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Speaker 1: Today, I fed up by being on front instead of

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Speaker 1: ghosting my lame, ugly, disastrously stupid, not worth a piece

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Speaker 1: of crap date.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's right. I hate you, damn bro hate. These

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Speaker 2: people are going all out.

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Speaker 1: So I thirty female, went on a date with a

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Speaker 1: guy thirty one male who I met a few days ago.

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Speaker 1: I thought he was cute, and he told me how

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Speaker 1: sweet and pretty I was and that he wanted to

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Speaker 1: take me on a date.

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Speaker 3: That's how you do it, gents.

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Speaker 1: You know, every time, you know, I always say you

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Speaker 1: look so sweet and pretty. Right, that is the that's

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Speaker 1: the method.

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Speaker 2: I actually say you're a good for nothing, worthless, dirty

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Speaker 2: rotten diaper man. Yeah, that always works. Reverse psychology, right,

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Speaker 2: that's called negging.

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Speaker 3: Negging. Yeah, it's like when you playfully make fun of someone. Ah,

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Speaker 3: I see now.

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Speaker 1: We went on a date for tacos and Margaritia's at

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Speaker 1: one of my favorite taco spots. Throughout the day, it

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Speaker 1: felt pretty one sided because I was trying to make

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Speaker 1: conversation and all he wanted to do was get out

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Speaker 1: of the taco place and walk around so we could

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Speaker 1: hold hands.

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Speaker 2: That seems a little fast, my guy, you know, really

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Speaker 2: trying to hold hands on a first date.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, are you not a standard gentleman or what? In

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Speaker 1: my best fifties voice, I quickly started to realize our

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Speaker 1: communication styles were completely different and I was not feeling

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Speaker 1: any kind of spark. We got done with tacos and

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Speaker 1: I suggested we go to a spot with board and

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Speaker 1: card games instead of just walking around. Pretty good idea,

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Speaker 1: ask me. He insisted on walking around and holding my hand,

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Speaker 1: putting his arm around me, and constantly touching my face

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Speaker 1: until I had to finally demand that he stopped touching

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Speaker 1: my face.

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Speaker 3: Man, that has the least smooth moves.

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Speaker 1: So he's like one arm around. That's like, that's just

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Speaker 1: like physically it feels like physically uncomfortable for him. Yea,

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Speaker 1: even like I got to like hold it. That's a

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Speaker 1: good God, this guy's weird, ridiculous. I could not wait

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Speaker 1: for my day to be over with. I was relieved

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Speaker 1: after he finally dropped me back off at my car.

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Speaker 3: Today.

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Speaker 1: He asked to go to the cinema for our next day,

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Speaker 1: and I told him that I was grateful for the

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Speaker 1: tacos and his time, but I wasn't feeling it and

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Speaker 1: it would be best to just be friends. He responded with, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't buy food and drink from my friends.

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Speaker 1: You drink to drinks and food, So I need thirty

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Speaker 1: dollars back.

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Speaker 3: Petty.

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Speaker 1: Wow, petty, I don't even know how to respond to that.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling like I guess I should have just ghosted him.

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Speaker 1: And there's an update.

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Speaker 3: Did he pay him back?

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Speaker 1: Let's see, I haven't responded, and now he is calling

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Speaker 1: me a scammer. And then he knows another guy from

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Speaker 1: the bar that I work at, and then I pulled

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Speaker 1: the same scam on Okay, this is funny to me

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Speaker 1: because this guy is the only person I've gone on

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Speaker 1: a date with that I've met while bartending, and he

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Speaker 1: only has lived here for about ten months. He is

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Speaker 1: threatening to talk to my employer about this scam that

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Speaker 1: I am running.

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Speaker 3: My god, this guy is terrible. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: This is also amusing as my boss and I are

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Speaker 1: very close and he is the owner of the bar.

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Speaker 1: I kept the owner in on the loop about everything

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Speaker 1: from the start, before even going into the date, and

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Speaker 1: he thinks it would be hilarious if this guy tried

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Speaker 1: to come in and talk to him about my so

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Speaker 1: called scam.

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Speaker 3: This is ridiculous. This guy is a classic nice guy.

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Speaker 1: Big Honestly, he's not even like nice guy. He just weird,

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Speaker 1: shitty guy all around. He's not even pretending to be nice. No,

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Speaker 1: and we finally have a final update. He hasn't messaged

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Speaker 1: me again, nor did he come into my workplace tonight.

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Speaker 1: My boss was a little disappointed he didn't get to

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Speaker 1: have fun and shout with this guy. I'm relieved as

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Speaker 1: I feel like he's probably dropped it and moved on,

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Speaker 1: at least I really hope. So if anything progresses, all

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Speaker 1: post said, but hopefully I am done with this ridiculousness.

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Speaker 3: Thank god, thank god,