Speaker 1: Oh you are listening to Mess. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello,
Speaker 1: We're back Mess. Yes, Oh my.
Speaker 2: God, I mean you're doing your hair.
Speaker 3: So I was like, yeah, you know, I feel like
Speaker 3: there's two types of Sydney. There's the sometimes people think
Speaker 3: I'm aloof or like I don't care or indifferent, and
Speaker 3: then there's the I'm putting on, you know, And so
Speaker 3: I wanted to start with the put on Sidney.
Speaker 2: I want to put on more because I could be
Speaker 2: very like, hey, what up niggas? You know, like I
Speaker 2: want to do more.
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever heard you say that.
Speaker 2: Friends, You've never heard me say that.
Speaker 1: Hey, what up niggas?
Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't say that the niggas part, but that
Speaker 3: that's my feeling, that's my energy.
Speaker 4: Aside, Well, when you feel like that, next time, say
Speaker 4: it so I can see which Sydney I'm what.
Speaker 2: You're dealing with. Yeah, okay, great, Well what niggas?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, We're back with another facts fabulous episode
Speaker 3: of Mess. I'm so excited for a guess. I'm so
Speaker 3: excited for a mess. What's our mess for the week?
Speaker 1: Marie? What you got? Bro?
Speaker 5: You see, I'm trying to fix my hand.
Speaker 3: I know I'm putting you on the spot. Let's go girl,
Speaker 3: you're better pressure.
Speaker 4: So I guess let's talk about my mess like this.
Speaker 4: So you know, it's a lot of girls listening to
Speaker 4: this episode. Yeah, And we all have our time of
Speaker 4: the month, you know, we get our stupid ass cycles
Speaker 4: and sometimes it's a blessing because they're like, whoo, I
Speaker 4: didn't want to be stuck with him anyway, mess.
Speaker 1: Or you know whatever.
Speaker 5: My period is always like late, it comes what it wants.
Speaker 4: It's like me so anyway from the unofficial expert days
Speaker 4: had gotten like like cups and yeah, so I had
Speaker 4: a dip a cup in and I had to adjust it.
Speaker 4: But I'm out in like a public place. I'm not
Speaker 4: I'm at the comedy seller with those nails, with.
Speaker 6: These with these nails, yeah right, honestly pumps in. Yeah,
Speaker 6: had the little nails on, and I'm in the bathroom
Speaker 6: trying to adjust it.
Speaker 4: It falls out lands in the toilet. It's a public restroom.
Speaker 4: I'm like, am I about.
Speaker 1: To put my hand in? You were not, Marie my hand.
Speaker 4: I don't even want to put my hand in my
Speaker 4: own toilet at the house that I know I cleaned,
Speaker 4: but I'm in the basement of the celler like, so
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, I get up like.
Speaker 5: To like turn around and to see automatic toilet.
Speaker 3: It gets flushed, so so wait you turn around, COUCHI
Speaker 3: out and deep in the toilet.
Speaker 5: COUCHI out, cup in the toilet. Now I got up.
Speaker 1: The toilet said.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, well, I guess the universe made
Speaker 3: that choice for me. I'm so glad because if you would, there's.
Speaker 1: No way you would.
Speaker 4: I don't think I would actually turn my hand, but
Speaker 4: I wanted to look at.
Speaker 5: It there say goodbye, bro.
Speaker 2: You don't drink off people.
Speaker 3: But then you were gonna put your hands in a
Speaker 3: in a community community pee and doodu.
Speaker 4: And I was thinking about and that's the main thing
Speaker 4: I'm thinking about, the doodo community.
Speaker 1: That's nasty.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean the universe said, no, that's mess.
Speaker 2: Get away, blessing.
Speaker 1: Luckily, I had tampons in my purse, so look at that.
Speaker 4: You know, if you stay ready, you ain't got to
Speaker 4: go ready spotting your pa.
Speaker 1: I would have been.
Speaker 4: Writing an uber too, like uh like sitting hunched.
Speaker 1: No, that's not true.
Speaker 4: I would have wadded up a bunch of tissue. It
Speaker 4: would have been like football size and I would have
Speaker 4: just put it in my panties, you know, like a
Speaker 4: like a teeten girl. But girl, and then I went out.
Speaker 4: Then I went to see you at that party, and
Speaker 4: then you had and then you had toilet paper all
Speaker 4: of them. Girl, I had, Okay, you had backup, I tramon.
Speaker 3: You're not like me because I even though I know
Speaker 3: I'm I have a period every month, for some reason,
Speaker 3: I just never have what I I'll be telling you like, oh,
Speaker 3: it's about to come, and then I'll be like, yo,
Speaker 3: you got a tampon later.
Speaker 1: And I'd be like, girl, yeah, and yo.
Speaker 3: I hate when you ask somebody for a tampon and
Speaker 3: they give you the bottom of the bag tampon that's
Speaker 3: like got lit and you don't even know if it's
Speaker 3: tampax or always or what faded.
Speaker 2: It's so fake.
Speaker 3: It's damn near open, might be a little bit, it's contaminated.
Speaker 3: It got a little bit of juicy fruit next to it.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't want it that it got off
Speaker 3: and marks on it.
Speaker 1: I say, yeah, no, no, no, no, that's for you emergency.
Speaker 1: That's what my emergency.
Speaker 4: What about when you ask somebody for a tampon and
Speaker 4: they give you the one that's in like the cardboard applicated.
Speaker 4: I don't want to I don't want that nineteen ninety nine. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't do well with the cardboard. I'll do it,
Speaker 4: but not not if it's been at.
Speaker 2: The bottom of your mark by Mark Jacob's bag.
Speaker 5: No thank oh girl. Yeah, anyway, that's my mess.
Speaker 4: I truly was hovering over this toilet seat, like am
Speaker 4: I really.
Speaker 1: In this water? A Foston would never.
Speaker 4: Foston would never because truly my nails wouldn't have been
Speaker 4: able to break into the water.
Speaker 3: Like if you would have did that, I'd be like,
Speaker 3: there's no way you can't drink off me now, sis,
Speaker 3: I don't even like what you're giving right now.
Speaker 1: Mess. It is mess. It is mess. Anyway.
Speaker 4: They should really put like a like a string around
Speaker 4: them that you put around your wrist, you know, like.
Speaker 5: When kids have mittens so they don't lose their mittens.
Speaker 4: They should be a string for the cup that goes
Speaker 4: around your wrist, so when you go to take it out,
Speaker 4: it's around your wrist.
Speaker 1: It's not gonna go in the toilet.
Speaker 3: It's just not doable for when you're outside. I think
Speaker 3: a Diva cup is for when you're at a house.
Speaker 3: I was home anyway.
Speaker 1: Rest in peace to that Diva cup.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess we just gotta get every day. We
Speaker 3: got to get sponsored by some more Diva cups because
Speaker 3: now you don't have one.
Speaker 4: Well I do have one, but it's a little one.
Speaker 4: Like this was a big cup. This was a tea cup.
Speaker 4: The one that I have now.
Speaker 1: Is like, what's going on?
Speaker 3: You're talking about what kind of what you're working with
Speaker 3: down there? It's not about what I'm working You got
Speaker 3: size eight. First of all, you was a six. Now
Speaker 3: you a medium, and you don't medium.
Speaker 1: Squeeze it you put it in.
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't do it. I don't even get down
Speaker 3: with it. I don't even because I know it's not
Speaker 3: gonna feel right. And then I'm not gonna walk right.
Speaker 3: And you could just my face is gonna give something
Speaker 3: that's in me and I don't like it.
Speaker 2: If it don't feel right, it's not in right.
Speaker 1: M Well, Siddy, what is your mess? My mess? Wait?
Speaker 2: Did I tell you guys about someone used my card?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Let's talk about your card?
Speaker 3: Oh bitch, this is crazy. I couldn't even believe this
Speaker 3: type of situation happened to me. But someone tried to
Speaker 3: use my card to sign up for an AARP membership. Bitch,
Speaker 3: are you crazy? Are you insane? And thank God, thank
Speaker 3: God for Bank of America.
Speaker 1: This ah.
Speaker 4: We know our sins had had a big birthday, but
Speaker 4: it wasn't that big.
Speaker 1: And they alerted me immediately.
Speaker 3: They were like, somebody just try to use for ARP
Speaker 3: membership and I said, you know what, they can always
Speaker 3: give my good money. Because they said no, no, no, no no,
Speaker 3: And at first I thought it was a mistake. But AARP, AARP,
Speaker 3: I want to know what, oh fluozy was trying to.
Speaker 2: Scam with my information.
Speaker 3: Now I have to call them, and you know, I
Speaker 3: hate calling the operator because you know they're not even
Speaker 3: in the States.
Speaker 2: They somewhere else.
Speaker 3: And it'll be on a hold for mad long. But
Speaker 3: this person was definitely in the States because of the name.
Speaker 3: His name was Alfredo. I said, Alfredo. He said, yes,
Speaker 3: Alfredo could be from elsewhere. No's it sounded like a
Speaker 3: New Yorker. But his name was Alfredo. Okay, it was
Speaker 3: given like Italian, but in Long Island or whatever. He said,
Speaker 3: So what can I do for you, Miss Washington? Thank you, miss,
Speaker 3: Thank you for calling me miss.
Speaker 2: And not ma'am. I said, somebody try to use my
Speaker 2: card for AARP.
Speaker 1: I would never.
Speaker 3: I would never even if I needed AARP. I'm not
Speaker 3: signing up for.
Speaker 1: That, bitch. No.
Speaker 2: And he said, well, when's the last time you had
Speaker 2: your card?
Speaker 3: I said, the physical, Yes, the physical, the physical, the
Speaker 3: physical car the actual card in hand and like on
Speaker 3: me in my possession. Yeah, oh, about three years ago, sir,
Speaker 3: about three years girl.
Speaker 2: It could be anywhere, it could be.
Speaker 3: Where in the world is Sydney's David carrds, Yes exactly.
Speaker 3: He said, okay, well, let me run back some of
Speaker 3: your charges, your recent charges. One was like for like
Speaker 3: two hundred and some dollars on Amazon. I said, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's me. Then another, then another large purchase from Amazon.
Speaker 3: I said yeah, yeah, no, that that's me as well.
Speaker 3: And then he said ARP. I said, no, that's not me.
Speaker 3: He said, but the two hundred and something, that's the
Speaker 3: two back to back Amazon's that's you. I said, yes, sir,
Speaker 3: that was me. He said at three point thirty am.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: They can see when they they could see when it
Speaker 3: was used. Yeah, But I was like no, I said,
Speaker 3: why don't y'all alert me about that ship. I wish
Speaker 3: I would get more alert when I'm making bad purchases. Yea,
Speaker 3: the purchases like you need to wait for the day.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Why are you doing this
Speaker 3: late at now?
Speaker 2: I'm a little bit shocked here. Why did you say that?
Speaker 1: Was you?
Speaker 4: I would have been like, what, I don't even have
Speaker 4: Amazon in my house? That because amazing, amazing. No, I
Speaker 4: don't how you spell that.
Speaker 1: No, No, that's that can't be me.
Speaker 2: I forget that. I'm also sitting next to a scammer.
Speaker 1: I forgot.
Speaker 2: Allegedly some of my best friends are scammers.
Speaker 1: You don't scammer shades?
Speaker 3: What are you talking about? The scammer shoes are not
Speaker 3: the scammer shape. These are like hy two K like
Speaker 3: you know, step up to these people, people.
Speaker 1: Who do scams on a sidekick? Where these what?
Speaker 2: No, these these par in Paris Hilton stunts.
Speaker 1: And she is a skimmer, a rich skimmer.
Speaker 3: So that was my So now I had to, you know,
Speaker 3: get a new card. Card is still not here. I
Speaker 3: still don't have a physical card, so I have to
Speaker 3: use a digital card.
Speaker 2: And every time I have to I use it.
Speaker 3: I have to plug in the new like, uh, what
Speaker 3: are the security code?
Speaker 2: Because they change it every time you It's just a mess.
Speaker 3: This is why people just like either go broke or homeless,
Speaker 3: because they're like, oh, I got to call another person,
Speaker 3: or I got to turn another thing in or I
Speaker 3: gotta you know what, fuck it. I'm not just just
Speaker 3: cancel the whole card and I'm just gonna lay here
Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna pay nothing no more. I'm not
Speaker 3: gonna pay rent. I'm not gonna pay phone bill, phone
Speaker 3: bill because I don't have that information.
Speaker 5: What's the digital card? It's not you talk about apple bag.
Speaker 4: Yes, you gotta enter the thing anytime you try to
Speaker 4: pay with the oh go, you could change that setting
Speaker 4: on your phone.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, okay, well thank you.
Speaker 2: Well that was our mess.
Speaker 3: Let's bring in our fact tabulous guests for this evening.
Speaker 3: I mean, we've been trying so hard to get her
Speaker 3: in in the stud she's just so busy.
Speaker 1: Booked a far away. But I'm here now, friends.
Speaker 3: Parents is here, Paris Elizabeth Sae, Paris Davante Swang Sashet.
Speaker 1: I like that one even more that first of all,
Speaker 1: Paris Pride.
Speaker 2: Happy Pride, sid oh, I didn't even mention anything about pride.
Speaker 1: Hello, you're not as gay as you think you are,
Speaker 1: she said, She said, do you need some water? No ding?
Speaker 1: Black History Months. Soon as you see a black person,
Speaker 1: what you say? Happy Black History Months said, you ain't
Speaker 1: say nothing. He's like earlier, what up? Niggas like that?
Speaker 2: What? What in the hoots hoots magie is happening right now?
Speaker 1: I don't know who's but happy pride? Bitch?
Speaker 2: What do you think about both of our messes so far?
Speaker 1: I think Marie was right. You were supposed to say.
Speaker 1: None of that was you. I don't believe you was
Speaker 1: agreeing twice right. I feel like he asked you the
Speaker 1: second time to even help you. So that was you,
Speaker 1: and you was like, yeah, you're supposed to be like
Speaker 1: no love of the old bitches. Yeah yeah, deny, deny, deny.
Speaker 3: But the crazy thing is it's gonna like it's going
Speaker 3: to be my address.
Speaker 1: We're not worrying about right now. But all of it
Speaker 1: falls under the scams. Okay, yeah, they stole the card
Speaker 1: from the building that you live. You haven't had the
Speaker 1: card in three years.
Speaker 3: They don't know, You're right, I'm an honest person. That's
Speaker 3: the problem is I don't lie.
Speaker 1: Honesty is mess It is mess. Lie a little bit.
Speaker 1: I mean I learned.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna learn from the best over here. Lie a
Speaker 3: little bit. That's the Oh. Someone said that they don't
Speaker 3: like when I say that should be the title. So
Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna say that today.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we'll write it down.
Speaker 2: Write it down.
Speaker 5: That's the title. Since not saying the title no more, they're.
Speaker 1: Not saying the title anymore? About it? What you're here
Speaker 1: to talk about? Are you having a good week a
Speaker 1: messy week? Like, let's talk. Well, it's pride, that's pride.
Speaker 1: But you know what the thing is, Like, Pride is cool,
Speaker 1: but I feel like Pride is just too gay. Mmm.
Speaker 1: It's just a bunch of gay at the same time
Speaker 1: in the same place. It's like a lot. Now, what's
Speaker 1: how what's too much gay?
Speaker 2: I'm shaking my head.
Speaker 1: In the Pride like the straight clubs. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: they better, but it's like less touching women think that
Speaker 1: even though you're just like a woman, nigga, just still
Speaker 1: touch you beyond being gay. It's like no rules in
Speaker 1: the Pride club touching and humping and freaking and kissing.
Speaker 1: It's just like, oh, I feel like something's getting created
Speaker 1: in here that I don't want to be a part of.
Speaker 2: What clubs are these?
Speaker 1: The gay clubs? Can you name the ones that they
Speaker 1: are talking? The name is at all different stuffs every
Speaker 1: time I go everywhere. Every time I go to a club,
Speaker 1: they're very respectful to me. What gay clubs are you
Speaker 1: going to? Are you wearing a blazer?
Speaker 3: I've gone to Bush, I'm going to Henrietta's.
Speaker 1: Nobody's bothering. No, No, not even at.
Speaker 2: Bush, Not even at Bush.
Speaker 3: I mean one time a girl tried to buy me
Speaker 3: a drink. But that one time. You see how I
Speaker 3: can say on my hands. She asked me I don't drink,
Speaker 3: and she said, oh, too bad, and that's it. She
Speaker 3: didn't even say, hey, do you want water or clepsoda
Speaker 3: or I want a ginger beer?
Speaker 1: You can say, hey, do you hey, you want to drink?
Speaker 1: I don't drink?
Speaker 2: Okay, bye, hey do you want to drink?
Speaker 1: I'll take a ginger beer? Like this, I think you
Speaker 1: know what I think it is, Sidney. I think you
Speaker 1: got the good gay. Oh you got like the girl
Speaker 1: girl gay. I got the haircut. So they think like
Speaker 1: I just want to just be horny all the time.
Speaker 1: It's called fem.
Speaker 3: I don't want to call it girl good.
Speaker 1: It's not girl, it's it's girl good. Yeah, it's girl good.
Speaker 1: It's levels to film. So I feel like it's girl
Speaker 1: gay film.
Speaker 2: What's the levels? Can you please explain to us the.
Speaker 1: Levels of film?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't know all of them, but I feel like
Speaker 1: it's like stub fems now, so they like they masking,
Speaker 1: but they still make up and get their hair them.
Speaker 1: That's you, that's not me. I'm a tomboy. Oh where
Speaker 1: I don't want tomboy. It's a tea. They just took
Speaker 1: our letter, so there's no tea in the alphabets for tomboys.
Speaker 1: The more they took it and gave it to trance,
Speaker 1: so now we don't have a letter, I wouldn't say
Speaker 1: they took it. I don't think he hasn't sitting when
Speaker 1: you was ever tomboy in there, when we was young,
Speaker 1: it was way more tomboy talk. You don't think so,
Speaker 1: first of all, a girl that didn't like wearing dresses
Speaker 1: and like was really like active. Well, how old are
Speaker 1: both of you, ladies? You don't remember tomboy. You don't
Speaker 1: remember tom Thank you. Everybody knows except Sydney because you're
Speaker 1: not really gay. I told you got to do your research.
Speaker 1: I'm playing plying, Sydney. I'll be proud.
Speaker 2: I'm too stunned to speak.
Speaker 1: The game. Was too stunned to speak, she was. I'm joking.
Speaker 1: But I think tom Boy used to be like talking
Speaker 1: about more.
Speaker 3: I do believe that it must talk about more, but
Speaker 3: it was not changed for trans I just want you.
Speaker 1: What's the new tomboy? What's the what's the what's the
Speaker 1: term for tomboy?
Speaker 2: Isn't a sexuality? That's the way like you're that's a style.
Speaker 1: Okay, So what's the new word for if you're a tomboy?
Speaker 1: What label do you fall under? A guys girl?
Speaker 2: A guys girl, Yeah, that's a girl that drinks beer.
Speaker 1: I've never drunk beer in my life. Yeah, me neither.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. So okay, So I think we learned in
Speaker 1: a lot of them.
Speaker 3: Okay, So you're so you're you're a tomboy, but you're
Speaker 3: also a lesbian.
Speaker 2: Is that correct?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: Okay, So what makes you different than the rest of
Speaker 3: the gays that are in the club.
Speaker 1: I don't know, because I feel like if you're not
Speaker 1: having this experience, then this is just my experience. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but this is what happens when I go
Speaker 1: to gay club. So I don't like to be again.
Speaker 2: What what fragrances are you wearing?
Speaker 4: Because maybe the pheromones is attracting the people to touching
Speaker 4: your duty body.
Speaker 1: Wearing a lot of.
Speaker 3: Leather, You got these glasses, your titties, I mean it
Speaker 3: might be the titties Ferris. Yes, and let's let's let's
Speaker 3: look at Exhibit A. This is not what she's wearing
Speaker 3: at the club.
Speaker 1: So what am I wearing at the club? Oh?
Speaker 2: I will make sure to put in the dump all of.
Speaker 1: The v's you down to your belly. But but I'm
Speaker 1: not wearing those in the club all the time because
Speaker 1: that is a tension. So what happens when I wear
Speaker 1: T shirts? What T shirts you'd be wearing?
Speaker 4: Said? Be saying Paris on the back, be saying I'm
Speaker 4: picky with my game sometimes sometimes.
Speaker 2: Can you give me an example of how they're touching you? Here?
Speaker 3: Here is this is this is you how they touching
Speaker 3: Show me what they're doing.
Speaker 1: A girl just walked up to me, in the club,
Speaker 1: dove and touched my head. She rubbed her hand across
Speaker 1: my head. That's the waves was spinning. She was ready
Speaker 1: to draw. I mean, people, this doesn't mean that you
Speaker 1: should be touching people. If it was the straight club,
Speaker 1: you are not letting men touch you. So I think
Speaker 1: it should be the same rooms women.
Speaker 2: If I even straight club, this is the men.
Speaker 1: Well maybe it's you, Sidney. I think you look straightened.
Speaker 1: You look the titties against not it's the waste.
Speaker 3: They're literally putting their their penis in the crack of
Speaker 3: everybody's crevices when they're in a packed packed They they
Speaker 3: don't do that to you.
Speaker 1: No, it's the haircut. So we both have a problem
Speaker 1: in the game.
Speaker 2: We're just two girls in two different clubs.
Speaker 3: That's it, going through the same thing, the same two girls,
Speaker 3: one bush.
Speaker 5: So what is your mess? What are we here to talk.
Speaker 1: About to break down the pride? I think they also
Speaker 1: let too many people be gay. What do you think
Speaker 1: about that's in it? You think there should be a
Speaker 1: limit on. I think it should be a limit, and
Speaker 1: I feel like like it should be like an interview process. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's talk.
Speaker 5: I would like to be gay who do I talk to?
Speaker 1: Stop not even listening to this? I want to know?
Speaker 1: And that's how I think people are acting. I think
Speaker 1: they just waking up like I would like to be gay,
Speaker 1: and they just letting them be gay. You don't even
Speaker 1: have to do the gay activity to be gay anymore,
Speaker 1: you know what?
Speaker 3: What about minding your fucking business? I don't want to
Speaker 3: know about what everybody's doing.
Speaker 1: I don't care.
Speaker 2: I honestly don't care.
Speaker 3: I think that's the problem is that everybody is now
Speaker 3: in everybody's business, and so now we think that we
Speaker 3: more people will be like, oh, I'm gay.
Speaker 2: It's just we're in more people's business.
Speaker 3: People are online all day talking about what they are,
Speaker 3: who they are, what they're doing.
Speaker 1: What don't is they have to do with them being
Speaker 1: gay but not being gay?
Speaker 3: I think people are just talking about what they are
Speaker 3: more and putting us in their business. And it's like,
Speaker 3: I actually don't want, I don't care, I don't need
Speaker 3: to know.
Speaker 4: Okay, But what if it's people who are saying they're
Speaker 4: gay and they're new to it, and they're all on
Speaker 4: the apps, clogging up the lines, the gay prayer line,
Speaker 4: they're at the club with y'all. Just like, I'm gay now,
Speaker 4: so I'm here taking up space. You don't think that
Speaker 4: that could be a problem for people actually gay.
Speaker 1: I feel like I put in the work to be gay, Sidney,
Speaker 1: do you feel like you put in the work back
Speaker 1: in the day it was harder to be gay. Now
Speaker 1: it's just easy to be gay.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I came out and it was pretty smooth.
Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna lie.
Speaker 3: It was like low key, like c section vibes, like
Speaker 3: I'm out.
Speaker 1: What year.
Speaker 4: Was the year?
Speaker 3: It was a good time, Like nobody cares no. I
Speaker 3: told my friends that I was gay, and they was like,
Speaker 3: do you need money? That's like that's all they were like,
Speaker 3: we don't care that you're gay. You just can't be
Speaker 3: broken gay, like you just you gotta get your money
Speaker 3: up if you're gonna be.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not what the B stands for. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So Also, I feel like I got into a relationship
Speaker 3: and it was just like all right, hey, like I
Speaker 3: moved in with her immediately.
Speaker 1: You relationship gay.
Speaker 3: I moved in and then we got cats. It was like, boy,
Speaker 3: I like if we had like a card, a punch card,
Speaker 3: I'm hitting everything off.
Speaker 1: You know, So when did you first tell somebody you
Speaker 1: was gay?
Speaker 4: Me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, wherever? How old you were? I believe I was
Speaker 1: like twenty eight, twenty eight? Yeah, okay, what.
Speaker 2: Are you doing? What are you fucking doing? Are you
Speaker 2: trying to do?
Speaker 1: Mathew your head? You know, it looked like that means
Speaker 1: where you're like trying to put I was like, that's
Speaker 1: adult gay. No, that's like grown gay. So what does
Speaker 1: that mean? It doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 3: I was just like, okay, okay, the first person I like,
Speaker 3: I kissed a girl when I was young, sure, and
Speaker 3: I was like nine, but I didn't think gay at
Speaker 3: that time, so I didn't realize.
Speaker 2: I didn't circle back until later on in life.
Speaker 1: Okay, years later.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but did you come out the wound with this haircut?
Speaker 1: Like what? I feel like I should have because I
Speaker 1: think I was pretty gay in elementary school, so you
Speaker 1: knew right away? Yeah, I think like elementary school. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you know? I feel like because you have
Speaker 1: an attraction to women more than the attraction to men.
Speaker 1: So I just like to be around the girls and
Speaker 1: I was touchy and I was like, yes, yes, the
Speaker 1: young lady you were. Now it was touching tops the
Speaker 1: tea can be expanded. You're right, you know what. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I take it back. I take my letter.
Speaker 2: We're just sharing it. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Okay, that could be gone, that could be a thing.
Speaker 1: But you used to date guys, you yeah, But so
Speaker 1: like I feel like, like for how middle school it
Speaker 1: was like girls, and then I got to like the
Speaker 1: eighth grade, ninth grade, and I had boyfriends. But I
Speaker 1: think they knew I was gay too. We were just
Speaker 1: having fun because they knew. I accidentally cheated a couple
Speaker 1: of times with women, a couple of times with women.
Speaker 1: It's just always been an attraction to women. So I
Speaker 1: think I just knew, like emotional, even when I dated men,
Speaker 1: I didn't have any emotional connection with men. Well, they
Speaker 1: don't really have any emotions exactly, so that's how I
Speaker 1: know I didn't really like them. I'm attracted to women.
Speaker 3: Emotionally, emotion I agree with that, and I think that
Speaker 3: that's the the issue with the labeling was like gay,
Speaker 3: straight queer all that it's like I am a lesbian
Speaker 3: at heart. Yes, I double backed and hooked up with dudes,
Speaker 3: but I am not bisexual because I don't that was
Speaker 3: a moment.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 1: So when you did that, how did you feel? Because
Speaker 1: I've been trying to do it. I've been trying to
Speaker 1: do myself. I haven't done it. She did it. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I feel like I'm too gay. Every
Speaker 1: time I get close, I get pulled back. How did
Speaker 1: you actually make the leap? I need the confidence? How
Speaker 1: did you like? What did you tell yourself? Well?
Speaker 3: I was pretty much unhoused, so that that opened me
Speaker 3: up to the same just susceptible to anything bad on
Speaker 3: a house.
Speaker 2: That's what the beast stood for me.
Speaker 1: Bad man. Yeah, okay, so we can really just expand
Speaker 1: the alphabets when everybody can finish.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I was in a bad place.
Speaker 3: That's what made me be just toy with the idea
Speaker 3: of being with God, the idea just hooking it, not
Speaker 3: really falling, not falling for them. But like Marie, how
Speaker 3: was I when I was with these with these guys?
Speaker 2: It was embarrassing?
Speaker 1: It was well, she was embarrassed.
Speaker 4: She was embarrassing, and she was acting different than she
Speaker 4: usually act.
Speaker 2: I showed her text message. She's like, Sidney, you don't write.
Speaker 4: That, you know, but I mean, but Sidney, I also
Speaker 4: feel like you're such a relationship person that you don't
Speaker 4: even really know how single people talk.
Speaker 2: Because even but you understand what I'm saying, like even.
Speaker 4: Like should have getting deeper flirting, flirting with a woman
Speaker 4: that you like was like girl, why would you say?
Speaker 1: Why would you say? Okay, I could agree with her
Speaker 1: on that park So I'm gonna text you show me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, Sidney, what do you Why are you writing this?
Speaker 1: But okay, you know what's mess?
Speaker 3: The whole like trying to court somebody, get somebody like
Speaker 3: that is mess because if you if you want me
Speaker 3: as me, why.
Speaker 2: Can't I text like this? This is how I text?
Speaker 5: Well how did them? How did those responses go for you?
Speaker 1: Not good?
Speaker 3: But whatever this is, then they're not for me. They're
Speaker 3: not for me, I mean because you're not them now.
Speaker 3: So I agree with you on that.
Speaker 4: But you're Sidney, you are a relationship oriented person.
Speaker 3: That's why I belong with women, because women are relationship orients.
Speaker 3: And when I tell them my feelings, they don't run away,
Speaker 3: except you know, one particular person that you know kind
Speaker 3: of wasted my time, and you know, then let me
Speaker 3: take them to an expensive dinner to let me know
Speaker 3: a girlfriend, like, yeah.
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm men do. They're wasteful oftentimes. You
Speaker 1: think women are wasteful sometimes And because you did that
Speaker 1: and she was allowed to do that, then when she
Speaker 1: date me, I will block her to get paid back
Speaker 1: for you. Prus yes, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: many of them I like that that's wrong. But they
Speaker 1: know they can take advantage of certain people. And then
Speaker 1: they run into me and it's like, I know what
Speaker 1: you did, and you get them last summer tonight, smer,
Speaker 1: You're want to think about all of the stuff that
Speaker 1: you did wrong when you feel this pain. So I
Speaker 1: probably got paid back for you.
Speaker 3: But Paris, you're actually the mess because you are saying
Speaker 3: with me toxic.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, healthy, toxic though, that's what toxic.
Speaker 4: Fun all the kids is like, you know, divorce, single
Speaker 4: dad y toxic absolutely, Like I love these kids, but
Speaker 4: they gonna eat frozen dinners.
Speaker 1: Exactly because I gotta go on the boat with the Really,
Speaker 1: that's how you that's how you would describe yourself. Well
Speaker 1: with the women. Okay, I've gotten better, I will say that.
Speaker 1: How how yeah, what I stopped dating so.
Speaker 2: Many women, so the roster went from twelve to ten.
Speaker 3: Hey, we need a team, and I do agree with
Speaker 3: that because we do be putting our eggs all in
Speaker 3: one basket. And if you got that basket from I
Speaker 3: don't know, the ninety nine cents store, it's gonna be
Speaker 3: you might as well get a better basket, get.
Speaker 1: Better eggs, better, better ingredients. Yeah, pass basket.
Speaker 6: Yo.
Speaker 4: So parents, you're dating less women, sow who how do
Speaker 4: you decide who doesn't make the cut?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 1: You know what? I think I might like settle down.
Speaker 1: Like at the end of this year selling ship bullshit.
Speaker 4: You've been saying two things consistently. Believe one, I'm going
Speaker 4: back to.
Speaker 1: Dick yep, And I tried. As soon as men talk,
Speaker 1: I'm turned off. It's not my fault. They got to
Speaker 1: stop talking. Then you say, oh, I might settle down. Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm serious this time, and I've been talking about it.
Speaker 1: That's how I'm serious. Gay is a mess.
Speaker 2: They letting too many people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm the set it down. So then
Speaker 1: I have to be on the side.
Speaker 2: Are you You are mess?
Speaker 1: I'm bipoula and bisexual, so it's deeper than that.
Speaker 5: You not bisexual?
Speaker 1: No, here I do. I don't hate them. I hate
Speaker 1: when they talk I like sex with men, but I
Speaker 1: have you liked sex with men? Just start? But I
Speaker 1: don't do it. I don't like that.
Speaker 2: Now, how do we get like them?
Speaker 1: How do we get you to have sex with a man?
Speaker 1: Having sex with Yeah, but I don't like them. How
Speaker 1: means Sidney got crazy about this? Sydney actually went and
Speaker 1: had sex with this with men and I didn't even
Speaker 1: do what. I just said I like it. And this
Speaker 1: is the face of a woman who did it. But
Speaker 1: at one point she also liked having sex with men.
Speaker 1: That's and she's really acting out like this. Look at
Speaker 1: this a woman who got it and is embarrassed. And
Speaker 1: I'm the problem. So they come to the some of
Speaker 1: this gallon of water that you got on the table. No,
Speaker 1: we was waiting for you to come back. Guess what.
Speaker 1: We're trying to figure out how you upset when you
Speaker 1: actually did the activity and I just thought about it
Speaker 1: good But I didn't even I just thought about it.
Speaker 1: How am I a problem? This is crazy?
Speaker 2: Say that you like having sex with if you.
Speaker 1: Don't need to do it. The only reason that I
Speaker 1: were it was ever attracted to them was because of sex.
Speaker 1: But I don't like them.
Speaker 2: When's the last time you had sex with the man?
Speaker 1: Way before you I want to say, maybe like over,
Speaker 1: I didn't know were counting. We're keeping score over eight years.
Speaker 1: It was way before my relationships, so you don't even know.
Speaker 1: Before na Ne sex came.
Speaker 4: Yeah, if Rihanna drops a new album, you have to
Speaker 4: have sex with at.
Speaker 1: Least, well I got time because she's not dropping music.
Speaker 1: I don't know, she murs, we don't. We're not doing
Speaker 1: animated a real song. No. I oh wow, I'm going to.
Speaker 1: I think I am going to settle down like November.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. You need saying this during Pride
Speaker 1: that I'll settle down. Yeah, I really like this woman.
Speaker 1: Oh and I really like the woman. I never said
Speaker 1: that on air. I really you.
Speaker 2: Don't say nothing about no particular woman.
Speaker 4: You said, I'm I'm I'm whittling down the roster.
Speaker 1: I really like this woman.
Speaker 3: This is good because you know what, we're putting this
Speaker 3: out right away, so by the time you change your mind,
Speaker 3: it will already be out.
Speaker 1: She already knows this.
Speaker 2: She knows that you really like her, she knows you're
Speaker 2: doing the pod, she knows what I'm doing everything. Okay,
Speaker 2: you know everything.
Speaker 1: I like her.
Speaker 2: She a manager?
Speaker 1: What's going on? Hilarious? No, she's not a manager. She's
Speaker 1: a beautiful girl.
Speaker 3: I showed you I said she's not a manager.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a visual learner. If it's if it's
Speaker 1: a thing, I will settle down. By November, I will.
Speaker 2: Cool something to be thankful for. Paris off the streets.
Speaker 1: I think that's a good thing too. Honestly, I thought
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 3: I honestly would love to see your content switch.
Speaker 2: You know this sh not switching?
Speaker 1: This shift online baby, the name things I am am.
Speaker 2: I'm ready for you to make a shift.
Speaker 1: Would you want me to post Sidney? I mean, if
Speaker 1: your happiness. I really think she's a cutie. Yeah, she's cute.
Speaker 1: It's very cute.
Speaker 3: She's traveling. Yeah, good body, she knows how to post well.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: The body is yeah. The bodies, Oh, she's gorgeous. What
Speaker 3: y'all talk about?
Speaker 1: Though, no offense.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that she is not a talker. I'm
Speaker 3: just wondering where y'all have in comment good, good brows,
Speaker 3: good edges. It's very good body, good body.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking about a lot of things.
Speaker 1: Give us two things that y'all talk about will she
Speaker 1: be celebrating Black history? Wanted to, Ah, we know what
Speaker 1: you know, guys out, Because here's the thing. If I
Speaker 1: say something crazy, No, I'm not answering that question. And
Speaker 1: that's for us something that you know why. There's a
Speaker 1: reason I'm not going to say it but right then
Speaker 1: and there, because it's gonna sound crazy later.
Speaker 2: You've said so many other things.
Speaker 1: No, I can't say that because it's like a it's
Speaker 1: a So I don't want to say that, but it's
Speaker 1: like a it depends now. Hey, hey, hey, I think
Speaker 1: I'm happy. I'm right, I'm right, this is this is
Speaker 1: somebody else? Hey, No, I never I'm no longer answering question.
Speaker 2: This is nice.
Speaker 1: I actually like that one more. I do.
Speaker 2: Well, that's because you'll be with you black History months.
Speaker 2: But that's no here, no there.
Speaker 1: It's great. Everybody will be there.
Speaker 5: Everybody's gonna be there, So how are you settling down?
Speaker 1: Made the best queen one? We got two more seasons?
Speaker 1: Who is next out in six? What girl next out
Speaker 1: in six? Person in the sixth? That made it?
Speaker 4: That's like crazy When you said I really like this girl?
Speaker 1: Who was you talking about them? Okay?
Speaker 2: Also they are they them?
Speaker 1: There you go?
Speaker 3: I like that plan very you to explain to us
Speaker 3: when what are the like, how do you know you
Speaker 3: like someone? And what do you do when you're liking someone?
Speaker 3: Because the difference, I feel like people don't understand what
Speaker 3: it is to like to love, to be interested, but
Speaker 3: also not like someone like there's variations of it.
Speaker 1: Okay, so but not like that person. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm done with that. I feel like when I
Speaker 1: really like a woman, it's a lot of time spent
Speaker 1: and a lot of planning, listening to what she likes
Speaker 1: and things like that. If I don't like them, it's
Speaker 1: just like what it is. It could be a one
Speaker 1: nighter and that could be the end if I want
Speaker 1: only then I feel like we're playing in trips like
Speaker 1: we were going out of town. We spend the time,
Speaker 1: iris we always bring this back. You took a trip
Speaker 1: with somebody a little while back and post photos. I'll
Speaker 1: be having a lot of a lot of it's the same.
Speaker 1: It's the same photo, the one the one I wear.
Speaker 4: Yes, y'all wear power sailing or whatever, para shooting and
Speaker 4: you posted in emoji on her face. That's right, so
Speaker 4: you said you only take PRIs if you like them.
Speaker 1: She flew me out, then you got flute out, persolute
Speaker 1: out a lot of times. Okay, So it's not the haircut,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So if it's the titty, and
Speaker 1: that's how you know that I like you, because then
Speaker 1: I'm doing the flying. I will never.
Speaker 4: And I'm saying this on the record, I think that
Speaker 4: I will never fly a man out anywhere.
Speaker 1: But you shouldn't fly a man. It's a man. You
Speaker 1: should not absolutely got long knees, big feet. I want
Speaker 1: to see you.
Speaker 3: I can't wait to just love hits you all over
Speaker 3: your head. I just can't because I want to see
Speaker 3: what you are going to do and what you're capable of,
Speaker 3: because it's a lot of I ain't doing that.
Speaker 1: But why City, Why would I fly? I wouldn't want
Speaker 1: you to do that.
Speaker 2: I would I would be worried for you.
Speaker 1: I would worry. I'm like, are you all right?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Blank twice, bitch, hilarious girl anyway, Yeah, no, City, I'm
Speaker 4: with you on that.
Speaker 5: I too would like to see what me in love
Speaker 5: looks like.
Speaker 4: But the other part of me is also terrified of
Speaker 4: what that could be because I feel like it's gonna
Speaker 4: turn me crazy, really, even if it's healthy.
Speaker 1: Find a healthy yes? Oh what a question? So Okay,
Speaker 1: So first of all, I feel like you know what
Speaker 1: you want in the person before you meet the person.
Speaker 1: You know who you are and what you're willing to
Speaker 1: settle for and the things you're not. So the healthiness
Speaker 1: would be I think, receiving everything that you want and
Speaker 1: possibly more him paying attention, listening and he's showing you
Speaker 1: that he listening because he's doing things that you said
Speaker 1: there wasn't recent. It's all green flags, no red flags,
Speaker 1: nothing that's making you question anything. Healthy, good communication. So
Speaker 1: if you have a problem, y'all discuss it and it's
Speaker 1: clear and you walk away feeling like you don't have
Speaker 1: any worries. There's no trust that you like, did he
Speaker 1: lie or none of that time spent? And then I
Speaker 1: think from there, I guess it would depend on what
Speaker 1: y'all both into, but I feel like that would be
Speaker 1: the core of it, like a strong friendship, so you
Speaker 1: could know that you can trust him and letting him
Speaker 1: lead to be the man that you hopefully trust him
Speaker 1: to be. Okay, so you do know what health he means?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, but what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Are you doing one? I like a woman, so you're
Speaker 1: unhealthy for everybody else. I don't think I'm unhealthy. I
Speaker 1: just think I'm a good time that will end before
Speaker 1: you know it.
Speaker 3: I think that you or a good gas lighter. I
Speaker 3: feel like you're good at it. I could just a
Speaker 3: gas light. I feel like you gas like well, I
Speaker 3: don't like.
Speaker 1: Words like that's anything negative. I can't believe you with
Speaker 1: I think when people throw those words out, I think
Speaker 1: it's because they're trying to send them. So I send
Speaker 1: them back because I think it's a lie.
Speaker 7: Hey, maybe you didn't order it, Maybe you didn't order
Speaker 7: her to Hey listen, So when's the last time you've
Speaker 7: been in like a healthy situation.
Speaker 1: I think this is a healthy situation. I think before this,
Speaker 1: I was in a healthy situation. And I think the
Speaker 1: woman just was a liar. And it's like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: liked women before this, but they were like secret whorees
Speaker 1: or you don't realize the label is.
Speaker 2: A strong word.
Speaker 1: Why why horror Becuz it's like if you do something horrish,
Speaker 1: I can't unsee that. Can you explain, well, what this
Speaker 1: woman did? A period? Just me? I know, that I
Speaker 1: don't look like I have feelings or I don't feel them.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I do. I feel so much
Speaker 1: so that if you do something wrong, I can't unfeel it.
Speaker 1: Even if I tell myself that it didn't happen, I
Speaker 1: still felt it. So there's no way that I cannot
Speaker 1: feel it. So now I don't respect you, and I
Speaker 1: can't be with you if I don't respect you, because
Speaker 1: it's not gonna work.
Speaker 2: I need an example, because you're saying.
Speaker 1: I like this woman a lot, and this woman like
Speaker 1: she disappeared in the middle of a conversation that wasn't
Speaker 1: really a setup for her to disappear like it was
Speaker 1: clear that she was doing something she shouldn't have been doing,
Speaker 1: and then when she reappeared, it was just a bunch
Speaker 1: of like, I'm doing this, I'm doing this, I'm doing
Speaker 1: this to push off what she did to make it
Speaker 1: look like I was the bad guy. Now, how you hm?
Speaker 1: Because I know her? So women don't realize. When you
Speaker 1: date them long enough, you learn patterns. So when you, yeah,
Speaker 1: when you slip up, it's like, oh, you're doing that thing.
Speaker 1: You told me that previously you was doing things like this,
Speaker 1: So now you just did this tattern and you just
Speaker 1: slipped up, but you don't even know because you're thinking
Speaker 1: that I'm so in love I'm blind, but it's like, baby,
Speaker 1: I can see. I just got my glasses low. You
Speaker 1: know when they say I ain't sleep my eyes is closed.
Speaker 1: But I seen you. So it was like that. So
Speaker 1: then I had to unfeel how I felt about you,
Speaker 1: because it's like, I'm not going to let you play me.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. So you so you thought that she was
Speaker 1: doing what she was and then later it came out
Speaker 1: she was doing exactly I felt it. I feel like,
Speaker 1: if you feel something, it's beyond you thinking that. If
Speaker 1: you feel something, say something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also want to let y'all know who
Speaker 3: are just like, I got an intuition. No, it's hennessy.
Speaker 3: You're drinking hennessy. That is not the same. It's into it.
Speaker 3: Because sometimes people just be getting lit and being like, oh,
Speaker 3: that person is doing and it's like, no, you're just.
Speaker 1: But you're working yourself up, That's what I'm saying. You're
Speaker 1: not feeling that, you're thinking that when they do that,
Speaker 1: the liquor is making you think that, right, you didn't
Speaker 1: feel it. I felt it. Okay, So that's why that
Speaker 1: woman case closed. That woman got dropped. But now I
Speaker 1: do like this woman. I do every time I see her.
Speaker 1: I make sure she got fresh flowers. She like flowers,
Speaker 1: you know a woman likes I like. I really go
Speaker 1: pick out good flowers.
Speaker 2: Flowers and what else?
Speaker 1: What else do I do? What have I done? We've
Speaker 1: gone to the movies, We've gone to dinner. She travels
Speaker 1: a lot, so we actually haven't seen each other in
Speaker 1: a while. But we're about to. Now where you are
Speaker 1: going when I see her? Yeah, it's only for a
Speaker 1: short period, so we're going to the movies and maybe dinner.
Speaker 1: Then I got a flyer, okay, and then when I
Speaker 1: come back, she's gonna come to show. She actually, you know,
Speaker 1: I know I like this lady. She was in public
Speaker 1: at a show and we was whole hands. I don't
Speaker 1: hold that wild has fallen. That's right. Every pimp must
Speaker 1: fall one day holding holding hands. Ain't know what's good
Speaker 1: about this. When it's come out, it'll be two shows.
Speaker 1: We on the something we are.
Speaker 4: I don't really like holding hands, you know, I link arms, Okay, I.
Speaker 1: Think see when you mean, I think you're gonna you're
Speaker 1: gonna when he make you fall, whose hand? I want
Speaker 1: to hold it? That's what it is that I think
Speaker 1: that's what it is.
Speaker 4: I think seen he's gonna have the same reaction if
Speaker 4: she sees me holding somebody holding no.
Speaker 1: I want this woman the wall. She's got it. But
Speaker 1: she's a Libra. I feel like it's in her. She
Speaker 1: just gotta really trust it. I don't think these guys
Speaker 1: are making her feel safe with letting them lead that much.
Speaker 1: Preach doctor umark.
Speaker 2: Come on, man, nice, I love it. You're really standing
Speaker 2: on it. Whatever soapbox you want to know, it's lifted.
Speaker 1: I think black women are the best, and people just
Speaker 1: don't know how to deal with them, so they just
Speaker 1: go elsewhere, and then when they do meet them, they fail,
Speaker 1: they fall short. And I don't even think Marie is
Speaker 1: making it hard for these guys. I don't think I
Speaker 1: am either. I don't think she is. I don't think
Speaker 1: I'm making it hard for them. I think she's just
Speaker 1: not making it easy and they used to easy.
Speaker 2: Thank you Paris for seeing Marie.
Speaker 1: You do one on one? Do you know her? Do
Speaker 1: you women? Readings? Okay? Marie?
Speaker 3: So okay, hold on because this week I want to
Speaker 3: talk about the.
Speaker 1: Gay Okay, I feel like you say it.
Speaker 3: A lot online about gay. Ill, what's the problem. Like
Speaker 3: you're flourishing right now.
Speaker 1: I am, But I feel like it's just overcrowded. It
Speaker 1: wasn't gay wasn't always this overcrowded. I feel like like women,
Speaker 1: no judgment, but a little bit. Women with five kids
Speaker 1: should not be able to be lesbians. I think they
Speaker 1: should get their application blocked. There's too many to come
Speaker 1: and be a lesbian. No why you could be bisexual,
Speaker 1: but I don't think you should be able to be
Speaker 1: a lesbian. Five kids.
Speaker 4: Now, how many women that are calling themselves lesbians have
Speaker 4: five kids.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of women with kids. You'd be surprised.
Speaker 2: Too many apps you're on, you got to shut down.
Speaker 1: It's on TikTok. You can just go on TikTok right now.
Speaker 1: And there's so many of them. It's your algo friend.
Speaker 3: Are the ones that's in your because I don't know
Speaker 3: these people, I've never seen it because.
Speaker 1: You be in relationships. That's I'm telling you. I'm outside.
Speaker 1: I got to experience this close the door. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying to them. You need to.
Speaker 2: Be in the streets because you gotta stay in the house.
Speaker 1: I think once I get in a relationship, then I
Speaker 1: won't care about it. I think I only care because
Speaker 1: I'm out here. I didn't know this was going on
Speaker 1: because I was in a relationship.
Speaker 3: Or do you think that you date a lot? When
Speaker 3: have you had a break? No dating them? Talking to women?
Speaker 1: Nothing a lot? When Sidney, you will be a surprised
Speaker 1: how much I don't date. And I don't know. We're
Speaker 1: asking the top of the year, I went on a
Speaker 1: self journey for two months. I didn't talk to a
Speaker 1: woman at all. So January and February was the February
Speaker 1: and March I didn't talk to any woman.
Speaker 2: Would you do with your time?
Speaker 1: I was reading books, I was going to church more,
Speaker 1: I was praying I would walker, I was working out.
Speaker 1: I really had to get my mind clear. And then I.
Speaker 2: Started again your top toxic self.
Speaker 1: No, so I can stay bar because I think I
Speaker 1: was just doing too much and I just had to
Speaker 1: sit down. I took it too far and I caught
Speaker 1: myself being too toxic, and I said, you gotta take
Speaker 1: a break. Yeah, I fake cried, and I said, this
Speaker 1: is we've gone too far.
Speaker 2: Cried, you peel the glasses off and you put your
Speaker 2: hands in the snow.
Speaker 1: It was the top of the morning. I look this
Speaker 1: woman in her eye and the water came.
Speaker 2: Really you sure you didn't just come because sometimes you come?
Speaker 1: It was no, it was tears when I never came.
Speaker 1: That's having me sex? What tap is? Where were you
Speaker 1: at that? Yeah? Oh, Mauri, I think we broke it out, Marie,
Speaker 1: we broke and wen't problem we have sex? You always
Speaker 1: like that from the record? Strike that from the record.
Speaker 1: I didn't need to know that, Mecca.
Speaker 5: Elmo Paris.
Speaker 1: Did you hear it? Almost? No? I don't know about sex.
Speaker 1: Is that I want to know I never had that.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying y'all broken.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I like, you know, I would like
Speaker 3: to see you soft.
Speaker 1: I'm really solved when I like a woman was in it.
Speaker 2: I don't like the way you said that, because like.
Speaker 1: Because you're looking at me over the glens to I
Speaker 1: would like to.
Speaker 4: See you Literally was like, I would like to see
Speaker 4: you soft, And I was like, that's a weird thing
Speaker 4: to say.
Speaker 1: I want to see you soft looking stay hard, so
Speaker 1: make it soft? No?
Speaker 3: I mean you how many relationships have you been in
Speaker 3: was a girl?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Publicly yes, one, just one, just one. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you. That's why you think you
Speaker 1: haven't seen me solved. You haven't seen it with one woman.
Speaker 2: Well, I met the woman that you were you were publicly.
Speaker 1: I think I was pretty solved during those times.
Speaker 3: You were you were and then you were like never again.
Speaker 3: I honestly think everybody needs to stop posting whoever they're with.
Speaker 2: That's that's done.
Speaker 1: No, No, I'm never I won't post the next girl.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what gender you are. You they're all embarrassing.
Speaker 3: So it doesn't matter woman. Man, they you can get embarrassed.
Speaker 3: So I think moving forward, I will. I haven't posted somebody,
Speaker 3: and you know, I don't think I'm gonna do that
Speaker 3: because it's it's nobody's business. People know I'm in a relationship,
Speaker 3: but it's like, I don't need to be posting that
Speaker 3: stuff because who is it for? The people who I'm
Speaker 3: with know that I'm with this person. I agree, some
Speaker 3: random person that listens to the podcast shouldn't be able
Speaker 3: to spot my girl out at a fucking costa.
Speaker 1: That's weird.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sure, looked.
Speaker 1: For failure.
Speaker 2: Was making her cry thy.
Speaker 1: Hilarious.
Speaker 3: What can you what can you do better to help
Speaker 3: the community, because you have to be the example that
Speaker 3: you want to see.
Speaker 1: I think when I settle down, then I'll be an example. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm saying no, no, yeah right now. The work can
Speaker 1: I do to help the community get better? Yes, I
Speaker 1: think I do my part. I think I make gay
Speaker 1: people feel like they can just be free and be
Speaker 1: who they are with no judgment. I think I do
Speaker 1: too many of these real gays, not not the friends.
Speaker 1: When I talk to gay people about this, they agree.
Speaker 1: They agree that it's too many gay people. It's this
Speaker 1: new gay is just too different.
Speaker 4: It is there is a new breed, a new breed
Speaker 4: of gays, like she doesn't I agree.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 2: I'm listening to my very straight friends.
Speaker 4: I feel like it's a I feel like it's a
Speaker 4: lot of women, specifically, I can't speak for the men.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a lot of women who.
Speaker 4: Have just like hit a wall because they've dated men
Speaker 4: their whole lives, or they married men or whatever whatever,
Speaker 4: and they just hit a place where they're like, actually,
Speaker 4: I don't want to do this anymore, and they see
Speaker 4: I don't know women loving on other women or women
Speaker 4: taking their time to like ask you how you're doing
Speaker 4: and bring you flat, like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: And I think Sydney and I feel like you even
Speaker 4: know some of these people. We're not gonna name no names,
Speaker 4: but like I feel like, now more than ever.
Speaker 1: It's the gayest.
Speaker 2: This is the gayest.
Speaker 1: Time it's ever been. God bless.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying that there is a new I mean,
Speaker 4: all the kids is gay, all jealousy is gay. But
Speaker 4: millennials and maybe some ex I don't know, I'll hang
Speaker 4: out with them, you know, they go to bed when
Speaker 4: I come outside. I feel like millennials now more than ever,
Speaker 4: is like trying to explore their sexual and I understand
Speaker 4: as a full time lesbian looking at people like this,
Speaker 4: like but.
Speaker 1: You not really.
Speaker 2: I used to say that I used to be on
Speaker 2: I used to be on the pairs tip like.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're not really like being But then it's like
Speaker 3: I actually had to, you know, jude yourself off and
Speaker 3: try again. And then I and I even was vocal
Speaker 3: about this, you know voyage that I took down to
Speaker 3: the to the bedrock of the bedrock, that's.
Speaker 2: What I call it. And you know, I got a
Speaker 2: lot of backlash.
Speaker 3: They were pretty mean in the in the d m
Speaker 3: s and just and in public, like you think it's funny,
Speaker 3: it's not funny, and it's like, but.
Speaker 1: This is this is funny. She slipped up that, yeah,
Speaker 1: that they were judging.
Speaker 3: This is why they don't respect lesbians and they don't
Speaker 3: believe us. And I was like, hey, my situation does
Speaker 3: not present all of them, and any man that thinks
Speaker 3: that my representation is everybody.
Speaker 2: Then he didn't believe it.
Speaker 3: No matter what my words or my action is not
Speaker 3: dictating the whole group of lesbian You know, he's an idiot.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and they always are. They always are.
Speaker 3: This woman wrote to me so many you're not a lesbian,
Speaker 3: You're not a lesbid. I would have blocked your not
Speaker 3: a lesbian? How dare you? You're a dick sucking piece
Speaker 3: of ship.
Speaker 1: And you don't want me to kick him out the
Speaker 1: group before they even slip up, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: These are you know, these are the They got a van.
Speaker 1: Full of kids and I was supposed to date this
Speaker 1: lady all you did was slip on one time and
Speaker 1: you're a dick. It was more than one.
Speaker 3: But yeah, on your side, right right, No you you
Speaker 3: don't speak your truth, sister.
Speaker 1: You're right.
Speaker 4: Kids not you pulling up in a to the date
Speaker 4: with Paris is Kate Kate plus eight is like now
Speaker 4: now I'm the LGBT.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not doing it. It's the studs that's taking
Speaker 1: care of them. That's the problem. The studs take care
Speaker 1: of them and then they leave them, and they leave
Speaker 1: them in the world for somebody else to come. And
Speaker 1: they think they're gonna follow up with the stud and
Speaker 1: it's like nobody else is doing that. You gotta go
Speaker 1: back to that lady, to the lady that dad. Where's
Speaker 1: the dad? Dad is gone? And so am I? Me
Speaker 1: and the dad same guy.
Speaker 5: I'm not the dad that stepped up or the dad
Speaker 5: neither one.
Speaker 3: Now, there was this crazy phenomenon. I think, like I
Speaker 3: don't know, maybe six months ago about bisexual studs.
Speaker 2: Do you think that's the thing.
Speaker 1: That is a real thing? See, when it comes down
Speaker 1: to that, I feel like they just chose a label,
Speaker 1: but they really shouldn't have chose it because they just
Speaker 1: want to be bisexual, but they're just the stud. So
Speaker 1: they just putting the bisexual in front of it because
Speaker 1: they're doing what they want. I don't know. I think
Speaker 1: if I was a stud, I wouldn't by social but
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: So there's a there's there's a stud and they say
Speaker 3: they sneak dicken, that's what it is.
Speaker 1: Sneak dickens sneak.
Speaker 5: There's your algo, yes, your algorithm.
Speaker 1: Yes, you're the kids, because that's not on mine.
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, I'm never saying.
Speaker 7: What is it?
Speaker 3: Just they're going out on the low and they're hooking
Speaker 3: up with with men with the briefs on. Yes, and
Speaker 3: they're wearing the it's because they both have do rags
Speaker 3: on and ye they.
Speaker 1: Put up like what's up my boy?
Speaker 3: They that before they do it, let's get it in. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they're playing little Uzzi the whole time.
Speaker 1: Whoa, this is what you want? This is what you want.
Speaker 5: Sliding to the side is crazy.
Speaker 3: I can't even visually think about it, but yeah, you
Speaker 3: can see it.
Speaker 1: But that's the thing.
Speaker 3: It's like, I think we should also kind of move
Speaker 3: away from labels too, because like, once you do it,
Speaker 3: then that's what you are.
Speaker 1: And people don't leave room for growth.
Speaker 3: Or maybe oh, you know, I had a revelation, or
Speaker 3: oh let me, let me, let me see. Maybe if
Speaker 3: you've been doing something for ten years, I think you
Speaker 3: should go back and go out and see. Am I
Speaker 3: really dedicated? Or maybe I'm just content and I just content.
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm just used to Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 1: See that's why I think I just want to stay
Speaker 1: at tomboy, Okay, because I don't want to fall in
Speaker 1: none of the because then you can't come out of it.
Speaker 1: You can't stood tell me that because she was a stud,
Speaker 1: she couldn't be sasy sassy. Yeah, what do you like?
Speaker 1: But you're still a girl, she said she couldn't be
Speaker 1: a sassy studstead Yeah, what.
Speaker 4: What qualities or characteristics do you have to have in
Speaker 4: order to be considered You're not a study.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I feel like studs take care of women.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. We're going half and half. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do my part and you're gonna also do yours.
Speaker 1: We're partners. I'm not taking care of I need to know.
Speaker 5: Okay, for the listeners for Pride, please tell us what
Speaker 5: a study is.
Speaker 1: I should have put us up then I'm not a stub,
Speaker 1: but because like the studs are, you're basically agreeing to
Speaker 1: be the main version of all the time across the board.
Speaker 2: So, Sidney, what do you think a study is?
Speaker 3: I think it's a it's a it's usually a black
Speaker 3: woman or a POC.
Speaker 1: That oh stud White women can be studs.
Speaker 2: No, but.
Speaker 3: They've also gentrified stud I do not believe the beige
Speaker 3: brigade can be studs.
Speaker 2: That's not is but yes, yep.
Speaker 3: But I don't want to say that studs want to
Speaker 3: be a man, because that would fall under the lines
Speaker 3: of France. I think studs have masculine presenting, like looks
Speaker 3: and maybe mannerisms, maybe have a heteronormative idea of like, well,
Speaker 3: I'm the man, you're the one, like I'm gonna like
Speaker 3: you said, take care, you're my woman, I'm the stud men,
Speaker 3: I'm the studman, I'm the.
Speaker 1: It's just all these all these terms is wild.
Speaker 3: There's too many for me. But you don't you don't
Speaker 3: you want to go fifty to fifty.
Speaker 1: Lipstick. I get my nails and I did all of
Speaker 1: this before I was gay. So I feel like the stud.
Speaker 1: I can't be a stud. I'm masculine, but I'm not
Speaker 1: a stud. I think it's the difference.
Speaker 2: So you don't want you don't want to take care.
Speaker 1: I'm going to take care of her, but she also
Speaker 1: got to help. If you want to retire for life
Speaker 1: and purr, step up and be your boyfriend. But I'm
Speaker 1: not a boyfriend. No, And I think a stud sometimes
Speaker 1: is a boyfriend. They don't want to be a man,
Speaker 1: but they're a boyfriend friend. Yes, you get it. We
Speaker 1: look at that. I'll be pride.
Speaker 3: Okay, we're putting it together, each one, teach one here
Speaker 3: in the in the States, Paris.
Speaker 4: Is there anything that you feel like we need anything
Speaker 4: else you think that we need to know about being
Speaker 4: a lesbian? That is mess that you think we need
Speaker 4: to touch on, And it's okay.
Speaker 3: Also, it's okay if you're not attracted to women. You know,
Speaker 3: it's okay if you're not, it's okay to not be
Speaker 3: a lesbian you mean attracted to women.
Speaker 1: You know. I'm not talking about you.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, you know, sometimes people will be like, ooh,
Speaker 3: why don't Marie this.
Speaker 1: I'm like, because she doesn't want to. She wanted to.
Speaker 1: She would like let people be who they want to be.
Speaker 4: Oh, listen, I'll post things post like i'llfit picks or whatever,
Speaker 4: and people be like, you sure you're not gay?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 4: Yes, and as her bestie, yes, positively without a doubt.
Speaker 1: I'm sure, and that's good. I don't. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't think. No, there's nobody. If you're gay, you'll know,
Speaker 1: you'll fulller. Do I have anything else for the gays?
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. For the lesbian's name, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Do what you want, sure, be happy, there you go.
Speaker 1: I want people to be happy. I just do.
Speaker 3: And I think people get so caught up in what
Speaker 3: other people think and what other people are doing. That's
Speaker 3: what's messing updating and sexuality.
Speaker 1: I just feel like because they overpopulated, and that's why
Speaker 1: it's taking people so long to find their person. That's
Speaker 1: the only reason I have a problem with it, because
Speaker 1: I feel like people getting in the way of people
Speaker 1: finding they real gay so made.
Speaker 3: But also you gotta also, you gotta play many games
Speaker 3: to get to the championship.
Speaker 1: Honey, that's true. But you know it's a whole thing
Speaker 1: on TikTok where studs saying that they tie to dating
Speaker 1: straight women because they dating straight women, and then the
Speaker 1: women are going back to the men. They're not really gay.
Speaker 1: I've heard how's that? So they're intercept and that stuff
Speaker 1: could have found the lady or her dreams. But she
Speaker 1: found this straight woman who left her, got some money
Speaker 1: for the kids, went back to the day, and now
Speaker 1: why shene the kids? Stud of hurt. Now she gotta
Speaker 1: be a dog.
Speaker 2: This sounds like Maury, This feels like all Mary.
Speaker 4: But I also will say I feel like there are
Speaker 4: some studs who relish in the challenge of being with
Speaker 4: a straight woman.
Speaker 1: They they it's like they're trying.
Speaker 4: To turn I'm not saying all of them, but there
Speaker 4: are some trying to coming at them with a van
Speaker 4: full of kids, and you're like, well, clearly this lady
Speaker 4: is not gay, but she's here now and I can
Speaker 4: change her right, And it's.
Speaker 1: Like, why would you do that? That's some sense I
Speaker 1: don't know. Be happy, everybody, Just be happy. Do what
Speaker 1: you love, do what feels good, do who you love,
Speaker 1: do who you love, explore until you fine, don't put
Speaker 1: all your eggs in one basket. Just date, and so
Speaker 1: you find a person you truly like, Hello, well, Paris,
Speaker 1: let we got some messages for you.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna read them and like I'll read up. We'll
Speaker 4: read a couple and you tell us if it's messy.
Speaker 1: Or just living cool.
Speaker 4: So basically told me her bestie used to scam dudes
Speaker 4: by telling them she was pregnant and needed abortion money.
Speaker 4: She did this until a guy told her he was
Speaker 4: or thought he was infertile and that this child could
Speaker 4: be his miracle baby. I don't can't read what this is.
Speaker 4: Is that messy or just living?
Speaker 1: I think that's I think it's just living. Sometimes sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta give back on these men. I think it's
Speaker 1: just living. She needed the money, she needed, No all
Speaker 1: the time she had to get back. I think she
Speaker 1: was just living. You got to get these men how
Speaker 1: you can. It's not always easy. So she's like, look,
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, and who wants a baby? None of them,
Speaker 1: So it's like, here go the money. Think like it
Speaker 1: was she was living. Depending on how old she was,
Speaker 1: it could have been mess I think she was. Yes.
Speaker 3: I think the age does matter because I pulled a
Speaker 3: stunt like that when I was, you know, in college.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: And you know, it's a young girls game.
Speaker 3: I've said it before, I've said it out loud and
Speaker 3: people gashed like, oh my god, I can't believe you
Speaker 3: did that. You know, like told one of them, told
Speaker 3: both of them. One of them gave me half the money.
Speaker 3: I got an iPod nano after and then gave it
Speaker 3: to the other guy. That was like, I'm not giving
Speaker 3: you anything. It was just it was embarrassing. But uh,
Speaker 3: so you say, that's just living?
Speaker 2: Okay? Is it mess or just living?
Speaker 3: My girlfriend mentioned that in quotation this summer could be
Speaker 3: the summer week all hang out together, referring to her
Speaker 3: ex who she shares two dogs, a house, in a
Speaker 3: car with. I'll be down, but I don't like her
Speaker 3: as a person. Mess or just living?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Say the second so.
Speaker 3: The person is saying, my girlfriend, it's like, I think
Speaker 3: this is something we could all hang out together, meaning
Speaker 3: the girlfriend that she has also has an ex. They
Speaker 3: that they share, uh, two dogs, a house and at
Speaker 3: a little fellowship.
Speaker 1: Oka.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, but she's like, I would do that, but
Speaker 3: I don't like the girlfriend's personality the ex personality.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's mess. That's that's too many, that's mess. Don't
Speaker 1: have the X around the note. That's mess already. But
Speaker 1: as lesbians, you know we yeah, and I don't like
Speaker 1: that because you don't know who's on the cycle and
Speaker 1: then it could just go wrong. That's just too many
Speaker 1: women's emotions. Yeah, that could go bad. That could go bad.
Speaker 1: Three women and one is an ex. That's that's mess.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna agree with that at all. Give you
Speaker 1: X far away from the note. That's what I believe.
Speaker 1: I thought.
Speaker 3: The great thing about being you know, gay or in
Speaker 3: a lesbian is that we don't subscribe to heteronormative ideas.
Speaker 3: And just because somebody is an ex, that doesn't mean
Speaker 3: that they're you know, excommunicated from you completely.
Speaker 1: That's my gay. I'm ex communicat at you completely. We're
Speaker 1: not friends, girl, I didn't know you before we dated. Bye, Okay?
Speaker 1: Is it messer? Just living?
Speaker 4: If I choose to remain sexless because of how gross
Speaker 4: the dating pool is ps, I'm forty.
Speaker 2: Never married, no kids.
Speaker 1: Is this justified?
Speaker 5: Or am I missing out on some reckless fund.
Speaker 1: You're definitely probably missling out on reckless fun. But I
Speaker 1: feel like it is a lot of piss and the
Speaker 1: dating pool, so you could be saving yourself some stress.
Speaker 4: I agree, But also like saying that you're forty and
Speaker 4: you don't have no kids and you've never been married.
Speaker 4: I just I feel like you got so much more
Speaker 4: life left to live. This is how you're trying to
Speaker 4: live it. Yeah, take a little break, take a little breather.
Speaker 4: Maybe did you dip your toe in a different dating pool? Yeah,
Speaker 4: like the girls with the.
Speaker 1: Kids? That's I have a seat at the table. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I definitely live a little.
Speaker 4: I think it's mess to say you're done, but you
Speaker 4: know it's living to take some time.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you have another one that you want to share
Speaker 5: before we get out of here?
Speaker 1: Yes? Is it mess?
Speaker 2: Are just living?
Speaker 3: He let me put her finger in his But I
Speaker 3: don't know if I could come back from this.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say mess. I don't know what I'm gonna say, mess,
Speaker 1: Just mess?
Speaker 5: Why because you got them long ass?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 2: Yeah that would have worked for you. That's never happened.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. I'm leaving. Why is it mess?
Speaker 1: She can't come back from it because she can't unseee that.
Speaker 2: He asked her to do it.
Speaker 3: She said she didn't say anything because she's just like
Speaker 3: he let me so I think they were probably in
Speaker 3: the motion or whatever she wanted to chest and she
Speaker 3: just like probably put a little bit in there and
Speaker 3: then kept going.
Speaker 2: He's like, all right, he didn't.
Speaker 1: Stop her, and she was like, I can't what that's
Speaker 1: what you're leting me do?
Speaker 4: No, she went, She washed her hands as soon as
Speaker 4: she got She left there and texted the.
Speaker 5: Group chat like, let me tell you what he made
Speaker 5: me do.
Speaker 1: The finger emos you. They was like, what, there's a
Speaker 1: finger on the poop.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're stopping you being having that kind of
Speaker 3: reaction is what's stopping men from behind?
Speaker 2: Yeah, what they actually like and what they want.
Speaker 4: They say, that's where the mal g spot is is
Speaker 4: in the butt. So if you're listening to this for
Speaker 4: Pride this month, make sure you put your finger and
Speaker 4: yeah for pride, and then who knows, maybe he'll cry
Speaker 4: after he comes.
Speaker 1: Yo. Spoken from a true straight woman.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she don't understand it's but also it's like hopefully
Speaker 3: it's after a shower. Don't I want to ask her
Speaker 3: was it after a shower? Because if if you just
Speaker 3: went into a man's butt, just straight man, just oh
Speaker 3: I don't Oh, we just trying this out.
Speaker 1: No, prep uh. I think she come back from her
Speaker 1: I would if I was saying, I'd be.
Speaker 2: Like, you just put your finger in.
Speaker 1: But that's a good way. I would. I would. She
Speaker 1: already had questions and she probably was like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: try today, And when he let it happen, she probably
Speaker 1: was like, hell, no, I'm out. I need to know
Speaker 1: how deep send us a picture of your finger. Did
Speaker 1: you go in or did you just tap it? Anybody home?
Speaker 1: Knock knock, knocking on the devil dude.
Speaker 3: Okay, this has been a factabulous toxic positive episode.
Speaker 1: Very we learned. I learned what healthy means. And I
Speaker 1: apologize if I offended anyone.
Speaker 3: I didn't know you did lies parents.
Speaker 2: Tell everybody what you got coming up and where they
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Speaker 1: I'll be in New York. You want the show City
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Speaker 5: July, and then where in the house in November?
Speaker 1: November Me and my little it down and what's your Instagram?
Speaker 1: At Paris? P A R. I. S. S. A s
Speaker 1: h A Y. Yes, I love it.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 4: I sure my favorite toxic, not toxic, toxic. You're my
Speaker 4: favorite fun toxic.
Speaker 1: That's right, And that's what I do it for.
Speaker 2: I saw all of Marie's teeth this episode.
Speaker 4: She's like hilarious talking to Paris.
Speaker 3: We do that.
Speaker 1: That's that's all. We're cousins on our dad's side.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I see it. Paris famously Jamaican, Jamaica. And hey, guys, can.
Speaker 1: You please keep leaving reviews? They're so good, even the
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Speaker 2: Yeah, review us, review us, review us.
Speaker 1: Leave stars and.
Speaker 2: Reviews, send if you want them. And oh yeah, and
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Speaker 4: Message all right anyway, Happy pride, Happy pride.
Speaker 1: Go do something gay today? Yeah, gay today? When tomorrow?
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