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<v Speaker 1>on a first date with somebody, you never know if

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<v Speaker 1>there's somebody else with you on that date. There could

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<v Speaker 1>be somebody watching the entire time. Wait, someone that's not

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the date with you, or they could technically

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<v Speaker 1>kind of be on the date. I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that you're thoroughly confused, let's talk to Tarana, who

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<v Speaker 1>was on a date that she wasn't really invited to.

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<v Speaker 1>What it'll make sense? Tarn? What's up? How are you? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you? Oh my god, Taren, you

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<v Speaker 1>just sound like a stalker right now. Really, No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like that. That's what all stalkers say. This might

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<v Speaker 1>actually be the first time we're doing a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update like this. Taren. I'll go ahead and let you

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<v Speaker 1>tell the story. I'm a waitress at an Italian restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and I was serving a guy who was on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with someone else. He's really really nice. She was

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<v Speaker 1>very sweet and like cool, calm, collected, and she was

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<v Speaker 1>like a wannabe Kardashian. She was really rude. She was

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<v Speaker 1>rude to me. She was snobby to him and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else around. And I'm kind of interested in it. My god,

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<v Speaker 1>So you kind of were on the date, like you

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<v Speaker 1>never think about that, but your server is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>your date too. They're experiencing some things with you. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt bad for him because he was being very

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<v Speaker 1>nice to her, while she would just go on and

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<v Speaker 1>on about herself. Anytime I came by or either walked by,

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<v Speaker 1>she was talking about herself, talking about how amazing she is,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the men that she has like messaging her

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<v Speaker 1>and texting her, and sounded like she's trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>him jealous. She even at one point said to him,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I almost into outlive you, Like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>sure if you're good enough for me. She said that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious, And what was his reaction? Could you see

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<v Speaker 1>his reaction? She just kind of chuckled, and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's but I hope you're having a good time. And

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<v Speaker 1>she's like Oh yeah, I totally am, and this makes me.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the best things about being a waitress is

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<v Speaker 1>being able to eavesdrop on everybody's dates. I mean, end

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<v Speaker 1>get your own dates off with the whole thing too,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean it does kind of help. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you get to meet a lot of people that way. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to wait tables a lot, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>love it when you get a couple who was in

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<v Speaker 1>an argument. It was so fun to experience the awkwardness

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<v Speaker 1>of going up to their table. I know they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>in an argument, but still she was being pretty crappy

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<v Speaker 1>to him. It sounds like, yeah, she just talked about

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<v Speaker 1>herself the whole time. She's very extremely high maintenance and selfish.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have any interaction with him? I did. She

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<v Speaker 1>at one point got up to go to the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>So I kind of saw that as my moment to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of go in and just make sure, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't being creepy of like, hey, how are things going?

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<v Speaker 1>Like with her? It was you know, everything, okay, how's dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, any drinks, and just kind of letting him

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<v Speaker 1>know that I was very supportive, trying to be low

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<v Speaker 1>key about it. Okay, all right, And did he seem interested?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. You know, I just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything to jeopardize my job or like tell her

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<v Speaker 1>off and be like you get out of here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he is a sweet man, and you're being in a hole.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be Actually, I just told my manager you

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<v Speaker 1>have to leave. How did you get his phone number? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>his number was in the reservations book. Okay, now wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stop you because now you're the one that's

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<v Speaker 1>being a little sketchy. Well, no, I'm not asking him

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<v Speaker 1>to go out. I just want to know if he's

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<v Speaker 1>even interested. Do you think you'll even remember you? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where I'm kind of hoping you guys can help

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<v Speaker 1>me out. If you see, if he does, yeah, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>probably have to jog his memory with the actual date

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<v Speaker 1>he was on. So other than I want to be Kardashian,

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<v Speaker 1>how could I describe her when we call him? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>She she was short, for sure. Um. She had long

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<v Speaker 1>blonde hair, but it wasn't all real. She obviously had extension.

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<v Speaker 1>The color didn't match perfectly, but it was blonde all right.

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<v Speaker 1>She had like a really tight green dress, but it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't fit the restaurant. It was kind of tacky. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a little tracky, Like, so I'm gonna say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember going out with a chick with really

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<v Speaker 1>bad extensions and a tacky green dress at an Italian restaurant?

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<v Speaker 1>He might remember that. Actually, I think it's a better

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<v Speaker 1>Did he say anything to you any left? Like, did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys flirt at all? I'm not really sure, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I I, you know, think them. I told them to

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<v Speaker 1>have a great night, and he was like, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you too, you know, thanks so much. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was I mean, he made eye contact with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Not everyone does that. So okay, okay, maybe he's into you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I know that this isn't the traditional way

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<v Speaker 1>of doing things, but I figure give it a shot.

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<v Speaker 1>Why not? Okay? Cool, Well we'll play a song and

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<v Speaker 1>then come back and call him and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get you a date. In sort of a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, we'll do it. Next thing out

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning. We're right in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date update. And if you're just joining us,

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update is a little different. Taran is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and she wants to call a dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we even know his Hey, Taren, do we even

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<v Speaker 1>know his name? Yeah, it's Steve. It was in the book. Okay, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>so his name is Steve. Tarn was actually the waitress

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<v Speaker 1>when Steve was on a date with another girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>Taren witnessed the other girl being kind of terrible to Steve.

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<v Speaker 1>So after they left, she actually got his number from

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<v Speaker 1>the reservation book and wants to call him and ask

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<v Speaker 1>him out herself. So it's sort of a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update that she was kind of on their date because

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<v Speaker 1>she was the waitress, but not really. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be an interesting phone call for Steve. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want us to say if he's totally

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<v Speaker 1>creeped out that his waitress stole his number from the

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<v Speaker 1>reservation's book. I feel like he's cool enough to just

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<v Speaker 1>like go with it and kind of feel it out

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<v Speaker 1>and see where it goes. Yeah you think that, but

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know him. He didn't really have any conversations together. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess if it doesn't go well, then I can

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<v Speaker 1>just lie and say he forgot something at the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Okay, llaut somewhere. We'll see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>figure out a life for you. If it doesn't work,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna call him right now. Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hi? Is this Steve? Yes? Who's

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<v Speaker 1>this Steve? What's up? Man? How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay have you ever heard of it before? Yeah? Oh yeah, okay, sweet?

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<v Speaker 1>You ever listen? Oh? Sometimes? Do you ever hear of

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update before? Um? Not sure? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you calling me? You went out to an Italian place

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit ago with a girl in a green dress,

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<v Speaker 1>blonde girl, short, Naomi. I don't know if that's her name.

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<v Speaker 1>I just was given the description. Is that? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>her name? Naomi? That's who you went out with? Uh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's her name. But I'm I'm confused because we have

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<v Speaker 1>another date lined up. Yeah? No, that that makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>to me? What makes sense to you? But she she's

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<v Speaker 1>not the one who wanted us to call you? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused. I'm killed happening. So when you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with that Naomi girl, your server actually noticed you and

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<v Speaker 1>thought that you were really cute and wanted us to

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<v Speaker 1>call you. Okay, do you remember her? Do you remember her?

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<v Speaker 1>That was a good laugh. I okay, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think of her? She was professional, she was nice. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think she was very professional, I would argue with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you think she was maybe cute? Uh? I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really remember. I was one of the dates

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<v Speaker 1>where I wasn't really paying attention to them. Oh, you're

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<v Speaker 1>one of those guys who pays attention to your date

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<v Speaker 1>and the waitress the whole time. Whatever. Yeah, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really get what the point of this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why are you asking me all these questions? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just tell you. Okay. So Taran, that's the name

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<v Speaker 1>of your waitress that night. She thought you were attractive

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<v Speaker 1>and she wanted to meet you, like outside of the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant romantically. Okay, And she's actually on the phone right

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<v Speaker 1>now listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>She's on the phone now, Hey, Steve, it's Taren. Hi. Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>How is it going. This is weird. I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's super weird. Um. I just I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get in contact with you know, I wanted to reach out,

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<v Speaker 1>So this is kind of the only way I could

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<v Speaker 1>think of doing it. Oh my god, awkward. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember me for real? Or are you just saying that no?

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<v Speaker 1>I remember you, Okay. I just saw like the whole

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<v Speaker 1>interaction between you and your date that night, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just you just seem like a really sweet and nice guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and the way that she was acting, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you're way too good for her, and you deserve somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who isn't completely high maintenance and into themselves. Twenty four seven. Whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you were really paying attention? Huh? I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was. You know, you guys were one of my

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<v Speaker 1>tables that I was taking care of. But it wasn't hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you couldn't really ignore it. She was pretty

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<v Speaker 1>loud about a lot of the things, especially when like

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<v Speaker 1>her food came out. Her pasta came out, and she

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<v Speaker 1>sent it back twice because the first time it was

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<v Speaker 1>too salty and then the second time it wasn't salt enough.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's like she finds reasons to be difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's like a diet thing with the pasta. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to jump to any conclusions. She's just

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's just particular about certain things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>about certain things. So wait, did you enjoy your date?

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<v Speaker 1>With Naomi Steve. Yeah. Yeah, look well he said, you

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<v Speaker 1>got another date set up, right, Yeah, we're hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>next week. You're going out with her again after that

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<v Speaker 1>whole debacle debacle. I mean, it was the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>so I thought it went pretty well. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna be perfect for a first date. I mean, okay, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you or anything, but just from the

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<v Speaker 1>what I what I saw and what I do know

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<v Speaker 1>of that time, is that you're really nice and no

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<v Speaker 1>one should be treated the way that she was treating

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<v Speaker 1>you through that entire dinner. You deserve way better than that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>say you, but I think that you were just seeing

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<v Speaker 1>it in a different way. She's she's she's a nice person.

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<v Speaker 1>She is really Yeah, Taren, I don't I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to stay away from talking about his dates.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sorry. I know I thought I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>going to do that. But I mean, she, in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of this whole thing, yelled out at him, aren't

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<v Speaker 1>you gay? Like what what do you see in this person? Who? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I dressed really well. People make that mistake sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I wasn't offended. She doesn't sound like she

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<v Speaker 1>was very nice to you. She's say she's like a

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<v Speaker 1>big personality. She's just she harmless, she has a big personality,

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<v Speaker 1>she's super into herself. And I know that I'm maybe

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<v Speaker 1>stepping over my boundaries here, but I feel like somebody's

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<v Speaker 1>going to step in and be like, you gotta wake up, man,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she is not right for you, she is not

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<v Speaker 1>a good person, and you deserve so much more than that,

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<v Speaker 1>like one hundred percent more than that. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>saying that. So wait, I'm confused. Does that ring true

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<v Speaker 1>for you, Steve, Or is Taren just coming off like

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<v Speaker 1>she's attacking to your day to be kind of crazy? No,

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<v Speaker 1>as I said, she has a big personality. I could

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<v Speaker 1>see why someone would see that. But I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>more of like an easygoing, laid back kind of guy,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm kind of attracted to that in Naomi, I guess. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I can understand on some level of like

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<v Speaker 1>opposite attracts, but you don't need to be completely put

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<v Speaker 1>down by the other person. I really think that you're

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<v Speaker 1>a nice, sweet guy. You're really attractive. I don't understand

0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:46.800
<v Speaker 1>what you see in someone like her who is completely

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<v Speaker 1>selfish and into themselves only and I just I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do this super weird thing. I know it's like

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<v Speaker 1>completely different, but I just wanted to give it a

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<v Speaker 1>shot and see if you wanted to go out with me. Yeah, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Arn on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date? It's kind of a second date because you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know you were being watched while you were

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<v Speaker 1>on your date. But would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Arn on a date? We'll pay for it, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say. If you're into big personalities. Terren's obviously

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<v Speaker 1>one two because she called the radio station, stole your number,

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<v Speaker 1>and here we are. Hey, don't compare me to the

0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:20.959
<v Speaker 1>other girl. We are nothing alike. I'm just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>have you. He likes the other girl even though you don't. Tarn, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we've only gone on one day. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>exclusive or anything, so that would be open to a

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<v Speaker 1>first date? He so yes? Hey? Is that a yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, as long as long as it's okay with

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<v Speaker 1>her that I'm still going to be seeing Naomi. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down, Okay, Taren. Now you have a battle on

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<v Speaker 1>your hands, so you want to see if you can

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<v Speaker 1>win Steve's heart from Naomi how about we leave it

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<v Speaker 1>at you go out on your date with her, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you do so happen to change your mind. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>leave my phone number with the station here and you

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<v Speaker 1>can call them and get my number. Okay, okay, So, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out with you know, the girl you

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<v Speaker 1>were originally out date with, Niam. If you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her and she's a which is what Terren says,

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<v Speaker 1>then you can call us and we'll give you Terence

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<v Speaker 1>number and you can go out with arn. Okay, Steve,

0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:16.079
<v Speaker 1>you know what, go out with her one more time,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it's all it's going to take for

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<v Speaker 1>you to open your eyes in real life that she's

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<v Speaker 1>not right for you. Okay, confident? All right? Wow, all right,

0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:27.520
<v Speaker 1>you you are fiery, aren't you now? Holl of a sudden,

0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:30.640
<v Speaker 1>you're interested, Steve. Well, we'll have terrences number here if

0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:33.640
<v Speaker 1>you want to call us. All right, Okay, I'll see

0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.840
<v Speaker 1>how this goes. I guess okay. I'll be waiting for

0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:38.240
<v Speaker 1>that phone call of you telling me I told you

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<v Speaker 1>so je in the morning. That was a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update from a while ago, And every once in a

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<v Speaker 1>while we get second date updates that are so popular

0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:50.560
<v Speaker 1>that we have to check back in and see what happened.

0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.960
<v Speaker 1>And right now Tarn and Steve are actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone because we're able to get an update from them.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, guys, How are you hey good? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you good? So Arn you're pregnant? Is that the update? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't go that direction. Oh okay, a little differently,

0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:09.760
<v Speaker 1>all right. Yeah, this is one of the more popular

0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:11.360
<v Speaker 1>second date updates that we've had. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>have been wondering if Steve did reach out to us

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<v Speaker 1>to get your number, And unless I'm wrong, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we actually heard from him. So what's going on? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so there was something I didn't quite think about when

0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:28.360
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do that second date update. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think about the fact that Naomi may actually hear this

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio. Oh my gosh. I never thought about

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<v Speaker 1>that either the girl that he was going out with

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<v Speaker 1>and the girl he was out with the night that

0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:40.960
<v Speaker 1>you met him, when you were waiting on his table. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Naomi heard. She heard it? Oh man, Steve, did she

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<v Speaker 1>just yell at you? For like weeks after that, I

0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:50.680
<v Speaker 1>had no idea that she heard it. This is all

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<v Speaker 1>totally news to me. I had no idea. You're just

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<v Speaker 1>fighting that out now. No, I found out a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit later. I'm gonna let Taran explain this one, because

0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:02.720
<v Speaker 1>she lived. Did I just heard about it? Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you live? Teren So Neil, We actually came to

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<v Speaker 1>my work and confronted me. Shut up. Yeah, I mean

0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:13.800
<v Speaker 1>it makes sense. She kind of knows where I work,

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<v Speaker 1>so um. And by the way, I had no idea

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<v Speaker 1>that she heard it, and I had no idea that

0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:19.280
<v Speaker 1>she was going to go and do that, so wow,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of crappy. Yeah, So what did she do?

0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:26.640
<v Speaker 1>So she came in and basically she wanted to talk. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we sat down in like a closed section of

0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.240
<v Speaker 1>the restaurant and she just kind of said how she's

0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.320
<v Speaker 1>kind of upset. She kind of felt like I was

0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.920
<v Speaker 1>feeling her. Guy, Like, hearing out on the radio was

0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:40.640
<v Speaker 1>a little embarrassing for her, right, And you kind of

0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:42.760
<v Speaker 1>trashed her her when you were on the show with us.

0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:45.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean you were she as horrible then as you

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<v Speaker 1>saw her on the day, you tell her a terrible person.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I was a little embarrassed because I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think that she would hear it and be confront

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<v Speaker 1>me at work. So I heard her out. We kind

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<v Speaker 1>of talked through it, and I mean we started laughing

0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.640
<v Speaker 1>and it was like we're both on the same page

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, okay, this is kind of funny, weird

0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:15.359
<v Speaker 1>circumstance and work kind of really close friends. Now, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you guys, you guys are home? Is that she's

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<v Speaker 1>dating Steve at Yeah, what's up with you, Steve? You know,

0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:24.080
<v Speaker 1>after Naomi and I kind of stopped talking and she

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<v Speaker 1>basically dumped me, I asked Taran out, but she she

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<v Speaker 1>gave me the no. So really, just at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>Naomi and I had become really good friends, and it's

0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:37.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of girl code that you just don't date a

0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:44.399
<v Speaker 1>guy that your girlfriend date. So you so you actually

0:17:44.480 --> 0:17:47.040
<v Speaker 1>lost your date and then now Taran and Naomi are

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dating sort of, I mean your friends. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>The really wild thing is that I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was on Instagram and I saw a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of the two of them like im like a friend date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what the heck? That's funny. It surned

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<v Speaker 1>out modern comment. So you will, Okay, so you and

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<v Speaker 1>Steve you're still single? Yeah, yeah, I have a few

0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:20.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, things on the back burner. Yeah. In other words, yeah,

0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:22.280
<v Speaker 1>you've been friends zoned by them. Do you guys still

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<v Speaker 1>talk all three of you or no, we're not. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't really talk any of us. I mean, don't be talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not me. No. Yeah, I would be down to

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<v Speaker 1>hang with with the girls for a little reunion if

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<v Speaker 1>you girls are um. You know, I don't. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's a no. Sorry Steve, now you've been dumped three times.