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Speaker 1: on a first date with somebody, you never know if
Speaker 1: there's somebody else with you on that date. There could
Speaker 1: be somebody watching the entire time. Wait, someone that's not
Speaker 1: actually on the date with you, or they could technically
Speaker 1: kind of be on the date. I don't get it.
Speaker 1: Now that you're thoroughly confused, let's talk to Tarana, who
Speaker 1: was on a date that she wasn't really invited to.
Speaker 1: What it'll make sense? Tarn? What's up? How are you? Hey?
Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? Oh my god, Taren, you
Speaker 1: just sound like a stalker right now. Really, No, it's
Speaker 1: not like that. That's what all stalkers say. This might
Speaker 1: actually be the first time we're doing a second date
Speaker 1: update like this. Taren. I'll go ahead and let you
Speaker 1: tell the story. I'm a waitress at an Italian restaurant
Speaker 1: and I was serving a guy who was on a
Speaker 1: date with someone else. He's really really nice. She was
Speaker 1: very sweet and like cool, calm, collected, and she was
Speaker 1: like a wannabe Kardashian. She was really rude. She was
Speaker 1: rude to me. She was snobby to him and everyone
Speaker 1: else around. And I'm kind of interested in it. My god,
Speaker 1: So you kind of were on the date, like you
Speaker 1: never think about that, but your server is actually on
Speaker 1: your date too. They're experiencing some things with you. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I felt bad for him because he was being very
Speaker 1: nice to her, while she would just go on and
Speaker 1: on about herself. Anytime I came by or either walked by,
Speaker 1: she was talking about herself, talking about how amazing she is,
Speaker 1: talking about the men that she has like messaging her
Speaker 1: and texting her, and sounded like she's trying to make
Speaker 1: him jealous. She even at one point said to him,
Speaker 1: She's like, I almost into outlive you, Like I wasn't
Speaker 1: sure if you're good enough for me. She said that
Speaker 1: I'm serious, And what was his reaction? Could you see
Speaker 1: his reaction? She just kind of chuckled, and he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: he's but I hope you're having a good time. And
Speaker 1: she's like Oh yeah, I totally am, and this makes me.
Speaker 1: One of the best things about being a waitress is
Speaker 1: being able to eavesdrop on everybody's dates. I mean, end
Speaker 1: get your own dates off with the whole thing too,
Speaker 1: but I mean it does kind of help. I mean
Speaker 1: you get to meet a lot of people that way. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I used to wait tables a lot, and I would
Speaker 1: love it when you get a couple who was in
Speaker 1: an argument. It was so fun to experience the awkwardness
Speaker 1: of going up to their table. I know they weren't
Speaker 1: in an argument, but still she was being pretty crappy
Speaker 1: to him. It sounds like, yeah, she just talked about
Speaker 1: herself the whole time. She's very extremely high maintenance and selfish.
Speaker 1: Did you have any interaction with him? I did. She
Speaker 1: at one point got up to go to the bathroom,
Speaker 1: So I kind of saw that as my moment to
Speaker 1: kind of go in and just make sure, you know,
Speaker 1: I wasn't being creepy of like, hey, how are things going?
Speaker 1: Like with her? It was you know, everything, okay, how's dinner?
Speaker 1: You know, any drinks, and just kind of letting him
Speaker 1: know that I was very supportive, trying to be low
Speaker 1: key about it. Okay, all right, And did he seem interested?
Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I just didn't want to
Speaker 1: do anything to jeopardize my job or like tell her
Speaker 1: off and be like you get out of here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he is a sweet man, and you're being in a hole.
Speaker 1: That would be Actually, I just told my manager you
Speaker 1: have to leave. How did you get his phone number? Well,
Speaker 1: his number was in the reservations book. Okay, now wait,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop you because now you're the one that's
Speaker 1: being a little sketchy. Well, no, I'm not asking him
Speaker 1: to go out. I just want to know if he's
Speaker 1: even interested. Do you think you'll even remember you? Well,
Speaker 1: that's where I'm kind of hoping you guys can help
Speaker 1: me out. If you see, if he does, yeah, we'll
Speaker 1: probably have to jog his memory with the actual date
Speaker 1: he was on. So other than I want to be Kardashian,
Speaker 1: how could I describe her when we call him? Um?
Speaker 1: She she was short, for sure. Um. She had long
Speaker 1: blonde hair, but it wasn't all real. She obviously had extension.
Speaker 1: The color didn't match perfectly, but it was blonde all right.
Speaker 1: She had like a really tight green dress, but it
Speaker 1: didn't fit the restaurant. It was kind of tacky. It
Speaker 1: was a little tracky, Like, so I'm gonna say, hey,
Speaker 1: do you remember going out with a chick with really
Speaker 1: bad extensions and a tacky green dress at an Italian restaurant?
Speaker 1: He might remember that. Actually, I think it's a better
Speaker 1: Did he say anything to you any left? Like, did
Speaker 1: you guys flirt at all? I'm not really sure, Like
Speaker 1: I I, you know, think them. I told them to
Speaker 1: have a great night, and he was like, thank you,
Speaker 1: you know you too, you know, thanks so much. So
Speaker 1: it was I mean, he made eye contact with me.
Speaker 1: Not everyone does that. So okay, okay, maybe he's into you.
Speaker 1: I mean I know that this isn't the traditional way
Speaker 1: of doing things, but I figure give it a shot.
Speaker 1: Why not? Okay? Cool, Well we'll play a song and
Speaker 1: then come back and call him and see if we
Speaker 1: can get you a date. In sort of a second
Speaker 1: date update. All right, we'll do it. Next thing out
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. We're right in the middle
Speaker 1: of a second date update. And if you're just joining us,
Speaker 1: today's second date update is a little different. Taran is
Speaker 1: on the phone and she wants to call a dude.
Speaker 1: Do we even know his Hey, Taren, do we even
Speaker 1: know his name? Yeah, it's Steve. It was in the book. Okay, Steve,
Speaker 1: so his name is Steve. Tarn was actually the waitress
Speaker 1: when Steve was on a date with another girl, and
Speaker 1: Taren witnessed the other girl being kind of terrible to Steve.
Speaker 1: So after they left, she actually got his number from
Speaker 1: the reservation book and wants to call him and ask
Speaker 1: him out herself. So it's sort of a second date
Speaker 1: update that she was kind of on their date because
Speaker 1: she was the waitress, but not really. So this is
Speaker 1: going to be an interesting phone call for Steve. Now,
Speaker 1: what do you want us to say if he's totally
Speaker 1: creeped out that his waitress stole his number from the
Speaker 1: reservation's book. I feel like he's cool enough to just
Speaker 1: like go with it and kind of feel it out
Speaker 1: and see where it goes. Yeah you think that, but
Speaker 1: you don't know him. He didn't really have any conversations together. Well,
Speaker 1: I guess if it doesn't go well, then I can
Speaker 1: just lie and say he forgot something at the restaurant
Speaker 1: or something. Okay, llaut somewhere. We'll see if we can
Speaker 1: figure out a life for you. If it doesn't work,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna call him right now. Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi? Is this Steve? Yes? Who's
Speaker 1: this Steve? What's up? Man? How are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Okay have you ever heard of it before? Yeah? Oh yeah, okay, sweet?
Speaker 1: You ever listen? Oh? Sometimes? Do you ever hear of
Speaker 1: a second day update before? Um? Not sure? Why are
Speaker 1: you calling me? You went out to an Italian place
Speaker 1: a little bit ago with a girl in a green dress,
Speaker 1: blonde girl, short, Naomi. I don't know if that's her name.
Speaker 1: I just was given the description. Is that? Is that
Speaker 1: her name? Naomi? That's who you went out with? Uh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's her name. But I'm I'm confused because we have
Speaker 1: another date lined up. Yeah? No, that that makes sense
Speaker 1: to me? What makes sense to you? But she she's
Speaker 1: not the one who wanted us to call you? Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm confused. I'm killed happening. So when you went out
Speaker 1: with that Naomi girl, your server actually noticed you and
Speaker 1: thought that you were really cute and wanted us to
Speaker 1: call you. Okay, do you remember her? Do you remember her?
Speaker 1: That was a good laugh. I okay, what do you
Speaker 1: think of her? She was professional, she was nice. I
Speaker 1: don't think she was very professional, I would argue with that.
Speaker 1: Did you think she was maybe cute? Uh? I think so.
Speaker 1: I don't really remember. I was one of the dates
Speaker 1: where I wasn't really paying attention to them. Oh, you're
Speaker 1: one of those guys who pays attention to your date
Speaker 1: and the waitress the whole time. Whatever. Yeah, I guess
Speaker 1: I don't really get what the point of this is.
Speaker 1: Why why are you asking me all these questions? Well,
Speaker 1: I'll just tell you. Okay. So Taran, that's the name
Speaker 1: of your waitress that night. She thought you were attractive
Speaker 1: and she wanted to meet you, like outside of the
Speaker 1: restaurant romantically. Okay, And she's actually on the phone right
Speaker 1: now listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: She's on the phone now, Hey, Steve, it's Taren. Hi. Hi.
Speaker 1: How is it going. This is weird. I know, I know,
Speaker 1: it's super weird. Um. I just I just wanted to
Speaker 1: get in contact with you know, I wanted to reach out,
Speaker 1: So this is kind of the only way I could
Speaker 1: think of doing it. Oh my god, awkward. Do you
Speaker 1: remember me for real? Or are you just saying that no?
Speaker 1: I remember you, Okay. I just saw like the whole
Speaker 1: interaction between you and your date that night, and I
Speaker 1: just you just seem like a really sweet and nice guy,
Speaker 1: and the way that she was acting, I feel like
Speaker 1: you're way too good for her, and you deserve somebody
Speaker 1: who isn't completely high maintenance and into themselves. Twenty four seven. Whoa,
Speaker 1: Oh you were really paying attention? Huh? I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: I was. You know, you guys were one of my
Speaker 1: tables that I was taking care of. But it wasn't hard.
Speaker 1: I mean, you couldn't really ignore it. She was pretty
Speaker 1: loud about a lot of the things, especially when like
Speaker 1: her food came out. Her pasta came out, and she
Speaker 1: sent it back twice because the first time it was
Speaker 1: too salty and then the second time it wasn't salt enough.
Speaker 1: It's just it's like she finds reasons to be difficult.
Speaker 1: Maybe she's like a diet thing with the pasta. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't want to jump to any conclusions. She's just
Speaker 1: I think she's just particular about certain things like that,
Speaker 1: about certain things. So wait, did you enjoy your date?
Speaker 1: With Naomi Steve. Yeah. Yeah, look well he said, you
Speaker 1: got another date set up, right, Yeah, we're hanging out
Speaker 1: next week. You're going out with her again after that
Speaker 1: whole debacle debacle. I mean, it was the first date,
Speaker 1: so I thought it went pretty well. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: not gonna be perfect for a first date. I mean, okay, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know you or anything, but just from the
Speaker 1: what I what I saw and what I do know
Speaker 1: of that time, is that you're really nice and no
Speaker 1: one should be treated the way that she was treating
Speaker 1: you through that entire dinner. You deserve way better than that. Well,
Speaker 1: say you, but I think that you were just seeing
Speaker 1: it in a different way. She's she's she's a nice person.
Speaker 1: She is really Yeah, Taren, I don't I thought you
Speaker 1: were going to stay away from talking about his dates.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry. I know I thought I wasn't
Speaker 1: going to do that. But I mean, she, in the
Speaker 1: middle of this whole thing, yelled out at him, aren't
Speaker 1: you gay? Like what what do you see in this person? Who? No?
Speaker 1: I mean I dressed really well. People make that mistake sometimes,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I wasn't offended. She doesn't sound like she
Speaker 1: was very nice to you. She's say she's like a
Speaker 1: big personality. She's just she harmless, she has a big personality,
Speaker 1: she's super into herself. And I know that I'm maybe
Speaker 1: stepping over my boundaries here, but I feel like somebody's
Speaker 1: going to step in and be like, you gotta wake up, man,
Speaker 1: Like she is not right for you, she is not
Speaker 1: a good person, and you deserve so much more than that,
Speaker 1: like one hundred percent more than that. Thank you for
Speaker 1: saying that. So wait, I'm confused. Does that ring true
Speaker 1: for you, Steve, Or is Taren just coming off like
Speaker 1: she's attacking to your day to be kind of crazy? No,
Speaker 1: as I said, she has a big personality. I could
Speaker 1: see why someone would see that. But I'm kind of
Speaker 1: more of like an easygoing, laid back kind of guy,
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of attracted to that in Naomi, I guess. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand on some level of like
Speaker 1: opposite attracts, but you don't need to be completely put
Speaker 1: down by the other person. I really think that you're
Speaker 1: a nice, sweet guy. You're really attractive. I don't understand
Speaker 1: what you see in someone like her who is completely
Speaker 1: selfish and into themselves only and I just I wanted
Speaker 1: to do this super weird thing. I know it's like
Speaker 1: completely different, but I just wanted to give it a
Speaker 1: shot and see if you wanted to go out with me. Yeah, Steve,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Arn on a
Speaker 1: first date? It's kind of a second date because you
Speaker 1: didn't even know you were being watched while you were
Speaker 1: on your date. But would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with Arn on a date? We'll pay for it, I mean,
Speaker 1: I will say. If you're into big personalities. Terren's obviously
Speaker 1: one two because she called the radio station, stole your number,
Speaker 1: and here we are. Hey, don't compare me to the
Speaker 1: other girl. We are nothing alike. I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: have you. He likes the other girl even though you don't. Tarn, Well,
Speaker 1: I mean we've only gone on one day. We're not
Speaker 1: exclusive or anything, so that would be open to a
Speaker 1: first date? He so yes? Hey? Is that a yes?
Speaker 1: I mean, as long as long as it's okay with
Speaker 1: her that I'm still going to be seeing Naomi. But
Speaker 1: I'm down, Okay, Taren. Now you have a battle on
Speaker 1: your hands, so you want to see if you can
Speaker 1: win Steve's heart from Naomi how about we leave it
Speaker 1: at you go out on your date with her, and
Speaker 1: if you do so happen to change your mind. I'll
Speaker 1: leave my phone number with the station here and you
Speaker 1: can call them and get my number. Okay, okay, So, Steve,
Speaker 1: if you go out with you know, the girl you
Speaker 1: were originally out date with, Niam. If you go out
Speaker 1: with her and she's a which is what Terren says,
Speaker 1: then you can call us and we'll give you Terence
Speaker 1: number and you can go out with arn. Okay, Steve,
Speaker 1: you know what, go out with her one more time,
Speaker 1: because I think it's all it's going to take for
Speaker 1: you to open your eyes in real life that she's
Speaker 1: not right for you. Okay, confident? All right? Wow, all right,
Speaker 1: you you are fiery, aren't you now? Holl of a sudden,
Speaker 1: you're interested, Steve. Well, we'll have terrences number here if
Speaker 1: you want to call us. All right, Okay, I'll see
Speaker 1: how this goes. I guess okay. I'll be waiting for
Speaker 1: that phone call of you telling me I told you
Speaker 1: so je in the morning. That was a second date
Speaker 1: update from a while ago, And every once in a
Speaker 1: while we get second date updates that are so popular
Speaker 1: that we have to check back in and see what happened.
Speaker 1: And right now Tarn and Steve are actually on the
Speaker 1: phone because we're able to get an update from them.
Speaker 1: What's up, guys, How are you hey good? How are
Speaker 1: you good? So Arn you're pregnant? Is that the update? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: it didn't go that direction. Oh okay, a little differently,
Speaker 1: all right. Yeah, this is one of the more popular
Speaker 1: second date updates that we've had. A lot of people
Speaker 1: have been wondering if Steve did reach out to us
Speaker 1: to get your number, And unless I'm wrong, I don't
Speaker 1: think we actually heard from him. So what's going on? Well,
Speaker 1: so there was something I didn't quite think about when
Speaker 1: I wanted to do that second date update. I didn't
Speaker 1: think about the fact that Naomi may actually hear this
Speaker 1: on the radio. Oh my gosh. I never thought about
Speaker 1: that either the girl that he was going out with
Speaker 1: and the girl he was out with the night that
Speaker 1: you met him, when you were waiting on his table. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Naomi heard. She heard it? Oh man, Steve, did she
Speaker 1: just yell at you? For like weeks after that, I
Speaker 1: had no idea that she heard it. This is all
Speaker 1: totally news to me. I had no idea. You're just
Speaker 1: fighting that out now. No, I found out a little
Speaker 1: bit later. I'm gonna let Taran explain this one, because
Speaker 1: she lived. Did I just heard about it? Okay, what
Speaker 1: did you live? Teren So Neil, We actually came to
Speaker 1: my work and confronted me. Shut up. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it makes sense. She kind of knows where I work,
Speaker 1: so um. And by the way, I had no idea
Speaker 1: that she heard it, and I had no idea that
Speaker 1: she was going to go and do that, so wow,
Speaker 1: it's kind of crappy. Yeah, So what did she do?
Speaker 1: So she came in and basically she wanted to talk. Okay,
Speaker 1: So we sat down in like a closed section of
Speaker 1: the restaurant and she just kind of said how she's
Speaker 1: kind of upset. She kind of felt like I was
Speaker 1: feeling her. Guy, Like, hearing out on the radio was
Speaker 1: a little embarrassing for her, right, And you kind of
Speaker 1: trashed her her when you were on the show with us.
Speaker 1: I mean you were she as horrible then as you
Speaker 1: saw her on the day, you tell her a terrible person.
Speaker 1: To be honest, I was a little embarrassed because I
Speaker 1: didn't think that she would hear it and be confront
Speaker 1: me at work. So I heard her out. We kind
Speaker 1: of talked through it, and I mean we started laughing
Speaker 1: and it was like we're both on the same page
Speaker 1: of you know, okay, this is kind of funny, weird
Speaker 1: circumstance and work kind of really close friends. Now, okay,
Speaker 1: so you guys, you guys are home? Is that she's
Speaker 1: dating Steve at Yeah, what's up with you, Steve? You know,
Speaker 1: after Naomi and I kind of stopped talking and she
Speaker 1: basically dumped me, I asked Taran out, but she she
Speaker 1: gave me the no. So really, just at that point,
Speaker 1: Naomi and I had become really good friends, and it's
Speaker 1: kind of girl code that you just don't date a
Speaker 1: guy that your girlfriend date. So you so you actually
Speaker 1: lost your date and then now Taran and Naomi are
Speaker 1: kind of dating sort of, I mean your friends. Now.
Speaker 1: The really wild thing is that I had no idea.
Speaker 1: So I was on Instagram and I saw a picture
Speaker 1: of the two of them like im like a friend date,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what the heck? That's funny. It surned
Speaker 1: out modern comment. So you will, Okay, so you and
Speaker 1: Steve you're still single? Yeah, yeah, I have a few
Speaker 1: you know, things on the back burner. Yeah. In other words, yeah,
Speaker 1: you've been friends zoned by them. Do you guys still
Speaker 1: talk all three of you or no, we're not. We
Speaker 1: don't really talk any of us. I mean, don't be talking.
Speaker 1: I'm not me. No. Yeah, I would be down to
Speaker 1: hang with with the girls for a little reunion if
Speaker 1: you girls are um. You know, I don't. I think
Speaker 1: that's a no. Sorry Steve, now you've been dumped three times.