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Speaker 2: God?

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Speaker 1: I know, right, but at least not so.

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Speaker 2: For those of you who are not aware, I've got

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Speaker 2: a lot of Mexican food in my veins right now.

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Speaker 2: I just got back from Mexico.

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Speaker 1: Woo woo. You know you're jelly?

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Speaker 3: Are you shooting it up?

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Speaker 1: No? Oh, but I had such a good.

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Speaker 3: Job and Jack the guacamole. That sounds nice.

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Speaker 1: Did I talk about how much it costs last time

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Speaker 1: we were on the yes, but tell us that.

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Speaker 3: So you were on vacation this week? How to go?

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Speaker 2: It went really well, although I did get a little

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Speaker 1: But it went really well. It was well.

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Speaker 2: At first, it was not going well, and I was

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Speaker 2: really proud of myself because typically i'm very I'm one

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Speaker 2: and so you learn to be very accommodating, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, yeah, like, okay, okay, it's fine, it's fine. I'm

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Speaker 1: always it's fine, girl. So we get there.

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Speaker 2: It's a five star hotel, beautiful, I mean, I have

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Speaker 2: to say beautiful. It's like the Grand Plaza Cosmo. And

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Speaker 2: but when we get there, like our room is a

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Speaker 1: So I bought internet.

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Speaker 2: So one I found out that even though I had

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Speaker 2: And then when I tried to get it fixed, they

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Speaker 2: it's like the you know, an island that we had

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Speaker 2: ants and we were like, okay.

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Speaker 1: Quotes because it was poor Maria with a can of

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Speaker 3: I wait, where were they answer or did you have food?

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Speaker 3: Or were they just there?

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Speaker 2: They were just like there, like because we had it.

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Speaker 2: You know, it was really pleasant and it was kind

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Speaker 2: put his hand under he said, oh better. I was like, sir,

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Speaker 2: how do you say a cold and Spanish? No, I

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Speaker 1: For y'all.

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Speaker 3: That's enough to get your point across.

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Speaker 1: And so he was like, no, no, no, it's caben.

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Speaker 2: And so I called down and I was just getting

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Speaker 1: So I went downstairs, and you know, I did, like

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Speaker 2: So I sat downstairs and I was like opening up

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Speaker 1: Now, it's hilarious. It's like Kermit. It's like he's like Kermit.

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Speaker 2: So I was totally doing that in the lobby, like

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Speaker 1: Even though this is a beautiful hotel.

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Speaker 1: One of the rooms had like a leaky ceiling. He

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Speaker 2: and so we did that, and but honestly it was beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Cosmel. It was called like the Grand Plaza Cosmo.

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Speaker 2: But the trip was really inexpensive for flight, hotel, all

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like a lot of people, I know

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Speaker 2: And so I said, I was still gonna write a review,

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Speaker 1: That's the purpose, and we're here to make sure you

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Speaker 2: And what I loved is throughout the whole six days

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Speaker 2: He just was great and I thought I felt so special,

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Speaker 1: So o li Eduardo to a stop, mouie guapo e bien.

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Speaker 3: I said, you are good and handsome. You're well and handsome.

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Speaker 1: You know what that means, EDWARDO you my man? So yeah,

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Speaker 1: So what did you do the week that I was Alain?

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Speaker 3: Oh, well, you know the same thing. Just luxury, just

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't like having a fat savings account.

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Speaker 3: I know, I just keep reminding myself that.

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Speaker 1: But other go ahead. I like my savings account level,

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Speaker 1: like I like my babies nights and chunky, just.

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Speaker 3: so that's happening, but you know what it costs. We're

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Speaker 3: Like first, I mean, just the stuff you need to pack.

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Speaker 3: That's the benefit of being one of the last to

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Speaker 1: What I don't I know, I don't want that. That's

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Speaker 1: So yeah, No I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 2: That's what I really want, but in a very clear

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Speaker 1: And somebody already told me. No.

441
00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,840
Speaker 2: They're like, well, I just started binging on Brown Ambition,

442
00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:53,639
Speaker 2: and I can't believe I have to wait for a

443
00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:54,040
Speaker 2: whole week.

444
00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,240
Speaker 1: Now that I'm finished with my binge, I'm like, I'm.

445
00:17:56,119 --> 00:18:00,840
Speaker 3: Sorry, Sorry, we have to. It has to be. You know,

446
00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:02,639
Speaker 3: one of us has to have a mental breakow at

447
00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:05,359
Speaker 3: least once a year. Right, it's my turn, I'll go first.

448
00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,639
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, last year I had my mental break.

449
00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,399
Speaker 2: I'm sure if I listened to old episodes, I was

450
00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,399
Speaker 2: thinking I was listening to like one or two. I

451
00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,480
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I was in a bad space because

452
00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,159
Speaker 2: every Brown Break was like I'm.

453
00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,119
Speaker 1: Breaking from people who take from you.

454
00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:24,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was a dark time. There's like a month

455
00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,160
Speaker 3: where every Brown Break was someone doing you wrong.

456
00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:28,240
Speaker 1: But I didn't even realize.

457
00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,359
Speaker 2: I was like, ooh, but like, clearly those days are

458
00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:34,640
Speaker 2: gone because I'm happy again. But yeah, I was like, oh, Tiffany, okay, hugs.

459
00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,280
Speaker 2: I mean people still take, but I'm definitely in a

460
00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:42,040
Speaker 2: space where I'm like, girl, I'm not worried about that.

461
00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,000
Speaker 3: That summertime, things are looking up. You want a vacation.

462
00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:48,439
Speaker 3: We're gonna go to Savannah for a little vacation.

463
00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:52,720
Speaker 1: When you go to Savannah, there's an ice cream place

464
00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:54,080
Speaker 1: there that you have to go to. If you just

465
00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:55,479
Speaker 1: trip advisory.

466
00:18:55,119 --> 00:19:00,639
Speaker 3: You'll find it. You know, I'm lactocent, so good.

467
00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 2: And then to make sure you like visit, well you

468
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,000
Speaker 2: can't help, but visit like the Savannah Jewels, like you know,

469
00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:07,000
Speaker 2: all the little parks.

470
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,640
Speaker 3: We're getting married there, so it'll be my fiance's first

471
00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:13,080
Speaker 3: time to see the venue and everything in person, and.

472
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,800
Speaker 2: Go to they have a great buffet at this place

473
00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:19,359
Speaker 2: called Pirates some pirates Cove or pirates something with it,

474
00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,280
Speaker 2: something with pirates in it. But the food is it's

475
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:25,440
Speaker 2: like your grandma's like home style southern cooking, so good,

476
00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,080
Speaker 2: and it's it's normally pretty expensive if you don't go

477
00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:29,760
Speaker 2: for the buffet, but for the buffet you get like

478
00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:30,439
Speaker 2: all the stuff that you.

479
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,560
Speaker 1: Would normally order individually for like twenty bucks.

480
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,080
Speaker 3: Oh yummy. Oh yeah. Send me any recommendations you guys

481
00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:36,640
Speaker 3: have for Savannah.

482
00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 2: It's like one of my favorites. Like when I I

483
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:40,719
Speaker 2: was so surprised at how much I loved it. I've

484
00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:42,679
Speaker 2: always wanted to go just because the pictures look so

485
00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,760
Speaker 2: beautiful and picturesque. But when I got there, I actually

486
00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:47,359
Speaker 2: even took like a they have like a shuttle you

487
00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:50,639
Speaker 2: could take to like they have like little small islands

488
00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,920
Speaker 2: off Savannah. I went to like this place called tib

489
00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:54,600
Speaker 2: Island or Tibby Island.

490
00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:54,919
Speaker 3: Baby Island.

491
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,840
Speaker 1: I'd be oh so pretty, very pretty.

492
00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,679
Speaker 3: I'm excited. I only want a couple times as a

493
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:04,000
Speaker 3: young as a young girl, And last time I went

494
00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:07,159
Speaker 3: to actually book the venue, it was like monsoon raining,

495
00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,880
Speaker 3: So I'm excited to hope for good weather. It's such

496
00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 3: a cute, romantic little town too, so it makes me take.

497
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,760
Speaker 1: Lots of are you guys gonna take like one.

498
00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,080
Speaker 3: Of those engagement photos?

499
00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:17,399
Speaker 1: Oh?

500
00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,880
Speaker 3: I didn't even think about that. I don't know we took.

501
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,479
Speaker 3: This is a true story. We took engagement photos when

502
00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:26,359
Speaker 3: we went to the Dominican Republic for our vacation in February,

503
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 3: because we thought we were gonna get married there. We

504
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 3: wanted to have like a beachy thing.

505
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 1: They were so bad, like somebody's phone flicks, like hey girl, No,

506
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:38,159
Speaker 1: the camera was fine.

507
00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,639
Speaker 3: It was just it was us and it was like, no,

508
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 3: they weren't, you know, my fiance hated them way more

509
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:46,680
Speaker 3: than I did. I was like, we could salvage this one.

510
00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 3: But the guy ended up being not asked, like it

511
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 3: was like a he was like a replacement for somebody,

512
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 3: and he was making us to have these awkward poses

513
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 3: and yeah, I just didn't work out. I mean, they

514
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,239
Speaker 3: weren't expensive, so we have some decent photos for like,

515
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:04,239
Speaker 3: you know, less than a couple hundred bucks, so not

516
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,360
Speaker 3: a huge waste of money. But we're maybe a little

517
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 3: scarred from that experience.

518
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 1: You should do it there, you know they had that

519
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,919
Speaker 1: big that a forsyth arc yes and fronally like the

520
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,400
Speaker 1: big everybody that's photos in front of the big fountain.

521
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe we'll see. I only have two weeks to

522
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 3: figure it out. Maybe this is even better, just like

523
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,119
Speaker 3: last minute, just pick whoever like, find somebody available at

524
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 3: the last minute. We'll see, we'll see. I'm looking forward

525
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 3: to a little little trip though.

526
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:31,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, travel is always the best.

527
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,159
Speaker 3: What a big things happening? Anything in the news you

528
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 3: wanted to talk about.

529
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 1: I've been away. I've been in Mexico, so I don't

530
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 1: know what's going on.

531
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:43,119
Speaker 3: You didn't miss you missed the butt Instagram heard around

532
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,680
Speaker 3: the world. Yeah, the Blake Lively thing. Did you read it?

533
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 3: Did you see that no Blake Lively, you know from

534
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 3: Sister the Traveling Pants and that one show that I

535
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 3: didn't watch that looks really stupid about the kids and

536
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 3: the boarding school. Oh yeah, So Blake Lively was that

537
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 3: con the con festival last week and she posted she's pregnant, right,

538
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 3: so yeah, and she's usually really thin and you know whatever.

539
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 3: So she posted a photo of her in this like

540
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 3: really tight, beautiful gold dress from the front and from

541
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,359
Speaker 3: the back, and she captioned it la face with an

542
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 3: Oakland booty, which happens to be el fa la fab.

543
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 3: That's like the line from sort of mix a Lot's

544
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 3: Baby got Back. Okay, And people took of fence and

545
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 3: said it was like appropriation because she's Yeah. That was

546
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 3: sort of my reaction too. I was like, okay, it's

547
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 3: a line from a song she heard butt. You know,

548
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 3: it looks bodacious, she looks beautiful and whatever in curvy.

549
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,679
Speaker 3: But there's of course all these think pieces on It

550
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 3: was on BuzzFeed, it was on I think even the

551
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 3: New York Times wrote something about it, like all these

552
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 3: blogs are all over it just just dragging her poor Blake.

553
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, and honestly, I didn't like when you said it.

554
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 2: I was like, I knew it was gonna be some mess,

555
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 2: but I didn't. I'm like, girl, especially if it came

556
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,439
Speaker 2: from a song, like I get it, but I'm like,

557
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say that for my brown break.

558
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 3: But yeah, all this like overreacting to little thing. Yes, yes,

559
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 3: I hear you. I think people are just hyper sensitive

560
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 3: right now. Yeah, and they're always trying to catch somebody.

561
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:11,159
Speaker 1: Yes, I do.

562
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 3: I really think Blake Lively has time, you know. I

563
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,239
Speaker 3: don't think she's like racist, Like that's stupid. Even if

564
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 3: you are racist, that's not a thing. Like I think

565
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 3: people over use the word racist. Can I just say

566
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 3: that some things aren't racist. There are stereotypes, there's things

567
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 3: that are stereotypical or bigoted, but like it's such a

568
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 3: I feel like when you say something's racist, you really

569
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 3: have to know what that word means, which is literally

570
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 3: saying that one one race is superior to another. This

571
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 3: is not racism. This is just a girl who likes

572
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 3: a rap song like any other girl and wrote a

573
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 3: line from it. What I Love though, was Sir mix

574
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 3: a lot himself I'm glad somebody asked him to comment

575
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 3: on it, so I think I forget who actually asked

576
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 3: or Mixed a Lot to comment, But he came out.

577
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 3: He was like defending her and being like, well, you

578
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 3: know what, and he actually has some really intelligent things

579
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 3: to say about the song itself. You know, you think

580
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 3: a song about a booty is just like, oh, song

581
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 3: about a booty, but he's like, no, it was the nineties.

582
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 3: Everyone was going after that, like heroin Addict, Like who's

583
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 3: that model from England Kate Moss kind of look like

584
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,120
Speaker 3: really emaciated and like style, and he's like, but then

585
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 3: he wanted women to feel empowered. He had curves and

586
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,439
Speaker 3: he's like, white girls have curves, black girls, whatever, and

587
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 3: so he wrote the song sort of to like to

588
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 3: celebrate that body type. He said, it's great if anybody

589
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 3: you know feels empowered by that, including Blake Lively.

590
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 1: So oh that's good. Yeah maybe actor alone.

591
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 3: I know, Oh it's Hollywood Reporter.

592
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: Go.

593
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 3: I encourage everyone go read Hollywood Reporter's interview with Sir

594
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 3: Mix a Lot, because uh, I thought it was really good, real.

595
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 1: Good, push you real good.

596
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 3: Apparently, apparently the Billboard Awards were last night, but I

597
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 3: don't recognize anybody, so I don't know. Yeah, I'm getting

598
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 3: past that age.

599
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,199
Speaker 1: I am. I know, I am. I don't even care.

600
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 2: You know, when you're getting past the age, when you

601
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: don't even care that you're getting past the age, you're like,

602
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: I don't care.

603
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,679
Speaker 1: Well, I'm like, who are these kids? And they, you know,

604
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: the youngsters like I like to call them.

605
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, that's like nick knack, Patty may give

606
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 2: a dog a bone.

607
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 1: You don't know.

608
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 3: I'm like a girl by well I did. I did

609
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: watch like four episodes of the Good Wife, so I

610
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 3: feel like I'm doing well in life just based on that. Okay,

611
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 3: you don't know The Good Wife, all right, I know

612
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 3: when you don't know what I'm talking about. They're never quiet.

613
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I like, and this too shall pass.

614
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 3: Game of Thrones, No.

615
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I've heard okay withs although I do not watch.

616
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 3: Okay, well, you just seed like what you just seem

617
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 3: like a really good like flu bug or something, and

618
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 3: just a few days just binge watch. That's that's what

619
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 3: got me on The Good Wife. I had that cold

620
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 3: two weeks ago and I watched thirty I watched thirty

621
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 3: eleven episodes of The Good Wife Wow hour period. It

622
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 3: was intense.

623
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 1: Brown, break, Brown, breakbomb boost, What are you? Are you

624
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: gonna boost her? Are you gonna break today?

625
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 3: I'm going to boost today.

626
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna break today.

627
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 3: You break, Go ahead and break.

628
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 2: So I just want to take a break from just

629
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 2: what we kind of talked about earlier. Just sometimes in

630
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: my timeline, I'm like, oh goodness, Like and I'm not

631
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: even gonna say specific things because I don't want you

632
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 2: to come to me. But like, you know, like when

633
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 2: people like what he happened with break Blake.

634
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 1: Lively, you know how everything now is caused for dragging, like,

635
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she said, braids, what get her? Oh

636
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: my gosh, she said. You know, like it's like everything.

637
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 2: Is not just you don't need to destroy everyone's career

638
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 2: for for something that I guess you find offensive, you know,

639
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 2: because some things there are definitely levels of offense, you know,

640
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 2: and I feel like every level is being treated the

641
00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: same these days, like someone saying the N word and

642
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 2: someone saying la face with the Oakland booty from a

643
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: Baby Got Back song.

644
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: It's not the same. It doesn't require the same amount

645
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: of uproar. But I feel like that's just a new

646
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: thing now, like everyone loves to drag. Remember that young girl,

647
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 1: what was her name? She was like, she's like this

648
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: young up.

649
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: And coming R and B singer. She was dating a

650
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 2: basketball player. I forget how sea. So she was dating

651
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 2: a basketball player.

652
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 3: Sah, Yeah, her.

653
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 1: Name is Cia and she was dating another No, seya,

654
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 1: she's young.

655
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 3: Are there to SIUs? You see you wan A Shandel?

656
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, see, I think it's her.

657
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Speaker 3: Oh she's dating a basketball player.

658
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Speaker 2: Well she was, oh, And then what happened was, so

659
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Speaker 2: she used to be boyfriend and girlfriend with this rapper

660
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Speaker 2: I think his name was Party next Door. But he

661
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: was like, I guess not treating her well. So she

662
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Speaker 2: was dating this basketball player and supposedly all in love

663
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Speaker 2: blah blah blah. But then I guess she was.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she was secretly seeing her ex boyfriend,

665
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Speaker 1: the party next door guy, like behind the scenes. So

666
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Speaker 1: the patty next door guy. I thought it was a

667
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Speaker 1: good idea that while she was sleeping to take a

668
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Speaker 1: picture of like her laying next to him, like just

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Speaker 1: a picture of her hand in his hand. But she

670
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Speaker 1: has a very a very distinguishable tattoo on her hand,

671
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Speaker 1: basically being like all that fuss and she's back in

672
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Speaker 1: my arms. Basically, you know, just some young foolishness. So

673
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Speaker 1: all of these people went to Facebook to drag her, oh,

674
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Speaker 1: calling her all kind of sluts and horrores and all

675
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: this other stuff, and she tried to kill herself. Wait

676
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Speaker 1: because this this was maybe like a few months ago.

677
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Speaker 3: See you tried to kill herself?

678
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Speaker 1: What? Yeah?

679
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 2: Because of that, because people were calling her terrible names

680
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Speaker 2: and just just making her miserable.

681
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Speaker 1: And you know she's young, they're like early twenty that young.

682
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Speaker 3: I think you're talking about someone else.

683
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Speaker 1: Maybe I am talking about somebody else. Somebody's like tivity.

684
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Speaker 1: Look at your old self. You just get on it.

685
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna pull I'm gonna pull the

686
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 3: alarm Beyonce style on this. It's freddy sure that cannot

687
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Speaker 3: be the see it on thinking with the blonde wig.

688
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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, that's not her. I named this well

689
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: so goog who party next door? Whatever?

690
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 3: That whole premise of the story is a lie.

691
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 2: So anyway, I just thought it was crazy because I

692
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 2: thought things like that happen. And you just know that

693
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 2: don't understand the effect that like dragging someone on social

694
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Speaker 2: media has, you know.

695
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 3: Yes, bullying, it's like a different kind of bullying.

696
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 2: Yes, And it's just I don't know. I'm just over it,

697
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 2: you know, And I'm just like, oh my gosh, like

698
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 2: I'm just over it. And I just feel like everything

699
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: doesn't have to have to result in all of that,

700
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 2: you know, everything doesn't have to like go so far.

701
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:35,959
Speaker 2: Her name, I'm sorry I said, see her her name

702
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,479
Speaker 2: is Kalanie girl boy Okay, she was dating Kyrie Irving.

703
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 2: Kyrie Irving is like as a basketball player, and his

704
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 2: girlfriend was named Klannie and she supposedly, I guess, was

705
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 2: cheating on her boyfriend with her ex boyfriend. And then

706
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Speaker 2: that she's twenty.

707
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Speaker 3: And so much is so this is I'm already lost.

708
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Speaker 1: I know. So I'm sorry.

709
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 2: Anyway, they would dragging this poor girl, this poor girl

710
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Speaker 2: deciding that she was gonna I take her life because

711
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: she was so overwhelmed and she's young, and I just thought,

712
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Speaker 2: like all of that.

713
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Speaker 1: And then you know what was so crazy is that

714
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Speaker 1: you would think that way. People back off, people were

715
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: like kill yourself then, and I'm like, what is wrong

716
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Speaker 1: with people?

717
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Speaker 3: I've been told to kill myself, like you know, being

718
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Speaker 3: the Internet, being anyone who's out in the public eye.

719
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Speaker 3: And I'm barely in the public eye, Like the public

720
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 3: eye for me is like half blind. But like anything

721
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Speaker 3: I write, any article I write, for example, well I

722
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Speaker 3: don't want to take over your brown break or whatever,

723
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Speaker 3: but anything. So I was going to talk about I

724
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Speaker 3: was going to try and make a positive brown boost,

725
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 3: but really it's a brown break, So I wrote earlier

726
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Speaker 3: this week. Robin Wright, the actress from House of Cards.

727
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Speaker 3: If you know her, she's blonde. She used to be

728
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Speaker 3: married to Sean Penn. So she was doing an interview

729
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Speaker 3: at a charity event and she so she on the

730
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Speaker 3: show House of Cards. She is a co star with

731
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Speaker 3: the main character who plays a president, Kevin Spacey, the actor,

732
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Speaker 3: and she talked about how she stood up for herself

733
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Speaker 3: to executives at Netflix and asked to be paid as

734
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 3: much as Kevin Spacey when she realized her character was

735
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Speaker 3: more popular than his in the whatever polling they used

736
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Speaker 3: or whatever. And so all of a sudden, she's becoming

737
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Speaker 3: this new shero for feminism, and you know, you know,

738
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Speaker 3: all hale Robin Wright for standing up for herself. By

739
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 3: the way she stood up for herself and instead of

740
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,479
Speaker 3: making four hundred and twenty thousand dollars an episode, she

741
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: now makes half a million dollars an episode. And so

742
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Speaker 3: I decided to write an opinion piece, which I do sometimes,

743
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 3: because she's not the first like white Hollywood actress to

744
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 3: come up and like, you know, try and inspire people

745
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 3: by talking about, you know, negotiating for higher pay or whatever.

746
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Speaker 3: There was Patricia Arquette, There's Emma Watson, there's Jennifer Lawrence.

747
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 3: They've all and especially Jennifer Lawrence and Patricia because they've

748
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 3: both come out publicly. And Jennifer Lawrence wrote that article

749
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 3: for Lenny Letter back in August about how she asked

750
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Speaker 3: for more when she found out that her co stars

751
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,719
Speaker 3: on a movie made more than her or whatnot. This

752
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 3: is like sort of becoming a and I had to

753
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: write something about it, and I wrote that I don't

754
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 3: feel like it's fair to make for these women to

755
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 3: sort of be the face of feminism in the equal

756
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 3: pay gap, because what so often gets ignored and what

757
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 3: I've talked about before but still happens, is that the

758
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 3: pay gap is so much worse for women of color

759
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Speaker 3: and I feel like you don't ever see their voices

760
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 3: in the conversation or people who represent women of color

761
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 3: sort of get up and talk about it. It's usually

762
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 3: very wealthy, you know, well off the Sheryl Sandberg's, the

763
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Speaker 3: Robin Wright's, Jennifer Lawrence's and stuff. So I wrote a

764
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Speaker 3: story about that, which or not a story, an opinion

765
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Speaker 3: column about how we need sort of like still celebrating

766
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Speaker 3: Robin Wright because I feel like, you know, women should

767
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 3: definitely feel empowered to ask for more, but then sort

768
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 3: of asking the question why can't we in the same

769
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Speaker 3: sentence mention the fact that you know, women make of course,

770
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Speaker 3: women make eighty cents for a dollar that a man makes,

771
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Speaker 3: but that's not all women. That is, white women and

772
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Speaker 3: Asian women, like black women make fifty cents. Women Mexico.

773
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 3: I think maybe I'm mixing these up, but black women

774
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 3: make fifty cents or sixty cents to the dollar, and

775
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 3: it's very similar for Latina women. And anyway, I wrote

776
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Speaker 3: about that, and of course people dragged me in the comments,

777
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Speaker 3: which I knew the post was going to be a

778
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 3: little controversial, but everything was so personal. It's like, you know, Mandy,

779
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 3: I mean obviously it's an it's a first person opinion column.

780
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 3: But I felt like, and you can't really expect more

781
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Speaker 3: from like Yahoo commenters, honestly because they were like the

782
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Speaker 3: worst of the worst, but they were they really are

783
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Speaker 3: no Like if you just look, they're like trolls. I

784
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: mean all they do and they they write just there's

785
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Speaker 3: no other website I've seen that gets thousands and thousands

786
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Speaker 3: of comments like we do at Yahoo. I don't know

787
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Speaker 3: who these people are, but they didn't like that. They

788
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 3: didn't they called me racist, like reverse racist for talking

789
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 3: about that, And I guess it kind of goes into that,

790
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 3: like it's sort of like, rather than have the conversation,

791
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 3: you'd rather just call someone a racist and then turn

792
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Speaker 3: the other way now instead of actually talking about the

793
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 3: point that that person's making. And we can argue about

794
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 3: whether the point is valid, I guess, but the research

795
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 3: is on my side here, I feel like, So I

796
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 3: guess that's just like a risk you take when you're

797
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,360
Speaker 3: writing for everyone else.

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Speaker 2: I just I just sometimes I learned not to like

799
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Speaker 2: like on my own block, it's different, you know, because

800
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Speaker 2: people who usually come are there because they like me.

801
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 2: But you're right, like when something happens, like when I

802
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 2: get something like in the Forbes or like even Yahoo whatever,

803
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 2: you're like, oh my god, people are the worst.

804
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 3: You know, we had we had Lynette Califani cox On.

805
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Speaker 1: You know I love this amazing.

806
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Speaker 3: Yeah, the money coach awesome. If you don't know Lynette,

807
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 3: google her. She's great. So I interviewed her because she

808
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 3: helps her daughter win over half a million dollars in

809
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 3: scholarships for all that's like the combination of all the

810
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 3: money that they got for all the colleges she was

811
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Speaker 3: accept too. Anyway, I wrote this story. It is a

812
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 3: positive story. It is a mother whose daughter is smart

813
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 3: and they got all this money. What are the comments saying, well,

814
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 3: she only got in because she's black. She only got

815
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 3: the scholarship because she's black. And I just had to

816
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 3: turn the comments off and tell Lynette I'm so sorry,

817
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 3: because you know, people are just monsters.

818
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I don't say I want to be like

819
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Speaker 1: I mean, I just need you to take a breath,

820
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Speaker 1: take a look at a mirror, and say, you know what,

821
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Speaker 1: God loves me, I should love myself.

822
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 2: Like what in the world, what's wrong that you have

823
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 2: decided that you are going to take it to your

824
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 2: computer and spew venom like they're you can't possibly be

825
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 2: happy in your regular, everyday life because happy, regular.

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Speaker 1: Every day life people are not doing that. No one's

827
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Speaker 1: thinking about things like that.

828
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Speaker 2: I would never imagine, like spitting venom to someone who

829
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Speaker 2: I didn't know online, Like that doesn't even cross my mind.

830
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, yeah, honestly, I feel more sorry

831
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 2: for those people because at the end of the day,

832
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 2: you know, I will continue to and everybody else you

833
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 2: know will continue to move forward, and you'll be stuck

834
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Speaker 2: behind your computer. If that's the kind of life that

835
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Speaker 2: you want to live. I mean, people have said some

836
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 2: terrible things like I'll read it. I'm like, oh my,

837
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,320
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm like, do why ever want to read the comment?

838
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 2: Like whenever an article is written about me that's not

839
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Speaker 2: on my site. I mean I'd been called everything like that.

840
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 2: Who don't know nothing? I want to see the seats?

841
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 2: Why I gotta be a hodo? Or like just some

842
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: crazy things. People are just crazy. And it depends on

843
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 2: the site too. There's certain sites that you know you're

844
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 2: just gonna get dragon more than others. But I mean,

845
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 2: such as life, you just learn to be like whatever

846
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 2: she don't know me or he doesn't know me.

847
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Speaker 3: There's people in the public that are like in the

848
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Speaker 3: public sphere, like us, who understand that comes to the territory.

849
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Speaker 3: Then there's like twelve year olds in the middle school

850
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 3: who don't. Yeah, I deserve that, who get it? Brown

851
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 3: break from bullying online bullying.

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Speaker 1: Amen?

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Speaker 3: All right, So again, and if you guys want to

854
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 3: send a question, we are happy to take them. Our

855
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 3: email is Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com. And

856
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 3: this week we have a question from anonymous. I don't

857
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 3: I think she wants to be anonymous. I'm not sure,

858
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 3: So she says, I have a question. I currently participate

859
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Speaker 3: in my company's four one K plan. I contribute eleven

860
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Speaker 3: and a half percent and my company matches four percent.

861
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Speaker 3: My question is should I reduce the amount that I

862
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Speaker 3: contribute and use that amount to start a roth Ira.

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Speaker 3: My thinking is that I'd be able to save some

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Speaker 3: income for my Wanda years. Yes, for that won't be text.

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Speaker 3: I'm thirty six years old. If this helps, please feel

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Speaker 3: free to use my name. Oh okay, Hi Anna, Sorry

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Speaker 3: she wants us to use her name. Hey Anna, thank

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Speaker 3: you for writing. Yeah, so I can answer this really quickly.

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Speaker 3: Or try to. So just right out the bat, this

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Speaker 3: is going to get a little technical, but stay with

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Speaker 3: me because it's important. So we've talked about roth iras before.

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00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 3: Just really quick, the difference between a roth and a

873
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: traditional ira or for one k is that when you

874
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Speaker 3: put money in a roth, you pay taxes today, whereas

875
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 3: with a traditional ira or a roth or sorry, a

876
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 3: traditional ira or four one k, you'd put money in

877
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 3: tax free, and then when you retire and you take

878
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 3: the money out, you would pay taxes then. So why

879
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 3: would you ever want to pay taxes now when you

880
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 3: can just put that off until later. The idea is,

881
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 3: especially if you're younger, is that you're in a lower

882
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 3: income tax bracket now. Now we don't know what the

883
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 3: tax brackets will be like ten, you know, forty years

884
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 3: in the future, but today you can you can kind

885
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 3: of assume if you're twenty two, you're gonna earn a

886
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 3: lot more in the future than you do now, so

887
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,760
Speaker 3: you'd pay a lower tax rate today than you probably

888
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 3: would in the future. So people pretty much say, if

889
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 3: you're younger, get a roth, because you pay taxes today

890
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 3: and you can probably pay less taxes that way. Okay,

891
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 3: So that's out of the way.

892
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 1: Now.

893
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 3: The difference, and what I'll say here is that so

894
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 3: when you're contributing to a company's four one K plan,

895
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 3: your contribution limits are typically a lot higher. I believe

896
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 3: it's about eighteen thousand dollars is the max limit you

897
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 3: can put in a year. When you open up a

898
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 3: wroth ira personal ira that's not through a company, your

899
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 3: limit is drastically reduced. I think it's only fifty five

900
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 3: hundred dollars a year or something close to that. So

901
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 3: you may not be you may over. You may put

902
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 3: yourself over that limit by having a wroth ira on

903
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 3: the side. So if you think that, you know you're

904
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 3: already contributing really aggressively, eleven and a half percent is awesome.

905
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 3: I'm just worried, like if you if you take your

906
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 3: money out and put it into a wroth and you

907
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 3: hit that limit, like well you just you know, if

908
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 3: you're not going to hit that limit, then sure you

909
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 3: can think about it like that's you know, nothing's wrong

910
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 3: with starting a wroth, But if you feel like you're

911
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 3: gonna go over that limit and you want to contribute,

912
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 3: you know, really close to that eighteen thousand dollars sealing

913
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 3: that you have, then probably just stick with your companies

914
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 3: for a one K. That's my quick take on it.

915
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: And I say, okay, that's not my poor taste.

916
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 3: Did y'all follow was really well, Tiffany at all?

917
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:58,399
Speaker 1: I did? I did? Five.

918
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Speaker 2: I was like, I mean, I knew obviously what a

919
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 2: rock I was and stuff, but I the explanation to

920
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 2: me made sense. But I'm also like, you know, I

921
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:11,240
Speaker 2: have a special financial ear but you know, that's this stuff.

922
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 3: They make it so complicated, but like regular folks have

923
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 3: to be able to use it. It's you know, it's it's

924
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 3: it's really unfortunate that whoever that these tax people or

925
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 3: whoever Congress people crazy these crazy rules. If you're super confused,

926
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Speaker 3: I would definitely recommend talking to a financial planner who

927
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 3: can who can help you, or an investment advisor who

928
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 3: can help you really make the decision that's right for you,

929
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 3: who doesn't just have like, you know, a couple pieces

930
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Speaker 3: of information like we do agreed, agreed, Yeah, retirement, yay, Wanda,

931
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Speaker 3: she stole your Wanda name for a future.

932
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: I know what was your name again? Who's your old

933
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 1: lady name?

934
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Speaker 3: Mine? Oh Jesus already forgot.

935
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Speaker 1: Oh.

936
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Speaker 3: I think maybe Dolores, Laura or Doris, because my grandma's

937
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,479
Speaker 3: name was Doris, like your grandma. You know, old names

938
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 3: are now in say like eleanor yeah, eleanor my I

939
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 3: heard someone named their kid Dolores. Like there's no, wait

940
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 3: a second, who is this? I forget who? I don't

941
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 3: want to call someone out of It's someone I know

942
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 3: personally and they listen to the podcast. But yeah, you.

943
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:13,760
Speaker 1: Like, nevermind.

944
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 3: Like this person had a really cute, normal name for

945
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 3: the first kid, like I don't know, Stephanie or Maggie

946
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 3: or something like that. And then another kid was like

947
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 3: named an old timey like Nancy or Doris or something

948
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 3: like that. I'm like, are you gonna do that to

949
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 3: your kids?

950
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Speaker 1: I knew a girl name of Gertrude and we just

951
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: called her Trudy. But I'm like, why would you name

952
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 1: a little baby Gertrude. That's just like she's eighty at eight?

953
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 3: It was like babies with like baby boys with like

954
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 3: grown man names like George.

955
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: This is George. I love when people give their dogs

956
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: like regular names. Oh, this is Jack. You're like, oh,

957
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: that's cute, that's cute, you know, I do like that

958
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 1: because it's like not doggie names, but it just makes

959
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: the dog seem like or like, you know, especially they

960
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: get the dog like a serious Benjamin. Why is your

961
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: dog named Benjamin? But I like that though, all right,

962
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: any wins.

963
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 3: All I knew was win win when no matter, but

964
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 3: got money on a mon and I never give up. WHOA, Yes,

965
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 3: I have a win other than possibly almost finding my

966
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 3: wedding dress. Oh really, is that breaking news? Don't dun't dun't. Yeah,

967
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure. I just have to speak to my

968
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 3: pastor and my spiritual advisors first. No, I'm kidding. I

969
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 3: need to figure out if I can afford it or not.

970
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,479
Speaker 3: But yeah, I put on the dress and it felt

971
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 3: really good. It's the first dress I've tried on like

972
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 3: maybe six it's the first one that really felt like

973
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 3: it could be it. So we'll see. But my win

974
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 3: actually is completely different other than oh and the woman

975
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 3: who the one hundred year old woman who ran the

976
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 3: one hundred meter dash? Yes, did you watch that video?

977
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: She but then she got up and she killed it.

978
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 3: I know, I know she's so cute.

979
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: I'm kind of fake. So I do have a win.

980
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a personal win.

981
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 2: So this big brand, I think I'm gonna keep it

982
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 2: kind of vague like you until I actually signed the contract,

983
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 2: but it's a go. They it's a non financial brand,

984
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 2: and it's like the biggest I don't know, like the

985
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 2: biggest opportunity I've ever had to work with the brand.

986
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 2: I just couldn't believe they reached out to a little old, brown, brown.

987
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: Ambition me.

988
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 2: And they're like, oh, they just think you're an influencer.

989
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 2: It's just it's just nice for a brand who is like,

990
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 2: we know you influence women of color to say that's

991
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 2: what we want, you know, And so it's huge, honestly,

992
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 2: Like it's a I think I can I think I

993
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: can share a little that it's a car brand, which

994
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, Wow, they're actually gonna give you a car

995
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 2: to drive, which I'm like, woo woo wow.

996
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 3: Is that the jail You drive the car and you're

997
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 3: seene in it.

998
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 2: That's part of it. It's a bunch of things. I know, right,

999
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: I'm not telling you anything that I signed that convict hope. Okay, yeah,

1000
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: but I mean i'll tell you Mandy, you know offset, But.

1001
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 3: But I'm superstitious, don't worry.

1002
00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: No, I'm not.

1003
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 3: I signed my new offer, and I still feel like

1004
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 3: I had any pulment it could happen, Like don't you know.

1005
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 2: My superstition is the more people I tell, the more

1006
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 2: likely it is to happen. That's honestly I feel like that.

1007
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, So it's just a huge It's not

1008
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 2: even about the money or anything like that. It's just

1009
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,399
Speaker 2: a huge Like, you know, six years ago, I said,

1010
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 2: you know, hey, brown girls are not being showed how

1011
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 2: to like manage your money. And I'm not anybody's guru

1012
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 2: by any stretch of the imagination. I just back then,

1013
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 2: I was like, look, I know how to budget, I

1014
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 2: know how to save.

1015
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: I can show you that.

1016
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,800
Speaker 2: And that's how it started, just like women that I

1017
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 2: knew that didn't know how to budget and save and

1018
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 2: I wanted to help. And now here we are, and

1019
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 2: now this car company is like, hey, you're an influencer.

1020
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: We want to work with you. So it just feels

1021
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: so surreal, you know, I'm just really thankful. So that's

1022
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:44,760
Speaker 1: my question.

1023
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 3: So cold where I am I can't really stand very well,

1024
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 3: but I'm not. That's awesome. Can't wait to see what

1025
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 3: it is, can I get a ride.

1026
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: Everybody said that, like Superman was like you think they

1027
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 1: give me one? No? Now? Yeah?

1028
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh that's a great way to end the show.

1029
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 3: Thanks guys. If you have any questions, email, concerns, comments,

1030
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:12,360
Speaker 3: nasty ones.

1031
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 2: You can keep to yourself, but you can tweet us

1032
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 2: at the BA Podcast on Twitter, Brown Ambition on Facebook.

1033
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 3: And email us at Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail dot

1034
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 3: com dot com. Okay,