Speaker 1: Welcome to the Brick and Jeffrey Second Date Podcast. We
Speaker 1: are officially at number two.
Speaker 2: Second best second date?
Speaker 3: Is this the best one?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 3: That's a good point, but your number two second date.
Speaker 5: You can tell how attractive you are by how close
Speaker 5: strangers are willing to get to.
Speaker 3: You meet someone.
Speaker 2: For the first time and they're holding onto your hand.
Speaker 1: Why is everyone always on the other side of the elevator?
Speaker 3: Don't tell her, don't tell her the reason?
Speaker 5: And one of our listeners says she experienced an intimate
Speaker 5: moment with the guy that she'd never met before when
Speaker 5: they were in a crowded coffee shop at the same time,
Speaker 5: and it was definitely more than just some flirty eye contact.
Speaker 1: What is it?
Speaker 3: I won't tell you.
Speaker 5: You have to hear it in your number two second
Speaker 5: date update right now, Second date update.
Speaker 3: Everybody always says, gosh, I wish I could.
Speaker 5: Meet someone in real life, But really.
Speaker 3: Do you actually want that?
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't really?
Speaker 3: It sounds so scary. There's no block button in real life.
Speaker 1: You can't Google search the while they're standing right in front.
Speaker 6: Of you, can't work with your friends, send a message.
Speaker 5: Yeah, or forward the rest of your conversation to voicemail.
Speaker 3: You're out there on an island all by yourself.
Speaker 2: That would be awesome if your friends were in the
Speaker 2: other room, though, and you're like, what did you just say?
Speaker 3: Hold on, I'll be right back.
Speaker 7: Tell them.
Speaker 5: You could ask Siri for like a flirty compliment to
Speaker 5: get to them, but it is kind of awkward when
Speaker 5: they're sitting right in front of you. So nobody knows
Speaker 5: that better, like our listener Stacy, who, according to her email,
Speaker 5: says she met a guy out in the real world.
Speaker 1: Was it frightening, Stacy? Were you so scared?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, thanks for being on the show with us today, Stacy.
Speaker 3: Tell us about this guy you met.
Speaker 9: Well, basically, I was going to get a coffee and
Speaker 9: it was full.
Speaker 7: And there was only one chair open.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and when I went to sit in the chair,
Speaker 9: I mean, it sounds like cliche, like I'm making.
Speaker 8: It up, but it really happened, like this guy went
Speaker 8: at the same time.
Speaker 4: Oh and he was a hot guy.
Speaker 8: Huh, very hot.
Speaker 9: I thought my prayers had been answered. I thought the
Speaker 9: universe heard me because I couldn't believe it. We were
Speaker 9: both like, literally we decided to share the chair.
Speaker 8: He was that cool. We were sitting.
Speaker 1: You did sit on his last then? Is that what
Speaker 1: you're saying now?
Speaker 8: We shared the chair next to each hips, next to
Speaker 8: each other.
Speaker 3: One chair.
Speaker 7: That video was she cheek.
Speaker 4: Did you discuss it or was a silent agreement?
Speaker 1: Like how did you introduce yourself?
Speaker 8: Well, I don't know how it happened.
Speaker 7: It just was so natural.
Speaker 9: We started talking and then I just honestly wanted to
Speaker 9: read my book, so I just pulled out my book
Speaker 9: Catcher in the Rye And then he turned to me
Speaker 9: and he said, I read that book. I love it. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I feel like we all read that in high school.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was required reading. Yeah, have to do it in
Speaker 3: order to pass.
Speaker 1: I read it for fun, and.
Speaker 6: I don't think I read that.
Speaker 3: One explains a lot about Brooke.
Speaker 5: By the way, did you catch his name at any
Speaker 5: point during this conversation.
Speaker 8: Yes, his name was Tyler Okay, and I bet he
Speaker 8: was impressed with you.
Speaker 4: You're reading like a literary classic instead of some like
Speaker 4: smut romance, which is.
Speaker 3: Like a muscular guy stand up jam. Is that something
Speaker 3: that is a turn on to you out in the world.
Speaker 5: If you see a woman reading like a really fancy book,
Speaker 5: you're like, oh, yeah, hot after.
Speaker 3: You said see a woman.
Speaker 2: Oh sorry immediately, No, if a girl's reading a book,
Speaker 2: that is good. You want a little bit of intellect, right, dumb,
Speaker 2: so I need to hear it. Be a little smart
Speaker 2: so we can balance each other.
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, So you guys are sitting there at
Speaker 5: the coffee table, two butts, one chair, and what happens?
Speaker 9: And then he suddenly he's like, hey, I have to
Speaker 9: go for my workout.
Speaker 1: Oh he's telling you where he's going.
Speaker 4: I always feel like that's kind of a I want
Speaker 4: to see you again, or an invite or something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like when I say I have to go to
Speaker 3: the bathroom, that's like.
Speaker 4: You.
Speaker 1: I mean, why would he tell a complete stranger where
Speaker 1: he's going.
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't he tell her where he's going? Yeah, I
Speaker 3: honestly have an appointment.
Speaker 9: Yeah, he just said, hey, it was nice, meaning you
Speaker 9: I have to head to my workout. I means he's
Speaker 9: in shape but sexy.
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 4: But how did you get his phone number? Like it
Speaker 4: sounds like that's the end, Like he doesn't you know more?
Speaker 9: No, I said, oh wow, I no wonder you're in
Speaker 9: such great shape.
Speaker 7: I love to work out too.
Speaker 9: And then he's invited me.
Speaker 8: He said, really, you know.
Speaker 9: I do power yoga and I said, oh my gosh,
Speaker 9: not a lot of guys do that.
Speaker 4: Soon it doesn't matter, Okay, So wait, so you went
Speaker 4: to his workout with him?
Speaker 10: Uh huh?
Speaker 6: The spot to work out?
Speaker 4: Don't you never go to a coffee shop without wearing
Speaker 4: yoga pants?
Speaker 5: Me?
Speaker 9: No, I had him, No, I had him in my bag.
Speaker 5: Okay, you guys are working out together. That seems a
Speaker 5: little bit more intimate. How did that got's?
Speaker 11: And it went great?
Speaker 9: I mean it wasn't that intimate.
Speaker 8: It was just a class, so I just jumped in.
Speaker 1: Okay, did you guys get spots next to each other?
Speaker 7: Yeah, but we were just doing yoga.
Speaker 6: I mean, you can't talk. But I love the bonding
Speaker 6: when you bring a friend to make the contact Like
Speaker 6: this post is hard, you know, like if you the.
Speaker 5: Look they were, they were making out the whole class
Speaker 5: across the room.
Speaker 3: So's so fun.
Speaker 1: That sounds so friendly. You know, when do we get
Speaker 1: to the romance?
Speaker 3: Is there a big romantic moment at the end of this?
Speaker 9: Well, like I got a number and he took my number?
Speaker 1: Was there a talk of a date?
Speaker 3: His workout buddy.
Speaker 9: Well, he talked about getting together again.
Speaker 7: So.
Speaker 5: Maybe, but it could just be like to talk about
Speaker 5: catchering the rye and like discuss plot points and stuff.
Speaker 7: For Brooke.
Speaker 3: That could be really sexy.
Speaker 1: I enjoy it.
Speaker 4: She did do it for fun as long as yeah,
Speaker 4: as long as there's one involved.
Speaker 5: Okay, So what's happened since you guys said goodbye to
Speaker 5: each other?
Speaker 8: Well, we basically texted.
Speaker 9: I'd stay back and forth about three times and it
Speaker 9: was going really good at the start, super easy texting
Speaker 9: back and forth. Sounded like we were going towards setting
Speaker 9: something up. And I haven't heard from him since.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, sometimes in your hands, like something else could
Speaker 2: have happened in his life, and so what.
Speaker 7: Do I do?
Speaker 1: Well, we call him.
Speaker 5: That was a smart move. We're going to try and
Speaker 5: call this guy Tyler. We'll see if he picks up
Speaker 5: the phone, and hopefully he has an answer for why
Speaker 5: he's not setting up a second meet up for the
Speaker 5: two of them.
Speaker 2: He's not in the middle of power yoga, and we
Speaker 2: are going to embarrass him.
Speaker 1: He will bring it in the studio, are right pants? Okay?
Speaker 5: All right, we'll do it right out this hold on second,
Speaker 5: date update. What else do you need for a steamy
Speaker 5: first date besides hot coffee, power yoga and Catcher in
Speaker 5: the rye.
Speaker 1: I'm sweaty just thinking about it.
Speaker 3: Oh, hardcover first edition? Oh you studious.
Speaker 4: Stud Honestly, that would be worth so much money you
Speaker 4: had that, Oh my god.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And that's the impromptu date that our listener Stacey went
Speaker 5: on recently after randomly meeting a guy named Tyler at
Speaker 5: a coffee shop. And even though they worked out together
Speaker 5: and seemed to have a lot in common, there didn't
Speaker 5: seem to be a ton of romantic chemistry happening. So,
Speaker 5: like Jose was saying, it's possible that Tyler sees you
Speaker 5: more as a workout study buddy, but we don't know.
Speaker 5: That's the whole reason that we're about to call him in.
Speaker 4: And even if that's the case, then maybe we can
Speaker 4: help turn his mind into a more romantic thing. I mean, sometimes,
Speaker 4: especially with guys, they just don't see it unless it
Speaker 4: like slaps him in the face.
Speaker 5: You know, Brooke is ready to slap Tyler right across
Speaker 5: the face till he sees the sexy side of stay.
Speaker 1: And figuratively yeah, but physically too.
Speaker 3: If it comes to Okay, Stacy, are you cool with that?
Speaker 3: Do you condone that?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I just really don't meet people in real life.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's a common sentiment, I mean romantically, right, I mean.
Speaker 3: You're probably most people.
Speaker 11: Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 5: I'll bring that up to Tyler to that's a good point.
Speaker 5: You don't meet people like this every day, so he
Speaker 5: shouldn't let it pass him by.
Speaker 9: He really shouldn't let this pass him by.
Speaker 1: That's a confidence we need Stacy going into this.
Speaker 5: Okay, first, let's see if he picks up, because I'm
Speaker 5: downing his number right now.
Speaker 10: Okay, Hello, Hey is this Tyler?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 7: Yes, hey man?
Speaker 5: Uh, how you doing today? You're on a radio show
Speaker 5: right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, Tyler Mayn, Good morning.
Speaker 7: Okay, I'm on the radio right now. Yeah yeah, well yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: Say hi to millions of people.
Speaker 7: What is this about.
Speaker 3: We wanted you to do.
Speaker 5: All the shout outs for the day on the show,
Speaker 5: so we'll get to that in a second.
Speaker 3: Shout out my second we have a.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let's not do this then.
Speaker 3: We have a great voice for it.
Speaker 5: Before we get to that, we want to talk to
Speaker 5: you a little bit about your dating life in.
Speaker 3: A segment that we do called second Date Update.
Speaker 7: Uh mine, Yeah, yeah, you've.
Speaker 4: Been dating, right, Well, this isn't really a date meet
Speaker 4: day like this may be because you know, you may
Speaker 4: not categorize.
Speaker 8: It that way.
Speaker 5: We're not sure if you felt like it was a
Speaker 5: romantic hangout. But you met a woman recently named Stacy
Speaker 5: at a coffee shop.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yes, the girl with the book right, Yeah, yeah, that's.
Speaker 1: It that you shared a chair with.
Speaker 5: So we heard about you guys like meeting up and
Speaker 5: you had coffee, did a little workout afterwards.
Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, I remember her?
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean what did you think about her? She's cute.
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's a beautiful girl.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay.
Speaker 5: Stacey told us that after you guys met up, you
Speaker 5: were texting about possibly hanging out a second time, but
Speaker 5: nothing happened. Right, She's just not sure where your head's at.
Speaker 7: Okay, And you want you want me to tell you.
Speaker 3: On the air that it'd be a lot better than
Speaker 3: off the air for the listening. Use the phone and
Speaker 3: we're just gonna listen. Okay, I'm just kidding, And that's
Speaker 3: okay with you, all right?
Speaker 7: Well, uh yeah, there's a reason. Okay.
Speaker 11: So we were texting back and forth and scheduling a
Speaker 11: first real gate. Yea, she said that, and so I
Speaker 11: would suggest thing we get together the following weekend and
Speaker 11: she comes back with, yeah, that's great. I'm excited, but
Speaker 11: we can't do Friday because it's your birthday.
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: Does she mean her birthday? How would she know your birthday?
Speaker 1: Maybe it came up when you guys were talking at coffee.
Speaker 3: Did you mention that to her?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 11: I never did, and I was racking my brain to
Speaker 11: see if I could figure out where she would have
Speaker 11: learned my birthday.
Speaker 7: The yoga studio would never say that.
Speaker 5: But isn't that, like Alexis, isn't that normal if you
Speaker 5: meet a guy that you like, you like immediately stalk
Speaker 5: him online everywhere he did, just talk him on and.
Speaker 6: You probably see some's birthday, but you don't mention it.
Speaker 7: Yeah Facebook?
Speaker 4: Or are you sure you're not remember like misremembering that,
Speaker 4: like maybe somehow you mentioned it in conversation.
Speaker 7: I don't think so.
Speaker 11: I mean, we didn't have a lot of deep talks.
Speaker 11: That's why we're going to get together for other date.
Speaker 4: Well, but she's not trying to date you on your birthday,
Speaker 4: which is a good side, but just.
Speaker 11: Her knowing when my birthday was kind of freaked me out,
Speaker 11: so I just stopped responding to her.
Speaker 6: I mean, like, if you stalk a guy and you know, yes,
Speaker 6: two brothers, you don't mention the brothers.
Speaker 1: You know you think Alexis maybe did it on accident.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's possible, and we can find out because Tyler,
Speaker 5: I mean, this isn't going to be a great look
Speaker 5: for her when I tell you this. But Stacy is
Speaker 5: quietly listening on the other line to this conversation, waiting
Speaker 5: for her chance to talk to you, not like a
Speaker 5: stock man.
Speaker 7: No, that's not creepy at all.
Speaker 3: It's just it's just how the segment works.
Speaker 1: That's our bad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Stacy, are you there?
Speaker 1: Oh god?
Speaker 3: Oh okay.
Speaker 8: I just want to say I missed your birthday, so
Speaker 8: happy birthday.
Speaker 6: Doubling down.
Speaker 1: That's kind of funny. You mean that as a joke.
Speaker 9: No, it's not a joke. I really did miss his birthday,
Speaker 9: and say hi to little Buster for me your dog.
Speaker 11: Wait, how do you How do you know my dog's name?
Speaker 7: I never told you Buster's name.
Speaker 8: I have a confession to make What.
Speaker 1: Are you inside his house right now?
Speaker 8: This whole meeting of ours was not an accident.
Speaker 1: What what do you wait?
Speaker 7: Explain what's going on right now?
Speaker 9: I did run across your dating profile about a week ago,
Speaker 9: and I saw the logo for the coffee shop behind.
Speaker 8: You when you were seating, and I went to the
Speaker 8: coffee shop and waited until I would run into you.
Speaker 9: And I just hope that you can respect a girl
Speaker 9: who does her homework.
Speaker 3: That's more than homework.
Speaker 11: Totally all makes sense now, Okay.
Speaker 6: You lied to us too.
Speaker 1: You said that it was like a chance in real
Speaker 1: life meeting.
Speaker 8: There was a chance that I would meet him.
Speaker 3: She didn't know what day he was going to be
Speaker 3: in the coffee shop.
Speaker 1: Ya, this is not normal behavior.
Speaker 7: I don't know what to say right now. I'm kind
Speaker 7: of weirded out.
Speaker 6: I don't blame you.
Speaker 1: And how do you know his dog's name?
Speaker 7: It wasn't on my dating profile.
Speaker 1: That is nuts, Stacy.
Speaker 6: You can't do that.
Speaker 3: I can't do that, and I did.
Speaker 9: He gave me the information on the app, and I
Speaker 9: put myself in a situation to run into him.
Speaker 4: I trust nothing that you're saying right now, Like what
Speaker 4: was the book. Were you actually reading that book?
Speaker 7: Yes?
Speaker 9: I mean after I saw that he liked its kill it?
Speaker 7: Okay, I feel totally do care.
Speaker 3: Isn't it the thought that counts behind the dude?
Speaker 1: You stop it, you stub it.
Speaker 4: If we wouldn't own this, we would have not called
Speaker 4: for Stacy Tyler, a.
Speaker 8: Woman who was going to call for me. He had
Speaker 8: blocked me.
Speaker 6: You didn't tell us that, And I'm sure you know
Speaker 6: his best friend's names.
Speaker 8: You guys are really funny.
Speaker 9: I saw the guy on the dating profile, and I
Speaker 9: just went the extra mile to meet him.
Speaker 1: It's sweet, so innocent that way.
Speaker 2: Okay, the extra miles.
Speaker 6: A long mile.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Stacy, you clearly still want to go out with
Speaker 5: Tyler here, but.
Speaker 7: Before you, I do.
Speaker 9: But I have a problem with something I have to
Speaker 9: clear up first.
Speaker 3: You have a problem.
Speaker 9: I noticed you paid someone named Trish three times last
Speaker 9: week on a venmo and I hope you see the
Speaker 9: dog walker.
Speaker 3: But Venmo was kind of like public knowledge.
Speaker 6: You could switch it to private. Switch.
Speaker 11: I'm switching it's a private right now.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 4: That's that's not very nice.
Speaker 8: It's it's not polite. I don't like that, Tyler.
Speaker 1: Why is that the creepiest thing she said.
Speaker 3: But it's still a yes as far as I understood that.
Speaker 1: From Stacy. From Stacy, are you actually going to ask Tyler?
Speaker 5: It's kind to ask that position, Jeff Well, Tyler, we
Speaker 5: would pay for your guys to meet up again.
Speaker 3: If she's not already waiting for you and.
Speaker 1: You're apartment, do check your closets. I'm not even lying seriously.
Speaker 11: I think I'm gonna respectfully pass.
Speaker 1: I did not see this, Stacy, You do understand that's
Speaker 1: a no, right.
Speaker 8: I maybe just have to work harder.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, this happening one day, guys.
Speaker 3: Whether if it's against our will or not, something's gonna happen,
Speaker 3: Brookie Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: See, this is why we've always said you can't trust
Speaker 5: anybody who reads a book in public.
Speaker 6: Yes, it's a literacy.
Speaker 1: That was the problem.
Speaker 3: It's a gateway activity, Brooke.
Speaker 5: First you're reading Ernest Hemingway. Next thing you know, you're
Speaker 5: reading a stranger's Venmo logue and monitoring who is sending
Speaker 5: them money.
Speaker 3: I mean reading The Enemy.
Speaker 6: The guy in the TV show You owns a bookstore.
Speaker 4: A lot of people say that a lot of psychos
Speaker 4: have come out of Catcher in the Rye.
Speaker 5: Why do I feel like this isn't gonna be the
Speaker 5: last time that we hear from this Stacy lady, though.
Speaker 1: She was like yeah too much, Yeah too much.
Speaker 5: I think we're gonna we're gonna hear from her again
Speaker 5: during a laser story where she's being featured in it.
Speaker 5: But didn't work out this time, probably for the best.
Speaker 5: But if you want some help with your dating life,
Speaker 5: you can email the show. We'll call that person who's
Speaker 5: not calling you back. Go check out all of our
Speaker 5: second dates wherever you get your podcasts.
Speaker 3: They're up at Brooke and Jeffrey