1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:00,960 Speaker 1: And you know what I need. 2 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Yes, some go go juice, can go go juice. 3 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: No free sponsors, Look at me, look at me. Here 4 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: we go. 5 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 2: He can't drink it. He doesn't like sponsors on stream. 6 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: There we go. 7 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 2: All right, he got a sip. 8 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: Let's get back to it. So yes. Update on mother 9 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: in law blewett a small update on mother in law. 10 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: She contacted husband. She went over to our house. Uh oh, 11 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: husband was home alone. He took a He also took 12 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: a week off. We were expecting a parcel delivery. The 13 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: delivery man came, Husband checked the cameras and went to 14 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: open the door. Also, just slight side note the trauma 15 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: that they have where they're like they the door every 16 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: time because you literally you don't know if there's gonna 17 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: be an army of your cousins with pitchforks, and you don't. 18 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: Know if your mom's gonna come and like try to. 19 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: And just beat you. You just don't know. Constantly over 20 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: So got the parcel signature, YadA, YadA, YadA. As the 21 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: man went, mother in law came. She came up to 22 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: him and started talking. Husband just stood there with the 23 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: parcel in his hands. And after she stopped talking he 24 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: told her mom, your own daughter tried to hurt your 25 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: son and harmed your daughter in law and grand She 26 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: knew op would be attacked and encouraged it. If she 27 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: did not, she knew and didn't care what would happen 28 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: to her. She didn't report it or anything or do 29 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: anything to try to stop it. My wife will probably 30 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: need surgery again. 31 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: Oh, because she got surgery from everything that happened. 32 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: Side note, get ready for this left kidney, liver and 33 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: spleen were always problematic, but thanks to entitled cousin and 34 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: the beating, even more so to the point where they 35 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 1: might need to be removed. We will hear more about 36 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: this tomorrow. 37 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 2: So my uncle doesn't have a spleen. 38 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: Shout out to your uncle. Is he evil? 39 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 3: Uh? 40 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: He was, but now he's a better person. 41 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: There we go. 42 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 2: I think it was because of the spleen. 43 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 1: There we go. Now you ask us to pity her 44 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: and show her mercy when all that happened because she 45 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: broke the law, she hurt us. You kept choosing her 46 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: even when things like this would happen and hit you 47 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: across the face when you see the damage she has 48 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: done with your own eyes, you keep finding excuses for 49 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: her horrible behavior. I've had enough. I know you love her, 50 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: and I will ever ask you to choose sides. I 51 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: only ask you to condemn her behavior and actions, nothing else, 52 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: And you don't do it by asking us to show 53 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: mercy and feel pity, you don't. We don't blame you 54 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 1: for what happened. We blame blabermouth, the evil sister in 55 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: law and the entitled cousin. Don't blame yourself for what 56 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: they did. But stop defending her. Get therapy. You need it. 57 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: You need to see what is happening and accept that, 58 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: by no fault of yours, your daughter hurt others. I 59 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: love you, mom. Now you need to go away. I 60 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: don't want to talk to you when you continue to 61 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: excuse her behavior and the harm she's called us to others. 62 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 1: Don't contact us. We will contact you if we ever 63 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: feel ready to. Then he shut the door and locked it. 64 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 2: Oh so this all to mother in law right there? 65 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 1: That was literally his speech to her at the door. 66 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: Opie's family needs to be like politicians or something, because 67 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: the way they give speeches, just like on the spot 68 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: is crazy. 69 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: Dude, Okay, funny you say that, Yeah, because I literally 70 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: am thinking, this is happening. What's that one show you 71 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: like with all the British people, Bridgerton. This is giving 72 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: me Bridgerton vibes for some reason, like this would definitely happen. 73 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: You take all these plotlines and put into a season 74 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 2: of Bridgerton bangor true true. So that's that I'm seeing 75 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 2: the spicy sleep but yes, yeah, yeah, that's more spicy. 76 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 2: But I see them all as like kings and duchesses 77 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: and princes and that this is like these kingdoms are 78 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: fighting against each other or whatever. I see that, but 79 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 2: no that they are. They could be great politicians, just 80 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 2: like these speeches are incredible. 81 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: Speeches are an eleven. So mother in law just stood 82 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 1: there for a little while and then left. I found 83 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: how he bawling his eyes out when I got home 84 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: an hour later. I've sent the recordings of the doorbell 85 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: camera too. Do we find out who LF was? 86 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 2: One second, we're about. 87 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: To find out. I've sent the recordings. Oh uh, lawyer friend, 88 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: lawyer friends, So lawyer friend is helping with lawyers. 89 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 2: Shout out Sophia forgetting us the keywords to all of 90 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: these abbreviations. 91 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: So I've sent the recordings of the doorbell camera to 92 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: lawyer friend in case we need a no contact order 93 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: or mother in law. It's getting very serious, ladies, jenn, 94 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: I don't think so, as he is the golden son 95 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: and she always tends to do what he says. But 96 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: better safe than sorry at this point, we never know 97 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. In the evening, father in law came 98 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: by to watch a game with husband, and he told 99 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: us what happened. After mother in law came home. Father 100 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: in law asked where she had gone to and she 101 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: started to cry, scream, et cetera, and relate what happened. 102 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: That she doesn't want to lose her son and his family. 103 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: She asked herself why it had come to this, to 104 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: which father in law truthfully answered that his son, my 105 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: husband was right. She kept choosing her daughter over her 106 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: son no matter what. That she can still love her 107 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: daughter but condemn what she did, and she doesn't. Mother 108 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 1: in law told him that all she feels is the 109 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: need to protect her child, to which father in law 110 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: responds that how understandable that might be. By doing so, 111 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: she hurts her other child, a child who also needs 112 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: her paraphrased love both and don't choose sides. Your daughter 113 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: hurt your son and his family. Your son hurts because 114 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: his own sister has hurt his wife and his children. 115 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: He hurts because she cares more about getting what she wants. 116 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: He hurts because you can't see that love both as 117 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: as is natural to you as a loving mother. But 118 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: open your eyes to the hurt that's been caused. She 119 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: asked him if he could help her with husband and me, 120 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: and this is how he responded again paraphrased, I will 121 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: not lift a finger to help you in the situation 122 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,679 Speaker 1: with them. This is all your own doing. I've warned 123 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: you against this many times in the past, more so 124 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 1: in the last year, that this might happen, that these 125 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,679 Speaker 1: actions might have this outcome. Our son's idea of therapy 126 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: might be a good idea. However, this will not automatically 127 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: mean you get to see them again and be in 128 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: their lives again. Before this mess started, Husband and Opie 129 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: were kind and had an open mind that was trusting 130 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: and tended to see the good in people, and when 131 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 1: bad things happen, to try and see what caused it, 132 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: and condemning it whenever they would deem it was warranted. 133 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,239 Speaker 1: They still are good and kind people. They will try 134 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: to see and figure out what caused certain things, but 135 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: they have become suspicious to people's motives. They aren't so 136 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: trusted anymore. Who would have bunk it? They are scared 137 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: that they will get hurt and that the children will 138 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 1: get hurt. If you ever want a chance to see 139 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: them again, you need to respect them and their decisions, 140 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 1: except that they might not forgive you for whatever you do. 141 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: By now you know that they, and especially OP, will 142 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: not excuse his behavior in the name of family any longer. 143 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: She and our son have finally learned to stand up 144 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: to such a degree that nobody dares to mess with them. 145 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: You and OP are both loving people. You love your 146 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: husband's children and others. The difference between the two of 147 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: you is that OP is now willing to go ballistic 148 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: when she feels her children and her husband are threatened. 149 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: Don't mess with his mama bear. She will not back 150 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 1: down if you go too far. And you know it. 151 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: Do you understand why I love and respect this man 152 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,480 Speaker 1: so much? Again? Again w father in law? Again WI, 153 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: he's earning his w over, He's WWW, He's worldwide. Webon 154 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:54,119 Speaker 1: He's triple w down. Mother in law just kept crying silenteers. Lucy, 155 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: the good sister in law, also tells me that her 156 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: mother is a shell of who she used to be. 157 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: She keeps saying that she lost her son and his 158 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: family and how sorry she is. To be honest, I 159 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 1: feel like karma came for mother in law. As of now, 160 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: I don't feel any inclination of wanting to have contact 161 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: with her. She is elderly and I know that she 162 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: might pass away without ever seeing us again. 163 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 2: WHOA. 164 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: It hurts a lot. She really means so much to me, 165 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: But I will not expose myself or my children to 166 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: her favoritism. She may be crying about how sorry she is, 167 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: I will only believe her if she proves it backs. 168 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: I don't believe her words anymore, just actions. What we 169 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: need is for her to show us that love for 170 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: Blabermouth should not blind her to this degree. I hope 171 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: she can. I truly hope so she won't get out 172 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: of time out card just because she is family. And 173 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: we have another update coming. 174 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 2: Up, Oh my gosh, and spoiler. 175 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: Alert, it does involve not just evil brother in law, 176 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: but Blabermouth. Blabermouth is coming back. Oh Blackbermouth is coming back. 177 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 3: Wow. 178 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: I hate to say it. I wish I was wrong, 179 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: but that I believe is what we're about to talk 180 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: about next. 181 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 2: When will it stop? 182 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: I think we need to move to Canada. I think 183 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: we need to move to like Portugal. 184 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, Portugal, Portagal. I need some more c I don't 185 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 2: need the land. I need see just separate his water China. Like, 186 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 2: what's like, how North Korea? How do we North Korea? 187 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: No one can get in, Like I work really hard 188 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 2: to get in there. And then since you're so smart 189 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 2: and you could figure it out and then there, just 190 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 2: buy your way in and then just like Lily, your 191 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: way in and then be at the border, so you're 192 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 2: super close to South Korea, but like it's still in 193 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 2: North Korea, so it's impossible to get in. I would 194 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: be doing that. Yeah, oh my gosh, and I got 195 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 2: the keywords for everyone here. 196 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, maybe we could. We could run that down 197 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: real quick before yeah. 198 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so real quick, and I will probably Addie 199 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 2: and I are working on pinning this in the YouTube comments, 200 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 2: so we'll pin the ones that are most relevant. Perfect 201 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: all right here, what we got is at the top, 202 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 2: at the top here cuddled Mom entitled cousin. Wonder Woman 203 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 2: is entitled cousin's ex wife. Lucy is good sister in law. 204 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 2: Blabermouth is evil sister in law. LF is a lawyer friend. 205 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 2: This is Opie's lawyer in his neighbors slash fro Frow's owner, 206 00:08:56,640 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: bl is Blabermouth's lawyer. In In is nice neighbor, n 207 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 2: W is neighbor's friend. No neighbor's wife. Apologies, so ming ming, 208 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 2: you don't know what's happening. A lot it's happening. This 209 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 2: is a saga of things. But basically Opi has been 210 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 2: berated by her mother, her entitled cousin, I think her 211 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: uncle and her evil sister in law for money, and 212 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 2: she's going through all of the things. Ada, you can 213 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 2: copy some of these and put them in there. You 214 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: don't have to. You can like, oh you got it, okay, sweet, Sweet. 215 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 2: You don't have to type them out if you don't 216 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 2: want to, you can. You can cut out like probably 217 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 2: the neighbors, the LF. You can keep all the main ones. 218 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: I'll send you something. I'll send you something. But that's 219 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 2: what's happening. It's a mega series and no Kyle, but 220 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 2: is God wonder woman and Lucy are not the same people, 221 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 2: but they are probably the best people. I would say 222 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 2: the best people in the story right now. Immediate family 223 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 2: OPI's immediate family are great people. Wonder woman, Lucy, and 224 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: I'm also gonna put father in law into that because 225 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 2: wander law has been. 226 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: You know, you know, it'd be funny tear list or 227 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: like a bracket of like all the worst people in 228 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: this family. 229 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 2: Just get a tearless going here. Yeah right, Oh my gosh, 230 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 2: that would be funny. Oh dude, wow. 231 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, feeling feeling good? We got the breakdown everything. Yes, yes, 232 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: sweet sauce. All right, boys and girls, let's get into 233 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: this next part titled Brother in Law and Blabbermouth have 234 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: come to beg a comedy. 235 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, So dear Reddit family. 236 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: Another long update as OP does trigger warning for some 237 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: violent slash abuse. So I started writing about my experiences 238 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: simply to gain insights, opinions, and to blow off some 239 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: steam and as a somewhat therapeutic measure, so to speak. 240 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: So I found out that my post have been on 241 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: several YouTube channels to broadcast them to others. That's fine. 242 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: When I found out about them, I was mostly interested 243 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: in the comments. They really opened my eyes and showed 244 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: me that I was naive, gullible and an incredible doormat. 245 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: By the way, I wonder because it's our like our 246 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: fifth I think our fifth most popular huh video second 247 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: I checked this morning in it, I don't. 248 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 2: Oh, have we got some other ones popping off? 249 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: We've got some other ones, but our. 250 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 2: Long form it's our second biggest one. Mother in law 251 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 2: took everything. 252 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: I think it's our fifth largest long form at least 253 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: it's it's definitely in the top ten. 254 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 2: That's sure. It's way up there, it's way up there. Yes, yeah, 255 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 2: pinon if you can. I think it would be good 256 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 2: for everyone. 257 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yesesome, thanks that that's. 258 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 2: All right, that's all right. We're going to replace the tiplin. 259 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 1: That's perfectly find you. Yes, so maybe more so than 260 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: what husband and lawyer friend told me. Do you and 261 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: do we know who NW is? N w is neighbor's wife, 262 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: neighbor's wife, neighbor's wife and neighbors a nice neighbor. Yes, 263 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: neighbor's wife and nice neighbor found out about the posts 264 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: and agree with you all, so thank you. All. Other 265 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 1: family members have also found out about the post. Oh, 266 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: they weren't so happy and started to spout some bs 267 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: about privacy. But when they read the responses and saw 268 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,439 Speaker 1: everything from my point of view, they felt even more 269 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: ashamed than they already did. 270 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: Bys's book. Oh yes, I think, yeah, I know, I know, 271 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 2: with you love it. 272 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: We do have a lot of abbreviations, a lot to 273 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: keep you appreciation. Man, my god. 274 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 2: Yes, at the next update, we'll read some don't knows. Okay, sorry, sorry, 275 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 2: I forgot that. 276 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: All good. So in one of my last posts, people 277 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: gave a lot of advice on protecting ourselves in our home. 278 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: Thank you for all of that. We have been following 279 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: some self defense and martial arts classes when possible. 280 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 2: Wow, my gosh. 281 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: The children were given alarms, the schools were told about 282 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: what happened, and protocols were written for their safe Let's go. 283 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: We sold our cars and bought some other ones that 284 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 1: we parked some streets away. We have the majority of 285 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: our groceries delivered as well. A company specialized in home 286 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: defense system was told to make our home feel safe again. 287 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: We have a contract with that company, so in case 288 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: crap hits the fan, they know to haul their butts 289 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: our way. Asap. So it sounds like they have like 290 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 1: private security force. They didn't. 291 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 2: Honestly, at this point they need it. We need a 292 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: part time sniper from the house to come and just 293 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: make sure everything's good. 294 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 1: Could we actually just like chat comments, everyone watching, everyone listening. 295 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: Could we just raise them militia for op Yeah, raise 296 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: them militia. It's like the war between Opie and her family. Yeah, 297 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: just like we just need to barricade a moat around 298 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: op and just just comment below if you would like 299 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: to volunteer. 300 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, on this night watch, come on, let's go. 301 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: So local law enforcement also has a big red flag 302 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: attached to our phone numbers and address. We don't expect 303 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: a lot, but better safe than sorry. But we certainly 304 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: have learned that the neighborhood watch is a success. 305 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 2: Let's go. 306 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: You have had a lot less attempted break ins and thefts. 307 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: My children have found their courage to walk Lafu, our doggie, 308 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: on their own without me or husbands. They are not 309 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: as afraid as they were shortly after the debacle with 310 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: Blabbermouth and titled cousin. Talks with their therapists have helped 311 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: a lot. The eldest struggles sometimes as he thinks that 312 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: being the eldest means taking care of his siblings without failing. 313 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: I need some surgery as the attack made some pre 314 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: existing health health issues worse. Husband is still restless. Sometimes 315 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: he has taken self defense and martial arts lessons seriously. 316 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: He thought and still thinks at times that he failed 317 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: in his duty to protect his family. With the help 318 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: of his therapist, he can shake that feeling more. I've 319 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 1: told him numerous times that he never failed us. He 320 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 1: loves us and has always been there for us as 321 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: a husband and a father. Now the eldest takes a 322 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: lot after husband in that regard. It doesn't surprise me 323 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: as I have proudly given birth to my husband's clone. 324 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: I love that nice neighbor has been a great help 325 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: as well. Sometimes men need other man slash men to 326 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: tell them whatever they need to hear without the therapist. 327 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: Talk need a little brow down row down helps a lot. Yeah, 328 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: So the current status on some people mother in law 329 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: is in time out see the previous post that happened 330 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: around three weeks ago. This happened today. Lucy and father 331 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: in law no problem, let's go entitled cousin still in prison. 332 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: Those secluded inmates don't really like him. Apparently, I wonder why. 333 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: I'm not even wondering why, Obi, says coddled mom of 334 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: course entitled entitled cousin's mother. I believe she's also still 335 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: in jail. Brother in law has the no contact order 336 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: has been lifted as of last week. 337 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 2: Lifted. 338 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: Contact is now legally allowed, no harassment or any other things, 339 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 1: so no reason for extension. He isn't blocked on our phones. 340 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: If people want to dig their own graves, then I'm 341 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: all for helping them. Blabbermouth, still in prison, has a 342 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: woe is Me attitude. Only our lawyers talk with each 343 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: other and with the prosecutor. The hell hag still has 344 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: an act of no contact order. She has been blocked 345 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: on my phone, but not on my husband's same reason 346 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: as brother in law. So basically, hey, if she wants 347 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: to like call us and go crazy, sure give us 348 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: more recordings to use against you. 349 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, be my guest. 350 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, lf lawyer friend, a hero without a cape, 351 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: a devil without horns, worth every penny, cent and dollar, 352 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: et cetera. B mL. Blabbermouth's lawyer brother slightly lesson too. 353 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: Do we know how how many inches that is? Yeah, 354 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: that's like six eight wow, six' eight, tall brother has 355 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: the build of a, tank strongest, one kind hearted in 356 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: a no nonsense. Man sister in, law three, brothers Partner 357 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 1: maggie for the sake of this. Post N n of, 358 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: course nice neighbor ah six two six two sorry six 359 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: two not six. Eight there we. 360 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 2: Go my dad's two hundred millimeters two hundred and two 361 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 2: meters two. Meters, yeah, yes he's. 362 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 1: A he is a tall glass of. Water N. W 363 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: nice neighbor's. Wife that's why you guys look so. 364 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 2: Alike, yeah so, Man, Wow i'll make sure to tell 365 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 2: my dad. 366 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: That, YEAH i love. That rufrew the neighbor's wife and 367 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: a nice neighbor's loving dog another hero without a cape 368 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: who will take snacks and cuddles as his. Reward And, 369 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: lafu our own loving dog the hero and, training who 370 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 1: also takes snacks and cuddles as a. Reward so a 371 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 1: little catch up on all of our our humongous casts of. Characters, 372 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: wow the heroes and villains in our story so, yeah ming, ming, 373 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 1: wow so many characters in this story. 374 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: Correct we pinned some of them as many as we 375 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 2: could in the YouTube comments. Above that's, right but we 376 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 2: will remind you who they. 377 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 1: Are that's. Right so onto this next. Part lawyer friend called. 378 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: Us apparently he got a call from brother in law 379 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: that blabermouth wants to plead guilty in exchange for no prison. 380 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: Time it's. Interesting that is. 381 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 2: Interesting it's an Interesting development's super. Interesting how much we 382 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: paying to go? Guilty you want them to also send 383 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 2: to you? 384 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 1: Money? 385 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah oh, yeah we'll let you have no prison. 386 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 2: Time but you o us. Big that's so, Funny, yeah, 387 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 2: dude heck. 388 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 1: Yeah as of, now she faces between five to ten 389 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: years in prison if she's found. Guilty OH i thought 390 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: this crap wasn't. Possible according to lawyer, friend she hardly 391 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: has a chance at. That she can get a, reduction 392 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 1: but no more if she goes for the. Guilty. Please, 393 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: also what surprised us is that brother in law called 394 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: lawyer friend directly instead of going through their. Lawyer so he's, 395 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 1: like all, Right i'll keep my lawyer out of. This 396 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 1: i'm coming to you, personally, Life, yeah can we do? 397 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,199 Speaker 1: This can we make this? Happen? Right so what does 398 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 1: our beloyer lover friend dough laughing the phone hags up 399 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: and calls their. Floyd let's go telling them what brother 400 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: in law had. Done, apparently blabbermous lawyer just sighed and 401 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 1: thanks lawyer friend before hanging. 402 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 2: Up oh, dude like my, CLASS i. 403 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: Know that that b M l like hate dude that. 404 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: Lawyer just imagine that lawyer's. Life oh you a lawyer 405 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: for blabbermouth and her. 406 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: Family, yeah this is like A jv like WHAT i 407 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 2: just saw as A jv football team trying to do 408 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: a Hell mary versus THE Nfl Super bowl. Champions you 409 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,199 Speaker 2: have middle schoolers against like THE. 410 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: Nfl, yeah they're just trying to like make. 411 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 2: It it's like could we do this and then and 412 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 2: then lawyer friends like you. 413 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 1: Know, Yeah oh my. Gosh lawyer friend Is Tom. 414 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 2: Brady, yes, yes that's. Right oh, man. 415 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 1: Yes, Sir. 416 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 2: I'm good. Guys uh trash shove pickles into our. 417 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: Throats'll come here. Later oh, god, thanks big, dog we'll 418 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 1: toe lets you know when to come. In so our. 419 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 1: Thoughts blabermouth and brother in law don't hear what they 420 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 1: want to hear from their own, lawyer so they try 421 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 1: it through. Ours. Ah nice strike the second part. Here 422 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,400 Speaker 1: so brother in law's. Visit several days after lawyer friend 423 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: called to tell us about brother in law And blabermouth's 424 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: delusion slash, fantasy we got several texts from four of 425 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: our beloved nieces and nephews who are brother in law 426 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: And blabermouth's. Kids remember the kids that they're paying their 427 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: college education for as far as we, know still. Good 428 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: as far as we, know still, Good kid number five 429 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 1: doesn't like me and likes his mother blames me for 430 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: all of her. Misfortune so maybe number five is not so. 431 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: Good we know that the only reason he doesn't bother 432 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: us is that his parents have warned him to stay 433 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,959 Speaker 1: out of. This as of, now he hasn't messed up 434 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 1: that we are still somewhat willing to pay for his college. 435 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: Education the other four kids and us have a good, 436 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: Relationship so it's number five kid number five that's NOT 437 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: i think they're. 438 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 2: The youngest and they probably got manipulated really. 439 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: Young, great, yep yep. Great they don't know any. Better 440 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,239 Speaker 1: they know what mother Dearest blackermouth tried to do and 441 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: decided on their own that they're done with her entitled, 442 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: crap with their father semi enabling. It kids one and 443 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 1: two have moved. Out three and four can't just, yet 444 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: but are barely home since their mother is in. Jail 445 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 1: that the eldest second decided to drop in and on 446 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 1: their father and younger siblings to keep an eye out 447 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: and help when. Needed brother in law was very unhappy and. 448 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: Angry he knows that what bladdermouth did was, wrong but 449 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 1: he thinks that the whole kidnapping and attacking thing is 450 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 1: blown out of. Proportion you're In they were all having 451 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: lunch and brother in law came up with this amazing 452 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 1: idea to have a talk with me and to an extent, 453 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,160 Speaker 1: husband how do we think this is? Good? 454 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:46,640 Speaker 2: AMAZING i saw that? Part, Yep where are we gonna 455 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 2: get out of this phone? 456 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 4: Call? 457 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 2: Hey please don't put my wife in. Prison she didn't mean. 458 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 2: It i'm sorry that she did. It she's not, sorry 459 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 2: But i'm. Sorry what are we gonna do? 460 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: Here? Hey so? Sorry? 461 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 2: Bo what's the point unless you want to actually? Apologize? 462 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 1: True? Like what what? Actions what actions could be done 463 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 1: to remedy? 464 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 2: This is? 465 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 1: There is there anything you can like possibly think? 466 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 3: Of? 467 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 2: Money, money, money. 468 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: Cash rules everything around? Me, baby give me that? 469 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 2: Cream, yeah that's that's really the only. Thing but other 470 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:14,719 Speaker 2: than that are. 471 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: USELESS i don't even want their money because Also OPI's so. Loaded, 472 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 1: yeah that's. 473 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 2: True what we know that hired a legit they contracted 474 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 2: a security team to watch their home twenty four to. 475 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: Seven, legitimately they're FUNDING i believe all five of their 476 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 1: kids college funds of their. Kids would you still fund 477 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: all five kids college? Funds let's say you had like you, 478 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 1: have you have the means you're you, know it won't 479 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 1: like really damage you that. Much would you still do? It? Oh, 480 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 1: yeah oh for? 481 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 2: Them for? Them yeah, yeah but. 482 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 1: You, too you would still do. IT i. 483 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 2: WOULD i understand their thoughts about number five, yeah being 484 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 2: on the, Fence, yeah BUT i still would the other. 485 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 1: Four? Good all, right there we. Go let us know 486 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: in the, comments what do you? Think so so we're 487 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 1: all having. Luncheon brother in law came up with the 488 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 1: amazing idea to have a talk with me and to 489 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 1: an extent husband whose phone explodes with. Texts after that, 490 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: lunch me and my husband's the eldest niece tried to 491 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,239 Speaker 1: manage to get a time frame from her father and 492 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 1: texted us that since we didn't want our children to 493 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 1: watch whatever might go, down we asked brother And maggie 494 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 1: if they could go there for a couple of days 495 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: and hang out with their. 496 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 2: Cousins do we know Guessing maggie is the brother's. 497 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: Wife maggie's the brother's wife another sister in. Law no. 498 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 1: Problems after explaining that, situation the children were scared but 499 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: didn't want to. Leave bro flexes his. Muscles if that 500 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: oh this is uh oh p's blood, brother blood brother 501 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: yeh and his. Wife, yes bro flexes his. Muscles they love, 502 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: that and tells them that he will keep them. Safe 503 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 1: nice w. Brother then we call the nice neighbor and 504 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 1: the nice neighbor's wife and explain the situation and ask 505 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,159 Speaker 1: if they are available in case we need witnesses and. 506 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 1: Help before we could finish, asking ding, dong we heard the. 507 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:49,679 Speaker 1: Doorbell nice neighbor and neighbor's wife and Their dogfruffer were. 508 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 1: THERE i really love these people and that. Dog so 509 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 1: some hours, later oh. 510 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 2: So she was, like, hey could you, come and they're like, 511 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 2: boom oh, yeah we'll be witnesses right. 512 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: NOW i thought it was the brother in. LAW i was, like, oh, snap, 513 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,880 Speaker 1: yeah we're. Good we're. Good we're safe for. Now we're 514 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: safe for. Now so some hours later and brother in 515 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 1: law makes his grand. Appearance for those of you who 516 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,360 Speaker 1: wondered if we invited him, in of course. Not, heck 517 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 1: we didn't even open the. Door the doorbell camera has 518 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: been granted its own altar in our. Home well almost 519 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,879 Speaker 1: then he began his sob story about how blabermouth didn't mean, 520 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 1: it she was, sorry, YadA, YadA, YadA sobs sobs. Saw 521 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: he asked and begged through his sobs if we could 522 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: drop the. 523 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 2: Charges, no, no. 524 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 1: Nah even IF i, COULD i, wouldn't, oh brother in. 525 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 1: Law fun, fact the prosecutor is the one who decides that, 526 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 1: now so they're literally so far in the. Case now 527 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 1: the prosecutor, is. 528 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 2: Yeah go to his house and beg, yeah go to 529 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 2: his house and we can't do. 530 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: Anything yeah please, yeah go, ahead prosecutor let us know 531 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 1: in the. Comments BUT i fought like the prosecutor would 532 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 1: Be opie's. Lawyer SO i. 533 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 2: Believe what happens is to a certain, extent you the 534 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 2: person that was, harmed can drop the. Charges but if 535 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 2: someone goes so, far it ends up in the. Prosecutor 536 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 2: so they are now handling. It no matter if you 537 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: want to drop the charges are gonna that person has. 538 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 1: Like and the prosecutors like with the. Courts, yeah like 539 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: it's in a like a judge in a. Sense this 540 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: is just from me watching two episodes Of law And 541 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,400 Speaker 1: order years. Ago my boys got. 542 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,199 Speaker 2: It so someone in the commentary let us know how 543 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 2: close that, is you, know because What blabermouth did are. 544 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 1: Felonies so you don't get to try and abduct people 545 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 1: and get away with a slap on the. Wrist it doesn't. 546 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 1: Happen you don't get to show your big blue eyes 547 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: and get away with aiding and a. Betting. 548 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 2: Assault prosecutor is the state, lawyer states, lawyer kelsey. Hoff 549 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 2: prosecutor is a person who looks at the case the 550 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 2: cops give, him and he decides to charge or not 551 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 2: can really find it's criminal prosecutor. Offices states attorneys are 552 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 2: the only one who can press, charges. 553 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: Right so, yeah they're pressing the charges for the felonies 554 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 1: that have. Happened it's they're representing the. State, yeah, okay got. 555 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: It so even if he changes his, mind it won't 556 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 1: be because of your puppy eyes, begging but out of 557 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: a lack of, evidence of which he has. Plenty That 558 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 1: i'm sure that your lawyer has told you, This so 559 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: why the heck are you trying it? Here oh, right 560 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: because you and bobermouth don't want to hear the word, no, 561 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: last but not least, me husband and children will be 562 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 1: a lot safer if here entitled behind is in jail 563 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 1: and not polluting the free air with her sense of. 564 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,880 Speaker 1: Entitlement oh my. God after hearing this piece of, information 565 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 1: brother in law became. Angry oh you know what happens 566 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 1: when members of this family get. Angry not good things, 567 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: family this family that more family helps each, other crap 568 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: and the golden, phrase but she's family and you don't hurt, 569 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: family or You vin diesel shut, up to which we 570 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,880 Speaker 1: responded with but we are her family and she hurt. 571 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,199 Speaker 1: Us then no. Response he just stood. There then he 572 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: started cursing THAT i was a salute a bee and 573 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: that this was all my. Faults, sure brother in, law 574 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 1: the one who helped pay off your mortgage and your children's, 575 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: tuition because all we wanted was to help. Family if 576 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: you don't want the, money then we would like to 577 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 1: have it. Back, yeah? Please would you like to pay 578 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 1: it back all in one or have a payment? Plan, 579 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: yes we were semi, teasing he raged on about how 580 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: dare you and it's not. Funny HONESTLY i would be dying. 581 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 1: Laughing oh, yeah if he said that it's not, Funny 582 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 1: i'd be, like not, hilarious, dude. 583 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 2: Reality check my. 584 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 1: Dude come. On of course it isn't. Funny but what 585 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: isn't funny as well is That blabermouth only accepted me 586 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 1: when it suited her and when things happen the way she. 587 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 1: Wanted if, not she would try to manipulate things and 588 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 1: people so she could still get something of what she. 589 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: Wanted we helped, you and when we say no to 590 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: an absurd, request she loses her ever loving. Mind she destroys, 591 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: relationships the good ones and the neutral. Ones she destroyed 592 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 1: our feeling of, safety in our, health so on and so. 593 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: Forth for what a holiday of which you have the 594 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 1: money for at least a good part of. It you 595 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 1: don't like it that she's in, Jail that's. Fine she 596 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: reaps what she Sews you And blabermouth should talk to 597 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 1: your lawyer to see what can be done about. This 598 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 1: with the least amount of. Damage family means nothing to. You, 599 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: yeah that's such a good. Point there always like. Family 600 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 1: family and family family means absolutely nothing to. Them all 601 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,640 Speaker 1: that matters to them is what they. Want, yeah that's 602 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: literally what just what they want. 603 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 2: Because they Got they could have got your mortgage paid 604 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 2: off and your. Kids but you could have literally used 605 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,679 Speaker 2: all that money for all these, things but you were too. 606 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 1: Greedy And opie like knowing her like saint like, nature 607 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: she would probably still give you more in the, future 608 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 1: as you, know if you had like a good. Relationship 609 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,919 Speaker 1: she's so kind, hearted you literally could have probably over the. 610 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: RELATIONSHIP i Bet opie could have paid like a million dollars, 611 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: worth like over their lifetimes to. Them, instead she's facing 612 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 1: five to ten years in. 613 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 2: Prison, yep you don't kill the golden. Goose you. Don't 614 00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 2: you don't freakin know about that? Story, no, okay so quick. 615 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 2: Storytime there was a golden goose that would lay a 616 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 2: golden egg every. Day in that golden, egg this guy 617 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 2: would go and he would sell it and get months 618 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 2: of money from. It he got so greedy that he 619 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 2: decided to kill the golden goose in order to get 620 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 2: all the eggs out of. It and whenever he did, 621 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 2: that the goose died and there was no eggs inside of. 622 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,159 Speaker 2: It and that's what system in law was trying to 623 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 2: the black my mouth was trying to, do trying to 624 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 2: like gut it for. 625 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: More riley coming and clutch with the stories lately, chickens golden, 626 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 1: gooses what other? ANIMAL i know my? Flocks, BROTHER i 627 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: know my. Flocks bro's got foul knowledge for. Us so 628 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 1: family means nothing to you and. Blabermouth when it doesn't 629 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: get you, anything go. Away we will call the cops 630 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: and see that if we can get more no contact 631 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 1: slash restraining slash teason desist orders shoved. Up you be hind, 632 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,160 Speaker 1: OH i don't try. Anything look at entitled, cousin look 633 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: at blabermouth to see how that one worked. Out after 634 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 1: saying something along above said, lines he, left by the, 635 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 1: way you can choose to never leave us by tapping 636 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,479 Speaker 1: our profile On join Our lives every single weekday at 637 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: three PM. Psd, guys come and join. Us let's finish 638 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: out the. Story so he made a copy of the video, 639 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: footage called the police and went through the entire process. 640 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 1: Again lawyer friend came by for a visit and was 641 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: baffled and actually saw. It he simply can't understand their 642 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: thought process, like how can you be so so evil 643 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: but yet so? Insanely oh my, god it's. Somehow it 644 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: turns out that coddled mom was also giving him a 645 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,959 Speaker 1: rough time by basically demanding he does something about her 646 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: son being in. Jail so he did. Something he basically 647 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: told her to shove off in a legal way unless 648 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,719 Speaker 1: she wants to spend money on her own lawyer and 649 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 1: having unpleasant side effects from such legal. Papers we are 650 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 1: at least seeing now the entitled mother's entitled cousin camp 651 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: In blabermouth's. Camp now there's some. 652 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: Infighting, yeah each other starting to get so a coddled 653 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 2: mom is entitled cousin's. Mom, yes, OKAY i didn't know. That, 654 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 2: SORRY i just yeahreak. 655 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: Out. Good we need all of those we could possibly. 656 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 2: Muster but, wow they're fighting each. 657 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: Other they're fighting each. Other this might be maybe this 658 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: is the start of their all. Out imagine they go 659 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: to war against each. Other oo that would have. Been 660 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: LIKE i said earlier in the, POST i needed surgery 661 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: and neighbor's wife has offered to stay with husband when 662 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 1: husband is a way to help me and keep an 663 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: eye out for. Me she can work from home and 664 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 1: help out in case the family nut jobs. Return she 665 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: has become more than a. Friend, yeah, yeah this is 666 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: what family looks. Like. Like you don't need, it doesn't 667 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 1: need to be by, blood it's it's what you do 668 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 1: to help each. Other, exactly, facts. Exactly when she isn't, 669 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: working we talk a lot and got to know each 670 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: other on a deeper. Level it turns out that neighbor's 671 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: wife had been in a similar situation with AN x 672 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: wood gone bonkers even when she got together with nice, 673 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 1: neighbor and they tried to help whenever they, can as 674 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 1: they know the, anxiety insecure and. Fear NO x problems for, her. 675 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 1: Thankfully so that's the end of part. 676 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 2: One oh my. 677 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,719 Speaker 1: Gosh just to quickly summarise to close out this episode, Here, 678 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 1: yes mother in, law we've decided to go no contact with, 679 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 1: her no. 680 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 2: Contact she wants us to drop charges Against. 681 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: Blabbermouth, yes she is too. Sympathetic it's, like, hey we're 682 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: not going to bring her back. In you need to 683 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: be put on ice for maybe maybe. Forever we'll see 684 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 1: blabber And mouth and brother in law have already tried. 685 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 1: This Hail, MARY i get the sneaking, suspicion given that 686 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 1: we still have three episodes left in this, series that 687 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 1: this is not the Last Hail mary they're going to, 688 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: throw and is Entitled cousin Taking notes is Entitled cousin 689 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: Taking notes and, saying, hmmm maybe MAYBE i go for 690 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: my own hail marriage and just maybe conspiracy, theory they 691 00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 1: both end up getting more jail time than they're currently 692 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 1: charged with because of all of the. Manans, yeah maybe 693 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 1: they get more no contacts and they still go, back oh, 694 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 1: my you know all that. Stuff. 695 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 2: YEAH i think that blabbermouth is gonna start talking to 696 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 2: the brother in law more and more and she's gonna 697 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 2: manipulate him to do her. 698 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: Bid you were? Bidding, absolutely, Absolutely, Wow. 699 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 2: Addie how how many hours is that or how far 700 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 2: in are we on the? Recording twenty? 701 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 1: Minutes so, well, okay one hour and twenty minutes or 702 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: one hour and thirty minutes Thirty so that was, Long 703 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 1: so we'll speed up the next. 704 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 2: One, yeah we'll speed up the next. 705 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 1: One hold stay tuned for the second part in this 706 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: four part series going up very. Soon. Guys if you love, 707 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: us make sure to Subscribe we. 708 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 2: Love you and see you. 709 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 4: Tomorrow this is an episode From Deep within The. Archives 710 00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 4: time for Okop. REWASH i ruined my best friend's wedding 711 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 4: by helping him. 712 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: Propose here's. Why usually when you help your friend, propose 713 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 1: that's a good. Thing usually it. 714 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 4: Is the other question is this written by AN ai 715 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 4: or a? 716 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 1: Human this seems pretty, pull seems, Plausible So i'm going 717 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: to go. 718 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 4: Human let's go going to go. HUMAN i had the 719 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 4: worst luck. Yesterday my best friend had confided to me 720 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 4: that he was planning to propose to his, girlfriend and 721 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 4: he asked me to capture the moment on my. PHONE 722 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 4: i was honored to be part of such a special 723 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 4: moment and excited to document it for. Him we arrived 724 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 4: at a beautiful beach and everything was going according to Plant. 725 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 4: Oh my best friend got down on one knee and 726 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 4: asked his girlfriend to marry. HIM i pulled out my 727 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 4: phone and started snapping pictures and recording some. 728 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: Video. 729 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 4: Hey but AS i was taking the, PHOTOS i noticed 730 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 4: something on my. Phone it was running low on. STORAGE 731 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 4: i had forgotten to clear out some old photos and, 732 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 4: videos and NOW i had barely any room. LEFT i 733 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 4: was worried that my phone might run of storage BEFORE 734 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 4: i could capture the whole. Proposal SO i started frantically 735 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,240 Speaker 4: deleting some old files to make, room but it was too. 736 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 4: Late my phone ran out of storage just as my 737 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 4: best friend's girlfriend said. Yes oh like right at the, 738 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 4: moments right at this TERRIBLE i was. DEVASTATED i had 739 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 4: let my best friend down and missed out on capturing 740 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 4: such an important moment in his. LIFE i felt terrible 741 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 4: and didn't know how to make it up to. Him 742 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 4: in a moment of, DESPERATION i decided to try to 743 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 4: recreate the proposal photos with. PHOTOSHOP i figured THAT i 744 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 4: could just show my best friend some pictures of the 745 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 4: moment and it might make up for the fact THAT 746 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 4: i had missed the actual. Proposal you, KNOW i mean, 747 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 4: no but maybe man's a wizard with. Photoshop maybe. Maybe 748 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 4: but things only got worse from. There my best friend 749 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 4: saw the fake photos and it sold they were, fake 750 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 4: AND i was. 751 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: Furious oh. 752 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 4: No he accused me of trying to manipulate and deceive, 753 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 4: him and he said that our friendship was. 754 00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 1: Over OH i was. 755 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 4: HARD i only meant to try and make things, right 756 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 4: but INSTEAD i had made things even. WORSE i realized 757 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 4: that honesty is always the best. Policy and that sometimes 758 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 4: it's better to admit our mistakes rather than try to 759 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 4: cover them. UP i apologized to my best friend and 760 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 4: begged for his, forgiveness but he wouldn't hear. It he 761 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 4: was too hurt and angry to consider forgiving, me and 762 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 4: he said that our friendship was. 763 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: Over, FORGOD i was. 764 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 4: Devastated losing my best friend was one of the hardest 765 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 4: THINGS i ever had to deal, with AND i learned 766 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 4: the hard way that our actions have, consequences and sometimes 767 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:27,919 Speaker 4: it's too late to make things. 768 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 1: RIGHT i, mean he shouldn't shouldn't, have shouldn't have done 769 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: the fake, photo but like he was just he was 770 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 1: just caught. Up it was just just happened to. 771 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,399 Speaker 4: Him But, john there's an, Update oh. SNAP i wanted 772 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 4: to privee an update to my previous. Story after my 773 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 4: best friend found out about the fake proposal PHOTOS i 774 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,640 Speaker 4: had created in. Photoshop he was furious and the friendship was. 775 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 4: OVER i was heartbroken and apologized, him but he wouldn't hear, 776 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 4: it and things have only gotten worse since. Then my 777 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 4: best friend's family found out about the fake, photos and 778 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:57,359 Speaker 4: they had been calling and texting me, NonStop angry about 779 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 4: WHAT i. Did they're saying That i'm an awful person 780 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,799 Speaker 4: AND i don't deserve to be friends with their. SON 781 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 4: i don't know what to. DO i feel terrible about what, 782 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,439 Speaker 4: happened AND i want to restore my friendship with my best, 783 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 4: friend BUT i also don't want to deal with the 784 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 4: constant criticism and judgment from his. Family SHOULD i try 785 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 4: to keep making things right or just end the friendship 786 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 4: and move? 787 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: On give give it the old college, Effort give it one, 788 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,880 Speaker 1: more try to see if it. Works but this is 789 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 1: a tough. 790 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 4: Situation it might you might you might be you might 791 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:28,319 Speaker 4: be out Of luck's. Son but real, Question JOHN ai or? 792 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 4: HUMAN i still think this is, Plausible So i'm going 793 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 4: to go HUMAN. Ai damn, dude CHAT gbt is fool 794 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 4: in all of. Us it's it's too, Good. BRIGHT i 795 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 4: feel like you can, Tell like the reason the WAY 796 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 4: i could tell when reading it was, like, uh it 797 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 4: like CHAT gbt always tries to make like a moral 798 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 4: out of the. 799 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 2: Story it's LIKE. 800 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 4: I hope it serves as a cautionary tale to anyone 801 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:56,719 Speaker 4: who else might be tempted to try to fix their 802 00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 4: mistakes with. Photoshop, yeah or like it's like or this 803 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 4: part where it's LIKE i realize that honesty is always 804 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 4: the best, policy and sometimes it's better to admit our 805 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,959 Speaker 4: mistakes than try to cover them. Up LIKE i feel 806 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 4: Like i'm like reading like a like a children's book or. 807 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: Something, Yeah i'm glad our ai overlords are trying to 808 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,359 Speaker 1: trying to give to educate. Us but and it's like 809 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 1: that occasionally is some like, OH i hope, this sir 810 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: is a cautionary, tale but like that's not the norm 811 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 1: for the right, stories not the norm at. All crazy 812 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 1: dude chat gbt. 813 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 4: Okayop AM i the a hole for taking off my 814 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 4: trunks when my friends were taking off their. Bikinis, scandalous very, 815 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,720 Speaker 4: SCANDALOUS i mailed twenty. Five how does small get together 816 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 4: with some? Friends yesterday we mostly hung out in my. 817 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 4: Pool night comes. Around we're all at least buzzed and 818 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 4: still sitting in the. Pool there's about six people, left four, 819 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 4: girls one guy and, Me and then one, Girl, ali 820 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,280 Speaker 4: takes off her bikini top and, Says, god that feels, 821 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 4: better and we all, laugh and a minute or two 822 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 4: passes and another girl takes her top, off and then 823 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 4: the other two take theirs off, together and pretty soon 824 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 4: we all laugh. Again this is this is a, Party 825 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 4: this is this is it's a booby. Party this, yeah 826 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,800 Speaker 4: this is a big booby everywhere. 827 00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 5: Boom so they're all, laughing having good. Time we're all. 828 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 5: Close so this wasn't actually that big of a. 829 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 4: Deal And i'm not some fourty year old boy who 830 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,359 Speaker 4: loses his mind when he sees a, boom not like 831 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 4: us right. 832 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 6: Here that's, right you, Know we're Just we're just fourteen 833 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:31,280 Speaker 6: year old boy boom crazy, Boys Boom, Boy Boo, boys 834 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 6: our new, Podcast yeah boo. 835 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 4: Boy a few minutes past AND i, say fit out, 836 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,319 Speaker 4: loud put my legs out and slip out of my 837 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,399 Speaker 4: swim trumps and then sit back. Down the others, laugh 838 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 4: and then the other, Guy, steve, says, Well i'm not 839 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 4: going to be the only pansy here and takes off 840 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 4: his trumps, too and he AND i, laugh but the 841 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 4: girls don't really laugh and start looking between themselves and 842 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 4: then they start covering their. CHESTS i noticed this and, asks, 843 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,800 Speaker 4: oh did we take it too? Far And ali, SAYS 844 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 4: i mean a little. Bit it just feels like it's 845 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 4: getting a little bit textual now that we're all, naked you, 846 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 4: Know AND i SAID i, guess so. SORRY i didn't 847 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 4: mean to make anyone uncomfortable and put my trunks back. 848 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,160 Speaker 4: On steve did, too but only one of the girls 849 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,400 Speaker 4: put their tops back. On so basically it seems like 850 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 4: everyone was kind OF i mean definitely maybe caught off 851 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 4: guard by, it but, yeah a little okay, yeah and 852 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 4: then like it went like people were getting a little. 853 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 4: Frisky SO i understand our protagonists misreading the, situation But 854 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 4: i'd like to point out one whang does not equal one. 855 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,440 Speaker 5: NIPPLE i think it's an. 856 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 4: ESCALATION i actually don't think there's any case where a 857 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 4: gaggle of nipples equals a. 858 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 5: WANG i think you have to have. It it's bottom for. 859 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,400 Speaker 6: Bottom, yeah that's WHAT i was about to. Say is 860 00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 6: the thing is they did not have their bottoms. 861 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 4: Off, yeah, right if someone gives a, bottom then you 862 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 4: can you can return the bottom bottoms, up as they, Say, 863 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 4: yeah but not. 864 00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,399 Speaker 3: Before, yeah that makes. 865 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 4: Sense it was for a few minutes until normal conversation 866 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 4: started back up again and things seemed to go back to. 867 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 4: Normal an hour, later everyone left AND i went to, 868 00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 4: bed woke up, today did some, stuff AND i get 869 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 4: a text From. Allie she says she thinks it was 870 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 4: really inappropriate to take my wang out last night and 871 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:16,839 Speaker 4: Making steve do it. 872 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 5: TOO i told her again THAT. 873 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,840 Speaker 4: I didn't mean to make her, uncomfortable And i'm sorry 874 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 4: IF i, did but she and the other girls were 875 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 4: taking off their tops AND i thought it was, okay 876 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 4: AND i absolutely didn't Make steve take his trunks. 877 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,279 Speaker 5: Off he did that of his own. 878 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,399 Speaker 3: Position, steve take your wing out. 879 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 4: Now she responded that it was inappropriate because they were 880 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:37,279 Speaker 4: taking their tops, off not their. 881 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:38,279 Speaker 5: Bottoms kind of what we said. 882 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:41,960 Speaker 4: Earlier, yeah, plus two guys surrounded by topless girls were 883 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 4: bound to get hard and then it would get even 884 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,799 Speaker 4: weirder and possibly make them feel threatened to be around. Us. 885 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 4: YEAH i told her that that was unreasonable and, sexist 886 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:52,720 Speaker 4: BUT i was sorry. 887 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,360 Speaker 5: IF i made her, uncomfortable AND i wouldn't do it. 888 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 4: Again but she's still, upset and my other friends that 889 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 4: were there are kind. 890 00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 3: Of just staying out of. 891 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 5: It so see the. 892 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,839 Speaker 6: ASSHOLE i THINK i pretty much agree with you where 893 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,400 Speaker 6: it's like a bottom for a, Bottom SO i don't 894 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,719 Speaker 6: think that he should. Have really at this, point you 895 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,960 Speaker 6: basically have to believe that he truly thought that it 896 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 6: wasn't that big of a. Deal the one red flag 897 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 6: for me is when she said something back to him 898 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:17,959 Speaker 6: and he got like super. 899 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:18,799 Speaker 3: Defensive, yeah and. 900 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 5: He, says like you're being being sexist and stuff like. 901 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 6: THAT i think basically you just have to reiterate like 902 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 6: if you truly didn't, know like you truly didn't, know like, 903 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 6: honestly LIKE i don't know, why but it didn't occur to, 904 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 6: me and like that was that was a dumb mistake, 905 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 6: basically like you, know so, YEAH i would probably say 906 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:34,360 Speaker 6: he's the. 907 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 3: Ahole he's not a massive. Ahole but, YEAH i actually. 908 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 4: Don't think that taking off of the trunks is the asshole. 909 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:45,799 Speaker 4: MOVE i think it's the, confrontation, yeah and the defensiveness yeah, yeah, 910 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,359 Speaker 4: yeah you're being, sexist like that's the a whole. 911 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 1: Move. 912 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 5: Yeah but you, know Like i've skinny tipped a fair 913 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,120 Speaker 5: amount of time in my. Day i've never had anyone 914 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,439 Speaker 5: be uncomfortable with, it but like probably. 915 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 6: Other people, were if not skinny, dipping at least like 916 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:01,239 Speaker 6: comfortable with, it. 917 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, YEAH i think it's all about like reading a, 918 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,879 Speaker 4: room yeah, yeah and just making sure people are. 919 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,240 Speaker 6: Comfortable and then There's steve and then There's steve just hanging, 920 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 6: out hanging. 921 00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 5: Out he's just fallowing the. Crowd That. 922 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,360 Speaker 6: STEVE i wonder if He's steve from the other. Story 923 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,719 Speaker 6: came the high. Five, Oh, steve shout out to. You 924 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 6: if you know what you're talking, about Special, steve. 925 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 5: There's actually an. Update. 926 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 4: Oh i've been doing my best to keep on top 927 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 4: of the comments and genuinely listening to all of your, 928 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 4: advice which is not an asphole. 929 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:32,319 Speaker 3: Move that's a nice. 930 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 4: Move, Yes AND i made the decision to Text ali 931 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 4: and ask her if it would be all right IF 932 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,080 Speaker 4: i called her talk and it would be all. Right 933 00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,839 Speaker 4: SO i called her and right AWAY i apologized without any. 934 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 4: CONCESSIONS i told HER i misread the situation and it 935 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 4: was a major mistake on my part to take her 936 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 4: the other girls taking her tops off as an expression 937 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,360 Speaker 4: of consent for me to take my trunks, off and 938 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 4: again THAT i was. 939 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 5: Sorry and THAT i did that and THAT i made her. 940 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 4: Uncomfortable in, ADDITION i was sorry that when she came 941 00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 4: to me with these feelings THAT i called her on 942 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,960 Speaker 4: recent and seccess she accepted my apology and apologize and 943 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 4: turn for saying THAT i Forced steve to take off 944 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 4: his trunks, too because that was. Wrong we both agreed 945 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 4: to talk about these things beforehand in the future to 946 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,360 Speaker 4: make sure everyone is comfortable and consenting to everything happening 947 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 4: and we are still good. 948 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 3: Friends, now that is an awesome. Conversation that's a great. 949 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:21,680 Speaker 5: Communication stand up, Guy stand up. Guy ope you're Doing 950 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:22,920 Speaker 5: you're doing a solid. 951 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,200 Speaker 6: Yeah because like he could have been bitter because, again 952 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 6: like he didn't Make steve take take off his. 953 00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 3: Trunk so it's like everyone got what they wanted in the. 954 00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:34,399 Speaker 6: End through the, communication he was able to truly apologize 955 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,719 Speaker 6: and like realize all of his errors to, her and 956 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 6: then she was able to, say you know, what like 957 00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 6: you know this part THAT i excuse you about that 958 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 6: that was. 959 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,040 Speaker 3: Unfair, yeah everybody. 960 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 5: Wins it sounds like a very productive. 961 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 4: Conversation if you are apologizing and you know you're in the, 962 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 4: wrong try. 963 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 5: To apologize without. 964 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,319 Speaker 4: CONCESSION i think that's like a really good move if 965 00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,760 Speaker 4: you actually want to move, Forward if you start giving 966 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 4: like if and but you did, this and that's WHY 967 00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 4: i did, this that's what you're gonna. Do accessible right 968 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,799 Speaker 4: to apologize for what you did. Wrong and often if 969 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,319 Speaker 4: you apologize for what you did. Wrong the person will 970 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 4: reciprocate and, Say, OKAY i messed up here, too. 971 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 3: TOTALLY i said, that, totally own up the, way own 972 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:10,440 Speaker 3: up to. 973 00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:11,919 Speaker 1: It communicate, okay op. 974 00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 6: AM i an a hole for throwing my daughter a 975 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 6: second birthday party after the special needs GIRL i invited 976 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:22,239 Speaker 6: her ruined her first. Party my daughter turned twelve a 977 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,960 Speaker 6: few weeks, ago and for a birthday she wanted a 978 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 6: pizza a double feature movie at the drive. 979 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,240 Speaker 5: In this sounds, LIKE i, said the nineteen sixties Double, 980 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:30,840 Speaker 5: PEACHA i. 981 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 3: KNOW i was, LIKE i was, like what is the 982 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 3: double Teachers? LIKE i was, LIKE i guess it's two. Movies, like, 983 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 3: yeah let's got a double. Feature let's get. UP i 984 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,399 Speaker 3: got a pop gun eh old. 985 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 6: Fuck, bunnies then smacking, Noise and at the end of the, 986 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 6: night she wanted to sleep over with the game. NIGHT 987 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,040 Speaker 6: i told her she could invite four, friends AND i 988 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,879 Speaker 6: suggested that she Invite, molly a girl who just moved 989 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,759 Speaker 6: to the area and is in my daughter's. CLASS i 990 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 6: even Admitted molly's mom had told Me molly was having 991 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 6: a hard time making friends since the. Move molly has 992 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 6: cerebral palsy and some development and intellectual, delays but overall 993 00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,600 Speaker 6: seemed very. Sweet my daughter agreed to Invite, molly but, 994 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 6: HONESTLY i think it was only BECAUSE i, asked like that's. 995 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 4: Awesome, YEAH i was just gonna, say that's, Awesome like 996 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 4: including someone who's different than, you not, Popular like that's 997 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,879 Speaker 4: just getting parenting, totally even if. 998 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 5: Your daughter's maybe doing it. Reluctantly, yeah to teach your 999 00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 5: daughter that you should do, that you should include. 1000 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 3: People that's like. Awesome and think about what a. 1001 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 6: Difference LIKE i don't know if you had anyone with 1002 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,759 Speaker 6: developmental issues in your like schools growing, up but like 1003 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 6: thinking about the way she got this treatment versus like 1004 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,399 Speaker 6: other people got treatment WHEN i was in middle school 1005 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 6: in high. 1006 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 3: School AND i, mean. 1007 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 6: We're, young but you, know it's it's a world of 1008 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:42,240 Speaker 6: difference in twenty twenty. 1009 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,680 Speaker 4: One oh, yeah, YEAH i think people are just a 1010 00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:48,720 Speaker 4: lot more there's a lot more. Accepting, yeah in, General 1011 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 4: and what a great parenting move on her. 1012 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 6: Part shout OUT Opi, Well molly seemed to be very sweet. 1013 00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 6: Kid she was absolutely awful at the. 1014 00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 3: Party she cried when. 1015 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 6: We didn't get the pizza with her favorite, time then 1016 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 6: stole the first slice of cake meant for my daughter 1017 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,520 Speaker 6: things get worse at the. Movie the first, Movie, kruilla 1018 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,399 Speaker 6: was too scary For, mollie and she started freaking out 1019 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:11,719 Speaker 6: and crying multiple times throughout the. MOVIE i tried to 1020 00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 6: calm her, down suggesting we take a walk to the snack. 1021 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 6: BAR i tried to calm her, down suggesting that we 1022 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,360 Speaker 6: take a walk to the snack bar doing the scarier 1023 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 6: parts or close her, eyes but she was. INCONSOLABLE i 1024 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,359 Speaker 6: tried Calling molly's mom a few times to pick her, 1025 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:26,839 Speaker 6: up BUT i didn't get an. 1026 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 3: Answer oh. 1027 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 2: Geez. 1028 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,880 Speaker 6: Yeah eventually we ended up having to leave before the second, 1029 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 6: Movie Black, widow which was the movie my daughter really 1030 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,719 Speaker 6: wanted to. See oh, No, yeah it turned out to, 1031 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 6: be you, know a rough AND i could see you, 1032 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 6: know being you, know, twelve and you, know, hey this. 1033 00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 3: Is my special. 1034 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:47,719 Speaker 6: Day and you, KNOW i could see her daughter being 1035 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,640 Speaker 6: a bit flustered Than, yeah it's so. 1036 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,040 Speaker 4: Rough and also it's like you extend this kindness and 1037 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 4: then it's just like it just goes so. 1038 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 3: Horribly. 1039 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,799 Speaker 6: Yeah AND i THINK i think it's a blameless, thing, 1040 00:45:57,960 --> 00:45:59,799 Speaker 6: Right like the mom is trying to do the nice. 1041 00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,920 Speaker 3: Thing, Yeah molly can't help. It the daughter is you, 1042 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 3: know it's just. 1043 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 4: Unfortunate, yeah, yeah it's a very unfortunate. SITUATION i don't even. 1044 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:08,920 Speaker 3: KNOW i, MEAN i. 1045 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,000 Speaker 4: Think the mother and the daughter did the right thing 1046 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,520 Speaker 4: in the. SITUATION i don't think you can really blame the, 1047 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 4: person you, know cognitive development. Issues, yeah three were palities or. 1048 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 4: Anything and it seems like everyone behaved as they. 1049 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 3: Should, yeah it seems seems like. It, yeah seems like. 1050 00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 3: It so that night at our, house things still got. 1051 00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 6: Worse oh, No, Yeah molly threw a we remote after 1052 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 6: she lost At Just. Dance, honestly you, KNOW i might do, that, 1053 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 6: yeah raise, quit you, know IF i lose It Just, 1054 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:37,840 Speaker 6: Dance and then she didn't want to play any of 1055 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,920 Speaker 6: the other games that the girls. Did the next, MORNING 1056 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 6: i Called molly's parents and asked to pick her up. 1057 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:45,440 Speaker 6: Early her mom apologized For molly's, behavior admitting that she 1058 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,359 Speaker 6: is prone to outbursting when she gets over, stimulated but. 1059 00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:50,200 Speaker 3: She'd been doing much better lately in her. 1060 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,840 Speaker 6: THERAPY a few days, later, Though molly's mom told me 1061 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 6: that she can't stop talking about how much she loved 1062 00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:58,240 Speaker 6: the party and how much fun she, had so at Least, 1063 00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 6: molly you know had a good. Time ye had a good, 1064 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,360 Speaker 6: time felt, Included so you, know one sounds. 1065 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 4: Like they did their, job like even even though it 1066 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 4: was tough and not the best, time Like molly had 1067 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,600 Speaker 4: a good, time the mission. Accomplished they didn't what they 1068 00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 4: SAID i ought to do that they wanted to include this, 1069 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 4: girl and they. 1070 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 6: Did AND, Opi opie handled it very, WELL i, think you. 1071 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,200 Speaker 6: Know so that, evening after all the other girls had, 1072 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 6: left my daughter was clearly upset about having her birthday. 1073 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 6: RUINED i felt bad for asking her to Invite, molly 1074 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,920 Speaker 6: SO i told her the next WEEKEND i would take 1075 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 6: her and her friends and go out for pizza and 1076 00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,440 Speaker 6: See Black widow in the theaters to make it up for. 1077 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,040 Speaker 5: Her great when When? 1078 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,759 Speaker 3: When but my partner still thinks this is a real jerk. 1079 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 3: Move W, wait what? 1080 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:39,719 Speaker 5: Why? 1081 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:40,280 Speaker 4: Why? 1082 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:44,279 Speaker 6: Partner he points it out that sometimes life isn't fair 1083 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,920 Speaker 6: and things get. Ruined he also doesn't think it's a 1084 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,880 Speaker 6: good idea to show our daughter it's okay to exclude 1085 00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 6: people who are. 1086 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 3: Different, Anyway i'm a little torn. 1087 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 4: HERE i get where he's COMING i, MEAN i get 1088 00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,320 Speaker 4: where he's coming, from but that like they are pretty 1089 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,320 Speaker 4: included on that that doesn't mean you have to include 1090 00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 4: her in every single thing going. Forward, yeah and like 1091 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,840 Speaker 4: she had to put up with like basically her birthday 1092 00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 4: being a little bit less fun than she originally, planned 1093 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,360 Speaker 4: and she wanted to See Black widow and this girl 1094 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,600 Speaker 4: wouldn't want to Watch Black widow, anyway it is. 1095 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:20,120 Speaker 5: True, WELL i know this seems like the perfect. Solution. 1096 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, YEAH i think her partner is being a little 1097 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,160 Speaker 6: bit self righteous. Here it sounds, like, YEAH i mean 1098 00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 6: self righteous is the right. 1099 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,759 Speaker 3: WORD i know the. Solution this is what you should be. 1100 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,960 Speaker 3: Doing why aren't you doing? This how you know? 1101 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,960 Speaker 5: What why don't you invite her to your? 1102 00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:37,560 Speaker 3: Birthday, hey there we, Go, no we're. Talking you get 1103 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:38,240 Speaker 3: the right pizza? 1104 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:43,800 Speaker 6: Toppings, yeah picked the good movies At people are Accusing 1105 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,960 Speaker 6: molly's mother of being out of contact on. 1106 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 3: PURPOSE i do not think that was the. CASE i 1107 00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 3: had to leave this detail out to meet character. 1108 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,600 Speaker 6: Limits but we Called molly's mom twice around eleven thirty 1109 00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:54,400 Speaker 6: pm and got no. 1110 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,400 Speaker 3: Answer. Late, yeah that's that's Totally. 1111 00:48:57,080 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 6: Molly's mom actually called me back around three, am AND 1112 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 6: i apologized greatly for missing my call and offered to 1113 00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:03,399 Speaker 6: come Get. 1114 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:04,840 Speaker 3: Molly since the girls were already. 1115 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 6: ASLEEP i Told molly's MOM i would call her back 1116 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:07,799 Speaker 6: first thing when they were. 1117 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,560 Speaker 3: Awake that's. WHACK i don't know why people are assuming. 1118 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,880 Speaker 5: That red and we got we got These reddit sleuths in. 1119 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 6: There, yeah, dude The internet salutes are real, Though like 1120 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:18,360 Speaker 6: they really do be cracking. 1121 00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,359 Speaker 3: Cases but this, one. Y'all, yeah didn't crack. 1122 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,879 Speaker 5: This you drop the. Case they're no. Charlock that's. Right 1123 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 5: there were a mere wattson a. 1124 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:24,880 Speaker 1: Mess all. 1125 00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,600 Speaker 5: RIGHT i think that's another wrapped episode of out Kop. 1126 00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:33,440 Speaker 6: Oh y'all forget subscrit, night, smashtag. 1127 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,799 Speaker 3: Subscribe, button smash. It we'll see you next. 1128 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 4: Time