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Speaker 1: My in law secretly went through my things. I want

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Speaker 2: Imagine it, said, guys, imagine that do it? This is

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Speaker 2: also cut them off they if they were in their thighs.

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Speaker 1: This is a long one, but I'll try to compact it.

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Speaker 1: Thirty four female my partner. Thirty two male is currently

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Speaker 1: on remand after his past catching up with him once

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Speaker 1: he moved past it. The alleged offenses allegedly occurred before

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Speaker 1: we've even met. By the way, this comes from lost

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Speaker 1: daughter in law on the r slash Showkay Storytime sub

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Speaker 1: breed it. So I have supported him emotionally, financially, and

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Speaker 1: also raised our son by myself after him being arrested

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Speaker 1: while I was pregnant, plus coming to terms that we've

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Speaker 1: got a hard battle ahead of us. I have received

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Speaker 1: minimal support from his family. His auntie on his mom's

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Speaker 1: of gifting us good clothes since I can't afford them.

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Speaker 1: His mom sporadically sends us a little bit of money

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Speaker 1: too well financially, so I'm extremely appreciative. The only help

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Speaker 1: I have received from his dad's side was money for

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Speaker 1: birthdays and Christmas for my partner and the odd book.

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Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I'm not expecting anything, but I

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Speaker 1: an extremely suppressed childhood. No TV or sports allowed, long story.

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Speaker 2: Right, and that for his temperament.

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Speaker 1: Right, So having no TVs being suppressed because I feel

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Speaker 2: Of called out. She went to Catholic.

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Speaker 1: School and I wasn't allowed to. We didn't have TV.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you were repressed. Welcome, Welcome, you were repressed. My

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Speaker 1: At you now, which stunted his social development. I don't

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Speaker 1: his suppressed childhood resulted in rebellion. Now he abandonment and

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Speaker 1: suppression issues that he has been working through. Unfortunately, because

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Speaker 1: him again, and he's been working very hard to repair

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Speaker 1: because we were pregnant with a little boy. They literally

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Speaker 1: moved states to be closer to my son because he

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Speaker 1: or be able to I praise them for it and

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Speaker 1: Oh like flus, resulting in both me and my son

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Speaker 1: being sick for months like a bug, not like buz bugs.

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Speaker 2: Day care bugs are I was like, are those like

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Speaker 1: Particularly bad flu. I could not eat for three days ugh,

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Speaker 1: My partner's dad and his partner offered to help out.

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Speaker 1: Put it in his head that I will leave him

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Speaker 2: We don't have a TV. Yeah, that's a very scumbag

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Speaker 2: just being like, let me also lie to you. Let

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Speaker 1: Enjoy your marriage and your relationship with you're trying to destroy.

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Speaker 2: Maybe one of the only little pieces of light that

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Speaker 1: Let me destroy that full disclosure. It's been two and

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Speaker 2: She could pew out, who is this late? Is terrible?

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Speaker 1: The house was a pig stye when she got here.

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Speaker 1: The kicker was she also went into my bedroom and

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Speaker 2: Yikes, why oh why you do that? Why why do

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Speaker 1: And went into my spare room, which had a heap

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Speaker 2: You buried the hens, the chicken hens. Yeah, you know

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Speaker 1: That's a bachelorette party, by the way, Yeah, a hen,

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Speaker 1: a hen night, a head night is a bachelorette party.

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Speaker 2: And talking Night is a British people bachelor party. All right,

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Speaker 2: So you have to read the rest of the story

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Speaker 1: She also told my partner she found a heap of

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Speaker 2: I found all these fit you exactly, and I think

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Speaker 1: Anyway, this messed with his head heaps, and when it

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 1: It's good that he supports you and doesn't believe his mom. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: then got back to his mom and then his auntie,

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Speaker 1: My partner and I are quite exploratory, him more so,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So basically, they were saying all of

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Speaker 2: It seems like he just didn't have a great childhood.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the fact that I found out, got back to

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Speaker 1: I am trying to do what's best for my son. However,

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Speaker 2: Them stoop higher security guard.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to today, where they were picking up a

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Speaker 2: Mine your own business.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like Matt, they're jealous that they're not in

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Speaker 1: the fridge. Yeah, that's why they're doing all of this.

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Speaker 2: We just wanted our fridge real estate.

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Speaker 1: Kimberly find says, restrict that access. Those seats get planted early. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: OPI was saying like, oh, he's too young to remember.

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Speaker 1: they don't seem to have your best interest, your husband's

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Speaker 1: best interest, or your child's best interest at heart. Though,

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Speaker 1: Kimberly find says she's focused on Op now because her

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Speaker 1: But there is a little bit more of this story.

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Speaker 1: But what do you say, what's the play here?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think the play is like, you got

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Speaker 2: all of this. Yeah, just like keeps crazy that this

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Speaker 2: just being like, I don't know what's going on. But

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Speaker 2: I have your back until like you're out of here,

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Speaker 2: and then I will also continue to have your back, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: making that very clear. And then also, yeah, taking the

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Speaker 2: evidence of like these people breaking your sort of boundaries

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, Yeah, you just have to have more

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Speaker 1: like trying to have as much communication as possible with him,

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Speaker 1: which obviously is hard when you have, you know, a

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Speaker 2: Get receipts for all of this crazy behavior everything you

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Speaker 2: can see. Yeah, make sure you hold on to that.

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Speaker 1: But there is a little bit more. The only people

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Speaker 1: I have spoken to about it are my sister's mom

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Speaker 1: What sister in law, sister in law, it's not your

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Speaker 2: Stop taking jobs. Yeah, that's this is actually from her

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Speaker 2: At that point, she lashed out, like you wouldn't believe

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Speaker 1: What an exaggeration of the feelings that op was going through.

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Speaker 2: The sun. The Sun throw this person into the sun

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Speaker 2: At this point, I'm still holding my tongue and acting neutral.

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Speaker 2: That didn't get back to you. I mean, yeah, you

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Speaker 2: What is it? What is this? I'm waiting in the

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Speaker 2: added to see my posts. Take her sister off, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you treat her like garbage? Like me? What's going on there?

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Speaker 2: She sucks? She She has texted me first asking nicely

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Speaker 2: I replied normal. Neutral. Then she texted my mother in

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Speaker 2: I'm casting a span on you using the power of that.

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Speaker 2: She harnessed the power of the son. After we threw

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Speaker 2: She then texted my husband asking why my mother in

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Speaker 2: Even though we never said my mother in law and

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Speaker 2: we don't communicate and tries to wedge us apart secretly.

436
00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 2: It gives me anxiety and stress during my last few

437
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:40,000
Speaker 2: days slash weeks of pregnancy. She's only giving me stress, disrespect,

438
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:44,199
Speaker 2: and anxiety so far, even before I got pregnant. Oh story,

439
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,919
Speaker 2: just just always a bother. Yeah, this woman is a

440
00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 2: bothersome war a bother, and I just don't want her

441
00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,920
Speaker 2: in my life. I do believe she has a mental illness,

442
00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 2: but she doesn't seem to see that or do anything

443
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:57,919
Speaker 2: to treat it. But I also don't want my husband

444
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 2: to lose his only half sibling because of my boundaries.

445
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 2: It's very complex and takes a lot of energy. Like

446
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,359
Speaker 2: how am I going to keep her away after the birth?

447
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 2: How am I going to take any insults postpartum when

448
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 2: I'm so meant to be vulnerable? How am I going

449
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 2: to keep boundaries in that state? How is she going

450
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 2: to cross my lines? And how am I going to

451
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 2: keep strawing against it? Yeah? How am I going to

452
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,240
Speaker 2: protect our daughters against her? Yeah? This is a lot

453
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 2: to think about when you have a trash person in

454
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 2: your life trying to actively throw trash at you.

455
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 1: But you know who's not trying to actively throw trash

456
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 1: at you.

457
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 2: Us When you join us live every weekday at three

458
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 2: pm on YouTube. Just tap the profile and you're ash

459
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 2: on you. No.

460
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: I think that he's like, oh, I can't you know,

461
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,919
Speaker 1: I can't separate it my husband from his sister. I

462
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 1: think you need to have a conversation with your husband,

463
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 1: Say hey, she's constantly disrespecting our boundaries. She's making me

464
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,439
Speaker 1: really uncomfortable. I don't like her behavior. I would like

465
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 1: to cut her off.

466
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 2: What say you, Well, how do you do it slowly?

467
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 3: Hey, heyboo, No, I'm in with the system.

468
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 2: How do you cut her off slowly? Yeah?

469
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,639
Speaker 1: You just like you block her on the account. And

470
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 1: if she talks me to say, oh, I delete a

471
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:07,400
Speaker 1: the account.

472
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I think you just don't even

473
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: cut her off slowly. Just cut her off quickly, cut

474
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 2: her off, cold, immediately, like a gangrenous appendage. Cut her off.

475
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 2: That's only going to infect further exactly the tissue. You

476
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 2: gotta amputate it. Amputate the sister, this sister in law.

477
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 2: You know what else is in law? Not harassing pregnant

478
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: women with lies and deceit lies. Yes see, that is

479
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,479
Speaker 2: the law. And we do have my book a little bit,

480
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 2: a little bit right here. I just want peace and rest.

481
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 2: Opie really wants peace and rest.

482
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 1: So bathlet just give this poor woman with her twins

483
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: peace and rest.

484
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 2: Peace and rest. I always want peace and rest. I'm

485
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 2: not someone to have fights or drama, but I am

486
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 2: a truth teller. If I can be the fact, I

487
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 2: haven't heard until this point. Is because I want my

488
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 2: husband to have his family. She just wants her husband

489
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,639
Speaker 2: to have a fan. She just wants that family together

490
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,959
Speaker 2: with her husband. He already has a had much family.

491
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 2: This is about as much as he gets. I don't

492
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:04,880
Speaker 2: want to be the one to take that away. Does

493
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: anybody know what is the best course of action? Thank

494
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 2: you in advance? Okay with that last little bit, Yeah,

495
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: it does makes sense that you don't want.

496
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 1: But I think you still have to have a conversation

497
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: with your husband because you can't decide that or him,

498
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,120
Speaker 1: Like maybe he's thinking the same thing too.

499
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, it being very considerate of op her husband

500
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 3: and that in that way, but you have to also

501
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 3: be considerate of yourself and have a conversation as a team.

502
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 2: And I think it's okay that you feel this way.

503
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 2: It's it's not so she said some crazy stuff. Yeah,

504
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 2: you don't get to just say that and then act

505
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: like everything and then act like it's all gucci. Yeah,

506
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 2: that's not fair to you or your baby. Adult conversation

507
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 2: with the husband being like, here's where I'm at. I

508
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 2: don't want to cut your sister off because she's your sister,

509
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 2: but I want to cut your sister off because I'm pregnant.

510
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 2: She's a terrible person.

511
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: There we go, and that's how you do it. But

512
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: there is one more.

513
00:23:55,400 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 2: Story maybe if we make it long. Are we the last? Yeah?

514
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: What are we at? Eight?

515
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 3: We also had to do sign offs, three different sign offs.

516
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: I totally forgot to do that. I'm a bad Three

517
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 3: different sign we'll do at the end. Okay, And there

518
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 3: is there is another story in the recording that we

519
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 3: can Yeah, yeah, yeah, I saw that. This is like

520
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 3: the in law themes, so I can just like add

521
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 3: some more in law stuff to it.

522
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 2: I see you. We're in the same wavelength.

523
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 1: Let's get into this story. Flow may may or may

524
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: not be the last story of the stream even flows

525
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: if it's If it's short, then it won't be.

526
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 2: Oh sorry, I'm not done yet. I get caught up

527
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 2: and talking to you guys. We're just we just have

528
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 2: such a titillating conversation. Ttilating conversations, two tillating conversationalists.

529
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: Oh boys, it's just a lovely old time.

530
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 2: It's just a lovely grand old time. It's a lovely

531
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 2: grand Look here's the difference. He's come back. Oh boy,

532
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 2: he's come back from the cancers. He's the boy who lived.

533
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: He come un alive back. You can't even see you.

534
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 2: He's back. He's back again. He just kissed him. I

535
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 2: could hear that you kissed him. I could to hear

536
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 2: that kissing kiss all of us? Where are my kiss

537
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,680
Speaker 2: at kean hug I'm sitting the strange Christian? Where my

538
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 2: kiss at Hugger? Get over here, the one for respecting.

539
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 1: He's going to school.

540
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: Guys, got the pearl jam reference? Thank you. I was

541
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 2: referencing even flow, Well we reference stand down? Even when

542
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 2: did we do that? I seen the first episode? Didn't

543
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 2: you think I was doing when? Like earlier when I

544
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 2: was just do it or not? He's scared now, all right,

545
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: get out of here. But there is wasted too much time, disgusting.

546
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 2: There is another story, though, get away from me. Let's

547
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 2: get into it. Okay, you were good to go Ocky.

548
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: My sister in law is a disgustingly messy housemate.

549
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: But I can't move out, probably because there's so much

550
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 2: mess in the way.

551
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: It's so messy you can't even see your way out. Midsummer,

552
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: my partner and I moved in with his parents because

553
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,239
Speaker 1: we need the help they offered to move us in,

554
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 1: and we've been working hard to be good to the

555
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: family while we're here and support ourselves as much as

556
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: possible given our personal situation. Here's the house situation, both

557
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: his parents, their two dogs, his sister twenty eight and

558
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: her fiance, male thirty, us female twenty nine and male

559
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 1: thirty two, with our two cats. So it is a

560
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: full house.

561
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, full house, full house. Not enough cats, need more cats. Cats.

562
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Dead Puppy Clowns on

563
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: the Hour slash shokey story Tam subur So. I have

564
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 1: approached the whole situation as being as thoughtful, considerate and

565
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: helpful as possible. I absolutely want to help where I

566
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 1: can while I'm here. One of the things asked of

567
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: me by mother in law is if I can help

568
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: motivate their daughter. What I have heard is that she

569
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: is disgustingly messy, selfish, anxious, explosive, depressed, capable, but completely unmotivated.

570
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 2: It is that my wife to.

571
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: The messy, selfish, anxious, explosive, depressed, capable but completely unmotivated.

572
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,360
Speaker 2: I can fix her. I can fix her. I think

573
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 2: she's a child. No, just David Goggins. Wait, is this way?

574
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 2: I think so I didn't. I didn't catch that part. No,

575
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,479
Speaker 2: maybe not? Maybe did we know? I think they were

576
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 2: twenty eight? Yeah, you got David Goggins is the answer.

577
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 2: Who's going to carry the boats?

578
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: From some perspective, all her brothers ran out of the

579
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: house the second they could, with no help. She got

580
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: everything she asked once all the boys were gone full

581
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 1: ride through college, then came home and didn't pursue anything.

582
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: Excuses for everything from not finding any work straight up

583
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: not even looking. She won't even do any of her

584
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: crafts to make her own work, even though her father

585
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 1: is offered to get her anything she wants as long

586
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 1: as she asks. Then no, we get into hygiene, and

587
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: she won't take care of herself, her space, or the

588
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: messes she makes since moving in with them. I see

589
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 1: that most of it is true. I have tried easing

590
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: her anxiety. I have tried to help her through problems,

591
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: make a schedule, set goals, et cetera. I am constantly

592
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: met with what I believe to be weaponized in competence.

593
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: I forgot I don't know how to do that. Dad

594
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 1: didn't give me money for that. I have a raid later,

595
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: I won't be available.

596
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 2: I'm just a little baby. I'm just a little baby.

597
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 2: I don't know how to do that. I can't pay

598
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 2: you in blocks. Is that that the smell's good? Yeah?

599
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 1: She spends ninety five percent of her day online on

600
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: an MMO. I don't know, a massive multiplayer online game.

601
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 2: Is that what it means? Yes? MMO? Thank you? That

602
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 2: was going to World of Warcraft.

603
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 1: Shortly after we moved in, her soon to be fiance

604
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: was shipped down to us.

605
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: What does that mean? Fance?

606
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: The parents were hoping that her partner would encourage her

607
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: to take better care of herself and motivate her in general.

608
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,479
Speaker 1: He moves in, she's to take it more showers, but

609
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: everything else stays the same.

610
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 2: At least she doesn't stink.

611
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what I'm seeing is you need more people

612
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 3: to move in to get rid of other things.

613
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

614
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: Turns out everything she told us about him may have

615
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: been a lie, or at least this stretch truth. And

616
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: he's just as bad as her.

617
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 2: Dang it, I got two problems now.

618
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: They're both making messes, sitting on their MMO together and

619
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: are in their own little romance pretending to be adults.

620
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: Fully funded by dead Day.

621
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 2: That's so cute.

622
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: It's like pulling effing teeth to get them to do anything.

623
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: I get miffed about it, but I'm running out of

624
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: patience and I'm not sure how to fix this.

625
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, people are just living the American dream. We

626
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 2: have a break here. How to fix yes? Tell me

627
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 2: how to number one clues? What do they like to

628
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 2: play online games? Okay? What can you turn off that

629
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: doesn't exactly? Yes? So you have little clues everywhere? Check

630
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 2: under the dishes and.

631
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: You clean the dishes, and you'll.

632
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 2: Do the first letter of WiFi pass.

633
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: God, but would that not only work once?

634
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 2: Change the wi Fi pass every Yeah, every time everything's

635
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 2: get messy.

636
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: Riley just solved everything in the world.

637
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 2: Yep.

638
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: Or you do what my mom does and you clean

639
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 3: it for them and they have to buy it back

640
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 3: from you.

641
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 2: Ooh, okay, clever.

642
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 1: I know it's not my job, but I live here

643
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: and I'm not willing to ignore slash support by default

644
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: this crap. Oh, and I said fiance because they vocalized

645
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: a plan of him moving in with us, them getting married,

646
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: then working on supporting each other. None of that has happened.

647
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: They can't seem to figure out how to get married, what,

648
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: and of course any fees are asked of her father,

649
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: She's like, I did the baby. I don't know i'll

650
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 1: get married. I don't even know where's the courthouse. I

651
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: got married.

652
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 2: Downstairs in my video game.

653
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: Personally, I think that's embarrassing given the situation. Aside from

654
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: trying to coach them, we've also had sit downs as

655
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 1: the children and talked about consideration, doing laundry in a

656
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: timely manner, not leaving huge messes. Replace drinks in the fridge.

657
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: They don't mind warm drinks, but we'll drink the cold

658
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: ones until they're out and work on room tempt ones

659
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: forcing us to stalk more rinse, repeat, we don't get

660
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: cold drinks. To be considerate of who bought what my

661
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: husband and I contribute to the house, and what treats

662
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: we get just for ourselves we keep at our desks.

663
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: They don't do that. They go out and load up

664
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: on junk food just for them and only buy staples

665
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: for the house with the dad's money. Be mindful of

666
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: when the dogs need water, food and need to go out.

667
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: If I'm not on top of it, I swear they

668
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: would wither away the love of f help me with dishes.

669
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: This is a house of six people. Three people are

670
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: able bodied. I have pain issues and a broken back.

671
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yo, that is you bury the lead there.

672
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: These people need to wake.

673
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: Up, yeah and help you O pee? What the they're

674
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: being useless? Kick them out, So we'll kick them out.

675
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: I ask and ask and ask them to do dishes.

676
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: The ones they do are just the ones they need,

677
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: or because they've been sitting there for so long, it

678
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: simply had to be done. I'm trying. It's so hard

679
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: keeping up with everything. The parents are disabled like myself,

680
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: and they openly appreciate me, which I appreciate in return.

681
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm also a little high strung, so my allowance from

682
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: us is lower and I struggle with that. Here we

683
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: are reaching ahead now. The parents are away due to

684
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: some family matters. Since they've been gone, I swear that

685
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 1: her and her partner are worse. Yeah, because they don't

686
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: have anyone who's like nagging.

687
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 2: Them, because they need authority and structure in their lives,

688
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 2: and they come out of their room less. They're now

689
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: ignoring my requests for help with chores. Today was the

690
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: only day since the parents have been gone that they

691
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: have helped with the elderly dog.

692
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: Oh, I honestly, I mean like it seems like, oh,

693
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: he's probably got some sort of financial situation that doesn't

694
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: allow her to move out right now.

695
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: But I don't know.

696
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like having a conversation with the parents and

697
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: being like, this is not okay. They are using you guys,

698
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: and we're all having to pick up their slack. Yeah,

699
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,239
Speaker 1: maybe it's time you say, like, either you've changed your

700
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: ways or you have to move out.

701
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 2: That would be good. But a lot of I mean,

702
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 2: how old are they twenty eight? Yeah, yeah, So a

703
00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: lot of times if it gets to that point, it's

704
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 2: the parents have just like they gigged. They just allowed it. Yeah,

705
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: they're like either have them here than like probably just

706
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 2: completely unable to take care of themselves in the real world,

707
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 2: and they've made so many allowances unhoused whatever you want

708
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: to call it, just send them off to a worse

709
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: situation in the real world because they're just like they

710
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 2: can't take it. They can't take it.

711
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: They just don't care of themselves. But there's a little

712
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: bit more then. The breaking point for my husband was

713
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: when I was whining that I left one cold, sparkling

714
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: water in the fridge for myself.

715
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 2: This is Riley.

716
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: I've taken it upon myself to clean and organize the

717
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: whole house while the parents are gone, so I wanted

718
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: that water as a treat. She had taken it and

719
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: not replaced it. There were more in the case. She

720
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: could have stalked. She's okay with warm water.

721
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: Guys, you have to replenish, got her upon it. Have

722
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 2: to replenish. If you take cold drinks from the cold area,

723
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 2: you replenish it exactly.

724
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: She took my only cold one and didn't give me another.

725
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 2: Pooh, I know how that feels. You know what. Okay, Hey,

726
00:33:58,040 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 2: I know how that fels.

727
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: I just want to say I thought they were Sam's.

728
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 2: You know, Samby's a different I do assume that he

729
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 2: didn't that it happened. I do.

730
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: Now.

731
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 3: It's not a problem because we got to okay, okay, okay,

732
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 3: I have an okay story time. I have an okay

733
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 3: story time about her, and we're gonna we're gonna talk

734
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 3: about it.

735
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 2: It's hard to pay for them. I was miffed. He

736
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: was mad.

737
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: Husband scolded them about replacing soda slash waters on our

738
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: group chat because we've talked about this before. So they

739
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 1: passive aggressively avoided us until we left the kitchen, then

740
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: dumped the whole bulk case of soda into the fridge

741
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: and not the waters. So clearly she's just oblivious to

742
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 1: any wrongdoing on top of being an a hat. I mean,

743
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: I think the Yeah, the main problem is that she's

744
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: just oblivious and she's a child.

745
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: But you can be you can be oblivious children all

746
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 2: day long on our streams. Just tap her profile.

747
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: We judge you every weekday. But yeah, there is a

748
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: little bit more to the story. But I think the

749
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 1: problem is that she's an adult baby and no one

750
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: has ever made her, you know, do anything, and so

751
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: she's just going to keep abusing her parents and keep

752
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: like because they keep letting her get away with it.

753
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

754
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 3: I live with my brother for about two years, and

755
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 3: the sibling dynamics still existed between us. And it's probably

756
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 3: good to like not live with your siblings, so like

757
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 3: that sibling dynamic like doesn't like define you as you're

758
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 3: growing up into adulthood. And I like my brother is

759
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 3: kind of introverted, but he's been more extroverted lately, and

760
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 3: I could tell.

761
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 2: Me and my brother. Got a right, I don't have

762
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 2: any siblings.

763
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: Oh, I could tell.

764
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 2: I consume. I consumed my other brother while we were

765
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: in the womb. Oh no, yeah, it was one of

766
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 2: those that's from a show, right.

767
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: Pitch Perfect?

768
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 2: Oh doing this great movie? Well, I'm from pitch Perfect, everybody.

769
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 2: I've got a good voice. My brothers I hate him,

770
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 2: got perfect pitch guys.

771
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,800
Speaker 1: But there is a little bit more to this story.

772
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: What the heck do I do? Husband is ready to

773
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: fight with his sister. I don't want to fight. I

774
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: just want us to communicate and not play these crappy games.

775
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 1: Mother in law likes the suggestion I made of limiting

776
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: their allowance to just necessities. Okay, I am dustly encouraging

777
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: them to do anything but sit on their butts.

778
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 2: Just stop giving them an allowance. Yeah yeah, literally, you

779
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 2: take the money out of this equation. In every all,

780
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: your entire life rolls apart, and they have to then

781
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 2: figure out what to do.

782
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: I focus on easing people into healthier habits and not

783
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: being aggressive. No one thinks that's going to work. Heck man,

784
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 1: that this isn't even all of it. I could go

785
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: on for ages with all the silly bs. I just

786
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: want to know what a good way forward is. Not

787
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 1: doing anything just condones the bad behavior. Being too gentle

788
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: is just taking advantage of aggression just leads to retaliation.

789
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: We're all tired of being shafted or pulling teeth. I

790
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 1: don't know, man, I think you have to either kick

791
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: them out, take away their allowance, or learn how to

792
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: live with it, because those are the I feel like

793
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: those are the only two options here.

794
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, you need to, you know, because it

795
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: sounds like they might not be able to really like

796
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 2: land on their feet if they just get kicked out

797
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 2: in the real world. So I think you know, you're

798
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: gonna have to make some kind of if you want

799
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 2: to feel good about it, right, because you are also

800
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,439
Speaker 2: totally justified and just making these people leave and get

801
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 2: them out of your house because they are just leeches, like,

802
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 2: but create the kind of roadmap of being like, all right,

803
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 2: so you guys need to get jobs, real employment, like

804
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 2: you need to be making income, like you're going to

805
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: start paying some bills around the.

806
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,399
Speaker 1: House, right, And then I think maybe it's setting those

807
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: goalposts of saying you have to get this by then,

808
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: or we take away the WiFi. You have to get

809
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: this by then or your allowance is gone. And then

810
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: it's like the last one is you're.

811
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 2: Kicked out cummunal space is being clean or getting kicked

812
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 2: out of the wife? Yeah?

813
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like twenty eight and you're treating them

814
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 3: like a child.

815
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: No, exactly, that's the thing.

816
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 2: It's it's for sure, it's weird, but just from what

817
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,399
Speaker 2: I've heard, it's like they don't If you treat these

818
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 2: people like adults, they're just going to like probably end

819
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 2: up even worse versions of themselves. And now they're just

820
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: also on the street, so they might just need a

821
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: little more support. Whether it's fair or not, it's definitely

822
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 2: not fair.

823
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: You just have to decide, you know, do you want

824
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: to kick them out? And if the answer is no,

825
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: then maybe this is the.

826
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 2: Only It sounds like they're just still, you know, fourteen

827
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 2: and they're in twenty eight year old bodies.

828
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 1: So Mingming says, do it for Dan and put them

829
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 1: in a camper. That's the solution to the Dan tried

830
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: a trude solution.

831
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: Just buy him an RV and say you're free to wander.

832
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 2: You're free to go.

833
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 1: Kimberly finds his change rent and set aside half for

834
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: savings when they leave at the very least.

835
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 2: Well, that's the angel move. I don't know. Yeah, I

836
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 2: don't think they're paying for it. That's the problem. They're

837
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 2: not paying for anything.

838
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: Not a Pokemon says yikes. My brother's kind of like this.

839
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,439
Speaker 1: He's twenty seven and has moved his girlfriend into our parents' house.

840
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: Parents are tired, but won't kick them OUTO girlfriend are.

841
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 2: Ooh? Girlfriend? Homosexual? Girlfriend? Homosexual? Nice? Yep, we got this

842
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 2: one right here.

843
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: Oh, and they give it the five bucks? Would you

844
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: or would you not feel honored? If I named my

845
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: ducklings and Stardu Valley after you guys, I would be on.

846
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 1: I hope you guys are having a beautiful start to

847
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: the week, and thanks for helping me not ball out

848
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: my hair on the long drive home today.

849
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 2: I would be honored. I honestly, deeply honored as well.

850
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 1: This week it's gone great so far. Yes, so much

851
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: better than last week. Absolutely, vibes are way better, Matt

852
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: ATTERI I'll thank you for the five bucks. I sent

853
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,360
Speaker 1: a sister in law to a black hole and is

854
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 1: not allowed to come back. I am sorry, but people

855
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: like her make me mad Oh.

856
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: There was a story before this. Yeah, I totally agree

857
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,760
Speaker 2: to the sun, but also one day become a black

858
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 2: hole as it collapsed. Sorry, I'm gonna throw somebody into

859
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 2: a black hole if they ever interrupt me again.

860
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 3: You have gotten funnier, I will say that me. Yeah,

861
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 3: your Wiener jokes are like slapping.

862
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 2: Slapping Wiener jokes. Okay, but how do we need do

863
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 2: we do one more? Do we need more? One more?

864
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 2: You know? Mass whoa woo this I'm gonna take on

865
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 2: a walk. Riley, are you a cute sleeper? You can chat?

866
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: Do we think Riley's a cute sleeper?

867
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: I have slept in the same room as Riley.

868
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: And acute sleeper.

869
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 3: She wouldn't know because she had a blindfold on the

870
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 3: whole time or whatever the.

871
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 2: Heck you put on your face.

872
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 1: I sleep like I'm being kidnapped.

873
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I have two beefs to go with.

874
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: On Sofia airport, I wear like the sleep mask your

875
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: air plugs and I wear bout.

876
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:22,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, actually abduct yourself into sleep.

877
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: So we were in Anaheim and we had like a

878
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: little airbnb and I asked Sophia, I'm like, hey, can

879
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 3: I put on some like rain noise to follow a

880
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 3: sip two on the TV, and she already.

881
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 2: Has earplugs in.

882
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 3: She already has her like mouth covered and her and

883
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 3: her eyes shut like there's no way. And I put

884
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 3: it on level four. I barely can't even listen to it.

885
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 3: And she's like, no, we can't have it. I'm like, dude,

886
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 3: you're not.

887
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 2: Even getting near it. I will hear it.

888
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 1: I have really sensitive.

889
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 2: Years, but it's strong. Your ear plugs they don't work,

890
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:51,439
Speaker 2: then why use them?

891
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: Well they work a little bit, they.

892
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 2: Did not really work out.

893
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: They block out like snoring, and they block out well

894
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: some storing and they block out breathing.

895
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 2: And that's what I need for yourself. You need to

896
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: I think you need to work on your own toile.

897
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: How long have you been doing this? Ever since she

898
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 2: went to Europe.

899
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: No, I've always been like a light sleeper.

900
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,360
Speaker 3: So you've always had always know you put them in

901
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 3: every night. No, I get scared some nights that you don't.

902
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 1: No, No, I don't put them in every night. Just

903
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: like if people are ring loud, you're like, oh no,

904
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: I never heard anything that I didn't want to hear.

905
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,320
Speaker 3: Also, another beef, I have to get up with you, dude,

906
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 3: carbonated water.

907
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 2: In this house. I didn't know where were going there. Oh,

908
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: but it's just really just okay, keep guys, okay it

909
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 2: on thick.

910
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 3: I am, I am, I'm going after you, dude, carbonated water.

911
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 3: It's weird because I usually have some I love La Croix,

912
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 3: and I put them into our cooler and then they

913
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 3: usually go away, and I'm like, well, I can't spend like,

914
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,280
Speaker 3: you know, thirty forty bucks a month on Lacroix.

915
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,240
Speaker 2: I'll just like hide them around the house.

916
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 3: And I hid some Lacroix in the back of my

917
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 3: fridge and I had four, and I went to the

918
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 3: fridge and there were three, and I was like, no,

919
00:41:59,200 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 3: I didn't.

920
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: Still any thing for the fridge. I have never stolen

921
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:02,760
Speaker 1: anything for the fridge.

922
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,479
Speaker 2: Where did you steal? They were in the cabinets. Yeah,

923
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 2: so they were in the pantry.

924
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 1: They were in the pantry.

925
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 2: They were in Sam's area to Sam's area of the pantry.

926
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 2: Ridiculous do you put a ridiculous area? I didn't know

927
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 2: why the pantry. Why do I not have a sagery

928
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 2: in the pantry? Literally do where it's where you put

929
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 2: your food in? Oh? My gosh, but no, no, no, no, no,

930
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 2: no, no no no, can we just got this up high? Yeah? Yeah,

931
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 2: here we go gett this feriod. I put it up

932
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 2: high where like.

933
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 3: I'm on my tipta was spending up and someone had

934
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 3: a little ladder and and I look in there and

935
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 3: there was four and then there were three, and I'm like,

936
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 3: who had it? And I look over to the kitchen

937
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 3: counter and someone was looking at me.

938
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: I fessed up.

939
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: I fessed up, and then I advocated for us to

940
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: get a sparkling water machine.

941
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 2: And we got that. You're welcome. Live's been nice ever

942
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 2: since the Yeah, and now we're good for sparkling water machine.

943
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 2: Now everything's fine. Yeah, until the carbonated water goes out. Yeah,

944
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 2: until we have to go buy it again. Really quick

945
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 2: thought it first she was. She was yelling at me

946
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 2: in the chat. So and there you're gone. Now you've had,

947
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 2: Now you've gotten. But here's the last.

948
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:13,919
Speaker 1: Story of the day.

949
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 2: All love from now on forever. Even if people are

950
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 2: thiefs in the shadows, I'm not a thief steals from cabinets.

951
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 2: It's okay, we've already established that you're a cabinet thief.

952
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 2: It's totally fine, we all have things to work on

953
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 2: in our life, like also maybe not having to kidnap

954
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 2: ourselves to go to sleep. Still, some stuff from Christian

955
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 2: here the albums. Guys, don't tell them nothing. All right,

956
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 2: let's get into it.