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Speaker 1: this guy. Jared is his name. He must have really

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Speaker 1: email interested me big time. Hey Jared, how are you doing? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: I uh, I went out of a date last week

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Speaker 1: just kind of you know, relax a little bit. Jared

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Speaker 1: has some problems being social, right, Jared, Yeah, I haven't

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Speaker 1: had the best success with women over the years. No,

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Speaker 1: we'll talk about your date in a second, But first,

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Speaker 1: I liked what you wrote in your email about the

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Speaker 1: plan for your date. Why don't you tell everybody about that? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 1: in retrospect, I don't know if this was the best idea,

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Speaker 1: me some lines if I you know, if I was

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Speaker 1: I was just uncomfortable. She's she's really really totally out

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Speaker 1: I had to try something. I totally had to try something.

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Speaker 1: I figured i'd try this. I saw it on a

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Speaker 1: I always get a good idea at the time, Jared,

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Speaker 1: how did you even pitch it to your buddy? Like?

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Speaker 1: What kind of friend? Like? Lets you go through with this? Oh?

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Speaker 1: He was really into it, he liked it. Did it work?

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Speaker 1: There were a lot of pauses and she probably knew

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Speaker 1: lines was this dude feeding you? Oh, you know, basic things.

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Speaker 1: somely and stuff I wouldn't really think of. Did you

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Speaker 1: ever feel like you're being a little disingenuous, Like you

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Speaker 1: went worse. Quiet the whole time. There is no way, Jared.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we've had you on the phone for a

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Speaker 1: it's a confidence issue. Well, I mean if you were

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Speaker 1: That's understandable. All right, So you had dinner. Did you

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Speaker 1: As the first ever second day update where the guy

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Speaker 1: the other director. Hello, Hey, can I speak to Kelly please? Kelly? Hey, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Um? Nothing? Why are you familiar with

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Speaker 1: about a guy named Jared. Okay, Yeah, you went out

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Speaker 1: Did you not like Jared? No, no, Jared was sweet.

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Speaker 1: the romantic, most romantic stories of all time. Jared, Jared.

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Speaker 1: You are not trying to sell her on this right now.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think it would be that awkward, and I

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for you, guys to go on a second date,

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