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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for exposing my husband online?

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Speaker 1: And this is to answer the question of ore the

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Speaker 1: parts of relationships that should remain private? So just browsing,

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Speaker 1: says I, twenty eight female, recently discovered that my husband,

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Speaker 1: thirty two male, had been not only unfaithful, but also

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Speaker 1: financially irresponsible, which is so much worse. I have been

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Speaker 1: But it turns out he had been squandering our savings

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Speaker 1: on expensive dates with not one, but two women.

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Speaker 2: Ooh bang, he's using.

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Speaker 1: Up your money for two other women.

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Speaker 2: That's wild. Doing what Sophia likes to do with balls juggling.

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Speaker 1: It's like what, Yes, I do like to juggle. Yes,

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Speaker 1: But welcome to the stream everyone. We're back two hours later,

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Speaker 1: two and a half hours later, and we're ready. We

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Speaker 1: we ate and we're ready for the long har Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we found some more stories. We're fueled up and ready

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Speaker 1: to rumble.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Look at she just knows the words to say.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: You just said all the good words.

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you? Okay. When I confronted him about his

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Speaker 1: infidelity and financial negligence, he showed no remorse and instead

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Speaker 1: accused me of being too demanding. I felt betrayed and enraged,

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Speaker 1: so I decided to expose him on social media exposed.

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Speaker 1: We've been reading a lot of stories where family members

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about that. I think

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Speaker 2: Facts. I agree. I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it necessarily has to be private. Like

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Speaker 1: that doing that online is why are you starting that

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Speaker 1: I don't know, that's just I would never tell anything

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Speaker 2: But she does whenever she has like issues to like

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Speaker 1: I was I was being a little jokester. I'm being

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Speaker 1: During a shift at work, an anonymous source reached out

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Speaker 1: and one of the other women he had been involved with.

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Speaker 1: These chats reveal details of their plans, the relationships, et cetera,

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Speaker 1: and Dana Darkness says, I don't expose stuff online, but

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Speaker 1: I love seeing other people's drama online. No, I'm being

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Speaker 1: It just like millions of people. But as long as

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Speaker 1: Like everyone cheats on another butter Are they from France?

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Speaker 2: And then like they got over it. Yeah, every single

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Speaker 1: Opie's husband cheated on her with two different women, and

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Speaker 2: A lot of people are saying conspiracy theory. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: Oh, the one who's like everyone has no other partners

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Speaker 2: It's totally cash question. Yeah, how many bols can you

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Speaker 1: Harlen quince El says stinky man needs a poly relationship.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand. I just don't understand cheating man. There's

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Speaker 1: He blamed me for his cheating and the breakup over it.

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Speaker 1: Birch Lett says he is messy. That's so true, but

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Speaker 1: No, I feel like it's a hard thing to go through.

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Speaker 1: No, I just mean, no, I know it's like hard.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like he sucks that's all. You deserve better,

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Speaker 1: I have made the decision to divorce him. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: While it breaks my heart to end my marriage, I

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Speaker 1: It's time to prioritize my own well being and move forward.

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Speaker 2: So when you in the chat called that called that.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. She just she fully told on herself though.

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Speaker 1: I think what Sophio was going to say was like.

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Speaker 1: Kristin fail Had, thank you for the ten gifted memberships.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen one before a hater? No?

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Speaker 1: he had already done it and I was nagging. I

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00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: told him, it's not nagging when ninety nine percent of

435
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: the time it's not full. This is I feel like

436
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 1: they're just like, this is like a roommate problem that

437
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 1: I've had.

438
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: What's that thing? It's like when your wife asked you

439
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 2: to change the light bulbs and he says, reminding me,

440
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 2: so you don't remind him for another six months. I

441
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 2: butchered that someone chat put in the chat put that

442
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 2: put the right thing. I'm trying to say, sure, for sure, sure, no,

443
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 2: it makes sense. It may It's funny whenever someone says

444
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 2: it right, I got.

445
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: You, I got you. I swear I totally understand. But

446
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: about this issue right now, I think it's it is.

447
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: I don't think it's out. I don't think it's crazy

448
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 1: to be like, hey, can you fill up the brittle

449
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: water if it's something that is a constant issue.

450
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 2: We could do what if you don't okay, guy, guy,

451
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 2: I'm talking to you guy. If you don't want her, well, no,

452
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 2: that that won't work. Okay. You have two options. One

453
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 2: you get like a water thing, you know, there's like

454
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 2: big jugs that you go, Yeah, you still have to

455
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 2: refill that one, but not as much. You just have

456
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 2: to go to the store. Or you can new fridge

457
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: and it has like the filter thing and you do that.

458
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: Or you just message her and say already done.

459
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 2: But it's not done.

460
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: No, no, nobody. Apparently in this scenario it is done.

461
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: He goes already done, and then she goes, oh my god,

462
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: thank you. Solved. But I don't think that's what happened.

463
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: So when I got home, I chugged some water and

464
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 1: sat down for a while. About an hour later, he

465
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: got into the shower. I heard him in there, and

466
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: I really had to peep. I knocked on the door,

467
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: which is usually never a problem, but he wouldn't let

468
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: me in, so I waited. Ten twenty thirty forty minutes

469
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: passed and he still was not out. By that time,

470
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: I was on the verge of wetting my pants, so

471
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: I banged on the door. He told me, oh, well,

472
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: I made my bed by being rude over the water,

473
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: and now I had to lie in it. What kind

474
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: of childish response is that? Why are you in eighties?

475
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: Why aren't you letting people use the bathroom?

476
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 2: Well, she should have drank all that water.

477
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,479
Speaker 1: He's like, you asked me to fill the water, and

478
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 1: you drank it all, so you can freaking lie in

479
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: your own peep.

480
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 2: If you think about it, The rope WebM is her

481
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 2: because she creeps drinking the water.

482
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you think about it, she's drunk so much water,

483
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: so it wouldn't have been an issue if she was

484
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 1: died edrated, honestly. Yeah, love Bubble says, bust the door down, Oh,

485
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,399
Speaker 1: Melissa Daniel, is that what you're talking about? Really? She

486
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: asks him to change the bowl. He says, stop nagging me.

487
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: Six months later, it's not changed, and he's like, why

488
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: didn't you remind me?

489
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 2: Oh? Yes, thank you, Yeah, thank you. That's exactly what

490
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 2: I was trying to say.

491
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, this go ice sucks. I was so angry that

492
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: I said fine, then f you and storm towards the

493
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: door to go to a store and use their bathroom.

494
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: My husband literally raced me there and man handled me

495
00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: into our bedroom. Okay, so this is just abuse. He

496
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: locked me in there for another another two hours. I

497
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: peed my pants in there because I had no choice.

498
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: It was it was that bad. This man is psychotic crazy. Well,

499
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: now this is like a totally This is not just like, oh,

500
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: you wouldn't let me in the bathroom. This is a

501
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: man locked you in a room and forced you to

502
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: like pee your pants. Immediately get out of there, leave,

503
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:35,479
Speaker 1: Tell your mom. Absolutely, this is not a situation. This

504
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: is no longer. Oh we had a little argument, and

505
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go tell everyone what happened. This is he

506
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: was extremely He was extremely abusive and locked her in

507
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 1: a room. Yeah, tell everyone and get out of there.

508
00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: This is whoa. This completely changed Yeah, okay, this completely

509
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: changed it. Um it's been fifteen Oh sorry. I was

510
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: absolutely wailing when he finally let me out, and I

511
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: didn't even stop to change before I grabbed my keys

512
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: and went to my mom's house. It's been fifteen years

513
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 1: since I cried in my mom's arms like that. I

514
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 1: was effing mortified, enraged, hurt everything. I didn't go back

515
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: that night, and I haven't gone back since it's only

516
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: been two days. My husband called me to apologize and

517
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: has made and promised me a million in one ways.

518
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: He's going to make it up to me. You can't, Yeah,

519
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: Cassie f says, you could sue this is you could?

520
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: You could absolutely call nine to one one. Oh yeah, yeah,

521
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: this is something that you could file charges for. That's

522
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely file chargers for this is. This is so

523
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: too jail, Yeah, straight to jail. Absolutely. That was until

524
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: he found out I told my mom what happened. He

525
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: yelled at me for it. I don't know what to do.

526
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 1: I feel so bad for breaking our trust like that.

527
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: Do not feel bad. But then again, he literally humiliated

528
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: me over some argument about Abritta update. I really don't

529
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: even know what to say. I didn't expect anyone to

530
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: see my post let alone four k comments. I am

531
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: sorry to those I accidentally triggered. That wasn't my intention

532
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: at all. I don't know what I'm going to do.

533
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: I'm so confused and so hurt to learn that literally

534
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: a majority of people think that my husband was What's

535
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: another way we can say this for.

536
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 2: Man, we're trying to think about it.

537
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, not a good guy. We're gonna light on that

538
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: word just because of YouTube rules. But not a good

539
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: guy and you can read it. I don't think he does.

540
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: But I have been doing a lot of reflecting. My

541
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: mom is with me and my husband and I have

542
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: had a long conversation at her home. He suggested therapy.

543
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm going to try. Thank you all for your concern.

544
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 1: This is beyond therapy. This is Can we have a

545
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: poll because I think this is completely beyond therapy and

546
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,719
Speaker 1: even divorce. I think this is press charges. Yeah, but

547
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: I do want to pull Can we have three options?

548
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: Does that work? Okay? If we can have three options,

549
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: I want therapy, divorce, or file charges.

550
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: I don't think.

551
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: Because this is yeah, completely unacceptable. Kimberly Fine says, even

552
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: if he goes to straight wait, can you scroll up

553
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: a little bit in the comments? All right, even if

554
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: he goes straight to jail, which is where he belongs,

555
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: he won't have anyone restricting access to a toilet, which

556
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: is also where he belongs. Yeah, no, this net. Yeah,

557
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:54,239
Speaker 1: a toilet or access to you know, somewhere you can

558
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: do the bathroom is a should be a human right,

559
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: and not permitting someone to like, not permitting someone to

560
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: have a bodily fund, you know, of bodily function or

561
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: something is not okay, not okay, yeah, very This is

562
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: why I think this is beyond therapy. I don't think

563
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: that that is going to fix things because this man

564
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: is gary. But there are some relevant comments to finish

565
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: us off, and hopefully these relevant comments tell this poor

566
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: girl to get out of there. Mcmurrell says, this is

567
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: more than a humiliation. What he did was straight up

568
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: very bad. You are very young. Don't go back to him.

569
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: He left you locked in a room, knowing you had

570
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: to use the bathroom. Get a lawyer and end this.

571
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: There is nothing he can say. Be glad you have

572
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: your mother for support. Misty Afternoon says, and it will

573
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 1: escalate if she goes back. This sadly actually mild compared

574
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: to what this man will do. Give him the opportunity.

575
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: He became enraged because he knows how bad what he

576
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: already did is. He knows what the real world will

577
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: think of him. He has been outed. God, I hope

578
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: Opie is strong enough in herself to actually leave and

579
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: never be alone with him for the rest of her life.

580
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 1: This man is the kind capable of something really, really bad.

581
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,760
Speaker 2: Okay, I can't do a lot of people are putting

582
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 2: three and it's not registering.

583
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 1: Well, well, we can just yeah, I think a lot

584
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: of people are saying two and three, which I yeah,

585
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: I agree, But that is the end of that horrible,

586
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: horrible story.

587
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

588
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,359
Speaker 1: I think that woman should absolutely get out of there

589
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: and leave this guy yacause that's a scary situation and

590
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,839
Speaker 1: I worry that it'll escalate if she goes back to him.

591
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, over something little like that.

592
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, over brita filter. If my you know, if my

593
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: roommates responded this way, if I ask them to refill

594
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: the Britta, that would be crazy. That would be crazy. Yeah,

595
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,240
Speaker 1: And this is all and the answer to the question

596
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: of are there parts of relationship that should remain private

597
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: in this case whence your safety is on the line, No,

598
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: you should. You should absolutely go for help. You should

599
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: absolutely go for advice because the this is not okay.

600
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: But let's get into this next the stories one. Yep,

601
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: all right, but before we do, actually, before.

602
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: We do, do you smell bubbles, like, you know, the

603
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 2: bubble gun we have downstairs?

604
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: What about it?

605
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 2: Like, don't you just smell bubbles in the Yes.

606
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: I guess a little bit.

607
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 2: What is what is that from?

608
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe maybe you're.

609
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: So is it the stuff that you No, it's like

610
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 2: the bubble machine thing downstairs.

611
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: Possibly we need a fan in here, we do, I'm

612
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: so hot. We Commander Waddle says divorce for sure. Pressing

613
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: charges is the responsible thing to do, so his behavior

614
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: is on record for future partners to beware do. Uh.

615
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: But it's a wholehossle for a traumatized person focus on healing. Yeah.

616
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: I think at the very least she should divorce him.

617
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:27,760
Speaker 1: I don't think that therapy is the good idea. Uh.

618
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: Socrates says that one makes me sad. Yes. Same. We

619
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: had so many wholesome stories in a row, and then

620
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 1: we just had a really devastating right.

621
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 2: Thank him than it. We got to even out, yea

622
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 2: even out. But something that's happier.

623
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Matt had ter go. Thank you for the five bucks. No,

624
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: Sophia is auditioning for a remake of the movie Blood

625
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: and Blood being torn to shreds. I feel like I

626
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: should just unbutton my shirt. I'm enough of this.

627
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

628
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what they're talking about. Actually, what's

629
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: it about? Blood? In blood? Out, give me the synopsis.

630
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 2: What do I find?

631
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: Then? I don't know.

632
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 2: Past once movie quote.

633
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 1: Down, I don't know synopsis. Okay, here we go, here

634
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: we go. Oh there, IMDb. I feel like they got

635
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: to have a synopsis you have. I feel like we should.

636
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: We can spend five more seconds off this. Nope, we're done,

637
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: all right, but let's get into this next story. Uh Am,

638
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 1: I the a hole for being upset that my girlfriend

639
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 1: is still talking about her exes.

640
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 2: This reminds me of the one time me and my

641
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 2: ex would.

642
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, if they're still story for Sam.

643
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 2: But it's so they'll talk like their friends still, you know.

644
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,959
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it depends on this scenario and how

645
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: you're talking about them.

646
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 2: Let's find out. So Pool Girls.

647
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 1: Says, I've been in a relationship with my beautiful girlfriend

648
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: for seven months. I love her to bits and she's

649
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: the best thing to have happened to me. She is

650
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,879
Speaker 1: my first ever girlfriend and the things that come with them.

651
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: He has had more. You were a red flag for

652
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 1: his first ever girlfriend.

653
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,840
Speaker 2: I'm just asking is that a red or green flag? Y'all?

654
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 1: Having your first ever girlfriend? We don't even know how

655
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: old he is. True, but everyone has to have their

656
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 1: first girlfriend at some point.

657
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 2: I'm just it's just a question. I didn't it could

658
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: be a green flag, and it could be a red flag.

659
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: I know, think it's a red flag. Everyone's got to

660
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: have their first partner at some point in their life,

661
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: unless you were engaged at birth. She is my first

662
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: of her girlfriend and the things that come with them,

663
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: has had more relationships with me. Nothing wrong with that.

664
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: I feel insecure about them and talking together. We set

665
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: the boundary of not talking about schectural things she's done

666
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 1: in the past. This was two days prior to the

667
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 1: situation below. This is only from my perspective, so take

668
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: it with a grain of salt. Honestly, that's, you know

669
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 1: what I feel like. Redditors never say that, they're never

670
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 1: like you know what. This is from my perspective. Yeah,

671
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: my biases.

672
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 2: A lot of insecurity is coming through.

673
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: Good on you, dude, Good on you. We came home

674
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: and I went into her room. She talks with her

675
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: housemate in a living room, where I hear her saying

676
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 1: she's proud of sleeping with two important people recently in

677
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 1: the news. Important is an exaggeration, but they're good at

678
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 1: what they do. To be watched. Wait, okay, okay. I

679
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: feel like that's worded a little bit weirdly, but I

680
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: think the news. I think what she's saying is that

681
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 1: two of her exes are people that she's left with

682
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: in the past, were on the news, and she's like,

683
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: isn't it so cool that I slept with celebrities?

684
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 2: What were they doing?

685
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, he said, were they like?

686
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 2: Was it like? They're on the news? Also, they're gonna

687
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 2: be in jail for the next fifteen thirty years.

688
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,760
Speaker 1: Good at what they'd do unless they were good at Oh.

689
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 2: Sorry, they go to jail for life, because that's that's.

690
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 1: How good they were. Presumably they're good at something good

691
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: or you know, something not. I was about twelve feet

692
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 1: away with the door open. Immediately my stomach drops and

693
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: I felt bad. So I told her about it, and

694
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: she first says, so you don't want me to talk

695
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: about them to other people. I have no clue what

696
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: I said, but she apologizes and feels bad too. I

697
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: go into bed in a sulking way, reading other Reddit

698
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: posts of people in similar situations. She comes over and

699
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 1: asks the title of the post. It's something along the

700
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: lines up golfriend talks about sexual experiences. As soon as

701
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,919
Speaker 1: she hears this, she blows up at me, saying, why

702
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: am I being punished for talking with other people? This

703
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: took me by surprise, and she accuses me of eavesdropping,

704
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: signing I sometimes don't hear other things from the living room.

705
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: Right after this, I apologize. I tell her I love

706
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: her a lot. She sleeps away and refuses to talk.

707
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: I cry for a solid thirty minutes next to her,

708
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,240
Speaker 1: and she says she's not interested in talking, later saying

709
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: she does not care that I'm crying. He just cries

710
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: next to her for thirty minutes.

711
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 2: She's like, man, I could be with this guy because

712
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 2: he's on the news doing that.

713
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: Hmm okay, okay. I think his reaction is a little

714
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:53,879
Speaker 1: bit strange. However, why why is she talking about her

715
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: exes to other people in like a positive way beyond

716
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: a just like, oh yeah, I know my ex was

717
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: you know, parted on nice terms and stuff.

718
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

719
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a little bit weird to

720
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: be like, I slept with two famous people.

721
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 2: So that was quick.

722
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 1: The ac just came on, let's go. Yeah, we're talking

723
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: about the ace. Lovable says, why does she need to

724
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: talk about her exes so bad, just get back with

725
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: them annoying. Yeah, I don't know. I don't like how

726
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 1: she I don't like what she's doing me neither. She

727
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 1: seems just kind of mean and not really respectful of

728
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: his feelings.

729
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 2: Not a boy's girl. Not a boyfriend's girl.

730
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: Cause Andre says, remember first love is crying sounds normal

731
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: in regards to that. That's true. He's just had his

732
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 1: first kind of like big maybe not fight, but big

733
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 1: emotional response in a relationship. So yeah, yeah, it's fair.

734
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 2: I wish you would talk him through it though, Yes,

735
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 2: very supportive.

736
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: She doesn't. Stella Davis says his reaction is a little strange,

737
00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: but so is what she's saying. I agree. I think

738
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 1: that's where right, that's the page I'm on. I was like,

739
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:06,280
Speaker 1: it seems like a lot, but why is she talking

740
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 1: about her exes like that?

741
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

742
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 1: Weird, but let's continue. The reason I was crying is

743
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: because I spent the whole day bringing her around town

744
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: to open areas and drive throughs that she wanted to

745
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: add on. This is my first day with COVID symptoms,

746
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,240
Speaker 1: and I was dying with body pains and sore throat.

747
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 1: Why is he driving around. It's COVID, and nevertheless, I

748
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 1: pushed through and do everything she wanted outside. We then

749
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: went to her school and I cut out time out

750
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: of my own work that I've been hind that I'm behind,

751
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: to help her with clients. I don't get to do

752
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: my own work. I loved helping her. Basically, I love

753
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: her to death, but I feel like my feelings were

754
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: pushed aside and I had to help up. I had

755
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: to end up. I had to end up apologizing. Sorry,

756
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: there's some typos in this if I am nip up.

757
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: I'm writing this as I lay next to her. My

758
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,280
Speaker 1: heart hurts because I love her so much. She's done

759
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 1: great things for me. She's right, I just don't know

760
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 1: how to feel. Would you feel safe and respected in

761
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 1: this situation? Why yes? Or why not? Am I overreacting?

762
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: I sometimes feel I cannot bring things up to her

763
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: out of fear of it being pushed onto me, and

764
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 1: I have to apologize. I'm young, so I'm looking for

765
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: advice on how to maturely handle this and a little

766
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: baby edit before we look at your guys's comments and

767
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 1: then get into the updates.

768
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 2: Cassie says she is just using him.

769
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it says she makes she tells me how

770
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: great I am and how much better I am than

771
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: her previous relationship. This feeling is on me and not her. Again,

772
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: I love her and want to marry her. Okay, Especially

773
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 1: going off of that comment, it seems like because this

774
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: is Opie's first relationship, he is a little bit more

775
00:44:52,800 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 1: reliant on her and expecting that this is this is

776
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: the first and only relationship he's going to be in,

777
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 1: Which is not to say it won't be or that

778
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 1: it couldn't be. But I think when you I think

779
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 1: when sometimes when people get into their first relationship, they

780
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: have these really lofty ideas about it and they're like,

781
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: oh my god, I finally found love. I can't let

782
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: it go. I have to kind of ignore all of

783
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: these red flags because what if I don't get it again,

784
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: and all of those little fears and insecurities. But you

785
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: should know, even if it's your first relationship, you deserve

786
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: better the amount of relationships you are in, like you've

787
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: been in if you if you've been in less, it

788
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you have to like you still deserve

789
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 1: to be treated well, I guess, is what I'm trying

790
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: to say. I did not word that well as well.

791
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 2: You worded it perfectly. Yeah, they completely understood every word

792
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: you said.

793
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: The part of my sentence is that you deserve to

794
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: be treated well regardless of how many relationships you have

795
00:45:59,239 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: been in.

796
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 2: There we go, despite what your body count is.

797
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, agreed. I also agree with that. Victoria Sob says,

798
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: OPI seems a little immature in the relationship department, and

799
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 1: that's fine in your first relationship, but he needs to

800
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,760
Speaker 1: leave or find someone better that Yes, yes, completely agree.

801
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: It seems like he's still working out what he wants

802
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: in a relationship and how to interact with a partner.

803
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: But he just needs to realize that he doesn't have

804
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 1: to settle for this behavior. But finish thought. It just

805
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: took me a second to get there. Sam Hyatt says,

806
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 1: I don't think it should matter that it's his first relationship,

807
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: but seven months is pretty soon to think about marriage. Yeah,

808
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: that's I think it.

809
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:44,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just seems to me what seven months is soon?

810
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:51,239
Speaker 1: Yes, so dang, some mons is absolutely soon and it's

811
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: your first relationship. A Elizabeth says, I wouldn't say she's

812
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: talking about them in a positive way. She's talking about

813
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:01,360
Speaker 1: putting notches on her bedpost, which is still a weird.

814
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: I guess that's not necessarily positive, but it is still

815
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:08,439
Speaker 1: weird to talk about your exes in that way when

816
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: you have sorry. Someone said it most as I look

817
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: like I'm missing an arm. Yeah, but let's continue with

818
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: this story. H h, there's more and see if he

819
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: breaks up with his girlfriend. There's an update update. I

820
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 1: talked with her this morning. She said, why was I

821
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: crying last night? I told her my feelings were pushed

822
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: back onto me and that I was gas lit about eavesdropping.

823
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 1: She told me it doesn't matter that I could hear her.

824
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: She didn't consent to me hearing her. Okay, even if

825
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: you don't consent to being heard, you still have to

826
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: deal with the consequences.

827
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:52,439
Speaker 2: Wait, so she didn't hear him because you didn't consent

828
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 2: to that.

829
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 1: No, no, no. She's saying that she was talking about

830
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: her exes to a friend and he overheard her, and

831
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: she's like, I didn't consent to you listen to me, Like,

832
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: I didn't consent to you eavesdropping on my conversation.

833
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 2: I thought it was like while they were sleeping, he

834
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 2: was crying, and she was like, I didn't consent to

835
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 2: this to have a conversation with you about why you're crying.

836
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's what I thought, she said. She's

837
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,399
Speaker 1: saying I didn't consent to being overheard. It doesn't matter

838
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: if you consent to being overheard. If people overhear you,

839
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 1: you have to deal with what they heard. You have

840
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: to deal with their reaction to hearing that if you

841
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 1: were you know, they and stuff like this. Then she

842
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,439
Speaker 1: said what she liked was that, oh oh, he says,

843
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: I don't know how I could turn my ears off,

844
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 1: but yeah. Then she said what she liked was that

845
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,720
Speaker 1: I was with no one else before. But it's tainting

846
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: the relationship. She said, it's playing with their memory palaces

847
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,879
Speaker 1: of what actually happened. What I apologized, and she said

848
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 1: I have to work hard to get the relationship back.

849
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: She asked if I still loved her. Okay, I don't

850
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: really know what that sentence meant, but she's yeah, Annie

851
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: says she's still gaslighting and Armlis gaslighting she was the

852
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 1: Queens is such a red flag. She's putting it all

853
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 1: on him. Yeah, She's like, you know, you're gonna have

854
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 1: to really work on this because you overheard.

855
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 2: Me's and that's your fault.

856
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 1: And that's your fault. That's your fault. You shouldn't you

857
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: shouldn't have ever heard me. He sucks, She really sucks. Yeah, yikes.

858
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 2: I really want to know how old this guy is.

859
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: It seems like he's fairly young. He said he was.

860
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 1: He said he was on the younger side. So I'm

861
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 1: thinking maybe like twenties, but like maybe.

862
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 2: Early twenty seven with five year old, you're on the

863
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 2: younger side.

864
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: Maybe she's older. My understanding was maybe he was. Like

865
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 1: if we're thinking maybe he's in his early twenties and

866
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: she is also, but she's just had more relationships. M

867
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: But we don't know their ages, so we're just going

868
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: off vibes. Commander Waddall says manipulation. I'll be runten rotten

869
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: rutten oil boy. But there isn't a day.

870
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 2: You know that. You know that sound, that that thing,

871
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 2: it's like run oh.

872
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're saying, Salla Davis. Is the gas lamping

873
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: on this one is bright?

874
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 2: It really is.

875
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: They turned up that gas update too, though I still

876
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,879
Speaker 1: would love to hear your thoughts after these updates. I've

877
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 1: taken the time to read every single comment I appreciate

878
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: all the perspectives, even those that were hard to read

879
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 1: for me. I think my biggest takeaway right now is

880
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 1: that I have my whole lifespan life life in front

881
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: of me. I'm only twenty two. I was right. I

882
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,399
Speaker 1: was right. WHOA Yes, I feel like though that makes

883
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 1: sense of him not having any relationships and her having

884
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,359
Speaker 1: quite a few. I feel like your early twenties. Is

885
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 1: that kind of that makes sense? Yeah, so they're both

886
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 1: It seems like I think they're both maybe twenty two,

887
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,280
Speaker 1: maybe she's twenty three.

888
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 2: Yeah.

889
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: Also, I need a spine possible, Jim Mark. I understand

890
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: I messed up for crying. She encourages me to cry

891
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: if I need to. I just didn't understand the moment

892
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 1: why someone who I love so much treated me in

893
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 1: this way. It reminded me of the way I've been

894
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: treated in the past, when all I wanted was for

895
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: her to be happy and genuinely. I got to detach

896
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: my self worth from others. Kind of difficult when I've

897
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,919
Speaker 1: been the goody two shoes golden child who found someone

898
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 1: that likes me for me other than my parents and friends.

899
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 1: I understand the COVID comments as well. I was stupid.

900
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: It was stupid. We wore masks and went through one

901
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 1: drive through. We went to her school at eleven pm

902
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: and sat at the benches in the open air. It

903
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: was stupid. Still, Okay, so that is the end of

904
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: the story.

905
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: Wow, When would you have broken up in this story.

906
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:41,439
Speaker 1: If I was ope?

907
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 2: Yep, I think at what point?

908
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: Oh? I think when she started talking about her exes

909
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: and then got mad at me, like the reaction of

910
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: confronting her and then being like, you can't be mad

911
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,399
Speaker 1: at me for that, Like why were you why were

912
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: you eavesdropping?

913
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:05,439
Speaker 2: That would probably that's the bore.

914
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Annie says, you did not mess up by crying. Normalize,

915
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 1: normalize men crying expressing emotions. I agree. I don't think

916
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with him crying, although my only worry

917
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 1: with him with the way that he said crying for

918
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. I think sometimes you have to be careful

919
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:28,359
Speaker 1: about putting too much on your partner, especially when you're

920
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: having a fight, of like, of putting all of that

921
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,279
Speaker 1: emotional baggage on your partner. But it seems like she

922
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: sucks as well, though this was just a moment, you know,

923
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,439
Speaker 1: she was being awful and he responded in that way.

924
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 2: Yeah.

925
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: And also it's his first relationship, so I would have started.

926
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 2: I would have worken up with her whenever she yeah,

927
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 2: blaming him for a lot of stuff instead of taking

928
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: taking your own responsibilities.

929
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 1: And wait, Wingle says, where are you guys getting forty four?

930
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 1: I don't understand where you're getting the forty four stuff?

931
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 2: What I think this is a side conversation. Okay, forty

932
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 2: four is their body county We didn't even say that.

933
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:10,479
Speaker 1: No one said, no, one said forty four.

934
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 2: Oh I said, I said forty four year old with.

935
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, she's not forty four, guys, forty four.

936
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: Raley was just making a game. Oh wait, yeah, loses.

937
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: Why are people just throwing random numbers out? Yeah, we don't.

938
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 1: We don't know how this And Bella wes Moreland says,

939
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:33,760
Speaker 1: I would have left a minute the gas lighting started.

940
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 1: He's allowed to feel the way he feels. He's young,

941
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: so those big feelings will affect him in a big way,

942
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:42,839
Speaker 1: just like it does with children. Absolutely, yeah, I agree. Um,

943
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: but that is the end of that story. So let's

944
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:53,280
Speaker 1: groove on over to the next one. What a groove

945
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 1: on over? Let's groove on over to the next one. Man,

946
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: I don't know I'm talking in.

947
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 2: What it's today.

948
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've been a weird energy in

949
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 1: this stream. I should I had a completely different energy

950
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: at the first stream.

951
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 2: She got tired. I think I.

952
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: Got tired, and I'm trying to compensate. Like, let's groop

953
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: on over the next.

954
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 2: One, like the stream. Take a moment.

955
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm gonna totally pull up this next story

956
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: and not look at the calculator. We have seven hundred

957
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: and thirty one people in this stream and only three

958
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:36,839
Speaker 1: hundred and forties. I'm gonna be liked.

959
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 2: Come on, we can get the five hundred right now.

960
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you five seconds or and this stream

961
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: five four three two one. Okay, I'm just kidding. I'm

962
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: just just playing around. But like this dream, let's get

963
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 1: into the nose story. Am I the a hole for

964
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: not telling my ex that I'm married?

965
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 2: Whoa?

966
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 1: So? Tw intro X says I had a weird situation

967
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: happened last weekend and was hoping to get perspective on

968
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: if what I did was wrong. My wife and I

969
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: were near Seattle last weekend visiting my family We're both

970
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:25,439
Speaker 1: in our early thirties and are happily married for four

971
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: years together for six We went out to a bar

972
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 1: on Saturday with a bunch of my friends to catch up.

973
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: When I was going to the restroom, I felt a

974
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: tap on my shoulder, and to my surprise, it was Jen,

975
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: my ex whoa Jen and I dated for four years

976
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: in her early twenties. Jen left me because she wanted

977
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: to explore herself, and since I was her first boyfriend,

978
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 1: she felt like she was missing something in life. I

979
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: was very happy with her or for her, and I

980
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: had a job. Oh sorry, no, I was very happy

981
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: with her, and I had a job in tech that

982
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: put us on a very very stable financial path. I

983
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 1: was probably a few months away from proposing to her.

984
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: I was heartbroken, and it took me a few years

985
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: before I could start dating again. Although Jen and I

986
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: stayed friends for a year after breakup, I went no

987
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: contact with her so that I could move on and

988
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: never talk to her since then. My wife knows about

989
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: all of this. Yeah, ooh, that's rough. I think it's

990
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: really rough when you think that you're in a great

991
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 1: relationship and then and then they move on from that,

992
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: like you're not expecting it.

993
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 2: I think that's really tough.

994
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 1: We mostly talked about oh sorry, back to the incident.

995
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 1: Jen tapped on my shoulder and I was surprised to

996
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: see her. She hugged me and we exchanged pleasantries. She

997
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 1: was there with her friends and they were all sitting

998
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: at the bar. I knew most of them. They also

999
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,880
Speaker 1: came to say hello. We chatted for a few minutes

1000
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: before I felt like I needed to end the conversation.

1001
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 1: We mostly talked about what I I was doing back

1002
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: in my hometown and how we've been. I abruptly told

1003
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: her it was nice to see her after years, and

1004
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 1: that I needed to get back to our table as

1005
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: I'm out with my friends. She said okay, and I

1006
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: quickly turned around. To my surprise, my wife was standing

1007
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: right behind me. My friends identified Jen from our table,

1008
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 1: and my wife came to stand next to me. I

1009
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: told my wife what a weird coincidence, and took her

1010
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 1: hand and went back to the table. Okay, before we

1011
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 1: even go any further, I can see why you might

1012
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 1: be the a hole.

1013
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because if you're if you go.

1014
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: Up and you randomly come across your ex and your

1015
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 1: wife comes up I think you absolutely go, hey, this

1016
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 1: is my.

1017
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 2: Wife, the love of my life, my wife.

1018
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: I also think I would even do that if it

1019
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: was like a friend. I think if my friend walked up,

1020
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Oh, this is my friend, so and so.

1021
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: This is Jen my my ex. I don't know how

1022
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: you would introduce Jen.

1023
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, my ex, my ex. Yeah, old friend, honestly old.

1024
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 1: Friends, my old friend. Yeah. Emma Barri says, w wife

1025
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: having backup. Yeah, she just popped up. She's like, it

1026
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: got you, That's what I He didn't even say this

1027
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: is my wife.

1028
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1029
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: Courtney Joe says, uh, as the wife, I'd be pissed.

1030
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,919
Speaker 1: Let's do a pole right now. Is OPD a hole

1031
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: for not introducing his wife, because I think it kind of?

1032
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 2: Is it? Do one second?

1033
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: Do hold on my niece? Okay, all right, let's keep

1034
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: going while that pole starts shaking. What are you Let's

1035
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 1: keep going on that pole starts getting warm?

1036
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 2: What movie did you watch? Why are you talking like this?

1037
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 2: Let's people don't talk like this.

1038
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: Let's keep stop it. Lef you go. Let's let's get

1039
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 1: a bogging on. What that pole studs keeping up?

1040
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 2: You're hurting my brain.

1041
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 1: Boo boy, Daniel McLeod Hodge says disrespectful to the wife.

1042
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: Been there with my ex. Yeah. When I sat at

1043
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 1: the table, all of my friends started talking about Jen.

1044
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: My wife seemed visibly uncomfortable about the situation. I tried

1045
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: to change the subject, but I learned that Jen married

1046
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 1: someone few years ago and they got divorced last year.

1047
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: Woo yikes. She moved back to our hometown so she

1048
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: can stay at her parents' house until she figures things out.

1049
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: My wife seemed really interested in Jhen's life and asking

1050
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: a lot of questions, while I was just trying to

1051
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: avoid the whole topic. When we were driving home, my

1052
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: wife asked me why I didn't tell Jen that I

1053
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 1: was married and she was my wife. I told her

1054
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: I was just trying to end the conversation as I

1055
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,240
Speaker 1: went no content with her a long time ago, and

1056
01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: I prefer to keep it that way. My wife asked

1057
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: me how I felt after seeing her after so long.

1058
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 1: I told her that I was surprised since I was

1059
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: not expecting to see her, but to be honest, I

1060
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: felt like she was a stranger. I told my wife

1061
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: that I didn't feel sad that things didn't work out

1062
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 1: for her. My wife was upset because she felt I

1063
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: should have introduced her to Jen. She felt that Jen

1064
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 1: hugged me for too long and I should have clearly

1065
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: told Jen that I was married and have a lovely wife. Uh.

1066
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 1: My wife feels she came all the way from the

1067
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: table to stand next to me and felt slightly insulted

1068
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: that I did not include her in the conversation. I

1069
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 1: think I would be a little a bit annoyed if

1070
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 1: I went up, you know, if I was standing next

1071
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: to a friend and they didn't introduce me same, I

1072
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: think I would be a little bit annoyed. Tavia Cologne says,

1073
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 1: Fio is on that died add drug is like this

1074
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 1: with Adac, I just go a little crazy.

1075
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, guys, it's a little whack.

1076
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: Told me that he was going to come in super

1077
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 1: high energy, and I feel like I'm delivering. And I'm

1078
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 1: not saying.

1079
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 2: I have like four screens on me right now. I

1080
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:10,919
Speaker 2: keep up with a lie.

1081
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 1: I gotta keep up with them.

1082
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 2: I have high energy.

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01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: No, I know how you are. You're doing great, You're

1084
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 1: doing excellent.

1085
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 2: I'm so confused right now, she's gas lamping me. Right now.

1086
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 2: I don't know what you're doing great.

1087
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: You're doing great. I just think I've gone I'm going

1088
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 1: crazy energy and maybe you're doing like you're like a

1089
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: normal guy, high energy. Yeah, maybe that's it. From my perspective,

1090
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 1: I was just trying to get out of the conversation

1091
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 1: and don't see how it would have helped anyone. The

1092
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:44,480
Speaker 1: issue became worse the next morning when Jen sent me

1093
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: a friend's request on Instagram and also messaged me on

1094
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 1: my phone saying it was nice to meet me. I

1095
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 1: feel that triggered my wife and for some reason my mom,

1096
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: who went on a rent a rant about Jen because

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01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: she ateed Jen when we were dating. That made my

1098
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 1: wife very happy. My wife feels that I did not

1099
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 1: communicate clearly to Jen that I was married, and that

1100
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 1: was the reason why she messaged me the next day. Yeah,

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01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 1: it seems like they came back and he just had

1102
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 1: a conversation and didn't say I was in a relationship.

1103
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: And now she's like, oh, I've got I've got a chance.

1104
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 2: Who am I? Who am I?

1105
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: Kobe?

1106
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 2: Oh, that's how am I in the story?

1107
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: Oh? Steph Curry?

1108
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 2: No, who am I in the story?

1109
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: The girlfriend? The ex girlfriend?

1110
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 2: Thank you? Okay?

1111
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 1: Basketball player yeah, I didn't have a third one.

1112
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 2: Lebron ject lebron?

1113
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for not telling Jen? Oh? Sorry?

1114
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: I rejected? She messaged me the next day. I rejected

1115
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: the follow up request on Instagram and also did not

1116
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 1: respond to her message. However, a part of me feels

1117
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 1: my wife might be right and I did something wrong here?

1118
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 1: Am I the ahole for not telling Jen that I

1119
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 1: was married and introducing her to my wife who was

1120
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: standing right next to me. I just want to get

1121
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 1: out of the conversation and was in a hurry to

1122
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 1: end it. And there are some comments and an updates.

1123
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 2: But she I'm out. Instagram did try to follow me.

1124
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 2: Question number one? Are you private? Question number two? If

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01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 2: you're public, do you have pictures of you and your

1126
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 2: wife on your wedding day?

1127
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1128
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 2: I don't know because if Jin was using her, she

1129
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:40,440
Speaker 2: would know that woman next to you is your wife.

1130
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 1: That's so true, because I think that that's upened. I've

1131
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 1: told this story, but or Sam asked me to tell

1132
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: it about that Belgian boy who had a girlfriend and

1133
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 1: who gave me his Instagram and then I saw on

1134
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 1: his Instagram the first picture was him and his girlfriend

1135
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:58,360
Speaker 1: and I was like, well, oh, thank you, you noticed

1136
01:03:58,440 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 1: really quickly.

1137
01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 2: What are you trying to do?

1138
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, I wreck a home or something, trying

1139
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 1: to wreck a freaking home? What are you a wrecking ball,

1140
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: a construction crew, a bunch of business comments plastic concert

1141
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 1: says uh, I don't understand how you spent time catching

1142
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 1: up but didn't bring up your wife once. Yeah yo,

1143
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: especially when she is literally right there and.

1144
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 2: He's like, I need to get out of the conversation

1145
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 2: right now.

1146
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: If I can't say, oh, yeah, my wife, I even

1147
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 1: if it's just by insinuation by using we instead of

1148
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: eye pronouns, I'm married, and it's natural to say we

1149
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 1: without even thinking about it. We're visiting the family, we

1150
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: just bought a new house.

1151
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 2: Regnant, well, you cleaned the bathroom together. We cook together.

1152
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 1: It also seems more natural for you to have told

1153
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 1: your ex I have to get back to my wife

1154
01:04:57,840 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 1: instead of saying I have to get back to my

1155
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 1: friend friends like you were with your wife first and foremost.

1156
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 1: Hopefully she's not an afterthought to your friends and if

1157
01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: you truly want to end the conversation, your wife was

1158
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: a built and excuse sorry, I really have to go

1159
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 1: my wife's waiting for me. I do find your beavior

1160
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,720
Speaker 1: kind of odd. Is there a chance, at least subconsciously

1161
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: you didn't want Jen to know you were married? And

1162
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:28,479
Speaker 1: then two bionic nick knees, oh, biotic knees, his wife

1163
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,760
Speaker 1: went and stood next to him with Jen right there,

1164
01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 1: and decided not to introduce her. This will one hundred

1165
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 1: percent at best, appeared to Opie's wife like he wanted

1166
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:41,840
Speaker 1: to get out of there before either wife noticed there

1167
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 1: is something between op and his ex or X finds

1168
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,680
Speaker 1: out about his wife. Like to her, the situation is

1169
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,720
Speaker 1: insane and shady as f so there would be reasons

1170
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: to try and get out of that conversation quickly without

1171
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 1: introducing her or letting her know he's married. Also, instead

1172
01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 1: of accepting her friend request in front of his wife

1173
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 1: and saying, oh, I was a little shocked to bump

1174
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 1: into you, I forgot to introduce you to my beautiful

1175
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 1: wife who was standing next to me, he just doesn't

1176
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 1: accept the quest, which again just looks like hiding stuff

1177
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 1: rather than openly telling her about his wife. It's weird

1178
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 1: anyway you look at it. Imagine your wife standing right

1179
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 1: next to you and you can't take three seconds to

1180
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 1: introduce her. If my partner did that, I'd be mad

1181
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 1: as f at her because frankly, it's just straight rude

1182
01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 1: regardless of who they are talking to. But in this situation,

1183
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 1: it also comes across as trying. Yeah, yeah, can you

1184
01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 1: scroll up a little bit? Daniel Michleo Hodge says a

1185
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 1: similar situation happened to me. I told him if I

1186
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:45,200
Speaker 1: ever saw his ex, to at least tell me and

1187
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: not tuger. It was at a mall and he saw her,

1188
01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 1: and what did he do? Huger and talk to her family.

1189
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: I found out after because he called me. My heart dropped,

1190
01:06:55,520 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 1: needless to say, he's an ex for many reasons. Helloel, Yeah, yeah,

1191
01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 1: it's just it's just boundaries and talking, you know, I

1192
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 1: don't know. You have to be careful about how you

1193
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 1: interact with your exes.

1194
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still friends with one of my ex.

1195
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 1: You can absolutely be friends. It's just letting know your

1196
01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:15,400
Speaker 1: partner know about that situation. What were you to say

1197
01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: you're still friends with your ex? Oh okay, sorry, I

1198
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 1: thought that wouldn't really date. Yeah, I don't even know.

1199
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. Matt hatter Gal, thank you for the

1200
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 1: five bucks if my boyfriend can introduce me to his

1201
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:31,959
Speaker 1: neighbors and friends, this sop he can do the same.

1202
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:35,920
Speaker 1: It only takes a few minutes. And boosta Kida Yancy.

1203
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 1: Thank you for celebrating three months of membership. Uh sup okay,

1204
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: fam shout out to Luke oh infamous boost the kid

1205
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 1: to your shout out to Luke and Sophia for my

1206
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 1: okay storytime opportunity coming up. Woo happy to be a

1207
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:51,760
Speaker 1: part of the squad.

1208
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 2: We're very happy too. What's Luke cooking up? What what's

1209
01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 2: Luke doing?

1210
01:07:56,880 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 1: The reddit mods, the reddit monitors.

1211
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Luke, Yeah, what's he doing?

1212
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 1: He's looking for reddamonds. We were.

1213
01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 2: So, oh yeah, that's right. Yeah, message Luke, I know

1214
01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 2: a lot of people reach out to me. I don't

1215
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:12,200
Speaker 2: know what to do with you.

1216
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 1: In that, but has been talking to us about this

1217
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:19,280
Speaker 1: baby got zilla though. Thank you for the five book tip.

1218
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:24,200
Speaker 2: Ley, I'm back through the hurricanes. Thank you for reaching

1219
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 2: out to me about that. Yeah. She was like, watch out,

1220
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 2: my mom sent me this. You get me.

1221
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 1: Held up?

1222
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 2: No on the way back, none of the way there.

1223
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 1: No, So I was saying, uh, did you you got

1224
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:39,720
Speaker 1: held up on the way back?

1225
01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, not because there's a hurt.

1226
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I see what you're saying. And then mad

1227
01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:46,679
Speaker 1: hatter Gal, thank you for the ten bucks. Ten bucks.

1228
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 1: Sorry Riley, Riley, but this is what happens when you

1229
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: leave for a vacation for a while. You get a

1230
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:54,840
Speaker 1: Sophia that says all things, I have gone crazy. There's

1231
01:08:54,840 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: no one to rein me in. Oh yeah, Clint, we were.

1232
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 1: Sam and John said they were going to talk about

1233
01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 1: this on the Tuesday stream, So I guess we can

1234
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:06,519
Speaker 1: talk about it now.

1235
01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 2: But what John and Sam aren't here, They're not here

1236
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:11,760
Speaker 2: to take about them.

1237
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sure, finish we would have finished the story and

1238
01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 1: then we can do the updates. I just wanted to

1239
01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:22,600
Speaker 1: read the don'nos. Some of them were relevant, okay, relevant comments.

1240
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 2: Dude, I need to do something about the smell. It's

1241
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 2: bothering me.

1242
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 1: I can't smell anything. Minty Walker twelve ninety says you're

1243
01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:33,040
Speaker 1: the a hole. You told Jen that you were there

1244
01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:35,920
Speaker 1: with your friends. You didn't mention and your wife. Why

1245
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 1: is that? Neo Sporn says that's it. I got rid

1246
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: of her turk so fast. How'd you do it, Carla?

1247
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 1: I just told her I was married Turk scrubs already

1248
01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:49,520
Speaker 1: did it. I think they were quoting a scene presumably

1249
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 1: numerous Dot fifteen thirty says you're the a hole and

1250
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:55,439
Speaker 1: X asks how you've been over the past few years

1251
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:56,960
Speaker 1: and one of the top things on your list of

1252
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 1: why you're so good isn't that you're married to a

1253
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:05,679
Speaker 1: wonderful And the judgment is you're the Ale, which makes sense.

1254
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 1: But there is an update. Well, also, what was the

1255
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: end of our poll for that? Was it Ale?

1256
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:12,639
Speaker 2: Oh?

1257
01:10:12,720 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, makes sense? Update two days later. Okay, so

1258
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 1: we had about twenty six percent of people said not

1259
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:25,439
Speaker 1: the Ale. But let's get into this update. I wrote

1260
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,840
Speaker 1: a post a few days ago regarding bumping into my

1261
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 1: ex gen when I was on a trip to my hometown.

1262
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:32,640
Speaker 1: My wife saw me talking to her and came up

1263
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:34,960
Speaker 1: to me and, like an idiot, I forgot to introduce

1264
01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 1: Jen to my wife. My wife was a bit upset

1265
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 1: that I did not tell Jen I was married. Thanks

1266
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 1: everyone who commented and let me know unanimously how stupid

1267
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,799
Speaker 1: I was during the whole interaction. We came back home yesterday.

1268
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 1: Although my wife seemed to have gotten over the incident,

1269
01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:52,720
Speaker 1: I decided it was best to apologize to her and

1270
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 1: let her know that I did not have any wrong intentions.

1271
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:57,720
Speaker 1: It was just a deer in a headlight moment for me,

1272
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:00,320
Speaker 1: and I should have introduced her to Jen. Yeah. Yeah,

1273
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 1: I also understand that kind of shock of talking to

1274
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 1: your ex after all of these years, and then you

1275
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 1: know your wife comes up really good. Yeah. I still

1276
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 1: think it's an able move, but it may be unintentional.

1277
01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 1: At Knife at night, when my wife was scrolling her

1278
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:19,160
Speaker 1: through her phone in bed, I decided to bring up

1279
01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:21,480
Speaker 1: the topic. I told her that I wanted to apologize

1280
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: for the incident on Saturday. I know I messed up

1281
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 1: royally and I should have introduced her to Jen so

1282
01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: she can see that I'm happily married together. I told her.

1283
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 1: I told her that I was just surprised to see

1284
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: her and I really wanted to get out of the

1285
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 1: conversation as soon as possible. My wife said it was okay,

1286
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: and she saw flustered, and she saw how flustered I

1287
01:11:40,439 --> 01:11:42,600
Speaker 1: was when I was talking to Jen. She said that

1288
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 1: when Jen saw me and hugged me, everyone at the

1289
01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 1: table started staring at us. One of my friends, Rita,

1290
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 1: made some scandalous comments regarding why Jen is done. Jen

1291
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 1: is schmoozing with me. My wife has never seen Jen's

1292
01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,360
Speaker 1: picture and took her a while to realize that it

1293
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 1: was Jen. She thought she would stand next to me

1294
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:02,759
Speaker 1: and once I tell Jen that I'm with my wife,

1295
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 1: she would leave me alone. However, when she stood next

1296
01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 1: to me for more than a minute, I did not notice. Yikes.

1297
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:14,960
Speaker 1: Jen noticed her and gave her dirty look yikes. Once

1298
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 1: I turned around to go to the table. She was

1299
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: hoping I would introduce her to Jen, so Jen knows

1300
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,160
Speaker 1: she was my wife and not some random girls standing

1301
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:24,320
Speaker 1: next to me. However, I just hurried back to the

1302
01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 1: table with her. Yeah. Anyea, wait, scrawl up a little

1303
01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 1: bit there, Sarah. Buh, he says, ah, good boy, apologizing

1304
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:39,759
Speaker 1: at least yeah, yeah, uh, that is at least something.

1305
01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: It seems he's owning up to it. Anna says he

1306
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 1: didn't mean to be an ahole, but he was one. Nonetheless,

1307
01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 1: I agree, unintentional a hole, but it still hurt his feelings,

1308
01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 1: and he's still hurt his wife's feelings and he has

1309
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 1: to own up for that. Bags. I again apologized to

1310
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 1: her and told her that from my perspective, I was

1311
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 1: just trying to finish the conversation and get back to

1312
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:02,679
Speaker 1: the table. In hindsight, I should have done what she said,

1313
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 1: but I froze in the moment and was not thinking straight.

1314
01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 1: She again asked me why I was acting so weird

1315
01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:10,800
Speaker 1: around Jen. I wish I had a better answer, but

1316
01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:13,479
Speaker 1: talking to Jen just felt wrong, and all I was

1317
01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 1: thinking was I need to get back to my wife.

1318
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 1: I asked her if she felt bad that I was

1319
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 1: talking to Jen or that she hugged me. She told

1320
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 1: me that she has always been curious about Jen since

1321
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 1: I was so close to marrying her, and when she

1322
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: saw me around her, she felt I was still acting

1323
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 1: like someone like how someone acts around their crush. Moreover,

1324
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:34,840
Speaker 1: she saw Jen and realized how beautiful she was and

1325
01:13:34,880 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 1: felt insecure in that moment. My friends making a big

1326
01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: deal out of it did not help either. She asked

1327
01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:43,200
Speaker 1: me if I ever wished Jen did not break up

1328
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 1: with me. I told her that if I had a

1329
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 1: time machine, I would wish a hundred out of one

1330
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 1: hundred times that Jen would break up with me so

1331
01:13:51,320 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 1: that I got to meet my wife and build such

1332
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:57,680
Speaker 1: a beautiful life together. Oh good, he is filling that

1333
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 1: hole that he dug he's filling it back up.

1334
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 2: What's he flowing it up with?

1335
01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:02,400
Speaker 3: Love?

1336
01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:07,599
Speaker 2: Kind of soil? What kind of good soil?

1337
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: Was husband materials?

1338
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 2: Affredacious soil the right answer, aphrodisiac affredacious soil.

1339
01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: What's aphrodasious?

1340
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 2: I made that up?

1341
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: Oh, I was like, well, at first I thought you

1342
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:22,240
Speaker 1: made it up, but then I was like, oh, he's

1343
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,600
Speaker 1: a he's a saw mill man. Maybe he knows a

1344
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:25,360
Speaker 1: bit about soil.

1345
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:29,280
Speaker 2: I don't okay, North Carolina soil.

1346
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:34,439
Speaker 1: North Carolina soil. I asked her if she should if

1347
01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 1: I should message Jen and let her know I'm married.

1348
01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:39,599
Speaker 1: She said, there is no need to do that since

1349
01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:42,280
Speaker 1: my profile picture on messages is a picture with my

1350
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:45,600
Speaker 1: wife and Jen should have already seen that. Also, my

1351
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:47,840
Speaker 1: Instagram is public with a lot of pictures of my

1352
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 1: wife and me. So she asked me to just ignore

1353
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:55,719
Speaker 1: her message and get on with our lives again. Thanks

1354
01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 1: everyone for being so brutally honest as I would expect

1355
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:04,480
Speaker 1: or read it. And then there are a couple of comments,

1356
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:07,479
Speaker 1: but I don't think they're super relevant, so we can

1357
01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 1: finish that up here. Wow, that was lovely, you know what.

1358
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 2: I love that they figured that out and that they

1359
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 2: still love each other that they didn't break up.

1360
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 1: See that's what I like. I like these. I like

1361
01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 1: stories like this where someone makes a mistake and then

1362
01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 1: they talk about it and realized that they made a

1363
01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: mistake and then try and work to improve.

1364
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:27,880
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah.

1365
01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:31,480
Speaker 1: Alicia Romley says, oh, can you scroll up a little bit? Uh?

1366
01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:33,599
Speaker 1: These are the mistakes that you look over when married

1367
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 1: to someone with ADHD. What counts is he recognized and

1368
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 1: apologized and can you scroll down? Thank you? Uh? Oh, right,

1369
01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:47,679
Speaker 1: a little bit up. I'll record it. J just Courtney

1370
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 1: Joe says he was an a hole, but he didn't

1371
01:15:50,160 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 1: really mean it, and he did good with what he

1372
01:15:52,320 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 1: said and clearly meant in actually asking her what she'd

1373
01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 1: like to do with the messages. I yeah, I think

1374
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 1: all of that is really great. And Leelo says, why

1375
01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 1: didn't she introduce herself? I think that when you are

1376
01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:09,800
Speaker 1: in a situation where some like your significant other or

1377
01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:12,240
Speaker 1: a friend is talking to someone they know and you

1378
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:14,720
Speaker 1: walk up next to him, I feel like it's a

1379
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 1: little bit awkward to interrupt and say, Hi, I'm you know,

1380
01:16:19,200 --> 01:16:22,120
Speaker 1: this is my relationship with OPI or this person. Yeah,

1381
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:24,400
Speaker 1: I feel like you have to be introduced, or like

1382
01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 1: it feels as if you have to be introduced just

1383
01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:32,320
Speaker 1: because there's that feeling of not wanting to interrupt. But

1384
01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 1: that is the end of that story.