WEBVTT - Episode 63 Ft Shannon Briggs 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:07.200 What's up this lift service. I'm Angela, Ye, I'm Stephanie Santiago, 0:00:07.360 --> 0:00:10.520 I'm Luria, and I'm stage and we got a special 0:00:10.520 --> 0:00:13.039 guest with us, Shannon Briggs. Let's go chap, thank you, 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.080 Let's go chimp, Let's go Okay. So we always start 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:19.279 off with the tip of the day. Um, so today's 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:23.079 tip is we're talking about relationships and politics. Could you 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:26.880 date somebody that was voting for Donald Trump? No? No, 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.560 I could not, Angela couldn't do That would be uh 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:32.760 against how I feel, let alone how I feel. Just 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:34.040 I would be thinking some of those wrong with the 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:36.920 person mentally If you see what, like everything he's doing 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:38.840 and you still want to vote for him, I feel 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:40.320 like something's gotta be co wrong with you. But what 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:44.040 if everything else was so perfect, like the sex of course, right, 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.800 and like she was just a great woman, super intelligent, 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:48.920 But y'all just voting for different people. I had the 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:52.480 question question of intelligence performing for a guy who could 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:55.400 like literally destroyed earth, you know what I mean. That's 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.520 just my personal opinion. What about you, step because you 0:00:57.560 --> 0:01:01.040 date somebody that was voting for Donald Trump? I mean 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.560 this is a subject that I'm I'd rather not talk 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:07.720 about because she's voting down. I'm not voting. You're not 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:11.520 voting at all. I can't really take people serious who 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:17.039 even vote, like what, you don't se people seriously vote? No, 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:20.800 I'm you know, voting doesn't even really matter, you know 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.760 what I mean? Our presidents are elected, ahout of time, 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:33.560 Hillary Clinton will be our next presidents. This is so 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:36.600 you think people just shouldn't vote. People can vote, Go 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.679 do whatever you want. Do would go do whatever you want, 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:43.840 It doesn't matter what do you think. I definitely think 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:48.200 everybody should go out and vote for Hillary because I 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:50.680 don't want Trump to be the president and ruin the 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:53.720 earth like that. I don't kid we all, but I 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:55.880 can't believe he's even a Republican nominees. He made it 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:58.560 very fine with that's scary and we should be scared. 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:02.400 And I can't. I couldn't take anybody serious that, you know. 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:04.120 I actually went on a date with a guy that 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:06.440 told me he was going to vote for Trump, and 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:10.959 I did, I did, did not tell me about this, Yeah, 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.640 the doctor guy, And he tells me, yeah, he said 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:15.160 he was going to vote for Trump and he had 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:17.960 his reasons, and afterwards I just thought he was an 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.720 idiot either way. I was like, yeah, if you think 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.960 anything similar to like what this guy is thinking, something 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.480 is wrong. Because people do say politics and relationships don't 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:28.280 make What about you say you're voting for Trump? Right? 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:36.360 Definitely not. I was like, I mean, I probably I 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:39.359 probably could date someone if they were voting for him. 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:42.040 That would be hard for me, but I would try 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:44.560 to be open to it. I don't know. I mean, 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:47.280 I'm not a Trump supporter though, but you but you 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:50.799 feel like relationships and politics can be separate if you 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.399 care about the person, Yeah, and if you can work 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:57.679 it out. But it's not easy. Okay. Now, what else 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.120 doesn't mix like with relationships? They say religion to that 0:03:00.240 --> 0:03:04.960 mixed sometimes? Could you date somebody that was a different religion? Um? 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.799 I have dated someone who wasn't a different religion. And 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:12.639 you know, I'm very open about my spirituality and this 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:16.440 guy was so warm that he kind of it's sort 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:20.440 of just for like one hot millisecond made me think 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:23.919 about converting to Islam. What about if he was a Satan? 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:29.640 Marsh say, I could That's where that happened, like he um, 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:33.080 you know, he taught me a lot about the Islamic faith, 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:36.640 and you know, he made it sound really beautiful and 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:40.400 everything else was really beautiful with him. So and it 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:42.840 was like, hey, maybe I want to get married, maybe 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:45.320 I want to be a Muslim. You would switch your faith? Nah, 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.880 I wouldn't today, but for a moment you thought about 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:49.920 it for a hot millisecond. But I just feel like 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:51.920 the name of the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.480 has been very good to me. So I'm not gonna switch. 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:58.280 I'm very grateful, Thank you God. Well, shann and being married, 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:00.000 do you feel like, well, it's important for you guys 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.640 is to have the same faith or do you think 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:05.160 it's okay? I think it's well, I wouldn't say we're 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.440 not really just were agnostics, So don't really you don't 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:10.840 find any particular faith. We call it so spiritual. But 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:13.160 at the same time, I couldn't if I was with her. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:15.960 My wife was a Baptist and she was going to 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:19.200 church every Sunday or born again Christian or whatever, Catholic. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:20.920 It might be a little difficult because I might not 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:22.200 want to go to church. But people do that all 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.440 the time. People get married thirty forty years and husband. 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.120 The husbands don't go to church and the wives go 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.680 to church. It's always happened, so you cannot. It's like 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:32.400 my parents, it's possible. What about you, Luria, I can 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.320 do it as long as, like you said, as long 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:37.680 as it's not like what do you call them atheists? 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:40.840 As long as just somebody that's why you're not have 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:44.640 somebody's spirituality. Yeah, I feel like a devil worshiper. Get 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:49.000 the fat here now. But my half my family is Muslim. Um, 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.640 my mother is Christian, and I believe in God. I 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:55.880 wouldn't say that like I watched church online and stuff 0:04:55.920 --> 0:05:00.200 like that. I try to watch every Sunday, and but 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:02.359 I wouldn't be mad if somebody else didn't want to 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.320 watch or didn't want to go to church or that. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:07.599 You know, that doesn't bother me. But just don't like 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:11.400 there's no God. Yeah, I would even a matter of fact, 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.800 I'll be Jewish too, you know. I mean, you know 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:21.400 they got money I wanted and then that stereotyped so 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:23.560 they ruled the world like that. You know, they say, 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:25.800 did Jews out of what if you were you met 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:32.640 a devil worshiper that was a billionaire? Na, na, Na, 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:36.080 that I a't messing with God? God God's trying to 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:41.120 go to help with What about you, sage? How important 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.599 is religion? It's not super important to me. I'm not 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:46.760 very very religious. I am spiritual. But my my answer 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:49.240 for the Trump questions comes from the fact that I 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:52.000 have dated someone who was really religious and I wasn't 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:54.240 and we made it work, but it took effort. So 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.520 that's kind of why I think I could date someone 0:05:57.000 --> 0:06:00.200 who voted for Trump, even though I'm totally not in 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:02.360 that tam boat. So yeah, I could do I could 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:04.240 do both. All right, Now, let's talk about the lip 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:07.760 service blog. Okay, passport Cutty did things that men do 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:10.680 that women hate, and she listed some things that men do. 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:13.480 We're gonna ask you about women in a second, but 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:15.720 here's some things that men do that women hate, according 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:18.280 to passport Cutty. And you guys can add on to this. Um, 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:20.599 leave an empty toilet tissue roll in the bathroom for 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:24.719 you to change. You do that, Shandon, Why won't you 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:31.480 just change the toilet roll, throw away the old piece 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:34.200 of cardboard and put the new toilet paper roll on 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.920 the Now, okay, but then don't you have to wipe 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:41.160 yourself after because in your but it is still wet. True. 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:46.279 That's so true. All right. You guys will not ask 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.960 for directions, but you won't know where you're going. That's 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:52.200 a very huge situation with men. You don't like to 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:56.320 ask for directions, you do? You know, no problem, Champ, 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.080 what's up? You know what I'm saying? All right? Why 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.520 do guys say how much he hates weeds, but tea 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:05.719 telling you what a girl with a weave fat? Or 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:07.440 they say I hate girls with short hair, but then 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.640 you would grow with short hair, right, They don't know 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.960 what the variety, so you know, the best thing for 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:13.720 you women to do is like switch it up on them. 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:16.720 Sometimes you're short. Sometimes this won't you feel me? But 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:18.520 then if they say I hate a weave by getting 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.800 and you get a big lying did something sometimes and 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:26.480 he'll be like wow, shock them right now? Do you cook? Okay? 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:27.920 Why do men act like they don't know how to 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:30.120 cook when you're around, but when you're gone for a 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:31.960 long time they send you a picture or something they 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:38.120 made because they want you to do it. Yeah. I 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:39.720 think that's one of the best things that God can do, 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:43.400 actually is cooked for you? For surely I'm always the cook, right, 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:46.280 That's why it's great sometimes when a guy cooks for you. 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:49.320 I love when God cooks exactly because it's like a 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:53.560 changing of rolls. Please, even the smallest thing. If a 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:56.720 guy cooks me the smallest thing, like a boiled egg, 0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:00.560 egg egg. But if you don't like the food, that's 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:03.600 what my Oh my god. If a guy cooks one 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:06.680 of my favorite boyfriends, one of my favorite boyfriends, he 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.160 just taught me how to make a Friday. He taught 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:12.440 me how to do it like back and like November. 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:14.920 Because if he makes you wag food, do you have 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:18.160 to eat it? Still? That's the problem. I'll just eat 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:19.840 a couple of bites and be like, oh, I'm so full, 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:22.120 you know, I'm diting. I had this one guy I 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:24.280 used to always bring me breakfast in bed, and it 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:27.680 was such a great gesture. But then I'm like, oh, 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.320 I don't even eat this, like but I had to 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:34.400 just like bunch it up in the napkins, so like whateffort, 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:40.880 I moved it around the plate. He's like, you didn't 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:44.679 eat it isn't offensive if you cooking a guy doesn't 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:48.640 eat your food, no, because I mean unless you were 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:51.480 really bad at cooking, but like not everyone's gonna like 0:08:51.559 --> 0:09:00.600 it seconds. You're not gonna like three service, You're gonna 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:04.840 eat more, says, can you cook? I'm not a very 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:07.520 good because you're fine with him not eating your feet. 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:09.280 I don't. I don't even try like I do the 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:12.480 basics and that's it. Hungry man. I'm putting his cooking 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:16.320 very important, very important. You know, we gotta eat, especially, 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:18.199 you know, if you get down or whatever, you gotta eat. 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:19.680 You want to have a good you know, not a 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:27.000 sandwiches got a good meally, No good sandwich though. Look, 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.720 I can't make it. Sand I put your little butter 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:32.880 in the pin, I put the bread on your toast 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:37.719 as she doesn't even have to put a lot of 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:40.160 stuff in it. It was really I'm not very simple. 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:42.679 I can't cook, but I'm very simple with my cooking. 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:44.920 But it was good. I'm like, where does you get 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:49.559 to see? I don't just make I makee tacos. Last 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:55.640 night they were good taco. So yeah, was it taco Tuesday? Yeah? 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.800 All right? Now another thing things that men do that 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:04.960 women hate. They complain about how much money you spend, 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:06.640 but then they spend way more than you and on 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:12.240 way dumber things. Shannon that's the dumbest thing you ever 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:15.640 spent some money on. Man, so many dumb things. I mean, 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:21.240 you have to hide your purchases from your wife. She 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:24.040 finds out, Like give us an example. Yes, I don't 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:25.640 do it anymore, but I used to go out by 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:29.240 jewelry and she'd like find out, just being silly, you know, 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.960 I'm chilling out. The jeweler is a good investment sometimes, Yeah, 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:36.240 they say it can be. When you try to take 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.160 it back and hate the same, it's not the same. 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:41.240 But you still get some money and yourself. Yeah, you're 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:54.240 rolling in the sky stuff. Property that's very chill downtimes. 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:57.440 Property does decrease in value, well not right now. It 0:10:57.480 --> 0:11:01.040 depends markets up, especially on a lot of your female 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.200 real estate, like just that speaking of boom right now. 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:06.439 But that's what girls do when I'm when when when 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:08.720 their career is up in the strip club bartend and 0:11:08.760 --> 0:11:16.120 they go into real estates a realtor. That's a hilarious 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:19.000 there's a lot of realtors out here now, but they 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:21.680 do they do well, I know girls, and that's smart 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.080 because you know, in this business you meet a lot 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:27.200 of a lot of wealthy men and you can sell 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:30.880 to my house and make a quick dollars, right, you 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.120 know what I mean, Like, hey day, I don't I 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:34.920 think it's better than going to work in the hospital, 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:38.600 because that's the second choice. Damn, what's the choice. The 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:42.720 third choice is no. The first choice. The first choice 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:47.160 is no. No. That's why that's during you know, the 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:51.480 whole time or did The first choice is to get 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:56.920 a guy to keep you up. Okay, get you, you know, 0:11:56.960 --> 0:12:01.719 buy some jewelry. But that's even with the strip. Got 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:04.679 the first choice after the club. That's the first choice. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:07.640 The second choice is real estate. Okay, I'm a real tending. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:09.720 I got my real estate. Like for two days, I 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:11.800 was a party girl and I saw houses. That's the 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:16.079 second choice. And then last when you down at Rock Bobby, 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:19.319 you've got nothing else to do, no more pussy to sell, 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:22.880 your pussy, don't work, no more go and you get 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:30.679 an administrative job in the hospital. Yeah. I didn't know this. 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:34.440 It's a lot of with me right now or not? 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:40.000 Not truly. I never heard there's two great good professions, 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:50.439 being a realtor and being administrator. It's the worst thing. Yeah, 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:52.640 but you know what, it's good to get a job, period. 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.439 That's right, Yeah, that's right. And you know you can 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:58.200 end up like a like in a hood with five 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:01.520 little drug dealer babies and he go to jail and 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:09.600 then you're a welfare So Stephanie hasn't happen. Good. Okay, 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:11.520 I'm not a club girl, you know what. I got 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:15.400 my things the same, and I'm very grateful than Jesus. 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:18.319 Things that men do that women hate not in shape, 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:20.840 but they make comments about our body. Isn't that the 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:22.400 worst when a guy who is not in shape has 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:25.080 a nerd to tell you something about how you look. Absolutely, yes, 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:33.559 for sure. Okay you gotta say I thought about to 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:43.160 take something I got married, tell you so, I thought 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.360 the pants were next. But it is a sensitive topic 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:47.560 for women when you talk about our bodies. If we know, 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:55.120 we don you know, how do you approach that? No, 0:13:55.280 --> 0:14:01.800 that's not lightly, what's wrong with you? Oh? Man? I 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:05.480 hate when somebody like, don't you dare? If anything? You 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:07.680 gotta be like, come on, let's go running, or let's 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:10.240 go hiking, or let's go swimming, or let's go biking, 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:13.760 like to say that's subtle, But some women like for 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.520 you to be very blunting. Some women, don't you know 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:19.320 what I'm saying because we're very sensitive, and you know, 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:22.640 sometimes we're going through something and we're like okay, or 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:25.560 if a woman just had a baby, and sometimes guys 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:27.880 being a rush for you to drop that babyweight, right, 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:29.920 they don't know what it's like. I don't know what 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:33.480 it's like. So I don't about me. I don't have 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:35.200 the one you tell me something about my way, and 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:39.000 you have even the slightest imperfection. I'm reading you on right, 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.320 I'll go or like three or two gonna make a 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:45.520 right stuff. I'm going and like, how could you when 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:50.400 you're a big sol hell, it's not proportionate? Well, we 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:58.920 both got titty. You wear my same How to read 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:03.360 if I think I retired from boxing right before I 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:07.000 was stuffering from depression. Now I watched it by my side, 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:09.400 I had I had seen. I had to I had 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.560 to see my planis in like two years. I was 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:14.960 like I was, I was like I couldn't tell our sneakers, 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:18.000 and then I decided to get back in shaping hand. No, 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:23.240 I was hard my side, So I can't say what 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:25.800 had you depressed? Was it just not boxing anymore? He 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:27.080 was just you know, you know what I mean I 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:28.680 was you know what, I was young, I was crazy. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:32.200 I was always I was having a great time. You know, 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.000 I was going on in life. I was stuffering as 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:35.320 a kid. You know. I was my home when I 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.520 was thirteen years old. I was almost in Brooklyn for 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:39.440 free years by my mom. And then I got back 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:41.200 on track. I got in the boxing the least, and 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:43.360 that was that healthy. But still I was going through 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.280 a lot of things mento. So I was party, party 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:49.520 and boxing at the same time. Later on, later on, 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:51.920 it came back to harmy, like the things that I 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.160 really didn't deal with, like my mom's death. He died 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:57.200 on my birthday, my dad died in prison, so all 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:58.920 those things I never really dealt with him. So then 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:01.160 later in the life it just Overcam. I was drinking 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:03.080 a time, Like I said, I haven't had a drink 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:04.880 in six years because he just really brought me down. 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:07.280 And that's why I'm advocate for eating right, staying healthy, 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.880 and being positive. I remember one time, oh my god, 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:11.760 I gotta tell this story. You might not remember this. 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.000 We was on the West Side Highway. We was going 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:17.120 to a party. Uh, Shannon was driving and some guy, 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:19.880 I guess, um, you know, how boxing fans are because 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:23.200 they will dog you for any reason. And they was like, 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:26.320 Shannon Briggs, you suck. You stopped the car and got 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:34.480 out and chased him. Story, let's go check. I was like, yo, 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:36.720 he's really just now on the West Side Highway and 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:40.040 choked out. That kid took off though I'm like last 0:16:41.560 --> 0:16:43.400 day I had a lot of you know, I was 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:49.200 going through so good. All right, here's another thing that 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.560 things that men do that women hate. Acts like he 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:54.560 don't know how you got pregnant. Say, you don't got 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:56.760 to deal with that because she's a virgin. You're a virgin, 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:03.040 sorry twenty three Okay, what are you waiting for? Cus? 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:08.199 Just a good guy? Okay, good girl, But yeah you 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:11.280 got good guys. Yeah, but like I've been cheated on 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:13.600 and then that relationship was on and off for like 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:16.040 three years, so I wasn't. I had too much respect 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:17.840 for myself to do that. So one thing led to 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:19.680 another kind of thing. So he might have cheated on 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:29.119 you because you were a virgin. Maybe for good looking. Yeah, yes, 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:32.119 he's really pretty sore for three years that never did 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:35.679 nothing for three years and he did no. Yeah, I've 0:17:35.720 --> 0:17:41.040 done stuff, just not ever been penetrated, never like a 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:44.240 great punch, Trayn. But you do you ever think that 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:46.080 maybe he wouldn't cheated if you would have had sex. 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:48.919 I mean, we hadn't been together that long. It was 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:51.560 like maybe like a month and a half, So I 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:56.000 think he could have waited, honestly, do you think that 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.280 do you think that waiting matters for a guy? Like? 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:00.440 Do you think that guys care if have sex with 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:04.600 you right away or if you make them wait? Um? 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:06.879 Do you look at it women differently? Like in your younger, 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:09.760 wilder years, would you look at somebody differently if they 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:12.080 did it right away? Or doesn't that matter? Or would 0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:14.800 you respect somebody more if they were like, okay after 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:19.000 three months, y'all dated? I've done both, you know, I've 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:22.240 done both. I dated my wife and without such you know, 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:25.160 and then I've jumped into bad relationships you know before 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:27.760 and we were on and off before we married. That 0:18:28.720 --> 0:18:31.000 I basically, you know, one night is you know what 0:18:31.000 --> 0:18:33.080 I'm saying. I'm mat first night and think something happened, 0:18:33.200 --> 0:18:35.760 and I had a great relationship with the person um 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:38.520 at least lasting a year and it was first night, 0:18:38.840 --> 0:18:41.200 So it depends really on the person. Sometimes this chemistry 0:18:41.240 --> 0:18:43.960 is all about chemistry. It's not so because sometimes women 0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:47.639 try to do the rule and hold out. I think, um, 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:50.320 I think at this age that I'm at right now, 0:18:50.440 --> 0:18:54.200 you know, late twenties almost thirties type of ship. Yes, girl, 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:58.280 I think that I don't got time to be way 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:00.119 in to find out if you're not gonna find me 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:04.679 the right way. You know what I'm saying. I do 0:19:04.800 --> 0:19:07.439 believe sometimes early on, guys don't suck you the right 0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:11.240 way till they know you better. No, no, no, no, no, no, 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:14.560 there's potential when the first time you could tell if 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:17.919 there's potential, if this could better ry you. Guys that 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:22.000 remember telling this guy was terrible, terrible, he was so bad, 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:23.560 and I was like, I'm never gonna suck him again. 0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:26.119 And I told him again, and then it was good, 0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:28.800 like it was probably like not to the third time 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:31.760 that it was really good the first two times. No, 0:19:31.840 --> 0:19:33.680 I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna be honest. The first 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:35.399 time I thought it was good because I was drunk 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:38.320 and I didn't really remember. And then the second time 0:19:38.359 --> 0:19:40.840 I was like, this was terrible with the funk. And 0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:42.960 then I told her I was not gonna suck him again, 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:45.560 and then I did and I was like, oh, it 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:47.520 was great. I was wrong and she was like listen, 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:49.720 because at first she was like, Yeo, the chemistry just 0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:51.840 might not have been there, and you just gotta do 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:53.880 it again and try it. And that's why I tried 0:19:53.920 --> 0:19:56.160 it again and she was right. So yeah, I think 0:19:56.200 --> 0:20:02.359 sometimes with a guy for the first time another time 0:20:03.119 --> 0:20:05.600 I've never been with somebody and the first time and 0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:08.800 it was bad, and then it wasn't that bad. Can't 0:20:08.800 --> 0:20:12.919 wait on and I just feel like, you know, I'll 0:20:12.960 --> 0:20:15.800 go out on a couple of days, you know, kicking FaceTime, 0:20:15.880 --> 0:20:17.800 you know, talk to each other, you know, for a 0:20:17.800 --> 0:20:21.040 couple of weeks or whatever. But once we start getting closed, 0:20:21.080 --> 0:20:26.320 like let's get to the point, let's see what happens, right, Okay, 0:20:26.520 --> 0:20:30.040 But there's nothing worse than having a waiting like, no, 0:20:30.160 --> 0:20:31.639 I'm just not going to give it to him for 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:36.040 three months and then it's terrible months three months, it's terrible. 0:20:36.040 --> 0:20:39.000 But I do sometimes feel like you justemistry build back 0:20:39.040 --> 0:20:41.480 to three months. How could it be terrible? That's that's 0:20:41.520 --> 0:20:44.639 absolutely true. How did to be three months? If you 0:20:44.840 --> 0:20:46.600 are you saying this person every we just made this 0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:54.560 updating somebody. That's just like, that's the rule, that's the 0:20:54.720 --> 0:20:58.520 ninety day rule. No. I listen, I talked to a 0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:02.440 guy for two years. I still haven't touched him nothing. 0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:05.400 We were friends when I met him. I had a boyfriend. 0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:07.879 Then I got out of my relationship, and then he 0:21:07.920 --> 0:21:11.400 had a girlfriend. You're talking about. This is the guy 0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:15.480 I was talking to you all about downstairs about the conversation. Okay, 0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:18.600 so and he's not a psych but listen, so now 0:21:18.720 --> 0:21:21.560 we're we're like really good friends, and now it's kind 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:24.080 of seeming like it might be starting to be more 0:21:24.119 --> 0:21:26.880 than friends. But I'm like, all right, I felt comfortable 0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:29.040 with him because I've known him for so many years. 0:21:29.200 --> 0:21:31.240 I know where he went through, he knows what I've 0:21:31.240 --> 0:21:34.520 been through. And now I'm kind of pelow talk laying 0:21:34.560 --> 0:21:36.639 bad after I think it's gonna be good, I speak 0:21:36.640 --> 0:21:38.400 on the phone with him for two hours. I don't 0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:45.760 do that with him. Yeah, and then I still, you know, 0:21:45.840 --> 0:21:48.919 I'm still getting over someone or whatever, and he's just 0:21:48.960 --> 0:21:51.000 out of a relationship. So now I feel like when 0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:53.600 you guys have all this country and then he just has, 0:21:53.880 --> 0:21:56.840 I don't think it's gonna be wack. Because we get outside. 0:21:57.480 --> 0:21:59.439 I don't think it's gonna be small. You don't know. 0:21:59.640 --> 0:22:03.359