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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glaiser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Glaser, here's Nicky Here, I am Hi, It's Nicky, It's

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Speaker 2: Nieky Glazer podcast. Welcome to the show. I'm joined in studio.

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Speaker 2: As promised on the last episode, I said she'd be here.

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Speaker 3: She is.

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Speaker 4: It's Julie Glazer.

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Speaker 5: Made it made it a second.

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Speaker 4: It was tight.

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Speaker 3: It was tight.

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Speaker 4: Okay, tell me well, I didn't even know what happened. Well,

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Speaker 4: she was on the ladder, paint ladder? What was that? No,

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Speaker 4: did Julie say she got off a paint ladder?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I just last minute was like, oh, it

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Speaker 2: would be really fun to do a podcast with mom here,

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Speaker 2: and I forgot to ask her to do it.

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Speaker 4: And so because we had a fun dinner.

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Speaker 2: Last night and there was lots of laughs, and so

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Speaker 2: then I was like, oh, yeah, let's get another hang in.

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Speaker 2: And then I was like I couldn't have her. We

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Speaker 2: did one right before this that you heard yesterday, and

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Speaker 2: then I right at the beginning of that, I was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: if you want to come by in an hour a podcast.

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Speaker 2: And so you were on a step ladder. I was

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Speaker 2: you were not supposed to be on ladders. I don't like,

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Speaker 2: I wasn't paint ladder.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, paint, I was painting. I didn't know.

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Speaker 4: And do you know that paint takes three hours long?

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Speaker 4: Three hours to dry?

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, he's not a common knowledge now.

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Speaker 2: Wait no, no, it's something we realize everyone does know

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Speaker 2: on every level, but for some reason, we all forgot

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Speaker 2: that day.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, so you were painting what.

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Speaker 3: I'm painting my bathroom, laundry room.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it is, but I'm getting it done and.

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Speaker 4: You, luckily, luckily resilient woman.

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Speaker 5: I actually, uh was finished, and I looked at my

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Speaker 5: phone and it was you saying, do you want to

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Speaker 5: do the podcast?

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I just finished a great.

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Speaker 5: Timing and I thought I can make it down there

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Speaker 5: by one o'clock. I did, but I ran upstairs and

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Speaker 5: I'm like, e J, you got to help me, and

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Speaker 5: I need these brushes cleaned out. And he's like, no,

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Speaker 5: I have a sweater on. I can't the old I

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Speaker 5: have a sweater on.

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Speaker 3: I've got the sweater.

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Speaker 5: I said, take your sweater off and put an apron on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and he is that your excuse to not have sex?

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Speaker 4: He thrown it back in your face.

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Speaker 3: Wait.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I can't sweater on.

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Speaker 2: That's been sometimes I'm like, I want to take this

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Speaker 2: this sweater.

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Speaker 4: I'm a turtleneck. I'm going to stretch it out again,

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Speaker 4: it's gonna suck up my makeup. Like can we just have.

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Speaker 2: Sex with the sweater on? And not that I've ever

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Speaker 2: had sex, but you know that wouldn't work. No, no,

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Speaker 2: but anyway.

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Speaker 5: No, he wasn't helpful at all. Yeah, he had to

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Speaker 5: have his lunch. He was like, well, got to eat

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Speaker 5: because I got to sing.

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Speaker 3: Later on this.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting ready for lunch.

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Speaker 3: He's got so many excuses.

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Speaker 4: What does that have to do with you?

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Speaker 3: It has nothing to do with me.

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Speaker 5: But he just was more concerned about his lunch and

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Speaker 5: not me getting He's.

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Speaker 4: Like, you know, it's it's wild.

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Speaker 5: And then and then he was being really sweet, saying,

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Speaker 5: do you think you want to have a cup of

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Speaker 5: soup too?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, that's not no.

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Speaker 4: He knew, he knew you had to gonew And.

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Speaker 5: Then I came out to your shore. You sure you

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Speaker 5: don't want a cup of soup?

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Speaker 2: Well, he's so proud of himself that he made soup

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Speaker 2: because when because classically, when my mom makes something, it's

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Speaker 2: like she makes these elaborate meals with like and I

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Speaker 2: never I grew up with the best dinners that a

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Speaker 2: always fruit they would for dinner.

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Speaker 4: I would go over a friend's house.

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Speaker 2: I remember Laura, I won't say her name, but went

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Speaker 2: over her house and they just had spaghetti. And I

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Speaker 2: a salad. Like what are they they're just eating for dinner?

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Speaker 2: Just spaghetti? That's not nutritious.

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Speaker 1: You have always have a fruit with dinner.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well you would have some kind of like it

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Speaker 2: would be a sweet like you are hitting all of

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Speaker 1: Or on the plate, no, on the plate like with.

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Speaker 2: Fruit, like there would just be a side of like yeah,

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Speaker 2: like so let's for example, a dinner would be like

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Speaker 2: maybe roast chicken, and then there would be green means

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Speaker 2: and then there would be uh, mashed potatoes and then

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Speaker 2: there would be like a fruit salad that she put

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's highly unusual for dinner. I feel like there's

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Speaker 1: a crunch thing.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I guess it's not, or apple sauce would be.

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Speaker 2: It's it's kind of like just having your dessert with

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Speaker 2: on like milk duds in the next room, or goobers

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Speaker 2: or like whatever, get them a TV, and then that's.

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Speaker 4: Dessert time for sweets. It's the right way to do it.

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Speaker 2: No, but we had such palaced meals. So that's so

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Speaker 2: my mom makes these elaborate meals. My dad classically, it's

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Speaker 2: just my dad is a near perfect man.

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Speaker 4: But one of his biggest.

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Speaker 2: Flaws is like he can't really give compliments about food,

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Speaker 2: and they're like a way that it's it takes a

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Speaker 3: It's got to be really really good.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and other people have to start at first.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, these are the things I've observed.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you've had other times where it's like he is

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Speaker 4: I think good he should be, because it's hard for me.

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Speaker 2: I have the same thing, where like, sometimes if I

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Speaker 2: do it, then I'll like with whole a compliment because

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Speaker 2: then if I say, I think this is subconscious right,

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Speaker 2: if I say thank you so much for this meal,

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Speaker 2: and then I am therefore reinforcing that I'm letting this

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Speaker 4: And so it makes me feel guilty.

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Speaker 2: So you almost don't give too many compliments so you

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Speaker 4: I'm not kind of a dick for always.

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Speaker 2: Making her do this every single night, So instead I'll

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Speaker 2: it is and being appreciative. But I think that's what

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Speaker 4: Just give me the fucking compliment. And then he'll come, well,

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Speaker 2: And I always go find something you like about it,

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Speaker 1: He's like, I can't find something about it. I'm wearing

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to ruin it.

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Speaker 2: I told Chris one time. I was like, I got

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why didn't you say anything? And he's like

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Speaker 4: So and I believe him. He's not a liar. So

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Speaker 2: Want me to say when I don't like what you're like?

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, find something you like about me? It

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Speaker 2: could be your teeth look great, your you have amazing

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Speaker 1: If you go, what do you think about my shirt?

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Speaker 4: And I don't say what you think about my shirt?

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Speaker 4: I don't say that. No, you know what he can say?

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Speaker 4: You are you? Look at how beautiful you are?

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Speaker 1: Okay this vague?

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Speaker 2: You look look at you? Just look at It says nothing.

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Speaker 2: Look at you could literally mean look at you looking

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Speaker 2: like shit.

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Speaker 5: But look at you might take that wrong though, you're

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Speaker 2: If you know anything about me, please God know that

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Speaker 2: I am not looking for places that people can I'm

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Speaker 2: not looking for criticisms. So like when I tell someone,

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Speaker 2: people always go, You're not gonna appreciate that if he

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Speaker 2: If he if you tell him, hey, I want you

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Speaker 2: to compliment my outfits more and then he does two

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Speaker 2: minutes later, I'll be like, no, I want it now,

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Speaker 2: like I.

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Speaker 4: Told you to do it, do it.

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Speaker 2: I'll I'm not gonna be like, you're only saying that

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Speaker 2: because I told you to say that. I'm never a

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Speaker 2: girl that does that. That's such a trap, and I

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Speaker 2: don't set up people for failure.

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Speaker 4: You're not, No, I want I do do experiments.

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Speaker 2: We've talked about this on the Girl's Chat that sometimes

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Speaker 2: women put their husbands and sometimes probably men do this

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Speaker 2: where you're like, I'm gonna test and see if he

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Speaker 2: even if I don't touch something for this song, how

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Speaker 2: long will it go without getting addressed. Let's just see

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Speaker 2: how long he can live like this and like or

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Speaker 2: just or I'm gonna.

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Speaker 4: Actually set him up. Is he gonna say anything.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna actually do my hair in a different way.

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Speaker 2: And if he doesn't say anything, then he doesn't fucking

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Speaker 2: love me and all these things. But I guess my

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Speaker 2: Yes, without making it like I am special, like you're an.

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Speaker 3: You ate them?

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Speaker 2: Anything special? I just like I I also I realized

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Speaker 7: We're lucky, specially touched by the finger of gods.

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Speaker 3: Well can people be lucky? Is that the question is?

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Speaker 4: Yes, that is what it is.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just people misconstrue luck with God loves

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Speaker 4: What the you have nothing to fucking do with that?

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Speaker 4: It's true yourself?

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Speaker 4: Doesn't mean anything to me?

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Speaker 2: Like, it doesn't mean literally anything to me, even if

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Speaker 7: No greater existence then I mean, there would be no

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Speaker 1: That would be amazing.

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Speaker 4: You hope that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: So do you, like I believe like humans turn into

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that kind of would suck if you

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Speaker 7: But if you go the thing is, if you turn

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Speaker 3: You're lucky. If you're lucky.

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Speaker 1: That's that I don't understand. I think that is lucky.

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Speaker 2: That is like on the eyelash of Taylor Swift, like

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Speaker 7: How do you the next state of being if you're

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Speaker 2: This is why I got into a huge fight with

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Speaker 2: when it comes to religion and stuff. I just know

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Speaker 2: that organized religion just to me, it's like a net

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Speaker 2: kids had to get molested, like is that worth it?

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Speaker 2: Like how much bad has this done a certain church

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Speaker 2: Zero zero zero one percent bad, then it's not good

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Speaker 7: There's no there's no organization responsible for more death than religion,

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Speaker 2: So when Carlisle was saying, like, I'm a Christian and

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Speaker 2: the last I hope you heard the last episode where

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Speaker 2: I told you how much I loved you at.

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Speaker 1: The end and how when she's in heaven and you're she.

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Speaker 4: Will she Sadden.

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Speaker 2: When we first met, she was like I told her

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Speaker 4: And she was like, oh no, this is going to

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Speaker 2: Like she was like, oh no no, And I was like,

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Speaker 2: if you vote a certain way or something, I just

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Speaker 4: But like I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're very smart, and so I don't

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Speaker 2: But I wouldn't ever deny someone she's she grew up Christian.

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Speaker 2: I'm never gonna be like, that's stupid that you grew

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Speaker 4: But to identify as a Christian animal, I said.

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Speaker 6: Oh, babe about it? Does she like, I mean, like

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Speaker 6: I hear Christian, and I know there's great Christians, but

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Speaker 4: But that's why I was trying to find out what

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Speaker 4: you should be.

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Speaker 2: Then you're Buddhist, then you're then you're I guess you

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Speaker 4: Do you have a god?

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Speaker 2: Jewish people, I believe in God.

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Speaker 4: It's Yahweh that doesn't have a god.

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Speaker 7: There is the soups mostly that brings me the most comfort.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's the thing is she was like.

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Speaker 1: Religion the Jewish soup.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna like it. I'm gonna say like it.

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Speaker 2: If it's not Jewish, that's dad at a deli.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm not Gonnas. You can't say Jews. It's the new thing, like,

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Speaker 4: I just don't.

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Speaker 2: I think I heard Michael ram point No no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: you're learning, I think, And I'm as a non Jewish person.

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Speaker 2: I think, I think John Jewish people have to be

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Speaker 4: It's not ours. How do you guys feel?

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Speaker 3: What do you think?

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Speaker 4: It depends on the context, like anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it just like it gives you know what

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Speaker 2: it does. I understand the context and some people use

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Speaker 7: No, Luis, you have that great joke about Jews where

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Speaker 7: the same as the regular term.

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Speaker 4: Exactly.

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Speaker 7: All you have to do is say you could say,

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Speaker 7: oh he's a Jew, he's a Jew, it's fine, or

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Speaker 7: you could say he's a Jew, and all it is

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Speaker 7: you with a little stank.

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Speaker 4: Why I think I don't like it.

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Speaker 6: You can't win, Nikki, we can't. We have to keep

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Speaker 2: it a positive thing, is like you're not you're making

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00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,159
Speaker 2: it so they can't say it. So only people that

448
00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,000
Speaker 2: say it positively are saying it.

449
00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,760
Speaker 6: But but then it's like a negative thing about Jews

450
00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:22,919
Speaker 6: because then we're like you know, like sensory people or

451
00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,119
Speaker 6: like telling them how to speak or whatever.

452
00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:25,240
Speaker 3: You know.

453
00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:27,840
Speaker 4: But black people have a word that only they can say.

454
00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:32,240
Speaker 4: How about you guys get one, you know, like they

455
00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:33,000
Speaker 4: took it like.

456
00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,800
Speaker 3: Off the rails today.

457
00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, straight white man, I do.

458
00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:42,359
Speaker 7: I do feel bad that there's not enough words that

459
00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,680
Speaker 7: I can only say and no other races and religions

460
00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,880
Speaker 7: can so I do. I would love that there needs

461
00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,480
Speaker 7: to be a word. I think to just level the

462
00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:52,320
Speaker 7: playing field, there should be a word that only straight

463
00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,200
Speaker 7: white males can say, the R.

464
00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,919
Speaker 1: That word is the R word. I know.

465
00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,600
Speaker 2: What you can't say is two words. I'm I'm sorry

466
00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:03,720
Speaker 2: those words you are.

467
00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,080
Speaker 4: Not allowed to say as a straight white male ever.

468
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,439
Speaker 4: Don't even try. Not that you would, but you're not.

469
00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:11,760
Speaker 4: I'm just kidding. I'm just saying that straight white men apologize. Yeah,

470
00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:22,199
Speaker 4: I'm also rails you guys, keep up, pitch. Okay, we

471
00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:23,480
Speaker 4: have to wrap and go to break, so we'll be

472
00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:28,240
Speaker 4: back with more after this. Okay.

473
00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,320
Speaker 7: I want to say that I was kidding about the

474
00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:34,560
Speaker 7: straight white male thing you were. Some people might take

475
00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,920
Speaker 7: that the wrong way and say Brian's a racist piece

476
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:37,320
Speaker 7: of ship.

477
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,040
Speaker 2: I mean I say stuff, I'm already worried about the thing,

478
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,159
Speaker 2: but I will say that. Michael Rappaport said it's Jewish

479
00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:46,400
Speaker 2: people to people who aren't Jewish. No more Jews from

480
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,320
Speaker 2: people who aren't Jewish people, Okay, And I liked that.

481
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,320
Speaker 2: I was like yes, because I feel like it gives

482
00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,600
Speaker 2: people who are saying it the wrong way a license

483
00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,399
Speaker 2: to when it's like, well, this progressive person said it,

484
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,919
Speaker 2: thout this person, you know, this person who I know

485
00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:01,880
Speaker 2: is not an anti Semite said it, so I can

486
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:02,119
Speaker 2: say it.

487
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 4: But it's like, yeah, with you, it's just I.

488
00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,440
Speaker 6: Know you're saying it anyway. If they hate Jews, they're

489
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:08,720
Speaker 6: going to say it anywa, they're going.

490
00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 4: To say to identify who hates you.

491
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

492
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,760
Speaker 2: That's maybe what I want, is like it's I want

493
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,040
Speaker 2: us all to agree, like, hey, we're not going to

494
00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:18,680
Speaker 2: do this anymore. So when people do, you're like, a ha,

495
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,560
Speaker 2: I know your true feelings even though you mask it.

496
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:24,720
Speaker 7: I see you don't have You don't hear the actual

497
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:28,000
Speaker 7: derogatory for jew very very often these days.

498
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,280
Speaker 2: I know the one for isn't it just like a

499
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:31,959
Speaker 2: female though? That's the one I know.

500
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,119
Speaker 4: The K word, yeah, is that for Is that for

501
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,400
Speaker 4: a female? I always picture that being a female.

502
00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just true. Don't d y k is?

503
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 3: I have no idea.

504
00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 2: D y k e rhymes yea k y k.

505
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:53,399
Speaker 4: He's never heard that.

506
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. Really, you don't hear it these days?

507
00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,040
Speaker 4: Good good, that's great.

508
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,679
Speaker 3: I don't know where I even know what talking. Well.

509
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 2: I know that there was a derogatory term that I well,

510
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 2: I just spelled it for you. So say that in

511
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 2: your head, and that's the word. Don't say y k e.

512
00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,120
Speaker 1: Just say the word in your head.

513
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 2: It's pronounced like I'm like bike, but with the other

514
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 2: words letter.

515
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know how.

516
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 3: No, no, I got I got it.

517
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 5: Okay, you've never heard that word? Okay, I have heard

518
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 5: that word, but I didn't. I never even thought it

519
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,679
Speaker 5: to be Jewish. Oh really, what did you have described?

520
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 5: I have no idea. I'm honest to god, I don't

521
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,919
Speaker 5: know what. I've heard that word, but I don't know.

522
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 1: Oh.

523
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:39,639
Speaker 2: Interesting, Well, I know there was a word that you

524
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,919
Speaker 2: taught me that was derogatory that I didn't know, and

525
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 2: you didn't teach me in the way that you think

526
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,640
Speaker 2: you're getting nervous, but don't be nervous. It was after

527
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 2: high school one day and Taylor used to call me

528
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 2: nick the and then spry, and she would just say

529
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 2: that because it was just a thing that rhymed with.

530
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 3: Nick nick right.

531
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 2: Nick the, and we would she would always say it

532
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 2: was my nickname. And then one day she said it

533
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 2: in front of you, and you go, what are you saying?

534
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 2: You do not say that word. That is a terrible word,

535
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 2: Like you got to learn something. Sometimes you just stump

536
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 2: on a racial slur and it feels real good in

537
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: your mouth because it's clicky, it has like some glottal

538
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: sounds that really feel like it's it's I mean, that

539
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 2: word is kind of like peppy.

540
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you don't know what it means.

541
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 7: I remember, like, yeah, when I learned the word fuck.

542
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 7: I was at my friend Mike Vurro's house and his

543
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 7: uncle was there and he was so wasted, and he

544
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 7: when we were just eating cake at the kitchen table.

545
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 7: I don't know why they had cake, not important, but

546
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 7: the uncle kept going, what the fuck's your problem is groaning?

547
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: What the fuck's your problem? And then how old were

548
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: you six?

549
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:54,880
Speaker 3: To you?

550
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 7: He was, I think you were laughing at him because

551
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 7: he was groaning. He was going eating the cake and

552
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 7: fuck were laughing and what the fuck's your problem? And

553
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,360
Speaker 7: then the scars you. And then Mike Burrow's mom came

554
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 7: in and said, Larry, stop cursing Larry.

555
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 1: And he goes, I didn't do shit.

556
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 3: So I mean, god, you remember that so well?

557
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: That's because yeah, I mean yeah, I knew ship.

558
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 3: Already traumatized by uncle what's his name.

559
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: Well, drunk uncle.

560
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 2: We were on the way to Spokane from LA and

561
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 2: on their flight there was a family with young kids,

562
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 2: and then there were these two men yelling back and

563
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: forth at each other like.

564
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's fucking go, We're gonna fucking do it this weekend,

565
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 4: just fucking fucking rude.

566
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 2: And I was like, what the And I was say seconds,

567
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: I was turning around to confront the guy because I

568
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,719
Speaker 2: was just I was ready because everyone, I'm not afraid

569
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 2: to these people. It was a small plane, and I

570
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 2: was gonna say, hey, buddy, these are their kids right

571
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,199
Speaker 2: literally right here he was with the group that he

572
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,360
Speaker 2: was it was his kids.

573
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 1: I'm on his side.

574
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I feel like I was kind of

575
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:05,479
Speaker 7: slightly annoyed by that.

576
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 4: I don't know.

577
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 2: I mean, Brian, you were on this plane. How could

578
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: you ever be on that family side? I was saying

579
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:15,120
Speaker 2: that the whole family where you want if this plane crashes,

580
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 2: it'll be good net good for the world.

581
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 4: Talk about a net good.

582
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 2: I was like, I would take this home if these

583
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 2: people would be eliminated, because they're only going they're obnoxious.

584
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 2: They're only then they have a huge family, they're only

585
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 2: making more obnoxious.

586
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 5: Yes, whole time, so you want.

587
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 2: I didn't want it to, but I go it would make

588
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 2: sense to me. If God just goes no, we're gonna

589
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 2: lose a couple of good ways.

590
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, I know. That whole family kind of like

591
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:45,959
Speaker 7: owned the plane.

592
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: It was weird.

593
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 7: There were so many of them and they were standing

594
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 7: walking up and down the aisles the whole time, always going,

595
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 7: like getting up from their seat to go talk to

596
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 7: someone three rows in front of this people.

597
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 4: I didn't get to see it happening. I could just

598
00:24:59,440 --> 00:24:59,719
Speaker 4: hear it.

599
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 2: It was of those planes where I couldn't listen to

600
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: a podcast because it was so loud. I just had

601
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 2: to blast my airplane.

602
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 7: And Chris was sitting next to one of them. He

603
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 7: was he was there's two seats in a in a row,

604
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 7: and he was next to one of them. He was

605
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 7: window in Seattle.

606
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 4: Uh.

607
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,399
Speaker 7: Their special was taped at the Moor Theater across the

608
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 7: street from the More Theater. You took a picture in

609
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 7: front of it. There is a cool well. It's a

610
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,199
Speaker 7: k o h.

611
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 6: Oh yeah k u h luk, and it's it's cute,

612
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 6: it's cool.

613
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 2: I think it's cool because it's like it says underneath

614
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 2: it definition German cool meaning.

615
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 3: Somebody posted that for your ben.

616
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 4: No no, no, no no. It's a store. It's called k

617
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 4: u h l It's a store called.

618
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 1: By the More Theater.

619
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 7: And then the theater is a printing place called Swiftly Printing.

620
00:25:55,320 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, that is a second of anything else.

621
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: It's not God. And then Nicky's friend from Iceland showed up.

622
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, that well, I will say in the morning.

623
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 2: I was going to go take a picture at the

624
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 2: Marquee with all my friends the next morning, after we

625
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 2: got Starbucks and then they were leaving for the airport,

626
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 2: so I go, let's go get a quick picture. And

627
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 2: so we were walking up there and then I saw

628
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 2: there was a Seahawks game happening, and there was a

629
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: father and a son, and then the son's friend, I'm

630
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 2: guessing was the the dynamic there. And they were walking

631
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 2: next to us and the son was like, oh, Nicky Glazer,

632
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,679
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's got really nice she's got a lot

633
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 2: of Netflix specials. She really funny. And I instantly was like,

634
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 2: it's me, It's me, and I like lifted up my

635
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 2: song lists because I just thought one of them might

636
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 2: be like I don't like.

637
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 4: Her, Oh she's kind of saving, that she's ugly or

638
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 4: something like.

639
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 2: I just was, even though Gared, who would have said

640
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: that were so nice.

641
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 4: Was like, I'm here, stop talking.

642
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 2: I can't like I wanted to like just end on good.

643
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 2: And they were so excited and they were like and

644
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,159
Speaker 2: we were like can you take our picture? And they're like, well,

645
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 2: can you take our picture? They were so excited. And

646
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 2: I'll say this another special thing in Spokane. I just

647
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: got to see this couple. It was a daughter and

648
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 2: mother and I met them probably eight years ago, seven

649
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: or eight years ago when I was working in Spokane

650
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 2: at a comedy club and I found out that Ten

651
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 2: Things I Hate About You had been shot there.

652
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 3: Okay, and there's a.

653
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: Really famous high school like scene where the Marching Band

654
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: and like Heath Ledger sings I.

655
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 4: Love You Baby, and he.

656
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 2: Like walks up and down the bleachers and it's like

657
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 2: this big moment in the movie. And I knew that

658
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: the school it's a really cool looking like track and

659
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 2: field area.

660
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 4: I knew that school was there.

661
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: It's very iconic, and so I went and ran over

662
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 2: to it when I was in Spokane years ago. And

663
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,199
Speaker 2: while I was there, there was these other girls that

664
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 2: were there that clearly are there to see it too,

665
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: but we were at this weird place that no, it's

666
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: not like a lot of people go there.

667
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 4: But I was like, are you here for ten Things

668
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 4: I Hate about you? And they were like yes, and

669
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god. And so I was like,

670
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 4: I'm actually performing this weekend and they were like, oh

671
00:27:58,720 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 4: my god, yes, we'd love to come to.

672
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 2: So they came to a show that weekend, and then

673
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 2: they've come to two subsequent shows.

674
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 4: And I got to see them in Spokane the.

675
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 2: Other night, and the little daughter was like, I loved

676
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: your suicide stuff and I was like, oh, thank you,

677
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 2: and she was like, I actually tried to kill myself

678
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: last year. And her mom's like, yeah, she tried to

679
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 2: kill herself and I was like, oh my god, oh no,

680
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 2: and she was like it didn't work. But and I

681
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 2: was like, please don't do it again.

682
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 3: Please.

683
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: I was holding her face like no, don't you ever

684
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 2: do that to me again. And but they were just

685
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 2: they were just like so oh, she goes. It was

686
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: actually the suicide aiversary was two days ago. It was

687
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 2: like her two years su aversary.

688
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 4: They called it.

689
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 2: They had some name for it because they were like,

690
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: we have to make fun of that. It was so

691
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 2: great because I was like, yeah, you gotta laugh about it.

692
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 2: That's why they liked my stuff about it, because they

693
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: were like, it's so sad. Otherwise you got a joke

694
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: about it. And so I just loved the lightness of

695
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: which she was like, yeah, I tried to kill myself,

696
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 2: like it was. It was nice in a way.

697
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 3: And then was in tune with it too.

698
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 4: The mother was like team suicide, like they were like

699
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 4: raw ros sis, boombash, She's alive, Like isn't it crazy. Yeah.

700
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: They were like totally cool about it and best friends

701
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 2: and had such a good time.

702
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 4: And my show was so sweet. So shout out to them.

703
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: I forget your names, but I love you and I

704
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 2: promise you tickets to my shows forever and ever. We'll

705
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: be back with more show after this final thought, Mom,

706
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 2: thanks for stopping by.

707
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 4: Last night. We went to dinner. It was so fun.

708
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, it really was, even though we had to wait

709
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 5: for dinner. I know that was It's the Glasier way. Yeah,

710
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 5: keep being good. Yeah, Dad liked the dinner.

711
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 2: I mean there were a couple of It was so good,

712
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: Barcelona and Saint Louis. Yeah, we did not get a deal,

713
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: so I'm not being paid.

714
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, you really did not.

715
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 5: We thought you were going to get something out of that,

716
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 5: but yeah, because you got to die.

717
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 4: We know the chef there.

718
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 3: We know the owner.

719
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 2: The owner and he like came to our table and

720
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 2: sat down and I was like, I'm getting the bill

721
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: and they're like, well, you're going to get a discount

722
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: and I was like I don't need one, but like okay,

723
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 2: and they're like, don't worry, he's gonna take care of

724
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: And there was no taking care of. But I don't

725
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: care because I didn't tend for that and I like

726
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 2: paying full price for things like but it was so

727
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 2: it was one of the best meals I've had in

728
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 2: so awesome.

729
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I loved it. I was hoping you love it.

730
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: No, Dad was like, these clams, Why would you serve

731
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 2: these clams without your bread?

732
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 4: What can we do this?

733
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 2: This is my dad asking for bread. Oh God, the

734
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 2: guy comes over, give him a break. Can we get

735
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 2: some bread? Oh yeah, I'll have some bread. I mean

736
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 2: this dish, like you wouldn't serve bread with this dish?

737
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't like it does usually so this

738
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 2: I mean I did order bread.

739
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 4: I think I ordered like twenty minutes ago.

740
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 6: You need your dad a food show on the Food

741
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 6: Network because he's working for mudgeon All.

742
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 4: They don't have that angle.

743
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 2: He's kind of that's a really good point. My mom

744
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 2: should do a hotel show where it's look at this

745
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 2: and we should go to the restaurant.

746
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 4: And then my dad did just go like, I don't know.

747
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm not gonna I'm excited about it.

748
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: When it's yeah, two sprigs, let us on this end.

749
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 4: I just I don't know it's good.

750
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 3: Given anymore, lettuce.

751
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: Whatever?

752
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 4: For whatever, dude, I.

753
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 3: Feel bad talking about him. We love you.

754
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 4: No, this is there's a pay well behind this episode.

755
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 4: I'll never hear it. Just kidding, there's not he's gonna

756
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 4: hear it. We do love you.

757
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 3: I will definitely because he was kind of in a

758
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 3: bad mood today.

759
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:18,719
Speaker 2: So but I'm totally the same as my dad, Like

760
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 2: I'm I find myself turning into him when I go like,

761
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: well that's what I wanted to, like muttering things under

762
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 2: my breath a little bit like I'm being a brat,

763
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: being a widow baby.

764
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 3: Well, I don't see it.

765
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 4: Oh, I can be such a whirky.

766
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 3: I see you correct your Dan when he's being a baby,

767
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 3: though you catch.

768
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 4: Him, I don't. I don't get away with.

769
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 2: Must be exhausting to be around me because I don't

770
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 2: let either of you get away with your behaviors. Like

771
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,959
Speaker 2: do you ever try to give marriage counseling to your parents?

772
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 4: Brian?

773
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 2: Well, okay, so that's you didn't do a good job.

774
00:31:59,280 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 4: No, but I do.

775
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 7: I do point out my dad's behaviors to him all

776
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 7: the time, which I'm sure, but his current partner Vicky

777
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 7: also does it, so I think it's pretty much relentless

778
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 7: for him.

779
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it sucks to be told the truth.

780
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 2: But I will I constantly quote this moment because I've

781
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 2: been talking in therapy about how I can be a

782
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 2: bitch and like a know it all and things like that,

783
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 2: and in couples therapy because listen, I can bet I

784
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: went off the rails today on this podcast. I got

785
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 2: a little bit of a Kia, A know it all.

786
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: That's what I call myself when I'm being like that.

787
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 2: I'm a Kia right now. But I was thinking about, how, well,

788
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 2: that's nice of you. But one time we were all

789
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: hanging by the pool and I think we were talking

790
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 2: about we were arguing about free will actually with Lauren

791
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 2: and you and me, and you were like, I'm out

792
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 2: of this conversation. I'm done, And my sister was like,

793
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: I just it's not real. And I'm like, She's like,

794
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 2: I don't believe it. I do have control over my thoughts.

795
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: And I was like, but you don't. It's an illusion.

796
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 2: So I'm but I don't know how to argue it properly.

797
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a hard one.

798
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 2: It's almost impossible. But I just get it, and it's

799
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 2: so mad when other people don't or whatever. And I

800
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 2: think I'm superior because I get this thing that people don't,

801
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 2: and I start getting an ego about it, but Lauren

802
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: just goes you are such a bitch.

803
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 4: You just sometimes you act.

804
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 2: Like you just fucking know everything. You're so much better

805
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 2: than anyone else because you're smart and you have it

806
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,479
Speaker 2: all figured out, and you're really condescending and you just

807
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 2: like you just sometimes have And she said sometimes, which

808
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 2: is a crucial thing. It doesn't mean I'm all the time.

809
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,479
Speaker 2: I think people start going giving you always. I remember

810
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: not being offended at all. I actually was like, I

811
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: respect you so much more that you see through my bullshit,

812
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 2: that you see I don't have it all figured out,

813
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 2: that you know that I'm just like insecure and being

814
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: like a little like that, I am being it like.

815
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: I liked it a lot, and it really opened my

816
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 2: eyes to like, I trust her judgment of people so much,

817
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 2: even though she you know, we hated each other as

818
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: kids and said awful things to each other and I

819
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 2: really didn't take any of that to heart. But in

820
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 2: that moment, I was like, my sister's a more intelligent

821
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 2: person right now than me, and she's kind of like

822
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 2: telling me like it is. And I also learned Lauren

823
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: as much more intelligent than me. When we did a

824
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: trivia game on Thanksgiving, you were worried about that. I

825
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 2: was disturbed. We got done with it, and it was

826
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 2: a trivia game. I had played with Audio as a teacher.

827
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: First of all, I know, but she's a teacher of Spanish,

828
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:19,240
Speaker 2: like Spanish.

829
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 5: I know, but she's still it's not like she should

830
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,280
Speaker 5: do she's academic, academic.

831
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 2: I would like to be an academic too. I want

832
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 2: to be things that I'm not. And I realized I'm

833
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,720
Speaker 2: not an academic. And I'm scared to go on Celebrity Jeopardy.

834
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's not for me, it's going

835
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: to be it might be extremely embarrassing. And I was

836
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 2: supposed to do it this season, but I was busy

837
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 2: with f Boy and then the special, and I just

838
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 2: couldn't imagine, like preparing.

839
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: For everyone prepares for Jeopardy. They go through there a.

840
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 4: That's scary thing. What if I don't prepare? Yous? Does

841
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 4: Judaism have? And I go zero?

842
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 2: I really remember that some religion didn't have a god?

843
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: Like it's not a god, it's like an idea. Is

844
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 2: there any religion like that?

845
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 7: No? No? Is it?

846
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: What?

847
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 2: What don't you guys have that everyone else has? There's

848
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 2: something that the Judaism religion is lacking.

849
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 4: That's it.

850
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking, because that's my God, that's

851
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 2: your idol. Yeah, that's the fores kit is my is

852
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 2: my savior, Lord and Savior.

853
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 7: Can you tell the story about when you were at

854
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 7: the store and Chris or somebody, or you're at the

855
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 7: hotel and Chris or someone heard people, Oh, this is

856
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 7: a great story.

857
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: You know, the one from the elevator where you heard people.

858
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I heard people talking about trying

859
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 7: to get into the store.

860
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So Chris was downstairs trying to get a

861
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 2: package for me or something. He's at the front desk

862
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 2: and I'm upstairs like feverishly writing on my laptop trying

863
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 2: to figure out what to do for my sets that

864
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: I had six sets, and so I'm just like final

865
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 2: hours like figuring it out. And then he comes up

866
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 2: and he's like the funniest thing just happened. He was

867
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: like he's kind of like on his phone like so,

868
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 2: and I'm like, this is something I have to do,

869
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 2: Like there's something I'm gonna have. I'm involved in this

870
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 2: in some way. It's not just a good story, Like

871
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 2: I know, he's kind of pitching to me, like I

872
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 2: know this is annoying, but it's kind of cool. He's like,

873
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 2: I'm down at the front desk and I overheard these

874
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 2: the woman talking to these kids and she goes, well,

875
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 2: who are you wanting to see? And they were like

876
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 2: Nikki Lazer Andrew Santino like that's the show and she's

877
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: in my hotel is next to the the event the

878
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,959
Speaker 2: comedy store, and so it was like that was part

879
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 2: of maybe a package they bought with them or they're

880
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 2: like they're just trying to get tickets through the hotel.

881
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 2: And my boyfriend goes, who do you want to see?

882
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:35,879
Speaker 2: And they're like Andrew Sincy know Niki Glizzer. And he goes,

883
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: I think I can make this happen for you. How

884
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 2: many of there are you? Let me get your number

885
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 2: and they're like who are you? And he's just like,

886
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 2: let me just see what I can do. He's like,

887
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 2: not tell home, and so he comes upstairs and he's like,

888
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,720
Speaker 2: I told these boys I got there one of their numbers.

889
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 2: Is there any way they can get into this this

890
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 2: show at this time? And I was like yeah, and

891
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 2: so I wrote Emily from the store and she was

892
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,439
Speaker 2: like immediately it was like, yes, they're in. Got their names,

893
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 2: and he was like, Okay, I'm gonna tell them and

894
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: I was like, let me send them a video. And

895
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, boys, it's Nikky. You're coming to the show.

896
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 2: And I heard you ran into someone in the lobby.

897
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: Like you know.

898
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 4: I was just like and they thought it was a

899
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 4: deep fake.

900
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 5: Oh my what?

901
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 4: And I was like, I would pick a much prettier

902
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 4: picture my face to do a.

903
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 2: Deep fake on than me the way I looked when

904
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 2: I shot that thing. And they wrote back and they

905
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 2: were like all these young but they were like nineteen

906
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 2: years old. They were in like twenty twenty two maybe

907
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 2: college age. They drove down from Stanford and were their

908
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 2: favorite commedians. They did say you're my favorite comedian female and.

909
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I'll take it.

910
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's cool.

911
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I won the Best act you know, it's like

912
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 4: winning the Oscars for Best Actress.

913
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 3: Wow, you know by j Stanford boys.

914
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, they were so sad and I saw them

915
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 2: at the show and it was that was a good

916
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 2: set on, like the one that I had in front

917
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:42,959
Speaker 2: of Amanda.

918
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 4: Knox, I mean Clutes.

919
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 5: Wait no, no, not Amanda Knox.

920
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 4: I mad a Clutes.

921
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 2: She's from the Talk I thought her name was Oh Coons,

922
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 2: but it was because I was confusing the Knox and

923
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: the Koons and the Clutes. But yeah, what Then the

924
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 2: other story was, Okay, we're the elevator at the hotel

925
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: and on our way out, flying to Spokane early morning,

926
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: and the night before I had done Greg Fitzsimmons.

927
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 4: I'm already laughing. I had done Greg fitz Simmons charity show.

928
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 4: Is this charity called.

929
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 2: Best Buds Best Buddies, and it's like to get people

930
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 2: with mental handicaps work like in the community and give

931
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: them supports. So anyway, I was holding this tote that

932
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: said Best Buddies, and Chris is just making morning talk

933
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 2: and he's like, what was that charity?

934
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 5: Again?

935
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 4: Like you just we're in the elevator bank, waiting for

936
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 4: the elevator on our floor. He's like, what's that charity? Gun?

937
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:32,879
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I don't I literally have no idea.

938
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 2: It's Greg Fitzimmons friends, Like I don't know. They put

939
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,320
Speaker 2: them together, the baskets that they gave us because the

940
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 2: money from the shit whatever, and I'm just like kind

941
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 2: of delirious. And then this guy walks off to get

942
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: an elevator too, and he goes, wait, what charity is that?

943
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 4: And I go, oh, it's just my friend's charity. I

944
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 4: have no time for this guy.

945
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,439
Speaker 2: I don't I already don't have to time for Chris's

946
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 2: question because I had no information for him about the charity.

947
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 2: I've since looked into it to tap an answer. And

948
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 2: this guy goes, what charity And I go, I literally

949
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 2: don't know. It's just a friend's charity and it's just

950
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 2: a tone bag from it. And he goes, oh, okay,

951
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 2: that's crazy. I just donated to do a charity this morning.

952
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

953
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: I couldn't process what was happening.

954
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 4: It was as if this man had never had just

955
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 4: found out about charities this morning. I just maybe it

956
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 4: was yesterday. He said. I just, oh my god, that's

957
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,280
Speaker 4: so crazy. I just donated to charity yesterday.

958
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: And it was like the way a guy would pick

959
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 2: up like a middle school girl, that's like you, you

960
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 2: would you give to charities like like that.

961
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 4: We might not know what that. That might sound like

962
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 4: you're rich or something.

963
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 3: Is that a person?

964
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 4: He didn't say how much. He wasn't like I donated

965
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 4: like there was nothing that It wasn't like, oh, a

966
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 4: similar charity. It was just charities.

967
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 3: What a coincidence?

968
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 7: What a.

969
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 4: He just wanted to brag about.

970
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 2: And it wasn't that he was trying to pick me

971
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 2: up and be like no, even that would be so

972
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: embarrassing because Chris was right there too, So he was

973
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 2: just bragging to a couple about how he had donated.

974
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 4: He's like, oh my god, that's crazy.

975
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 2: Just don't need to do a charity. I'm just like

976
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 2: it was as if saying like I just breathe, it's

977
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: an air too.

978
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,879
Speaker 1: That's so crazy. I carry things in bags all the time.

979
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, on his elevator bag too. That's it

980
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 2: was even worse than that. It was just the dumbest

981
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 2: thing to be like, wait, what'd you go? Oh my god,

982
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 2: what's that?

983
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 4: Oh my god. I know he's a good Yeah, he's

984
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 4: a good person.

985
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: That he wanted you to ask him about the charity

986
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: because it was.

987
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 4: Why no one that's no one involved with something huge

988
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 4: would be that stupid. I mean, like, that's my problem.

989
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 4: Whatever this guy is involved in.

990
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,399
Speaker 2: He is the biggest idiot I've ever I I would

991
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 2: have given anything to follow him throughout his day. I

992
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 2: would probably pay a scene amount of like a amount

993
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 2: of money that would change people's lives to just know

994
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: what that guy was up to the red like a

995
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 2: little camera on him and the things he would say.

996
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 2: Because then we got into the car and Chris and

997
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 2: I just can't stop talking about him, like what is

998
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 2: this guy doing?

999
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 4: Who says this?

1000
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: Why didn't we follow up? Why didn't we ask more questions?

1001
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 2: Like we were both just stunned. We both looked each

1002
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 2: other in the elevator like, I never I'm very If

1003
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,879
Speaker 2: you know anything about me, it's that if I see

1004
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: something weird, if there's like a little person or someone

1005
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 2: like disfigured or something, and like people you normally would

1006
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 2: be like, oh my god, did you see that? I

1007
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: will I will wait until we're miles from the person

1008
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: to say anything because I don't want to ever make

1009
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 2: anyone feel bad or like, but man, we got in

1010
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 2: this elevator and I immediately look like Chris like what

1011
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,919
Speaker 2: the fuck was Like we have to have a moment

1012
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 2: about this immediately because this man just said, Oh my god,

1013
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 2: I just don't like speaking of charities.

1014
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 4: What are you talking about here?

1015
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 5: Would be the funniest thing if you would have said

1016
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 5: you are so amazing. I would love to just follow

1017
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 5: you around.

1018
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 4: Oh okay, this is what the guy want.

1019
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 3: This is unbelievable.

1020
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 4: Honestly, this guy would be amazing, amazing round show.

1021
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 2: And so then we get in the car and I go,

1022
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 2: all I know is that his initials were aasy because

1023
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: that's what his loafers said. Okay, his like velvet loafers

1024
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: had this A on one and Z on the other.

1025
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 2: And Chris goes, oh, you sweet thing, those were the

1026
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 2: that's the hotel we're staying at. Those like the initials

1027
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,839
Speaker 2: autis And it's not exactly the hotel's an initial. It's

1028
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 2: like the first and last letter of one word, so

1029
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 2: it's not and I and I did think maybe that's

1030
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 2: just the hotel slippers, but I go, there's no one

1031
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 2: that would ever wear those out and about through their

1032
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 2: day except this. Now, who are you, sir, if you're listening,

1033
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:18,760
Speaker 2: if anyone knows what this man that is recently bragging

1034
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 2: about donated the charities and is wearing loafers that say

1035
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 2: A Z and he's probably in his like forties, I'm

1036
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: guessing early forties, with curly hair. I don't if I

1037
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: could tell his sketch artists. It would it would end

1038
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: up he would look like like some like an old

1039
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: member of of ninety eight Degrees, but thinner like he

1040
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: looks like he's in a boy band.

1041
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 3: But you know, he's got a fascinating life going on.

1042
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 4: Just the things he says to people all day.

1043
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 3: I just can't.

1044
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 4: Like over here. I want to be next to I

1045
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 4: want to play so bad, but I don't want to

1046
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 4: be in the conversation.

1047
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: I just want to eaves.

1048
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:52,399
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1049
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: No, that's why I did not continue it in the elevator,

1050
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 2: because I wanted to be away from it.

1051
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 4: But I want to just observe.

1052
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 1: Okay, we got to go. Speaking of eves and speaking.

1053
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 4: Of Eve's, oh great transition.

1054
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 2: OA, I am going to be New Year's Eve in

1055
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 2: Denver at the Paramount Theater, and I will also be

1056
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 2: their New Year's Eve Eve. So if you have New

1057
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 2: Year's Eve plans already, that's not an excuse enough not

1058
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 2: to come see me. It's not a drunken night, it's

1059
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 2: not a night that's going to make you too tired

1060
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 2: for the next night. It's just an I think, one yeah,

1061
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 2: one show each night. We'll get you out of there

1062
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 2: before your bedtime, will have a great time. We'll laugh,

1063
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 2: it'll be so much fun. It's the end of the year.

1064
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 2: Let go Maybe give it as a nice gift. What

1065
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 2: a great gift idea. If you're struggling to come up

1066
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 2: with something for your friend, maybe plan a trip around it.

1067
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1068
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 2: It's coming up December thirtieth and thirty first at the

1069
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: Paramount Theater in Denver.

1070
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 4: That's the show. Mom, thank you for being here.

1071
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 3: Thanks for having me.

1072
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 4: This was so fun, so fun. Don't Bika and go

1073
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 4: off the rail Sometimes