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Speaker 1: cool how that can be said at any given moment

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Speaker 1: does it even mean? It's up to you. I want

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Speaker 1: What a job, and honestly, you are seeing to it

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Speaker 1: it is thanks to you. So thanks to you. I've

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Speaker 1: want to bring back an apartment and home hangs this year.

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Speaker 1: We don't do enough of that. We're always out to eat.

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Speaker 1: Mind you, I love eating out, I love being at home,

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Speaker 1: Doesn't have to be my home in fact, rather it not,

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Speaker 1: happened to that? What a lost art? The few times

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Speaker 1: Why don't we do more of it? Maybe people are

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Speaker 1: to bring those back. That's my petition for this year,

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Speaker 1: for myself and my community and also for you, is

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Speaker 1: bring back home hangs because some of my also most

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Speaker 1: No one was staying at a hotel, hadn't heard of those.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to go to a restaurant, though I

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Speaker 2: Oh I look rich. That's right, you did?

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Speaker 2: Do you feel rich right now? I do? With you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you look like a million books. And then there's

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Speaker 1: My next guest is an actor, comedian and writer. Do

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Speaker 1: you like how I keep checking in with him? You

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Speaker 1: know him from Saturday Night Live, The Bear and Bad Monkey.

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Speaker 1: It's Alex Moffatt. But Alex Moffatt sent a different bio

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Speaker 1: The email I received minutes ago said Alex sent another bio.

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Speaker 1: day Errol Flynn, Alex Moffatt. The moth Dog is a

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Speaker 1: the audience determine again. Someone wrote this. Father, husband, son, brother, uncle.

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Speaker 1: Actor comedian Hoofer Hoofer not Hooper Hoofer, Baller and Zaddie.

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Speaker 1: in The Cottage, and we'll soon start rehearsals for the

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Speaker 1: off Broadway premiere of Bigfoot the Musical. He's five ten,

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Speaker 1: one hundred and seventy five pounds of pure da da

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Speaker 1: Are you willing to shave?

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Speaker 2: Always?

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Speaker 2: Cool. Okay, that's good. Thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: Don't thank me thank who ever wrote.

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Speaker 1: air that you're like, I wish this never saw the light.

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Speaker 2: Of day that I wish had not.

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Speaker 1: I mean you have two children. I do, I cannot.

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Speaker 2: Brought to you by Jacob's Pickles.

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Speaker 1: Brought to you by that delicious biscuit, Yes, Jacobs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I walked by that restaurant. I was like, wait,

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Speaker 1: You introduced me, and I'm way up here because we live.

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Speaker 1: But at some point in this year I ran into you.

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Speaker 2: You were walking your doggie.

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Speaker 1: I was walking my dog, little Chief, Chief Chief Chief

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Speaker 2: even cackle, and he smiles with his whole body. It's adorable.

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00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:50,880
Speaker 2: So I adore this child with every fiber of my being.

438
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 2: But I will say my daughter, who was almost five,

439
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:58,040
Speaker 2: is like is I don't know. I don't even know

440
00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,920
Speaker 2: how to describe what the last five years have been

441
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 2: like getting to spend every day with that girl, because

442
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:08,359
Speaker 2: it is truly it is like, it is truly like magic.

443
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 2: It's amazing, so cool.

444
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 1: That's so cool. Does it feel like a part of

445
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 1: your heart lives outside? If you've heard it described that way,

446
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 1: it's and accurate.

447
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:17,679
Speaker 2: It is.

448
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is really special. Dang, you make me want

449
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 1: to go get pregnant tonight.

450
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 2: Do it.

451
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go get pregnant tonight.

452
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 2: Do it?

453
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:32,200
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, pull the goalie. That's a good way

454
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 1: to put it in the middle of intercourse.

455
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 4: Pull the goalie.

456
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 2: Well, oh, I just well then I didn't know what

457
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 2: sort of measures you were taking, you know, to not

458
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 2: goalie could be anything. The goalie could be anything.

459
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 1: Goalie could be an I U D. A goalie could

460
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 1: be often goalie could be a condom. Yep, goalie could

461
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 1: be the pullout method often is.

462
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,479
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just will content that one. That one is

463
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,679
Speaker 2: not as effective as the first you mentioned.

464
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 1: Sure for some depending on how much you've practiced like

465
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: anything else, You're right, practice could make perfect.

466
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 2: Yes, although you practice that enough statistically you are bound

467
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 2: to have it not.

468
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: Work at some point.

469
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 2: Right.

470
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know they don't teach women enough about

471
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 1: their bodies in school.

472
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 2: I have to say, oh what a yeah they do.

473
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 4: This is not some controversial taking.

474
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Speaker 2: Sure.

475
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Speaker 1: They do only get pregnant like twice a month. As

476
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Speaker 1: a woman. It's like, you can only get pregnant like right, So,

477
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 1: by the way, don't.

478
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 4: Listen to me. Please don't listen.

479
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 1: I do not want to be responsible for the conception

480
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Speaker 1: of children. To my understanding, you can only get pregnant

481
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,719
Speaker 1: like twice three times a month. You've got to be ovulated.

482
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 2: You're right, I mean you know this better than I

483
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 2: did speak. Oh got well, yes, it's it's part of

484
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 2: why you know, if like a if a a couple

485
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 2: is like trying, yeah, you know, then there are certain

486
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 2: times a month where they're like, we gotta go, we

487
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 2: gotta get it in.

488
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: That sounds so awful. When I hear about that, it

489
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 1: becomes like I've heard about a couple of scheduling sex

490
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,160
Speaker 1: for the sake of like intimacy and being like, we're

491
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: so busy schedules, we need to connect right which I

492
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 1: which also sounds like oh damn, what about the romance

493
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: and the unpredictability of it whatever, But then being like

494
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,199
Speaker 1: we've got to have sex right now because we're trying

495
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: sounds so stressful and like, how's everybody supposed to perform

496
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: right under?

497
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I hear you god speed. It takes

498
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 2: a lot of the fun out of it. But also

499
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 2: we've been pretty lucky where it hasn't been like, uh,

500
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 2: we gotta.

501
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, yeah.

502
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: Strap on the feedback, let's get it out, let's get

503
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 2: after it.

504
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 4: Imagine before okay, right.

505
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 2: I'm gonna read ESPN scores and so we right, dude,

506
00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 2: you gotta do I'll be here. I'm just a hog

507
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 2: with seed.

508
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 4: That's awful.

509
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 2: I know it does sound often, and I have friends

510
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,360
Speaker 2: who were like, oh, it was not I guess I'm

511
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 2: impersonating if my If a lot of my friends are

512
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 2: growing up are listening, they're gonna know exactly who I'm doing.

513
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 2: An impression of it was like, yeah, we had to, dude,

514
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,479
Speaker 2: we had to schedule it. Not as much fun as

515
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 2: you'd think.

516
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 1: No one assumes that's fun. I just want to, for

517
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: the record say that.

518
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 2: But well, this was long before I had sure.

519
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 3: Sure.

520
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: Speaking of your friends, did you while you were saying

521
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: that you like were not top of mind thinking about

522
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 1: having a child, right and obviously because you were focused

523
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: on your career at any point, did you did you

524
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: feel like looking at friends who back here's you're from Chicago,

525
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 1: looking at friends who I had kids earlier than you had,

526
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 1: did you in any way feel like, oh, I'm I'm

527
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: missing out, or I'm doing something wrong, or I should

528
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: be any pressure there?

529
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 2: There was some pressure. I mean there was pressure about

530
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 2: a lot of things. Because you know a lot of

531
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 2: my friends from growing up and high school and college

532
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 2: have had very successful careers in other fields. And so

533
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 2: you know, as I when I was like twenty eight

534
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 2: and made eleven thousand dollars that year and lived in

535
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: a closet, and certain and friends of mine are like, yeah,

536
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: might be getting VP this year, I'm like, good, what

537
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 2: am I doing? What am I doing? And then it

538
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 2: was like another six years before anything happened. Anyway. Yeah,

539
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 2: so it was like bleak for a while. Now. When

540
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 2: I say bleak, I was also having a blast, sure,

541
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 2: and you know it was. It's I wouldn't change a thing,

542
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: but yes, like friends of mine and some friends of

543
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 2: mine had kids in their twenties, and that part I

544
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, yay, I go go for it, ready

545
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 2: for that? Yeah? Yeah, So I wouldn't say that it

546
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 2: was the kids thing that I was ever like, I

547
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,719
Speaker 2: want one? Why can't I have that? That part was

548
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 2: not eluding me. It was the like some sort of

549
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 2: semblance of success, if you will, that a lot of

550
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 2: my friends had in whatever chosen career they had. That

551
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 2: I had to wait a very long time to feel.

552
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: Did you at any point in that window of time

553
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: when you're making eleven thousand dollars?

554
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 2: That was one year? That was a down year?

555
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: Okay? You just want to let the people know, because

556
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 1: look at this man. He wasn't making eleven thousand dollars

557
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 1: for more than a year.

558
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 2: That was one year.

559
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: You came in here looking rich, demanding tea.

560
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: Yes, I made freshly long made more than eleven thousand

561
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 2: this year?

562
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah you did?

563
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: Like it looks like you did. What a brag, right,

564
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 2: that's my brag for this cash. I hope you.

565
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,479
Speaker 1: Made more than eleven thousand last year scarcely, but in

566
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: the time where you weren't really successful by your own

567
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: metric and by comparison, by comparing to your friends. Were

568
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: you at any point like I need to I need

569
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: to change careers, I need.

570
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: To do something differently oddly? No? Really, yeah, I don't

571
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 2: know why. I mean I think. I mean I had

572
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 2: other like things that I would dabble in, Like I

573
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: had a day I always had a day job, and

574
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 2: it was always something kind of weird enough where it

575
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 2: was like the schedule would allow still allow me to

576
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 2: go and improvise and do sketch and my solo character.

577
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: Bullshit, you say it was such disdain Well, I just

578
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:42,199
Speaker 1: mean my characters show making up songs. You feel does

579
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: it make you feel like a dumbass in retrosp I

580
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: guess otherwise why would I use that tone?

581
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: Very telling, very telling? Uh, But no, I there was

582
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 2: never a time when I because also, like you know,

583
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 2: maybe experiences too. You get teeny little breadcrumbs along the way.

584
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: Obviously it didn't all happen at once, but even like

585
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 2: as a you know, twenty five year old, it's like, whoa,

586
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 2: I just got cast in a writing five show and

587
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 2: Donnie's Skybox. That's pretty good. I'm kind of ahead of

588
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 2: schedule here, I'm really doing it right right now. And

589
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: then two years only a short two years later, I'm

590
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:24,439
Speaker 2: performing in the Stardus Theater on the Norwegian Jewel on

591
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: Norwegian for Norwegian Cruise Lines. Oh, I'm kind of killing it.

592
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: Very second city. You guys in the cruises, did you

593
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: like living.

594
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 2: On a boat for three and a half of the

595
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 2: four months? Yeah? I loved it. You know, Cecily was

596
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: in the same cast.

597
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: She was in the same cast on the boat with

598
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: you three and a half of the four months. So

599
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: what was that two week span she hated?

600
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 2: Just fell apart?

601
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: This is at the end?

602
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: Is that the end?

603
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: Okay?

604
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know.

605
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: Eccess did this as well. You can't really see cessp

606
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: being on a boat for that long.

607
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: She killed it.

608
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 1: Of course, she's she's a phenomenon.

609
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I just mean but life. She killed boat life,

610
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 2: boat life. Yeah it was. But but also there are

611
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 2: only so many things to do on a cruise ship,

612
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 2: and so you kind of end up going to the

613
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: crew bar and buying a seventy five cent bottle of

614
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 2: wine almost every night. Excuse me. It was seventy five

615
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 2: cents a glass, but you could buy a whole bottle

616
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: of wine for I think a dollar seventy.

617
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: Five less than two buck chuck. Yeah, wow, yeah, and

618
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: it tastes like shit. No, I didn't know, you didn't

619
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: think so okay, fascinating in.

620
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 2: My recollection, I wouldn't recommend it today.

621
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

622
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: Also in my case, it was like, yeah, why not,

623
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 2: I'll have I'll drink nine coronas again tonight? Why not?

624
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 2: Why when?

625
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: But it feels like the only thing that like when

626
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: I think about what it would be like to live

627
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: on a cruise ship four months, ye oh my goodness, lord,

628
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 1: do you have any crazy stories from being on the

629
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: cruise ship?

630
00:29:54,440 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 2: Like crazy story, juicy juicything, juicy m I h I

631
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 2: hooked up with a girl who was the SpongeBob on

632
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 2: a cruise ship.

633
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: Like, were you taking off her costume for her?

634
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 2: That I don't recall? Yeah, that would have been so good.

635
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 2: It was it was Halloween, so it was a different coster.

636
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 2: Oh what was she for Halloween? Don't remember?

637
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: Wow, she didn't make an impression.

638
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 2: She was absolutely she performed. Well, okay, great SpongeBob.

639
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I mean, of course, that's what I meant.

640
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 2: That's my craziest cruise ship story.

641
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: You know what, you're a father. I shouldn't be asking you.

642
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: Why are you asking me to see this one day? Yeah,

643
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: and be like, my dad is you're right? Hold on,

644
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: let's get back to respectable topics.

645
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 2: Yes, you know, why not? I would hate for your

646
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: kids to cut that out, cut that out.

647
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: I don't want them knowing you've ever had sex with

648
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: anyone other than their mother.

649
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: Right, Well, we don't have to get into it. We

650
00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: just shouldn't. I was. I was also in a in

651
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 2: a relationship, and I don't know why I'm saying this.

652
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 2: This is all this is a podcast talk anyway, I

653
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 2: I it was, it was not it was actually not sex.

654
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 2: It was uh. It was so because the girl that

655
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: I was dating back home before we left kind of

656
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: said like, hey, I realized you're going on a cruise

657
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 2: ship and it's going to basically be and all you

658
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 2: can everything, everything buffet. So what say we like, we're

659
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 2: going to keep this open god bless, have fun, but

660
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 2: maybe don't go all the way there.

661
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: So no home base.

662
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 2: No home base everything. But yeah, and so I adhered

663
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 2: to that wow. Wow.

664
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: Just to be clear, yeah, because I would hate for

665
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: her now I'm thinking about her seeing this and be like, wait,

666
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: he broke.

667
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 2: Exactly, and I'm here to tell you thirty However, many

668
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 2: fifteen years later, I didn't.

669
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: Followed the rules. Had you been in open relationships before that?

670
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: No? Okay, I mean not open relationships in the sense

671
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: that like we sat down and talked about it, here's

672
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: how we're gonna do this ethical monogamy thing. I was

673
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 2: in other relationships where it was clear we weren't like exclusive,

674
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 2: but not in a like long term committed one where

675
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: we sort of made rules and where you know, that's cool.

676
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: So she offered that up.

677
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 2: She was just like, hey, we had already been open, okay.

678
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 2: And then going on the cruise ship, that was actually

679
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:42,479
Speaker 2: just putting sort of a you know, a governor, if

680
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 2: you will, to on the whole situation to be like,

681
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,959
Speaker 2: here's the only way I'm going to be comfortable with this.

682
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: I was like, that's fair, and it's almost like whatever

683
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: happens on the water.

684
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 2: Is true, and there was yes, but also I'm here,

685
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 2: that's that's not how it ended up. I mean, it's

686
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: very Have you ever been in an open relationship.

687
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: No, never, okay, it's hard to do that.

688
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't think it's it's not for everybody.

689
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 2: I don't think it was necessary. We tried. I think

690
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 2: our hearts were in the right place, but it was

691
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 2: not a great situation.

692
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: You're not gonna want to tell me how this ended.

693
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 2: We broke up. Well, it was long after the cruise

694
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: ship if that, okay?

695
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: Help It wasn't anything that happened in the ocean. No, okay, okay,

696
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: because you did your part. Wow, it's just open relationships.

697
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, God's speed to the people who are able.

698
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 2: God speed.

699
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: I do not have the skill set.

700
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 2: I hear you, and I'm glad that we sort of

701
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 2: did that, and I learned a lot from it. And

702
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 2: I don't think that it's what I would want necessary.

703
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: Brave of you to try. I have to say, I

704
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: salute you.

705
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: We tried.

706
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: But speaking of relationships, please you said something the last

707
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: so last time I saw you, we ran into each

708
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 1: other in Brooklyn. But before that we were at some event,

709
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: do you remember, And I don't know where, but on

710
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: our way out and I was like, we'll have to

711
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: get together, and now we didn't. But now we're on

712
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: the podcast.

713
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: This is us getting together.

714
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: This is us getting together. If you want to hang

715
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: out with me, you got to.

716
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 2: Come to the podcast apparently. So no, I'm not going

717
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 2: to be on like the next three episodes so we

718
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 2: can finally catch up.

719
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 1: Yes, properly, but you have to sign like a thing,

720
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: a release that's like you're yeah, you have to be

721
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: you have to tell me all the team. But is

722
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: that you said we were talking about a relationship. I

723
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: was once in where I was like, I feel like

724
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: I'd have to like pull this person, drag them through life,

725
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 1: like really nice person. But I would have to be like,

726
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,439
Speaker 1: come on, we're going here.

727
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 2: I think I ran into you and that person. Maybe

728
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 2: we're gonna cut that out.

729
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 5: Okay, well I run into you with we're cutting that out, cut.

730
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,919
Speaker 1: That out because I don't want that person to feel

731
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 1: so we'll move on. But you did, we did, Yes,

732
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: we did, Yes, So we are cutting that out. I

733
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: often joke cut it out, but I'm.

734
00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 2: Like, and where nothing chatting?

735
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: No, no, no, we'll cut it out. We'll put it

736
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: on the substack for subscribers to be substack. Okay, subscriber

737
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: to substack if you want to see who the person

738
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: is that Alex was referring to, mind you, my friend

739
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: here has been so cagy and I've honored it. And

740
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 1: then here, Yeah, you know, I'm so. You're right, Yes,

741
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: your shirt is open, but ye're being cag.

742
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 2: Oh god, cag am.

743
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:28,479
Speaker 1: I cag you're being cag.

744
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 2: I open up about topics. I can't believe I've been

745
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: talking about.

746
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 1: Really, are you gonna get an email from your lawyer

747
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: after this?

748
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 2: Yes? All of them.

749
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: Being like, can that you have?

750
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 2: How many lawyers do you have?

751
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 1: Five?

752
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 2: Oh? Where do I begin? No, I've got one, okay,

753
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 2: but he works at a firm where there's more than.

754
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: There's so many names every every laws office. There's like seven.

755
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 2: Names Woldeman, Moffat, wold.

756
00:35:54,160 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: Haveman, Moffatt and Michaels and Gardner and Obama.

757
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 2: And be our law firm. Keep going you me, Heidi,

758
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: Lorne and Michelle.

759
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: Michelle Okay, not Barack. I feel like we need at

760
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: least two more, though, and.

761
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 5: Come on, get good name Strong, Strong, Gordon, Levitt, Strong

762
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 5: and Gordon.

763
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: And James. I was saying strong names because that's so

764
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,879
Speaker 1: many SNL people. We need one more, Yes, we need

765
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: one more. Non SNL and uh Print grint Do we

766
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:31,359
Speaker 1: know them?

767
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 2: Isn't that Rupert Grinty?

768
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: I believe you, is what I'm going to say about everything.

769
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 2: So our law firm is Wodem and Moffatt and Gardner

770
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 2: and Michaels and Obama and Strong and Gordon Levitt and

771
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: Grint print.

772
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: I don't know where I lost count. That's that's the firm.

773
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: We cannot help you.

774
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,959
Speaker 2: And we're busy.

775
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: Doing entertainment stuff. Okay, Boffett. Point is you said that

776
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: you remembered I had said, Oh, I feel like this person,

777
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: lovely person. I would just have to kind of be like,

778
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,359
Speaker 1: come on through life, just constant, and there was gonna

779
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: never be sort of like an activation on there. And

780
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: you said to me, where the f were we?

781
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 4: Anyway?

782
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 1: You said when you said this to me, you were like, hey,

783
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: I remember you saying this about a person you're dating

784
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: and he's and you said, I feel like Caroline Mofman's

785
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 1: wife has done that for me.

786
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 2: Yes, Caroline with the tiny heinie in the world's fluffiest.

787
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: Vagina every time he's been saying that for at least

788
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: seven years, because you said that when I met you.

789
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 1: Does she like that description? You guys once said an

790
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: erotic erotic Christmas card? Do you remember or was it

791
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: an invitation to something?

792
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 2: Uh? It might have been a Valentine's Day card or

793
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 2: a New Year's card.

794
00:37:58,600 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 1: It was a New Year Do you remember this?

795
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 2: We've sent a handful of erotic greeting cards. I love

796
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 2: this couple.

797
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: Okay, anyway, you said that she did this for you?

798
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:11,680
Speaker 2: Yes, my god, I and and actually part of the

799
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: like prep that I got for this pot. If you

800
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 2: want to be thanks dad, you.

801
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: Got to say who do you want to say thanks to?

802
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:19,959
Speaker 1: Can you believe me? And my friend just started running?

803
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: Our mouth did not start?

804
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 2: The pot podcast starts now?

805
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: Heym off it. Who I want to say thanks to?

806
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 2: I want to say thanks Caroline with the tiny hei

807
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 2: in the world's fluffiest vagini.

808
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: I don't know if anyway fluffy vagini? Do you want

809
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:37,839
Speaker 1: your vagina to be fluffy?

810
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 4: Ladies?

811
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: Comment?

812
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 2: Ladies put us up?

813
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: Actually, everyone comment? Do we want fluffy vaginis?

814
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, not everybody wants it. I think a lot

815
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,479
Speaker 2: of fellows are like I prefer when a girl looks

816
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 2: like she never started puberty, whereas I go to the

817
00:38:59,000 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 2: opposite end.

818
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 1: Fluffy Vagini, You're like, you want to be lost in

819
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 1: the woods.

820
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: Lost yay, never to return again. Yeah, she's She's the greatest.

821
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: So yes, that's who you say, thanks, Oh my god,

822
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 2: do I ever? I mean I it was actually a

823
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 2: hard question because I was like, I owe a big

824
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,919
Speaker 2: thank you, a big debt of gratitude to a lot

825
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: of people. I thought of thanks Dad, thanks mom. I

826
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: had really wonderful parents. But yeah, because actually partially because

827
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 2: of that quote that you just mentioned that you said

828
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: to me about that former flame who then I've said,

829
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 2: that's how it has been with Caroline. I thought, well,

830
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 2: since I'm talking to Eggie Boom, I'm gonna say thanks Caroline,

831
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: because she has in a way dragged me through life.

832
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 2: When we met at a Elvita cheese commercial audition in

833
00:39:55,600 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 2: October of twenty twelve. October twenty twelve, she did, you say, Coctober,

834
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:05,240
Speaker 2: I don't think so she dragged me out of a ditch.

835
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: I was. I was just a half dead, bloated, very sad,

836
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 2: grieving individual, which is all fine, but I was, you

837
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 2: might say, a shadow of the titan that I am today.

838
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: Look at this again, look at this man.

839
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 2: But I so she truly, I feel like she's saved

840
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 2: my life in so many ways, and she has uh

841
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: dragged me through life. You want to know a quick

842
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 2: little story where I was like, oh, this is the

843
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 2: kind of gal that I that I could really that

844
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 2: I need from wah, you know, because that's what a

845
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 2: relationship should be. How does she serve my need?

846
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 3: That's it.

847
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 2: That's it's how does she serve my needs? Right? Yes,

848
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 2: what holes do I have that she can fit?

849
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,439
Speaker 1: I will give her nothing, offer her nothing for in fact,

850
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: I will be a liability exactly. So that is what

851
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: a relationship is supposed to be.

852
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 2: Okay, she this is I had this like trunk. I

853
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 2: had most of my stuff in a storage space. Again,

854
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 2: I was crushing it at the time, and she came

855
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 2: with me to my storage unit. We had just started dating,

856
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: and I had this beautiful old trunk that belonged to

857
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 2: one of my older sisters that was hers in like

858
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: the eighties. It looked like something that had been on

859
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:33,320
Speaker 2: the Titanic, but it had had a broken lock forever.

860
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,800
Speaker 2: And I had just been carting this trunk around forever

861
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 2: and I was gonna take it to wherever I was

862
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 2: living next Who knows and she was like, that's a

863
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 2: beautiful trunk. I was like, thanks, the lock's broke and

864
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 2: I'm just kind of carting it around for no and

865
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 2: she was and I was like, do you want it?

866
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 2: And she was like sure. And I had had this

867
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 2: trunk for over a decade and the lock had just

868
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 2: been broken. And the next time I saw her it

869
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 2: was the trunk was in her place and the lock

870
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: was fixed, and she was like look and I looked

871
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: in and I hadn't looked in the trunk since I

872
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 2: was like a kid, And I was like, how did

873
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 2: you do that? She was like, oh, I just I

874
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 2: just took it to a place and they fixed the lock.

875
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I guess I could have done

876
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: that at some point over the last decade, but I

877
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 2: just didn't. Yeah. Yeah, And so I was like, oh,

878
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 2: you do things. You say you're going to do something

879
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 2: and then you do it. M M.

880
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: That is so attractive. Yes, and it's so simple. It's

881
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 1: so simple, but it's like a really attractive trait, like

882
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: you do what you say you're going to do. Yes, phenomenal.

883
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 2: Yes, it was an aphrodisiac, this lock that had been

884
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 2: fixed on this trunk. But but Also I was like, oh,

885
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 2: you kind of have a gear in life that I

886
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: that seems to elude me. And uh, again, it's not

887
00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 2: that I am saying I just glombed onto her because

888
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: I was like, please save me and bring me through

889
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 2: and make me whole again. It wasn't that, but I

890
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 2: was just like, it was very attractive how much she

891
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 2: was Just it was so simple to her, and I

892
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 2: just like procrastinated and put it off and stuff. And

893
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 2: she's the kind of person he'll just be like, yeah,

894
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: we needed to have forty things hung, so I had

895
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 2: just hired a task grab it to come to which

896
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 2: these are the simplest things. But instead of all these

897
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 2: things sitting in a pile that just need to be

898
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 2: hung and I'm not doing it, she just gets figures

899
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 2: it outright and does it.

900
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: That's phenomenal. So we're saying thanks to Carolina. To Carolina

901
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: and say with the fluffy vaginy because I forgot the rest. Yeah, yeah,

902
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:44,280
Speaker 1: shout out to Caroline. She is incredible.

903
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 2: She's incredible, she really is.

904
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 1: I think that that's okay, particularly what a relationship is

905
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: meant to be from my understanding with limited knowledge of them. Honey,

906
00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:00,879
Speaker 1: I got limited knowledge. I think it's fairly well. Thank you.

907
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:01,839
Speaker 1: I appreciate that.

908
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 2: It's again one of the most grounded people I've ever

909
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 2: met and one of the wisest people. Like from the

910
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 2: get go, I was like, whoa that this person has

911
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: their head like is just so grounded and has their

912
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:20,720
Speaker 2: head screwed on so straight. That sounds like I'm almost

913
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 2: maybe patronizing you.

914
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: It's so kind.

915
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,240
Speaker 2: I just mean it as like I was like and always,

916
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 2: always at Snel. There was never a moment where I

917
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: think anybody, myself included was ever like worried. I think

918
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 2: you came in and everyone's like, oh my gosh, she

919
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 2: could run this place immediately. She's already the funniest person,

920
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 2: and now we just see what an adult she is.

921
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 2: Good lord h So yeah, thank you man.

922
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: That's really generous and sweet of you.

923
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 2: I think also of you often when you know that book,

924
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 2: the Four Agreements.

925
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: It's my favorite, do I ever Yes.

926
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: So I think of you with that and the you know,

927
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 2: take nothing personally and that was something we sometimes chatted about.

928
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: Yes, And it's my favorite of the Four Agreements. It's

929
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 1: my favorite.

930
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 2: My mom used to that. My mom read that book

931
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 2: like whenever it first came out, and we used to

932
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,320
Speaker 2: have these long chats in the car and over the

933
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 2: dinner table about the agreements, and that was sort of

934
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: the one that we talked the most.

935
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: That's so beautiful, and that's the one, yeah, most moving

936
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 1: to me off the bat when I read it, because

937
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, everything everyone's doing is

938
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 1: all about them at all times. Even the compliment me going,

939
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: you look rich.

940
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's about you, about me, you are a mirror.

941
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 1: No, but just yeah, it's everything everyone does is about

942
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: them and the place and the space they're in, and

943
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: that is really cool. And I remember when I started

944
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: at SNL, I was so grateful that you invited me

945
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: over for a drink because I didn't know anybody. You know,

946
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: people go in there and they know people.

947
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess you didn't either, I legitimately a little bit.

948
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 2: And obviously yeah.

949
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: I genuinely I met Chris Read in a green room

950
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: once at UCB in Passing, like two months before I

951
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 1: got SNL. But I literally don't know any of these people,

952
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: but you were so kind and generous to be like,

953
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: come over and have a drink to the ones.

954
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 2: I just kind of wanted to be friends with you.

955
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 2: I was like, she seems cool.

956
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: Thanks, mof man, I'm so grateful, and now we have

957
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 1: to hang out in a real way not here. But

958
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean the podcast is over because I have

959
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: so many more questions.

960
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, if you say so, I keep teasing an end,

961
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 2: and it's well, this has been fun.

962
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: No, well, okay, you know you spoke about your mom

963
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 1: and even having those lovely conversations about the Four Agreements,

964
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: which is so cool. Like we used to read with

965
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 1: my mom and she would have conversations with us about

966
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: things you'd read and those those are such cherished moments

967
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: to me. When I met you at SNL, I think

968
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: at one point we were off to like rehearsing and

969
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 1: a sketch on a Thursday or something, and I was like,

970
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: are your parents so proud? And you're like, well, they

971
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: are not here anymore, and but you're like, but.

972
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 2: I have they used to be at thirty Rock and

973
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 2: then they had just left that day. So that's what

974
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 2: I meant by that.

975
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: Oh I misunderstood this whole time. I thought you meant

976
00:46:59,000 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: they had passed.

977
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know they had been in the in studio

978
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: eight age earlier and so then I was like, no,

979
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 2: they're not here.

980
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,439
Speaker 1: Then in no way could you answer my question because

981
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: you're like, well, they're not in the building any.

982
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were proud of me while they were watching

983
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 2: us rehearsal. Then they left, So they're not.

984
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 1: Here, My guy, I think you did something like this to.

985
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,280
Speaker 2: Me, probably what deflected?

986
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: Deflected?

987
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah? Go ahead? Were you when they passed away? Did

988
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 2: they that? No? I what if I just found out

989
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 2: from you? For me, that was how old was I?

990
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 2: I was twenty four when my mom passed. I was

991
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 2: twenty nine when my dad passed. Okay, ye, would you?

992
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 2: So I got it all done in my in my twenties.

993
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 2: Don't talk about the way.

994
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: Don't talk about it like that.

995
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 2: My thirties were easy in that s like I got

996
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:49,839
Speaker 2: the biggest, the biggest, shittiest, worst things that I think

997
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 2: a person can go through. I got them done pretty early.

998
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean did you did Caroline met you then

999
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: after both of your parents had passed? Yeah, so of

1000
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 1: course you were depressed by Yes, I say, it's like

1001
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: a given but absolutely unbsolute. Any form of it is understandable.

1002
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: But I'm like, there are some real context here.

1003
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for.

1004
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 1: For how she found you, and you know how she

1005
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 1: found you, because that's the way you that's the way

1006
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: you put it to me every time we talk about it.

1007
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 1: Having had that loss at that age, how would you

1008
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: say it has shaped the person you are today?

1009
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 2: I don't think it.

1010
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,479
Speaker 1: Did you shut the front door.

1011
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: How has it shaped me? I think it has given

1012
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 2: me the knowledge that everything is impermanent and so truly,

1013
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 2: like this morning when I I took my daughter was

1014
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 2: so late to school today because I just wanted to

1015
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 2: snuggle her for a while. And that's on me, but

1016
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 2: we were like, we love your accountability. But I think

1017
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 2: we were wrestling, making up songs, snuggling and she was

1018
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 2: just like laying on me and giggling, and it was

1019
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 2: true and I and I so I have this sense

1020
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 2: that literally, I I could, you know, if if I'm

1021
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 2: following in the in the steps of my parents and

1022
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 2: I pass early. I joke with Caroline that I'm gonna

1023
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: live to like forty five. I hope it's longer. Yeah,

1024
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 2: but I have a sense that we're all going to die.

1025
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,879
Speaker 2: It's all of this is going to come to an end.

1026
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 2: And so I truly, I think I enjoy these moments

1027
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 2: in life. It's given me the the the chance to

1028
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 2: like really really really soak in the good.

1029
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: Stuff that's really beautiful.

1030
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 2: Well, I think that that's I think that that if

1031
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 2: you can come through grief and and and grieve and

1032
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,479
Speaker 2: grieve and grieve and grief till you can't grieve no more,

1033
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 2: I think when you come out the other side, that

1034
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 2: is one thing that it gives you.

1035
00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what perspective Because I'm like, and the grand

1036
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: scheme of things, when you've had the experiences you've had,

1037
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: Who the hell cares if your daughter is an hour

1038
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: late to school? It actually doesn't matter. I don't know

1039
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: how late she was, but these are those moments. I'm assuming,

1040
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: to be.

1041
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 2: Fair, she's late every day, but she was later than usual.

1042
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, well then the teachers know she's she's.

1043
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 2: Coming, and I got to figure that out. Next year

1044
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,439
Speaker 2: she'll start kindergarten and then they start caring about when

1045
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 2: she's there, and then by then we'll figure it out.

1046
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: But those moments with you do matter. Those moments with

1047
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: you such like those are such important memories And honestly,

1048
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: that's the that's the stuff that matters in life. That's

1049
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: the texture. I feel like that matters.

1050
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Now can I ask you something?

1051
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: You may just beware that it's my podcast.

1052
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 2: Right, so you can kind of out wherever you want.

1053
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 2: But I didn't realize and I.

1054
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: Should have but have a dad that I didn't have

1055
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: a dad.

1056
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:53,959
Speaker 2: Yes, I didn't.

1057
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: I seem like a girl with a dad, right, yes, yeah, right?

1058
00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: What is what? What? Maybe your podcast listeners will be

1059
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: like we gotta hear this story again? Probably not, but

1060
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 2: what is the what do you mean you don't have Well, my.

1061
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: Parents got divorced when I was like two, and I

1062
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: was raised by my mom and I didn't have a

1063
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,319
Speaker 1: relationship with my dad. Got it and my dad has

1064
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,720
Speaker 1: now he died.

1065
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry. When was that okay for me?

1066
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: I feel for the people that were close to him. Yeah,

1067
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 1: he died like two summers ago, so like twenty twenty

1068
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 1: four or three. Yeah, but it's like we didn't have

1069
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: a relationship, thank.

1070
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 2: You, thank you. Didn't have a relationship with him a.

1071
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: Well, like I knew him, I knew him, but my

1072
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: mom raised me. I live with my mom. I did

1073
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,080
Speaker 1: visitation when was like younger, and then I was just

1074
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:48,360
Speaker 1: raised by my mother and yeah, we just buy my choice,

1075
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: didn't really have a relationship. But it wasn't like an

1076
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: angry I'm mad at you, so we're not. It's just

1077
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: like any time we talk, it was like, this is

1078
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: gonna be an unpleasant experience I feel, and it doesn't

1079
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: feel like a thing I need to introduce to my life.

1080
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 2: Cut that out.

1081
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 1: Uhdad give you gas? Apparently talk about my dad, dad

1082
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: giving you gas?

1083
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, So like where did he like, did you guys

1084
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 2: live close to each other.

1085
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: No, I grew up in Baltimore. He was there at

1086
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 1: some point, and so I was doing visitation when I

1087
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: was younger. Then he moved to North Carolina. But I'm

1088
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: like friends with you know, my cousins on his side

1089
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 1: where friendly. We follow each other on Instagram.

1090
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: So it wasn't that.

1091
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:34,919
Speaker 1: It was just like you seem tough in a way

1092
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: for me that doesn't necessarily seem worth it.

1093
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 2: Gotcha.

1094
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, that's like the best way to put it.

1095
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:44,240
Speaker 1: Where I'm like, and so I'm part of the premise

1096
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: of the podcast is like it was originally like, come

1097
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,919
Speaker 1: be my dad for a day, like but but you could.

1098
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: But but the reality is, it's like it's interesting to

1099
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: me to hear how people experience the relationship they have

1100
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: with their parents, and then what they are like as parents,

1101
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 1: and not everyone on the podcast as a parent, but

1102
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 1: everyone has a parent in some far it's a parent

1103
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 1: that everyone has a parent. Should we write a song now.

1104
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 2: It's that everyone has a parent?

1105
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: I like that song. We would have to figure out more,

1106
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 1: but yeah, that's the I asked Mikey when he did

1107
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: the podcast too, because he's like, I didn't realize Eggy

1108
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: that you didn't have a dad. And I was like, yeah,

1109
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 1: because I seem like I have a dad, and people

1110
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: like to go, what does it mean that you seem

1111
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: like you have a dad? But I'm like, we all know.

1112
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 1: Let's let's be you know, there's a nod happening off camera. Yeah,

1113
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 1: but no, everyone knows. Everyone knows what that seems like.

1114
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,840
Speaker 1: But but I think it has impacted me in ways

1115
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 1: that I'd had to peel back like a thousand layers

1116
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 1: and be like, ah, sure, I wasn't snuggling with dad

1117
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 1: before school. I was very on time to school and

1118
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: I had perfect attendance from I don't doubt it second

1119
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: grade to senior year, and it means nothing, which is

1120
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: why I'm like, snuggle with your dad instead it does mean.

1121
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 2: I mean it means something because you're you're mentioning it now.

1122
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: But I guess what I what I did learn from

1123
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: is is that it doesn't matter. And I cared so

1124
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 1: much about.

1125
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 2: It when I was perfect attendance.

1126
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,320
Speaker 1: Because I was like, oh, you're on a roll, baby,

1127
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 1: and it's like, but it doesn't it literally doesn't.

1128
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 2: I feel like you like, I'm not surprised that you

1129
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 2: had perfect attendance.

1130
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, why wait?

1131
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 2: Why why? Because uh you.

1132
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: Are I'm not fishing for a compliment.

1133
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 2: It sure seems like you are, but here you go.

1134
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 2: Uh no, I'm kidding. Why does it seem to get

1135
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 2: perfect attendance because uh you again are just so you

1136
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 2: seem very responsible. You you uh seem like you have

1137
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 2: life by the balls.

1138
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, just squeezing it.

1139
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 2: You gotta you know, a comet by the tail. Yeah,

1140
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 2: and you always have, thank you.

1141
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: I was a latch key kid single. Yeah.

1142
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:52,840
Speaker 2: I was like, I let.

1143
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 1: Myself in and I let myself in, and I had

1144
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 1: something my meal, and I do my homework and I

1145
00:54:58,200 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 1: do it right away.

1146
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 2: Really yeah, because I was a kid who did not

1147
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 2: do his homework.

1148
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: Really, I was like, I know, I need to do it,

1149
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: and I would get it done, and in my mind,

1150
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: I was like, get it done immediately, so the rest

1151
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,879
Speaker 1: of this evening is mine and it's not looming over

1152
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: me that I have to do homework. At some point

1153
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, I would do it immediately, and then I'm like,

1154
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm watching one O six in park. Now the night

1155
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 1: is mine. I'm watching Big Ticket in the basement a

1156
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 1: lot of BT. Yeah, and then what else seventh Heaven

1157
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 1: was my shit? Yeah, I was like, you gotta get

1158
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 1: your stuff done so that the rest of the evening

1159
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 1: is yours.

1160
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 2: Baby, Well, you were smarter than me because I would

1161
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 2: just not do it. And then I so that I

1162
00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 2: could feel like the time was mine, but it wasn't

1163
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 2: really mine because it was something was looming in the back.

1164
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 1: But mind you, things loom. Like I'm hearing myself describe

1165
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 1: the child I was, and I'm like, damn, but there's

1166
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: a lot of shit looming now, Like you gotta respond

1167
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:53,240
Speaker 1: to that email A goo. I don't respond to emails,

1168
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't respond to text messages and it's getting bad.

1169
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, how are you with.

1170
00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 1: All of that? Because I feel like you're responsive to me.

1171
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm okay. I think I'm realizing more and more

1172
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:07,239
Speaker 2: as I get older that there's some ADHD that I

1173
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 2: think had previously gone unaddressed. And so I'm not amazing

1174
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 2: when it comes to texts and emails, but I'm getting better.

1175
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 2: Do you feel like the personality type at SNL, I'll

1176
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:27,240
Speaker 2: attribute it to that or just like the particular people

1177
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 2: we worked with at SNL, I think that this text

1178
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 2: and email thing of like being truly abysmal at responding

1179
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 2: to things was like a pandemic at at.

1180
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 1: SNL, meaning we caught it there.

1181
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:48,360
Speaker 2: Sure, sure, or just like I still like friends of ours,

1182
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 2: some are better than others, but I feel like there's

1183
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 2: something about the personality type of whatever it is, whether

1184
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 2: it's cast or like a lot of people there are

1185
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 2: just like you know, and I'm one of them. I'm

1186
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 2: like friends of mine from growing up, who again have

1187
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:08,280
Speaker 2: chosen other career paths, are like, you know, you didn't

1188
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 2: respond to my text for like fourteen days and then

1189
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:14,840
Speaker 2: you pretended like nothing had happened. I'm like, yeah, I

1190
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 2: guess I've.

1191
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: Had to practice not saying sorry for being delayed and

1192
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: responses that's actually I really practice not being like so

1193
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: sorry about my delay because I'm like, there's two.

1194
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 2: So you're not well, I actually am.

1195
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 1: The reality is that I am, and I'm like, no,

1196
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: I need to set a new tone that just because

1197
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,959
Speaker 1: you have reached out to me in written form does

1198
00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 1: not mean that I can get back to you. I

1199
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: think about if I were to sit down and respond

1200
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 1: to everything that's come my way, just even that's on

1201
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 1: my phone right now, that would be a two day

1202
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: sort of like block out, two business days I'm going

1203
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 1: to get back to everyone. Yeah, And that's not feasible

1204
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: for my life, and so I've had to make peace

1205
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 1: with like I'm not gonna say sorry, though sometimes I'm like,

1206
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 1: I just really want to say so, and I have

1207
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 1: to work on it because there's just too many inboxes.

1208
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 1: And I think that for there's too many inboxes. There's dms,

1209
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: there's emails, there's text messages, and everyone's like, hey, I

1210
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 1: don't know if you got my DM, but okay, now

1211
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: here's an email and a text, and I go, no,

1212
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: that's more. And it's giving me anxiety. I hear reaction

1213
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: in real time. I'm about to break out.

1214
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 2: I just saw that.

1215
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna bring I'm shaking.

1216
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:21,920
Speaker 2: There's a single bead of sweat coming.

1217
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: Now there's not, and so it all stresses me out.

1218
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, we stop apologizing for not being able to

1219
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: get back to people in time. There's too many inboxes.

1220
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: We've gone too.

1221
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 2: Far, We've gone too far. Yeah, as it cut it

1222
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: all off, cut it all off, pull the plug on

1223
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 2: the whole.

1224
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 1: Remember having to call someone in their home phone and

1225
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 1: having to leave a message? Yeah, and that was and

1226
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: that was it. So you're just living your life right,

1227
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 1: and then you go home and it's like.

1228
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 2: Okay, truly it makes me want to go if if

1229
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 2: somewhere there is a giant plug that we could just

1230
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 2: go drink and then we're just back to home phones.

1231
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 2: Have you ever heard of it? These tin can phones?

1232
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 2: The original phone, the original but yes, now there's a

1233
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 2: thing where like if you want to give your kids

1234
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 2: the you know, the ability to communicate with other kids,

1235
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 2: but you don't want to put like a smartphone in

1236
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 2: their hand. There's basically like these new things that it's

1237
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:16,440
Speaker 2: like a landline, although it does run on the internet.

1238
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 2: But and they're not paying me. But we got our

1239
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 2: neighbor to houses down got a tin Can phone, and

1240
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 2: it's these little it's like a little pink phone that

1241
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 2: looks like it was made in the eighties, and you

1242
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 2: kind of plug it into the wall and then you

1243
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 2: can program certain numbers that they can call. And so

1244
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 2: this little girl's friends with my daughter, and so we

1245
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 2: got my and my daughter wants to be able to

1246
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 2: call her cousin Carter, and so she's got a tin

1247
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 2: can phone and she can like look at the little

1248
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 2: list of the numbers and call her cousin and or

1249
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 2: or her friend. But I mean, I don't want to

1250
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 2: give my daughter a smartphone pretty much ever. Yeah, certainly

1251
00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 2: not at this age because that would be insane. But

1252
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 2: and in fact, even as I say this, the like

1253
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 2: giving her this tin can phone seems a little premature.

1254
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 2: But it's just taking the place of like we you know,

1255
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:12,040
Speaker 2: in olden times, we would have a landline and in theory,

1256
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 2: she could memorize her cousin's phone number.

1257
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: And remember that my cousin and I used to do

1258
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 1: handwritten letters. She lived in Jersey, and we write each

1259
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 1: other letters and we would kiss the envelope and yeah,

1260
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:27,439
Speaker 1: it's fond memories. Yeah, And the phone calls and getting

1261
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: in trouble for the phone bill because Jersey to Maryland.

1262
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: This whole long distance calling wasn't a thing, and you

1263
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: had to pay for that. Yeah, be on the phone

1264
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: for hours and then get a talking to Are you

1265
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: going to do it again the next month?

1266
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 2: This is so cute? Yeah? Are you and this cousin

1267
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 2: still close?

1268
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:45,720
Speaker 1: Not as close? Life happens, Life happens, Life happens, and

1269
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 1: then people every people move different places. Yeah, and it's

1270
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: crazy because we were obviously in different places, but we

1271
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 1: just had less responsibility. Yes, and we're yeah yeah, not.

1272
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 2: How old were you when you would be doing these

1273
01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 2: like marathon telephone calls?

1274
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, we're probably like a eleven and ten

1275
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: and talking about what even talking.

1276
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 5: About running up the phone bill, talking about absolutely nothing.

1277
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 1: It's very very.

1278
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 2: Very sweet, lovely mofman.

1279
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 1: You don't want to give your daughter a phone? And

1280
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: if you could help it, Yeah, I get it. There's

1281
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: a lot on here, and I think it's better that way.

1282
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: What are values?

1283
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 2: Also, she's not even five yet, so again it would

1284
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 2: literally be like I would I would have to Uh,

1285
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 2: I should have her taken away from me if I

1286
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 2: gave her a smartphone.

1287
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 1: At his stage, I feel like somebody somewhere I say

1288
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: this that if you can conceive of a thing happening,

1289
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: someone somewhere on this planet is doing it, has done it.

1290
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,439
Speaker 1: And so someone has given their five year old a phone.

1291
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 1: Take this, it's a toy. What are the values you

1292
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 1: want to instill in her and your son?

1293
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 2: Oh? Very good question. Uh, to to reach the maximum

1294
01:01:56,080 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 2: version of themselves, meaning whatever's in there, whoever they are

1295
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 2: and want to be. They just chip away all the

1296
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 2: crap that society and everybody else puts on us, and like,

1297
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 2: who do you want to be? Because I like, I

1298
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 2: think that, Like my dad was such a like unique

1299
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 2: individual and truly couldn't give a shit what anybody in

1300
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 2: the world thought of him. And I just and he

1301
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,640
Speaker 2: was such an odd duck in the best way, eccentric,

1302
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 2: strange even like talked like he was from like another century.

1303
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 2: It was, it was, And so I just I think

1304
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 2: individualhood is something to aspire to. So I think that's

1305
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 2: that's one thing. Just like be yourself, be who you are,

1306
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 2: and reach the maximum version of that. Yeah, and be

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01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:52,960
Speaker 2: kind obviously, but that's kind of a given. But what

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01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 2: were you?

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01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 1: I love that, No, I think some I don't have kids,

1310
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: but in my mind part of being.

1311
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 2: A parent till tonight. You're going to start tonight.

1312
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 1: And pregnant to Yes, you heard it here, we're telling

1313
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: the goalie they can take their PTO.

1314
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 2: What did you say, I said, pull the goalie? You've

1315
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 2: never heard that expression goalie? I haven't.

1316
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what anything is. We established that up top, But.

1317
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,080
Speaker 2: You've never heard the term pull the goalie.

1318
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 1: We never heard I've heard pull out.

1319
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 2: I've never heard a right in who has? Has anybody

1320
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 2: out there not heard the term pull the goalie?

1321
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1322
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 1: I want to know who's heard this term.

1323
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 2: I heard it on an episode of Dewey Defeats Truman.

1324
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: Beautiful TV show. It's a cartoon, right, Okay, great, Yeah,

1325
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm learning so much from you today.

1326
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 2: I'm so glad.

1327
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: I am genuinely learning so so much. I have to

1328
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: ask this. In addition, you said Caroline provides this sort

1329
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:47,000
Speaker 1: of take initiative, get things done, and you think that

1330
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: that's attractive and inspiring. If Caroline were in the room,

1331
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: what do you think she would say? You provide her honestly,

1332
01:03:55,560 --> 01:03:58,080
Speaker 1: and no no bits bit, no bits allowed.

1333
01:03:58,600 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 2: Crap.

1334
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: It's like weddings of comedians. I'm like enough with the bit.

1335
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:03,919
Speaker 1: What are we saying?

1336
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 2: We're getting married?

1337
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 1: This is serious.

1338
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 2: We can be sincere.

1339
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 1: We can be sincere for thirty and even longer. Yeah,

1340
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 1: it's okay, it's fine. We know you're funny, right, Yeah,

1341
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: it's enough with the bits. Enough with the bits. Cancel them,

1342
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 1: cancel the bits. If there's not a stage, cancel the bit.

1343
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 2: Okay, cancel the bit. What do I provide for Caroline?

1344
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 2: What was she saying? I think a very safe place

1345
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:29,919
Speaker 2: in the world. We we both think of each other

1346
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 2: as like each other's home. Yeah, so I think I'm

1347
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 2: a very safe place for her, and I think I

1348
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 2: help her feel very secure and safe in the world.

1349
01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 2: I I think that. I mean, Hm, what else do

1350
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 2: I prod? I mean, obviously as a as an aspiring comedian,

1351
01:04:57,160 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 2: I do we I provide a very fun life for her.

1352
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 2: I think we laugh our asses off every day. I

1353
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 2: can imagine, you know what I mean. She's also the

1354
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 2: funniest person I know. So we just kind of like

1355
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 2: and also at times it summer seems like were you

1356
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:15,919
Speaker 2: made for me? You know what I mean?

1357
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 1: That's an incredible feeling.

1358
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like we are. Our senses of humor line up

1359
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 2: just enough where it's good. But also in other places

1360
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 2: where she does things where I would have like that

1361
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 2: just catch me so off guard that I just giggle

1362
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:35,439
Speaker 2: my little ass off or big fat dumper off?

1363
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, fat dumper Who wrote that again?

1364
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 2: Uh? Somebody from the team?

1365
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: Okay, great? The team?

1366
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So yeah, those are some things that I

1367
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 2: think I provide for her.

1368
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: I think that's beautiful. I love that genuinely because I

1369
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 1: you know, do you ever see those like meet cute

1370
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 1: videos on social media where it's like, are you guys

1371
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 1: a couple? And then it's like what do you love

1372
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: about him? And then the woman will say something and

1373
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 1: it's like what do you love about her? And then

1374
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 1: the guy will be like, she does this for me,

1375
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: but what you love about her?

1376
01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 2: About her? Yeah? Right? But that that is what I love.

1377
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 2: She does that for me.

1378
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 1: He cooks for me.

1379
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 2: This is such a good cook. She hires all the

1380
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 2: people to hang things in our house, and that's what

1381
01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 2: I love about stuff. Yeah exactly.

1382
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: Anyway, I think that's wonderful im And that's time for

1383
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: a segment called that's nice, but what about me?

1384
01:06:25,200 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 2: Oh God, okay, I love it already, damn it.

1385
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 1: We didn't talk about me enough. That's not true. We

1386
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:36,320
Speaker 1: talked about me too much. Frankly, I think now about you, okay,

1387
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 1: talk about you? Well, okay, here here's the thing that

1388
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: I think, Yes, I want to keep it. I don't

1389
01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: believe Alish. It is all your favorite podcast. This is happening.

1390
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 1: They're cutting it out. This is how it's.

1391
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:50,920
Speaker 4: This sausage is made.

1392
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 1: That's a wet one. That's wet. I hate blowing my nose.

1393
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 1: I'm a sniffle queen. Not gonna lie. I'm a sniffle queen.

1394
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 1: Your your head is swollen for real. You gotta go

1395
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 1: back to steaming cream.

1396
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,520
Speaker 2: I gotta go steam and cream five more times today.

1397
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:13,000
Speaker 1: Someone just want me to do an nettie pot.

1398
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's not doing anything at all.

1399
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 1: That's why you got the allergy test done.

1400
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 2: I did that. You know what The biggest one.

1401
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: Is dust dust. Oh that's fucked dust.

1402
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,439
Speaker 2: Cats and dogs. So if you're a cat out there,

1403
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 2: get out of here.

1404
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:33,440
Speaker 1: A dog, but he's hypoallergenic. Told I made that up.

1405
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 2: Do you know that? Something I learned yesterday about the

1406
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 2: whole cat dog allergy thing. I'm allergic to the dander.

1407
01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 2: Caroline is allergic to the dander and the pelt. What's

1408
01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 2: the pelts exactly? Because they did all of these allergy tests,

1409
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 2: these pricks, and she's allergic to the pelt. Meaning even

1410
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:55,479
Speaker 2: if we got like a hypoallergenic dog, she'd probably still

1411
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 2: be kind of allergic. What is pelt? Pelt is like

1412
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 2: you know, how like you can have like a beaver

1413
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 2: pelt like the skin.

1414
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 1: I'm just learning so much. My head is swollen.

1415
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: With new knowledge in a different way, in a different way.

1416
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 1: I fully google this on my walk out of here.

1417
01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:15,479
Speaker 2: I want to know you go steam and cream because

1418
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 2: you'll lose all that knowledge.

1419
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 1: I can't go steam and cream. I can't go steam

1420
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:19,679
Speaker 1: and cream.

1421
01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 4: I can't.

1422
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to steam and cream.

1423
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 2: I don't like this sound. Do you know that? Back

1424
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 2: and I used to sometimes go steam and cream together

1425
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 2: on a Saturday.

1426
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:26,880
Speaker 1: It sounds sexual.

1427
01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:29,160
Speaker 4: Why don't say why?

1428
01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 2: You know why? No? I have no idea, But sometimes

1429
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:35,680
Speaker 2: if we both had like a big gap in our

1430
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 2: day on Saturdays, we would be like steam and cream.

1431
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 1: I would go to face gym, which they work out

1432
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: your face and face muscles and massage your face. Really

1433
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:48,759
Speaker 1: on a Saturday. I've also gone to a meditation uptown

1434
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,600
Speaker 1: on a Saturday when it was a light Saturday. I

1435
01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 1: snuck away.

1436
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 2: Oh I did my fair share of weird.

1437
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 1: Full blown candle light meditation on Saturday in the middle

1438
01:08:58,240 --> 01:08:58,760
Speaker 1: on a show down.

1439
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 2: Sometimes those lights, you know, like, I know.

1440
01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:02,880
Speaker 1: What, I'm going to make the most of it, green

1441
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 1: juice and do that. This is what that's this is nice?

1442
01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 1: But what about me?

1443
01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:09,800
Speaker 2: Right? What about you? What about me? What do we

1444
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 2: want to I want to ask you tell me.

1445
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:17,720
Speaker 1: I want to ask you how you recalibrate post sn L.

1446
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:20,600
Speaker 2: How do you recalibrate.

1447
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 1: Because you're just you work so much, you're so busy,

1448
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 1: the schedules crazy, you get used to I've already for a.

1449
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,360
Speaker 2: Second, I thought you were talking about me post sn

1450
01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:29,759
Speaker 2: L and it's not. I mean, I guess yeah.

1451
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,879
Speaker 1: But like, yeah, what did you What was the like recalibration.

1452
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:36,559
Speaker 2: For good question? It will take time. Do you feel

1453
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 2: like you're still recalibrating?

1454
01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 1: I know I feel I feel I feel recalibrated or calibrated.

1455
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 2: Like a million bucks truly, so like rested and clear eyed.

1456
01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 2: I mean, you kind of always do and I shouldn't

1457
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:52,280
Speaker 2: say kind of because you always do, but you know,

1458
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 2: at esn L. You see people at their like most

1459
01:09:54,640 --> 01:10:00,200
Speaker 2: bedraggled worst. We all just crawled out of like a

1460
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 2: subway tunnel with pizza rat. But you look truly like

1461
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 2: a million bucks. You seem really recalibrated. I mean we

1462
01:10:07,680 --> 01:10:09,719
Speaker 2: I can answer this if you want. I'd be curious.

1463
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 2: I recalibrate. I mean, I do think that it's it's

1464
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 2: almost like a little bit of a grieving a death,

1465
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:17,920
Speaker 2: because it's a death of like a part of your life,

1466
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 2: a part of your career. I mean, they'll have you

1467
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 2: back to do things. I've been back to do one

1468
01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:25,720
Speaker 2: or two things, but like it's, uh, I don't know

1469
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,759
Speaker 2: about for you, it was like literally my dream job,

1470
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 2: my dream job, the only job I ever wanted. So

1471
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 2: the fact that that era was over is sort of

1472
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:37,680
Speaker 2: something that, you know, I think takes a little bit

1473
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 2: of sort of you know processing. Yeah, I don't know.

1474
01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 2: If you're a therapy gal.

1475
01:10:41,920 --> 01:10:44,520
Speaker 1: I am a therapy galpy.

1476
01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 2: I would have assumed so in my.

1477
01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 1: Books and myself and my therapy I'm sick of myself.

1478
01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 2: Well I hear you. I get that, believe me. But yeah,

1479
01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 2: I think I think almost treating it like like the

1480
01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 2: end of an era like God, that was cool. That

1481
01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:01,760
Speaker 2: was amazing, And I need to I need to like

1482
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 2: be able to be okay with the fact that like

1483
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 2: I don't have to that I don't get to do

1484
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:13,600
Speaker 2: that show anymore, like that that adrenaline rush on like

1485
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,679
Speaker 2: a Saturday night. Did you feel was it fun for you,

1486
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 2: like on a Saturday night to do that show?

1487
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,680
Speaker 1: I love being in front of a live audience, right,

1488
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. So there's nothing like

1489
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:28,560
Speaker 1: it in the unpredictability of it all thrilling like drugs,

1490
01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:31,160
Speaker 1: even like drugs, like drugs, it's like, there's nothing like

1491
01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:31,679
Speaker 1: that feeling.

1492
01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 2: So another way of recalibrating is like, Okay, how am

1493
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 2: I going to get that feeling?

1494
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1495
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like do you want to do some theater?

1496
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 1: That's what you're doing I'm doing. Can I ask you?

1497
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:45,040
Speaker 1: Do you want your kids to think it's like one

1498
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:47,720
Speaker 1: day Daddy was on SNL. Do you want them to

1499
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:49,200
Speaker 1: do you hope that they think that that's cool?

1500
01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:52,720
Speaker 2: I think that there's no way that they don't. Okay,

1501
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 2: do I want them to think? I don't really care?

1502
01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 1: You don't care?

1503
01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:57,920
Speaker 2: I think I want them to think I'm cool. Actually

1504
01:11:57,960 --> 01:12:02,080
Speaker 2: even that I'm like who cares? Who cares cool is

1505
01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:04,920
Speaker 2: the dumbest thing in the world, right, yeah, uh, you

1506
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:05,479
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

1507
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: What you mean?

1508
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:13,160
Speaker 2: But I think, like again, see my comments about my dad,

1509
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 2: who truly, like I thought he was so cool because

1510
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:20,600
Speaker 2: he truly didn't give a shit what people thought. And

1511
01:12:20,720 --> 01:12:24,320
Speaker 2: I think, uh so, I think my kids will probably

1512
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:26,720
Speaker 2: think it's pretty cool that I was on SNL. Yeah,

1513
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 2: but whether they do or not, or they'll be like

1514
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 2: that old stinky institution, uh that had Trump hosts the

1515
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 2: year before he got elected. No, thanks, dad, you were

1516
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:40,639
Speaker 2: on a part of the machine.

1517
01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:43,760
Speaker 1: That's a different podcast. No thanks dad, No, No, your

1518
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:45,640
Speaker 1: kids are gonna host it. We have to give it

1519
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:46,599
Speaker 1: a listener advice.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, did we talk about you enough plenty?

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? I told him, I'm sick of me. Okay.

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Speaker 1: The guest texted their request for advice.

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Speaker 2: Oh, this is not my real phones river.

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Speaker 1: Not my real phone number. This is a real this

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Speaker 1: is a real ask. Okay, So hi ago, and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna say and guessed because they know I'm going to

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Speaker 1: bring the questions to the guest. I was at Target

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Speaker 1: and saw my best friend holding hands all caps with

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Speaker 1: my ex. Now they're trying to text me? What should

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Speaker 1: I do?

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Speaker 2: Block?

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Speaker 1: Sorry? Normally I volley the question. I didn't mistral reaction.

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Speaker 2: Need to block?

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Speaker 1: Block? There's no excuse, sorry, I have no tolerance. Loyalty

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Speaker 1: really matters to me. Literally, no excuse. Now they're trying

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Speaker 1: to text me. And when they say they're trying to

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Speaker 1: text me, is it the friend trying to text? Is

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Speaker 1: it the X tent of text?

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Speaker 2: Is it both trying to I assumed it was the friend. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: did the friend? What did the friends see that you

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Speaker 2: saw them with? It seems like, uh, the X Probably

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Speaker 2: they're holding hands, They're like picking out toothpaste or condoms,

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Speaker 2: and then they look over and they're like, oh crap, whoops.

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Speaker 2: And now now the friend is gonna be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: uh so what you saw? Like I also think, I mean,

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Speaker 2: when you say this is your best friend, how long

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Speaker 2: have you been best friends? I feel like people throw.

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Speaker 1: That around or not even into the best friend qualifying. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you might hear me use it as a quick throwaway,

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Speaker 1: but like, at my core and part of on my ethos,

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Speaker 1: I don't best friend? What is that?

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Speaker 2: Like? I don't what is I don't?

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Speaker 1: I mean I suppose I understand what it is, but

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Speaker 1: I'm like, we don't have to do that. And I

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Speaker 1: do think people throw a best friend around and even

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Speaker 1: friend And I'm guilty for sure throwing a friend around.

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Speaker 2: Like what you're guilty of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll just like go my friend because it's concise,

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Speaker 1: it's whatever.

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Speaker 2: It's Yeah, and it seems like a compliment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah in a way, Yeah, yeah it does. But what

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Speaker 1: so what are you gonna tell them? You're gonna tell

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Speaker 1: them to engage with the texts? What could it hurt

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Speaker 1: their feelings? It could hurt their feelings.

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Speaker 2: It could hurt their feelings. But you know, I think, yeah,

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Speaker 2: just I think also blocking, I think, uh, yeah, that

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Speaker 2: is that's a very valid way of doing it. But

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Speaker 2: you could also just engage and be like, hey, yeah

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Speaker 2: I saw that. I don't that that that did hurt

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Speaker 2: my feelings and I'm gonna I'm gonna take take some space.

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Speaker 1: I think that's fair. I think do that and then.

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Speaker 2: Block, sure, yeah, if it if it's helpful, I think.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think you have to engage

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Speaker 2: so much that then it like rules your life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're trying to text you and move on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and if they're trying to text you in a way

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Speaker 1: that's like, I'm not trying to address what you saw,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna be.

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Speaker 2: Like, hey, hey, right, you should be like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you're texting because of this. I saw that. I

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Speaker 1: think you saw me, see you whatever it is. And

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Speaker 1: I want to say that that's really is very uncool. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I express what you want to express, and then I

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Speaker 1: think you don't have to engage. It doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: be an actual block in the phone.

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Speaker 2: Right mental. But also I would say the person, yeah,

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Speaker 2: the person, the person who wrote in, who's receiving these texts,

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Speaker 2: they can say truly whatever they want in about their

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Speaker 2: feelings about what they saw, because the discomfort lies with

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Speaker 2: the the best friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what we call a full circle moment.

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Speaker 1: I had to open my legs wide.

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Speaker 2: That is that's what we do.

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Speaker 1: That's what we do.

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Speaker 2: We're going to give a little moose knuckle to the iHeartMedia.

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Speaker 4: Keep it in.

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Speaker 2: Do not cut that, do not cut. That was me,

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Speaker 2: by the way, I'm not saying that absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I absolutely love you. I love you, thank you for

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Speaker 1: doing this, thank you for being great.

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Speaker 2: And so now it's an intermission. Yes, and then now

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Speaker 2: we'll be back. Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Of course he'll be in a different outfit. I'll be

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Speaker 1: in a different outfit.

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Speaker 2: Cheers, salute.

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Speaker 1: It's bad luck, supposedly, but what is luck?

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Speaker 2: What is luck?

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Speaker 1: What is luck?

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Speaker 2: Don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.

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Speaker 1: M that was so fun personally. I hope you enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I say that at the end of

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Speaker 1: every episode. I'm sure you enjoyed it because if you've

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Speaker 1: watched the end, surely you you were intrigued. That felt

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Speaker 1: like a house hang, the equivalent of a house hang

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Speaker 1: someone I had a house hang with. How special is

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Speaker 1: that when I first got to New York and got

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Speaker 1: to SNL Love that for me. Anyway, we'll be back.

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Speaker 1: But listen, if you want advice from me and my guest,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to call me, and you're gonna have

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Speaker 1: to leave a message. It's no problem. The number is

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Speaker 1: five O two eight four nine three two three seven.

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Speaker 1: That's five O two eight four nine three two three

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Speaker 1: seven five oh two Thanks TCHX, Dad's bye y'all. Thanks

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