Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.
Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 1: Today's tip is that yesterday is every day. Instead of
Speaker 1: making assumptions about how you spend your time, just look
Speaker 1: at how you spent your time yesterday and you'll be
Speaker 1: able to make far more informed choices. A few weeks ago,
Speaker 1: the Bureau of Labor Statistics here in the US released
Speaker 1: results from its annual American Time Use Survey. This survey
Speaker 1: has thousands of Americans report how they spent time yesterday,
Speaker 1: that is, during the twenty four hours between four am
Speaker 1: yesterday morning and four am today. Since the survey covers weekdays, weekends,
Speaker 1: and holidays and doesn't ask about particular categories of time,
Speaker 1: but just what happened next, it's generally seen as the
Speaker 1: most reliable time survey out there. It also contains fascinating
Speaker 1: insights into how people spend their time. For instance, in
Speaker 1: the average, Americans slept about nine hours on the day
Speaker 1: when they were surveyed. Now, when you ask people how
Speaker 1: much they sleep, pretty much no one is going to
Speaker 1: tell you nine hours a day. And yet yesterday, when
Speaker 1: yesterday includes the various days that yesterday might be that
Speaker 1: is how much people slept. People also didn't work all
Speaker 1: that many hours yesterday, and we watched a lot of TV.
Speaker 1: When we think about how we spend our time, we
Speaker 1: often think more about the impressions we have of our
Speaker 1: lives than the actual numbers. If we feel tired, we
Speaker 1: call to mind a short night and say that's how
Speaker 1: many hours we slept. If we feel overworked, we call
Speaker 1: to mind the longest day in the past few weeks
Speaker 1: and say that that is a typical work day. In
Speaker 1: our minds, we are supremely dedicated to our homes and
Speaker 1: our families, spending tons of time on housework and child care.
Speaker 1: In reality, it sometimes turns out to be fewer minutes
Speaker 1: than we might think. All that is neither here nor there.
Speaker 1: Yesterday is probably not absolutely typical for anyone, But it
Speaker 1: can't be completely atypical for everyone, or we aren't using
Speaker 1: the right definition of the word typical. So what this
Speaker 1: means is that yesterday can probably give more insights into
Speaker 1: your life than an assumption of a typical day. If
Speaker 1: you are trying to get a grasp on your time,
Speaker 1: look at yesterday. It will tell you a lot. For instance,
Speaker 1: if you exercised yesterday, that's wonderful. We can be pretty
Speaker 1: sure that you do exercise at least here and there
Speaker 1: in your life. If you didn't exercise, well, that certainly
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you never do. In general, I think that
Speaker 1: anything that happens three times a week is a habit.
Speaker 1: But it does mean that exercise is not such a
Speaker 1: high priority for you that you will make time for
Speaker 1: it absolutely every single day, because well, there was yesterday.
Speaker 1: Maybe yesterday was a work day. What did it look like.
Speaker 1: Maybe you normally think of yourself as working from eight
Speaker 1: to six every work day, which means that you work
Speaker 1: fifty hour weeks. But in fact, yesterday you left a
Speaker 1: little early and kind of took a long lunch. It
Speaker 1: wasn't a typical day. But if there are days that
Speaker 1: are less than ten hours long, the odds are pretty
Speaker 1: good that you are not working quite as many hours
Speaker 1: as you think you are. The reason this matters is
Speaker 1: that if you are working forty five hours, you'll need
Speaker 1: to make different choices with how you're allocating your time. Then,
Speaker 1: if you are working, say fifty hours, you simply have
Speaker 1: ten fewer hours to work with than you think you do. Now,
Speaker 1: maybe yesterday was a weekend or a holiday, so that's
Speaker 1: clearly not typical. Right, Well, guess what weekend days occur
Speaker 1: twice each week. That's two out of every seven days,
Speaker 1: hardly a typical. We may think of things as a
Speaker 1: daily habit, like I'm always up at six am to
Speaker 1: write in my journal. But if it didn't happen yesterday
Speaker 1: on a weekend day, then it is not a daily habit.
Speaker 1: It may be a frequent habit, and that's great, but
Speaker 1: not quite as frequent as the picture we're walking around with.
Speaker 1: Of course, it is quite possible that yesterday was absolutely
Speaker 1: a typical in some way. Still, if there is any
Speaker 1: possibility that a day like that will ever occur again
Speaker 1: in your life, then it needs to be part of
Speaker 1: the mental picture. I find it funny that sometimes people
Speaker 1: will keep track of their time and show me their
Speaker 1: time logs, and their time logs will include something indulgent
Speaker 1: like let's say a day at the spa. Sounds fun right.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people will then right on their logs this never happens,
Speaker 1: even though clearly it did. Never is a very different
Speaker 1: story from not as much as I want. Never is defeatist.
Speaker 1: I prefer the story that yes, I go to the
Speaker 1: spa sometimes and I'd love to go more often. And
Speaker 1: here's what I'm going to do to make that happen.
Speaker 1: We want to be sure we are working with the
Speaker 1: right story. So think about how you spent yesterday. Talk
Speaker 1: it through four am to four am. Most people can
Speaker 1: remember the past twenty four hours with relative accuracy. If
Speaker 1: you're not sure where the time went, look at your
Speaker 1: calendar or talk to your family members. Then give it
Speaker 1: a little more thought. Think about where these hours all went.
Speaker 1: How do you feel about it, What do you like most,
Speaker 1: What do you want to spend more time doing. What
Speaker 1: do you want to spend less time doing. Figure this
Speaker 1: out looking at where the time actually went yesterday, and
Speaker 1: you will make far wiser choices than when you work
Speaker 1: from assumptions. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening,
Speaker 1: and here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody,
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