1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying all these words like reliable, consistent, authentic, talent, 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: and competent. 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 2: But what does it look like. 4 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: Well, here's what it looks like. At three point thirty 5 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 1: afternoon at Power Center Academy, when the bell rings, I'm 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: busting through the lobby. 7 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,159 Speaker 2: Teachers coming to me. You got to talk to you 8 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 2: gotta talk to this kid. He did this? 9 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: And who's playing rugby? I know he was playing. You 10 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: gotta talk to him about this. Okay, where is he? 11 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm finding him? Boom, This kid's on the way out 12 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: to the school with his girlfriend. But we got practice. 13 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: Whoa where are you going? 14 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 3: Like? 15 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 2: We got practice? 16 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: So I'm going to McDonald's. No, no, no, you're not going 17 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: to McDonald's. 18 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 2: It is just like. 19 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: A battlefield for like twenty minutes after school, just to 20 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:34,319 Speaker 1: get kids to show up. 21 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 3: Welcome to an army of normal folks. I'm Bill Courtney. 22 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 3: I'm a normal guy. I'm a husband, I'm a father, 23 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,239 Speaker 3: I'm an entrepreneur, and I've been a football coach an 24 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 3: inner city Memphis. And the last part it unintentionally led 25 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 3: to an oscar for the film about our team, it's 26 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 3: called Undefeated. I believe our country's problems will never be 27 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 3: solved by a bunch of fans, people in nice suits 28 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: talking big words that nobody understands on CNN and Fox, 29 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 3: but rather an army of normal folks US, just you 30 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 3: and me deciding, hey, I can help. That's what Shane Young, 31 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 3: the voice we just heard is done. Shane is the 32 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 3: co founder of Memphis Inner City Rugby, which brought a 33 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 3: sport that was really foreign to the Inner City to 34 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 3: twenty four hundred students, with one hundred percent of those 35 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 3: students be accepted into college or the military. Sixty of 36 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 3: these students have played collegiate rugby, and they helped their 37 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 3: players get more than a million dollars in scholarships. I 38 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 3: can't wait for you to meet Shane. Right after these 39 00:01:43,319 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 3: brief messages from our generals sponsors, I got to tell 40 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 3: you I am I'm excited. Today. We've got a guy who, 41 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 3: if you looked at him, you might think was on 42 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 3: a surfboard in La somewhere. And I've met him before, 43 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 3: I know his heart, and I've even spent some time 44 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 3: just on the side chatting about some amazing things this 45 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 3: guy's accomplished. And I think you guys are going to 46 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 3: be absolutely floored by Shane Young. How you doing, buddy. 47 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: I was honored to be here, Bill, and thanks for 48 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: the intro. Just super honest to sit down with you. 49 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 3: Well, I think that's humbling and thanks dude, which you 50 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 3: come from? I mean you're here in Memphis, but where 51 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 3: did you come from? Well? 52 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 1: I was just thinking because you said the surfboard, which 53 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: is what the kids say about me right now. They say, 54 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: you know, you're like a look like a surfer because 55 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: this this long hair. My family, which I'll get into, 56 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 1: is from New Jersey. They haven't seen me about six months, 57 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: so they don't know I look like this kid. The 58 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: kids after the summer were surprised to see me like this, 59 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: and so I'm getting that a lot right now. 60 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 2: Also getting ed sheer in a lot for those. 61 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 3: Well you're pulling off ginger strong. 62 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you, thank you. 63 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 3: No, probably the mustache is even bred. It works. I 64 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 3: mean you got a yeah. Well and listen a fat 65 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 3: red edit. Dude appreciates a good looking ginger like you. 66 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 3: I mean, you keep it, you, Pete, You keep us 67 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 3: validated out there in public. 68 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: Man, what an honor. I really appreciate it. 69 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: And it's all coming to an end, unfortunately this weekend 70 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: because I have to go officiate a wedding where I 71 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: can't I can't quite look so much. 72 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 2: Like this, I guess. But yeah, so that'll a lot 73 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 2: of people will be happy about that. 74 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: But I grew up in New Jersey, like I mentioned, 75 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: and my parents and my brother, that's my family. I 76 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: have one sibling, an older brother two years older than 77 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: me named Ryan. My mom and dad, Stephen Donna. They 78 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: all live down in Southwest Florida now in the Naples 79 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: Fort Myers area, which is where we all moved together 80 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: when I was in high school. Ended up doing the 81 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: rest of high school and college in Southwest Florida at Florida. 82 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 3: So you did do the beach thing. 83 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: I guess I did. I guess I did. 84 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: Now it was the West Coast, you know, Golf of 85 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: Mexico side, so you know, there's no waves over there. 86 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: It's like a big pond. 87 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 1: But I went to Florida Golf Coast University and then 88 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: you know, graduated when I was twenty one or twenty 89 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: two years old there and moved straight to Memphis with TFA. 90 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 2: So that's kind of my. 91 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 3: So tell me about what your what'd your mom and 92 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 3: dad do for a living or homemakers or work. What 93 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 3: tell me about what it was like growing up in 94 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 3: the young household. 95 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: Wow, my parents are great parents. Man. My mom, you know, 96 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,239 Speaker 1: she's done a lot of different things from from social 97 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: work to I think she worked in a va growing up, 98 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: you know, but then she did get to you know, 99 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: raise my brother and I at home growing up while 100 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: my dad was just being a maniac all over the plays. 101 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 3: You know. 102 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: And I say that in the most endearing way possible, 103 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: because he was a couple of years before I was born. 104 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: He was the mayor of mine Hill, New Jersey. Mine Hill, 105 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: New Jersey, population not not big, not big, small town 106 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 1: in northern New Jersey. I don't know the population, but 107 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: you know, but he was the mayor and and it's 108 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: amazing the stories he can show me and even the 109 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: newspaper clippings that we can see. There was like some 110 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: controversy around his may oral candidacy and incumbency even though 111 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: he was, you know, his small town. 112 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 2: But it was quite quite a time there in the 113 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 2: late eighties. 114 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: You know, after being a mayor, he got into the 115 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,919 Speaker 1: insurance business and did that for a lot of the nineties. 116 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 2: You know, and then in the in the mid. 117 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: And early two thousands, he was he was always an entrepreneur, 118 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: the serial entrepreneur. 119 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: He was doing whatever. 120 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean, he was in insurance and then he got 121 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: into some real estate and he was We opened up 122 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: a when we moved to Florida, we opened up a restaurant. 123 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: My mom, my brother, and I. We all worked out it. 124 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 1: Diner went out of business, so not everything worked right. 125 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: So my dad has been you know, you can call 126 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: him dow Jones because he's been up and down in 127 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: his entrepreneurial journey, his whole You would love to meet him, Bill, 128 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: because your story and uh so, you know that's that's 129 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: been his career. 130 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 2: And he was also a rugby coach, you know. And 131 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 2: when we moved to. 132 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: Florida, my brother and I were like teenagers in the 133 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: middle of high school, a lot of friends and we 134 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: were playing rugby and then we got up rooted to 135 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: Florida and we were like pissed at our dad, you know, 136 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: because that he pulled us down there. And we can 137 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: get into all the reasons why if you want, but 138 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: he uh, you know what, we were trying to hold 139 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: everything against him, like you know, these kids in Florida 140 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: are so stupid, dad, and like you know, and like 141 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: we're just like and then there's no rugby down here. 142 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 1: You took away our favorite sport. I feel terrible, right 143 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: because he was just being a good dad, like doing 144 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: what he had to do, and then we're giving him hell. 145 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: But so what did he do? Starts a high school 146 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 1: rugby team at our high school. And then and we 147 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: all built and we all built it together. And so 148 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: I got all this experience building an organization, a small 149 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: one at a high school, a rugby team because my 150 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: dad was like, yeah, say no more like rugby and 151 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: yeah Jersey, yeah exactly. And then we moved to Florida 152 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: and there was no youth rugby. It was like, you know, 153 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: it's it's it's a eurocentric it's not it's not popular 154 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: here in America, so don't find it everywhere. 155 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 3: How did your dad coach rugby? Did he play when 156 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 3: he was younger? 157 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 2: He played? 158 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: Yeah in New Jersey that you know, the Morris Lions 159 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: old school. You know, he's playing in the seventies and eighties, 160 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 1: you know, back when it. 161 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 3: Was nobody the United States. 162 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: He was a rugby pioneer. Yeah, so yeah, he played. 163 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 3: He really is an entrepreneur in sports and politics. And 164 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 3: so tell me about the diner. That's what was that 165 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 3: in Florida? 166 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was in Florida. 167 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 3: I mean I'm envisioning like Alice and mel in the 168 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 3: back and kissed my grips and all that. Is that 169 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 3: what we're talking about here. 170 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: It's it's a lot even funnier than that. I mean, 171 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: it's called park Place Diner. And we opened it up. 172 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: Being from New Jersey, you know, we loved a diner 173 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: like that's. 174 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 3: A that's a Northeast thing exactly so much in Florida. 175 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: Like give me the bagel, give me the breakfast at dinner, 176 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: like you know, the diner. And so we opened a 177 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: park Place Diner with that, you know, in mind. And 178 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: you know it was in this plaza, you know, next 179 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: to a grocery store. And my brother and I and 180 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: all of our rugby teammates, the teenagers that we were 181 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: recruiting and training in rugby and now we were playing. 182 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 2: We were the servers. 183 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: We were we were the bussers and and we were 184 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: often the kitchen staff. And I'll tell you, you know, 185 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: we my my parents only now have started to learn 186 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: this man. We'd come in for those Sunday you know, 187 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: Sunday after church breakfast crowd. 188 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 2: That's the diner's busiest day. 189 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: Me and my buddies in high school were not up 190 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: to all all good stuff, and we'd come in like, 191 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: you know, like we had Saturday night, a lot of fun, 192 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 1: you know, together after our after our rugby games, you know, 193 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: underage and everything. 194 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: So not not proud of that. 195 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: Necessarily, we'd come into the diner the next day and 196 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: we'd deliver, you know, we would do a good job, 197 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: but my goodness, we were we were not feeling good 198 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: those days. But the diner, you know, it was it 199 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: was a it was in a weird plaza. I didn't 200 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: get a lot of business. Turned out a guy we 201 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: hired to manage it started, you know, stealing some cash 202 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: and booze, little embezzlement here and there. The food and 203 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: the food industry is brutal, and so this thing was 204 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: closed after a year and a half, I think it was. 205 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: And it costed my dad, you know, a good amount 206 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: of money to get into that industry. And so that's 207 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 1: one of those you know, when I talk Aboutdalla Jones, 208 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: he was up and down. That was one of the downs. 209 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was one of the downs. So fair to 210 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 3: say that there were good years and bad years. But 211 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 3: you didn't grow up with silver spoon in your mouth. 212 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 3: If you're working in a diner, I mean your parents 213 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 3: are middle upper middle class folks that are raising two kids, 214 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 3: and that's how you grew up. 215 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: It's funny, and my family's gonna listen to this and 216 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 1: we're gonna have a fun conversation and reflection of what 217 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 1: they're gonna hear me say right now, because yeah, we're 218 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,679 Speaker 1: a middle class family for sure. Now, when I grew 219 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: up in New Jersey, I had I had this little 220 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: complex because as a kid, some of the kids I 221 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: was friends with would say I was a rich kid. 222 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: And that is because my dad crushed it in the 223 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: insurance industry after he was the mayor of mine Hill, 224 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: and you know, bought a big house in cash and 225 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: we lived in a nice area. Now that when I 226 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: talk about the Dawa Jones, that was a major up. 227 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: And then there was a lot of years where you know, 228 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: sitting on that leveraging that not everything was like you know, 229 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: cash flow and so and so. One the time we 230 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: got to Florida, you know, we felt very middle class 231 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: and I had pretty much shaken that rich kid complex 232 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: by then. And I think our life is middle class people. 233 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: We're an army of normal folks. 234 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 3: Have the young residents got it? So you uh, I 235 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 3: guess Florida grows on you because you go to college there? Yeah, yeaheah. 236 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 3: And where what was it called. 237 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 2: Florida Gulf Coast University for Myers, Florida. 238 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 3: I've seen that. By the way. Isn't there a like 239 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 3: a resort area south of Fort Myers about forty five minutes? 240 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: Well, that's that's Naples, Florida, right, and so that that's 241 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 1: one of there's even like an eye Marco Island. 242 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 3: Marco Island. I got to tell you a quick story 243 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 3: about where you're where. 244 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 1: You know a lot about Marco? 245 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I almost know nothing about it except it's nice. 246 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 3: But I flew Lisa and I flew to four Myers, 247 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 3: rent a car, drove to Renteda. 248 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: Uh. 249 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 3: Fortunately all they had was a suburban, right, So we 250 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 3: drove a suburban down. And the reason we were there 251 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 3: is I did a speech. I had a keynote for Firestone, 252 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 3: and we I had to show up. Part of the 253 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 3: contract was I showed up a day or so. I 254 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 3: was there the day early and the week before they 255 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: were talking about this weird sickness people were getting in 256 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: New York City. And by the time we flew to 257 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 3: Fort Myers, drove to what's that island called Marcrod did 258 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: my speech. After the speech was over, it was a 259 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 3: dinner speech, went back to our room, and at nine 260 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:33,959 Speaker 3: thirty is when the world changed. 261 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 1: You talking about like April twenty something, twenty twenty. 262 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 3: It's exactly what it was. And Lisa and I looked 263 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 3: at each other and we were to fly out the 264 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 3: next day on Delta. And it went from in a 265 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 3: couple of week period from when we left a few 266 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 3: people in New York getting this weird illness they couldn't 267 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 3: figure out to a full blown pandemic and everybody was sick. 268 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 3: And I had friends in Memphis sick and everything else. 269 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 3: And Lisa and I said, I don't. We didn't know. 270 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 3: Nobody knew back then, right, So I didn't. I just 271 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 3: said I'm not flying on it. I'm not getting onto 272 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 3: the Delta plane going to Atlanta, running through that big airport, 273 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 3: all those people running back. We didn't know if if 274 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 3: you got this, it was a death sentence. I mean, 275 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 3: nobody knew for sure back then, so I don't know 276 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 3: how far of a drive it is from that island 277 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 3: to Memphis. Sixteen hours, Okay, so it was a twenty 278 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 3: one hour drive for us, because as we're advancing, we're 279 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 3: getting calls telling us that nobody has li saw or 280 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 3: toilet paper anymore. So from that island to Memphis, every 281 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,319 Speaker 3: single exit that I had a Walmart or Target for 282 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 3: a dollar general we stopped. By the time we got 283 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 3: to Memphis, we had a suburban full of rented suburban 284 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 3: that I had to turn back into Memphis changed all 285 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 3: that of ly salt, toilet paper and bottled water loaded 286 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: to the hilt. 287 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: This is pre mask too, yeah, right, like you're not 288 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 1: you're not bringing back masks. So that wasn't a thing yet, 289 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: That's right, all of it. 290 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 3: And then as in shortly after, like a few days after, 291 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 3: is when everybody was talking about these toilet paper holders 292 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 3: being the scores of the earth and the li saw 293 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 3: holders being awful, and I felt bad. So then I 294 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 3: brought most of that stuff to the office and gave 295 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 3: it away to my employees. Nice that, But that's my 296 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 3: fort Meyer's experience. I've been there for a day and 297 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 3: a half and drove back. 298 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: Well, you can have a you can make a sub 299 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: podcast where you just have people on for one minute, 300 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,839 Speaker 1: give me your one minute. Where were you when you 301 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: knew the world changed? 302 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 3: Right? That's it. 303 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 2: Wouldn't that be a funny one? 304 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's true. 305 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 1: People's little sound bites on I was at a restaurant 306 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 1: and I got a phone. I saw the NBA game, 307 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: get ship beat out of whatever it. 308 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 3: Was I was. I was in your old hometown from 309 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 3: high school. So you go to college? Are you going there? 310 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 3: What's your degree in? What are you doing? Well? 311 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 2: So barely got into college. 312 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: I was a terrible student, right when I told you 313 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 1: about my Saturday night behavior. That kind of to my 314 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: like achievement in college and in high school, like two 315 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: point eight GPA, so bad at math, good, good writing, 316 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: but writing didn't count on the on the se whatever 317 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 1: it was a ct S a T back then, and 318 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: so I got I got punished for my math, but 319 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 1: I didn't get rewarded for my writing. It didn't account 320 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 1: for this admission process. So my brother goes to Florida 321 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: State in Tallahassee. Pretty tough to get into some of 322 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: these bigger Florida schools, especially u F. Florida's like an 323 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: ivy league in terms of like admissions, like standards. 324 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 3: It's crazy. It is like North Carolina. 325 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking, I can't get into the UF for sure. 326 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: But I drive to Florida State six hours away, and 327 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to missions. I'm saying, hey, I'm Shane. I 328 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: know I don't have this in that, but I can be, 329 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: you know, and it doesn't work. 330 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 3: And I go to if you had that haircut. 331 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: And so I go to fau usf UCF. I'm talking 332 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: about Boca Raton, Fort Lauderdale, Orlando, Tampa. Just trying to 333 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: get into a school in Florida, because that's the whole 334 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: reason we moved down there, was the Florida Bright Future Scholarship. 335 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: You know, it's like a low hanging fruit opportunity for 336 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: students to get state fund, you know, you know, to 337 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: get go to school affordably. That's why we went. And 338 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: I didn't get in anywhere, and I even got denied 339 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 1: by Florida Gulf Coast, which had the lowest standards. I 340 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: was like, it was my nightmare because of social pressure 341 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: that I was gonna have to tell my friends. I 342 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: was going to community college, but that was what I 343 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 1: was facing until I wrote an appeal letter to Florida 344 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: Gulf Coast University and basically pled my case and wow, 345 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: it worked. So I got into the lowest standard state 346 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: university in Florida. I went there and then I majored 347 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: in political science because you don't have to take math 348 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: too much when you do that. 349 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 3: And did you was rugby going on? Then? No? 350 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: So I played three years for the Naples Hammerheads, a 351 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: men's team. I was like the young guy on the team. 352 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 1: It's a little bit of an older demographic. By the 353 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: time I was a senior at the college, I had 354 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: recruited enough of my buddies to go play for the 355 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: men's team that we had enough to make our own 356 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: college team. So I started the Florida Gulf Coast University 357 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: men's rugby team my senior year. Played and coached and 358 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: captained and you know, administered the whole operation for one 359 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: year before I moved to Memphis. 360 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 3: You graduate and decide you're going to be a teacher. 361 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 3: Is that was that the plan? 362 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: Well, so in my last semester of college that spring, 363 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: I was looking at the military. Honestly, and you know 364 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: that actually made my made my folks like, ah man, 365 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 1: you like they didn't love that, you know, But I 366 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: was just looking tot. I was looking to serve, and 367 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: I was looking to use my degree. Like I spent 368 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: four years getting a degree. I barely got into college. 369 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 1: I wanted my next thing to require a degree. I 370 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: didn't really care what it was. 371 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 2: I had served tables my whole you know, high school. 372 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: Another diner, no, and I and I about even after 373 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: the diner. I worked at restaurants my whole life. And 374 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: I was like ready to do something that required a 375 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: degree I had done. I had done all these other 376 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: jobs for so long, you know, bartending, golf, corps, greenhouse, farming, uh, 377 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: restaurant whatever. 378 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 3: It's like you got some of your dad because I was. 379 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: Doing doing everything. 380 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 1: And I wasn't a broke college kid because I worked 381 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: three jobs during college, so you know, I was busy 382 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: all the time. But anyway, I wanted to serve. I 383 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: wanted to use my degree. I was applying to that 384 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: I was doing. I was doing military recruitment. Maybe I 385 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: can coming as an officer. And then I you know, 386 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 1: then I started looking at peace corps, you know, like 387 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: international like service assignments. And then I got turned on 388 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: to Teach for America and in my mind, I was like, oh, man, like, 389 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: we have so many issues in America. 390 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 2: Why would I outsource myself. 391 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 1: To, you know, Namibia with the Peace Corps to go 392 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: build a well where surely that's an awesome service to 393 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: do and those people need that and that service is valid. 394 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: But I was like, what if I just stay in 395 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: the States, you know, and try to invest and serve here. 396 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 2: I thought Teach for America was a really cool way 397 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 2: to do that. 398 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 3: So I don't know how For those who don't know 399 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 3: all about Teach of America or may have heard of 400 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 3: it or not heard at all, Teach for America is 401 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 3: a bunch of young college grads going into typically inner 402 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 3: city situations or underserved schools, whether they're inner city, urban 403 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 3: or suburban or rule or whatever, and they're giving two 404 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 3: or three years of their first professional lives out of 405 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 3: college to teach ye And there's a community of these 406 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 3: young people all over the place doing that. Now, some 407 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 3: do their two or three years and move on to 408 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 3: what their degree to do, or go to graduate school 409 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 3: and become accounts whatever. Some end up saying this is 410 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 3: for me and stay as a teacher. What I don't 411 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 3: know is do you choose where you go or does 412 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 3: teach for America assign you a city? 413 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,880 Speaker 1: Oh oh this in terms of the city. It's changed 414 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: since I applied. I don't know exactly how it is now. 415 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:21,679 Speaker 1: I know it's different. So I'll just give you what 416 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,159 Speaker 1: I do know, which is how it was when I applied, 417 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: which is that when you apply, you rank their cities, 418 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: not all of them. You pick like a top five 419 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: and like, I would like to go to these five 420 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: if possible, and then you pick like two that you 421 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: wouldn't go to if you were accepted. 422 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,160 Speaker 2: And this is this is a funny story. I've told 423 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 2: you a lot of people. 424 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,479 Speaker 1: So some of the listeners that are here because they 425 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 1: know me, Will Will Will know that I picked Memphis 426 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: because I was just in my college dorm, you know, 427 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 1: applying late at night, and I looked at Memphis Tennessee, 428 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: and I thought Tennessee mountains. Oh, I love mountains. I 429 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 1: don't I don't get I don't get mountains on the 430 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: other end of the state. Bro. 431 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 2: I know we're the delta. I know. 432 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 1: I'm an East Coast kid, and like I didn't know better, 433 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 1: and I had been to like Dollywood growing up on 434 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: like vacasions. I'm like thinking about Knoxville, thinking about I'm 435 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:08,360 Speaker 1: thinking about mountains, and I wanted mountains, and. 436 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 3: So I got sat down on the MUDs and that's 437 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 3: how I got. That's funny because you know, y'all all 438 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 3: show up with white shirts on and black ties, because 439 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 3: that almost sounds like you're doing the Mormon thing where 440 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 3: they where they You get, you get told where you're going, 441 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 3: and you roll. 442 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah pretty much. 443 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 1: And and I actually I need to I need to 444 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: interrupt your flow of questions for a second because I 445 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: was telling somebody I was. 446 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 3: Out there, there's no flow flows. Always do well my play. 447 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 1: I'm turning a question back around to you because you 448 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: didn't you We got when we were coming into the 449 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:44,959 Speaker 1: city as transplants, like I got set up to have 450 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: dinner with like Joe Birch. It was like, you know, 451 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: you know from the y Yeah, I love him, And 452 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 1: it was just you know, us like twenty two twenty 453 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: three year old just coming into the city. It was 454 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: like teach for America's attempt to engage us in local people. 455 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 3: I think. 456 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: And somebody told me that you sat down with a 457 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 1: the with a little cohort of Teach for America people 458 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 1: circle eleven years ago. Maybe yeah, yeah, Okay, so you 459 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: sat down with Andrea Winztz, who is now the co 460 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: executive director of Memphis Inner City Rugby and was a 461 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: twenty twelve Teacher for America member, with me and my 462 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 1: co founder Are you kidding? 463 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 3: Yeah? 464 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? 465 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 3: And now a few messages from our generals sponsors. But 466 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 3: first giving a shout out to my boy Badger. Badger 467 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 3: is a member of the Army who emailed me and 468 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 3: recommended that we set up a telephone number where you 469 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 3: can leave voicemails with feedback about our movement and podcast. 470 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 3: We've gotten a ton of emails, and we really appreciate them, 471 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 3: but some people have a hard time when they're driving 472 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 3: around or when they're engaged in something and they want 473 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 3: to leave a quick voicemail about the feedback about our 474 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 3: movement and our podcast, how an episode touched or inspired you, 475 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:02,400 Speaker 3: or take action, or even story ideas, pretty much anything 476 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 3: else as long as this is not weird or creepy. 477 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 3: So we thought it was an awesome idea. So Badger, 478 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 3: this is for you and anyone else who wants to 479 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 3: reach out to us through phone rather than email. The 480 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 3: telephone number is nine oh one three five two one 481 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 3: three six six. Call us. Leave a voice, smell about 482 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 3: your ideas. Leave a voice, smell about anything as it 483 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 3: pertains to the Army, and we will get it, and 484 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 3: we will respond. We'll be right back. We now return 485 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 3: to me asking Shane where he taught in. 486 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: Memphis Goodly Elementary now known as Parkway Village Elementary. I 487 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 1: was teaching third grade EESL are great? 488 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 3: What? 489 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: Yesl English has a second language? 490 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 3: What does that mean? 491 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: It means I was teaching basic English, but to all Mexican, 492 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:13,720 Speaker 1: Guatemalan and Honduran students, you know, mostly the no. 493 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 3: No in goodness name does that work? 494 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: I had a pretty strong background in Spanish, just from 495 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: the academic side, but I also I worked in a 496 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: lot of restaurants, speaking a lot of. 497 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 2: You know, Spanish, with people. I know, dated a Columbian. 498 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 1: Girl for like five years and with her family a lot, 499 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 1: So I had enough of a background to make it work. 500 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: And boy, after teaching for three years in that community 501 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: and becoming really engaged in that like you know, Latino 502 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 1: community and in that pocket of Hickory Hill, you know, 503 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: Southeast Memphis. 504 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 2: I was almost fluent by the end of it. 505 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 3: What's the demographics of an area. 506 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 1: Like that, Well, it's it's interesting pockets, you know of demographics. 507 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: And because as we know, like Memphis, you know, the 508 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 1: Latin population isn't isn't huge. It doesn't compare of course 509 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: to the black and white population. But there are pockets 510 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: where it's like super concentrated. And that's one of them 511 00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: in Hickory Hill. That's why if you go over there, 512 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: I think gets similar on Summer Avenue, people say, oh, 513 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,120 Speaker 1: there's amazing, like Mexican restaurants all. 514 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 3: Down Summer Rava the same way. 515 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, but exactly. 516 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 3: And that's what. 517 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: Kingsbury is actually where we started the first Memphis Inner 518 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 1: City Reguy program. Had a heavy Latin population, and that's 519 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: why I see that you know a lot of that 520 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: over there, and similar in Hickory Hill. And so I 521 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: think the school was like forty sixty you know, African, 522 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 1: American and Latino. 523 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 3: How many white folks. 524 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 1: I think there were maybe only one or two in 525 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 1: the whole school Asians. That one or two, maybe maybe 526 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: zero Asians actually, and that school. 527 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: It was it was that's the demographics, and I would 528 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 3: say lower middle income. 529 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 1: Definitely, definitely, yeah, And that's Teach for America. They won't 530 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,159 Speaker 1: send you to White Station. They can't, like that's against 531 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: their policies. 532 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 3: Like what white station being a more affluent area. 533 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 2: You're there to serve, right. 534 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 3: You're there to serve, meaning you're going into lower income. 535 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: Right, so wit struggling schools, but you know that going 536 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:57,400 Speaker 1: in absolutely yeah, and. 537 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 3: You're excited about that because this an opportunity to serve. Yeah, 538 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 3: So how long do you teach and Teach for America 539 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,919 Speaker 3: before you side? I want to start teaching some of 540 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,360 Speaker 3: these people rugby. 541 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: Like negative one week because because all right, because during institute, 542 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 1: I had met Devon O'Brien who's the co founder of 543 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 1: Memphis Inner City Rugby, and I only met him on 544 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: a Facebook page where it's a little group where Teach 545 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: for America people were starting to coordinate say, hey, who's 546 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: living in mid who's living here? Can we give you roommates? 547 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 3: As you guys are looking for roommates and friends and 548 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 3: something or something. 549 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: And trying to orient with like people are getting hired 550 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 1: at schools and others like didn't get hired yet, I 551 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: haven't even interviewed anywhere, yet you got hired already here 552 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: at a charter school. What's a charter school versus you know, 553 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 1: Memphis City schools. It was all that chaos on these groups. 554 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 1: And I saw that his profile picture was a rugby team, 555 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: and I messaged him. I just said, oh, man, I 556 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: see you play rugby, Like we should toss the ball around. 557 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: And me and Devin go back to that thread and 558 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 1: screenshots of it periodically just to go wow, like, look 559 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: at look at what we did after just a little 560 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,719 Speaker 1: bit of a mess of each other. So we decided 561 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 1: really quickly to start a high school boys of every 562 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 1: team at the school he got placed at, which was 563 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 1: Kingsbury High School. 564 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 3: Okay, So for those are listening, Kingsbury High School as 565 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 3: a school that's been a Memphis school for years and 566 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 3: years and years and years, and I would say in 567 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 3: the sixties it was middle income, blue collar, heavily white 568 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:29,160 Speaker 3: school that then transitioned during bussing into a very diverse 569 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 3: school that was probably fifty to fifty black and white, 570 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 3: no Hispanics, and then over the course of time it 571 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 3: became a really heavily black school, and then that neighborhood 572 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 3: started morphing into a really heavy Latino community, and now 573 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 3: the school is I don't know what percent, but very 574 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 3: heavy Latino, isn't it very heavy? 575 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 1: It's probably something similar to what like my good Elementary was, 576 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 1: even though it's other side of town. 577 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 2: It's it's it's similar makeup. 578 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 3: So sixty percent Hispanic forty. 579 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: Or the opposite. I'm honestly somewhere there, but sure, yeah. 580 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 3: But that's it. And that is one of the areas 581 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 3: of the city that have been particularly hit hard financially, 582 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 3: and there's poverty and there's uh disenfranchisement, and all you 583 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 3: have to do is drive up down the streets to 584 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 3: the neighborhoods around around Kingsbury and frankly the larger avenues 585 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 3: around Kingsbury where you see all the major retailers have 586 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:40,360 Speaker 3: moved out and have been replaced by either nothing or 587 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 3: you know, tire stores or whatever. I mean, Is that right? Yeah? 588 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, And especially back back then, you know, eleven years 589 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 1: ago now, there was not much in that community, and 590 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: I think since then, it's it's amazing they've made a 591 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,719 Speaker 1: great investment in like Guysman Park, which is like a 592 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 1: big central kind of trademark area of nutbook, and I 593 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 1: think it's been a big difference. But we used to 594 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,360 Speaker 1: practice a guysman park before any of that happened. And yeah, 595 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 1: there was you know, tough, tough neighborhood. 596 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:11,880 Speaker 3: Tough neighborhood. So you're going to start rugby in the 597 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 3: inner city of Memphis, a town you know nobody that 598 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 3: you just got to and is why. 599 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 2: Why did we start that? 600 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 3: Why we know, yeah, but not why did you start it? 601 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 3: When you and when you were talking about it, I mean, 602 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 3: what was the purpose in starting a rugby team in 603 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 3: the inner city? Why would you? I listen, I get okay, 604 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go coach baseball. I'm going to coach basketball, 605 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 3: I'm gonna coach football. I'm going to coach something that 606 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:46,160 Speaker 3: people know, or soccer that people know exists. But when 607 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 3: you're saying coaching rugby, you're also basically saying, I'm going 608 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 3: to teach an entire community about sports they probably never 609 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 3: seen of. And this football that you guys use is 610 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 3: like overweight. 611 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 1: Yep, yep. So a couple of things, you know, as 612 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 1: we're transitioning into Memphis and learning about the city and 613 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 1: learning about the economics, and you know, the lack of 614 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: resources and different things like that, where you know, we're 615 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 1: getting fired up to go make a difference. And that's 616 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 1: part of the design of you know, getting a bunch 617 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,199 Speaker 1: of young people, you know, in to teach for America. 618 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 1: You're trying to educate them, make them part of the mission, 619 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: you know, make a bunch, make an army of mission 620 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 1: aligned people to go make a difference in these schools. 621 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,920 Speaker 1: And so I'm learning all these things and I'm getting mad. 622 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 1: I'm getting mad at poverty, you know. I'm starting to 623 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 1: get mad that children don't have a choice whether they're 624 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: born into poverty or not. And I'm noticing, I'm noticing 625 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: things about my own life. I'm starting to learn a 626 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 1: lot as a young man, and I'm picturing myself in 627 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: England at age nineteen playing for the USA under nineteen 628 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 1: rugby team. You know, I was, I was a pretty 629 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 1: good player. But when we went over there, we got 630 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 1: beat one hundred to zero against against did you really. 631 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 2: Not against England? 632 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 1: Against Leeds Academy, against Leicester Academy. You know, teams that 633 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 1: are good in England, but those kids aren't on there now. 634 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: Team they're hoping to get there. We were all on 635 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: our national team hundred zero, and most of those kids 636 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: on the team looked like me, White kids who had 637 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:15,719 Speaker 1: enough access, proximity, funding, opportunity, relationships, network to get to 638 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: the rugby camp, to get noticed by Sean O'Leary, to 639 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: get noticed by Paul. I'm name dropping the old USA 640 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: rugby coaches, now, you know, helped me get there, and 641 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 1: I'm grateful, But we gotta beat one hundred to zero. 642 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: And so I'm recognizing and reflecting on my own history. 643 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: I'm learning all these things about poverty and Memphis, and 644 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm getting ready to go become an educator. And I 645 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: have all this experience now coaching. Remember we founded our 646 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: own high school team. I founded my own college team. 647 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 3: Now, your dad started a team in high school. 648 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 1: My dad is a serial entrepreneur and a great leader, 649 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 1: and I've grown up with all that. And now I'm 650 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 1: coming in and I'm like, I know how to start 651 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 1: a rugby team, And boy, would it be awesome to 652 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 1: teach our kids who have such little opportunity a new 653 00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: game and go kick out of some of these other 654 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: rugby teams, which the only other rugby teams within a 655 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 1: thousand miles of Memphis are usually you know the opposite 656 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: demographic from affluents right white private schools. You know, kids 657 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: who are paying to play with two married parents coming 658 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: to the game with food and drinks. 659 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 2: For the coach. What do you need? 660 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 1: Can I get anybody a ride home? 661 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 2: All the resources you know you could ever ask for. 662 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, what if we could do it from the 663 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 1: bottom up with our kids, love on them, surround them 664 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: with resources, great coaching, inspired them. They're going to love 665 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: this game. I already know that once they get good 666 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 1: at it. Boy, we have some opportunity. 667 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 2: And I had. 668 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: Little visions and dreams of like what was possible for 669 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 1: the like you know, macro impact and where we've gotten 670 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: to now. But it was more so about just can 671 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 1: we do it? I only thought I'd be here two years, 672 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:41,959 Speaker 1: you know, because that's how the Teacher for America program 673 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: is designed. 674 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 3: So assume you have a sign up meeting with parents 675 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 3: and everything. 676 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 1: Not even we just asked the principal of Kingsbury, Hey, 677 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: you know, it's just funny because we were so young. 678 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 1: It was like a skinny old Devin O'Brien, who you know, 679 00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 1: graduated from an elite Northeastern into school and he's down 680 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 1: here you know, he tells it. He tells a hilarious 681 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,960 Speaker 1: story about how his job on day one at Kingsbury 682 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: was to kind of, you know, tell kids to you know, 683 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 1: tuck in their shirt and like be the uniform standard 684 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: person on their way into the school. And he's like 685 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: one hundred and sixty pounds, straight out of college, like 686 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 1: white guy from from New York. 687 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 2: And he just tells a funny story about that. 688 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: So even going to the principal's office, you know, as Devin, 689 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 1: it's like, hey, I work here, I'm understated. Yeah, I'm 690 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 1: wondering if we can put a Rugby announcement on the 691 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 1: on the afternoon announcements, if I can hang these flyers up, 692 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: and if we can host the interest meeting in my 693 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: classroom for kids after school. So it wasn't parents at first. 694 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: It was just kids, you know, seeing who would come 695 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: and you know sign up. Yeah, and it was like, 696 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: you know, twenty five kids I think showed up and 697 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 1: we we put on a Rugby video. We tried to 698 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 1: get him excited about practice. I think we already had 699 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 1: it scheduled. We said, hey, guysman Park next week, we're 700 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 1: gonna meet in the lobby. We're gonna be walking across 701 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 1: Macon Road to Guysman Park. Bring your cleats, bring your this. 702 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 1: And then we learned really fast, falling backwards in all 703 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: these services we provide. 704 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:55,760 Speaker 2: Now, of course nobody's got. 705 00:31:55,680 --> 00:32:00,120 Speaker 1: Cleats just right right, So we were learning about our 706 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: own privilege and all these things like along the way. 707 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 3: We'll be right back. And so what does the first 708 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 3: rugby practice look like in this area? I'm you know, 709 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 3: I'm envisioning the reverse of that show about the guy 710 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 3: who went to coach soccer in uh in England. Uh, 711 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 3: what is that thing called Alex? I'm thinking Ted Lasso 712 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 3: in reverse. I mean, just a complete disaster. Frankly. 713 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 2: I mean, well, Devin and I were we were good. 714 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,480 Speaker 1: We were good at what we were doing. You know, 715 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: Devin was a great leader and he and he would 716 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 1: we immediately instituted, like you know, things about study hall 717 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 1: before practice and we're gonna be checking your grades and 718 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 1: you gotta be doing this that was already ingrained and 719 00:32:57,520 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: like what we thought was important. And Devon was so 720 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: good at holding mess and he was the one in 721 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 1: the school. Remember I had to speed across town. 722 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 3: You're elementary school, right, So I'm. 723 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: Speeding across town every day after school to get there 724 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,240 Speaker 1: to support devn be in the classroom, welcome the guysman 725 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 1: be at practice, and I'm like, a really experienced rugby coach. 726 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: I'm I'm, I'm I'm good like I'm, I don't. It's 727 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 1: not really awkward, it's not clunky to get started, like 728 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: I'm working them. And Devin's really good on the other 729 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:22,800 Speaker 1: end of it, you know, and a good rugby coach, 730 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 1: and he had experienced playing in college too, So no, 731 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 1: it wasn't as uh. 732 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 2: It was just funny the way you know. 733 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 3: We imagine the dude look at the ball the first time. 734 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: Oh well, yeah, you would love it because you know, 735 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,360 Speaker 1: you're a football you know, coach and a player in rugby. 736 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 2: You can't block. 737 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 1: In fact, if you have the ball, I need to 738 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: go get behind you so that I'm an option for 739 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 1: you to pass it to. So I can't block for 740 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 1: you because A I need to be behind you to 741 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 1: catch the ball and b it's against the rules. And 742 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 1: that's the first thing the Kingsbury kids wanted to do, 743 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 1: is like someone's got the rock, I'm running out to 744 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 1: crack block. 745 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 3: You know. 746 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: So that kind of stuff you would see and it's 747 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 1: just funny, you know. And they can't believe it's no pads, 748 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: you know, give me. And the parents can't believe it's 749 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 1: no bad because it'such. It's football culture. They have no 750 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: idea what this is. You know. 751 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 3: Well, I would imagine that at first, parents are like, 752 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 3: I don't know about this. I interviewed a guy named 753 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 3: Rhee Cooper, yes and from Westside Chicago, who was on 754 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 3: the first all black road team and Census started all 755 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 3: these all black road teams and it's an amazing story. 756 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 3: Listen to podcast. We're not going to redo the r. 757 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 3: Shae Cooper podcast here, but one of the things that 758 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 3: he said is that first day of sign ups was 759 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 3: a disaster. The second day of sign ups, they got 760 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 3: people to come listen because they gave away free pizza. 761 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 3: But amongst the students, unbeknownst to the coaches, they were 762 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 3: all talking about this is a white sport. Yeah there's 763 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 3: something black people don't do. What are we doing with this? 764 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 3: And I wondered if you had to bridge some social thoughts. 765 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 1: And it was funny because the first group we got 766 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: out for that first like week or two. 767 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 3: By the way, Yeah, I need to be careful with 768 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 3: what I just said. I don't think there's any such 769 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,359 Speaker 3: thing as a racial sport of any kind. I mean, 770 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 3: I guess ping pong is supposed to be an Asian sport, 771 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 3: but I love ping pong. And I guess rowing is 772 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 3: dominated by white people, so they call it a white sport. 773 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 3: But lo and behold, when black people get involved, they 774 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 3: can do pretty well at it. And you know, I 775 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 3: guess what I'm saying is I'm repeating what was said. 776 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 3: I personally recoil at the notion that anything is a white, black, 777 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 3: Asian Latino sport. But unfortunately that's ingrained in societal preconceived notion. 778 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,880 Speaker 1: Well, and it's it's about access. What why don't you 779 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,920 Speaker 1: see a lot of people of color playing lacrosse? Well, 780 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: it's because lacrosse exists in elite communities where you know, 781 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 1: in college, where you have to have a lot of money. 782 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 1: You know how much cost to play youth lacrosse. It's 783 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: us a lot of money, and so it is it 784 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: is almost an institution that is exclusive to you know, 785 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 1: those are resources. And so I think that you know, 786 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with naming that. 787 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 2: I think that's that's totally. 788 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,800 Speaker 1: True and Rugby's like that too to a lesser degree, 789 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:18,960 Speaker 1: and we're trying to change that. 790 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 2: You know at Memphis Intersedier. 791 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 3: Right, I'm just saying, were the kids and parents kind 792 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:23,719 Speaker 3: of looking at you crooked a little bit? 793 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 794 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's what I was gonna say. 795 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 1: Like the first like twenty kids that came out, they 796 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,400 Speaker 1: were got that interest meeting at the first practice, second practice, 797 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,399 Speaker 1: we didn't have like we were wondering if we'd get 798 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 1: like some superstar athlete to come out, you know, because 799 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 1: Kingsbury certainly had some of them on the soccer team, 800 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,959 Speaker 1: the football team, and the basketball team. There was some really 801 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 1: a big school, thousands of kids, lots of potential, and 802 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 1: we didn't really get any any big time athletes. So 803 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 1: we were kind of, you know, working through practice slowly 804 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,680 Speaker 1: building the skills, a lot of drop balls and things 805 00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 1: like that, and I didn't get too much of those comments. 806 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 1: But a couple of weeks later, you know, Jakari and 807 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,319 Speaker 1: Chris Mignight show up and Anthony show up, and they've 808 00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: they've played football, they've been in the weight room, and 809 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 1: they are the kind of athletes that could probably go 810 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 1: D one and something if they really applied themselves to 811 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 1: it and pursued it all the way. And then we 812 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: start cooking, and that's when you start getting some of 813 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 1: the comments like just about you know, them asking about 814 00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: our background growing up and the teams they're gonna play 815 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 1: against if they're all white. You know, if we're gonna 816 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,279 Speaker 1: be playing against other white teams, what. 817 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 2: Other schools have this? 818 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: You know, that's the one thing they wanted to know 819 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,520 Speaker 1: what other schools have this, and none of them did 820 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,520 Speaker 1: in our community. And so that that's why shortly after 821 00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: our first two months having the team at Kingsbury, I 822 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: broke off from Devin and formed our first other team, 823 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 1: and that was at Power Center Academy, a charter school 824 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: closer to where I was teaching. And then boom, Now 825 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,879 Speaker 1: we had two boys teams that could play against each other. 826 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 3: Did you ever hear the term church school? Yeah? Yes, 827 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 3: so when I was at Manassas, I heard that, and 828 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 3: I think it's valuable to share the church school term 829 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:55,799 Speaker 3: and vernacular with our with our guests. We were. My 830 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 3: second year at Manassas, I was tired of playing what's 831 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 3: called pay games, where you go to a much much, 832 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,879 Speaker 3: much much bigger, higher resource school, they pay you three 833 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 3: thousand dollars near their homecoming queen and unfortunately the Manassas 834 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 3: I got to that's the only way they could afford 835 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 3: the little bit of equipment stuff they had. So we said, 836 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 3: we're going to raise the money and we're going to 837 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 3: start paying schools our own size and build up. And 838 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,520 Speaker 3: you know, six seven years later, we were paying against 839 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 3: the teams that used to pay us to come be 840 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 3: beat and whooping on that butt. So yeah, beautiful, But 841 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 3: you had to start somewhere, and constantly, I'm gonna say 842 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 3: this because this is what it was. The athletic department 843 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,719 Speaker 3: was pimping its football team out to get enough money 844 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 3: to pay for uniforms and stuff's. And the kids are 845 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:48,239 Speaker 3: not unaware, right, definitely, And what makes you think you're 846 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:52,280 Speaker 3: ever going to be the top notch, highly succeeding football 847 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,400 Speaker 3: team when the very school you play for is using 848 00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:00,359 Speaker 3: you to make money. They know it, right. So we 849 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 3: interrupted that by raising enough money and then leveling our 850 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 3: schedules so we didn't have those kind of games and 851 00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 3: eventually building back up and play those games again, but 852 00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,759 Speaker 3: not for money, but to compete. But we had to 853 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 3: start somewhere. So that second year and we scheduled games 854 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 3: with some smaller private schools out and around the county. 855 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 3: I'm not going to name any of them because don't 856 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:25,439 Speaker 3: want to ear anybody's feelings. And when the schedule came out, 857 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 3: some kids came to me and said, Coach Bill, we're 858 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 3: going to play at these church schools. And I said 859 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 3: what and they said, you know, the church schools, Saint This, 860 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 3: Saint that First Assembly, this, this of God school. And 861 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 3: it just struck me crazy that what I would call 862 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 3: private or parochial schools, the inner city kids called church schools. 863 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 3: So I went to the principal that year, who was 864 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 3: a great guy, Joe Davis. He was there the first 865 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 3: two years, and I told him about that and he said, 866 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 3: I guess it's time. And he and I'd had a 867 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 3: lot of really good conversations. He said, I guess it's 868 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,440 Speaker 3: time for me to give you a history lesson. And 869 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, yes, sir, And he said, you know what 870 00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,799 Speaker 3: happened on April fourth, nineteen sixty eight in this town, right? 871 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 3: I said, yes, sir, Martin Luther King was shot, killed 872 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 3: and assassinated here. He said right. And he said you 873 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,280 Speaker 3: know what happened after that? Right? And I said riots. 874 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:32,879 Speaker 3: He said after that, I said bussing. He said right, 875 00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 3: and he said which coincided with white flight. And I 876 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,640 Speaker 3: said yes, sir, And he said, you need to go 877 00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 3: look up the charter dates of the vast majority of 878 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:50,760 Speaker 3: all of these schools. So I did, yeah, yeah, seventy 879 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:56,719 Speaker 3: one seventy two, all the churches out in the suburbs 880 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 3: started schools as safe harbor for their white students from 881 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:08,360 Speaker 3: bussing and black schools. Now, that is an uncomfortable truth, 882 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 3: but it is truth that. The reality is the vast 883 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,240 Speaker 3: majority of these private schools were started by white churches 884 00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:21,400 Speaker 3: in the suburbs and as a result from the early seventies, 885 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 3: inside the black community, these schools are known as church schools. 886 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 1: Ah. 887 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,720 Speaker 2: Wow, that is super interesting. 888 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 3: It is also super divisive. The one day in the 889 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:37,879 Speaker 3: United States that we should be the most joined would 890 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 3: be Sunday, and it is the most segregated day on 891 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 3: the planet. 892 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,480 Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, especially in Memphis. 893 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 3: And it existed not only on Sundays but every day. 894 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:53,800 Speaker 3: As a result of quote, church schools look up their charters. 895 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 3: That are shocking. So when they said that church school thing, 896 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 3: I thought, wow. And I don't know if they ever 897 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 3: voiced it to you. But I gotta believe that when 898 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,320 Speaker 3: you started playing matches with these kids from Power Academy 899 00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 3: in Kingsbury, they knew that they were going to play 900 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 3: church schools. They knew that we'll be right back. So 901 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 3: first match you played, who was it against? 902 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:33,879 Speaker 1: Oh? 903 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 3: Gosh, do you remember. 904 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:37,600 Speaker 2: It was against each other? 905 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. First match outside of each other? 906 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I think against Christian Brothers High School. 907 00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 3: Holy smokes. Right. For people who don't know this, Christian 908 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 3: Brothers is in the largest classification in the state of Tennessee. 909 00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,840 Speaker 3: I think they have twenty five hundred students, two thousand students, 910 00:42:55,200 --> 00:43:00,000 Speaker 3: one hundredcent boys, multi multi, multi, tens of millions of dollars, 911 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:05,240 Speaker 3: facility and field and wait, it's as nice as it gets. 912 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 3: And you could it's one of the schools in Memphis. 913 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 3: You could PLoP down in Texas and the facilities and 914 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:12,520 Speaker 3: the kids there could compete that. 915 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: It is an incredible Yeah, the campus. 916 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 3: And you show up to first how'd that go? Uh? 917 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 2: We got our butts kicked? 918 00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 3: Was it one hundred to nothing. 919 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,799 Speaker 1: Something around there? I think more like sixty five to 920 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 1: three or something like that. 921 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,879 Speaker 3: Well, they outperformed your national team. 922 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:33,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, exactly, And this is where so much learning 923 00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 1: started because our kids were feeling out contact, tackling, the rules, 924 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 1: the referee, and so we're our parents, and you know, 925 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 1: when our parents could make make it to the game, 926 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,800 Speaker 1: they wanted to see our kids win. And it wasn't 927 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,560 Speaker 1: happening at first. It definitely wasn't happening. We had so 928 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 1: much ketchup to do. We don't have the weight room, 929 00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,720 Speaker 1: we've never played rugby, there's no middle school feeders. 930 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 3: We don't even understand the intricacies. 931 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 1: Exactly exactly, but their competitive too, and they want to win. 932 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,320 Speaker 1: And so for Devin and I as coaches, it became 933 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:11,800 Speaker 1: such a exercise of healing, therapy, patience, sportsmanship, and keeping 934 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,640 Speaker 1: our kids emotionally regulated after they were getting their butts 935 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 1: kicked at a sport and in a sport they. 936 00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 2: Didn't really love. 937 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 1: Yet you know, it was super, super challenge in leadership, 938 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 1: and yet we were able to pull it off. And 939 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 1: the kids, god bless them, were so resilient, but they 940 00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,040 Speaker 1: were figuring it out and they weren't sure sometimes whether 941 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,359 Speaker 1: that tackle was extracurricular, whether you were supposed to wreck 942 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,680 Speaker 1: me like that, and is this a fight. I'm having this, 943 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 1: I'm having this and they have these trauma responses and 944 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,280 Speaker 1: they're not sure. And then the referees blowing the whistle 945 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,240 Speaker 1: and then boom, we're back ten again and then another penalty. 946 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: I don't even know what happened. There is this rep. 947 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: That Rep's white? Is he? 948 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 3: Are they all? 949 00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:48,759 Speaker 2: You see where I'm going? 950 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,399 Speaker 1: And our parents too, What does that whistle mean? Why 951 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 1: are our kids constantly getting penalty these things? And our 952 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 1: kids were making a lot of mistakes, They're committing a 953 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 1: lot of penalties. They were learning the game. So it 954 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 1: was a challenge for everyone involved, opposing coaches, referees, us, 955 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,959 Speaker 1: our kids, our parents to grit through some of those 956 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,800 Speaker 1: first you know, games and misunderstandings, and it was a difficult, 957 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,919 Speaker 1: difficult time, but it's fun too. 958 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:11,080 Speaker 3: But they kept coming back. 959 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 2: They kept coming back. 960 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. I have always said that the kids at Manassas 961 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 3: kept coming back because they found an opportunity to be 962 00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:23,040 Speaker 3: part of one positive thing and a very very desperate 963 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,040 Speaker 3: life situation and area. Did you found that to be 964 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 3: the case? Yeah? 965 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,799 Speaker 1: Positive thing And and also I just think it's so 966 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,640 Speaker 1: important that that the person, the leader of the coach, 967 00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: you know the mentor is like in Memphis, we talked 968 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:39,440 Speaker 1: about it, Oh we need more mentors. 969 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,680 Speaker 2: We need more? Do we do we? Because because what 970 00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:43,840 Speaker 2: if somebody side. 971 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 3: That's everywhere, Well, that's everywhere. 972 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 1: But but I'm saying, like, sure, mentors are cool, but 973 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,600 Speaker 1: like we need people who are competent, dedicated, consistent, predictable, 974 00:45:56,320 --> 00:46:00,400 Speaker 1: human in touch, ready ready to really invest in kids. 975 00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,920 Speaker 1: And when you say, hey, it was something positive for them, 976 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,360 Speaker 1: I would argue that they were coming back because of you, coach. 977 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: And I think that our kids were coming back because 978 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 1: they saw how genuine and dedicated, committed, consistent, reliable and 979 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,799 Speaker 1: resourceful and helpful that Devin and I were, you know, 980 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 1: with those first two teams. 981 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:19,399 Speaker 2: Now, I don't think they loved the game right away. 982 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 1: I don't think it was enough. 983 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,880 Speaker 3: I've always said that coaches that players win games, and 984 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,799 Speaker 3: coaches win players. Fair. Yeah, totally fair. Well that's what 985 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,439 Speaker 3: you're citing, yeah, is that you weren't win any games, 986 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,400 Speaker 3: but you were trying to win your kids, right? 987 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 2: And what does that look like? 988 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 1: Just any anyone who's listening out there who's like a 989 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,800 Speaker 1: in sports based you development, or like a teacher or 990 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,319 Speaker 1: a coach like You know, you might wondering what I'm 991 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 1: saying all these words like reliable, consistent, authentic, talent, and competent. 992 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 2: But what does it look like. 993 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:47,239 Speaker 1: Well here's what it looks like. 994 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,640 Speaker 2: At three thirty. 995 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,919 Speaker 1: Afternoon at Power Center Academy, when the bell rings, I'm 996 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,759 Speaker 1: busting through the lobby, going at teachers, coming to me. 997 00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 2: You got to talk to you got to talk to 998 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 2: this kid. He did this? 999 00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 1: And who's playing rugby? I know he was playing. You 1000 00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,840 Speaker 1: got to talk to him about this. Okay, where is he? 1001 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,719 Speaker 1: I'm finding him? Boom, This kid's on the way out 1002 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 1: to the school with his girlfriend. But we got practice. 1003 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,200 Speaker 1: Whoa where are you going? Like? 1004 00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 2: We got practice? 1005 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 1: So I'm going to McDonald's. No, no, no, you're not going 1006 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 1: to McDonald's. 1007 00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 1008 00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:13,280 Speaker 1: Like it is just like a battlefield for like twenty 1009 00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,759 Speaker 1: minutes after school just to get kids to show up 1010 00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 1: because like they're. 1011 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,200 Speaker 3: No, you're rounding up the doggies. I know exactly what. 1012 00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,000 Speaker 1: It's like, right, And then I'm taking You know, I 1013 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 1: got Sam because he's a good leader and he loves 1014 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,360 Speaker 1: he already loves the game, so he's into it. 1015 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 2: So he's he's interested in this too, Like. 1016 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: Sam, go down to the tenth grade hallway, round them up, 1017 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:30,360 Speaker 1: do not let them leave the hallway, tell them they 1018 00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:30,879 Speaker 1: got to get changed. 1019 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 2: They're coming to practice. 1020 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 1: Boom, I got ninth grade, and you know, and so 1021 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,480 Speaker 1: it just that's what it looks like, you know, for 1022 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 1: those wondering what I mean when I say all these 1023 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,239 Speaker 1: buzzwords about what what keeps kids coming back? 1024 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:43,839 Speaker 3: All for the payoff of then getting you spend two 1025 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,959 Speaker 3: two and a half hours working for free to teach 1026 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 3: kids something, right, right, that's it. 1027 00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,839 Speaker 1: Right then, and then drive them all home by the way. 1028 00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, they then somehow get everybody home safely. Yeah, well 1029 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,200 Speaker 3: tell me about your two year two. 1030 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:02,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1031 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: So it was really cool because and this is where 1032 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,320 Speaker 1: you start to see Memphis Inner City Rugby as an organization, 1033 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:09,920 Speaker 1: as an institution come to life. 1034 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 3: Well, and at this point you didn't really have Memphis 1035 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:16,439 Speaker 3: City Rugby. You were messing with two groups of kids 1036 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:17,000 Speaker 3: as teams. 1037 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,600 Speaker 1: Once we got started with the first practice, we did 1038 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,320 Speaker 1: make like a social media page. We did call it 1039 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,839 Speaker 1: Memphis Inner City Rugby, and my ex girlfriend did make 1040 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: us a logo. 1041 00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:29,200 Speaker 2: So we did have that, but we didn't have anything else. 1042 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,480 Speaker 1: And so in year two, we started to engage two 1043 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,880 Speaker 1: of now my best friends and they're still involved in 1044 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:38,719 Speaker 1: MICR Andres Lopez another Teach for America twenty twelve, guy 1045 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 1: who we got to know well, who had a little 1046 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:44,359 Speaker 1: rugby background, graduating from UNC and Chapel Hill, and he 1047 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,279 Speaker 1: was teaching at a school in Westwood called Freedom Prep, 1048 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 1: another charter school, and we started talking, man, what did 1049 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,520 Speaker 1: you see what we're doing at Kingsbury and PCA, Like 1050 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,680 Speaker 1: what if? Like what if you added a boys team 1051 00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,440 Speaker 1: to the mix. And I don't know how we were 1052 00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,040 Speaker 1: able to convince Andres to do it. And at the 1053 00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,319 Speaker 1: same time we had Brad Trotter, who didn't do Teacher 1054 00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 1: America in Memphis, but he did in Chicago, and then 1055 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,400 Speaker 1: he was down in Memphis because his wife was becoming 1056 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:08,000 Speaker 1: a doctor at ut HSC, and Brad became an administrator 1057 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 1: at Soulsville in South City charge school there and so 1058 00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: we're like getting Andres and Brad on board, and they 1059 00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 1: do come on board, and they start a boys team 1060 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 1: at Soulsville, and Andre starts a boys team at for 1061 00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:17,840 Speaker 1: Freedom Prep. 1062 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,719 Speaker 3: So all of a sudden, from nothing becomes not a 1063 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 3: team but a league. 1064 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:25,160 Speaker 1: Now we have four boys teams in this demographic under 1065 00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:28,719 Speaker 1: the realm of Memphis inner city rugby, under very talented 1066 00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:30,920 Speaker 1: coaches Brad and Andre's world class. 1067 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:33,680 Speaker 3: Uh. 1068 00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:34,760 Speaker 2: We had we had one. I remember. 1069 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 1: I remember Jaden Lingerfeldt was a shout out Jaden. He 1070 00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,480 Speaker 1: was on my team. He was a white white guy. 1071 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 1: And I think, and some on Kingsbury you're one. But 1072 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,359 Speaker 1: other than that, yeah, not not not really no, yeah, 1073 00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 1: one hundreds of minority with the exception of a few, 1074 00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:50,880 Speaker 1: but yeah, Brad and Andres. 1075 00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:51,360 Speaker 3: Uh. 1076 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,720 Speaker 1: And that's why, you know, I don't get too crazy 1077 00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 1: about thinking about how we started all this, but I 1078 00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:59,840 Speaker 1: do think Man Andres North Carolina, Brad Chicago, Devin new 1079 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,400 Speaker 1: or Me and New Jersey College at all different places 1080 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 1: teach for America randomly didn't know each other. 1081 00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 2: And then, oh, by the way, we all have. 1082 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,960 Speaker 1: A rugby background, which is already like a you know 1083 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,200 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, you know, here's. 1084 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:15,480 Speaker 3: The thing that I really want people to to not miss. 1085 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 3: You're not from Memphis, and neither are these. 1086 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:19,319 Speaker 1: Guys, none of them. 1087 00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 3: You don't know the power brokers, you don't know the administrators, 1088 00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 3: you don't know the people to help you with fields. 1089 00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,239 Speaker 3: You don't know the people to go ask for for 1090 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,239 Speaker 3: donations for resources. You don't know any of that. Here's 1091 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 3: what you know. You love rugby, you have a passion 1092 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:39,040 Speaker 3: for it in service and I have said one hundred 1093 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:43,800 Speaker 3: times the magic happens when a discipline and a passion 1094 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,799 Speaker 3: exists and it meets an opportunity when you have a 1095 00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 3: discipline or ability to do something, a passion for it, 1096 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,400 Speaker 3: and you see the opportunity to employ that discipline and 1097 00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:59,239 Speaker 3: passion and something that can make a difference. And if 1098 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,480 Speaker 3: we're talking about army of normal folks, have four guys 1099 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 3: from y'all didn't even know each other. You don't know 1100 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 3: anybody in town. And in the matter of two years, 1101 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,640 Speaker 3: you're not teaching a few kids rugby and spending time 1102 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 3: with them, you create a league. Yeah, in a city 1103 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 3: you know nobody. 1104 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:18,920 Speaker 1: And I want to emphasize that, you know, because this 1105 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 1: is one thing I'm really proud of. And I will 1106 00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,920 Speaker 1: always I will always bang the table emphasizing this because 1107 00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 1: you said it. But I like Brad Andres Devana. Yeah, 1108 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:30,000 Speaker 1: we didn't know anybody, but none of us come from 1109 00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,239 Speaker 1: a super you know, crazy you know. 1110 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 3: Economic fact background. 1111 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,000 Speaker 1: They were because a lot of people saw us saw 1112 00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,360 Speaker 1: us really take off. This was this was pretty successful 1113 00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,240 Speaker 1: from the start. You know, we had a lot of challenges. 1114 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 1: This was extremely difficult, but from the outside facing in 1115 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,359 Speaker 1: if you looked at our marketing, if you look at 1116 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,799 Speaker 1: our social media, we were successful early and then we 1117 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 1: had these teams and we were scaling, and then in 1118 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,760 Speaker 1: twenty fifteen we started Girls Rugby. And I think some folks, 1119 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,560 Speaker 1: even friends that I have from back home, thought that 1120 00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,680 Speaker 1: there was some shortcut, that there was some somebody's uncle 1121 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,480 Speaker 1: cut the check or some big institution bailed us out. 1122 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:04,400 Speaker 2: There was no shortcuts. 1123 00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,880 Speaker 1: We were going broke, paying out of our own teacher 1124 00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,319 Speaker 1: salary pockets, and Bill, I'm sure you're familiar with that, 1125 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: you know, when you when you were coaching Manasis to 1126 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,799 Speaker 1: fill gaps, to have needs, our crowdfunded campaign to raise 1127 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 1: two thousand bucks just to get a bus to go 1128 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,520 Speaker 1: to Murphysboro to play a game because we qualify for 1129 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:19,640 Speaker 1: state like all this stuff. 1130 00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 2: So no shortcuts, you're exactly right, no access. 1131 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,000 Speaker 1: So eleven years later, with some foundations locally funding us 1132 00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,040 Speaker 1: and different levels of support in the city embracing us, 1133 00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,960 Speaker 1: we are thankful for that and very proud that there 1134 00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:32,880 Speaker 1: was no foundation to start, you know. 1135 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:39,920 Speaker 3: The point is it was passion, discipline, and dedication, yeah, 1136 00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:45,080 Speaker 3: not money, organization and help and. 1137 00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,719 Speaker 1: Really special young young men and women who embraced us 1138 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,560 Speaker 1: and we're courageous enough to try something new. And they 1139 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,319 Speaker 1: are the trailblazers and pioneers who paved the way for 1140 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,480 Speaker 1: now thousands of others. 1141 00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 3: So I'm gonna I'm going to repeat some quotes and 1142 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:03,680 Speaker 3: then we're going to go in to the girls. Rugby 1143 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:05,759 Speaker 3: just kills me, and I want you to tell the 1144 00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 3: story of the first black rugby scholarship recipient, which I 1145 00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:17,040 Speaker 3: think is freaking phenomenal. That doesn't happen without what you've done. 1146 00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 3: But I'm going to interject a few of these for 1147 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 3: the manner of the time we talk a player. Memphis 1148 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 3: is top five in poverty, top five in crime. Things 1149 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 3: that could be prevented if kids had a place to 1150 00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:34,359 Speaker 3: go and people that loved them. He's not talking about 1151 00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:37,960 Speaker 3: a rugby ball, she's talking about love them. Rugby can 1152 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:41,240 Speaker 3: take kids off the street. I'm a witness because listen, 1153 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,680 Speaker 3: I'm not the richest guy in the world. I've had 1154 00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:46,800 Speaker 3: to work everything. I have reakyards, carry my lawnmower around. 1155 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,960 Speaker 3: Rugby taught me that you've got to be your own man. 1156 00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,600 Speaker 3: I didn't have a dad and I was being raised 1157 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:56,080 Speaker 3: by my grandmother. She was working, and so I was 1158 00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:58,680 Speaker 3: in the bad crowd. I did a lot that I regret. 1159 00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:03,560 Speaker 3: I've vangelized houses, I beat up people, gang affiliation. But 1160 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:07,640 Speaker 3: rugby changed all that. What does that make you feel 1161 00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:10,160 Speaker 3: when you hear that? That's a life changer, bro? 1162 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's amazing because you know, I know who that 1163 00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,240 Speaker 1: quote's from, you know, and that's. 1164 00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 3: Do you share it? Yeah? 1165 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:22,000 Speaker 1: So that's that's Calvin Gentry, who was on the first 1166 00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,759 Speaker 1: team that I coached. So when he was fourteen years 1167 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,120 Speaker 1: old as a freshman at Power Center Academy, he came 1168 00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 1: out to play and you know, I talked about the 1169 00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:30,440 Speaker 1: Kingsbury group. We didn't have a lot of explosive athletes 1170 00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:31,279 Speaker 1: that came out in the first group. 1171 00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:32,680 Speaker 3: Calvin Gentry was one. Huh. 1172 00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:34,920 Speaker 1: Calvin ended up playing pro rugby later in life, and 1173 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,400 Speaker 1: he got recruited to play at a top five rugby 1174 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,600 Speaker 1: school in the country. He's one of the most explosive 1175 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:40,600 Speaker 1: athletes I've ever met. 1176 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 2: In my life. 1177 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,239 Speaker 1: I knew that from the start when he came out, 1178 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:47,400 Speaker 1: but he was also that he is so special to 1179 00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,680 Speaker 1: me and the organization because I think without Calvin, there 1180 00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:54,320 Speaker 1: there's the Memphis inner city where he's totally different because 1181 00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,680 Speaker 1: he he challenged us in so many ways. Like when 1182 00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,920 Speaker 1: you talk about the services we provide now, trans rotation, nutrition, 1183 00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:05,280 Speaker 1: academic support, mental health, counseling, opportunities to you know, get recruited, 1184 00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:08,600 Speaker 1: we're doing our own combine. We're doing everything we possibly 1185 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,000 Speaker 1: can to give our kids access, support, love, but also 1186 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: a trajectory and an opportunity for upward mobility within the 1187 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:16,120 Speaker 1: sport in ial. 1188 00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,560 Speaker 3: I mean it's really not about. 1189 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:22,799 Speaker 1: Rugby, yeah, but falling backwards into those services was a 1190 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:26,080 Speaker 1: lot of Calvin, like the special kids, so talented and 1191 00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:28,800 Speaker 1: such a big heart, and you know. 1192 00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:32,400 Speaker 3: He readily admits he was a gang member. Yeah, hendlized houses, 1193 00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:33,359 Speaker 3: He beat people up. 1194 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,120 Speaker 1: And he and he was always getting kicked out of 1195 00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,320 Speaker 1: class and teachers had a really hard time with Calvin, 1196 00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:38,880 Speaker 1: and he was just such a ball of energy. So 1197 00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 1: rugby really helped him as an outlet, but he also 1198 00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,279 Speaker 1: always needed a ride home. You know, there were so 1199 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:46,239 Speaker 1: many resources that he lacked, and so what we were 1200 00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 1: trying to provide was a really great combination of things 1201 00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:53,680 Speaker 1: to help a person like Calvin, who who was difficult 1202 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:57,080 Speaker 1: to help because of the resources he lacked and the 1203 00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,560 Speaker 1: challenges he faced. And so it was like, it makes 1204 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:03,920 Speaker 1: me feel proud because and thankful and thankful because Calvin 1205 00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 1: did not receive the world class alumni support program that 1206 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 1: we now have codified, vetted in a budget that you know, 1207 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,919 Speaker 1: is prepared and it's designed and it is amazing, and 1208 00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,680 Speaker 1: and we don't we didn't have that for Calvin. 1209 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 2: We were just doing everything we could. 1210 00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,600 Speaker 1: And now because of what Calvin went through and the 1211 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:24,800 Speaker 1: sort of cross he bared, now kids get that because Calvin, 1212 00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:26,560 Speaker 1: you know, you're reading a quote from a film that 1213 00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:30,520 Speaker 1: was made very much about him, and that film helped 1214 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,840 Speaker 1: Memphis inter City raise money to then start girls teams 1215 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,759 Speaker 1: and to then offer a scholarship and to then you know, 1216 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,120 Speaker 1: conceive a world class alumni support program, most of which 1217 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,480 Speaker 1: he missed out on because he was already off to college. 1218 00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:45,920 Speaker 1: He was already off to his career. He's now a teacher, 1219 00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: and he's so he's so special to me. So I 1220 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:50,600 Speaker 1: could go on all day about Calvin, but. 1221 00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:52,520 Speaker 3: Well, now you busted the bubbles, so you might as 1222 00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:53,760 Speaker 3: well tell us about the film. 1223 00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:56,560 Speaker 1: Well, so, I think I think the one you read 1224 00:56:56,680 --> 00:57:00,440 Speaker 1: is from a YouTube. It's a film called The Rugby 1225 00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 1: Boys of Memphis, And if you go on Memphis in 1226 00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:04,839 Speaker 1: Her City Rugbyes YouTube channel, it's like seventeen minutes long 1227 00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 1: and it tells a story of like our boys team 1228 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:11,040 Speaker 1: journey to the twenty fourteen state championships and Calvin was 1229 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,520 Speaker 1: like a leader of that team, but then in twenty 1230 00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:17,520 Speaker 1: sixteen some bigger. Honestly, that documentary is something like I 1231 00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:18,960 Speaker 1: directed because I wanted to. 1232 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:20,840 Speaker 2: I just wanted. I thought this team would make. 1233 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 3: It a video yearbook as much as anything. 1234 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,360 Speaker 1: Well, but it really started. I remember going home for Thanksgiving, 1235 00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:28,160 Speaker 1: being in Florida. My team had already qualified for state 1236 00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:29,760 Speaker 1: and they were playing so good, and I thought it 1237 00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 1: was such a special thing. I was like, I got 1238 00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:32,560 Speaker 1: to get someone just to film the game so that 1239 00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,360 Speaker 1: these kids can get recruited for college. And me trying 1240 00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,120 Speaker 1: to find someone to recruit the games with no money 1241 00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,800 Speaker 1: and no resources, turned into this guy saying, why don't 1242 00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,000 Speaker 1: I just film me all for the whole weekend? And 1243 00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 1: that became that film called The Rugby Boys of Memphis, 1244 00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:47,360 Speaker 1: and then later on because of the notoriety of that story, 1245 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,360 Speaker 1: our marketing, our social media, a guy named David Dark 1246 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,480 Speaker 1: called me, who was like an Emmy or Grammy, which 1247 00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:53,560 Speaker 1: one's not music. 1248 00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,720 Speaker 3: Emmy, Grammy's Musicmmy, TV and movies. 1249 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 1: Sorry David if you're listening, But David Dark Emmy Award 1250 00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 1: winning filmmaker, humanitarian. I mean, this guy is a legend 1251 00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:07,280 Speaker 1: and you look him up. He's done some incredible things. 1252 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:09,240 Speaker 1: But he called me, he said, I saw this. You know, 1253 00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:11,439 Speaker 1: I grew up in England, I you know, played rugby 1254 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:12,680 Speaker 1: and I saw this is a really special story. Can 1255 00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 1: we talk about making a film that became a film 1256 00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,080 Speaker 1: that is available on Amazon Prime. I don't know if 1257 00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 1: it's live on there anymore, but it's twenty sixteen and 1258 00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:23,840 Speaker 1: eight centers around Calvin and so and I went that too. Okay, 1259 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,160 Speaker 1: So I got this wrong. That's called The Rugby Boys 1260 00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:28,520 Speaker 1: of Memphis. The one on YouTube is called The Power 1261 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:29,160 Speaker 1: of Rugby. 1262 00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 3: So sorry. So the Rugby Voice of Memphis I think 1263 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 3: was even like sponsored by Gatorade or something. 1264 00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:36,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Gatorade like kind of funded it and yeah got 1265 00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:37,240 Speaker 1: behind it. 1266 00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:42,040 Speaker 3: Okay, So let's recap. Yeah, first, year, a bunch of 1267 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 3: kids at Kingsbury who don't know what's going on, second 1268 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 3: year Power Academy, and five years later you've got Emmy 1269 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:56,680 Speaker 3: Award winning movie makers telling your story, all because four 1270 00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 3: guys from different points of the world who were with 1271 00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:05,480 Speaker 3: Teach for America with teacher salaries decide to invest. 1272 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, lean in, and uh not sleep a lot here. 1273 00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:17,120 Speaker 3: And that concludes Part one of my conversations with Shane Young, 1274 00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:21,120 Speaker 3: and Part two is now available and I promise you 1275 00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:23,760 Speaker 3: you won't want to miss it. 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