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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Suana and Dayton Shawana says,

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Speaker 1: I tuned my husband out when he comes home and

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Speaker 1: complains about his job. He said, I don't understand how

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Speaker 1: hard it is for a black man to work in

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Speaker 1: an all white environment. I don't understand how a black

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Speaker 1: man can be pushed around all day and not say

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Speaker 1: anything about it to the people that are doing it.

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Speaker 1: I have told him over and over to go find

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Speaker 1: a better job. He said, it's not that easy. Well,

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Speaker 1: what's so hard about that?

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Speaker 2: What's so hard about finding another job that's going to

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Speaker 2: pay you and get the benefits with the one you got?

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Speaker 2: What's so hard about getting another job when everybody in

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Speaker 2: America is getting fired right now? What's so hard about

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Speaker 2: getting another job? Because he's still going to be a

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Speaker 2: black man on that job too. The fact that you

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Speaker 2: are not sympathetic to your man, that you can't understand

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Speaker 2: his cry for help. He coming home to get recharged

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Speaker 2: and rejuvenated by the one person who can do it

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Speaker 2: for him, that will give him the sh strift and

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Speaker 2: forty two to go back out here and deal with

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Speaker 2: these folks on another day. But oh no, you don't

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Speaker 2: want to do that. Right there, you tune him out.

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Speaker 2: See since this man, some of y'all don't understand now,

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Speaker 2: and then stop making it a compassion. He ain't saying

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Speaker 2: your life easy. He just saying here is hard. He

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Speaker 2: trying to talk to somebody. Then you get a cused

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Speaker 2: black man, get accused because we don't. We don't communicate.

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Speaker 2: Then when he come home and he complaining about his

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Speaker 2: job and how hard it is, and he's telling you

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Speaker 2: you don't understand, and you steady ain't trying to understand.

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Speaker 1: She said she tried over and over to tell him

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Speaker 1: to get a better job. What's so hard about that?

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Speaker 2: That's okay, that didn't I just tell you what's so hard?

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Speaker 2: Get another job? Where at his age of the.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't get it, she really does. That's when

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Speaker 1: they support.

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Speaker 2: More than anything. Most men leave this world underappreciate and

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Speaker 2: die from lack of support and underappreciation, being under appreciated.

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Speaker 2: And I know a lot of me is suffering from

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Speaker 2: that right now. I know exactly how that feels. Hey

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Speaker 2: to hello, Hello, my hand is up.

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Speaker 1: Mind, this is a moment mine I feel what Yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: we appreciate you guys, you know that, right We appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: We definitely appreciate. We appreciate you. Example, how und appreciate

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Speaker 1: We're not your wives, but we appreciate profess we work together.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Last night I asked, could you please go downstairs and

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Speaker 2: give me the apple pie and some ice cream? She said,

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Speaker 2: you was just down there.

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Speaker 1: I don't see anything wrong with what she said. What

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Speaker 1: what did you want her to say? Junior? Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna I you want her to say whatever you like?

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Speaker 2: Ain't nobody, But let me ask you some ladies. If

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Speaker 2: you tell me your husband, can you go downstairs and

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Speaker 2: give me some piles some ice cream? You know what

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Speaker 2: he gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, yeah, of course, yeah, always, thank you. That's

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Speaker 1: very nice.

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Speaker 2: Why so why Junior can't get some piants some ice cream?

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like Junior, you were just down there.

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Speaker 1: You knew you wanted to power when you were down

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Speaker 1: Why all right? We have time for another one. God,

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Speaker 1: they get madd I know they're so mad. But again,

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Speaker 1: we appreciate you, guys. This is from Madeleine and Lemita.

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Speaker 1: Madeleine says, I'm a fifty six year old single woman.

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Speaker 1: I've been engaged three times. Each time my relationships ended.

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Speaker 1: While we were doing our pre marital counseling, my parents

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Speaker 1: called me Sunday and said that maybe I need to

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Speaker 1: go see a counselor on my own. Are they trying

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Speaker 1: to say that I might be the problem? It's not me,

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Speaker 1: I just be picking the wrong type of man. How

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Speaker 1: could my parents suggest that to me?

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Speaker 2: Listen to me. Come on, I hear all the time

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Speaker 2: from women. How men ain't sugar honey iced tea. Three

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Speaker 2: times you'd have got down to the point of no return,

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Speaker 2: and three times they've all turned around.

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Speaker 1: It could be you, she said her, and I believe her.

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Speaker 2: And you believe her, and she been down to counseling

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Speaker 2: three times. Different means what is she saying in the counseling.

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