WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: In Greg We Trust

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Second Date Update podcast here with Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning, the home of the Second Date.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're so glad you're here because it's Tuesday, and

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<v Speaker 1>now it's just become a regular thing. We're doing your

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<v Speaker 1>awkward Tuesday phone call. That's where we call someone. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>you call someone. We just give you advice, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're going to get it here in a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, hey, And as we go into this, we'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to see in the comments after three dates, is

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<v Speaker 1>it okay to give a big surprise free.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm first date?

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<v Speaker 4>I get I'm like, you got something in the mail girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that about your host. All right, let us

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<v Speaker 2>know and sit back and enjoy the show.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of times when we're helping out couples in

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<v Speaker 4>this segment, Yeah, they usually come to us around with

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<v Speaker 4>the six month mark in their relationship, maybe like a

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<v Speaker 4>year or two, and they've hit a speed bump.

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<v Speaker 3>But not today.

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<v Speaker 4>One of our listeners says he's sending up smoke signals

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<v Speaker 4>after date number three three.

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<v Speaker 2>He's already worried.

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<v Speaker 4>Already sign not necessarily the best, but we do need

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<v Speaker 4>to step in and try and help him out today.

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<v Speaker 4>So let's talk to Greg. Greg, Welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 4>How you doing.

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<v Speaker 5>What's going on? Everyone?

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<v Speaker 2>Date three man?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>She's sketched, bro, why don't you just drop it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's my question, Jose Like, why even bother?

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<v Speaker 5>I've actually been thinking about.

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<v Speaker 1>That, but that's on the line right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So no pressure on us here, obviously. What's this

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<v Speaker 3>girl's name?

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<v Speaker 6>Her name is, it's a fun name.

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd you meet her online?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? And so what's the issue?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, three dates to already have a problem and

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<v Speaker 4>you reach out to a radio show about it, it

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<v Speaker 4>can't be good.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just in a weird situation right now. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, a weird situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love weird situations. That means to be dramatic.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of weird stuff. What's happening?

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<v Speaker 5>So, you know, like I said, we met online, we

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<v Speaker 5>went on a few dates, but out of nowhere, she

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<v Speaker 5>just says, hey, like, I have a really big surprise

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<v Speaker 5>for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And okay, wait before you go further, when did she

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<v Speaker 1>say that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like via text? In person.

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<v Speaker 5>This is via text, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And what day of the week was It was a

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<v Speaker 3>Monday Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like is she says a surprise date? Like do

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<v Speaker 2>you know?

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<v Speaker 5>No? Like during the afternoon, she's like, hey, I have

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<v Speaker 5>a big surprise for you. I've been working on after.

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<v Speaker 3>Just three dates.

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<v Speaker 5>That's adorable. She's handmaking something sound someone new does anything

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<v Speaker 5>by hand for you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so nice.

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<v Speaker 5>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>What Why are you scared? Why do you sound scared

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<v Speaker 2>of a surprise?

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<v Speaker 3>You're just not like surprises.

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<v Speaker 5>I was actually thinking about ghost Singer pretty soon. But

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<v Speaker 5>if she gives me like a big gift, like a

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<v Speaker 5>big surprise, now I'm going to feel bad. I won't

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<v Speaker 5>be able to do that. I'm going to feel bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Why love that little parting gift for your time?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's so funny you assume big. It could be

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<v Speaker 2>so tiny.

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<v Speaker 3>That's actually big.

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<v Speaker 5>She makes a good point.

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<v Speaker 7>It could just be like like free tickets or something.

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<v Speaker 3>I found your real father.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's what we have.

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<v Speaker 1>On the other line, do you feel like you're being

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<v Speaker 1>guilted into staying with her?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just playing this out in my mind, and let's

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<v Speaker 5>just say if it is something big, I can't get

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<v Speaker 5>rid of her, Like, I'm just I'm now going to

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<v Speaker 5>be obligated.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but what if Okay, Okay, it's a good look,

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<v Speaker 7>isn't it? Like what happened to people just being direct

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<v Speaker 7>with each other and saying, after you find out this prize,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry, I can't accept this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not where I'm at in the relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>We all wish we could move back to the nineteen sixties.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not how the world works anymore. No, but it's true.

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<v Speaker 4>You can say, hey, look, I love the surprises too,

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<v Speaker 4>and I love presence. Why don't we save them and

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<v Speaker 4>we'll both give each other surprises down the road.

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<v Speaker 5>This girl is so amped about giving me this gift

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<v Speaker 5>right now, Like, I don't know if I can dial

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<v Speaker 5>it back even if I tried.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I'm a gift giver.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know what it is, so I'm excited

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<v Speaker 2>to so im.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So you're not you're not saying that you're definitely

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<v Speaker 4>gonna end it with Gianna. You just don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>be guilted into staying longer than you're ready to commit

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<v Speaker 4>to exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we're we doing? Are we asking her? What the

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<v Speaker 3>gift is, and then we hang up if it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Good enough, And it sounds like he's more scared if

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<v Speaker 2>it's too good.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, what advice specifically are you looking for?

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<v Speaker 5>Listen? I just want to know what it is, like

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<v Speaker 5>if it's a big.

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<v Speaker 3>Surprise, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just wantn't know because if it's a big gift,

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<v Speaker 5>and that just kind of puts my mind in the

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<v Speaker 5>frame that was like, Okay, this is going to at

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<v Speaker 5>least be like another.

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<v Speaker 4>Three months a car, dude, then you're keeping her.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>He has a boy.

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<v Speaker 5>No one should be giving anyone's big gifts after three dates.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, unless you're both on the same page

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 3>But rather, would you rather it's like a car, like

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<v Speaker 3>a song she made for you? You know, you don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if it's big.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't know if it's just a key chain that

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<v Speaker 4>she had like personalized to have his name on it,

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<v Speaker 4>So it could be anything that's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>But if it's a small gift, like Jeff is suggesting,

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<v Speaker 1>would you continue to date her or are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>want to end things?

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<v Speaker 5>I hope it's just a crappy surprise. That way, I

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<v Speaker 5>could just ditch.

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<v Speaker 2>Her feel so sad.

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<v Speaker 4>A relationship lies in the balance right now, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>find out he's doing all the talking, by.

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<v Speaker 1>The way, right, it's better for her if you just

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<v Speaker 1>ditch her, like no, because what.

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<v Speaker 4>If he he has like a monkey, a live monkey.

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<v Speaker 5>You bought him. Yeah, I don't think it's sad because

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<v Speaker 5>I keep getting texts says he's working on it, right,

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<v Speaker 5>So what's a project? Yeah, I think she's with this.

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<v Speaker 2>Your own song?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that would be terrible. Let's let's come back. That

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<v Speaker 3>would be Let's make her sing it. We're going to

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<v Speaker 3>come back.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll give you a little bit of advice on what

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<v Speaker 4>we think you should do before we let you call

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<v Speaker 4>your you're not even girlfriend, it's a new fling, Gianna

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<v Speaker 4>and find out what surprise she has planned coming up

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<v Speaker 4>when we do your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 6>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody loves the person who blows the big surprise, and today.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all of them.

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<v Speaker 4>We're helping out one of our listeners, Greg, who's been

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<v Speaker 4>out on three dates with a girl named Gianna, wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>really feeling it with her in fact, kind of planned

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<v Speaker 4>on ghosting, to be honest, until she told him that

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<v Speaker 4>she has been planning.

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<v Speaker 3>A big surprise just for him.

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<v Speaker 4>Greg's worried if it's really cool that he's not going

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<v Speaker 4>to be able to.

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<v Speaker 7>Ghost because he's a He's a good guy who is guilty.

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<v Speaker 4>He doesn't want to get roped into a relationship for

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<v Speaker 4>months and months.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody needs that, right alexis right.

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<v Speaker 5>Good?

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<v Speaker 4>So Greg is about to call her, but wants our

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<v Speaker 4>advice first on how to get Gianna to just open

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<v Speaker 4>up and tell him what the big surprise is so

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<v Speaker 4>he can just know. Jose please share your wisdom with Greg.

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<v Speaker 4>What should he do here?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Jeffrey Wisdom. Well, you gotta tell her. I

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<v Speaker 3>know we've been on a few days, but I should share.

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<v Speaker 4>Something with you. Surprises give me anxiety. So all I

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<v Speaker 4>would like is just a hint because I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to ruin the surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>But I do like to ease some of my anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a hinting and tell him enough the.

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<v Speaker 4>Anxiety, Greg, can you and you say that you actually

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<v Speaker 4>have anxiety?

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<v Speaker 5>I have anxiety that I haven't broken up with her yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I mean, I do feel like anyone who calls

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<v Speaker 2>us is anxious?

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<v Speaker 3>Yea channel that maybe into this phone call?

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke, what do you think I hate ruining surprises. I

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<v Speaker 2>love surprises.

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<v Speaker 4>Unless it's your husband surprising you with a barbershop quartet

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<v Speaker 4>in the studio.

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<v Speaker 3>You did not like that, I did it, So that's

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<v Speaker 3>your advice.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess like, if worse comes to worse, you just

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<v Speaker 1>lie and say that you already found out.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she'll just tell you, oh, you know about blame.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's not bad advice. What do you think?

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<v Speaker 5>Greg? Yeah, I'm better off of playing anxiety card on

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<v Speaker 5>this one. Okay, I can use the other one if

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<v Speaker 5>I get desperate enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a nickel for every time a man told

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<v Speaker 1>me that, oh wait, wait, wait, let's.

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<v Speaker 4>Figure out, because always the men's desperate option, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, go figure it out?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, Greg, not if that was uplifting or not, but

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<v Speaker 4>we're gonna a dial Gianna for you and let you

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<v Speaker 4>make this call. Hopefully you'll be able to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>what surprise she's been planning for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Really excited it's for you?

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<v Speaker 6>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>We got you, man, I'm dialing her number right now

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<v Speaker 3>here we go?

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<v Speaker 6>All right, Hello, Gianna Graig, Hey, I've been having.

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<v Speaker 5>What's what's that? Nothing?

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<v Speaker 8>You just calls them a different number. I was just

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<v Speaker 8>wondering where you're calling from. How are you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm well, I'm doing well. Listen. There's something I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to you about, you know, the surprise that

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<v Speaker 5>you you had mentioned. I've been giving it a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of thought, and I'm so appreciative that you you put

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<v Speaker 5>something together. But I got it.

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<v Speaker 8>You're going to love it.

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<v Speaker 5>You're going to love it, right, So listen. I'm We've

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<v Speaker 5>only been going out for you know, a couple of

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<v Speaker 5>times in a few weeks. There's something I haven't told

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<v Speaker 5>you that I think I need to share.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, I'm listening. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So, I suffer from severe anxiety and surprises. Surprises are

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<v Speaker 5>like one of one of the triggers for that. Oh yeah, no, no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>oh my god. Unfortunately, I don't know if I can handle.

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<v Speaker 8>It, Greg Oh my god, no, like I had no clue. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes they give me medicine for it too.

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<v Speaker 8>Only for surprises the anxiety, or is it like just

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<v Speaker 8>for anything, you know?

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<v Speaker 5>The surprises are like the big trigger.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, oh gosh, oh my god, this is such a trigger.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh yeah, I I mean, what do you mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know what to do. I don't know. I've

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<v Speaker 8>never been in a situation. I'm sorry, Greg.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if you could just kind of tell me a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit about it, what it is our hand, that

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<v Speaker 5>would really really help.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh well, you know, I really can't say. I really

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<v Speaker 8>want to, but is it really going to help you?

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<v Speaker 5>Are? Yeah? Absolutely? It gets really bad my anxiety.

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<v Speaker 8>Are you triggering now?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm kind of short of breath and.

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<v Speaker 8>Just okay, no, no, no, sit down, just just are

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<v Speaker 8>you sitting down? Sit down? Good? Okay? Are you ready

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<v Speaker 8>for this because I'm going to tell you part of it?

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<v Speaker 8>Are you ready?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 8>All right? So you really love it? I booked you

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<v Speaker 8>at Dennis appointment.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Remember you tell me you haven't been in a long time,

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<v Speaker 8>so I booked it for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, I know.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, I'll tell you a little bit more. Also, I

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<v Speaker 8>also got you a dermatologist because I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 8>like everything at one time, like the mouth and hole

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<v Speaker 8>face everything facially just because you did all that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm actually trying to get you an appointment for tsa

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<v Speaker 8>pre check too.

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<v Speaker 4>YESTU also made you a tax appointment for next year.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually thought it was an insult until we got

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<v Speaker 2>to the TSA pre check.

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<v Speaker 8>Same same Wait, wait, what is happening? Who are these people?

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<v Speaker 6>Wait?

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<v Speaker 4>These people are an entire radio show called Brook and

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>We're his Surprise Therapists Center there for support surprises.

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<v Speaker 8>No, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I am.

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<v Speaker 8>What is going on, Craig, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? So these people are really and they okay, hold on,

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<v Speaker 5>let them cook. They kind of helped me with like

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<v Speaker 5>tough decisions. Yeah, I kind of brought them into kind

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<v Speaker 5>of help me out.

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<v Speaker 8>So were you lying about the anxiety for surprises or something?

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<v Speaker 6>Why?

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<v Speaker 8>Why? Why do they need to help you out?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I wasn't lying. I get super nervous about stuff.

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<v Speaker 8>Like this, different than so do you like the surprise?

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<v Speaker 5>You know what? Like it? Actually, no one's ever done

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<v Speaker 5>anything like that for me before it.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, yeah, you seem like more the creative type, right,

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<v Speaker 8>and I'm definitely like more buttoned up. So I thought

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<v Speaker 8>I would come in help you get a little structure,

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<v Speaker 8>do some things that I heard you talk about, and

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<v Speaker 8>give you an act of.

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<v Speaker 4>Service wowing a bit like practical I mean, Greg, that's

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<v Speaker 4>probably not what you were expecting at all. That is

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<v Speaker 4>actually kind of a big surprise that she cares enough

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<v Speaker 4>about you to like set up all this important stuff

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<v Speaker 4>in your life. I don't how do you feel about

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<v Speaker 4>it having to make their own appointments?

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<v Speaker 5>No, listen, here's the honest truth. I'm kind of into it.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's amazing and it.

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<v Speaker 3>Takes a lot off of his plate now that he

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't have to do it himself.

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<v Speaker 8>So listen. I'm big on love languages, and I heard

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<v Speaker 8>that your love language was like acts of service and support,

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<v Speaker 8>and we had that conversation at our second date. So

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<v Speaker 8>I'm booking you appointments all over the city. You know.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm doing this for you, baby, like all over the city.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe people in relationships should be doing more of these

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<v Speaker 4>things for each other.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's sweet that that's your active service. But

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you're really encroaching on like mom terrorists.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, don't don't. Her love language is roadkill. She doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>know what to think about true romance.

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<v Speaker 2>I just be careful.

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<v Speaker 8>Here's the thing. It's not really like mom, because I'm

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<v Speaker 8>not pain I just wanted to book the appointment. It's

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<v Speaker 8>like he paid for dinner. He books the dinner date.

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<v Speaker 8>So I thought I booked some things that I noticed.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, to me, it sounds like brook has a

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<v Speaker 4>problem with other people doing things the way that they

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<v Speaker 4>want to do him Greg.

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<v Speaker 3>Greg seems to like it. Greg is on board with this.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm on board.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>No, he's saying he likes it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but I'm just saying for her, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>slippery slope, that's all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if you book a coup two moments one day,

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<v Speaker 1>two years down the road, you're doing all his laundry,

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<v Speaker 1>washing his dishes, picking up his dirty towel.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this is the Brooks story of what happened in.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 8>I definitely want things to be romantic between us, right,

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<v Speaker 8>so of.

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<v Speaker 3>Course, yeah, so maybe you should book a couple's massage

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<v Speaker 3>for the two of you.

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<v Speaker 2>That is the booking that I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, massages giving me anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think he is.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what he's doing anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't think he's truthful about saying.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just happy that we actually made this call and

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<v Speaker 4>the two of you have worked it out and you're

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<v Speaker 4>on the same page that the surprise is a good thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You're going to see each other again, right, I hope.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, most definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>In the lobby of the dentistaurs.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it's broken Jeffrey in the morning.