm looking for

791
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: a text Yeah, nice, real book wild maybe a little

792
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: face time date.

793
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 2: Oh, that to me is wild. I have to say

794
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 2: a lot.

795
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 3: I wouldn't like the fact that you could DM someone

796
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 3: in FaceTime them.

797
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 2: That's like last resort to me. You're gonna see my face.

798
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna see my face. And more times than not.

799
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have makeup on. So when you see

800
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: me in person and I'm looking fine, you're gonna feel

801
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: like you're with fucking like Justselle, you know, because you've

802
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: seen me without makeup on. You see as bad as

803
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 1: it gets right off the jump.

804
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

805
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 1: I always, always, even if pictures are exchange, always make

806
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:45,919
Speaker 1: sure that it is with no makeup on. Oh yep,

807
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: the first picture has always got to be me looking

808
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: like I would if you and I were to go

809
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: to bed at night.

810
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 3: Maybe you're onto something because when I dated people, I

811
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 3: would literally you guys, and this isn't a joke, like

812
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 3: I would bring my makeup bag to sleep over at

813
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 3: guys and these are boyfriends, and then like in the

814
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 3: morning like quickly put on Mesca or something. But then

815
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 3: when I met Kyle accidentally, I met him looking no

816
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 3: makeup I had it was a night class, greasy hair,

817
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 3: giant sweats, and met him and I was like, well,

818
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 3: I guess I'm just gonna have to charm him with

819
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:21,720
Speaker 3: my personality.

820
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: And well, yes, because then your most authentic self comes

821
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 1: out because you're in your most vulnerable state, Like the

822
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: only way you could be more vulnerable is naked with

823
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 1: your legspread? Yes, no, you're onto something.

824
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 3: And then because then the first state he was like,

825
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 3: I was wondering why he was so like.

826
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 1: Wow, yes, whoa see you were Giselle to him because

827
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: he had seen you Like this is as bad as

828
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:44,280
Speaker 1: it gets.

829
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, give him the worst and fast.

830
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: That's why I will post photos on my story of

831
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: me with Zi creamon, because there could be nights we

832
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 1: spend together and I got a kure acne. Yes, this

833
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: is what it looks like. Yeah, that's just what I'm

834
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: into hot tips. Hear it from from Lalla. That's am

835
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: I onto something? You might be onto something, by the way,

836
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 1: not weird that you would take your makeup bag because

837
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: my boyfriend when in college, he was in college, I

838
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: was not. I would take my makeup bag but also

839
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: my overnight makeup bag, which was filled with organic makeup,

840
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: and I would close the door, shower, wash my face,

841
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: and then I would put on nighttime makeup to go

842
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 1: to bed.

843
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 2: Really yes, see, so then I don't feel too bad.

844
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: No, I think that.

845
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people probably do it, because

846
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 3: that's what I would do. I would shower, close the door,

847
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 3: and then like I was like, I don't want it

848
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 3: to look like I have makeup on, so I'm gonna

849
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 3: put a moisturizer and I'll do like mascara and then

850
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: like maybe a little like glistening stuff on my eyelids

851
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: just to make me look like makeup free. But I

852
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 3: wasn't makeup free.

853
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 1: Yeah no, I know you had like the natural look.

854
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: And then there was a time, same guy that I

855
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 1: did that and I go into the bathroom and there's

856
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: a poop in the toilet, and I was like, you, motherfucker.

857
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: I'm in here where I makeup to go to bed

858
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: for you, and you leave a shit in the fucking toilet.

859
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 1: You can't even flush your shit. You can't even flush

860
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: your shit to keep me attracted to you, And I'm

861
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: here like making sure that my one pimple is fucking

862
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: covered up. You ass man.

863
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 2: Is the funniest thing ever. I'm so accurate, not to everyone,

864
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 2: but you guys, Come on.

865
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: Men are disgusting. Yeah, and you with your makeup off

866
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: will always be a billion times more beautiful yeah than

867
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: a man on his nicest day. Yeah, that's true. It's

868
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: so true. Even if you're married and in love, men

869
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: are just gross. Men are gross, all right, So there's okay.

870
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 2: I think the bottom line is dating apps work.

871
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I gather trust me. That's why I did

872
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,399
Speaker 1: this because when I just to like put myself out

873
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: there again, I'm gonna know that's a safe place like

874
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm not and that'ses do it.

875
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 2: There are options, Yeah, okay, I.

876
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 1: Will put the PI on anybody. I swipe right on

877
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 1: as you should ups her. PI knows all about you.

878
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 3: Don't question it, okay. Last one this is from Amelia.

879
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 3: You asked for dating app stories and minus positive. I

880
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 3: was twenty six and hadn't seriously dated anyone in a while,

881
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 3: and my roommate made me download Tinder, which I was

882
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 3: very against because I wanted my rom com meet a

883
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 3: man in a bookshop moment. But whatever, I at least

884
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,919
Speaker 3: thought it would be entertaining. I talked to a few

885
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 3: people and then matched with a man named Joe whose

886
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 3: opening line was pasta or tacos. I responded, pasta, I

887
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 3: don't eat meat.

888
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 2: He asked me out to eat at a great Italian restaurant.

889
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: I went.

890
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 3: Turns out we both went to the same college, so

891
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 3: lots to talk about. But he worked as a director

892
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 3: on a morning TV show and worked at four am

893
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 3: Wednesday to Sunday. That didn't really work with my weekend

894
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 3: drunken confidence of drunkenly making out.

895
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 2: So we legit old school dated for a month. He

896
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 2: picked me up, had a great date, and then he

897
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: dropped me off, didn't even kiss. We eventually established we

898
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,879
Speaker 2: liked each other and are now married and expecting our

899
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 2: first child May eighteenth.

900
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: Oh, that's coming up.

901
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 3: I credit soberly virginally Dating for this.

902
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: Did I read that right? Virginally?

903
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 2: Soberly virginally is that?

904
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? It probably means that they held off on sex

905
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: and they didn't get drunk. Interesting, well, maybe they didn't

906
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: drink at all.

907
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 3: Tinder Wow getting married?

908
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay? Well, first of all, to her, congratulations on your

909
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: baby coming like very very soon. That is so exciting.

910
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: Anytime anyone tells me that they're expecting their first baby,

911
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: I get so excited for them because it is a

912
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: heavenly experience. The closest you will ever get to have

913
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: is when you meet your child for real. I'm not kidding.

914
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: I that's how I explain it. Really beautiful. Oh, thanks John,

915
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: I'm serious. That's it's incredible. These are actually making me

916
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: really excited to join a dating app at some point.

917
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I need to tell you this because I

918
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 3: just clicked on Amelia's name and I'm creeping her page.

919
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 3: This is her bio Real Housewives of Columbus tagline. I

920
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 3: may run away from bugs, but I never run away

921
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 3: from confrontation.

922
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm pressed.

923
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 3: That's savage, sassy. Yeah, So what do you think about

924
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 3: dating is apps? After after just a few of many

925
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 3: stories and dms.

926
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: We got Okay, so the ones that you read all positive,

927
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: love them. But the game changer for me was the

928
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: first one that I told you about that eight out

929
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: of ten of her couples that she photographs are people

930
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: that met on dating app. I just think it's the

931
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:03,399
Speaker 1: new to do things right. Yeah, and people that are

932
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: on them, I think it depends on which one, Like

933
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: I'd have to research, like which ones do people find?

934
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 3: It?

935
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: Sounds like Tinder and Bumble are the most well known.

936
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah right. I like Bumble because I get to make

937
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: the first move and kind of call the shots, and

938
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 1: that's the virgo in me. I like to maintain control.

939
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 3: Oh and you said Tinder and Bumble. My friend Olivia,

940
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 3: who I went on the baucheorette party with in Miami.

941
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 3: Is marrying her fiance Myron, and they met on match

942
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 3: dot com and her mom made her a profile.

943
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 1: She set her up.

944
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 3: And Olivia was like, absolutely not and she found the

945
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 3: man of her dreams.

946
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: So match dot COM's another one. Okay, I love all

947
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: of it. Yeah, I fuck with match dot Com. The

948
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: one thing that I would have to probably put in

949
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: my profile is I am not looking to legally wed.

950
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: I would love to find someone who I'm head over heels.

951
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: I want my like Cravis moment. That's what it's called, Travis. Yeah. Yeah,

952
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: I want to like just dive in like that. But no,

953
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to be tied to you in a

954
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: way that I can't get out of right, right, like

955
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: just a simple like ceremony committing ourselves in front of

956
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: God and then let's like put the rest of it.

957
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: I don't I'm not trying to do that. That was

958
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 1: not legally married. I don't want to ever legally get married.

959
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 3: Wow, I didn't know that. Yeah, what's the benefit of

960
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 3: it then, because literally there's a lot of benefit, is there?

961
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: Okay it doesn't work out, there's a lot of shit.

962
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, because I always said, I mean Kyle and

963
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,840
Speaker 3: I I for like, since I met Kyle, I'm like.

964
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: Why do people get married?

965
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: Like?

966
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 3: I get it, that's because I was always like, I

967
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 3: get its tradition, but is it like for finance and

968
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 3: tax breaks?

969
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,320
Speaker 1: Like why? So that's interesting? Well, I think for taxes

970
00:48:56,360 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 1: it helps if you're married. Yeah, it obviously, but it

971
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 1: complicates things a lot if you are. I mean, you

972
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 1: inherit their debts. If they're involved in lawsuits, you could

973
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: inherit that burden and I just don't want to be

974
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: attached to you like that.

975
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, that's interesting. You say that because when I

976
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 3: met Kyl, I said, we're not getting married until I

977
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 3: pay off my student loans.

978
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 1: And I just paid them off. I know. I already

979
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: said this as a DAPs for Jazz. So no legal.

980
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 2: Marriage for La La, and she's putting that out there.

981
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: Yep, don't cheat, be loyal, be my best friend. I

982
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: don't want to marry you, though.

983
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 2: Love it beautifully said.

984
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 1: And give me beautiful babies.

985
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,240
Speaker 2: You already have the most beautiful and I don't see another.

986
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 1: I mean when I say beautiful, no matter what your

987
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 1: kid looks like when they come out of you they're

988
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: the most perfect thing in the world. Like, all you

989
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 1: want is to have a healthy baby. And I used

990
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: to look at people when I'd be like, do you

991
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: want a boy or a girl? I like, I just

992
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: wanted to be healthy and they were already parents to

993
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: other children, and I'm like, ugh, what like obviously, yeah,

994
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 1: you know, so stupid.

995
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

996
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: And then at my twenty week appointment, when I was

997
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: learning that my kid may or may not be okay,

998
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 1: I was like, it all makes sense now, Yes, all

999
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 1: you want, you don't give a damn. So when I

1000
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: say a beautiful baby, I'm like, I just want healthy

1001
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: little humans running around me. This was such a fun podcast,

1002
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: all right. I love you guys so much. I hope

1003
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: to see you at the Give Them Laala Live brand

1004
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: new tour. Go to Give Them Live dot com to

1005
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: get your tickets. I cannot wait to see all of you.

1006
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of

1007
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,479
Speaker 1: Give Them Laala, and I will catch you next week.