1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 2: Hello everyone, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. Ben and 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: I were just complaining off air about air travel and 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,479 Speaker 2: now it's just gotten to be so ridiculous. Yesterday I 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: had a four hour delay with a toddler by myself. 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 2: It wasn't the best, but it's also not the worst. 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: But it's been a trend, a crazy, crazy trend. My 9 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: flights recently, over the past three months have been like 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,639 Speaker 2: four hours plus delayed. But anyway, sounds like Ben had 11 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 2: a far more interesting story about a delay, and it 12 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 2: happened about a week and a half ago. He was 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 2: midway through the story and I was like, all right, 14 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 2: save this for the air. Tell everybody about this, because 15 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 2: I thought it was going in a very interesting direction. 16 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 2: Go for it and tell the entire story again. 17 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 3: You want you want to people to hear this? 18 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: Huh the people? 19 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, Well, I you know this is I just 20 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 3: fly a lot. I do. 21 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,639 Speaker 2: You are on a plane every what do you think 22 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 2: the average is four to five days? 23 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 3: Well, I just I just hit sixty one flights this year, 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 3: so segments, so. 25 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: Since two thousand and three, so that's like twenty three. 26 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a plane every average a plane like 27 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 3: every I don't know, two and a half days. It's 28 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 3: a lot. It's a lot. Yeah, do you count well, No, 29 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 3: you can see it on your like on your flight 30 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 3: like status, like flight segment. 31 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: Always take the one airline. 32 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I always take United. I'm a big United. 33 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 2: Because it's a big hub. 34 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 3: It's a big hub in Denver, A big fan of 35 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 3: their service. Got to get the upgrades every now and again. 36 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 3: The crazy thing is I fights. I flew a ton 37 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 3: last year, like one hundred and twenty five flights, one 38 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 3: hundred and fifty flights, and then sixty one flights this year. 39 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 3: I am still not sometimes even in the top ten 40 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 3: when it comes to status on the flights, like people 41 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: are flying more than me, which blows my mind. I 42 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 3: don't know why. Yeah, it's crazy. There's just a lot 43 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 3: of people that fly o the time, I guess. But 44 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 3: all right, here's the story. I'll tell it quick. So 45 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 3: I was in Kukata, Colombia a week and a half 46 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 3: ago with Project Hope incredible trip reviewing some of the 47 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:24,519 Speaker 3: work being done for pregnant women in Colombia, and it's 48 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 3: part of the Venezuelan refugee migration where they are coming 49 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 3: over from Venezuela, getting healthcare done in Colombia, moving to 50 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 3: Columbia a lot of times. So it was a great trip. 51 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 3: But the flight there is pretty tough. So to get 52 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 3: to Kukata it takes forever. I think it was like 53 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 3: fourteen hours of total travel for a place that's not 54 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 3: that far from the US. And we fly into Bogatah. 55 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 3: We're going to a Bogata to Houston, Houston back to Denver. 56 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 3: We get into Bogatah, get on our flight. It's a 57 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 3: midnight takeoff. We'll land in Houston at five forty five 58 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 3: or something. I'm supposed to have a flight connection at 59 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 3: like seven thirty am back to Denver. Be back in 60 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 3: Denver by nine thirty. That sounds great to me, like 61 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 3: I'll be home, ready to start my workday, kind of 62 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 3: ready to just get through as much as I can 63 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 3: before I fall asleep again. Well, we're in Bogata. I 64 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 3: get on the flight, I get upgraded, so I'm sitting 65 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 3: in first class, very nice, very excited about this. I'm 66 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 3: gonna have some cocktails, I'm gonna have some food. I'm 67 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 3: gonna relax. Two seats over for me, there's somebody that 68 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 3: sits down. The flight attendant comes up to this person 69 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 3: and says, what was the problem out there, sir. The 70 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 3: guy goes, I have no problem. He goes, well, what 71 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 3: happened out there? And he goes, well, some guy was 72 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 3: taken forever in line. My wife and I asked to 73 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 3: move in front of him, and he said f you 74 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 3: to me, and nobody talks that way to me and 75 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 3: my wife. I'm an ex marine. I don't stand down 76 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 3: to nobody, so I'm listening to all this. I'm like, well, 77 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 3: that's interesting, okay. So the flight intendant leaves him, you know, 78 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 3: and goes and talks to the other person, then leaves 79 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 3: the plane. The lady at the front desk that was 80 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: checking people in along with some other passengers, comes back 81 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 3: onto the plane. The flight attend did look to the 82 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 3: guy two seats over from me, and he goes, everybody 83 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 3: out there says you were the instigator. You were the 84 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 3: person that instigated this argument. And he goes, I was 85 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 3: not the instigator. I was not the instigator at all. 86 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 3: It's his fault. Nobody talks to me that way. Fight 87 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 3: attendant goes here's the deal. I don't really care. I 88 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 3: just want to get to Houston, Like I want to 89 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: get to Houston as fast as possible. I want to 90 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 3: get out of like out of this airport and get home. 91 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 3: And the guy goes, okay, cool, you go, and the 92 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 3: flight attendant said, as long as you guys don't fight 93 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 3: on the plane, we're good. 94 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 2: This is where I stopped a bed, yeah, because I 95 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: was like, all right, they're about to fight on the plane. 96 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, he goes, we're good. And so everybody around us 97 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 3: who has heard this is like, okay, good, we're We're 98 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 3: already delayed twenty minutes. Now we're gonna get taken off. 99 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 3: So the flight attendant sits down. We leave the jet bridge. 100 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:57,239 Speaker 3: We're backing up. We get to like probably five minutes 101 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 3: from the jet bridge, and this guy two seats over 102 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 3: from me, No, you know what, you need to apologize 103 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 3: to me, to the flight attendant. You need to apologize 104 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 3: to me. I'm not the instigator. You need to apologize 105 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 3: to me. 106 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 2: Oh no, is his wife sitting next to him? 107 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 3: His wife sitting seven rows back. He got first class. 108 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 3: His wife got seat seven C, which is still a 109 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 3: good seat, not first class. 110 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 2: The man took first class for himself and didn't give 111 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: it to his wife. Oh yeah, I'm already judging this guy. 112 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 3: Solid move. But so the fight intendant gets onto his phone, 113 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 3: calls and says, we got to go back to the gate. Like, 114 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 3: you know, this guy is wanting apology. I have nothing 115 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 3: to apologize to him for. I'm not apologizing to him. 116 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 3: He and the fight atenant looks a him and and 117 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 3: he's the fight Attendant's right. He goes sir, like, I 118 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 3: have no skin in this game. All I want to 119 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 3: do is get to Houston. I don't really care who 120 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: is right and wrong as long as you guys don't 121 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 3: cause any more issues. So we go back to the gate. 122 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 3: This guy won't give up. He is literally going, you 123 00:05:58,160 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 3: need to apologize to me. So the fight Tan's like, 124 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 3: I'm sorry if I've said anything or done anything that's 125 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 3: offended you, but I am basing everything I know off 126 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 3: of what everybody else is saying. The guy back there 127 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 3: hasn't said a word since you walked onto this plane. 128 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 3: He's fine. You're the one that's upset and you're delaying 129 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 3: this plane. So long story short, Two and a half 130 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 3: hours later, we're still sitting on the plane. This guy's 131 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 3: still arguing. We finally argue with the flight attendant and 132 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 3: everybody else that comes up. Then they bring in like 133 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 3: an HR person from the airport to talk to him. 134 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 3: And I'm thinking, and everybody around me is thinking, take 135 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,919 Speaker 3: this guy off the plane like he is, he's delaying everything. 136 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 3: Take him off the plane, just get him out of here. 137 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: But they were nice to him. They were nice to 138 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 3: him because there I think they were thinking, we don't 139 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 3: want to get him stuck in Bogatah. Like it's not 140 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 3: a bad place. Bogata is an amazing city, but you're 141 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 3: in a different country. You don't want to get stuck 142 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 3: in a different country, especially if you're on your way 143 00:06:55,480 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 3: to the no fly list. So so he finally take off. 144 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 3: Once this guy calms down kind of like gets tired enough, 145 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 3: everybody's fuming. Think about how mad this plane is at 146 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: this guy. At this point, every his wife get involved. No, 147 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: his wife stayed very quiet, very silent, like just kind 148 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 3: of sat back it all. Yeah, she could see it all. 149 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 3: So I missed my flight then to Denver. Here's the 150 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 3: here's the crazy part. I've never seen this before in 151 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 3: all my flights. We land in Houston, pull up to 152 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 3: the jet bridge. Five police officers walk onto the airplane. 153 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: Boom boom bom. Take this guy off, walk him to 154 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 3: some little quiet room off the side. Who knows what 155 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,679 Speaker 3: happened to him, but I imagine it was not good. 156 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 2: Before everybody deboarded. 157 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, big old he its like theater. There's a 158 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 3: big old theater. Everybody was intrigued. Was it a little 159 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: bit worth the miss? Not worth time? Never never, never 160 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 3: worth the miss, but it was. It was one of 161 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 3: those things, as we talk about many times before, where 162 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 3: you like watch it, like put your hands over your face, 163 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 3: but you open up your fingers just to see it 164 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 3: because it is like, for whatever reason, it's entertaining. I 165 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 3: don't know again, if that's the evil side of me. 166 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 3: I don't know, if it's the side of me that 167 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 3: just likes to see weird stuff happen, because I do, 168 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 3: I love it. But yes, I was watching this very intently. 169 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 3: I I'm typically not good at keeping my mouth shutting 170 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 3: these situations. I did a really good job at not 171 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 3: getting involved. So I would I wanted to see mediator 172 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 3: Ben would have been great here. No, because I was 173 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 3: very much not on this guy side. What I want 174 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 3: to say is shut sit down, stay quiet. You're in 175 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 3: first class on a flight. You're fine, like, eat your food, 176 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 3: have a cocktail. But the part that was driving me 177 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 3: crazy was why we were sitting still during this delay. 178 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 3: He was calling his friends back in the US being like, oh, 179 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 3: I got him. Like this guy was just like, you know, 180 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 3: saying it. Yeah. He's like, I don't back down to nobody. 181 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 3: I don't back down to anybody. So he's calling his 182 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 3: friends like bragging, like, oh, I got a story for 183 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 3: you when I get back, and I'm just like, dude, 184 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 3: you are literally ruining this for I don't know how 185 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 3: people on a plane, three hundred people on a plane, 186 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 3: like you're ruining this for them. Get over yourself. But 187 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 3: finally made it back. We're all good. I was fine. 188 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 3: It is kind of entertaining. I guess it's just it's 189 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 3: like one of my best stories to tell from that trip, 190 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 3: even though it was a great trip, but it is 191 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: the story I tell. 192 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: So I mean, even though I mean that sucked, that 193 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 2: delays totally sucked for everybody in the back not being 194 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: able to watch this too. Because class and your comfy 195 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 2: c you probably have your laptop over open doing something 196 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 2: and you've had a couple of whiskeys. 197 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 3: Right now, I'm fine, I'm doing I'm doing just fine. Yeah, bourbons, Yeah, 198 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 3: I'm doing just great. Well. 199 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 2: I feel bad for everybody else and and and you 200 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: for missing your fight and all that, but and for 201 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: his wife especially, Yeah. 202 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 3: For all you flying out there. It's just uh, it 203 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 3: just feels like a lot of people are flying. Airports 204 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 3: are getting busier, people are traveling again. It's you know 205 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 3: it is. I would just say take take it with 206 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 3: a grain of salt, like, enjoy the ride. Some airports 207 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 3: are nice and hang out in another I could probably 208 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 3: give you a list of my favorites and my least favorites. 209 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 3: But flying has been wild. Well, we just talked about drama. 210 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: We were just talking about drama on flights, Ashley. There's 211 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 3: some drama going on in Bachelor Nation right. 212 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: Now, right Ben, our first headline is so dramatic. 213 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 3: It's so dramatic, Ashley. Uh, it's time let's just jump 214 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 3: into bachelor. Yeah, it's a big deal, and I have 215 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 3: opinions on it right because I know both these people. 216 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 3: Let's take a break though. When we come back, we've 217 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 3: got some headlines to discuss in Bachelor Nation. All right, Ashley, 218 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 3: here's the headline. Chris Harrison. Yes, Chris Harrison calls the 219 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 3: Bachelor creator Mike Flies a narcissist. That's not a good 220 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 3: word to use to somebody following his exit from franchise. 221 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 2: All right, here we go. So on Chris's podcast, the 222 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 2: most dramatic podcast ever here on iHeart Radio Podcasts, he 223 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 2: was talking to Megan King, who is now again part 224 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 2: of the Real Housewives of Orange County, and towards the 225 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 2: end of the podcast, Megan goes, so, are there any 226 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 2: narcissists that have been the leads of the show? And 227 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 2: he couldn't come up with anyone. 228 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 3: Come on, all of us are narcissists. Stop. 229 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 2: I think people like use the word narcissist a little 230 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 2: bit lightly these days. Okay, so we look up the 231 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 2: real turn I want to before we go into this. Yeah, 232 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: let's let's define narcissists nars. 233 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 3: I mean, I know I have behavior like I have 234 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 3: to fight against it. I have to implement like things 235 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 3: in my life to not like think of myself all 236 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 3: the time. 237 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 238 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 2: But Ben, there's like there's one thing when you could 239 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 2: be like, first off, I don't think that you are 240 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 2: at all self centered or egotistical. You, to me are 241 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 2: like the least narcissistic person the entire world. You care 242 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 2: about others so tremendously, you put others before you all 243 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 2: the time. You're the last person I would ever think 244 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 2: to consider a to have any narcissist the behavioral patterns. Okay, 245 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 2: well you fight it hard then, and you and it 246 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 2: shows that you fight it very hard, because no I 247 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 2: would ever ever think that. But this is the definition 248 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 2: of narcissistic personality disorder. It is a mental health condition 249 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 2: in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their 250 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 2: own self importance. They need, they need and seek too 251 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 2: much attention and want people to admire them. People with 252 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 2: this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care 253 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 2: about the feelings of others. Now, like I was saying before, 254 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 2: I do think that people throw this word around a 255 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 2: bit because it's supposed to be like the most extreme 256 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 2: of the extreme, Like it's a personality disorder according to 257 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 2: you know, psychiatrists, when you're in the seat, right, But 258 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 2: if it's a person's a little egotistical, a little self centered, 259 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 2: loves the stage, loves getting attention. Not all those people 260 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: are narcissists. Okay, so that's why this is a big 261 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 2: word to use here. So Chris says this quote. The 262 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 2: creator of the show was pause severely. One of the 263 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 2: toughest things about narcissism is you will never I don't 264 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 2: want to say never, but very rarely that a person 265 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 2: will recognize that about themselves. I was talking to one 266 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 2: therapist about narcissism and she said, I'm just warning you that, 267 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 2: next to a homicidal maniac, narcissism is the toughest thing 268 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 2: to treat. That to have someone self realized and actually 269 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 2: fix that is next to impossible. 270 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 3: It just rarely happens. That's basically let's pause. Yeah, a 271 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 3: couple questions based on the definition. My question for somebody 272 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 3: who obviously his experience in the field would be can 273 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 3: people then, like can they combat this? It's a disorder, 274 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 3: it's a mental health issue, Like can you work on 275 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 3: something like this, you know? Or is this a personality 276 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 3: trait that's just kind of more nurture, like it's just 277 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 3: built or it's more nature, it's built inside of you, 278 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 3: like you born. 279 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 2: This seems like nature to me. I think you can 280 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 2: probably combat the behaviors. Okay, but I think it's it's 281 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 2: just it is built in them, like born like nature 282 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 2: versus nurture. 283 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 3: But it is so when Chris says. 284 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 2: This, it's my clinical point of view, I don't really know. 285 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 3: But when Chris says this, this is obviously like a 286 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 3: diss like this is a hey, this person, like you're 287 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 3: he's not saying, this is just the thing that you know, 288 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 3: the creator of the show needs to work on it. 289 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 3: It's like this is a disc towards who he is 290 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 3: as a person. Is that what we're saying? Oh? 291 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 2: Yes, yes. And I do think that he felt comfortable 292 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 2: enough to say this one because obviously Chris because Mike 293 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 2: is no longer with the show too, Chris is no 294 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 2: longer with the show, but also because right now it 295 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 2: is the second round of investigations that are going on 296 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 2: within Warner Brothers about Mike Flais's behavior, it's presumed that 297 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 2: this is the reason that he is no longer with 298 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 2: the show. 299 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 3: Interesting, I didn't know that. 300 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 2: Oh yes, there are some investigations into workplace behavior. They 301 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 2: say it's uh misconduct, These allegations going on. The first 302 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 2: time that he was looked into was in twenty nineteen, 303 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 2: when you know, there was the speak of him mistreating 304 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 2: his wife. Yeah, and now this is about like casting 305 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 2: and racism and all this. Yeah, a lot about like 306 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 2: uncomfortable comments he would make while casting. 307 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 3: Interesting. So I guess for some clarity here, because we 308 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 3: did break this story a few weeks ago when it 309 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 3: came out. Is Mike no longer at all associated with 310 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 3: the show or does he still own I mean he 311 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 3: still owns the show, right. 312 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 2: No, it's very strange. He according to my sources that 313 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 2: I've heard, he sold the show a while back, but 314 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 2: has still been the head haun show. 315 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:25,359 Speaker 3: Okay, so he is. He is now no longer profiting 316 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 3: from the show. He's no longer involved in the show, 317 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 3: at least as far as we know. His involvement with 318 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: the show is done. I mean, when the show airs, 319 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 3: Mike Flie is not making any more money on this show. 320 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: I believe that is correct, But we don't know that 321 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 3: for sure, you believe I. 322 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 2: Can't say anything for sure, but I do know that 323 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: I was speaking to somebody this is actually a couple 324 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 2: months ago before he left, and I if I was 325 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 2: interpreting correctly, he did sell the show a while ago. 326 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 2: But was still there as part of the running of 327 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 2: the show because he was the creator. 328 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 3: Okay, well, it's this is an interesting headline. There's a 329 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 3: lot here to break down. Obviously, we have the relationship 330 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 3: between between Chris and Mike, which hasn't been spoken about 331 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 3: until now, so we know it's probably not on good terms. 332 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 3: We figured it wasn't based on Chris's exit, but we 333 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 3: didn't really know for sure. It doesn't seem like the 334 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 3: two of them split. Well, Chris is around for a 335 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 3: long time. He helped start and kick off this show 336 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 3: with Mike. 337 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 2: They had to work together for a long time, twenty years, 338 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: and you know, for to in this way, you know, 339 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 2: there's a lot of questions I have. 340 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:36,640 Speaker 3: Was it always this way between the two of them? 341 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 3: Did they ever have a good relationship, did they ever 342 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 3: get along, like what was the dynamic like for those 343 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 3: twenty years or were they kind of walking in their 344 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 3: own isolated like areas and would cross paths every now 345 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 3: and again and they both needed each other because Mike 346 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 3: obviously owned the show for a long time, Chris hosted 347 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 3: the show and it was the face of the show. 348 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 3: But we now are seeing we can assume based on 349 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 3: this headline, and based on what Chris said that it 350 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 3: did not end in a beautiful manner. Strong words from Chris, 351 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 3: Now I know them both right. I don't know Mike 352 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 3: that well. I've seen I've met Mike a few times, 353 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 3: probably a five or six times in my life. 354 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 2: Was he present in like the boardroom when you were 355 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 2: signed to be the Bachelor? 356 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 3: No, he was not, but he was at a breakfast 357 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 3: that I went to when I was, I guess, interviewing 358 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 3: to be the Bachelor or doing you know, there was 359 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 3: like three people took me to breakfast and asked me 360 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 3: a bunch of questions about why I think I should 361 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 3: be the Bachelor, and I was like, I mean, it 362 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 3: was a terrible thing to ask me, because I was like, 363 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,959 Speaker 3: I don't know, like I think you guys tell me 364 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,160 Speaker 3: why I should be your bachelor. But he was there 365 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 3: for that. I mean, Chris and I have known each 366 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 3: other a lot more intimately and had a friendship during 367 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,640 Speaker 3: the show and after the show. Mike was always nice 368 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 3: to me, I guess, but he had no reason not 369 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 3: to be. I was, you know, there and gone. So 370 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 3: it's not like I had a lot of long longevity 371 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 3: with the show Afterwards, but I always did wonder do. 372 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 2: You have had quite a longevity with the show as 373 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 2: by association? 374 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 3: By association, yes, but I always did wonder what their 375 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 3: relationship was like because they are very different people. They are, 376 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 3: I mean, no matter what, they're very different people. I 377 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 3: never I've always been curious, even when I was the 378 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 3: bachelor of what in the world, Like, who is this 379 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 3: Mike Feiss guy? Like where is he? You know, is 380 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 3: he like watching? So curious to the cast they I'd 381 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:31,719 Speaker 3: always be like, is he here? Like is he watching 382 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 3: us from a distance? Is he in some control room? 383 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 3: Like is he like puppeteering us around? Or what's what's 384 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 3: going on here? So I always was curious about this character. 385 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 3: But I do know them interesting place where they where 386 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 3: they've ended up. I'm going to be intrigued, and we'll 387 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 3: break it down for you here on the Almost Famous podcast. 388 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 3: Whenever these this WB investigation continues and kind of comes 389 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 3: to a resolution, We'll make sure to fill you in 390 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 3: on what they find out. It's interesting the state of 391 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 3: the show, and I think it also Ashley, A big 392 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 3: question here is where does it What does the show 393 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 3: look like without Mike? I mean, if he's been around 394 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 3: for this long, had such a control over it for 395 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 3: this long. What is the show going to look like 396 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 3: creatively for this next upcoming season. It's going to be interesting. 397 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 2: Like what we said in our breaking news podcast that 398 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 2: you weren't on, Jared and I talked about it, he 399 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 2: didn't have a huge involvement with the day to day 400 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 2: processes of the show, you know, storylines and such like that, 401 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 2: but it seems like he did have final say on 402 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 2: whoever the lead was. So I think that casting might 403 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 2: be a little bit different. I want to ask you 404 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 2: a question because you are friends with Chris and I 405 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 2: don't know if you know those personally or not, but 406 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 2: it sounds based on his openness in calling him a narcissist, 407 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,880 Speaker 2: that could could we say that maybe Mike had a 408 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 2: hand in the decision that was firing Chris and he's 409 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 2: a little bit you know, like this is his moment 410 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 2: to kind of be like basking the glory that is 411 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 2: his fire, uh, his departure. 412 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 3: Oh, I don't, I mean, I guess I can't say. 413 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 3: I don't know. I've never asked if Mike had a 414 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 3: hand in it. I would have to assume. 415 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 2: I would definitely assume. I think that he was probably 416 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,199 Speaker 2: if he's the head of making the casting decision for 417 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,720 Speaker 2: the lead, I feel like he's probably had in charge 418 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,359 Speaker 2: of the decision of Chris leading. 419 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 3: So here's what we know based on the context clues. 420 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 3: Up until recently, Mike was still running this show, and 421 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 3: so all big decisions had to go through Mike, and 422 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 3: then if he didn't like a decision being made, then 423 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 3: I bet he had the ability to put his foot 424 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 3: down and say no, it's not going to go that way, 425 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 3: or no, we're not going to choose this person. When 426 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 3: it comes to firing your host after twenty years or 427 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 3: getting to a place where your host leaves, I don't 428 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,439 Speaker 3: think we still know if he got fired or if 429 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 3: he left, or how legally that's written. 430 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 2: Up both of them. We really don't know how it's 431 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 2: written up. 432 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, Mike definitely had a saying like we have to. 433 00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 3: I mean, if he didn't, then he's not doing his 434 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 3: because he still was running the show at the time. 435 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 3: I also think based on Chris's you know and this 436 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 3: is such he had such a good he has such 437 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 3: a good podcast. Right now, we're going to hear a 438 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 3: lot from Chris and we're going to seem more unfiltered Chris. 439 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 3: But the Most Dramatic Podcast has done a great job 440 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 3: opening up Chris to speaking his mind more openly. And 441 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 3: he said it in one of his first episodes. You know, 442 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 3: he's not unaware of the ratings drops of the show. 443 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 3: He's not unaware of the struggles of the show, of 444 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 3: the inner turmoils of the show. He's not unaware of 445 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 3: any of that. Right, he still has friends that work 446 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 3: in the franchise. He still has friends that work on 447 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 3: the show, and he can look up the numbers with 448 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 3: Google and he seemed to do that. It does feel like, yes, 449 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 3: I don't know if this is like Chris's jab at Mike. 450 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 3: It doesn't really seem like who Chris has ever been 451 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 3: where he wants to like jab somebody, you know, when 452 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 3: he doesn't have affiliation with him. But I guarantee you 453 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 3: there is some piece of him that's like, yeah, look, 454 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 3: look what happened when you get when when I'm gone, 455 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 3: Like everything's falling down, Like the franchise is going to 456 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,120 Speaker 3: change forever, you know, hopefully for the better. We love 457 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 3: the franchise, we love watching the show. We're big fans 458 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 3: of the show. But this is a whole new season. 459 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 3: In chapter I don't want to understate just how different 460 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 3: the show is now going to be without Mike there. 461 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 3: It's the first time we've ever seen it in twenty years. 462 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 3: It has it's gonna be different. 463 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 2: Well, my guess is this, and again it's just assumptions 464 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 2: from this mysterious man who is kind of like the 465 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 2: Wizard of Oz in a lot of ways, the man 466 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 2: behind the curtain. I think that they're going to have 467 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 2: more room to experiment and they don't have to go 468 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:47,120 Speaker 2: necessarily by a formula with him gone, well. 469 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 3: Sure, I mean, I just don't know enough to know, 470 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 3: like what he was involved in the not and I 471 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 3: know this that's be investigation will open us up to Okay, 472 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 3: where was he putting his foot down? What was the 473 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 3: things he was for, and what were the things he 474 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 3: was against. We'll know more here very soon about the 475 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 3: inner workings of the Bachelor. But this is a very 476 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 3: interesting point for anybody listening. I was a lead on 477 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 3: this show. Ashley has been very involved in the show 478 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 3: and was on the show, and we don't know how 479 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 3: it works behind the scenes. I have no idea who 480 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 3: was making these decisions. I have no idea how things 481 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 3: were getting done. I have no idea who was the 482 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 3: gatekeeper to all big things that we were watching on television, 483 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 3: including editing, including leads, including casting. So we're going to 484 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,479 Speaker 3: find that out soon. But for us to take a 485 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 3: stand right now and say, no, this is how it 486 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 3: was going down, we just don't know. And that's part 487 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 3: of the interesting part about being so involved in the 488 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 3: show is it really is like the Wizard of Oz. 489 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 3: It is a mystery once, Like behind those cameras. I 490 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 3: have no idea what was going on in the controller room. 491 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 3: I have no idea what was going on at the offices. 492 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 3: I have no idea these conversations. 493 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well let's take a break and we'll 494 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 2: get on to some fluffy headlines this week. 495 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 3: All right, first headline is this Oh my goodness, this guy. 496 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 3: I love him, dude, He's one of my best friends 497 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 3: in the world. I think he's great. He is uh, 498 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,439 Speaker 3: he's one of a kind though, I mean, he just 499 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 3: makes you pull your hair out sometimes. Good for Kaitlin. Anyways, 500 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 3: Dean reveals he got Kaylin a third. Yes, a third. 501 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,199 Speaker 3: We talked about the first. I don't know if we 502 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 3: ever even talked about the second. But now it's a 503 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 3: third engagement ring and they share wedding updates. Good good 504 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 3: that they have updates. I bet Dean was learning about 505 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 3: these updates while Kaylan spoke about him. But it's a 506 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 3: third engagement ring, Ashley oh Man. 507 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 2: And the funny ironic thing about all of this is 508 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 2: that Dean didn't even want her to have an engagement 509 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 2: you know. He was like, why can't you just wear 510 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 2: like a paper ring, or like a rubber band, or 511 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 2: just like a band. Wise to have this to be 512 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,199 Speaker 2: this ideal rock for you. So what happened was he 513 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 2: got the ideal rock. Short story guides if you haven't followed, 514 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 2: He got the ideal rock. It was the rock, not 515 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 2: the actual ring. He was going to put the rock 516 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 2: on a ring. He put it into a napkin or 517 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 2: some sort and put it into the junk drawer in 518 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 2: the kitchen. Not surprisingly, it disappeared. It's been months and 519 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 2: months and they cannot find it. But he still wanted 520 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 2: to give her a proper proposal in Hawaii a couple 521 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 2: months ago, with an actual ring to put on her finger. 522 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,959 Speaker 2: So he went to the jewelry store, got a quote 523 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 2: inexpensive ring and did it with that the plan the 524 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 2: entire time was for her to actually get a ring 525 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 2: that resembled the one that was lost, and what happened 526 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,880 Speaker 2: in this case nice to be a part of Bachelor Nation. 527 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 2: A jewelry company reached out to him and they offered 528 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 2: to make her ring. So she now has a new ring, 529 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 2: but not on her finger yet, because he's gonna give 530 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 2: a her at some time a surprise, maybe in their 531 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 2: next trip in Hawaii. He said, sometime before the wedding, 532 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 2: he will put this new ring on her finger in 533 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 2: a special little moment. 534 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 3: Why does he keep making her wait for this stuff? 535 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 3: I've got to talk to him because. 536 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 2: It's the most dean thing ever. 537 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:27,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like continued, like, Okay, he lost the first 538 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 3: did you know, took her on a hike for the second, 539 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 3: But this third, Like, just give the girl the ring, Like, 540 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 3: let her wear a ring? Like why does he? 541 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 2: She doesn't need another moment, No mean. 542 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,719 Speaker 3: To be engaged. She just wants to like enjoy this 543 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 3: season of life. But goodness, gracious, this is very This 544 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 3: is a very dean story. For anybody listening and wanting 545 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 3: to know Dean's personality and kind of his traits. This 546 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 3: is a very Dean moment, and I'm sure you can 547 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 3: listen to more of Dean and his hysterical antics when 548 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 3: it comes to being engaged on the podcast with Jared 549 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 3: and Dean. 550 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 2: Their podcast Help We Suck At Being. 551 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 3: Newly Wise with Kaylen as well. 552 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,399 Speaker 2: Now right, yeah, it's with iHeart. They have talked a 553 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 2: little bit more about their wedding this week. We'll put 554 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 2: it out there. She does have two dresses. Their wedding 555 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 2: venue is an Aspen and they're going they're leaning in 556 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: hard to that theme. They said it's kind of like 557 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 2: Yellowstone vibes. And they got their invitation mock ups this week. 558 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 2: They said it's beautiful, but Diana is wondering why there's 559 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,120 Speaker 2: a pair of cowboy boots on the invitation. He's never 560 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 2: wear worn cowboy boots and he doesn't think that Caitlin 561 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 2: wears them often. 562 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 3: I mean, I can't. I just come on anyway, Speaking 563 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 3: of engagement rings, next headline is a good question. Get 564 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 3: a question this often. We've talked about it before, but 565 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 3: it's been maybe a year or two. What happens to 566 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 3: the Neil Laye engagement ring? After Bachelor Nation splits? Former 567 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 3: Lee explain this, I would yea, I have experienced. 568 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 2: Myself, Ben ben h explain yours, did, Lauren? They just 569 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 2: come up to you to go, yeah, an to take 570 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 2: the red back. 571 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 3: Now, yeah, you get a weird text if you make it, though, 572 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 3: I think it's two years post show, then it's yours 573 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 3: to keep. 574 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it is, two years supposed show. Or 575 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 2: you could like buy it from them. Yeah, it might 576 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 2: even be at a discount. 577 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 3: I think it's so. I mean, I it needed to 578 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 3: be at a discount, it was more than my house. 579 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 3: But the Yeah, you get a weird text that says, hey, 580 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 3: please turn it in, and you do. And here's the question. 581 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 3: Where does it sit though? And I'm wondering if there's 582 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 3: like a drawer, like a graveyard with all these rings, 583 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 3: or if it goes back to Neielane. Some have argued 584 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 3: to me with me here recently. Honestly, people that would 585 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 3: be in the know that Neil takes them back and 586 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 3: repurposes them, takes the diamonds out and reuses them. 587 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 2: So what's your take on that, Like, are they cursed diamonds? 588 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 3: No? I mean I don't think that, but I'm sure 589 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 3: some do. You just would never know. I think it's 590 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 3: only cursed if you know it's cursed. 591 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: If it if it was on the finger of a 592 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 2: relationship that ended. Sure, it was the symbol of a 593 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,680 Speaker 2: relationship that ended. Yeah, like it's not. 594 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 3: Why don't you want to know? Though, Like if like 595 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 3: some legendary couple from Bachelor, like in your Big Bachelor friend, 596 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 3: like whoa this ring was once worn by But no, 597 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 3: I mean I know people. I mean I know people 598 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 3: who have given rings from like a parent's divorce to 599 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 3: their fiance. Really, yeah, it works. It's a ring. So 600 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 3: some some believe in the curse of the diamonds, some don't. 601 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 3: But we do know if you keep it for two years, 602 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 3: it's yours insurance then transfers over to your name and 603 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 3: it's yours to keep and you can do with it 604 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 3: what you want. So some couples, if they're like on 605 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 3: the eighteenth month mark, like you know, I was getting 606 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 3: close to some would think, let's just not say anything 607 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 3: for six months. Some are like, no, we got to 608 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 3: say something like we gotta go on with our lives 609 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 3: and uh, and you you fall short of the two 610 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 3: months or two year timetable and it goes back to 611 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 3: the show. But some of these rings are really expensive. 612 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:12,719 Speaker 3: I mean I saw the other day there was a 613 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 3: stat that Bachelor Data did on the most expensive rings 614 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 3: from the show, and I think my like the one 615 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 3: from my season was the most expensive ever. It was 616 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 3: like two It was like. 617 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 2: It was peaking in size for sure. 618 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 619 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 2: So wait, can I pull us up, like I want 620 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 2: to see the Bachelor Data. 621 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I don't know where it's at. It's going 622 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 3: to take a while to find it. 623 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 2: When you say a couple of days ago, do you 624 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 2: mean like a couple of months ago? 625 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:35,560 Speaker 3: Days? Kind of good to go. 626 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 2: Oh no, it's right here. Oh cool, So Katie's what 627 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:45,720 Speaker 2: we just saw is three point one carrots? Okay, total carrots? Yeah, 628 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 2: Lauren has the most. How she had the most carrots 629 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 2: a little over four carrots. Goodness, and then Whitney was 630 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 2: right behind her. So you guys were our little season 631 00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,240 Speaker 2: combo was the Heyday of rings because Whitney was just 632 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 2: at four carrots. 633 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 3: Oh well, I don't miss that ring at all. I 634 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 3: have I've not thought. I really have not thought about 635 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 3: it since. 636 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 2: So we're fine, all right, So let's continue with our headlines. 637 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 3: All right, Here we go. Claire Crawley, she buys a 638 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 3: new house with husband Ryan Dawkins. We're building our home together. 639 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 3: Here's what's wild to me, Ashley super excited for Claire. 640 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 3: It's like still weird for me to read Claire Crawley 641 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 3: and husband. It feels like it happened fast. It feels 642 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 3: like it happened out of nowhere. But it's such a 643 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 3: thing that you and I rooted for right for so long, 644 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 3: going back to COVID when she was announces the Bachelorette, 645 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,719 Speaker 3: We're like, we want Claire Crawley to find love. We 646 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 3: do like it's a big deal. But now she's husband Ben. 647 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 2: I get so excited. I think about this often, like 648 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 2: I literally sitting on the couch and I'm just like, 649 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 2: Claire's married, Like it happened, and I'm so happy about it. 650 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 3: Claire kind not out of nowhere, but it happened like 651 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 3: without a lot of like lead up, right. 652 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well without a lot like uh woo around it, 653 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 2: you know, like it was really just one of those 654 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: we love each other, we're old enough to know that 655 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 2: this is this is the right fit, and we're just 656 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 2: gonna do it without a lot of hoopla. Okay, fair enough, 657 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 2: all right, So this is what's going on with their 658 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 2: life right now. She's had the house in Sacramento. He's 659 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 2: had a house in Oakland, and they've been like kind 660 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 2: of splitting their time between them, but they don't have 661 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 2: a house together yet, and they just found what they 662 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 2: love so much. It'll be shared with them, of course, 663 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 2: and his daughters. They are not fully moved in yet 664 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 2: because they're doing redoing a lot of it. She says, 665 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 2: they have a ton to do. They came in and 666 00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 2: checked on everything. She came to check on the grass 667 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 2: because she's obsessed with the grass. She says it's been 668 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,280 Speaker 2: hard to find a house with such a beautiful yard 669 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 2: in lawn. She's super stoked about it. And while she 670 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 2: was there, she got on Instagram and shared that this 671 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 2: was a new house. She said that she loves the 672 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 2: fact that they have fruit trees like lemon trees and 673 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 2: lime trees and orange trees. That's really cool. And she 674 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 2: has so many more ideas for what she wants to 675 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:09,720 Speaker 2: plant in there with time, and she's just been really 676 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 2: stoked to build a home together and make it exactly 677 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 2: the way they want it. She said that she's going 678 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 2: to be hitting up Instagram a lot because she needs 679 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 2: help with you know, from all the followers on like 680 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,759 Speaker 2: this for that, because it's the first time that she's 681 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 2: going to have to compromise in putting a together a 682 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 2: house with somebody else, because she's alway kind of done 683 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 2: it herself. 684 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,399 Speaker 3: Well, next headline is this former bachelorette Trista Setter says 685 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 3: producers sold my clothes during filming. Now, this was said 686 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 3: Ashley on The Almost Famous OG's podcast, which is a 687 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 3: great podcast as well within our network. We're big fans 688 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,799 Speaker 3: of it. We really think it adds something to the 689 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 3: flavor in the brand of the Almost Famous podcast. Sure 690 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 3: do I have some comments on this? 691 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 2: Okay? Please do? Do you want me to tell the 692 00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 2: story for yeah, tell us the story for it first. Okay, 693 00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 2: So Ben Flanne's on the podcast this week. He said 694 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,399 Speaker 2: he got to keep his suits and she was like, wait, 695 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 2: you get to keep your suits and I didn't get 696 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 2: to keep any of my dresses. She said she had 697 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 2: a connection with Sacks. You know, it was basically like 698 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 2: an early like influencer brand deal. She's like, all wear 699 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 2: the dresses, you give me the dresses, we'll all promote it. 700 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,600 Speaker 2: Something like that. She said it was her own thing 701 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 2: had nothing to do with the producers. She goes into 702 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 2: her closet like halfway through the season, and she's like, 703 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,800 Speaker 2: wear are my clothes? Where are my dresses? She's excited 704 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 2: to keep them, keep them, you know, and then they go, oh, 705 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 2: we've been selling them. And they're like, you've been selling them. 706 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 2: They've been selling them, and that's some like soap opera things, 707 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 2: she said, where they sell things in LA And she's like, 708 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 2: wait a second, this was these these are mine my clothes, 709 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 2: not your clothes, so she said. She Eventually she know 710 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 2: she got to keep a couple of nice formal dresses, 711 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,280 Speaker 2: but she was pretty bummed. 712 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, well they must have sold them. So my comments 713 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,240 Speaker 3: on this was I got to keep most of my clothes. 714 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,319 Speaker 3: The only way I did those I wrote a letter 715 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 3: to wb uh if you remember. Really, I don't know 716 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 3: if I've shared this story or not, but I wrote 717 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 3: a letter pretty much saying, hey, uh, I'm going to 718 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:08,000 Speaker 3: be your bachelor uh for the next year, right until 719 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 3: you announce somebody new. And I don't dress well, like 720 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 3: it's just not a part of me. And if you, Jared, yeah, 721 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 3: if you want to be looking like presentable in all 722 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 3: these appearances. Then the clothes that you have, you know, 723 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 3: tailored for me during my season of The Bachelor, then 724 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 3: I'll need to have and I'm and I then I 725 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,359 Speaker 3: did a little stat line where it's like, Okay, this 726 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 3: is how many people are six foot four and my weight, 727 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 3: and this is how many people, uh in entertainment are 728 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,879 Speaker 3: six foot four and my weight. And it's like nobody, right, 729 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 3: Like nobody's that tall and entertainment and those that are 730 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 3: are like usually really ripped and they play like giants 731 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:47,760 Speaker 3: on shows. 732 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 2: So I was like, no, that's like Jace Momoa, Like 733 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 2: Jace Momoa is not much taller than me, and he, 734 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 2: you know, he's a massive man when it comes to 735 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 2: everybody else in entertainment. 736 00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 3: And so I so all of a sudden, one day, 737 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 3: I get like six boxes of clothes. I still wear 738 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 3: most of them, Like I still like my clause. I 739 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 3: still have boxes downstairs in our house that have never 740 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 3: been opened from the show because like they tailor everything 741 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 3: down to your simsuits and underwear, and so nobody else 742 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 3: is gonna wear that. And if they don't give you 743 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 3: the clothes for like Zac season, because they don't do 744 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 3: this anymore. After I wrote the letter. They pretty much quit, 745 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,319 Speaker 3: like very like like strictly said, no leads are going 746 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 3: to do this anymore. We're not going to set this precedent. 747 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 3: It goes into the rental closet at like the studios, 748 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 3: and people can go and rent them for like costumes 749 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 3: and stuff anytime they want. But they just I bet, 750 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 3: I bet I have, Like I don't know how much 751 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 3: the suit's worth. It's the show about me, Like five 752 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 3: thousand dollars suits hanging on a rack for the last 753 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 3: seven years. 754 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 2: You're never gonna have to buy a suit again. Do 755 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 2: not gain or lose any weight, I know. 756 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the stressful part, right, I know exactly where 757 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 3: I stand, and I had lost so much weight during 758 00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,720 Speaker 3: my season that some of it does not look fit. Yeah, 759 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 3: but it's interesting they sold him. It feels like a 760 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 3: very bachelor thing to do and like a really like 761 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 3: interesting story where it's like, sorry, I didn't know, Yeah, 762 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 3: I didn't know. We weren't supposed to sell them. I 763 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 3: didn't know they were actually yours. 764 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, ben One, that was so business avy 765 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:19,240 Speaker 2: of you. I'm proud. 766 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:20,080 Speaker 3: Well, thank you. 767 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 2: You looked up stats. 768 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's the only way to make a good argument. Well, 769 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,400 Speaker 3: and here's the sad part about my story is, you know, 770 00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 3: I got to keep some of the watches from that season. 771 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 3: There's some nice watches. There was like three watches that 772 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,440 Speaker 3: got to keep, and I had them in a in 773 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 3: a box with my grandfather's watches that he had given 774 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,359 Speaker 3: me when he passed. And that's the box that got 775 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,520 Speaker 3: stolen when my house got broken into in Denver. Everything 776 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,359 Speaker 3: got taken. And so I don't have any of those things. Yeah, 777 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 3: this stink. So I don't have that, but I had 778 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 3: the clothes. I do have a Hugo Boss suit. I mean, 779 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 3: I still be looking good. 780 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 2: At Jared only wears his Armani suit that he got 781 00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 2: from the date in the museum the helicopter. Yeah, he 782 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:04,279 Speaker 2: was like the male Cinderella date basically, and it's the 783 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 2: only thing he wears. And we have a very formal occasion. 784 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 3: He looked good. Well. Sarah Herron tries out new prosthetic 785 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 3: arm can finally hold Dylan's hand. 786 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:20,399 Speaker 2: She says, yeah, so sweet. So she decided to get 787 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,719 Speaker 2: a prosthetic armed with the hand. She said that it's 788 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 2: just gonna, you know, make her life a little easier. 789 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,399 Speaker 2: But She's got a lot of practice to do with it, 790 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:29,960 Speaker 2: and they're still tweaking it so that it fits her 791 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,239 Speaker 2: the best. She said, this is the most It's called 792 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 2: the CEO vv I hand and is the most advanced 793 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 2: of its kind for the intuitive default grip pattering. That's 794 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,759 Speaker 2: pretty scientific sounding, but you know it's because it's able 795 00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:48,760 Speaker 2: to like grip like very naturally, and it's it's able 796 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,800 Speaker 2: to input custom made gestures into the device. That's cool. 797 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 2: But basically she feels really nice that now when she's 798 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,879 Speaker 2: in the passenger seat of the car, she can hold 799 00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:59,879 Speaker 2: Dylan's hand while they drive, and that's something she's wanted 800 00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 2: to do it. 801 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,400 Speaker 3: It's so cool. That's so great. Well, uh, hey, Ashley. 802 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 3: This week I was in South Indiana and I did 803 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 3: a speaking engagement at Notre Dame right and it went 804 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 3: really awesome. They were incredible, great turnout to the event. 805 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:21,760 Speaker 3: But after the event, they said, Ben, what we really 806 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:25,840 Speaker 3: want is to FaceTime one of three people, Ashley, I 807 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 3: Ken Eddie, and I said, Ashley might be my go 808 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,120 Speaker 3: to here, Like I was going to text you. I 809 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:31,360 Speaker 3: didn't have any service, but I was going to be 810 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:32,960 Speaker 3: texting and be like, hey, I need to FaceTime you 811 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,120 Speaker 3: to make a hundred people happy. I've done that to 812 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 3: you before in a bar a. 813 00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:42,400 Speaker 2: Couple of weeks ago, and it was so fun that. 814 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 3: She loved you. Yeah, I loved you, Caitlin Bristow or 815 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,279 Speaker 3: Chris Harrison. But I was like, I think I could 816 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 3: get Ashley on the line. That's that feels safer. Well, 817 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 3: the next headline is about one of those three. It's wait, 818 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 3: I have any service? It was like in that Yeah, 819 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 3: I tried. I was going to and then I was like, 820 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 3: you know what, I don't have any service. And that 821 00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 3: was my excuse. I was like, see, can't do. 822 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,440 Speaker 2: It like you're like, but Chris Harrison and Caitlin Bristol 823 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 2: are too big of celebrities, even if they are good 824 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,359 Speaker 2: friends to just randomly call or I just like. 825 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,799 Speaker 3: I don't talk to them enough. I get it to 826 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 3: like randomly FaceTime them with one hundred random people. I 827 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 3: talked to you enough where I'm like, hey, I'll do it. 828 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,839 Speaker 3: See where Ashley's at. I bet she's like hanging out 829 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:21,759 Speaker 3: all right. Kaitlin Bristol reveals ABC salary stuns Bachelor Nation 830 00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:23,040 Speaker 3: with this reveal. 831 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 2: Okay, but she doesn't actually say what she got she 832 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,319 Speaker 2: said that they haven't offered her. Okay, they offered her 833 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 2: to be the Bachelorette forty thousand, and she said that 834 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,840 Speaker 2: you'd think at that at that dollar sign, she'd say, jackpot, 835 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,359 Speaker 2: sign me up. Because she's very open about the fact 836 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:42,480 Speaker 2: when she was on Chris Sol's the season of The Bachelor, 837 00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 2: she had like zero dollars in her bank account. Yeah, 838 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,920 Speaker 2: and so it was like tempting. But then she didn't 839 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 2: accept the offer because she was advised. But I think 840 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 2: her dad to hire an entertainment lawyer. Yes, with their stepdad, 841 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 2: and he changed a lot in the contract and negotiated 842 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,840 Speaker 2: it big time for her. And then one of the 843 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 2: executive producers said, you got an entertainment lawyer and you're 844 00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,360 Speaker 2: asking for this amount of money. I'm sorry, Brice, and 845 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:15,120 Speaker 2: I thought this show was about love for you, I mean, 846 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,520 Speaker 2: and then she goes, basically, well, f off, it's about 847 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 2: love and money. Okay, they go hand in hand for 848 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 2: me right now, which is great and I'm so glad 849 00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,879 Speaker 2: she did this, but it has me wondering, just as 850 00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 2: somebody who closely knows producers, which one said that. 851 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 3: All of them trust me. They all play this like 852 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,320 Speaker 3: guilt game with you, like, you can't ask for more money? 853 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 3: This is about love. Don't you want to be here 854 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,879 Speaker 3: for the right reasons. You would hate if the cast 855 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,879 Speaker 3: would find out how much you're getting paid from this 856 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 3: season and think that you're not here for the right reason. 857 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 2: Oh oh, friends say this. 858 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 3: Oh they're all guilty of this. Many They also. 859 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 2: Don't want, like the lead to be making more money 860 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 2: than they are. 861 00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,440 Speaker 3: Well, no, I don't think we were like trust me. 862 00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 3: I mean, Caitlin did our souls did our I I 863 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,840 Speaker 3: did not hire an entertainment lawyer, and so as a result, 864 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,080 Speaker 3: I was pretty much like, sign me up, I'm here. 865 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:12,200 Speaker 2: The rumor in my land is that you guys are 866 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,759 Speaker 2: basically told to tell them how much you made the 867 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 2: previous year at your normal job. Then they match it 868 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 2: is that true? Accurate? It's not on your Yeah, and 869 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 2: so you are like writing instruction manuals. 870 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 3: Making like nothing. Yeah. They you know you remember this 871 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 3: questionnaire When you actually go on to the Bachelor or Bachelor, 872 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:34,680 Speaker 3: they do a big questionnaire with you about your life, 873 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,799 Speaker 3: and you say, like, I think there's a question how 874 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 3: much do you make in your normal job or annually? 875 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,959 Speaker 3: You don't know that it's actually been a negotiation prop 876 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 3: for later on when they're like star dang. But good 877 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,120 Speaker 3: for Kaitlin. I think she's right. It is love and money. 878 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:54,600 Speaker 3: I don't think anybody who is in their twenties or 879 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 3: thirties or forties that get asked to be on the 880 00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 3: show or asked to be the lead should not then 881 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,480 Speaker 3: and say, well, hey, I want to try to make 882 00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 3: the most out of this, not only when it comes 883 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 3: to love, but financially for the future as well, because 884 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,439 Speaker 3: I'm leaving my job for this show and I don't 885 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,960 Speaker 3: know what life looks like on the outside when I 886 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:16,560 Speaker 3: go back. So I have no problem with some negotiation. 887 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,279 Speaker 3: Here's the problem though, or I guess here is a 888 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 3: little insight. They must have really wanted Caitlin, because typically 889 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:26,319 Speaker 3: when somebody pulls this move and they negotiate and they 890 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,800 Speaker 3: hire a lawyer and they ask for a lot more money, 891 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 3: the show will just move on like they'll say, Okay, 892 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,280 Speaker 3: we'll find somebody else. But they must have really wanted Kaitlin. 893 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:35,839 Speaker 3: And oh but. 894 00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:38,799 Speaker 2: That brings up another part that I totally forgot to mention. 895 00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 2: She was, of course up against Brittan Nielsen, and they 896 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 2: said to her that she contracted that even if Britt 897 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 2: got the lead role, yeah, that she still was owed 898 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 2: the amount of money that they came up with, and 899 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,799 Speaker 2: that is so smart. I mean that also made them 900 00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,240 Speaker 2: definitely towards the Kaitlyn's. 901 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, we got money wrapped up in Kaitlin. It's like, yeah, yeah, 902 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 3: It's like a contract negotiation in sports, like who's getting 903 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 3: paid more and are they going to get more playing 904 00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 3: time or not? 905 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 2: Well exactly, Ben, I have to ask you a headline 906 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:12,880 Speaker 2: making question. 907 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 3: Okay, what's up. 908 00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 2: Caitlin was offered forty thousand? Did you get less or 909 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 2: more than that amount? 910 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 3: More? 911 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 2: Okay? 912 00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,040 Speaker 3: I got more, and. 913 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 2: You know that Caitlyn got more too than for obviously, 914 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 2: I mean. 915 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 3: You got more than I did. Yeah. You know, when 916 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:33,680 Speaker 3: you're in the lead circle, like you kind of call 917 00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,040 Speaker 3: some people and be like, hey, how much should I 918 00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 3: be asking for? It's uh, forty was I think the 919 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 3: starting price that they asked. But I don't know that. 920 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 3: I mean for Caitlin. But I'm assuming yes, she got. 921 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,840 Speaker 2: More and that the guys are offered more often. 922 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 3: I don't know that. I don't have any clue the 923 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 3: like again, the behind the scenes of the Bachelor's a 924 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,680 Speaker 3: mystery to many, and but I do know that, Yes, 925 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 3: every producer seems to know the strategy of wait, no 926 00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:05,759 Speaker 3: way you're asking for that much money, No way you're 927 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,960 Speaker 3: asking for more. Like they the guilt, the guilt trip 928 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,920 Speaker 3: is there. But I get it right. I mean, it's 929 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:16,120 Speaker 3: their negotiation, it's yours. You're in negotiation with against each 930 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 3: other until you sign the contract, and then you're on 931 00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,800 Speaker 3: the same team. They play their game, you play yours, 932 00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:23,799 Speaker 3: and you see where it spits it out. 933 00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 2: One last question. Okay, so rumored that Crystals made basically 934 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:33,319 Speaker 2: more than any other bachelor because he was Nobody really 935 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,600 Speaker 2: talked about it, but he was basically a millionaire and 936 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 2: his yearly salaries was pretty high. I think, so, do 937 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 2: you know that that he is one of the higher paid, 938 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,120 Speaker 2: if not the highest paid, of all the bachelors. 939 00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:50,200 Speaker 3: I know he made more than I did. I know that, Yeah, 940 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:51,960 Speaker 3: I would assume. So. I mean, I think you can 941 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 3: go back and read even past like headlines of where 942 00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:58,480 Speaker 3: like the Emily Maynards and those like obviously have been 943 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 3: on record to be some of the most paid leads, 944 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,719 Speaker 3: and I think Chris is always up there. I mean, 945 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:09,000 Speaker 3: I'm assuming the prince, like if he had his annual salary. 946 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,080 Speaker 3: I'm assuming that was pretty ridiculous, so he might have 947 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 3: made a lot. I don't know, but yeah, Chris did fine. Well. Actually, 948 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,080 Speaker 3: that's all the headlines we have for you today. A 949 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 3: lot of headlines today, a lot of stuff going on 950 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,839 Speaker 3: in Bachelor Nation. We'll be back next week breaking it down. 951 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 3: Now here's my final thing. I have to do it 952 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,719 Speaker 3: because I'm selfish. I leave tomorrow for Dallas, Texas to 953 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 3: play in the Invited Celebrity Classic Golf tournament alongside on 954 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:35,719 Speaker 3: the tournament forty other celebrities, Imit Smith, Tony Romo, Pad Rodriguez. 955 00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:38,359 Speaker 3: It's going to be great. Albert Poohols, who actually get 956 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 3: to play with on Wednesday, very exciting. It's gonna be 957 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,759 Speaker 3: on NBC. Check it out if you see the leader board, 958 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:47,360 Speaker 3: just scroll down a bit. I'll be there hopefully above wells. 959 00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:48,960 Speaker 3: It's going to be a great time. But we will 960 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,080 Speaker 3: be back here next week talking about it, sharing all 961 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 3: the stories. 962 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 2: So hey Ben, Hey Ben, Yeah, why aren't your best 963 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:56,959 Speaker 2: friends with Tony Romo? 964 00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 965 00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,160 Speaker 2: I think you play like in every golf tournament with him. 966 00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 3: Oh well, you'll like. 967 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 2: Secretly be our best friends. We just haven't done we're 968 00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:04,359 Speaker 2: best friend. He's a fan. 969 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 3: We just haven't like announced it yet that we're best 970 00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,920 Speaker 3: but we're best friends. I have a good story about 971 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,959 Speaker 3: Tony Romo and our friendship that I'll share next week 972 00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 3: on the episode. How about that? 973 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,320 Speaker 2: Is it a true story or just a cliffhanger that 974 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:17,000 Speaker 2: you're making up? 975 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 3: It's very true, very very true. 976 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm excited, and I think you're gonna add another 977 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,200 Speaker 2: story this week. So good luck. Ben. We're rooting for 978 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 2: you. You're an awesome golfer and we love you well. 979 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,160 Speaker 3: I love you all until next time. Ashley, I've been Ben, 980 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:30,120 Speaker 3: I've been Ashley. 981 00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:30,720 Speaker 2: Bye. 982 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 983 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.