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Speaker 1: Did your parents lie to you growing up?

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Speaker 2: Because I've had this, I've had this on my Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, well i'll see in therapy. No, but I've

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Speaker 2: had this on my list for a while and we

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Speaker 2: just haven't gotten to it. But what was the lie

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Speaker 2: that your parents told you growing up? And this is

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Speaker 2: this is this sit with you to this day. Eight five, five, five, nine,

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Speaker 2: one one three five you can call it text the

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Speaker 2: same number, because this list is coming from the perspective

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Speaker 2: of your parents did a great job with you if

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Speaker 2: you believed these lies. Okay, it's it's kind of funny actually,

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Speaker 2: But I'll go through this list and then we can

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Speaker 2: talk about the ones that I think are probably more

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Speaker 2: common for people.

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Speaker 1: But or maybe you're the parent and you're doing the

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Speaker 1: lying now.

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Speaker 2: I would love to hear about it, because you probably

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Speaker 2: like you were like I would never do that to

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Speaker 2: my kids, and then you're doing it now because it's

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Speaker 2: just easier. I think sometimes my sister lies to my

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Speaker 2: niece because it's just easier. It's a lie, you know,

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Speaker 2: the toy stores closed, the ice cream stores out of

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Speaker 2: ice cream or whatever. And by the way, probably and

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Speaker 2: I had a very long talk yesterday about and she

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Speaker 2: just kept asking the same question over and over again,

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Speaker 2: and I kept answering the same question. But apparently she's

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Speaker 2: having a hard time being a big sister because may

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Speaker 2: who was one Polly's for Mayve is one Polly's Maybe

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Speaker 2: is boring?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: I guess Polly tries to body slammer all the time.

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Speaker 2: It's like wwe except Maybe is not, you know, really

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Speaker 2: able to move her let limb, so so it's an

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Speaker 2: unfair advantage. And my sister and brother in law are like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you gotta like chill out. And then she's like, well,

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Speaker 2: this is boring, and then my sister says, well, why

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Speaker 2: don't you call Bubba? She calls me Bubba, why don't

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Speaker 2: you call bubb and asked him what it was like

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Speaker 2: to be a big sibling. But she calls me what's

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Speaker 2: it like to be a big sibling? And then I

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Speaker 2: tell her and then she asked me the same question again,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like why I just told you, And then

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Speaker 2: she'd but Bubba, and it was almost like she was

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Speaker 2: proud she did the sentence, which she should because she's brilliant,

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Speaker 2: but it was no, but what's it like to be

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Speaker 2: a big sibling. I'm like, PAULI, I just told you.

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Speaker 3: And so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know what, Now there's a reception issue

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Speaker 2: with the phone. Go figure it out by nobody slam

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Speaker 2: the kid. I don't care. That's what it's like. You

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Speaker 2: know what it's like. Being a big sibling is like

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Speaker 2: body slamming somebody all the time. That's that's what being

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Speaker 2: a big sibling is like. Nonetheless, here are the lies

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Speaker 2: that you were told growing up, and if you believe them.

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Speaker 2: According to this author, your parents did a great job.

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Speaker 2: Number one, you can do anything you want.

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Speaker 1: Why a big, old lie.

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Speaker 2: Complete and total lie. However, parenting experts are saying that

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Speaker 2: if you believed that that your parents did a nice job,

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Speaker 2: telling that your kids that they can do anything is

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Speaker 2: a classic parenting technique. It might be deceptive, but it

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Speaker 2: serves a noble purpose. It's meant to inspire hope, encouraging

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Speaker 2: kids to embrace the world instead of counting themselves out.

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Speaker 2: Of all the lies you can tell your kids, Of

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Speaker 2: all the lies I was told, that is not the worst. Sure,

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Speaker 2: why not? You cant do anything you put your mind to. Okay, great,

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Speaker 2: even if it's a lie. You got to eat your

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Speaker 2: vegetables to grow up big and strong. Not sure if

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Speaker 2: there's really even any proof of that, but yeah, you're

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Speaker 2: supposed to eat your your vegetables. However, if you were

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Speaker 2: able to convince your kids that was a good idea

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Speaker 2: and they like broccoli and asparagus, now, then I guess

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Speaker 2: you were a good parent. I won't be specific here,

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Speaker 2: but if your kids believed, or if you believe as

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Speaker 2: are you picking up what I'm putting down? Oh? Yes,

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Speaker 2: if you believe that certain things that are not actually

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Speaker 2: to keep their kids' sense of wonder alive.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I agree with that. So why don't you even

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Speaker 1: a lie?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: I know they say white lie, but is it even

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Speaker 2: is that even a lie? If you tell your kids

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Speaker 4: No, And it's like giving that magic, you know, like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not. It's not magical. This is anything about magical.

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Speaker 1: It's always a miserable kid that ruins it for the

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh, I remember the kid that went around running

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Speaker 2: just like just like Klein's being careful with the words

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Speaker 2: she's using this early in the entertainment report, I'm being

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Speaker 2: early about the things that I ruined for anybody. These

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Speaker 2: parents told you them, and you believe them, then your

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Speaker 2: parents did a good job. You're the smartest kid in school.

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Speaker 2: My parents never told me that, and they never that

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Speaker 2: would have been a lie, So that's nice. They didn't

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Speaker 2: tell me that if you work hard, all of your

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Speaker 2: dreams will come true.

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Speaker 4: That's the one I'm like, mom my dreams, Like, I

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Speaker 4: get it.

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 4: You should always work hard, like do your best. But

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Speaker 4: I don't think it always pays off in that way.

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Speaker 4: You know what I means? That makes sense because like

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Speaker 1: It's just how life works.

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Speaker 2: I would argue that you have no shot at anything

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Speaker 2: it's possible that it won't come true. But I mean,

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Speaker 2: I guess as a parent, that's why I would tell

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Speaker 2: then you know, then what's the point of even attempting it.

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Speaker 2: guess there's a I mean, no, you're not going to

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Speaker 2: But I remember I'm like, I'm going, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: guess there's a there's realism. But then like not crushing

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Speaker 2: You know your art is good, you know you're good

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Speaker 1: Now, how do you do that as a parent? Do

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Speaker 2: Now, I mean, the only one who's a parent is

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Speaker 2: Paulina and Gigi's just not one. But how do you

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Speaker 2: do that? Like if your kid is terrible at something

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Speaker 2: It and keep telling them that they're good at it

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Speaker 2: even when they're not because they might get good at it,

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Speaker 2: if they're terrible with soccer but they think they're going

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Speaker 2: you say, like, yeah, at what point do you tell them?

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Speaker 1: Like I don't think so, Yeah, I'm all for like rerouting.

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Speaker 4: sometimes I feel like that works out for people. But

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Speaker 4: I also don't want her to walk around thinking she's

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, No.

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Speaker 4: Like in the sense of like, oh I can sing,

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Speaker 4: Like then I'm being a bad parent, right, Like I'm

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Speaker 3: Are going to be.

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Speaker 4: But my kid of kind has an attitude already. She's

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Speaker 2: Yeahttitude of my sister instead to a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: And I'm I'm I'm sorry, Hovey. I love you deeply, Paulina,

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Speaker 2: Honestly, because Paulie is going to be a princess. A

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Speaker 2: get to the real eye. Like, okay, So your parents

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Speaker 1: Well, that's a good thing. If you're a parent, you

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Speaker 2: But there were a whole series of lies that we

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Speaker 2: were told growing up that were simply a matter of convenience.

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Speaker 2: For example, Jessica.

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Speaker 1: My parents told me that if we turned on the

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Speaker 1: lights in the backseat of the car that we would

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Speaker 1: go to jail the immediate same, yes, yes, with the

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Speaker 2: Now, we weren't toild we're gonna go to jail, Jessica,

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Speaker 2: But we were told that it was against the law.

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Speaker 1: I guess something about it. I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: Like, and if you turn the dome lights on in

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Speaker 2: the car while you were driving at night, that that

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Speaker 2: was against the law. I honestly believed you weren't allowed

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Speaker 2: to do that. Until not that long ago.

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Speaker 1: It made me wonder why they existed.

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Speaker 4: If it's against the law, why do they exist?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree.

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Speaker 2: Now, if you ever tried to drive with the dome

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Speaker 2: little bit, but like, it's not against the law. But

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Speaker 2: I think it was mainly because as a kid, when

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Speaker 2: So that was the reason why. But it turns out, Jessica,

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Speaker 6: So my parents lied to me for years to tell

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Speaker 2: Yah, take the dog over there, just rub it all

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Nicle, have a good day you too.

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Speaker 4: I would just replace that fish because it was kind

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Speaker 1: I will never forget that watching his spin in the toilet. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I never had to do the disposal of the dead animals.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing it. I refuse. Hey, Samantha, Hi, this

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I lie to her saying that Chuck E

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Speaker 2: I've heard that. No, I've heard that. I've heard that.

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Speaker 2: Don't think you can just pull up on a Chuck

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Speaker 2: Samantha's kids can come this week, but not all the time.

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Speaker 3: Yep, I tell her. Oh, he called me, he said

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Speaker 2: That He's amazing. That is a that's a really good one.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Samantha. Have a good day.

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Speaker 6: Thank you too.

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Speaker 1: I love this.

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Speaker 2: I get cheese. He said we can go this week,

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Speaker 1: Know you want to get in my Iraq.

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Speaker 2: Right, he gets to decide, Hey, Shannon, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So this is a lie? That is it what

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Speaker 5: Was told my whole life by my parents and my grandpa.

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Speaker 5: So my grandpa came here from Croatia when he was

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Speaker 5: I don't think Papa actually swam And no one knew

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Speaker 2: Yeah wow, yeah no he yeah, he in fact did

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Speaker 5: He still calls himself the Adriatic seat champ.

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Speaker 2: So there you go, let him have it. Have a

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Speaker 2: good good morning, Yeah, you too, appreciate you. Hey's Steve,

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Steve. You a lot of your kids about this?

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 5: Well, we used to tell him that if they told

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Speaker 5: but only adults could see it. Well, they couldn't lie

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Speaker 2: A lot I see, Yeah, our eyes in the back

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Speaker 2: the other ones that had to do with lies. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 2: but your parents had lie to detect their ability.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, do you think they still lie to you

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 2: They didn't believe you. Thank you, Steve. Have a good day. Okay,

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Speaker 2: wait a minute, Nicole, Hey Nikole, good.

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Speaker 1: Morning, Hello, good morning. Uh what if your parents tell

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, like it was ever like an event going

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't call the wedding man. He didn't call

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Speaker 1: Didn't.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he did. On Nicole, thank you, have

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Speaker 3: Thank you too.

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Speaker 2: Bye. Here's some of the other, like more classic ones

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Speaker 2: It might cause a headache because it causes strain, but

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Speaker 2: Knuckle cracking leads to arthritis, it does not. Apparently, Swallowing

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Speaker 2: In fact, your parents didn't want you to chew that

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Speaker 1: By the drowned part, no one ever told me that.

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Speaker 2: They did say you have to wait ninety minutes after

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Speaker 2: American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Red Cross, that

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Speaker 2: just made up completely. Watermelons will grow in your stomach

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Speaker 2: Sitting too close to the TV will cause eye damage

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Speaker 2: not true. Apparently, touch a toe you'll get warts. Not true.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of some I'm skipping over some

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Speaker 1: I don't. It's too early for this.

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Speaker 2: Keep your eyes open when sneezing and they'll fall out.

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Speaker 2: It's terrifying what parent was teaching their kid that that

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Speaker 2: is terrifying. Oh, the family pen's living happily on a

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just easier. I guess drinking coffee will stunt

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Speaker 2: Eating Carris will let you see in the dark.

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Speaker 1: Really.

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Speaker 2: Oh and here's the most classic one. And I grew

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Speaker 2: if you pee in the pool or not. That is

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Speaker 4: Next.

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Speaker 1: Okay, everyone, what did I think of the