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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Scrub a dub dumb.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you noticed, but we're a little

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Speaker 4: late releasing a podcast this week.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that was my fault.

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Speaker 2: Fallen soldier, fallen soldier.

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Speaker 3: I don't well what.

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Speaker 1: I don't drink myself, but I often I feel like

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Speaker 1: I don't get sick often.

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Speaker 4: I will say, as often as Robbie gets sick, you

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Speaker 4: really do have a strong immune system.

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Speaker 3: Yes, thank you so much, because she's.

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Speaker 4: Sick all the time and you never get it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so it was about time that you went down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I went down, and I went down hard on Sunday.

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Speaker 2: So it just happened Sunday, Saturday.

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Speaker 3: It happens Saturdayay.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, you know, my mind, I'm around,

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Speaker 1: I'm fine, I'm fine, I'm sleep load up.

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Speaker 3: On the things.

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Speaker 1: And then said they hit me hard, and your girl

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Speaker 1: is down, Yeah, down down, and I'm deep.

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Speaker 3: Luteal So I was down and dark.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait, so you're lutil which means I too, am

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Speaker 4: lutial because we were sinked. Right.

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Speaker 3: I just got my period this morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, early last month.

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Speaker 3: That wasn't the twentieth twentieth. Well, I can exactly tell

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Speaker 3: you last month, thank you very much. People like to know.

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Speaker 4: Well, no, because she made a whole thing and took

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Speaker 4: a video and being like we're finally seeing I got it.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, gotcha. I'm just around the corner,

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Speaker 2: just around the corner. Well, sorry to hear that yet

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Speaker 2: is not great.

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Speaker 1: No, but we're back and we're here. Yes on Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: I like it Tuesday for this show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's going up. That's a great song.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, Yeah, I like it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not Monday.

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Speaker 4: But Monday's your favorite day, soil. But we're not changing anything.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, oh.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know a.

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Speaker 5: Tuesday Thursday schedule four.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I like it Tuesday.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why all podcasts seem to go up

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Speaker 5: on Mondays. I don't know how that started. Easton. Can

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Speaker 5: you shot some Moe All?

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Speaker 6: I want to a lot of the podcasts I listened

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Speaker 6: to you go up on Fridays thursdayday.

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Speaker 2: Night, because then people have the whole weekend to listen. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I think a lot of people want to catch that

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Speaker 6: Monday commute Sunday night. That's what we do here at iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 6: But there's no real answer.

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Speaker 4: I think it's just a preference, even if it comes

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Speaker 4: out on Friday. If you're like, well, I listen to

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Speaker 4: my podcast on what or Friday? What did I just

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Speaker 4: say on Monday? But I want to listen on the

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Speaker 4: weekend no matter what they come out there, I just

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Speaker 4: wait for the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, we can discuss further. Mark had a birthday so.

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Speaker 5: Much. Tanya's just coming up two days away.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got my cancers all around. How was your birthday?

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Speaker 5: It was fine, thank you. I have a weird coincidence

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Speaker 5: that twice in my life I've gone to see a

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Speaker 5: children's production of Mary Poppins on my birthday, and neither

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Speaker 5: time were my kids in the production. So I don't

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Speaker 5: know how to explain that exactly, but that's what I

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Speaker 5: did on Saturday as I went to Mary Poppins.

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Speaker 2: How do you explain that, Well.

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Speaker 5: A friend of ours there, it's a camp that my

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Speaker 5: daughter was heavily involved in when she was little, Okay,

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Speaker 5: and now she's a counselor at it because she's eighteen,

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Speaker 5: and so she choreographed it, so we wanted to see

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Speaker 5: what she choreographed. And our friend's kid is in the camp,

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Speaker 5: so it was a double thing when to support them,

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Speaker 5: see what you know, that sort of thing. Yeah, so

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Speaker 5: that's what I did. I spent my afternoon at Mary Poppins. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it was a good show.

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Speaker 2: I think next year you should maybe try and plan

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Speaker 2: something that.

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Speaker 5: It's the best late plans, you know, like family stuff

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Speaker 5: just comes up. When it comes up. You can't really

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Speaker 5: schedule around it. So but it was fine, Thank you.

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Speaker 5: We wone got pizza. It's good, nice, nothing too excited.

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Speaker 3: Birthday pizza.

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Speaker 5: Birthday pizza is.

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Speaker 2: That typically what you do as a man.

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Speaker 5: An exotic pizza, like different pizza, like Detroit style, Chicago style,

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Speaker 5: some sort of thick, interesting pizza. There's a place on

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Speaker 5: Thousand Oaks called the Slice House that it's very interesting

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Speaker 5: slices of pizza with like honey or like different stuff

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Speaker 5: on it, different kinds of cheeses, and it's really fun

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Speaker 5: to go there and just go nuts.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what you're rising in moonar?

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Speaker 5: Sure? Don't?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well what are your rising in the moon?

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Speaker 3: I just told you this.

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Speaker 4: This seems like something that you should be able to.

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Speaker 2: That would make sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, wow, I have to this up

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Speaker 1: because I just did it.

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Speaker 2: What's the what is it called? Co star?

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Speaker 4: What's your astrology name? Tati? You're very disappointed in this,

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Speaker 4: she would, It's okay, it's okay.

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Speaker 5: I don't understand any of this. But it looks like

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Speaker 5: a moon sign is Pisces. I'm a cancer with a

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Speaker 5: Pisce's moon sign? Is that right? Am I reading that correctly?

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Speaker 3: I don't?

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Speaker 2: What are you looking at?

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Speaker 5: Awesome website? Is Google? My my?

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Speaker 3: No, you have to put in oh oh no, market

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Speaker 3: like time.

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Speaker 5: All that stuffy sign.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, So it's cancer sun and cancer moon

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Speaker 1: and taurusts and Aquarius rising, which is sensitive seeks comfort

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Speaker 1: for gibbs but never forgets so nice, so you yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's yours?

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Speaker 4: I'm which is the one that you present as? Is

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Speaker 4: that your moon rising? The so my moon is Libra

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Speaker 4: and my rising is cancer.

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Speaker 3: We're so tight?

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Speaker 2: How I remember?

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Speaker 4: They say, like typically how you present which makes sense

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Speaker 4: because like libras can be very indecisive, and that's I

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Speaker 4: really resonate with that. That's about it, though, I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't really go in depth about astrology. It's just

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Speaker 4: fun to ask. I love it, I know, but you

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Speaker 4: love it. You don't love it so much that you

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Speaker 1: And resonate so much as a cancer that I don't

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Speaker 1: care about the other sign.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I spent.

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Speaker 4: My whole entire week watching Love Island usay.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I gotta say, Becka put in the work

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Speaker 1: I should be put in the w E r K.

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Speaker 4: I would just like to say that that was twenty six.

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Speaker 2: I think I got I think I have a couple before.

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Speaker 2: I'm like officially caught up because it work.

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Speaker 3: Tonight, we're on episode thirty one.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, and you guys, so it actually ends this weekend.

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Speaker 1: I think the finale is the twenty first. Can you

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Speaker 1: confirm that for me? I'd be happy to thank you

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Speaker 1: so much.

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Speaker 3: I think the finales this Sunday.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I really put in the work to be

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Speaker 4: able to have this conversation on scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: And you know we're gonna have it in depth.

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Speaker 5: I can't confirm Sunday is the finale.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you're just there, You're right there. I gotta

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Speaker 3: get it tired. I'm so tired, just a couple more.

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Speaker 3: If I can tell you what Iler's voice fuck air.

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Speaker 2: To lose my mind. Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: So but I really appreciate you doing that because.

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Speaker 2: If you don't for you, you know me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I sent Beca this thing that said the Love

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Speaker 1: Island USA finale is set to air, Oh yeah, July

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Speaker 1: twenty first, as Peacock also announces that the series as

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Speaker 1: the most watched streaming reality show in America.

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Speaker 5: Looking at me like, you're in my face. I never

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Speaker 5: said it wasn't popular. What I said was your for

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Speaker 5: you page is not a great gauge of what is popular.

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Speaker 5: It's just great gauge. It's popular with you. That's the thing.

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Speaker 3: Also, but you also said nobody watches.

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Speaker 5: I said, I have information on.

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Speaker 1: Thinking about life without Love Island usay meme of Aaron

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Speaker 1: being very sad. But I saw this other meme that

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Speaker 1: it was like everybody on Instagram is in Europe, like

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Speaker 1: flaunting around the beaches. My summer plans are watching Love

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Speaker 1: Island USA. And I was like, I really resonated with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I still don't get it.

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Speaker 5: Really, twenty six episodes, you don't get it.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand how it has taken off the way

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Speaker 4: it's taken off.

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Speaker 3: What this season is extraordinary?

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Speaker 4: So what really led led me to going on this

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Speaker 2: Might I say? Just me and Phoebe. Phoebe's probably so tired.

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Speaker 2: This voice in the world is that Chicks in the office.

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Speaker 4: Rhan fran Or got invited to go to Fiji for

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Speaker 4: the finale to like do a podcast and stuff there.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, And so Tanya was like this could be us,

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Speaker 4: and I'm like, yeah, except I have never watched the

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Speaker 4: show in my life, but I will do it for you.

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Speaker 4: And so that's what you know. I was like, I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm a team player if anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So Riha and fran they are getting sent to

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Speaker 1: Fiji to be there for the finale. They get to

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Speaker 1: interview the winning couple and they get to interview Ariano

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Speaker 1: Mattox and they're gonna be on Aftersun, which is like

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Speaker 1: iconic for Love Island fans, and Peacock sent them the

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Speaker 1: water bottles. They like have these water bottles with their

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Speaker 1: names on them that are very like iconic, and they

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Speaker 1: sent them all this kind of Love Island swag.

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Speaker 2: I do feel like you should at least get a

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Speaker 2: swag bag.

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Speaker 3: No, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: I felt a little left out of that as well

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Speaker 1: because I saw Nick bol got one as well.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, wow.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if Nick Miles watched as many

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Speaker 1: seasons as I have. But that's neither here nor there.

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Speaker 6: Are they all still on the island?

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Speaker 3: Then, yes, it's all in real time so we're.

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Speaker 1: Watching, yes, yes, Okay, so this is a break and

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Speaker 1: come back because there's like a lot to unpack.

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Speaker 2: Have we even started the podcast?

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Speaker 4: We just started when okay, we're gonna put we'll put

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Speaker 4: a pin in that and do that at another tuble

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Speaker 4: we'll go in depth about Love Island.

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Speaker 2: But we just started the podcast this Thursday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you doing? Oh my gosh, Well you

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Speaker 1: can't really like throw me like that. I'm like just

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Speaker 1: getting into my like love, I know.

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Speaker 4: But we literally just started the podcast and had like

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Speaker 6: We just heard thirty minutes of commercials before the show

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Speaker 6: start again.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm never the one to like break us, And

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Speaker 1: so I wanted to like bet today and I wanted.

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Speaker 3: To get it in.

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Speaker 5: Speak to that. I add the commercial breaks. iHeart radio

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Speaker 4: We don't have control over everything, but we hear you

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Speaker 3: That's very true. A lot of boring love island talk.

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Speaker 2: What.

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Speaker 3: Of things like watching Love Island every night.

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Speaker 4: She would have no, I wouldn't have been able to

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: I commend you, I really do, because I know going

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Speaker 1: The work to get here. Yeah, you know, that's that's

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Speaker 4: Three weeks is a long time. So but when you

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Speaker 3: She went there.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, Anyways, what are you doing for you?

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Speaker 3: What are we doing?

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Speaker 5: In you'll be on the morning show.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, but and I am, I'm free, so you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna do a spall day.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna do I mean, we'd love to come.

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Speaker 2: Massage guys.

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Speaker 5: Done.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, I guess that will be in a

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm kind of you know what, I realized because

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Speaker 3: That's very meaningful to us.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, let's just.

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Speaker 3: Call it what it is, another day and we move on.

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Speaker 4: It's not another day. But I think you can celebrate

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Speaker 4: big hooplah.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say hoopla.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, it's giving hullabalu, but it's a word who was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going made that up?

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00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,600
Speaker 2: No, remember when I did that thing and I.

448
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 3: Was like me words, I thought it was a made

449
00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,000
Speaker 3: up word like faith word. Oh wow.

450
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 2: Anyway, anyway, it's gonna make what are your what's your

451
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,439
Speaker 2: goal for year thirty seven?

452
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 1: So it's so funny because I was sick for the

453
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 1: past couple of days, I haven't really had, like my

454
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,800
Speaker 1: Tanya time to really think over what I want to

455
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 1: leave behind in this last year. You did put in

456
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 1: perspective to me that this thirty seventh year of life

457
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 1: is the year that I'm going to marry the man

458
00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:43,960
Speaker 1: of my dreams.

459
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,560
Speaker 5: Which is like your thirty eighth year of life mark,

460
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 5: you're turning thirty seven, meaning you're starting Oh.

461
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry anyway, but yeah, which really was like crazy, Yeah,

462
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 1: that's crazy.

463
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,199
Speaker 4: Well, I think there's so many times we always have

464
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,119
Speaker 4: conversations about like the societal pressure of like what.

465
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,520
Speaker 2: You should have done by a certain age and.

466
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it sucks.

467
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 1: I feel like it's only a woman thing because like

468
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 1: especially there's the not the societal pressures, but also like

469
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 1: the genetic pressures or what scientific scientific pressure is on women,

470
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:22,120
Speaker 1: and like also the societal pressures of like, you know,

471
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: we're getting older, are we relevant?

472
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 3: Are we cool? Everybody wants to be gen z? Like

473
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,159
Speaker 3: should I be worried about my job? You know what

474
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 3: I mean?

475
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 1: Like all those things go through your head as you

476
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,119
Speaker 1: get older as a woman, and it's like up honestly.

477
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no it is. But I do think that

478
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 4: both can exist. Like I think it's normal, it's human

479
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:45,880
Speaker 4: to go like to have those thoughts, especially like as

480
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:50,200
Speaker 4: we get another year older, especially as we're just naturally aging.

481
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 4: But I also think that being able to see the

482
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 4: bright spots and what a privilege it is to have

483
00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 4: to have a year, to have something like marrying the

484
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 4: love of your life that's like happening at this time

485
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 4: in your life is so exciting, you know.

486
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 2: So it's all about perspective, Yeah, and also acknowledging the

487
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 2: feelings that you feel and being able to go like,

488
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 2: oh this sucks, but it is a weird feeling and

489
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 2: stop it.

490
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 1: It's such a weird I felt like I was having

491
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 1: that America Ferrera dialogue going on in my head Frobie

492
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: from Barbie. Yeah, where it's like as a woman, like,

493
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 1: you know, you want to embra like.

494
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 3: I do love. I feel like the older that I get.

495
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: The more confident I am in myself and the more

496
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 1: like excited I am about things, and the less I

497
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 1: care about stupid stuff, you know what I mean. So

498
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 1: it's like I do enjoy getting older in that perspective.

499
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: But then it is there is that element of like

500
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,440
Speaker 1: I work in entertainment, and like there is this thing

501
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 1: as women get older, they get less and less desirable

502
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: and get shoved to, you know, somewhere else, and so

503
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 1: it's just like it's this really weird mix of emotions.

504
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's funny you mentioned America for a bar because

505
00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 5: just last night. And I don't want to say who

506
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 5: this is is because it's it's it's it's their business.

507
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 5: But my wife and I know someone who who who

508
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,360
Speaker 5: filed for divorce from her husband after many years, and

509
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 5: when asked about that, because we kind of saw this coming,

510
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 5: she said, the turning point was the last thirty minutes

511
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 5: of the Barbie movie. Wow. She said that was that

512
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 5: was when she knew it was over because she was

513
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 5: tired of being disrespected.

514
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's so dark.

515
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 5: Yeah.

516
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I don't have that.

517
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 2: You don't have one that.

518
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Everybody has.

519
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 1: Everybody has stuff going on in their lives, you know

520
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: what I mean. You reflect and I feel like I

521
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 1: reflect a lot around my birthday, but everybody has like

522
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: things going on and pressures and starting over again at

523
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: however whatever her age she is, and it's all just crazy.

524
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 4: I think that every every year that we get to

525
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 4: have and it's it's almost like you look back like

526
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 4: we'll never be.

527
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 2: This young again, you know.

528
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I think that's also how to look at it,

529
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 4: is like this is as young as we're gonna be.

530
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 5: That's like perspective. When your birthday comes around, you're like,

531
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 5: oh god, I can't believe I'm this old. Well, you'll

532
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 5: never be this young again in ten years from No

533
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,719
Speaker 5: wish it was that old. So you got to enjoy it.

534
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 5: I love it.

535
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 3: I know.

536
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: Now you guys are making me want to like throw

537
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: a big party because I'm like, I'm never gonna get

538
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 1: thirty seven back.

539
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's throw a party then.

540
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 4: But we're gonna have a small day in like a

541
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 4: nice time so we can party.

542
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna you're having a really big party next year.

543
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 2: Next year.

544
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, a very big party.

545
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 4: Okay, the time has finally come for a break to

546
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,479
Speaker 4: talk about Love Island. Oh wow, but we're gonna take

547
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 4: a break and we'll be right back.

548
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 3: How do you know that was?

549
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 2: The time has arrived.

550
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 4: We gave you a teaser at the beginning of the episode,

551
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 4: but it's time to get in depth.

552
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 2: It is of Love Island USA Season six.

553
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 4: And if you're someone listening and you're like, I don't care,

554
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 4: I hear you.

555
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 2: I understand you.

556
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 4: I know these conversations when you're not watching something said yes,

557
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 4: are like no, but it's it's you know, when you

558
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 4: spend I would say, twenty six hours of a week

559
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 4: watching a reality TV show.

560
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 2: You deserve an in depth conversation about So I.

561
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,719
Speaker 1: Also, like I I watched this show on a daily basis.

562
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: It airs every day but hump Day, and I am

563
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 1: sad on Wednesday nights because I don't get my new episode.

564
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 3: That's how addicted I am.

565
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 4: Can you explain what it is about the show that

566
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 4: you're addicted to?

567
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: I wish I oh, like, I wish I knew.

568
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 3: But I first of all, I love love and I

569
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 3: like the kid.

570
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 2: No. None, Yeah, I gotta be ironic. What you have

571
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: to be being ironic?

572
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 3: No, but the show is based around finding love. Okay,

573
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 3: don't gauge this season.

574
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: Don't gauge this season on that because not this season

575
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: sucked for the love department.

576
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 3: There are couples that come out of it.

577
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 1: And what I like about it is that it's not

578
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: just one guy with like twenty five girls. One got

579
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,880
Speaker 1: girl with twenty five guys. This is guys and girls

580
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: all being able to just date each other, be respectful

581
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: about it, go out with other people in front of

582
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: other people, respectful.

583
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 3: Well, okay, so.

584
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:51,199
Speaker 1: This season of USA is outside of the norm. There

585
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 1: was a lot of drama, which I also found entertaining too,

586
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: But it's all the name of love.

587
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 6: What sets it apart from Bachelor in Paradise.

588
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 3: So I'm glad you are asked.

589
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 2: God Really.

590
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, it's a hair trash here. I've always I've

591
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 3: always been like on.

592
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: My like high horse saying that, like the UK is

593
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 1: only what I will watch. I will never watch Love

594
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: Island USA. These people like are just it's trashy. I

595
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: don't like it. It's bad behavior, and because the UK ones

596
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: are very respectful and it's like it's a totally different show.

597
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 3: But I found myself caught up in it this season.

598
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 4: Everyone did, though, That's why I was like, I guess

599
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 4: this is a conversation that we need to have on

600
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 4: the podcast because.

601
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: Everyone wants me about Everybody that I follow on Instagram

602
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: is watching it and like watching it in real time,

603
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: like Carissa Stanton, Amanda Stanton, Alex Cooper, Victoria Garrick. Uh,

604
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: there's more you name it, you name it, They're watching it.

605
00:27:55,200 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: Friend Susie Susie Susie into it. I just like every

606
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: but Teddy Mellencam. I just feel as though everybody that

607
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 1: I follow is watching this season.

608
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 2: Uh huh. Who do you feel like you resonate with

609
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 2: the most on the show?

610
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 3: Kaylor?

611
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: Literally, Tanya would be.

612
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,479
Speaker 3: Kaylor also would be if I were on Love Island.

613
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 2: Why do you say that?

614
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: Because she felt she fell hard, she stayed loyal and true.

615
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: He totally screwed her, and then she took him back.

616
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: She cried a hundred times, over and over and over again,

617
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: the same story, took him back every time. It's quite

618
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: sad that I feel like I resonate with her.

619
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 3: But I do.

620
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 2: I like the awareness.

621
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, at least I'm aware of it.

622
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just Okay. So I texted Tania and I said,

623
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 4: what would you do if we went for the same

624
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 4: guy on Love Island? And she immediately said murder you,

625
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 4: which I thought was interesting.

626
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 3: And easy out for off. And then he's mine.

627
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 4: I'm assuming that you met if we weren't friends and

628
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:07,719
Speaker 4: we just went in like as strangers.

629
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

630
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 4: And then I was like, well, I thought we could

631
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 4: just have a conversation about it and just you know,

632
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 4: it would be up to him to make the decision

633
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 4: of who he wants to be with ultimately, and she said,

634
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 4: oh so obviously was joking. Would you still murder me

635
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 4: if that after I gave you that other option?

636
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 3: No, I obviously would be mature about it. Have a

637
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 3: conversation with.

638
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: The guy and with you, and like, then let's decide

639
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,479
Speaker 1: who was the better connection. That's obviously what I would do.

640
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: But I was curious who you resonate with most within

641
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: the villa.

642
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 4: So as someone I would say before I met Haley,

643
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 4: I resonate with liv because she has no interest in

644
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 4: any of the guys, and she is very much a

645
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 4: girl's girl.

646
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: She is, if you know what I mean, she's a

647
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: girl's girl.

648
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: She is.

649
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 4: The girl wants to be there for the girls, no

650
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 4: interest in any of the guys, and they all have

651
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 4: picked her now.

652
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 3: She has had slight interest slight interest.

653
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: She hasn't been hurt one time when a guy has

654
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: gone That's what I'm saying.

655
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: Like she likes him for a minute, Like I think

656
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: she like robbed for like a day, team for like

657
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: a day.

658
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: I too, liked the attention, and then I was like, Okay, heybye,

659
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 2: too close, goodbye, ye go find someone else.

660
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 3: But she sticks up for all the girls. She's out there,

661
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 3: ye doing the moment.

662
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 4: That's why I was like, I could see that being

663
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 4: me pre Haley on the show post Hailey, Like, if

664
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 4: I met someone and had the connection with Haley, I

665
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 4: would be Serena.

666
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 3: Oh interesting.

667
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: So are you team Serena or team Cordell Serena, Okay,

668
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: so hot take. I've been teaming Cordell because from day

669
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: one he has been only interested in her, and she's

670
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: been twisting and trying to like not commit to him

671
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: and like trying other connections out, and he has been

672
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: faithful to her. So then they go to Cossa more

673
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: and this girl's showing him attention.

674
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 3: No, that's Serena. Never showed him.

675
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, she did the night before he left. He finally

676
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: got what he wanted. It's news you lose.

677
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 4: No, no, no, because she would go and try and

678
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 4: find other connections, but she was never disrespectful to him.

679
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 4: She would go and have other conversations.

680
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: And I agree that he may not have done it

681
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: in the nicest of ways. It was a little like gross. Yeah, However,

682
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: I do feel like she toyed with him the majority

683
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: of the beginning of the see she was a.

684
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: Very normal person going into the show, being like I'm

685
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 2: not gonna literally hook up with you. The first few

686
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 2: nights we met. And I'm gonna take it slow, but

687
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 2: I like you and I want to try this.

688
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 3: Guy, and I'm gonna I'm gonna, I'm not gonna.

689
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: Stay loyal to you and I talk to them.

690
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 3: I didn't love it. I love as a Kailer. I

691
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 3: didn't like Kaylor.

692
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 4: You should be totally team Serena. No, yeah, because Cornell

693
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 4: did what Aaron did.

694
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no. I think they're very different.

695
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: Aaron to me is for the birds. We can chop

696
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: them up and feed him to the birds.

697
00:31:58,960 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 2: He is.

698
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 3: And oh you know what I heard what I Live.

699
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: Was on another podcast and she said that we didn't

700
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: even see the worst of it.

701
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 2: What he did with Daniella.

702
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 3: I'm sure, really, I would feel like they would show

703
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 3: us that.

704
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 4: They're probably like, if we have, if there's any chance

705
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 4: of care, we gotta ease it up a little bit.

706
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: I've also heard, oh, okay, I also heard that Caine.

707
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 3: Oh you know, are you not caught up?

708
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: Yeah? I know who Kine is. Okay, well, he.

709
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 3: Is no longer great.

710
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: I heard that producers did not like him because he

711
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,959
Speaker 1: was supposed to pick Live. They wanted to keep her

712
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: and I guess he didn't pick her, and so they

713
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: were like and they like somehow figured out how to

714
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: get him out.

715
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 2: Whoa yeah.

716
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 3: In the TikTok world. So I don't know how much

717
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 3: of this is true, but I love it.

718
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 4: I was zero invested in Kane, so right, My who

719
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 4: I would have gone for in another life.

720
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, was Rob Oh And I don't get why.

721
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 2: Everyone hated it. He was so upfront. He I didn't

722
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 2: feel like he ever did anything like.

723
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 3: You know what I hated about him? Tell and when

724
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 3: he got on my list his overalls, No, I don't

725
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 3: care what you wear.

726
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: Wear whatever you want, he said. He got all hot

727
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: and bothered. When they sent Andrea his love home, they

728
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: were like, now you sent three people home instead of

729
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: two and made this whole stink about how he was

730
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: gonna leave with her, and he was so upset, and

731
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with my girl because I love her

732
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: and screw you guys for sending her home.

733
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 3: And then what does he do? I think I'm gonna

734
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: stay in the villa.

735
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm sure producers are like, you can't leave,

736
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: You'll regret this. And they had known each other for

737
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 2: three days.

738
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 3: Well, who cares if that's the love that he is.

739
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 2: I don't think his love.

740
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 4: I think he was like I really like her, and

741
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 4: I do think he really liked her. I thought it

742
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 4: was so messed up that they sent her home. I

743
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 4: was so mesd because I liked her me too, and

744
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 4: I liked them. I thought that I literally feel like.

745
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: They would have won, for they would have hundred percent,

746
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: and they would have known, they knew that they knew.

747
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: So I was like pissed, and that's why I started

748
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 2: I hate Leah.

749
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 3: That's when I was like, Leah, you're on my list.

750
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 4: See here's my feelings about the whole cast. I don't

751
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,479
Speaker 4: love any of them, and I don't hate any of them.

752
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 3: I'm just like indifferent.

753
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: I don't relate to any of them.

754
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 3: Wait, that's such a bad place to.

755
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 2: Be, because I was telling I was talking.

756
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: About to Joo about that this is like worse than

757
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 3: love or hate.

758
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,399
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, and difference is the opposite of love.

759
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 3: Actually yeah, but.

760
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter when it comes to this because I

761
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 4: don't care. I was telling Jojo because she was like,

762
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 4: hasn't gotten any more interesting? Because I was bored and

763
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 4: I was like, well, cow some more happens and that's

764
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 4: pretty dramatic. And I was like, but I realize I

765
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 4: have I don't relate to any of this because, first

766
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 4: of all, in my twenties when I was their age,

767
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 4: they're like young twenties, yeah, which blows my mind. I

768
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,760
Speaker 4: was a virgin, so that was like, I can't relate

769
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 4: to any of them on just like going and having

770
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,399
Speaker 4: this experience. Secondly, I'm dating a woman, so like I

771
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 4: have in my mind, I'm like, this is insane. They

772
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 4: kiss so aggressively, I'm like grossed out.

773
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 2: And third I'm thirty five. I'm like, I feel so

774
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: far removed from this that like there's no part of

775
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: me that connects to anyone.

776
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 3: Why do I connect to it so much?

777
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 2: Then? Because you see yourself in kaylor Well, Also you

778
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 2: love the show.

779
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: So you like see you know there is something that

780
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: I love about it.

781
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 3: It's like these people are in this warped word. They're

782
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 3: in a bubble.

783
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 1: They can't watch TV, they don't have any social media,

784
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: they can't do anything but just talk to each other

785
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: all day long.

786
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 3: Do you know how much that's my dream? It's like

787
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:28,439
Speaker 3: summer camp.

788
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 1: They wake up, they get ready, they do all their makeup,

789
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: They chitchat all the girls, the guys make them breakfast.

790
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: They play these dumb challenges like it's so it's like

791
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: summer camp. It's like watching adults at summer camp.

792
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, but all the challenges are like.

793
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 4: The most like teeth clashing, disgusting makeouts I've ever seen.

794
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 4: I literally was horrified the first makeout challenge.

795
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 2: Really well, after you kiss a girl watching this, you're like, wow,

796
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: it's so much better.

797
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 3: Really, Yes, I don't know.

798
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 2: That, but I find you too. You would probably be

799
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 2: an aggressive.

800
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:09,439
Speaker 3: You haven't seen the heart rate challenge yet.

801
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: That's like basically like soft core porn, like soft television. Yeah,

802
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,439
Speaker 1: it's pretty so like they do this challenge and you're

803
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: gonna a couple couple episodes away.

804
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 3: I watched it last night. Was so good.

805
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: But basically like all the guys sit down around the

806
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: fire pit and all the girls come out like different

807
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 1: whatever sexy outfits so they can be like a sexy

808
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: cat or like a sexy.

809
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 3: Nurse or whatever.

810
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 1: And the guys are wearing heart rate monitors and they

811
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 1: have to like grind on them and they get judged

812
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: on who which.

813
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 5: The women grind on each guy.

814
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: Each one at a time, and then they rehearse it

815
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: and the guys grind on each girl one at a time,

816
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: and they see who raises your heart rate the most,

817
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: and like, you hope it's your partner, Like you hope

818
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: it's like your couple that you're in, but it's like

819
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: really awkward if it's not. But like just so that

820
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: the things that people do to get their specific partner's

821
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: heart rate up because they want that, they like they

822
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 1: will like take them, throw them on the floor.

823
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 3: Like Janey was like, I don't even know how to

824
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 3: say it.

825
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: Like she was twerking on Kenny's face and her butt

826
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: was like clapping in.

827
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 3: The back and I was like, oh yeah.

828
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: Kendall threw in cold down and was like licking the

829
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: inside of her thighs all the way up. And I'm like,

830
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: this is literally soft porn, like if they were naked,

831
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 1: this will be porn. And it's on my television screen

832
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: right now and I'm loving.

833
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 6: Every So what episode this.

834
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 3: Episode thirty one than you are?

835
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 2: She's there, She's there so much time. I'll have to

836
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 2: see it through. But my god, am I ready for

837
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:46,919
Speaker 2: it to be done?

838
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I had to say when they come back

839
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: from cost some More. To me, that was peak television.

840
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: That episode was one of the best reality TV shows

841
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: I've seen in my lifetime.

842
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 2: That episode when they came back.

843
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 1: When they came back, all of it was brilliantly done.

844
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: Like hats off to the team at Peacock. However, once

845
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: they come back and I will settle into their couples,

846
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: it starts. There's a couple episodes where it gets a

847
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 1: little boring. So I'm ready to like wrap this season up,

848
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: let's go. But are you rooting for I think there's

849
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 1: no couples that I there's really no couples except for

850
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: Kendall and Nicole.

851
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 2: Oh spoiler alert, spoiler alert, Well.

852
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: No, I mean Cordell and Serena, Janey and k Kenny, Taylor, Kayler,

853
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 1: Kaylor and Aaron and Leah and Miguel.

854
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't really care. I don't care who wins.

855
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 2: That's what. So I was trying to figure out what

856
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 2: the point of this show was because I'm like, the

857
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: producers are messing with everyone so much that it doesn't

858
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 2: feel like they even want anyone to find love. You know.

859
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 2: It felt so chaotic.

860
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 4: But I do think from the game mentality, I could

861
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 4: go in and just like be totally shut off, but

862
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 4: like fake it till I make it.

863
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: Right, Like I want to win so bad that I'm

864
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 1: just going to get into a couple of America love me.

865
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, And if he wants to go explore, I'm gonna

866
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 4: be so nonchalant that he'll be like, why doesn't she care?

867
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 2: And if he came back, I'd be like, I'm glad

868
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 2: you got to explore.

869
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 7: Wow.

870
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 4: I could do it in my prime when I was

871
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 4: early twenty years off, didn't know.

872
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 2: I was like interested in women. Yeah, could have aced it.

873
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: I could never do it. No, no, no, Cosa Moore

874
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: would wreck you probably chose to go to Kasa More.

875
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 3: He'd be a dead man. He would literally if he came.

876
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: Back, I'd be like, fine, if I saw that video

877
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: and like Tayler watching it over and over and over again,

878
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: like I've been her, Like I have done that.

879
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 2: You've watched the videos of something well, yeah or.

880
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 1: Not like in that Obviously it's a very unique situation,

881
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 1: but like when you're like when Robin and I were

882
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: broken up, I would analyze every single thing he posted.

883
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 1: I'd like screenshot and like zooming, like where is he

884
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: Like what part of town is this whose license play

885
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 1: is in front of his house.

886
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 2: So scary to admit publicly digital footprint.

887
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 4: The thing that really really upset me was how different

888
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 4: of a level of.

889
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 2: Just physical, physical beauty.

890
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 4: The guys they brought into the girl's house versus the

891
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 4: girls they brought into the guys that you guys they

892
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 4: brought in ten, like ten out of ten every single

893
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 4: girl that they brought for the guys.

894
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 3: Girls that came in.

895
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 2: Models, and then the guys they brought in were like.

896
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 4: And like one thing, See, my thing is like, okay,

897
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 4: if someone maybe they're not like oh my gosh, they're

898
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 4: so hot, but they have like funny banter and the

899
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,800
Speaker 4: conversation's good and there's chemistry.

900
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't even care.

901
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 3: They were duds literally, so were.

902
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 4: Like stunning and like cute and it's sweety.

903
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 2: I was like this they set them up for so

904
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 2: much failure.

905
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 3: I agree.

906
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: There was something weird in the water with the like

907
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: there was something set up there.

908
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 2: They were one of the girls.

909
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 1: They didn't want the girls to stray, They wanted the

910
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: eyes to stray, like there was something weird there. It's

911
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: never been like that, like normally it's just like it's equal.

912
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:06,240
Speaker 3: It's equal.

913
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was wild, it was very weird. But this

914
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: is all happening in real time. So like these people

915
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 1: right now are in Fiji living in this bubble, and

916
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: we're all having these crazy conversations online, like on TikTok

917
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 1: and stuff, and they're gonna come out and be like,

918
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:23,240
Speaker 1: what the hell.

919
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 2: It's so crazy to editing it and getting it up

920
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:27,720
Speaker 2: that tonight.

921
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: That's a great question that I would love answered. If

922
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: anybody that listens to us works on the show or

923
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: behind the scenes, I would love to know, Like I know, Ian,

924
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: the guy who voiceovers the show, voices it at like

925
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,720
Speaker 1: nine pm, I think the night before.

926
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 4: I would also like to admit because I really had

927
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 4: a hard time with him when I tried to watch

928
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 4: the show before.

929
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: He made me laugh out loud a lot.

930
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 3: He's very funny.

931
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 2: He's very funny.

932
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,240
Speaker 3: He's very funny.

933
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,399
Speaker 2: Apologies for my hot take on him.

934
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah it's okay, we accept your apology.

935
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: Thank you as a United Love Island front, but I'm

936
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: so curious as to how they I also started following

937
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,879
Speaker 1: this girl who's she's a reality TV producer. She doesn't

938
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: say what she used to produce for. But she kind

939
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: of gives like a behind the scenes of Love Island

940
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: as like a producer, huh. And she's been giving some

941
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: like insight of like the whole Daniella thing. She basically

942
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:24,360
Speaker 1: was like once Aaron and Daniella, once they realized that

943
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 1: Aaron was like not gonna bring Daniella back, they wanted

944
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: to get her back to the to the villa so

945
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: bad that they were probably in Aaron's ear like, oh,

946
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 1: ask Rob to take her, and like in Rob's ear, oh,

947
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: you should look at Daniella to.

948
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 2: Say on the show you should.

949
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because they wanted they knew that they

950
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: needed to get Daniella in the villa, and so they

951
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: were just trying to like figure out how Wow, I know.

952
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, producers are genius. I mean it's crazy. Yeah, what

953
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 4: they can do?

954
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 5: Can we end this now or what do you guys think?

955
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 4: I don't really have anything left to add, but there's

956
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 4: still we have no next week, so.

957
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 3: It's over on Sunday.

958
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Monday we have we'll have a conversation about it.

959
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 2: Oh right right right right right, yay, So we'll be.

960
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 4: Back with more, So stay tuned and we'll be right

961
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 4: back for this podcast.

962
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 7: Oh my god, every party has a poopa. That's what

963
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 7: we invited you, mom.

964
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 5: It seemed like an adequate amount of time, and in fact,

965
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 5: i'm looking back at it, it took like about twenty

966
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 5: straight minutes of Love Island.

967
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 3: I tell you, I have.

968
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 2: To tell you.

969
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 1: So Robbie bailed on this season. He was just like,

970
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: I can't with these people, like I'm out, and so

971
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: he stopped watching. And then when I got to call

972
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: some more, guess who can crawling back begging.

973
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 4: I don't blame him though that if I if someone

974
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 4: had been like, hey, start at episode eleven or twelve,

975
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 4: whatever that was, I would have been so happy or

976
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 4: really honestly, when Andrea came in, whatever episode that was,

977
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 4: that's when it got like picture. So it was like

978
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,399
Speaker 4: seven episodes of just like what are we doing?

979
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 3: But you were asking them wrong, girl, because I love

980
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 3: it all, I know.

981
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 6: I was very entertained watching you talk about it was

982
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 6: like watching a stallion that had been fenced up for

983
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 6: months being able to run free. That was like, sincerely,

984
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 6: very exciting to watch.

985
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you.

986
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 1: I actually got a lot of d ms from Scrubbers

987
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: that said that they've started the season because I have

988
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 1: all my Instagram stories and they asked.

989
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 3: Me to make a highlight so that they could watch them.

990
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 6: Back as they.

991
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 4: I put when I posted the screenshot of you saying

992
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 4: you'd murder me, Robbie goes.

993
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 2: Tanya would be that she'd be a disaster on the

994
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 2: show Disaster.

995
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 3: Disaster.

996
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll be back next week with more.

997
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 2: Don't worry about us.

998
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 1: Well no, but with the love because we're not gonna

999
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 1: talk about Love Island on Thursday because we need.

1000
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 2: To give Unless it's a Dear Bonya question.

1001
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 3: Nobody wants a break from Levi Isolin.

1002
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 5: Everyone does that. Doesn't watch that show, you have to understand.

1003
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 4: Well, speaking of Dear Bonya, there was a follow up question.

1004
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 2: Mark, do you wanna do you wanna sure handle that?

1005
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,399
Speaker 5: Here comes? Are you ready for a follow up question?

1006
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 5: Because I'm gonna read it to you right now. On

1007
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,399
Speaker 5: last week's Dear Bonia episode of Scobber asked if she

1008
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 5: should stop trying to conceive so she can attend her

1009
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 5: best friend's wedding. Remember I remember this.

1010
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got a lot of feedback.

1011
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 3: I said, go for it.

1012
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 5: Some of you said stop Scrubber Sierra said in the

1013
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 5: Facebook group that she wants a follow up question ask

1014
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 5: and this is a very astute question, Sierra, Tanya, if

1015
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:49,240
Speaker 5: Becca were getting married nine months after your wedding, would

1016
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 5: you hold off on getting pregnant right after you get married?

1017
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? Wait, if Becca was good, if you were getting

1018
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 3: married nine months after my wedding, okay, yeah.

1019
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 4: So there was a lot of scuttle about this in

1020
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 4: the Facebook group, and a lot of people who have

1021
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 4: been through the process or know someone closely who has

1022
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 4: gone through the process of trying to conceive and have

1023
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 4: had a hard time. It came across that we were

1024
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 4: very you and I were very like insensitive to that

1025
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 4: the struggle of trying to conceive. And then they're like,

1026
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 4: we appreciate Mark's answer, which I totally understand by Here's

1027
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 4: what I commented back, because I was like, this is

1028
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 4: this is one of those things where and we announced

1029
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 4: this at the beginning of the episode where like, we're

1030
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 4: not professionals, we only give our opinions, Like it's really

1031
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 4: you know, we're just.

1032
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 2: Giving what we would do in our lives.

1033
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 4: You're planning a wedding, so what's most important in your mind,

1034
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 4: Like what could be more important than your best friend

1035
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 4: being at your wedding.

1036
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: Well. And also I've never tried to conceive, Yes, I've

1037
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: I was going to spend my life not trying to conceive,

1038
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: So that's my perspective. And I also think, yes, I do.

1039
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,240
Speaker 1: At the minute we get married, we're gonna start trying.

1040
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 1: That's the plan. But I still think that if you

1041
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 1: were getting married nine months from my wedding, I think

1042
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:06,479
Speaker 1: I would wait.

1043
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 3: I don't.

1044
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:10,280
Speaker 1: I would like not like I'm gonna wait till your wedding,

1045
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: but right, I don't want to. I wouldn't want to

1046
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: miss your wedding, right.

1047
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 4: I think I would be if if I knew that

1048
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 4: you were trying to have a baby, and let's say

1049
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 4: you were having a hard time and you you were like,

1050
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 4: this is what all I can think about right now,

1051
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 4: and I was having a wedding, I would say, like,

1052
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 4: do what.

1053
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 2: You need to do.

1054
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 4: And I totally believe that things fall into place how

1055
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 4: they're supposed to fall into place, Like I really don't

1056
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,720
Speaker 4: put like I don't think we have as much control

1057
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 4: as we think we have over things. I think we

1058
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 4: can do our best and put in effort and time,

1059
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 4: But I think I didn't want to come across instancive.

1060
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 4: I just think it's our perspectives because neither of us

1061
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 4: have tried having I'm couldn't be further from trying to

1062
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 4: have a baby.

1063
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: But also I think too, it's different. I think it's

1064
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 1: different because I even had the conversation with Robbie. I

1065
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: was like, I think a lot of my friends, at

1066
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: least a couple of my friends that were inviting, are

1067
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: trying to have babies very soon. So there is a

1068
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 1: possibility that like a good chunk of my friends won't

1069
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 1: come to the wedding because they'll be too close to

1070
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: their du date or whatever. And I don't hold that

1071
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,879
Speaker 1: against them at all, nor would I. I like, there's

1072
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 1: zero resentment, like when I say zero negative, like I

1073
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: truly would never But I think it's different when you

1074
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: think about your best friend.

1075
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think you want them to be there,

1076
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 4: And it can be both things where you're like, I

1077
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 4: really want you to be at my wedding and I

1078
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 4: really want you to have a baby if that's what

1079
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 4: you're desiring, and it's been hard, right, So your answer

1080
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 4: is you would you would in your time of your

1081
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:34,919
Speaker 4: life right now, you would hold off.

1082
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you were exactly nine months after my wedding,

1083
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: I would probably hold off a couple months and then

1084
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: go from there. Yeah, because the thing with fertility that's

1085
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: so interesting is like you can't Like I was telling Beca,

1086
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 1: I'm doing all these tests, I'm doing this test, and

1087
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: then I'm a test for this and test for this,

1088
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: and it's like, you can't really know unless you start trying.

1089
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: That's the tricky part with fertility. So it's like I

1090
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: can do all these test tests, but you don't know

1091
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: until you start trying.

1092
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, that's why.

1093
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 4: And I think that was their point, is like how

1094
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 4: can they give an answer on their response on this

1095
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 4: without knowing how challenging and heartbreaking it can be to

1096
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 4: be trying to conceive and not having success.

1097
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 2: But we don't know.

1098
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: I know, and I think obviously, if you're emailing us,

1099
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: you know enough that you know that I am without child, and.

1100
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 2: I too, am a child.

1101
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 3: So that's our perspective on it.

1102
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,800
Speaker 2: So with that being said, there will be a new dear.

1103
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: Bodyes now, I'm gonna be stressed with my answer that

1104
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: it'll be stressed.

1105
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,319
Speaker 4: I was just explaining, like we can always do better

1106
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 4: and be better and be more aware of other perspectives,

1107
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 4: but also like we answer from our perspectives because that's

1108
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 4: what the podcast is, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,

1109
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 4: but we never I mean, I think if you know

1110
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 4: all of us, we're never trying to be insensitive to anybody.

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Speaker 4: I think we try very hard to not be insensitive

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Speaker 4: to anybody on this podcast. Definitely, And we love y'all

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Speaker 4: so much, and we'll be back Thursday.

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Speaker 2: Let me byem

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Speaker 5: M HM