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Speaker 2: What's going on? Baby? Oh my, oh my god, oh

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Speaker 2: my god.

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Speaker 1: Morning morning girls. Now we're morning girls. I mean you've

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Speaker 1: always been a morning person.

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Speaker 2: No, I've really never been a morning person.

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Speaker 1: I don't know you. Every time I've called you in

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Speaker 1: the morning, you've always seen like ready to get the

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Speaker 1: day started. Now if you get the day started, we

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Speaker 1: don't know, but you seem ready.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a morning person at all.

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Speaker 1: But I also don't like to lay in bed for

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Speaker 1: too long because I feel like I'm losing day. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I mean we've taken so many trips together, and

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Speaker 1: I feel like you're always fresh face, you know, eyes low.

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Speaker 1: But that could be from the edibles you had the

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Speaker 1: day before edibles mm hmm. But for the most part,

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Speaker 1: you're like ready to go, put your clothes on, abs

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Speaker 1: or popping, and let's go.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready. I'm ready, Sydney.

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Speaker 1: Anybody listening to this episode right now, the only person

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Speaker 1: who sat like a morning person is you. Well, I

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Speaker 1: have to pretend I'm you know, I got that sag

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Speaker 1: after a card, So I'm ready to act. I'm ready

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Speaker 1: to act like I like to be up at this time,

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Speaker 1: Sydney has a job. I have a job, working girl.

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Speaker 1: I'm a working girl. And yeah, well now the I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm in a writer's room, y'all. Can you believe? Can

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Speaker 1: you believe in the guild, in the guilt, I was

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Speaker 1: in the guild anyway, Now.

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Speaker 2: In the guild. Now, was I paying those dues? Absolutely not?

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Speaker 2: But I'm I'm the girl. I'm not paying my SAG dues.

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Speaker 1: Allegedly they message me, I'll be like, what have you

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Speaker 1: done for me lately?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You know, Well, they send you your residuals.

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Speaker 1: Friend, Okay, some of the checks be sixty one cents,

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Speaker 1: so and if you if you really need your money,

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Speaker 1: take it out the check. Maybe they're taking it out

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Speaker 1: the check. Maybe that's why the checks be so low.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think they are our friends.

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Speaker 1: That's not how insiduals work. Well, hey, your dues, so

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Speaker 1: you can be in it, so you can get get

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Speaker 1: the money that's owed to you. But I already worked,

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Speaker 1: so I should be getting my money anyway.

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Speaker 2: The checks won't even come from sag.

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Speaker 1: Where do they come from?

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Speaker 2: Whatever the envelope says, but it don't ever say sag.

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, if if there's any listeners who ever want

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Speaker 1: to get in this business. I mean, we really just

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Speaker 1: we give you every detail, everything that you need to

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Speaker 1: know because we know of it all. We know it all. Listen,

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Speaker 1: I say, ignore it until it becomes too big of

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Speaker 1: a problem to ignore. That's how I deal with my issues.

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Speaker 1: It served me so far. I think there's a warrant

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Speaker 1: out for my rest right now because I haven't been

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Speaker 1: paying my unemployment taxes whatever that means.

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Speaker 2: What, girl, Marie, am I sitting next to a criminal. Yes,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna be in the same sale, the.

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Speaker 1: New Orange Us together. I'm excited about my life on

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Speaker 1: the run.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, let's do it. Is that is that the

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Speaker 2: on the run hair on the run?

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Speaker 1: This not the on the run hair needs to be

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Speaker 1: more like ponytailor you need to look like a short,

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Speaker 1: little kiddy cat. We Oh, I would love you like

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Speaker 1: the mullet with the hair that you have for the bullet,

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Speaker 1: but without the mullet.

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Speaker 2: Actually, the mullet pairs well with crime. It pairs well.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's like fashion girly, no crime, crime, yes any who?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have to get Last week, I had

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Speaker 1: to get up in the morning and I was asking

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Speaker 1: they kept saying, you have to go to sleep at

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Speaker 1: an early you have to go to bed early. And

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Speaker 1: I said, that's impossible. I'm I'm my job makes me

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Speaker 1: stay up at night. I have to be up. I'm

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Speaker 1: a stand up. Stand up should not be happening when

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Early? Early eleven? Okay eleven and me and the gal

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Speaker 2: Did you act? Were you sleeping or were you in

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Speaker 2: the bed? No, we were gone, baby gone.

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Speaker 1: We slept. It was beautiful. I yeah, I actually sleep

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Speaker 1: better when I'm with her. What yeah, yeah, yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: I am like today I woke up and I said, damn,

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Speaker 1: I am so lucky.

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Speaker 2: Wow, why are you so lucky? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, Yo, she came to my show. She

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Speaker 1: brought all these flowers.

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Speaker 2: She lay low. She's like, she looked great. She looked

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Speaker 1: Yo. People were dming me, like, yo, shorty, who you

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Speaker 1: with is bad? I was like, what about me? But yes, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: no I she listen. I she is really amazing. She

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Speaker 1: just like after the show, was just telling me everything

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Speaker 2: She set it over the wall, and you need to

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Speaker 2: get a girlfriend. Like what.

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Speaker 1: Girl, No, you need to get whatever you got right now.

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Speaker 1: You okay, that's what you have.

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Speaker 2: He can't do the show. He didn't bring me no flowers.

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Speaker 1: Well he you know, he didn't want to do too much.

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Speaker 1: But the next time he comes to the show, I'm

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Speaker 1: sure he's gonna bring you everything, a proper English breakfast

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Speaker 1: and all of the flowers and.

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Speaker 2: You know, and more and more.

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Speaker 1: So that's great, Sidney. But you are a relationship oriented

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Speaker 1: person I am. So it makes sense that you were like,

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Speaker 1: I sleep better when I'm in the bed with her.

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Speaker 1: If I'm in the bed with somebody, my body is hot,

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Speaker 1: my like spidy, senses are tingling.

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Speaker 2: They breathe too hard. I'd be like, like, I just.

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Speaker 1: I can't And I've been sleeping in the Queens Sizes

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Speaker 1: like a king, or a California king. If I'm sharing

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Speaker 1: a bed with somebody too close to me, get off me.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I woke up put in a pool of sweat. No,

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Speaker 1: for sure, I woke up up the hair was back here.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, So when your girl is here, you don't

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Speaker 1: You don't put no bonnie, you don't tie it up.

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Speaker 2: You just loose like the white ladies in the movies.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I I had about it, but I'm one of those

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Speaker 1: It just it's here when I put it on, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it. It just does its own things.

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Speaker 2: I like you sleep? Wow, I do? I do?

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Speaker 1: She says that she says I kick her and I

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Speaker 1: take up all the bed. And that's not true, right, Marie, you.

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Speaker 2: Have kicked me. You're a lot your legs, you're a

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Speaker 2: wire legs. Do be you hate bagg No, Sidney, take

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Speaker 1: I'm not scared of you. There's no way that I'm

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Speaker 1: But you when you sleep, you be like. No, No, Marie.

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Speaker 1: You one time I remember being in a car with

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Speaker 1: you and my knee told you, Sidney, Sidney, I don't

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Speaker 2: And after that, I said, you know what, I'll make

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Speaker 2: sure the line is dropped.

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Speaker 1: That's the lawn show Marie queer adjacent, but she is

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Speaker 1: homophobic in the bad homophobic.

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Speaker 2: You don't want me on her. They don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, the way you said upper case Sydney, Sydney,

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Speaker 1: get your knee, listen me. You know, when you're in

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Speaker 1: the back. We hit it, we hit a corner, we turned.

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Speaker 1: Maybe everybody leans on your side for the turn. Sydney

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Speaker 1: this is this.

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Speaker 2: I like this.

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Speaker 1: No, that's sometimes you go up be like hey, babe, babe, no,

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Speaker 1: have a good core. I don't have a good And

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Speaker 1: that's what it is. It's like, I'm like, hold it.

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Speaker 1: That's what it's about. You don't have a good corn.

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Speaker 2: I don't. It's I'm not leaning on you on purpose.

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Speaker 1: So I don't believe that we've been in the bed

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Speaker 1: for so many years together and you've been like I'm

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Speaker 1: kicking you, I'm touching you. Your in your brain, you

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Speaker 1: be in the bonnet under the like you be in it? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't, and don't tell him I've been in it.

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Speaker 1: Now she's ever been in it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's been on it. AnyWho.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I like sleeping by myself.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I like sleeping with somebody, but her particularly, I mean,

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Speaker 1: she definitely calms my nerves. And yeah, I put her.

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Speaker 2: I put her on my phone now because I'm like, well,

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Speaker 2: let me see.

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Speaker 1: She's the background. Yeah, she's the back dad, girl, you

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Speaker 1: took me off the background. No, I would sit in

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Speaker 1: these background for years. Meanwhile, Maria is changing her fucking

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Speaker 1: of my backdrop. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is gay. You guys look great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, you're like, take this when we're in Mexico.

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Speaker 1: Remember I told you she.

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Speaker 2: Look your feet looked little, but your butt looks big. Wow.

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Speaker 2: My feet little but big feet, little but big.

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Speaker 1: Well that sounds like it's saying your feet are little

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Speaker 1: but also big. That's not what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but that looks great.

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Speaker 2: And on the new I phone, yeah, the pixels are sharp.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It's so funny because I in the show My

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Speaker 1: Barbie Show, I said that, you know, I was hooking

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Speaker 1: up with this guy that wasn't my type because he was,

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Speaker 1: you know, Spanish. You know, I really date black men.

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Speaker 1: And then I crossed that out. I was like, I

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Speaker 1: really date women black women. And then I put Queen

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Speaker 1: Latifa there, and I heard you and it oh because

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Speaker 2: She kind of looked like, I said, that is Sydney's type.

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Speaker 1: Again, Yeah, because you've been saying Queen Latifa for a

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Speaker 1: little bit of time now.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't really believe it. Now I'm like, think

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Speaker 2: you see it. I do see it, just this just

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Speaker 2: the little taste.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I don't think I've ever put a man that

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Speaker 2: I dated as my background. You shouldn't.

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Speaker 1: Men are embarrassing, don't ever, don't ever put them out there,

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Speaker 1: don't post them. Don't what about.

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Speaker 2: Post her either. I'm not posting anybody ever. Again.

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Speaker 1: That's that's done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we going fullyse array with it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's unnecessary. It's unnecessary, And I just think,

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Speaker 1: why do you have to do that. People know that

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Speaker 1: you are with somebody, they hear you talk about them.

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Speaker 1: She's She's not sick.

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Speaker 2: Ah, I'm gonna reat you be in that room. You

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

437
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Speaker 1: But I'm like, are people texting Beyonce when they can't

438
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Speaker 1: make it? No, because they're gonna show up regardless. Or

439
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 1: your grandma died, she's dead, I still got to see Beyonce. Yeah,

440
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 1: let's live stream the funeral so I could go to Beyonce, like,

441
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:47,440
Speaker 1: put grandma alive.

442
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Speaker 2: I'm not saying I'm Beyonce, but it's like, for that night,

443
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Speaker 2: you are a fraction of a Beyonce. You know what

444
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Speaker 2: I felt like I was one seventy five percent.

445
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Speaker 1: No, I'm lying.

446
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:07,439
Speaker 2: Of a Beyonce ten ten percent of a Beyonce.

447
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say.

448
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Speaker 2: Zero point zero zero zero one of Beyonce. I don't know, girl,

449
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 2: you was doing stunts Sydney got on the ground.

450
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Speaker 1: I was like, wow, I didn't whoa physical comedy from

451
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Speaker 1: Sydney Washington. I was.

452
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Speaker 2: I was gagged.

453
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to the projector. It's like, because you

454
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Speaker 1: you won't be able to see me if I stand up.

455
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 2: So I'm like, wow, No, you did like a cartwheel

456
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Speaker 2: or a some assault or something.

457
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Speaker 1: Thank you, And that's how you promote the show, says

458
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Speaker 1: thank you. I was, it's a physical comedy happening at

459
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Speaker 1: the Barbery show.

460
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Speaker 2: It looks it's laughs, it's lunges.

461
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Speaker 1: It's lunges. Looks laughs, lunges. Damn very really good. You're

462
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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like you because I haven't eaten

463
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Speaker 1: anything yet. Would like a grape? No?

464
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Speaker 2: Would you like a muffin?

465
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Speaker 1: Nar because you didn't take any medication so you can

466
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Speaker 1: be on an empty stomach.

467
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Speaker 2: Listen. I went. I got home at two am. I

468
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 2: went to bed at three.

469
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Speaker 1: I was, kay the show. I have four shows last night.

470
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Speaker 1: Oh zah yah, I'm outside. Well, actually I had four

471
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Speaker 1: shows last night because Sydney did not have any, so

472
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 1: they were like, we need another black girl.

473
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Speaker 2: Marie is here. Let's put Marie on these two that

474
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Speaker 2: we normally would not have put her on.

475
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Speaker 1: Noah, I can't do nothing during the week, and no,

476
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Speaker 1: how was it? Did you have fun? The first show

477
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Speaker 1: was decent, second show trash, three and four perfect.

478
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Speaker 2: That's why you got to do multiple in a night. Yeah,

479
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: so that you can feel the waves.

480
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the second one didn't go that well, and I

481
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Speaker 1: was like, hey, you can't win them all. Can't win

482
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Speaker 1: them all, but I got paid, So I said a

483
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Speaker 1: win is a win, and that's and I want everybody

484
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Speaker 1: who's listening it's not gonna hit every time. And that's

485
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Speaker 1: not we're not just talking about comedy. We're talking about

486
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Speaker 1: work relationships at least. Yeah, that too.

487
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Speaker 2: I don't even I don't even that's you. You talk

488
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Speaker 2: about families, I don't. I don't do that. But said families. Yeah,

489
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Speaker 2: I don't have one. I said outfits.

490
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Speaker 1: Oh why did you said families? You said you said families,

491
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Speaker 1: I said outfits. It's not always gonna hit every time.

492
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Speaker 1: You said work relationships families, I said outfits. Man, I

493
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 1: think my I need I need to take my medication

494
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: because I can't remember anything.

495
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Speaker 2: Now that's funny.

496
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so I wanted to talk to you about Okay,

497
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Speaker 1: I'll watched this on TikTok. This girl pretended to be

498
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Speaker 1: pregnant for nine months Marie Ben. She's like posting, people

499
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Speaker 1: are sending her money. Guy that she was with and

500
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Speaker 1: his family did not believe her. Well yeah, because she

501
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: probably would't let him touch her stomach. Yo, it got

502
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 1: so bad. She right before she was about to deliver.

503
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Speaker 1: In quotation marks, she says, oh, the baby has some

504
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: kind of not defect, but something's wrong.

505
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Speaker 2: So she was gearing the people up to something might

506
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Speaker 2: not be right, might die.

507
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Speaker 1: She actually gets a doll that looks very realistic to

508
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Speaker 1: a newborn baby, and she's wrapping this bitch up.

509
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Speaker 2: Bringing it outside.

510
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Speaker 1: No nobody can touch her. I cannot commit to the

511
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Speaker 1: bit that hard. That's not like nine months sorry nine months? Sorry.

512
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Speaker 1: She was with a man, yeah, for the full nine months,

513
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Speaker 1: and they didn't believe her because obviously she wouldn't let

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Speaker 1: him like see her belly and stuff.

515
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Speaker 2: Right, she's got she got a fake belly and everything.

516
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Speaker 1: Yeah, ordered it. Wow, they say that the A list

517
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: actors are in Hollywood now, baby, they in Minnesota.

518
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Speaker 2: And I don't know.

519
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

520
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Speaker 2: I don't know where this girl's at.

521
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Speaker 1: But has there been anything that you like, had to

522
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Speaker 1: like keep a lie longer than you expected you were

523
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Speaker 1: able to stay with it.

524
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Speaker 2: I don't think so. You know, my memory is not

525
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 2: that good.

526
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Speaker 1: Lying is something that I can't really do too well

527
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Speaker 1: because I might lie to you.

528
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Speaker 2: Forget that I lied to you.

529
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Speaker 1: Tell you the truth next time I see you, like,

530
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Speaker 1: and then now I got to keep my story straight.

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Speaker 2: It's just easier to be secretive or brutally honest.

532
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Speaker 1: You are brutally honest.

533
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Speaker 2: Brutally is a little bit harsh honest. Whoa that was?

534
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Speaker 2: That was brutally honest?

535
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: If we take a poll online, we should do that.

536
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Speaker 1: Who is Marie totally honest?

537
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 2: I'm more honest brutally or brutally honest?

538
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: Three? You are brutally honest. I don't know if I

539
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: said this before.

540
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 2: I think you have.

541
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Speaker 1: I probably just said it the last UH episode we did.

542
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: But we pull up to Battle House, we go there,

543
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 1: and we go there all the time. You have your show,

544
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 1: We have been multiple shows there. There's a dog named

545
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Speaker 1: Bear you don't know his name, and you were like, oh,

546
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: who is three legged dog?

547
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 2: Is three legged dog here? That's what his name is.

548
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 1: It's bear.

549
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Speaker 2: Her name is bear, but she got three legs.

550
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Speaker 1: That's brutally honest, asking where the three legged dog is?

551
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: She has a name, the name is the The legs

552
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: is implied. A bear has two legs. This bear got three.

553
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 2: So what that's me being it's a dog. They don't

554
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 2: have no feelings. That's not wow, Marie. I can't believe

555
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 2: you just said that. You're gonna lose a lot of

556
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 2: people on that. I'm gonna lose my pet Smart sponsorship. Yeah,

557
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 2: they do have feelings. Girl, the dog has three legs?

558
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 2: What chat am I wrong? You could have just been like,

559
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 2: is the dog here? No, I need to.

560
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: Specify the one the only one dog, Marie. So that's

561
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like white people that work there, it

562
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: could be multiple dogs. No, But that's how Marie is about.

563
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: You know, you ask her a question and she's like,

564
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:27,959
Speaker 1: that's what you really want to do. That's that's how

565
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 1: you want to see it.

566
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 2: Say it, share it. Oh okay, I wouldn't have done that,

567
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: but yeah, okay, see it, say it sort it.

568
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 1: Would you want to Sidney, you really feel away, but

569
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,360
Speaker 1: you think the dog is mad me bring such and such.

570
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: They can't dress and I don't like how they smell.

571
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: That's how you're brutally honest.

572
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: But I'm saying that to y'all, I'm not saying that's

573
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 2: brutally honest. That's honest.

574
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 1: Brutally honest would be if I said it to them, Hey,

575
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: you can't come because I don't like you.

576
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 2: You smell bad and you can't dress. That's that's that's mean.

577
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 2: That's in their face telling them that. But to the

578
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 2: group chat, the safe space in invisible inc, I'm typing it.

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00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 2: That's not brutally honest. That's the mere baby, that's that's delicate.

580
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 2: That's delicate. Is it delicate?

581
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 1: Delic where we're calling in now? When Marie is brutally honest,

582
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: just call it delicate. It's actually delicately honest.

583
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

584
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine, but yeah, watching it play out, I

585
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 1: was like, yo, I just couldn't imagine having to keep

586
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: up with a lie for that long. I have lied,

587
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: I have lied. We all lied, and I got I

588
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: got caught up in the lie and I got shown

589
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: you're not good at lying, so you might as well

590
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: just ca Okay. So I'm I'm sure he's heard this story.

591
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if he even listens to this podcast.

592
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: This was in This was first of all, this was

593
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Speaker 1: in high school. So it's I'm not that I'm so

594
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: many people. I'm on Sydney five point on now yeah.

595
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yea Sidney high school. You that we don't even

596
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 2: know her, she don't even go here.

597
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: I dated an older man who had a h a

598
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: black widow tattoo on his neck and uh and B

599
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: two k braides braides? How long would the bridge? Did

600
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: they pass the spider or was they like above the spider?

601
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: I think they did. They make a web.

602
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: He wasn't that creative, but I was dating him. And

603
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: then I went to college and so uh and he

604
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: lived in the Bronx. So it was like, I'm going

605
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: on to to better sir, I'm probably gonna leave, moving

606
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: on up, I'm.

607
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 2: Moving on up right.

608
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: So I get to college, I meet a guy on

609
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: Facebook and uh, yeah he was going to he was

610
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: going to a really good school in Philadelphia, and so

611
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: I could see I could see a future with him.

612
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: Very tall abs came from a go home mother father.

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00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: They got a house in west Chester. Why are you're

614
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: not married to him because I'm gay? Marie.

615
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: Hmm. But you said you could see a future with him.

616
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't even really see back then, but I said

617
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Speaker 1: I could see it. If I could really see, I

618
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: could have. I should have saw that I was gonna

619
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Speaker 1: get my ass kicked out of the school, which later

620
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 1: on happened plot twist. I didn't finish.

621
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Speaker 2: I finished it, and we're sitting in the same room with.

622
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,959
Speaker 1: Me being a morning person. Okay, so now I got

623
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: two men's. I got two men's, an older spider and

624
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Speaker 1: a young.

625
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: He was on his way to be a doctor, a

626
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 2: young doctor, which she she is, which he is a doctor?

627
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 2: Now got a doctor. I think like heart surgeons alday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, really, we're very successful. I knew he was

629
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: going to be. It's not maybe not successful with me,

630
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: but he's going to be successful in life. INTI who

631
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: I you know, I'm young. I don't know what I'm doing.

632
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: I know that I had a lot going on, and

633
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: so I can't keep up with the sex. I can't

634
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: keep up because I I'm having sex with both.

635
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: How once in the Bronx. One is visiting me and

636
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 2: then the other one was back at home and I went.

637
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: I was doing both. I was traveling. She was on tour,

638
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: Pussy on tour.

639
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 2: On tour to see on tour, would actually like to

640
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 2: see the merch for the pussy tour.

641
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: The pussy tour was crazy, so crazy that in the

642
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: summertime I was working at Victoria's Secret. I was wearing

643
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: a pants suit, a shiny pant suit from Bibi and uh,

644
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: you know Aldo Loafers. I was really business oriented and

645
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: wearing amazing lingerie.

646
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 2: Do you have to wear a suit at victoria Secret? Yes,

647
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: you do. You have to wear black, black blazer and

648
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 2: black pants. Oh yeah, I don't feel like that's the policy.

649
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 2: No more, probably not anymore. But you know, I was

650
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 2: in the you know, the first iteration of it, you know,

651
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 2: your old class.

652
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really about making sure these girls are

653
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: wearing the right bras.

654
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 2: Sister, you are not a b you are.

655
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 1: Really a d. Ease up off it. You're like you're

656
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: on the last the last hook. Your strap is all

657
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: the way loose, like it don't fit. Yeah, that's what

658
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: I was doing.

659
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 2: I was so we supposed we're supposed to wear a

660
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 2: bra on the last hook.

661
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: If it's on the last hook but you still have

662
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: a lot of skin coming over it, that means it's

663
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: too small. That means it's not that's not your band.

664
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: And if you have your if the top titty is

665
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: doing that is it's just it's like dough coming out

666
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: the can. It's time to let.

667
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 2: But this is my favorite bra.

668
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: It does not fit. It doesn't fit any umery. So

669
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm working at Victoria's Secret. I have this, you know,

670
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: boyfriend in Philly and Bronx boot and something overlapped.

671
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 2: I looked them too close.

672
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am something happened and I'm you know, raguntas No,

673
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: that's questions. But what's pregnant in Spanish pregnant?

674
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 2: Oh, it's embarrassed bed asada.

675
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: A lot of people will be like, oh my god,

676
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: and then like a maml panic because it's like a

677
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: white room meeting of boyfriend's mom and it'll be like

678
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: you're pregnant, and they're trying to say I'm embarrassed, which

679
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: is not in barrassada. Okay, your soy baby, that's what

680
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: I have. Yeah, and that's what I was wearing a

681
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: b B with a BIB and A B B A

682
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: b B and I was like, yo, I got well up,

683
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: I said, how did this happen? How did so?

684
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: How it happens when two people love each other?

685
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

686
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I tell I tell both of them. At

687
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,760
Speaker 2: who you tell first? I tell Braids?

688
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: Oh, Brids, I should have told doctor first. It's sound

689
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: like it that just occur to you know, Yeah, I

690
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: should have. But I told Braids and he was like, okay,

691
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: well let's do this. Oh, because you know, he's like,

692
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: what else am I doing? When he said he was

693
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 1: an older guy?

694
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 2: How old was he?

695
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: Like?

696
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: Twenty nine?

697
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: No, uh, maybe twenty twenty five and I was seventeen,

698
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen something like that, he should.

699
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 2: Go to jail. No, you're going to jail. You're going

700
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 2: to jail.

701
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: So I tell both of them. He says, okay, well

702
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: i'll give you half half.

703
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: Yes, you gave me all of it. He did. He

704
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 2: did give me.

705
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: You literally gave me all of it. And that's why

706
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: I'm embarrasada. So you're gonna have to come up off

707
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 1: the other two because I'm not spending my Victoria secret

708
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 1: chance here.

709
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 2: I'm spending money works so hard. Sure, I got baby

710
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:17,439
Speaker 2: just for work.

711
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: No, bet I gotta go to Aldo and get shoes

712
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 1: that pinch my toes. I can't afford to pay for this.

713
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 2: You can see have. And then I had another friend

714
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: who was like, she had recently had one.

715
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: It was her first one. I just want to put

716
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: it out there.

717
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 2: So she didn't.

718
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: That's not her thing that she does.

719
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: But we don't know her, Okay, but I do. I

720
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 2: don't know her.

721
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: In case she's listening, I'm giving the right story. So

722
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: this is she's like, she's like, I don't know if

723
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 1: your mom has insurance. What kind of insurance she got.

724
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: I can get it done on her.

725
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 2: She got Blue Cross, Blue Shields.

726
00:35:55,760 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: That's good insurance, top tier American insurance. I don't know

727
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: what's happening now with everything going on where you know,

728
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: Trump don't want nothing.

729
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 2: We can't have nothing. We can't have nothing nothing America

730
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 2: the ghetto. So I look it up. She's like, oh, yeah,

731
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 2: you just need all heart information, you know, like her

732
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 2: date of birth.

733
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: I said, data birth. That's gonna be the toughest thing

734
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: to get because this beach is tight clinched on the

735
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: whatever it is at the end. Yeah, I don't know

736
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: what my mom's day of birth is either she would know,

737
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: my family would not come up. You wouldn't know how

738
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: old somebody is until it's on the obituary and you're like, yeah,

739
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: sunrise and sunset when you saw that son, So you're like, oh,

740
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 1: so you what's really seventy two?

741
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 2: Bitch? Okay, cool? Cool? You've been telling me sixty for

742
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 2: so long. Listen. If a girl can lie about her age,

743
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: what can she do? Right? If I can't a lie

744
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: with my homegirl, I've bet a note chase about how

745
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 2: old I am. Where can I go? You know?

746
00:36:54,520 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: The moondo? So to go to pp with my with

747
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: my no he comes the braids. He shows up because

748
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: at first he's like, it's against my religion. I'm not

749
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: I'm not here for this. I can't give you no money.

750
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 2: He is that lets him do what he did. You

751
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 2: know how Christians do.

752
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: I don't know where it is in the Bible, but

753
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: Christians is like, uh, you know, lay hands on, but

754
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: no hands in to take out baby.

755
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 2: So now he came with you, but he didn't give

756
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 2: you the two fifty right there.

757
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: He didn't give me. He came in a tracksuit and

758
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: I said, I'm the one that needs to wear be

759
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: wearing a track.

760
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 2: He came out suit. Now talk to me, Sidney, what

761
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: does one wear to get in the bobo? Well? What

762
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 2: was the fit?

763
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: Were you wearing like college sweats? Were you wearing leggy juicy.

764
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 2: Coutour, juicy cotur? No, no, they don't want to have

765
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 2: that kind of collab. But I was.

766
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 1: I had.

767
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 2: I had the terry cloth. What color champagne?

768
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 1: No? Bright orange? Bitch, I was too much?

769
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I had? Sure?

770
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I had the velore navy. That's what

771
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: you wore to the parenthood PP. Yes, So go there

772
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 1: with him, and I think another friend was with me too,

773
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: because he wouldn't sit with me. He was there, but

774
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: he wouldn't sit next to me. Inside inside, very dramatic, sir,

775
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: what do you Why are you here?

776
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 2: Sidney? You know these men are emotional. He just wanted

777
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 2: to make sure is it done?

778
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: Is it handled? Like? You know? So go then I

779
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 1: gotta go go back to school. And you know, you

780
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: get in a bobo then have to go back to class.

781
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 1: Oh you know, actually you know what happened. So I

782
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: cashed the the money. I cashed the money that the

783
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: doctor gave me, and the new iPod Nano came out.

784
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: So you said, I need to listen to tunes, I.

785
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:52,240
Speaker 1: Need a soundtrack, I need a messy ass lifestyle. I got, Yeah,

786
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: So get the iPod nano and he is pulling away,

787
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: rades is pulling away from me, and pull it away,

788
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: pulled away before the baby was put in. If he

789
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 1: would have pulled out, that really would have helped. Honestly, truly,

790
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: that's what the Bible say. I think, just pulling me back, back, back,

791
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 1: back back. So I ended up getting this iPod nano

792
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 1: and I gift him.

793
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 2: Sorry, he didn't give you money for your abortion.

794
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 1: So you use the money from the from doctor Daddy

795
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: to give this man the nano? Why so you can

796
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: put Christian mingle jingles on it. Girl, I couldn't even

797
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: believe that. I give to him because I wanted the

798
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 1: iPod nanos so bad.

799
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 2: Why did you give it?

800
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: Because I just wanted him to come back. And you

801
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 1: know you can't get these men without bribing them with something.

802
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 2: Girl, you gotta give him. You gotta get him a

803
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 2: PS five, you gotta get it.

804
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: You gotta give him. But like there's just so many things,

805
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 1: like actually the nano was more than that. I had

806
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: to put more money to get the nano. Now now

807
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: I'm in the.

808
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: Negative the right. Let me take my jacket off. I'm

809
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 2: getting hot. You remember what you did wrong with this kid?

810
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 2: And hot it here? You gave him the nano and

811
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 2: you put money on top of it. Yeah, no, yeah, no,

812
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 2: it was embarrassing.

813
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:30,439
Speaker 1: So then you know, months later, Doctors starts putting things

814
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 1: together and he's like, yo, I don't I don't even

815
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: really think that was mine.

816
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 2: There was no way we were a condom.

817
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: You didn't even give him the nano six. If anybody

818
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 1: deserved the nano, it was doctor Daddy. Why would I

819
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: give him a nano that he knows that I gave

820
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

821
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 2: Well, it don't matter. But he doing the math now late. Yeah,

822
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 2: and he wrote me, oh when we you know what

823
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 2: it is.

824
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: We broke up and then he wrote me this long

825
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: email about like, you know what, I don't trust you.

826
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 2: I don't believe you, like you know, you're so fucked up.

827
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: You know, I'm putting stuff together and it just doesn't

828
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: it's not adding up. And it's like, well, it don't

829
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: have to add up because it's gone the money's gone

830
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: and the baby is gone. That other man is gone.

831
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: He took the nano in scrammed and he.

832
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 2: Was like yeah, bye bye bye on on the nanos

833
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 2: and so yeah. But I had to keep up this

834
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 2: live for I think maybe about like a year. No,

835
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 2: and I never and I never admitted to.

836
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 1: It, admitted to it until obviously was damn near. I

837
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: don't know thirty something we did. We shot a pilot

838
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: or shot we were like testing for something, and that

839
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: I told that story. Then now let's get back to

840
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: your mom's insurance, because you got this on her insurance.

841
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, the letter to the house that told her they

842
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 2: paid for.

843
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: Some Let me tell you, y'all insurance places or whatever,

844
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: y'all are missed. Y'all are crooks because y'all send the

845
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: invoice later. I didn't forgot about all the work that've

846
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 1: been done. So she hit me three months later, like,

847
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: what's up with this anesthesiologist? Are you one hundred dollars anesthesiologist?

848
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 1: I said, that's your insurance. Why are you asking me

849
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: about your insurance right right? And she said yeah, but

850
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: I haven't had an anesthesiologist. I said, didn't you get

851
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: some work done on your teeth. She said, Now, Sydney girl,

852
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: you can't. She said, you can't. Say I'm brutally honest,

853
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 1: and ask your mom if she got some work done

854
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: in her teeth. Hold on, now it gets better.

855
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 2: She said, did you get an abortion?

856
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: I said, did you.

857
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 2: Girl? You actually a black mom? If she got my

858
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: black mom, Ramona was not having it.

859
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: Yo tore me up and I said, now, if you

860
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: would have done that three months ago, I wouldn't have

861
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: gone to pp.

862
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 2: You had already did the work.

863
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: My mom bade, if you have pushed me down the

864
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: stairs three months ago, I wouldn't needed it at.

865
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 2: A stesiology exact the moon though, exact moon math. Don't

866
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: be mathing over there. Really don't know, I said, you working?

867
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: You working backwards?

868
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: Mom? You need to be going forward. Yeah.

869
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's move through the past this.

870
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: Yes we did, we did.

871
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 2: Wow.

872
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 1: Yeah. I remember she had a name ring that had

873
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: r W on it. And when I told you, she

874
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: hit me so hard with like I had an end

875
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: it on my arm. It said r W r W

876
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 1: but backwards wr and no but for the R want

877
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 1: right to your wrongs. That's what it means, right your wrongs.

878
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 1: Let's get tattoos, right, your wrongs, she on the arm,

879
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: she hit me everywhere, and she called me everything except

880
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 1: a child of God, or her child for that matter.

881
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 2: So right, did you learn your listen?

882
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: I didn't.

883
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 2: I didn't, but I knew not to. I knew not

884
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: to talk to her like that. I didn't know that.

885
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: But you knew that before you talked to her like that.

886
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but sometimes you just gotta you gotta see, you

887
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 1: gotta throw things at the wall and it'll it'll wash

888
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:11,959
Speaker 1: out in the rents or whatever.

889
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, write that down. If you didn't write that down

890
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 2: right down? AnyWho?

891
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 1: Wow, see and y'all want to see my girl, No,

892
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: I didn't already. Look at you see that you're give,

893
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:46,919
Speaker 1: and you give. That's why I can't show the people

894
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: because I don't want to embarrass them. She was at

895
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 1: the show and I was saying all this stuff, and

896
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,919
Speaker 1: I was like, uh, I know, she's shaking her head.

897
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 2: I think she was laughing. She was, Yeah, she was

898
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 2: shaking her head in laughter. Yeah.

899
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: She's like, you're not that person anymore. Thank you, My wholeness,

900
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 1: my crackedness has been deleted.

901
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 2: Your wholeness, your correckedness.

902
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: Has been deleted.

903
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:10,959
Speaker 2: It's you know, I used to do drugs and BeO

904
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:17,800
Speaker 2: and be oh. I think that's what your twenties is for,

905
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 2: though mess.

906
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I I literally look some days I'll wake up

907
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: in the morning I'm like, damn, I should have done

908
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: more dumb stuff, Like it's so watching.

909
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,959
Speaker 2: Your show, I was like, man, I didn't really leave.

910
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 2: You're doing it now, Marie, you're living now.

911
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: It's sad And no it's not. It's not said it's sad.

912
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 2: Then it's so are we, bitch?

913
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: We are living your First of all, you you're so funny,

914
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: you're stunning your no. No, you have your life together

915
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 1: somewhat somewhat somewhat. You have money, Yeah, you don't meet.

916
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: The twennys are for hot mess escapades, you know, doing

917
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: drugs and people being like you did.

918
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 2: What last night? Like you can't be you know thirty plus.

919
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 2: I mean I guess you can be.

920
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: You could be whatever you want an experiment, But your

921
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: twenties are for doing dumb stuff and people being like, man,

922
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: we crazy.

923
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 2: Were hazy, we almost got kidnapped last night.

924
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: Like I mean sure, I was jumping in cars with

925
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: strangers and taking pictures of their license plates and sending

926
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: the pictures to my family, like, hey, if you don't

927
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: see me, I didn't get any of those. I would

928
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: have instead of sending me that man's shoes, I would

929
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 1: have loved the license plate.

930
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 2: Girl, I was in a cab. I'm not guessing you

931
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 2: a cab number. I don't even know. And you know

932
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 2: your your SIM wasn't connected to your location, so I

933
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:32,360
Speaker 2: didn't know.

934
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: You know, you're fine. My friend was not working.

935
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you right now, Fred, I'm going back

936
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 2: to London in December for Thanksgiving.

937
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: I thank you mean November?

938
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: What did I say?

939
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:41,720
Speaker 1: December?

940
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:43,240
Speaker 2: November?

941
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: Man? Maybe maybe the universe wants me to go back

942
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: in December too, Okay, and you know we're here for that. No,

943
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 1: but I'm going in November, and uh yeah, I mean

944
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 1: I guess we'll see what happens. I'm not trying to

945
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: be in like a long distance thing.

946
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: Why because that's the longest distance this girl. It's like

947
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 2: a five hour time zone laying different. So what Marie.

948
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: First of all, that man be calling you, he do

949
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: be calling me? Coming, coming, coming me.

950
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 2: Name celebrity.

951
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 1: I do live. Okay, that man called you, Yeah, but

952
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,959
Speaker 1: it's like he got he got any time Min's for you, bitch.

953
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, rollover? Okay, indeed, girl, But yeah, I don't know.

954
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 2: I want to be in a long distance thing.

955
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: But maybe I'll meet somebody at the airport on the

956
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 1: way back from the trip, and that's the love.

957
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 2: Of my life. Why do you run away? What you're

958
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 2: talking about? He is far away. Let him love you.

959
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 2: Let him love you from afar. Maybe you just don't

960
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 2: you're so unserious.

961
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: First of all, I have to be You're busy, you

962
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: you have shows, you're running around you, you you're traveling right,

963
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: you can't have nobody up under you. You don't want

964
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: that somebody literally underneath the neck, the nape of your neck. Ah,

965
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: you'll be annoyed. But flying to London, I mean I'm

966
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 1: about to hit platinum medallions exactly.

967
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 2: Trip. Yeah, that's a that's a gift, that's what I need.

968
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 2: But that's not really a gift because I'm paying for

969
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 2: the ticket. Mmmm. Now we gotta change that. We gotta

970
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 2: change that.

971
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 1: People will change, and I believe you will change that

972
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: on this trip, this trip will it'll change so much,

973
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

974
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 2: Oh, you know I am saying too much? You know,

975
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 2: you're right, you're right.

976
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: My bad, I didn't say you said any Listen, girl, girl,

977
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: I'm sure they're gonna send him that clip too. They

978
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: said that you didn't pay for the flight, so what's

979
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: up and so and then he's like, well, the next

980
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: time you're I will make sure you know what I mean.

981
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: That's what it's about.

982
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 2: Send him the clip. Yeah, ask the claim.

983
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I think I think, first of all, we

984
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: need to do that age stuff. Oh the way, why

985
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:15,280
Speaker 1: are we subscribing to that? Because your twenty your teens,

986
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,360
Speaker 1: and your twenties, you're allowed to be dumb. You're allowed

987
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: to experiment because you don't really know nothing, So you

988
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: should be able to try all the things. As you

989
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 1: get older, you know better, you know right from wrong.

990
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,720
Speaker 1: You know you got to be up in the morning.

991
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: You know you got to wrap it up, you know

992
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: you you know x y Z. So I just I

993
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: feel like I should have done maybe a little more

994
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: crime in my twenties since you're doing a crime.

995
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 2: Now, well allegedly allegedly.

996
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like, you know, like I remember

997
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: when I was young, when I was in high school,

998
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: I had friends that were like a year or two

999
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: years older than me. So I was the youngest person

1000
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: in my friend group and so you are now thank

1001
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: you so much. You know history just repeat these. And

1002
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 1: there was a girl that was talking to my friend's

1003
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: boyfriend or something like that, and they were like, we

1004
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 1: gonna pull up to her house. They said, Marie, you

1005
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: coming with us because if she hits you, you're a minor.

1006
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, say less, So I jump in

1007
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:14,479
Speaker 1: the hondo cord.

1008
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,280
Speaker 2: I'm ready to go. Right, we get to this lady's

1009
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 2: we get to we knocking on the door. I think

1010
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 2: the mom came to the door. Can we help you?

1011
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: Like, and it was like, I mean, no, fight actually

1012
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: ended up happening because you know, the girl wasn't trying

1013
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:27,399
Speaker 1: to fight.

1014
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:28,879
Speaker 2: She stayed behind that screen door.

1015
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: But you know, that's stuff that you do when you're sixteen, seventeen, eighteen,

1016
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, maybe nin eighteen, but definitely

1017
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 1: sixteen seventeen.

1018
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 2: But like me, now we're gonna go fight this girl.

1019
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 2: Why why do we have to fight her? You don't

1020
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 2: have to.

1021
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: What you do, you wouldn't have to fight her regardless

1022
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 1: of the age. You have things that you're doing, you

1023
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: have stuff to look forward to, and you're beautiful. We

1024
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: are not fighting.

1025
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: No, we're not fighting. Don't do that. It doesn't matter

1026
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: what age you I'm I was never about that fighting life.

1027
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 2: I remember.

1028
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:04,720
Speaker 1: I remember, Oh, this is crazy. I remember high school.

1029
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,919
Speaker 1: I transferred to another high school for my best friend

1030
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: at the time, and that's my problem. I get caught

1031
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: up with the best friends and I'm like, I'm.

1032
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 2: Your right eye.

1033
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: So I transferred to the school. People don't like her,

1034
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 1: they can't stand her, and I'm just like, why, she's

1035
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: beautiful girl. She was Nala Nala on Broadway, Okay, the

1036
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: very first Nala for Lion King, so she could sing.

1037
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,879
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, they haters. They can't

1038
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 1: stand her, a.

1039
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 2: Light skinned queen that she is princess.

1040
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:36,319
Speaker 1: They're mad.

1041
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 2: They just can't wait for her to be king.

1042
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: I was letting you do it because I was like,

1043
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: I know you're because they just kid. No, they just

1044
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: couldn't wait to kick her ass. And so I pull

1045
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: up to the school. I'm thinking that I didn't tell

1046
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: you that people didn't like her, no, because then I

1047
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 1: wouldn't trans I'm leaving my school because we wanted to

1048
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:57,399
Speaker 1: kick my ass.

1049
00:51:57,840 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 2: Why you should come here?

1050
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,320
Speaker 1: Why would you want to get your ass kicked alone

1051
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: when you can get your ass kicked together.

1052
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 2: That's what friends are. That's what friends.

1053
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 1: Uh, that's just tonight is the night to become one,

1054
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,840
Speaker 1: and one becomes because they was gonna break y'all.

1055
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 2: Hey, what about your friend?

1056
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: What about your friend?

1057
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 2: So I get there, we we On the third day

1058
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 2: of school. I walk in.

1059
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: I got my curls from the Dominicans. I got my

1060
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:34,839
Speaker 1: cute plaid skirt, knee high stockings, platform. I think I'm

1061
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 1: I think I'm dion and cludeless. Absolutely coming looking cute.

1062
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 2: She's cute. Was there a blazer?

1063
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: No blazer, blazer, just like a cute like long haired

1064
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 1: sweater or whatever. And so go in looking good, feeling good.

1065
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 1: I'm walking down the hall. I feel something go past

1066
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: my shoulder. I don't know what it is, but something.

1067
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: I sit down. I'm like, that's weird. Go to my

1068
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: next class. More things are flying past me. I have

1069
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: no idea what's going on about hitting you? But it's

1070
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 1: not hitting me, but it's flying past me. So I'm like,

1071
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: whatever this is? These people have terrible aim. Sure, And

1072
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 1: so the next class, more stuff is being thrown, not

1073
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 1: hitting me. The last class, I go to a whole

1074
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 1: bag of skittles hit me in the back of my head.

1075
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:25,760
Speaker 2: Taste the rainbow, bitch.

1076
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: And they didn't say that, but that's how it felt

1077
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: when it hit me. Oh, I wish they had said it.

1078
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: That would would have that. But you know what, they didn't.

1079
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 2: They didn't speak. They didn't speak well, they didn't really

1080
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 2: have their words together. I don't even know if it

1081
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 2: was this is like they were one of those she

1082
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 2: could sing it. They couldn't speak exactly. They looked like boulders.

1083
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:46,399
Speaker 2: I turned around.

1084
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: It was two big rocks standing in front of me,

1085
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: and I said, who do the motherfucking skittles? It's quiet

1086
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: in the hallway everyone you know, and it's and I

1087
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: was like, now, why wouldn't the rock say anything? They

1088
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 1: big rocks, you small that skirt because they were like,

1089
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck you're talking about. Nobody

1090
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: threw the skittles over here, and I was like, yes,

1091
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 1: you fucking it. I was. I was like yelling, screaming,

1092
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 1: spit was coming out of my mouth. I was so

1093
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 1: upset because I couldn't bouncing and they didn't even they

1094
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:19,720
Speaker 1: didn't even throw like uh, they didn't throw all the skittles.

1095
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: They purposely took out the reds, the purples, and uh,

1096
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,479
Speaker 1: the yellows, and it was only the oranges left.

1097
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 2: But the orange is good. They ate the purples. Oh

1098
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 2: they dumb, They are d web That's why they were

1099
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 2: left back many times.

1100
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: Also, how much work is that to take all the

1101
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: skittles out and put back the ones that you don't want.

1102
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 1: They had time. It's not like they were learning in class.

1103
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,320
Speaker 1: It was not like they were doing their homework or

1104
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: writing anything down. They didn't have no notebooks, no.

1105
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 2: Paper, hitting backpack with a float backpack, no nothing.

1106
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: They just showed up in really cool sneakers and was

1107
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,280
Speaker 1: ready to be bullies. Okay, now when you described these rocks,

1108
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: I'm seeing the sisters as she sisters from proud family,

1109
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: a blue girl. That's exactly you nailed it to the t.

1110
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 2: Sister. Yeah, one of the girls was named Mushy Mushy

1111
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 2: Yo mushi. If you're watching this right now, r ip gee.

1112
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 1: She might be.

1113
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 2: I don't know. That's why. The way she was living

1114
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 2: her life.

1115
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: I was like, there's no way she's gonna have a

1116
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 1: long a long term in this long journey. But maybe

1117
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: she turned her life around. Maybe Mushi, if you out

1118
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: there sent us a message, mush.

1119
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 2: But she might be a messy right now. Who knows, Hey, Mushy.

1120
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:33,360
Speaker 2: But they're yelling at.

1121
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: Me, and now they're legit about to fight me, and

1122
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,720
Speaker 1: one of the teachers comes in pulls me. My bestie

1123
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: at the time, she's getting pulled into another room and

1124
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 1: we're like.

1125
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:48,319
Speaker 2: All right, okay, girls, don't worry. Everything's gonna be fine.

1126
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: And then once she walked past, she's like, that's all right,

1127
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 1: we're gonna wait for you after school, and so I said,

1128
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 1: they're not really gonna be waiting for it. They were

1129
00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: waiting after school. They brought bloods. They said that they

1130
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 1: had box cutters outside waiting for us. They were waiting outside,

1131
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: so I couldn't go meet and my bestie at that

1132
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: time couldn't go home until like maybe.

1133
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 2: Six o'clock at school. That's not of like two what.

1134
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 1: It was scary, and from then I was like, I

1135
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm gonna speak up for myself ever again.

1136
00:56:20,360 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 1: That's okay, I'll just I'll just take it. It was

1137
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 1: just skittles. I actually love Candy.

1138
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 2: And you do love him.

1139
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm ubsessed.

1140
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 2: So so after that, what happened? They didn't bother you

1141
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 2: guys no more?

1142
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: They did they did. There was I mean, there was

1143
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: so many conflict managers that tried to get involved. It

1144
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 1: was I was like, girl, why did you have me

1145
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:39,800
Speaker 1: come to this fucking school? You already know I had problems.

1146
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,359
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to learn. I just want to learn,

1147
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: and I want to paint and I want to mind

1148
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 1: my business. What are we doing here?

1149
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 2: I want to learn how to play spades. They were

1150
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 2: teaching that in school at the time.

1151
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: Cafeteria. No, they didn't teach me because I always wanted

1152
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 1: to be involved. And every time I was like, I'll

1153
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:59,399
Speaker 1: be your partner, everybody would turn their backs. Like there's

1154
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: a place in Brooklyn that Reggie posted about that's doing

1155
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: spades lessons. They were doing it when I was going

1156
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 1: we yeah, I'm gonna do it back up again, but

1157
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 1: we should definitely go because I don't know how.

1158
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 2: To play spades. It's hard to say it out loud, friend,

1159
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:14,280
Speaker 2: saying you know not I play.

1160
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 1: Space, basically not that hard for me to say it.

1161
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm not the Black American. I am Caribbean American, so

1162
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: I don't know We don't play spades. We played domino,

1163
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 1: we play let's read the Bible and pretend that we

1164
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: learned something, but don't don't change.

1165
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 2: We don't play spades. You play games.

1166
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 1: Play games.

1167
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 2: You surely do you know how to do that. So

1168
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 2: after that, I was just like, yeah, I don't fight.

1169
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to do that. And so

1170
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 1: I've always moved in a way that like, let's talk

1171
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 1: it out, let's chat.

1172
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 2: Why can't we use your words?

1173
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 1: Why do you have to I'm not that muzzy.

1174
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 2: Ya hit him to the left, hit him mm hmmm,

1175
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 2: you know who I wish I could hit. Actually, that's

1176
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 2: that was just a segue. You know.

1177
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 1: I bumped into my do the other day again again,

1178
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: girl block away from a different block, the other side

1179
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 1: of my apartment, and you know he was with his dog. Girl.

1180
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 2: As much as you've talked to you've never said.

1181
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: He had a dog. Oh yeah, he had a dog

1182
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: the whole time. He's had a Dalmatian the entire time. Marie.

1183
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 2: That's something that you would mention though.

1184
00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: Well, the dog don't live with him, live with him, mom.

1185
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: Upstate dalmatians need space to run. Plus people in New

1186
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 1: York when I turned them into coats. So that's why,

1187
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. In the Upstate, they don't.

1188
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 1: They don't know nothing about style of state.

1189
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 2: They just three what is in that little gogurt you

1190
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 2: got going? What are you saying? Girl, he's had the

1191
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 2: dog the whole time.

1192
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 1: It's not your dog.

1193
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 2: If it's at your mom's place and you can't take

1194
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 2: care of it. Mm, what are you giving money to

1195
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 2: support the dog?

1196
00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 1: It's still not your dog? Where are you? Where are

1197
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: you going to get?

1198
00:58:58,080 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: And she was not the dog she was.

1199
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: He was a black away from the crane. Sorry, that's

1200
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 1: the issue, mind you. I'm walking down the street. I

1201
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: just had a nice little breakfast because I needed to

1202
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 1: eat before I took my medication that I ended up

1203
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: not taking because I was so you know, but I was.

1204
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, but I've been in the house

1205
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 1: all morning. Let me take the long way home, take

1206
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 1: a little walk.

1207
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 2: I turned the corner. I'll see the dog first. I'm like, oh,

1208
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 2: what's the donation? I think those are like fun dogs.

1209
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 2: We don't see them enough. I look up.

1210
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 1: He's already looking at me. I'm like this, I can't

1211
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: go the other way. I already started coming this way.

1212
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 1: I walk over there because I'm like, what are you

1213
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 1: doing over here? He's real chatty. Hey saw me and

1214
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: the dog went to the dog park, and then we

1215
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: wanted to come over here. And because you know, this

1216
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: place has the best egg sandwiches. You can get an

1217
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:46,959
Speaker 1: egg sandwich on any block in Brooklyn. It's not doing

1218
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 1: with the dog in the city.

1219
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 2: He was telling me what he was doing with the dog.

1220
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 2: I wasn't paying attention. He needs to get his shots.

1221
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: Here's me what you're doing here. He's like, so, Marie,

1222
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: have you been traveling? I said, oh, you've been watching

1223
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: my stories. You've been listening to the podcast, because why

1224
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: would you ask me that you've been traveling.

1225
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I have where you been? I said, all over?

1226
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: And you have m.

1227
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 2: He's like, eh, you're like what, don't be mad. You

1228
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 2: know the universe, the universe. People like this, like the

1229
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 2: universe is bringing us together. I said, that's not the universe.

1230
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 2: This is you because you're stalker. Because you know where

1231
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 2: I live there's soccer. You're not. That's not the universe.

1232
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 2: He tried to blame it on the universe. I was like,

1233
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 2: you are does he have an air tack on you.

1234
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm just like, what is going on?

1235
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 2: But the air tap, no, I would have found it already.

1236
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? What you mean?

1237
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:42,440
Speaker 2: What am I gonna do?

1238
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay alert, I'm gonna stay digilant. I'm gonna

1239
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 1: start carrying mace.

1240
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 2: Now do you know how to use it? I think

1241
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 2: he does it?

1242
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: Hit the button, you make sure the hole is facing

1243
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: the other way? And you, now, would you be mad

1244
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: at me if I maced the dog? Pepper spaded the dog?

1245
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 1: I don't have many comments, girl, you was mad. I

1246
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 1: called that dog three leggy, So I'm sure you'd be

1247
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: mad if I pepper spread the dog.

1248
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 2: I wouldn't, but I might, but I won't, but if

1249
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 2: I need to, I will. Right, it's all funny games, girl,

1250
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 2: It's not fun. This is not a game. Your face

1251
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 2: doesn't seem like it's not fun.

1252
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: You think I'm having a good time seeing this man

1253
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 1: that I don't want to see a block away from

1254
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: my house, across from my good liquor store.

1255
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 2: So what do we have to do to let him know?

1256
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 2: You have to leave. You can't be in the neighborhood anymore.

1257
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 2: We have enough gentrifiers as is why are you here?

1258
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 2: I don't no girl. Should we read a message before

1259
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 2: we go? Yes?

1260
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:48,919
Speaker 1: Hey queens, longtime fan, briefly new listener from Melbourne, Australia.

1261
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 1: Are ready to drop a big bag when y'all tore

1262
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 1: the podcast in Australia. Anyway, My mess is my bitch

1263
01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: ass in law. A little backstory. I am a young,

1264
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: sexy lit and turned twenty three year old queer male

1265
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 1: in a heterosexual relationship.

1266
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 2: Wait, lit and turned.

1267
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:13,439
Speaker 1: Lit and turned lit and turned twenty three year old,

1268
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: so rarely queer male in a heterosexual relationship.

1269
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 2: That's what I was. I am confusion, but keep going. Okay, yeah,

1270
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 2: yea yeah.

1271
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 1: So basically, my brother's partner has a long history of

1272
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 1: talking shit about myself and even my partner, but we

1273
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: have always let us lie because our niece and nephew

1274
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 1: mean the literal world to us and they love us down.

1275
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: They're always asking to come over and they cry every

1276
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 1: time we have to leave. They mean the literal world

1277
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:44,320
Speaker 1: to both of us. We've had previous altercations and the

1278
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: in law will go out of her way to make

1279
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 1: sure we can't see the kids.

1280
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 2: If we were to press her about talking shit about us.

1281
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm at a place where I'll hear things she said

1282
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: about me, and I'll let it roll off my back

1283
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, she is nearing thirty,

1284
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:04,479
Speaker 1: no job, two kids, and still living with my parents. Aid.

1285
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 1: I've also come to the realization that I don't care

1286
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: what she has to say about me, because, first of all,

1287
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 1: look at her credentials and at the end of the day,

1288
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: her children love me and that means more than anything

1289
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: she could say about me. But it's when I hear

1290
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 1: things she's saying about my partner that makes me want

1291
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: to read her so nasty.

1292
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 2: She starts filling out job applications or signs and new leaks.

1293
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 1: Mind you, everyone in our family has problems with her,

1294
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:29,439
Speaker 1: and ultimately my brother should just leave her, bitch ass.

1295
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: We all know he's staying with her for the sake

1296
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 1: of the kids, so we all just let her do

1297
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 1: her weird one for the sake of him and the children,

1298
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:39,600
Speaker 1: which is mess I know. As I mentioned, I am

1299
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 1: a new listener and have been listening to old episodes.

1300
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 1: The one with Dwayne Perkins has been my favorite so far.

1301
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 1: Y'all talking about discernment and the fact that people really

1302
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: deserve less grace, And I was thinking to myself, is

1303
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: me choosing peace just successful discernment or should I be

1304
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 1: pressing her because she deserves less grace?

1305
01:03:58,160 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 2: Anyway, I just wanted to know.

1306
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: Do you guys think it's just living that I let

1307
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 1: her say anything about us even though it doesn't bother

1308
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: me or my partner and we just keep the peace

1309
01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 1: for the sake of our niece and nephew. Or is

1310
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 1: it mess that I let her say whatever she wants?

1311
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: And should I let my girlfriend run a fade with her?

1312
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 2: I love you guys in the severest of ways.

1313
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 1: Please please have Bob and Monet on soon, or I'll

1314
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: start a petition signed Margot Robbie.

1315
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 2: You were hilarious. Whoever you are, come to the front,

1316
01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 2: live the front.

1317
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 1: I need you in the DMS because I need to

1318
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 1: see your face because you're queer and a heaterosexual relationship.

1319
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 1: I got what I'm envisioning. I want to know if

1320
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: you look like that. This is what I need a

1321
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: visual for, Like when you're study like this, I need

1322
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 1: to see you. I need to see the girlfriend, maybe

1323
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 1: even the niece and nephew. You know. But yeah, you

1324
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 1: could have sent us some visuals. Is it mess or

1325
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: just living that they let her say what she wants?

1326
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 1: Or is it really living to let the girlfriend run

1327
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 1: the fade? Some people really love kids, because the way

1328
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: i'd be like, I see when you get older, when

1329
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: you're twenty.

1330
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 2: One, and we could really do some work. What is

1331
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 2: her problem with y'all? Though?

1332
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 1: Everything?

1333
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 2: She seems unhappy? Yeah, and sometimes you don't have any

1334
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 2: control of that.

1335
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:21,439
Speaker 1: And uh, you know, I understand keeping a peace because

1336
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: also arguing with a person like that, it's gonna it's

1337
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,520
Speaker 1: too much tit for tat and if you have things

1338
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 1: to do and you have a life, I don't want

1339
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 1: to get caught up in that. But how much do

1340
01:05:31,920 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 1: you love the kids? You really want to see these

1341
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: kids like that? Then I, you know, I think it's

1342
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 1: not mess that you're just letting her say whatever. It's like, girl,

1343
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: you talking to the wall. I don't hear anything that

1344
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: you're saying. Give me if nam kids, I want to

1345
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 1: see my niece and nephew. Yeah, but I think that

1346
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 1: the longer you're able to let this stuff slide off

1347
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 1: your back, the more she's gonna realize that it's not

1348
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 1: offending y'all at all.

1349
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 2: And she gonna be She's gonna start withholding them kids.

1350
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 2: It feels like, so be it.

1351
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 1: So be I was like, hey, if you want the

1352
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 1: kids to be mad at you, because because you're taking

1353
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 1: them away from all of this glory, all of this

1354
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 1: beauty and fun, so be it.

1355
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 2: Well.

1356
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,120
Speaker 1: Also, how are you, as a twenty three year old,

1357
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:10,840
Speaker 1: more mature than somebody who's close to thirty.

1358
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 2: Ah, ain't nothing but a number.

1359
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: And I hate that that man, you know, that came

1360
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: up with It's just so ironic and a nasty way.

1361
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 1: But it really is like we really be holding this

1362
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 1: number to like so many like requirements and things that

1363
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, this is what it should It's not

1364
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:37,480
Speaker 1: the way people brains are fried, the way people are

1365
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: not emotionally intelligent, the way these people.

1366
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 2: Just scroll all day.

1367
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 1: They have all no sense of urgency or adultthood happening.

1368
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 2: So it makes sense. And she's living with his parents.

1369
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, she don't know, she don't know. Maybe she's post

1370
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 1: part of it, she would have post part of the kids.

1371
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 1: She's depressed, and it.

1372
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 2: Sounds like the brother is with her because of the kids.

1373
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 1: She not even being loved right, Like, you know, I

1374
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 1: don't know what the insurance situation is in Australia.

1375
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 2: But it's got to be better than America. It's got me,

1376
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 2: you know, call somebody. I'm surprised that you mentioned that.

1377
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 1: That's good.

1378
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,920
Speaker 2: You really are brutally honest. You no give me more grace.

1379
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 2: We're doing it.

1380
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think it's living that you're just you're

1381
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 1: just trying to get by to see these kids. And

1382
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 1: it's all gonna rent out in the wash. If you're

1383
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: supposed to see them, you will. I wanted to bring

1384
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 1: up one more thing.

1385
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 2: The floor is yours, and then we're gonna wrap up.

1386
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 1: And this is this is not towards you, because you

1387
01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: were actually really you're one of my straight friends that

1388
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: I don't really have a problem with. I'm really tired

1389
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 1: of my straight girlfriends. I'm tired of them because I

1390
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:59,480
Speaker 1: am a lesbian so I don't have to deal with

1391
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 1: male centered conversations or situations, and I'm exhausted.

1392
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:09,080
Speaker 2: I don't know what to say anymore. I'd be having

1393
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 2: a good time with my gal.

1394
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:13,120
Speaker 1: I don't really have much, you know, I have a

1395
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 1: couple of issues and I talk to you about it,

1396
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 1: but for the most part, were chilling, you know, and

1397
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 1: so now I have to hear about them. Not these guys,

1398
01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: not pulling a weight, not treating you right, not showing up,

1399
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 1: Not how am I? How am I better than your man?

1400
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:28,840
Speaker 1: How am I better than your man?

1401
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 2: How? How am I better than the person that you're

1402
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 2: interested in? That's weird. We have bad taste sittingey hey,

1403
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:38,680
Speaker 2: and lots of people have bad tastes as somebody who

1404
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:44,599
Speaker 2: partook in the you know, dick and balls genre ball genre.

1405
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 1: I I had bad taste as well.

1406
01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 2: Girl.

1407
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:49,679
Speaker 1: You can't say abortion, but you say dick and ball genre.

1408
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 1: You can't say play a parenthood, but you could say

1409
01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: dick and balls genre.

1410
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 2: That's crazy. The gag is you don't even like it,

1411
01:08:58,040 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 2: but you could say it. It just rolls off the

1412
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 2: literally and dubit diick in ball genre my bad, But

1413
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 2: I digress. Please continue with your ring. Ms Mama's.

1414
01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:18,000
Speaker 1: We have got to find something else. I want the

1415
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 1: gals to get on their zoom and get hobbies. You

1416
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 1: got to get a hobby or invest in your your

1417
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: friendships that are actually by the wayside because you're spending

1418
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 1: so much time trying to cater to these men's And

1419
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:35,680
Speaker 1: it's not just it's not just my friendships, it's like

1420
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:41,160
Speaker 1: everybody's friendships. Everybody like you coming in, you laughing at

1421
01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 1: these guys. You're not expecting shit. You you doing what

1422
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: you're doing. You like, I'm going back to sleep and

1423
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:48,720
Speaker 1: living my life. That is the energy that I need

1424
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 1: from everybody on the line. On the line stand up now.

1425
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:55,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to because all I can tell you

1426
01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:59,439
Speaker 1: to do is leave him, leave him, and you don't

1427
01:09:59,479 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 1: want that.

1428
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 2: And that's the thing. Sometimes y'all be talking to me.

1429
01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 1: I am. I am not the dumpster of your issues

1430
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:09,920
Speaker 1: with your men's. You got to go to your other

1431
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:11,800
Speaker 1: girls about because now I'm taking on.

1432
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 2: Now I'm mad.

1433
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:14,559
Speaker 1: Now I'm going to sleep, tossing and turn and think

1434
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: about your you're dusty that you're sleeping in bed with.

1435
01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:21,760
Speaker 2: That's treating you wrong. I don't want to do that. Yeah.

1436
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:23,800
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women need to decenter men.

1437
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 1: I think we I don't know. We grew up watching

1438
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 1: fairy tales. We grow up here and you gonna have

1439
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 1: a baby, and it first comes love, then comes marriage,

1440
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:35,559
Speaker 1: then comes to blah blah blah baby carting.

1441
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 2: No, some of y'all you have to decenter men.

1442
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 1: Because realistically, when you happy and thriving and living your

1443
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 1: best life, that's when people are more attracted to you. Anyway,

1444
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:48,000
Speaker 1: when you out and you're like, why is nobody sending

1445
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:49,840
Speaker 1: me a drink? Why is nobody coming to talk to me?

1446
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 1: Why is nobody? They not checking for that? They know

1447
01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 1: you gotta be like an Ostrich put you. It's an Ostrich,

1448
01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:58,599
Speaker 1: the thing that put this head in the dirt. Doing

1449
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 1: Sam agree with you. Find some hobbies. There's literally anything

1450
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: that you can think of is a hobby. I was

1451
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:08,759
Speaker 1: watching a lady video the other day. She's taking flexibility classes.

1452
01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 2: I said, what's that?

1453
01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 1: It's just somebody that helps you become limber and stretch.

1454
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:15,840
Speaker 1: I think I need to take it. I want to

1455
01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:16,679
Speaker 1: learn how to do a split.

1456
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 2: I can barely when things draw, I barely pick it up.

1457
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, I might need to do that.

1458
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 1: I need to do.

1459
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. I so you're done. You don't listen to the

1460
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:27,880
Speaker 2: straight girls complaining about their men, I might have to

1461
01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:28,920
Speaker 2: hang up. I want to.

1462
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 1: And the thing is is like I want to. I

1463
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:32,920
Speaker 1: want to be there, but I think I got to

1464
01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 1: be there for something else. Tell me, like anything else,

1465
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 1: anything else? I think I can listen to. But it

1466
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 1: just I'm at this age where I'm kind of like, yeah, friend,

1467
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:47,559
Speaker 1: enough is enough, Enough is enough? Now are you here

1468
01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 1: for the gay girls with their issues with their girls?

1469
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 1: You're not here for that either. I don't, but I

1470
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 1: don't really hear much from the They're like, oh, she's

1471
01:11:57,640 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 1: she's too, she's she's on me, two available.

1472
01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:05,000
Speaker 2: She's like okay, girl, so you you want her cheating?

1473
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 2: You want her not calling? Like what do you want?

1474
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 1: Nobody? Everybody is unsatisfied and we got to work on that.

1475
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 1: There's a complain about everything, give me something. Where is

1476
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:17,600
Speaker 1: the you're happy, excited about you know?

1477
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll be complaining too.

1478
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 1: But I'm also like, today I woke up and I said,

1479
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 1: I am thankful, I am lucky, I am blessed, Like

1480
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 1: people show up for me some I am loved you said.

1481
01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:31,680
Speaker 2: This's while you were in the arms of your lover.

1482
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 2: No no, no, when she left, Oh when she left

1483
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:35,080
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

1484
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:38,720
Speaker 1: Like, you know, people were messaging me telling me, yeah,

1485
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 1: this is something you should do, like you're really good

1486
01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:43,479
Speaker 1: at this, like pouring into me.

1487
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 2: That's you know, that's boring into you. I love that.

1488
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1489
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:49,680
Speaker 2: So it's like focus on that.

1490
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:51,920
Speaker 1: I was like, even if I didn't have my girlfriend,

1491
01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:55,759
Speaker 1: I still got to focus on the people who checking

1492
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 1: for me. I can't do no more this like wanting

1493
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 1: this when it's like I already got it. So if

1494
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 1: you're focusing on the men that's not there, why they

1495
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 1: are there.

1496
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:10,800
Speaker 2: They are underneath bridges.

1497
01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:13,760
Speaker 1: They're in boxes, they're in the subway, they're in boxes. Yeah,

1498
01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:14,639
Speaker 1: they're on house.

1499
01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:17,559
Speaker 2: There's so many men. If you want to start from scratch,

1500
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:18,679
Speaker 2: pick up one of those guys.

1501
01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 1: They are actually looking for someone to build them up

1502
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 1: and get them.

1503
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 2: Where they need to be.

1504
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 1: You can't start the rent with I'm tired of hearing

1505
01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 1: you'all complain about these men and then tell someone to

1506
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 1: get a bottom of the well as bottom of the

1507
01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 1: barrel man and build him up. Get them weak, weak,

1508
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:39,639
Speaker 1: and weary. I don't want them weak. I don't want

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Speaker 1: them weird. You're good, You're good where you are. I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying in general, people don't want that. But listen, ladies,

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Speaker 1: cities and stop. So you want a guy who believes

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Speaker 1: in himself and thinks.

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Speaker 2: So high and delusional that he's like, oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I can't I can't call and text you back. I

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Speaker 1: don't need him to be delusional, because I'm delusional for

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Speaker 1: both of us. But I need him to believe in

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Speaker 1: himself one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: If you don't believe in you, I don't believe in

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Speaker 1: you either, Okay, And I'm not here to build a bear, babe,

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Speaker 1: Be careful what you ask for. Once these men start

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01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:14,839
Speaker 1: believing in themselves, what do they do become president?

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Speaker 2: Not qualified?

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Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing to talk about already plans and they

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Speaker 1: are in what the Congress, Supreme Court all that, so

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know, Come on political ce make America whack again.

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Speaker 1: And on that note, guys, please keep sending us messages

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Speaker 1: and reviews and rating us. And I think the comments

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Speaker 1: that I would like for y'all this week is for

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Speaker 1: you guys to tell us something that you're proud.

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Speaker 2: Of, proud like brag about what you got going rag.

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Speaker 1: If he's so little, it could be I said I

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Speaker 1: wanted to get a studio apartment by this age, I

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Speaker 1: did it.

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Speaker 2: It could be, you know, a work thing, a school thing,

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Speaker 2: a life thing.

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Speaker 1: I bought myself, some flowers, I changed, I rearranged my room.

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Speaker 1: Put I want the comments blooded with positive things.

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Speaker 2: That you are proud of about your suffer board.

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Speaker 1: Yes, please, please, thank you so much and at the

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Speaker 1: end of the day, keep it missy, yeah yeah ye.

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Speaker 1: Mess With Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a production

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