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Speaker 1: on a first date with somebody, you never know if

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Speaker 1: there's somebody else with you on that date. There could

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Speaker 1: be somebody watching the entire time. Wait, someone that's not

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Speaker 1: actually on the date with you, or they could technically

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Speaker 1: kind of be on the date. I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: Now that you're thoroughly confused, let's talk to Tarana, who

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Speaker 1: was on a date that she wasn't really invited to.

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Speaker 1: What it'll make sense? Tarn? What's up? How are you? Hey?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? Oh my god, Taren, you

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Speaker 1: just sound like a stalker right now. Really, No, it's

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Speaker 1: not like that. That's what all stalkers say. This might

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Speaker 1: actually be the first time we're doing a second date

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Speaker 1: update like this. Taren. I'll go ahead and let you

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Speaker 1: tell the story. I'm a waitress at an Italian restaurant

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Speaker 1: and I was serving a guy who was on a

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Speaker 1: date with someone else. He's really really nice. She was

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Speaker 1: like a wannabe Kardashian. She was really rude. She was

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Speaker 1: rude to me. She was snobby to him and everyone

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Speaker 1: else around. And I'm kind of interested in it. My god,

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Speaker 1: So you kind of were on the date, like you

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Speaker 1: never think about that, but your server is actually on

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Speaker 1: your date too. They're experiencing some things with you. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I felt bad for him because he was being very

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Speaker 1: on about herself. Anytime I came by or either walked by,

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Speaker 1: she was talking about herself, talking about how amazing she is,

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Speaker 1: talking about the men that she has like messaging her

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Speaker 1: and texting her, and sounded like she's trying to make

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Speaker 1: him jealous. She even at one point said to him,

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Speaker 1: She's like, I almost into outlive you, Like I wasn't

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Speaker 1: sure if you're good enough for me. She said that

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Speaker 1: I'm serious, And what was his reaction? Could you see

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Speaker 1: she's like Oh yeah, I totally am, and this makes me.

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Speaker 1: One of the best things about being a waitress is

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Speaker 1: being able to eavesdrop on everybody's dates. I mean, end

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Speaker 1: get your own dates off with the whole thing too,

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Speaker 1: but I mean it does kind of help. I mean

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Speaker 1: love it when you get a couple who was in

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Speaker 1: herself the whole time. She's very extremely high maintenance and selfish.

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Speaker 1: Did you have any interaction with him? I did. She

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Speaker 1: So I kind of saw that as my moment to

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Speaker 1: I wasn't being creepy of like, hey, how are things going?

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Speaker 1: Like with her? It was you know, everything, okay, how's dinner?

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Speaker 1: You know, any drinks, and just kind of letting him

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I just didn't want to

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Speaker 1: have to leave. How did you get his phone number? Well,

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Speaker 1: his number was in the reservations book. Okay, now wait,

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Speaker 1: being a little sketchy. Well, no, I'm not asking him

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Speaker 1: even interested. Do you think you'll even remember you? Well,

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Speaker 1: that's where I'm kind of hoping you guys can help

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Speaker 1: Why not? Okay? Cool, Well we'll play a song and

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Speaker 1: date update. All right, we'll do it. Next thing out

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Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. We're right in the middle

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Speaker 1: of a second date update. And if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 1: today's second date update is a little different. Taran is

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Speaker 1: Do we even know his Hey, Taren, do we even

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Speaker 1: know his name? Yeah, it's Steve. It was in the book. Okay, Steve,

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Speaker 1: so his name is Steve. Tarn was actually the waitress

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Speaker 1: when Steve was on a date with another girl, and

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Speaker 1: Taren witnessed the other girl being kind of terrible to Steve.

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Speaker 1: So after they left, she actually got his number from

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Speaker 1: him out herself. So it's sort of a second date

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Speaker 1: going to be an interesting phone call for Steve. Now,

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Speaker 1: you don't know him. He didn't really have any conversations together. Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess if it doesn't go well, then I can

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi? Is this Steve? Yes? Who's

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Speaker 1: this Steve? What's up? Man? How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Okay have you ever heard of it before? Yeah? Oh yeah, okay, sweet?

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Speaker 1: You ever listen? Oh? Sometimes? Do you ever hear of

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Speaker 1: a second day update before? Um? Not sure? Why are

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Speaker 1: you calling me? You went out to an Italian place

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Speaker 1: a little bit ago with a girl in a green dress,

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Speaker 1: blonde girl, short, Naomi. I don't know if that's her name.

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Speaker 1: I just was given the description. Is that? Is that

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Speaker 1: her name? Naomi? That's who you went out with? Uh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's her name. But I'm I'm confused because we have

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Speaker 1: another date lined up. Yeah? No, that that makes sense

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Speaker 1: I'm confused. I'm killed happening. So when you went out

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Speaker 1: That was a good laugh. I okay, what do you

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Speaker 1: think of her? She was professional, she was nice. I

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Speaker 1: don't think she was very professional, I would argue with that.

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Speaker 1: Did you think she was maybe cute? Uh? I think so.

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Speaker 1: I don't really remember. I was one of the dates

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Speaker 1: and the waitress the whole time. Whatever. Yeah, I guess

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Speaker 1: I don't really get what the point of this is.

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Speaker 1: Why why are you asking me all these questions? Well,

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Speaker 1: I'll just tell you. Okay. So Taran, that's the name

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Speaker 1: of your waitress that night. She thought you were attractive

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Speaker 1: and she wanted to meet you, like outside of the

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Speaker 1: now listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: She's on the phone now, Hey, Steve, it's Taren. Hi. Hi.

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Speaker 1: How is it going. This is weird. I know, I know,

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Speaker 1: it's super weird. Um. I just I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: I remember you, Okay. I just saw like the whole

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Speaker 1: who isn't completely high maintenance and into themselves. Twenty four seven. Whoa,

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Speaker 1: Oh you were really paying attention? Huh? I mean yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you couldn't really ignore it. She was pretty

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's like a diet thing with the pasta. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think she's just particular about certain things like that,

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Speaker 1: about certain things. So wait, did you enjoy your date?

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Speaker 1: With Naomi Steve. Yeah. Yeah, look well he said, you

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Speaker 1: got another date set up, right, Yeah, we're hanging out

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Speaker 1: next week. You're going out with her again after that

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Speaker 1: whole debacle debacle. I mean, it was the first date,

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Speaker 1: so I thought it went pretty well. I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: not gonna be perfect for a first date. I mean, okay, Like,

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Speaker 1: of that time, is that you're really nice and no

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Speaker 1: you through that entire dinner. You deserve way better than that. Well,

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Speaker 1: going to do that. But I mean, she, in the

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Speaker 1: you gay? Like what what do you see in this person? Who? No?

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Speaker 1: you good? So Arn you're pregnant? Is that the update? No? No, no,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, what the heck? That's funny. It surned

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Speaker 1: Steve you're still single? Yeah, yeah, I have a few

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Speaker 1: I'm not me. No. Yeah, I would be down to

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