1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:09,319 Speaker 1: Chicago Kiss FM and I Heart Radio station. It's a 2 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: friend show. What are you laughing about? Over there? What 3 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: are you laughing about? Murphy are getting really weird over there. 4 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell him something that I thought was 5 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: in Filipino and I thought I like learned a new phrase. 6 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: And he looked at me like, WHOA, sounds like you didn't. 7 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: She goes, I gotta tell you something, and she holds 8 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: his hand and she's saying something. He's like, I don't 9 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: know what that means, and she goes, it means I 10 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: love you. And they were holding me up like five 11 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: minutes and she just kept saying it over and over again. 12 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: It's like, still don't know what it means. Right, he 13 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: knows phrases. What do you? What did you say? And 14 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 1: when you think it means I love you? Yeah? It 15 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: was like she said I'm Oquita and I was like, 16 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm Moquito. Yeah, I'm I'm good too. Yeah what I 17 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: thought you were? Like? I thought it was like an 18 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: alter ego or something. The new name was oquito or something. 19 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: And I just want ten dollars in the Mega millions. 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: You don't got to hold my hand like that. Oh 21 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: my god, I could understand what you want to get 22 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: close to him after that ten dollars that's good. That'll 23 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: get you one and a half meals to McDonald's one 24 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: h three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. 25 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Have you ever had 26 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: a fantasy about living in a place that's like a 27 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: non traditional place, like, man, I would love to live 28 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: in a don't know, an art museum, like have a 29 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: house in an art museum, or I don't know umsco, 30 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: like to have your home just build connected to costco. Right, 31 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,839 Speaker 1: you need just oh you know what, I need paper towels. 32 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: And it's go get yourself a nice crate of them. Yeah, 33 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: or palette. I'm hungry. Let me just go get all 34 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: these samples. Let the sample city over here. I bring 35 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: this up because this story has gone viral. And Indiana 36 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: couple spent twenty years turning a high school basketball gym 37 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: into a house, an actual high school basketball gym that 38 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: you can now live in for two hundred ninety nine 39 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. And the agent says it still smells like 40 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: a gym. Two distinct tabs. One looks like a home 41 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: and the other half is still a gym, so it 42 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: used to be part of a high school. It sits 43 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: on a three point six acred lot at the edge 44 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: of town in eastern Hancock. I don't know wherever that 45 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: in somewhere in Indiana. It comes to the half of 46 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: the original basketball court. So they bought this thing in 47 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: two thousand and two for eighty five grand. They fixed 48 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: it up and you can now live in it. And 49 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: you can see this at Frenshaw Radio dot com. It 50 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: literally has the bleachers and it still it has the 51 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 1: basketball hoop in it. It has half the court really 52 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: really old. Um. Yeah, they built like a like a 53 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: little house on the on the end of the court. 54 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: Basically new living space is a kitchen, bathrooms, bedrooms, windows 55 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: and doors that leads to the other half of the building. 56 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: I mean it kind of looks like a modern It's 57 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: all wide and has kind of modern windows in there. 58 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: And then and then part of the living space is 59 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: still the basketball court with the lines. Um. The buildings 60 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: were built in nineteen twenty two, and you could live 61 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: in this thing a nice looking house, and then your 62 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: outside is They just left the other part of the 63 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 1: gym just the same, but like the kitchen still has 64 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: the key like where the basketball and I don't know, 65 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: you literally can live in a basketball gym. Half of 66 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: it looks like a normal house forty minutes from Indianapolis. 67 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'd be kind of cool. I don't 68 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do with that, but I'm not 69 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: going to buy it. But I also, can you send 70 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: me that TikTok that one time that guy that converted 71 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: the whole like school elementary school, he bought an element 72 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: He bought it and he bought an old school. Yes, 73 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: that's crazy. The other day I saw on tikto everything 74 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: is on TikTok. I feel like I am the socially isolated, 75 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: depressed guy that sits on TikTok all day. A woman 76 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: pointed out she's a flight attendant and she was staying 77 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: in a hotel in some city, and she believed that 78 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: it was an old hospital that had been turned into 79 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: a hotel because of the way the building was built 80 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: and the eyes of the rooms, and like certain features 81 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: of the rooms, she contends, and like you know how 82 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: the hospitals have the emergency room and like that little 83 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: whatever that thing is the easement or whatever another easement, 84 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: but the thing where the ambulance would pull in. You 85 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: know that has like the extends from the building and 86 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: yeah like that, like yeah, it's I don't even know 87 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: what it is, like yeah that thing yea where they 88 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 1: would dress circle exact Yeah, yeah, yeah, so that was 89 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: there and so she's like this and then like the 90 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: dimensions worked that there could have been two hospital beds 91 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: in the room. It was just such an oversize room. 92 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: That would freak me out. Hell yeah, I would not 93 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: like that. I got you know, you want to talk 94 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: about energy and like weird vibes. I don't think I 95 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: want to stay in a hotel room that was once 96 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: an old hospital, Like you gotta tear that thing down 97 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: and rebuild it. Even I'm not even sure if I 98 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: want to. And I'm sure it's happened, but I don't 99 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:55,799 Speaker 1: even know if I want to be on the same land, 100 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: you know, because yeah, people got healed there and stuff, 101 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: but then also people didn't you know, get healed there, right, 102 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: I don't think I want to be in there, and 103 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,600 Speaker 1: I think I have a right to know. I think 104 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: they should have to tell you if some if the 105 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: space was converted from a like I don't know if 106 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: it was like a I don't know. I don't know. 107 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 1: Like every time I go to tow I'm like, there 108 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 1: were dead people in here. I don't know, and I 109 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: make it said. I go to tow a lot and 110 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: I know, I don't want to. I've only been a 111 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 1: towel like twice. But even then I walk in, I'm like, 112 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: what's going on here? Like I said, this is a 113 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: morg at one point, like this is weird going on here? 114 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: What h three five Kids FM, Chicago's number one hit 115 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. What is 116 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: this on our sheet today, Pauline about meeting Hobby's grandparents. 117 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: They're dead. Yeah, they passed like four years ago. You 118 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: wrote on this thing, and you're gonna have to explain 119 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: it to me because it's not something that I know about. 120 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: I met Hobby's grandparents at the cemetery and it was 121 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: a party. Yeah, it's a believe like bold statement sentence 122 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: that I wrote. So basically, uh, yeah, they passed four 123 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: and five years ago, and you know mercines, so I 124 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: never got to meet them, obviously, right, But they're in 125 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: the ground. They are they're they're buried, Okay, yeah, they're 126 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: buried in the ground. Right, yes, yes they are. And 127 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: Hobby was very very close to his grandparents like like 128 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: Arenzal figures if you will, you know, because he um 129 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: kind of grew up with them, like Grandma's like yeah 130 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: very much there. Um. So yeah, he's really close to 131 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: them because the tattoos on everything for them, um, the 132 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: whole family like they you know, because they come from 133 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 1: a big family. So like everybody got together and it 134 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 1: was their anniversary of Grandpa's death on April thirtieth, so 135 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: we went yesterday. We went to mass first a church, 136 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: and then we went to the cemetery and you know, 137 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: Mexicans like people like the party. So essentially it turned 138 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: into like there was food and there was like they 139 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 1: had some music playing. Really yes, love that's the cemetery. 140 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: I was here for it. They were like grilling things, yeah, grilling. 141 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: But they had like tamales in a in a bad room. 142 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: They had they had um jealous, they had adult beverages 143 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: them too. No. Um, I saw flowers down there because 144 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:00,160 Speaker 1: it's like, how do you call them a one of 145 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: those walls that's where they're buried in the two Oh 146 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: so they're above the ground. They well yeah, I think 147 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: so yeah, because they were a cremated Is that what 148 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: it is. I'm not too sure but maybe. But basically 149 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: they were like on the lowest level, like I could 150 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: be face to face with them. That's how though they were. 151 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: But then there was like the whole so this is 152 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: the thing. So people go to the graveyard and they 153 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: have a party. Um. Yeah. So unfortunately their family was 154 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: stereotyped as well, and so the security came up and said, 155 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: do you guys have a band coming? And his mother 156 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: was like, um, no, we don't. But mean I would 157 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: have said, yeah we do, No, what do you mean 158 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: standard right in front of what's the problem? Would you 159 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: disrespect other? Would you disrespect Calvin Harris? In this way 160 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: it's a security guard, Molly security guard. Oh, we offered 161 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: him too because he came by again. So another another 162 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: group that was there had a band that was coming. Well, no, 163 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: it's very common for certain cultures, um, when they are 164 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: burying like a loved one that like like, we're Polish too, right, 165 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: So my mom is Polish, so like in Poland we 166 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: have like, um, a whole like band, like the Polish 167 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: band with the whole orchestra and the accordion and all 168 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: of that. We have everything going. Like what I'm saying, 169 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: we're doing death wrong. We are I think death should 170 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: be a party in a celebration. But I know a 171 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: lot of Mexicans to like, we'll bring the mariachi there, 172 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, So like that's I guess, 173 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: well a lot of people have done security assume that's 174 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: what maybe we were gonna do. You brought food and booze, 175 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: and maybe there was gonna be a band. Yeah there 176 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: was no band coming, but now it makes me want 177 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: a band to just to be extra right. Wow. Yeah, 178 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: and so but that's very common though. People do that, 179 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: like they get together the cemetary and you know, they 180 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: make it all day, like not all day, but they 181 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: make it like an event, like Okay, we're gonna eat, 182 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 1: we're gonna we prayed like we did everything. Hold on 183 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: a second, nine, one, one or three five. I want 184 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: to hear about your dead people party because this is 185 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 1: this is more in line with what I would want. 186 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: But I don't think. I don't think I want I 187 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: don't know what the hell I want. I don't think 188 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 1: I want to be in like a box or a 189 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: like a place, you know, like my my grandparents are 190 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 1: in some sort my mom calls it their condo, but 191 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: it's like this boogie and then it was so expensive. 192 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: It's like by where they lived in Arizona, and it's 193 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 1: like in a room and it has these little glass 194 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 1: boxes and then their ashes are in the boxes, and 195 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: then there's like you can decorate the inside of the box, 196 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: so there's a bottle of Tito's in there, and there's 197 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: some other stuff and you can go and like stand 198 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: there next to them this little boxing, and my mom insisted. 199 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: My mom is actually very upset because we picked the 200 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: one out that had a view of the garden. It 201 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: was adjacent to a window. And then apparently now I 202 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: don't I don't go to this thing, which is my point. 203 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: They they built another layer of these boxes or whatever 204 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: condos that blocks of view, and my mom is very 205 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 1: upset about this. She's like, but this was a premium 206 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: condo and now look at the construction. Yeah, they passed, 207 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: you know, so I think that's why are we spending 208 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: all this money on there? You know, That's what I 209 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: said to like, when my mom passed, my my my 210 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: mom's side of their family, my dad, they all went 211 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: to this like they have them in federal homes, like 212 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: it's like a mausoleum for for or earns and it 213 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: just sits there and you could like decorate it. I'm like, 214 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: why am I gonna pay? Why are we gonna pay money? 215 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: Like and I got to make an appointment to see 216 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: my mom. That's the thing that like business hours only. 217 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, when you could put like you could give 218 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: him like a flash drive, and so when you come in, 219 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: like the pictures come on the TV. It's just like, 220 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm why are we gonna pay one? Long? Yeah? I 221 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: was just like I want my mom to be at 222 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 1: home where you know, where her garden is. You know 223 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, why are we gonna pay money? 224 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 1: And I got to schedule an appointment to see my mom? 225 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: I was like I can also see why people spread 226 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: the ashes too, because it's like if it gives you 227 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: comfort to have them in the house, the ashes, like 228 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 1: maybe it does for you, re feel like that's fine, 229 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: but they're not there. It ain't them, you know what 230 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: I mean, Like they're gone, They're long gone. It's now 231 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: it's just an item. And then I think you know 232 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: what happens when how long does someone hold on to 233 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: that at what point, you know, how many how many 234 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: generations from now with someone like I didn't even know 235 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: this person, I don't know what to do with this, 236 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So I just figured like, 237 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: maybe that's what I want. Maybe I want someone to 238 00:10:57,679 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 1: jump out of a plane. And I've been I've not 239 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 1: actually done it, but I've been part of a skydive. 240 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: Wear Um, they make a little thing and you put 241 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 1: the bag in this thing and you jump out of 242 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 1: the airplane in the bag. Of course, you know it's 243 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: higher than you because it's you know, good whatever you're 244 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: below it as the skydiver, and then you open it. 245 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: The ashes just go out into the sky. I like that. 246 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 1: I would be something like that, I mean, because it's like, 247 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: what are you gonna I don't know, Like my nieces kids, 248 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: what the hell are they gonna do with an urn 249 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: with Uncle Fredi who they never even met? You know, Hey, 250 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: Pamela Yeshi family, y'all partying in the graveyard. I mean, 251 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,439 Speaker 1: I love it. I've just never really heard of it. 252 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's a big party. So we actually it 253 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: was probably two weeks ago. Um, we went to the graveyard. 254 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: So we'll clean up by the way. I'm married to 255 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: a Mexican. And so we go to the graveyard, we 256 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: clean up, we decorate the grave site one of the cousins. 257 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 1: So it's grandma and two cousins. They're all like veried 258 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: right next to each other. So it becomes a really 259 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: big part party because we say, bring out the fight 260 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: club for one of the cousins and they take pictures. 261 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 1: It's food, it's music, it's aloholic beverages. Wow, it's a 262 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 1: big thing for like probably we're out there probably like 263 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: three or four hours. Wow, kind of living it up. 264 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 1: I mean, I love it so much. I mean why 265 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,439 Speaker 1: does it so it has to be there because that's 266 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 1: where their remains are, so they may like come like 267 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,719 Speaker 1: hang out where they're where their bones used to be 268 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: or something. You know what I'm saying, Like, I guess 269 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: you could have that anywhere good to shoot in theory, 270 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: but I guess that also you're saying you go clean 271 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: up the grave site and whatever, so that I guess 272 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: there's a purpose for being there. Yeah, So we clean. 273 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: So that's the first thing we make sure when we 274 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: get there everything's clean. We take out like the old weeds, 275 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: old flowers. It's like New flower Tail, and then the 276 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: bike club comes out. Okay, the parents come out, and 277 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 1: then we'd like like you said, we do a prayer, 278 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 1: we do all of that at the site, and then 279 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: it just becomes a big party for two or four hours. Wow. Okay, 280 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: all right, Pamela, thank you, have a good day. Thank 281 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: you have you guys, love to no. I like it, 282 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: and I don't want to be wrong about this, but 283 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: I want to say, like I've watched a lot of 284 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: documentaries about Columbian drug lords, because you know, A dig 285 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: a good Colombian. I don't dig a Colombian drug lord. 286 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:19,319 Speaker 1: I don't actually do. Actually, well, if you're listening to 287 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 1: Columbian drug lord, I did you, like I don't want 288 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: any problems. I don't want any problems. But like they'll 289 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: build these whole and people can correct me and tell 290 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: me what they're called, but they'll build like entire structures 291 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 1: like I think I saw some at Argentina when I 292 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: was there, and what I sorry, And some of them 293 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: have air conditioning units and like the whole thing like 294 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: it's a house essentially, but the person's dead inside of there. 295 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 1: Why they go all out like they're they're these build 296 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: these whole structures. Do you like furniture and I don't 297 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: an air conditioning unit? Wild? Who's and by the way, 298 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: where are they getting electricity? Who's who are they looking at? 299 00:13:52,200 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 1: What are you stealing there from? Hey, Lindsay, good morning, Lindsay, Lindsay, Okay, 300 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: no Lindsay by Lindsay Zoe, h Lindsay. I don't know 301 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: what happened the Zoe show. You guys are having yes, 302 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: you're having parties at the cemetery. We are, hm, what 303 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: is it like? We do happen? So normally like my 304 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: day's University of July thirtieth, So we'll have h we'll 305 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: I'll meet there sometimes we have a family pasture come 306 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: and just kind of you know, give a prayer and 307 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: then once that's done, you know, each person does their 308 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: own thing as far as plain or whatever they want 309 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: to add on or say something, and then we'll have 310 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: food and we'll have a group or a small you 311 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: know maiachi um and um what is it for him? 312 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: I mean, well, make it a pretty much like they said, 313 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: a primily day event. We get there early because it 314 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: does get party. Father's Day's coming, so that'll probably be 315 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: here'll go to a cemetery and he'll see a lot 316 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: of Mexican families doing the same thing. I love it. 317 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: I just like, I have not been back to the 318 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: lawsoleum thing since my grandparents passed away. I don't I 319 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: don't see it purpose in going there. It seemed very 320 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: commercial to me. I mean, I I don't know. I 321 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: feel like it's a spiritual relationship. I don't need to 322 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 1: go and look at the you know, why not like 323 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: celebrate them though they're like I mean, obviously that's where 324 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: they are, right, so why not in the party? Because 325 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: the who sucks? Now? That's why why don't you go 326 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: there and like say, hey, I want to take them out, 327 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: like you take them out in the town. You know, 328 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm in the town. Yeah, yeah, like d get it 329 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: Bernie's or yap them up. And because they're not there. 330 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 1: Look if you find comfort in that, I respect it, 331 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: but they're not there. I think it's funny to bring 332 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: her around. It's small enough that I bring herself. It's fine, 333 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: thank you, Joe, have a good day. Nor however you do, 334 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 1: it is all you. I just I told my mom, 335 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, you spend all this damn money. I think 336 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: it's just because she doesn't want him in the house 337 00:15:58,320 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: because it's like, I don't know what she's gonna do. 338 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: You know, it's excit think people want what to do 339 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: with it? Really, h Tiffany, Hi, Tiffany, Hey, how are 340 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: you guys? Tiffany? What what is going on? You did? 341 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: What a funeral? Rule? Um? So my I actually wasn't there, 342 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: but my mom's father he was were Puerto Rican so 343 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: they had a funeral on puer Rico. So at a 344 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: funeral they had a cock fight because he used to 345 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: cock fright. Nice. I've been to one of those in 346 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: the Philippines. It's a wild time. Wow. Wow, okay, oh hey, 347 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: I mean you wanted means by all means if I 348 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: don't think it's humane, but you know, hey, that's what 349 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: do you want? Then still be it that that's tradition 350 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: and there you go. Thank you, Tiffany. It's a wild no. 351 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I I've never I shouldn't say I've never 352 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: attended one. I don't know anything about it. It's a 353 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 1: wild time. I think it would be. Yeah, what were 354 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: you doing in a cock fight? I just saw a 355 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 1: lot of weird Ask me that because you want me 356 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: to be appropriate time this weekend or when to touch it? 357 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: How many were there for you? This is too easy, 358 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: these jokes are going to write them? And how many 359 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 1: winners were there? How do you? How do you decide 360 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: who the winner is? Jose? Now that's I want that 361 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: at my funeral, Jose, Poor birds about I'm trying. I 362 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: got a little distracted by the reporto Rican tradition affairly 363 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: which I'm into. I don't know if I'm into the 364 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: one that they had, but I'm into a different one now. 365 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: Somebody called, somebody called my lawyer. I'm changing my will. 366 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 1: I have a new wish. Always say, so what happened 367 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 1: you guys? Uh? I'm learning this morning. Like I, I 368 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 1: understand that different cultures have different spiritual traditions, and I 369 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: and I respect them all. But I guess I've never 370 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 1: heard of anyone going and throwing a party at a graveyard. 371 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: I have not heard that. Yeah, that's actually something like 372 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: in the Mexican tradition that many of us dope, but 373 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of families do tend to 374 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 1: do that. Okay, And so like you you went to 375 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: one recently, It wasn't recently. It was actually like maybe 376 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: I would say I do five six years ago, okay, 377 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 1: and it was like the very first one was over 378 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: and it was actually pretty interesting to see that her family, 379 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: my friends family had a banda up in the cemetery. 380 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: Oh okay, nothing, No, it's a bonda. Can you get 381 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: that taco guy to come to the one that comes 382 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 1: to all parties? Yeah, I have tac tacco guy to come, 383 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 1: Like all of a sudden, I'm into this, Like I'm 384 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: into it, but I would just feel bad, Like it's 385 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: just feel bad about like if they're buried in the ground, right, 386 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 1: and there's other people around, you're traveling other people. Yeah, no, 387 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: you're trampling other people's problem. There is brown And then 388 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:08,400 Speaker 1: the plot two plots down. You got a big party 389 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: and then you're stepping on other people's neighbors. They're like down, 390 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: relax over here. It worked. A hard life can be spotful, 391 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You're not knocking down other people's braves. Yeah, 392 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: you know, don't knock them down, but that's true. Like 393 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 1: if you go out there and you're having a good 394 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 1: old time with your cocos in your banda, which is amazing, 395 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 1: do it, but like someone's dead underneath you, well, everybody's 396 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: dead at the cemetery. Yeah, I don't ever win where. 397 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Right, you get too drunk, you 398 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: just put your drink on something else's grave stone, eat 399 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 1: a tomala, getting hammers at a table you like, drop some. 400 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm not for you. I'm just saying you're getting hammer 401 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 1: at the cemetery. It's all a good time. Thank you, 402 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 1: Jose have a good bay Man. I don't want to 403 00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: talk about my funeral now. I want to party Like 404 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,880 Speaker 1: I always said. I wanted it to be like just clean, 405 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 1: quiet and crisp, But now I just want like a party. 406 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 1: Oh no, I want you guys to bawl your eyes out. 407 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 1: Oh let be pissed. I'm in the ground here, you know, 408 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: and I gotta figure it out. You know what. This 409 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: gives me a new thought. Now, I if I'm gonna 410 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: be buried somewhere, like posted up somewhere, I need to 411 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 1: know who my neighbors are gonna be, because if what 412 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 1: if they are like what if they're awful? What if 413 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 1: they're terrible? Or what if they're what they're too loud? 414 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? Come by? I hear them? 415 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 1: I don't know what, I don't know. This is a 416 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 1: very good thought. Now I got to think about this, like, 417 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: I hope my grandparents have good neighbors. What if their 418 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 1: neighbors suck? I need to look into this. No, I 419 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: didn't even consider any of that. A party is a party. 420 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: As a party, all are welcome. I better go make 421 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: sure all my grandpa's Tino's distill there. Maybe maybe he's 422 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: got a neighbor with a bunda and they had dried 423 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 1: and they ran in tequila or something, so they're like, here, hey, Fritz, 424 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: I gotta borrow those and then now we gotta replenish it. 425 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:56,959 Speaker 1: They're all invited. That would freak me out. If if 426 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 1: I went to my grandpa's condo mausoleum thing and the 427 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:04,400 Speaker 1: Tito was gone, that would just be like a security 428 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: No one ever comes to visit this guy. So let 429 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: me just ring this. Tito's gonna say if he drank 430 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: that ttos, it's like airplane model. He's gonna be pissed 431 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 1: because he liked a much different drinks than that. One 432 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: h three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. 433 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 1: Good Morning, It's the Fred Show. Heard me say this before. 434 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: I probably maybe but uh. In college, I took the 435 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: Ethical Implications of Children's I was an English major, the 436 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: Ethical Implications of Children's Literature. I looked at the book 437 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: list and this was an advanced class. It was hard 438 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: to get into. Like my sexuality class, which was an 439 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: anatomic class, was very upset about that. Um So I 440 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 1: look at the book list. It's like where the wild 441 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: things are, doctor Sewis, I don't know. I don't know 442 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: much A like like literally children's books. I'm like, how 443 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: hard can this be easy? A? This was a hard 444 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: one of the hardest classes I ever took in college 445 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 1: ethical limb. And then this lady Alison Wonderland, this lady, 446 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: this professor just dug into all these books about how 447 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: all the alternate meanings, about how it's racist and drug induced, 448 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 1: and I mean it got so well in. The essays 449 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: were hard and I'm like, God, what have I done? 450 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 1: I took a class like that. It was like a 451 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 1: horror movie class, and they made me watch this movie 452 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 1: called Teeth about a woman who has teeth in her 453 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: who hath and like she bites men when yeah, and 454 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: I was like, whatever loving hell did I get myself into? 455 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 1: And I had to like write a paper on teeth. 456 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 1: That's wild. They bite him right? Really? Yeah? I don't 457 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: know about that one. Did she have like a birthday factor? 458 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: I can't. Why have you seen that movie? I mean teeth? 459 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 1: It was it was like a you know, clutch classic frightening. Yeah, 460 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: watch it over the weekend. I did this another time. 461 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,160 Speaker 1: I thought I was getting smart. One summer in college, 462 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 1: I took a movie like Introduction to Film or something 463 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: at a community college back home because it transferred in 464 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,880 Speaker 1: as a ass fail or maybe even as the great 465 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: I can't remember, but I thought I was cute doing 466 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 1: this because, like, I don't know, I regret that blockbuster, 467 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, movies. Well, I regret a lot of 468 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 1: things in college. I kind of wish that you could 469 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: go to college. Like again, believe it or not. My 470 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 1: parents used to say this to me growing up. They 471 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 1: used to say if I, if only I could go 472 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 1: back to school, and I'm in high school doing you know, trigonometry, 473 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 1: saying how on earth could you ever feel that way? 474 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 1: And I wouldn't want any trigonometry again. But like, looking 475 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: back on college, I did my best to get through it. 476 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: But like I took a lot of I cut a 477 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 1: lot of corners, you know what I mean, Like it was, 478 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: it was the goal was to get to the end. 479 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,479 Speaker 1: It wasn't necessarily to like enjoy the process. And that's 480 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 1: not to say I didn't learn anything, but like, looking back, 481 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 1: I didn't necessarily need to go to four year college. 482 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: I wish now, knowing of course you can't know that, 483 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 1: but knowing that now, I wish I had gone slower 484 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: and been more thoughtful and not necessarily just tried to 485 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: get through it. Yeah, but I did try and get cute, 486 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, I'm gonna go to community college. 487 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 1: I'm a junior at for your college and take this 488 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: you know, movie class. And the dude spotted me. The 489 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 1: dude knew from a mile away what I was trying 490 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 1: to do, and it was that wanted to be hard too. 491 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I you had to know what all the 492 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: different people in the movies do. And he got into 493 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: like filming technique and all. I mean, we wounded up 494 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: being super hard right now essays and he grated my 495 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 1: essay is hard, and everybody, I'm like, this is ridiculous. 496 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 1: I thought this was. I came in here to get 497 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 1: an easy a and get out of here. He knew 498 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 1: that already. The fighting art it choke Scott Still Community College. 499 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 1: He got me. Man, I wonder if Bells is going 500 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 1: to take that adult in class at Michigan State. I 501 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 1: think she needs to. I think that's probably a smart 502 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: use of We all needed that. Yeah, I just I 503 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: don't know. Like I, college was great, and I recommend 504 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 1: it for some people, not necessarily because you needed to 505 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 1: make money in the real world, but because it's like 506 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: a growth process, you know, and it's for a lot 507 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 1: of people it's the first time that you are making 508 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 1: an investment in yourself, whether it's loans or And again, 509 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 1: I think you can go to trade school. My brother 510 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: in law essentially went to six months of trade school 511 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,720 Speaker 1: and coding, and he's turned that into a six figure gigg. 512 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,199 Speaker 1: He's doing great, and he didn't need My sister has 513 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 1: eight years of education and makes half what he does. 514 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 1: Not Granted, she's doing what she's born to do, and 515 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:15,639 Speaker 1: she's amazing at it and wouldn't be able to do 516 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 1: it without that education. But I'm not here advocating for 517 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 1: four year college. But I will say for me, it 518 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 1: was the first time I left home. I went far 519 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: away from home and it was the first time that 520 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: like I was expected like this, you're on your own now, 521 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: no one's gonna catch you when you fall, and like 522 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:31,880 Speaker 1: we're investing in you, so you have to get through 523 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: this budgeting, doing laundry, going to the store. Like my 524 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: sister's never bought her own stuff at CBS, so like 525 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,199 Speaker 1: she doesn't know how to keep herself alive. I mean, 526 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: Jesus no, it's but I wish going back now that 527 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 1: I could do it. If I knew the outcome would 528 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 1: be that I would be sitting here fifteen years later. 529 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: I would have done the whole thing differently. I wouldn't 530 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: have tried just to get through it. I would have 531 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,959 Speaker 1: tried to, like been really thoughtful about the process. But anyway, 532 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 1: oh I would I would have parted. I would have parted. 533 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: But I mean, I was constantly trying to game the system. 534 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 1: I was just trying to get out with the highest GPA. 535 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 1: You know. I wasn't like I want to take this 536 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 1: class because it might be like I took an art 537 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 1: history class. It was hard and I dropped it. Now 538 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 1: I wish now I had just said, screwed it. I 539 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 1: don't you know, I'm going to try really hard, and 540 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what great I get, because but it 541 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 1: did matter what great I got, you know what I mean. 542 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,160 Speaker 1: But looking back now, I would choose all different courses. 543 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 1: But of course you can't know then that you're going 544 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: to wind up, you know, doing the thing that you 545 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 1: always wanted to do and being successful at it. But 546 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 1: I would have taken all different classes supposed I strategized. 547 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: I didn't take like crap classes and I learned a lot. 548 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 1: But I definitely took the classes I thought I could 549 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: do the best in as opposed to the ones that 550 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 1: I thought it would be the most interesting to me, 551 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,360 Speaker 1: or the later classes so you don't have to wake 552 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 1: up Friday classes. I also, if a class started like 553 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,679 Speaker 1: eight or nine o'clock in the morning junior senior year, 554 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,120 Speaker 1: I didn't take it. And I would take classes based 555 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: on how they could all be grouped together so I 556 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,439 Speaker 1: didn't have to come back multiple times to the college 557 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. And this is not how you're supposed to 558 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: do it. No, that's interesting because Thursday Thursday, and then 559 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want to be hung, you know. 560 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:06,639 Speaker 1: But that was the thing that was the game is 561 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,640 Speaker 1: everybody and that a lot of people were this way. 562 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,159 Speaker 1: It wasn't about necessarily what you got out of the 563 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,159 Speaker 1: four years. It was about what you got at the 564 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:14,959 Speaker 1: end of the four years that got you into law 565 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: school or medical school, or that you could say you 566 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 1: did it so that you could go get a job. 567 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 1: I wish that I could have a networking I can't 568 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: say that wording work. Oh my god, network kid nets worked, 569 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: network more. Thank you? Yeah, hello, I can talk. I 570 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 1: feel like that's important for for college kids, high school kids. Um, 571 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,719 Speaker 1: I think that's such a big thing. I do think 572 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 1: it's what you know, but it also is who you know, 573 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,919 Speaker 1: and that goes for a lot of industries. My personal 574 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: opinion on that, Yeah, I agree. Fred Show Chicago Kiss 575 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 1: FM and I Heart radio station. It's a freend show. 576 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 1: I almost spent hundreds of dollars yesterday on the Converse 577 00:27:55,880 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: website because they have Peanuts Converse now with a little 578 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: Snoopy and all the different characters. What style like they 579 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 1: had the high tops, the Chuck Taylor high tops. They 580 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,360 Speaker 1: have like van styles, slip ons and once for kids. 581 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 1: I should get some for Polly, but um, I've got 582 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 1: bailed out because they sold out of all my sizes. 583 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 1: All the big sizes they were for some reason sized 584 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: fifteen gone. I'm like, who out here? What NBA player rocking? Uh? 585 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: Peanuts Converse? But I would have bought all of it. 586 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: Did you try to make your own? Because sometimes when 587 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,080 Speaker 1: they sell out of certain stuff, you can make your 588 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,239 Speaker 1: allow you to make your own longer, but you can 589 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: use that pattern sometimes. I should be. They were sold out. 590 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 1: What's on them? I see that they're black things on them? 591 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: But I wanted the platform ones, you know, like the 592 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 1: nineties style, and they sold out because they're really big 593 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: right now with the gen Z's, So I made my own. 594 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: I see. Yeah, No, I would have bought everything. And 595 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: then I don't even like, you can't be the guy 596 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: that wears Peanuts shoes every day, So I'm not even 597 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 1: sure what I would have done with all them. The 598 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 1: other thing is, yesterday I got all excited. Somebody, our 599 00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 1: boy Frono at Success the South Loop post picture of 600 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: some Colorway ones and I'm like, I want those, Get 601 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: save him from me? Do you have him in the fifteen? 602 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 1: And he writes you back, these are for women, and 603 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, well, I love the color Ways, so 604 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: I don't care, like do you my full shoe for 605 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 1: women I've never have like tiffany blue and then like 606 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: another blue and white. I thought they were cool looking. 607 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: And I don't think he was like shaming me because 608 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: he was the guy who told me about the peanut shoes, right, 609 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: so I don't think he was shaming me. But I 610 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 1: think it was like, I don't have your size like 611 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: that made for men, but I would have worn him. 612 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, these are cool. I think these are cool colors. 613 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: But I know some of us around here, I can 614 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: I can be a purist like you guys, where I 615 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 1: want only like the I don't want the mids, you know, 616 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 1: and the colorway like the non collectible color ways or whatever. 617 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: But then sometimes the colorways is so good on the mids, 618 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, give it, give me. Yeah, I can't do mids. Really, 619 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: But did he wear a mid? No? Why not? I 620 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: like highs for ones? Guys are low Yeah, okay, really 621 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,440 Speaker 1: one is not even my favorite. I'm a three guy. Yeah, 622 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: like you like Jordan Ones. But I just sometimes the 623 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: colorways is so good. I'm like the mids. I have 624 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 1: a lot of cool. That's why, because no one's buying that, right, 625 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: That's why they have him all out. That's why Michael 626 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 1: Jordan himself is wearing me. It's just because we were 627 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 1: like he's wearing me. I would say, I do see 628 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: him wearing them, and I'm like whatever exactly? But yeah, 629 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. I saved myself a lot of money yesterday. 630 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: Why not my size upbeam? But now that I know this, 631 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 1: I may not have one h three five Kiss FM, 632 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. Good morning, it's the 633 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: Fred Show. I have COVID and I'm I'm locked. I'm 634 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: suppustered in a secret location. And then everybody else is 635 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: at the radio station, and I feel like that's a 636 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 1: germ pool in itself. So maybe I'm I think I'm 637 00:30:54,680 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: safer here. Put Kara the Chistmas wishes they must go on. 638 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna welcome. Let's get Gloria on the phone here, 639 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: because Gloria are you there? Yes, Gloria, Hi, good morning. 640 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: How are you Curio? How about yourself? Um? Well, I asked, 641 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 1: it answered, So you have no idea? What's going on? 642 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 1: Do you? You don't know why you're talking about crazy 643 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: radio people? Huh no? No, okay, Well you know, Kara, right, 644 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: your coworker. Yes, okay, so she sent us this amazing 645 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 1: letter about you and Karrie. If you would would you 646 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: read this everybody? Yes? I would pear friend show this 647 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: year my Chistmas wishes for my coworker, Gloria. She hasn't 648 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: through a lot this test here. Her sister died from 649 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 1: cans are, leaving two kids, and then two weeks later, 650 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 1: her husband in high school sweetheart, died from a caesar, 651 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: leaving behind her and her two girls. Even with all 652 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: this going on, she didn't take much time off work 653 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,479 Speaker 1: because she now is a single mom trying to raise 654 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 1: two girls. She's done so much for not only the 655 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: company that she works for, but for the people in 656 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 1: her life. She scare everyone around her and put herself 657 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: on the back burner. I know money is tight for 658 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 1: her right now, but she has been saving up to 659 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: turn some of her husband's ashes into a diamond. I 660 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: would love for her to be able to I would 661 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: love to be able to help her with it, as 662 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: well as to take care of some presents for her 663 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 1: and the girls, since it will be the first Christmas 664 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: without her husband and their father. Even money and clothes 665 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 1: and groceries would go a long way. This has been 666 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: a very hard year for them and they deserve something 667 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 1: good to happen to them. Thank you so much, Carol. Wow, Gloria, 668 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry for your for your loss. But I'm wow. 669 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 1: I'm not even sure what to say. Yeah, it's been 670 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: a lot to deal with. Yeah, it's been a lot 671 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 1: for you. Huh Yeah, sorry, love, Well, how about I 672 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,480 Speaker 1: don't want you to cry. I know it's a very 673 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 1: sad thing, but we don't want you to cry because 674 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: this is actually happy because Carol loves you so much 675 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: and she told us about your story and she wants 676 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,640 Speaker 1: to help make your your Christmas a little bit easier. 677 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: So we want to make sure that that money so 678 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,280 Speaker 1: you can you can you remember your husband the way 679 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: that you want to with with the diamond? How does 680 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: that work? What's that about? So they they take ashes 681 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,479 Speaker 1: or hair and um, since it has it's made a carbon, 682 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: they're able to make it into a diamond. Um. And 683 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 1: I he had purchased a ring for me, very first 684 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: ring he ever got me because kind of a comboy. 685 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 1: I don't I'm not in shut your very and he 686 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 1: I ended up losing it that same week. UM, trying 687 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: to make funeral arrangements and everything ended up losing my 688 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 1: mind and I end up losing it. So I came 689 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 1: across this at about being able to make ashes and 690 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 1: two diamonds, and so that was like one of my 691 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: goals that I wanted to do to repay him for 692 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 1: for me losing his ring that he bought me. But 693 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 1: we want to we want to help you do that 694 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 1: to honor your husband and and for his memory, and 695 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: then also we want to try and help the Christmas 696 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 1: be a little bit easier for you. So I want 697 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 1: to give you some presents for the girls. I guess 698 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 1: they love They love dolls, is that right? Yes? My 699 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,759 Speaker 1: old list is into Lollo right now? What is that? 700 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 1: Don't I don't know. You have to explain to me. 701 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,359 Speaker 1: I don't have any kids. I don't know what these 702 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 1: things are. They're crazy expensive or now they're like little 703 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,960 Speaker 1: miniature dolls and they have like all types of accessories. 704 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 1: And to be honest, I don't even know who who 705 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: told my daughter about, but I have been paying for 706 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: it ever since. At least it's not is it annoying? 707 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 1: Like the Koco melon, the thing that my niece listens to. 708 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: Did they talk annoyingly or no, no, they didn't. But 709 00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:42,240 Speaker 1: my youngest is into Coco Mella right now, so I'm 710 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 1: getting the socalware music. Oh my god, that is just unfair. 711 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: It's not I want to know who told my niece 712 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 1: about that, Like why can't she watch like National Geographic 713 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: which is animals moving around and like no no voices. 714 00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. She won't do it though. You know 715 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 1: when I was being raised that that was my favorite 716 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,800 Speaker 1: show and Animal Planets, right, we need to get we 717 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 1: need to get the good girls on that. So we 718 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,880 Speaker 1: want to give you some money for presents, also for 719 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: gas and groceries and all of that try and make 720 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,239 Speaker 1: the holiday a little bit easier for you. So we're 721 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 1: going to hook you up. And I'm so sorry for 722 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,360 Speaker 1: the year that you've had and I know this doesn't 723 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:17,840 Speaker 1: change that, but we want to make the holidays a 724 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: little bit better. And the best part of this is 725 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,760 Speaker 1: it your coworker, Kara really loves you and cares about 726 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: you enough to write this note to us, to tell 727 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,799 Speaker 1: us your story to share with us. So that's that's 728 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 1: my favorite part of this whole thing. She is my 729 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 1: favorite doctor. Thank you so much on us. I wasn't 730 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,919 Speaker 1: expecting any of this, And I exactly what Kara says. 731 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:41,919 Speaker 1: I've just been trying to go to work and trying 732 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 1: to get things end me and everything, and I was 733 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: not expecting this this morning. You're deserving her Christmas. Thank 734 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: you so much. And honestly, my daughter's my oldest daughter, 735 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 1: birthdays two days after Christmas. But it's like another way 736 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 1: Amy that I'm trying to do for her instead of 737 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 1: doing the two for one. Yeah, birthday gifts. I am. 738 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 1: I'm so glad, thank you so much. No, No, you 739 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,799 Speaker 1: can get her some presents too for her birthday because 740 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: he can't do that. You carry it through nobody. That's 741 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,320 Speaker 1: not fair. You can't do the two for one, you 742 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 1: know what I mean, honestly, And that's so usually happens 743 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 1: with most kids. And that was one of the goals 744 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 1: that I always told me and my fiance at the 745 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: time before he had passed, we would always call each 746 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: other that we're gonna get her two gifts, not the 747 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,919 Speaker 1: two for one. Special. Well, you're you're a pretty amazing person. 748 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 1: Obviously throughout all this you've inspired, uh, you know, your 749 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,760 Speaker 1: co worker and everybody around you. So have an amazing 750 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 1: holiday as best as it can be and I hope 751 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 1: this makes it a little bit easier. And uh, and 752 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 1: thank you so much for having the strength to share 753 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 1: your story with us and Kara as well. We appreciate you. Yes, 754 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 1: you're welcome. You deserve it. Gloria love me so much. 755 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Thank you guys, it's there show 756 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:58,360 Speaker 1: and the money. Why were you left waiting by the phone? Thomas, 757 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,879 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. How are you hey? I'm good. 758 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 1: I'm good. Um, yeah, So tell us about this woman 759 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: Riley who you met. Um, I'm trying to get the 760 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 1: whole story, like, what's going on? How can we help? 761 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you're being ghosted, yes, being completely ghosted. 762 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,280 Speaker 1: H And Riley was awesome. We we went for coffee 763 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: downtown and then I took her out for dinner and drinks. 764 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 1: And she's amazing. She's freaking beautiful and guy, you know, 765 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 1: great conversation list, he's funny. So we had a blast 766 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 1: and I really I felt like there was a connection there. Okay, Um, 767 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 1: so I thought I thought for sure, like like this 768 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: is you know, we're gonna go out again and you've 769 00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: been thinking about her all this time? And we took 770 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 1: we talked about going out again. But now, yeah, totally ghosted, 771 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: went rogue. I can't. I don't know what happened. I 772 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 1: don't know what I did. Right, Well, no one likes 773 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: being ghosted, and that's what we're here to do is 774 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 1: help try and you know, either get you some closure 775 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 1: or straighten things out and set you guys up on 776 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 1: another date. So hang on one second, gonna play one song, 777 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 1: we'll come back. We'll call Riley and see if we 778 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 1: can figure this out. Awesome, thank you, Hi, say right here, 779 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,439 Speaker 1: let's find out what's going on? Part two of Waiting 780 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 1: by the Phone. Three minutes away. The Friends Show is 781 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 1: on one h three five Kiss FM one O three 782 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,239 Speaker 1: five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. It's 783 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone. 784 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 1: Hey Thomas, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Riley. 785 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: You guys, um, you went out on a date, had 786 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:25,840 Speaker 1: a great time. You really felt like there was a 787 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,720 Speaker 1: good connection. You felt like things were going well, except 788 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: you've reached out to her to plan a second date 789 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 1: that you guys even talked about going on. But she 790 00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,439 Speaker 1: hasn't responded to you, and you want to know why. Yeah, 791 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 1: all right, let's call her right now. Good luck, awesome, 792 00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:51,959 Speaker 1: thank you. Hello, Hi is is Riley. Yes, this is Riley. 793 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 1: Hey Riley, Good morning Fred from the Fred Show The 794 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,720 Speaker 1: Whole Carus here one three five Kiss FM and Chicago. 795 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 1: And I'm sorry to bother, but I do have to 796 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,319 Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now 797 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,440 Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with a call. 798 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,440 Speaker 1: Can we chat for just a second on the show? Um, 799 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 1: like I just got goose thumbs and I love you 800 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:12,239 Speaker 1: and yes, well, thank you. This happens every now and 801 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 1: again where um, you probably know what we're up to. 802 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 1: So it's waiting by the phone, of course, and we're 803 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 1: calling because this guy Thomas. You went out with Thomas, 804 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 1: remember him? Yeah, I probably will never forget Thomas'll never 805 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 1: forget Thomas. Why what happened? Well, I mean our date 806 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 1: was nice, for sure, but oh this guy, you guy, 807 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,919 Speaker 1: this guy. So I kind of just I'm just gonna 808 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,239 Speaker 1: put it out there. So this might have been the 809 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 1: weirdest freaking date I've ever had, because I mean it 810 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 1: started off side in normal. I mean, I'm sure he 811 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 1: told you we went out for like dinner or whatever, 812 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: and we hit it off, like he's definitely handsome, and 813 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 1: I was liking him and I felt like we were vibing. 814 00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:00,440 Speaker 1: But like dessert comes and he like looks at me 815 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: all serious, and I'm all like, okay, what's this guy 816 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 1: about to drop on me? Right? Like he's about to 817 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,719 Speaker 1: like reveal his tragic flaw something. And he gets all 818 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 1: kind of like emotional, like kind of choked up, and 819 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:17,040 Speaker 1: he's like, hey, um, if you're not busy next weekend, 820 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, he's gonna ask me a second date? Cool? Cool? 821 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,680 Speaker 1: He says, would you come with media? I can't believe this. 822 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 1: He goes, will you come with me and help me 823 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 1: spread my dead mother's ashes around her favorite places in Chicago? 824 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 1: I can't even like, I was you just read this guy. 825 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,920 Speaker 1: You spent an hour with him, and you're supposed to 826 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: go round to like the beam and you know, planetarium 827 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,919 Speaker 1: or something and over to the good old Navy pier 828 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 1: and spread. Yeah, it was like an o plastic bag. 829 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,359 Speaker 1: Like I don't even like, I can't even comprehend you, guys. 830 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 1: I was like shocked and uncomfortable and I just wanted 831 00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,040 Speaker 1: to like creep out of that restaurant so fast. And 832 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: even now Tom you should. You already knew Thomas was 833 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: here because you mean you said you listen. But Toma 834 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 1: honored Riley that Mama would have loved you, And I 835 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: just think that it's kind of messed up. You know, 836 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't want to hang out with Mama like she loves 837 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,160 Speaker 1: the bean she loves. Yeah, well start for your loss, 838 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 1: but you don't have anyone else like, but she would 839 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 1: have liked you. I could tell through the day. My god, 840 00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 1: you're her talking again. You know, she said you might 841 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 1: be the one. Honest, Okay, just take take a step back. No, 842 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,320 Speaker 1: I don't understand. This is no for Thomas. Tomas. First 843 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:44,960 Speaker 1: of all, people handled death like a little differently, right, 844 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 1: Like death isn't like something cool or trending right hashtag 845 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:53,320 Speaker 1: TikTok death sharing, you know, first state experience like that 846 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 1: is not a thing. So I just feel like maybe 847 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 1: you should have held I mean, the ashes are not 848 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,839 Speaker 1: going anywhere. That's a heavy thing to ask if someone 849 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,880 Speaker 1: who you just met to do um. I thought it 850 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,319 Speaker 1: was an honor. I thought, I mean, maybe it would 851 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 1: be an honor of someone you've been dating for a 852 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:11,920 Speaker 1: couple of months or whatever. I don't know, but on 853 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 1: a first date that you know, you've only known each 854 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:15,960 Speaker 1: other for a short time, and it's like, you know, 855 00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: help me do this thing with my this emotional thing 856 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 1: with my mom who died, Like I don't. It's a lot, 857 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,880 Speaker 1: but Mama would have loved it. Yeah, I felt I 858 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 1: felt the connection. I thought you felt the connection too. 859 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 1: That was Mom there on the date? Was Mom? Were 860 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,800 Speaker 1: you guys all talking to Okay, it's sweet. It's a 861 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,640 Speaker 1: sweet thing, Thomas. You mean well, And I'm sorry though, 862 00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 1: but I would if someone asked me to do that, 863 00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 1: I might do it because I would feel bad saying no, 864 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,880 Speaker 1: but it would definitely kill my boner. Well, and I 865 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,920 Speaker 1: don't get a boner, but I mean I get a 866 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 1: girl boner. So yeah, I mean I did that. This 867 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 1: is what I did, you guys, I did be like 868 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 1: you know, I didn't say no, but I didn't say yes. 869 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 1: I just did the like so you said no, he 870 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 1: didn't like Mama. Distraction on the day really good? You know? 871 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,840 Speaker 1: Will you go? How about that? So I'll tell you what. 872 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 1: I'll buy you a dinner over there, an old navy 873 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 1: pier um in that new hotel or whatever I gets 874 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:16,919 Speaker 1: you on the Ferriss Wheel I might be a little chilly, 875 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 1: but we'll pay. All you gotta do is god hurt remains, 876 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 1: say some nice words about Mama. That's all you gotta do. 877 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll buy you guys, dinner at 878 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,840 Speaker 1: the signature room there at the top of the whatever 879 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 1: the handcock. Remember that is serious. Where is it? Hey, God, 880 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,880 Speaker 1: I've never been, but it's a beautiful view. And then 881 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 1: you can spread something in that bathroom with the windows well, 882 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: the best beautiful bay. So bring my heart there. I'll 883 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 1: tell you what. Hey, y'all can go do that sky 884 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 1: thing where the skytilled thing? Yeah, so drop a little 885 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:56,960 Speaker 1: something tough. Yeah, mamoul Man, I'm sorry. It's not Thomas. 886 00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. It's a little funny simply because it's a 887 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,839 Speaker 1: very heavy thing to ask him when you just meant 888 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:04,400 Speaker 1: to do with you. But I think it's sweet that 889 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,480 Speaker 1: you had a great relationship with your mom and you 890 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: felt a certain kind of way of Riley. I tried mama, 891 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 1: for sure. Oh, I'm really sorry. But I will sprinkle 892 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,719 Speaker 1: that around the river, you know, the river walk, and 893 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 1: it'll be like kayaking whatever. Three in the morning. I 894 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 1: ain't going to the beating at three in the morning, 895 00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: spread some ashes, MAGNI could go, could go skating, yea, yeah, 896 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 1: it'll go. Do you know what, I'll do it. I'll 897 00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 1: do it Buckingham Fountain. You can do it all. Take 898 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:53,680 Speaker 1: a little helicopter ride and write Thomas. I'm not Thomas. 899 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm not laughing at you for the gesture. I just 900 00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: it's a little over the top the request. But and 901 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 1: and it's while it's sweet, it's probably not the message 902 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 1: you want to say. I feel like the first couple 903 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 1: of days you're supposed to be like sexy, and then 904 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 1: you get into the heavy lovey stuff down the road 905 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,240 Speaker 1: a little bit. That's kind of more heavy lovey stuff 906 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 1: to me, you know. Yeah, I guess you're right, Thomas. 907 00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,920 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I hope you know. We're laughing with you here. 908 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 1: It's it's we're trying to lighten the mood a little bit. 909 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 1: I feel I feel bad, genuinely. I'm sorry. We're sorry 910 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:24,440 Speaker 1: for your life. It's okay, okay, well you call that. 911 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 1: You can't expect it, you know, thanks for trying. Yeah, sorry, 912 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,040 Speaker 1: and Riley, I guess someone else will get the tour 913 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,439 Speaker 1: day Chicago, you're not getting it. Well, we're not paying 914 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,440 Speaker 1: for you to go pizza. I mean again, I'm sorry 915 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: for your lost Thomas. I think maybe you just don't 916 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,320 Speaker 1: quite get social cues and like timing, and it just 917 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 1: weirded me out. Man, what about the Wiener Circle? You 918 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 1: guys could go there? Stop it? Well, she more of 919 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 1: a loser at Giordano's girl. Yeah, okay she did. I 920 00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:59,359 Speaker 1: agree with her. All right, guys, I hate myself today. 921 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,239 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, have an amazing day. Thank you 922 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,799 Speaker 1: for your time, and Thomas, sincerely sorry for your loss. 923 00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:07,799 Speaker 1: Yes one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit 924 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Helena has 925 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:17,200 Speaker 1: a new aspiration today. It's to be a Disney adult. Yes, no, correct? Okay, 926 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,840 Speaker 1: So I know I actually know one family and I 927 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:22,480 Speaker 1: think it's you know, it is about the family, but 928 00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 1: it's kind of really about the adults too, because they'll 929 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:27,959 Speaker 1: go without the kids. I know. I know some folks 930 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 1: who are these like these kind of people like Disney adults. 931 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,799 Speaker 1: You know. Um, if you're if you are a grown 932 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,880 Speaker 1: up who enjoys going to Disney, I'm not hating on 933 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 1: you because I'm a whimsical guy too. I like doctor 934 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: sus I like, uh, I like Snooping, you know, I 935 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 1: mean I don't like it enough that I'm like going 936 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:46,920 Speaker 1: Tonsbury Farm every six months or what day? It's Snoopy 937 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,160 Speaker 1: still theme in Nonsbury Farm. It used to be the Peanuts. 938 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,319 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if it is a point two Okay, Yeah, 939 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 1: when I was a kid, I grew up in Arizona, 940 00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: so we'd go we went Tonsbury Farm, we'd go to Disneyland. 941 00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 1: That's where we would go. But I was kid. Isn't 942 00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,640 Speaker 1: that where Kim and Pete we're on that roller coaster? 943 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: But I remember the Peanuts used to be like the 944 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 1: character theme of the place, and I liked it for 945 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:13,960 Speaker 1: that Snoopy or whatever? Fee three five? Are you a 946 00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,279 Speaker 1: Disney adult? I want to hear the fascination. I mean, 947 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:20,040 Speaker 1: of course it's fun. Of course it's whimsical. Of course, 948 00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,759 Speaker 1: HiT's childlike all of this stuff. I mean, I get 949 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:25,920 Speaker 1: all of that. But I mean it's a lot of 950 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 1: children everywhere. Like you're choosing to go to a place 951 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,399 Speaker 1: where they're kids everywhere. Yeah, And I don't have kids, 952 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,560 Speaker 1: so I think that's what makes this weird. Like our 953 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:37,080 Speaker 1: friend Rufio here is actually gonna go in June for 954 00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,839 Speaker 1: the first time, right with your your son. Yes, yes, 955 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,799 Speaker 1: so I get that, but I kind of I want 956 00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: to experience it like as an adult. I haven't never 957 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: been right, so to the one in Orlando that's Disney World, correct, 958 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 1: I've never been to that one. I just like the 959 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 1: idea of living like in a fantasyland for a week, 960 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,440 Speaker 1: Like doesn't that sound fun? Of just like princesses and 961 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 1: stuff like that. Absolutely, I'm gonna put a little book 962 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: pot Pie whatever her name is. What's that little little 963 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:05,880 Speaker 1: bo peep pop pie? Did you? Did you have a 964 00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 1: little Pepine who would like the Cinderella the Cinderella girl 965 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 1: who does like she redes your face very Godmother? Yes, 966 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 1: like they do your hair and makeup and every little 967 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,800 Speaker 1: Disney Oh no, you want to turn into a Pumpkins 968 00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 1: boy story she is? Yeah? No, the one where like 969 00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:24,960 Speaker 1: Cinderella when she goes to very that's very goad. I 970 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,040 Speaker 1: want to make over from the fairy Godmother. You want 971 00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 1: to be little Boki. Yeah, that's what it is. It's 972 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,839 Speaker 1: a salon. Everybody salon. You're gonna go to that, I'm 973 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:36,359 Speaker 1: gonna go to that. You're gonna wear a crown. I'm 974 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 1: gonna wear a crown. Um, get it all. Like I 975 00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:40,080 Speaker 1: want to go on all the rides. I want to 976 00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:42,320 Speaker 1: see all the characters. And I think at Disney World, 977 00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:44,719 Speaker 1: I think there's like different lands, right, Like you can 978 00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,120 Speaker 1: go to Epcot, cut you can go to all the countries. 979 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,680 Speaker 1: That's what I'm doing in the country, going to Hollywood. 980 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 1: I love movies also, I definitely think it's a at 981 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 1: least a one time thing to go to see all 982 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 1: this stuff. But I mean there are people who go 983 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: like several times a year. I love Universal. I feel 984 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: like that's a little bit more for it. I did 985 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,839 Speaker 1: that recently Harry Potter in LA that was really fun, 986 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,520 Speaker 1: So like I would do that again. Like I felt 987 00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,160 Speaker 1: like I was in a fantasy world. You and how 988 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,239 Speaker 1: we gonna get a mention? So it's like I got 989 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:14,759 Speaker 1: the D and then it's like the DA, Now let 990 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:16,400 Speaker 1: me ask you this and this should be a reasonable thing. 991 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 1: But I know that you you came from humble beginnings. 992 00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,400 Speaker 1: You know, I'm fit. Where is that? Where was that 993 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,800 Speaker 1: line from? I came from humble beginnings? Um, I know 994 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 1: I know that. Like it's nice you don't have a 995 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,719 Speaker 1: ton of money growing up, like like most people. Um, 996 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 1: and so it's part of this like now you have 997 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,600 Speaker 1: some a few money, so as a grown up, now 998 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,240 Speaker 1: you can go and kind of have at it. Absolutely, 999 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,680 Speaker 1: you feel like you're sort of now living your childhood. Yes, 1000 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 1: because that makes sense to me, But but that wouldn't 1001 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,759 Speaker 1: explain why you know, you go overy six months or whatever. No, 1002 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: that's actually a great point because I'm doing a lot 1003 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 1: of like inner child healing right now, So I think 1004 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,239 Speaker 1: that's a really good way to kind of like get 1005 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,360 Speaker 1: that out of my system of like that experience of 1006 00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,920 Speaker 1: going to Disney, right, and just like living to go 1007 00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,239 Speaker 1: and now you can, Yeah you can. You can do 1008 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,359 Speaker 1: it the way you always wanted to. So now you're 1009 00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 1: gonna go. And plus it's yeah, the real world is like, 1010 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,759 Speaker 1: you know, kind of crappy sometimes, so that's a nice escape. Right. 1011 00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,799 Speaker 1: They got some tax issues going on down the area 1012 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,320 Speaker 1: at Disneyland in Disney World in Florida. You know, the 1013 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 1: governor's trying to make it like it's a whole thing, 1014 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,239 Speaker 1: but I think it's about to get a lot more 1015 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,400 Speaker 1: expensive than it already is, so you better hurry up 1016 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:21,480 Speaker 1: and go. Hey, Nancy, Yes, Nancy, are you at Disney 1017 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:26,960 Speaker 1: Adult no, I am not a Disney adult. However, my 1018 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:31,520 Speaker 1: nephew is getting married this weekend and him and his 1019 00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:36,360 Speaker 1: fiance met on mouse Mingle, which is a dating site. 1020 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:41,160 Speaker 1: Stop stop is yes, yes, it's a dating site that 1021 00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:45,319 Speaker 1: people are obsessed with Disney. Stop it right now. I'm 1022 00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:49,880 Speaker 1: looking this up. My god, it's real. Mouse Mingle, the 1023 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 1: dating site for Disney fans. People. You love what you love. 1024 00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 1: Disney Star Wars picks are in marble. Okay, help your 1025 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:04,439 Speaker 1: Disney Star Wars, pixel, Pixel, Pixar and Marvel friends find 1026 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 1: some magic in a new relationship. It's free for a 1027 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,960 Speaker 1: limited time. And here they are. Look at all these people. 1028 00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:14,919 Speaker 1: They're wearing like the ears, they're dressed up. They got 1029 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:18,040 Speaker 1: there in front of the golf ball thing and would 1030 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:22,279 Speaker 1: not survive on that website you banned real quick. Why 1031 00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 1: do you think I would get back? You don't know. 1032 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:28,360 Speaker 1: You don't know Disney, Pixar, Marvel or Star Wars. You 1033 00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:33,640 Speaker 1: don't know any of that. I can wear some mouse 1034 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,480 Speaker 1: or mouses. I can wear a mouse. Ere I did 1035 00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,520 Speaker 1: rabbit ears. That would be problem number one, would be 1036 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 1: wearing rabbit. I got rabbit ears on Why do I'm 1037 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,640 Speaker 1: not get any matches on this thing. They holds a problem. Okay, Nancy, 1038 00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:47,439 Speaker 1: thank you for this tip. But now I'm gonna spend 1039 00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,680 Speaker 1: some time on this thing by not a problem. I 1040 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,000 Speaker 1: love you guys so much, Love you too. Thank you. 1041 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:58,120 Speaker 1: Have a great day. Okay, this is interesting? Hey Jen? Yeah? Jen, 1042 00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:03,320 Speaker 1: you are a self proclaimed Disney adult. Oh yes, My 1043 00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,920 Speaker 1: daughter and my niece and I have gone basically every 1044 00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,279 Speaker 1: year since twenty eleven. Okay, now who's driving this? I mean, 1045 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,240 Speaker 1: are you doing it because of your can or truly 1046 00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 1: is it sort of because you want to go? You know, 1047 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,160 Speaker 1: my daughter is seventeen this year and my niece is 1048 00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:24,120 Speaker 1: twenty one, and so we all absolutely love it. It 1049 00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:27,359 Speaker 1: is our happy place. I use my tax return every 1050 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,319 Speaker 1: year to pay for us. I mean, we all need 1051 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,640 Speaker 1: a release, right, We all need a place to be 1052 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 1: to get away from it and get away from reality. 1053 00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:38,760 Speaker 1: And you know, the stuff has been hard in COVID 1054 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 1: and everything's been shut down, and you know, whatever I 1055 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 1: get that, I get that it to release. How much 1056 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,120 Speaker 1: do you spend when you go on average, which is 1057 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:47,680 Speaker 1: a how expensive is it for the three of you 1058 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:51,320 Speaker 1: to go? For the three of us to go on average, 1059 00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,800 Speaker 1: it's around six thousand dollars for a week and that 1060 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:59,160 Speaker 1: includes hotel, part tickets, food too. That's expensive though, if 1061 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,600 Speaker 1: you's go to essentially to go to an amusement park, 1062 00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:03,839 Speaker 1: and I know it's way more, but that's a lot 1063 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,399 Speaker 1: of money. Well, that's also staying at the resort resort, 1064 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,719 Speaker 1: obviously staying at a Disney resort, and then you have 1065 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,600 Speaker 1: to buy part tickets every day. So oh yeah, exactly. 1066 00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 1: And you know we well, back before COVID, we would 1067 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,440 Speaker 1: do all the character dinings and we have tons of 1068 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:24,200 Speaker 1: autograph books, pictures we are, we are, It's back by 1069 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 1: the way, it's Hume back Now you could the autograph book. No, 1070 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:29,759 Speaker 1: the characters now are back out like you could hug 1071 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,800 Speaker 1: characters before they were during COVID you had to like 1072 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,759 Speaker 1: behind a barrier or whatever. Now you could hug Mickey 1073 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,680 Speaker 1: Mouse again. So that little autograph book I had is there? 1074 00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:41,719 Speaker 1: Is there one you would recommend you go to for 1075 00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:47,160 Speaker 1: the best character dining, Jen, Let's see, best character dining 1076 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,920 Speaker 1: would be the Crystal Talents with Winnie the Poo characters. Okay, 1077 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 1: all right, there you go. Yeah, because Ashland, his son, 1078 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:57,439 Speaker 1: Rufio's son is way way into the first he's way 1079 00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,480 Speaker 1: into the mascot like type stuff. He doesn't necessarily like 1080 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 1: other humans which real skin, but boy is he in 1081 00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,239 Speaker 1: the furries. And I you know what, different strokes for 1082 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 1: different folks, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, exactly, Yeah, 1083 00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 1: So we we support whatever Ashland grows up to be. 1084 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,319 Speaker 1: Thank you, Jen, Thank you have a good day. Every 1085 00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:18,200 Speaker 1: good day. Thank you mouse Mingled. I still can't get 1086 00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:21,160 Speaker 1: over this. It's still on my screen. M Yvonne, good morning, 1087 00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:27,400 Speaker 1: good morning. You're a Disney adult. Yes, I am so. 1088 00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:31,040 Speaker 1: I actually did the Disney Internship program, and I swore 1089 00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:35,280 Speaker 1: I would never go back to busness because it was torture. 1090 00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,799 Speaker 1: We were like the bottom of the totem pool when 1091 00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:43,640 Speaker 1: I came to like job wages, job of ability to 1092 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,880 Speaker 1: pick anything. They had us starting at like four in 1093 00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:48,800 Speaker 1: the morning. So I swore I would never go to 1094 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:52,440 Speaker 1: Disney lend. I have a child, I started taking him 1095 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: there when I was one. My husband's originally lived in 1096 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,799 Speaker 1: Arlando for a while, and now we go every year. 1097 00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed and he hates it. So by the way, um, 1098 00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,440 Speaker 1: the Disney internship thing, I mean that's pretty coveted, right, 1099 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:06,560 Speaker 1: and if you get in that then you're sort of 1100 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,279 Speaker 1: that's a that's a big step towards current hospitality, Isn't 1101 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:14,520 Speaker 1: it like it's actually a big deal. Correct? Yep, it's 1102 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,320 Speaker 1: a big deal for me, not too much. I wanted 1103 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:18,800 Speaker 1: to live in Orlando, and that was kind of my 1104 00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,880 Speaker 1: way to move there. Um, but I don't think I 1105 00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,279 Speaker 1: took advantage of it as much. I was really angry 1106 00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,680 Speaker 1: about to five day I'm wake up. Yeah, yeah, because 1107 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:29,359 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people that like, they got 1108 00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,520 Speaker 1: that internship, don't they put you up? And you live 1109 00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:34,359 Speaker 1: there too for a while. Yes, yes, you lived there 1110 00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:37,400 Speaker 1: with a bunch of college kids and it was like 1111 00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 1: your streamline for a job with Disney or you know, 1112 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:42,319 Speaker 1: if you come with that, then it's like because they 1113 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,680 Speaker 1: do hospitality so well that then you can get a job, 1114 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,880 Speaker 1: you know, wherever you want, hotel, restaurant management, whatever. But okay, 1115 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 1: but instead you had you were resentful. But now you 1116 00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:54,200 Speaker 1: go back. Yes, I go back, and I love it. 1117 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,800 Speaker 1: I do the shirts. Um, I just I love it. Okay, 1118 00:55:57,920 --> 00:55:59,560 Speaker 1: all right, fair enough, thank you you Van, have a 1119 00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:01,600 Speaker 1: good day. I mean, life is hard, so this is 1120 00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:03,600 Speaker 1: if this is your release, fine, I just I think 1121 00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,200 Speaker 1: it's interesting of all people, Paulina, all of a sudden, 1122 00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,480 Speaker 1: is it is going to become a Disney adult U 1123 00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: and she a little bill. People are going to hang 1124 00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:15,920 Speaker 1: out Turnidad. Hi, Hey, good morning, welcome You are also 1125 00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:20,720 Speaker 1: a Disney adult? I sure, I am. Well, let's what's 1126 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 1: the draw is it? Is it just whimsical and a 1127 00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:26,160 Speaker 1: release and it's just sort of something different and you 1128 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,160 Speaker 1: get to explore the kid in you? Or is it 1129 00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,839 Speaker 1: something else? Oh well, I'm kind of a cheater here 1130 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:36,080 Speaker 1: in this department because I'm a recent transfer from Florida 1131 00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:41,480 Speaker 1: to Chicago. Okay, so you that's in your backyard. How 1132 00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,680 Speaker 1: often were you going when you live there? Um? So? 1133 00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,520 Speaker 1: I would get off of work because I'm a teacher 1134 00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,880 Speaker 1: around three o'clock and every day and I would literally 1135 00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,719 Speaker 1: leave work and go to the Disney parks right from 1136 00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:59,120 Speaker 1: school almost like twice a week annual shoulder and I 1137 00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,879 Speaker 1: still annual past old and I will not be giving 1138 00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 1: that up anytime there. How much does that cost? And 1139 00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:06,920 Speaker 1: what does that get you into all the parks for? 1140 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:11,239 Speaker 1: Well for free? You paid for it, but like unlimited everything. Yeah, 1141 00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,839 Speaker 1: um so I have kind of like the ultimate past 1142 00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: where like you don't have any blackout dates, and you 1143 00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:21,960 Speaker 1: get free parking and you get discounts Um, sir, can 1144 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:26,720 Speaker 1: you transfer that to somebody you know? Like? How much? 1145 00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:28,960 Speaker 1: How much is I mean if you if you live 1146 00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:32,480 Speaker 1: in Orlando, this is okay, fine, how much is it? Though? 1147 00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:36,840 Speaker 1: It's a hundred dollars a month? That's not that's not 1148 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:38,880 Speaker 1: that crazy though, And if you go twice a week, 1149 00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 1: it's worth it exactly, I mean, because what does it cost. 1150 00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,160 Speaker 1: It's one hundred something dollars. Isn't it just to get 1151 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:47,440 Speaker 1: in anyway one time for food and drinks and everything else. Yeah, 1152 00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,400 Speaker 1: but I mean you're probably not eating there all the time. 1153 00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:51,200 Speaker 1: If you're going twice a week, you're just going right 1154 00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:54,280 Speaker 1: to whatever it is you want to do. No. I mean, 1155 00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: like there are some favorite spots that I'll go too, 1156 00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,720 Speaker 1: but I'm not eating there and I'm not dependent on 1157 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:03,280 Speaker 1: eating there, and I'll only stay at the resources, like 1158 00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 1: if it's a special occasion like okay, birthday, someone else's birthday. 1159 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:11,840 Speaker 1: So I'm not dropping like those thousands of dollars except 1160 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 1: for to keep my annual pal. Okay, I have a 1161 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,400 Speaker 1: question for you, as a Disney adult who has the 1162 00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,960 Speaker 1: annual pass, who's clearly diehard about this. I've heard of 1163 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:20,520 Speaker 1: some people and I don't know how you do this 1164 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 1: or if it's common knowledge, but I know of one 1165 00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 1: boogie guy who somehow is able to pay more money. 1166 00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:29,280 Speaker 1: And then somebody from Disney walks he and his family 1167 00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:32,120 Speaker 1: around the park and then they walk right they go 1168 00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,880 Speaker 1: like they go like through the exit line to get 1169 00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,760 Speaker 1: like basically walk in front of everybody and then get 1170 00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:39,280 Speaker 1: to go on the rides. The don't have to wait 1171 00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: for anything. They get all this stuff. How do you 1172 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:44,240 Speaker 1: first of all, do you resent those people? And second 1173 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 1: of all is that like how do you I don't 1174 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:50,360 Speaker 1: know how you get that? You drop a lot of 1175 00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 1: money if you're a person who is not associated with 1176 00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 1: any type of person who works at the park or 1177 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,920 Speaker 1: that is usually someone who connections with someone who works 1178 00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,400 Speaker 1: out apart, everybody hates those people, right because you gotta 1179 00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:06,440 Speaker 1: wait in line for two hours. But then you got 1180 00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:08,480 Speaker 1: this jackass that comes around, you know, with a little 1181 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 1: timmy and they just go right in the front of 1182 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:14,120 Speaker 1: Space Mountain off they go. Yeah, those are VIP tours, 1183 00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:16,640 Speaker 1: So those are some bougie folks. Okay, all right, you 1184 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,440 Speaker 1: gotta have a lot of money for that. Yeah, okay, 1185 00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:21,480 Speaker 1: all right, Well, burnad I get it. If you live there, 1186 00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,760 Speaker 1: I get it, But I don't know about keep it 1187 00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:25,600 Speaker 1: up on a twelve hundred dollars membership. Now you live 1188 00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 1: in Chicago, that sounds like a lot by you go. 1189 00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:30,440 Speaker 1: You got that Soho house, you don't even go at 1190 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,840 Speaker 1: least it's in the city. At least it's where I live. Bernadette, 1191 00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:36,240 Speaker 1: got a better chance of going to Florida from here, 1192 00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,040 Speaker 1: damn for one hundred dollars a month than you got 1193 00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,240 Speaker 1: Soho house. It blocks away from It has more to 1194 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,680 Speaker 1: do with my fat ass not wanted to sit by 1195 00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,040 Speaker 1: that model ass pool all the time. That's the problem. 1196 00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:48,960 Speaker 1: It's more about self preservation than it isn't anything else, 1197 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,280 Speaker 1: all right, burna dead having it And okay, just last question. 1198 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:54,840 Speaker 1: So what's the draw then? Is it nostalgia? Is it? 1199 00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:56,920 Speaker 1: Is it that it? You know, the characters remind you 1200 00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,320 Speaker 1: of your childhood, like you're a grown up. I understand 1201 00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:00,880 Speaker 1: why people take their kids there. What is it for 1202 01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:05,680 Speaker 1: you though? Um? Well, when you grow up in central Florida, 1203 01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:10,120 Speaker 1: you are either a Disney die hard fan or you're not. 1204 01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:15,240 Speaker 1: They're clearly aligned. Okay, all right, fair enough, thank you, Brenidette, 1205 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,919 Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you too. I got time 1206 01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 1: for one more then I gotta go look at a 1207 01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 1: lot of people though they're all on my team with this, 1208 01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,280 Speaker 1: like let's let's go. I mean, obviously, look, people take 1209 01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:26,000 Speaker 1: their kids, but it's obviously more grown up than kids 1210 01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,160 Speaker 1: because they're making billions of dollars and the grown ups 1211 01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:31,720 Speaker 1: are the ones that have the money. Exactly. Hey liz Y, 1212 01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:35,240 Speaker 1: Liz Hey, good morning. Self proclaimed Disney adult, which means 1213 01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:39,040 Speaker 1: what for you? Yeah, um, well I know a lot 1214 01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 1: of people and are myself and my husband included. On 1215 01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:45,680 Speaker 1: our honeymoon, we wanted to go to Disney because Epcot 1216 01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:52,480 Speaker 1: has the um food and wine festival like from from 1217 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:56,760 Speaker 1: like I think late summer, maybe almost into the winter. 1218 01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:01,720 Speaker 1: Um and I end up I ended up being pregnant 1219 01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,480 Speaker 1: on my honeymoons. I didn't really get to enjoy it 1220 01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:06,320 Speaker 1: that much. But so the food part, not the wine 1221 01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:10,560 Speaker 1: hopefully for a lot of people and um and now 1222 01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:16,240 Speaker 1: that I have kids, I like, I love seeing like 1223 01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,880 Speaker 1: we go for me and my husband, we love it. 1224 01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:24,840 Speaker 1: But then seeing the magic through my kids, right, you're 1225 01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,720 Speaker 1: like their fairy godmother, Like you make all the dreams 1226 01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:31,760 Speaker 1: come true and you take them to Disney. Know, I'm excited. 1227 01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,960 Speaker 1: I get it. I get it for that reason. But 1228 01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 1: if you don't have kids, right and you're going there, 1229 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,280 Speaker 1: you know, all the time, and you don't even live there, 1230 01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,760 Speaker 1: then I'm like, what the hell. But it's it's also 1231 01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:47,400 Speaker 1: like and sometimes they skip the year. But like, I mean, 1232 01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:52,200 Speaker 1: it's a it's a process. It's the playing part of 1233 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 1: it is. I mean, if I didn't like it, I 1234 01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:58,840 Speaker 1: wouldn't go through it. Because it's all right, all right, Lauren, 1235 01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,400 Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. I can't wait look 1236 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 1: at this Pauline as a Disney adult Now, I love Disney, 1237 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,600 Speaker 1: like growing up like what I was born in ninety two, 1238 01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:08,400 Speaker 1: so like those were the first movies that I saw, 1239 01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:12,480 Speaker 1: like Beole all of that. Yes, so you're gonna have 1240 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,720 Speaker 1: your makeup done. You're gonna get the bunny ears or 1241 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,040 Speaker 1: the mouse ears. Someone just tweeted us and said that 1242 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:20,920 Speaker 1: they only accept children at the Bucci. I'll be drinking it. 1243 01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,880 Speaker 1: I'm caught. See the best part like me taking Ashland 1244 01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:26,360 Speaker 1: like Jess and I take Nashlan to Disney. He's still free, 1245 01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:29,240 Speaker 1: Like he's free like everyone three and under his free. 1246 01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:32,480 Speaker 1: So take advantage of that. Wow, but you know, you 1247 01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:34,600 Speaker 1: know how what's not free? All the crap you're gonna 1248 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 1: have to buy him because she's gonna want all the 1249 01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,120 Speaker 1: crap and I'm gonna get the same thing, Like we're 1250 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:41,480 Speaker 1: gonna get matching everything. I'm getting the mouse ears and everything. Yeah, 1251 01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:43,520 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna bring you back some friend good yeah. 1252 01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:45,280 Speaker 1: No with a little monogram on it. Yeah, you know 1253 01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:48,280 Speaker 1: you get your names. Yeah, and give me that makeup 1254 01:02:48,360 --> 01:03:00,920 Speaker 1: thing took Chicago five Kiss FM and Heart radio station. 1255 01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:05,720 Speaker 1: It's a friend show. Um do you ever like? I 1256 01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:08,600 Speaker 1: ate a two relatively iconic place, well, one iconic place 1257 01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:11,240 Speaker 1: and one semi iconic place for one menu item this weekend. 1258 01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,560 Speaker 1: But I went to Pea Quads and I was very inevigated. 1259 01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:16,479 Speaker 1: But I went to Pea Quads. Um, that place is weld. 1260 01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:18,600 Speaker 1: I walked and this is my mistake, but I walked 1261 01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,760 Speaker 1: in there at like five thirty on Saturday, and they're like, yeah, cool, 1262 01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:24,360 Speaker 1: if you want to eat here, h ten thirty was 1263 01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:27,560 Speaker 1: an extavailable table. You were drunk at five thirty? Yeah? 1264 01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,880 Speaker 1: It was day drinking. Yeah, whoa I was? I was 1265 01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:32,840 Speaker 1: on about in these streets. Did you pull the hey 1266 01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:36,160 Speaker 1: on friend. Nope, but the person the person I was 1267 01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,600 Speaker 1: with was like, dude, come on, like, will you say something. 1268 01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 1: I'm like them say something. This guy doesn't care. He's okay, cool. 1269 01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,280 Speaker 1: I can't like for radio people, the tables don't just 1270 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:49,479 Speaker 1: have you know whatever. That's the one part of fame 1271 01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:51,360 Speaker 1: I'm jealous of is like being able to get a 1272 01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:54,240 Speaker 1: reservation wherever you want. I just slide in the d 1273 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:56,360 Speaker 1: MS pea quads though, like, hey, if you see this, 1274 01:03:56,520 --> 01:04:02,320 Speaker 1: can you look me up? I knew it, you see that, 1275 01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,240 Speaker 1: you give me a table please? So then I wanted 1276 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:05,840 Speaker 1: We wound up ordering it and leaving with it. But 1277 01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 1: um but where I was going with this is that 1278 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,080 Speaker 1: I didn't I only had like one piece, And so 1279 01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,360 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the rest of that pizza that I 1280 01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:16,800 Speaker 1: didn't eat that uh well, not my home but and 1281 01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:18,560 Speaker 1: uh so I'm thinking about that. And then I went 1282 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,880 Speaker 1: to Hub fifty one yesterday and I ate the nacho 1283 01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:23,360 Speaker 1: and I only had a cup. I had an epic 1284 01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:27,320 Speaker 1: I had an epic food weekend. Yeah. The chicken nachos 1285 01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:30,200 Speaker 1: a pulled chicken nachos delicious, and I only had a 1286 01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:32,040 Speaker 1: few of them because I wasn't that hungry. And I'm 1287 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:34,120 Speaker 1: thinking about those now too. But you ever do that? 1288 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,160 Speaker 1: Do you ever order something you don't finish it and 1289 01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:39,000 Speaker 1: then you think about it later how much you'd like 1290 01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:41,400 Speaker 1: to have it on a review? Doesn't? No, I finish 1291 01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:44,040 Speaker 1: it on the spot. And the next best thing to 1292 01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:47,040 Speaker 1: that is, or maybe even better, is when you forget 1293 01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,680 Speaker 1: that you brought it home and you open your refrigerator 1294 01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:52,800 Speaker 1: and it's there, like the leftovers, and you open the 1295 01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,600 Speaker 1: and it's like a surprise leftover. You're like, oh my god, 1296 01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:59,760 Speaker 1: it's the desert from last night. Yeah, we're like the 1297 01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:01,760 Speaker 1: pizza or whatever. It is, Like you forgot that it 1298 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:03,760 Speaker 1: was there, and you're like, I I gotta get somebody 1299 01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,800 Speaker 1: look at it. One of my friends I was out 1300 01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:08,800 Speaker 1: with was like, Hey, can you hold my leftovers for 1301 01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:11,640 Speaker 1: me and I'll come get them tomorrow. Second she left, 1302 01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:17,040 Speaker 1: ate all the nice I was like, I'm so weren't 1303 01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:19,880 Speaker 1: coming back? You weren't coming back? I was like they 1304 01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,200 Speaker 1: look really good, nice and I'm drunk. That's a move 1305 01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,600 Speaker 1: right there, Literally, I said, by and then I ate them. 1306 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,480 Speaker 1: That's how him up. Like Jess and I we when 1307 01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:32,000 Speaker 1: we order food. She never finishes her food and she 1308 01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:34,880 Speaker 1: doesn't eat leftover, so it's just like my friend. Yeah, 1309 01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I think you should get this one. 1310 01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:38,680 Speaker 1: And I'm like, get this on the venue like that 1311 01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:40,920 Speaker 1: looks advertising and she gets it, doesn't finish it. The 1312 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:47,680 Speaker 1: next day ru Fiels got leftovers. There you go. It's 1313 01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:49,240 Speaker 1: a surprise though. You open it up and you're like, 1314 01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:51,520 Speaker 1: oh my god, like the posta, this is better than 1315 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,840 Speaker 1: next day, you know. One of three to five Kiss FM, 1316 01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,520 Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. Good morning, it's the 1317 01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:00,400 Speaker 1: Fred Show. It's our final kissmas Wish on the Friend 1318 01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:02,880 Speaker 1: Show one h three five Kisstem I'm here with my friends, 1319 01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:06,080 Speaker 1: the Scars, Sam and Keith. You guys like, I call 1320 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,360 Speaker 1: you friends now because now we're friends, which means you 1321 01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:10,400 Speaker 1: have to support the show forever. That's what happens when 1322 01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 1: you become friends. Gee, but you guys, thank you so 1323 01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:19,200 Speaker 1: much for supporting our chistmas Wish this year bigger and 1324 01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:21,280 Speaker 1: better than we've ever been able to do before. Because 1325 01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:23,920 Speaker 1: I know not only you guys are incredible doctors. M 1326 01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:26,680 Speaker 1: with the Sclar bunny a net to me. I mean, 1327 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,440 Speaker 1: who knew that that we'll be talking about to shortening 1328 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,000 Speaker 1: before we make someone's holiday better. But you guys do 1329 01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:34,400 Speaker 1: it the best, and you guys are great partners of 1330 01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:36,880 Speaker 1: our show. And I know that it's important to you, guys, Keith, 1331 01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:38,240 Speaker 1: I know it's important for you to be a great 1332 01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:40,680 Speaker 1: community partner as well, which is part of why you're 1333 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 1: doing this. Absolutely. Yeah, So let's welcome Amanda. Amanda's here. 1334 01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:48,320 Speaker 1: Good morning, Amanda. How are you? Hi? Good? How are 1335 01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:52,280 Speaker 1: you Amanda? Just another it's just another feat of broadcast science. Um. 1336 01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:54,600 Speaker 1: You know, I'm over here with COVID in one place, 1337 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,800 Speaker 1: and Rufie's in another, and Kalns in another, and the 1338 01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:00,440 Speaker 1: Sclars are in another, and you're in another. But darn it, 1339 01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:05,280 Speaker 1: we're your head out, Yes we are. But it's okay. 1340 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,560 Speaker 1: COVID will not bring us down, I tell you, um, 1341 01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:09,640 Speaker 1: but I want you to. I want to thank you 1342 01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:13,040 Speaker 1: for your letter about your sister in law. This is 1343 01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:16,680 Speaker 1: a tricky situation. Huh very yeah, yeah, yeah, I can imagine. 1344 01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:17,920 Speaker 1: And we have her on the phone too, and she 1345 01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,640 Speaker 1: has no idea, right, she has no idea how we're 1346 01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:23,080 Speaker 1: talking to her. No, no, she's no wait, it's been no. 1347 01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:25,240 Speaker 1: We've been doing a lot of back and forth. I've 1348 01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:29,960 Speaker 1: been trying to fib to her as they can about. Yeah, 1349 01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:32,760 Speaker 1: Kaylin has been making everyone into big fat liars lately, 1350 01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,240 Speaker 1: so so then we don't ruin the surprise. But let's 1351 01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:41,040 Speaker 1: h let's Rufio bring Crystall in we talk to her. Hey, Crystal, Hi, Hi, 1352 01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:43,400 Speaker 1: good morning. How are you. I'm Fred. Nice to meet you. 1353 01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:47,600 Speaker 1: Do you know what you have to talk to us? 1354 01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:51,440 Speaker 1: Everybody's here. We got Kaylin and Kiki and Rufio and 1355 01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:54,720 Speaker 1: Jason and uh the Slars doctor Clard, doctor Slars. I 1356 01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:56,920 Speaker 1: like to call him for foot first, to put dietary. 1357 01:07:57,080 --> 01:07:59,560 Speaker 1: Everybody's here. We're gonna fix your feet. That's why we're 1358 01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:11,680 Speaker 1: doing this. Still see everybody. Everybody that is not that 1359 01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:15,320 Speaker 1: is not what this is about. Um, your Amanda, this 1360 01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:17,280 Speaker 1: is your sister in law. She wrote us this letter 1361 01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:20,000 Speaker 1: about you and Amanda. Will you read it to everybody 1362 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,759 Speaker 1: because I want everyone to hear what's going on? Yeah? Definitely, 1363 01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:25,479 Speaker 1: Um okay, hold on a second. I got to give 1364 01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:29,080 Speaker 1: myself take out of here. Um um, dear friend show 1365 01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:32,280 Speaker 1: this year. My Christmas wish is for my sister in law, Crystal, 1366 01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:34,799 Speaker 1: to be able to give her kids a special Christmas 1367 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,080 Speaker 1: and to be able to enjoy the holiday season. She 1368 01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:40,599 Speaker 1: was married to my husband's brother, but unfortunately I had 1369 01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,960 Speaker 1: to leave the situation because it was both He was 1370 01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:46,240 Speaker 1: both physically and emotionally abusive. She packed up her four 1371 01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,439 Speaker 1: kids and moved in with her parents. She has our 1372 01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:50,639 Speaker 1: full support and we no longer speak to him. Given 1373 01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:54,760 Speaker 1: the circumstances, Crystal is struggling mentally to move on, financially 1374 01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:57,000 Speaker 1: to stay afloat, and physically to just be able to 1375 01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:59,200 Speaker 1: have enough energy to take care of her kids. She 1376 01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:01,479 Speaker 1: has an old christ President's purchase yet for any of 1377 01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:03,880 Speaker 1: the kids, and they've already been through so much. My 1378 01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:06,160 Speaker 1: wish for her is to help take care of presents 1379 01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,240 Speaker 1: and show where that good things can still happen her. 1380 01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:11,400 Speaker 1: She's a strong woman who works so very hard when 1381 01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:14,400 Speaker 1: she and her kids deserve to have a great holiday season. 1382 01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:16,519 Speaker 1: If you were able to grant my wish for her, 1383 01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:19,960 Speaker 1: I would be forever grateful. She and those kids deserve it. 1384 01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:23,759 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for reading my story. Amanda. Wow, Amanda, 1385 01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:28,360 Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that. Crystal. To hear that, to 1386 01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:30,400 Speaker 1: hear that Amanda you know is thinking about you and 1387 01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:32,799 Speaker 1: wants to try and help help you out this holiday. 1388 01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:36,120 Speaker 1: I mean How does that make you feel? Um, I 1389 01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:40,400 Speaker 1: mean it definitely. I'm just a little most of them 1390 01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:45,960 Speaker 1: right now. But yeah, yeah, I can imagine you deserve it, girly, 1391 01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:49,439 Speaker 1: you deserve it. It's been a little moving out, living 1392 01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:51,639 Speaker 1: with your parents, You've got the How are they kids 1393 01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:55,480 Speaker 1: doing with all this? Um? I mean it's some adjustment 1394 01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:59,240 Speaker 1: for everything. But I always try to just make them 1395 01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:01,600 Speaker 1: not aware of it anything, make them have like a 1396 01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:06,760 Speaker 1: normal life. I guess you can say, um so I 1397 01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:08,799 Speaker 1: kind of just put all the weight on my shoulders. 1398 01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:11,479 Speaker 1: That's the right. Wow. Which is a lot to take on. 1399 01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:13,680 Speaker 1: So of course you have Christmas coming up, and you 1400 01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:15,320 Speaker 1: got a bunch of kids. What are they asking for for? 1401 01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:18,599 Speaker 1: What kind of stuff are they into? Um? So they 1402 01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:23,400 Speaker 1: like studio games, they like ocomon, Um, I mean like 1403 01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:26,960 Speaker 1: plush toys. I mean just they're not asking for like, 1404 01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:32,960 Speaker 1: you know, really expensive things, but they still ask for toys. 1405 01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:35,880 Speaker 1: You're old, yeah, of course, yeah, yeah, yeah. What are 1406 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:41,680 Speaker 1: their ages? My oldest is, um sixty, um fourteen, I'm sorry, fourteen, 1407 01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:47,479 Speaker 1: um seven four and then ten months old. Okay, all right, 1408 01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,160 Speaker 1: and you know how I feel about this? I almost said, 1409 01:10:50,200 --> 01:10:52,519 Speaker 1: Lulu Leamon, you know I feel about you know I 1410 01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:55,000 Speaker 1: feel about this cocoa what is it? Cocoa monster? What 1411 01:10:55,160 --> 01:11:01,559 Speaker 1: is it? Cocoah? Yeah? Or any of your kids are 1412 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:04,160 Speaker 1: or any of your kids into Lululemon or Cocoa Melon, 1413 01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:06,240 Speaker 1: either one, because I don't know about either one of them. 1414 01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:12,600 Speaker 1: I don't like either one of them young, so I 1415 01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:16,639 Speaker 1: haven't yet. Oh, bless your heart. Bless your heart, because 1416 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:18,559 Speaker 1: I had an eighteen month old nieces and apparently she's 1417 01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:20,560 Speaker 1: like super into it and I'm not looking forward to 1418 01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:23,559 Speaker 1: the holidays for that reason. UM, So don't don't ever 1419 01:11:23,680 --> 01:11:25,759 Speaker 1: let her know that exists, and then you'll save yourself 1420 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:27,719 Speaker 1: a lot of agony. But here's the thing. We teamed 1421 01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:29,920 Speaker 1: up with Foot first, and we want to Um, you know, 1422 01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:31,360 Speaker 1: you got a lot going on, and I know we 1423 01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 1: can't fix all of it, but we want to make 1424 01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:34,800 Speaker 1: sure that Christmas is taken care of for the kids. 1425 01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,519 Speaker 1: So whether it's the Pokemon stuff or for Sonic or 1426 01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,240 Speaker 1: Toy Story or roadblocks or whatever it is, we want 1427 01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,280 Speaker 1: to get the Christmas presidents taken care of for you 1428 01:11:42,640 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 1: this year, so you don't have to worry about that. 1429 01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:46,800 Speaker 1: Get you some baby clothes for you're eighteen month old. Um, 1430 01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:49,560 Speaker 1: you'll maybe like a day trip for everybody if you 1431 01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:51,360 Speaker 1: want to go to like a water park or I 1432 01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:54,679 Speaker 1: don't know, something inside and something for all you guys 1433 01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:56,400 Speaker 1: to do that you would have fun do it, ice scanning, 1434 01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:59,400 Speaker 1: whatever it is. Um and then's something for you. We 1435 01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:02,360 Speaker 1: gotta do something for you, Crystal, like a like a 1436 01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:07,000 Speaker 1: squaw or something. You know, go get your nails dead. 1437 01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:12,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you need to be pampered. You've been through it. Yeah, 1438 01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:17,559 Speaker 1: well we're gonna do that. We're gonna get you hooked up, 1439 01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:19,479 Speaker 1: so all of that stuff. So I hope that, you know, 1440 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:21,080 Speaker 1: takes something off your plate that you don't have to 1441 01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:24,840 Speaker 1: worry about the Christmas presents or the cocoa melan, none 1442 01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:30,640 Speaker 1: of it. Yeah, well, I wish you the best. I 1443 01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:33,840 Speaker 1: hope twenty twenty three is way better and uh and 1444 01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:35,519 Speaker 1: I hope this helps make things a little bit easier 1445 01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:36,960 Speaker 1: for the holidays. But you know, the most of the 1446 01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:38,720 Speaker 1: best part of this whole thing, and the thing we 1447 01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:40,720 Speaker 1: love the best is that you know, Amanda was thinking 1448 01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:42,840 Speaker 1: of you, Crystal, and she wanted to to help you 1449 01:12:42,840 --> 01:12:44,479 Speaker 1: out a little bit enough to write this letter to 1450 01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:47,800 Speaker 1: a bunch of random radio DJ so uh so that's 1451 01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:49,760 Speaker 1: that's the best part. She loves you very much. It 1452 01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:54,320 Speaker 1: supports you. I can definitely, I definitely know that, and 1453 01:12:54,479 --> 01:13:03,719 Speaker 1: I'm totally grateful for her. Well, be very weird. No, no, sorry, 1454 01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:09,080 Speaker 1: it's been weird. We're trying to call her on Monday 1455 01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:10,880 Speaker 1: and then I told her no, so she was like, 1456 01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:14,000 Speaker 1: what's going on. Yeah, the COVID got us good, so 1457 01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:18,120 Speaker 1: we had to move some things around. I'm sorry about that. Hey, 1458 01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:21,880 Speaker 1: that's okay, Merry Christmas, guys, Happy holidays. Hang out one second. 1459 01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,320 Speaker 1: We'll make sure we got everything and uh and have 1460 01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:27,800 Speaker 1: a great holiday season. Okay, thank you, thank you very much. 1461 01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:30,800 Speaker 1: Um doctor score you got You have grandkids, don't you? 1462 01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:33,840 Speaker 1: What do you got buy them for Christmas? Well? I 1463 01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:39,840 Speaker 1: purchased a red Hulk for my four year old grandsom, 1464 01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:43,320 Speaker 1: and that's very important. He has to be read. Oh 1465 01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:53,040 Speaker 1: and wife's candle and yeah, oh yeah, so and I 1466 01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:56,240 Speaker 1: and I have a two year old eleanor so my 1467 01:13:56,400 --> 01:14:00,880 Speaker 1: wife is taking care of her her choice. Okay, all right, 1468 01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 1: we'll make sure it's red, because if that Hulk is 1469 01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:06,120 Speaker 1: not red, we're gonna have serious problems. I I got 1470 01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:09,960 Speaker 1: him a green one and no, nope, Nope, that's not 1471 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:14,920 Speaker 1: gonna work. You're no. Um, guys, thank you so much 1472 01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:17,920 Speaker 1: for your partnership on our show, uh and and for 1473 01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:20,519 Speaker 1: this especially. You know, over the week we've been able 1474 01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:22,280 Speaker 1: to do a lot of nice things for people and 1475 01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:25,200 Speaker 1: who'll be going through tough times. Um, thanks to you guys, 1476 01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:29,400 Speaker 1: so foot first but dietary fixing feet beautifully. Foot first 1477 01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:31,639 Speaker 1: Pod for this is the best holiday gift of all 1478 01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,800 Speaker 1: Free foot pictures if you're into that kind of thing 1479 01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:40,200 Speaker 1: at foot First Pod on Instagram. Thanks a lot, and 1480 01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:42,639 Speaker 1: we were very proud to be involved in this. Yeah, 1481 01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 1: thank you Christmas. Merry Christmas, guys. Foot First Pod on Instagram, 1482 01:14:46,479 --> 01:14:51,400 Speaker 1: free foot Pictures. I can't say it enough. Free Marry Christmas. 1483 01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:55,519 Speaker 1: Your freaks feel better, all of you guys. We need 1484 01:14:55,560 --> 01:15:00,720 Speaker 1: a doctor, do you know one? The French Show is 1485 01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:03,840 Speaker 1: out one three FM Chicago number one eight music station. 1486 01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:06,760 Speaker 1: This divorce lawyer on TikTok has revealed the top five 1487 01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:12,120 Speaker 1: professions that a woman should avoid marrying. Do we agree here? 1488 01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:15,800 Speaker 1: They are in no particular order. The top five professions 1489 01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:20,920 Speaker 1: of husbands that women should avoid are firemen. I've never 1490 01:15:20,960 --> 01:15:26,919 Speaker 1: really understood that one, but it's on there. Follow police, officer, military, surgeon, 1491 01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:30,880 Speaker 1: and pilot. If you look at these professions, what do 1492 01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:33,679 Speaker 1: they all have in common? They all have in common 1493 01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:38,880 Speaker 1: that the men in these professions their gods in their profession. Right, 1494 01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:41,679 Speaker 1: you're policemen, you're walking around with a gun, you're walking 1495 01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,280 Speaker 1: around with authority. If you're a surgeon, you're walking around 1496 01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:48,080 Speaker 1: the hospital, everybody you know looks up to you. You're 1497 01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:52,200 Speaker 1: in charge. Everybody treats you with respect, and then you know, 1498 01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:54,479 Speaker 1: you come home and all of a sudden, somebody's asking 1499 01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:56,599 Speaker 1: you to take out the trash. I think that that's 1500 01:15:56,640 --> 01:16:01,000 Speaker 1: a difficult kind of transition to make. Piles especially, and 1501 01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:03,840 Speaker 1: when you look at pilots you cross over to air 1502 01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:08,240 Speaker 1: force military. They're in control of like one hundred and 1503 01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:11,120 Speaker 1: fifty two hundred people's lives at a time. They are 1504 01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:13,400 Speaker 1: treated with a tremendous amount of respect, and they have 1505 01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 1: a lot of responsibility, and they tend to be very 1506 01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:20,439 Speaker 1: narcissistic and very controlling. So curious to see if anybody 1507 01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:23,840 Speaker 1: has any examples of this. I do want to take 1508 01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:26,400 Speaker 1: a quick pull the weight one h three five, like 1509 01:16:26,479 --> 01:16:27,920 Speaker 1: just just quickly. We don't have a ton of time, 1510 01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:32,479 Speaker 1: But is there a profession that you refuse to date, 1511 01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:35,439 Speaker 1: like you just immediately cross them off. Maybe it's one 1512 01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:38,639 Speaker 1: of those you know, and maybe it's because you're conditioned 1513 01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:41,200 Speaker 1: because an X of yours had that job or whatever. 1514 01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:43,040 Speaker 1: But like, as soon as you learn somebody is a 1515 01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:46,639 Speaker 1: cop or a firefighter, you're out. You're done, military, you're done. 1516 01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:49,200 Speaker 1: Do you believe that though? Do you believe at all 1517 01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:53,080 Speaker 1: that Hobby the firefighter, your boyfriend Pauline, it comes home 1518 01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:55,760 Speaker 1: and asserts himself in any kind of way because you know, 1519 01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:58,360 Speaker 1: he's got an axe and like a big hose and 1520 01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:02,639 Speaker 1: stuff like that. You know, well, how do you know? Yeah? Well, 1521 01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:07,479 Speaker 1: sir um no sorotic jokes are always coming from rufio 1522 01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:11,360 Speaker 1: side over here. It's like yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm guessing 1523 01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:15,439 Speaker 1: him over okay. Um. I feel like I saw this 1524 01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:17,360 Speaker 1: and I was actually talking about it with Hob because 1525 01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:19,599 Speaker 1: I sent this to him that that was really interesting. Um, 1526 01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:23,960 Speaker 1: I think that what was he gonna say? Oh, yeah, 1527 01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:28,120 Speaker 1: it's true, I wouldn't marry me either, Like well, because 1528 01:17:28,200 --> 01:17:30,960 Speaker 1: like I feel like one of those stereotypes or things 1529 01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:33,559 Speaker 1: that I hear is that fireman and police officers are 1530 01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,240 Speaker 1: big time cheaters. Like that's what I've heard right, and again, 1531 01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:38,040 Speaker 1: like I know that's not what she's saying exactly, but 1532 01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:40,920 Speaker 1: that's what I've heard. Um, people have said that, and yes, 1533 01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:43,600 Speaker 1: I can maybe say that could be somewhat true, or 1534 01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:45,559 Speaker 1: that there's like a high divorce rate and everybody knows 1535 01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:48,439 Speaker 1: ex secrets. So Hobby said. Um, However, I feel like 1536 01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:51,000 Speaker 1: he doesn't like to be told what to do. But 1537 01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,120 Speaker 1: I really think even if he worked, you know, at 1538 01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:55,160 Speaker 1: a circus, I feel like he still woun come home 1539 01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:57,360 Speaker 1: and I hate the fact of being told what to do. 1540 01:17:57,439 --> 01:18:00,200 Speaker 1: It's just his personality. I think he was raised right, 1541 01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,240 Speaker 1: and I'm very grateful for his parents were doing that 1542 01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:04,200 Speaker 1: because they've been still a lot of really good things 1543 01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:05,920 Speaker 1: into him that I see that he has a lot 1544 01:18:05,960 --> 01:18:08,400 Speaker 1: of young men maybe don't um, but I feel like 1545 01:18:08,840 --> 01:18:10,920 Speaker 1: I just think it's his personality. I really do. I mean, 1546 01:18:11,080 --> 01:18:12,680 Speaker 1: it's not his job, no, And I think a lot 1547 01:18:12,680 --> 01:18:14,479 Speaker 1: of people who do have these jobs though, have that 1548 01:18:14,600 --> 01:18:17,880 Speaker 1: similar personality. So his personality may have driven him towards 1549 01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:21,599 Speaker 1: this career, which then can be exactly Hey, Julianna, good morning, 1550 01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:30,160 Speaker 1: Good morning, Hi Julietta, you will not date uh what athlete? Okay, 1551 01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:34,920 Speaker 1: how many athletes you out here dating girl, I've dated 1552 01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:38,040 Speaker 1: a few, and they just walk around with such high 1553 01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:42,080 Speaker 1: like egos that if you ask them to do something 1554 01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:44,680 Speaker 1: that's like not at their level, they look at you 1555 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:48,080 Speaker 1: with like discuss, are we talking about like a high 1556 01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:50,640 Speaker 1: school athlete? College? Are we talking about pro athlete? Does 1557 01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:54,839 Speaker 1: it matter? Like? Both? Like both? Because I'm in college 1558 01:18:54,960 --> 01:18:58,960 Speaker 1: right now and so many of the people just walk 1559 01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:02,240 Speaker 1: around with such high Yeah. I feel like a lot 1560 01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:04,519 Speaker 1: of these especially up to the college level, and maybe 1561 01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:07,360 Speaker 1: even at the pro for certain people, but certainly in 1562 01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:09,599 Speaker 1: the college level. These people haven't coddled their whole lives, 1563 01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:14,719 Speaker 1: like middle school, even like like Little League, the young kids, 1564 01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:16,880 Speaker 1: it's like you're going to be something, you are something, 1565 01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:20,760 Speaker 1: and then yeah, it's like the coaches embedded in them 1566 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:23,040 Speaker 1: when they're younger, like you're going to be great one day, 1567 01:19:23,040 --> 01:19:26,719 Speaker 1: and then they just they make it their whole personality. Okay, 1568 01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:29,760 Speaker 1: all right, Jerrianna, thank you, have a good day. Thank you, 1569 01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:33,160 Speaker 1: good day. Don't subscribe to the way of thinking that 1570 01:19:33,280 --> 01:19:35,600 Speaker 1: if you date or marry a professional athlete that you 1571 01:19:35,600 --> 01:19:38,000 Speaker 1: should expect to be cheated on. I've heard people say 1572 01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:40,599 Speaker 1: that theory before, and I don't agree with that common, 1573 01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:42,680 Speaker 1: but I don't I don't think that that should be 1574 01:19:42,760 --> 01:19:45,600 Speaker 1: the accepted. I think it's more common than it is 1575 01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,679 Speaker 1: someone not cheat. I don't think that's true. I don't 1576 01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:50,519 Speaker 1: know if I think that's true. I know some pro athletes, 1577 01:19:50,560 --> 01:19:52,880 Speaker 1: and some were bad guys, and some were good guys. 1578 01:19:53,160 --> 01:19:55,160 Speaker 1: They didn't. I don't think fifty percent of all pro 1579 01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:59,120 Speaker 1: athletes cheat on their wives. I do. Oh wow, Yeah, 1580 01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:01,880 Speaker 1: I really do. I've seen enough. I really I think 1581 01:20:01,960 --> 01:20:06,360 Speaker 1: some do. I maybe sport wise, I think it differs 1582 01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:08,400 Speaker 1: in what sport you play. Yeah, I guess it might differ, 1583 01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:13,679 Speaker 1: like I'm not I don't think golfers are like yeah, 1584 01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:16,559 Speaker 1: Tiger Wood. Yeah, well, I think it's usually I think 1585 01:20:16,640 --> 01:20:19,599 Speaker 1: being a bad guy and a pro athlete or mutually exclusive. 1586 01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:21,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I think I didn't say they're bad guys, 1587 01:20:21,400 --> 01:20:23,479 Speaker 1: but I think they have more of an opportunity to cheat, 1588 01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:25,439 Speaker 1: you know. And I think it's mean drinking and stuff 1589 01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:27,920 Speaker 1: doesn't mean guys do it just because you have an opportunity. 1590 01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:31,400 Speaker 1: If one guy gets less opportunity and a guy gets more, 1591 01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:34,120 Speaker 1: it's more common that the guy who gets more opportunity 1592 01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:37,439 Speaker 1: every night while he's drinking I've seen. I've seen a lot. 1593 01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:41,880 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. Julia, Hi, good morning, Hi, 1594 01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:44,400 Speaker 1: good morning. How are you guys? Hey, how are you great? 1595 01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:46,400 Speaker 1: Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. You refuse to date. 1596 01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:51,479 Speaker 1: Uh um less about the actual profession, but somebody with 1597 01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:55,160 Speaker 1: the same profession of me. Um. So I'm a I'm 1598 01:20:55,160 --> 01:20:57,760 Speaker 1: an occupational therapist, and I just feel like I worked 1599 01:20:57,800 --> 01:20:59,600 Speaker 1: so hard for this and I kind of wanted to 1600 01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:02,960 Speaker 1: be my na selfish as that is, and like, I 1601 01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:05,920 Speaker 1: don't want to feel like I'm competing with somebody, Like 1602 01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:08,080 Speaker 1: I want to come home and tell all the stories about, 1603 01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:11,080 Speaker 1: you know, the cool things I've seen and not have 1604 01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:13,760 Speaker 1: like my husband or significant other and be like, oh yeah, 1605 01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:17,200 Speaker 1: one up beating here. Interesting. Because Julia, I can I 1606 01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:20,040 Speaker 1: can argue both ways. For like media people, for example, 1607 01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:22,560 Speaker 1: because that's what we do. I can argue that I 1608 01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:25,160 Speaker 1: think media people should be with media people because there's 1609 01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:27,479 Speaker 1: this is just a weird job and it has strange 1610 01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:30,599 Speaker 1: demands and standards, and I think that only somebody else 1611 01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:33,360 Speaker 1: who does it can understand what it is to get 1612 01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:35,160 Speaker 1: up at four in the morning and to you know, 1613 01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:37,040 Speaker 1: it's just and I'm not saying it's a hard job. 1614 01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:39,080 Speaker 1: It's not, Julie, You're hard. Your job is much harder 1615 01:21:39,080 --> 01:21:42,080 Speaker 1: than money. But I feel like most people don't get it. 1616 01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:45,200 Speaker 1: On the flip side, though, I feel like media people, 1617 01:21:45,240 --> 01:21:47,479 Speaker 1: to your point, Julia, would also be you know, you'd 1618 01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,240 Speaker 1: have to meet both people would have to be at 1619 01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:52,320 Speaker 1: the top of their game, right because otherwise one person's 1620 01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:54,280 Speaker 1: career is always going to come first. You know, if 1621 01:21:54,360 --> 01:21:56,559 Speaker 1: I if I'm just starting out and you know, market 1622 01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:59,200 Speaker 1: one hundred in Tuscaloosa, and I meet my girlfriend and 1623 01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:01,680 Speaker 1: she's on TV, I'm on radio, for example, one of 1624 01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:03,400 Speaker 1: us is going to get a bigger job, and then 1625 01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:05,720 Speaker 1: we have to decide do I go with you or 1626 01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:08,080 Speaker 1: do I you know, whose career is gonna be bigger? 1627 01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:11,360 Speaker 1: And I suppose that that can get difficult, horrible. Thank you, Julia, 1628 01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:14,840 Speaker 1: have you good day. Thank you guys too. It's just like, 1629 01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:16,519 Speaker 1: I don't know, there are a lot of jobs. I'm 1630 01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:18,240 Speaker 1: sure that you know, people driving to work right now 1631 01:22:18,400 --> 01:22:20,760 Speaker 1: are waking up and they're thinking, like nobody really gets 1632 01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:23,760 Speaker 1: People think this is an easy job, or people think 1633 01:22:23,840 --> 01:22:25,400 Speaker 1: that this is I know you want to give examples 1634 01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:27,320 Speaker 1: because I don't want to upset anybody, but it's like, 1635 01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:29,200 Speaker 1: you know, you think I do this all day, but 1636 01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:31,519 Speaker 1: you don't really know because you've never done it. And 1637 01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:34,439 Speaker 1: maybe if you did, then you would understand, you know, 1638 01:22:34,680 --> 01:22:37,920 Speaker 1: the demands, and maybe you would understand me a little better. Yeah, 1639 01:22:37,960 --> 01:22:39,840 Speaker 1: I think there's pros and cons of dating somebody in 1640 01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:41,920 Speaker 1: your same industry because I feel like, yeah, you guys 1641 01:22:41,960 --> 01:22:44,040 Speaker 1: can relate, and then there's this and then yeah, like 1642 01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:46,759 Speaker 1: you understand each other. But I think the cons outweigh 1643 01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:48,640 Speaker 1: that I do. I think it's a big walk, a 1644 01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:50,400 Speaker 1: walk a show at home, and I think it's like, 1645 01:22:50,640 --> 01:22:52,479 Speaker 1: you know, one career is always gonna kind of like 1646 01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:55,240 Speaker 1: overshadow the other. That's just how it's gonna go. Plus 1647 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:57,639 Speaker 1: like I don't know me to people, like we think 1648 01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:00,439 Speaker 1: we're quote but we're not. I don't know egos one 1649 01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:02,680 Speaker 1: you're making, Like if you're like you said, if if 1650 01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:05,360 Speaker 1: one person is on top of the other person's not there, 1651 01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:07,599 Speaker 1: but I say, you could shut that. I mean, I've 1652 01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:09,759 Speaker 1: only done it a couple of times, but in those cases, 1653 01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:13,840 Speaker 1: one person was way bigger than me in her career 1654 01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:16,600 Speaker 1: and admittedly I was a little jealous, but I was 1655 01:23:16,680 --> 01:23:18,720 Speaker 1: also just starting out. In another case, we were both 1656 01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:21,000 Speaker 1: doing fine, and we shut it all off at home, 1657 01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:23,040 Speaker 1: like we got to be normal people because neither one 1658 01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:24,679 Speaker 1: of us were doing the walk a walk up because 1659 01:23:24,680 --> 01:23:26,519 Speaker 1: we were both too tired to do it, you know. 1660 01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:28,680 Speaker 1: And it's like, I think I meet people and they're like, 1661 01:23:28,720 --> 01:23:30,760 Speaker 1: you don't communicate much, you don't talk a lot. You know, 1662 01:23:30,800 --> 01:23:32,000 Speaker 1: you want to take a nap, you want to do this. 1663 01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:34,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, because I'm I've used all my words before 1664 01:23:34,200 --> 01:23:36,240 Speaker 1: you got out of bed, and so give me a minute, 1665 01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:37,519 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And that's something that a 1666 01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:39,519 Speaker 1: lot of people I don't think can understand. And it's 1667 01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:41,479 Speaker 1: not I don't. I don't sit here and say that 1668 01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:43,880 Speaker 1: our job is hard. It's just different. The demands are 1669 01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:47,960 Speaker 1: just different. Hey Aaron, good morning. Hi, Hi Aaron. You 1670 01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:52,840 Speaker 1: won't date somebody who Well, it's not about me. But 1671 01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:55,600 Speaker 1: I can relate to what you were saying about a 1672 01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:58,519 Speaker 1: pilot because my dad was a pilot, and I believe 1673 01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:01,840 Speaker 1: that he is very narcissistic and controlling. He was like 1674 01:24:01,920 --> 01:24:05,400 Speaker 1: an airline pilot. Yeah, okay, all right, and so you 1675 01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:09,160 Speaker 1: think that personality trait crossed over into his romantic life 1676 01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:13,519 Speaker 1: and in a negative way. Yeah, okay, all right, So 1677 01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:17,120 Speaker 1: you know pilots for you, that's what you're saying. What 1678 01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:19,280 Speaker 1: about like a hobby Hi, I'm a hobby pilot. What 1679 01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:21,200 Speaker 1: about me? I just like just for fun, little put 1680 01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:24,360 Speaker 1: put plane just on the weekend. Maybe that's a little 1681 01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,680 Speaker 1: bit different. Yeah, all right, good, So you just want 1682 01:24:26,720 --> 01:24:29,720 Speaker 1: me to assert control and narcissism when it comes to 1683 01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:31,720 Speaker 1: saving your life on the weekend. But during the week 1684 01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:34,400 Speaker 1: I better be you know, a big pussycat. That's what 1685 01:24:34,479 --> 01:24:37,679 Speaker 1: you're saying. Well, well, if it's for like a small 1686 01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:39,920 Speaker 1: company and just on the weekend, it's a little bit different. 1687 01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:42,600 Speaker 1: I see. No, I can see what you're saying, that 1688 01:24:42,720 --> 01:24:47,920 Speaker 1: same weekend trip all the time without you. Oh stop it. 1689 01:24:50,800 --> 01:24:52,680 Speaker 1: I gotta go fly this weekend, babe. I'm sorry. I 1690 01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:54,880 Speaker 1: gotta go. I gotta go to piece again. I'm going 1691 01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:57,120 Speaker 1: to Vegas again. They gotta find me out there. You 1692 01:24:57,200 --> 01:25:00,040 Speaker 1: guys know the story about the guy that I I 1693 01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:04,080 Speaker 1: feel I feel partially responsible for this, but I helped enable. Ye, 1694 01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:09,280 Speaker 1: I helped enable. I helped enable of friends at the 1695 01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:13,120 Speaker 1: time husband to get his pilot's license to buy an airplane, 1696 01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:15,280 Speaker 1: only to find out the whole thing was a sham. Yep, 1697 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:18,560 Speaker 1: the entire thing was a sham multiple women. And he 1698 01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:20,640 Speaker 1: told this woman that he was renting the plane when 1699 01:25:20,720 --> 01:25:23,160 Speaker 1: he actually owned it, so that he you know, hopefully 1700 01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:25,439 Speaker 1: she wouldn't figure out about that that he was using 1701 01:25:25,479 --> 01:25:28,240 Speaker 1: the airplane to see people in multiple cities apparently. And 1702 01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:31,640 Speaker 1: I helped this guy. That's so premeditated, Like, I don't know, 1703 01:25:31,760 --> 01:25:34,080 Speaker 1: I feel like cheating. You know, sometimes people make a 1704 01:25:34,160 --> 01:25:37,360 Speaker 1: mistake like to do that whole thing just to cheat 1705 01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:39,880 Speaker 1: to get your pilots. Like it's also kind of I mean, 1706 01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:41,880 Speaker 1: he was, I guess telling her that it was for work, 1707 01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:44,360 Speaker 1: but all this stuff is trackable these days, so it's 1708 01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:46,040 Speaker 1: like again, he was saying that he was going to 1709 01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:48,880 Speaker 1: see clients, so that's that checks out. But it's like, wow, 1710 01:25:49,240 --> 01:25:51,320 Speaker 1: you know, I'll sit on his He left his iPad 1711 01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:53,559 Speaker 1: at the house, and it's always the iPad. You guys, 1712 01:25:54,400 --> 01:25:57,200 Speaker 1: don't get your text to your other devices. People forget 1713 01:25:57,240 --> 01:26:01,120 Speaker 1: about that. Responsibly come on and one of its everyone 1714 01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:04,680 Speaker 1: in the military. Yes, yes, these are the these are 1715 01:26:04,680 --> 01:26:08,960 Speaker 1: the rules of our show. It's in the show constitution. 1716 01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:13,280 Speaker 1: She'd responsibly give it up to the people in the military. 1717 01:26:14,240 --> 01:26:18,320 Speaker 1: Um wild, animals go wild. I'm trying to think of 1718 01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:23,080 Speaker 1: the other ones. Hey, Alex, Yeah, this is a specific one. 1719 01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:27,120 Speaker 1: You won't date a what a CNA, But I mean 1720 01:26:27,320 --> 01:26:30,639 Speaker 1: anyone in the nursing field. I have never had any 1721 01:26:30,720 --> 01:26:35,160 Speaker 1: good experience with them while they're so starting off, you know, 1722 01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:38,840 Speaker 1: I started in college and I went to a bipartisan 1723 01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:42,800 Speaker 1: school where it was mostly engineering and mostly nursing. And 1724 01:26:43,880 --> 01:26:46,560 Speaker 1: they're just they never have any time for you, you 1725 01:26:46,640 --> 01:26:49,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like they're always on call, they 1726 01:26:49,880 --> 01:26:52,600 Speaker 1: always have their boards, they always have this. And I 1727 01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:55,280 Speaker 1: have a friend who's dating uh right now. She's just 1728 01:26:55,320 --> 01:26:59,760 Speaker 1: seen a going for her nursing and she's just he 1729 01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:02,200 Speaker 1: can't even hang out with me because he's always chasing 1730 01:27:02,320 --> 01:27:04,840 Speaker 1: her tale, you know what I mean. I just feel 1731 01:27:04,880 --> 01:27:08,640 Speaker 1: like it's very toxic to where they're very self centered. Interesting, 1732 01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:11,400 Speaker 1: because I guess I would the opposite. You're out, you're 1733 01:27:11,479 --> 01:27:14,120 Speaker 1: helping people, my best friends, and well, yeah, but you're 1734 01:27:14,360 --> 01:27:16,879 Speaker 1: you're helping a random people, which I guess I understand 1735 01:27:16,920 --> 01:27:19,280 Speaker 1: what you're saying. But you know that's not going to 1736 01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:21,920 Speaker 1: work in a relationship. You have to dedicate time to 1737 01:27:21,960 --> 01:27:25,680 Speaker 1: the relationship too, so you have to know, yeah, you know, 1738 01:27:25,800 --> 01:27:29,360 Speaker 1: I get through or your own person. Okay, Like, like 1739 01:27:29,479 --> 01:27:32,320 Speaker 1: I said, relationship specific, you know what I mean? Yeah, no, 1740 01:27:32,479 --> 01:27:35,160 Speaker 1: thank you, Alex, have a good day. Well yeah, that's fine. 1741 01:27:35,240 --> 01:27:37,559 Speaker 1: But I also noticed that a lot of people are 1742 01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:42,720 Speaker 1: bringing up the whole narcissistic personality types. Like everyone that's 1743 01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,120 Speaker 1: spoken here is said like, oh, I could never be 1744 01:27:45,200 --> 01:27:47,559 Speaker 1: with an narcissist. That's what I heard. It's not I've 1745 01:27:47,600 --> 01:27:49,280 Speaker 1: never I could never be with an athlete, I could 1746 01:27:49,280 --> 01:27:51,439 Speaker 1: never be with a doctor. It's just you can't stay 1747 01:27:51,479 --> 01:27:55,160 Speaker 1: in narcissistic personality, so you have to overlook that. Okay, 1748 01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:57,040 Speaker 1: so I guess that has to take away here is 1749 01:27:57,640 --> 01:28:01,639 Speaker 1: look at the people. Thank yeah, no god, I thank 1750 01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:04,880 Speaker 1: you having getting medical attention. Homeboy, Yeah, he said, saving 1751 01:28:04,960 --> 01:28:08,120 Speaker 1: random people hang up on him. I'm just like, I 1752 01:28:08,200 --> 01:28:10,439 Speaker 1: gotta go, brother. I mean, I apologize. I didn't mean to. 1753 01:28:10,720 --> 01:28:12,720 Speaker 1: Just like we got out to all the nurses out there, 1754 01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:14,680 Speaker 1: hold on everyone, I want to We'll come back to 1755 01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:16,400 Speaker 1: this in just a second. So everyone was holding on, 1756 01:28:16,479 --> 01:28:18,040 Speaker 1: hold on. We'll take up on more phone calls when 1757 01:28:18,080 --> 01:28:21,559 Speaker 1: we get back after after these words, I have to say, though, 1758 01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:24,800 Speaker 1: I also think that it's possible, like I had friends 1759 01:28:24,840 --> 01:28:27,240 Speaker 1: who had parents who were doctors growing up, and they 1760 01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:30,800 Speaker 1: got no medical care zero, because it's like they first 1761 01:28:30,840 --> 01:28:32,760 Speaker 1: of all, their parents had doctors. So they look at all, 1762 01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:35,160 Speaker 1: you're fine, you know, because they just know I guess. 1763 01:28:35,439 --> 01:28:37,639 Speaker 1: Second of all, they go to work and they care 1764 01:28:37,680 --> 01:28:39,320 Speaker 1: for people all day. I'm sure the same is true 1765 01:28:39,360 --> 01:28:41,640 Speaker 1: with nurses, and like anything else, you come home and 1766 01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:43,880 Speaker 1: you probably are done taking care of people. You want 1767 01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:46,559 Speaker 1: someone to take care of you, you know, I can imagine. 1768 01:28:46,560 --> 01:28:48,320 Speaker 1: I think that's just human old one. We'll be right back. 1769 01:28:48,600 --> 01:28:51,120 Speaker 1: One h three five Kids FM, Chicago's number one hit 1770 01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:54,400 Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, It's the Freends Show. Daniel Martin, Hey, 1771 01:28:54,479 --> 01:28:56,680 Speaker 1: you will never date a Just to wrap this up, 1772 01:28:56,720 --> 01:29:00,600 Speaker 1: you'll never date a one thy profession when not a 1773 01:29:00,720 --> 01:29:04,120 Speaker 1: date a girl in the sorority, in a sorority, or 1774 01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:07,840 Speaker 1: who was in a sorority in a sorority currently in 1775 01:29:07,920 --> 01:29:11,800 Speaker 1: a sorority. What's your problem with a sorority girl? Well, 1776 01:29:11,960 --> 01:29:15,400 Speaker 1: problem with that is that I've had bad past experiences 1777 01:29:15,439 --> 01:29:17,639 Speaker 1: with that. Um, I just need this way too much 1778 01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:19,880 Speaker 1: of jama going into it, I mean, the right out 1779 01:29:19,920 --> 01:29:21,439 Speaker 1: of high school. All they want to do, you know, 1780 01:29:21,600 --> 01:29:24,840 Speaker 1: is this party, party, party. I just I mean, and 1781 01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:28,439 Speaker 1: my experience there, there's no trust during the whole thing. Okay, 1782 01:29:28,680 --> 01:29:30,920 Speaker 1: all right, day, Well, hey you're a sister for life, 1783 01:29:30,960 --> 01:29:35,160 Speaker 1: you know, are you? Where are you in school? I 1784 01:29:35,320 --> 01:29:37,519 Speaker 1: used to go to college, you page, but I'm an 1785 01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:42,360 Speaker 1: electrician and sororities that I didn't know cod heads that 1786 01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:47,400 Speaker 1: they uh no, they don't know a switch majors. I see. Okay, 1787 01:29:47,400 --> 01:29:51,240 Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Daniel, have a good day. All right, fine, 1788 01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:54,400 Speaker 1: forget you. Then, Man, where I went to college, you 1789 01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:57,240 Speaker 1: had to be in a fraternity. Basically, you either in 1790 01:29:57,240 --> 01:29:59,080 Speaker 1: a fraternity or you were not, or you didn't get 1791 01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:01,120 Speaker 1: invited to anything. You had to be great. Yeah, I 1792 01:30:01,160 --> 01:30:03,640 Speaker 1: mean it was relatively seven thousand people went to my 1793 01:30:03,680 --> 01:30:05,840 Speaker 1: school or something like that, so you kind of had 1794 01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:07,120 Speaker 1: to do it. And then as soon as I figured 1795 01:30:07,120 --> 01:30:08,920 Speaker 1: out how stupid it was, I had left. But I 1796 01:30:09,040 --> 01:30:10,200 Speaker 1: did it. I did it for a minute. Well I 1797 01:30:10,280 --> 01:30:12,559 Speaker 1: did it. Yeah, I did it for like a year 1798 01:30:12,560 --> 01:30:14,800 Speaker 1: and a half. Lived in a fraternity house for a while. 1799 01:30:15,840 --> 01:30:19,519 Speaker 1: Um yeah, because I went because all my friends, like 1800 01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:21,200 Speaker 1: all my friends in the door and we all joined 1801 01:30:21,240 --> 01:30:24,120 Speaker 1: the same fraternity. So I just like, okay, fine whatever, yeah, 1802 01:30:24,320 --> 01:30:26,439 Speaker 1: and so I did it. Remember, like the handshake and 1803 01:30:26,439 --> 01:30:28,880 Speaker 1: stuff like, I do remember the handshake. I'm gonna be 1804 01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:30,880 Speaker 1: honest with you, like looking back on a lot of 1805 01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:33,000 Speaker 1: the stuff that we had to do to get in 1806 01:30:33,439 --> 01:30:37,800 Speaker 1: and some of the initiation stuff and the ceremonies, and 1807 01:30:38,120 --> 01:30:40,519 Speaker 1: it was a little I'm not ready to talk about 1808 01:30:40,520 --> 01:30:43,519 Speaker 1: it yet. It's not it's not really changed. We're not 1809 01:30:43,600 --> 01:30:47,920 Speaker 1: really okay. It was really like, I don't know, there's 1810 01:30:47,920 --> 01:30:50,560 Speaker 1: a lot, you know, I did that. That was That 1811 01:30:50,720 --> 01:30:52,720 Speaker 1: was half of my college experience. The other half was 1812 01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:55,000 Speaker 1: working at a radio station. And I don't I don't 1813 01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:56,760 Speaker 1: know which one scarred me warm, but one of the 1814 01:30:56,960 --> 01:30:59,880 Speaker 1: other one oh three five Kids FM, Chicago's number one 1815 01:31:00,240 --> 01:31:02,719 Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, It's the Fred Show. It's funny 1816 01:31:02,760 --> 01:31:05,000 Speaker 1: that there are some like radio rules that I've learned 1817 01:31:05,000 --> 01:31:06,679 Speaker 1: in the twenty years of doing this that I follow, 1818 01:31:06,760 --> 01:31:10,560 Speaker 1: and most of them I don't like. The things that 1819 01:31:10,680 --> 01:31:13,800 Speaker 1: I've been told to do, I don't do anymore. But 1820 01:31:14,000 --> 01:31:16,439 Speaker 1: I remember not to say the word qualify for some reason. 1821 01:31:16,479 --> 01:31:18,599 Speaker 1: I don't know. I have no idea. Life comes at 1822 01:31:18,640 --> 01:31:21,360 Speaker 1: you fast. If you don't stop and look around, you 1823 01:31:21,439 --> 01:31:25,560 Speaker 1: could miss it. Oh what is that? Yeah, that's like 1824 01:31:25,720 --> 01:31:29,439 Speaker 1: every kid's high school quote in the nineties. Oh does 1825 01:31:29,479 --> 01:31:32,840 Speaker 1: he start with life come? Life comes at you pretty fast. 1826 01:31:32,960 --> 01:31:34,600 Speaker 1: If you don't stop and look around every once in 1827 01:31:34,680 --> 01:31:36,639 Speaker 1: a while something like that, you could miss it. Yeah, 1828 01:31:37,280 --> 01:31:39,360 Speaker 1: he's in the shower when he says that, taking a shower. 1829 01:31:40,120 --> 01:31:42,040 Speaker 1: I love watching that movie now because now that I 1830 01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:44,120 Speaker 1: lived here for song, I know that place. I know 1831 01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:46,200 Speaker 1: that place. I know that place. I know that place. 1832 01:31:46,320 --> 01:31:48,760 Speaker 1: They recently they recently painted over that. They finally changed 1833 01:31:48,760 --> 01:31:51,120 Speaker 1: out the water tower, the say Fair one. Oh yeah, 1834 01:31:51,120 --> 01:31:52,640 Speaker 1: it's been there for years. I didn't know that, and 1835 01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:55,600 Speaker 1: they recently made it whatever was Whineka wherever it was 1836 01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:58,720 Speaker 1: filmed Northbrook. That's like watching The Bear. That's a fun 1837 01:31:58,800 --> 01:32:00,960 Speaker 1: game I like to play when shows or film in Chicago. 1838 01:32:01,200 --> 01:32:02,960 Speaker 1: This is what I do in my head, guys, is 1839 01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:05,439 Speaker 1: I try and figure out exactly where it is as 1840 01:32:05,560 --> 01:32:08,120 Speaker 1: quickly as possible, Like the scene, you know, like if 1841 01:32:08,200 --> 01:32:10,200 Speaker 1: if it's like like there's scenes in The Bear where 1842 01:32:10,200 --> 01:32:12,080 Speaker 1: he's walking across the street under a track, I'm like, 1843 01:32:12,680 --> 01:32:15,880 Speaker 1: that's Wabash or whatever. Yeah, all right. I watched a 1844 01:32:15,960 --> 01:32:18,080 Speaker 1: couple episodes of The Bear. There's the one scene where 1845 01:32:18,120 --> 01:32:21,920 Speaker 1: they're like driving and then the b roll shot shows 1846 01:32:22,000 --> 01:32:24,800 Speaker 1: Lake Shore Drive. Yeah, and he's just like then they're talking. 1847 01:32:24,840 --> 01:32:27,640 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, man, the Kennedy's all backed up. 1848 01:32:27,680 --> 01:32:29,840 Speaker 1: I was like, hey, you're not on the Kennedy. He's 1849 01:32:29,840 --> 01:32:31,800 Speaker 1: just like he's just like, yeah, he's going to take 1850 01:32:31,800 --> 01:32:33,800 Speaker 1: it forever to get to the Neighborville. It will because 1851 01:32:33,960 --> 01:32:37,240 Speaker 1: nightey A're gonna take it in Neighborlle. I hate that 1852 01:32:37,800 --> 01:32:40,240 Speaker 1: Neighville and the Shy does that to the show that 1853 01:32:40,320 --> 01:32:42,280 Speaker 1: I watch. They'll do that. They'll say they're like, I 1854 01:32:42,280 --> 01:32:44,000 Speaker 1: don't know an Engle or something, and I see, like 1855 01:32:44,120 --> 01:32:47,519 Speaker 1: the Pilson know that happens a lot where it's like, 1856 01:32:47,640 --> 01:32:50,639 Speaker 1: clearly the show is either not edited slash not written 1857 01:32:50,680 --> 01:32:52,680 Speaker 1: by people from which is weird because I know The 1858 01:32:52,760 --> 01:32:54,880 Speaker 1: Bear there were people can I was talking to Abe 1859 01:32:54,920 --> 01:32:58,760 Speaker 1: Caman about this. His girlfriend was the set designer on 1860 01:32:58,840 --> 01:33:01,240 Speaker 1: The Bear, and I oh that they did consult a 1861 01:33:01,320 --> 01:33:04,120 Speaker 1: bunch of Chicago wands on the show. But I hate 1862 01:33:04,160 --> 01:33:07,080 Speaker 1: when they throw in local reference just to do it, 1863 01:33:07,520 --> 01:33:10,080 Speaker 1: but but it's not accurate. Yeah, I don't like It's like, 1864 01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:12,080 Speaker 1: I would rather you just not throw in the local 1865 01:33:12,160 --> 01:33:14,160 Speaker 1: reference if you if it's not right. But I remember 1866 01:33:14,200 --> 01:33:19,880 Speaker 1: the exact scene. I'm like, you're going to row is 1867 01:33:19,920 --> 01:33:22,240 Speaker 1: the same way she's supposed to be from Chicago, and 1868 01:33:22,320 --> 01:33:24,400 Speaker 1: they're like throwing in but like I was just eating 1869 01:33:24,479 --> 01:33:26,120 Speaker 1: some deep dish and now I'm going to go to 1870 01:33:26,240 --> 01:33:29,680 Speaker 1: a cup Like it was just so obviously like Chicago. 1871 01:33:30,320 --> 01:33:32,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, uh yeah, It's like. The other thing is 1872 01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:36,000 Speaker 1: when you see a billboard that's like shytown this, it's like, Okay, 1873 01:33:36,120 --> 01:33:39,360 Speaker 1: well somebody in Kansas City wrote that, because nobody who 1874 01:33:39,400 --> 01:33:42,920 Speaker 1: lives here says that. So you know, uh, the other one, 1875 01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:45,160 Speaker 1: the one that really drove me crazy. And you'll remember 1876 01:33:45,160 --> 01:33:47,200 Speaker 1: a couple of years ago we railed these people. But 1877 01:33:47,320 --> 01:33:49,960 Speaker 1: remember the remember the lifetime I think it was a 1878 01:33:50,080 --> 01:33:53,519 Speaker 1: Hallmark Radio one about the radio show, about the morning 1879 01:33:53,640 --> 01:33:56,800 Speaker 1: radio show and the host and co host. First of all, 1880 01:33:56,920 --> 01:34:00,120 Speaker 1: like the entire premise was just they got up like 1881 01:34:00,200 --> 01:34:03,280 Speaker 1: seven o'clock in the morning for their morning show, and 1882 01:34:03,400 --> 01:34:08,040 Speaker 1: they like made like shows they're in there like Megan 1883 01:34:08,120 --> 01:34:09,840 Speaker 1: omelets and stuff. I'm like, first of all, I get 1884 01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:12,400 Speaker 1: up two minutes before, I get in the shower and 1885 01:34:12,479 --> 01:34:16,120 Speaker 1: I leave two minutes later. I Am not making avocado toast. 1886 01:34:16,720 --> 01:34:19,640 Speaker 1: Uh in smoothies and whatever. They're all dressed up to 1887 01:34:19,680 --> 01:34:22,160 Speaker 1: go in there. It was. The premise was that, uh, 1888 01:34:23,040 --> 01:34:24,439 Speaker 1: they fell in love with each other. It was like 1889 01:34:24,680 --> 01:34:26,880 Speaker 1: a morning host and a color and it was like 1890 01:34:26,960 --> 01:34:29,080 Speaker 1: a fake boyfriend type thing. Yeah right, and the whole 1891 01:34:29,160 --> 01:34:32,000 Speaker 1: yeah whatever. But so it was based on a Chicago 1892 01:34:32,160 --> 01:34:37,160 Speaker 1: morning show. It was filmed in Toronto. Even filming in Chicago. 1893 01:34:37,400 --> 01:34:40,160 Speaker 1: Everything's filmed in Toronto, Atlanta, no matter where it is. 1894 01:34:40,200 --> 01:34:41,639 Speaker 1: Where they want to say, I'm like, if you're gonna 1895 01:34:41,640 --> 01:34:42,920 Speaker 1: do a ship, i mean, how hard is it if 1896 01:34:42,920 --> 01:34:45,639 Speaker 1: you're gonna do a show about Chicago, just come to Chicago. 1897 01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:49,760 Speaker 1: Like I'm looking, I'm like, that's Toronto, Canada. On the 1898 01:34:49,880 --> 01:34:52,080 Speaker 1: air was the name of the station. It was like 1899 01:34:52,560 --> 01:34:55,599 Speaker 1: it was like the Breeze or something forty seven point two. 1900 01:34:55,720 --> 01:34:59,240 Speaker 1: It was like like like instead of radio station. Yeah, 1901 01:34:59,240 --> 01:35:01,439 Speaker 1: it was like a fight. It was like the wind. Yeah. 1902 01:35:01,520 --> 01:35:05,000 Speaker 1: It was so bad. It was so bad. It was, 1903 01:35:05,280 --> 01:35:08,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, I just remember the name of the station. 1904 01:35:08,160 --> 01:35:11,200 Speaker 1: The whole thing just sucked and we railed these people, 1905 01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:14,000 Speaker 1: I remember. But I was most offended that you're none 1906 01:35:14,000 --> 01:35:18,719 Speaker 1: of it was realistic and which what what Hallmark show were? 1907 01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:20,840 Speaker 1: Angie And I was supposed to be on it was 1908 01:35:20,880 --> 01:35:24,080 Speaker 1: it that one different There was another show that we 1909 01:35:24,160 --> 01:35:26,080 Speaker 1: were asked to be on and we said we would 1910 01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:30,639 Speaker 1: do it. Yeah. It was in Disney Movie Disney. Yeah, 1911 01:35:30,800 --> 01:35:32,439 Speaker 1: and then the company, I don't know if something happened. 1912 01:35:32,439 --> 01:35:34,559 Speaker 1: We didn't know you were supposed to be on the radio, 1913 01:35:34,680 --> 01:35:37,880 Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, like that it was because and I 1914 01:35:38,000 --> 01:35:40,960 Speaker 1: was like okay, because um that would have been cool. 1915 01:35:41,160 --> 01:35:43,479 Speaker 1: Well and like in the Bear that use Linn Bramer, 1916 01:35:43,560 --> 01:35:45,800 Speaker 1: which you know, legend. The guys you know, it doesn't 1917 01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:47,479 Speaker 1: work for us, but he's a legend, been around for 1918 01:35:47,479 --> 01:35:49,720 Speaker 1: a very long time. I respect anybody who can last 1919 01:35:49,760 --> 01:35:52,320 Speaker 1: thirty years in this city. But they use his voice 1920 01:35:52,400 --> 01:35:54,800 Speaker 1: on there, and I'm like, damn it, I gotta I 1921 01:35:54,840 --> 01:35:57,040 Speaker 1: gotta work for another seventeen years before they'll put me 1922 01:35:57,080 --> 01:35:59,800 Speaker 1: on an FX show. Like come on, man, I want 1923 01:35:59,840 --> 01:36:03,280 Speaker 1: to I want to be the voice of Chicago. Come on, 1924 01:36:03,760 --> 01:36:06,479 Speaker 1: you are Chicago. I am Chicago. You're right. Red Show