WEBVTT - Second Date Update: 1027 Dates 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:02.000 Second date up date. 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:05.920 We get a lot of email submissions for second dates 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:09.479 on this show. Something just jumped out about one from 0:00:09.480 --> 0:00:12.520 a woman named Bonnie and had nothing to do with 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:13.560 her actual date. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:13.840 Though. 0:00:14.160 --> 0:00:17.560 Huh, make sure you're sitting down for this, because Bonnie 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:21.880 says she has been on the dating apps now for 0:00:21.920 --> 0:00:24.320 almost two decades. 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:26.760 Decades rap. 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:31.200 Longer than longer than Alexis has been alive. 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:35.360 Basically literally the websites have been around that long. I 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:40.479 mean like match and stuff. Okay, yeah, like online dating 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:42.400 has been a fan for that long. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:47.680 Thank you for confirming what she said. 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:49.080 She's lying. 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.159 I don't know why anybody would admit to that in 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:56.080 an email. It's kind of a quadruple red flag. 0:00:56.320 --> 0:01:00.000 Well, she's had a lot of relationships from these things 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:01.280 over the twenty years. 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:05.000 Sure, hopefully she didn't say that on the date to 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:08.480 the guy, though, I need to ask her, Bonnie, are 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:08.800 you there? 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:10.920 Hey, I'm here. 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:12.840 So let me just start the guy that you went 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:14.360 out with. We'll get his name in a second. But 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:17.040 did you tell him that you've been actively on the 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:20.800 dating app since the turn of the millennia? 0:01:20.920 --> 0:01:21.160 Yes? 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:21.880 I did. 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:24.560 I thought it's an interesting fun fact about me. Like 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:26.960 I've actually kept count the entire time. 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:28.279 Okay, kept count? 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:31.240 Wait, like kept count of how many dates you've been 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:32.040 on from these? 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:32.800 Yeah? 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:33.800 Whoa? 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.920 How many? How I'm dying to know how many dates 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:39.360 can you do in twenty years? 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:43.880 He was my one seven date? 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:47.280 Oh one thousand seven dates? 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:48.920 That is your system? 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:51.520 Like you count a different person gets one count or 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:54.080 can the same person get like three counts? 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:54.840 Do you know what I'm saying? 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:57.920 You know, I guess I only count like dates, you know, 0:01:58.120 --> 0:01:59.840 because I mean some of these guys I actually dated 0:01:59.880 --> 0:02:01.240 for quite a long time, So that's right. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:04.920 Yeah, okay, so every day counts as a Wow, you 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.160 aren't you exhausted at this point? 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:10.240 After one and twenty seven dates? 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:13.480 You know, it's not all that bad. Like I've ended 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:16.520 up with four long term boyfriends. Okay, I've gotten engaged 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:17.160 to two of them. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.799 Okay, how have you not written a book on how 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:23.240 to do well? Say? 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.240 I can't tell she'd be like the spokesperson or make 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:27.040 you wanted to delete them? You know which it is? 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.560 She got engaged twice, I mean like she got two 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:30.400 rings on her finger. 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.799 She's not happily married. How to not do it? 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:36.520 I don't think so. I think it's a success. I mean, 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:38.480 it depends on what you're hoping for, I guess. 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:41.440 But like she's doing it right enough where there's real 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:42.800 relationships coming from this. 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:43.760 That's a good point. 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:45.840 Yeah, Like it's just never quite worked out all the way, 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:47.520 you know, Honestly, I. 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:49.120 Just want to spend the rest of the time talking 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:50.200 about your horror stories. 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:52.160 You have so many. 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:55.320 We could have her on Battle of Tender Dates battling herself. Yeah. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:58.480 But I mean, okay, so you've been through a lot 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.239 of ups and downs in your life. How cool would 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:03.200 it be if after going through all of that, you 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:08.639 finally found real love on our show. That's what I'm 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:09.800 hoping for for you today. 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:11.600 It could be the case with this new guy that 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:12.160 you went out with. 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:13.560 Oh yeah, what was his name? Did you tell me? 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.000 We haven't learned it yet. What's his name? 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:16.400 His name's Grant? 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:18.600 Okay, Okay, tell us about Grant? 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.240 Okay. Well, he asked me on to a restaurant and 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.320 I did not want to tell him. I've been there 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:26.480 like twelve times before with guys on other day. I 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:27.200 did not tell him that. 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:31.799 Why didn't you tell him that? Why would that be 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:32.359 a bad thing. 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.839 That's her boundary. You're wondering why she told him about 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:35.880 the thousand dates. 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:39.160 That maybe if you told him he would have felt 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:41.000 like pressured to make it an even better date. 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:44.400 No, I feel like it to just be weird, like 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:47.280 second guessing what he wanted to do, you know, like 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:49.560 he mentioned the place, I'm not going to be like, 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:50.880 oh no, I can't go there. 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:52.840 I feel like that's what you want. You want him 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:55.040 second guessing yourself. You want to have the upper hand 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:56.160 in the day of the whole company. 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:56.960 He's like, what about here? 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:58.320 What about There's not like that? 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:02.480 I mean, after twenty years of doing these this online dating, 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:06.680 she's still positive, She's still kind Like that says something 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:07.480 about who she is. 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:10.360 We haven't even called the guy yet, Brooks so well true, 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:15.720 He's like judgment, So tell us, sorry if we're just 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:17.400 joking with you, but tell us. I mean, how did 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:18.960 the actual date with Grant go? 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:19.800 Run us through it? 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:22.600 Well, he showed up with a bouquet of flowers, and 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.760 I thought that was a really sweet gesture, Like not 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:26.640 everybody does that, Hardly anybody does that. 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:29.919 Okay, so he obviously wanted to impress you. He was 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:33.039 impressed by you. What was your initial thought of him? 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:36.480 Well, honestly, it was kind of like you guys, Like, 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:38.760 once I told him I'd been on the apps for 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.320 that long, he also had a lot of questions. 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.520 Yeah, naturally, So. 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:45.960 We talked about that, We talked about our job histories, 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:49.000 and I thought it was good, Like, I don't know. 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:50.880 The thing I've learned from all of these dates is 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:54.200 that I've learned like most good first dates won't blow 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:57.440 you away, Like it's just finding sort of common ground 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:00.600 and the baseline of like friendship. And I feel like 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:02.640 the ones that do blow you away, but they often 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:05.240 end up having like red flags that show up later. 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:07.840 Yeah, yeah, Alexis, how do you feel about that you're 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:09.880 supposed to establish friendship on the first date? 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:10.240 She didn't. 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:15.039 You can sleep with them, that's right. 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:21.000 I'm glad figure out where the lines are. So overall, 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:22.760 how do you feel about the day? Like, how do 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:23.280 you rate it? 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:25.400 I mean overall? I think we had a nice time. 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:28.560 It was like probably an eighth and teaches me on 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:28.960 the cheek. 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:33.039 Okay, so what has happened since this date with Grant? 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:37.240 We texted a little, but I think he's husbant to 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:40.919 ask me out why. I don't know. I don't know exactly, 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:43.560 and I'm a little worried that if you get him 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:45.680 on the line, he's going to say something that I 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.679 should have changed about myself, like twenty years ago or something. 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:48.880 You know. 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.680 Well, I mean if he said that too late, right, Yeah, 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:54.800 you worry about it like you've. 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:56.359 Had a piece of spinach stuck in your teeth for 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:57.479 the last twenty years. 0:05:58.160 --> 0:05:59.400 Nobody said anything. 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:05.240 Yeah, even the two guys you were engaged to never brought. 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:06.040 It up the entire. 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:07.760 Dump them. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:11.760 Yes, I mean, we can change food in the teeth, 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:13.720 but hopefully it's as simple as that. 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:15.599 But we need to call this guy first when we 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.599 do your second date update right after this hold on. 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:26.680 Okay, second date update Today, we're on the phone with Bonnie, 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:31.000 who's been doing online dating since the websites ran on 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:31.560 dial up? 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:32.719 You've got mail? 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:34.440 Is that true? 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:35.640 Is that an all? 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:41.440 I could be true? 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:45.000 That's the sound of love again. 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:45.760 I can't get up. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:51.719 Bonnie told us that in her email, and she even 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.080 said it to her date when they met up in 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:56.600 person at a restaurant, that she's been at this for 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:57.520 two decades. 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:00.520 But it didn't seem to affect him like, sounds like 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:02.200 they just continued on with conversation. 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.720 Yeah, that guy seems to be really nice guy named Grant, who, 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:07.840 even though he sat through the entire date with her, 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:10.360 has been hesitant about going out with her again. 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:12.520 It seems like we're going to try and nudge him 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:13.679 back in the right direction. 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:16.720 Kind of worried about you, Bonnie, because it's the I 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:19.520 am because at the end, she's like, what if it 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.600 was something I did that I need to change from 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:22.520 twenty years ago. 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:26.040 I mean that's a normal reaction, Brook, isn't it It 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.320 is for somebody who's been dating for two decades. 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:31.640 Is that usually how you feel after a date's gone wrong? Bonnie? 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:33.960 I mean the date didn't go wrong, Like, it was 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:37.160 a really good first date. So I I guess that's 0:07:37.280 --> 0:07:38.120 why I'm thinking her. 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:39.360 That's why you're thinking that. 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:42.800 Yeah, but sometime to spin her magical first date into 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:44.320 some disaster horror. 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:46.320 Story such a sad statement. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:50.760 To me, I thought it was a really beautiful sentiment personally, Bonnie. 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:57.440 Yeah, I'm on your side. Unlike some in this room, Bonnie. 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.840 How does Bonnie not have her own app? Like, hey 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:03.480 we met on Bonnie. 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:08.920 Yeah, bondie Bonnie. You know, if this call doesn't work out, 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:10.640 we'll hook you up with some people to set that 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:11.200 app up. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:13.200 Okay, all right, let's work. 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.600 On Grant first. Here, I'm gonna dial this number right now. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:16.320 Here we go. 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:29.640 Hey, we're looking for somebody named Grant. 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:31.160 I'm hoping that's you. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:32.880 That's me. 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:37.440 All right, Hey, we win, good work the number correctly, 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.760 I did it. Hey, man, you're on a radio show 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:42.319 right now called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:47.480 What's up, BROI I con sense you're starting to hang 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.360 up already. Please come on. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:52.880 We're doing a segment call the Second Date Update here 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:54.600 and we really could use your help. 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:57.240 Sorry, what is that? 0:08:58.120 --> 0:08:58.360 Oh? 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.000 This is fun, It's actually pretty fun. 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:01.079 It's all about you. 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:03.720 Well, it's about one of our listeners and you. A 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:07.079 girl that you went on a date with recently, named Bonnie. 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:07.640 A woman. 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:17.040 Trying to we're trying to hook you up with underage women. 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:21.040 She's definitely I don't think anybody thinks that this is 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:23.800 a of the age women named Bonnie. 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:26.240 You went to dinner with her the other night. 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:27.959 Yeah, she even told us that you showed up with 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.960 a bouquet of flowers. Which was really sweet, A. 0:09:30.960 --> 0:09:32.400 Lot of good stuff. We're just trying to figure out. 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:33.880 How did you feel about Bonnie? 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:40.079 I I like Bonnie. She had a nice smile, she was. 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:43.439 Really easy going, nice compliments. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:44.840 I thought she was a nice lady. 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:49.199 We had by maybe. 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:53.559 Yeah, sorry, did you feel any chemistry with her? 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.080 I guess yeah, I guess. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:00.560 There's definitely a little hesitation every time time before you 0:10:00.600 --> 0:10:01.040 answer us. 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:03.360 That's so confusing, and you said all these positives. 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:04.959 Now, I will tell you this. 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:07.559 She did mention that she brought something up to you 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.600 during the date that she was worried may have been 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:10.440 a red flag to you. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:12.319 She wasn't sure that she's. 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:15.680 Been going out on these dates via the apps for 0:10:15.960 --> 0:10:17.400 almost two decades. 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:19.040 With breaks, with breaks. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:23.559 Yeah, well that was shocking, definitely. I mean I've been 0:10:23.600 --> 0:10:25.280 on them for a year and I'm ready to jump 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:27.160 off a cliff. 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:29.480 You're only a year in, a newbie. 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:31.600 Did you get some good advice from her? 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:35.640 I would assume you don't want advice to like be like, hey, 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:37.040 so I'm going to go back on the apps now 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:37.920 and meet some other people. 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:40.520 If anything, you should feel. 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.800 Like a lot of respect for her for like being 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:45.000 able to push through all of the ups and downs 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:45.800 of online. 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:46.760 Dating really positive. 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:47.360 Exactly. 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:48.880 Yeah. 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.200 I mean I thought it was a little weird, but 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:52.960 I didn't make a big thing of it. I still 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:54.240 was enjoying her company. 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:55.000 I thought it was good. 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:58.679 Okay, because we were assuming that the reason you might 0:10:58.720 --> 0:11:01.560 not be calling her back is because that could be 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:04.880 a turnoff for some men. Yeah, so you weren't scared 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:06.360 off by that information. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:12.000 Honestly, it wasn't the dating history. It was her job history. 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:13.240 Her job history. 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:16.920 Oh jobs, Wait, you have like fifteen hundred jobs. 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.200 That's interesting. We didn't even ask her what she does 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:20.920 for work. Does she do something weird? 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:23.640 No, it's not that. We were just talking about what 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.439 she's done. What's letter to hear in all the jobs 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:30.600 she's had. And it turns out that when she was younger, 0:11:30.840 --> 0:11:34.439 she interviewed for like a stream job that she wanted 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:37.080 and she still seemed to kind of feel bad about it. 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:39.800 And I was going through the dates in my head 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:43.360 and I realized, I'm pretty sure I was the hiring 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:46.959 manager at the time rejected her and didn't take her 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:47.600 for the job. 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:52.800 Wait, wait, wait, she applied for a job at the 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:55.840 company you worked for, and you turned her down. 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.360 I mean I didn't know it was her obviously, but yeah, 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:01.680 like at the time, and I mean, it's it's so vague. 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:03.720 I clearly I don't have a good memory of the interviewer. 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.960 Why I keep it stirs her doubt, But God definitely 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:08.480 rejected her from this job. 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:10.720 Did you tell her that during the date that you 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:11.280 were the guy? 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:12.480 No. 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:17.959 Once I realized, I figured, like, oh, she's gonna hate 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:19.880 me if she figures this out. 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:24.800 Were you able to remember anything about her? Why interview her? Why? 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:26.320 I want to know why you didn't hire her? 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:29.719 Yeah, that's what I figured. I figured she would want 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:31.480 to know that too, and I just don't have any 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:34.120 answers for her. So I figured it's roughly just safest 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:36.720 to end this now because I guess I ruined her, 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:37.720 Like dream jobs. 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:40.680 Oh my god, you're not calling her because you're afraid 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.480 that in the future that information would come out and 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.960 make things weird between you two. But I have good 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.600 news because that information is not coming out in the future. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.440 It already came out to her. Because she's on the 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:52.920 line right now listening to this. 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:54.559 That is wild. 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.720 Yeah, she's been secretly listening on the other line Bonnie there. 0:12:58.840 --> 0:12:59.360 Yeah, I'm here. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:02.120 You can't do that work settings, but you can't do 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:03.880 it in this setting. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:06.520 Hi. 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:12.800 Hi, Well, I guess I just I want to know, 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:18.160 like why, Like I guess I heard you say you 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:21.400 don't remember why you rejected me for that job, like 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:22.400 it was a long time ago. 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:27.000 Yeah, I mean, we're I interviewed so many people. This 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:30.320 was seventeen years ago. I mean, I obviously I'm sorry. 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:31.480 If I knew it was going to be you, I 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:34.439 would have given you the job. But I don't feel 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:36.320 like I have anything good to tell you. 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:38.439 My job was like Blockbuster. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:42.000 Yes, it was her dream job. Do you remember who 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:42.760 you did hire? 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:47.800 I hired a bunch of people. I really have no idea. 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:50.400 So you hired a bunch of people and I wasn't 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:50.880 one of them. 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:53.360 Oh that's a good point. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:55.880 See, this is what I was trying to avoid. 0:13:57.679 --> 0:13:58.600 Well, think about it, this one. 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:02.520 You're so special, remember you're maybe he was you know, 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:05.440 he was to attracted to you and believe that it 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:07.880 was going to cause an issue in the workplace. 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:10.080 Grant that's a good chance trying and say that to 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:17.200 her right now? Uh, you were too beautiful. 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:22.040 Go ahead, it's clearly I made a mistake. I really, 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:23.720 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I can't I mean, I can't 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:26.360 go back downs ago. I am sorry you didn't get hired. 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:26.880 I'm sorry. 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:30.560 Oh yeah, I don't think that she's upset about that? 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:33.240 Still are you? Are you still upset about it, Bonnie? 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:35.600 I mean, it's something I brought up in our date, 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:37.640 so like it was one of those jobs that I 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:40.080 just it was my only chance at it and whatever. 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:43.840 But like, at the same time, I would not be 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:45.920 the person to let that get in the way of 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:47.440 this either. 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.160 She swear she won't hold it over your head when 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:52.120 you're in a relationship five years from now. 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:55.600 I'm getting I'm giddy, Grant. 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.760 How does it feel to reject someone not only professionally 0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:02.160 but personally in years and years later? 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:03.160 Oh yeah? 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:04.120 Does that feel good? 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.560 Honestly? No, there you go. 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.120 I'm trying to guilt you into the answer for my 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:13.160 next question, which is, would you like to go out 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:14.720 with Bonnie one more time? 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:15.880 And we would pay for it? 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.400 They say third times of charm, yes. 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:23.840 Yeah, or in Bonnie's case, the one eighth times. I 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:27.640 well say that, but I personally think that I feel 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:29.800 the vibes going on here. We'd like to send you 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:33.320 guys out on another date. My friend one hundred percent 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:36.880 on us, if you'll see Bonnie one more time. And Bonnie, 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:38.920 I'm just I'm assuming that is still a yes from you, 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:41.640 right yeah, yeah, that way you can quill them and 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:43.160 find out why I didn't hire you in person. But 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:44.680 let's just get you on a date together. 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:48.360 Okay, I'm over at what dub Okay, I just want 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:49.560 to see if this is going to work out. 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:49.840 I won't. 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:50.920 I don't want to live in the past. 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:54.880 All right, that's right, driver dream guy. She forgives you, 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:56.720 give her one more chance on. 0:15:56.760 --> 0:16:00.480 Us, all right, Look, I mean if she's okay with it, 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:01.960 then yeah, let's go out again. 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:06.640 Oh yeah, thank you, Thank you guys. 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:07.800 Yeah, you're welcome. 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.160 That's really cute in like a sad I lost my 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:10.920 dream job. 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:13.760 Way looking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:17.560 Gosh, I sure hope he didn't feel pressured into saying 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:22.400 yes to another date. Jeff feel guilt shamed for crushing 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:26.000 her dreams. We would never want to make him feel 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:31.000 anything like that on your show, people, Yeah, we don't 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:32.200 do that over here. 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:36.720 Oh I think that they could end up cute you know. Yeah, 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:38.520 she wasn't still angry about it. 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:41.280 She was the one upset about it. Yes, it wasn't 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:41.640 at all. 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.120 I'm just hoping that we get an update update out 0:16:44.160 --> 0:16:47.560 of this where date number one zero two seven stops 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:51.280 for Rever, not that she killed him, just like that's 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:52.400 the last yet. 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:54.480 She would working into the vowels and they get married. 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:59.400 You were seven then I knew, Yeah, I know, I did. 0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:00.600 She's radio sec. 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:02.600 She's the only one that could play that song at 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:06.320 last and it really means it like whatever I see 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:09.960 couples dancing to at last and I'm like, you're twenty two. 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:10.360 What do you mean? 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:14.560