WEBVTT - The Ballad of Doctor Orgasm 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:06.840 Welcome back to Behind the Bastards, legally the only podcast 0:00:07.040 --> 0:00:11.119 on the internet, so I hope you all have no 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:13.960 other choices. So I'm sure we've got We've got a 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:17.720 big audience today of the entire world listening in um 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:21.400 as I have used my congressional connections to ban all 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:24.600 other podcasts, any other podcast. You're listening to our our 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:28.880 illegal podcast now, which actually makes mine less cool. This 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:32.519 is probably a bad call in any case. Uh, this 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.720 is a show about bad people, but very worse people 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:37.200 in all of history. And my guest today is Sharine 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:45.280 Lana Unash. You're back. I'm back, that's my own home. 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.160 How do you feel about me gaslighting my audience about 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.240 the fact that there are no other podcasts in order 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:55.160 to keep them keep them locked into my content stream. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:59.520 I'm I actually found it very entertaining and ingenious in 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:02.680 a way that I wasn't expecting. I think making them 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:05.440 believe this is the only source, you know, like you're 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:08.959 making You're making yourself essential to them. You're you're there. Yeah. Yeah. 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:11.639 People talk a lot about like the downsides of gas lighting, 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:13.600 but nobody talks about how good it can be for 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:16.840 making money with a podcast. I mean the reality the 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:19.760 inverse the inverses like, the reality is there's so much 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:23.240 to be consumed, but you just constantly telling them there isn't. 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:27.120 I think that's pretty smart, I will say, though, the 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:29.800 word ingenious doesn't make that much sense to me. This 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:34.280 is a side note completely just semantic. Uh. Thing I 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.560 just realized is that genius is smart, but then ingenious 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:40.880 should being not smart, just because of the way that 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:43.319 prefix is usually used. But in this case it means 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:46.560 even more smart, which is just my own. This is 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.200 how my brain works now. I don't know how to 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:51.880 have conversations. It's very I'm frustrated by ingenious and I'm 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:54.960 frustrated by inflammable. And I know there's like a small 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:59.360 quadra of of grammar obsessives who have will explain how 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:02.040 it completely makes sense that both of those words mean 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:06.680 what they mean. UM, I don't care. Um I disagree 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:12.080 with grammar regular I regular. I regular disagree with grammar often, 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:18.760 me too, me to um So. Sharine, you are the 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:22.400 co host of the Ethnically Ambiguous podcast, and my friend 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:25.520 and co worker, and um you know, and a really 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:31.200 talented filmmaker and a talented filmmaker UM Award winning filmmaker. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:36.120 And there's really no other way to to just launch 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:39.919 into this episode than by saying, how do you, um, 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:44.880 how do you feel about orgasms? Oh, you're welcome for 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:50.840 booking you on this. Um, now I know why Sophie 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.919 told me I was coming in blind and now I 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.600 was thinking about what I was getting myself into before 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.680 I turned on my microphone, before I agree to jump 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:03.600 on this call. This was not anywhere in the realm 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:11.920 of my Okay, well, I think orgasms are great. Um yeah, 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.600 I wouldn't know though personally if we really want to 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:18.960 get intimate here right off. Hasn't been even three minutes 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:21.160 of this podcast. I don't know. I've never had one, 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:26.120 so wow. Okay, Well, um yeah, that actually is kind 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:30.280 of on topic, Sharine, because um yeah, that's was I 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:33.640 selected for this on purpose? Or is this this is 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:37.200 this can't be a coincidence. Yeah, I just yeah, I 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:42.520 thought we talk about grifters together, and our subject today 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:46.960 is a grifter, so I thought you'd enjoy talking about him. Um, 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:51.520 And I decided to open things with that incredibly inflammatory question. Um, 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:55.360 because because it's my podcast and I'm a monster. Wait, 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:58.880 is the question relevant? Yes, it's extremely relevant. Yeah, we're 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:01.760 we're talking about it. I who goes by the nickname 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:09.920 doctor orgasm Um cute. Yeah. Uh So it's probably not 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:12.760 a surprise to anyone listening or to any of us 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:15.920 that that men and women have have very different orgasm experiences. 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:19.920 And this is rooted heavily and evolutionary biology. Um. And 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:22.760 one of the things that illustrates this difference is the 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:26.400 incredible density of studies and articles about studies, UM, all 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:29.640 trying to unravel what's often described as like the mystery 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:35.320 of the of the vaginal orgasm um. It's seen. Yeah, yeah, 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.520 and it's I mean, this is really funny to be Okay, 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:41.320 I need to like be candid here. Sure, during this 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:46.600 whole quarantine thing, like like the the me not having 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:49.919 me not experiencing this feeling that everyone else seems to 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.719 like relation has been this like thorn in my side 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:56.039 for like most of my adult life, and I think 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:59.800 this this whole entire quarantine time has I've been doing 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.040 a lot of research on this to be honest about 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:05.600 like why someone would have more trouble than others, Like 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:08.560 what it means to actually let go and like experience 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.240 and receive pleasure like I have a lot of difficulty 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:14.880 receiving good things, including like just like even just like 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:19.120 feeling nice. And I've been this is this is actually 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.159 hilarious that we're talking about this because I've been like 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:27.280 genuinely like studying like like the ways to make myself 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:30.919 feel okay enough to experience this thing that has always 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:34.520 been this like this inside joke that everyone else understood. 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:39.480 And I also think women talking about this pressure, they 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:41.560 don't talk about it enough. Like I don't think the 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:46.320 society at large talks about women trying to overcome this 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:49.640 pressure if they're not like already in the know of 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:55.600 how to utilize or or like receive pleasure. And so anyways, 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:58.480 I feel like I've done my homework, even without meaning 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:02.240 to I had. I did not know this about you 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:07.000 going into the episode. Um, but that's actually gonna be 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:10.080 helpful in terms of trying to like parse this out 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.480 because this is a more confusing episode. It's not impossible 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:16.240 this is a medical grifter um who claims to be 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:20.359 able to cure women's who haven't who have trouble or 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:23.920 an inability to have orgasms, And for a number of reasons, 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:27.280 I'm fairly certain he's a grifter. Um, but you can 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:30.160 find some people, some women who say that he helped them, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:34.080 and it's a very complicated story. And it's more complicated 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:36.680 due to the fact that, like we as I'm sure 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:39.720 like your research has suggested, we don't really have a 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:42.880 great we don't really have a great scientific lockdown on 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:46.320 the vaginal orgasm, right like it's it's it's Um, there's 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.040 a lot that's kind of up in the air about 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:51.520 it from a research standpoint. I mean, everyone's just so different. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.840 I think that's pot boils down to there's no like 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.240 there's no just like I don't know to put to 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:59.400 be crude, there's no like pump that you just like 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:02.240 go at until something comes out of. It's not like 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:05.680 I don't know, Yeah, men literally have a button that 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:10.560 you can press. Yeah, exactly exactly. It's it's not for 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:13.200 men or it's not for you know, people with people 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.360 with uh, what's the most appropriate term to use? Wing 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:20.160 dang doodles. Um, The wind dang doodle orgasm is a 0:07:20.160 --> 0:07:23.840 pretty simple thing, right, Um. Yeah, it's it's straightforward as 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:27.600 self explanator. But I think, like, uh, I don't want 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.320 to get sorry, I keep taking over this conversation. No, no, no, 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:33.080 I mean you're that that's why you're here. Please take it, 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:36.160 take it over. Like so when you're a boy, when 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:39.360 you're like a prepubescent boy, like it's it's understood that 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:41.120 you're going to be going through changes, that you're going 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:44.120 to be going through puberty, and that means like exploring 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:46.640 your body like a wet dream for a guy is 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:51.320 a pretty standard point of puberty. For girls, you're never 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:56.560 encouraged or even told to explore yourself, and that makes 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:59.040 you feel even not even on purpose, but it makes 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:01.120 you feel a lot of shame about your body. And 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:05.239 I was raised pretty sheltered and I didn't I remember 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:09.560 really disliking my I was disgusted by my my genitals, 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:12.160 like I didn't understand them. I didn't under like I 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:14.360 there was a good portion of time before I like 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:18.280 embrace my sexuality. And I'm still like overcoming those things 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:21.040 now because of how you're raised as a girl just 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:23.760 to like shut it down and to protect yourself and 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:29.320 to not be a sexual being because that invites unwanted attention. 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:33.480 And so I think being raised like that and never 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:37.559 like being encouraged to explore yourself, it leads to adult 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:41.319 women needing to figure it out even after they've already 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:43.040 had sex for the first time or the second time 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:50.240 or the thirtieth time or whatever. So um, yeah sorry, no, no, no, no, yeah. 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.880 And it's it's one of the other things that it 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:56.960 does is because there's so little conversation about this, and 0:08:57.040 --> 0:09:01.080 especially so little conversation that's like had an uh a 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:03.840 kind of I don't know, um structured way like our 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:06.480 our our educational system doesn't build this in and most 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.560 parents feel too awkward to really talk about it. And 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:12.080 so because a lot of women don't ever get to 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.480 have these conversations and grow up like with this thing 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:18.080 of like I I don't know how to experience this, 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.400 I don't know how to like get like like this 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:24.520 this kind of mystery about their own bodies. Whenever there 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.559 is a black hole of knowledge like that, it provides 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:32.240 an incredible opportunity to grifters. Um. It's the same reason 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:34.679 why when you have a huge virus hit, right, like 0:09:34.760 --> 0:09:37.160 all these people start cropping up and and are able 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.160 to make claims like oh, we know how I know 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:40.600 how to cure this, I know how to treat this 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:43.960 is because like this weird mysterious thing that people don't 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:48.199 understand is a problem, and there's kind of a vacuum 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:52.199 of official information and there's a lot of there's actually 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:55.319 like a pretty decent sized industry of grifters who just 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.640 target women who are aren't able to orgasm or or 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:00.959 don't orgasm is often as they want to. Like that's 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:02.920 a big Like even when I was in India, there 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:07.000 were huge like tantric sex uh institutes, and like if 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.400 you spent enough time in the towns where they were located, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:12.200 you would start hearing stories about the men who ran them, 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:15.040 and they were like almost I'm not gonna say tantric 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:17.360 sex is bad, but all of these all of these 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:21.880 guys were basically cult leaders, right like like that's this um, 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:27.640 it's just this this thing that happens um And yeah, yeah, 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.920 it's so unfortunate, and it makes me so enraged because 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:38.400 I understand that like like like this desperation to just 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:42.800 feel something that you're you're led to believe is like 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:45.920 a very human, primal thing, and you feel you feel 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.560 almost broken that you can't experience it, like coming from 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:52.320 my experience, like I maybe I was just maybe it 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:54.200 was it's like too late, or like maybe I wasn't 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:58.839 raised correctly or maybe I know it's it's why can't 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.840 my body do this? And so you become an adult 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:05.080 and you become so desperate to figure out how to 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:07.559 do these things. I can I can see someone getting 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:11.360 misled just because desperation will lead you to do that. 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:17.199 And and it's it's this really um intimate and brutal 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:20.480 thing to experience in with yourself. To to have that 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.960 being taken advantage of is so criminal in my opinion, 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:31.680 because it's just I'm just mad. Yeah, you'll get you'll 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.719 get time on the show. So, but before we get 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:37.400 into this specific orgasm grifter, I do want to talk 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:39.559 I wanted to go over a little bit of like 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:44.720 orgasm research, um so just to kind of talk about 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.240 like what's out there right now, which will help explain 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.080 some things that are going to come into the story 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:52.760 later on. So again, there's not a lot that's like 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.960 ironed out known for sure about the vaginal orgasm. Some 0:11:56.080 --> 0:12:00.640 researchers suggests that that they play a psychological role in reproducttion. Obviously, 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:02.120 like there's no question about the role of the male 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:05.800 orgasm and reproduction, but there is a question for um, yeah, 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:11.240 the vaginal orgasm and the like. Uh. So the researchers 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:14.720 who suggest a psychological rules say that basically, because these 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.600 orgasms feel good, it makes people with vaginas want to 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:19.640 have more sex, which leads to more babies. And this 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:21.640 is like pretty logical, right. You can at least you 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:25.880 can see a through line there. Um. Yeah, so uh. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.600 One thing that these folks will point out is that 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:33.800 solitary animals such as cats, have what's called male induced ovulation. Uh. 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:37.319 And that's where an egg is only released uh from 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:40.679 the ovary during sex. Um. And there is evidence that 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:43.920 cats orgasm in case you were curious, we know they 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.800 release prolactin, which is a hormone that human ladies get 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:51.600 flooded with when they orgasm and when they ovulate. Sixteen 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:54.800 study I found suggested that the hormone release with the 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:58.679 orgasm is probably an evolutionary holdover from when our ancestors 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:02.160 moved from induced opulation and like cats, to the spontaneous 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:06.400 ovulation that that we currently enjoy. Um. Enjoy might be 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:08.440 the wrong word there, but like, yeah, so that's that's 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:13.840 one theory. Um. And this study suggested that once ovulation 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:17.720 once like in our evolutionary timeline. When ovulation stopped depending 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:21.480 on like a man or you know, a penist getting 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:24.280 in there. Uh, the clitterest moved from inside the vaginal 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:27.000 canal to its current position. Um. And one piece of 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:28.880 good news from all of this is that the clitterest, 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:32.160 evolutionarily speaking, is not going to go away anytime soon. Um. 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:34.520 The penis evolves from the same part of the embryo. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:37.320 So as long as uh, there are wing dang doodles, 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:40.080 there will be clitter e. So that's good news. If 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:42.520 anyone was worried about losing those in a couple of 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:47.320 thousand years sciences, yeah, yeah, I was concerned. It also 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:51.600 means that men are going to keep their nipples. Yeah, yeah, 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:55.800 I was worried. Yeah. Well no they are not. They 0:13:55.880 --> 0:14:00.240 absolutely are not a lot of uses for male nipples. Um. 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:06.440 You can hang stuff off them, that's mostly yeah. So 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:11.560 uh yeah, I think that's that's good background to get 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:15.079 because the medical grifter we're talking about today, UM is 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:17.320 a doctor who claims to be able to vastly increase 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.360 the likelihood and quality of women's orgasms, and he does 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:26.960 this by injecting their own blood back into their labia. UMU. Yeah, 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:31.680 this is probably nonsense, although it is not definitively nonsense, 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:34.160 because the exact kind of treatment this guy is using 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:37.920 is still something that's that's being studied. Um. But this 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:41.000 is a case where there it's possible there's some validity 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:44.240 to what he's doing medically, but the doctor himself is 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:47.160 absolutely a piece of ship and a grifter. Um. And 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:50.880 the fact that he has a huge populic Yeah. Yeah, 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.040 more I'm intrigued. Yeah, this is a This is an 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.640 interesting one. So the fact that this doctor has a 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:59.600 sizeable population of interested customers is doing large part to 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:02.000 the fact that, as we kind of lead this episode 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:05.680 talking about vaginal and cluatoral orgasm are actually pretty rare. 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:10.040 People with penises report orgasms about of the time and 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:14.280 heterosexual encounters, while people with vaginas report orgasms only about 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:17.360 fifty percent of the time. Um. The reasons for this 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:20.400 are hotly debated, but they actually kind of seem pretty 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.240 obvious to me based on just the data. So, for 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:26.800 one thing, age, education, and income all increase the likelihood 0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:30.360 of orgasm um for people with vaginas. Yeah. And this 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:33.680 suggests that knowledge and particularly kind of knowledge of one's 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:37.600 self and one's biology increases your odds as a vagina 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:43.440 have r of having an orgasm. Uh yeah, yeah yeah. Um. 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:47.240 Only about of people with vaginas orgasm from casual sex, 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:50.760 while seventy orgasm and committed relationships. And to me this 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:53.320 suggests the same thing, which is that orgasms are at 0:15:53.400 --> 0:15:55.600 least somewhat a project of knowledge, and having a partner 0:15:55.640 --> 0:15:59.200 who knows your bits increases your chance of having an orgasm. 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.280 And and I will say I didn't like say the 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:05.040 word masturbation earlier when I was talking about like exploring 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.840 your body or anything, but I do think the fact 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:10.160 that we don't talk about women masturbating and like we're 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:12.440 not really like they're I mean, like now they're like 0:16:12.640 --> 0:16:14.960 we're being more progressive. There's a certain section of like 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:17.200 youth that's like really all about talking about it. But 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:21.080 when I was growing up, I didn't masturbate. Like I 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:24.280 didn't know how. I didn't know. I still low key 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:27.520 don't really know how. So because it's just I'm not 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:32.920 I'm still trying to understand like like how to receive pleasure. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.800 I'm so bad at receiving anything that alone like a 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:39.160 compliment or like like how much is to receive a 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:43.320 fucking orgasm for myself. Um. But I think our obsession 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:47.600 with only talking about male pleasure and male masturbation leads 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:51.200 women to never understand like they don't have the knowledge 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:55.960 about how to feel good sexually because they're not encouraged 0:16:56.000 --> 0:16:59.480 to it, and there there's just so much shame around it. Um. 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:02.200 And even like I remember watching porn when I was 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:06.480 like a teenager purely as like studying it, like I 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.320 just wanted to understand what it, like, what people were 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:11.560 up to, Like what was this thing I was missing? 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:14.320 And every time they would show like a woman masturbating, 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:19.439 it was this like just crude, like just like it 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:23.159 was just so it wasn't good enough, Like it didn't 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.439 it didn't work, you know what. I don't know if 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:31.120 that makes sense. It's just it made seem too easy. Um. 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:34.800 And uh, sorry, I keep getting distracted. I'm just no, no, no, 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:38.160 I mean bringing up a lot of ship Robert yeah, 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:41.640 ship Yeah. I mean, And you're not You're you're very 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:43.600 far from alone in that, because, like you know, the 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:47.399 data suggests like this is a hugely common problem. Um. 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:50.800 Just in general, people who have vaginas not orgasm ng 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:54.159 as often as they would prefer. UM is very common 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:56.520 and there are actually quite a lot of women who 0:17:56.520 --> 0:17:59.680 have what's called female orgasmic disorder UM. And that's exactly 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:03.840 what it's sounds like. It's an inability UM to orgasm. Uh. 0:18:03.840 --> 0:18:07.600 And it is also incredibly treatable. Sex therapy is successful 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:13.879 of the time. UM Yeah, yeah, yeah, that is a 0:18:13.920 --> 0:18:16.440 thing that exists. There's treatment options in the data suggests 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:20.800 that they are very there. They are very often effective. Um. 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:24.800 But those numbers still leave a lot of unsatisfied people 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:28.080 with vaginas out there. Uh. And unluckily for them, doctor 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:31.920 Charles Reynolds is around to take their money. Charles Reynolds 0:18:32.080 --> 0:18:35.240 is the inventor of the O shot, a controversial therapy 0:18:35.320 --> 0:18:39.040 meant to correct a lack of vaginal orgasms. Dr Reynolds 0:18:39.080 --> 0:18:42.080 has been branded doctor Orgasm by some and he's a 0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:44.920 big old piece of ship. Now, if you've not heard 0:18:44.960 --> 0:18:46.960 about his O shot, you may have heard about his 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:50.800 other groundbreaking medical treatments, the vampire facial. This is the 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:58.400 guy who did the vampire facial. Yeah yeah, yeah, it's 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:03.639 the same guy the vampire breast. Anything. But like coming 0:19:03.680 --> 0:19:06.679 from a guy, I'm already wary of anyone that's like 0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:09.120 I can give this, I can give women more orgasms, 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:11.439 Like what did a woman know the most intimately how 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:15.040 to do that? Like I'm already like I'm intrigued only 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:18.320 because like I'm so fascinated by the subject. But I 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:22.600 think just by default that that information, that claim coming 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:25.560 from a guy is already kind of like lose his 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:28.440 credibility for me because he will never understand one a 0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:32.359 vagina is capable of you know what I mean, But 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:36.359 I don't know. Yeah, you won't, you won't change your 0:19:36.400 --> 0:19:40.360 opinion on that over the course of this episode. Can't Wait. 0:19:40.960 --> 0:19:43.280 So in addition to the vampire facial and the vampire 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:46.399 breast lift, Dr Reynolds is the inventor of the pre shot, 0:19:46.440 --> 0:19:48.720 which is a needle that you shoot into your dick 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:53.680 to make your dick the orgasm better. UM. So he's 0:19:53.720 --> 0:19:56.840 he's he has picked, he's picked a path for himself. UM. 0:19:56.960 --> 0:20:00.879 And his path is his path is sucking people's blood 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:03.320 and then shooting it back into pieces of them to 0:20:03.440 --> 0:20:06.679 gain kind of unclear medical benefits Like that's this the 0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:11.560 guy's thing, um, and the specific medical treatment that he 0:20:11.680 --> 0:20:14.720 is involved in, and that all really um, all of 0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:20.840 his His his treatments are one second, the specific medical 0:20:20.880 --> 0:20:22.919 treatment that he focuses on that kind of all of 0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:25.240 these different things are a type of is called platement 0:20:25.400 --> 0:20:33.720 rich plasma plasma injection or PRP injections or PRP therapy. Yeah. Yeah, 0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:36.680 it's a mostly when it comes to like skin rejuvenation 0:20:36.800 --> 0:20:40.760 and yes, increasing cell turnover and all that stuff. Yeah, yeah, 0:20:40.880 --> 0:20:43.920 it's not. I don't think it's like I think there's 0:20:43.960 --> 0:20:47.400 still as far as I know, like the very still 0:20:47.400 --> 0:20:50.840 out as far as very much. Yeah, we'll talk about that. 0:20:52.320 --> 0:20:55.120 It's certainly grown more popular over the years. UM And 0:20:55.119 --> 0:20:57.159 and for folks who don't know you're familiar with I mean, 0:20:57.200 --> 0:20:59.280 I guess a lot of people have are somewhat familiar 0:20:59.320 --> 0:21:01.680 with this. But the basic idea is that a patient's 0:21:01.720 --> 0:21:04.320 blood is drawn out and then put through a centrifuge, 0:21:04.400 --> 0:21:07.399 and the centrifuge concentrates all of the platelets, which are 0:21:07.400 --> 0:21:09.720 the blood cells that are largely responsible for the fact 0:21:09.720 --> 0:21:12.919 that your blood has healing functions. UM. Those platelets are 0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:15.800 then sucked back up and then injected into damaged or 0:21:15.800 --> 0:21:19.600 diseased body tissue in order to stimulate healing. UM And obviously, 0:21:19.600 --> 0:21:21.840 it makes sense that people would try this as a therapy, right, 0:21:21.880 --> 0:21:24.320 Like the there's logic to like, oh yeah, I can 0:21:24.359 --> 0:21:26.480 see how if you concentrate like the heally parts of 0:21:26.480 --> 0:21:28.400 the blood and then shoot it into wounded Yeah, maybe 0:21:28.400 --> 0:21:31.919 that'll work. It's it certainly falls under the list of 0:21:32.000 --> 0:21:34.240 medical treatments. I was like, yeah, it was worth a shot. 0:21:34.240 --> 0:21:37.480 People should have given it a yeah, well we'll give 0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:39.679 it a go. Yeah. But it got really popular just 0:21:39.720 --> 0:21:42.920 with like celebrities and stuff like, not like wounded or 0:21:43.000 --> 0:21:45.439 damaged skin. It was just like to increase or too. 0:21:45.760 --> 0:21:48.080 It was like marketed as like a you a youthful 0:21:48.160 --> 0:21:52.240 like fountain of thing exactly. And it started. The very 0:21:52.240 --> 0:21:55.480 first PRP therapies were in sports medicine UM and largely 0:21:55.520 --> 0:21:57.720 kind of as a way for professional athletes and the 0:21:57.800 --> 0:22:00.840 like to more rapidly heal from rotator cuff injuries and 0:22:01.000 --> 0:22:03.320 sort of similar you know, wounds, the kind of stuff 0:22:03.320 --> 0:22:05.240 that like, you know a lot of times like you 0:22:05.240 --> 0:22:07.240 pull an ankle, you fuck your rotator cuff up, you 0:22:07.280 --> 0:22:09.560 funk up a knee, and like it kind of stays 0:22:09.600 --> 0:22:11.879 a little bit fucked up forever. And so this was 0:22:11.960 --> 0:22:13.359 kind of they were trying to figure out how to 0:22:13.400 --> 0:22:16.040 deal with that, right, Like, maybe we can accelerate the 0:22:16.040 --> 0:22:18.880 body's healing so you can actually get this ship fixed. Yeah, 0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:21.359 and there are there are some professional athletes and stuff 0:22:21.359 --> 0:22:24.399 who swear by this treatment. The actual scientific data on 0:22:24.440 --> 0:22:27.119 how well it works is very muddled. I found a 0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:30.960 systematic review in the Cochrane Library that analyzed nineteen studies 0:22:31.000 --> 0:22:34.080 on PRP therapies, and when they did a bias analysis, 0:22:34.160 --> 0:22:36.439 only three of these studies were judged to be at 0:22:36.520 --> 0:22:39.040 low risk of bias because obviously a lot of people 0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:42.680 with financial interests in PRP therapy working fund studies into 0:22:42.680 --> 0:22:46.440 whether or not PRP therapy works. Um. But even when 0:22:46.440 --> 0:22:50.160 they kind of excluded the biased studies, the existent studies 0:22:50.200 --> 0:22:54.360 didn't show evidence of any significant effect from PRP therapy. 0:22:54.680 --> 0:22:57.600 There is some evidence that it might help reduce pain, 0:22:57.720 --> 0:23:00.280 but that's really about all we can say conclude sibly. 0:23:00.280 --> 0:23:01.920 There's a decent amount of evidence that it can help 0:23:01.920 --> 0:23:05.080 reduce pain when you're healing from an injury. UM in 0:23:05.160 --> 0:23:09.920 certain circumstances. There's really not nothing hard to support the 0:23:10.240 --> 0:23:14.320