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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Byron is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Sonny.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Byron, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since he talked to Sonny?

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Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, it's been about five or six days. I

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Speaker 3: think going on a week.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you nervous?

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm a little.

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Speaker 3: Nervous because just because I want it to work obviously,

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Speaker 3: and it's unideal to not get a text back.

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Speaker 4: But I think he'll work out.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, Okay, I like the positive attitude. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: like it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know so well, I can't. I can

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Speaker 3: go into it, or we could call her. I mean,

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Speaker 3: what do you want to do?

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Speaker 1: What's well, let's go into it when you tell us

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Speaker 1: about the date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, we went ice skating. It was amazing.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we went to the Uhtown indoor skating rink inside

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Speaker 3: of a massive rec center.

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Speaker 4: It was it was awesome. There was like couple skating

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Speaker 4: teens doing.

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Speaker 3: The spins like a couple kids with their hockey skates

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Speaker 3: on learning how to do like the cheesy pop.

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Speaker 4: Music, the whole thing. Like it was a great environment.

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Speaker 3: And I know, I don't know how to ice skate

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Speaker 3: at all, so I suggested it because I thought it'd

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Speaker 3: be fun, like we both go make a fool of

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Speaker 3: ourselves and like that it would be cute, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, we'd bond over the lack of ability there.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that she knew how to ice skate.

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Speaker 3: So we show up and we get on the ice,

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Speaker 3: and all of a sudden, she is like this ice

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Speaker 3: skating extraordinair. She's like doing skating backwards, like she's doing

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Speaker 3: the crossovers. Like it was it was actually kind of hot,

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Speaker 3: Like it was so very it was very nice. And

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Speaker 3: then like every time I would wobble or something or

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Speaker 3: like kind of fall, she would like smile and kind

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Speaker 3: of make fun of me a little bit, but like

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Speaker 3: it made me feel cute.

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Speaker 4: So it was going really well.

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Speaker 1: She was wearing, what, that's amazing every time you fell.

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Speaker 1: I think that's so funny. I love it.

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Speaker 3: I I mean, if there was love at first sight,

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Speaker 3: it might be this.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. She was.

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Speaker 3: She was dressed gorgeously, like big hoop earrings, natural curls,

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Speaker 3: her skin immaculate, like she just walked out of a commercial.

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Speaker 3: This girl, This is the part that confuses me, Like

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Speaker 3: an older woman. Once I was wobbling on the wall

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Speaker 3: and she was. She was with men, and an older

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Speaker 3: lady skated by. She just yelled out like you can't

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Speaker 3: teach confidence or something like that, and then Sony started laughing.

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Speaker 4: I guess because I don't know she thought I was.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: And then at that point she like skated off for

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Speaker 3: a couple of apps and kind of like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I was trying to make my way back to the

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Speaker 3: fun in games, but maybe I think the older woman

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Speaker 3: that I was a loser or something.

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Speaker 1: And to be a loser.

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Speaker 2: And that's all you can think of is maybe the

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Speaker 2: old lady told you and she took it to heart

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Speaker 2: your date, Sonny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe, because I don't now, I'm stuck here thinking

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Speaker 3: that you know, she takes I'm an athletic and like

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Speaker 3: I'm a loser, and yeah, I mean that's the only

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Speaker 3: thing I can think of, because it was going well

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Speaker 3: until that lady, and then now you know, you're right,

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Speaker 3: I know, so I don't. I thought the chemistry was

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Speaker 3: real and then that happened. But you know, I just

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Speaker 3: now I'm looking for an opportunity to tell her like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I'm not unathletic week and not manly enough.

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Speaker 4: You know, I can hag.

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Speaker 2: Who plays on comeback and then call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe

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Speaker 2: get you second date, even if we have to convince

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Speaker 2: her that your.

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Speaker 1: Man though.

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Speaker 4: I am, I started, god, I am.

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Speaker 1: I can tell her we'll get your first day follow

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Speaker 1: up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up,

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Byron is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and Byron is getting ghosted to buy a woman named Sonny.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: a second date. But first, Byron, why don't you break

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Speaker 2: down your date again for us real quick?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I met this beautiful woman named Sonny. We

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Speaker 3: went ice skating. It was such a cute time. I

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Speaker 3: found it'd be fun because we'd learned how to skate together.

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Speaker 3: Long story short, she's an expert skater and I'm not.

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Speaker 3: And on the date, I think old lady kind of

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Speaker 3: blocked me a little bit. And here we are, so

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Speaker 3: she made fun of me. Then Sonny started making fun

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Speaker 3: of me.

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Speaker 1: I want to so terrible this old lady said, an

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Speaker 1: innocent skater.

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Speaker 2: We'll see if the old lady ruined your game or not.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 1: That's the all right? Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, man, speak to Sonny. Please, Hey, Sonny, how

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Speaker 2: are you? This is a radio show. It's called The

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Speaker 2: Jewbell Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Sonny. I'm Nina. I am Victorian and I'm Freezing,

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Speaker 1: the producer, and my name is Jewbell.

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Speaker 4: How are you okay? I'm okay.

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Speaker 5: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 5: I have?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Well, you might be excited to know that this

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Speaker 2: is the first date follow up. You went on a

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Speaker 2: date with somebody recently and now you're ghosting them. And

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Speaker 2: they emailed us to see if we can find out why.

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Speaker 2: Any idea who emails about you?

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Speaker 5: Sonny?

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Speaker 4: This is gonna happen today.

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Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh, Well, who you ghosting girl?

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Speaker 5: Byron?

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Speaker 2: Yes it is Byron. Byron emailed us tell us a

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Speaker 2: little bit about your date. He liked you a lot,

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Speaker 2: but he's confused while you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell us?

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Speaker 5: Okay, it's awkward. I really don't want I don't want

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Speaker 5: to say this on the radio. He's really sweet.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward for you or him.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm afraid it's going to be awkward for him.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, anybody who does these they know that they have

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Speaker 2: to be prepared to hear anything. So he knows. You

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Speaker 2: know that we're going to be honest with him. So okay,

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Speaker 2: I just wants to know why you're ghosting.

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Speaker 5: Well, okay, I'm just going to say it. It was

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Speaker 5: the singing.

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Speaker 1: The singing, didn't you guys go Ice s togating?

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Speaker 5: Yes, we did. We went and Ice skated. He was

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Speaker 4: I help him.

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Speaker 5: Yeah it was. I mean it was cute.

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Speaker 6: But every time he almost fell and he was wobbling,

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Speaker 6: he would sing like whoa bricking on? I? Then you

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Speaker 6: song Whenever he got nervous, like he was living in

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Speaker 5: So I was trying to help him skate forward and

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Speaker 5: then do a little He was like, I want to

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Speaker 5: it like this, and then he started.

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Speaker 4: Singing it like, started singing as he.

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Speaker 6: Was wobbling, and I'm just like, how can I help

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Speaker 4: Of a musical.

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Speaker 6: It was just wild and people were looking at us

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Speaker 6: and it was like, what is going on?

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Speaker 7: Like I was thinking about like the future of us,

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Speaker 7: Like if we were out at dinners, you got to

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Speaker 7: start serenading me at the table and sing, you know,

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Speaker 7: like we're in a musical, and it's like people are

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Speaker 5: I'm like, he's ordering, and he's like, I would like

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Speaker 5: a mud and I'm stick seriously, like I be at

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Speaker 5: the table with that.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you for being honest with us,

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Speaker 2: and Sonny, I'll remind you since you've heard the show before,

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Speaker 2: you might have heard one of these. But Byron is

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Speaker 2: on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: Oh it's here, Oh God, okay, hey Sony, Hi.

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Speaker 4: Uh question for you what kind of person hates musicals.

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Speaker 6: I just don't want to experience when it gets my

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Speaker 6: will my son's ankles are about to give out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, pause, I was not giving out. I was just

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Speaker 5: I mean, like.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I get a little sing song you when I

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Speaker 6: But you were like warning the entire RNK that a

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Speaker 4: Okay, well her pause. And I would like to point out,

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Speaker 3: As if your missus perfect missus, like I skate backwards

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Speaker 3: and just give you unsolicited coaching cues the whole time.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I was trying to help you.

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Speaker 6: I didn't know you were gonna turn it in a

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Speaker 6: Frozen three the Panic edition.

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Speaker 4: Okay again, hurtful.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, And you didn't have to who we're at it.

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Speaker 3: You didn't have to yell begs your knees like you

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Speaker 3: were sending me into battle.

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Speaker 5: I get you were.

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Speaker 4: About to take out a toddler.

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Speaker 5: Dressed as a penguin.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay.

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Speaker 3: I apologized to that kid fourteen times, and I even

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Speaker 3: offered to buy him a hot chocolate.

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Speaker 1: Way you out a kid dressed as a penguin.

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Speaker 3: I live. I forgot to mention that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and he ran away from you because you sang

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Speaker 6: in him too.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to lighten a mood, and everybody knows

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Speaker 3: singing lightens the mood.

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Speaker 1: Everybody.

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Speaker 2: Well, Sonny, would you like to go on another date

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Speaker 2: with Byron? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I mean, you aren't very sweet and

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Speaker 5: you're funny.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. All right, Well you know what, Sonny,

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Speaker 4: it's that that will convince you.

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Speaker 3: Maybe this will, Oh god, sunshine on an.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, code out shot? Take you ice skated?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bring home?

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Speaker 4: What can make me? I'm talking about sunny?

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Speaker 6: You think now?

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Speaker 1: Byron? Nice job, man, I keep going sunny. What do

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Speaker 1: you think one?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're the richest baby.

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Speaker 4: Singing for another day?

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Speaker 6: You give it to him, Oh my god, and you

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Speaker 6: will stop singing. I will say, yeah, my girl

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Speaker 1: Byron, you wills first date follow up