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Speaker 1: It's the Bread show. This is what's trending. So I

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Speaker 1: want to know how many parents can relate to this.

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Speaker 1: This has gone viral on TikTok. It's a dad who

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Speaker 1: took his son to a medical appointment for the first

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Speaker 2: Here's some of the audio from this.

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Speaker 1: Clip though, But I mean, how many parents listening now,

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Speaker 1: Like whether it's husband and wife. I'm not going to generalize,

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Speaker 1: but like if if Ruvio, if Jess sent you and

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Speaker 1: Ashlem to the doctor right now, could you capably fill

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Speaker 1: out all the paperwork? Do you know all the answers? Yes,

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Speaker 1: you know all the answers. You know his blood type?

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Speaker 1: Ok yeah, it's a mix between me and.

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Speaker 2: Jess, so it's a mix.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know his first, middle, last name, birthday, and

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Speaker 2: Yeah. How much is he weigh right now? Thirty four pounds?

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Speaker 2: There you go see. Okay, maybe you could do this,

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Speaker 3: Non default school nightmarried the questions my wife's to that

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Speaker 2: I said, I'm guessing, and I know I should no more,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. What age your child first? Maybe first malee?

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Speaker 2: Maybe fourteen months? And reference was clearly indicated at what age?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't even think people parents would know that, right?

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Speaker 2: Also easy? Does your kid like school? Do you like school.

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Speaker 2: And I guess it's like, have you ever chatted with

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Speaker 2: your child before? Like you, I don't know. It sounds bad.

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Speaker 2: I know these answers about you, guys, and you're not

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Speaker 2: I don't need to make it about a dad.

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Speaker 1: I will say, I think in many cases, you've got

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Speaker 2: Are both going to work? But you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like moms sometimes wind up with a more

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Speaker 1: or maybe dads are just I don't I don't want

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Speaker 2: Or we do we remember different things. Is it like we.

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Speaker 1: Expect our wives or partners to remember these things. Is

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Speaker 1: it a male female thing. I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I don't think it's a male female thing because I

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Speaker 7: just said this happening yesterday. I took Lucks to get

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Speaker 7: Then he's like, where's his Rapi's forms. I'm like, uh,

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Speaker 7: it's not on the sheet that I have. He's like no,

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Speaker 7: So like we literally had to walk out, and now

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Speaker 2: I can't remember.

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Speaker 8: It's not gender, he said, whoever's not the default parent,

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Speaker 8: which is like the parent who usually handles that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. That makes sense. It's not a

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Speaker 1: because I supposed to, you know, it could be anything

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Speaker 1: It was because he just he never did any of

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Speaker 1: I don't like, but here's the thing I go to

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Speaker 1: the doctor, That'll be like where your vaccination records? I'm like, elf,

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Speaker 8: I mean, I did get a touch with my dad

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Speaker 9: I'm like, yeah, it is what you understext lord knows

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Speaker 6: About.

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Speaker 2: Probably you own a house in Troy, Michigan. Now it's

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Speaker 2: Ryan? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Ryan, good morning, Welcome, How are you?

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Speaker 2: How are you Ryan? Great? Are you a dad?

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Speaker 5: We'll touch a video on YouTube about this once. I

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Speaker 5: think I saw how like moms typically know more about

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Speaker 2: Interesting the information. I mean, I guess that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like that Rufiel could do both though,

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Speaker 1: But you know, I don't know what what vaccinations did

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Speaker 2: Head? Uh, he's up to date with everything. Oh, there

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Speaker 2: you go. Whatever the BC ways percent for? Oh his way? Oh,

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Speaker 2: his head circumference is like ninety about talking.

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Speaker 12: His height is in the middle of the pack, he's

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Speaker 2: He's in the middle with a big ass head.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and have a good day.

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Speaker 2: He does have white feet. I'm glad you called.

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Speaker 1: My dad just asked, hey, kiddo, how old are you nowadays?

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Speaker 1: How old are you Noway? It's the nowadays. This is

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Speaker 1: so goode. This happened to my daughter and husband. The

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Speaker 1: Is that you worked in a pediatric office and you're saying,

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Speaker 5: No, they do not.

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Speaker 11: I think it is a gender thing, but I mean

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Speaker 11: I don't know the majority of the time, it's the

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Speaker 2: They do just don't even know the kid's.

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Speaker 13: Birthdays or sometimes even the full name.

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Speaker 14: They show up on the nickname and I work at

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Speaker 13: I'm like, what in the world, how are you?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 13: How is this kid forty fifteen years old?

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Speaker 2: How are you? Nowadays? I think Fiel is one of

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Speaker 2: the good dads. Thank you. I appreciated.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Thank you, Lexi, you have a good day.

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Speaker 2: I love you too.

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Speaker 1: Now, No, this is absolutely true, and I hate to

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Speaker 1: be my dad loves me. But I mean, honestly, I

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Speaker 2: It's you know.

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Speaker 1: I think you remembers my birthday mainly because it's on

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Speaker 2: So how's that it's not hard to remember?

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Speaker 1: But the truth is I have to write a lot

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Speaker 1: of stuff down and put it in my calendar too,

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Speaker 1: because there's a lot of stuff about my family that

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily.

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Speaker 1: Paully's birthday is is it's Valentine's Day? The thirteenth is

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Speaker 1: Emily. Yeah, just gonna add nowadays to everything. It's gonna

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Speaker 2: Emily. So do you was this about you, your dad

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 4: I have two stories.

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Speaker 11: One is about my dad, kind of going along with

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Speaker 11: what you just said. I'm thirty one and my sister's

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Speaker 14: Still doesn't know our birthday.

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Speaker 11: So it's always a fun game to play with him.

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Speaker 14: He'd be like, okay, so when is her birthday? When

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Speaker 11: I'm not sure, can you call my wife?

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Speaker 2: Sure, jeez, it's really funny. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I think I feel like my mom always made she

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Speaker 1: have a good day. Suck it up, kid. Were they

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Speaker 2: You won't hurt. There's a time. Ay, Debbie, Hi there,

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Speaker 2: Hi DeBie. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: So this guy in TikTok he posted this about himself,

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Speaker 2: It's gone viral. Can you relate?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because my ex husband almost drove my daughter to

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Speaker 6: the wrong school one morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh how.

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Speaker 11: I have no idea.

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Speaker 6: She was in middle school and she's like, you're supposed

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Speaker 11: And let me say he's a great dad.

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Speaker 14: He's an amazing dad.

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Speaker 13: But I think it's one of those things.

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Speaker 8: He knows.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna handle it like I got it, you know.

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Speaker 11: And one other story along with that, she had a

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Speaker 11: and she had to tell.

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Speaker 14: Him where to go. Where in the park?

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Speaker 13: This floor it was on, So she's you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean again, he's an amazing dad.

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Speaker 5: But I got the important thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, clearly, Thank you so much. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you too. Glad you called. Hey Katie? Yes, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: So this is the opposite, right, we were talking about

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I fire him. It's for us.

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Speaker 2: It's no idea, who got it for you? You did? Thank you?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, so you know you used to go get your

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Speaker 1: Even the right child. My god, thank you, Shannon.

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Speaker 2: Have a good days. Oh my god, how are you nowadays?

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of thoughts about this, but I

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Speaker 1: You know, however, many years ago, de Beers convinced everybody

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Speaker 1: Can we all agree that for the longest time, a

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Speaker 1: Why does it have to be anything? Because I can

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Speaker 2: absolutely not. It needs to be a diamond, do you?

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Speaker 7: Just don't tell me. Don't tell me the difference. I

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Speaker 7: The thing with me is like I have to walk

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Speaker 7: But I definitely think women still want rings, We still

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Speaker 1: I just feel like people used to stay in their head.

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Speaker 1: Well, now you don't know, and it shouldn't have ever

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Speaker 1: it'll be that anymore because I don't really know what

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Speaker 7: But most people can't tell if it was grown in

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Speaker 1: But at some point, trust me, I'm trying to grow

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Speaker 2: It doesn't it doesn't can't tell.

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Speaker 1: They're getting so big, I could just go get a

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Speaker 2: I get. Jewelers are listening to me now, I'm going.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't say that, and I'm not saying that

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Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, like what if I go out and

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Speaker 1: I guess, which means why did I spend so much money?

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Speaker 2: But you're not the same because you know that you

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Speaker 7: Well, if we pulled out the diamond tester, no.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because yeah, I get you know me, I'm always

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 11: I'm good, How are you?

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Speaker 8: Hi?

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Speaker 11: So I just wanted to say, you know, like I

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Speaker 11: but it's the diamond ring that fits me. It's my

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Speaker 11: single stone in the center and a nice halo and

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Speaker 11: diamonds down the band. It did not cost an arm

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Speaker 11: in a leg. I know exactly what it costed So

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Speaker 11: for me, it's not about the diamond. My fiance went

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Speaker 11: in and he picked the ring. We looked at him together,

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Speaker 11: and he went back and got the style that he

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Speaker 11: felt best fit me, which to me is more of

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Speaker 11: a token of the love and the relationship than just

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Speaker 11: like a status symbol.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was listening. He got what he could afford,

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Speaker 2: he got what he knew you would want. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: the point, right.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 11: And I'm a bartender at a hall on the weekends

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Speaker 11: four weddings, and there has definitely been a decrease in

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Speaker 11: the amount of weddings that have been happening. Back when

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Speaker 11: I started, they were almost every single weekend. I went

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Speaker 11: an entire month and a lie of twenty twenty one

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Speaker 11: not bur tending one wedding, And I mean it was

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Speaker 11: definitely a decrease from where we saw the year before.

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Speaker 11: And I just we're still not married, we're still engaged. Why,

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Speaker 11: we don't know if we want to spend that money

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Speaker 11: on a wedding for one night when we could go

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Speaker 11: and spend it maybe just getting married at a courthouse

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Speaker 11: or eloping with our family and friends to like a nice,

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Speaker 11: longer vacation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're still kind.

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Speaker 11: Of on edge about it.

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Speaker 2: It makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Stephanie, have a great day, and congratulations you too.

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Speaker 2: I guess all I'm saying is I don't care what

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Speaker 2: you spend.

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Speaker 1: I just think that maybe this is like the equalizer,

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Speaker 1: different different products, different trends now, it's like the equals like, well,

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Speaker 1: maybe the standard is changing now and and I could

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Speaker 1: spend less on a ring and more on something else

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Speaker 1: like a honeymoon or or or maybe we've learned during

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Speaker 1: the pandemic that we didn't need to have a wedding

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Speaker 1: at all like this, lady, you know, hey, Liz, hey highs.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, good morning. I love you guys, Hey, love

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Speaker 2: you too. What did you want to say?

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Speaker 6: I actually got engaged just before the pandemic hit, and.

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Speaker 14: We had started to wedding plan and it was driving.

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Speaker 9: Us crazy, and the guest list the most price was

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Speaker 9: just going up.

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Speaker 6: And up, and then the pandemic hit and.

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Speaker 11: We were ultimately so whole relieved because it gave us

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Speaker 11: an excuse.

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Speaker 8: To elope and nobody could be mad at us for it,

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Speaker 8: and we spent all our money.

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Speaker 14: On It's a great trip, just us and two friends

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Speaker 14: and my mom, and it was really ideal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, well good for you and congratulations.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 13: And we also got staffhire instead of a diamond.

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Speaker 1: See yeah, that's what I'm saying, like, maybe you like

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Speaker 1: something else better and so it doesn't have to be

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Speaker 1: the same as everybody else or as big or smaller.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't really matter. Thank you, Liz, have a good day.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, thanks, thanks.

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Speaker 1: I mean, so, go buy something, I guess. You know,

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Speaker 1: do we have any adjewelers on the air.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, go buy from them if we do.

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Speaker 2: Omar Hi.

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Speaker 13: Big more than everyone.

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Speaker 1: Hey, omar Hi, good morning, thanks for listening. So, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it turns out that the whole wedding industry is still

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Speaker 1: sort of down from pre pandemic levels.

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Speaker 2: Engagement, ring sales are down, all of that stuff. What

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Speaker 2: do you think?

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Speaker 13: So, yeah, you know, I actually married to my high

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Speaker 13: school sweetheart. We got engaged in the year before the

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Speaker 13: pandemic hit, and we went ring shopping and you know,

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Speaker 13: we were thinking about whether we should have a court

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Speaker 13: dat or a whole reception. We ended up having, you know,

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Speaker 13: deciding on reception. We had our down payment and everything,

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Speaker 13: and then pandemic hit. We lost our our you know,

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Speaker 13: our deposit for the place for the venue. The venue

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Speaker 13: actually ended up shutting down, but at that point, you know,

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Speaker 13: we were still looking for rings and stuff, and I decided,

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Speaker 13: you know, I'll go get her something. I ended up

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Speaker 13: getting her a nice diamond ring which is you know,

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Speaker 13: which is which is her birth zone, So there was

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Speaker 13: no going around that.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 10: Well yeah, so but no, you know, we ended up

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Speaker 10: getting married in court, and we were actually on a

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Speaker 10: fence about even continuing, you know, if we should look for.

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Speaker 13: A venue, and we were like, you know what, we

534
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Speaker 13: already got buried in court. Let's just live with your parent.

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Speaker 13: We're still living with their parents. Not at that point,

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Speaker 13: we're you know, kind of fresh out of college, and uh,

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Speaker 13: you know, just deciding what our plan was because the

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Speaker 13: pandemic kind of just threw a bench into everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I heard that. I heard that about the pandemic. Kim.

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Speaker 1: It did kind of you kind of messing stuff up

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Speaker 1: for people. Omar Man, congratulations, thank you for calling, Thank you,

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Speaker 1: thanks so much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the pandemic was that was whacky, wouldn't that whole thing?

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Meh Hi? I said, all right, mish miss is it right? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Hi hi, mish Hi yes.

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Speaker 11: Good morning.

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Speaker 14: I was just calling his chair. So I'm one of

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Speaker 14: the girls that you know likes the big Smarklee, but

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Speaker 14: I also feel like I have a good head on

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Speaker 14: my shoulders, and you know, wasn't expecting my husband Don

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Speaker 14: Deance to pay the price of a car for a

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Speaker 14: ring that I want.

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Speaker 13: So we did a lot of.

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Speaker 4: Investigating and we decided to go with something alternative, which

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Speaker 4: was Moys Night. So still Parkley still looks like a diamond,

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Speaker 4: but they're actually harder, and so I was able to

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Speaker 4: get a ring that I liked, but in a price

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Speaker 4: point that worked for us, and you know.

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Speaker 13: We could still have a ford A wedding that we.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's what I'm saying, is like maybe that

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Speaker 1: that's what's going on here is the whole thing is

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Speaker 1: just sort of bringing to light the fact that there's

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Speaker 1: plenty of other things to spend money on, but other

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Speaker 1: than other than that, Actually, thank you so much.

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Speaker 14: End of the day, it's getting married to somebody you love.

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Speaker 13: You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I wish you a lifetime of happiness, not

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Speaker 1: the average seventy eight years that most people get.

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Speaker 2: I want you to have the whole damn thing unless

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Speaker 2: you get tired of him.

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Speaker 1: Unless you get tired of him, then drop his ass

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Speaker 1: and move on. It's okay, no one's judging.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, have a good day. Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: She's like, no, I just want you to know I

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Speaker 1: support you either with more Fread Show.

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Speaker 10: Next Caitlyn's entertainment report, he is on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 8: Well, this is probably the biggest story of the day.

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Speaker 8: Cassie's legal team fired back at Ditty after the music

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Speaker 8: mogul attempted to apologize for attacking her at an La

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Speaker 8: Hotel Hallway in twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 2: Her lawyer, whose name.

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Speaker 8: Is Meredith, said colmb's most recent statement is more about

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Speaker 8: himself and than the many people that he's hurt. When

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Speaker 8: Cassie and other multiple women came forward, he denied everything

587
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Speaker 8: and suggested that his victims were looking for a payday.

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Speaker 2: That he was only.

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Speaker 8: Compelled to apologize once his repeated denials were proven false

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Speaker 8: shows his pathetic desperation and no one will be swayed

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Speaker 8: by his disingenuous words. Now Aubrio Da, who fronted Ditty's

592
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Speaker 8: all girl group Danity Kane, has you know since then

593
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Speaker 8: been really outspoken about how she doesn't mess with him.

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Speaker 8: She also slammed the apology. She wrote, Diddy didn't apologize

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Speaker 8: to Cassie. He apologized to the world foreseeing what he did.

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Speaker 8: He says he's disgusted with himself now and he was

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Speaker 8: disgusted with himself then, but apparently he wasn't disgusted enough

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Speaker 8: with himself to not pin this statement out of out,

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Speaker 8: calling her a liar, denying all of it. Leave God

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Speaker 8: and Mercy out of this. They aren't present here and

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Speaker 8: you know it. And she included a photo of the

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Speaker 8: statement that he, you know, set all those things in,

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Speaker 8: you know, in response to all this stuff. So yeah,

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Speaker 8: I'm also I don't really buy it either. Fifty cent,

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Speaker 8: of course was there. He's always there. He said, this

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Speaker 8: is not gonna work. Who's advising him right now? Smah

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Speaker 8: bad move.

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Speaker 12: I mean it's like you're apologizing because you got caught.

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Speaker 8: Like it's you were disgusted then, Like I would like

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Speaker 8: to see okay, so when you start seeing that therapist,

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Speaker 8: because like I think there's more stuff going on, And

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Speaker 8: I do feel bad that Aubrey O Day has been

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Speaker 8: telling us for years and people haven't really listened. But

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Speaker 8: word is that he was super stunned by the release

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Speaker 8: of that video, and now of course he's terrified more

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Speaker 8: is gonna come out. I'm hearing his legal team they're

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Speaker 8: bracing themselves for more videos and are aware now, of

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Speaker 8: course that some people who they paid off may have

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Speaker 8: cut copies. Well, speaking of that, gossip blogger parize Hilton

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Speaker 8: as that did he paid that hotel fifty thousand dollars

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Speaker 8: to prevent the release of the footage. Forrez though thinks

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Speaker 8: that the FEDS got the video while they were raiding

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Speaker 8: his homes.

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Speaker 12: Interesting, so it just as CNN got the hotel was

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Speaker 12: closed already, right it was, I think, so, well, it's

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Speaker 12: not in business anymore, but they still have this video.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, oh I didn't see that part. I just know

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Speaker 8: that it was surveillance from twenty sixteen, and I yeah,

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Speaker 8: I think it's one of those two things. Either someone said, okay,

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Speaker 8: i'll take your money, but like justin Cayes, we'll keep this,

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Speaker 8: or maybe the hotel did, or he keeps a copy,

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Speaker 8: maybe they took a copy of it.

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Speaker 2: Like, I don't know.

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Speaker 12: I mean, it's one hundred percent wrong what he did,

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Speaker 12: but like, if you paid off whatever to get the video,

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Speaker 12: even if it's the original, why are you keeping it?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 2: What's that's some I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I just feel like, I mean, I don't blame him.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I al well, you know what, I would

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Speaker 8: never be trashed enough to get paid off to cover

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Speaker 8: up someone using someone else. So I don't know what

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Speaker 8: kind of person that is.

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Speaker 12: But again, his legal team is bracing for more of it,

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Speaker 12: more videos.

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Speaker 9: Bro.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I don't know, mysh, I know, so, I mean,

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Speaker 12: did he you have no respect for me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Well?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Now and now we have physical proof, right, so I

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Speaker 8: don't know what more people need.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy. In happier news, let's switch this around.

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Speaker 8: Luke Colms was joined by San Francisco forty nine ers,

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Speaker 8: Starbrock Party and George Kittle during his concert Friday night.

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Speaker 8: The NFL stars proceeded to shotgun beers as they fired

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Speaker 8: up the crowd.

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Speaker 2: Of course, they did frat.

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Speaker 8: And Jelly Roll joined Lana del Rey of all people

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Speaker 8: during her headlining set at Hangout Fest and they did

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Speaker 8: sweet Home Alabama cool together because that festival is in

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Speaker 8: Golf Shores, Alabama, if you didn't know. Speaking of Jelly,

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Speaker 8: he shared his most frivolous habit since becoming famous.

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Speaker 2: He says, don't judge me for this, y'all.

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Speaker 8: I promise I grew very humble, but I only wear

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Speaker 8: socks once I buy socks and mulk. It's the most

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Speaker 8: frivolous thing that I've done with my success.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 8: I hope I didn't let anybody down with that. But

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Speaker 8: when you're fat, you can't have stinky feet too, So

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Speaker 8: you got to have fresh socks.

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Speaker 2: One where, one where.

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Speaker 8: I know has me thinking of the wasteful thing that

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Speaker 8: I would do. But I mean fresh panties every day

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Speaker 8: would be nice, just a new pair, right, but one

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Speaker 8: where socks, Yeah, I mean he's got it like that.

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Speaker 8: It's also socks, but still like that's kind of wasteful.

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Speaker 9: Like you normally own socks for like years. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, I get a lot of comments when I

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Speaker 1: post with Polly. I don't do it on purpose, but

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Speaker 1: like I get a lot of comments from people. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know you and that fatherly look. I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 1: that was about as long as it lasted, right picture,

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Speaker 1: for some reason with Polly, Like I don't she can

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Speaker 1: drool on me, she can eat her food all over me,

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Speaker 1: she can crawl it, I don't care. She does like

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Speaker 1: very many like my brother in law, me, maybe my dad.

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Speaker 1: But she has no regard for the nether reason, Oh no, no,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't care what I mean, just boom, they don't care.

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Speaker 2: Just crush it, like just not okay.

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Speaker 1: You know, but how do you explain that to it

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