WEBVTT - #2 Second Date Update of 2025: Flirt and Observe

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Brick and Jeffrey Second Date Podcast. We

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<v Speaker 1>are officially at number two.

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<v Speaker 2>Second best second date?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this the best one?

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<v Speaker 4>Man?

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good point, but your number two second date.

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<v Speaker 5>You can tell how attractive you are by how close

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<v Speaker 5>strangers are willing to get to.

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<v Speaker 3>You meet someone.

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<v Speaker 2>For the first time and they're holding onto your hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is everyone always on the other side of the elevator?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't tell her, don't tell her the reason?

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<v Speaker 5>And one of our listeners says she experienced an intimate

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<v Speaker 5>moment with the guy that she'd never met before when

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<v Speaker 5>they were in a crowded coffee shop at the same time,

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<v Speaker 5>and it was definitely more than just some flirty eye contact.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it?

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<v Speaker 3>I won't tell you.

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<v Speaker 5>You have to hear it in your number two second

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<v Speaker 5>date update right now, Second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody always says, gosh, I wish I could.

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<v Speaker 5>Meet someone in real life, But really.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you actually want that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't really?

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds so scary. There's no block button in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't Google search the while they're standing right in front.

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<v Speaker 6>Of you, can't work with your friends, send a message.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, or forward the rest of your conversation to voicemail.

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<v Speaker 3>You're out there on an island all by yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be awesome if your friends were in the

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<v Speaker 2>other room, though, and you're like, what did you just say?

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on, I'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 7>Tell them.

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<v Speaker 5>You could ask Siri for like a flirty compliment to

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<v Speaker 5>get to them, but it is kind of awkward when

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<v Speaker 5>they're sitting right in front of you. So nobody knows

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<v Speaker 5>that better, like our listener Stacy, who, according to her email,

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<v Speaker 5>says she met a guy out in the real world.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it frightening, Stacy? Were you so scared?

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<v Speaker 8>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, thanks for being on the show with us today, Stacy.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell us about this guy you met.

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<v Speaker 9>Well, basically, I was going to get a coffee and

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<v Speaker 9>it was full.

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<v Speaker 7>And there was only one chair open.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, and when I went to sit in the chair,

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, it sounds like cliche, like I'm making.

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<v Speaker 8>It up, but it really happened, like this guy went

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<v Speaker 8>at the same time.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh and he was a hot guy.

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<v Speaker 8>Huh, very hot.

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<v Speaker 9>I thought my prayers had been answered. I thought the

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<v Speaker 9>universe heard me because I couldn't believe it. We were

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<v Speaker 9>both like, literally we decided to share the chair.

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<v Speaker 8>He was that cool. We were sitting.

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<v Speaker 1>You did sit on his last then? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying now?

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<v Speaker 8>We shared the chair next to each hips, next to

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<v Speaker 8>each other.

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<v Speaker 3>One chair.

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<v Speaker 7>That video was she cheek.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you discuss it or was a silent agreement?

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<v Speaker 1>Like how did you introduce yourself?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I don't know how it happened.

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<v Speaker 7>It just was so natural.

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<v Speaker 9>We started talking and then I just honestly wanted to

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<v Speaker 9>read my book, so I just pulled out my book

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<v Speaker 9>Catcher in the Rye And then he turned to me

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<v Speaker 9>and he said, I read that book. I love it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like we all read that in high school.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It was required reading. Yeah, have to do it in

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<v Speaker 3>order to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>I read it for fun, and.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think I read that.

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<v Speaker 3>One explains a lot about Brooke.

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<v Speaker 5>By the way, did you catch his name at any

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<v Speaker 5>point during this conversation.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, his name was Tyler Okay, and I bet he

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<v Speaker 8>was impressed with you.

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<v Speaker 4>You're reading like a literary classic instead of some like

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<v Speaker 4>smut romance, which is.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a muscular guy stand up jam. Is that something

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<v Speaker 3>that is a turn on to you out in the world.

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<v Speaker 5>If you see a woman reading like a really fancy book,

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<v Speaker 5>you're like, oh, yeah, hot after.

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<v Speaker 3>You said see a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sorry immediately, No, if a girl's reading a book,

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<v Speaker 2>that is good. You want a little bit of intellect, right, dumb,

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<v Speaker 2>so I need to hear it. Be a little smart

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<v Speaker 2>so we can balance each other.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, all right, So you guys are sitting there at

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<v Speaker 5>the coffee table, two butts, one chair, and what happens?

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<v Speaker 9>And then he suddenly he's like, hey, I have to

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<v Speaker 9>go for my workout.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he's telling you where he's going.

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<v Speaker 4>I always feel like that's kind of a I want

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<v Speaker 4>to see you again, or an invite or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like when I say I have to go to

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<v Speaker 3>the bathroom, that's like.

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<v Speaker 4>You.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, why would he tell a complete stranger where

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<v Speaker 1>he's going.

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<v Speaker 3>Why wouldn't he tell her where he's going? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>honestly have an appointment.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, he just said, hey, it was nice, meaning you

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<v Speaker 9>I have to head to my workout. I means he's

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<v Speaker 9>in shape but sexy.

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<v Speaker 6>I know.

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<v Speaker 4>But how did you get his phone number? Like it

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<v Speaker 4>sounds like that's the end, Like he doesn't you know more?

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<v Speaker 9>No, I said, oh wow, I no wonder you're in

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<v Speaker 9>such great shape.

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<v Speaker 7>I love to work out too.

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<v Speaker 9>And then he's invited me.

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<v Speaker 8>He said, really, you know.

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<v Speaker 9>I do power yoga and I said, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 9>not a lot of guys do that.

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<v Speaker 4>Soon it doesn't matter, Okay, So wait, so you went

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<v Speaker 4>to his workout with him?

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<v Speaker 10>Uh huh?

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<v Speaker 6>The spot to work out?

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<v Speaker 4>Don't you never go to a coffee shop without wearing

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<v Speaker 4>yoga pants?

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<v Speaker 5>Me?

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<v Speaker 9>No, I had him, No, I had him in my bag.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you guys are working out together. That seems a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit more intimate. How did that got's?

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<v Speaker 11>And it went great?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean it wasn't that intimate.

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<v Speaker 8>It was just a class, so I just jumped in.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did you guys get spots next to each other?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but we were just doing yoga.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you can't talk. But I love the bonding

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<v Speaker 6>when you bring a friend to make the contact Like

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<v Speaker 6>this post is hard, you know, like if you the.

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<v Speaker 5>Look they were, they were making out the whole class

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<v Speaker 5>across the room.

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<v Speaker 3>So's so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds so friendly. You know, when do we get

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<v Speaker 1>to the romance?

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<v Speaker 3>Is there a big romantic moment at the end of this?

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<v Speaker 9>Well, like I got a number and he took my number?

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<v Speaker 1>Was there a talk of a date?

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<v Speaker 3>His workout buddy.

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<v Speaker 9>Well, he talked about getting together again.

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<v Speaker 7>So.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe, but it could just be like to talk about

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<v Speaker 5>catchering the rye and like discuss plot points and stuff.

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<v Speaker 7>For Brooke.

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<v Speaker 3>That could be really sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 4>She did do it for fun as long as yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>as long as there's one involved.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So what's happened since you guys said goodbye to

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<v Speaker 5>each other?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, we basically texted.

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<v Speaker 9>I'd stay back and forth about three times and it

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<v Speaker 9>was going really good at the start, super easy texting

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<v Speaker 9>back and forth. Sounded like we were going towards setting

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<v Speaker 9>something up. And I haven't heard from him since.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, sometimes in your hands, like something else could

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<v Speaker 2>have happened in his life, and so what.

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<v Speaker 7>Do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we call him.

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<v Speaker 5>That was a smart move. We're going to try and

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<v Speaker 5>call this guy Tyler. We'll see if he picks up

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<v Speaker 5>the phone, and hopefully he has an answer for why

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<v Speaker 5>he's not setting up a second meet up for the

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<v Speaker 5>two of them.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not in the middle of power yoga, and we

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<v Speaker 2>are going to embarrass him.

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<v Speaker 1>He will bring it in the studio, are right pants? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, we'll do it right out this hold on second,

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<v Speaker 5>date update. What else do you need for a steamy

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<v Speaker 5>first date besides hot coffee, power yoga and Catcher in

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<v Speaker 5>the rye.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sweaty just thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, hardcover first edition? Oh you studious.

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<v Speaker 4>Stud Honestly, that would be worth so much money you

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<v Speaker 4>had that, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's the impromptu date that our listener Stacey went

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<v Speaker 5>on recently after randomly meeting a guy named Tyler at

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<v Speaker 5>a coffee shop. And even though they worked out together

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<v Speaker 5>and seemed to have a lot in common, there didn't

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<v Speaker 5>seem to be a ton of romantic chemistry happening. So,

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<v Speaker 5>like Jose was saying, it's possible that Tyler sees you

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<v Speaker 5>more as a workout study buddy, but we don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the whole reason that we're about to call him in.

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<v Speaker 4>And even if that's the case, then maybe we can

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<v Speaker 4>help turn his mind into a more romantic thing. I mean, sometimes,

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<v Speaker 4>especially with guys, they just don't see it unless it

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<v Speaker 4>like slaps him in the face.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, Brooke is ready to slap Tyler right across

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<v Speaker 5>the face till he sees the sexy side of stay.

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<v Speaker 1>And figuratively yeah, but physically too.

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<v Speaker 3>If it comes to Okay, Stacy, are you cool with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you condone that?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>I just really don't meet people in real life.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's a common sentiment, I mean romantically, right, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>You're probably most people.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, that's it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll bring that up to Tyler to that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't meet people like this every day, so he

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<v Speaker 5>shouldn't let it pass him by.

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<v Speaker 9>He really shouldn't let this pass him by.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a confidence we need Stacy going into this.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, first, let's see if he picks up, because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>downing his number right now.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, Hello, Hey is this Tyler?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, hey man?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, how you doing today? You're on a radio show

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<v Speaker 5>right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show, Tyler Mayn, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I'm on the radio right now. Yeah yeah, well yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Say hi to millions of people.

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<v Speaker 7>What is this about.

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<v Speaker 3>We wanted you to do.

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<v Speaker 5>All the shout outs for the day on the show,

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<v Speaker 5>so we'll get to that in a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out my second we have a.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, let's not do this then.

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<v Speaker 3>We have a great voice for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Before we get to that, we want to talk to

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<v Speaker 5>you a little bit about your dating life in.

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<v Speaker 3>A segment that we do called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh mine, Yeah, yeah, you've.

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<v Speaker 4>Been dating, right, Well, this isn't really a date meet

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<v Speaker 4>day like this may be because you know, you may

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<v Speaker 4>not categorize.

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<v Speaker 8>It that way.

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<v Speaker 5>We're not sure if you felt like it was a

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<v Speaker 5>romantic hangout. But you met a woman recently named Stacy

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<v Speaker 5>at a coffee shop.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yes, the girl with the book right, Yeah, yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>It that you shared a chair with.

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<v Speaker 5>So we heard about you guys like meeting up and

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<v Speaker 5>you had coffee, did a little workout afterwards.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, Yeah, I remember her?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I mean what did you think about her? She's cute.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, she's a beautiful girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Stacey told us that after you guys met up, you

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<v Speaker 5>were texting about possibly hanging out a second time, but

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<v Speaker 5>nothing happened. Right, She's just not sure where your head's at.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, And you want you want me to tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>On the air that it'd be a lot better than

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<v Speaker 3>off the air for the listening. Use the phone and

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<v Speaker 3>we're just gonna listen. Okay, I'm just kidding, And that's

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<v Speaker 3>okay with you, all right?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, uh yeah, there's a reason. Okay.

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<v Speaker 11>So we were texting back and forth and scheduling a

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<v Speaker 11>first real gate. Yea, she said that, and so I

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<v Speaker 11>would suggest thing we get together the following weekend and

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<v Speaker 11>she comes back with, yeah, that's great. I'm excited, but

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<v Speaker 11>we can't do Friday because it's your birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Does she mean her birthday? How would she know your birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it came up when you guys were talking at coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you mention that to her?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 11>I never did, and I was racking my brain to

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<v Speaker 11>see if I could figure out where she would have

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<v Speaker 11>learned my birthday.

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<v Speaker 7>The yoga studio would never say that.

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<v Speaker 5>But isn't that, like Alexis, isn't that normal if you

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<v Speaker 5>meet a guy that you like, you like immediately stalk

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<v Speaker 5>him online everywhere he did, just talk him on and.

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<v Speaker 6>You probably see some's birthday, but you don't mention it.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah Facebook?

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<v Speaker 4>Or are you sure you're not remember like misremembering that,

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<v Speaker 4>like maybe somehow you mentioned it in conversation.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 11>I mean, we didn't have a lot of deep talks.

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<v Speaker 11>That's why we're going to get together for other date.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, but she's not trying to date you on your birthday,

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<v Speaker 4>which is a good side, but just.

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<v Speaker 11>Her knowing when my birthday was kind of freaked me out,

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<v Speaker 11>so I just stopped responding to her.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, like, if you stalk a guy and you know, yes,

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<v Speaker 6>two brothers, you don't mention the brothers.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you think Alexis maybe did it on accident.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's possible, and we can find out because Tyler,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, this isn't going to be a great look

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<v Speaker 5>for her when I tell you this. But Stacy is

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<v Speaker 5>quietly listening on the other line to this conversation, waiting

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<v Speaker 5>for her chance to talk to you, not like a

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<v Speaker 5>stock man.

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<v Speaker 7>No, that's not creepy at all.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's just how the segment works.

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<v Speaker 1>That's our bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Stacy, are you there?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 8>I just want to say I missed your birthday, so

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<v Speaker 8>happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 6>Doubling down.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of funny. You mean that as a joke.

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<v Speaker 9>No, it's not a joke. I really did miss his birthday,

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<v Speaker 9>and say hi to little Buster for me your dog.

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<v Speaker 11>Wait, how do you How do you know my dog's name?

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<v Speaker 7>I never told you Buster's name.

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<v Speaker 8>I have a confession to make What.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you inside his house right now?

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<v Speaker 8>This whole meeting of ours was not an accident.

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<v Speaker 1>What what do you wait?

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<v Speaker 7>Explain what's going on right now?

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<v Speaker 9>I did run across your dating profile about a week ago,

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<v Speaker 9>and I saw the logo for the coffee shop behind.

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<v Speaker 8>You when you were seating, and I went to the

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<v Speaker 8>coffee shop and waited until I would run into you.

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<v Speaker 9>And I just hope that you can respect a girl

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<v Speaker 9>who does her homework.

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<v Speaker 3>That's more than homework.

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<v Speaker 11>Totally all makes sense now, Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>You lied to us too.

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<v Speaker 1>You said that it was like a chance in real

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<v Speaker 1>life meeting.

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<v Speaker 8>There was a chance that I would meet him.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't know what day he was going to be

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<v Speaker 3>in the coffee shop.

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<v Speaker 1>Ya, this is not normal behavior.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know what to say right now. I'm kind

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<v Speaker 7>of weirded out.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't blame you.

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you know his dog's name?

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<v Speaker 7>It wasn't on my dating profile.

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<v Speaker 1>That is nuts, Stacy.

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<v Speaker 6>You can't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't do that, and I did.

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<v Speaker 9>He gave me the information on the app, and I

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<v Speaker 9>put myself in a situation to run into him.

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<v Speaker 4>I trust nothing that you're saying right now, Like what

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<v Speaker 4>was the book. Were you actually reading that book?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean after I saw that he liked its kill it?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I feel totally do care.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't it the thought that counts behind the dude?

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<v Speaker 1>You stop it, you stub it.

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<v Speaker 4>If we wouldn't own this, we would have not called

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<v Speaker 4>for Stacy Tyler, a.

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<v Speaker 8>Woman who was going to call for me. He had

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<v Speaker 8>blocked me.

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<v Speaker 6>You didn't tell us that, And I'm sure you know

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<v Speaker 6>his best friend's names.

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<v Speaker 8>You guys are really funny.

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<v Speaker 9>I saw the guy on the dating profile, and I

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<v Speaker 9>just went the extra mile to meet him.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sweet, so innocent that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, the extra miles.

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<v Speaker 6>A long mile.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Stacy, you clearly still want to go out with

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<v Speaker 5>Tyler here, but.

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<v Speaker 7>Before you, I do.

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<v Speaker 9>But I have a problem with something I have to

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<v Speaker 9>clear up first.

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<v Speaker 3>You have a problem.

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<v Speaker 9>I noticed you paid someone named Trish three times last

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<v Speaker 9>week on a venmo and I hope you see the

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<v Speaker 9>dog walker.

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<v Speaker 3>But Venmo was kind of like public knowledge.

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<v Speaker 6>You could switch it to private. Switch.

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<v Speaker 11>I'm switching it's a private right now.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's not very nice.

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<v Speaker 8>It's it's not polite. I don't like that, Tyler.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that the creepiest thing she said.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's still a yes as far as I understood that.

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<v Speaker 1>From Stacy. From Stacy, are you actually going to ask Tyler?

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<v Speaker 5>It's kind to ask that position, Jeff Well, Tyler, we

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<v Speaker 5>would pay for your guys to meet up again.

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<v Speaker 3>If she's not already waiting for you and.

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<v Speaker 1>You're apartment, do check your closets. I'm not even lying seriously.

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<v Speaker 11>I think I'm gonna respectfully pass.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not see this, Stacy, You do understand that's

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<v Speaker 1>a no, right.

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<v Speaker 8>I maybe just have to work harder.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, this happening one day, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Whether if it's against our will or not, something's gonna happen,

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<v Speaker 3>Brookie Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>See, this is why we've always said you can't trust

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<v Speaker 5>anybody who reads a book in public.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, it's a literacy.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the problem.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a gateway activity, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 5>First you're reading Ernest Hemingway. Next thing you know, you're

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<v Speaker 5>reading a stranger's Venmo logue and monitoring who is sending

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<v Speaker 5>them money.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean reading The Enemy.

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<v Speaker 6>The guy in the TV show You owns a bookstore.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of people say that a lot of psychos

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<v Speaker 4>have come out of Catcher in the Rye.

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<v Speaker 5>Why do I feel like this isn't gonna be the

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<v Speaker 5>last time that we hear from this Stacy lady, though.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like yeah too much, Yeah too much.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we're gonna we're gonna hear from her again

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<v Speaker 5>during a laser story where she's being featured in it.

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<v Speaker 5>But didn't work out this time, probably for the best.

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<v Speaker 5>But if you want some help with your dating life,

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<v Speaker 5>you can email the show. We'll call that person who's

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<v Speaker 5>not calling you back. Go check out all of our

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<v Speaker 5>second dates wherever you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 3>They're up at Brooke and Jeffrey