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Speaker 1: Oh you are listening to Mess. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: We're back Mess. Yes, Oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, I mean you're doing your hair.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, yeah, you know, I feel like

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Speaker 3: there's two types of Sydney. There's the sometimes people think

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Speaker 3: I'm aloof or like I don't care or indifferent, and

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Speaker 3: then there's the I'm putting on, you know, And so

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Speaker 3: I wanted to start with the put on Sidney.

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Speaker 2: I want to put on more because I could be

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Speaker 2: very like, hey, what up niggas? You know, like I

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Speaker 2: want to do more.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever heard you say that.

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Speaker 2: Friends, You've never heard me say that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, what up niggas?

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Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't say that the niggas part, but that

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Speaker 3: that's my feeling, that's my energy.

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Speaker 4: Aside, Well, when you feel like that, next time, say

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Speaker 4: it so I can see which Sydney I'm what.

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Speaker 2: You're dealing with. Yeah, okay, great, Well what niggas?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, We're back with another facts fabulous episode

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Speaker 3: of Mess. I'm so excited for a guess. I'm so

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Speaker 3: excited for a mess. What's our mess for the week?

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Speaker 1: Marie? What you got? Bro?

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Speaker 5: You see, I'm trying to fix my hand.

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Speaker 3: I know I'm putting you on the spot. Let's go girl,

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Speaker 3: you're better pressure.

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Speaker 4: So I guess let's talk about my mess like this.

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Speaker 4: So you know, it's a lot of girls listening to

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Speaker 4: this episode. Yeah, And we all have our time of

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Speaker 4: the month, you know, we get our stupid ass cycles

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Speaker 4: and sometimes it's a blessing because they're like, whoo, I

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Speaker 4: didn't want to be stuck with him anyway, mess.

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Speaker 1: Or you know whatever.

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Speaker 5: My period is always like late, it comes what it wants.

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Speaker 4: It's like me so anyway from the unofficial expert days

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Speaker 4: had gotten like like cups and yeah, so I had

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Speaker 4: a dip a cup in and I had to adjust it.

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Speaker 4: But I'm out in like a public place. I'm not

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Speaker 4: I'm at the comedy seller with those nails, with.

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Speaker 6: These with these nails, yeah right, honestly pumps in. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: had the little nails on, and I'm in the bathroom

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Speaker 4: It falls out lands in the toilet. It's a public restroom.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, am I about.

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Speaker 1: To put my hand in? You were not, Marie my hand.

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Speaker 4: I don't even want to put my hand in my

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Speaker 4: but I'm in the basement of the celler like, so

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, I get up like.

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Speaker 5: To like turn around and to see automatic toilet.

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Speaker 3: It gets flushed, so so wait you turn around, COUCHI

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Speaker 3: out and deep in the toilet.

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Speaker 5: COUCHI out, cup in the toilet. Now I got up.

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Speaker 1: The toilet said.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, well, I guess the universe made

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Speaker 3: that choice for me. I'm so glad because if you would, there's.

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Speaker 1: No way you would.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I would actually turn my hand, but

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Speaker 4: I wanted to look at.

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Speaker 5: It there say goodbye, bro.

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Speaker 2: You don't drink off people.

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Speaker 3: But then you were gonna put your hands in a

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Speaker 3: in a community community pee and doodu.

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Speaker 4: And I was thinking about and that's the main thing

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Speaker 4: I'm thinking about, the doodo community.

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Speaker 1: That's nasty.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean the universe said, no, that's mess.

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Speaker 2: Get away, blessing.

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Speaker 1: Luckily, I had tampons in my purse, so look at that.

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Speaker 4: You know, if you stay ready, you ain't got to

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Speaker 4: go ready spotting your pa.

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Speaker 1: I would have been.

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Speaker 4: Writing an uber too, like uh like sitting hunched.

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Speaker 1: No, that's not true.

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Speaker 4: I would have wadded up a bunch of tissue. It

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Speaker 4: would have been like football size and I would have

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Speaker 4: just put it in my panties, you know, like a

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Speaker 4: like a teeten girl. But girl, and then I went out.

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Speaker 4: Then I went to see you at that party, and

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Speaker 4: then you had and then you had toilet paper all

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Speaker 4: of them. Girl, I had, Okay, you had backup, I tramon.

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Speaker 3: You're not like me because I even though I know

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Speaker 3: I'm I have a period every month, for some reason,

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Speaker 3: I just never have what I I'll be telling you like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's about to come, and then I'll be like, yo,

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Speaker 3: you got a tampon later.

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Speaker 1: And I'd be like, girl, yeah, and yo.

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Speaker 3: I hate when you ask somebody for a tampon and

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Speaker 3: they give you the bottom of the bag tampon that's

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Speaker 3: like got lit and you don't even know if it's

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Speaker 3: tampax or always or what faded.

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Speaker 2: It's so fake.

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Speaker 3: It's damn near open, might be a little bit, it's contaminated.

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Speaker 3: It got a little bit of juicy fruit next to it.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't want it that it got off

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Speaker 3: and marks on it.

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Speaker 1: I say, yeah, no, no, no, no, that's for you emergency.

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Speaker 1: That's what my emergency.

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Speaker 4: What about when you ask somebody for a tampon and

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Speaker 4: they give you the one that's in like the cardboard applicated.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to I don't want that nineteen ninety nine. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't do well with the cardboard. I'll do it,

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Speaker 4: but not not if it's been at.

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Speaker 2: The bottom of your mark by Mark Jacob's bag.

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Speaker 5: No thank oh girl. Yeah, anyway, that's my mess.

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Speaker 4: I truly was hovering over this toilet seat, like am

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Speaker 4: I really.

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Speaker 1: In this water? A Foston would never.

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Speaker 4: Foston would never because truly my nails wouldn't have been

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Speaker 4: able to break into the water.

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Speaker 3: Like if you would have did that, I'd be like,

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Speaker 3: there's no way you can't drink off me now, sis,

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Speaker 3: I don't even like what you're giving right now.

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Speaker 1: Mess. It is mess. It is mess. Anyway.

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Speaker 4: They should really put like a like a string around

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Speaker 5: When kids have mittens so they don't lose their mittens.

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Speaker 4: They should be a string for the cup that goes

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Speaker 4: around your wrist, so when you go to take it out,

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Speaker 4: it's around your wrist.

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Speaker 1: It's not gonna go in the toilet.

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Speaker 3: It's just not doable for when you're outside. I think

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Speaker 3: a Diva cup is for when you're at a house.

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Speaker 3: I was home anyway.

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Speaker 1: Rest in peace to that Diva cup.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess we just gotta get every day. We

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Speaker 3: got to get sponsored by some more Diva cups because

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Speaker 3: now you don't have one.

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Speaker 4: Well I do have one, but it's a little one.

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Speaker 4: Like this was a big cup. This was a tea cup.

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Speaker 4: The one that I have now.

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Speaker 1: Is like, what's going on?

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Speaker 3: You're talking about what kind of what you're working with

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Speaker 3: down there? It's not about what I'm working You got

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Speaker 3: size eight. First of all, you was a six. Now

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Speaker 3: you a medium, and you don't medium.

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Speaker 1: Squeeze it you put it in.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't do it. I don't even get down

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Speaker 3: with it. I don't even because I know it's not

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Speaker 3: gonna feel right. And then I'm not gonna walk right.

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Speaker 3: And you could just my face is gonna give something

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Speaker 3: that's in me and I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: If it don't feel right, it's not in right.

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Speaker 1: M Well, Siddy, what is your mess? My mess? Wait?

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Speaker 2: Did I tell you guys about someone used my card?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about your card?

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Speaker 3: Oh bitch, this is crazy. I couldn't even believe this

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Speaker 3: type of situation happened to me. But someone tried to

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Speaker 3: use my card to sign up for an AARP membership. Bitch,

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Speaker 3: are you crazy? Are you insane? And thank God, thank

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Speaker 3: God for Bank of America.

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Speaker 1: This ah.

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Speaker 4: We know our sins had had a big birthday, but

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Speaker 4: it wasn't that big.

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Speaker 1: And they alerted me immediately.

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Speaker 3: They were like, somebody just try to use for ARP

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Speaker 3: membership and I said, you know what, they can always

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Speaker 3: give my good money. Because they said no, no, no, no no,

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Speaker 3: And at first I thought it was a mistake. But AARP, AARP,

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Speaker 3: I want to know what, oh fluozy was trying to.

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Speaker 2: Scam with my information.

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Speaker 3: Now I have to call them, and you know, I

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Speaker 3: hate calling the operator because you know they're not even

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Speaker 2: They somewhere else.

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Speaker 3: And it'll be on a hold for mad long. But

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Speaker 3: this person was definitely in the States because of the name.

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Speaker 3: His name was Alfredo. I said, Alfredo. He said, yes,

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Speaker 3: Alfredo could be from elsewhere. No's it sounded like a

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Speaker 3: New Yorker. But his name was Alfredo. Okay, it was

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Speaker 3: given like Italian, but in Long Island or whatever. He said,

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Speaker 3: So what can I do for you, Miss Washington? Thank you, miss,

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Speaker 3: Thank you for calling me miss.

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Speaker 2: And not ma'am. I said, somebody try to use my

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Speaker 2: card for AARP.

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Speaker 1: I would never.

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Speaker 3: I would never even if I needed AARP. I'm not

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Speaker 3: signing up for.

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Speaker 1: That, bitch. No.

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Speaker 2: And he said, well, when's the last time you had

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Speaker 2: your card?

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Speaker 3: I said, the physical, Yes, the physical, the physical, the

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Speaker 3: physical car the actual card in hand and like on

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Speaker 3: me in my possession. Yeah, oh, about three years ago, sir,

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Speaker 3: about three years girl.

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Speaker 2: It could be anywhere, it could be.

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Speaker 3: Where in the world is Sydney's David carrds, Yes exactly.

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Speaker 3: He said, okay, well, let me run back some of

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Speaker 3: your charges, your recent charges. One was like for like

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Speaker 3: two hundred and some dollars on Amazon. I said, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's me. Then another, then another large purchase from Amazon.

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Speaker 3: I said yeah, yeah, no, that that's me as well.

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Speaker 3: And then he said ARP. I said, no, that's not me.

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Speaker 3: He said, but the two hundred and something, that's the

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Speaker 3: two back to back Amazon's that's you. I said, yes, sir,

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Speaker 3: that was me. He said at three point thirty am.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: They can see when they they could see when it

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Speaker 3: was used. Yeah, But I was like no, I said,

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Speaker 3: why don't y'all alert me about that ship. I wish

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Speaker 3: I would get more alert when I'm making bad purchases. Yea,

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Speaker 3: the purchases like you need to wait for the day.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Why are you doing this

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Speaker 3: late at now?

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Speaker 2: I'm a little bit shocked here. Why did you say that?

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Speaker 1: Was you?

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Speaker 4: I would have been like, what, I don't even have

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Speaker 4: Amazon in my house? That because amazing, amazing. No, I

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Speaker 4: don't how you spell that.

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Speaker 1: No, No, that's that can't be me.

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Speaker 2: I forget that. I'm also sitting next to a scammer.

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Speaker 1: I forgot.

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Speaker 2: Allegedly some of my best friends are scammers.

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Speaker 1: You don't scammer shades?

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about? The scammer shoes are not

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Speaker 3: the scammer shape. These are like hy two K like

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Speaker 3: you know, step up to these people, people.

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Speaker 1: Who do scams on a sidekick? Where these what?

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Speaker 2: No, these these par in Paris Hilton stunts.

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Speaker 1: And she is a skimmer, a rich skimmer.

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Speaker 3: So that was my So now I had to, you know,

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Speaker 2: And every time I have to I use it.

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Speaker 3: I have to plug in the new like, uh, what

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Speaker 2: Because they change it every time you It's just a mess.

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Speaker 3: This is why people just like either go broke or homeless,

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Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna pay nothing no more. I'm not

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Speaker 5: What's the digital card? It's not you talk about apple bag.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you gotta enter the thing anytime you try to

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Speaker 4: pay with the oh go, you could change that setting

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, okay, well thank you.

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Speaker 2: Well that was our mess.

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Speaker 3: Let's bring in our fact tabulous guests for this evening.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we've been trying so hard to get her

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Speaker 1: Booked a far away. But I'm here now, friends.

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Speaker 3: Parents is here, Paris Elizabeth Sae, Paris Davante Swang Sashet.

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Speaker 1: I like that one even more that first of all,

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Speaker 1: Paris Pride.

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Speaker 2: Happy Pride, sid oh, I didn't even mention anything about pride.

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Speaker 1: Hello, you're not as gay as you think you are,

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Speaker 1: she said, She said, do you need some water? No ding?

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Speaker 1: Black History Months. Soon as you see a black person,

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Speaker 1: what you say? Happy Black History Months said, you ain't

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Speaker 1: say nothing. He's like earlier, what up? Niggas like that?

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Speaker 2: What? What in the hoots hoots magie is happening right now?

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Speaker 1: I don't know who's but happy pride? Bitch?

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Speaker 2: What do you think about both of our messes so far?

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Speaker 1: I think Marie was right. You were supposed to say.

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Speaker 1: None of that was you. I don't believe you was

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Speaker 1: agreeing twice right. I feel like he asked you the

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Speaker 1: and you was like, yeah, you're supposed to be like

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Speaker 3: But the crazy thing is it's gonna like it's going

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Speaker 1: We're not worrying about right now. But all of it

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Speaker 1: falls under the scams. Okay, yeah, they stole the card

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Speaker 3: They don't know, You're right, I'm an honest person. That's

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Speaker 3: the problem is I don't lie.

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Speaker 1: Honesty is mess It is mess. Lie a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I mean I learned.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna learn from the best over here. Lie a

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Speaker 3: little bit. That's the Oh. Someone said that they don't

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Speaker 3: like when I say that should be the title. So

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Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna say that today.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, we'll write it down.

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Speaker 2: Write it down.

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Speaker 5: That's the title. Since not saying the title no more, they're.

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Speaker 1: Not saying the title anymore? About it? What you're here

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Speaker 1: to talk about? Are you having a good week a

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Speaker 1: messy week? Like, let's talk. Well, it's pride, that's pride.

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Speaker 1: But you know what the thing is, Like, Pride is cool,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like Pride is just too gay. Mmm.

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Speaker 1: It's just a bunch of gay at the same time

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Speaker 1: in the same place. It's like a lot. Now, what's

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Speaker 2: I'm shaking my head.

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Speaker 1: In the Pride like the straight clubs. I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: even though you're just like a woman, nigga, just still

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Speaker 1: touch you beyond being gay. It's like no rules in

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Speaker 1: It's just like, oh, I feel like something's getting created

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Speaker 2: What clubs are these?

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Speaker 1: The gay clubs? Can you name the ones that they

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Speaker 1: are talking? The name is at all different stuffs every

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Speaker 1: time I go everywhere. Every time I go to a club,

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Speaker 1: they're very respectful to me. What gay clubs are you

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Speaker 1: going to? Are you wearing a blazer?

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Speaker 3: I've gone to Bush, I'm going to Henrietta's.

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Speaker 1: Nobody's bothering. No, No, not even at.

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Speaker 2: Bush, Not even at Bush.

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Speaker 3: I mean one time a girl tried to buy me

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Speaker 3: and she said, oh, too bad, and that's it. She

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Speaker 3: didn't even say, hey, do you want water or clepsoda

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Speaker 3: or I want a ginger beer?

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Speaker 1: You can say, hey, do you hey, you want to drink?

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Speaker 1: I don't drink?

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Speaker 2: Okay, bye, hey do you want to drink?

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Speaker 1: I'll take a ginger beer? Like this, I think you

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Speaker 1: know what I think it is, Sidney. I think you

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Speaker 1: got the good gay. Oh you got like the girl

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Speaker 1: girl gay. I got the haircut. So they think like

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Speaker 1: I just want to just be horny all the time.

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Speaker 1: It's called fem.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to call it girl good.

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Speaker 1: It's not girl, it's it's girl good. Yeah, it's girl good.

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Speaker 1: It's levels to film. So I feel like it's girl

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Speaker 1: gay film.

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Speaker 2: What's the levels? Can you please explain to us the.

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Speaker 1: Levels of film?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I don't know all of them, but I feel like

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Speaker 1: it's like stub fems now, so they like they masking,

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Speaker 1: but they still make up and get their hair them.

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Speaker 1: That's you, that's not me. I'm a tomboy. Oh where

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Speaker 1: I don't want tomboy. It's a tea. They just took

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Speaker 1: our letter, so there's no tea in the alphabets for tomboys.

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Speaker 1: The more they took it and gave it to trance,

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Speaker 1: so now we don't have a letter, I wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: they took it. I don't think he hasn't sitting when

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Speaker 1: you was ever tomboy in there, when we was young,

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Speaker 1: it was way more tomboy talk. You don't think so,

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Speaker 1: first of all, a girl that didn't like wearing dresses

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Speaker 1: both of you, ladies? You don't remember tomboy. You don't

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Speaker 1: remember tom Thank you. Everybody knows except Sydney because you're

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Speaker 1: not really gay. I told you got to do your research.

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Speaker 1: I'm playing plying, Sydney. I'll be proud.

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Speaker 2: I'm too stunned to speak.

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Speaker 1: The game. Was too stunned to speak, she was. I'm joking.

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Speaker 1: But I think tom Boy used to be like talking

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Speaker 1: about more.

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Speaker 3: I do believe that it must talk about more, but

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Speaker 3: it was not changed for trans I just want you.

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Speaker 1: What's the new tomboy? What's the what's the what's the

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Speaker 1: term for tomboy?

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Speaker 2: Isn't a sexuality? That's the way like you're that's a style.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's the new word for if you're a tomboy?

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Speaker 1: What label do you fall under? A guys girl?

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Speaker 2: A guys girl, Yeah, that's a girl that drinks beer.

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Speaker 1: I've never drunk beer in my life. Yeah, me neither.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. So okay, So I think we learned in

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Speaker 1: a lot of them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're so you're you're a tomboy, but you're

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Speaker 3: also a lesbian.

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Speaker 2: Is that correct?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So what makes you different than the rest of

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Speaker 3: the gays that are in the club.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because I feel like if you're not

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Speaker 1: having this experience, then this is just my experience. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, but this is what happens when I go

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Speaker 1: to gay club. So I don't like to be again.

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Speaker 2: What what fragrances are you wearing?

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Speaker 4: Because maybe the pheromones is attracting the people to touching

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Speaker 4: your duty body.

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Speaker 1: Wearing a lot of.

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Speaker 3: Leather, You got these glasses, your titties, I mean it

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Speaker 3: might be the titties Ferris. Yes, and let's let's let's

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Speaker 3: look at Exhibit A. This is not what she's wearing

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Speaker 3: at the club.

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Speaker 1: So what am I wearing at the club? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I will make sure to put in the dump all of.

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Speaker 1: The v's you down to your belly. But but I'm

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Speaker 1: not wearing those in the club all the time because

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Speaker 1: that is a tension. So what happens when I wear

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Speaker 1: T shirts? What T shirts you'd be wearing?

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Speaker 4: Said? Be saying Paris on the back, be saying I'm

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Speaker 4: picky with my game sometimes sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Can you give me an example of how they're touching you? Here?

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Speaker 3: Here is this is this is you how they touching

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Speaker 3: Show me what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: A girl just walked up to me, in the club,

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Speaker 1: dove and touched my head. She rubbed her hand across

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Speaker 1: my head. That's the waves was spinning. She was ready

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Speaker 1: to draw. I mean, people, this doesn't mean that you

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Speaker 1: should be touching people. If it was the straight club,

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Speaker 1: you are not letting men touch you. So I think

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Speaker 1: it should be the same rooms women.

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Speaker 2: If I even straight club, this is the men.

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Speaker 1: Well maybe it's you, Sidney. I think you look straightened.

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Speaker 1: You look the titties against not it's the waste.

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Speaker 3: They're literally putting their their penis in the crack of

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Speaker 3: everybody's crevices when they're in a packed packed They they

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Speaker 3: don't do that to you.

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Speaker 1: No, it's the haircut. So we both have a problem

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Speaker 1: in the game.

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Speaker 2: We're just two girls in two different clubs.

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Speaker 3: That's it, going through the same thing, the same two girls,

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Speaker 3: one bush.

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Speaker 5: So what is your mess? What are we here to talk.

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Speaker 1: About to break down the pride? I think they also

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Speaker 1: let too many people be gay. What do you think

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Speaker 1: about that's in it? You think there should be a

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Speaker 1: limit on. I think it should be a limit, and

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Speaker 1: I feel like like it should be like an interview process. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's talk.

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Speaker 5: I would like to be gay who do I talk to?

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Speaker 1: Stop not even listening to this? I want to know?

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Speaker 1: And that's how I think people are acting. I think

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Speaker 1: they just waking up like I would like to be gay,

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Speaker 1: and they just letting them be gay. You don't even

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Speaker 1: have to do the gay activity to be gay anymore,

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Speaker 1: you know what?

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Speaker 3: What about minding your fucking business? I don't want to

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Speaker 3: know about what everybody's doing.

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Speaker 1: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: I honestly don't care.

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Speaker 3: I think that's the problem is that everybody is now

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Speaker 3: in everybody's business, and so now we think that we

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Speaker 3: more people will be like, oh, I'm gay.

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Speaker 2: It's just we're in more people's business.

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Speaker 3: People are online all day talking about what they are,

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Speaker 3: who they are, what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: What don't is they have to do with them being

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Speaker 1: gay but not being gay?

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Speaker 3: I think people are just talking about what they are

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Speaker 3: more and putting us in their business. And it's like,

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Speaker 3: I actually don't want, I don't care, I don't need

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Speaker 4: Okay, But what if it's people who are saying they're

441
00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,800
Speaker 4: gay and they're new to it, and they're all on

442
00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:06,600
Speaker 4: the apps, clogging up the lines, the gay prayer line,

443
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 4: they're at the club with y'all. Just like, I'm gay now,

444
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,720
Speaker 4: so I'm here taking up space. You don't think that

445
00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,920
Speaker 4: that could be a problem for people actually gay.

446
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,240
Speaker 1: I feel like I put in the work to be gay, Sidney,

447
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:19,640
Speaker 1: do you feel like you put in the work back

448
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 1: in the day it was harder to be gay. Now

449
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:22,480
Speaker 1: it's just easy to be gay.

450
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 2: I don't know.

451
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,600
Speaker 1: I came out and it was pretty smooth.

452
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:25,679
Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna lie.

453
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,480
Speaker 3: It was like low key, like c section vibes, like

454
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:30,080
Speaker 3: I'm out.

455
00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:31,399
Speaker 1: What year.

456
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 4: Was the year?

457
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 3: It was a good time, Like nobody cares no. I

458
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,399
Speaker 3: told my friends that I was gay, and they was like,

459
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 3: do you need money? That's like that's all they were like,

460
00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 3: we don't care that you're gay. You just can't be

461
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 3: broken gay, like you just you gotta get your money

462
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 3: up if you're gonna be.

463
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not what the B stands for. Yeah.

464
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 3: So Also, I feel like I got into a relationship

465
00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 3: and it was just like all right, hey, like I

466
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 3: moved in with her immediately.

467
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 1: You relationship gay.

468
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,200
Speaker 3: I moved in and then we got cats. It was like, boy,

469
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 3: I like if we had like a card, a punch card,

470
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,880
Speaker 3: I'm hitting everything off.

471
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 1: You know, So when did you first tell somebody you

472
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 1: was gay?

473
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 4: Me?

474
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, wherever? How old you were? I believe I was

475
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 1: like twenty eight, twenty eight? Yeah, okay, what.

476
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 2: Are you doing? What are you fucking doing? Are you

477
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 2: trying to do?

478
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 1: Mathew your head? You know, it looked like that means

479
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 1: where you're like trying to put I was like, that's

480
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,160
Speaker 1: adult gay. No, that's like grown gay. So what does

481
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 1: that mean? It doesn't mean anything.

482
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 3: I was just like, okay, okay, the first person I like,

483
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 3: I kissed a girl when I was young, sure, and

484
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 3: I was like nine, but I didn't think gay at

485
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 3: that time, so I didn't realize.

486
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 2: I didn't circle back until later on in life.

487
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 1: Okay, years later.

488
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but did you come out the wound with this haircut?

489
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: Like what? I feel like I should have because I

490
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: think I was pretty gay in elementary school, so you

491
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 1: knew right away? Yeah, I think like elementary school. Yeah, Like,

492
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 1: how do you know? I feel like because you have

493
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 1: an attraction to women more than the attraction to men.

494
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 1: So I just like to be around the girls and

495
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 1: I was touchy and I was like, yes, yes, the

496
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 1: young lady you were. Now it was touching tops the

497
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 1: tea can be expanded. You're right, you know what. I'm sorry.

498
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 1: I take it back. I take my letter.

499
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 2: We're just sharing it. Oh my god.

500
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 1: Okay, that could be gone, that could be a thing.

501
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 1: But you used to date guys, you yeah, But so

502
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 1: like I feel like, like for how middle school it

503
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 1: was like girls, and then I got to like the

504
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 1: eighth grade, ninth grade, and I had boyfriends. But I

505
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 1: think they knew I was gay too. We were just

506
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,360
Speaker 1: having fun because they knew. I accidentally cheated a couple

507
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 1: of times with women, a couple of times with women.

508
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: It's just always been an attraction to women. So I

509
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: think I just knew, like emotional, even when I dated men,

510
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: I didn't have any emotional connection with men. Well, they

511
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 1: don't really have any emotions exactly, so that's how I

512
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: know I didn't really like them. I'm attracted to women.

513
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 3: Emotionally, emotion I agree with that, and I think that

514
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 3: that's the the issue with the labeling was like gay,

515
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 3: straight queer all that it's like I am a lesbian

516
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 3: at heart. Yes, I double backed and hooked up with dudes,

517
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 3: but I am not bisexual because I don't that was

518
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 3: a moment.

519
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 2: I'm not.

520
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 1: So when you did that, how did you feel? Because

521
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,919
Speaker 1: I've been trying to do it. I've been trying to

522
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 1: do myself. I haven't done it. She did it. That's

523
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I feel like I'm too gay. Every

524
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 1: time I get close, I get pulled back. How did

525
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: you actually make the leap? I need the confidence? How

526
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 1: did you like? What did you tell yourself? Well?

527
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 3: I was pretty much unhoused, so that that opened me

528
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 3: up to the same just susceptible to anything bad on

529
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 3: a house.

530
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 2: That's what the beast stood for me.

531
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 1: Bad man. Yeah, okay, so we can really just expand

532
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: the alphabets when everybody can finish.

533
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I was in a bad place.

534
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 3: That's what made me be just toy with the idea

535
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 3: of being with God, the idea just hooking it, not

536
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 3: really falling, not falling for them. But like Marie, how

537
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,120
Speaker 3: was I when I was with these with these guys?

538
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 2: It was embarrassing?

539
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 1: It was well, she was embarrassed.

540
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 4: She was embarrassing, and she was acting different than she

541
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 4: usually act.

542
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 2: I showed her text message. She's like, Sidney, you don't write.

543
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 4: That, you know, but I mean, but Sidney, I also

544
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 4: feel like you're such a relationship person that you don't

545
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 4: even really know how single people talk.

546
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 2: Because even but you understand what I'm saying, like even.

547
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 4: Like should have getting deeper flirting, flirting with a woman

548
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 4: that you like was like girl, why would you say?

549
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 1: Why would you say? Okay, I could agree with her

550
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 1: on that park So I'm gonna text you show me.

551
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, Sidney, what do you Why are you writing this?

552
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 1: But okay, you know what's mess?

553
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 3: The whole like trying to court somebody, get somebody like

554
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,719
Speaker 3: that is mess because if you if you want me

555
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 3: as me, why.

556
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 2: Can't I text like this? This is how I text?

557
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 5: Well how did them? How did those responses go for you?

558
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 1: Not good?

559
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 3: But whatever this is, then they're not for me. They're

560
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 3: not for me, I mean because you're not them now.

561
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 3: So I agree with you on that.

562
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 4: But you're Sidney, you are a relationship oriented person.

563
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 3: That's why I belong with women, because women are relationship orients.

564
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 3: And when I tell them my feelings, they don't run away,

565
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 3: except you know, one particular person that you know kind

566
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 3: of wasted my time, and you know, then let me

567
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 3: take them to an expensive dinner to let me know

568
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 3: a girlfriend, like, yeah.

569
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm men do. They're wasteful oftentimes. You

570
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: think women are wasteful sometimes And because you did that

571
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 1: and she was allowed to do that, then when she

572
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: date me, I will block her to get paid back

573
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: for you. Prus yes, you know what I'm saying. So

574
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: many of them I like that that's wrong. But they

575
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: know they can take advantage of certain people. And then

576
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: they run into me and it's like, I know what

577
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: you did, and you get them last summer tonight, smer,

578
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: You're want to think about all of the stuff that

579
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: you did wrong when you feel this pain. So I

580
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: probably got paid back for you.

581
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 3: But Paris, you're actually the mess because you are saying

582
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 3: with me toxic.

583
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: Oh yes, healthy, toxic though, that's what toxic.

584
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 4: Fun all the kids is like, you know, divorce, single

585
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 4: dad y toxic absolutely, Like I love these kids, but

586
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 4: they gonna eat frozen dinners.

587
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: Exactly because I gotta go on the boat with the Really,

588
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: that's how you that's how you would describe yourself. Well

589
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: with the women. Okay, I've gotten better, I will say that.

590
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: How how yeah, what I stopped dating so.

591
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 2: Many women, so the roster went from twelve to ten.

592
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 3: Hey, we need a team, and I do agree with

593
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 3: that because we do be putting our eggs all in

594
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 3: one basket. And if you got that basket from I

595
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 3: don't know, the ninety nine cents store, it's gonna be

596
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 3: you might as well get a better basket, get.

597
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: Better eggs, better, better ingredients. Yeah, pass basket.

598
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 6: Yo.

599
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 4: So parents, you're dating less women, sow who how do

600
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 4: you decide who doesn't make the cut?

601
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 7: Uh?

602
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: You know what? I think I might like settle down.

603
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: Like at the end of this year selling ship bullshit.

604
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 4: You've been saying two things consistently. Believe one, I'm going

605
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 4: back to.

606
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: Dick yep, And I tried. As soon as men talk,

607
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: I'm turned off. It's not my fault. They got to

608
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: stop talking. Then you say, oh, I might settle down. Hey,

609
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 1: I'm serious this time, and I've been talking about it.

610
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 1: That's how I'm serious. Gay is a mess.

611
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 2: They letting too many people.

612
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm the set it down. So then

613
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: I have to be on the side.

614
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 2: Are you You are mess?

615
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: I'm bipoula and bisexual, so it's deeper than that.

616
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 5: You not bisexual?

617
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 1: No, here I do. I don't hate them. I hate

618
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 1: when they talk I like sex with men, but I

619
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: have you liked sex with men? Just start? But I

620
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: don't do it. I don't like that.

621
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 2: Now, how do we get like them?

622
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: How do we get you to have sex with a man?

623
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,719
Speaker 1: Having sex with Yeah, but I don't like them. How

624
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: means Sidney got crazy about this? Sydney actually went and

625
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: had sex with this with men and I didn't even

626
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: do what. I just said I like it. And this

627
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: is the face of a woman who did it. But

628
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: at one point she also liked having sex with men.

629
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: That's and she's really acting out like this. Look at

630
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: this a woman who got it and is embarrassed. And

631
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm the problem. So they come to the some of

632
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: this gallon of water that you got on the table. No,

633
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: we was waiting for you to come back. Guess what.

634
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: We're trying to figure out how you upset when you

635
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: actually did the activity and I just thought about it

636
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: good But I didn't even I just thought about it.

637
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: How am I a problem? This is crazy?

638
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 2: Say that you like having sex with if you.

639
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: Don't need to do it. The only reason that I

640
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: were it was ever attracted to them was because of sex.

641
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: But I don't like them.

642
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 2: When's the last time you had sex with the man?

643
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: Way before you I want to say, maybe like over,

644
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: I didn't know were counting. We're keeping score over eight years.

645
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: It was way before my relationships, so you don't even know.

646
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 1: Before na Ne sex came.

647
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, if Rihanna drops a new album, you have to

648
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 4: have sex with at.

649
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: Least, well I got time because she's not dropping music.

650
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, she murs, we don't. We're not doing

651
00:29:55,560 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: animated a real song. No. I oh wow, I'm going to.

652
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: I think I am going to settle down like November.

653
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. You need saying this during Pride

654
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: that I'll settle down. Yeah, I really like this woman.

655
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: Oh and I really like the woman. I never said

656
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: that on air. I really you.

657
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 2: Don't say nothing about no particular woman.

658
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 4: You said, I'm I'm I'm whittling down the roster.

659
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: I really like this woman.

660
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 3: This is good because you know what, we're putting this

661
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 3: out right away, so by the time you change your mind,

662
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 3: it will already be out.

663
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: She already knows this.

664
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: She knows that you really like her, she knows you're

665
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 2: doing the pod, she knows what I'm doing everything. Okay,

666
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 2: you know everything.

667
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: I like her.

668
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: She a manager?

669
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: What's going on? Hilarious? No, she's not a manager. She's

670
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: a beautiful girl.

671
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 3: I showed you I said she's not a manager.

672
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a visual learner. If it's if it's

673
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: a thing, I will settle down. By November, I will.

674
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 2: Cool something to be thankful for. Paris off the streets.

675
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: I think that's a good thing too. Honestly, I thought

676
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: about it.

677
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 3: I honestly would love to see your content switch.

678
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 2: You know this sh not switching?

679
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 1: This shift online baby, the name things I am am.

680
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 2: I'm ready for you to make a shift.

681
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: Would you want me to post Sidney? I mean, if

682
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: your happiness. I really think she's a cutie. Yeah, she's cute.

683
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: It's very cute.

684
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 3: She's traveling. Yeah, good body, she knows how to post well.

685
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 7: Yeah.

686
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 3: The body is yeah. The bodies, Oh, she's gorgeous. What

687
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 3: y'all talk about?

688
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: Though, no offense.

689
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that she is not a talker. I'm

690
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 3: just wondering where y'all have in comment good, good brows,

691
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 3: good edges. It's very good body, good body.

692
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking about a lot of things.

693
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: Give us two things that y'all talk about will she

694
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: be celebrating Black history? Wanted to, Ah, we know what

695
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: you know, guys out, Because here's the thing. If I

696
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: say something crazy, No, I'm not answering that question. And

697
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: that's for us something that you know why. There's a

698
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: reason I'm not going to say it but right then

699
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: and there, because it's gonna sound crazy later.

700
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 2: You've said so many other things.

701
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: No, I can't say that because it's like a it's

702
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: a So I don't want to say that, but it's

703
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 1: like a it depends now. Hey, hey, hey, I think

704
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm happy. I'm right, I'm right, this is this is

705
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: somebody else? Hey, No, I never I'm no longer answering question.

706
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 2: This is nice.

707
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: I actually like that one more. I do.

708
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: Well, that's because you'll be with you black History months.

709
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 2: But that's no here, no there.

710
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: It's great. Everybody will be there.

711
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 5: Everybody's gonna be there, So how are you settling down?

712
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: Made the best queen one? We got two more seasons?

713
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: Who is next out in six? What girl next out

714
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: in six? Person in the sixth? That made it?

715
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 4: That's like crazy When you said I really like this girl?

716
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 1: Who was you talking about them? Okay?

717
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 2: Also they are they them?

718
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: There you go?

719
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 3: I like that plan very you to explain to us

720
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 3: when what are the like, how do you know you

721
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 3: like someone? And what do you do when you're liking someone?

722
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 3: Because the difference, I feel like people don't understand what

723
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 3: it is to like to love, to be interested, but

724
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 3: also not like someone like there's variations of it.

725
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so but not like that person. Yeah, I feel

726
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: like I'm done with that. I feel like when I

727
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: really like a woman, it's a lot of time spent

728
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: and a lot of planning, listening to what she likes

729
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: and things like that. If I don't like them, it's

730
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: just like what it is. It could be a one

731
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: nighter and that could be the end if I want

732
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: only then I feel like we're playing in trips like

733
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: we were going out of town. We spend the time,

734
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: iris we always bring this back. You took a trip

735
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: with somebody a little while back and post photos. I'll

736
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,439
Speaker 1: be having a lot of a lot of it's the same.

737
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: It's the same photo, the one the one I wear.

738
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 4: Yes, y'all wear power sailing or whatever, para shooting and

739
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 4: you posted in emoji on her face. That's right, so

740
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 4: you said you only take PRIs if you like them.

741
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 1: She flew me out, then you got flute out, persolute

742
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: out a lot of times. Okay, So it's not the haircut,

743
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So if it's the titty, and

744
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 1: that's how you know that I like you, because then

745
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: I'm doing the flying. I will never.

746
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 4: And I'm saying this on the record, I think that

747
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 4: I will never fly a man out anywhere.

748
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: But you shouldn't fly a man. It's a man. You

749
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: should not absolutely got long knees, big feet. I want

750
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 1: to see you.

751
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: I can't wait to just love hits you all over

752
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,479
Speaker 3: your head. I just can't because I want to see

753
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 3: what you are going to do and what you're capable of,

754
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 3: because it's a lot of I ain't doing that.

755
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,439
Speaker 1: But why City, Why would I fly? I wouldn't want

756
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: you to do that.

757
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 2: I would I would be worried for you.

758
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: I would worry. I'm like, are you all right?

759
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 3: Yeah?

760
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 4: Blank twice, bitch, hilarious girl anyway, Yeah, no, City, I'm

761
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 4: with you on that.

762
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 5: I too would like to see what me in love

763
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 5: looks like.

764
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: But the other part of me is also terrified of

765
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 4: what that could be because I feel like it's gonna

766
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,280
Speaker 4: turn me crazy, really, even if it's healthy.

767
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:49,240
Speaker 1: Find a healthy yes? Oh what a question? So Okay,

768
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: So first of all, I feel like you know what

769
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: you want in the person before you meet the person.

770
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 1: You know who you are and what you're willing to

771
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: settle for and the things you're not. So the healthiness

772
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: would be I think, receiving everything that you want and

773
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: possibly more him paying attention, listening and he's showing you

774
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: that he listening because he's doing things that you said

775
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 1: there wasn't recent. It's all green flags, no red flags,

776
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 1: nothing that's making you question anything. Healthy, good communication. So

777
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: if you have a problem, y'all discuss it and it's

778
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: clear and you walk away feeling like you don't have

779
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: any worries. There's no trust that you like, did he

780
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: lie or none of that time spent? And then I

781
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: think from there, I guess it would depend on what

782
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: y'all both into, but I feel like that would be

783
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: the core of it, like a strong friendship, so you

784
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: could know that you can trust him and letting him

785
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 1: lead to be the man that you hopefully trust him

786
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 1: to be. Okay, so you do know what health he means?

787
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, but what are you doing?

788
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: Are you doing one? I like a woman, so you're

789
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: unhealthy for everybody else. I don't think I'm unhealthy. I

790
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 1: just think I'm a good time that will end before

791
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: you know it.

792
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 3: I think that you or a good gas lighter. I

793
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 3: feel like you're good at it. I could just a

794
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 3: gas light. I feel like you gas like well, I

795
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 3: don't like.

796
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: Words like that's anything negative. I can't believe you with

797
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: I think when people throw those words out, I think

798
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: it's because they're trying to send them. So I send

799
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: them back because I think it's a lie.

800
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 7: Hey, maybe you didn't order it, Maybe you didn't order

801
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 7: her to Hey listen, So when's the last time you've

802
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 7: been in like a healthy situation.

803
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: I think this is a healthy situation. I think before this,

804
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: I was in a healthy situation. And I think the

805
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 1: woman just was a liar. And it's like, yeah, I

806
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: liked women before this, but they were like secret whorees

807
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: or you don't realize the label is.

808
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 2: A strong word.

809
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: Why why horror Becuz it's like if you do something horrish,

810
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: I can't unsee that. Can you explain, well, what this

811
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 1: woman did? A period? Just me? I know, that I

812
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: don't look like I have feelings or I don't feel them.

813
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I do. I feel so much

814
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 1: so that if you do something wrong, I can't unfeel it.

815
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: Even if I tell myself that it didn't happen, I

816
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: still felt it. So there's no way that I cannot

817
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: feel it. So now I don't respect you, and I

818
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: can't be with you if I don't respect you, because

819
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: it's not gonna work.

820
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: I need an example, because you're saying.

821
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: I like this woman a lot, and this woman like

822
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: she disappeared in the middle of a conversation that wasn't

823
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 1: really a setup for her to disappear like it was

824
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: clear that she was doing something she shouldn't have been doing,

825
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: and then when she reappeared, it was just a bunch

826
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 1: of like, I'm doing this, I'm doing this, I'm doing

827
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: this to push off what she did to make it

828
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: look like I was the bad guy. Now, how you hm?

829
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 1: Because I know her? So women don't realize. When you

830
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 1: date them long enough, you learn patterns. So when you, yeah,

831
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 1: when you slip up, it's like, oh, you're doing that thing.

832
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: You told me that previously you was doing things like this,

833
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: So now you just did this tattern and you just

834
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: slipped up, but you don't even know because you're thinking

835
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: that I'm so in love I'm blind, but it's like, baby,

836
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: I can see. I just got my glasses low. You

837
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: know when they say I ain't sleep my eyes is closed.

838
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: But I seen you. So it was like that. So

839
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: then I had to unfeel how I felt about you,

840
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: because it's like, I'm not going to let you play me.

841
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: That's crazy. So you so you thought that she was

842
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: doing what she was and then later it came out

843
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 1: she was doing exactly I felt it. I feel like,

844
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: if you feel something, it's beyond you thinking that. If

845
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 1: you feel something, say something.

846
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also want to let y'all know who

847
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 3: are just like, I got an intuition. No, it's hennessy.

848
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 3: You're drinking hennessy. That is not the same. It's into it.

849
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 3: Because sometimes people just be getting lit and being like, oh,

850
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 3: that person is doing and it's like, no, you're just.

851
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: But you're working yourself up, That's what I'm saying. You're

852
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 1: not feeling that, you're thinking that when they do that,

853
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 1: the liquor is making you think that, right, you didn't

854
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: feel it. I felt it. Okay, So that's why that

855
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 1: woman case closed. That woman got dropped. But now I

856
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: do like this woman. I do every time I see her.

857
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: I make sure she got fresh flowers. She like flowers,

858
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: you know a woman likes I like. I really go

859
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 1: pick out good flowers.

860
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:09,959
Speaker 2: Flowers and what else?

861
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: What else do I do? What have I done? We've

862
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: gone to the movies, We've gone to dinner. She travels

863
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: a lot, so we actually haven't seen each other in

864
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 1: a while. But we're about to. Now where you are

865
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: going when I see her? Yeah, it's only for a

866
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: short period, so we're going to the movies and maybe dinner.

867
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,279
Speaker 1: Then I got a flyer, okay, and then when I

868
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 1: come back, she's gonna come to show. She actually, you know,

869
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: I know I like this lady. She was in public

870
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: at a show and we was whole hands. I don't

871
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: hold that wild has fallen. That's right. Every pimp must

872
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: fall one day holding holding hands. Ain't know what's good

873
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: about this. When it's come out, it'll be two shows.

874
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 1: We on the something we are.

875
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 4: I don't really like holding hands, you know, I link arms, Okay, I.

876
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 1: Think see when you mean, I think you're gonna you're

877
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 1: gonna when he make you fall, whose hand? I want

878
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: to hold it? That's what it is that I think

879
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: that's what it is.

880
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 4: I think seen he's gonna have the same reaction if

881
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 4: she sees me holding somebody holding no.

882
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: I want this woman the wall. She's got it. But

883
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 1: she's a Libra. I feel like it's in her. She

884
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: just gotta really trust it. I don't think these guys

885
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: are making her feel safe with letting them lead that much.

886
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: Preach doctor umark.

887
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 2: Come on, man, nice, I love it. You're really standing

888
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,240
Speaker 2: on it. Whatever soapbox you want to know, it's lifted.

889
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 1: I think black women are the best, and people just

890
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 1: don't know how to deal with them, so they just

891
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: go elsewhere, and then when they do meet them, they fail,

892
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: they fall short. And I don't even think Marie is

893
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: making it hard for these guys. I don't think I

894
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: am either. I don't think she is. I don't think

895
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: I'm making it hard for them. I think she's just

896
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 1: not making it easy and they used to easy.

897
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 2: Thank you Paris for seeing Marie.

898
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 1: You do one on one? Do you know her? Do

899
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: you women? Readings? Okay? Marie?

900
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 3: So okay, hold on because this week I want to

901
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 3: talk about the.

902
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: Gay Okay, I feel like you say it.

903
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 3: A lot online about gay. Ill, what's the problem. Like

904
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,399
Speaker 3: you're flourishing right now.

905
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: I am, But I feel like it's just overcrowded. It

906
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: wasn't gay wasn't always this overcrowded. I feel like like women,

907
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: no judgment, but a little bit. Women with five kids

908
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: should not be able to be lesbians. I think they

909
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 1: should get their application blocked. There's too many to come

910
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: and be a lesbian. No why you could be bisexual,

911
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: but I don't think you should be able to be

912
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: a lesbian. Five kids.

913
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 4: Now, how many women that are calling themselves lesbians have

914
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 4: five kids.

915
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 1: It's a lot of women with kids. You'd be surprised.

916
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 2: Too many apps you're on, you got to shut down.

917
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: It's on TikTok. You can just go on TikTok right now.

918
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: And there's so many of them. It's your algo friend.

919
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,359
Speaker 3: Are the ones that's in your because I don't know

920
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 3: these people, I've never seen it because.

921
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 1: You be in relationships. That's I'm telling you. I'm outside.

922
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: I got to experience this close the door. That's what

923
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying to them. You need to.

924
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:41,359
Speaker 2: Be in the streets because you gotta stay in the house.

925
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: I think once I get in a relationship, then I

926
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: won't care about it. I think I only care because

927
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: I'm out here. I didn't know this was going on

928
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: because I was in a relationship.

929
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 3: Or do you think that you date a lot? When

930
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,760
Speaker 3: have you had a break? No dating them? Talking to women?

931
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 1: Nothing a lot? When Sidney, you will be a surprised

932
00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: how much I don't date. And I don't know. We're

933
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: asking the top of the year, I went on a

934
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: self journey for two months. I didn't talk to a

935
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: woman at all. So January and February was the February

936
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: and March I didn't talk to any woman.

937
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 2: Would you do with your time?

938
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 1: I was reading books, I was going to church more,

939
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: I was praying I would walker, I was working out.

940
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 1: I really had to get my mind clear. And then I.

941
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 2: Started again your top toxic self.

942
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: No, so I can stay bar because I think I

943
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: was just doing too much and I just had to

944
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 1: sit down. I took it too far and I caught

945
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: myself being too toxic, and I said, you gotta take

946
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: a break. Yeah, I fake cried, and I said, this

947
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: is we've gone too far.

948
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: Cried, you peel the glasses off and you put your

949
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 2: hands in the snow.

950
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: It was the top of the morning. I look this

951
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: woman in her eye and the water came.

952
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 2: Really you sure you didn't just come because sometimes you come?

953
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 1: It was no, it was tears when I never came.

954
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 1: That's having me sex? What tap is? Where were you

955
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 1: at that? Yeah? Oh, Mauri, I think we broke it out, Marie,

956
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: we broke and wen't problem we have sex? You always

957
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 1: like that from the record? Strike that from the record.

958
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: I didn't need to know that, Mecca.

959
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 5: Elmo Paris.

960
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 1: Did you hear it? Almost? No? I don't know about sex.

961
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: Is that I want to know I never had that.

962
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 2: I'm not saying y'all broken.

963
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I like, you know, I would like

964
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 3: to see you soft.

965
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: I'm really solved when I like a woman was in it.

966
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 2: I don't like the way you said that, because like.

967
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: Because you're looking at me over the glens to I

968
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: would like to.

969
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 4: See you Literally was like, I would like to see

970
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 4: you soft, And I was like, that's a weird thing

971
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 4: to say.

972
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: I want to see you soft looking stay hard, so

973
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: make it soft? No?

974
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 3: I mean you how many relationships have you been in

975
00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 3: was a girl?

976
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? Publicly yes, one, just one, just one. That's what

977
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you. That's why you think you

978
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: haven't seen me solved. You haven't seen it with one woman.

979
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,800
Speaker 2: Well, I met the woman that you were you were publicly.

980
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: I think I was pretty solved during those times.

981
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,439
Speaker 3: You were you were and then you were like never again.

982
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 3: I honestly think everybody needs to stop posting whoever they're with.

983
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: That's that's done.

984
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 1: No, No, I'm never I won't post the next girl.

985
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what gender you are. You they're all embarrassing.

986
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 3: So it doesn't matter woman. Man, they you can get embarrassed.

987
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: So I think moving forward, I will. I haven't posted somebody,

988
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 3: and you know, I don't think I'm gonna do that

989
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 3: because it's it's nobody's business. People know I'm in a relationship,

990
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 3: but it's like, I don't need to be posting that

991
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 3: stuff because who is it for? The people who I'm

992
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 3: with know that I'm with this person. I agree, some

993
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 3: random person that listens to the podcast shouldn't be able

994
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 3: to spot my girl out at a fucking costa.

995
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:56,919
Speaker 1: That's weird.

996
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sure, looked.

997
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 1: For failure.

998
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 2: Was making her cry thy.

999
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 1: Hilarious.

1000
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 3: What can you what can you do better to help

1001
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 3: the community, because you have to be the example that

1002
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 3: you want to see.

1003
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: I think when I settle down, then I'll be an example. No, no, no, no,

1004
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: I'm saying no, no, yeah right now. The work can

1005
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: I do to help the community get better? Yes, I

1006
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 1: think I do my part. I think I make gay

1007
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 1: people feel like they can just be free and be

1008
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 1: who they are with no judgment. I think I do

1009
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:41,240
Speaker 1: too many of these real gays, not not the friends.

1010
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: When I talk to gay people about this, they agree.

1011
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: They agree that it's too many gay people. It's this

1012
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: new gay is just too different.

1013
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 4: It is there is a new breed, a new breed

1014
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 4: of gays, like she doesn't I agree.

1015
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: I agree.

1016
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 2: I'm listening to my very straight friends.

1017
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 4: I feel like it's a I feel like it's a

1018
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 4: lot of women, specifically, I can't speak for the men.

1019
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a lot of women who.

1020
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 4: Have just like hit a wall because they've dated men

1021
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 4: their whole lives, or they married men or whatever whatever,

1022
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 4: and they just hit a place where they're like, actually,

1023
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 4: I don't want to do this anymore, and they see

1024
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 4: I don't know women loving on other women or women

1025
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 4: taking their time to like ask you how you're doing

1026
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 4: and bring you flat, like you know what I'm saying.

1027
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 4: And I think Sydney and I feel like you even

1028
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,760
Speaker 4: know some of these people. We're not gonna name no names,

1029
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 4: but like I feel like, now more than ever.

1030
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 1: It's the gayest.

1031
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 2: This is the gayest.

1032
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: Time it's ever been. God bless.

1033
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 2: I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that.

1034
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:45,399
Speaker 4: I'm just saying that there is a new I mean,

1035
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 4: all the kids is gay, all jealousy is gay. But

1036
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 4: millennials and maybe some ex I don't know, I'll hang

1037
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 4: out with them, you know, they go to bed when

1038
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 4: I come outside. I feel like millennials now more than ever,

1039
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 4: is like trying to explore their sexual and I understand

1040
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 4: as a full time lesbian looking at people like this,

1041
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 4: like but.

1042
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 1: You not really.

1043
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 2: I used to say that I used to be on

1044
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 2: I used to be on the pairs tip like.

1045
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 3: Okay, you're not really like being But then it's like

1046
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: I actually had to, you know, jude yourself off and

1047
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 3: try again. And then I and I even was vocal

1048
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 3: about this, you know voyage that I took down to

1049
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 3: the to the bedrock of the bedrock, that's.

1050
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 2: What I call it. And you know, I got a

1051
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 2: lot of backlash.

1052
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 3: They were pretty mean in the in the d m

1053
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 3: s and just and in public, like you think it's funny,

1054
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:47,720
Speaker 3: it's not funny, and it's like, but.

1055
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: This is this is funny. She slipped up that, yeah,

1056
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: that they were judging.

1057
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 3: This is why they don't respect lesbians and they don't

1058
00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 3: believe us. And I was like, hey, my situation does

1059
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 3: not present all of them, and any man that thinks

1060
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 3: that my representation is everybody.

1061
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 2: Then he didn't believe it.

1062
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 3: No matter what my words or my action is not

1063
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 3: dictating the whole group of lesbian You know, he's an idiot.

1064
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and they always are. They always are.

1065
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:21,800
Speaker 3: This woman wrote to me so many you're not a lesbian,

1066
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 3: You're not a lesbid. I would have blocked your not

1067
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 3: a lesbian? How dare you? You're a dick sucking piece

1068
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 3: of ship.

1069
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: And you don't want me to kick him out the

1070
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 1: group before they even slip up, That's what I'm saying.

1071
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 3: These are you know, these are the They got a van.

1072
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 1: Full of kids and I was supposed to date this

1073
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: lady all you did was slip on one time and

1074
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: you're a dick. It was more than one.

1075
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 3: But yeah, on your side, right right, No you you

1076
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:51,280
Speaker 3: don't speak your truth, sister.

1077
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: You're right.

1078
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 4: Kids not you pulling up in a to the date

1079
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 4: with Paris is Kate Kate plus eight is like now

1080
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:00,760
Speaker 4: now I'm the LGBT.

1081
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:02,959
Speaker 1: No, I'm not doing it. It's the studs that's taking

1082
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:04,839
Speaker 1: care of them. That's the problem. The studs take care

1083
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: of them and then they leave them, and they leave

1084
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: them in the world for somebody else to come. And

1085
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 1: they think they're gonna follow up with the stud and

1086
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: it's like nobody else is doing that. You gotta go

1087
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 1: back to that lady, to the lady that dad. Where's

1088
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 1: the dad? Dad is gone? And so am I? Me

1089
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 1: and the dad same guy.

1090
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 5: I'm not the dad that stepped up or the dad

1091
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 5: neither one.

1092
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 3: Now, there was this crazy phenomenon. I think, like I

1093
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 3: don't know, maybe six months ago about bisexual studs.

1094
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 2: Do you think that's the thing.

1095
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,919
Speaker 1: That is a real thing? See, when it comes down

1096
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: to that, I feel like they just chose a label,

1097
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: but they really shouldn't have chose it because they just

1098
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 1: want to be bisexual, but they're just the stud. So

1099
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: they just putting the bisexual in front of it because

1100
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 1: they're doing what they want. I don't know. I think

1101
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 1: if I was a stud, I wouldn't by social but

1102
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1103
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 3: So there's a there's there's a stud and they say

1104
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 3: they sneak dicken, that's what it is.

1105
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 1: Sneak dickens sneak.

1106
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 5: There's your algo, yes, your algorithm.

1107
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:18,840
Speaker 1: Yes, you're the kids, because that's not on mine.

1108
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:22,280
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, I'm never saying.

1109
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 7: What is it?

1110
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 3: Just they're going out on the low and they're hooking

1111
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:39,320
Speaker 3: up with with men with the briefs on. Yes, and

1112
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 3: they're wearing the it's because they both have do rags

1113
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 3: on and ye they.

1114
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: Put up like what's up my boy?

1115
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 3: They that before they do it, let's get it in. Yeah,

1116
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 3: they're playing little Uzzi the whole time.

1117
00:52:54,560 --> 00:53:00,760
Speaker 1: Whoa, this is what you want? This is what you want.

1118
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 5: Sliding to the side is crazy.

1119
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 3: I can't even visually think about it, but yeah, you

1120
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: can see it.

1121
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 1: But that's the thing.

1122
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 3: It's like, I think we should also kind of move

1123
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 3: away from labels too, because like, once you do it,

1124
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 3: then that's what you are.

1125
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 1: And people don't leave room for growth.

1126
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 3: Or maybe oh, you know, I had a revelation, or

1127
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 3: oh let me, let me, let me see. Maybe if

1128
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 3: you've been doing something for ten years, I think you

1129
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 3: should go back and go out and see. Am I

1130
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 3: really dedicated? Or maybe I'm just content and I just content.

1131
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm just used to Okay, Yeah.

1132
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 1: See that's why I think I just want to stay

1133
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: at tomboy, Okay, because I don't want to fall in

1134
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 1: none of the because then you can't come out of it.

1135
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,720
Speaker 1: You can't stood tell me that because she was a stud,

1136
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 1: she couldn't be sasy sassy. Yeah, what do you like?

1137
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: But you're still a girl, she said she couldn't be

1138
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 1: a sassy studstead Yeah, what.

1139
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 4: What qualities or characteristics do you have to have in

1140
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 4: order to be considered You're not a study.

1141
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm not. I feel like studs take care of women.

1142
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. We're going half and half. I'm

1143
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:15,959
Speaker 1: gonna do my part and you're gonna also do yours.

1144
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: We're partners. I'm not taking care of I need to know.

1145
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 5: Okay, for the listeners for Pride, please tell us what

1146
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 5: a study is.

1147
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: I should have put us up then I'm not a stub,

1148
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: but because like the studs are, you're basically agreeing to

1149
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: be the main version of all the time across the board.

1150
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 2: So, Sidney, what do you think a study is?

1151
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:44,240
Speaker 3: I think it's a it's a it's usually a black

1152
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 3: woman or a POC.

1153
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 1: That oh stud White women can be studs.

1154
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 2: No, but.

1155
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 3: They've also gentrified stud I do not believe the beige

1156
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 3: brigade can be studs.

1157
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:04,359
Speaker 2: That's not is but yes, yep.

1158
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 3: But I don't want to say that studs want to

1159
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 3: be a man, because that would fall under the lines

1160
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 3: of France. I think studs have masculine presenting, like looks

1161
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 3: and maybe mannerisms, maybe have a heteronormative idea of like, well,

1162
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 3: I'm the man, you're the one, like I'm gonna like

1163
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:36,359
Speaker 3: you said, take care, you're my woman, I'm the stud men,

1164
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 3: I'm the studman, I'm the.

1165
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: It's just all these all these terms is wild.

1166
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 3: There's too many for me. But you don't you don't

1167
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 3: you want to go fifty to fifty.

1168
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: Lipstick. I get my nails and I did all of

1169
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: this before I was gay. So I feel like the stud.

1170
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: I can't be a stud. I'm masculine, but I'm not

1171
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 1: a stud. I think it's the difference.

1172
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 2: So you don't want you don't want to take care.

1173
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 1: I'm going to take care of her, but she also

1174
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: got to help. If you want to retire for life

1175
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: and purr, step up and be your boyfriend. But I'm

1176
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: not a boyfriend. No, And I think a stud sometimes

1177
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 1: is a boyfriend. They don't want to be a man,

1178
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 1: but they're a boyfriend friend. Yes, you get it. We

1179
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 1: look at that. I'll be pride.

1180
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 3: Okay, we're putting it together, each one, teach one here

1181
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 3: in the in the States, Paris.

1182
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 4: Is there anything that you feel like we need anything

1183
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 4: else you think that we need to know about being

1184
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 4: a lesbian? That is mess that you think we need

1185
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 4: to touch on, And it's okay.

1186
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 3: Also, it's okay if you're not attracted to women. You know,

1187
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 3: it's okay if you're not, it's okay to not be

1188
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 3: a lesbian you mean attracted to women.

1189
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: You know. I'm not talking about you.

1190
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,760
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, you know, sometimes people will be like, ooh,

1191
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 3: why don't Marie this.

1192
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, because she doesn't want to. She wanted to.

1193
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: She would like let people be who they want to be.

1194
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 4: Oh, listen, I'll post things post like i'llfit picks or whatever,

1195
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 4: and people be like, you sure you're not gay?

1196
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: Yes?

1197
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 4: Yes, and as her bestie, yes, positively without a doubt.

1198
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure, and that's good. I don't. I don't. I

1199
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: don't think. No, there's nobody. If you're gay, you'll know,

1200
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: you'll fulller. Do I have anything else for the gays?

1201
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. For the lesbian's name, I don't know.

1202
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: Do what you want, sure, be happy, there you go.

1203
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: I want people to be happy. I just do.

1204
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 3: And I think people get so caught up in what

1205
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:41,919
Speaker 3: other people think and what other people are doing. That's

1206
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 3: what's messing updating and sexuality.

1207
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 1: I just feel like because they overpopulated, and that's why

1208
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: it's taking people so long to find their person. That's

1209
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 1: the only reason I have a problem with it, because

1210
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: I feel like people getting in the way of people

1211
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: finding they real gay so made.

1212
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 3: But also you gotta also, you gotta play many games

1213
00:57:58,120 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 3: to get to the championship.

1214
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: Honey, that's true. But you know it's a whole thing

1215
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: on TikTok where studs saying that they tie to dating

1216
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: straight women because they dating straight women, and then the

1217
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 1: women are going back to the men. They're not really gay.

1218
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,919
Speaker 1: I've heard how's that? So they're intercept and that stuff

1219
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: could have found the lady or her dreams. But she

1220
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: found this straight woman who left her, got some money

1221
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 1: for the kids, went back to the day, and now

1222
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: why shene the kids? Stud of hurt. Now she gotta

1223
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: be a dog.

1224
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 2: This sounds like Maury, This feels like all Mary.

1225
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 4: But I also will say I feel like there are

1226
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 4: some studs who relish in the challenge of being with

1227
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 4: a straight woman.

1228
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: They they it's like they're trying.

1229
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 4: To turn I'm not saying all of them, but there

1230
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 4: are some trying to coming at them with a van

1231
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 4: full of kids, and you're like, well, clearly this lady

1232
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 4: is not gay, but she's here now and I can

1233
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 4: change her right, And it's.

1234
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: Like, why would you do that? That's some sense I

1235
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: don't know. Be happy, everybody, Just be happy. Do what

1236
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 1: you love, do what feels good, do who you love,

1237
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: do who you love, explore until you fine, don't put

1238
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 1: all your eggs in one basket. Just date, and so

1239
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 1: you find a person you truly like, Hello, well, Paris,

1240
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: let we got some messages for you.

1241
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 4: I'm gonna read them and like I'll read up. We'll

1242
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,920
Speaker 4: read a couple and you tell us if it's messy.

1243
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 1: Or just living cool.

1244
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 4: So basically told me her bestie used to scam dudes

1245
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 4: by telling them she was pregnant and needed abortion money.

1246
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 4: She did this until a guy told her he was

1247
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 4: or thought he was infertile and that this child could

1248
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 4: be his miracle baby. I don't can't read what this is.

1249
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 4: Is that messy or just living?

1250
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 1: I think that's I think it's just living. Sometimes sometimes

1251
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: you gotta give back on these men. I think it's

1252
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: just living. She needed the money, she needed, No all

1253
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: the time she had to get back. I think she

1254
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: was just living. You got to get these men how

1255
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 1: you can. It's not always easy. So she's like, look,

1256
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, and who wants a baby? None of them,

1257
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: So it's like, here go the money. Think like it

1258
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: was she was living. Depending on how old she was,

1259
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: it could have been mess I think she was. Yes.

1260
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 3: I think the age does matter because I pulled a

1261
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 3: stunt like that when I was, you know, in college.

1262
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

1263
01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 5: And you know, it's a young girls game.

1264
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 3: I've said it before, I've said it out loud and

1265
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 3: people gashed like, oh my god, I can't believe you

1266
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:20,959
Speaker 3: did that. You know, like told one of them, told

1267
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 3: both of them. One of them gave me half the money.

1268
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 3: I got an iPod nano after and then gave it

1269
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 3: to the other guy. That was like, I'm not giving

1270
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 3: you anything. It was just it was embarrassing. But uh,

1271
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 3: so you say, that's just living?

1272
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 2: Okay? Is it mess or just living?

1273
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 3: My girlfriend mentioned that in quotation this summer could be

1274
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 3: the summer week all hang out together, referring to her

1275
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 3: ex who she shares two dogs, a house, in a

1276
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 3: car with. I'll be down, but I don't like her

1277
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 3: as a person. Mess or just living?

1278
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. Say the second so.

1279
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 3: The person is saying, my girlfriend, it's like, I think

1280
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 3: this is something we could all hang out together, meaning

1281
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 3: the girlfriend that she has also has an ex. They

1282
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 3: that they share, uh, two dogs, a house and at

1283
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 3: a little fellowship.

1284
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: Oka.

1285
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, but she's like, I would do that, but

1286
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 3: I don't like the girlfriend's personality the ex personality.

1287
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 1: Okay, that's mess. That's that's too many, that's mess. Don't

1288
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 1: have the X around the note. That's mess already. But

1289
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: as lesbians, you know we yeah, and I don't like

1290
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: that because you don't know who's on the cycle and

1291
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: then it could just go wrong. That's just too many

1292
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: women's emotions. Yeah, that could go bad. That could go bad.

1293
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 1: Three women and one is an ex. That's that's mess.

1294
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna agree with that at all. Give you

1295
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: X far away from the note. That's what I believe.

1296
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 1: I thought.

1297
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 3: The great thing about being you know, gay or in

1298
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 3: a lesbian is that we don't subscribe to heteronormative ideas.

1299
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 3: And just because somebody is an ex, that doesn't mean

1300
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 3: that they're you know, excommunicated from you completely.

1301
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: That's my gay. I'm ex communicat at you completely. We're

1302
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: not friends, girl, I didn't know you before we dated. Bye, Okay?

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Speaker 1: Is it messer? Just living?

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Speaker 4: If I choose to remain sexless because of how gross

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01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 4: the dating pool is ps, I'm forty.

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Speaker 2: Never married, no kids.

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01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 1: Is this justified?

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Speaker 5: Or am I missing out on some reckless fund.

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Speaker 1: You're definitely probably missling out on reckless fun. But I

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01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: feel like it is a lot of piss and the

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Speaker 1: dating pool, so you could be saving yourself some stress.

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Speaker 4: I agree, But also like saying that you're forty and

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01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 4: you don't have no kids and you've never been married.

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Speaker 4: I just I feel like you got so much more

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01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 4: life left to live. This is how you're trying to

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01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 4: live it. Yeah, take a little break, take a little breather.

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Speaker 4: Maybe did you dip your toe in a different dating pool? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: like the girls with the.

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Speaker 1: Kids? That's I have a seat at the table. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I definitely live a little.

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01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 4: I think it's mess to say you're done, but you

1322
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:09,439
Speaker 4: know it's living to take some time.

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01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 1: I agree.

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01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, you have another one that you want to share

1325
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 5: before we get out of here?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Is it mess?

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01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 2: Are just living?

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Speaker 3: He let me put her finger in his But I

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01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 3: don't know if I could come back from this.

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01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:28,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say mess. I don't know what I'm gonna say, mess,

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01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 1: Just mess?

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01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 5: Why because you got them long ass?

1333
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 6: Now?

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01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah that would have worked for you. That's never happened.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. I'm leaving. Why is it mess?

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01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 1: She can't come back from it because she can't unseee that.

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01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 2: He asked her to do it.

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Speaker 3: She said she didn't say anything because she's just like

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01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 3: he let me so I think they were probably in

1340
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 3: the motion or whatever she wanted to chest and she

1341
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 3: just like probably put a little bit in there and

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01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 3: then kept going.

1343
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 2: He's like, all right, he didn't.

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01:03:56,720 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: Stop her, and she was like, I can't what that's

1345
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:03,080
Speaker 1: what you're leting me do?

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01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 4: No, she went, She washed her hands as soon as

1347
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:09,240
Speaker 4: she got She left there and texted the.

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Speaker 5: Group chat like, let me tell you what he made

1349
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 5: me do.

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01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 1: The finger emos you. They was like, what, there's a

1351
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 1: finger on the poop.

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01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're stopping you being having that kind of

1353
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 3: reaction is what's stopping men from behind?

1354
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:27,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, what they actually like and what they want.

1355
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 4: They say, that's where the mal g spot is is

1356
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 4: in the butt. So if you're listening to this for

1357
01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 4: Pride this month, make sure you put your finger and

1358
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:39,479
Speaker 4: yeah for pride, and then who knows, maybe he'll cry

1359
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 4: after he comes.

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Speaker 1: Yo. Spoken from a true straight woman.

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01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, she don't understand it's but also it's like hopefully

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01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 3: it's after a shower. Don't I want to ask her

1363
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 3: was it after a shower? Because if if you just

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01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 3: went into a man's butt, just straight man, just oh

1365
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 3: I don't Oh, we just trying this out.

1366
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: No, prep uh. I think she come back from her

1367
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 1: I would if I was saying, I'd be.

1368
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 2: Like, you just put your finger in.

1369
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: But that's a good way. I would. I would. She

1370
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: already had questions and she probably was like, I'm gonna

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01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 1: try today, And when he let it happen, she probably

1372
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 1: was like, hell, no, I'm out. I need to know

1373
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 1: how deep send us a picture of your finger. Did

1374
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: you go in or did you just tap it? Anybody home?

1375
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 1: Knock knock, knocking on the devil dude.

1376
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 3: Okay, this has been a factabulous toxic positive episode.

1377
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: Very we learned. I learned what healthy means. And I

1378
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 1: apologize if I offended anyone.

1379
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 3: I didn't know you did lies parents.

1380
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 2: Tell everybody what you got coming up and where they

1381
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 2: can find you.

1382
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 1: I'll be in New York. You want the show City

1383
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 1: Jones twentyeth, Chicago, Jones twenty sixth, Atlanta, Jones twenty seventh,

1384
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 1: uh DC this weekend, So what is that? June sixth

1385
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: through eighth, and then Fort Worth, Texas in.

1386
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:19,640
Speaker 5: July, and then where in the house in November?

1387
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:25,640
Speaker 1: November Me and my little it down and what's your Instagram?

1388
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 1: At Paris? P A R. I. S. S. A s

1389
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 1: h A Y. Yes, I love it.

1390
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 2: I love it.

1391
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 4: I sure my favorite toxic, not toxic, toxic. You're my

1392
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 4: favorite fun toxic.

1393
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:39,400
Speaker 1: That's right, And that's what I do it for.

1394
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 2: I saw all of Marie's teeth this episode.

1395
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 4: She's like hilarious talking to Paris.

1396
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 3: We do that.

1397
01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 1: That's that's all. We're cousins on our dad's side.

1398
01:06:51,160 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I see it. Paris famously Jamaican, Jamaica. And hey, guys, can.

1399
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: You please keep leaving reviews? They're so good, even the

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01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 1: bad ones.

1401
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, review us, review us, review us.

1402
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: Leave stars and.

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01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 2: Reviews, send if you want them. And oh yeah, and

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01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 2: send us your.

1405
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 4: Message all right anyway, Happy pride, Happy pride.

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01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 1: Go do something gay today? Yeah, gay today? When tomorrow?

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01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 1: And the Whole momth.

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Speaker 4: Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a production

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Speaker 4: by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio Podcasts. Created

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01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 4: and hosted by Sidney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced

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01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 4: by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by Becca Ramos,

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01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 4: edited a mixed by Brian Jeffries.

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01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:48,800
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