1 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 1: Hey, they're Fanerrito's. 2 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: Welcome to part two of our interview with my big brother, 3 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: Darren Barber. Just when you thought you couldn't possibly hear 4 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: any more embarrassing stories from my childhood, Oh there's more 5 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: for part two of Growing Up Barber. Here's Darren. What 6 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 2: other stories do you remember from our childhood? Like, there's 7 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 2: there's so many, but what are the highlights? You know? 8 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: Like I was dad's favorite, you were mom's favorite, so 9 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 2: you know, oh oh yeah, okay, how it just I 10 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,639 Speaker 2: don't know what happened to Justin and all of that. 11 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 3: Well middle child again, it doesn't even doesn't matter, doesn't 12 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 3: even exist. So how how now we've heard about how 13 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,639 Speaker 3: you know your dad favored you? How was Darren your 14 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 3: mom's favorite? 15 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 4: Well? I think because I was the first born. I 16 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 4: think because it took them many years to conceive. This 17 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 4: was before in vitro, and they had to go through 18 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 4: a whole bunch of you know, experimental stuff to try 19 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 4: to even see if they could conceive. So I think 20 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 4: that had a lot to do with it in terms 21 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 4: of that my mom and I were similar in many 22 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 4: ways that Andrea mentioned earlier, and so I think that 23 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 4: that probably contributed greatly to it in terms of and 24 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 4: a lot of the first as a parent you'll experience 25 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 4: with the oldest child, you know, just by definition and stuff. 26 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 4: And then in all candor, and I don't know if 27 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 4: Andrew has ever shared this on the podcast, but after 28 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 4: I was born and then my brother was born, that 29 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 4: was it. You know, it was so difficult for them 30 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 4: to get pregnant it you know that that was going 31 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 4: to be the end of it. So Andrea was more 32 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 4: of an oops like, oh we're pregnant again, right, oh okay, wow, 33 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 4: So that was I was s talk to everybody in 34 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 4: a good way, but you were the special one. Yeah. 35 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 4: I definitely was was mom's mom's favorite. I think largely 36 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 4: because I was the firstborn and went through all of 37 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,839 Speaker 4: her first as a parent in that way and most 38 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 4: of the things that happened. 39 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's okay, that's okay. 40 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right. We'd have you know, as far as 41 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:28,359 Speaker 4: the home dynamics go, my dad he liked to when 42 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 4: Andrew was really young, probably like four or five, you know, 43 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 4: he would he would yell out, save the fair maiden, 44 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 4: and he would grab Andrea's ankle or her wrist or 45 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: something and my brother and I would have to wrestle 46 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 4: with my dad to break her free right any way possible. 47 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 4: So we're all rolling around on the floor trying to 48 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 4: tickle Dad or distract him or probably like one digit, 49 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 4: you know, from his hand off her at a time, 50 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: and you know, if she got away, he would like 51 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 4: lunch and grab her again. And it became this big game. 52 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 4: And I think that game probably went off on off 53 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 4: and on for probably two years. But I distinctly remember 54 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 4: the time when she was she was either seven or eight, 55 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 4: and my dad's like save the fair Maiden, and he 56 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 4: grabs her and Essin and I looked at each other 57 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 4: and went nah, and we just walked out, and it 58 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 4: was like that was the end of Save the Fair Maiden. 59 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,399 Speaker 4: Never played it again, happened, that was it? 60 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were like fair Maiden, Sure, yeah, done. 61 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 2: Do you remember I would stand in a doorway with 62 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 2: my arms out, I say, you can't pass the Queen. 63 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that works like twice, and then finally 64 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 2: at one point you were just. 65 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: Like you just picked me up and put me yes 66 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: the Queen. 67 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean yeah, that was I forgot about you 68 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 4: can't pass. It was so annoying. I'm like, yeah, I can't, 69 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 4: like on twice her side, Why am I letting this happen? 70 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 4: You know, I mean the size of Queen Elizabeth. The 71 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 4: second I'm like, I don't know why. I'm thinking you 72 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 4: have any way to stop me from going through this? 73 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I forgot about that. There was also the 74 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 4: the part you know that, like I said, the teenage 75 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 4: years that we all go through that are awkward and 76 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 4: rebellious at times. And there was a stage in which 77 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 4: Andrea wasn't doing her laundry and just letting things pile up. 78 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 4: So of course my mom is making sure things are 79 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 4: cleaned and clothed or whatever, and eventually Andrea kind of 80 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 4: did it. But you know, doing laundry was she would 81 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 4: just like leave it in the washer and the dryer. 82 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 4: So now that's the easiest part of doing that now, right, 83 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 4: So we've got the you know, the dew and the 84 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 4: mold coming in the in the washer and then her 85 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 4: clothes in the dryer. Yeah, and so she would go 86 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 4: to the dryer to get the clothes, but only what 87 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 4: she needed to wear that day and just leave the 88 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 4: rest of it in the dryer, which completely breaks down 89 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:58,799 Speaker 4: the whole system. Okay, and if you can imagine, knowing 90 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:03,239 Speaker 4: my dad, he literally built a closet that had doors 91 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 4: on both sides. So there's a door doors on the 92 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 4: side of their bedroom, doors on the side of the 93 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 4: laundry room, and the cabinet or dresser you know that 94 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 4: holds the clothing. The drawers would swing into each room, 95 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 4: so he could literally do laundry, put it in the drawer, 96 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 4: and then when he was in his bedrooms. 97 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 1: So why did he not patent this? Why did this? 98 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: I would buy it now they could be selling it 99 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 3: at Ikia. The d Barbs closet system, that's. 100 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 4: What we should call it. So Andrew would completely block 101 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 4: the whole system by leaving her clothing in the dryer, 102 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 4: so none of us could do. 103 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 3: Laundry drawer sliding back and forth. Great design can't be 104 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 3: used because of you. 105 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, So my mom finally got fed up in a 106 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 4: rare mom of annoyance with my sister by her, and 107 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 4: she took all of her clothes out of the dryer 108 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 4: and put it into a trash bag and kept it. 109 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 4: And so Andrea goes to the dryer and it's empty, 110 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 4: and it's like, oh, where are my clothes, and Mom's like, 111 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 4: I have them in a bag and say, okay, I 112 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 4: need them. You can buy it for a dollar. Andrew, 113 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 4: I'm not doing that. She's like, well, you're clogging up 114 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 4: the system. I'm holding your clothes hostage until you you 115 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 4: can purchase them. Oh. So she storms off or whatever, 116 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 4: and that lasted, I don't know, maybe fifteen minutes, and 117 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 4: Andrey just walks into the room. She takes out a 118 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 4: dollar bill and hands it to my mother. Can I 119 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 4: have my clothes? Yeah? My mom hands with the bag 120 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 4: of clothes. Andrea takes them and goes off and gets 121 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 4: dressed and does whatever she needs to do the next day, Jodie. 122 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 4: The next day, Andrea needs clothing again and she can't 123 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 4: find whatever outfit she wants, so she literally just walks 124 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 4: up to my mom, hands are a dollar, doesn't say 125 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 4: one word, and my mom looks at it and takes it, 126 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 4: and she says, what's this for. And Andrew's like, I 127 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 4: need this outfit, blah blah blah, and my mom goes, oh, 128 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 4: it's in the same bag, and then just pocketed the 129 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 4: dollar and walked off. So Andrea paid for something she'd 130 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 4: already paid for that she had in her room. 131 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 2: She the bag. 132 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 3: Oh that happens all the time with kids. 133 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: I think it's a it's some sort of thing. 134 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 3: Their eyeballs don't work somewhere between middle and high school. 135 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 3: They just can't actually see things one hundred percent. 136 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 2: I'm definitely paying for it now because both Tate and 137 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 2: Felicity clog up the dryer and yeah, they'll just go 138 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 2: remove the one sweater that they're wearing. 139 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: For the day. 140 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is it, this is paramase me. 141 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: They am also a laundry forget person. I like my 142 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 3: and poor Mescal lives in a house with three people 143 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 3: who will start two loads of laundry and then they 144 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 3: will die there days and forget. I didn't can't even 145 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 3: remember I started laundry, like it didn't even happen. 146 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: And then he'll go to do laundry and be like and. 147 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 3: Go to move the washer stuff into the dryer, but 148 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 3: he can't because the dryer is also. 149 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,559 Speaker 1: Full, and he's just like, what are you doing? 150 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 3: So I relate, although I am forty two and should 151 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 3: really get my act together, But anyway, tons of. 152 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: Time, tons of time, you had tons of time and don't. 153 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 4: At the very end, someone will dress you. 154 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: That's the way it works right now. 155 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: Was there, like, was was there a lot of systems 156 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 3: in the barber house? 157 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 4: Like? 158 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 3: Was there did things run along pretty smoothly? Because I 159 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 3: know it sounds like there was a laundry system. Sounds 160 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 3: like your dad had, you know, these these bi directional 161 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 3: drawers and this genius closet system. We know that organization 162 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 3: runs in the Barber family. Were there a lot of 163 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:51,839 Speaker 3: systems growing up? 164 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 4: Like? 165 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: Was that something that was always present? 166 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 4: I would say so. My mom was really good about 167 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 4: organizing stuff. We even had a little small clause and 168 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 4: I know it was probably six feet by three feet 169 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 4: or four feet, but it was called the Etcetera Room, 170 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 4: and it just had all the extra things and stuff, 171 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 4: so all the clutter could be in just one room. 172 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 4: We had a junk drawer which would have scissors and 173 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 4: tape and other same kind of stuff. The system for 174 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 4: the thermostat was don't touch it, and if he did it, 175 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 4: who touched the thermostat? So we weren't allowed to do that. 176 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 2: Dad could Dad had radar, like he could be on 177 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 2: the other end of the house and he could detect 178 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 2: if we had moved to the thermostat. One degree. You'd 179 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: be walking down the hall, you know, who would touched 180 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 2: the thermostat? I had to be at sixty eight, sixty 181 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,479 Speaker 2: eight all the time. Sixty eight that's cold, yeah. 182 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, it was. It was, you know, and 183 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 4: so there was there were systems and stuff, but not 184 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 4: everybody adhered to the systems and things. I can remember, 185 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 4: you know, my dad as now you know I have 186 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 4: those jeans. He likes to eat cookies late at night 187 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 4: and stuff. So we'd have like a package of oreos 188 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 4: and you know, I eat, I'd eat some for dessert, 189 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 4: and then he would eat some late at night. And 190 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 4: the thing with oreos is they get stale if you 191 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 4: leave them out, and so I would usually put them 192 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 4: in a gallon, you know, ziplock bag, and as part 193 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 4: of the system, I would push the air out of 194 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 4: it before I would zip it. So my dad, in 195 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 4: order to torment me, would make sure to blow air 196 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 4: into the bag so it was like a balloon when 197 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 4: he'd zip it up. And I'd find it the next 198 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 4: day and I'm like, well, you know, like that's for 199 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 4: touching the thermostat. And I'm like, Dad, wasn't me? That 200 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 4: was Andrea and Andrea wouldn't do that. I'm like, oh my, 201 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 4: like so yeah, we we did. We did have something. 202 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 4: We did have to have systems with respect to like 203 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 4: homework and how things were going to get coordinated because 204 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 4: Mom was on the freeway probably days a week driving 205 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:57,679 Speaker 4: peopled auditions, and that necessitated either who's going to be 206 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 4: home or how are you going to get a ride 207 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 4: home from sport or different things like that during the 208 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 4: times we overlapped in the years of days of our 209 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 4: lives and commercial shoots and things you were doing. 210 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 211 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 3: Now, I was going to ask you are the originator 212 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 3: of the funeral file? Correct, yes, because this is one 213 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 3: of my favorite things and I think it is absolutely 214 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 3: brilliant and can you please We've talked about it on 215 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 3: the showcase. 216 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 1: I have one future. I have a funeral file for 217 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: Jody and one for Canvas. 218 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:34,959 Speaker 4: Yeah. 219 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that started with you, Darren. 220 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 3: So yeah, and I think it's a great idea. I 221 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 3: think everyone should do it. It's like, just it's the best, 222 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 3: but please let. 223 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 4: Us see in funeral Files copyright Darren W. Barber, twenty five. 224 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 4: It was it was born out of just being held 225 00:11:54,600 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 4: hostage by the family in as I got older, the 226 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 4: death of our maternal grandmother was a big deal in 227 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 4: the family. And I was at an age or i'd 228 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 4: finished law school. I had been a school teacher for 229 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 4: a period of time, so a lot of public speaking 230 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 4: and different things, and so everyone decided I should give 231 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 4: the eulogy. And I didn't really want to do that, 232 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 4: and so they were like, no, no, no, you're you're 233 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 4: really funny and stuff, and I'm like, yeah, this isn't 234 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 4: the prerequisite to giving the eulogy. You know, it's it's 235 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 4: usually a black shirt and a white collar or anything, 236 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 4: but being funny. I mean, you want some humorous antecdotes 237 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 4: in talking about someone's life. But I didn't really feel 238 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 4: like it was, you know, my role to play. And 239 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 4: I lost that argument with everybody in the family, and 240 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 4: they said, all right, you're giving the eulogy for your grandmother, 241 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 4: and I said, okay, So then you're struggling to come 242 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 4: up with, Okay, what am I going to say about her? 243 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 4: I mean, I can get her life history, but you 244 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: want to sprinkle it with a little bit of humor. 245 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 4: And so I did that. I put it together and 246 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 4: I don't know if Andrew's even shared this with you, 247 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 4: but my parents decided for the actual ceremony or whatever, 248 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 4: we didn't go to a church. We went to a 249 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:22,959 Speaker 4: restaurant to have this function. But my dad, being as 250 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:26,479 Speaker 4: frugal as he is, he only rented out half the restaurant. 251 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: I assume the viewing was somewhere else. 252 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yeah, that wasn't I'm sorry. 253 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: It was at a seafood restaurant. Oh well, the salad 254 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: bar came in handy. 255 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, would you like some pepper with that? 256 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: Are one thing out of the way, yeah, Ice is 257 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: already there. Yeah, so it was. 258 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 4: It was just like a collision course of like, oh no, 259 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 4: you rented out half the restaurant. And so, come to 260 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 4: find out, as I get up to speak, I realize 261 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 4: a minute into this thing, somebody is walking by me 262 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 4: to go to the bathroom, because we are in the 263 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 4: half of the restaurant that have the restrooms. So now 264 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 4: people fantastic walking through the eulogy to get to the restroom, 265 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 4: or they're just turning around and deciding to hold it. 266 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 4: I mean, it was it was a nightmare, right. 267 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: This is amazing, This is such a such a great 268 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: lea up. 269 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, And so then I'm doing improv and I'm like, no, no, 270 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 4: just come on through, you know. 271 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: It's like and then I'm doing a tight ten. 272 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 4: Yeah exactly. I'm like, okay. So I got through it, 273 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 4: and after it was over, you know, I was venting 274 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 4: to the family and I like, all right, never again. 275 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 4: This was too much stress. This was horrific, I said, 276 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 4: And now I'm starting funeral files on all of you. 277 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 4: And like, what do you mean? I said, I'm going 278 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 4: to start a file and I'm going to have stuff 279 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 4: in there that happens, and when something goes on in 280 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 4: your life that I think is funny, it's going in 281 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 4: that file. So when I get asked to do your eulogy, 282 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 4: I'm just breaking out the funeral file and going, all right, 283 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 4: which one of these am I going to use to 284 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 4: talk about you in a way that's. 285 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 3: Prepared, presumptuous that you think you would be doing everyone's eulogy. 286 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: But I you know, I appreciate the enthusiasm. It's actually brilliant. 287 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 3: Now it is amazing, And I seriously I love this 288 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 3: idea because it's true. When you're in the middle of, 289 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 3: like dealing with losing someone, it sometimes it can be hard, 290 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 3: very hard to be funny. And it can be hard 291 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 3: to like remember specific things, and I think it's great. 292 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 4: Well, you know, odds are I will have a time 293 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 4: where I outlive my father. I mean, my sister's probably 294 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 4: gonna beat me. She's younger and she's a woman. But 295 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna give it. 296 00:15:58,080 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: To the queen. 297 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. So because my son will thoroughly enjoy giving her 298 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 4: eulogy and the stuff that I will, I will leave him. 299 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: So get down. We'll be great at it. 300 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, he'll be fantastic. But from my dad, I mean, 301 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 4: just by way of example, I already know how I'm 302 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 4: going to open with my dad because there was a 303 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 4: time that he and my mom were running late to 304 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 4: the funeral of a friend of theirs, and they got 305 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 4: there right after the service had started, and they walked 306 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 4: in and, you know, embarrassingly kind of scoot in and 307 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 4: sit down and kind of give a few head nods 308 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 4: to the two or three faces they recognize. And about 309 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 4: five to seven minutes into it, they realize they're at 310 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 4: the wrong funeral and they don't know the decedent. There's 311 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 4: just a couple of local people from the town they 312 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 4: know in the church with them. So when they got 313 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 4: up to have the first hymn that was being sung. 314 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 4: They quickly exited, got in their car and went to 315 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 4: the other church and were even later to the funeral 316 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 4: of the person and who they were supposed to be honoring. 317 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that would have been a graaty. 318 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 3: Sorry, we had another funeral to hit before we came, 319 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like, yeah. 320 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 4: Look at our age. 321 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just back to back, you know. 322 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 4: So I will literally open with you know, we're here 323 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 4: to honor Don Barber and in his memory, I'm going 324 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 4: to share this story, and after I do, I'll say, 325 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 4: if any of you are in the wrong, you know, church, 326 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 4: I'm gonna allow you to get up now in honor 327 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 4: of my father and leave and get to the correct funeral. 328 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 4: So we perfect. We have that one locked and loaded 329 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 4: to open with. And amazing, Don's got a wealthy material. 330 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 4: I may run a full hour set on that and 331 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 4: maybe Netflix will pick it up. 332 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 1: I'm here for the movie. I'm ready for the documentary. 333 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 3: I'm this is Yeah, I can't imagine what's in Don 334 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 3: Barber's It'll. 335 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 4: Be Don Barber by directional doors and drawers and other stories. 336 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: Yes, exactly right, you know. 337 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 4: I like the way that you phrased that. So I 338 00:17:57,400 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 4: think I'm gonna I'm gonna go opted. 339 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 2: I think it's safe to say that Dad has the 340 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 2: longest funeral file of all of any of the files 341 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 2: that you've kept. 342 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: Like he is a daily there. 343 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 3: There there are some pretty epic stories of like things 344 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 3: where you're like, what happened. 345 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 4: He's like, you know, we went and saw that movie 346 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 4: paint Face, And I'm like what. He's like, paint Face. 347 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, you mean Braveheart? Yeah? It what best picture? 348 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 4: Like how do you not know that name? But it's 349 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:28,719 Speaker 4: it a height of popularity, you know. And he's like, 350 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 4: let's go see missus double fire. Missus is it? Is 351 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 4: it too? 352 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 3: Dad? 353 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 4: It's missus doubt fire? Like, holy crap. You you're a lawyer, right. 354 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 3: You use words for a living, and you yeah, it 355 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: is amazing. 356 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, we've written down all the mispronunciations of movies and 357 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 4: other things. Yeah, to keep to keep it going. 358 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 2: I love it. 359 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 4: He is a wealth of material. 360 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: He's close enough that you know what he's saying. But 361 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:58,160 Speaker 1: he's completely right. You're like, I know where you're going 362 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: with this, but also wow, and. 363 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 4: Half the time he'll try to die on that hill, like, 364 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 4: he's right. 365 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 1: The original script said double fire on it. 366 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 4: I saw it right a hundred Yeah, it was the 367 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 4: working title, you guys. You guys just weren't in the 368 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,199 Speaker 4: no I was on the lot wandering around. I got 369 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 4: ahold of one of the scripts, and yeah, it was 370 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 4: the working title. 371 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: I love it, Darren. Today, Jody and I are recapping 372 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: the infamous Telethon episode. 373 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 1: Which you were. You were in it. 374 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 2: You got more screen time than I did in this episode. 375 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 4: My talent finally recognized, right, But you. 376 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:43,640 Speaker 2: Didn't know you were going to be on camera. So 377 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 2: what tell us this story? You know, you were just 378 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 2: coming to see me for a Friday night take and they. 379 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: Were like, put that kid in the picture. 380 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, classic elements to it. So obviously the Friday Night 381 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,680 Speaker 4: ABC lineup was a juggernaut. It had picked up steam. 382 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 4: I at that point had been in college for four 383 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 4: years and I had some really good friends I had 384 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 4: made there, and there were four guys that I bonded 385 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 4: with that so the five of us lived together three 386 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 4: of my four years, my sophomore, junior, and senior year 387 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 4: we all lived. We all lived together. So inevitably they 388 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 4: figure out and find out that Andrea is on Full 389 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 4: House and it's becoming more popular, and I'm getting peppered 390 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 4: with let's go see a show. Can we go see 391 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 4: a show? Can we see a taping? And I'm like, yeah, 392 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 4: but you know, it's not really what you think it is. No, 393 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 4: it's gonna be it's like a half hour to be hilarious. 394 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 4: I'm like, no, it's like six hours. And it's not 395 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 4: how it works. You're gonna be uncomfortable, like you're in 396 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 4: chairs and got a stret I'm trying and explain to 397 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:48,440 Speaker 4: him it's not like all glitz and glamour. But they were. 398 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,719 Speaker 4: They were hammering me on it and wanted to go 399 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 4: see it. And so I finally said, all right, I 400 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:55,679 Speaker 4: will take you up there and we'll go see it. 401 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 4: And I worked it out with Andrea's manager and by 402 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 4: that I mean Dawn to figure out one would be 403 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 4: a good time to go. And thankfully you guys had 404 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 4: Friday night tapings because I went to school at you 405 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 4: see San Diego, so it's going to be a little 406 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 4: bit of a trek to get up there to the studio. 407 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 3: And so. 408 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 4: We got tickets for the show, and so I told everyone, 409 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 4: all right, we're going to go see the show and stuff, 410 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:25,360 Speaker 4: and UCSD is a intellectual school and not really known 411 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 4: for partying. And I lived with a group of smart gentlemen, 412 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 4: but the smartest of all of us, and the guy 413 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 4: with the photographic memory said, nah, I'm not going to go. 414 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 4: I got to study for a test on Monday. On Monday. 415 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 4: I'm like, you have all weekend and you're the smartest 416 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 4: dude in the house and you have a photographic memory, 417 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 4: and he's like, no, I just don't think so, and 418 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,120 Speaker 4: his girlfriend's like, we should go. We should go because 419 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 4: I invited her. They'd been together for about five or 420 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 4: six years because they started in high school together. And 421 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 4: he's just he says no. So that's an important component 422 00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 4: to the story. So the other three guys, myself and 423 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 4: my girlfriend at the time, we all go up to 424 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 4: the full house studio. We get ushered in, you know, 425 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 4: through mom and dad, and we have to sign some paperwork. 426 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 4: I just assumed it was because we were getting preferential treatment. 427 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 4: At this point. I don't realize they're going to use 428 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 4: the audience in the show, and neither do my roommates. 429 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 4: So we all sit down in the front row, front 430 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 4: and center and then somebody comes out and explains it's 431 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 4: a telethon episode and they need to use the audience 432 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 4: as telethon but you know telethon people, and so we're 433 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 4: going to be on TV and that's why we had 434 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 4: to sign all the waivers. Oh it dawns. So we're 435 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 4: front and center, you know, and of course my roommates 436 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 4: are super excited about this. It's very you know, they're 437 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 4: they're very, very pumped up. And so we're sitting there 438 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 4: and the show's being shot and and you know, you 439 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 4: got to see, you know, how I clapped and was 440 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 4: very rhythmic and doing the good job to your dancing, and. 441 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. It kept me on track. 442 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 4: Absolutely want to make sure we're helping the talent and stuff, 443 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 4: and about I don't know, I would say twenty minutes 444 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 4: into the episode, they ask us all the switch seats 445 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,919 Speaker 4: because it's a twenty four hour telethon and no one 446 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 4: would sit there for twenty four hours, and it makes 447 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 4: total sense. So they put us in the second row, 448 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 4: right behind the first row we were sitting in, and 449 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 4: I'm like, you don't think you never now recognize the 450 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 4: fact that the same five people are now sitting right 451 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 4: behind where they were before. 452 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 3: We replaced Grandma three times in the first two seasons. 453 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? 454 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 3: Like, please, that's not a through line. Is not something 455 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 3: that we worry about on this show. Yeah, yeah, now 456 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 3: they yeah to switch a shirt, throw a baseball hat on. 457 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, who's that? Yeah? 458 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 4: Right? So yeah, kind of like when Carrie Brady on 459 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,479 Speaker 4: Days of Our Lives was nine years old and stormed 460 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 4: up to her room and two weeks later came down 461 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 4: as a fourteen year old and a different actress, and 462 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 4: Andrea Barber was unemployed. So you're really mad and aged 463 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 4: in two weeks, didn't you. Ye. So yeah, it was 464 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 4: a lot of fun. I mean, I had a good time. 465 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 4: It was a lot of fun obviously for our roommates 466 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,719 Speaker 4: and stuff. And they're very excited when we're driving back 467 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 4: to San Diego. So we get back and so shout 468 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,679 Speaker 4: out to Chuck, Bruce and Dave that went with me. 469 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 4: And so we go home and tell Patrick they're like, bad, 470 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 4: we're gonna be on television and he's just like shut up, 471 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 4: like no, We're on TV, And like seriously, he's like 472 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 4: I'm not buying it. Whatever, and he's like no, So 473 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 4: they explained to him what happened. And Pat's girlfriend, Laurie, 474 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:50,919 Speaker 4: who's the better half of the two of them, as 475 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,199 Speaker 4: much as I love Pat, literally just kind of hits am. 476 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 4: I knew he could have gone. I can't believe it. 477 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:02,160 Speaker 4: So to this day, we are always on those reruns 478 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 4: and Pat gets reminded of it whenever I imagine Lori 479 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 4: sees it on television or has one of her kids 480 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 4: or nieces or nephews look at it, and I find 481 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 4: it hilarious. You know, it's very funny. So and even now, 482 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 4: what thirty years later or whatever, thirty five years later, 483 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 4: there will be people that you know that I do 484 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 4: know I should say that. But I was watching an 485 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 4: episode of Full House. I think I saw you on it, 486 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh man, that thing lives on I 487 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 4: can't believe it. So that's how the story came about. 488 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 4: It was total dumb luck, and it was literally the 489 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 4: only episode of Full House I saw taped in the 490 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 4: entire run. 491 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 3: I feel like you were set up by your parents 492 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 3: down it was Dawn. 493 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: I feel like it was. 494 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 3: Don Barber, and I feel like somehow he negotiated that 495 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 3: you were supposed to be paid for it, but you 496 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 3: never wore. 497 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 4: Probably not, And yeah, it's another good theory. I don't 498 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 4: even think you're wearing a tin foil hat. I think 499 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,440 Speaker 4: it probably had ben't lots of secret that I didn't 500 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 4: even consider to be quite honest, that you probably did 501 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 4: manipulate that now that. 502 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: You like, he was like, you know what, yeah. 503 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 4: One hundred percent. 504 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 2: The best part is that it's now like a meme 505 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:27,400 Speaker 2: because you're you're shown in the audience mostly during Jodie's 506 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,959 Speaker 2: dance to the B fifty two's love Shack and that 507 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 2: that is just. 508 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 1: Well the cover band, let's be fair. 509 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 2: Yes, I listened to it and I was like, oh, 510 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 2: such an iconic dance, and it's all over Instagram and 511 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,719 Speaker 2: TikTok and everywhere. And so when you when that goes viral, 512 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: Darren inadvertently is also going viral because you see him lap. 513 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 3: It, yeah, doing that the amazing clapping that you were 514 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 3: doing that has been recorded for all time. 515 00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 4: Andreas sent me the link to it being in on 516 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 4: I G and I thought it was a story or something. 517 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 4: Everywhere went off. It's literally a mean. 518 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: No, it's it's everywhere. 519 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,679 Speaker 2: It's everywhere. It's a clip it's a me. It's like, 520 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 2: it's all over the place. It's just it's just you. 521 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,120 Speaker 2: It's just your head clapping. 522 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 1: That's it. That's it's all over the internet. It's gone. 523 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 3: That's but yeah, but no, but it definitely yeah, there's 524 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 3: when you see the little clip, there's definitely. 525 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 4: The row. 526 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 5: Yeah. 527 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 1: But just created that dance. She just I recreated. 528 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 3: I recreated the Motown Philly dance. Adam recreated the telethon 529 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 3: dance on the episode that I directed on Fuller House 530 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 3: when he wore the blue leggings and the sweater and 531 00:27:55,240 --> 00:28:00,879 Speaker 3: the hair, which was all kinds of amazing, iconic, so iconic. 532 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 4: Absolutely well, I had no idea. It shows you how 533 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 4: out of touch I am. I'm always I'll have to 534 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 4: check my IG last time, I think I had over 535 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 4: two hundred followers. You need to know, I've never posted 536 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 4: anything so occasionally. I got it originally because my kids 537 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,719 Speaker 4: had it and I wanted to follow them and make 538 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 4: sure everything was okay. And then I guess Finstow was 539 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 4: created by the underground network of teenagers to avoid their 540 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 4: parents following them. 541 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: So I'm now and now Instagram is basically Facebook. It's 542 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 1: no one, no one cool is on there exactly, which 543 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 1: is why I'm still there. 544 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 4: And that's the people in my you know, demographic tend 545 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 4: to follow me and then they'll say, hey, am I 546 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 4: not your friend? Or did you block me? I'm not 547 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 4: really seeing anything, and I'm like, no, I've never posted. 548 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 4: I told you that when you wanted to follow me. 549 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 4: It's kind of my goal. 550 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: To never I was taking it very personally there and 551 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, I. 552 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 3: Guess I'm not even gonna ohst anything or talk to me. 553 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: You know, it's just everybody. It's just everybody. You just 554 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: don't care. 555 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 4: I want to see how many followers I can get 556 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 4: with doing nothing, honestly. 557 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 3: I mean you know what, I'd say A good fifty 558 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 3: percent of those are just from your clapping alone. So yeah, 559 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 3: yeah yeah, and then the and then the other half 560 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 3: are Farley fans. 561 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it is. 562 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 4: I was in the audience at a telethon. 563 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, they were like shocked. 564 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, the underground Farley audience is huge. 565 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 2: I know, I know we have to wrap this up soon, 566 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: but I have to talk about one of my favorite 567 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 2: stories and how everything comes full circle, right, everything comes 568 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 2: full circle. So I was the famous sibling growing up, 569 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 2: you know, getting the success and the the kudos or whatever, 570 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 2: the recognition when we were out and everything. But when 571 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 2: I left acting for twenty years, I wasn't doing anything. 572 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 2: So the tables had turned because Darren then became very successful, 573 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 2: first as an elementary school teacher, as a first or 574 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 2: second grade teacher, just like our mom was, and then 575 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 2: as a very successful special ed attorney for the school district. 576 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 2: And he's also like on the school board, like, you 577 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 2: just do everything. You have more jobs than anybody I know. 578 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 1: You're so good at them. Runs in the Barber family. 579 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: You guys just yeah, yeah, yeah. 580 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 2: And so now now when I go out in either 581 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 2: the town we grew up in or any of the 582 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 2: surrounding towns within like a thirty mile radius, now I 583 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 2: get stopped and people say. 584 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 1: I know you. 585 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 2: You're Darren Barber's sister, and I'm like, okay, tables have 586 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 2: turned to now I'm the one known as Darren Barber's sister. 587 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 2: And he's like the mayor of everywhere he goes because 588 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 2: everybody loves him and he's so funny and so charming 589 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 2: and yeah, it's just it's my favorite thing. 590 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: And I always text him I'm like it happened again. 591 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 2: Like I was on a jurty a jury for a 592 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 2: murder trial several years ago down in Orange County, and 593 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 2: the bailiff stopped me before entering the courtroom and he 594 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 2: was just like I know you. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, 595 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,960 Speaker 2: it's fine. I'm trying to, like, you know, I'm trying 596 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 2: to keep it on the down low here, right, And 597 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 2: he's just like, no, your brother came to my elementary 598 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 2: school and read for rid across America. And I'm like, yeah, 599 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 2: I was there too, dude, and he's just like no, 600 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 2: but it was Darren, Darren Barber. 601 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, it's official. 602 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 2: Now Darren is now the more famous sibling of the 603 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 2: True family. 604 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 3: He's gonna have two hundred and fifty followers on Instagram 605 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 3: in no time. 606 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 4: That was a great moment because you were running late 607 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 4: to get to court and the bailiff stopped you and 608 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 4: he tells you, no, no, I was a student in 609 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 4: his class. You're like, oh, hey, She's like he came 610 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 4: to the school and my kids at that school now 611 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 4: and You're like, yeah, I read there too, Like I 612 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 4: was there with him last week. And anyway, yeah, we're 613 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 4: all talking about it in the where the bailiff room 614 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 4: or whatever. And Andrew goes, why are they talking about it? 615 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 4: And I'm like, I don't know, and she goes the 616 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 4: bailiff was like, oh yeah, I've got Kimi Gibbler and 617 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 4: in my in my courtroom, and the other bailiff's like, 618 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 4: I can one up that her brother was my schools teacher. 619 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: There you go, Toche. 620 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,479 Speaker 4: Those those moments are funny because they happen few and 621 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 4: far between, but when they do happen, they are they 622 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 4: are very entertaining, and it's I think it's it's funny 623 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 4: for both of us in many ways. 624 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 1: Well, thank you. 625 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 3: You have been entertaining, Darren, and I so loved like 626 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 3: having you on the podcast, hearing all of these fun 627 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 3: stories about Andrey and her gigantic ego. I always suspected it, 628 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 3: but I am glad that there's confirmation. 629 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: Uh, it was. 630 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 3: So much fun to to have you on the show 631 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 3: and and like and to hear all about like your 632 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:54,239 Speaker 3: all of you guys in the business and growing up 633 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 3: and you know what it's like to grow up with 634 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 3: with the queen here. So it was we just really 635 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 3: appreciate you coming on the show. It was super fun. Yeah, 636 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 3: I appreciate coming. I don't know how your sister feels, but. 637 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 2: No, and I was going to say Darren and I 638 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 2: could around a lot, but for as much as we 639 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 2: fought when we were sharing that bathroom back when I 640 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 2: was in high school and you were in law school, 641 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 2: I'm just really proud that you're my brother and we 642 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 2: are closer than ever now. We live like six minutes 643 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 2: apart now, and so yeah, I'm just I'm really proud 644 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 2: of you. And every time I do get recognized as 645 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,400 Speaker 2: your sister when I'm out and about, I just have 646 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 2: the biggest sprint on my face because I'm so proud 647 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 2: of you and how hard you worked and just you're 648 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 2: an awesome brother and I love you all well, thank you. 649 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 4: No, I appreciate that. I would say it's funny, because yeah, 650 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 4: we did fight a lot during those those years, her 651 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 4: teenage years in my early twenties, But it's funny how 652 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 4: close we've gotten now over the years, and it, you know, 653 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 4: both when we get together in person or on the 654 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 4: text threads that we have going, it's awesome. And the 655 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 4: humor that you see here on the podcast and elsewhere 656 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,360 Speaker 4: is something that just emanates in real life for Andrey 657 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 4: as well, and I congratulate both of you on your success. 658 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 4: You both are immensely talented and deserve everything that you 659 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 4: have have received for this, and I'm glad. I'm glad 660 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 4: this podcast is a big, big success. There are It's funny. 661 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 4: There are some younger attorneys that I deal with regularly 662 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 4: on our side of the bar, and one of them 663 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 4: knows Andrea's on Full House. Andrew was kind enough to 664 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 4: spend an evening out years ago. I don't think she 665 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 4: remembers us. We went to the improv to see Bob 666 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,280 Speaker 4: and was my wife and I, Andrey and her husband, 667 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 4: and the other attorney and her husband. She still talks 668 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 4: about it to this day. She's told a whole bunch 669 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 4: of the other attorneys who won't ask me about it 670 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,879 Speaker 4: or or talk about it, but I'll hear about it later. 671 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 4: They're like, oh, you know, everyone knows your sister's on 672 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 4: Full House, but no one wants to ask you. And 673 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 4: I'm like, good, I'm not going to bring it up. 674 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 4: So they are all huge fans and they know about 675 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 4: the podcast. So thank you to the two of you. 676 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 4: Thank you to iHeart Heart Media, whatever, whatever it is 677 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 4: going by all the names. 678 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: That's going it's my heart Jensen today, right exactly. 679 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:25,720 Speaker 4: Yet you shout out to Maddie for all the jumping 680 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,880 Speaker 4: through hoops, for everything that that had to happen to 681 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 4: make this all work with everybody. 682 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,840 Speaker 3: We really appreciate it. It was super fun to have 683 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 3: you on. Yeah, thank you. 684 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,400 Speaker 4: I you continued success. 685 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,280 Speaker 1: So Darren, you're awesome. 686 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 2: Derek By, you can lug off anytime. 687 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 3: Now. 688 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 5: I love you. 689 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 1: Go be done. I'm done with you. Oh my god. 690 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,879 Speaker 1: That was so fun. That was really really fun. 691 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 3: It's great to have you know, our families who are 692 00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 3: like our extended families, you know what I mean, Like 693 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 3: it's I love having him on. 694 00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 1: It was really fun. 695 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,840 Speaker 3: That finishes up our interview with the great Darren Barber. 696 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 3: I enjoyed so much having your brother on the show. 697 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 3: This was so much fun, Aby, I loved hearing all 698 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 3: of these stories. 699 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 1: It was really's epic. Are you nervous about what he 700 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:17,360 Speaker 1: might say? 701 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,720 Speaker 2: I was mostly excited because he's just such a funny 702 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 2: person and he's so charismatic. 703 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,240 Speaker 1: But I was a little bit nervous. 704 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, what's he going to pull out that we 705 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 2: haven't discussed yet that I have bat about in forty 706 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 2: something years. 707 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:34,160 Speaker 1: So that's what siblings do. Yep well, yep well. 708 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,879 Speaker 3: Thank you fan Ritos for joining us for the part 709 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 3: two of this fun interview. 710 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 1: We loved having you along for the ride. 711 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 3: Make sure you're following us on Instagram at Howard Podcast 712 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 3: or sending us emails at Howard Podcast at gmail dot com. 713 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,320 Speaker 1: We'd love to get your questions. 714 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 3: We always like to do fan question episodes, so send 715 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 3: us those in two and make sure you're liking it. 716 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,400 Speaker 3: Subscribe to the podcast whatever platform you're listening to it 717 00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 3: so you can get all the newest ones when they arrive. 718 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't say there for a second, when they. 719 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:06,160 Speaker 3: Arrive or drop or whatever the kids say now whatever 720 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 3: they're saying. 721 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, But thank you guys for joining us and we 722 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 5: will see you next time on how Red tan Rito's 723 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 5: I Remember the world is small, the house is full, 724 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:20,399 Speaker 5: and you shall not pass the Queen. 725 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: You can't pass the Queen. Pass the Queen. Can't pass 726 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:24,800 Speaker 1: the unless you're Darren Barber