Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision. Hey guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl,
Speaker 1: Mandy b aka Paid the Sallion aka Full Court Pumps
Speaker 1: a ka Dan Beach.
Speaker 2: Hey y'all, I'm weezy. Welcome back for another episode.
Speaker 1: We have a guest today.
Speaker 2: I know we've been on our niggas ain't ship vibe right,
Speaker 2: I'm really like, this is gonna be interesting spot, but
Speaker 2: you're one of my faves. I'm a reality TV girl,
Speaker 2: is my favorite? You're gonna introduce them of all time? Yeah,
Speaker 2: but you know I love watching love and dating shows.
Speaker 2: That's my thing, and so watching Perfect Match that's what
Speaker 2: it was called. I'll be saying toot to handle and everybody, okay,
Speaker 2: but you know it's Netflix and Dating and you're one
Speaker 2: of my favorites on there. So we have Don Gabriel
Speaker 2: today from Perfect Match.
Speaker 1: Everyone, don't is it rude to introduce you with.
Speaker 3: There by saying I'm used to it by now?
Speaker 1: So we got the emoj and an emo nigga today. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's really bad, Like, really, are you what?
Speaker 2: I will literally suck a dick and cry after like
Speaker 2: I'd be like.
Speaker 1: I understand why didn't you come? And it's bad.
Speaker 2: Bro.
Speaker 1: Like people sent me your clip and was like, not
Speaker 1: your man.
Speaker 3: I've okay. I've been going on live right on TikTok
Speaker 3: and they were like, I told him I was going
Speaker 3: this podcast and they're like, oh, you sound like now
Speaker 3: that you mentioned it, you sound like the guy that
Speaker 3: keeps talking about And I was like, what, oh, because
Speaker 3: you do look.
Speaker 1: Like her tight dress, you dressed like her type, and
Speaker 1: you have dreads and you have the little nose ring
Speaker 1: like you look like you could be gay.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I get that. It's either I'm gay bisexual.
Speaker 1: You have a full design set, sponge with it. I'm
Speaker 1: cool with. Oh, I'm cool with a guy I have
Speaker 1: it like them buffed or like clear polish right maybe,
Speaker 1: and that's it and that's it, like not even black, No, bitch,
Speaker 1: I don't want to know. Like So for me, and
Speaker 1: I've said it before, I like, so I'm bisexual when
Speaker 1: I fuck bitches, have your nails done, your makeup done.
Speaker 1: I like super feminine women and I like super masculine men.
Speaker 1: This to me is feminine to me, to me bitches
Speaker 1: to me, So my preference in my men would not
Speaker 1: have their nazy. Mandy likes the prettiest looking dudes. Bro,
Speaker 1: would they be rough? You know? Bro, my niggas be
Speaker 1: rough though they find as fun but rough, like they
Speaker 1: still got a touch day whatever whatever. They they don't
Speaker 1: have nothing in New York, so I'm not gonna say
Speaker 1: they tooking guns in New York. But they pretty as
Speaker 1: fuck but rough. Okay, Like they'll be pretty as fun
Speaker 1: and might have some tattoos on their face, but still
Speaker 1: be like, damn, why you fucked up? You're pretty.
Speaker 2: I'm the opposite.
Speaker 1: I like.
Speaker 2: I like the the face, the body type and the
Speaker 2: build looking super mask and then I like when they
Speaker 2: just like put on whatever the they want. That to
Speaker 2: me is very big dick energy. Like when I see,
Speaker 2: like I don't know, it could be a dude who's.
Speaker 1: Tatted or tall or whatever the fuck it might be.
Speaker 2: That might screen masculinaitty to me, and then I see
Speaker 2: they got their nails done or some.
Speaker 1: Shit, I'm like, you don't give a fuck, Like I
Speaker 1: kind of like that.
Speaker 2: And also I don't know, maybe it's because I am
Speaker 2: by does it make me think?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I also like when men style me, Like remember when
Speaker 2: people used to say Kanye was controlling because he would
Speaker 2: dress him bro that would literally like soak me by
Speaker 2: the fucking dress.
Speaker 1: Like, oh well, I mean I like, I like, I like,
Speaker 1: you know, men who could dress, and I wouldn't mind
Speaker 1: a man like telling me what he thinks looks nice
Speaker 1: on me.
Speaker 2: But no, see like y G could dress, but he
Speaker 2: doesn't look like he's the one piece and shit together.
Speaker 2: Certain men can do that, and that's what I want.
Speaker 1: Nonetheless, I'm sure it's for some.
Speaker 3: Mad yeah, like if you have your preference, preference, it
Speaker 3: is what it is, you know what I mean. I'm
Speaker 3: not mad. I'm not going to appreciate you, like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I didn't want to be disrespectful to you,
Speaker 1: but you know they're cute.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I just it started. I started doing my
Speaker 3: nails with my niece like a paint her nails, can't mind.
Speaker 3: Started taking to the salon, and then I started chilling
Speaker 3: the slun. It was kind of like like I like
Speaker 3: going get my hair done and say the barbershops like
Speaker 3: therapy kind of a little bit. Yeah, like you know,
Speaker 3: being around my homies and getting my haircut, talking about
Speaker 3: barbies at my dad and going to like the nail
Speaker 3: salon was like just being around woman by myself, and
Speaker 3: it's like a different perspective.
Speaker 1: It's like a no, that's my problem. The salon lines
Speaker 1: already be long, a bitch be having a wait. So
Speaker 1: now the man coming in there making the price of
Speaker 1: the jenal increase. The designs is increasing.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know how it was like those are expensive,
Speaker 2: it sayer posts.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean like I got designs. He has a
Speaker 1: different design per nail, different color, different I got.
Speaker 3: I got a little bit of club now, so you know, okay,
Speaker 3: so how much just a nice little ig post.
Speaker 1: Oh that's like, oh my god, you're an influencer. Yuck.
Speaker 3: I'm not proud of it, but it is. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna use the free ship.
Speaker 1: I know, that's right. I am mad.
Speaker 2: That is kind of crazy though, Like when you think
Speaker 2: about how bro like people will hit me up, like,
Speaker 2: oh can I get free studio time?
Speaker 1: Bitch of Charlamne, don't you're not the free studio time? No?
Speaker 2: And I think like there's this weird, weird medium of
Speaker 2: the influencer attitude that they feel like they deserve everything.
Speaker 2: I was at fucking Katana the other day and this
Speaker 2: girl was pissed when her bill came out and literally
Speaker 2: was like, oh, can I do a story post to
Speaker 2: a girl?
Speaker 1: You ain't trying to do a story post? Like it's crazy,
Speaker 1: But to be honest, I thought I was gonna have
Speaker 1: to crapy hand rolls for free or like she does,
Speaker 1: that's nuts.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna always pay and I'm always tip. But if
Speaker 3: you like offer, if you're like, oh, I'll do this
Speaker 3: for free, if you just want to come by, I'll
Speaker 3: come through, tip you and post for you. But like
Speaker 3: I'm always I'm gonna take advantage of the boom you
Speaker 3: need to be cause yeah, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. What I'll be mad about is, uh,
Speaker 1: these makeup artists that a bitch be paying, They be
Speaker 1: showing up late, and then they still want to be
Speaker 1: tagged and want.
Speaker 2: Me to have a whole who bro, I didn't make
Speaker 2: up artists like make me walk outside do a twirl
Speaker 2: and I was like, bitch, I have to go out.
Speaker 1: Bro. This was but not only that, if you late
Speaker 1: to them, you gotta pay a late feed or they
Speaker 1: can cancel on you, or they could deny service. We've
Speaker 1: been on tour. I don't think we had one makeup
Speaker 1: artist on time yet, and it's like, bitch, we gotta
Speaker 1: we got ships to do, we gotta go on stage hunt.
Speaker 3: Can you do it yourself?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: No, I don't even know how to leg bitch. I
Speaker 1: didn't get to go back to New York, so I
Speaker 1: don't even have ship. So I said, they gonna get
Speaker 1: a little mess.
Speaker 3: Scared today, Thank God from New York.
Speaker 1: I live in New York. She lives here. She got
Speaker 1: a whole closet. I'm I don't live here, Mandy. Are
Speaker 1: you serious right now? I have an apartment here, an
Speaker 1: apartment in New York. She lives in both places. She
Speaker 1: lives you two apartments, yes, because she's trying to put
Speaker 1: that l a shit on. Mean, that's not true.
Speaker 3: Are you Are you from New York? Like you're born
Speaker 3: in New York.
Speaker 1: We're both from Florida.
Speaker 3: Oh you're both from Florida. Oh we don't.
Speaker 1: Wow, you want to get us, you know what?
Speaker 3: I don't know. I just know I'm from Canadis. So
Speaker 3: I'm learning about the States recently.
Speaker 2: Okay, because you gave us was like the oh she
Speaker 2: did for your nails?
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I just like I heard about Florida. I heard.
Speaker 3: It's like a whole different place, like the wild West.
Speaker 2: You were, right, Yeah, So let's get into some icebreakers
Speaker 2: with you. We want to see how much you know. Okay,
Speaker 2: talk to me, all right, I'm going to say a
Speaker 2: word to you, and you're gonna tell me what that is.
Speaker 3: Okay, cocky, Oh yeah, I've you known what that is.
Speaker 3: That's when a bunch of people just like bust all
Speaker 3: over your face.
Speaker 1: Okay, what about frauding?
Speaker 3: Frauding? That's I'm unfamiliar with fraudy, Okay, you're not.
Speaker 2: By It's when two dicks are rubbing and it's like
Speaker 2: you're basically dry humping, but with dick.
Speaker 1: It's like scissoring with dicks.
Speaker 3: Like just Barry dicks, just like bear dicks. Frauding just
Speaker 3: like trying to start a fire. I don't like that word, though.
Speaker 3: That's I don't like the word either.
Speaker 1: YEA, quite a few.
Speaker 2: Words I don't like, but I don't like tripping, and
Speaker 2: that's what they call scissoring.
Speaker 3: Tripping.
Speaker 2: Tripping is another word for scissoring.
Speaker 3: Oh see, I don't like that.
Speaker 1: I don't like the worst six. I think it could
Speaker 1: be more elaborate. Three letters for one of the most
Speaker 1: amazing things in the world. That's how fast we need
Speaker 1: to say. I hate it sex. No, I need it
Speaker 1: to be like longer than that. I need some more
Speaker 1: syllables in that thing.
Speaker 3: What do you What do you say to you? Are
Speaker 3: you like let's have sex, or you like let's fuck?
Speaker 1: I do like fuck. That's not that. Don't give it
Speaker 1: enough peck. I just need it to be longer. No, No,
Speaker 1: Why don't you say how you asked for some dick mandy?
Speaker 1: Hell no, I'm not going to do this. I don't
Speaker 1: ask for it no more because I'm celibate.
Speaker 3: Are you I am?
Speaker 1: When it's been about three months? Okay, good for you,
Speaker 1: Thank you? What bitch, I gotta pride it away.
Speaker 2: You just got fingerbeaned finger does not count. I am celibate.
Speaker 2: It's had not sex.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, getting finger fuck bear.
Speaker 2: Fuck fingerfuck isn't that many squirt, bitch, she put the
Speaker 2: nails on a pussy.
Speaker 1: That was like, all right, bitch, you're back in. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Not based on my roles in
Speaker 1: my uh so. I lived my own life and I
Speaker 1: don't live life by the rules that you've put on me.
Speaker 1: I am celibateted and he's been celibant twice in the
Speaker 1: seven years of the show. But the last time I
Speaker 1: was fake, I just hated me in so much and
Speaker 1: I was like, man, fuck these things. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: I don't want to give on pussy this time.
Speaker 3: Is like it's traumatic, but you're buyer, right, So does
Speaker 3: that work? Is it so against men or so both?
Speaker 1: Both? Right now? Really? Yeah, it's actually a good point.
Speaker 1: He might not trigger you. I don't want to fuck
Speaker 1: with no bitches right now, I'm good. So why do
Speaker 1: you got your nails like that? Because now it's just
Speaker 1: how I get my fucking nails done and always be ready,
Speaker 1: so you ain't got to get ready.
Speaker 3: Oh I do even notice that? Yeah, oh that's a thing.
Speaker 1: So they you know I'm thoughtful. But this is because
Speaker 1: I would be open to meeting someone and having sex
Speaker 1: on the first night, like if I'm really, really really
Speaker 1: into them. It's like, I have my standards. I do
Speaker 1: have my standards, but like I want to be ready
Speaker 1: if i'm and if I get there to where I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I really trust this man to take away my celibacy.
Speaker 1: You're not really you just really selective no, I'm really traumatized. So,
Speaker 1: like I don't want to go into sex and start crying.
Speaker 1: I don't want to go into sex and regret it.
Speaker 1: I really don't want to regret it. I don't want
Speaker 1: to go into sex and like hate someone or like
Speaker 1: that's the thing too, Like when I went to the
Speaker 1: sex club and so like I like like froze up
Speaker 1: with the thought of a man massaging me. Right, So
Speaker 1: I don't want to go into something and keep going
Speaker 1: into it and feel so uncomfortable that now in my mind,
Speaker 1: I'm so uncomfortable. Maybe I feel violated, but I kind
Speaker 1: of let this guy do it. I just don't even
Speaker 1: want to be in a place to where I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm even violated right now, because I know I'm
Speaker 1: not in a place that I'm comfortable having sex, and
Speaker 1: I don't want to put that onto somebody else.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so ever fucked the girl and then she just
Speaker 2: started crying.
Speaker 1: You're like, what the fuck did I do? And it
Speaker 1: was some past shit.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but that was like when I was like really,
Speaker 3: when I was like younger, that would happen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But like that's the thing, and I know I'm
Speaker 1: to a place where I can say no, and I
Speaker 1: don't have to go all the way, but to me,
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel regret after it right now.
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm like, I'm chilling.
Speaker 2: ID text with a woman that like right after we
Speaker 2: were we were supposed to get up and go out
Speaker 2: and have drinks somewhere, but we fucked super quick and
Speaker 2: she got hella triggered at me standing up after it
Speaker 2: and was like, I need you to lay down for
Speaker 2: a second. She started getting really emotional, and I was like, damn, like,
Speaker 2: you really don't know when you're sleeping with somebody there triggers.
Speaker 2: And so I appreciate that because I was sitting there.
Speaker 2: I mean, it was fine the first hour and I
Speaker 2: was like, bro, I'm.
Speaker 1: Ready to go. I didn't call my drug delivery.
Speaker 2: Okay, let me ask you a question. So Mandy's fingers
Speaker 2: are also like that because she likes butt play.
Speaker 3: So oh wait, okay, so the men and women? Oh okay, okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: yeah right right, okay, Am I in the butt play? No,
Speaker 3: I wouldn't let anyone in your mask, but not because
Speaker 3: I'm not like against it. I just I have to
Speaker 3: see it first.
Speaker 1: You have to see your buttthole.
Speaker 3: First, because I just I have never seen it.
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't want you.
Speaker 3: I want to know. I don't want anyone to go
Speaker 3: to places in my body that I haven't.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Wait, so a girl can eat your ass if you like. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bend over you. You're gonna take a picture.
Speaker 1: You're gonna wink a little bit. So I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: like wink and you just squeeze it but cheeks together
Speaker 1: and then I'll record it and then you can see
Speaker 1: a butt.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then let me go take care of your handle.
Speaker 3: You want to take a like everyone wants to eat
Speaker 3: my ass. Like I'm cool with that, but like, no,
Speaker 3: I need to know how old you are. I just
Speaker 3: turned thirty and you haven't looked at your own asshole.
Speaker 3: I haven't, Like I've seen my asshole, but like I haven't.
Speaker 1: Okay, you need to see it right before someone goes
Speaker 1: into it.
Speaker 3: Exactly like I got it.
Speaker 1: You don't. You don't like man trimd or nothing.
Speaker 3: Now how I'm gonna man trom my ass?
Speaker 1: You just moved one, but you man man trim your ass? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like hold you okay, And this is gonna be racist
Speaker 1: but not really. Black men don't be having hairy essence.
Speaker 1: And I'll be in a lot of black men's asses. Now,
Speaker 1: if you got like if you got like chess hair,
Speaker 1: then nine times out of ten they butt crack gonna
Speaker 1: be hairy. But if you like with a man that's
Speaker 1: like not very hairy, Like I'm looking at you right now,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell you lift it. You shut up
Speaker 1: your arms. Okay, you might be a little hair, you
Speaker 1: might have some ask like, but like, getdy, you don't
Speaker 1: look like you would have much ass here. You look
Speaker 1: kind of hairless over there? Is that an hr issue
Speaker 1: that I'm telling your engineer, you look like you gotta
Speaker 1: gig base. You comes down like a bare ass. No,
Speaker 1: I can tell like nine times out of ten, I
Speaker 1: got a clean ass. Yes, I swear to god. Black
Speaker 1: men be having just you go you see the boot,
Speaker 1: I don't really be having a dig much or nothing
Speaker 1: like that. Like I don't, I don't. I've definitely seen.
Speaker 2: Dudes with like you know, the little coily hair like
Speaker 2: in between the thigh and the But I'm like, all right,
Speaker 2: so maybe I'll want to go in there.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's just like it's just like it's just
Speaker 3: like you know, it's an area that like, let me
Speaker 3: handle that before.
Speaker 1: I mean, nigga, go get a white Yeah, it's just
Speaker 1: take like I take, don't get twisted.
Speaker 3: I take care of my ass. Like I got two
Speaker 3: loofer its. I got one dedicated to that area.
Speaker 1: That ass loof.
Speaker 3: I gotta ask, do you tell the.
Speaker 1: People that come to your house with that loof off?
Speaker 1: Just because I don't want.
Speaker 3: To touch nobody? Why are you touching my loof?
Speaker 1: What if I got to get it out of the way.
Speaker 1: I don't want to put my loop for next to
Speaker 1: your ass loofer.
Speaker 3: That's a good point. That's why that's a good point.
Speaker 3: But that's why it's color coordinated. So the light the
Speaker 3: lighter loof up body loof of, the darker loof of.
Speaker 1: You need to have the loop the lighter loofer for
Speaker 1: the booty to make sure you're getting everything off. Oh wait,
Speaker 1: that's a good point.
Speaker 3: I want it dark because I don't want to be
Speaker 3: You don't want to see I don't want to see that.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to clean this.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to analyze. But that's that's how you
Speaker 1: got it. That's why you got to get a lighter,
Speaker 1: because then what if you miss it?
Speaker 3: If you see something, you gotta because then if someone
Speaker 3: come over, they're gonna look at the white loof for
Speaker 3: that got you just wash it off stage. You don't know. Listen,
Speaker 3: let me let me clean my ass away and won't clean.
Speaker 1: My e all right. The point is, and this is
Speaker 1: why the game man come on and be like, girl,
Speaker 1: you'd be eating straight male ass. Yuck.
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like shower fresh ass is a
Speaker 2: great ass, but I'll take a white ass. I just
Speaker 2: recently watched a guy I have a shower in my
Speaker 2: house because the door was cracked, and I was like
Speaker 2: trying to just be a little pervy, but.
Speaker 1: I watched him like take both hands back there, and
Speaker 1: I was like, no, that's right now. Maybe he actually
Speaker 1: wanted me to get in this.
Speaker 2: But but at the same time, like get in that
Speaker 2: much like if I'm looking at you through the crack
Speaker 2: and you're like this, but that's fabulous.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie that's what I do. What I'm
Speaker 1: getting fun, I'm gonna open it up like it's crazy.
Speaker 1: That's one of the sexiest things I've like I picked
Speaker 1: up with my ex. It really any of my partners.
Speaker 1: Being able to watch how they clean themselves very important.
Speaker 1: I need to see how much ladder you I love
Speaker 1: watching men in the shower. I'll be right there sitting
Speaker 1: on the bed, looking through the looking through the motherfucker
Speaker 1: talking to them while they in the motherfuck. I want
Speaker 1: to see how you lather up, how you watch the long,
Speaker 1: big ass legs, them big ass arms, and I do long.
Speaker 1: I could watch a nigga shower. Calm down, bro, that's
Speaker 1: way too much for a play for me. What to
Speaker 1: watch a man's shower? Girl, I don't know. There's there's
Speaker 1: not There's a lot of ship that will get me gone.
Speaker 1: Y'all know I'm celibate. I'm into hintye right now, bro, Bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm watching cartoon so actually this is how. I don't
Speaker 1: know who I am right now, but gay's sex is
Speaker 1: cool from time to time, Bitch, I'll been going to
Speaker 1: cartoon sex like a motherfucker. Talked about it last time
Speaker 1: I was here. I don't know why the fuck, but
Speaker 1: I love it. What's the weird point you watch?
Speaker 3: What kind of weird point am I?
Speaker 1: What's in your normal category? And then what you're like?
Speaker 1: I'm demented tonight. Oh I don't really be getting that
Speaker 1: freaky with that ship. No, No, I got your imagination.
Speaker 1: What do you think about why you jacking off?
Speaker 3: No, I watched porn. But more so it's like whatever,
Speaker 3: It's like, I just I'm efficient sh do Yeah, Like
Speaker 3: I I hit the I go on the website of
Speaker 3: home page, turning videos what catching my eyes?
Speaker 1: Boomboo and videos in and out.
Speaker 2: I've heard that so many times.
Speaker 3: When I when I was younger, it was like tabs
Speaker 3: on tabs on tabs, Like it was like I was
Speaker 3: dedicating the evening to that ship. Like I got, I got,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I got, but that I know what you're saying now.
Speaker 3: But now that I'm older, I'm like, I gotta be done.
Speaker 1: Do.
Speaker 2: I like to make it a whole routine. But maybe
Speaker 2: that's the woman in me, Like I love to take
Speaker 2: time doing it. Actually, I masturbated really crazy the other day.
Speaker 2: Like I don't even think I should be saying this
Speaker 2: publicly because I hope people don't realize what zoom I
Speaker 2: was on. But there's a zoom I have to be
Speaker 2: on weekly and I wasn't finished masturbating, and my alarm
Speaker 2: went off to be on the zoom and I was like, whatever,
Speaker 2: they just gonna see my name on it. So I
Speaker 2: made sure the video was off and the audio was
Speaker 2: off and I got it in and then it made
Speaker 2: me even like more turned on it. The fact that
Speaker 2: like people were talking about work in the background. It
Speaker 2: was kind of insane. But I say all that to
Speaker 2: say the tabs and how much I have to look at.
Speaker 2: That's how I know I've seen too much poorn in
Speaker 2: my life because some scenes just like I'm like, I
Speaker 2: need more than this, I need more. Come now, I
Speaker 2: need to need this now. I need to see you
Speaker 2: eat to come out like it's ridiculous. Girls, what a
Speaker 2: girl or X whatever you want to.
Speaker 1: Call it, actually got it for you? So that icon
Speaker 1: looks like porn, it does? I love it. I'm a
Speaker 1: black X. What's a white X on a black square? Okay?
Speaker 2: So anyway, let's get into our vanilla shit. Our vanilla
Speaker 2: shit is our sex in the news segment. And so
Speaker 2: for this week, I found something that I wanted to
Speaker 2: debate a little bit because obviously we're pro sex work.
Speaker 4: However your pro sex work? Love it you ever pay
Speaker 4: for pussy? I've never paid for pussy's look at me. Okay,
Speaker 4: but I'm a full supporter. I got slut tattooed on
Speaker 4: my head. I'm a full supporter.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, how MasterCard is endangering sex workers?
Speaker 1: So this is from on the a CLU website.
Speaker 2: And in twoenty twenty one, MasterCard developed a new policy
Speaker 2: for adult content websites using credit card or payment options.
Speaker 2: The policy imposed requirements such a pre approval of all
Speaker 2: content before publication, forbidding certain search terms, keeping records of
Speaker 2: age and identity verifications for performers. And the restrictions are
Speaker 2: not only restrict restricting to free speech, but they also
Speaker 2: harmed the livelihood of sex workers. So sixteen thousand signatures
Speaker 2: were given on the ACLU website saying that MasterCard is
Speaker 2: harming people that are black, immigrant, and transender sex workers.
Speaker 1: I can't talk today, but.
Speaker 2: Anyway, we've known for a long time that it's really
Speaker 2: difficult to accept payment as a sex worker. I remember
Speaker 2: back in the day on Backpage they would say this
Speaker 2: many roses, so you didn't talk about the exchange of money.
Speaker 2: Mandy and I when we were starting our bank account,
Speaker 2: we told them our podcast was about sex. They took
Speaker 2: like he went in the back for a minute to
Speaker 2: make sure that it was even okay to accept payment
Speaker 2: for that. However, I was on the team of thinking
Speaker 2: that this shit was wrong until I read why it's
Speaker 2: not legal. So the simple version is that Visa and
Speaker 2: MasterCard were frustrated with the high rate of chargebacks related
Speaker 2: to porn sites. It could be a scamming thing, but
Speaker 2: most likely someone's wife was like, what the fuck is
Speaker 2: this and they had to call in and say they.
Speaker 1: Didn't do it.
Speaker 2: So they made the decision to classify adult sites and
Speaker 2: activity as high risk and require anyone that wants to
Speaker 2: process payment to pay an upfront registration, free annual renewals,
Speaker 2: and require more ID verification.
Speaker 1: So they do that for OnlyFans. They do it in
Speaker 1: the state of Illinois. Now, if I'm not mistaken, you
Speaker 1: can't log into a porn site without sending in your ID.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's crazy. I think a it probably
Speaker 1: is for this because you're verifying that this is you
Speaker 1: by submitting your card payment. Like you cannot have an
Speaker 1: OnlyFans page or like subscribe without uploading the front and
Speaker 1: back of your ID. So I did that for OnlyFans.
Speaker 1: I don't see it as a problem either, because I
Speaker 1: think it does also help in terms of i'll say
Speaker 1: serial killers, but also pedophiles, like you get to see
Speaker 1: kind of what they're searching, the type of porn they're watching.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of serial killers watch the same
Speaker 1: type of porn. It'd be like either children porn, animal porn,
Speaker 1: like weird shit.
Speaker 2: So I disagree in a slight way. Performers have to
Speaker 2: upload their ID fentification. I understand that if you were
Speaker 2: having to upload it, I think is super extensive. Serial
Speaker 2: killers pedophiles, if you really do all that, IP addresses
Speaker 2: are searchable for a long time, and if you really
Speaker 2: want to kill somebody and you're smart about it, I
Speaker 2: feel like you could use a fake ID somehow, like
Speaker 2: you could figure.
Speaker 1: Out a way in. But I think that kind of
Speaker 1: does fuck them up. The only thing I would agree
Speaker 1: with is I.
Speaker 2: Understand the chargebackshit now, Like it makes sense if your
Speaker 2: highest chargebacks aren't Gucci and Louis Bitton and it's pussy sites, Like, okay,
Speaker 2: we see why the shit ain't allowed no more. Because
Speaker 2: if you said, MasterCard, we're actually making money on sex,
Speaker 2: they probably would keep it legal.
Speaker 1: They don't given a fuck about us.
Speaker 2: Isn't to help stop child pornography. This is literally because
Speaker 2: they ain't making money.
Speaker 1: Have you ever subscribed to any porn sites or only
Speaker 1: fans or no?
Speaker 3: I've never never paid for anything sex related?
Speaker 1: What ever? You've never been to a strip club?
Speaker 3: Now? My first strip club I went to I was eighteen.
Speaker 3: I got kicked out.
Speaker 1: Why'd you get kicked out?
Speaker 3: Because it was I was eighteen in Montreal and Canada's
Speaker 3: legal and we all go there after school. But we
Speaker 3: all have the strip club after school, after graduation. After
Speaker 3: graduating school, we all go to Montreal and we all
Speaker 3: went to.
Speaker 1: Is there a thing about strip clubs in Montreal?
Speaker 3: Yeah? What is it that you can go there when
Speaker 3: you're eighteen? No?
Speaker 1: No, no, there's something else? Is it? Like there's a
Speaker 1: lot of them? Can they touch you?
Speaker 2: What is it?
Speaker 3: Oh? No, there is a lot of them.
Speaker 1: Okay, because someone told me they go just for strip club.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I've only been one time. But the thing
Speaker 3: is is like in Canada, we don't have dollar bills.
Speaker 1: You only went to the strip club once? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you're thirty.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wow, it doesn't do anything for me? And then me
Speaker 1: tell you something.
Speaker 2: By the end of this episode, someone's gonna want to
Speaker 2: finger your asshole and take you to the strip clubs.
Speaker 3: I don't like it. Just it just doesn't do anything
Speaker 3: for me. Just do you know, because even I just
Speaker 3: I don't know, there's no appeal there.
Speaker 1: Why'd you get kicked out?
Speaker 3: Because we don't have dollar bills? We have twoies and loonies.
Speaker 3: You have coins. And I was eighteen years old.
Speaker 1: I didn't he was throwing coins at the girl.
Speaker 3: I wasn't throwing them. I was just like tossing them
Speaker 3: on the stage. It's I was like, it's money, like
Speaker 3: tonies and loonies. Yeah, that's crazy, one dollar dollar coin.
Speaker 3: What's the real name for it, looney tony?
Speaker 1: Are you so that's a slang?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: It's a wait we are you supposed to be throwing
Speaker 1: on stage?
Speaker 3: Or like five dollar bills? We have five dollar bills?
Speaker 3: T do Yeah? We have five Ah. That's high as fun,
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. So I'm throwing Louise and then
Speaker 3: the secreity guard picked my ass up and took me
Speaker 3: out the clip and I was like, all right, but
Speaker 3: that's crazy.
Speaker 1: You could have gave a girl finals No, it ain't.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, I had twenty dollars for the night,
Speaker 1: so that means you had about four good yes, man,
Speaker 1: be terrible to just throw one. That sounds crazy.
Speaker 2: I realized recently when I was at the stre club.
Speaker 3: I went.
Speaker 2: I was at Soho Warehouse and across the street is
Speaker 2: a strip club. I don't know what the fuck it's called,
Speaker 2: but anyway, I was bored and I was like, fuck it,
Speaker 2: let's keep the night going.
Speaker 1: So I saw a guy.
Speaker 2: Throwing fives and I was throwing ones, and I was like, damn, bro,
Speaker 2: Like I see how people get into bottle wars brain
Speaker 2: because I was like, oh, you want to fuck with
Speaker 2: me like this. First of all, I'm already the cute
Speaker 2: one at the stage, so the bitch is coming to
Speaker 2: me anyway, let's be honest, and.
Speaker 1: Now you got to throw the fives to try to
Speaker 1: take the attention for me.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, damn, it is crazy how strip club
Speaker 2: culture for Americans makes you almost compete. Yeah, but what
Speaker 2: I do enjoy about the strip club, especially on a date,
Speaker 2: is just kind of like chatting about the girls with
Speaker 2: someone having the sexy dance. But I also love burlesque
Speaker 2: shows and things like that, Like I love being entertained
Speaker 2: by sexuality and you just try it, it'd be fun.
Speaker 3: I would go if it was like a date or
Speaker 3: something like that. But like if me and the homies
Speaker 3: are like, oh it's hit the strip club, I'm like,
Speaker 3: I ride, just go to bed.
Speaker 1: Are you on the apps?
Speaker 3: Like what apps? Like day and aps? I recently got
Speaker 3: a hinge, but I was because of a brand.
Speaker 1: New though I also tired we got to get.
Speaker 3: No look because I went on a dating at one
Speaker 3: time and the first swipe I dated the girl for
Speaker 3: like four years, So I was like I already caught
Speaker 3: a w off of a daying app like happen again? Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm like I'm good now, you know, And now I'm
Speaker 3: in a position where like people kind of already know
Speaker 3: who I am. So it's like going on a dating
Speaker 3: app just it's like, well, you at least know they
Speaker 3: like you. If they well a lot of it, it's
Speaker 3: like them just being like I loved you on the
Speaker 3: show or whatever, like oh, they don't really want to
Speaker 3: they don't really want to go out on dates with you.
Speaker 3: They want to go on dates. But it's like it's
Speaker 3: weird now because now people feel like they know me
Speaker 3: in a sense ah, because like there's something about like
Speaker 3: a dating show as opposed to just like being like
Speaker 3: an online personality where people feel like they know you
Speaker 3: and how you date trust me?
Speaker 1: We know ye yeah on Hinge.
Speaker 2: You can send a message before someone accepts you and literally, oh,
Speaker 2: I hate because my name is Gila and it's Gila on.
Speaker 1: Hinge and I hain't even be like, oh weeezy.
Speaker 2: But then at the same time, I'd be a liar
Speaker 2: if I said, like, I've talked about a few experiences
Speaker 2: where I've been on dates and dudes whack like they
Speaker 2: have no idea that I have a podcast, and then
Speaker 2: I find out they don't do know and that shit
Speaker 2: really bothers me.
Speaker 1: I hate that.
Speaker 3: So what do you do?
Speaker 2: What is an appropriate way for I don't let's say
Speaker 2: I'm meet you in a bar. I've seen perfect match.
Speaker 2: But also at the same time, it's like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: you know, I don't want to fuck the dom Gabrielle.
Speaker 1: I just think those guys hot.
Speaker 2: How does someone approach you and make you feel comfortable,
Speaker 2: even if they could be a fan of your work,
Speaker 2: I don't, or you just want them to not have
Speaker 2: a Netflix account.
Speaker 3: No, that's happened to me too, where people try to
Speaker 3: act like you know what I mean, they've never seen
Speaker 3: the show, and then I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I did not know who you were. Yeah, so I
Speaker 1: watched Netflix, but I watched the shows. I'm like a
Speaker 1: Bravo Housewives person, not into any of the dating. What
Speaker 1: else is it? Ultimatum? Love it blind? Love is blind
Speaker 1: to go out the handle? And what is yours?
Speaker 3: Match?
Speaker 1: So I thought someone was coming in with a wheelchair today,
Speaker 1: but she had sent me your page and she was like,
Speaker 1: you haven't seen them on TikTok. I was like, oh, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I didn't say TikTok. I don't have TikTok oh. But
Speaker 1: the crime video, I mean, I guess you're a meme.
Speaker 3: I was like, no, you for a good week, yeah,
Speaker 3: especially in La when it was like raining a lot,
Speaker 3: because I said, I asked, why was it raining? When
Speaker 3: I was crying?
Speaker 2: So wait, I do want to know too, though, like
Speaker 2: what was that period of time, Like there was a
Speaker 2: point where I actually felt bad for you a little
Speaker 2: bit and I didn't even know you. I was like,
Speaker 2: they have I'm almost tired of seeing his ass Wait,
Speaker 2: wait is crazy?
Speaker 1: Do you want to answer back? So, most women, you believe,
Speaker 1: do know who you are, even though there may be
Speaker 1: something that don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a lot of them do.
Speaker 1: Would you would you continue dating someone or entertaining someone
Speaker 1: who does know who you are or is a fan
Speaker 1: or are you against that?
Speaker 3: No, it's just like the authenticity of it, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean and kind of pick up if someone's
Speaker 3: being actually genuine, if they fuck with you or not,
Speaker 3: or like just kind of in it just to like say,
Speaker 3: like because there is like I've been on a lot
Speaker 3: of lunching relationships and only recently I've been single. So
Speaker 3: now I'm kind of seeing how people perceive me, especially
Speaker 3: being online. What do you mean by that? Like I
Speaker 3: never thought I was like attracted, Like I always like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'm like six out of ten solid, you know, And
Speaker 3: now it's like being lil Like it's like, Okay, there's
Speaker 3: a lot of gay, a lot of attention from women.
Speaker 2: Did you have uglyugly the ugly duckling phase?
Speaker 3: I have an ugly duckling phase. I don't think I
Speaker 3: was ever like maybe I was, I don't know, Like
Speaker 3: I'll shake I show you pictures when I was a kid.
Speaker 3: But I've always been in relationships, so I've always been
Speaker 3: loyal and I never kind of like I'm like a
Speaker 3: golden retriever, like if I'm with you, like I'm on
Speaker 3: ride or die, like I'm I'm with you, like I
Speaker 3: don't look anywhere else. And now that I've been single,
Speaker 3: I see like kind of like you know, the outside
Speaker 3: world out they perceiving me stuff like that, And I
Speaker 3: think there is a sort of thing of like, because
Speaker 3: I don't just be out here fucking I think there
Speaker 3: is like a kind of like a trophy of like
Speaker 3: kind of fucking damb a little bit whenever I talk
Speaker 3: to a woman.
Speaker 1: I think there's a trophy of fucking anyone that's popular. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think there's like yeah, I think that What's I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 2: We're in this really weird era of our lives where
Speaker 2: influencers are famous. No shade, you run a TV show, though,
Speaker 2: but like influencers are famous. Like literally, I was at
Speaker 2: a coffee shop and everybody's bugging out about.
Speaker 1: The little white girl. I'm like, what the fuck is
Speaker 1: going on?
Speaker 2: And they're like, oh my go, I'm getting in there TikTok,
Speaker 2: like it's a I don't understand even TikTok fame, right, Yeah,
Speaker 2: So I think that it kind of depends you live
Speaker 2: in LA. That's also a fucking weird place. Like I
Speaker 2: think Mandy somebody we were laughing at about them being
Speaker 2: a boer.
Speaker 1: Literally, I was leaving a club and.
Speaker 2: He tapped me when I was getting in the car
Speaker 2: and I was like, don't you do a podcast?
Speaker 1: Da da da? Walk me back in the club and
Speaker 1: gave me a bottle.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's not because I was hot,
Speaker 2: Like okay, thank you. But things are you know, super cloudy,
Speaker 2: And I do think that dating can be a scary
Speaker 2: place for that too. Like I've had men want to
Speaker 2: date me for access to things and you know, or
Speaker 2: even like I have I feel like I have a
Speaker 2: type and a lot of them are introverted or writers
Speaker 2: are working.
Speaker 1: Tech and like they'd be asking me for a little plug.
Speaker 2: So it's a it's a weird time, but I do
Speaker 2: think we can find someone genuine throughout that. A lot
Speaker 2: of my famous friends I were fans. That's their work,
Speaker 2: and I say it, you.
Speaker 3: Know, yeah, like I've gone on dates with like like
Speaker 3: a girl was like, oh, let's go, let's go for dinner.
Speaker 3: And she's like telling me about how she just went
Speaker 3: through a break up. She just I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: so you just wanted to go out with me just
Speaker 3: to kind of make them jealous be like oh, And
Speaker 3: she was like, yeah, do you mind if I post
Speaker 3: picture on Instagram? I'm like what, I'm like, yeah, go ahead?
Speaker 1: Oh bit, you better pray for that motherfucker food? Did
Speaker 1: she pray for the meal? That's crazy? Can I take
Speaker 1: a picture to make my ex jealousy?
Speaker 3: It was? I was like, that's tack. That was crazy
Speaker 3: to me. But I was like, I'll go ahead, It's fine.
Speaker 1: You said go ahead, yes, and then still paid for
Speaker 1: the meal. I would have made some Wow.
Speaker 2: What was the question I was going to ask about? Oh,
Speaker 2: have you sucked anybody you're a van of yet?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, good for you. Yeah, don't say the name.
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask that cloud bro me too too.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But he wasn't a fan of me. I was a
Speaker 1: fan of h Actually, I.
Speaker 2: Feel like, okay, okay, the only person that I really
Speaker 2: want to sleep with, and I would like I can't
Speaker 2: even do Like if I saw him, I would never speak.
Speaker 2: But I have like one real crush Skepta, I feel
Speaker 2: like consistently fine. There's not a lot of like super
Speaker 2: handsome rappers, and if there are, they're two pretty.
Speaker 1: It's like asap Skepta and who else for me? Has
Speaker 1: met the man Jason Momoa and right now burna boy,
Speaker 1: My god, that man is fun. So I got my
Speaker 1: and with with Khalifa is still in there.
Speaker 2: Okay, who are yours celebrity crushes?
Speaker 3: Uh? Say Zoe Kravitz, Zoe Kravitz, Hally Williams from Paramore.
Speaker 1: Since I was a kid, Hailey from Paramore is not
Speaker 1: what I was ready to hear, but like.
Speaker 3: Okay, and then oh selfishly, it's a tie between like
Speaker 3: Glorilla or Sweetie.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know how to. I don't see how
Speaker 1: that's it's so different.
Speaker 3: Well like I don't know. There's something about Gloreala that
Speaker 3: I'm just like I would love just to like do
Speaker 3: you like the voice?
Speaker 1: Like the DP like like a.
Speaker 3: Woman that's like maybe she'll gumbup me at some point.
Speaker 1: It's not.
Speaker 3: Like, hey, you want to.
Speaker 1: You might literally be the male version of Weezy. It's bad,
Speaker 1: m h.
Speaker 2: We can go look for him together, Okay, we want
Speaker 2: your sex tip. This is our harder where you got
Speaker 2: to give us a sex tip. I was gonna say
Speaker 2: dating tip, but now we want the sex tip. So
Speaker 2: it could be something you like done to you, something
Speaker 2: you do well during.
Speaker 3: Sex, sex tip.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm mmmm. What's your favorite thing to do in bed?
Speaker 3: My favorite thing to do is Okay, are you good
Speaker 3: at it? Yeah? But I'm good at it because I
Speaker 3: take the ego out of sex.
Speaker 1: You take the ego out of sex, taking.
Speaker 3: Out of sex, And what I mean by that is
Speaker 3: like I like having sex with someone once they're like
Speaker 3: comfortable with me, and like I don't really like one
Speaker 3: nice stands like a lot of my relationships like well,
Speaker 3: wait a month and then we'll have sex, just because
Speaker 3: I like when you have sex the first time is
Speaker 3: like there's a lot of ego, and I feel like
Speaker 3: the women sometimes don't feel comfortable like telling you what
Speaker 3: they want, and I understand every woman's body is different.
Speaker 3: So I like getting to the point of sex when
Speaker 3: it's like, tell me what you want me to do.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna if you want to bring toys in
Speaker 3: the ship, you want to like pull my hair and
Speaker 3: pull me a certain way. When I mean your pussy,
Speaker 3: like you know what I mean? Like taking you want
Speaker 3: to talk through all of that first, or talk me
Speaker 3: through it as I'm doing it, Like, don't be shy
Speaker 3: or nervous, like be comfortable with me, be vulnerable. Tell
Speaker 3: me how you want me to pleasure you, because that's
Speaker 3: gonna get me off? Is you being pleasured me? Pleasure
Speaker 3: and you gets me off?
Speaker 1: But do you like being okay, it's getting my hair.
Speaker 1: I feel like the room.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm gonna just tell you what I read
Speaker 2: from that, the fact that pull my hair came out
Speaker 2: and tell me what to do?
Speaker 1: Do you like being dominated? A little bit?
Speaker 3: Dumb? I don't like being I'm not saying I like
Speaker 3: being dominated, but like I want I like, I like
Speaker 3: a woman feeling comfortable taking control in the situation. Like
Speaker 3: I like a woman being comfortable in that.
Speaker 1: Are you laughing? Dy? Why are you laughing?
Speaker 2: No matter what you say, you know you feel like
Speaker 2: listening to somebody I was with my homeboys, Okay, I
Speaker 2: like that taking the ego out of the bedroom.
Speaker 3: Like, let's like tip, like I want you to be
Speaker 3: comfortable if you want to take control a certain point
Speaker 3: to be comfortable and feel vulnerable doing that, tell me
Speaker 3: what to do and just like have fun with it
Speaker 3: because I feel like sex is like it's silly, like
Speaker 3: it's fucking google.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 2: I love laughing during Yeah, that to me is something
Speaker 2: like the best sex you have. I remember when it
Speaker 2: was my uh this was an Orlando and I was
Speaker 2: fucking one of the hood niggas. And remember when I
Speaker 2: had my ankle bracelet. Oh Jesus, you going way back, okay.
Speaker 2: So I didn't like do anything bad. I was just
Speaker 2: I had a suspended license, so I was out on
Speaker 2: bond and they gave me this GPS bracelet and I
Speaker 2: was so embarrassed because it's Orlando, so it's hella high.
Speaker 1: I can't do nothing.
Speaker 2: So there was this one hood ass nigga I used
Speaker 2: to fuck, and I was like, he won't be bothered
Speaker 2: at all.
Speaker 1: So I go to his house. I fuck him.
Speaker 2: It's not a house arrest bracelet, right, they just want
Speaker 2: to make sure you don't need the state. So I
Speaker 2: was so embarrassed to tell him I wore a long
Speaker 2: dress and I was like, listen, I got an ankle bracelet.
Speaker 1: And he's like okay.
Speaker 2: So he starts fucking me and He's like holding it
Speaker 2: up because it shifts on your leg. I'm like, how
Speaker 2: do you know how to do this? You like, oh,
Speaker 2: all the holes on house for wrestling, and then in
Speaker 2: the morning your bracelet has to be charged. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I don't have my charger for my leg,
Speaker 2: and the fucking police started talking to me through the leg.
Speaker 2: They're like, oh, you have ten percent battery, you gotta
Speaker 2: go charge it.
Speaker 1: Then he was like, damn, you got the motherfucker Feds
Speaker 1: in my house.
Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, that's before I leave Czy.
Speaker 2: That was probably one of the funniest times that I
Speaker 2: have said. But I can't nut it's real not you
Speaker 2: brought the fist that I may have what he was
Speaker 2: the dealer.
Speaker 1: That's how I know.
Speaker 2: Anyway, let's get into our horrible decision. This is all
Speaker 2: about being an emo. Ho you actually have been one lately.
Speaker 1: I am so I'm quite emotional now join the club.
Speaker 1: I have gotten into my emotions, but I don't like crying.
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, like, literally, when I was crying coming
Speaker 1: going to the airport, I was literally like, God, damn,
Speaker 1: bit you weak. I literally was talking to myself. I
Speaker 1: actually hate crying. I will literally like talk to myself,
Speaker 1: dry that shit up real quick. Y'all have seen me
Speaker 1: do it on the podcast. I fucking hate crying. I'll
Speaker 1: dry myself up and get right into it. Like I
Speaker 1: do not like it. It makes me uncomfortable. So shout
Speaker 1: out to y'all for loving to cry.
Speaker 2: Well, the reason I had called myself an emo hoe
Speaker 2: is because even though I'm hello emotional emotional, I'm like
Speaker 2: the type that, even if I did sleep with someone
Speaker 2: too fast, I wanted to be like super in I
Speaker 2: want to watch TV after, I want to do this
Speaker 2: that I want to keep breakfast because I'm like just
Speaker 2: a little more emotional in that aspect as someone that's
Speaker 2: clearly emo.
Speaker 1: No shade.
Speaker 2: Now that you're single, have you had a whole face
Speaker 2: tell us about like some of your ruthless moments?
Speaker 3: Have I had a hope? Yeah? Definitely. I mean I
Speaker 3: have like whole phase every time I'm single.
Speaker 2: I have no you're fucking through the heartbreak not.
Speaker 3: Even a heart I just have no problem fucking Okay,
Speaker 3: Like I like fucking I don't. I don't. I don't
Speaker 3: necessarily like like giving people like my love, like in
Speaker 3: terms of like dating like, I'm very selective in that aspect.
Speaker 1: When are you triggered to then be like, oh I
Speaker 1: really like this woman, let me give her more. Like
Speaker 1: if you're cool casually fucking, you know, while you're single,
Speaker 1: what makes you actually turn the trigger to be like,
Speaker 1: oh nope, I want to give her a little bit
Speaker 1: more of me.
Speaker 3: There's like that, there's like that spar there's like that
Speaker 3: little like It's like when I see somebody and they
Speaker 3: like intrigue me, then it's like, okay, I want you
Speaker 3: let me. It's hard to describe. You know, when someone
Speaker 3: enters a room and they don't want to be noticed, right,
Speaker 3: but they have they just take control of the room,
Speaker 3: like that type of energy. Okay, when I see that
Speaker 3: type of energy, it's like, okay, you cantrigue me. I
Speaker 3: want to get to know you more. I want to
Speaker 3: take you out and I want to explore that a
Speaker 3: little further. So but that's very rare. But in terms
Speaker 3: of like fucking, it's like whatever, Like if it happens,
Speaker 3: it happens.
Speaker 2: Do you find I think a lot of women have
Speaker 2: had issues. Mandy and I were talking about it a
Speaker 2: few weeks ago on an episode where they think maybe
Speaker 2: because a man is giving them a certain amount of
Speaker 2: tension that they're more important and we have to learn
Speaker 2: how to kind of balance that. Would you say that
Speaker 2: because you're a nice guy, you've maybe confused some women
Speaker 2: in what their relationship is with you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent. A lot of times I think
Speaker 3: it's like, what.
Speaker 2: Kind of things do you think you do that women
Speaker 2: mistake for oh my god, he loves.
Speaker 3: Me, and you're just like, it's just like I just
Speaker 3: like listening and paying attention.
Speaker 1: It's like, bitches be basic listening. You're not just paying
Speaker 1: attention at all. But they're like I want them like
Speaker 1: that is bro. Bitches are so simple though, It's so true.
Speaker 1: Bitches is me? Wait, no, bitches is me.
Speaker 2: Don't let a nigga call me and be like tell
Speaker 2: me about work.
Speaker 1: I'll be like, I hate And now you think he
Speaker 1: loved you because he listened. That's crazy, Danny, since you've
Speaker 1: been single, do you see that?
Speaker 2: Because Danny is recently divorced, do you see.
Speaker 1: That like you kind of got to you only gotta
Speaker 1: do the beer minimal.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have after like two or three little vibes.
Speaker 1: You gotta like two three little vibes. Yeah, what's the vibe?
Speaker 1: What you giving? What's the vibe? Like, what's the vibe
Speaker 1: to where they then they start hanging out for a
Speaker 1: little bit.
Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta like reset.
Speaker 1: You gotta go not ghost, but just like know, but
Speaker 1: you gotta pull you gotta.
Speaker 3: Pull down, and you gotta be like really open with
Speaker 3: like communication in terms like hey, bitch, you like me
Speaker 3: too much, I'm.
Speaker 1: Gonna go fuck my other bitch quick and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: come back to you in a couple of weeks because
Speaker 1: you need a cool day. I want to hear from
Speaker 1: both of y'all. How do you know a girl likes
Speaker 1: you too much? Who doesn't like you to the effect
Speaker 1: that you like them not too much, just that y'all
Speaker 1: ain't on the same page and you realize, Okay, likes
Speaker 1: you more than you like, likes you more than you
Speaker 1: like her.
Speaker 3: I do I know, Yeah, I don't know. It's like
Speaker 3: when the when it starts turning into like I don't know,
Speaker 3: I don't even know. It's just like that energy. It's
Speaker 3: like like she just.
Speaker 1: Always Danny help them out because you shut your head.
Speaker 5: It's the frequency in which you follow up, like some
Speaker 5: women know. It is what it is, and it's like,
Speaker 5: it's not an immediate follow up. But if we do
Speaker 5: something on Monday and you got.
Speaker 1: The good night text Monday night, good morning text Tuesday mornings,
Speaker 1: it's like, what you're doing? How work midday?
Speaker 5: We just spent twelve hours together. But then the next
Speaker 5: day you're following up. It's like, ain't no updates.
Speaker 1: I just said, okay, let me tell you what I
Speaker 1: did that let me know.
Speaker 2: I know I was doing too much. Yesterday when I
Speaker 2: was shopping, I sent him my outfit.
Speaker 1: And I was like, should I get this?
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh God, I wanted to undsend
Speaker 2: it so bad, and I was like why am I
Speaker 2: doing this?
Speaker 1: Like why am I asking the guy for approval?
Speaker 2: Like that's boyfriend ship and I'm trying to snap out
Speaker 2: of just being that girl.
Speaker 3: See, that's not boyfriendship to me, that's ship. That's like
Speaker 3: I can help you with that ship. No, I can
Speaker 3: help you to me.
Speaker 1: To me, no, that's boyfriendship. My man, my man. Well,
Speaker 1: because now if if like you're giving advice or telling
Speaker 1: me what you think I should wear or what mail
Speaker 1: color I should get at the salon, that's the first
Speaker 1: one should I get my toes. That's when a woman
Speaker 1: really like you, because now she wants you to start
Speaker 1: picking the things and she's gonna get the color that
Speaker 1: you say, and now she's doing it for you.
Speaker 3: Now, I got like a lot of my friends are
Speaker 3: a woman, so like they do, and I do a
Speaker 3: melily dress really well and shit good stuff, so they
Speaker 3: do ask me for.
Speaker 2: When someone's fucking you is different and it's the approval thing, right,
Speaker 2: that's very like that gives you your own no punk,
Speaker 2: dumb suff type of vibe when you're like, tell me
Speaker 2: what you like and I'm gonna then listen. Especially the
Speaker 2: toenail color shit, that's your gateway drug into liking somebody
Speaker 2: too much. What color should I get?
Speaker 1: Name? Ah? That's why when men tell me they want
Speaker 1: me to switch it up too fucking bad nigga.
Speaker 3: This is it.
Speaker 1: But then again, I.
Speaker 2: Feel like if I was dating someone that did nails
Speaker 2: like you, I'd be like, Okay, i'll do black and white,
Speaker 2: but i'll do design on it.
Speaker 3: That's all.
Speaker 1: Like I'm going to try to stay true to myself.
Speaker 1: That's right. I mean, clearly, when I liked the nigga
Speaker 1: I was having wife nails. Clearly, I'm back single. You're
Speaker 1: gonna get these designs and these x l's. Okay.
Speaker 2: Now, when you start liking someone too much, do you
Speaker 2: and how long do you wait before you kind of
Speaker 2: dispel those emotions? Do you actually try to date someone
Speaker 2: else so you can calment down like a lot of
Speaker 2: people do that.
Speaker 3: No, if I like, if I'm into I like.
Speaker 1: You, you're one hundred percent like once you like somebody.
Speaker 3: If I like you like, I'm like, yeah, we saw it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm like, let's go horseback riding, Let's go Disneyland, let's
Speaker 3: go here.
Speaker 1: I'll take you.
Speaker 3: I'll take your where you want to, oh, like, oh,
Speaker 3: whatever you want to do?
Speaker 1: If I like you, It's like, so, if you like her,
Speaker 1: are you immediately asking for exclusivity? Are you asking her
Speaker 1: to be your girlfriend? How long does it take for
Speaker 1: you to eventually make that person your person?
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say like, I'm not like your mind, that's
Speaker 3: not me. I'm just I just put one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: Like I'm taking this condom off though, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm one hundred Well, wow, I haven't said
Speaker 3: they can't.
Speaker 1: Now now what happens? Have you liked a woman more
Speaker 1: than she's liked you, And do you pick up on
Speaker 1: the fact that maybe she not that into you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's happened before recently, But I feel like it's because,
Speaker 3: like I'm very much like I'm an adult with Shiit Like,
Speaker 3: I'm not like I'm not going to play games. If
Speaker 3: I like you, I'm gonna let you know I like you.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna my actions are gonna speak louder than my words.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna cancer.
Speaker 1: Okay. Do I think people just be asking that question? Now? Now?
Speaker 1: What he's what that means? I'm a water so we'd
Speaker 1: be crying. Oh that's okause water side tears.
Speaker 3: I got it.
Speaker 1: I see the correlation. I can't seeing this. Motherfucker. Stars
Speaker 1: and moons ship. Yeah, don't even literally use it to
Speaker 1: your advanced What sign are you? And then someone says it, bitch,
Speaker 1: Now I'd be lying the holes. I'd be like gym, No,
Speaker 1: They'd be like I knew it. No, bitch, I ain't
Speaker 1: even that hole. Now what lying ass? Go ahead? If
Speaker 1: you live, you're a cancer? Okay? Are you lying about cancer?
Speaker 1: Mandy's ex? Cancer? Sorry ahead? Sorry?
Speaker 2: Sorry?
Speaker 1: I wonder if he said he went through chemo. Maybe
Speaker 1: that's why he says he's maybe no bitch, I saw
Speaker 1: the hair receiding in them old pictures. It was it
Speaker 1: was the hair cancer. It wasn't cancer. Bro Okay, you
Speaker 1: see how big that you're making me? Sorry? Oh sorry?
Speaker 2: Has a woman ever made you feel embarrassed for sharing
Speaker 2: your feelings?
Speaker 3: Embarrassed?
Speaker 1: Like if you started crying did a bit? Did a
Speaker 1: bitch say man? Man? Oh johdam goddamn tears, that's your face.
Speaker 3: Maybe you are data. Nah yeah, i'd be like damn.
Speaker 1: Laura to be like man, tighten up?
Speaker 3: No? Yeah? Yeah.
Speaker 1: Has a woman told you like or made you feel
Speaker 1: bad for crying or showing your emotions?
Speaker 3: Nah? Maybe not to my face, but like I feel
Speaker 3: like also like I don't like I'm not crying over
Speaker 3: like like prevo, like petty ship, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: It's like if I'm crying over something, it's like something
Speaker 3: that's like means a lot to me, like weighing heavy
Speaker 3: in my chest.
Speaker 2: Have you always been this type of man that is
Speaker 2: able to be vulnerable or do you think it you
Speaker 2: tapped into it at some point like you've always been
Speaker 2: like this?
Speaker 3: Not always it like it was very in my last
Speaker 3: relationship started doing like therapy, Like she introduced me a therapy,
Speaker 3: so going to therapy and that kind of opened me up.
Speaker 1: And once they talk to the lady, that's it light
Speaker 1: the lady. Now, what about a type? Do you have
Speaker 1: a type?
Speaker 2: Generally speaking? And if so, give me not looks, but
Speaker 2: more like personality personality I say, like alternative, maybe like more.
Speaker 3: Outgoing, just kind of balance me out because I tend
Speaker 3: to be a little bit more introverted, like outgoing alternative.
Speaker 1: Have you all gone on a date yet?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Who are you talking to right now? A lot
Speaker 3: of people as long as you Oh she got like
Speaker 3: a roster.
Speaker 2: Well, I told many that was my lie, because I'm
Speaker 2: tired of fucking letting someone think that they're important.
Speaker 3: I'm not.
Speaker 2: I'm talking to I literally lied about a date the
Speaker 2: other day.
Speaker 1: What are you up to going to dinner? I was
Speaker 1: literally on the couching and popcorn and the dog.
Speaker 2: I asked that because as someone that is EMO, I've
Speaker 2: always wondered if I should be dating a certain personality
Speaker 2: type that can balance it and help, because if I'm dating.
Speaker 1: Someone that is just as vulnerable as me, it was
Speaker 1: just gonna be like y'all, could cry together.
Speaker 2: That's not good, is it?
Speaker 1: I don't know?
Speaker 3: But my last was like vulnerable and like we like
Speaker 3: it was the most mature relationship ever, Like we were
Speaker 3: so open with our emotions and communicating and like even
Speaker 3: when we broke up, it was like the most mature
Speaker 3: shit ever. I just think we're going different directions and
Speaker 3: like I totally agree. I hope you're happy, Like if
Speaker 3: you ever want to talk aboulways here for you. It
Speaker 3: was like the most maturely ever been.
Speaker 2: I'll be saying lying, I'd be like, I hope you
Speaker 2: don't get no good right, nobody's gonna suck your dick?
Speaker 1: Like me, how was your breakup? I mean it was
Speaker 1: a marriage?
Speaker 3: Was long?
Speaker 1: Save it a long?
Speaker 3: Yeah? You can't.
Speaker 1: How long are you breaking up before you know that you're.
Speaker 5: I mean easially six to nine months?
Speaker 3: You know, it's like it's kind of a wrap.
Speaker 1: He said, And that ship was expensive, cost me money.
Speaker 5: Therapy, do all the little stuff to like double you're
Speaker 5: just regularlyship just up.
Speaker 3: But counseling on.
Speaker 1: Counseling like, oh yeah, you search because they want to
Speaker 1: make sure that you know that you really want to
Speaker 1: divorce and that you've exhausted all efforts to stay together
Speaker 1: for Yeah, I'm exhausted. That's the out of the ship.
Speaker 3: So are you talking?
Speaker 1: Yeah? He comes back to y'all about to go to Disney. Really,
Speaker 1: I'm just dating. Are you dating?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm dating same, But you're in LA for how
Speaker 3: long I leave Friday? We got a few days.
Speaker 1: I can't eat tonight or to morrow. Okay, so okay,
Speaker 1: let me get to the home. Okay, real quick, though,
Speaker 1: do you mind if she comes on the pod and
Speaker 1: shares what the date is like, because that's kind of
Speaker 1: a part of what we do in life on this
Speaker 1: podcast here we share about.
Speaker 2: No, but I would ask consent for I'm asking for
Speaker 2: the consent.
Speaker 1: Now, man, dies she share the date if y'all go out,
Speaker 1: cause she tell us if it's really good or really
Speaker 1: bad and do all the ship?
Speaker 3: Yeah, do whatever you want.
Speaker 1: He's a influencer. You're right, by the way.
Speaker 2: I've never went on a day with influencer.
Speaker 1: Literally, I'm not.
Speaker 3: Don't call me, don't be don't be called me an influencer.
Speaker 3: If you got this, there's more to me than that.
Speaker 3: If you do, there's more to me than that.
Speaker 1: It's crazy.
Speaker 3: That's what I like the influencer thing is just like
Speaker 3: an aftermath of But there's more to me than.
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 1: Can I be honest? I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm trying to think I've mixed. I talked
Speaker 2: so much about TikTok. I'm like, what would be my
Speaker 2: sellout amount of money?
Speaker 1: Like, what would they throw at me?
Speaker 2: The most I've ever been paid for a brand deal
Speaker 2: was thirty thousand dollars and that was the deal that
Speaker 2: I didn't and that was crazy.
Speaker 1: I agree with you. Now, if TikTok came to me
Speaker 1: with that, would I then be on there like here's
Speaker 1: my outfit? Yeah you would, Yeah you would. Don't let
Speaker 1: me bro imagine if we started a couple of page
Speaker 1: it'd be like all ghetto bitch. I mean, like Mammy,
Speaker 1: I love blower Lit. But here we are listening to
Speaker 1: would you do the couple? Would you do the couple's
Speaker 1: shared page thing?
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, you know much? You can get big bags?
Speaker 1: This why this why we you see He's like put
Speaker 1: both the podcasts. I can't do it. Look at the
Speaker 1: fist that we could get off, yo, get ready with us,
Speaker 1: I'm muting everything. This would be disgusting and then what
Speaker 1: one year from now and be crying with Mandy. We
Speaker 1: had a great breakup.
Speaker 3: Okay, oh, we get married. We get married.
Speaker 1: How do you know? I can tell I feel like
Speaker 1: you do this all the time. Don't stop stop it.
Speaker 1: Don't look at me. Mandy. Read the I'll read it.
Speaker 1: I need a distract. Go ahead to read it.
Speaker 2: Hey, Mandy and Weezy, I have a very interesting situation
Speaker 2: going on. I'll try to keep it short. I'm a
Speaker 2: thirty year old widow and a mother of two. Oh damn,
Speaker 2: this is sad, both of both from.
Speaker 1: My late husband. Now, she said, I don't have two
Speaker 1: baby daddies. Girl.
Speaker 2: My husband passed away when I was twenty seven. So
Speaker 2: I've been in these streets for two years. It's filthy
Speaker 2: and I hated here, just a backdoor. He was my
Speaker 2: first boyfriend ever. We met when we were twenty got
Speaker 2: married at twenty five. Always been attracted to women, and
Speaker 2: I can remember being in elementary school and having crushes
Speaker 2: on other girls. I grew up in a very small
Speaker 2: black community, so I didn't see lesbian couples or anything gay.
Speaker 1: Yes they were. They were like roommates or friends back then.
Speaker 1: For lack of a better term.
Speaker 2: So I think those feelings of me liking the same
Speaker 2: sex got suppressed. But until I went to college, all
Speaker 2: of those feelings of liking women came back into full force.
Speaker 2: I've only had sex with one woman, and I still
Speaker 2: have flashbacks to this day.
Speaker 1: It's been six years.
Speaker 2: I loved it, and the only reason I stopped is
Speaker 2: because my husband, me and my husband boyfriend at the time.
Speaker 1: Oh girl, what are you saying? Anyway?
Speaker 2: Fast forward to today, I've only dealt with men since
Speaker 2: he died, and I'm not feeling it at all.
Speaker 1: I want to start pursuing women. Don't know how.
Speaker 2: I'm a more masculine woman, so I tend to find
Speaker 2: very feminine women attractive. The one woman I did have
Speaker 2: a situation with was very aggressive with what she wanted,
Speaker 2: so she applied a lot of pressure. My question is,
Speaker 2: if I meet a woman I like and I'm attracted
Speaker 2: to one, how do I know if she likes women
Speaker 2: too and be What are some ways I can let
Speaker 2: them know that I'm interested more than just being friends.
Speaker 1: This is all you we easy? What the fuck why
Speaker 1: I told you? This is my problem? I literally asked
Speaker 1: the same question every time we have a lesbian on here, bitch,
Speaker 1: how does it work? I don't know how to get
Speaker 1: like I can. I know how to fuck bitches and
Speaker 1: sex clubs, but how does she don't meet girls? You
Speaker 1: meet girls to fuck? No, I don't. I've I fucked
Speaker 1: my friends and I fucked people at sex clubs. I
Speaker 1: don't meet. I don't meet women out that I then
Speaker 1: bring home and have sex with. I never have. I've
Speaker 1: never been on a date with a woman what not
Speaker 1: with no, not that wasn't my friend and we were fucking,
Speaker 1: or not even have a girl that you said you
Speaker 1: asked out on a date and you got their number
Speaker 1: or something.
Speaker 3: Okay, you never even like slit in like a woman's
Speaker 3: DMS or nothing.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll be flirting in the DMS like bitch, you
Speaker 1: bad girls soup flarting bad because yeah, yeah, but that's
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think they're fine. It doesn't leave
Speaker 1: out of the DMS, like, I don't know how you've
Speaker 1: the phone and then talk to them in the phone
Speaker 1: to do what a.
Speaker 2: Pussy in a bathroom and you want to tell us
Speaker 2: at a strip club that's just sex.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I don't know how to date women or
Speaker 1: how to pursue women or be more than just fucking them. Okay,
Speaker 1: how does that for you? Anyway?
Speaker 2: All you gotta do is download a dating app. Then
Speaker 2: you get your feet wet. Then if you're like, too,
Speaker 2: what's the dating app?
Speaker 1: Let me get to it. Okay, I'm not sure, because well,
Speaker 1: I think it's I think you call her it's her.
Speaker 1: But you could also do hinge and just put that
Speaker 1: you're looking for women. It Hinge allows you to put
Speaker 1: what you're into.
Speaker 2: Bumbles female focused, so you could try that. I think
Speaker 2: there's that life called her field. If you're gay, should
Speaker 2: definitely be like maybe two sex focused and a lot
Speaker 2: of those bitches be like, oh fuck my boyfriend, and
Speaker 2: like that's kind of annoying. So I think until you
Speaker 2: know maybe also I know it's been two years, maybe
Speaker 2: you want time to grieve in men, or just may
Speaker 2: not addapt to him. I'm thinking about ninety day fiance
Speaker 2: right now. There's a widow on there who keeps comparing
Speaker 2: her husband to her new man.
Speaker 1: Anyway, so I.
Speaker 2: Would say dating app because then you kind of get
Speaker 2: some experience just chatting with women, and then you can
Speaker 2: figure out what all the like lesbian shit is where
Speaker 2: you live and then you can meet new bitches from there. Also,
Speaker 2: if you have a particure lesbian type, like I know,
Speaker 2: there's queer black fem night.
Speaker 1: Maybe you want I don't know, stud's anonymous bitch.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I want lipstick lipstick night. That's what she wanted. That's right.
Speaker 2: Definitely try the dating apps because then you get your
Speaker 2: feet wet. Maybe you're pussy too. Other than that in person,
Speaker 2: I don't really know. I don't really You don't have
Speaker 2: to hit on girls.
Speaker 1: You just get flying and they get flying back. What
Speaker 1: I still like, send that bitch of drink if you
Speaker 1: out in public, A bitch bitch is still love drinks.
Speaker 1: That's all I know. But then I don't know, really
Speaker 1: know how to go past that. Honestly, applying pressure for women,
Speaker 1: you just gotta tell them they're hot. That's all I do.
Speaker 1: I haven't really been you see. You see how easy
Speaker 1: women are. You just got to tell them they're hot.
Speaker 2: And that's crazy girl way easy way.
Speaker 1: Women are like so simple, my god. What I got
Speaker 1: to do is listen and tell them they look hot
Speaker 1: and then you can fuck. That's it. Actually, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: That is crazy. We were planning on doing well.
Speaker 2: I mean I was planning on doing I want to
Speaker 2: do like Hottie of the Week or some shit. So
Speaker 2: if you're cool with posting your pictures, send us your
Speaker 2: photo where you live and your age and we'll just
Speaker 2: have people side in your DS.
Speaker 3: There you go.
Speaker 1: You're welcome.
Speaker 3: What it's good customer service.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Now you're a man. But do you have
Speaker 1: any advice on how to meet women in certain places?
Speaker 1: Like what has worked the best for you in terms
Speaker 1: of I can maybe give approaching in public in real life?
Speaker 2: Sorry, advice? So that ship is always hard, and.
Speaker 1: That one's harder than online, like.
Speaker 3: The DAMS is easy for me. It's like always like
Speaker 3: it's like eye contact. It's like if I get like
Speaker 3: if I get one, it's like okay. And if I
Speaker 3: get two confirmation and then I just head over, I'm like,
Speaker 3: so up.
Speaker 1: You just say sup. Well, I don't say what's up,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, what's your what's your pickup line?
Speaker 3: I don't have. I don't really have pickup line.
Speaker 1: But you have a thing you do.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a drink, maybe it's something to break the ice.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like I love you, Oh my god,
Speaker 3: I love you.
Speaker 1: Anyhow is it working for.
Speaker 2: You in these I can't what are you getting pussy
Speaker 2: thrown at you because you're doing stand ups.
Speaker 1: He's out here clearly love bombing. Red flag red flag.
Speaker 2: No, because he has an easy end. When they could
Speaker 2: just girls can come up to him because it'd be like, oh,
Speaker 2: I liked your set, And I feel like women can
Speaker 2: come up to you because they'd be like, oh I
Speaker 2: like your outfit or I liked you on that show.
Speaker 2: But there's always something they could say. Yeah, that's why
Speaker 2: being around like there has to be a little thing
Speaker 2: you're doing with my dog. Dudes talk to me all
Speaker 2: the time. Okay, even if they don't like dog, they
Speaker 2: just find something to say.
Speaker 3: Dog is easy, and yeah, that's why I love you
Speaker 3: also works. It works you.
Speaker 1: Love bombing does not work, ladies, it's.
Speaker 3: Not love bombing.
Speaker 1: But now you're just lying off the gate. It just
Speaker 1: makes them laugh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like I love you.
Speaker 1: Now, it will never work for you to say it
Speaker 1: to me. It won't ever mean anything. That's a won't work.
Speaker 1: You will fuck me anyways. But any man approach a
Speaker 1: woman like that, I think it's a red flag and
Speaker 1: I wouldn't that wouldn't work.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think it's like the energy you put
Speaker 3: into it for the girls that works. No. I'm just
Speaker 3: saying like you could pick up on the energy. It's
Speaker 3: like if if you're looking at me right and you
Speaker 3: give me an eye contact couple of times we're out
Speaker 3: of the bar or whatever like that, and I walk
Speaker 3: past you, love you whatever.
Speaker 1: And do you ever have someone say love you too?
Speaker 3: Yeah? And then usually love you too, and it's like
Speaker 3: all right, and then we just start the conversation from there.
Speaker 3: It's not a serious like I love you and I'm
Speaker 3: going to marry you and I get that on one piece.
Speaker 1: It's like a little like I had a really I
Speaker 1: had to pick up like work on me.
Speaker 2: Recently, there was a guy talking to me and the
Speaker 2: dude that approached me wasn't my type or actually this
Speaker 2: is fucked up because he be watching the show, wasn't
Speaker 2: even really somebody I want to go on a date with.
Speaker 2: But the guy talking to me, I was like, you
Speaker 2: know when you can see someone won even look at
Speaker 2: you and their heads down. He came over to me
Speaker 2: and was like, babe, you ready, and like did this
Speaker 2: whole like role play shit with me? And like literally
Speaker 2: I walked to let him walk me to my car,
Speaker 2: like because he was just smooth with it and like
Speaker 2: I was talking to me on the way out and
Speaker 2: didn't break character, Like I didn't say anything like oh
Speaker 2: my god, thank you for saving me.
Speaker 1: He was just like, what are we making for dinner tomorrow? Babe?
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, I hate him, but I
Speaker 2: like him.
Speaker 1: I didn't text him back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like just off rip. I think we should
Speaker 3: name my daughter Ocean.
Speaker 1: I don't even want kids, so none of this ship
Speaker 1: would work my god, Okay, got you.
Speaker 2: I think we should name our daughter Ocean.
Speaker 1: Is not yea? Would it work on you? Yeah? All right?
Speaker 1: Well down, Please let all the ladies know where they
Speaker 1: can slide.
Speaker 3: Into your d m uh you saw on Instagram at
Speaker 3: Uh no, you can't.
Speaker 1: Bitch because we're going out this week. Fine, okay, get
Speaker 1: your brandy.
Speaker 3: That's what.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 3: No, if you don't sign in my DMS because uh,
Speaker 3: he said, no, I'm I'm married now, I'm married.
Speaker 1: Now, man, tell them where to fuck the No, we
Speaker 1: need these sex tell him, we need the OLG, we need.
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Speaker 3: What a podcast podcast? Dommy World. I'm actually nominated for
Speaker 3: uh Sexy's podcast hosts People Magazine.
Speaker 1: People Magazine Because you're on a show, yo?
Speaker 3: What? Okay? Wait?
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