1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This one's from 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,800 Speaker 1: Shay in Southfield. She says, in December, my boyfriend said 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: he needed a break after he had a major health scare, 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: and instead of letting me be there for him, he 5 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 1: chose space. I gave him space, and I spent the 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: New Year's Eve with an X. Does he have the 7 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: right to be mad at me? 8 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: God? 9 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 3: Wow? Wow? 10 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 4: He needed space? What's the girl to do? 11 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 3: He needed space and you spent New Year's Eve with 12 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:29,639 Speaker 3: an X? 13 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 2: Wow? Yep, So I guess you took that to see 14 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: once again, Junior. That's a prime example right there. See, 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 2: he expressed himself and said he needed space. 16 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 3: Now I guess what you see? Who do them? 17 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,319 Speaker 2: It's a trap question. So if you need space, then 18 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 2: I need more space. See that's all a trap. Don't 19 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: don't even fall from that. Does he have a right 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 2: to be mad? Yeah? Yeah, he got a right to 21 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 2: be mad because he asked for space. Now, y'all to 22 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: start dating other people and I don't know what the 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 2: health scial was, but you know you gave him space. 24 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 4: Yeah? 25 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 3: All right? 26 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 4: Jeremy and kissed Jeremy and Charlotte. 27 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: Jeremy says, my wife and I met at work and 28 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 1: used to have sex in her car when we first met. 29 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,759 Speaker 1: She wants to be a socialite really bad now, and 30 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: the sweet things that I've always done for her aren't 31 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: good enough. 32 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 4: Now? Would I be wrong to give her a reality check? 33 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 2: Well, bro, I don't understand what you're saying, because the 34 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 2: sweet things you used to do for her the only 35 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 2: thing you told us y'all had sex in a car. 36 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 2: Now she wants to be a socialite, but you still 37 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: won't have sex in a car. Well, so what did 38 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 2: you say? Y'alled down to the socialite ball before you 39 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 2: go in? You knock it out in the car right 40 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: quick before you go in. She don't want to do that. 41 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 2: I don't really know what you're saying, bro, because I don't. 42 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 2: You didn't give us no example of all the kind 43 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: little things you've done for You made one statement, we 44 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 2: used to have sex in the car for we got mad, 45 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: Now we're mad. She want to be a social act 46 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 2: now she don't want to do She don't appreciate the 47 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 2: little things I've done for her. So I'm just assuming 48 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 2: she done took sex in the car off the table? 49 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: No oh now she boogie? 50 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 4: Now? 51 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: Oh now you don't want to get you don't want 52 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 2: to get rolled over in the car. 53 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: No more. 54 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 4: Okay, oh you actually. 55 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 3: Brand new now I'll be. 56 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 4: All right. 57 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 3: Well it sound right, bro, next with. 58 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 4: Your moving on to Marlee and the DMV. 59 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: Marley writes, my husband stayed out all night Saturday night 60 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: and he said he was in a casino and lost 61 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: track of time. I tried to go off on him, 62 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: and he turned it around on me, saying I should 63 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: have called and checked on him. Does he have a 64 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,399 Speaker 1: valid point or is this a cover up? 65 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 3: Absolutely? 66 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: He has a valid point. Absolutely. First of all, there 67 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 2: are no clocks in the casino nowhere. You can lose 68 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:32,679 Speaker 2: track of time in the casino. I have done it 69 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: many times. 70 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 4: And then call. 71 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 3: Call for what. 72 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 2: You Okay, Yeah, you should have called and checked on me. 73 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: Wasn't no miscall. You ain't on me to call. 74 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 2: I'm gambling, I'm trying to change your circumstances. 75 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,119 Speaker 3: I'm out here trying to crack. 76 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 2: And you sitting up in here dog in me because 77 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: I'm here trying to handle beers and stuff. I be Yeah, 78 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 2: he has a valid point. And you know what, if 79 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 2: you're not gonna check on him, you can't expect him 80 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 2: to call and he was in a casino and he 81 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 2: lost track of time. That sounds very very valid to me. Plus, 82 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: you have no proof of anything else happening. Are you 83 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: now your little mind and playing tricks on you? Here? 84 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 4: We're go last one, Steve. This is from Trina and Phoenix. 85 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,119 Speaker 1: Trina says, I met a man online eight months ago 86 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: and he's tired of our long distance relationship. I suggested 87 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: he moved to Phoenix and he said there aren't enough 88 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:32,119 Speaker 1: black people here. 89 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 4: That's a dumb excuse to me. 90 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: But why hasn't he asked me to move to Atlanta? 91 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 3: Well, you got two things working here. 92 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 2: He is absolutely correct that he not coming out to 93 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 2: Phoenix because the ain't enough black people out that that's 94 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 2: one of the major reasons I'm not gonna ever move 95 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 2: to Phoenix. And I'm not going to a state that 96 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 2: fights against a day off a holiday. 97 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 3: That's racism at whole nother level. 98 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 2: So he has a valid point that are not enough 99 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: black people in Phoenix and the reason you ain't coming 100 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 2: to Atlanta is because there's too many black people in Atlantic. 101 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 2: He is one more y'alluse he fooled. He full of 102 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 2: Atlanta for let me tell you, so he online dating too, girl. 103 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: I told him to come to Phoenix. He tied a relationship. 104 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 2: But now he said, see but see, lady, guess what. 105 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 2: You're not listening to what he said. He said he 106 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 2: tied at the long this relationship. He ain't saying he 107 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 2: wanted to close the gap. All he told you was 108 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 2: he tired of the long dis relationship. You suggested he 109 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 2: moved to Phoenix. He say, ain't no black people like that. 110 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 2: Now you want to know why he ain't asked you 111 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: to move to Atlanta because he tied at a long 112 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 2: dis relationship. 113 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 3: And guess who the relationship with? 114 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 4: You? 115 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 2: See why why y'all don't read the whole message. The 116 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,799 Speaker 2: reason he not asking you to come to Atlanta because 117 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 2: he tired of the long this is relationship. 118 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 3: That's what will saying I'm tired of you. 119 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: I'm just a nice way of saying it is that 120 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: what it is? 121 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 2: You know me, and you know me, and you know 122 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 2: we avoid You know how we really got to be 123 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: the bad guy night, Julie, pay attention for me, I know, 124 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: I just pay attention to that, all right, attention to 125 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 2: see how he did it. I'm tired this long, this relationship, 126 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 2: you move the fingers. Ain't enough black people? 127 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 4: Well okay, then all right, all right, well thank you fello. 128 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 3: It'ster Steve Robin Marty show Man. 129 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 2: If he was going to commit a robbery, who would 130 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 2: you do with Shirley a caller? How would you why 131 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 2: we're heard Colin, hands down, we can stop this question. 132 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: Shearlie got a cup problem. First of all, she don't cuss. Now, 133 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 2: how we gonna get everybody in the slow at the Robbie? 134 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 2: And you don't want to cuff guys. 135 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 4: We need everyone to get on the floor. 136 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:00,359 Speaker 2: No, see, you need somebody to cuss. That's how you 137 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: get them in the flow. That's the first problem. 138 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 139 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 2: Secondly, when I hollered, eh bote it down. Yeah, then 140 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: here comes the correction, Steve, it's everyone okay. Now we 141 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 2: got another problem. Then number three, she's scary. Yeah, it's 142 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 2: just a real scary person. And then she busy. She 143 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 2: all at the robbery with heels on and stuff, got 144 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: a mid drift top on and all this heit What 145 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: are you doing crop? 146 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't wear though. 147 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 2: I need calling somebody in. There's gonna be hood. And 148 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 2: then the last thing, Sureley too honest. 149 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: Yes it was us. 150 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 3: We don't have video. It's okay, it was us. 151 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 2: I cannot lie ye in that line, got a mask 152 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 2: on and cussed everybody out, shot somebody in the leg. 153 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 2: We're gonna come out of that to was it you 154 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 2: let know? That's her favorite word, allegedly really. 155 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 3: Gonna tell the truth, Morrier, Steve Harby Morning Show coming 156 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 3: up right after that.