WEBVTT - Lie A Little Bit w/ Paris Sashay

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you are listening to Mess. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>We're back Mess. Yes, Oh my.

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<v Speaker 2>God, I mean you're doing your hair.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was like, yeah, you know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>there's two types of Sydney. There's the sometimes people think

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<v Speaker 3>I'm aloof or like I don't care or indifferent, and

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<v Speaker 3>then there's the I'm putting on, you know, And so

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to start with the put on Sidney.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to put on more because I could be

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<v Speaker 2>very like, hey, what up niggas? You know, like I

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<v Speaker 2>want to do more.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever heard you say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Friends, You've never heard me say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, what up niggas?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I didn't say that the niggas part, but that

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<v Speaker 3>that's my feeling, that's my energy.

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<v Speaker 4>Aside, Well, when you feel like that, next time, say

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<v Speaker 4>it so I can see which Sydney I'm what.

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<v Speaker 2>You're dealing with. Yeah, okay, great, Well what niggas?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, yes, We're back with another facts fabulous episode

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<v Speaker 3>of Mess. I'm so excited for a guess. I'm so

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<v Speaker 3>excited for a mess. What's our mess for the week?

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<v Speaker 1>Marie? What you got? Bro?

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<v Speaker 5>You see, I'm trying to fix my hand.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I'm putting you on the spot. Let's go girl,

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<v Speaker 3>you're better pressure.

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<v Speaker 4>So I guess let's talk about my mess like this.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, it's a lot of girls listening to

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<v Speaker 4>this episode. Yeah, And we all have our time of

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<v Speaker 4>the month, you know, we get our stupid ass cycles

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<v Speaker 4>and sometimes it's a blessing because they're like, whoo, I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't want to be stuck with him anyway, mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Or you know whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>My period is always like late, it comes what it wants.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like me so anyway from the unofficial expert days

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<v Speaker 4>had gotten like like cups and yeah, so I had

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<v Speaker 4>a dip a cup in and I had to adjust it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm out in like a public place. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>I'm at the comedy seller with those nails, with.

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<v Speaker 6>These with these nails, yeah right, honestly pumps in. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>had the little nails on, and I'm in the bathroom

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<v Speaker 6>trying to adjust it.

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<v Speaker 4>It falls out lands in the toilet. It's a public restroom.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, am I about.

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<v Speaker 1>To put my hand in? You were not, Marie my hand.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even want to put my hand in my

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<v Speaker 4>own toilet at the house that I know I cleaned,

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<v Speaker 4>but I'm in the basement of the celler like, so

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, you know, I get up like.

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<v Speaker 5>To like turn around and to see automatic toilet.

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<v Speaker 3>It gets flushed, so so wait you turn around, COUCHI

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<v Speaker 3>out and deep in the toilet.

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<v Speaker 5>COUCHI out, cup in the toilet. Now I got up.

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<v Speaker 1>The toilet said.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, well, I guess the universe made

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<v Speaker 3>that choice for me. I'm so glad because if you would, there's.

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<v Speaker 1>No way you would.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think I would actually turn my hand, but

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to look at.

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<v Speaker 5>It there say goodbye, bro.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't drink off people.

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<v Speaker 3>But then you were gonna put your hands in a

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<v Speaker 3>in a community community pee and doodu.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was thinking about and that's the main thing

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<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking about, the doodo community.

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<v Speaker 1>That's nasty.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean the universe said, no, that's mess.

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<v Speaker 2>Get away, blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>Luckily, I had tampons in my purse, so look at that.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, if you stay ready, you ain't got to

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<v Speaker 4>go ready spotting your pa.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been.

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<v Speaker 4>Writing an uber too, like uh like sitting hunched.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 4>I would have wadded up a bunch of tissue. It

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<v Speaker 4>would have been like football size and I would have

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<v Speaker 4>just put it in my panties, you know, like a

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<v Speaker 4>like a teeten girl. But girl, and then I went out.

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<v Speaker 4>Then I went to see you at that party, and

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<v Speaker 4>then you had and then you had toilet paper all

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<v Speaker 4>of them. Girl, I had, Okay, you had backup, I tramon.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not like me because I even though I know

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I have a period every month, for some reason,

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<v Speaker 3>I just never have what I I'll be telling you like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>it's about to come, and then I'll be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 3>you got a tampon later.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'd be like, girl, yeah, and yo.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate when you ask somebody for a tampon and

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<v Speaker 3>they give you the bottom of the bag tampon that's

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<v Speaker 3>like got lit and you don't even know if it's

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<v Speaker 3>tampax or always or what faded.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so fake.

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<v Speaker 3>It's damn near open, might be a little bit, it's contaminated.

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<v Speaker 3>It got a little bit of juicy fruit next to it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I don't want it that it got off

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<v Speaker 3>and marks on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, yeah, no, no, no, no, that's for you emergency.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what my emergency.

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<v Speaker 4>What about when you ask somebody for a tampon and

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<v Speaker 4>they give you the one that's in like the cardboard applicated.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to I don't want that nineteen ninety nine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't do well with the cardboard. I'll do it,

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<v Speaker 4>but not not if it's been at.

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<v Speaker 2>The bottom of your mark by Mark Jacob's bag.

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<v Speaker 5>No thank oh girl. Yeah, anyway, that's my mess.

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<v Speaker 4>I truly was hovering over this toilet seat, like am

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<v Speaker 4>I really.

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<v Speaker 1>In this water? A Foston would never.

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<v Speaker 4>Foston would never because truly my nails wouldn't have been

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<v Speaker 4>able to break into the water.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if you would have did that, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>there's no way you can't drink off me now, sis,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even like what you're giving right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Mess. It is mess. It is mess. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>They should really put like a like a string around

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<v Speaker 4>them that you put around your wrist, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 5>When kids have mittens so they don't lose their mittens.

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<v Speaker 4>They should be a string for the cup that goes

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<v Speaker 4>around your wrist, so when you go to take it out,

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<v Speaker 4>it's around your wrist.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not gonna go in the toilet.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just not doable for when you're outside. I think

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<v Speaker 3>a Diva cup is for when you're at a house.

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<v Speaker 3>I was home anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Rest in peace to that Diva cup.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess we just gotta get every day. We

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<v Speaker 3>got to get sponsored by some more Diva cups because

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<v Speaker 3>now you don't have one.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I do have one, but it's a little one.

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<v Speaker 4>Like this was a big cup. This was a tea cup.

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<v Speaker 4>The one that I have now.

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<v Speaker 1>Is like, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>You're talking about what kind of what you're working with

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<v Speaker 3>down there? It's not about what I'm working You got

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<v Speaker 3>size eight. First of all, you was a six. Now

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<v Speaker 3>you a medium, and you don't medium.

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<v Speaker 1>Squeeze it you put it in.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't do it. I don't even get down

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<v Speaker 3>with it. I don't even because I know it's not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna feel right. And then I'm not gonna walk right.

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<v Speaker 3>And you could just my face is gonna give something

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<v Speaker 3>that's in me and I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 2>If it don't feel right, it's not in right.

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<v Speaker 1>M Well, Siddy, what is your mess? My mess? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Did I tell you guys about someone used my card?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about your card?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh bitch, this is crazy. I couldn't even believe this

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<v Speaker 3>type of situation happened to me. But someone tried to

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<v Speaker 3>use my card to sign up for an AARP membership. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 3>are you crazy? Are you insane? And thank God, thank

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<v Speaker 3>God for Bank of America.

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<v Speaker 1>This ah.

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<v Speaker 4>We know our sins had had a big birthday, but

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't that big.

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<v Speaker 1>And they alerted me immediately.

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<v Speaker 3>They were like, somebody just try to use for ARP

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<v Speaker 3>membership and I said, you know what, they can always

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<v Speaker 3>give my good money. Because they said no, no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 3>And at first I thought it was a mistake. But AARP, AARP,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know what, oh fluozy was trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>Scam with my information.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I have to call them, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>hate calling the operator because you know they're not even

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<v Speaker 3>in the States.

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<v Speaker 2>They somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 3>And it'll be on a hold for mad long. But

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<v Speaker 3>this person was definitely in the States because of the name.

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<v Speaker 3>His name was Alfredo. I said, Alfredo. He said, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>Alfredo could be from elsewhere. No's it sounded like a

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<v Speaker 3>New Yorker. But his name was Alfredo. Okay, it was

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<v Speaker 3>given like Italian, but in Long Island or whatever. He said,

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<v Speaker 3>So what can I do for you, Miss Washington? Thank you, miss,

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for calling me miss.

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<v Speaker 2>And not ma'am. I said, somebody try to use my

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<v Speaker 2>card for AARP.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never even if I needed AARP. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>signing up for.

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<v Speaker 1>That, bitch. No.

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<v Speaker 2>And he said, well, when's the last time you had

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<v Speaker 2>your card?

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<v Speaker 3>I said, the physical, Yes, the physical, the physical, the

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<v Speaker 3>physical car the actual card in hand and like on

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<v Speaker 3>me in my possession. Yeah, oh, about three years ago, sir,

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<v Speaker 3>about three years girl.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be anywhere, it could be.

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<v Speaker 3>Where in the world is Sydney's David carrds, Yes exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, okay, well, let me run back some of

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<v Speaker 3>your charges, your recent charges. One was like for like

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<v Speaker 3>two hundred and some dollars on Amazon. I said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's me. Then another, then another large purchase from Amazon.

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<v Speaker 3>I said yeah, yeah, no, that that's me as well.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he said ARP. I said, no, that's not me.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, but the two hundred and something, that's the

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<v Speaker 3>two back to back Amazon's that's you. I said, yes, sir,

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<v Speaker 3>that was me. He said at three point thirty am.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>They can see when they they could see when it

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<v Speaker 3>was used. Yeah, But I was like no, I said,

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<v Speaker 3>why don't y'all alert me about that ship. I wish

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<v Speaker 3>I would get more alert when I'm making bad purchases. Yea,

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<v Speaker 3>the purchases like you need to wait for the day.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying, Why are you doing this

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<v Speaker 3>late at now?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a little bit shocked here. Why did you say that?

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<v Speaker 1>Was you?

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<v Speaker 4>I would have been like, what, I don't even have

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<v Speaker 4>Amazon in my house? That because amazing, amazing. No, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't how you spell that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, that's that can't be me.

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<v Speaker 2>I forget that. I'm also sitting next to a scammer.

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot.

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<v Speaker 2>Allegedly some of my best friends are scammers.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't scammer shades?

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<v Speaker 3>What are you talking about? The scammer shoes are not

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<v Speaker 3>the scammer shape. These are like hy two K like

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<v Speaker 3>you know, step up to these people, people.

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<v Speaker 1>Who do scams on a sidekick? Where these what?

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<v Speaker 2>No, these these par in Paris Hilton stunts.

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<v Speaker 1>And she is a skimmer, a rich skimmer.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was my So now I had to, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>get a new card. Card is still not here. I

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<v Speaker 3>still don't have a physical card, so I have to

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<v Speaker 3>use a digital card.

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<v Speaker 2>And every time I have to I use it.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to plug in the new like, uh, what

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<v Speaker 3>are the security code?

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<v Speaker 2>Because they change it every time you It's just a mess.

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<v Speaker 3>This is why people just like either go broke or homeless,

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<v Speaker 3>because they're like, oh, I got to call another person,

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<v Speaker 3>or I got to turn another thing in or I

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<v Speaker 3>gotta you know what, fuck it. I'm not just just

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<v Speaker 3>cancel the whole card and I'm just gonna lay here

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm not gonna pay nothing no more. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna pay rent. I'm not gonna pay phone bill, phone

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<v Speaker 3>bill because I don't have that information.

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<v Speaker 5>What's the digital card? It's not you talk about apple bag.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you gotta enter the thing anytime you try to

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<v Speaker 4>pay with the oh go, you could change that setting

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<v Speaker 4>on your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, oh yeah, okay, well thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that was our mess.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's bring in our fact tabulous guests for this evening.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we've been trying so hard to get her

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<v Speaker 3>in in the stud she's just so busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Booked a far away. But I'm here now, friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Parents is here, Paris Elizabeth Sae, Paris Davante Swang Sashet.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that one even more that first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>Paris Pride.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy Pride, sid oh, I didn't even mention anything about pride.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, you're not as gay as you think you are,

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<v Speaker 1>she said, She said, do you need some water? No ding?

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<v Speaker 1>Black History Months. Soon as you see a black person,

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<v Speaker 1>what you say? Happy Black History Months said, you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>say nothing. He's like earlier, what up? Niggas like that?

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<v Speaker 2>What? What in the hoots hoots magie is happening right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who's but happy pride? Bitch?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think about both of our messes so far?

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<v Speaker 1>I think Marie was right. You were supposed to say.

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<v Speaker 1>None of that was you. I don't believe you was

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<v Speaker 1>agreeing twice right. I feel like he asked you the

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<v Speaker 1>second time to even help you. So that was you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you was like, yeah, you're supposed to be like

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<v Speaker 1>no love of the old bitches. Yeah yeah, deny, deny, deny.

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<v Speaker 3>But the crazy thing is it's gonna like it's going

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<v Speaker 3>to be my address.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not worrying about right now. But all of it

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<v Speaker 1>falls under the scams. Okay, yeah, they stole the card

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<v Speaker 1>from the building that you live. You haven't had the

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<v Speaker 1>card in three years.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't know, You're right, I'm an honest person. That's

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<v Speaker 3>the problem is I don't lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Honesty is mess It is mess. Lie a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I learned.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna learn from the best over here. Lie a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit. That's the Oh. Someone said that they don't

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<v Speaker 3>like when I say that should be the title. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not even gonna say that today.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, we'll write it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Write it down.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the title. Since not saying the title no more, they're.

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<v Speaker 1>Not saying the title anymore? About it? What you're here

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about? Are you having a good week a

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<v Speaker 1>messy week? Like, let's talk. Well, it's pride, that's pride.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what the thing is, Like, Pride is cool,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like Pride is just too gay. Mmm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a bunch of gay at the same time

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<v Speaker 1>in the same place. It's like a lot. Now, what's

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<v Speaker 1>how what's too much gay?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm shaking my head.

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<v Speaker 1>In the Pride like the straight clubs. I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>they better, but it's like less touching women think that

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<v Speaker 1>even though you're just like a woman, nigga, just still

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<v Speaker 1>touch you beyond being gay. It's like no rules in

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<v Speaker 1>the Pride club touching and humping and freaking and kissing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like, oh, I feel like something's getting created

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<v Speaker 1>in here that I don't want to be a part of.

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<v Speaker 2>What clubs are these?

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<v Speaker 1>The gay clubs? Can you name the ones that they

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<v Speaker 1>are talking? The name is at all different stuffs every

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<v Speaker 1>time I go everywhere. Every time I go to a club,

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<v Speaker 1>they're very respectful to me. What gay clubs are you

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<v Speaker 1>going to? Are you wearing a blazer?

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<v Speaker 3>I've gone to Bush, I'm going to Henrietta's.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody's bothering. No, No, not even at.

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<v Speaker 2>Bush, Not even at Bush.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean one time a girl tried to buy me

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<v Speaker 3>a drink. But that one time. You see how I

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<v Speaker 3>can say on my hands. She asked me I don't drink,

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<v Speaker 3>and she said, oh, too bad, and that's it. She

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<v Speaker 3>didn't even say, hey, do you want water or clepsoda

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<v Speaker 3>or I want a ginger beer?

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<v Speaker 1>You can say, hey, do you hey, you want to drink?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't drink?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, bye, hey do you want to drink?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take a ginger beer? Like this, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I think it is, Sidney. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>got the good gay. Oh you got like the girl

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<v Speaker 1>girl gay. I got the haircut. So they think like

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to just be horny all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called fem.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to call it girl good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not girl, it's it's girl good. Yeah, it's girl good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's levels to film. So I feel like it's girl

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<v Speaker 1>gay film.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the levels? Can you please explain to us the.

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<v Speaker 1>Levels of film?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know all of them, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's like stub fems now, so they like they masking,

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<v Speaker 1>but they still make up and get their hair them.

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<v Speaker 1>That's you, that's not me. I'm a tomboy. Oh where

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want tomboy. It's a tea. They just took

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<v Speaker 1>our letter, so there's no tea in the alphabets for tomboys.

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<v Speaker 1>The more they took it and gave it to trance,

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<v Speaker 1>so now we don't have a letter, I wouldn't say

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<v Speaker 1>they took it. I don't think he hasn't sitting when

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<v Speaker 1>you was ever tomboy in there, when we was young,

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<v Speaker 1>it was way more tomboy talk. You don't think so,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, a girl that didn't like wearing dresses

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<v Speaker 1>and like was really like active. Well, how old are

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<v Speaker 1>both of you, ladies? You don't remember tomboy. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>remember tom Thank you. Everybody knows except Sydney because you're

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<v Speaker 1>not really gay. I told you got to do your research.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm playing plying, Sydney. I'll be proud.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm too stunned to speak.

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<v Speaker 1>The game. Was too stunned to speak, she was. I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think tom Boy used to be like talking

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<v Speaker 1>about more.

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<v Speaker 3>I do believe that it must talk about more, but

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<v Speaker 3>it was not changed for trans I just want you.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the new tomboy? What's the what's the what's the

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<v Speaker 1>term for tomboy?

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't a sexuality? That's the way like you're that's a style.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So what's the new word for if you're a tomboy?

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<v Speaker 1>What label do you fall under? A guys girl?

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<v Speaker 2>A guys girl, Yeah, that's a girl that drinks beer.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never drunk beer in my life. Yeah, me neither.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. So okay, So I think we learned in

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So you're so you're you're a tomboy, but you're

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<v Speaker 3>also a lesbian.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that correct?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So what makes you different than the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>the gays that are in the club.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because I feel like if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>having this experience, then this is just my experience. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but this is what happens when I go

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<v Speaker 1>to gay club. So I don't like to be again.

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<v Speaker 2>What what fragrances are you wearing?

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<v Speaker 4>Because maybe the pheromones is attracting the people to touching

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<v Speaker 4>your duty body.

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<v Speaker 1>Wearing a lot of.

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<v Speaker 3>Leather, You got these glasses, your titties, I mean it

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<v Speaker 3>might be the titties Ferris. Yes, and let's let's let's

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<v Speaker 3>look at Exhibit A. This is not what she's wearing

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<v Speaker 3>at the club.

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<v Speaker 1>So what am I wearing at the club? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I will make sure to put in the dump all of.

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<v Speaker 1>The v's you down to your belly. But but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not wearing those in the club all the time because

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<v Speaker 1>that is a tension. So what happens when I wear

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<v Speaker 1>T shirts? What T shirts you'd be wearing?

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<v Speaker 4>Said? Be saying Paris on the back, be saying I'm

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<v Speaker 4>picky with my game sometimes sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you give me an example of how they're touching you? Here?

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<v Speaker 3>Here is this is this is you how they touching

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<v Speaker 3>Show me what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>A girl just walked up to me, in the club,

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<v Speaker 1>dove and touched my head. She rubbed her hand across

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<v Speaker 1>my head. That's the waves was spinning. She was ready

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<v Speaker 1>to draw. I mean, people, this doesn't mean that you

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<v Speaker 1>should be touching people. If it was the straight club,

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<v Speaker 1>you are not letting men touch you. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>it should be the same rooms women.

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<v Speaker 2>If I even straight club, this is the men.

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<v Speaker 1>Well maybe it's you, Sidney. I think you look straightened.

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<v Speaker 1>You look the titties against not it's the waste.

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<v Speaker 3>They're literally putting their their penis in the crack of

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<v Speaker 3>everybody's crevices when they're in a packed packed They they

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<v Speaker 3>don't do that to you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's the haircut. So we both have a problem

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<v Speaker 1>in the game.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two girls in two different clubs.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it, going through the same thing, the same two girls,

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<v Speaker 3>one bush.

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<v Speaker 5>So what is your mess? What are we here to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>About to break down the pride? I think they also

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<v Speaker 1>let too many people be gay. What do you think

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<v Speaker 1>about that's in it? You think there should be a

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<v Speaker 1>limit on. I think it should be a limit, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like like it should be like an interview process. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk.

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<v Speaker 5>I would like to be gay who do I talk to?

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<v Speaker 1>Stop not even listening to this? I want to know?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how I think people are acting. I think

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<v Speaker 1>they just waking up like I would like to be gay,

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<v Speaker 1>and they just letting them be gay. You don't even

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<v Speaker 1>have to do the gay activity to be gay anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>What about minding your fucking business? I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>know about what everybody's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's the problem is that everybody is now

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<v Speaker 3>in everybody's business, and so now we think that we

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<v Speaker 3>more people will be like, oh, I'm gay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just we're in more people's business.

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<v Speaker 3>People are online all day talking about what they are,

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<v Speaker 3>who they are, what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>What don't is they have to do with them being

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<v Speaker 1>gay but not being gay?

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<v Speaker 3>I think people are just talking about what they are

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<v Speaker 3>more and putting us in their business. And it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I actually don't want, I don't care, I don't need

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<v Speaker 3>to know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, But what if it's people who are saying they're

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<v Speaker 4>gay and they're new to it, and they're all on

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<v Speaker 4>the apps, clogging up the lines, the gay prayer line,

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<v Speaker 4>they're at the club with y'all. Just like, I'm gay now,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm here taking up space. You don't think that

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<v Speaker 4>that could be a problem for people actually gay.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I put in the work to be gay, Sidney,

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like you put in the work back

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<v Speaker 1>in the day it was harder to be gay. Now

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<v Speaker 1>it's just easy to be gay.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I came out and it was pretty smooth.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not even gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like low key, like c section vibes, like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm out.

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<v Speaker 1>What year.

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<v Speaker 4>Was the year?

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<v Speaker 3>It was a good time, Like nobody cares no. I

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<v Speaker 3>told my friends that I was gay, and they was like,

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<v Speaker 3>do you need money? That's like that's all they were like,

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<v Speaker 3>we don't care that you're gay. You just can't be

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<v Speaker 3>broken gay, like you just you gotta get your money

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<v Speaker 3>up if you're gonna be.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's not what the B stands for. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So Also, I feel like I got into a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>and it was just like all right, hey, like I

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<v Speaker 3>moved in with her immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>You relationship gay.

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<v Speaker 3>I moved in and then we got cats. It was like, boy,

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<v Speaker 3>I like if we had like a card, a punch card,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm hitting everything off.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, So when did you first tell somebody you

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<v Speaker 1>was gay?

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<v Speaker 4>Me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wherever? How old you were? I believe I was

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty eight, twenty eight? Yeah, okay, what.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you doing? What are you fucking doing? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>trying to do?

0:21:35.359 --> 0:21:37.400
<v Speaker 1>Mathew your head? You know, it looked like that means

0:21:37.400 --> 0:21:39.600
<v Speaker 1>where you're like trying to put I was like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>adult gay. No, that's like grown gay. So what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? It doesn't mean anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like, okay, okay, the first person I like,

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<v Speaker 3>I kissed a girl when I was young, sure, and

0:21:48.720 --> 0:21:51.800
<v Speaker 3>I was like nine, but I didn't think gay at

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<v Speaker 3>that time, so I didn't realize.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't circle back until later on in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, years later.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but did you come out the wound with this haircut?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what? I feel like I should have because I

0:22:02.359 --> 0:22:04.800
<v Speaker 1>think I was pretty gay in elementary school, so you

0:22:04.920 --> 0:22:08.520
<v Speaker 1>knew right away? Yeah, I think like elementary school. Yeah, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you know? I feel like because you have

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<v Speaker 1>an attraction to women more than the attraction to men.

0:22:14.040 --> 0:22:16.439
<v Speaker 1>So I just like to be around the girls and

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<v Speaker 1>I was touchy and I was like, yes, yes, the

0:22:28.160 --> 0:22:32.800
<v Speaker 1>young lady you were. Now it was touching tops the

0:22:32.840 --> 0:22:35.119
<v Speaker 1>tea can be expanded. You're right, you know what. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I take it back. I take my letter.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just sharing it. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that could be gone, that could be a thing.

0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:45.600
<v Speaker 1>But you used to date guys, you yeah, But so

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like, like for how middle school it

0:22:48.600 --> 0:22:50.879
<v Speaker 1>was like girls, and then I got to like the

0:22:50.920 --> 0:22:53.639
<v Speaker 1>eighth grade, ninth grade, and I had boyfriends. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think they knew I was gay too. We were just

0:22:56.560 --> 0:22:59.360
<v Speaker 1>having fun because they knew. I accidentally cheated a couple

0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:03.120
<v Speaker 1>of times with women, a couple of times with women.

0:23:05.920 --> 0:23:08.320
<v Speaker 1>It's just always been an attraction to women. So I

0:23:08.320 --> 0:23:11.280
<v Speaker 1>think I just knew, like emotional, even when I dated men,

0:23:11.280 --> 0:23:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have any emotional connection with men. Well, they

0:23:13.560 --> 0:23:16.399
<v Speaker 1>don't really have any emotions exactly, so that's how I

0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:19.520
<v Speaker 1>know I didn't really like them. I'm attracted to women.

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<v Speaker 3>Emotionally, emotion I agree with that, and I think that

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<v Speaker 3>that's the the issue with the labeling was like gay,

0:23:27.240 --> 0:23:30.800
<v Speaker 3>straight queer all that it's like I am a lesbian

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 3>at heart. Yes, I double backed and hooked up with dudes,

0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:37.919
<v Speaker 3>but I am not bisexual because I don't that was

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<v Speaker 3>a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you did that, how did you feel? Because

0:23:42.880 --> 0:23:44.919
<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to do it. I've been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>do myself. I haven't done it. She did it. That's

0:23:48.880 --> 0:23:50.480
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. I feel like I'm too gay. Every

0:23:50.520 --> 0:23:52.960
<v Speaker 1>time I get close, I get pulled back. How did

0:23:53.000 --> 0:23:56.359
<v Speaker 1>you actually make the leap? I need the confidence? How

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:57.960
<v Speaker 1>did you like? What did you tell yourself? Well?

0:23:58.000 --> 0:24:02.119
<v Speaker 3>I was pretty much unhoused, so that that opened me

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<v Speaker 3>up to the same just susceptible to anything bad on

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<v Speaker 3>a house.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what the beast stood for me.

0:24:10.520 --> 0:24:14.200
<v Speaker 1>Bad man. Yeah, okay, so we can really just expand

0:24:14.240 --> 0:24:15.800
<v Speaker 1>the alphabets when everybody can finish.

0:24:15.880 --> 0:24:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, I was in a bad place.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what made me be just toy with the idea

0:24:23.280 --> 0:24:27.199
<v Speaker 3>of being with God, the idea just hooking it, not

0:24:27.320 --> 0:24:30.920
<v Speaker 3>really falling, not falling for them. But like Marie, how

0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:34.120
<v Speaker 3>was I when I was with these with these guys?

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<v Speaker 2>It was embarrassing?

0:24:35.760 --> 0:24:37.639
<v Speaker 1>It was well, she was embarrassed.

0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:41.840
<v Speaker 4>She was embarrassing, and she was acting different than she

0:24:41.960 --> 0:24:42.919
<v Speaker 4>usually act.

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<v Speaker 2>I showed her text message. She's like, Sidney, you don't write.

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<v Speaker 4>That, you know, but I mean, but Sidney, I also

0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:52.440
<v Speaker 4>feel like you're such a relationship person that you don't

0:24:52.440 --> 0:24:54.359
<v Speaker 4>even really know how single people talk.

0:24:56.240 --> 0:24:59.760
<v Speaker 2>Because even but you understand what I'm saying, like even.

0:24:59.520 --> 0:25:04.280
<v Speaker 4>Like should have getting deeper flirting, flirting with a woman

0:25:04.440 --> 0:25:07.440
<v Speaker 4>that you like was like girl, why would you say?

0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:09.159
<v Speaker 1>Why would you say? Okay, I could agree with her

0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:11.159
<v Speaker 1>on that park So I'm gonna text you show me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Sidney, what do you Why are you writing this?

0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:16.400
<v Speaker 1>But okay, you know what's mess?

0:25:16.400 --> 0:25:20.119
<v Speaker 3>The whole like trying to court somebody, get somebody like

0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:22.719
<v Speaker 3>that is mess because if you if you want me

0:25:22.760 --> 0:25:24.000
<v Speaker 3>as me, why.

0:25:23.800 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Can't I text like this? This is how I text?

0:25:26.280 --> 0:25:28.760
<v Speaker 5>Well how did them? How did those responses go for you?

0:25:29.200 --> 0:25:29.639
<v Speaker 1>Not good?

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<v Speaker 3>But whatever this is, then they're not for me. They're

0:25:32.160 --> 0:25:35.639
<v Speaker 3>not for me, I mean because you're not them now.

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 3>So I agree with you on that.

0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:41.720
<v Speaker 4>But you're Sidney, you are a relationship oriented person.

0:25:41.800 --> 0:25:45.240
<v Speaker 3>That's why I belong with women, because women are relationship orients.

0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:47.760
<v Speaker 3>And when I tell them my feelings, they don't run away,

0:25:48.600 --> 0:25:52.880
<v Speaker 3>except you know, one particular person that you know kind

0:25:52.880 --> 0:25:55.480
<v Speaker 3>of wasted my time, and you know, then let me

0:25:55.600 --> 0:25:57.919
<v Speaker 3>take them to an expensive dinner to let me know

0:25:58.680 --> 0:26:00.240
<v Speaker 3>a girlfriend, like, yeah.

0:26:00.160 --> 0:26:03.399
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I'm men do. They're wasteful oftentimes. You

0:26:03.400 --> 0:26:06.040
<v Speaker 1>think women are wasteful sometimes And because you did that

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:07.679
<v Speaker 1>and she was allowed to do that, then when she

0:26:07.760 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>date me, I will block her to get paid back

0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:13.080
<v Speaker 1>for you. Prus yes, you know what I'm saying. So

0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 1>many of them I like that that's wrong. But they

0:26:15.320 --> 0:26:17.840
<v Speaker 1>know they can take advantage of certain people. And then

0:26:17.880 --> 0:26:19.800
<v Speaker 1>they run into me and it's like, I know what

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:24.000
<v Speaker 1>you did, and you get them last summer tonight, smer,

0:26:24.040 --> 0:26:26.080
<v Speaker 1>You're want to think about all of the stuff that

0:26:26.119 --> 0:26:28.560
<v Speaker 1>you did wrong when you feel this pain. So I

0:26:28.840 --> 0:26:30.000
<v Speaker 1>probably got paid back for you.

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:34.400
<v Speaker 3>But Paris, you're actually the mess because you are saying

0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:35.760
<v Speaker 3>with me toxic.

0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:39.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, healthy, toxic though, that's what toxic.

0:26:40.480 --> 0:26:49.600
<v Speaker 4>Fun all the kids is like, you know, divorce, single

0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:53.200
<v Speaker 4>dad y toxic absolutely, Like I love these kids, but

0:26:53.240 --> 0:26:55.600
<v Speaker 4>they gonna eat frozen dinners.

0:26:55.119 --> 0:26:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Exactly because I gotta go on the boat with the Really,

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:02.000
<v Speaker 1>that's how you that's how you would describe yourself. Well

0:27:02.040 --> 0:27:05.040
<v Speaker 1>with the women. Okay, I've gotten better, I will say that.

0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:08.840
<v Speaker 1>How how yeah, what I stopped dating so.

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:12.640
<v Speaker 2>Many women, so the roster went from twelve to ten.

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:16.720
<v Speaker 3>Hey, we need a team, and I do agree with

0:27:16.760 --> 0:27:18.399
<v Speaker 3>that because we do be putting our eggs all in

0:27:18.480 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 3>one basket. And if you got that basket from I

0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:23.600
<v Speaker 3>don't know, the ninety nine cents store, it's gonna be

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:27.160
<v Speaker 3>you might as well get a better basket, get.

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:31.399
<v Speaker 1>Better eggs, better, better ingredients. Yeah, pass basket.

0:27:35.440 --> 0:27:35.600
<v Speaker 6>Yo.

0:27:35.960 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 4>So parents, you're dating less women, sow who how do

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:42.080
<v Speaker 4>you decide who doesn't make the cut?

0:27:42.440 --> 0:27:42.560
<v Speaker 7>Uh?

0:27:42.840 --> 0:27:45.120
<v Speaker 1>You know what? I think I might like settle down.

0:27:45.280 --> 0:27:50.440
<v Speaker 1>Like at the end of this year selling ship bullshit.

0:27:50.720 --> 0:27:55.920
<v Speaker 4>You've been saying two things consistently. Believe one, I'm going

0:27:55.960 --> 0:27:56.280
<v Speaker 4>back to.

0:27:56.240 --> 0:27:59.280
<v Speaker 1>Dick yep, And I tried. As soon as men talk,

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm turned off. It's not my fault. They got to

0:28:01.240 --> 0:28:05.000
<v Speaker 1>stop talking. Then you say, oh, I might settle down. Hey,

0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm serious this time, and I've been talking about it.

0:28:07.760 --> 0:28:10.120
<v Speaker 1>That's how I'm serious. Gay is a mess.

0:28:10.160 --> 0:28:11.119
<v Speaker 2>They letting too many people.

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:12.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I'm the set it down. So then

0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:13.680
<v Speaker 1>I have to be on the side.

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 2>Are you You are mess?

0:28:18.080 --> 0:28:20.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm bipoula and bisexual, so it's deeper than that.

0:28:20.400 --> 0:28:21.399
<v Speaker 5>You not bisexual?

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:24.200
<v Speaker 1>No, here I do. I don't hate them. I hate

0:28:24.200 --> 0:28:26.399
<v Speaker 1>when they talk I like sex with men, but I

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:30.520
<v Speaker 1>have you liked sex with men? Just start? But I

0:28:30.560 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 1>don't do it. I don't like that.

0:28:33.280 --> 0:28:35.400
<v Speaker 2>Now, how do we get like them?

0:28:35.520 --> 0:28:37.000
<v Speaker 1>How do we get you to have sex with a man?

0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:40.719
<v Speaker 1>Having sex with Yeah, but I don't like them. How

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 1>means Sidney got crazy about this? Sydney actually went and

0:28:45.360 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 1>had sex with this with men and I didn't even

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:49.600
<v Speaker 1>do what. I just said I like it. And this

0:28:49.640 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 1>is the face of a woman who did it. But

0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>at one point she also liked having sex with men.

0:28:54.000 --> 0:28:56.000
<v Speaker 1>That's and she's really acting out like this. Look at

0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 1>this a woman who got it and is embarrassed. And

0:28:58.560 --> 0:29:00.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm the problem. So they come to the some of

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:04.600
<v Speaker 1>this gallon of water that you got on the table. No,

0:29:04.680 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>we was waiting for you to come back. Guess what.

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:07.960
<v Speaker 1>We're trying to figure out how you upset when you

0:29:08.000 --> 0:29:10.280
<v Speaker 1>actually did the activity and I just thought about it

0:29:10.320 --> 0:29:13.520
<v Speaker 1>good But I didn't even I just thought about it.

0:29:14.640 --> 0:29:17.800
<v Speaker 1>How am I a problem? This is crazy?

0:29:18.320 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 2>Say that you like having sex with if you.

0:29:20.520 --> 0:29:22.560
<v Speaker 1>Don't need to do it. The only reason that I

0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 1>were it was ever attracted to them was because of sex.

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 1>But I don't like them.

0:29:26.560 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 2>When's the last time you had sex with the man?

0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Way before you I want to say, maybe like over,

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know were counting. We're keeping score over eight years.

0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>It was way before my relationships, so you don't even know.

0:29:39.880 --> 0:29:42.840
<v Speaker 1>Before na Ne sex came.

0:29:43.200 --> 0:29:46.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if Rihanna drops a new album, you have to

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:47.560
<v Speaker 4>have sex with at.

0:29:47.520 --> 0:29:50.760
<v Speaker 1>Least, well I got time because she's not dropping music.

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:55.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, she murs, we don't. We're not doing

0:29:55.560 --> 0:30:04.040
<v Speaker 1>animated a real song. No. I oh wow, I'm going to.

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I think I am going to settle down like November.

0:30:06.240 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about it. You need saying this during Pride

0:30:10.360 --> 0:30:13.080
<v Speaker 1>that I'll settle down. Yeah, I really like this woman.

0:30:13.360 --> 0:30:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh and I really like the woman. I never said

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 1>that on air. I really you.

0:30:21.640 --> 0:30:23.160
<v Speaker 2>Don't say nothing about no particular woman.

0:30:23.200 --> 0:30:26.880
<v Speaker 4>You said, I'm I'm I'm whittling down the roster.

0:30:27.720 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I really like this woman.

0:30:29.680 --> 0:30:31.440
<v Speaker 3>This is good because you know what, we're putting this

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 3>out right away, so by the time you change your mind,

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 3>it will already be out.

0:30:35.080 --> 0:30:36.320
<v Speaker 1>She already knows this.

0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 2>She knows that you really like her, she knows you're

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:41.080
<v Speaker 2>doing the pod, she knows what I'm doing everything. Okay,

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:42.520
<v Speaker 2>you know everything.

0:30:42.800 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 1>I like her.

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 2>She a manager?

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:46.920
<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Hilarious? No, she's not a manager. She's

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:47.680
<v Speaker 1>a beautiful girl.

0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:51.080
<v Speaker 3>I showed you I said she's not a manager.

0:30:52.760 --> 0:30:55.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm a visual learner. If it's if it's

0:30:55.560 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 1>a thing, I will settle down. By November, I will.

0:30:58.760 --> 0:31:02.000
<v Speaker 2>Cool something to be thankful for. Paris off the streets.

0:31:02.400 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 1>I think that's a good thing too. Honestly, I thought

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>about it.

0:31:05.040 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 3>I honestly would love to see your content switch.

0:31:09.280 --> 0:31:10.440
<v Speaker 2>You know this sh not switching?

0:31:10.680 --> 0:31:17.120
<v Speaker 1>This shift online baby, the name things I am am.

0:31:18.080 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm ready for you to make a shift.

0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Would you want me to post Sidney? I mean, if

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:26.240
<v Speaker 1>your happiness. I really think she's a cutie. Yeah, she's cute.

0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>It's very cute.

0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:30.360
<v Speaker 3>She's traveling. Yeah, good body, she knows how to post well.

0:31:30.560 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.240
<v Speaker 3>The body is yeah. The bodies, Oh, she's gorgeous. What

0:31:33.320 --> 0:31:33.920
<v Speaker 3>y'all talk about?

0:31:33.920 --> 0:31:36.840
<v Speaker 1>Though, no offense.

0:31:36.880 --> 0:31:39.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm not saying that she is not a talker. I'm

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 3>just wondering where y'all have in comment good, good brows,

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:45.280
<v Speaker 3>good edges. It's very good body, good body.

0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're talking about a lot of things.

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 1>Give us two things that y'all talk about will she

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 1>be celebrating Black history? Wanted to, Ah, we know what

0:31:57.680 --> 0:32:02.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, guys out, Because here's the thing. If I

0:32:02.240 --> 0:32:07.360
<v Speaker 1>say something crazy, No, I'm not answering that question. And

0:32:07.520 --> 0:32:15.400
<v Speaker 1>that's for us something that you know why. There's a

0:32:15.480 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 1>reason I'm not going to say it but right then

0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 1>and there, because it's gonna sound crazy later.

0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:20.760
<v Speaker 2>You've said so many other things.

0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 1>No, I can't say that because it's like a it's

0:32:23.160 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 1>a So I don't want to say that, but it's

0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 1>like a it depends now. Hey, hey, hey, I think

0:32:29.040 --> 0:32:34.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm happy. I'm right, I'm right, this is this is

0:32:34.200 --> 0:32:41.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody else? Hey, No, I never I'm no longer answering question.

0:32:41.520 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 2>This is nice.

0:32:42.840 --> 0:32:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I actually like that one more. I do.

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's because you'll be with you black History months.

0:32:48.080 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 2>But that's no here, no there.

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:53.240
<v Speaker 1>It's great. Everybody will be there.

0:32:53.800 --> 0:32:56.280
<v Speaker 5>Everybody's gonna be there, So how are you settling down?

0:32:57.760 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Made the best queen one? We got two more seasons?

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:08.320
<v Speaker 1>Who is next out in six? What girl next out

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:11.160
<v Speaker 1>in six? Person in the sixth? That made it?

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:16.040
<v Speaker 4>That's like crazy When you said I really like this girl?

0:33:18.440 --> 0:33:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Who was you talking about them? Okay?

0:33:23.200 --> 0:33:24.560
<v Speaker 2>Also they are they them?

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:25.080
<v Speaker 1>There you go?

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:27.760
<v Speaker 3>I like that plan very you to explain to us

0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:31.040
<v Speaker 3>when what are the like, how do you know you

0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 3>like someone? And what do you do when you're liking someone?

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:35.920
<v Speaker 3>Because the difference, I feel like people don't understand what

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:40.720
<v Speaker 3>it is to like to love, to be interested, but

0:33:40.880 --> 0:33:44.200
<v Speaker 3>also not like someone like there's variations of it.

0:33:45.000 --> 0:33:49.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so but not like that person. Yeah, I feel

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 1>like I'm done with that. I feel like when I

0:33:53.440 --> 0:33:55.720
<v Speaker 1>really like a woman, it's a lot of time spent

0:33:55.800 --> 0:33:58.040
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of planning, listening to what she likes

0:33:58.080 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>and things like that. If I don't like them, it's

0:34:00.720 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 1>just like what it is. It could be a one

0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:05.000
<v Speaker 1>nighter and that could be the end if I want

0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 1>only then I feel like we're playing in trips like

0:34:08.280 --> 0:34:10.480
<v Speaker 1>we were going out of town. We spend the time,

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 1>iris we always bring this back. You took a trip

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 1>with somebody a little while back and post photos. I'll

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:21.439
<v Speaker 1>be having a lot of a lot of it's the same.

0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:24.040
<v Speaker 1>It's the same photo, the one the one I wear.

0:34:24.360 --> 0:34:28.160
<v Speaker 4>Yes, y'all wear power sailing or whatever, para shooting and

0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:30.640
<v Speaker 4>you posted in emoji on her face. That's right, so

0:34:31.120 --> 0:34:32.840
<v Speaker 4>you said you only take PRIs if you like them.

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:36.360
<v Speaker 1>She flew me out, then you got flute out, persolute

0:34:36.360 --> 0:34:38.560
<v Speaker 1>out a lot of times. Okay, So it's not the haircut,

0:34:38.920 --> 0:34:40.839
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. So if it's the titty, and

0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:43.399
<v Speaker 1>that's how you know that I like you, because then

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:47.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing the flying. I will never.

0:34:48.960 --> 0:34:51.719
<v Speaker 4>And I'm saying this on the record, I think that

0:34:51.840 --> 0:34:55.000
<v Speaker 4>I will never fly a man out anywhere.

0:34:55.080 --> 0:34:56.840
<v Speaker 1>But you shouldn't fly a man. It's a man. You

0:34:56.840 --> 0:35:01.160
<v Speaker 1>should not absolutely got long knees, big feet. I want

0:35:01.200 --> 0:35:01.719
<v Speaker 1>to see you.

0:35:01.920 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 3>I can't wait to just love hits you all over

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:06.479
<v Speaker 3>your head. I just can't because I want to see

0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 3>what you are going to do and what you're capable of,

0:35:09.360 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 3>because it's a lot of I ain't doing that.

0:35:11.520 --> 0:35:14.439
<v Speaker 1>But why City, Why would I fly? I wouldn't want

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:14.880
<v Speaker 1>you to do that.

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:16.359
<v Speaker 2>I would I would be worried for you.

0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:19.920
<v Speaker 1>I would worry. I'm like, are you all right?

0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:20.399
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:26.839
<v Speaker 4>Blank twice, bitch, hilarious girl anyway, Yeah, no, City, I'm

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:27.480
<v Speaker 4>with you on that.

0:35:27.600 --> 0:35:29.160
<v Speaker 5>I too would like to see what me in love

0:35:29.200 --> 0:35:29.719
<v Speaker 5>looks like.

0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:32.080
<v Speaker 4>But the other part of me is also terrified of

0:35:32.120 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 4>what that could be because I feel like it's gonna

0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:36.280
<v Speaker 4>turn me crazy, really, even if it's healthy.

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:49.240
<v Speaker 1>Find a healthy yes? Oh what a question? So Okay,

0:35:49.280 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 1>So first of all, I feel like you know what

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:53.120
<v Speaker 1>you want in the person before you meet the person.

0:35:53.360 --> 0:35:55.000
<v Speaker 1>You know who you are and what you're willing to

0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:57.520
<v Speaker 1>settle for and the things you're not. So the healthiness

0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:00.239
<v Speaker 1>would be I think, receiving everything that you want and

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:05.560
<v Speaker 1>possibly more him paying attention, listening and he's showing you

0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:07.600
<v Speaker 1>that he listening because he's doing things that you said

0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:11.840
<v Speaker 1>there wasn't recent. It's all green flags, no red flags,

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:15.400
<v Speaker 1>nothing that's making you question anything. Healthy, good communication. So

0:36:15.440 --> 0:36:17.560
<v Speaker 1>if you have a problem, y'all discuss it and it's

0:36:17.600 --> 0:36:20.000
<v Speaker 1>clear and you walk away feeling like you don't have

0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 1>any worries. There's no trust that you like, did he

0:36:22.320 --> 0:36:26.960
<v Speaker 1>lie or none of that time spent? And then I

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 1>think from there, I guess it would depend on what

0:36:29.239 --> 0:36:31.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all both into, but I feel like that would be

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:33.759
<v Speaker 1>the core of it, like a strong friendship, so you

0:36:33.800 --> 0:36:36.040
<v Speaker 1>could know that you can trust him and letting him

0:36:36.120 --> 0:36:38.799
<v Speaker 1>lead to be the man that you hopefully trust him

0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:41.359
<v Speaker 1>to be. Okay, so you do know what health he means?

0:36:42.400 --> 0:36:45.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, but what are you doing?

0:36:47.360 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Are you doing one? I like a woman, so you're

0:36:51.200 --> 0:36:54.319
<v Speaker 1>unhealthy for everybody else. I don't think I'm unhealthy. I

0:36:54.480 --> 0:36:57.320
<v Speaker 1>just think I'm a good time that will end before

0:36:57.360 --> 0:36:58.120
<v Speaker 1>you know it.

0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:01.560
<v Speaker 3>I think that you or a good gas lighter. I

0:37:01.560 --> 0:37:02.960
<v Speaker 3>feel like you're good at it. I could just a

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:04.920
<v Speaker 3>gas light. I feel like you gas like well, I

0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:05.319
<v Speaker 3>don't like.

0:37:05.280 --> 0:37:08.799
<v Speaker 1>Words like that's anything negative. I can't believe you with

0:37:08.960 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 1>I think when people throw those words out, I think

0:37:10.719 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 1>it's because they're trying to send them. So I send

0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:14.120
<v Speaker 1>them back because I think it's a lie.

0:37:14.560 --> 0:37:17.719
<v Speaker 7>Hey, maybe you didn't order it, Maybe you didn't order

0:37:17.760 --> 0:37:23.359
<v Speaker 7>her to Hey listen, So when's the last time you've

0:37:23.360 --> 0:37:25.160
<v Speaker 7>been in like a healthy situation.

0:37:27.080 --> 0:37:31.480
<v Speaker 1>I think this is a healthy situation. I think before this,

0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I was in a healthy situation. And I think the

0:37:33.480 --> 0:37:36.399
<v Speaker 1>woman just was a liar. And it's like, yeah, I

0:37:36.520 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 1>liked women before this, but they were like secret whorees

0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 1>or you don't realize the label is.

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:42.840
<v Speaker 2>A strong word.

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Why why horror Becuz it's like if you do something horrish,

0:37:46.640 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't unsee that. Can you explain, well, what this

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:53.840
<v Speaker 1>woman did? A period? Just me? I know, that I

0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 1>don't look like I have feelings or I don't feel them.

0:37:56.320 --> 0:37:58.759
<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing. I do. I feel so much

0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:01.960
<v Speaker 1>so that if you do something wrong, I can't unfeel it.

0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:04.480
<v Speaker 1>Even if I tell myself that it didn't happen, I

0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:07.120
<v Speaker 1>still felt it. So there's no way that I cannot

0:38:07.120 --> 0:38:08.920
<v Speaker 1>feel it. So now I don't respect you, and I

0:38:08.960 --> 0:38:11.480
<v Speaker 1>can't be with you if I don't respect you, because

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:12.799
<v Speaker 1>it's not gonna work.

0:38:12.840 --> 0:38:14.680
<v Speaker 2>I need an example, because you're saying.

0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:19.279
<v Speaker 1>I like this woman a lot, and this woman like

0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:22.239
<v Speaker 1>she disappeared in the middle of a conversation that wasn't

0:38:22.239 --> 0:38:24.279
<v Speaker 1>really a setup for her to disappear like it was

0:38:24.360 --> 0:38:26.560
<v Speaker 1>clear that she was doing something she shouldn't have been doing,

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 1>and then when she reappeared, it was just a bunch

0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:32.359
<v Speaker 1>of like, I'm doing this, I'm doing this, I'm doing

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:35.640
<v Speaker 1>this to push off what she did to make it

0:38:35.640 --> 0:38:39.640
<v Speaker 1>look like I was the bad guy. Now, how you hm?

0:38:40.560 --> 0:38:43.480
<v Speaker 1>Because I know her? So women don't realize. When you

0:38:43.560 --> 0:38:48.399
<v Speaker 1>date them long enough, you learn patterns. So when you, yeah,

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:50.439
<v Speaker 1>when you slip up, it's like, oh, you're doing that thing.

0:38:50.480 --> 0:38:53.000
<v Speaker 1>You told me that previously you was doing things like this,

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:56.480
<v Speaker 1>So now you just did this tattern and you just

0:38:56.480 --> 0:38:58.600
<v Speaker 1>slipped up, but you don't even know because you're thinking

0:38:58.600 --> 0:39:01.440
<v Speaker 1>that I'm so in love I'm blind, but it's like, baby,

0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 1>I can see. I just got my glasses low. You

0:39:04.960 --> 0:39:11.080
<v Speaker 1>know when they say I ain't sleep my eyes is closed.

0:39:12.000 --> 0:39:14.080
<v Speaker 1>But I seen you. So it was like that. So

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:16.080
<v Speaker 1>then I had to unfeel how I felt about you,

0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 1>because it's like, I'm not going to let you play me.

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:21.040
<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. So you so you thought that she was

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:23.600
<v Speaker 1>doing what she was and then later it came out

0:39:23.640 --> 0:39:25.800
<v Speaker 1>she was doing exactly I felt it. I feel like,

0:39:25.840 --> 0:39:28.920
<v Speaker 1>if you feel something, it's beyond you thinking that. If

0:39:28.920 --> 0:39:30.360
<v Speaker 1>you feel something, say something.

0:39:30.480 --> 0:39:33.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I also want to let y'all know who

0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:36.120
<v Speaker 3>are just like, I got an intuition. No, it's hennessy.

0:39:36.200 --> 0:39:39.839
<v Speaker 3>You're drinking hennessy. That is not the same. It's into it.

0:39:39.880 --> 0:39:43.080
<v Speaker 3>Because sometimes people just be getting lit and being like, oh,

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:45.920
<v Speaker 3>that person is doing and it's like, no, you're just.

0:39:46.200 --> 0:39:48.759
<v Speaker 1>But you're working yourself up, That's what I'm saying. You're

0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 1>not feeling that, you're thinking that when they do that,

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:52.799
<v Speaker 1>the liquor is making you think that, right, you didn't

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:57.160
<v Speaker 1>feel it. I felt it. Okay, So that's why that

0:39:57.280 --> 0:40:00.360
<v Speaker 1>woman case closed. That woman got dropped. But now I

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:03.480
<v Speaker 1>do like this woman. I do every time I see her.

0:40:03.480 --> 0:40:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I make sure she got fresh flowers. She like flowers,

0:40:06.080 --> 0:40:07.759
<v Speaker 1>you know a woman likes I like. I really go

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:08.840
<v Speaker 1>pick out good flowers.

0:40:09.040 --> 0:40:09.959
<v Speaker 2>Flowers and what else?

0:40:10.400 --> 0:40:13.520
<v Speaker 1>What else do I do? What have I done? We've

0:40:13.560 --> 0:40:16.400
<v Speaker 1>gone to the movies, We've gone to dinner. She travels

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:18.000
<v Speaker 1>a lot, so we actually haven't seen each other in

0:40:18.040 --> 0:40:20.719
<v Speaker 1>a while. But we're about to. Now where you are

0:40:20.800 --> 0:40:23.319
<v Speaker 1>going when I see her? Yeah, it's only for a

0:40:23.320 --> 0:40:25.200
<v Speaker 1>short period, so we're going to the movies and maybe dinner.

0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:27.279
<v Speaker 1>Then I got a flyer, okay, and then when I

0:40:27.320 --> 0:40:29.320
<v Speaker 1>come back, she's gonna come to show. She actually, you know,

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I know I like this lady. She was in public

0:40:31.080 --> 0:40:32.759
<v Speaker 1>at a show and we was whole hands. I don't

0:40:32.800 --> 0:40:41.279
<v Speaker 1>hold that wild has fallen. That's right. Every pimp must

0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:50.719
<v Speaker 1>fall one day holding holding hands. Ain't know what's good

0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 1>about this. When it's come out, it'll be two shows.

0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:55.839
<v Speaker 1>We on the something we are.

0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:03.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't really like holding hands, you know, I link arms, Okay, I.

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:04.839
<v Speaker 1>Think see when you mean, I think you're gonna you're

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:07.719
<v Speaker 1>gonna when he make you fall, whose hand? I want

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:10.160
<v Speaker 1>to hold it? That's what it is that I think

0:41:10.160 --> 0:41:10.640
<v Speaker 1>that's what it is.

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:12.160
<v Speaker 4>I think seen he's gonna have the same reaction if

0:41:12.200 --> 0:41:14.839
<v Speaker 4>she sees me holding somebody holding no.

0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:19.520
<v Speaker 1>I want this woman the wall. She's got it. But

0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:21.840
<v Speaker 1>she's a Libra. I feel like it's in her. She

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:24.400
<v Speaker 1>just gotta really trust it. I don't think these guys

0:41:24.440 --> 0:41:27.799
<v Speaker 1>are making her feel safe with letting them lead that much.

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:29.200
<v Speaker 1>Preach doctor umark.

0:41:29.320 --> 0:41:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Come on, man, nice, I love it. You're really standing

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:39.240
<v Speaker 2>on it. Whatever soapbox you want to know, it's lifted.

0:41:39.440 --> 0:41:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I think black women are the best, and people just

0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:43.719
<v Speaker 1>don't know how to deal with them, so they just

0:41:44.239 --> 0:41:46.279
<v Speaker 1>go elsewhere, and then when they do meet them, they fail,

0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:48.719
<v Speaker 1>they fall short. And I don't even think Marie is

0:41:48.760 --> 0:41:50.920
<v Speaker 1>making it hard for these guys. I don't think I

0:41:50.960 --> 0:41:52.839
<v Speaker 1>am either. I don't think she is. I don't think

0:41:52.840 --> 0:41:55.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm making it hard for them. I think she's just

0:41:55.239 --> 0:41:58.360
<v Speaker 1>not making it easy and they used to easy.

0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:01.520
<v Speaker 2>Thank you Paris for seeing Marie.

0:42:01.600 --> 0:42:05.239
<v Speaker 1>You do one on one? Do you know her? Do

0:42:05.280 --> 0:42:30.480
<v Speaker 1>you women? Readings? Okay? Marie?

0:42:30.600 --> 0:42:34.279
<v Speaker 3>So okay, hold on because this week I want to

0:42:34.320 --> 0:42:34.960
<v Speaker 3>talk about the.

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Gay Okay, I feel like you say it.

0:42:38.000 --> 0:42:46.160
<v Speaker 3>A lot online about gay. Ill, what's the problem. Like

0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:47.399
<v Speaker 3>you're flourishing right now.

0:42:47.719 --> 0:42:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I am, But I feel like it's just overcrowded. It

0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:54.120
<v Speaker 1>wasn't gay wasn't always this overcrowded. I feel like like women,

0:42:54.640 --> 0:42:57.560
<v Speaker 1>no judgment, but a little bit. Women with five kids

0:42:57.600 --> 0:43:00.120
<v Speaker 1>should not be able to be lesbians. I think they

0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:03.839
<v Speaker 1>should get their application blocked. There's too many to come

0:43:03.880 --> 0:43:06.400
<v Speaker 1>and be a lesbian. No why you could be bisexual,

0:43:06.400 --> 0:43:07.640
<v Speaker 1>but I don't think you should be able to be

0:43:07.680 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 1>a lesbian. Five kids.

0:43:10.200 --> 0:43:13.640
<v Speaker 4>Now, how many women that are calling themselves lesbians have

0:43:13.800 --> 0:43:14.400
<v Speaker 4>five kids.

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:16.440
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of women with kids. You'd be surprised.

0:43:17.680 --> 0:43:20.160
<v Speaker 2>Too many apps you're on, you got to shut down.

0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 1>It's on TikTok. You can just go on TikTok right now.

0:43:22.640 --> 0:43:24.640
<v Speaker 1>And there's so many of them. It's your algo friend.

0:43:25.320 --> 0:43:27.359
<v Speaker 3>Are the ones that's in your because I don't know

0:43:27.360 --> 0:43:29.280
<v Speaker 3>these people, I've never seen it because.

0:43:29.040 --> 0:43:31.400
<v Speaker 1>You be in relationships. That's I'm telling you. I'm outside.

0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I got to experience this close the door. That's what

0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying to them. You need to.

0:43:39.400 --> 0:43:41.359
<v Speaker 2>Be in the streets because you gotta stay in the house.

0:43:41.520 --> 0:43:44.040
<v Speaker 1>I think once I get in a relationship, then I

0:43:44.040 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 1>won't care about it. I think I only care because

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:47.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm out here. I didn't know this was going on

0:43:47.440 --> 0:43:48.520
<v Speaker 1>because I was in a relationship.

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 3>Or do you think that you date a lot? When

0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:53.760
<v Speaker 3>have you had a break? No dating them? Talking to women?

0:43:53.880 --> 0:43:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Nothing a lot? When Sidney, you will be a surprised

0:43:57.719 --> 0:43:59.480
<v Speaker 1>how much I don't date. And I don't know. We're

0:43:59.520 --> 0:44:01.440
<v Speaker 1>asking the top of the year, I went on a

0:44:01.480 --> 0:44:03.120
<v Speaker 1>self journey for two months. I didn't talk to a

0:44:03.160 --> 0:44:06.560
<v Speaker 1>woman at all. So January and February was the February

0:44:06.640 --> 0:44:08.200
<v Speaker 1>and March I didn't talk to any woman.

0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Would you do with your time?

0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:12.399
<v Speaker 1>I was reading books, I was going to church more,

0:44:12.400 --> 0:44:15.279
<v Speaker 1>I was praying I would walker, I was working out.

0:44:15.320 --> 0:44:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I really had to get my mind clear. And then I.

0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:21.600
<v Speaker 2>Started again your top toxic self.

0:44:21.719 --> 0:44:24.440
<v Speaker 1>No, so I can stay bar because I think I

0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:26.319
<v Speaker 1>was just doing too much and I just had to

0:44:26.320 --> 0:44:28.359
<v Speaker 1>sit down. I took it too far and I caught

0:44:28.400 --> 0:44:30.960
<v Speaker 1>myself being too toxic, and I said, you gotta take

0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:33.680
<v Speaker 1>a break. Yeah, I fake cried, and I said, this

0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:34.680
<v Speaker 1>is we've gone too far.

0:44:34.920 --> 0:44:37.040
<v Speaker 2>Cried, you peel the glasses off and you put your

0:44:37.080 --> 0:44:37.759
<v Speaker 2>hands in the snow.

0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:39.520
<v Speaker 1>It was the top of the morning. I look this

0:44:39.560 --> 0:44:41.160
<v Speaker 1>woman in her eye and the water came.

0:44:41.760 --> 0:44:44.719
<v Speaker 2>Really you sure you didn't just come because sometimes you come?

0:44:44.840 --> 0:44:48.399
<v Speaker 1>It was no, it was tears when I never came.

0:44:49.960 --> 0:44:51.719
<v Speaker 1>That's having me sex? What tap is? Where were you

0:44:51.719 --> 0:44:59.080
<v Speaker 1>at that? Yeah? Oh, Mauri, I think we broke it out, Marie,

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:02.480
<v Speaker 1>we broke and wen't problem we have sex? You always

0:45:02.719 --> 0:45:04.920
<v Speaker 1>like that from the record? Strike that from the record.

0:45:04.960 --> 0:45:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I didn't need to know that, Mecca.

0:45:10.640 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 5>Elmo Paris.

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:14.759
<v Speaker 1>Did you hear it? Almost? No? I don't know about sex.

0:45:14.880 --> 0:45:16.560
<v Speaker 1>Is that I want to know I never had that.

0:45:16.680 --> 0:45:18.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying y'all broken.

0:45:18.200 --> 0:45:22.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying, I like, you know, I would like

0:45:22.440 --> 0:45:23.520
<v Speaker 3>to see you soft.

0:45:24.320 --> 0:45:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm really solved when I like a woman was in it.

0:45:26.920 --> 0:45:28.799
<v Speaker 2>I don't like the way you said that, because like.

0:45:29.440 --> 0:45:31.160
<v Speaker 1>Because you're looking at me over the glens to I

0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:31.600
<v Speaker 1>would like to.

0:45:31.600 --> 0:45:35.520
<v Speaker 4>See you Literally was like, I would like to see

0:45:35.520 --> 0:45:38.879
<v Speaker 4>you soft, And I was like, that's a weird thing

0:45:38.920 --> 0:45:40.400
<v Speaker 4>to say.

0:45:41.160 --> 0:45:46.239
<v Speaker 1>I want to see you soft looking stay hard, so

0:45:50.160 --> 0:45:53.719
<v Speaker 1>make it soft? No?

0:45:53.800 --> 0:45:58.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean you how many relationships have you been in

0:45:58.280 --> 0:45:58.760
<v Speaker 3>was a girl?

0:45:58.840 --> 0:46:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Publicly yes, one, just one, just one. That's what

0:46:03.360 --> 0:46:04.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to tell you. That's why you think you

0:46:04.719 --> 0:46:07.000
<v Speaker 1>haven't seen me solved. You haven't seen it with one woman.

0:46:07.560 --> 0:46:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Well, I met the woman that you were you were publicly.

0:46:09.880 --> 0:46:11.640
<v Speaker 1>I think I was pretty solved during those times.

0:46:11.520 --> 0:46:13.439
<v Speaker 3>You were you were and then you were like never again.

0:46:13.560 --> 0:46:18.120
<v Speaker 3>I honestly think everybody needs to stop posting whoever they're with.

0:46:18.520 --> 0:46:19.640
<v Speaker 2>That's that's done.

0:46:19.840 --> 0:46:21.799
<v Speaker 1>No, No, I'm never I won't post the next girl.

0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:25.000
<v Speaker 3>It doesn't matter what gender you are. You they're all embarrassing.

0:46:25.160 --> 0:46:29.480
<v Speaker 3>So it doesn't matter woman. Man, they you can get embarrassed.

0:46:29.520 --> 0:46:33.640
<v Speaker 3>So I think moving forward, I will. I haven't posted somebody,

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:36.480
<v Speaker 3>and you know, I don't think I'm gonna do that

0:46:36.520 --> 0:46:39.880
<v Speaker 3>because it's it's nobody's business. People know I'm in a relationship,

0:46:39.880 --> 0:46:42.880
<v Speaker 3>but it's like, I don't need to be posting that

0:46:42.960 --> 0:46:46.160
<v Speaker 3>stuff because who is it for? The people who I'm

0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:50.319
<v Speaker 3>with know that I'm with this person. I agree, some

0:46:50.520 --> 0:46:53.440
<v Speaker 3>random person that listens to the podcast shouldn't be able

0:46:53.440 --> 0:46:56.240
<v Speaker 3>to spot my girl out at a fucking costa.

0:46:56.480 --> 0:46:56.919
<v Speaker 1>That's weird.

0:46:57.239 --> 0:47:00.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, sure, looked.

0:46:59.880 --> 0:47:00.799
<v Speaker 1>For failure.

0:47:02.160 --> 0:47:06.040
<v Speaker 2>Was making her cry thy.

0:47:10.600 --> 0:47:11.319
<v Speaker 1>Hilarious.

0:47:12.040 --> 0:47:14.400
<v Speaker 3>What can you what can you do better to help

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:18.480
<v Speaker 3>the community, because you have to be the example that

0:47:18.560 --> 0:47:19.239
<v Speaker 3>you want to see.

0:47:19.600 --> 0:47:22.440
<v Speaker 1>I think when I settle down, then I'll be an example. No, no, no, no,

0:47:24.040 --> 0:47:26.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying no, no, yeah right now. The work can

0:47:26.800 --> 0:47:30.040
<v Speaker 1>I do to help the community get better? Yes, I

0:47:30.080 --> 0:47:32.399
<v Speaker 1>think I do my part. I think I make gay

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:34.200
<v Speaker 1>people feel like they can just be free and be

0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:35.920
<v Speaker 1>who they are with no judgment. I think I do

0:47:36.520 --> 0:47:41.240
<v Speaker 1>too many of these real gays, not not the friends.

0:47:41.480 --> 0:47:43.560
<v Speaker 1>When I talk to gay people about this, they agree.

0:47:43.600 --> 0:47:46.200
<v Speaker 1>They agree that it's too many gay people. It's this

0:47:46.280 --> 0:47:47.920
<v Speaker 1>new gay is just too different.

0:47:48.080 --> 0:47:53.120
<v Speaker 4>It is there is a new breed, a new breed

0:47:53.120 --> 0:47:56.240
<v Speaker 4>of gays, like she doesn't I agree.

0:47:56.760 --> 0:47:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I agree.

0:47:57.320 --> 0:47:58.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm listening to my very straight friends.

0:47:58.960 --> 0:48:01.600
<v Speaker 4>I feel like it's a I feel like it's a

0:48:01.640 --> 0:48:04.759
<v Speaker 4>lot of women, specifically, I can't speak for the men.

0:48:05.000 --> 0:48:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's a lot of women who.

0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:09.640
<v Speaker 4>Have just like hit a wall because they've dated men

0:48:09.680 --> 0:48:12.720
<v Speaker 4>their whole lives, or they married men or whatever whatever,

0:48:12.840 --> 0:48:15.719
<v Speaker 4>and they just hit a place where they're like, actually,

0:48:16.200 --> 0:48:18.719
<v Speaker 4>I don't want to do this anymore, and they see

0:48:18.880 --> 0:48:21.480
<v Speaker 4>I don't know women loving on other women or women

0:48:22.280 --> 0:48:24.560
<v Speaker 4>taking their time to like ask you how you're doing

0:48:24.600 --> 0:48:26.360
<v Speaker 4>and bring you flat, like you know what I'm saying.

0:48:26.440 --> 0:48:29.200
<v Speaker 4>And I think Sydney and I feel like you even

0:48:29.239 --> 0:48:32.760
<v Speaker 4>know some of these people. We're not gonna name no names,

0:48:32.840 --> 0:48:35.600
<v Speaker 4>but like I feel like, now more than ever.

0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:36.680
<v Speaker 1>It's the gayest.

0:48:37.400 --> 0:48:38.640
<v Speaker 2>This is the gayest.

0:48:38.200 --> 0:48:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Time it's ever been. God bless.

0:48:40.719 --> 0:48:42.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that.

0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:45.399
<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying that there is a new I mean,

0:48:45.440 --> 0:48:47.759
<v Speaker 4>all the kids is gay, all jealousy is gay. But

0:48:48.120 --> 0:48:51.839
<v Speaker 4>millennials and maybe some ex I don't know, I'll hang

0:48:51.840 --> 0:48:53.759
<v Speaker 4>out with them, you know, they go to bed when

0:48:53.800 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 4>I come outside. I feel like millennials now more than ever,

0:48:57.800 --> 0:49:01.239
<v Speaker 4>is like trying to explore their sexual and I understand

0:49:01.560 --> 0:49:04.400
<v Speaker 4>as a full time lesbian looking at people like this,

0:49:04.560 --> 0:49:04.839
<v Speaker 4>like but.

0:49:04.880 --> 0:49:05.520
<v Speaker 1>You not really.

0:49:06.239 --> 0:49:08.360
<v Speaker 2>I used to say that I used to be on

0:49:08.480 --> 0:49:10.239
<v Speaker 2>I used to be on the pairs tip like.

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:16.880
<v Speaker 3>Okay, you're not really like being But then it's like

0:49:17.040 --> 0:49:21.600
<v Speaker 3>I actually had to, you know, jude yourself off and

0:49:21.680 --> 0:49:24.800
<v Speaker 3>try again. And then I and I even was vocal

0:49:24.840 --> 0:49:28.719
<v Speaker 3>about this, you know voyage that I took down to

0:49:28.840 --> 0:49:33.520
<v Speaker 3>the to the bedrock of the bedrock, that's.

0:49:33.400 --> 0:49:36.040
<v Speaker 2>What I call it. And you know, I got a

0:49:36.080 --> 0:49:37.359
<v Speaker 2>lot of backlash.

0:49:37.480 --> 0:49:41.759
<v Speaker 3>They were pretty mean in the in the d m

0:49:41.880 --> 0:49:46.120
<v Speaker 3>s and just and in public, like you think it's funny,

0:49:46.200 --> 0:49:47.720
<v Speaker 3>it's not funny, and it's like, but.

0:49:47.600 --> 0:49:51.560
<v Speaker 1>This is this is funny. She slipped up that, yeah,

0:49:51.800 --> 0:49:52.880
<v Speaker 1>that they were judging.

0:49:52.960 --> 0:49:56.600
<v Speaker 3>This is why they don't respect lesbians and they don't

0:49:56.640 --> 0:49:59.719
<v Speaker 3>believe us. And I was like, hey, my situation does

0:49:59.719 --> 0:50:02.680
<v Speaker 3>not present all of them, and any man that thinks

0:50:02.680 --> 0:50:05.920
<v Speaker 3>that my representation is everybody.

0:50:05.520 --> 0:50:07.400
<v Speaker 2>Then he didn't believe it.

0:50:07.480 --> 0:50:10.880
<v Speaker 3>No matter what my words or my action is not

0:50:11.280 --> 0:50:15.640
<v Speaker 3>dictating the whole group of lesbian You know, he's an idiot.

0:50:15.560 --> 0:50:18.399
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, and they always are. They always are.

0:50:18.640 --> 0:50:21.800
<v Speaker 3>This woman wrote to me so many you're not a lesbian,

0:50:21.840 --> 0:50:24.400
<v Speaker 3>You're not a lesbid. I would have blocked your not

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:28.400
<v Speaker 3>a lesbian? How dare you? You're a dick sucking piece

0:50:28.440 --> 0:50:29.080
<v Speaker 3>of ship.

0:50:29.200 --> 0:50:30.680
<v Speaker 1>And you don't want me to kick him out the

0:50:30.680 --> 0:50:32.719
<v Speaker 1>group before they even slip up, That's what I'm saying.

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:36.800
<v Speaker 3>These are you know, these are the They got a van.

0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:38.319
<v Speaker 1>Full of kids and I was supposed to date this

0:50:38.400 --> 0:50:42.400
<v Speaker 1>lady all you did was slip on one time and

0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:44.279
<v Speaker 1>you're a dick. It was more than one.

0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:49.960
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, on your side, right right, No you you

0:50:49.960 --> 0:50:51.280
<v Speaker 3>don't speak your truth, sister.

0:50:51.120 --> 0:50:51.480
<v Speaker 1>You're right.

0:50:52.160 --> 0:50:55.839
<v Speaker 4>Kids not you pulling up in a to the date

0:50:55.920 --> 0:50:59.120
<v Speaker 4>with Paris is Kate Kate plus eight is like now

0:50:59.600 --> 0:51:00.760
<v Speaker 4>now I'm the LGBT.

0:51:00.880 --> 0:51:02.959
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not doing it. It's the studs that's taking

0:51:03.000 --> 0:51:04.839
<v Speaker 1>care of them. That's the problem. The studs take care

0:51:04.840 --> 0:51:06.520
<v Speaker 1>of them and then they leave them, and they leave

0:51:06.560 --> 0:51:08.840
<v Speaker 1>them in the world for somebody else to come. And

0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:10.759
<v Speaker 1>they think they're gonna follow up with the stud and

0:51:10.760 --> 0:51:13.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like nobody else is doing that. You gotta go

0:51:13.040 --> 0:51:17.800
<v Speaker 1>back to that lady, to the lady that dad. Where's

0:51:17.840 --> 0:51:26.719
<v Speaker 1>the dad? Dad is gone? And so am I? Me

0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:28.800
<v Speaker 1>and the dad same guy.

0:51:29.960 --> 0:51:32.560
<v Speaker 5>I'm not the dad that stepped up or the dad

0:51:33.560 --> 0:51:34.120
<v Speaker 5>neither one.

0:51:35.320 --> 0:51:38.400
<v Speaker 3>Now, there was this crazy phenomenon. I think, like I

0:51:38.440 --> 0:51:41.800
<v Speaker 3>don't know, maybe six months ago about bisexual studs.

0:51:41.800 --> 0:51:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Do you think that's the thing.

0:51:43.280 --> 0:51:46.919
<v Speaker 1>That is a real thing? See, when it comes down

0:51:46.960 --> 0:51:50.000
<v Speaker 1>to that, I feel like they just chose a label,

0:51:50.239 --> 0:51:52.239
<v Speaker 1>but they really shouldn't have chose it because they just

0:51:52.320 --> 0:51:55.359
<v Speaker 1>want to be bisexual, but they're just the stud. So

0:51:55.400 --> 0:51:57.200
<v Speaker 1>they just putting the bisexual in front of it because

0:51:57.200 --> 0:51:58.839
<v Speaker 1>they're doing what they want. I don't know. I think

0:51:58.880 --> 0:52:00.759
<v Speaker 1>if I was a stud, I wouldn't by social but

0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:52:01.480 --> 0:52:05.600
<v Speaker 3>So there's a there's there's a stud and they say

0:52:05.600 --> 0:52:07.640
<v Speaker 3>they sneak dicken, that's what it is.

0:52:07.680 --> 0:52:08.880
<v Speaker 1>Sneak dickens sneak.

0:52:09.600 --> 0:52:12.520
<v Speaker 5>There's your algo, yes, your algorithm.

0:52:12.600 --> 0:52:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, you're the kids, because that's not on mine.

0:52:19.080 --> 0:52:22.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, I'm never saying.

0:52:22.200 --> 0:52:22.520
<v Speaker 7>What is it?

0:52:22.680 --> 0:52:30.200
<v Speaker 3>Just they're going out on the low and they're hooking

0:52:30.320 --> 0:52:39.320
<v Speaker 3>up with with men with the briefs on. Yes, and

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:42.920
<v Speaker 3>they're wearing the it's because they both have do rags

0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:44.719
<v Speaker 3>on and ye they.

0:52:44.680 --> 0:52:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Put up like what's up my boy?

0:52:47.440 --> 0:52:50.560
<v Speaker 3>They that before they do it, let's get it in. Yeah,

0:52:51.320 --> 0:52:53.360
<v Speaker 3>they're playing little Uzzi the whole time.

0:52:54.560 --> 0:53:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Whoa, this is what you want? This is what you want.

0:53:04.080 --> 0:53:06.719
<v Speaker 5>Sliding to the side is crazy.

0:53:07.120 --> 0:53:11.200
<v Speaker 3>I can't even visually think about it, but yeah, you

0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:11.719
<v Speaker 3>can see it.

0:53:12.320 --> 0:53:12.920
<v Speaker 1>But that's the thing.

0:53:12.920 --> 0:53:16.040
<v Speaker 3>It's like, I think we should also kind of move

0:53:16.080 --> 0:53:19.719
<v Speaker 3>away from labels too, because like, once you do it,

0:53:20.120 --> 0:53:21.040
<v Speaker 3>then that's what you are.

0:53:21.719 --> 0:53:24.840
<v Speaker 1>And people don't leave room for growth.

0:53:25.120 --> 0:53:28.279
<v Speaker 3>Or maybe oh, you know, I had a revelation, or

0:53:28.719 --> 0:53:31.080
<v Speaker 3>oh let me, let me, let me see. Maybe if

0:53:31.120 --> 0:53:33.000
<v Speaker 3>you've been doing something for ten years, I think you

0:53:33.040 --> 0:53:35.719
<v Speaker 3>should go back and go out and see. Am I

0:53:35.760 --> 0:53:40.960
<v Speaker 3>really dedicated? Or maybe I'm just content and I just content.

0:53:41.080 --> 0:53:44.040
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm just used to Okay, Yeah.

0:53:43.920 --> 0:53:45.279
<v Speaker 1>See that's why I think I just want to stay

0:53:45.280 --> 0:53:47.200
<v Speaker 1>at tomboy, Okay, because I don't want to fall in

0:53:47.280 --> 0:53:49.000
<v Speaker 1>none of the because then you can't come out of it.

0:53:49.440 --> 0:53:51.720
<v Speaker 1>You can't stood tell me that because she was a stud,

0:53:51.840 --> 0:53:56.000
<v Speaker 1>she couldn't be sasy sassy. Yeah, what do you like?

0:53:56.040 --> 0:53:57.719
<v Speaker 1>But you're still a girl, she said she couldn't be

0:53:57.719 --> 0:54:02.480
<v Speaker 1>a sassy studstead Yeah, what.

0:54:01.960 --> 0:54:05.759
<v Speaker 4>What qualities or characteristics do you have to have in

0:54:05.840 --> 0:54:07.440
<v Speaker 4>order to be considered You're not a study.

0:54:07.480 --> 0:54:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I feel like studs take care of women.

0:54:11.840 --> 0:54:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that. We're going half and half. I'm

0:54:14.120 --> 0:54:15.959
<v Speaker 1>gonna do my part and you're gonna also do yours.

0:54:15.960 --> 0:54:21.239
<v Speaker 1>We're partners. I'm not taking care of I need to know.

0:54:21.600 --> 0:54:24.160
<v Speaker 5>Okay, for the listeners for Pride, please tell us what

0:54:24.200 --> 0:54:24.719
<v Speaker 5>a study is.

0:54:24.880 --> 0:54:28.000
<v Speaker 1>I should have put us up then I'm not a stub,

0:54:28.040 --> 0:54:31.560
<v Speaker 1>but because like the studs are, you're basically agreeing to

0:54:31.600 --> 0:54:34.480
<v Speaker 1>be the main version of all the time across the board.

0:54:34.760 --> 0:54:36.560
<v Speaker 2>So, Sidney, what do you think a study is?

0:54:39.239 --> 0:54:44.240
<v Speaker 3>I think it's a it's a it's usually a black

0:54:44.280 --> 0:54:45.520
<v Speaker 3>woman or a POC.

0:54:46.760 --> 0:54:48.880
<v Speaker 1>That oh stud White women can be studs.

0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:51.600
<v Speaker 2>No, but.

0:54:54.560 --> 0:54:58.880
<v Speaker 3>They've also gentrified stud I do not believe the beige

0:54:58.920 --> 0:55:00.760
<v Speaker 3>brigade can be studs.

0:55:00.800 --> 0:55:04.359
<v Speaker 2>That's not is but yes, yep.

0:55:05.520 --> 0:55:09.200
<v Speaker 3>But I don't want to say that studs want to

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<v Speaker 3>be a man, because that would fall under the lines

0:55:13.640 --> 0:55:19.800
<v Speaker 3>of France. I think studs have masculine presenting, like looks

0:55:20.080 --> 0:55:27.600
<v Speaker 3>and maybe mannerisms, maybe have a heteronormative idea of like, well,

0:55:28.400 --> 0:55:30.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm the man, you're the one, like I'm gonna like

0:55:30.400 --> 0:55:36.359
<v Speaker 3>you said, take care, you're my woman, I'm the stud men,

0:55:36.480 --> 0:55:38.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm the studman, I'm the.

0:55:40.920 --> 0:55:43.560
<v Speaker 1>It's just all these all these terms is wild.

0:55:43.560 --> 0:55:46.359
<v Speaker 3>There's too many for me. But you don't you don't

0:55:46.560 --> 0:55:48.120
<v Speaker 3>you want to go fifty to fifty.

0:55:49.760 --> 0:55:51.480
<v Speaker 1>Lipstick. I get my nails and I did all of

0:55:51.520 --> 0:55:53.840
<v Speaker 1>this before I was gay. So I feel like the stud.

0:55:54.520 --> 0:55:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I can't be a stud. I'm masculine, but I'm not

0:55:57.200 --> 0:55:59.160
<v Speaker 1>a stud. I think it's the difference.

0:55:59.239 --> 0:56:01.120
<v Speaker 2>So you don't want you don't want to take care.

0:56:01.520 --> 0:56:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to take care of her, but she also

0:56:03.880 --> 0:56:05.759
<v Speaker 1>got to help. If you want to retire for life

0:56:05.760 --> 0:56:08.080
<v Speaker 1>and purr, step up and be your boyfriend. But I'm

0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:10.560
<v Speaker 1>not a boyfriend. No, And I think a stud sometimes

0:56:10.880 --> 0:56:12.279
<v Speaker 1>is a boyfriend. They don't want to be a man,

0:56:12.360 --> 0:56:16.040
<v Speaker 1>but they're a boyfriend friend. Yes, you get it. We

0:56:16.080 --> 0:56:17.120
<v Speaker 1>look at that. I'll be pride.

0:56:17.160 --> 0:56:19.560
<v Speaker 3>Okay, we're putting it together, each one, teach one here

0:56:19.600 --> 0:56:25.920
<v Speaker 3>in the in the States, Paris.

0:56:26.000 --> 0:56:28.600
<v Speaker 4>Is there anything that you feel like we need anything

0:56:28.600 --> 0:56:31.120
<v Speaker 4>else you think that we need to know about being

0:56:31.120 --> 0:56:33.200
<v Speaker 4>a lesbian? That is mess that you think we need

0:56:33.239 --> 0:56:35.880
<v Speaker 4>to touch on, And it's okay.

0:56:36.000 --> 0:56:40.160
<v Speaker 3>Also, it's okay if you're not attracted to women. You know,

0:56:40.360 --> 0:56:42.759
<v Speaker 3>it's okay if you're not, it's okay to not be

0:56:42.800 --> 0:56:44.920
<v Speaker 3>a lesbian you mean attracted to women.

0:56:45.040 --> 0:56:46.160
<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm not talking about you.

0:56:46.239 --> 0:56:50.760
<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying, like, you know, sometimes people will be like, ooh,

0:56:50.920 --> 0:56:51.880
<v Speaker 3>why don't Marie this.

0:56:52.239 --> 0:56:54.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, because she doesn't want to. She wanted to.

0:56:54.840 --> 0:56:58.040
<v Speaker 1>She would like let people be who they want to be.

0:56:58.480 --> 0:57:02.120
<v Speaker 4>Oh, listen, I'll post things post like i'llfit picks or whatever,

0:57:02.160 --> 0:57:03.600
<v Speaker 4>and people be like, you sure you're not gay?

0:57:04.360 --> 0:57:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:57:04.840 --> 0:57:18.000
<v Speaker 4>Yes, and as her bestie, yes, positively without a doubt.

0:57:19.280 --> 0:57:21.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure, and that's good. I don't. I don't. I

0:57:21.800 --> 0:57:25.240
<v Speaker 1>don't think. No, there's nobody. If you're gay, you'll know,

0:57:25.360 --> 0:57:27.960
<v Speaker 1>you'll fulller. Do I have anything else for the gays?

0:57:28.640 --> 0:57:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't. For the lesbian's name, I don't know.

0:57:32.600 --> 0:57:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Do what you want, sure, be happy, there you go.

0:57:35.200 --> 0:57:36.640
<v Speaker 1>I want people to be happy. I just do.

0:57:37.120 --> 0:57:39.480
<v Speaker 3>And I think people get so caught up in what

0:57:39.520 --> 0:57:41.919
<v Speaker 3>other people think and what other people are doing. That's

0:57:41.920 --> 0:57:44.280
<v Speaker 3>what's messing updating and sexuality.

0:57:44.360 --> 0:57:46.920
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like because they overpopulated, and that's why

0:57:46.920 --> 0:57:49.280
<v Speaker 1>it's taking people so long to find their person. That's

0:57:49.320 --> 0:57:50.720
<v Speaker 1>the only reason I have a problem with it, because

0:57:50.720 --> 0:57:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like people getting in the way of people

0:57:52.760 --> 0:57:55.160
<v Speaker 1>finding they real gay so made.

0:57:54.880 --> 0:57:58.080
<v Speaker 3>But also you gotta also, you gotta play many games

0:57:58.120 --> 0:57:59.440
<v Speaker 3>to get to the championship.

0:57:59.440 --> 0:58:01.520
<v Speaker 1>Honey, that's true. But you know it's a whole thing

0:58:01.560 --> 0:58:03.760
<v Speaker 1>on TikTok where studs saying that they tie to dating

0:58:03.800 --> 0:58:05.640
<v Speaker 1>straight women because they dating straight women, and then the

0:58:05.800 --> 0:58:08.640
<v Speaker 1>women are going back to the men. They're not really gay.

0:58:09.480 --> 0:58:11.919
<v Speaker 1>I've heard how's that? So they're intercept and that stuff

0:58:11.920 --> 0:58:13.400
<v Speaker 1>could have found the lady or her dreams. But she

0:58:13.440 --> 0:58:15.720
<v Speaker 1>found this straight woman who left her, got some money

0:58:15.760 --> 0:58:17.800
<v Speaker 1>for the kids, went back to the day, and now

0:58:17.880 --> 0:58:21.240
<v Speaker 1>why shene the kids? Stud of hurt. Now she gotta

0:58:21.240 --> 0:58:21.800
<v Speaker 1>be a dog.

0:58:22.560 --> 0:58:25.120
<v Speaker 2>This sounds like Maury, This feels like all Mary.

0:58:25.160 --> 0:58:27.160
<v Speaker 4>But I also will say I feel like there are

0:58:27.320 --> 0:58:32.560
<v Speaker 4>some studs who relish in the challenge of being with

0:58:32.600 --> 0:58:33.280
<v Speaker 4>a straight woman.

0:58:33.640 --> 0:58:35.440
<v Speaker 1>They they it's like they're trying.

0:58:35.240 --> 0:58:37.320
<v Speaker 4>To turn I'm not saying all of them, but there

0:58:37.320 --> 0:58:39.720
<v Speaker 4>are some trying to coming at them with a van

0:58:39.800 --> 0:58:42.280
<v Speaker 4>full of kids, and you're like, well, clearly this lady

0:58:42.360 --> 0:58:45.680
<v Speaker 4>is not gay, but she's here now and I can

0:58:45.760 --> 0:58:47.000
<v Speaker 4>change her right, And it's.

0:58:46.920 --> 0:58:49.520
<v Speaker 1>Like, why would you do that? That's some sense I

0:58:49.560 --> 0:58:51.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Be happy, everybody, Just be happy. Do what

0:58:52.000 --> 0:58:54.320
<v Speaker 1>you love, do what feels good, do who you love,

0:58:54.520 --> 0:58:58.000
<v Speaker 1>do who you love, explore until you fine, don't put

0:58:58.040 --> 0:59:00.160
<v Speaker 1>all your eggs in one basket. Just date, and so

0:59:00.240 --> 0:59:03.240
<v Speaker 1>you find a person you truly like, Hello, well, Paris,

0:59:03.360 --> 0:59:04.960
<v Speaker 1>let we got some messages for you.

0:59:05.000 --> 0:59:07.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna read them and like I'll read up. We'll

0:59:07.640 --> 0:59:10.920
<v Speaker 4>read a couple and you tell us if it's messy.

0:59:10.680 --> 0:59:11.880
<v Speaker 1>Or just living cool.

0:59:13.040 --> 0:59:16.320
<v Speaker 4>So basically told me her bestie used to scam dudes

0:59:16.320 --> 0:59:19.840
<v Speaker 4>by telling them she was pregnant and needed abortion money.

0:59:20.200 --> 0:59:22.440
<v Speaker 4>She did this until a guy told her he was

0:59:22.640 --> 0:59:26.320
<v Speaker 4>or thought he was infertile and that this child could

0:59:26.320 --> 0:59:36.280
<v Speaker 4>be his miracle baby. I don't can't read what this is.

0:59:36.280 --> 0:59:37.560
<v Speaker 4>Is that messy or just living?

0:59:38.440 --> 0:59:43.760
<v Speaker 1>I think that's I think it's just living. Sometimes sometimes

0:59:43.760 --> 0:59:46.440
<v Speaker 1>you gotta give back on these men. I think it's

0:59:46.480 --> 0:59:49.840
<v Speaker 1>just living. She needed the money, she needed, No all

0:59:49.880 --> 0:59:51.400
<v Speaker 1>the time she had to get back. I think she

0:59:51.520 --> 0:59:53.840
<v Speaker 1>was just living. You got to get these men how

0:59:53.920 --> 0:59:56.680
<v Speaker 1>you can. It's not always easy. So she's like, look,

0:59:56.720 --> 0:59:58.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm pregnant, and who wants a baby? None of them,

0:59:58.920 --> 1:00:00.800
<v Speaker 1>So it's like, here go the money. Think like it

1:00:00.840 --> 1:00:03.640
<v Speaker 1>was she was living. Depending on how old she was,

1:00:03.720 --> 1:00:05.360
<v Speaker 1>it could have been mess I think she was. Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the age does matter because I pulled a

1:00:08.600 --> 1:00:11.000
<v Speaker 3>stunt like that when I was, you know, in college.

1:00:11.080 --> 1:00:11.760
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying.

1:00:12.120 --> 1:00:14.040
<v Speaker 5>And you know, it's a young girls game.

1:00:14.160 --> 1:00:16.040
<v Speaker 3>I've said it before, I've said it out loud and

1:00:16.080 --> 1:00:18.000
<v Speaker 3>people gashed like, oh my god, I can't believe you

1:00:18.000 --> 1:00:20.959
<v Speaker 3>did that. You know, like told one of them, told

1:00:20.960 --> 1:00:22.720
<v Speaker 3>both of them. One of them gave me half the money.

1:00:22.800 --> 1:00:26.640
<v Speaker 3>I got an iPod nano after and then gave it

1:00:26.680 --> 1:00:28.120
<v Speaker 3>to the other guy. That was like, I'm not giving

1:00:28.160 --> 1:00:35.680
<v Speaker 3>you anything. It was just it was embarrassing. But uh,

1:00:35.720 --> 1:00:37.680
<v Speaker 3>so you say, that's just living?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Is it mess or just living?

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<v Speaker 3>My girlfriend mentioned that in quotation this summer could be

1:00:44.720 --> 1:00:48.000
<v Speaker 3>the summer week all hang out together, referring to her

1:00:48.080 --> 1:00:50.920
<v Speaker 3>ex who she shares two dogs, a house, in a

1:00:50.960 --> 1:00:53.560
<v Speaker 3>car with. I'll be down, but I don't like her

1:00:53.720 --> 1:00:56.240
<v Speaker 3>as a person. Mess or just living?

1:00:56.400 --> 1:00:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Say the second so.

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<v Speaker 3>The person is saying, my girlfriend, it's like, I think

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<v Speaker 3>this is something we could all hang out together, meaning

1:01:04.680 --> 1:01:07.120
<v Speaker 3>the girlfriend that she has also has an ex. They

1:01:07.400 --> 1:01:11.440
<v Speaker 3>that they share, uh, two dogs, a house and at

1:01:11.560 --> 1:01:12.280
<v Speaker 3>a little fellowship.

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<v Speaker 1>Oka.

1:01:12.800 --> 1:01:15.960
<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, but she's like, I would do that, but

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like the girlfriend's personality the ex personality.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's mess. That's that's too many, that's mess. Don't

1:01:25.120 --> 1:01:27.240
<v Speaker 1>have the X around the note. That's mess already. But

1:01:27.320 --> 1:01:29.680
<v Speaker 1>as lesbians, you know we yeah, and I don't like

1:01:29.720 --> 1:01:31.400
<v Speaker 1>that because you don't know who's on the cycle and

1:01:31.440 --> 1:01:33.600
<v Speaker 1>then it could just go wrong. That's just too many

1:01:33.600 --> 1:01:37.240
<v Speaker 1>women's emotions. Yeah, that could go bad. That could go bad.

1:01:37.360 --> 1:01:40.240
<v Speaker 1>Three women and one is an ex. That's that's mess.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna agree with that at all. Give you

1:01:43.120 --> 1:01:45.000
<v Speaker 1>X far away from the note. That's what I believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>The great thing about being you know, gay or in

1:01:47.960 --> 1:01:52.400
<v Speaker 3>a lesbian is that we don't subscribe to heteronormative ideas.

1:01:52.400 --> 1:01:54.600
<v Speaker 3>And just because somebody is an ex, that doesn't mean

1:01:54.640 --> 1:01:58.160
<v Speaker 3>that they're you know, excommunicated from you completely.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my gay. I'm ex communicat at you completely. We're

1:02:01.120 --> 1:02:06.280
<v Speaker 1>not friends, girl, I didn't know you before we dated. Bye, Okay?

1:02:06.920 --> 1:02:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Is it messer? Just living?

1:02:08.240 --> 1:02:12.040
<v Speaker 4>If I choose to remain sexless because of how gross

1:02:12.080 --> 1:02:15.360
<v Speaker 4>the dating pool is ps, I'm forty.

1:02:15.320 --> 1:02:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Never married, no kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this justified?

1:02:18.600 --> 1:02:21.400
<v Speaker 5>Or am I missing out on some reckless fund.

1:02:21.680 --> 1:02:24.400
<v Speaker 1>You're definitely probably missling out on reckless fun. But I

1:02:24.440 --> 1:02:25.920
<v Speaker 1>feel like it is a lot of piss and the

1:02:26.000 --> 1:02:29.480
<v Speaker 1>dating pool, so you could be saving yourself some stress.

1:02:29.600 --> 1:02:32.640
<v Speaker 4>I agree, But also like saying that you're forty and

1:02:32.680 --> 1:02:34.480
<v Speaker 4>you don't have no kids and you've never been married.

1:02:34.560 --> 1:02:36.120
<v Speaker 4>I just I feel like you got so much more

1:02:36.240 --> 1:02:38.760
<v Speaker 4>life left to live. This is how you're trying to

1:02:38.760 --> 1:02:41.520
<v Speaker 4>live it. Yeah, take a little break, take a little breather.

1:02:41.720 --> 1:02:44.600
<v Speaker 4>Maybe did you dip your toe in a different dating pool? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>like the girls with the.

1:02:52.040 --> 1:03:01.840
<v Speaker 1>Kids? That's I have a seat at the table. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1:03:01.960 --> 1:03:03.000
<v Speaker 1>I definitely live a little.

1:03:03.160 --> 1:03:07.840
<v Speaker 4>I think it's mess to say you're done, but you

1:03:07.880 --> 1:03:09.439
<v Speaker 4>know it's living to take some time.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you have another one that you want to share

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<v Speaker 5>before we get out of here?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Is it mess?

1:03:14.920 --> 1:03:15.640
<v Speaker 2>Are just living?

1:03:16.080 --> 1:03:18.680
<v Speaker 3>He let me put her finger in his But I

1:03:18.720 --> 1:03:20.960
<v Speaker 3>don't know if I could come back from this.

1:03:22.960 --> 1:03:28.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say mess. I don't know what I'm gonna say, mess,

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<v Speaker 1>Just mess?

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<v Speaker 5>Why because you got them long ass?

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<v Speaker 6>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that would have worked for you. That's never happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do it. I'm leaving. Why is it mess?

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<v Speaker 1>She can't come back from it because she can't unseee that.

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<v Speaker 2>He asked her to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>She said she didn't say anything because she's just like

1:03:46.520 --> 1:03:49.280
<v Speaker 3>he let me so I think they were probably in

1:03:49.320 --> 1:03:51.720
<v Speaker 3>the motion or whatever she wanted to chest and she

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<v Speaker 3>just like probably put a little bit in there and

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<v Speaker 3>then kept going.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, all right, he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop her, and she was like, I can't what that's

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<v Speaker 1>what you're leting me do?

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<v Speaker 4>No, she went, She washed her hands as soon as

1:04:07.200 --> 1:04:09.240
<v Speaker 4>she got She left there and texted the.

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<v Speaker 5>Group chat like, let me tell you what he made

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<v Speaker 5>me do.

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<v Speaker 1>The finger emos you. They was like, what, there's a

1:04:15.240 --> 1:04:16.080
<v Speaker 1>finger on the poop.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you're stopping you being having that kind of

1:04:21.480 --> 1:04:24.880
<v Speaker 3>reaction is what's stopping men from behind?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what they actually like and what they want.

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<v Speaker 4>They say, that's where the mal g spot is is

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<v Speaker 4>in the butt. So if you're listening to this for

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<v Speaker 4>Pride this month, make sure you put your finger and

1:04:36.600 --> 1:04:39.479
<v Speaker 4>yeah for pride, and then who knows, maybe he'll cry

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<v Speaker 4>after he comes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yo. Spoken from a true straight woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she don't understand it's but also it's like hopefully

1:04:49.480 --> 1:04:52.880
<v Speaker 3>it's after a shower. Don't I want to ask her

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<v Speaker 3>was it after a shower? Because if if you just

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<v Speaker 3>went into a man's butt, just straight man, just oh

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<v Speaker 3>I don't Oh, we just trying this out.

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<v Speaker 1>No, prep uh. I think she come back from her

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<v Speaker 1>I would if I was saying, I'd be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, you just put your finger in.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's a good way. I would. I would. She

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<v Speaker 1>already had questions and she probably was like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try today, And when he let it happen, she probably

1:05:19.400 --> 1:05:21.600
<v Speaker 1>was like, hell, no, I'm out. I need to know

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<v Speaker 1>how deep send us a picture of your finger. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you go in or did you just tap it? Anybody home?

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<v Speaker 1>Knock knock, knocking on the devil dude.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this has been a factabulous toxic positive episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Very we learned. I learned what healthy means. And I

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<v Speaker 1>apologize if I offended anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know you did lies parents.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell everybody what you got coming up and where they

1:06:00.520 --> 1:06:01.200
<v Speaker 2>can find you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be in New York. You want the show City

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<v Speaker 1>Jones twentyeth, Chicago, Jones twenty sixth, Atlanta, Jones twenty seventh,

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<v Speaker 1>uh DC this weekend, So what is that? June sixth

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<v Speaker 1>through eighth, and then Fort Worth, Texas in.

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<v Speaker 5>July, and then where in the house in November?

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<v Speaker 1>November Me and my little it down and what's your Instagram?

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<v Speaker 1>At Paris? P A R. I. S. S. A s

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<v Speaker 1>h A Y. Yes, I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I sure my favorite toxic, not toxic, toxic. You're my

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<v Speaker 4>favorite fun toxic.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, And that's what I do it for.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw all of Marie's teeth this episode.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like hilarious talking to Paris.

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<v Speaker 3>We do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's all. We're cousins on our dad's side.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I see it. Paris famously Jamaican, Jamaica. And hey, guys, can.

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<v Speaker 1>You please keep leaving reviews? They're so good, even the

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<v Speaker 1>bad ones.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, review us, review us, review us.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave stars and.

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<v Speaker 2>Reviews, send if you want them. And oh yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>send us your.

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<v Speaker 4>Message all right anyway, Happy pride, Happy pride.

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<v Speaker 1>Go do something gay today? Yeah, gay today? When tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 1>And the Whole momth.

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<v Speaker 4>Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a production

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<v Speaker 4>by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio Podcasts. Created

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<v Speaker 4>and hosted by Sidney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced

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<v Speaker 4>by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by Becca Ramos,

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