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Speaker 1: We're moving on from that one day, what if out

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Speaker 1: in your closure Call coming up next. You know, this

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Speaker 2: Now, Oh my god, it may be my favorite.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ooh, is this the one where we go on

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Speaker 3: I read a book to you guys?

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Speaker 1: Not that one? No, okay, even more popular than whose

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Speaker 1: tongue is it?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow?

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Speaker 1: our help. Dana, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, thank you so much. I'm a big fan.

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Speaker 3: Whose tongue is it?

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Speaker 1: How do you ever get it wrong?

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Speaker 4: I'm okay. I could definitely use a little help.

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Speaker 4: This is going on like five years, a little over

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Speaker 4: My younger brother, aiden brother.

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Speaker 4: No, we haven't spoken it's it's it was so weird.

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Speaker 4: He had left for cow when he was eighteen, and

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Speaker 4: Oh my exactly. He put our parents through so much stress,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what your brother has been up to

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Speaker 1: Well, just I want everybody to know. What we ended

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So even though Dana, you know the questions that

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Speaker 2: Are you ready?

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Speaker 4: I'm shaking? I am shaking, but I'm dying to know.

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Speaker 1: Ok, Well, he said, when I got to school, it

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Speaker 1: I felt uncomfortable there, didn't feel like I belonged or

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Speaker 2: But to cut off all contact for five years.

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Speaker 1: I just want you to know I'm willing to send

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Speaker 1: He went, sorry for laughing at this, but I'm more

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Speaker 2: Is anyone else geting red flags? And he didn't get

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Speaker 4: I just wonder what took him there. And it's three three.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't even know?

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Speaker 1: Or is your brother Timothy Chalomay? How much easier?

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Speaker 4: Story? So jealous?

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Speaker 3: I mean you may want a guy to look at her,

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Speaker 2: In another industry, yeah, a different type of movie. Yea

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Speaker 1: Is that what you think?

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Speaker 3: I mean, there's a lot of money in that industry.

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Speaker 1: Why wouldn't. I wouldn't want you to think that it's

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Speaker 3: If you're doing the other kind, then you're still making

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Speaker 2: The world to know exactly.

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Speaker 1: And he did write he worked very hard. Maybe he's

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Speaker 1: given us a hint there. Anyway, we shouldn't dissect this anymore.

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Speaker 3: So he's a Mexican hornstng.

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Speaker 1: we sent him. We wrote, is there any way I

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Speaker 2: Besides his film premiere, it's all right.

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Speaker 1: So he responded to that too, and he said, look,

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Speaker 4: Ye Oh my gosh, she's going to reach out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so he says, in the meantime, tell Mom and

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Speaker 2: Real, I'm not talking to that for five years to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good married Okay, he says, not comfortable

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Speaker 3: He didn't find out that he's at least happy, even

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Speaker 4: I mean, he didn't offer to buy me a house though.

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Speaker 1: You want to write back, screw off, brother. You know

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna make even more money.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, you must have used a stage name.

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Speaker 3: He could have invested in some type of crypto because

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Speaker 3: that's international.

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Speaker 2: And sold it before it all tanged.

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Speaker 1: Because we're just assuming all this stuff about him, and

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Speaker 2: You have to talk to him and tell us exactly

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Speaker 2: what he's actually into all of the deeds.

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Speaker 1: We'll just settle for some of the general details. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not on the air anyway. You feel like you got

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Speaker 4: I'm glad that he knows that we love him and

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Speaker 3: Scammers, if you have her number, this is the time

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Speaker 1: I will be answering already. Please update us or what happens.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, so much. Seriously, thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 4: This I mean, this is life changing for me and

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you, thank you, and thank your brother for

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Speaker 1: all the entertainment he's provided. That's your closure call. It's

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.