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Speaker 1: Mistake we make is that when things get really difficult

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Speaker 1: The truth I know is that we are all so

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Speaker 2: Hey, everyone, welcome back to On Purpose Today. I welcome

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Speaker 2: back the extraordinary Laura Lynn Jackson, world renowned psychic medium

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Speaker 2: and best selling author, and in Laura's newest book, Guided,

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Speaker 2: she offers profound insights on how to move through grief,

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Speaker 2: embrace life's uncertainties, and uncovered deeper meaning and purpose in

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Speaker 2: our everyday lives. Today, we explore how to connect with

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Speaker 2: something greater than ourselves so we can live with more clarity, purpose,

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Speaker 2: and light. Here to make us all feel more guided

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Speaker 2: welcome back to On Purpose Laura Lynn Jackson. Laura Lynn,

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Speaker 2: it's so so great to have you back. We've been

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Speaker 2: wanting to have you back ever since the last time

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Speaker 2: you came on. Our last interview was exceptionally received, and

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Speaker 2: I couldn't be more thrilled to have you back. In

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Speaker 2: the seat.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm so happy and honor to be back here

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Speaker 1: and being in conversation with you and be in the

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Speaker 1: light of you.

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Speaker 2: Ah, thank you. Well, I want to start off with

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Speaker 2: asking a question that I think will help our listeners

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Speaker 2: really tune in today. And the question is this, if

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Speaker 2: what you're sharing, what would be the number one thing

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Speaker 1: You know, I think one of the beautiful things that

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Speaker 1: when we learn to overcome the fear and the doubt

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Speaker 2: And last time you were here to talk about your

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Speaker 2: last book Signs, which I absolutely love and I know

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Speaker 2: so many of my friends do. You're now taking a

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Speaker 2: difference between signs and being guided. Yeah, so it's.

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Speaker 1: Been a journey how I've been guided in writing my books.

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Speaker 1: You know, my first book, The Light between Us, was

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Speaker 1: this is about you. I don't expect anyone to believe

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Speaker 2: Now, who is your team of light? How do we

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Speaker 1: Such a great question. We all have a team of light.

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Speaker 1: It's love, it's forgiveness, it's gratitude, it's all those beautiful emotions.

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Speaker 1: you might get this knowing this download you know. Oftentimes

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Speaker 1: it's referred to downloads. I've heard a lot of creative

435
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Speaker 1: people talk about getting downloads a sense of getting information

436
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Speaker 1: from somewhere outside of themselves. Right, You'll get a download

437
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Speaker 1: that's maybe saying like oh, your car's going to break

438
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 1: down to mar but it won't come with negative emotion.

439
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: You'll receive that information and then you might react emotionally

440
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,679
Speaker 1: like oh no, but it will come neutrally. And so

441
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Speaker 1: if you're in a state of anxiety and fear about

442
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Speaker 1: things that is not coming from your team of light,

443
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Speaker 1: that is not coming from God energy, it is not

444
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Speaker 1: coming from your guys. It is not coming from your

445
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Speaker 1: loved ones who are also guiding you. That's coming from

446
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Speaker 1: that frontal lobe monkey mind. That's chattering. And I think

447
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Speaker 1: it can be so helpful when we get into those

448
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Speaker 1: moments where we have so many negative thoughts coming and

449
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: we're so anxious to remind ourselves that that is not

450
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Speaker 1: coming from our spiritual self. And a really easy way

451
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Speaker 1: to kind of reconnect, I think, with our spiritual self

452
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Speaker 1: and get grounded in our own light and reconnected with

453
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Speaker 1: our team of light is through simple breath work. The

454
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Speaker 1: other side told me the moment that our soul really

455
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Speaker 1: attaches to these physical bodies is the moment we take

456
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Speaker 1: our first breath. The moment it leaves is with our

457
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Speaker 1: last breath. So just by focusing on breathing, like in

458
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Speaker 1: through your nose fully and solely, and out through your

459
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Speaker 1: mouth three times, you're going to get in that state

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Speaker 1: of reconnection. So if anybody ever has a moment where

461
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Speaker 1: they're like, oh, I'm feeling this thing, is this from

462
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Speaker 1: coming from me and my anxiety or is this a

463
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Speaker 1: knowing from the other side, Just do a little breath

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Speaker 1: work and wait and see how you feel in the

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Speaker 1: moments after.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that helps people a lot, because I

467
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Speaker 2: find that the mind is so active that, like you

468
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Speaker 2: were saying, when we're scrolling social media, we're just feeling envy, comparison, stress,

469
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Speaker 2: that we're not really there's not a space for knowing

470
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Speaker 2: because it's clouded and so noisy in all of these

471
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Speaker 2: other unhelpful, unhealthy or maybe they're not unhelpful andhealthy. Maybe

472
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Speaker 2: they're helpful and we're not looking at them right. But

473
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Speaker 2: I find that the mind is so the monkey mind

474
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Speaker 2: is the best definition. It's just jumping from branch to

475
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Speaker 2: branch to branch to branch to branch to branch to branch,

476
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Speaker 2: and then you're exhausted and we've lost that ability to

477
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Speaker 2: stay still and hear internally. I also think that we're

478
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Speaker 2: living at a time where we think all the right

479
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Speaker 2: answers are outside of us. So what does everyone else

480
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Speaker 2: think is right? What do my friends think is right?

481
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Speaker 2: Do my parents think this is good for me? And

482
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Speaker 2: I think a lot of people have become dependent on thinking, well,

483
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Speaker 2: if my parents think it's good for me, or if

484
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Speaker 2: my family does, or if my friend do, then it is.

485
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Speaker 2: And so we don't really even know how to start

486
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Speaker 2: trusting ourselves again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think one of the most powerful and

488
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Speaker 1: magical things we can do on our own spiritual journeys

489
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Speaker 1: here is to trust that knowing, that light, that connection

490
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Speaker 1: we have within ourselves. And when we trust that, it's

491
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Speaker 1: a very different feeling. It's a feeling of peace, it's

492
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Speaker 1: a feeling of calm, it's a feeling of knowing, and

493
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Speaker 1: it's accessible to us. I think the most important relationship

494
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Speaker 1: we ever have here while we're on our school is

495
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Speaker 1: the one we have with ourselves. And if we disconnect

496
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Speaker 1: from our truths or what we have as our knowing

497
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Speaker 1: in terms of what our highest path might be, or

498
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Speaker 1: that that pull that we get inside sometimes where something

499
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: lights us up and we want to we want to

500
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Speaker 1: do that or we want to follow that, but then

501
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: our monkey mind says, no, that's crazy, why would you

502
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Speaker 1: do that, Or you can't do that, You've got all

503
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Speaker 1: these other things to do, or that's outside the norm

504
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Speaker 1: for you. I think when we trust that inner voice,

505
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Speaker 1: that inner knowing, that is our connection to our team

506
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: of light. That's our connection to our highest self, and

507
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 1: that's also our connection to our highest path. So it's

508
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Speaker 1: really internal work. The doorway is within. You don't need

509
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Speaker 1: anyone else to access it for you. You just need

510
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Speaker 1: to start trusting your own light, trusting your own knowings,

511
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Speaker 1: and use that as your inner guidance, as your inner compass.

512
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Speaker 2: And I think that's fuzzy for people because it's almost like,

513
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Speaker 2: if you've done it long enough, it's become clearer, so

514
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 2: you're aware. But if someone's just starting out, I imagine

515
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: they're like, well, I don't know if this is trauma,

516
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Speaker 2: if this is the past. Like let's say someone's dating

517
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Speaker 2: someone and there's a part of them that's like, I'm

518
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Speaker 2: not sure they're the right person, but they don't know

519
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Speaker 2: if that feeling is them want in chaos when this

520
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 2: person is more peaceful, or maybe they truly don't have

521
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Speaker 2: chemistry with this person, and they're wondering. And I think

522
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Speaker 2: that's where people get lost, where it's like, how do

523
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Speaker 2: I know it's the light? How do I know it's

524
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Speaker 2: the inner voice? Versus all these thoughts I'm having. What

525
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Speaker 2: can you do to help people right now that can

526
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Speaker 2: encourage them to know how to connect with their knowing

527
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Speaker 2: and move in that direction.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's such a great example. Right and again,

529
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Speaker 1: it's that that inner narrative we have that questions, and

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Speaker 1: our inner narratives are often very fear based. They're often

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Speaker 1: very mean to ourselves too. So if you're having these

532
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Speaker 1: thoughts and you can recognize that they're coming from a

533
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Speaker 1: place of fear, the most important step is to pause

534
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Speaker 1: for a moment and then talk over the thoughts with love.

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Speaker 1: So let's say you're having thoughts like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I can trust myself. Am I in this wrong relationship?

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Speaker 1: I don't know the answer. Well, maybe you're not supposed

538
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Speaker 1: to know right now. It's a journey and you'll know

539
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: and you'll arrive at that knowing in divine timing. So

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Speaker 1: what you need to do in those moments is in

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Speaker 1: your thoughts, talk back to yourself and say, actually, I

542
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Speaker 1: am a spirit and a human body having this beautiful

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Speaker 1: experience of collective love, and I'm so excited to be

544
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Speaker 1: open to another day of guidance. I trust that I'm

545
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Speaker 1: in connection with my team of light, and I trust

546
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Speaker 1: that I'm going to be guided into the experiences that

547
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Speaker 1: I need to have to grow my own soul and

548
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Speaker 1: leave it. Because we're all on journeys and we're not

549
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Speaker 1: supposed to have the answers right away, and oftentimes we're

550
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: so interconnected with other people's journeys that we might be

551
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: there as a catalyst for theirs, or there theres a

552
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 1: lesson for us, or it goes both ways. We can't

553
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Speaker 1: fast forward that if we get into moments where we're confused,

554
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: that's a wonderful opportunity for us to get really grounded

555
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: in our own light and be patient and wait to

556
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Speaker 1: be on this journey to find out our truths and

557
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Speaker 1: our answers. We're all seekers, and if you're having a

558
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Speaker 1: moment of confusion where you're like, I don't know, I

559
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: don't know, remember that you're a seeker, and remember that

560
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Speaker 1: there's a divine timeline going on here, and then surrender

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Speaker 1: to that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I've found for me three simple things that have

563
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Speaker 2: helped me know the difference between my intuition and my mind.

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Speaker 2: I found that my mind will be loud and my

565
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Speaker 2: intuition will be quiet. Yeah, so when my mind wants

566
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Speaker 2: to say something to me, it will literally shout it

567
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 2: at me like this was how it was meant to

568
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: be done, this is what you should be doing. What's

569
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: wrong with you? It's really loud, whause my intuition is

570
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 2: quite quiet and be like, just I feel this way,

571
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Speaker 2: I think this, you know, it's a lot more still

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Speaker 2: and peaceful. I find that my mind is more directive

573
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Speaker 2: and my intuition is more open. So my mind will

574
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Speaker 2: say this is the only thing, This is the only thing,

575
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Speaker 2: this is the right thing, this is the wrong thing.

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00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 2: Was my intuition would ever say that. It would just

577
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Speaker 2: say I feel this is the direction you should go in.

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Speaker 2: But it's not directive in this didactic way. And so

579
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Speaker 2: there's there's freedom, there's choice, there's that, and then you

580
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: just spark that by saying the third, where my mind

581
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 2: is fear based, it's like, oh, if you don't do this,

582
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Speaker 2: it's going to be like this, whereas my intuition will

583
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 2: be like, this is the path to love, this is

584
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: the path to peace, This the pot to happiness, this

585
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 2: is the path to joy. And those three things have

586
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Speaker 2: just really helped me know what voice I'm listening to,

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Speaker 2: because it's very rare for my intuition to motivate me

588
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 2: through fear or be loud, or be very very fatalistic

589
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 2: in any way, and the mind wants to be all

590
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Speaker 2: of those things.

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Speaker 1: That's so beautiful what you just share. Absolutely, the mind

592
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: is fear based and bossy and mean a lot of

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Speaker 1: the time. That's like, you know, an intuition is never

594
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: it's gentle, there's a peece, there's an arrival of that

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Speaker 1: knowing it's kind, it's based in love. I love how

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Speaker 1: eloquently you just explained that. I think that's such a

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Speaker 1: helpful tool because so many of us can recognize when

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Speaker 1: we're in those moments of having this very negative thought patterning,

599
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: and it's so important to pause and recognize it that

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00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: that's just coming from a place of fear, and that's

601
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Speaker 1: not divine, it's not sacred within your own being.

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Speaker 2: That's beautiful. How you just it took me a while

603
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: to I was really trying to decipher because it gets messy.

604
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,479
Speaker 2: We get so many life is so messy.

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00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 1: The cacophony of noise and energy coming at us every

606
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: day is so overwhelming. It's hard to go back into

607
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: our intuitive selves and listen to that quieter, softer, gentler voice.

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Speaker 1: But it's so important.

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00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so important, and yeah I had to do

610
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Speaker 2: it because yeah, it's so loud, it's so noisy. There's

611
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 2: so many signals and you can kind of get quite

612
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: overwhelmed with the amount you have to process, and so

613
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: I love coming up with systems. It's almost like using

614
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 2: the logical brain to help.

615
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Speaker 1: To crack the code of how to access connection within.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you, have you found that there are

617
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Speaker 1: certain places where you almost automatically default into a state

618
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Speaker 1: of connection with your team of light, where you're open

619
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Speaker 1: more to the messages or the intuition that comes in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have a meditation room here at the house,

621
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Speaker 2: and so I have a space for that, and so

622
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 2: that I'm very lucky to have that, But I've always

623
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 2: had one in every home I've grown up in. It's

624
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: it's in our tradition that you always have that space,

625
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Speaker 2: and so I've always had that. Even when we had

626
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Speaker 2: an apartment, it was a small corner of the apartment

627
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 2: where we had that, and so that's That's definitely a place.

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Speaker 2: I feel it when I'm in India, for sure, when

629
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Speaker 2: I'm back at the ashroom and the monastery that I

630
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: lived at, I feel it around certain people. I don't

631
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 2: think it's always just places. There's people as well feel

632
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Speaker 2: it here for sure. At home. Yeah, I've tried to

633
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: make it feel that way wherever I am, and I

634
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 2: find that to be a place within that I have

635
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 2: to go to so that the place is actually here,

636
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,760
Speaker 2: and therefore you're carrying it everywhere with you so you

637
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 2: don't feel And I think purpose you I mean, you

638
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 2: talk about purpose in the book. I think purpose is

639
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: a big part of that. That someone once said to me.

640
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 2: They said, yeah, you look so comfortable in all these

641
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: places you go to that I think most people are

642
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 2: uncomfortable in. And I said, it's because I only go

643
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 2: to places I have a purpose, so I know why

644
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm there. And if I know why I'm there, then

645
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 2: why would I be uncomfortable. I'm only uncomfortable in places

646
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Speaker 2: where I don't know why I'm there.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

648
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: And so that really helps in being clear, I feel.

649
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Speaker 2: I think I want to talk to you about that

650
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 2: clarity that we want to encourage people to have, because

651
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 2: I think it starts with simpler things with Am I

652
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 2: clear about how I spend my time? Am I clear

653
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,879
Speaker 2: about why I am where I am? Am I clear

654
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,280
Speaker 2: about why I'm having lunch or dinner with this person?

655
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 2: Am I clear about why I'm in this group of people?

656
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 2: And I find that if people pause to think about

657
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: those things. They'd realized they weren't clearer, and therefore they

658
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: didn't enjoy that person's company, or they didn't want to

659
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 2: be around that group of people, and they come back

660
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: feeling not great about themselves. And it all comes from

661
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: a place of or why were you there? Yes? Does

662
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: that make sense?

663
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Speaker 1: One hundred percent? I think so often we are just

664
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: on an autopilot. We're going through the motions where following

665
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 1: whatever our monkey mind tells us, we're following the logic

666
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: and the materialistic paradigm that's in front of us, and

667
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,879
Speaker 1: we forget about this beautiful light of intention we have,

668
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: and we forget to focus on that, and so we're

669
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: missing half the beauty and we're also kind of going

670
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: in the wrong direction at times, I think getting back

671
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: into that relationship with ourselves, our inner selves, where we

672
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: say to ourselves, what is the intention behind this? What

673
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 1: is the meaning for me? And sometimes we might be

674
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: guided into a situation and we might say to ourselves,

675
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: why am I here? What is the meaning for me

676
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: in this moment? And if we just get quiet, we

677
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: can reconnect and we will get a download and we

678
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: will be shown the why. You know, I find too.

679
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: I love how you shared the practices you do to

680
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 1: get in the state of connection. Although I feel like

681
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: you're always in a state of connection. That's what I

682
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 1: say on you your beautiful energy, and you help other

683
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: people get into a state of connection. But you know,

684
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: so many people have told me that their states of

685
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: connection almost happen accidentally in their daily lives, oftentimes when

686
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: they take showers. I think it's because our monkey mind

687
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: is so distracted on shampooing our hair doing this that

688
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: it's on this kind of auto pilot of physicality that

689
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 1: we get these downloads and connections from the other side.

690
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: So I've heard so many entrepreneurs say I got this

691
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: idea in the shower, or people will say like, I

692
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: don't know, let me sleep on it. So the sleep

693
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: states another time we're in that state of like connection

694
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: with our intuitive self and knowing driving believe it or not,

695
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: we'll get these downloads sometimes doing like menial tasks like

696
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: cleaning up or something like that will be in a

697
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: state of connection. And I think what I find so

698
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: beautiful about that is our teams of light are always

699
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: looking for moments that they can jump right in show

700
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,720
Speaker 1: us their presence, help us understand our journey more, guide

701
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: us on our path more. It's just even better if

702
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: you create the space and the way that you have

703
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: where maybe you have a little sacred space, or you

704
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: open to the practice of meditation, which can it's so beautiful. Right.

705
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: So when we pray, we're directing our thoughts to the

706
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,760
Speaker 1: other side and they're always hurt. But when we meditate,

707
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 1: we're listening back, We're listening for the guidance. And so

708
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: what a wonderful practice to create that in our own lives.

709
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: Wow, I mean, I love how you just gave us

710
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 2: so many simple moments in the day that we all

711
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 2: have to do anyway that can all be these moments

712
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 2: of connection and downloading, because we often look at these

713
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: things as so redundant or kind of a bit like, oh,

714
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: just things we have to do. And I couldn't agree

715
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Speaker 2: with you more. On the driving one, I always say

716
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 2: to people always say to me, what music do you

717
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: listen in the car? And I said, when I'm on

718
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: my own, I don't listen to anything, because I feel

719
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 2: like that's like the most open channel I have. So

720
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Speaker 2: I always drive in silence, unless it's late at night

721
00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 2: and I have to stay awake. Then I have a

722
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 2: late night drive plays and I'm like, oh, I don't honestly,

723
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: but if I'm driving and my energy is good, I

724
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 2: will drive in silence because I find I don't know

725
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 2: what it is about that where you're so right, where

726
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 2: the monkey mind is off. You're on a monotonous highway

727
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 2: and there's you're still obviously attentive to the road and

728
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 2: not closing my eyes, but there's a feeling of thoughts

729
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: coming and ideas coming that I wouldn't unlock anywhere else.

730
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Speaker 1: I love that, and I love what you're saying about

731
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,320
Speaker 1: being in a state of silence. I think so many

732
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 1: of us get trained from a young age to be

733
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: in the state of noise and go, go, go, and

734
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: not have that silence. So how beautiful when we welcome

735
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: the silence and we open to it, because that's where

736
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 1: the guidance will really show up.

737
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Speaker 2: How do we do that when we've become what you

738
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 2: just said, It's become so uncomfortable for people, and it

739
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 2: is hard. Like I empathize with people who have been

740
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 2: overexposed to noise, sound music. It makes you feel comfortable,

741
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:03,919
Speaker 2: it may you feel safe, but you're not really getting anywhere, right,

742
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 2: Like it's you listen to your favorite playlist, it makes

743
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 2: you feel great, and it does, but it doesn't really

744
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 2: make you feel great like it's not. Does that make sense, Yes,

745
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 2: it does. There's a difference between feeling good and then

746
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 2: a good feeling. Yes.

747
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 1: I think music can shift your energy and like change

748
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 1: your vibration and bring all this light in and change

749
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: your mood. But I think what you're talking about is

750
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: it maybe doesn't connect us super fully with our own

751
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: inner voice in our guidance team of light downloads. And

752
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 1: so one of my favorite recommendations to people, if you

753
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: really want to try to create space to listen back,

754
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 1: is to go on a walk. Don't put your ear

755
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 1: buds in, just go for a walk. It's actually called

756
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 1: a walking meditation when you go for a walk in nature, right,

757
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: And you're going to be fascinated because what you end

758
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: up doing is when you're in a state of silence

759
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,760
Speaker 1: on this walk, you start for to notice the small

760
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: details of beauty around you. You know, these glimpses of

761
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: God energy that's been put in your path. You might

762
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: notice the beautiful sky that's also been put right in

763
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 1: your path for our connection. And then you might also

764
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: notice that you start getting information in a way that's

765
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: other than your normal senses. I always talk about the

766
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: psychic toolbox we all have, and I think understanding what

767
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 1: these kind of what I call the four claars are

768
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: might help people access that part of themselves. And the

769
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: other thing is I think many of us are doing

770
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: this automatically anyway. We might just not have a word

771
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: for it. So you know, the first one's clairvoyance, and

772
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: it means clear seeing. And it's this concept of you know,

773
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,280
Speaker 1: when we sleep at night and our physicaliz are closed,

774
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: but we're vividly seeing things in our dreams. That's our

775
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: psychic vision. It's what a lot of cultures have called

776
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: the third eye. But we always have that available to

777
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 1: us at all times, and so learn to trust it

778
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 1: in your waking hours too. Like for me, I always

779
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: kind of see people in colors. It's a form of

780
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: synesesia of senses that can happen for anyone. You might

781
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: learn that there is a whole kind of clairvoyant energy

782
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: that's accessible to you to perceive in different ways, or

783
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: you might meet somebody and get little glimpses on your

784
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: inner mind's eye screen. Trust all that. There's also claire audience,

785
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 1: which means clear hearing, and it's when we hear a

786
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: thought that comes to us, not from us. And this

787
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 1: is a beautiful way that our teams of light, our

788
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: loved ones on the other side, our spirit guides, God energy,

789
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: can connect with us and guide us in a very

790
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 1: direct way. But you know what I find happens when

791
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: people have these moments of thoughts arriving to them, they

792
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,399
Speaker 1: tend to dismiss it. They're like, where did that come from?

793
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: And just ignore it. Pay attention to that. Then there's

794
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 1: clare cognizance, which I've mentioned, which is clear knowing And

795
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: is this all of a sudden download of information where

796
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: you just know something and every ounce of your being

797
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: And do you know how you can tell if you're really,

798
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: really sharp and open claire cognizantly, if your friends and

799
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: maybe family members throughout your life have said to you,

800
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: you know, you give really good advice because what you're

801
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: actually doing is you're tuning in to get information for

802
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 1: them in a clear cognizant way. And then there's clear sentience,

803
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,720
Speaker 1: which means clear feeling. It's this idea of feeling all

804
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: the unseen energy around us. So an example of that

805
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: is meeting somebody for the first time and not just

806
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: getting a three D impression of them, but an energetic

807
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: one as well. And people are super open or who

808
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: are empassed will also experience the emotion those people are experiencing. Right,

809
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: But that is an inner guidance too. We're being guided

810
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: with that because sometimes we might feel very neutral to

811
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: the person, no harm, no foul. Sometimes we might even

812
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: have a little bit of an allergic reaction. Right, it's

813
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: not really about judgment, but it's you know, you're being

814
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 1: guided away from that person for a reason, maybe they're

815
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: not on your highest path to know. And then every

816
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: now and then we'll just get this really magnetic pull

817
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: to a person where we feel like we know them

818
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 1: but we've just met them, but we know we're meant

819
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: to know them, We want to talk to them, we

820
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 1: know we have a shared journey in some way, and

821
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 1: I think trusting that inner guidance and creating space for

822
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: them in our lives in whatever way we can, whether

823
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: it's going for a walk alone or if it's just

824
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: being open, like next time we take a shower, save

825
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: to your team, LI like, Okay, I'm all in, give

826
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: me the guidance. Just paying attention to those tools we

827
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: all have within us to communicate to get the information

828
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: in new ways can transform our lives. One of the

829
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,359
Speaker 1: things I love too when people really tune in and

830
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 1: trust the guidance is how it transforms the stories that

831
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: they've often told themselves about everything they've already experienced in

832
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 1: their past. You know, a lot of times what our

833
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: monkey minds might assess as a failure in our life

834
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: actually isn't It was a beautiful journey of understanding, or

835
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: we did something extraordinary for someone else that we're not recognizing.

836
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 1: And when we really tune into that guidance, we begin

837
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: to unfold a new story within ourselves, and it can

838
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: just make our past so much more beautiful and our

839
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: futures so much more beautiful, and our presence so much

840
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: more beautiful.

841
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 2: One thing that you just touched on there is that

842
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 2: we evaluate the success of something based on the result,

843
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 2: not on the intention, not on the intuition, not on

844
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 2: the input. And that is misleading because you could do

845
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 2: something with the most beautiful intention and energy and intuitive

846
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 2: knowing and it may not work out externally right. I

847
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 2: think sometimes people will say, well, if this is the

848
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 2: right person for me, send me aside. But because you

849
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 2: weren't clear in your question, right person for what, they

850
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 2: could be the right person for right now to teach

851
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 2: you a less or if you will learn something. But

852
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:04,280
Speaker 2: the problem is when you say the words right person,

853
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 2: you mean the person I'm going to spend the rest

854
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,240
Speaker 2: of my life with. And so talk to me about

855
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 2: how clear we have to be as we communicate, because

856
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 2: I think I've heard a lot of people get the

857
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 2: exact sign they want, but then that doesn't end up

858
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 2: being the exact person they want. Yeah.

859
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: I love this question because I think what we're really

860
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: doing is we're experiencing life in a very limited way

861
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: when we ask questions like that. Here's the truth. The

862
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:32,879
Speaker 1: universe always dreams bigger for us than we can, and

863
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: there is a connectivity that spans over time and a

864
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: much bigger picture than we can often see in our little,

865
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: myopic view of the here and now or where we're

866
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 1: at in our lives or the experience we're having. So

867
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: the question I would love people to ask, instead of

868
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: is this the right person? Is this the right job?

869
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,320
Speaker 1: Is to change how we're asking the question. And here's

870
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: how it could be asked, is this person my highest

871
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 1: experience to have in this moment? Am I on my

872
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: highest path right now? By having this journey with this person?

873
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,839
Speaker 1: Am I in my highest path right now? By being

874
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: in the career I'm in? If so, send me a sign.

875
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: So the signs aren't the answers, They're the reassurance of

876
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 1: our own inner guidance. It's that reassuring knowing that we

877
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,959
Speaker 1: have that we are beloved, we are guided, and even

878
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 1: if we can't understand the experience we're having, there is

879
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 1: something divine in it. It's trusting in our team of light.

880
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: It's trusting in our purpose even when we can't see it.

881
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: And this is the hard part. It's surrendering to the experience.

882
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 1: We all want the answers right away. There have been

883
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: times that I'll get downloads in my life from my

884
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: team of light and they will say to me, this

885
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: is all we're telling you right now. You are not

886
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 1: allowed to know anything else. And I call it being

887
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: blocked because I can see. It's as if there's a

888
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: door in front of me won't let me see. And

889
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: in those moments, I know something divine is going on.

890
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: It's that I'm meant to experience either a moment of

891
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 1: patience or a moment of trust, or there's a bigger

892
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: picture going on that I'm not meant to know the

893
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: answers for. And it's in those moments where I have

894
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: learned to surrender, and the moment I surrender to that

895
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: magical things unfold or within time I'm shown how that

896
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,359
Speaker 1: mattered or why I was in that situation, or why

897
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: that didn't unfold in the timing. Maybe I wanted it too.

898
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: But this truth isn't just a truth for me, It's

899
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: a truth for us all. No one is forgotten by

900
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 1: the universe. No experience is accidental, no relationship is accidental.

901
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 1: There is a divine court of light and meaning and

902
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: connectivity in all things. Each and every one of us

903
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: are part of each other's journeys in ways that we

904
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: can't really see or fully understand when we're here, but

905
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: trusting in it, trusting in that guidance and asking for

906
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: the guidance to be shown that I'm on my path,

907
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 1: I'm having the experiences I've meant to right now, and

908
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: I am not alone. That's the question we should be

909
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: asking to be reassured of. In beautiful ways I'll just

910
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: give you an example for my own life. My youngest

911
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: daughter is applying to colleges this coming year. She's a

912
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, it's really an exciting time. And we

913
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: toured all these colleges and we went to one particular

914
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: college that I loved, and I was like, if I

915
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:29,879
Speaker 1: were going to choose college again, this was the one

916
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 1: I was going to choose. And in that exact moment

917
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: of feeling like the state of connection and being guided

918
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: even in where we were going, I glanced across the

919
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 1: street and randomly, out of the blue was one single orange,

920
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: like the fruit and orange which long ago I established

921
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:50,720
Speaker 1: with my team of light to mean you're completely on path.

922
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: We're here with you, You're on your highest path. And

923
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: I saw it, and I got a download from my

924
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: guides too, and they said to me, this is an

925
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: example you can share because we're not telling you this

926
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: is the college. We're telling you that the college she

927
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: is meant to go to is being divinely orchestrated. She

928
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: is being divinely guided, and just trust the process, don't

929
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 1: force anything, just experience. And it was such a beautiful

930
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: moment for me because it took all that pressure off

931
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 1: of like, let me analyze everything that's going on, the

932
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: energy I'm feeling, what I think is the best match

933
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: for her, then how to make things happen. No, it

934
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: was a reminder to me how guided we all are,

935
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: but how loved and supported we all are on the journey,

936
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: and surrendering to that guidance I think makes our journeys

937
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: so much more peaceful. It brings an ease, it brings

938
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 1: a light, it brings a magic to it, and it

939
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:49,720
Speaker 1: makes us realize we're not the only ones who create

940
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: things and drive things. There's a force so much greater

941
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: than ourselves that's watching over, that's bringing us to these

942
00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 1: experiences and to the people we're meant to know and

943
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: to the knowledge Romanta game in such a profound and

944
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: beautiful way.

945
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 2: I love what you're saying. I was just taking a

946
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 2: note down about something you mentioned that stood out to me.

947
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 2: I love what you're saying because it helps so much

948
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 2: with this life in which control has become our primary

949
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 2: mechanism of growth. And I've always seen it as this

950
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:29,760
Speaker 2: beautiful balance between endeavor and surrender. Yes, that it's beautiful

951
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 2: dance and plays, but when endeavor becomes control and surrender

952
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: doesn't exist. It becomes really hard actually, because you want

953
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 2: everything to work out exactly how you planned it, and

954
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 2: if it doesn't happen exactly how you planned it, then

955
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 2: it's not good. It won't be good. It couldn't be

956
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 2: And I think, well, may a minute it what if

957
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:54,720
Speaker 2: it was better? Well, if you learn something that becomes

958
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 2: useful for the future, what if it being pushed back

959
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 2: and first other than you thought actually ended up making

960
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 2: it the perfect timing. And it's how do we open

961
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 2: ourselves up to those ideas? I love what you're saying,

962
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 2: how do you actually because we've been so conditioned in

963
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 2: a world of control where if it doesn't happen like this,

964
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 2: then it's not going to happen, and it's not right.

965
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 2: Because I was just thinking about the other day. I

966
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 2: was thinking about this really this morning. It was my

967
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 2: friend got married eight years after me, but he's having

968
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 2: children before me. But we live in a world where

969
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:34,879
Speaker 2: we think a timeline has to go linearly. And people

970
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: would have said to him, are you're getting married, so

971
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,760
Speaker 2: lay and now you love kids, so lay and whatever,

972
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 2: and it's like, but it doesn't work like that. But

973
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 2: we live in this life that's very rigid. Yeah, how

974
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 2: do we break that? How do we how do we

975
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,720
Speaker 2: move through that? Because how do we rise to peace

976
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 2: and surrender? And when when we live in a world

977
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 2: that's all about control and funny, how.

978
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 1: Do we have a spiritual experience when we're living in

979
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: such a materialistic place? I am of belief. I think

980
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: the most important thing we can do is recognize that

981
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 1: are inner narrative when it's mean, when it's bossy, when

982
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: it's controlling, when it's telling us a story of what

983
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: needs to happen in order to either be like the

984
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: rest of the people or gain some control of our

985
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: own lives, or especially if we get this kind of

986
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 1: panicky feeling about how things are going or did we

987
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: miss like that, that idea of like fomo fear of

988
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: missing out right, When we get that sense of oh

989
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 1: my goodness, I need to be there, I need to

990
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,720
Speaker 1: have been done that already, that needed to happen yesterday,

991
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 1: or am I off path? Is to recognize that that's

992
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 1: not your spiritual self. To recognize that there's a divine

993
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: guidance for each and every person, and what is meant

994
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: to be for one person in one timeline is the

995
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,800
Speaker 1: exact opposite of what might be for you in your timeline.

996
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,280
Speaker 1: It's to get into that state of surrender, to understanding

997
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: that we are so loved and we are so guided,

998
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: and that if we trust in it, the feeling we

999
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: will get will be one of peace, of love, of gentleness.

1000
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 1: But I think actually what you're describing is part of

1001
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: our soul journey here. It's part of the ways that

1002
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 1: our souls are tested all the time every day. And

1003
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: a lot of what you just describe too has to

1004
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: do with comparison.

1005
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 2: You know.

1006
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 1: The other side taught me long ago that the only

1007
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 1: person we are ever competing with is ourself. It's how

1008
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: we're growing. But yet daily we're going to be invited

1009
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: by this materialistic paradigm of belief here to be in

1010
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: competition with one another, to have power over each other,

1011
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: to get there first, to do this, this this mentality

1012
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: of almost you know, Dearth's mentality. There's not enough of

1013
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 1: any one thing, you know, or everything has to fit

1014
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 1: this mold, and if you don't do that, you're going

1015
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: to miss out. That's not truth at all. That's not

1016
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 1: how god energy works, that's not how guidance works. That's

1017
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: not why our souls are here, and so it's so

1018
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,760
Speaker 1: easy to get caught up in that stream of panic

1019
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: and anxiety and control and false forms of power. Right,

1020
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,919
Speaker 1: I think it's so powerful when we pause, we take

1021
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: this sacred pause to recognize when we're feeling that way

1022
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: and where it's coming from. And there's this moment we

1023
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: have within ourselves where we get to reject that, where

1024
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: we say, you know what, I can't stop these negative thoughts.

1025
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: That monkey mind is chattering, and I hear it loudly

1026
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,800
Speaker 1: and clearly, but I reject that. You know what, No,

1027
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: my life is unfolding exactly as it's meant to, and

1028
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: I am so excited and I am so full of

1029
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:46,279
Speaker 1: gratitude to be here and experience all the things I

1030
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 1: meant to experience in divine timing, and I surrender to that.

1031
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: It's a practice.

1032
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a practice, and it's a both. It's this

1033
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,839
Speaker 2: and I always trying to remind people that I think

1034
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 2: we constantly just oscillate between next streams of Okay, nothing's

1035
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 2: in my control, Okay, everything's in my control. So so

1036
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 2: we go from everything was in my control, now I've

1037
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 2: read guided and now nothing's in my It's like, well,

1038
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,240
Speaker 2: that's not what you're saying. It's stone at all. Oh yeah,

1039
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 2: And I think that's the common misconception where oh, I

1040
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 2: used to be in charge of everything. Now I just

1041
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 2: let the universe do it once and it's like, well,

1042
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 2: the universe is only reciprocating with you and interacting with you,

1043
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 2: so it can't do something that you're not opening yourself

1044
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 2: up to. It's endeavor and surrendered together. Yeah.

1045
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: That it's this co creation together, and it's also showing

1046
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 1: up as the best version of ourselves, challenging only ourselves

1047
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 1: and our sense of ourselves to be kinder, more loving,

1048
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: to look at the world with gratitude, to look at

1049
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 1: our own lives and what's happened to us with the

1050
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 1: lens of love of looking what love have I gained?

1051
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 1: Not what negativity or what experiences made me feel less than?

1052
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: But who has loved me? How have I found love?

1053
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: What can I be grateful for in this moment? Is

1054
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 1: when we get in that mindset, the spiritual self gets

1055
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 1: louder and the trust gets louder, and we learn to

1056
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: show up for ourselves in these really powerful and beautiful

1057
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 1: ways being guided and leading a guided life. It doesn't

1058
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: mean like sitting back and just giving up on everything

1059
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: and not it means we hold ourselves accountable. By doing this,

1060
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 1: we search ourselves to find what gifts we came here

1061
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 1: programmed with, because every single person comes program with unique gifts,

1062
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 1: and then we honor them. We hold sacred space within

1063
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 1: ourselves for them, and we share them with others. And

1064
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: then we come to our connection with others with the

1065
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 1: understanding that true power is not wielding gifts or you know,

1066
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: things over one another and being like, look what I have,

1067
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: or learn from me, or do this. It's an understanding

1068
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: that we all rise together. And by showing up with

1069
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 1: the best version of who we are, by honoring our

1070
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: gifts and like coming with a gracious heart and coming

1071
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: in trust and love and gratitude and using forgiveness as

1072
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 1: a tool, right, we're automatically elevating everybody else's experience as well.

1073
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: What I've learned when I've died into like kind of

1074
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: the quantum physics of all this is that thoughts matter

1075
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: more than we realize. Thoughts are energy. You know, energy

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00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: and matter are interchangeable. Einstein proved that right, and thoughts

1077
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 1: the way I'm shown, they're light energy. Our souls are

1078
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: light energy, and so every thought we have is either

1079
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: putting more light into the world or putting more darkness

1080
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 1: in And it's an absolute truth. And so when we

1081
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:39,880
Speaker 1: have these moments where we are being so mean to

1082
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 1: ourselves and our little monkey minds and blah blah, telling

1083
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: ourselves a very mean story about and experiencing we're having,

1084
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 1: or how loss we are on path, or how nothing

1085
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,439
Speaker 1: has worked in our favor, or I tried this into

1086
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 1: it's so important to pause for that moment and tell

1087
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: ourselves a new story that no, no, no, no, I'm having

1088
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: this spiritual experience and trusting that in some way it's

1089
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 1: connected to a lackt of lesson and love for us all,

1090
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: and that we are more connected and part of each

1091
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 1: other's journeys than we can fathom, and welcoming that trust

1092
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: of that knowing in because it will make a difference.

1093
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 1: We get into a very different state of being when

1094
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: we learn to trust in our own light and in

1095
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: our connection to one another and our teams of light

1096
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: on the other side.

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00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 2: Laurealin and I wanted to ask you what do people

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00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 2: come to you with the most often? What's the most

1099
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 2: common thing you get asked when people come to see you.

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00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: It's interesting because when I do readings, I tell people

1101
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 1: save all your questions, save them all to the end,

1102
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 1: because the other side always has a plan and guides

1103
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: every session I do. I am not the mind of God.

1104
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: I can only share what a sitter, the person I'm

1105
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 1: readings for a team of light shares with me. But

1106
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: I can tell you the most common things that they share. Oftentimes,

1107
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 1: if people come in grief, I find what the other

1108
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 1: side wants to reassure them of is just how present

1109
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: their loved ones are. And so their loved ones will

1110
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:05,959
Speaker 1: come through and they'll start sharing all the ways they've

1111
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: already been connecting with them, whether it's through a dream visitation,

1112
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 1: whether it was through showing them a beautiful sky, sometimes

1113
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 1: even sending messages in clouds, sending rainbows, sending hearts, messing

1114
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 1: with the electricity, putting coins in their path, or sending

1115
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 1: creatures who navigate our world using electromagnetic fields, such as birds, butterflies, dragonflies, deer, fox,

1116
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: you name it. They like to show them how they've

1117
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: already shown up in their lives. The message they always

1118
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 1: share is our relation to our love hasn't gone anywhere.

1119
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: If anything, it's gotten stronger. They love being able to

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01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 1: be present at all times and in all places with

1121
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: their loved ones. Right, So a lot of times a

1122
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 1: person's grief journey will be addressed, but the reassurance that's

1123
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 1: there is that the connection with their loved ones is inherent.

1124
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 1: These chords of love and connection cannot be broken, and

1125
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 1: the message is there too, but they don't need a

1126
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 1: session with me to ever access that. So a lot

1127
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 1: of times they're showing how present they've already been before

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Speaker 1: we've ever had a session. I think that that's very common.

1129
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Speaker 2: So would you have the download that they share something like, well,

1130
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 2: you ask the person sitting in front of you, have

1131
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:35,800
Speaker 2: you seen a you know, bluebird or whatever it maybe,

1132
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 2: or have you seen a butterfly? And they would say, yeah,

1133
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 2: I noticed it in these moments, And then that's what

1134
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 2: you're hearing, is the yeah.

1135
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: So I would be having a conversation with let's say

1136
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 1: somebody's father's on the other side, and he might be

1137
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 1: showing me that he's sent cardinals and telling me that

1138
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 1: he sent these cardinals. But let's say his daughter got

1139
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 1: it and was like, h is that a sign? And

1140
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 1: so then he sent double rays and she got that

1141
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 1: and she said, hm, is that a science? So I'll

1142
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: say this, your father is telling me he sent cardinals

1143
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 1: and rainbows and that you receive them, and he wants

1144
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 1: you to trust that it's him. And that's usually where

1145
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: the person will have this moment of recognizing that they

1146
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 1: did push back on it, that they had known that

1147
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 1: deep down that that was a form of communication, they

1148
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: just hadn't trusted it yet. So I think sometimes I'm

1149
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 1: just a facilitator in validating what the person already knows,

1150
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: or I'm you know, I look at myself as a

1151
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:34,880
Speaker 1: teacher here more than a psychic medium. I happened to

1152
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 1: be a psychic medium, But my real goal is to

1153
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:41,720
Speaker 1: teach people that nobody ever needs me. We all have

1154
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 1: this connection to those that we love who's crossed to

1155
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: do God energy, to our guides, to that trust in

1156
01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:52,920
Speaker 1: knowing and that guidance, and that feeling of being loved

1157
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 1: and connected to anybody who we may have lost in

1158
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: the physical right. I meant to teach them how to

1159
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: act us that within themselves. And here's the thing, the

1160
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: doorway is there. All we need to do. The one

1161
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: component we each need to bring is to trust it.

1162
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 1: But that's harder than it sounds, right, because again, we're

1163
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 1: getting all this messaging and we have from a very

1164
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: young age to not trust it, to only trust what

1165
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: we can see in touch and only come up with

1166
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: logical plans, and that there is not enough for everybody,

1167
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 1: and you have to stick to like the status quo

1168
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 1: and all of these things. So it's very counterintuitive to

1169
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:32,720
Speaker 1: make that shift within. I will also say that oftentimes

1170
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 1: I find a topic that's brought up by people's teams

1171
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 1: of light on the other side is where they might

1172
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 1: be in their particular career or relationship at the moment.

1173
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: And it's so interesting because the message is always you're

1174
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: right where you're meant to be right now. It's more

1175
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: about the questions or the exploration that might be going on.

1176
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 1: And it might also be their team of light saying,

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01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 1: we know, two months ago you started feeling that you

1178
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 1: needed to make a shift in your career, and logically

1179
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense because you're doing great. But they're

1180
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: showing me that you had this pull to do this

1181
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 1: artistic endeavor and they want you to trust in that.

1182
01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: And the person will say that did happen exactly two

1183
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: months ago? I did have that, but it's you know,

1184
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:22,640
Speaker 1: I felt like I was getting too big for my bridges.

1185
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 1: How dare I dream that the universe is going to

1186
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: dream bigger for you? And if you're having these moments

1187
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: of feeling something or recognizing something that's coming from outside

1188
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: of yourself, trusting, and it makes all the difference. This

1189
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: is the thing. Nobody needs a reading, nobody ever does.

1190
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 1: We just need to know that that connection is there,

1191
01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: and we need to have a belief in ourselves, in

1192
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: our own ability to be guided to find our highest

1193
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: path and trust our own light as well, because I

1194
01:04:56,680 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 1: think sometimes we think we're not enough, or we think, oh,

1195
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 1: I should just stay smaller. I should stay this smaller

1196
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: version of myself. You know, I shouldn't want more, or

1197
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 1: I shouldn't pay attention to this poll or this longing

1198
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 1: or this inspiration I got as a download or as

1199
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 1: a dream or this. It's paying attention to those moments

1200
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 1: within ourselves that are going to guide us the most

1201
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:23,920
Speaker 1: because we have the tools within.

1202
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's starting somewhere small with those little things

1203
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 2: Like last time you were here, I was talking about

1204
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 2: how every time I think of someone, I text them

1205
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:36,240
Speaker 2: and so it's a really simple, easy way. But every

1206
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 2: time I think of someone, I think, well, that's not random.

1207
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 2: And when I just tell them i'm thinking of them,

1208
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 2: I Don'm not asking for anything, I'm not messaging because

1209
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 2: I have I don't need anything. I'm just saying, hey,

1210
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:47,960
Speaker 2: I was thinking of you, setting lots of love or

1211
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 2: whatever it may be. And nine times out of ten

1212
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 2: someone will respond and say, I was just thinking about you.

1213
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 2: I was just talking about you. Oh I really needed

1214
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 2: that right now. Yes, And I think it's doing it.

1215
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 2: And there's really small ways where you're taking an action

1216
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 2: based on the knowing rather than just looking around at you,

1217
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 2: testing the signs, because I think that's the shift. I

1218
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 2: think if you're looking around you constantly, you're always looking

1219
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 2: outside of yourself. To me, there's some degree of a

1220
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 2: dependence that is being developed that is not yet self trust.

1221
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 2: It's still saying the truth is outside of me. Whereas

1222
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:28,160
Speaker 2: when you're just listening to a little England that says, oh,

1223
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 2: it's someone's birthday today, why don't you check in with them?

1224
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 2: Or hey, did you you just thought of this person?

1225
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 2: Send them a message, call them up, Hey, why don't

1226
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 2: you know? Whatever? It? Maybe? Oh, you saw something and

1227
01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 2: you remember something by it for them and give it

1228
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 2: to them whenever you see them. Like, it's those little

1229
01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 2: things that I think start to get you to trust

1230
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 2: your own knowing, whereas if it's always well, show me

1231
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 2: this universe, show this, show me this, show me this.

1232
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:53,680
Speaker 2: I don't know what you're doing, then to to you know,

1233
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 2: really get there, if that makes sense.

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01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 1: So, Jay, what you just described to a t as

1235
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 1: a difference between opening to the language of signs versus

1236
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: living a guided life. It's trusting all those polls, all

1237
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: those cords of connection. And you know what our monkey

1238
01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 1: minds might say, like, oh, I'm really busy right now.

1239
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm not going to stop what I'm doing and go

1240
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 1: text that person, But our spiritual self is saying, no, no.

1241
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 2: No, no no.

1242
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 1: There's this web of light and connectivity. We're all part

1243
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 1: of each other's journeys, and there's this like amazing connection

1244
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 1: of light between us all. If you say, like an

1245
01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: invisible fishing line between us and each other here on

1246
01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 1: earth and us and our loved ones on the other side,

1247
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 1: you tug on one end, the other person feels it.

1248
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 1: So the greatest way we can honor living a guided

1249
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:43,560
Speaker 1: life is when we get those moments to act on them.

1250
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 1: And that's what we were talking about before, saying living

1251
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 1: a guided life isn't just surrendering and sitting back. It's

1252
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: learning to trust and then learning to have those thoughts,

1253
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:57,560
Speaker 1: recognize them, and take action because of it, because you

1254
01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: might end up changing somebody's entire path that day, or

1255
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: helping them avoid something, or giving them this moment of

1256
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 1: feeling so loved and connected and reminded of who they

1257
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:12,120
Speaker 1: are in a spiritual way. What a beautiful thing you do.

1258
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 2: Like you said, everyone can do it. Like I don't

1259
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 2: have a power, And that's what I'm saying, that I

1260
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,679
Speaker 2: don't have I know last of you, like everyone else

1261
01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 2: pass And what I'm trying to say in order to

1262
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 2: help everyone who's listening is like I'm not claiming to

1263
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:29,640
Speaker 2: have any ability. I'm just listening, and so anyone can

1264
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 2: do that. Everyone can do that.

1265
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 1: Everybody has that power. We all are psychic mediums. We

1266
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 1: don't have to call ourselves that, but we all have

1267
01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:57,320
Speaker 1: that state of connectivity. I remember seeing a story on

1268
01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:00,840
Speaker 1: the Internet that was posted by someone and he posted

1269
01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: a picture of a sunflower and he said, I want

1270
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:05,640
Speaker 1: to share the story. He said, I went on a

1271
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 1: date last night. It was really great. So I bought

1272
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: the sunflower that I was going to go leave on

1273
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: her car, and then I had this moment of going like, oh,

1274
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 1: that's a little bit too intense, he said. So I

1275
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: just had this download the sense that I was actually

1276
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 1: meant to give this sunflower to someone else, so he said,

1277
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: So I walked around and I just felt like that

1278
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 1: I'm meant to give it to this woman. So he

1279
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 1: walked over to her and he said, listen, I know

1280
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:30,680
Speaker 1: this might sound a little weird. I bought this sunflower

1281
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 1: thinking I was going to give it to somebody else,

1282
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:35,439
Speaker 1: but I'm feeling that it's actually meant for you, so

1283
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 1: I want to give it to you. I don't want

1284
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: to just leave it. I want to give it to you.

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Speaker 1: And she started tearing up, and she said, what you

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01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 1: don't know is that this is my fiancee's birthday. And

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01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: he crossed to the other side and he used to

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01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 1: always buy me sunflowers.

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Speaker 2: Wow, and he.

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01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 1: Said, and then I was weeping and she was weeping.

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Speaker 1: But it's an exact example of being guided. We all

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01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: have these moments because being guided it's not just about

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01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: our own journeys and finding our own highest path and

1294
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:09,920
Speaker 1: the best relationship or the best career. It's about how

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01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 1: we influence and affect each other's journeys, how we bring

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01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:17,600
Speaker 1: love and kindness, how we remind each other of the

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01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 1: sacredness the divine in all of us. Yeah, so exactly

1298
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Speaker 1: what you shared. It's doing those small actions that we

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01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: feel pulled to do for whatever reason.

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01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I was thinking about this example earlier where

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01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 2: I know someone who is telling me about how their

1302
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 2: son has a particular affinity for Krishna and Krishna and

1303
01:10:41,920 --> 01:10:45,240
Speaker 2: my tradition is the name of God. And they were

1304
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 2: saying that their son likes to look at books of

1305
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 2: Krishna and pictures of Krishna, and they go to a

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01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 2: temple where they can see these. But then once when

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01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:56,920
Speaker 2: they went to this temple, there was no book, and

1308
01:10:56,960 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 2: their son was really sad that the book had gone

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01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 2: and it had been misplaced. And so I had this

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01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:04,719
Speaker 2: feeling that I would give this gift. Now, there's lots

1311
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 2: of books of Krishna that exist in our tradition, but

1312
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,760
Speaker 2: there's this one particular one that I love and have

1313
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:13,960
Speaker 2: an affinity for. And I said, okay, well, next time

1314
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 2: I see them, I'm going to get this book for them.

1315
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 2: So I went to see them and I took this

1316
01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 2: book as a surprise and it was wrapped up. And

1317
01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 2: when they opened the wrapping, this person like hug the book.

1318
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:27,439
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, that's I mean, that's beautiful reaction.

1319
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 2: But it's a very strong emotion. And it was really

1320
01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 2: interesting because I said, oh, like, I kind of I

1321
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:35,400
Speaker 2: probably didn't even say it. I just looked like, wow,

1322
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 2: that's that's a strong emotion to hug a book. And

1323
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 2: she said thank you, and it was very kind about it.

1324
01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:43,839
Speaker 2: And then she said, do you know laure Lyn Jackson

1325
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:45,920
Speaker 2: And I said yeah, I just interviewed her a couple

1326
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 2: of years ago, and I said I have a mutual

1327
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 2: friends with her that I got introduced through. And she said, well,

1328
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:54,320
Speaker 2: she told me that when I'm on the right path,

1329
01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 2: I'll see peacocks. And that particular book cover I gave

1330
01:11:59,880 --> 01:12:03,480
Speaker 2: her is Krishna's standing there. And when I say peacocks,

1331
01:12:03,479 --> 01:12:07,200
Speaker 2: the whole cover is covered in peacock feathers and there's

1332
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 2: two peacocks right there. And she doesn't live in a

1333
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 2: place where she sees lots of peacocks. It's not common.

1334
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 2: And she said that was my sign that I was

1335
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:17,240
Speaker 2: on the right path. And I thought, how beautiful. I

1336
01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 2: hadn't talked to you about her. I hadn't talked to

1337
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:24,719
Speaker 2: her about you, right, there was no colluding or sharing

1338
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 2: of information, and here we were living in this really

1339
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 2: beautiful moment of natural synergy that made her feel seen,

1340
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 2: made me feel really happy. You were the kondu and

1341
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 2: the connector of the two that and it was just

1342
01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:39,880
Speaker 2: such a It was just such a special moment. And

1343
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:43,040
Speaker 2: I think we either become so skeptical or cynical or

1344
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 2: doubtful of these beautiful moments that we all have in

1345
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:49,639
Speaker 2: our lives. Yes, or we do one of two things.

1346
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:53,440
Speaker 2: We either you know, make them feel regular and insignificant,

1347
01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:57,120
Speaker 2: or we make them feel like astronomical. And the truth

1348
01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 2: is we should just see them as beautiful and things

1349
01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 2: we should ought to notice more. I feel like there's

1350
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 2: not a need to look at them as insignificant or

1351
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 2: the most significant. It's beautiful to just look at them

1352
01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 2: as how wonderful when we're all in sync. Yes, you

1353
01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:10,719
Speaker 2: know what's spink all.

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01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 1: On that flow of light? There are so many things

1355
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:14,640
Speaker 1: I love about you sharing that story. The first I

1356
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:16,320
Speaker 1: want to say is I love that the other side

1357
01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:18,640
Speaker 1: shows you to be the messenger. And I love that

1358
01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 1: you got this knowing like this, knowing I need to

1359
01:13:20,520 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 1: get this book and I'm not sure why, but I'm

1360
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:24,680
Speaker 1: going to honor that, knowing you didn't even know you

1361
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 1: were the messenger of her sign that she was on

1362
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 1: her highest path.

1363
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 3: Right, I just embrace that. And then I love right

1364
01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:36,120
Speaker 3: that it showed the connectivity of the three of us

1365
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:38,840
Speaker 3: here because I've come to know too, like we have

1366
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 3: teams of light here on the ground where there are

1367
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:44,640
Speaker 3: different soul groups working to help in different ways, and

1368
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:47,879
Speaker 3: everybody you meet, you're meant to meet, right.

1369
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 1: So there's that. It's just so beautiful, and it's really

1370
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:54,639
Speaker 1: trusting in understanding the power and the beauty we all

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01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 1: have to show up for one another. And really, the

1372
01:13:57,520 --> 01:14:00,160
Speaker 1: term I love to use is to be angel in

1373
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 1: each other's lives. There are so many moments where each

1374
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:07,080
Speaker 1: of us are called to be part of something greater

1375
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:09,680
Speaker 1: than ourselves, and if we ignore those little polls or

1376
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 1: those nudges, we miss out on the beauty. I like

1377
01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 1: just telling people too, if you ever come across a fundraiser, right,

1378
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:18,120
Speaker 1: there's a lot of goalfunds me and there's so many

1379
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:23,080
Speaker 1: worthy crop causes. Just give five dollars. Just give five

1380
01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 1: dollars and take a moment after you do it and

1381
01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: try to feel the energy around it. Because when we

1382
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 1: come together as groups as collective energy for a cause,

1383
01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:36,599
Speaker 1: for something good, out of love, out of kindness, there

1384
01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 1: is a collective energy that we become part of and

1385
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 1: it's so much bigger than ourselves. And so a really

1386
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 1: good way to feel that is to become part of

1387
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:48,080
Speaker 1: something and then sense it. You know, it's really magical.

1388
01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 1: We're all part of that every day.

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01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:51,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I just wrote that down what you said, Like,

1390
01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 2: that's it's every day. It's every day if you notice it. Yes,

1391
01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 2: And you're so right that we notice it and we

1392
01:14:59,320 --> 01:15:01,960
Speaker 2: doubt ourselves noticing it, and then it goes away. Then

1393
01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 2: then it's still happening, but we don't see it at all,

1394
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:08,400
Speaker 2: and it stops showing up for us, not because it's

1395
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:12,040
Speaker 2: not happening, but because we don't see it. And it's

1396
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:14,639
Speaker 2: like living in a home and putting all the blinds

1397
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 2: down and wondering where the sun is and it's like, well,

1398
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 2: you've blocked yourself from it, so the sun can't get

1399
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 2: in the Sun's still there. Yeah, they can't get in

1400
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:21,960
Speaker 2: the house anymore.

1401
01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 1: That's such a great analogy. And I think anybody who

1402
01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:30,160
Speaker 1: is listening to this podcast, this episode found you for

1403
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 1: a reason, like this is your team of like reminding

1404
01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 1: you that this is true for your life too. This

1405
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:38,599
Speaker 1: isn't just true for the few stories we're sharing or

1406
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 1: the experiences were you know, having and talking about. It's

1407
01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:45,680
Speaker 1: true for every single listener out there. It's just a

1408
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 1: matter of like opening to it and trusting it because

1409
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 1: the magic is happening, and it has been happening in

1410
01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:51,680
Speaker 1: your whole life.

1411
01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:55,920
Speaker 2: Has anyone ever been upset, disappointed, or shocked by what

1412
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:57,480
Speaker 2: they heard from the other side.

1413
01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,719
Speaker 1: I'll tell you this. Anytime that I I do a reading,

1414
01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: I know two things. I know that anything that comes

1415
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:09,960
Speaker 1: through is on the person's highest path to hear. And

1416
01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:12,800
Speaker 1: I also know that I'm not meant to filter anything.

1417
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:16,679
Speaker 1: I think that there have been times when I read

1418
01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 1: I get very for some reason. My guides work very

1419
01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 1: closely with me to give me very specific timelines for

1420
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 1: people's experiences here. And sometimes you know a person's guides

1421
01:16:27,320 --> 01:16:29,040
Speaker 1: or their loved ones on the other side will be

1422
01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 1: sharing that they see they're going through a very difficult

1423
01:16:32,200 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: situation and the person maybe I'm reading for, want of

1424
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:40,640
Speaker 1: that resolved yesterday, and I'll be shown that it's going

1425
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 1: to be a nine month journey till there's going to

1426
01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: be a change, but that there is a sacredness in

1427
01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:48,439
Speaker 1: that nine months, and they're meant to just hold space

1428
01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 1: for this. It's not going to necessarily get easier, but

1429
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 1: they're they're part of this experience, and I can see

1430
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 1: people at times being like, wait nine months. There have

1431
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:58,680
Speaker 1: been times where I've read for people who want to

1432
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 1: meet their soulmate another and I remember one reading I

1433
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:04,719
Speaker 1: did and I was being shown a very specific timeline

1434
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:09,200
Speaker 1: and I said to the person, this person's coming. His

1435
01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:11,880
Speaker 1: name's going to start with a sea, but you're not

1436
01:17:11,920 --> 01:17:14,599
Speaker 1: going to meet him for about two and a half years.

1437
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:17,599
Speaker 1: And they this was so up, What do you mean

1438
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:19,160
Speaker 1: I have to wait two and a half years? And

1439
01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 1: granted that's not the best news, right Well, it turned

1440
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 1: out in the end this person did meet the person

1441
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 1: with the sea name. It did turn out to be

1442
01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:29,720
Speaker 1: this soulmate they married and had children with. But the

1443
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 1: person at the time of our reading was actually married

1444
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:34,759
Speaker 1: to somebody else at the time, and it was about

1445
01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 1: too because I think that spiritual contract they had learned

1446
01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:39,639
Speaker 1: what they were supposed to learn. They ended up getting

1447
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 1: divorced and then this unfolded, which is also really interesting

1448
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:46,519
Speaker 1: when you think of marriages, right, and how sometimes we

1449
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:48,840
Speaker 1: look at divorce as being the failure of the marriage

1450
01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:54,439
Speaker 1: when actually that was exactly how that relationship was supposed

1451
01:17:54,439 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 1: to play out. Staying stuck in relationships that no longer

1452
01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:00,799
Speaker 1: serve us or help us to grow, that's a swamp

1453
01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:03,160
Speaker 1: that's not going to help anybody. So getting to that

1454
01:18:03,320 --> 01:18:06,599
Speaker 1: moment within yourself where you say, like, I honor everything

1455
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,679
Speaker 1: I gained from this relationship. I honor everything I learned.

1456
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,960
Speaker 1: I released you in love, but I understand our contract

1457
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 1: is up and our journey is up so that you

1458
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:17,479
Speaker 1: can be brought on a path to something else. I

1459
01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:20,559
Speaker 1: think so often we are so mean to ourselves in

1460
01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:23,240
Speaker 1: terms of like how we frame what we've experienced in

1461
01:18:23,280 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 1: the past as a failure or just like a waste

1462
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:27,639
Speaker 1: of time. Nothing is a waste of time.

1463
01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:30,559
Speaker 2: I actually said that often to people. I'm like, as humans,

1464
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:32,479
Speaker 2: we have this ability to be like, well, the last

1465
01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 2: three years, we're a rest of time. Now I'm in

1466
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:37,120
Speaker 2: the right place, right, And then three years from now

1467
01:18:37,160 --> 01:18:38,559
Speaker 2: whatever it is you said the same thing. Oh God,

1468
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:39,920
Speaker 2: the last one and half years, we're a waste of

1469
01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 2: Now I'm in the right place. And all you're doing

1470
01:18:42,120 --> 01:18:47,519
Speaker 2: is you're just taking away all this learning, growth, your struggle,

1471
01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:50,639
Speaker 2: your resilience away from yourself, rather than being like, well,

1472
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 2: these three years taught me x and now I have that. Yeah,

1473
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:56,720
Speaker 2: and it's yeah, it's it's such a great point. And

1474
01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:58,599
Speaker 2: I didn't connect it to your work. When now I

1475
01:18:58,640 --> 01:18:59,000
Speaker 2: get that.

1476
01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:00,639
Speaker 1: You know, I love it bringing up too.

1477
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1478
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 1: I spent almost twenty years as a high school English teacher,

1479
01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:06,599
Speaker 1: and at the end of every year, I would have

1480
01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 1: students do a final assignment, which was a reflection of

1481
01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 1: their journey through literature throughout the year, through their own

1482
01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 1: creative writing throughout the year, what they learned, how they changed,

1483
01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:19,719
Speaker 1: and it would be so profound and first they grumble

1484
01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:21,639
Speaker 1: when they got the assignment. I don't have to reflect

1485
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:24,879
Speaker 1: on it, but I think it's such a powerful moment

1486
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 1: for each and every us, every one of us to

1487
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:31,439
Speaker 1: create some space to reflect. And what you're saying just

1488
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:34,640
Speaker 1: makes me recognize. I think it would be so wonderful

1489
01:19:34,880 --> 01:19:37,559
Speaker 1: for everybody who's listening to this podcast to take a

1490
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:41,759
Speaker 1: moment and maybe sit down quietly with a pen and paper,

1491
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:44,360
Speaker 1: or at your computer or in the note section of

1492
01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: your phone, and get quiet, and then write down a

1493
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:52,600
Speaker 1: reflection of how you think the experiences you've had in

1494
01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:55,679
Speaker 1: your life have helped you grow and shift and change.

1495
01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:58,040
Speaker 1: Because when we get in these moments of journaling or

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Speaker 1: writing too, we're in a state of kind ofivity with

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Speaker 1: the other side, and information will be downloaded to us,

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Speaker 1: and we can also hear our soul speak and it

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Speaker 1: can change how we're thinking about our entire journeys and

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Speaker 1: our entire paths here.

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Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, Nerlin, it has been such a

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Speaker 2: joy talking to you again. Truly. I'm so grateful that

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Speaker 2: you wrote Guided the Secret Path to an Illuminated Life.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait for people to read it. I enjoy

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Speaker 2: our conversation so much because just being in your presence,

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Speaker 2: I feel more tuned in. I feel I feel more

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Speaker 2: naturally connected, and I think that says a lot for

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Speaker 2: the work you do. And I'm so grateful for the

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Speaker 2: work you do and reminding us of all these beautiful

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Speaker 2: abilities that we all have, that we forget, that we doubt,

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Speaker 2: that we put aside with our logical brains. And I'm

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Speaker 2: just really really thankful that we got to do this again.

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Speaker 2: So thank you so.

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Speaker 1: Much, Thank you so much. I'm so honored to be

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Speaker 1: in conversation with you, and you give off so much light,

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Speaker 1: and I think anybody listening can feel that vibration and

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Speaker 1: feel that energy. I feel just listening to you speak

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Speaker 1: and discuss and dive into these things expands them. So

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Speaker 1: thank you for all the work you do in the world.

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Speaker 2: So thank you, Laureln. I hope everyone will go and

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Speaker 2: grab a copy of Guided, The Secret Path to an

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Speaker 2: Illuminated Life. It's available right now. We will put the

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Speaker 2: link into the comment section and into the description. Go

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Speaker 2: and grab your copy, and please share on social media

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Speaker 2: TikTok and Instagram. What resonated with you, What connected with you,

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Speaker 2: What landed with you, What's something that you're practicing that

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Speaker 2: you're experimenting with to get closer to your knowing, your

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Speaker 2: trusting and your intuition. Thank you again for listening wherever

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Speaker 2: you are, and thank you to Laureln Jackson. Thank you

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Speaker 2: if you love this episode. You love My conversation with

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Speaker 2: doctor Joe Dispenser on why stressing over thinking negatively impacts

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Speaker 2: your brain and heart and how to change your habits

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Speaker 2: that are on autopilot. Listen to it right now. How

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Speaker 2: many times do we have to forget until we start

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Speaker 2: forgetting and start remembering. That's the moment of change.

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Speaker 1: No one cares how many times you fell off the

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Speaker 1: bicycle if you ride the bicycle.

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Speaker 3: Now you ride the bike.