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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Dakota and this is Riley, your favorite

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend told me that snacking on mozzarella cheese balls

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Speaker 2: might be a deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: Because you should snack all my bows.

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Speaker 2: So the preface I twenty four female, Amma cheese lover.

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Speaker 2: I absolutely a doll cheese and it's my.

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Speaker 3: Favorite snack as you should queen me dairy queen.

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Speaker 2: My number one cheese has gotta be mozzarella, a fresh

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Speaker 2: little battle of mozzarella, specifically ball shape mozzarella. Ooh like

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Speaker 2: then yeah, oh I love those.

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Speaker 3: I literally have some in my fridge right now. It's

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Speaker 3: so good.

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Speaker 2: The texture and flavor are so good, especially with a

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Speaker 2: little salt sprinkled.

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Speaker 4: Ooh.

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Speaker 3: I buy those Belgio bel belioyoso.

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Speaker 1: I see Italian bags.

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Speaker 2: Of monzre labos, and they have been my snack of

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Speaker 2: choice so I was a freshman in college.

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Speaker 3: They're easy and convenient to keep in my mini fridge

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Speaker 3: for cheap an easy bite.

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Speaker 2: I agree that this comes from throwing mana MutS and

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Speaker 2: if you want to make your own stories, go that

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Speaker 2: our slash Okay, storytime suppered it.

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Speaker 3: I'm Sofia.

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Speaker 1: I'm Riley and crawling in my skin right now, and.

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Speaker 3: I'm Savannah and we're here to get good atf I schooflee.

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Speaker 5: But we don't have all the answers.

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Speaker 3: We really know what we do, so let us know

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Speaker 3: what you would do in the comments.

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Speaker 4: And Opie continues. My boyfriend twenty five mail and I

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Speaker 4: have been dating.

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Speaker 2: For three years now, and the cheeseballs are just now

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Speaker 2: a deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: Look, I could see him.

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Speaker 2: I've got cheese sticks in my fridge right now that

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Speaker 2: I forgot about it until right.

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Speaker 1: Now, and I really want to eat one. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: two very different things. Cheese sticks amazing great now the

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Speaker 1: mozzerlla cheeseballs, the ones that are a little slimy, the

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Speaker 1: ones where you have to go get all of that

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Speaker 1: stuff out of it. I'm gagging. I'm gagging. I can't.

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Speaker 1: That just like makes me want to when you.

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Speaker 2: Get a fresh ball at cheese when you're making a

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Speaker 2: pizza and you just snack on the mozzarella.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm on the boyfriend's side here. I could see

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Speaker 1: where this is happening, but I'd like to hear more.

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Speaker 3: And we recently moved in together.

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Speaker 1: Key key mm mmm hmm.

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Speaker 2: That's when all it comes out. He's known about my

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Speaker 2: love for cheese since our first state. He took me

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Speaker 2: to a restaurant and we ordered like three charcuterie boards.

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Speaker 2: Will I don't think he knew what he was getting

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Speaker 2: into with my snacking, and he probably didn't expect to

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Speaker 2: see me eat mozzarella balls on the daily. I mean, like,

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Speaker 2: what's wrong with that? I thought he was fine with it,

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Speaker 2: but now he's making an issue out of it, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I should stop. His specific issue

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Speaker 2: is the shape of the cheese.

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with the shape of the cheese.

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Speaker 2: He tells me that seeing me eat, you know, ball

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Speaker 2: shaped cheese makes him uncomfortable. He says that it's elude

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Speaker 2: and I quote. Seeing me pop a wet cheese ball

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Speaker 2: man's balls in my mouth.

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Speaker 1: And it's making me feel small.

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Speaker 2: In your mouth, man, imagine imagine getting jealous over a

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Speaker 2: ball of cheese.

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Speaker 3: Are you not allowed to eat bananas anymore?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's play this game. You can't eat roast

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Speaker 1: beef anymore. He can't, I agreed, he can't. No, unacceptable? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: these are crazy? What else can he not eat?

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Speaker 3: I don't want him to eat anything around me. I

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Speaker 3: don't like him.

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Speaker 1: You can't be licking on ice cream anymore, buddy, buddy pow.

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Speaker 3: You know what? Actually? Yeah, that one I'm on board with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you've been on board with all these so far. Sandwiches.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: No, Oreo cookies off the wazoo.

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Speaker 3: Wait why did they resemble? Do you guys ever like,

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Speaker 3: suck on it and go suck on what?

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Speaker 1: You are a free oies?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 4: No, the Oreo cookies You've never put your whole mouth

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Speaker 4: on it and go boot and then the whole white

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know what you're doing.

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Speaker 2: I was really confused, and I told them that I

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Speaker 2: don't think this is that big of a deal and

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Speaker 2: that it's literally cheese. But he told me the imagery

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Speaker 1: Also, no tacos, thank you, Toria, Bu'm going.

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Speaker 2: I thought we could work through this, but after a

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Speaker 2: while he said it might be a deal breaker if

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Speaker 2: I don't stop. Afterwards, he left for work, and honestly,

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Speaker 2: I might be done, because if he says that you

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Speaker 2: can't have cheese because it makes him think that you're

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Speaker 2: doing stuff with another guy, then he's gone, You'll you'll

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Speaker 2: never take away cheese from me.

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Speaker 1: Here's the real problem. I'm just gonna call it cornography.

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Speaker 1: He's been watching it so much, salized his mind so

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Speaker 1: much that he can't look at his girlfriend eating a simple.

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Speaker 3: Food honestly and making it honestly.

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Speaker 4: And that's on Honestly, he's watching a ball mudgeongraphy.

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Speaker 3: Trying the argument.

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Speaker 2: He said he doesn't care if I eat mozzarella cheese,

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Speaker 2: but he just wants me to eat it string or shredded.

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Speaker 1: That's in the form of a peanutor that's still in

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Speaker 1: a peanoor shape. You're gonna get jealous of that too.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say right now, not the same.

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Speaker 2: I love string cheese as next as the next. Wait,

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Speaker 2: I love string cheese as much as the next woman. However,

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Speaker 2: nothing can replace a juicy little mazzarella bo It's true,

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Speaker 2: that's what I would say.

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Speaker 1: The problem is I would walk away from a relayship

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Speaker 1: if Angie was like slurping the last little nimbles of

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Speaker 1: look that is do that in another room.

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Speaker 4: I think it depends how she's eating them, if it's

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Speaker 3: Is she just going? Is that what she's doing? Because

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Speaker 3: that's normal.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm thinking of dudes balls being in her mouth

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Speaker 1: and I can't do this anymore. I'm out.

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Speaker 2: I know this is so high maintenance of me, but

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Speaker 2: mozzarella balls are just my favorite snack.

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Speaker 3: It's not a high maintenance. It is the texture, the taste.

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Speaker 3: It's just so good, the texture. I want cheese, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Gordon Ramsey, I.

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Speaker 2: Like shredded cheese and string cheese, but they just start

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Speaker 2: the same Magrie. I'm thinking I should maybe buy the

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Speaker 2: smaller mozzarella balls that mild O yo soceells and hope

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Speaker 2: they won't bother him. But if I feed into this,

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Speaker 2: could it reinforce this mindset he has. I don't know

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Speaker 2: this feels really controlling and unnecessary. Not to mention, I

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Speaker 2: don't really want to give up on my favorite snack.

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Speaker 2: He's a great guy, and I know this post isn't

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Speaker 2: doing him Justice. But I just want to know if

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Speaker 2: this is a red flag from him or if putting

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Speaker 2: my foot down on this is reasonable. Mag All red flag,

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Speaker 2: big all, raise that red flag, Raise it high and

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Speaker 2: mighty red flag. Butop continues. I'm hoping to get some

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Speaker 2: insight from people who don't know us personally, because this

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Speaker 2: is really embarrassing for me. Thank you in advance to

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Speaker 2: anyone who reads this and offers me some advice.

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Speaker 1: Before we can continue onto the updates. So yes, I

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Speaker 1: need to know everyone's top three cheeses. That's it, just

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Speaker 1: top three and then we can move on.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, okay, go.

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Speaker 2: Top three, not in order, because I honestly I don't

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Speaker 2: know how I could order them. Bree Classic, Honestly, I

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Speaker 2: think Mozcarilla might be up there.

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Speaker 3: I'm kidding you them.

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Speaker 2: And also there's the wine cheese. It's like this purple

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Speaker 2: rined wine cheese from Trader does top three?

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Speaker 3: Mine would be Monster. I love a monster cheese. I

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Speaker 3: also love a Fontina Fontina cheese very good.

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Speaker 4: And then I would also probably say like either like

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Speaker 4: a mozzarella or a provolone.

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Speaker 3: I love both of those.

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Speaker 1: So Adam Guda and pepper Jack.

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Speaker 4: There's actually another cheese that I'm forgetting the name of,

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Speaker 4: but I always put it on salads.

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Speaker 3: No update if.

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Speaker 1: Oh pee, you gotta put your line in the sand

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Speaker 1: here favorite saying this week. If you give in to

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Speaker 1: this pervy man and you can't suck on your mozzarella

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Speaker 1: balls anymore, you've lost the battle. And then what about

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Speaker 1: thenother food?

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Speaker 3: All ames?

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Speaker 1: Are you start eating too many bananas?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. He's gonna take away bananas next.

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Speaker 1: Whats when you start start eating beef jerky on a stick?

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Speaker 1: What not going to like that? He doesn't like you

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Speaker 1: buying it because it makes you makes him think that

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Speaker 3: You can't have drumsticks anymore like ice cream.

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Speaker 1: Drumsticks can't have a popsicle.

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Speaker 3: I haven't had drumsticks in a while. I like the

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Speaker 3: mini ones me too. From Trigger Joe's update.

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Speaker 2: The morning after I posted, me and my boyfriend talked

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Speaker 2: about this entire issue, and he ended up explaining why

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Speaker 2: his mind immediately went to a place of schmecktualizing something

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Speaker 2: that has no implications.

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Speaker 1: Because he watched this too much corn.

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Speaker 3: I think that's it.

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Speaker 2: I left this out of my original post because it

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Speaker 2: felt unrelated. Oh though in hindsight it was obvious there

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Speaker 2: was an issue with infidelity in his previous relationship.

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Speaker 3: He was insecure.

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Speaker 1: We go to therapy about that stuff.

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Speaker 3: That's not hope. He's problem. Don't take away mozzarella balls.

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Speaker 1: So he's insecure about cheese. Go lay on a couch

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Speaker 1: and talk to a therapist about how you think your

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Speaker 1: girlfriend's cheating on you because your last girlfriend did and

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Speaker 1: it's with the former mozzarella balls. Talk that through.

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Speaker 2: I don't know the details of what happened and never

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Speaker 2: tried to bring it up because I don't want to

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Speaker 2: upset him. That was my mistake, though, because he's still

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Speaker 2: struggling with insecurities and felt unsure if he could tell

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Speaker 2: me about him.

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Speaker 1: No, that is not on you. That is yeah, as

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Speaker 1: a man, he has to talk to you about that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not on you at all.

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Speaker 1: He should have banned foods, right, She's like, you can't

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Speaker 1: eat this list? Come on.

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Speaker 2: Both of us were lacking and communication skills, but we

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Speaker 2: ended up clearing the air and I found out both

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Speaker 2: why his last relationship ended and why seeing me eat

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Speaker 2: cheeseballs upset him. All I knew previously was that he

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Speaker 2: had a serious relationship with his ex girlfriend and they

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Speaker 3: Now he let me know that he.

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Speaker 2: Found out about the incident because the person she cheated

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Speaker 1: each other recently, he.

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Speaker 3: Might not have it from her.

442
00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:13,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I feel like him getting a test if

443
00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:14,680
Speaker 2: he doesn't have it, then that, I mean, like that

444
00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:15,440
Speaker 2: just proves it.

445
00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,360
Speaker 1: And I don't see him being defensive it all here.

446
00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:19,320
Speaker 1: I don't don't really have a reason for him to lie,

447
00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:21,000
Speaker 1: Like why would he lie to us? He told us

448
00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:21,640
Speaker 1: he had no risk.

449
00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:27,119
Speaker 3: Everyone in the story, yes, said yeah, with everyone her coworkers.

450
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Speaker 1: I remember there being a security camera in the front

451
00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,159
Speaker 1: door of the airbnb, and I contacted the owner, but

452
00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,440
Speaker 1: they said they didn't have access to the footage.

453
00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,600
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, the owner of the airbnb doesn't have access

454
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Speaker 2: to the footage.

455
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Speaker 3: Who does.

456
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Speaker 1: We both went to a clinic and got tested both

457
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Speaker 1: urine and blood. It'll take four to six days to

458
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Speaker 1: get the results. Doctors there told her the symptoms she'd

459
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Speaker 1: been experiencing weren't very typical for a UTI, so it's

460
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Speaker 1: most likely something else. Before any of you comment, no,

461
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Speaker 1: I don't think she cheated on me. I don't think

462
00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,320
Speaker 1: she would do that. It's just like she doesn't think

463
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Speaker 1: I would.

464
00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:00,760
Speaker 3: No, Well, she.

465
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Speaker 2: Thinks you wouldn't because you don't have game. I presumably

466
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Speaker 2: you think she wouldn't because.

467
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Speaker 1: You trust her.

468
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Speaker 3: You trust her.

469
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Speaker 1: It's not the case for her. If the test does

470
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Speaker 1: come back positive, I would assume one of us somehow

471
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Speaker 1: got into a non spicy sleep situation.

472
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Speaker 2: Okay, so he's like, somehow some someone came across a

473
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Speaker 2: koala and and that's all we know and hugged it.

474
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Speaker 4: There actually are some things like wait, I think it's

475
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Speaker 4: like poppy seeds or something can come up as something

476
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Speaker 4: else in like a.

477
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Speaker 2: Drug test, if you eat too many poppy seeds, it'll

478
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Speaker 2: show up as like you're under the influence, but you

479
00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:32,880
Speaker 2: would have to eat a lot.

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Speaker 5: Of poppy seeds.

481
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Speaker 1: I thought the poppy seats could come up as opioids.

482
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I thought.

483
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Speaker 1: What do I do to deal with the stress for

484
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Speaker 1: the next few days? Should I make that? Timeline? Will

485
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Speaker 1: be on vacation this weekend, so I'll have that to

486
00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:45,840
Speaker 1: take my mind off of it a little bit. What

487
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 1: the F do I do if it comes back positive again? Thanks?

488
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Speaker 2: I don't know, but tell me if it came back

489
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:51,760
Speaker 2: positive right now, I need to know.

490
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Speaker 3: Tell me right now.

491
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Speaker 1: Such a weird situation. The only thing coming to my mind.

492
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Speaker 1: What is if you slept and the Airbnb there somehow

493
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Speaker 1: was chlamydia on the sh and it got to you.

494
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Speaker 3: I don't think that you can get it that way.

495
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Speaker 1: Okay, that's the only that's Are you roll around in it? Yeah?

496
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Speaker 1: You can't just roll around tore like bed bugs and

497
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Speaker 1: they actually got into your pa.

498
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Speaker 3: Bugs have chlamydia and then they bite you.

499
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, they got into your penis and now you have chlamydia.

500
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:19,520
Speaker 1: Not the pen or update. I tried posting this update

501
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Speaker 1: as a separate post, but it was auto removed by

502
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Speaker 1: the mods with no explanation.

503
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Speaker 3: I don't care. Just tell me.

504
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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go through this last week's timeline. Let

505
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:31,200
Speaker 1: me get something straight that were misinterpreted from my original post. No,

506
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,840
Speaker 1: my girlfriend did not launch a smear campaign or attempt

507
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Speaker 1: any form of character assassination. Or co workers whom she's

508
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:40,440
Speaker 1: very close with were with her when she got back

509
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Speaker 1: the test results, saw her reaction, and she told them

510
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Speaker 1: she wasn't going to tell anyone else until she arrived

511
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Speaker 1: at our apartment already very stressed, and her neighbor asked

512
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Speaker 1: if she wanted to smoke with her mm mmmm mm hmmmmmm.

513
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Speaker 3: She's like, I can't smoke anything. I have clem media.

514
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Speaker 4: I would have, But if my neighbor's asking me to

515
00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 4: smoke and that just happened, I'd.

516
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Speaker 3: Be like, guy, I have chlamydia.

517
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Speaker 4: I'd be like, well, actually, maybe it depends, like if

518
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Speaker 4: I'm super close with the neighbor or not.

519
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Speaker 3: I don't think I would tell anyone.

520
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,159
Speaker 1: It could spread more into your body if you smoke.

521
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Speaker 1: It could probably get into your lungs and like into

522
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Speaker 1: your vital organs if you if you have chlamydia and smoke.

523
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Speaker 3: I think that's misinformation when you have to go through

524
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Speaker 3: like chemo though, what you don't have to go through chemo.

525
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,520
Speaker 3: That's that's the terminal little dance.

526
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Speaker 6: Yeah.

527
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Speaker 2: No, for clminia, it's just but antibiotics. It's antibiotics, and

528
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Speaker 2: like cream.

529
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Speaker 1: Antibiotics still get like too powerful, they do. The bacteria

530
00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 1: gets too powerful and it overcomes antibiotics.

531
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Speaker 2: Oh, then you would have to do a different test,

532
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Speaker 2: like what because I mean there is a thing antibiotic resistance.

533
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 2: But you just have to get like different antibiotics presumably.

534
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Speaker 2: But that's only if you get like chlmydia A lot.

535
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Speaker 1: Oh a lot? Okay, Yeah, would just go through chemo

536
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Speaker 1: at that point. No, She later said she regretted telling

537
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Speaker 1: these people. My girlfriend did not freak out on me

538
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: or angrily accuse me when she confronted me on the results.

539
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:57,520
Speaker 1: We had a short, very calm conversation about it, and

540
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Speaker 1: afterwards she did not believe I had cheatedh My girlfriend

541
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Speaker 1: did not think I cheated on her. After our conversations.

542
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 2: The guys, she thought I had no game. We've established this.

543
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 2: Everyone thought that I couldn't have cheated because I am boring.

544
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,199
Speaker 1: This is another case where I want to see the

545
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 1: couple's picture. Yeah, neither of us thought the other person cheated.

546
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 1: Some commenters thought I had in fact cheated, and that

547
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Speaker 1: I made the Reddit post to form as an alibi.

548
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: They found me renting an airbnb an hour away for

549
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:30,159
Speaker 1: an interview extremely suspicious. The next time you schedule an interview,

550
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,880
Speaker 1: you'll find an airbnb is considerably cheaper than an interview

551
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: space honestly pro tip, and it's generally more polite to

552
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 1: travel an hour yourself rather than asking your interview subjects

553
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: to drive that. Researching colamydia outside of Reddit was barely

554
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: any help either. This is how you get comdia. You

555
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 1: have to cheat, get tested.

556
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Speaker 3: Your partner probably slap with someone else, and he's like,

557
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Speaker 3: dang it. Wiki how I look up on wiki? How?

558
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 6: Yeah?

559
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 3: Wiki? How uh? How do you get kamidia?

560
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Speaker 1: There was a lot of contradicting information on how well

561
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: could spread the sides I've read. Some websites said it

562
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 1: could only be spread by spicy sleep, while others said

563
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: it could also be spread non spicily through infected fluids,

564
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 1: so replies pointed out that chlamydia could lie dormant for

565
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Speaker 1: over ten years.

566
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Speaker 3: That's what I was thinking, I will say.

567
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Speaker 2: I was thinking maybe they've had it the whole time,

568
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Speaker 2: and then I don't know how chamedy works.

569
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Speaker 3: I've never had it. Personally, I have had it. I'm

570
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Speaker 3: going to just throw it out there. Thank you for

571
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Speaker 3: sharing had it. You're welcome.

572
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Speaker 2: And the thing is, we don't shame, and the thing is.

573
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Speaker 3: Right, I'm just surprised, judge, I'm about these things.

574
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Speaker 1: I'm not shaming. I'm just surprised that this came out

575
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Speaker 1: right now. I don't know. This goes against like HIPPA.

576
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,959
Speaker 1: This is I non consistently asked for this information does

577
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 1: this company?

578
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 2: So Vanda willingly gave this and I'm going to keep

579
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Speaker 2: giving it. So what did you learn about it?

580
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Speaker 4: I had no idea how long like I had it

581
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 4: or whatever. I thought what I was feeling was normal

582
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 4: until I went and got like a whole like perapsme

583
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 4: or whatever, and they're like, oh, by the way, by

584
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 4: the way, you've got I had a.

585
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 3: UTI and qlibean and I was like, ow, it's hurting

586
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 3: something's hurting.

587
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 2: A lot of times things like that, like infections and

588
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: stuff and STIs, because I have a lot of friends

589
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 2: who not have had chamidia but have had what's the

590
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 2: word UTI's and east infections and uiaplasma and stuff like that,

591
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 2: because those are very common and they're not necessarily spicily transmitted,

592
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 2: but a lot of times those things can stay dormant

593
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 2: and then they come out at some point or trigger

594
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,679
Speaker 2: UTIs and east infections. So it is important if you

595
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 2: keep getting stuff like UTIs and east infections to go

596
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 2: to the doctors and say, hey, I keep getting these things,

597
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 2: can you can I get tested for other stuff? So

598
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 2: it is important to do that. So zavanat, Yes, how

599
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 2: did you get rid of antibiotics?

600
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Speaker 1: And like a cream and a cream? Did you have

601
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Speaker 1: to apply it on like your like your thighs and stuff?

602
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 6: No?

603
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 3: You apply it?

604
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: You want me going to You have to like put it?

605
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got to stick it up and splash it in.

606
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 3: It's like an injection.

607
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: WHOA does it feel weird?

608
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it feels really weird when some of it also

609
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 4: just like comes out because what are you supposed to do?

610
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 6: Yeah?

611
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: Hold it in?

612
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 3: How do you hold that?

613
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 4: In.

614
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: I just squeeze.

615
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 3: She just squeezed.

616
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Speaker 4: If you just squeeze, I'm just squeezing the whole day.

617
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 3: They're like, what's wrong?

618
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: Nothing like how I can squeeze my prostate? You guys

619
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,199
Speaker 1: can squeeze your feets.

620
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 3: No, no, well there you go. That's information, folks.

621
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know how to get rid of chlamydiokay, I

622
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: had a cream and what was his name?

623
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Speaker 3: I truthfully, I don't know who came to me. And

624
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Speaker 3: we're not going to go into that much.

625
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Speaker 1: Just shut up, Riley, all right, Moving on on the

626
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 1: dormant part. Yes, this is where my theory of it

627
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Speaker 1: being on the sheets comes into play. Those sheets have

628
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Speaker 1: been there. They haven't changed those sheets for.

629
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Speaker 3: A long time, lying Dorman.

630
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Speaker 1: They probably they clean them all the time. But like

631
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 1: they're they're in this. They're in the fibrus, just ready

632
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 1: to get out, and then they crawled up onto your

633
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Speaker 1: pen work and then gave it to your girl.

634
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Speaker 4: No, it doesn't survive if it's not in a human body.

635
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Speaker 3: I think that's a.

636
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Speaker 1: There's a lot of information online there definitely gives an

637
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Speaker 1: article that supports my claim. This didn't help as we've

638
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Speaker 1: been dating for nearly five years, and tests in the

639
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: past would have found it okay.

640
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 3: So they have been tested in the past.

641
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Speaker 1: Do I need to test?

642
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 2: I mean probably not. I don't think you haven't seen

643
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 2: anything or Angie hasn't seen anything. But it is always

644
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 2: for everyone out there. It is always good to get

645
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Speaker 2: tested prior and after you have a new partner.

646
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: Usually keep the lights off so and I'll see anything.

647
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 3: Keep going.

648
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: Many replies also noted that you can't get chlamydia from

649
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Speaker 1: several different animals, including livestock. My girlfriend La works with

650
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Speaker 1: livestock and companion animals, so I thought this was the

651
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 1: clear answer. But after some research I found the animal

652
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Speaker 1: versions of chlamydia are completely different from the comydia we're

653
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Speaker 1: talking about. My best guess at this point was that

654
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Speaker 1: she was infected by sharing clothes or towels with an

655
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Speaker 1: infected coworker. Closure towels, closure towels.

656
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Speaker 3: But it wouldn't.

657
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Speaker 2: It would have had to be like someone I don't know.

658
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 2: I guess it would have had to be like someone rolled.

659
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,360
Speaker 3: In it immediately and then op went in it right.

660
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Speaker 3: That doesn't also doesn't seem very I guess she didn't.

661
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 1: Say sheets, she didn't say bad sheets, so that's completely

662
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Speaker 1: out of it.

663
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 3: No, I still think this is pretty unlikely.

664
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 1: So ope, he's gonna keep talking. Guys right now with Chad,

665
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: give us your theories. How did this happen? I want

666
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: to read some I need to know.

667
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 3: I need to know. I've never been more on the

668
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 3: edge of my seat. I need to know. Everyone.

669
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: Just a lot of people think cheated. Yeah, Katie Palattin

670
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 2: in degrees, get tested. Anytime you change partners.

671
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: Is like look at Carfax. Anytime you get a new car.

672
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 3: Makes it stop gas lighting.

673
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 1: Asself, we went on vacation over the weekend, and that

674
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: kept our minds off of the whole situation. Did you

675
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: guys have spicy sleep on this vacation. I did my

676
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: best to make sure she didn't stumble across the post

677
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: so it wouldn't stress her out. Buddy, you deleted it.

678
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: I'm reading it right now. What are you talking about.

679
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 1: We didn't get any results or response until the following Tuesday. Okay,

680
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: my results were emailed to me.

681
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: I was negative, boo, and you didn't cheat, so you're

682
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 2: in the clear, but she is not.

683
00:27:56,440 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 3: Well. That does probably mean though it happened recent.

684
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: Okay, this is what I'm thinking Holly from da Ware.

685
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 1: That's what came to my mind. She's been sharing blunts

686
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 1: with the neighbor.

687
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 3: Can you get it? Orally you can? Okay, that was

688
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 3: not my case.

689
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 1: Where did you get it?

690
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 3: Okay? Beep? That's a beep.

691
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: I don't even know how you get it?

692
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 3: So, okay, he's got a beep, he's got two beeps?

693
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: Now can get another one?

694
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 3: No, can get another one?

695
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: Can I get a beep?

696
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 4: Beep?

697
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 3: Beep? If we're if.

698
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 2: We're trying, I think the most likely solution here is

699
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: that she cheated. But if we're trying to figure out

700
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 2: like a different one, So maybe the blunt one is

701
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 2: a good idea.

702
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 4: I will say my yes aunt told me one time

703
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 4: she got chlamenya ball. She was pregnant and they had

704
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 4: no idea how she got it. Oh, she didn't like

705
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 4: cheat or anything. She was it was like part of

706
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 4: like hormone.

707
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 3: Art didn't have it.

708
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, and her partner didn't have it either, and she

709
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,959
Speaker 4: randomly got it during her pregnancy. She was like, what

710
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 4: and there said that happened?

711
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 3: That happens. I don't know that happens.

712
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: How. I think if she maybe went to a doctor

713
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,719
Speaker 1: and outdated it. That didn't clean the properly.

714
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 3: That's why that makes sense.

715
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 4: Oh no, but you use different ones each she shouldn't

716
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 4: use sterile stuff, but maybe like something wasn't home.

717
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: I remember whenever I was growing up, I went to

718
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: a dentist and then it cleaned their proper like their

719
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: cilverlware or like whatever, properly, and I got like an

720
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: affection in her mouth. It was bad. So we should

721
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 1: have sued, shout, you got it.

722
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 3: You could have gotten a lot of money.

723
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

724
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 3: But they always opened the new ones right there.

725
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 1: Who knows.

726
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 3: That's disgusting.

727
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: She got a phone call saying they were running some

728
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: final tests before sending hers in, but that she was

729
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: positive for chlamydia or to disappoint. But much like how

730
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: she didn't believe I cheated on her, I still don't

731
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: believe she cheated on me. We spent an hour theorizing

732
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: together how she could have gotten it. It was rather

733
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: confusing and a traumatizing hour as we tried to piece

734
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: it together. We were about to leave to just get

735
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: out of the apartment when she got an email. It

736
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: was her results. The phone call she had gotten earlier

737
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: was wrong. She was negative for chlamydia out, Oh my gosh,

738
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: does any both tests or just this and next time?

739
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 3: So this whole time she just got she just you've

740
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 3: just been like worring over and nothing.

741
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I think the first one was a false one. Yes,

742
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: they got it again.

743
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Speaker 2: Which is two percent likelihood. There was a two percent

744
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 2: chance you can get a false test if.

745
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Speaker 3: You for chlamydia.

746
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Speaker 1: If you bring a party of fifty people. One who's

747
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: gonna have a false positive?

748
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 2: That's true, I guess, And three I'm gonna have positive

749
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 2: that's crazy. That actually is crazy.

750
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: And then if you also have those same twenty to

751
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: fifty people there, and then if you bring one hundred people,

752
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: and if you also have those same fifty people there,

753
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: thirteen percent of them pee in their pants regularly.

754
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

755
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 2: All right, so she didn't cheat, and neither did he,

756
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 2: and no one has kamelia.

757
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 3: So what was the point of this freaking story?

758
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: I like this.

759
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 3: I the part of the story was that they didn't

760
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 3: rush to conclusions.

761
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, they didn't make any shit.

762
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 2: They all rushed, didn't They just didn't break up with

763
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 2: each other immediately. We've heard so many stories where people

764
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 2: are like immediately break up, We're done.

765
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Speaker 3: I don't want to hear anything. But they're like, I

766
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 3: don't think you cheated, so we're to check this out.

767
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: This is a good step by step on how to

768
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Speaker 1: go about false positives, or maybe put this in a

769
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: wikie how Yeah, I do have it in which assumed

770
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: the receptionist who had called her had misread the results

771
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: or confused over someone else.

772
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 3: So someone else's glimdia. Soone out that has klidia doesn't

773
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 3: know it. Oh, and this is what happens. No, and

774
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 3: they're going around split reading that chlamydia.

775
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: She better get our books right, oh man.

776
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: And someone else out there is like some other girlfriends,

777
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 3: like I have clidia, you cheating on me? And he's like, no, negative,

778
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 3: but he did cheat on her.

779
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: So that was that. This was a horribly stressful and

780
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: confusing week for the both of us. I showed her

781
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: the post shortly after we got the results, and she

782
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: said it would have stressed her out too, So there

783
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: we go. Wow, Okay, here's my thought. Yeah, I was

784
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: thinking she talked to like her coworker and her neighbor

785
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 1: about the commynia thing. But you then posted this whole

786
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: story on Reddit. True.

787
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 3: So it's kind of evens out.

788
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: It got so good we're here reading it though. Yeah,

789
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: their girlfriend will find this.

790
00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 3: Like if you guys are on Reddit, she'll find this.

791
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,640
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792
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Speaker 6: back to the stories, but here's three minutes of ads

793
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794
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: My fiance worked overtime to fund his mother's luxury vacations behind.

795
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: My back, mama's boy.

796
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 2: On my side, I twenty five females, secured myself a

797
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 2: good job, and now I'm back to study to improve

798
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 2: my job opportunities. On his twenty six male side, he

799
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 2: has a lower income than me, but he takes a

800
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 2: lot of extra shifts on nighttime and weekends and ends

801
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 2: up earning more than me.

802
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from musul Yi and if

803
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 3: you want to make your own stories, go to the

804
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 3: r slash okay storytime subreddit.

805
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 2: And Op says the thing is his mom is also

806
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: a low income worker, but she lives quite above her means. Uh,

807
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: we're talking about vacations on luxury resorts every one or

808
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 2: two years, buying a lot of clothes, taking loans with

809
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 2: high interest rates to buy herself things she doesn't need

810
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 2: tisk tisk.

811
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Speaker 1: Dude, we need this woman on Caleb hammer Asa, what's up?

812
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: He's a YouTuber. I am plugging because this will help

813
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: you with your financial self. He gets. Someone looks at

814
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 1: their finances and just like, how dare you spend three

815
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty dollars on OnlyFans every month while you

816
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: have a wife?

817
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 3: Mmmmm interesting.

818
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: It's really cool.

819
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 2: In my country, when you get married, everything is separated.

820
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: Each one keeps their own money. So what we decided

821
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 2: in the beginning is to set up a joint bank

822
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 2: account for savings, every day purchases, and common expenses.

823
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 3: In my mind, that was fine.

824
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: We talked about the type of lifestyle we wanted, made

825
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 2: a budget, and with the rest of the money, each

826
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 2: one does what they see fit. If he has to

827
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 2: help out his mom, that's on him. But as the

828
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 2: wedding date is approaching, I have more and more doubts.

829
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: First one is right now he has a high salary

830
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: because he takes on night and weekend shifts. But we're

831
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: getting older and I'm not sure for how long he

832
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: can keep this up. He's not saving the extra money

833
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 2: he makes because he's giving it to his mom. So

834
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about what will happen when he's forty and

835
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 2: can't keep up with all the working hours.

836
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 3: He's also against what his mother is doing, and I

837
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 3: mean all the trips, the luxury, et cetera.

838
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: A lot of times he refuses to give her money,

839
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 2: but she ends up convincing him anyway, so he doesn't

840
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 2: refuse to give her money. He say I don't know,

841
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 2: she says please, and he goes okay.

842
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 1: There's only one scenario I could see this being okay,

843
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: as if your mom went on one luxury vacation and

844
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: she raised you in, all ten of your siblings up

845
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: for you guys to be successful. Yeah, you guys chip

846
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: in because she had a hard life growing up and

847
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: now you were rewarding her. That's the only way I'd

848
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: see this being okay. Maybe not ten kids, maybe four.

849
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. You see what I'm saying.

850
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a reasonable.

851
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 2: This is wrong, And I just don't know how this

852
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 2: will go on, and what will happen when he doesn't

853
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: have so much disposable income. Right now, he lives with

854
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 2: his half brother from father's side and pays a very

855
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 2: small amount of money as rent.

856
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 3: Once we move.

857
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: Together, he'll have to pay real bills and rent. Not

858
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 2: sure how he'll.

859
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 3: Feel about sending money to his mom.

860
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 4: Money, won't have much left for himself, probably not as good.

861
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 4: I'm not sure how this dynamic will go and if

862
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 4: I'll be caught in between.

863
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: Basically, I'm afraid him helping out his mom so much

864
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 2: will affect our own lifestyle and a relationship in a

865
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,720
Speaker 2: general way. How can I deal with the dynamic between

866
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 2: my fiance and her mom so it doesn't affect our marriage?

867
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 3: And we've got comments, what do.

868
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: You think they're married or they're thinking about getting married?

869
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 3: This is fiance.

870
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 1: You're in a relationship with another person. If you didn't

871
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,720
Speaker 1: realize this is mom, him and his mom.

872
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you need to have a serious conversation and say, yes,

873
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 2: this is your money. But if we're going to get married,

874
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 2: then you you know, we can't have another person in

875
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 2: this relationship.

876
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 3: It's our money.

877
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. My brother and I disagree on

878
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: this point. When you propose to someone, you should both

879
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 1: sit down with your finances, yeah, and just kind of

880
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: look at him and be like, this is what I

881
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: spend a month. The month basis, this is what you

882
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: spend on a month to look basis, how do we

883
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: want our bank accounts to look like? I wrote this

884
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 1: look like? And if you do this with this guy,

885
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: most of his money's going to his mom and he's

886
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 1: working over time.

887
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 3: To do that, and he doesn't want to change that, then.

888
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 1: Not only is she taking time away from you, yes,

889
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,760
Speaker 1: she's also taking away the results of that time he's spent.

890
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: Just send her away for a week. Not worth it?

891
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: Comments Earthling from a Place says, if you don't like

892
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,399
Speaker 2: how he handles his finances, don't marry him. P Friends

893
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 2: says certainly this, suggesting forty is old for him to

894
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: work as hard past that made me chuckle. My goodness, Oh,

895
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 2: he says. My father used to work out a factory

896
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 2: and he always told me, your body is fine until

897
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 2: you turn forty. That's when everything comes at you. Everything

898
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,959
Speaker 2: starts hurting, you start feeling tired, waking up to work

899
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: becomes harder, et cetera. He always insisted on me and

900
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 2: my sibling is to get off his jobs or something

901
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 2: that doesn't require physical strength. That's why I said specifically

902
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 2: forty years old. And an update two days later.

903
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I just saw it well what's happening?

904
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: Do they do they talk it out? Does she does

905
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: he go local contact with his mom? That's what I'm thinking,

906
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:43,879
Speaker 1: They'll go low contact with the mom.

907
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 3: I'm not engaged anymore.

908
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 1: Good honestly for you.

909
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 2: My ex mother in law is currently vacationing on the

910
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: Amalfi Coast.

911
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, yes.

912
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 2: Just four days ago she was calling her son to

913
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 2: beg for money to pay rent. She owes three months already,

914
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 2: he obviously paid. They got in an argument when he

915
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 2: saw she was traveling. She's not even saying in the

916
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 2: place that she's.

917
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 3: Paying rent for.

918
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: And I decided I don't want to be a part

919
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 2: of this. I saved so much, didn't give myself luxuries

920
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 2: to be able to build myself a better lifestyle as

921
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: I'm getting older. And he seemed to be on the

922
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: same page, and technically he is. He doesn't indulge on himself,

923
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 2: But what's the point when he's spending all his savings

924
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 2: on his mom?

925
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: So weird?

926
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 2: I sat down and asked him if we were living together,

927
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 2: how would he do it?

928
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 3: How would he pay.

929
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,399
Speaker 2: Three months of her mother's rent and half of our

930
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 2: own rent with his salary? He said, that he wouldn't

931
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 2: have paid if he knew she was traveling, and that

932
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 2: he thought she would be affcted. I was like, I'm

933
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 2: not asking you why you did it, I'm asking how

934
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 2: would you do it if we.

935
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 3: Were living together? Nice? So pete, but we've got a

936
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 3: little bit left.

937
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:56,479
Speaker 1: Any final thoughts, Amyming says her son is her retirement plan.

938
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm going to go to the amount offic Ghost,

939
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 2: and then I'm gonna go to Good and then I'm

940
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 2: gonna go to Kroisha.

941
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

942
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 2: And I'm still gonna be paying my rent so i

943
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: have a place to come back to even though I'm

944
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:09,439
Speaker 2: not there.

945
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,760
Speaker 1: This is crazy, don't I don't see how these parents

946
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 1: bro some of these fears we've read about today upside down.

947
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yi, but we got a little bit left.

948
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 2: Right now, he lives with his brother and pays a

949
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 2: small amount of rent and nothing on food. Ah, but

950
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,240
Speaker 2: if we were living together, he would have real bills

951
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 2: and expenses. There's no way he can keep up with

952
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 2: that while still paying for his mom. Also, I realized

953
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to be the reason he changes his

954
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 2: relationship with his mom. I don't want to be blamed

955
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 2: or get in between them. I would rather just be

956
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 2: with someone who has a normal family dynamic, and.

957
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 3: That's the end. Me too. I don't want to be

958
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 3: with someone who just.

959
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: Gives all his money to his mouth, so weird, who

960
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 1: doesn't need it and he's twenty three is something like that?

961
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: I think he's twenty six, that is in his twenties

962
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: being abused financially abuse like this crazy.

963
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 2: But that's the end of that story. And we've got

964
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 2: another one coming right up.

965
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: O boom my best friend and confessed his feelings for me.

966
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: Now he and his brother won't stop fighting over me.

967
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 7: Classic sibling rivalry.

968
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: I twenty female, have been in love with my best

969
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: friends who an he won mal brother twenty three male

970
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: four over four years, but both of them are in

971
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: love with me last like love triangle. We'll call it

972
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: the best friend Sam and the other brother Dean.

973
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 6: Dean is what I think it is?

974
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 5: Cool guy?

975
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 6: Is that a supernatural reference?

976
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: I think it is.

977
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 7: It's a supernatural reference.

978
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 1: For context, I have known them both since we were kids.

979
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: I grew up with them because our parents have been

980
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 1: friends since they were in college. My brother twenty five male,

981
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: who will call James, hung around Dean more than he

982
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: did Sam. Mind you, Dean is who op. He is

983
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,760
Speaker 1: in love with Sam is her friend. Yes, he always

984
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 1: knew I liked him, and he always approved of it,

985
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: and maybe that is why the feelings grew so much.

986
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: The real problem at hand is both of them have

987
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: found out and I am starting to freak out about it.

988
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,240
Speaker 1: By the way, this this comes from Big Worldliness fifty

989
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: three eleven. And if you want to spe your own stories,

990
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: you know where to go. They have started getting into

991
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: fights a lot, and if I'm being honest, it makes

992
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: me wish. I did not like either of them in

993
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: any way. Same as Sweet, but sometimes his temper gets

994
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: to him and he lashes out, but it is usually

995
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 1: valid when he does. Dean does not get angry often,

996
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: but when he does, it's kind of scary but low

997
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: key hout.

998
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,280
Speaker 6: I did not like those. Those are the reasonings stop,

999
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 6: those are their traits.

1000
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 1: He is strong, but I do know Sam could put

1001
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: up a fight with him. I just hate this situation. Oh,

1002
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: I hate it so much.

1003
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 6: My lobsters too buttery, my steak is too juicy. I

1004
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 6: have two brothers giving me their attention, and they want

1005
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 6: me he gets I'm torn keep doing it for a

1006
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,280
Speaker 6: couple more weeks.

1007
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 7: I can see why that would be a very stressful situation.

1008
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: What makes things worse is that my other best friend,

1009
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: who we're gonna call Carrie twenty female, who does Carrie

1010
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: have a crush on? And he guesses Sammerdeen which name

1011
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,320
Speaker 1: James Keon carry.

1012
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 7: I think Carrie also has a crush on op.

1013
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: Has feelings for Sam. I met her when I got

1014
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: to college. She was my first roommate, and we moved

1015
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 1: off campus together last semester.

1016
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 6: Okay, so we now we have a square. We need art.

1017
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 6: This is gonna be like a square. This is a

1018
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 6: love square.

1019
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 5: M M, love rectangle.

1020
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: It's a rectangle that wants to be a square, but

1021
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: it's a rectangle, so it can't.

1022
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 6: Be yeah, because the sides are not even.

1023
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 1: Sam goes to her college while Dean stayed at home

1024
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: for work to work with his dad. When she met Sam,

1025
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: she was talking about him all the time. I did

1026
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 1: not think anything of it until she told me she

1027
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: really liked him. Honestly, I think they would be a

1028
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: really good couple. She would be good for him, and

1029
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,919
Speaker 1: he matches the nerd part of her in a way.

1030
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: I never have seen before.

1031
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 6: Wow, that solves a lot of problems, right you go? Hey,

1032
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 6: y'all like each other. Right now, I'm gonna have your brother.

1033
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 5: You got that nerd in you?

1034
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:51,399
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1035
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 1: Can we don't just offload carry onto Sam?

1036
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 5: You like, get to go get that nerd.

1037
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 1: We just have to sell the point where Sam doesn't

1038
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: love you anymore.

1039
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 7: You don't love me because look at how cool my

1040
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 7: nerd friend is. And can you tell your brother to

1041
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 7: yell some more?

1042
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:07,320
Speaker 1: Makes me fiery? Old fuego he on the elf, froyd.

1043
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:08,760
Speaker 1: Hey you brothers?

1044
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 7: Holy, your brother starts yelling, they start calling me raging.

1045
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 6: Rivers the bean.

1046
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: Now. The problem started over the summer break. Harry came

1047
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 1: home with us because she does not have the best

1048
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,399
Speaker 1: relationship with her family. Over the break, Sam was kind

1049
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: of ignoring her, and I did not know why until

1050
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: I noticed his advances towards me. It was awkward and

1051
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: I was not sure how to deal with it. When

1052
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: August rolled around, Harry finally confessed her feelings for him.

1053
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: While we were packing to go back to school. Dean

1054
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: was in the room helping. It was silent for a while,

1055
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: and I wanted to disappear right there and then After

1056
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: a moment, Sam said he did not feel the same.

1057
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,439
Speaker 1: Sam there too. I thought it was just Dean.

1058
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 6: No, Sam was in the room, but Dean was also there.

1059
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 7: That's an interesting time to be like, Sam, I have

1060
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 7: a crush on you. Also, hello brother and other friend.

1061
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: No, it just said Dean was in the room.

1062
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 6: Go back one more.

1063
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:58,959
Speaker 5: He had to have also been there.

1064
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: Oh so she did. I thought she was just telling

1065
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: Opie this.

1066
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 6: Everyone is here.

1067
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: Me and Dean tried making our escape, but when she

1068
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: asked why, he said it was because he liked me.

1069
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 7: Oh no, you do. I like you too, friend.

1070
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is where it gets really fun. This is

1071
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 6: where we just start breaking. This is where bridges start burning.

1072
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: I view you as a sister. I've ever had that

1073
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: said to me.

1074
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 5: I'm a sister.

1075
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: I did buy a girl had a crush on.

1076
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 5: The girl said you're her sister.

1077
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 1: Wrote it in my ear book.

1078
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 5: Oh no, sis.

1079
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: I just rose and acted as if I had no idea.

1080
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 1: Carrie was at a loss for words, and I could

1081
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: fill both of them burning holes into the back of

1082
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: my head. I did not want to turn around, and

1083
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 1: when Sam asked how I felt about it, I just

1084
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: walked out. I wanted to hide my bed, but they

1085
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: were in my room, so I ended up leaving the

1086
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: house completely.

1087
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 7: Oh no, they've kind of they had you a little.

1088
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 5: Cornered there, didn't they.

1089
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 7: Oh ah, you should just been like I don't.

1090
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 5: There's no easy way to say that. You just got

1091
00:43:59,239 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 5: to say.

1092
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,280
Speaker 1: It was the front door. I could hear them start

1093
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: to shout. I did not stick around to hear what

1094
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: they had said.

1095
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:06,720
Speaker 6: They were seeing that song shout.

1096
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't even know how that goes.

1097
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 6: There's a couple of them, let's go with them, the brothers.

1098
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 6: You make me want to shout bom that's jump.

1099
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 7: Yeah, because I'm gonna jump out of this situation. I'm

1100
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 7: not dating either of these guys, but they're hot. But

1101
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 7: the if you date either of them, I don't know.

1102
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 7: Everything is just bad.

1103
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: But Dean makes her bean fiery.

1104
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 6: Hate that hated that hated that.

1105
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 7: Don't let your bean get in the way.

1106
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: Of your dream and date Dean. No, that's who she likes,

1107
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: like someone else, Dean. No, Dean eat bean is where you.

1108
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 6: Start dating carry.

1109
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: Yes, I did not see that coming anyone but James.

1110
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: I wanted to drive off, but I had left my

1111
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: keys in the kitchen, and I really didn't want to

1112
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 1: go back inside, so I just walked to the park.

1113
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: The fresh air did make me feel better, but it

1114
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: did not stop how nauseous and embarrassed I felt. I

1115
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: did not know how I could have been so stupid

1116
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: and why I did not just say something. My phone

1117
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,280
Speaker 1: almost blowing up with angry messages from Sam and Carrie,

1118
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: along with a few messages from Dean. Ask you if

1119
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: I was okay, If I did not have the urge

1120
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: to dig my own grave and perish, I would have

1121
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 1: called him. It did not matter anyway, because he found

1122
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: me at the park a few hours later, and as

1123
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 1: says that he would drive me home hopped in his truck.

1124
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 1: But I did not say a word the entire time.

1125
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: He asked me if I like Sam, and I just

1126
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: shook my head. She doesn't like Sam.

1127
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:25,320
Speaker 6: She loves Sam.

1128
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: She likes Dean Dean and Bean Dean for the Bean.

1129
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: I don't like any of this. Well, this is like

1130
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: high school Loveydov's self.

1131
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 7: You're like, I like this guy and his brother also

1132
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 7: likes me, and it's ripping them apart.

1133
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 5: Maybe don't get wrapped up in that.

1134
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: It's twilight. If Jacob and Edwin, Edwin, Edgar.

1135
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 7: Edwin, Edwin, Edwin kalingis.

1136
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: What's his name?

1137
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 6: Edward?

1138
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: Edward? Oh, Edward. If Jacob and Edward were brothers, they.

1139
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 7: Kind they kind of are in a way, bonded by

1140
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 7: liking the same terrible woman.

1141
00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: She's not that bad.

1142
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 7: I guess she's not. But there are times watching that

1143
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:02,760
Speaker 7: movie where I went, oh.

1144
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: Well, you gotta you know, keep it spicy.

1145
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,720
Speaker 7: Hey, it's Dakota, your favorite good time boy host.

1146
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 3: Here.

1147
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,439
Speaker 7: We're gonna get back to the stories, but here's three

1148
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 7: minutes of ads from our sponsors.

1149
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 1: He kept trying to push me to speak, but after

1150
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 1: a while he gave up and let me sulk. When

1151
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: he finally dropped me off, I got out of the

1152
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 1: truck and dragged my feet to the front door. In

1153
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 1: the kitchen was Carrie waiting for me. She looked pissed,

1154
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 1: and I really did not want to deal with it,

1155
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: but I knew she would not let it go unless

1156
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: we talked to now. She asked if I knew, and

1157
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: I try to lie, but she could read me. I

1158
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,320
Speaker 1: confess that I figured it out a few weeks ago,

1159
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: and she just started screaming at me. Claimed I was

1160
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: tempting him, and that made me so frustrated.

1161
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 7: Yeah, I wouldn't even entertain a conversation with her. She's like,

1162
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 7: you used the witch's spell to make him love you

1163
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 7: instead of me.

1164
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: Shut up, girl.

1165
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 6: You just look at her and said, don't hate the player,

1166
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 6: hate the game.

1167
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 1: Cay help, I'm hot.

1168
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 7: I will wear you like a and Sam will love

1169
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:02,320
Speaker 7: me forever.

1170
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: Once op establishes she does like Sam, Sam, move on

1171
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: and he'll probably like you. Carry This is a good thing.

1172
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,919
Speaker 1: Play chess, lady. You lost a pawn, you lost a rook,

1173
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: but you still got the queen out there.

1174
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 5: Lady, you can still get the king.

1175
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 7: Convince him that dating you will make Ope so jealous.

1176
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: Carrie, Oh no, Yeah, you're not winning at that point.

1177
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 3: You're give weight.

1178
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 7: You probably don't want this guy anyway. Just get him

1179
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,439
Speaker 7: a little bit, get him for a little while.

1180
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: We fought for a while, but when we heard the

1181
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: garage open for my parents, we decided to end the

1182
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 1: conversation there for the night. It was tense and I

1183
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: just wanted to unlive myself. During dinner the next day,

1184
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 1: Sam and Dean showed up while my parents were at work.

1185
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: Dean wanted us all to talk through it, and I agreed.

1186
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: Getting carried a leave from her room was more difficult

1187
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: than it should have been, but we eventually lured her

1188
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,240
Speaker 1: out with fast food. I'll get some Chick.

1189
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 6: Fil A college kids.

1190
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Chick fil A would have totally gotten out of

1191
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 1: her room, would have got me out of my room.

1192
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 1: During the talk, Sam asked why I did not like

1193
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: him start off heavy. I don't know, maybe because I

1194
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:58,959
Speaker 1: like your older brother.

1195
00:47:59,160 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 5: I just don't.

1196
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 7: Ah, don't really have a laundry list. I just don't

1197
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 7: that should be enough.

1198
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: I panicked, and I've always been a really bad liar.

1199
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,919
Speaker 1: So it came out that I liked Dean. Seeing how

1200
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: angry Sam got right then, and there was scary. They

1201
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: got into this huge fight, and this is when I

1202
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: found out Dean felt the same way into with me,

1203
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 1: apologizing a hundred times. As Sam and Dean left, Carrie

1204
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: still refused to talk to me for a while, but

1205
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 1: when we got our new apartment she seemed to start

1206
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: lighting up. It is not as it was, but it

1207
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 1: is definitely getting better. The issue I had now is

1208
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: that Dean has started to reject my calls and will

1209
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 1: not answer any of my messages and Sam was avoiding

1210
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: me on campus altogether. I know Dean is just trying

1211
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: to make it up to Sam, but it is not

1212
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 1: fair to me.

1213
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 5: It is bro this is crazy.

1214
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 7: You're like, I'm the stick of dynamite they're fighting over.

1215
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 7: Why don't either of them want me? Because it will

1216
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 7: blow up their brotherhood, so they're not gonna bros. I

1217
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 7: would assume you gotta get out dick a dynamite.

1218
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 1: And now Carrie has started hanging around all these different

1219
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: guys trying to make Sam jealous. Good luck, Cody, you

1220
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 1: roll on that one. I need to see a picture

1221
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: of everyone here, and I can help everyone. I'll draw,

1222
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: so thank you. I just don't have the heart and

1223
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: tell her that he doesn't care. I have no idea

1224
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: what to do. I did not want to hurt either

1225
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:19,879
Speaker 1: of them, and I do not want Carrie to make

1226
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 1: a huge mistake. My parents have started asking questions about

1227
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: why I have not been speaking with Sam and why

1228
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 1: Dean has been avoiding James. When I called James to

1229
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: let him know about the situation and ask for advice,

1230
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,400
Speaker 1: all he suggested was changing my name and fleeing the country.

1231
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 1: Thanks Jane. At this point, I might as well does

1232
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: anyone else have any other suggestions? Please, I am begging

1233
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: for some help here. Do we have any updates and

1234
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: show us keyon.

1235
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 6: I'm gonna look it for updates.

1236
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: I mean, this is this is college. You're gonna have

1237
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: more people. You're gonna like, not the end of the world.

1238
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 5: I've got their drawings here.

1239
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 1: Yay.

1240
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 7: We've got Sam, who's kind of a little diaper boy's

1241
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 7: so I drew, I mean a little baby, a little

1242
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 7: baby diaper. Dean is the cool, angry older guy, and

1243
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 7: I don't.

1244
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 5: I just drew a cigarette.

1245
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 7: James the brother, we didn't. That's just like a little ghost.

1246
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,319
Speaker 1: I liked his knife shaped head.

1247
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 7: Yeah, he's just kind of like he's just he's an

1248
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,760
Speaker 7: empty vessel, his butter. And we've got a little Peppa

1249
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:13,720
Speaker 7: Pig down here, Carrie.

1250
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 5: I like her hat. Have a pig. Yeah, that's supposed

1251
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 5: to be her head.

1252
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: Oh I see I thought that was a hat.

1253
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, I see now now it does it here?

1254
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 7: Let me let me get rid of the let me

1255
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 7: get rid of the hat. So just give her eyes.

1256
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:26,839
Speaker 7: That's Peppa, that's Peppa Pig.

1257
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 6: Top comment was this is a the summer. I turned

1258
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 6: pretty rip off, thinking we wouldn't notice. Another comment says,

1259
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,479
Speaker 6: I feel like this is just a fan pic. Sam

1260
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 6: goes to college, Dean works for his father. I mean,

1261
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,760
Speaker 6: come on, Like the entire chat was like, this is fanfic.

1262
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and get I'm not waising enough to know this.

1263
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 6: Someone said you should call him Conrad and Jeremiah aka

1264
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 6: The Summer I Turned Pretty, and Opie responds with, what

1265
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 6: is that? I've never heard of that.

1266
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: Okay, that gives it away right there.

1267
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 7: I've never seen a single episode of that, but I

1268
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 7: know what it is.

1269
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 1: People that watch The Summer I Turn Pretty? What do

1270
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: we think here? This did feel like a novel. I

1271
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 1: saw a bit of it and it looks kind of weird.

1272
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 7: That's most unreal to me is that the brothers would

1273
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:08,359
Speaker 7: just like be fighting each other constantly, like around her,

1274
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 7: and it's like he got so angry and so aggressive,

1275
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 7: and it's like and he yelled it was hot, and

1276
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 7: it's like, no he didn't, because they would go, oh,

1277
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 7: we both like the same girl.

1278
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 1: Nice.

1279
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 5: Neither of us like this girl anymore.

1280
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:22,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1281
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 6: Some other comments are like thanks for bringing out the

1282
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 6: supernatural and me, I'm gonna go rewatch it now. Thank

1283
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 6: you all missed that point, there was no legit comments there.

1284
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 6: The one the one comment was like there was one

1285
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 6: legit comment like if this is real, then you stop this.

1286
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 6: You're having too much fun with this kind of thing.

1287
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:36,760
Speaker 5: Walk away.

1288
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 6: You're emotionally stringing everyone along. Figure this out and walk away.

1289
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 6: You're dynamite by Tyo.

1290
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 7: CRUZMNY called nine one one Shorty's dynamite.

1291
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 6: That's shot Kingston.

1292
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: He was really good in that one's good.

1293
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 6: We have comments.

1294
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 7: We have comments from the video My sister broke into

1295
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 7: my home and I had her arrested. That was posted

1296
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 7: April twenty eighth, twenty twenty six. The TDR for the

1297
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 7: first story is that Op lives across the world for

1298
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 7: war and lets his beautiful old house sit empty for

1299
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 7: months at a time. One day, a sister that he

1300
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 7: has never met in his entire life calls out of

1301
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 7: nowhere and demands to move into this home with her

1302
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 7: kids and grandkid.

1303
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 5: Oh, he says no.

1304
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 7: She literally just breaks in and moves herself in. Any way,

1305
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 7: And if you're curious to know the full story, you

1306
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 7: can go watch the full video. Our first comment here.

1307
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 6: Do you remember this? I think I remember this one.

1308
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 6: I do remember this from April twenty eighth, twenty twenty six.

1309
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 6: So this is pretty fresh or Halsey, Meg and Steph

1310
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 6: eighty seven three eighty seven they're talking in our comments

1311
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 6: over here. Oh boy, Halsey Meg says there are eight siblings,

1312
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 6: why not ask for temporary housing from a sibling you're

1313
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 6: actually close to? And Steph responds to Halsey saying, I

1314
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:52,879
Speaker 6: guarantee you they're all already cut her off and told her

1315
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 6: heck no. She turned to the one who doesn't even

1316
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 6: know her aka trashy family all around.

1317
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 7: Yeah, sounds suspicious.

1318
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: It's weird how family gets this way.

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Speaker 6: Now have another comment here from MOUSEI into Housie saying,

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Speaker 6: just because you share DNA doesn't make you family. They're strangers.

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Speaker 6: Let the flying monkeys put them up, let them fly.

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Speaker 7: They got flying monkeys.

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Speaker 5: They live in Florida?

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Speaker 1: Is that where they're front or Oz?

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Speaker 5: If they were.

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Speaker 7: Flying monkeys in any state, they would be in Florida. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: Central Florida's swamp monkeys flying around.

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Speaker 1: I'm from Louisiana because the swamp with.

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Speaker 6: The monkey's be in the swamp.

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Speaker 5: That's with the whole middle of Florida.

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Speaker 1: But also Louisiana.

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Speaker 6: We have a third comment here by Steph eighty seven

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Speaker 6: three at seven, again saying simple answer no. No is

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Speaker 6: a full sentence. He doesn't even know her, never even

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Speaker 6: met her, just because their blood does not mean their

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Speaker 6: family period, and he should have pressed charges for her

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Speaker 6: trespassing and breaking into his home. Oh mfg. Throw the

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Speaker 6: entire family away. Aged Christy Clariss Merseyer sixty three fifty

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Speaker 6: nine probably butchered that one. Eight children. Some people procreate

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Speaker 6: for support eight children?

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Speaker 5: Why would you do that? I will I wouldn't even

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Speaker 5: taste that good.

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Speaker 1: That's eight ldren. Oh yeah, oh I see aha, I

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Speaker 1: would have eight kids if I could afford it, and

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Speaker 1: I've lived on a farm.

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Speaker 5: Would you make them work?

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Speaker 6: No, he'd make them ball outly.

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Speaker 7: What else am I having them for?

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Speaker 5: It's a workforce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're medieval peasants. It would grow. I mean, I'd

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Speaker 1: have a family business and then they would just all

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Speaker 1: like wow, they'd want to work. That's a part of

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Speaker 1: manhood is enjoying the working aspect of things, enjoying your

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Speaker 1: labor and the and the benefits of it.

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Speaker 5: I just want coco melon.

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Speaker 6: That is the end of this.

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Speaker 5: I just want Coco melin, I don't want to work

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Speaker 5: in the field.

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Speaker 1: This is what I will tell them. If you want

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Speaker 1: Coco melon, You're gonna have to grow Coca melon.

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Speaker 5: Dad, it's a TV.

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Speaker 1: I can't, Yes, you can. You have to wait two

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Speaker 1: months and then Coco melan will be here and you

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Speaker 1: can make them dance around.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: The only way I will ever let cocomelon, I go into.

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Speaker 7: My room and I go on my magic rectangle and

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Speaker 7: I say, show me AI pictures of Coco melon.

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Speaker 6: Guys, this is the end of the episode, all right.

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Speaker 1: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We

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Speaker 1: love you and see you tomorrow.