WEBVTT - Wed Part 2: Terri Clark On Why She Turned Down Playboy + Tipping Etiquette 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:07.760 Show this school in Massachusetts, four and fifty four students 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:11.399 in this one class, a thirty class, and they have 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:15.840 twenty four sets of twins. Wow, whoa on there? 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:17.240 What the heck? 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:20.880 They have twenty four sets of twins out of four 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:24.480 hundred and fifty four students, ten percent of the classes twin. 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:27.280 I wonder how many of those are that's just runs 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:28.840 in their family or their IVF. 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:31.520 Oh, that's a good question. 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:36.440 Hey, well, if any of that's the case, it's still wild. 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:39.880 That's an abnormal amount of twins. 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:41.680 We have these twins in high school, and like we 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:43.640 always got it mixed up, like everyone would call the 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:44.920 wrong twin by the wrong name. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:46.600 Like I wondered if that's the problem at this school. 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:47.800 Yes, it's got to be. 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:51.879 Yeah, no, Tim, I'm sorry, but I mean, all the 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:53.640 twins don't look alike, Eddie. It's not like all the 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:55.920 twins looking like every other one of the twins that 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:57.880 we had in our school did. No, but I'm saying 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:00.279 look alike. But they're not looking like the other twins, 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:01.280 other sets of twins. 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:03.160 Oh no, no, I know. But you know, do you 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:04.959 miss up one set of twins? I'm sure you mess 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:05.559 up with the other sets. 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:07.880 Yeah, that's true because like Pam and that's not true. 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:09.360 You just saying words. 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:11.120 But also what's cool that this is it leads to 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:14.520 opportunity for twins dating twins, like that'd be fun. 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:18.000 That's like some in bred types see them hold their 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.440 hands down the hall and they they're starts. They're switching 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:25.600 it like hand. It's like, oh wait, I'm Tim, No Jim, 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:30.000 that's from twenty five New. Now my family, I know, 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:32.360 not a lot of twins. I guess no twins, but 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:34.360 you know we I have a weird family tree in 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:38.319 that my mom and her sister married my biological dad 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:41.520 and his brother. So it's two sisters. No, not Arkansas, 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:44.640 it's not, although I do get that a lot, but 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:48.680 our family tree is very much no branches. Wow, anybody 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:50.840 any of my cousins, we're all related to the same people. 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:54.160 There's no other sides of the family. That's wild. So 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:59.480 it's again my mom her sister married my biological dad 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:03.520 and his brother, so I have double cousins. My cousins 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:06.600 are cousins on both sides. That is, so anybody they're 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:08.760 related to, I'm also related to. There's no other way 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:12.280 around it. I wonder if we have like more matching 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:16.400 DNA than normal cousins. We have to write. I don't 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.360 know we got enough double both sides. 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:19.560 Mm hmm. 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:22.920 It's not inbred. It's nothing about Arkansas. 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:27.640 It's like my sister we went to Arkansas when we 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.960 were younger, like family road trip to visit our aunt, uncle, 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:32.919 and our cousin. There became kind of like a kissing 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:33.800 cousin with my sister. 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:36.440 I don't know if we don't have to. 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:43.880 Do Arkansas kissing cousins. 0:02:40.840 --> 0:02:43.280 Were from Texas, Arkansas. 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.040 No, No, he was really cute, like I get it, 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:46.799 and we didn't. 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:50.920 Know Arkansas relatives making out go ahead. 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.360 I was going somewhere with that, Like we didn't really 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:53.919 know him. 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:56.600 So it's sort of just like was a thing. But 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:57.240 I get it. 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:00.320 They weren't as yours would be closer to you, like 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:03.440 we were more removed. So you definitely couldn't have a 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.120 kissing cousin. 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:08.000 No, your cousin, No, I hear you. But so what 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.400 you could have just said your sister had a cousin, 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.200 you had to go to Arkansas, where I'm from. 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:15.000 No, I remember the whole drive back, she listened to 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:16.240 that song. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:23.959 It must have been love Arkansas. 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:27.880 Not get to happen on the show. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:29.760 I think it was kind of like, dang, we're cousins, 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:31.239 Like this isn't gonna go anywhere. 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:33.520 I don't even think they really kissed, you know, there 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:34.880 was like an attraction. 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:42.840 And yeah, but we didn't know him. Doesn't matter, Amy, Well, we're. 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:44.360 Still related if you know them or not. 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:45.680 That's why. 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:47.840 On the way back she was like, it must have 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:49.880 been loved, but it's over now because we're cousins. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.600 You know what in the world this is crazy. Okay. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:55.400 Let's say you meet your cousin and you never met 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:58.240 him your whole life, and you fall in love. Do 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:02.600 you marry them? Well, I mean, well, what state your cousin? 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:06.120 What state? Doesn't matter? Do you When do you find 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:07.000 out they're your cousins? 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:08.839 The thing is back in the day, this is the thing. 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:10.680 What do you mean when do you find Because if 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:12.560 you get married and then you find out your five 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:14.960 years married divorce, you do it's over? 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:15.400 What? 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.360 Okay, whole time I would say done at all. 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:19.760 Just let it be. 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:23.000 I have kids too, Yeah, they don't have tales though. Okay, 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:26.279 here's the thing. Let's say you date for you don't 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:30.560 know them at all, Your parents or families are strange, 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:32.640 and you finally like run to them. Oh we're cousins. Wow, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:37.680 first cousins. You fall in love, right then? Can you date? No? No? 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:40.200 Yeah, if you'd had no relationship prior. 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:43.440 And your parents family that they don't have a relationship, no. 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:46.320 That's okay, but no, no, just think how easy the 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:50.080 wedding will be because you don't have to decide like, ooh, no, 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:51.839 sides right exactly everyone? 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:56.679 We have friends, but yeah, who you're here for my cousins. 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:58.720 I think we're to a point now where that's not 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.920 what we do. We don't we don't marry our cousins. 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.280 But we just kissed him. But again, what if you 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.040 fell in love and didn't know they were okay? What 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:07.880 if again, you fall in love you don't know they're 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:09.680 your cousin. You do a twenty three and me or 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:12.960 whatever ancestry or whatever it is, and it's like you're 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:17.240 first cousins and you're in love, you're engaged, you're engaged. 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:18.160 Call it off. 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:19.640 Yeah, it's totally not happening. 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:22.480 Oh, guys, I think you're I think you're overreacting. I 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:23.480 think you keep it together. 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:27.479 I think if you're engaged and you already have a love. 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:31.040 What if you meet at a family reunion and you've 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:34.560 never met him, and you're twenty eight years old and 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:37.799 she's twenty five and you've never met. 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:39.400 And you meet at a family reunion, you're like, hey, 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:40.240 you know what, Like. 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:43.080 Let's look and see that those cousins if that is like, 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:46.400 first of all, is it legal to marry your first cousin? 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:48.320 Yeah, didn't Rudy Julie? 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:51.200 You want to do that? And see this history that something? 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:53.520 Didn't Rudy Giuliani, Mary's first cousin. 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:55.400 I don't know for all that stuff, I forget. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.800 He's I don't really mind whatever we say about him. 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:02.960 It's legal for cousins to marry. See a new bill 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:06.679 would change that. How about is it legal to marry 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:10.440 your cousin's federal federal law? I mean that would mean 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:12.760 national law. I mean, why don't we bringing the law 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:15.040 into this. Let's just would you do? First cousin marriage 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:21.520 remains completely legal in these seventeen states Alabama, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Florida, Georgia, Maryland, Massachusetts, 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:23.719 New Jersey, New York, New Mexico, North Carolina, Rhode Island, 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:27.159 South Carolina, Tennessee or Moonton, Virginia. Hey, no, Arkansas, their suckers, 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:30.000 did you one? No, I turned in it's they. 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:35.960 Don't even need a law about it. Whatever room for 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:36.599 that in the prison. 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:38.720 You guys have haters, and I hate all of you too. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.840 Here's they make a map that shows where you can 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:44.440 marry your cousin, Like, go to this state to marry them. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:49.679 Twenty four states prohibit marriages between first cousins. Seven states 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:53.279 allow first cousin marriages with conditions such as genetic counseling 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:54.679 or if the partner is sterile. 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:57.640 Oh yeah, because you can't procreate. 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:01.760 What does it mean when someone's once are moved, that's 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:02.520 second cousin? 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:06.240 Yeah, well it says first cousins once are moved. Does 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:07.159 that mean second cousin? 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:09.360 I never understand when people speak that way. 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:12.720 So yeah, either. Okay. So let's say you on your 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:16.080 wedding day you find out that that's your first cousin. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:20.320 But before you get married, before the ideas before yeah day, 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:23.120 what over you say, I'm out. Yeah, I'm not doing this. 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:26.880 We can't do this. We're cousins. Yeah, hopefully she agrees. 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:28.240 It's just one of those things you're not going to 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:29.040 be able to get over. 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:32.760 I'm down down, well, Bobby, I expect that. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:37.640 I just don't. I think you guys are overreacting. 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:41.880 I think it reacted. You're crazy. Yeah, and okay, fine, 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:44.760 Caitlin's my cousin. I said, the whole segment have to 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:47.800 reveal that. Okay, you guys are haters. And I'd like 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:49.440 to shout out to everybody in Arkansas. I love you. You 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:50.880 know who loves you me, you know who doesn't. These 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:52.480 three I don't ever let them come in your day, 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:57.720 which is Josh, wake up, wake Up. 0:07:58.080 --> 0:07:58.760 The mall. 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:08.200 And the turning radio and the Davis's Tidy lunchbox, more 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:11.480 game two, good Steve Bread, haven't trying to put you through. 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:15.840 Fogy's running this week's next Minute, and Bobby's on the box. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:24.160 So you knowing this. 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:23.360 The Bobby Balls. 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:30.040 Time for the news. Bobby's. A recent twenty twenty four 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:32.160 survey said, what are the top regrets in your life 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:36.000 that are still on your mind? Already A couple here. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.040 I'll ask you guys that question. Top regrets of your 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:43.319 life that you still think about sometimes? Number one spending 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.920 too much time on your phone, not prioritizing life moments 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.480 number two. Losing touch with friends past and present. Number 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:54.839 three not standing up to bullies during childhood and even work. 0:08:57.040 --> 0:08:58.439 If you guys don't have one, I can go first 0:08:58.520 --> 0:08:59.040 get one. 0:08:59.520 --> 0:08:59.959 Yeah, I have a. 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:06.240 Yeah, I think, oh, well, a big one. Because I've 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:08.200 lost both my mom and my dad. There's just so 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:10.720 many conversations I never had with them, and it's a 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.360 huge regret. And if they were around, I know there's 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:16.120 very specific things I would ask them. I would talk 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:19.920 to them about and I wouldn't be so shy or nervous, 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:22.600 like I think I didn't want to ask them to 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:24.680 dig a little bit deeper, but I think it would 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:25.920 have been beneficial for everybody. 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:27.280 Yeah. 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:31.800 I think about like chicks, Like, Okay, so I'm in 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:33.400 a bar and I make out with you know, there's 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:35.600 two chicks and I'm like, oh, which one I choose 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:39.520 a ad to for the night instead of B And I'm like, 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:40.680 oh man, I've gone. 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:43.959 With be like or try to and be everything about that. 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:46.040 I thought about that, but they didn't know each other 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:48.600 as they weren't down. But you know, things like that, 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:50.120 It's like, ah, man. 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:54.120 Eddie, I still think about it. I mean, not starting 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:56.160 a four to one came much, much, much earlier in 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.280 my life. You don't even started one now. 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:00.199 No, no, But for me, I think, why don't start? 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:01.960 Start today? You feel like it's too late, it's not. 0:10:02.480 --> 0:10:02.680 Dude. 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.520 If I would have started at twenty twenty one, oh 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.360 my goodness, and ten years. 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:08.840 You're going to go. I wish I would have started 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:10.880 when he was forty five. 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:11.840 Right, that's a good point. 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:13.719 I started it a year ago when we started talking 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:14.040 about that. 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:18.319 You know what, I regret that too, Okay, I think 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:20.800 mine is probably not. When my grandma was sick, I 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:22.520 just thought she'd live forever, which is a dumb thing 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:24.920 to think. But my grandma raised me and I was 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.480 in college and it wasn't like an easy drive home, 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:29.719 and I was like eh, and I did occasionally, but 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:31.840 I just didn't do it enough. And so I regret 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.560 that because when she got sick, she got sick, and 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:37.600 then you know, she died pretty quick, and I had 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:39.120 a It's crazy because I know we talked about this. 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:42.160 I had a deal with my grandma and I was like, hey, 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:45.280 when you die, you have to like and she was 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:48.560 like way older. My mom was the youngest of like 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:51.480 many many kids, and so my grandma was way older 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:53.440 than like a normal grandma as well. And I was like, well, 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:55.080 I'm gonna talk about it, like when you die, you 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:57.559 have to like give me a sign that you're still 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:01.120 out there. And I don't think she gave me a sign. 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.880 What's up? Talk about it? No, I think the air 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:06.840 conditioner came on and like her old guitar fell at 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:09.640 some But I'm saying, you said, give me a sign. 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:11.280 Yeah, but what are you saying that you would have been? 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:12.800 You wish you would have been more specific? 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:16.160 Yeah, I wish i'd have been, like, get make a 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:18.000 musical instrument fall over when you die? 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:19.719 I just that way you would know. 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:24.719 Yeah, So that my regret there is that. Otherwise I 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:29.719 most things that I'm not happy about what happened, I've 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:32.280 learned great lessons from them. They've actually led to even 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:35.560 better decisions that when I got to find a million 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:37.920 bucks by the SEC, I learned nothing from that. So 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:39.680 I wish that wouldn't have happened. But I can't really 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:41.000 regret how I did it because I don't do anything 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:46.360 wrong unless they're listening. Sorry finding that, but I regret 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:52.440 that that happened. Yeah, regrets that happened. Next up, let's listen. 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:55.600 If you're a SCC, you guys are cool. You guys 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:55.880 are cool. 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:56.160 Yeah. 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.280 In line with that, I'll just hear something really quick 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:00.000 that you know. My niece is living with right now. 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.040 She's twenty one, and she wrote a high school paper 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:05.520 on living without regret, and she based it off my mom, 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:07.960 and she said that she learned that when my mom 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:10.679 was dying. One of the things she said was that 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:13.160 she didn't live out her dreams. And so I think 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:15.120 that's a big regret, is sometimes not taking time to 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:17.320 dream and then chase your dreams, whatever they are. But 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:19.480 my mom just didn't take time to even dream for herself. 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.360 And I promise everybody listening right now, you're gonna regret 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:24.360 more things you didn't try, the more things you tried 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:26.680 and failed and did wrong, right, because you're always gonna 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:27.840 be like I wish I would at least tried this. 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:30.160 I've screwed up a lot of things. I messed up 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.320 a lot of things. I don't regret any of that 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:34.040 stuff because at least I gave it a run. But 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.440 I just would not not feel good about not trying it. 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:39.839 The stuff you don't try, and stuff you're gonna hate 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:41.200 that you didn't do, not the stuff you did wrong 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:45.439 unless you murder. Oh yeah, that's a bad don't try that. 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:45.600 That you can. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.960 People are reserving baby names within a friend group now, 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.560 so people are like calling DIBs on baby names. You 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:53.199 can't do that, well, I mean you can't. Well it's 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:55.079 not legal, but yes, you can have an agreement and 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:58.760 your friends. Weird people are talking about baby names and 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:01.680 they claim them within a friend group if they want it, 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:04.760 so another friend doesn't like undercut them with the name. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:08.000 But it isn't it like whoever has the baby. 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:10.160 First, Well, then you get to it. But unless it's 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:15.200 called it's like shotgun Drew, Okay, shotgun never really really works. 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:20.959 Always over shot. It was only trouble with deciphering what 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.040 the rules were as soon as you said you're going, 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:24.520 or when you could see the car or when you 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.559 could touch the car. Everybody different rules. 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:28.400 A shotgun always you could always say it in here, 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:29.680 you say shotgun. 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:31.320 But it doesn't matter what you heard, did anybody else here? 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:33.320 My kids still play it and I have to be 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:34.920 the judge, like they'll be like mom, did you hear 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:35.600 me say it first? 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:38.000 And unfortunately have to be like, yeah, okay, she said 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:38.440 it first. 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:40.640 Shotgun is really one of the great things about being 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:43.040 in an American Still around most people adhere to shotgun. 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:44.240 Yeah. 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:47.400 Paralyzed puppy walks again thanks to three D printed spine. Yeah, 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:51.479 he was able to do. Arthur, a six month old cockapoo, 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:54.319 was unable to move after his limbs became weak and collapsed. 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:57.920 His owner rushed him to the vet. They did MRI scans. 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.000 They discovered a part of a spine was not connected 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.960 together properly, which can presses spinal cord. The dogs then 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:06.040 had a four hour surgery. Surgeons placed a three D 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:10.040 printed spinal screw and surgical cement into the spine and 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:12.600 now it works and he's moving and they were able 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:14.400 to just print this stuff out, say what they needed 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:14.800 and got it. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:15.280 Love it. 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:18.440 So the New York Posts Technology man is pretty cool. 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:22.640 Digital price tags are coming to Walmart. So here's why 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:25.640 it's good. Here's why it's bad. Digital price tags are 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.040 cool because let's say the price tag isn't on it 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:31.920 for some reason, it get ripped off, or you can 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:34.560 save in your phone. You can take a picture of 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:36.240 it too. But why they're bad as people think they 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:37.400 do dynamic pricing with them. 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:38.440 What does that? I don't know. 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:42.200 Because the price tag, it's a QR code, right, So 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:43.720 you put the QR code, you see how much of 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:45.160 the things are. You can have a QR code on 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:47.160 the tag. But what's what's up is if a bunch 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:50.000 of them starts to sell, they could start to lift 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:51.720 the price of them because it's not paper you're having 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.600 to replace. It's literally, if we sell thirty two percent 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:55.920 of them, let's mark it up five bucks. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:58.360 I wonder too if they know, like you're you're like, 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.480 how much you have? This guy's rich mark it up? 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:05.120 Oh hey, you know what I mean. Nothing would surprised 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:07.000 me at this point. But that's a funny thought that 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:09.720 they're also part of the Big Brother and looking at 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:11.440 your bank account and pricing it based on who you are. 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:14.960 It's like the minute your phone access level the QR code, 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:17.360 they have access to your money and they're like. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:19.520 Or when you walk in, they automatically know who you 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:22.000 are and what you have by like your facial scan. 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:25.360 D Yeah, they followed you from the bank and they know. 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:27.000 They didn't fight you from the bank. I just know 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:32.640 your face. There's no physical on the Bobbycast Drew Baldridges 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.400 on I'm telling you, I walked away from this going 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.840 that I'm motivated and inspired by this dude. Here's a 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:42.440 clip of his song She's Somebody's Daughter, She Somebody's doll. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.880 He put the song out over three years ago and 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:50.320 his record label fell apart and that was it no more. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:53.520 But he puts it on TikTok and he not even 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:55.760 a big TikToker, and it goes next morning, he wakes 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.119 up and he's like, wait, what on our honeymoon? 0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:00.280 I posted TikTok And I just say, hey, if this 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:02.400 gets three thousand likes, I'll put it out on Friday, 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:04.680 you know, just trying to tease. It was Wednesday. I 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:07.000 woke up Thursday and I had almost ten million views. 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:09.840 Mind you. I'm like, I don't look all night because 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:11.240 I haven't had a video do that. 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:11.480 You know. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:13.440 I'm just thinking, like I'm gonna wake up the next day. 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:15.880 Obviously I'm with my wife. It's our honeymoon. We're enjoying it. 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:17.840 And I wake up and I look at her and 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.040 I'm like wow. And I pulled up and my followers 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:21.840 jump like one hundred thousand. 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:24.360 So he had this song from three years ago, but 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:25.640 he's like, I'll put out a wedding version of it. 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:29.080 He just got married, and so he gets ten million 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:32.040 in a night, which is wild. Okay, so you're like, dang, 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:34.320 look at that, blew up. Pretty cool story. So then 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.560 he's like, no, no record label is going to sign him. 0:16:36.640 --> 0:16:38.640 They're like I don't know. So then it just starts 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:41.840 going to everybody's backyard, like I'll play any backyard to 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:43.760 make money in order to get his career going. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.120 Here's this clip I decided to post on Socials and 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:48.240 I say I'll play anybody's backyard that wants. 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:48.440 To have me. 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:50.760 I'm broke, Yeah, I feel and so I thought I'd 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:53.440 get like five requests, and so I get like twenty 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:55.880 some thousand requests on TikTok. For two years, I go 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:58.320 play three hundred people's backyard. Wow, just me and a guitar. 0:16:58.480 --> 0:16:59.920 Just take whatever money they gave you. Yeah. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:02.120 It started off that way of like hey, whatever you 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:03.400 could give me, and then I was like this is 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:05.240 what I need. Because there were some times I would 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:07.000 lose on it and so I'd be like this is 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:09.320 what I really need two or three grand, pay for 0:17:09.359 --> 0:17:11.680 mym my tour manager, and I will come play in 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:14.200 your backyard for seventy five minutes, play corn, holy barbecue. 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:17.280 He did that three hundred times all over the country. 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:19.879 Took us a guitar and played in people's backyards so 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:21.880 we could survive being uneasy. 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:23.679 Now that's not a lot of days off man. 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:26.679 So he then talked about how even now he has 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:28.880 a song it's maybe in topting close to top ten, 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:32.000 he has no record label, no management, no agent. He's 0:17:32.000 --> 0:17:33.920 having to finance everything himself. 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:37.600 I had to put on a manager hat and be like, Okay, 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:40.719 how do I get shows? How do I create income? 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:43.080 And then I had to run a promo staff. I'm 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:45.520 doing a calls every Monday, running a promo team, and 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.879 then like shows coming in and booking that and booking 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:50.720 in myself. And you know what's most exciting, Bobby is 0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:52.919 like being on this podcast with you, man is a 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:54.760 really big deal and a dream of mine. 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:56.440 I think I'm your biggest fan. I'm gonna tell you 0:17:57.680 --> 0:17:59.879 it's I was blown away by the dude. That's so 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:03.200 he's like buying radio commercials for a song. He's doing 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:04.720 it all himself because he doesn't have a team, but 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:06.760 it's all blown up and he's like, screw it, I'll 0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:09.119 go play backyards. I'll do it all myself. That's nobody else. 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:11.960 Wants to help chasing dreams, but he just is a. 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:13.840 Guy who was like, I'll figure out way to do 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:15.480 it even if it's really hard. I'm gonna keep going 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:18.600 until I absolutely can't. And he has now popped. Wow. 0:18:18.600 --> 0:18:21.040 Super cool. Check out the Bobby Cast. That entire interview 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:24.520 with Drew Baldridge is up on the Bobby Cast. Wherever 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:26.160 you listen to your podcast. That's the news. 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:30.919 Bobby's story. 0:18:31.520 --> 0:18:34.000 Terry Clarkson Studio, good to see you again. I didn't. 0:18:34.000 --> 0:18:35.919 We didn't know each other until you came over to 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:38.920 the house. I really enjoyed that. I don't always enjoy him. 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:41.560 I did too. It felt like a really intense therapy session. 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:43.040 Part of that it was really great. 0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:48.400 I rarely don't enjoy them, but you know, with anything else, 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:51.680 it'sd be like a show that you do if you're try. 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:53.359 You don't hate doing shows, but some of them just 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:54.760 fall in and you're just like, you just do a 0:18:54.760 --> 0:18:56.520 show and it was good and you move on. But 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:58.399 I like, really enjoyed the time. I guess because I 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.360 was a fan of you for a long, long long 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:03.360 time and didn't know you. And some that can go 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:06.320 either way when you meet somebody. 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:08.879 Yeah, are they going to be you know, what you 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:10.679 think they are or are they going to be just 0:19:11.280 --> 0:19:15.600 what they are? Yeah? Well, I enjoyed meeting you too. 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:19.119 You know, I'm a fan of yours and I have 0:19:19.160 --> 0:19:21.280 a radio show, and you tend to kind of want 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:25.400 to listen to people and their conversational skills when they're 0:19:25.600 --> 0:19:27.439 interviewing people, and you're one of those people that I 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:30.080 think a lot of artists are starting to dabble in 0:19:30.160 --> 0:19:31.120 radio now, you know. 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:33.320 Podcasting radio, and yeah, yeah, but you're good at it. 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:36.280 Well, thank you very much, but you're you know, there's 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:39.440 a reason you're winning all these awards and stuff. So congratulations. 0:19:39.480 --> 0:19:41.479 And I really enjoyed our last chat. So when they 0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:43.960 said we were coming back now we can actually talk 0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:47.960 about the record, we couldn't remember the publicity people were 0:19:47.960 --> 0:19:50.640 all like, no, they were giving us the whole win. 0:19:50.760 --> 0:19:52.199 I don't think that was weird. It was like, hey, 0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:54.280 Terry Clark's coming over, but she can't talk about anything, right, 0:19:55.080 --> 0:19:57.639 but we wonder talk about I wonder what we're going 0:19:57.720 --> 0:19:57.879 to do. 0:19:57.960 --> 0:19:59.800 We talked about childhood baggage instead. 0:20:00.280 --> 0:20:02.560 I So how I found out about your record is 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:06.680 one of my best dear friends, Ben Rector. Oh, today 0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:08.919 I'm going to go record what Terry Clark? Do you 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:10.639 know her? And at the time I didn't, And I 0:20:10.720 --> 0:20:12.200 was like, I don't know her, but I'm a fan 0:20:12.240 --> 0:20:14.080 of her. Let me know how it goes. And he 0:20:14.119 --> 0:20:16.560 came back and he was like, she was delightful that 0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:21.440 that was his description of you. Delightful. So you got 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:25.680 a lot of artists to come back and sing your 0:20:25.760 --> 0:20:28.920 big songs. How what's that problem? I don't know. How 0:20:28.920 --> 0:20:32.760 do you pick? Does everybody say yes? Sometimes? Does they 0:20:32.800 --> 0:20:34.120 not sing it exactly like you want? 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:34.200 Like? 0:20:34.240 --> 0:20:35.320 What is that process? Like? 0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:37.919 Well, I started with kind of a you know, a 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:41.320 list of my wish list of people, and I called 0:20:41.359 --> 0:20:45.160 Ashley McBride first, and we've been friends since twenty seventeen. 0:20:45.240 --> 0:20:47.600 So she said yes and jumped on board. And I 0:20:47.640 --> 0:20:49.480 wanted her to do better things to do because it 0:20:49.520 --> 0:20:51.920 was the debut single and she had publicly talked about 0:20:51.920 --> 0:20:54.000 how much that debut album meant to her when she 0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:56.439 was a kid growing up in Arkansas, and how she 0:20:56.880 --> 0:20:59.080 you know, she felt like she was different than the 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:00.960 rest of the girls. She was, you know, she was 0:21:01.000 --> 0:21:03.920 a tomboy, and she saw my image and really got 0:21:03.920 --> 0:21:06.520 into music in it and it helped her feel like 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:11.120 she belonged, I guess. And so her singing on Better 0:21:11.119 --> 0:21:13.320 Things to Do was a natural fit to me. And 0:21:13.359 --> 0:21:16.480 then after Ashley agreed, you know, when you get one, 0:21:16.800 --> 0:21:19.520 it's kind of easier to start going, well, Ashley McBride's 0:21:19.520 --> 0:21:22.920 doing this, did you go to Landy Wilson's crazy. Yeah, 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:28.280 Ashley is, like, she is amazing, and she's so respected 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:31.880 around town for her songwriting and her artistry especially, it's 0:21:32.000 --> 0:21:36.000 just amazing. So and then I love Landy Wilson for 0:21:36.119 --> 0:21:38.360 so many reasons. I love the fact that she's such 0:21:38.359 --> 0:21:41.280 an individual. You can recognize her by a silhouette. There 0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:43.280 aren't a lot of people that you know, you see 0:21:43.280 --> 0:21:46.200 their silhouette, you know the automatically who it is. Laney 0:21:46.240 --> 0:21:48.919 Wilson is one of those people. And I loved her music, 0:21:48.960 --> 0:21:51.159 and so I asked her. Everybody said, yes, there were 0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:54.119 only a couple There are only a couple of people 0:21:54.160 --> 0:21:57.000 that schedule had scheduling conflicts that couldn't do it. But 0:21:57.080 --> 0:21:58.920 Ben Rector, I've been a fan of. We talked about 0:21:59.000 --> 0:22:02.320 him last time and his immense talent. He's genius. You know, 0:22:02.359 --> 0:22:04.720 he's one of those almost prodigy type guys. 0:22:04.720 --> 0:22:08.600 It's annoying. Let's say it's annoying. Yes, he's so good. 0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:11.040 It's so annoying. We could have kept the first take 0:22:11.080 --> 0:22:12.760 on now that I found you and been and been 0:22:12.800 --> 0:22:16.479 fine with that. And he's just incredibly talented. And I 0:22:16.520 --> 0:22:18.240 was so happy to see him opening for Dan and 0:22:18.280 --> 0:22:21.199 Shay because he needs to be exposed to those huge audiences. 0:22:22.000 --> 0:22:24.840 My manager actually wasn't as familiar with Ben Rector until 0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:26.680 she went to their show and she texted me and 0:22:26.720 --> 0:22:29.520 she said, man, now I know why he's on your record. 0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:31.320 Why you wanted to get him on your record? She said, 0:22:31.359 --> 0:22:32.919 I wasn't that familiar with him, but I am a 0:22:32.960 --> 0:22:37.639 fan now, and that's that's he And he was so gracious, humble, kind, 0:22:38.240 --> 0:22:40.879 and added so much to that arrangement and track. 0:22:41.119 --> 0:22:43.840 The album is called Terry Clark Take Two. I'm gonna 0:22:43.880 --> 0:22:45.359 read some of the other people on it, Lauren Laana, 0:22:46.160 --> 0:22:49.080 Kelly Clarks, and Cody Johnson. Ashley McBride, Carly Pierces, Been Rector, 0:22:49.160 --> 0:22:53.080 Laney Wilson, and Paul Brandt. Paul is from because our 0:22:53.080 --> 0:22:56.080 show's in Canada as well. Paul's a massive Canadian star. 0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:59.960 He is, yeah, and we you know, we'd never toured together, 0:23:00.520 --> 0:23:03.200 and it always made sense to me. That kind of 0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:05.800 a ticket always made sense to me. But he was 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:09.320 always headlining, and then I was headlining, and then we 0:23:09.400 --> 0:23:11.560 both kind of gave the market a bit of a break. 0:23:11.600 --> 0:23:14.399 Paul is very very savvy businessman. He's very smart. He 0:23:14.480 --> 0:23:18.080 knows not to overplay Canada. There are only so many 0:23:18.200 --> 0:23:20.680 venues in Canada. We don't have the population, we don't 0:23:20.680 --> 0:23:23.120 have the venues that the United States does. And I'm 0:23:23.200 --> 0:23:24.919 lucky that I can bounce back and forth, you know, 0:23:25.320 --> 0:23:28.520 across the border and play both markets. But Paul's been 0:23:28.560 --> 0:23:31.240 really careful and protected that as an artist, and I 0:23:31.320 --> 0:23:35.680 really respect his business model in doing that. So when 0:23:35.720 --> 0:23:37.679 I went to him with this idea, I said, I 0:23:37.720 --> 0:23:41.560 had just a few years earlier done across Canada solo tour. 0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:42.920 I do a lot of solo shows. I just have 0:23:43.000 --> 0:23:45.480 guitars around me. I have a Ditto Looper, which is 0:23:46.280 --> 0:23:48.560 a little stomp box thing that you can create loops 0:23:48.600 --> 0:23:52.520 on and I have a porchboard which creates kind of 0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:54.960 a kick drum. So I do this one woman show 0:23:55.000 --> 0:23:58.199 and tell jokes and stories about songs and it was 0:23:58.200 --> 0:24:00.800 sold out across Canada and twenty six and so I 0:24:00.800 --> 0:24:03.000 went to him with the same concept in twenty eighteen. 0:24:03.040 --> 0:24:06.639 I said, we should do this together, like it just 0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:10.399 makes total sense and fans love that intimate type of setting. 0:24:10.440 --> 0:24:12.600 So we went out in October and November last year 0:24:12.640 --> 0:24:16.959 and did you know BC through Ontario and we're in 0:24:17.000 --> 0:24:20.680 talks about possibly doing another run. But it's uh, that's cool. Yeah, 0:24:20.720 --> 0:24:23.080 that that take of Easy on the Eyes was live 0:24:23.119 --> 0:24:25.800 in Toronto. We didn't go in and fix any vocal things, 0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:27.920 we didn't go tweak a whole lot. We added bass 0:24:27.960 --> 0:24:30.080 and drums in the studio when I was in tracking 0:24:30.160 --> 0:24:31.760 the last four for take two, just to give it 0:24:31.760 --> 0:24:34.320 a little lyft. But what you what you see, is 0:24:34.320 --> 0:24:37.320 what you hear, is what you get. And it was 0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:38.840 fun to be able to have a live track on 0:24:38.880 --> 0:24:41.600 there and have my friend Paul be doing it with 0:24:41.680 --> 0:24:42.520 me as a duet. 0:24:42.960 --> 0:24:44.480 I don't know if it's a sensitive to ask, but 0:24:44.800 --> 0:24:48.000 there was a story about Playboy asking to be in 0:24:48.040 --> 0:24:51.600 the magazine, but then they asked you to be fully clothed, 0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:54.879 and then they then you said no to all. Is 0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:55.640 that accurate? 0:24:55.760 --> 0:24:58.760 No, okay, there's no way Playboy is going to pay 0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:01.400 me money to be fully clothed, and they're not gonna 0:25:01.440 --> 0:25:03.240 pay me anything these days. But this is about twenty 0:25:03.359 --> 0:25:08.800 years ago, I would say, and it's so stupid that 0:25:09.200 --> 0:25:11.960 you know what female country singer would you like to 0:25:12.000 --> 0:25:17.600 see pose for Playboy? And I came in. I don't 0:25:17.640 --> 0:25:19.280 remember who was first and who was second, but me 0:25:19.320 --> 0:25:21.879 and Shania Twain, who could not be more polar opposite 0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:25.680 twenty years ago, especially, came in top two. I don't 0:25:25.760 --> 0:25:29.040 understand why. So they came to me and offered me, 0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:33.080 I'm just gonna say a million dollars twenty years ago, which. 0:25:32.880 --> 0:25:36.560 Is more like three right now because of inflation. 0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:41.359 And then my manager, Clarence, I said, there's no way 0:25:41.400 --> 0:25:44.120 I'm posing like meet and greets can get weird enough 0:25:44.160 --> 0:25:44.560 as it is. 0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:46.439 Can you imagine you imagine they bring that. 0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:53.080 Man? And then so Clarence, this is the funniest story. Marnie, 0:25:53.080 --> 0:25:56.000 my day to day manager at the time, walked into 0:25:56.040 --> 0:25:59.760 my manager, Clarence Spaulding's office, and she had an intern 0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:02.359 with with her, and the intern looked at his desk 0:26:02.400 --> 0:26:05.359 and he was researching. He had Playboy magazines all over 0:26:05.440 --> 0:26:10.840 his desk. Who am I going to work for? But 0:26:11.040 --> 0:26:14.040 he called me and he says, well, they said you 0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:17.720 can just show you can go topless for like this 0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:20.680 amount of money, the whole the full Monty, you get 0:26:20.720 --> 0:26:25.000 the full million. So he's negotiating body parts to post 0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:28.760 for Playboy, and I just said, Clarence, you know that 0:26:28.880 --> 0:26:31.440 all sounds like if I wanted a money grab, I 0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:34.520 would have done it. But I was just like, I can't. 0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:37.879 I just can't. I have too many young girls that 0:26:37.920 --> 0:26:39.800 are looking up to me, and I've always been pretty 0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:43.040 buttoned up. I'm not one of these people who's I'm 0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:46.879 very modest about my body and I don't like to 0:26:46.960 --> 0:26:49.160 show all anyway. And I said, this would go against 0:26:49.200 --> 0:26:52.880 every single thing I stand for being a strong woman. 0:26:52.960 --> 0:26:55.440 What's between your ears is more important than what's between 0:26:55.600 --> 0:27:00.800 everything else. So I said no, And I really glad 0:27:00.840 --> 0:27:06.040 I made that decision and didn't let greed or the 0:27:06.119 --> 0:27:08.560 dollars you know, get in mine. And at the time, 0:27:09.160 --> 0:27:11.399 you know, I was. I was still trying to save 0:27:11.680 --> 0:27:13.280 and you know, I didn't know when I was going 0:27:13.320 --> 0:27:15.200 to have another hit. I always treated my last hit 0:27:15.280 --> 0:27:16.600 like it was going to be my last hit. So 0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:19.600 I've always been pretty frugal with money and things like that. 0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:21.840 So you know, if that's all that I had in 0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:23.600 my crosshairs, I would have gone for it. But I 0:27:23.920 --> 0:27:26.280 had there was such a bigger picture in playing the 0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:30.640 tape forward in that scenario, and not even six months later, 0:27:30.680 --> 0:27:32.760 I was asked to become a member of the Opry, 0:27:32.800 --> 0:27:33.560 and I don't know. 0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:36.520 That that by would happened, right, Yeah, Yeah, I saw 0:27:36.560 --> 0:27:38.359 on Instagram you gave Lanny like an old school like 0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:40.840 a vintage Terry Clark shirt. Yeah, which is super cool. 0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:43.439 Do you have Ronnie don and Irag friends and he 0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:45.919 talks about how they have all this old stuff and 0:27:46.000 --> 0:27:47.200 Kicks got a lot of it, and he's kind of 0:27:47.400 --> 0:27:49.080 He's like, I gave it all to Kick when we split, 0:27:49.160 --> 0:27:51.840 So Kicks like in the early divorce because they're back together, 0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:54.080 her Kicks got a bunch of the merch. He's like, 0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:56.600 it was the dumbest thing is merch? Is that vintage 0:27:56.640 --> 0:27:59.480 merch so valuable? Do you have a lot of your 0:27:59.480 --> 0:28:01.520 old school merch or just like a couple of things. 0:28:01.760 --> 0:28:03.479 I have a couple of things because I've given all 0:28:03.520 --> 0:28:05.720 my T shirts to the artists on take two, I 0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:08.359 walked into the I've walked into the session with a 0:28:08.400 --> 0:28:14.760 T shirt. And you know, my mom, you know, God 0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:17.040 bless her, would keep a lot of that old stuff. 0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:19.400 And I even had stuff from the very first tour 0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:21.800 of ninety five for a long time. And I happen 0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:23.760 to be a mover. I tend to move a lot 0:28:23.840 --> 0:28:28.000 and change the scenery around me. I buy houses and 0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:31.879 I've got a bit of an eye for design and renovation, 0:28:32.080 --> 0:28:35.240 so I seem to be kind of addicted to make, 0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:37.520 you know, making a house really really cool and then 0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:39.280 leaving it and going to doing it. 0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:39.880 For another one. 0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:43.479 So I've lost a few of those those little gems 0:28:43.480 --> 0:28:45.760 and moves, I think. And I may move again and 0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:48.120 end up, you know, finding some stuff in a bin 0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:50.680 that I don't know about, but I probably have, like 0:28:50.840 --> 0:28:52.240 you know, ten left. 0:28:52.320 --> 0:28:54.040 Now do you ever look on eBay and see what 0:28:54.080 --> 0:28:55.720 the old stuff of yours is going for? 0:28:56.080 --> 0:28:59.200 No, I don't. I have no idea. Okay, that's like 0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:05.200 it's not going to be what you think. Let's see, Oh, Bobby. 0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:12.560 Terry Clark vintage T shirt forty two dollars. Oh, no chance, 0:29:13.120 --> 0:29:13.560 no chance. 0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:15.360 Well will Bobby's loading that up? 0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:18.000 Do you know where that intern is that was assigned 0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:19.520 to my hiy boy magazines for you? 0:29:19.680 --> 0:29:22.120 I don't know. I don't And Marnie's here, who brought 0:29:22.120 --> 0:29:23.760 her in? I don't know where she is she. I 0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:26.080 don't know if she actually left because of that. I 0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:28.320 don't know she just can you imagine? 0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:30.760 I have your answer here. The cheapest one that's actually 0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:34.400 vintage from the nineties. The cheapest one is eighty dollars. 0:29:34.640 --> 0:29:37.760 Oh wow, Well you know I'm going to keep. 0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:42.720 Them vintage Terry Clark's shirt, poor pitif for me, nineteen nineties. 0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:46.840 This one's extra large, ninety one dollars. Wow, it's this one. 0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:49.880 Too, the one I gave Lanny probably remember that one. Yeah, 0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:52.560 that's the one I gave Lanny Wilson. And I don't 0:29:52.600 --> 0:29:54.120 know if I have I don't have any more of those. 0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:55.760 That was the only one I had in the bin, 0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:56.840 and she had to pin it. 0:29:56.840 --> 0:29:58.400 It was like a dress on by it. Now I'm 0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:01.360 buying I'm literally buying it right now. You are not set. 0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:04.080 I am last one and I don't. We're actual arts 0:30:04.080 --> 0:30:06.400 and I'm gonna have it. You can. You can get 0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:11.600 it all like a dress, okay, and it has been 0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:16.600 paid for. Boom, Oh you're so sweet. Why did you didn't? 0:30:16.800 --> 0:30:18.560 No, I didn't make any money. I don't make any 0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:21.600 money off it now. It's merch is a promotion tool. 0:30:21.640 --> 0:30:24.520 By the time you pay everybody their commissions, pay for 0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:27.320 the merch, and pay the taxes, you're you have about 0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:28.320 three dollars left. 0:30:28.600 --> 0:30:30.400 Did you say you don't you go to McDonald's so 0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:37.120 you don't pay taxes. I do, totally kidding totting the auditor. 0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:37.360 Do you. 0:30:39.200 --> 0:30:41.600 What do you consider your big break? If you had 0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:45.479 to identify one moment and someone said, Terry, what's your 0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:47.200 big break? Microphone in your face? 0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:51.520 When I went and auditioned for Mercury Records. 0:30:51.320 --> 0:30:52.320 How did you get the audition? 0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:57.120 Well, that's it's such a long story. I had a 0:30:57.160 --> 0:30:59.840 demo tape floating around town when I was playing at Tootsi's. 0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:02.840 A producer from a Popka, Florida who did a lot 0:31:02.840 --> 0:31:06.560 of production for Disney and Epcot Center Big productions on 0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:09.840 this thing called a sincleavier. It's a keyboard that has 0:31:10.040 --> 0:31:13.280 that can mimic drums based any kind of instrument you want. 0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:15.560 And he had this studio at his house in Florida. 0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:17.960 He walked in looking for a burger and I was 0:31:17.960 --> 0:31:21.000 playing at Tootsi's in the in the front, you know, 0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:23.400 on the stage where it's now a VIP booth. That's 0:31:23.400 --> 0:31:26.000 where my stage was. And he sat down and listened 0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:27.840 to me for two hours and then said, I'd like to, 0:31:28.160 --> 0:31:30.560 you know, make a demo tape on you and try 0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:34.200 and get your record deal. So long story short, I 0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:36.560 go to Florida for like a month and stay in 0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:40.320 his basement and he had a son the same age. 0:31:40.320 --> 0:31:41.440 We won't get into that, but. 0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:44.239 Is there any part of you though that's like, this 0:31:44.240 --> 0:31:46.360 guy's watching me for two hours and it's like this 0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:46.840 is weird. 0:31:47.040 --> 0:31:50.360 Yeah, well he was. He was observing I guess the. 0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:52.840 I see why. I mean, But I still as a 0:31:52.880 --> 0:31:55.160 creature in its natural habitat, and he wants me to 0:31:55.200 --> 0:31:56.800 stay at his house, Like a little bit of me 0:31:56.800 --> 0:31:58.280 would be like, I don't know if I should do this. 0:31:58.520 --> 0:32:01.480 I think my mom obviously checked it out and interviewed 0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:03.400 him and made sure that I wasn't gonna end up 0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:06.360 chopped up in pieces somewhere, and so I did that, 0:32:06.480 --> 0:32:09.080 and we made this demo tape and and he took 0:32:09.120 --> 0:32:11.200 it to a few people in Nashville shopped it around. 0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:14.760 I wound up with a manager named Woody Bowles through 0:32:14.840 --> 0:32:18.479 and we kind of, you know, the demo was okay. 0:32:19.000 --> 0:32:22.920 It was very manufactured sounding, but it caught the attention 0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:24.920 of a guy named Brian Kennedy who had a spec 0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:27.760 deal with MCA Publishing where he could bring artists in 0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:32.320 and make demos like demo Masters. So he got ten 0:32:32.360 --> 0:32:35.240 thousand dollars and he called me and wanted to take 0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:37.520 me in, and he became one of my very good 0:32:37.520 --> 0:32:40.240 friends in town. And he's also really tight with Garth 0:32:40.280 --> 0:32:43.000 Brooks and and Tricia and that whole camp still is. 0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:45.160 I think he works for Garth now, but he his 0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:47.600 dad was Jerry Kennedy, who produced all the early REBA 0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:50.040 stuff that so I was like, oh my god, Kennedy, 0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:53.720 Not those Kennedy's, These the Kennedys of Nashville. So we 0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:56.720 went in and we cut I think four sides, and 0:32:57.160 --> 0:32:59.320 Vince Gill came and sang on one, and Carl Jackson 0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:04.680 played guitar and oh god, we had just amazing players 0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:07.719 on this. It was super country. Keith Stegall ends up 0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:11.560 hearing this demo like three years after we did it. 0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:14.560 It floated around town. Carl Jackson played it for a 0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:18.920 few people, and so long story short long, he called 0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:22.160 me to come play live for him, and he had 0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:23.800 so much going on at the time. He said, I 0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:25.200 want to work with you so bad, but I got 0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:27.760 all these other people. I'm trying to wrap some projects up, 0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:30.520 and I thought that's just a no. Right six months later, 0:33:31.120 --> 0:33:33.920 Woody calls me and says, Keith Stegall's just been promoted 0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:36.720 to the head of an R at Mercury Records, or 0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:38.800 hired as the head of an R at Mercury Records, 0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:40.720 and he wants you to come in and sing for 0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:44.720 Luke Lewis. And I had thought he'd forgotten about me. 0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:47.560 So I went in with my guitar, sat in the 0:33:47.600 --> 0:33:49.360 boardroom in front of him and Luke and wood He 0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:52.040 was there, and I wore the most god awful Mobeta shirt. 0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:53.720 It looked like somebody threw up on it. It was 0:33:53.800 --> 0:33:56.240 you know, in the nineties, the Brooks and dun Garth 0:33:56.240 --> 0:33:59.680 Brooks shirts. I still got the shirt and they called 0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:01.280 me the name Stay and offered me a record deal. 0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:03.920 And this is after I had already been in talks 0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.720 with Sony Music because I was a Sony Tree writer 0:34:06.840 --> 0:34:10.120 at the time, and Paul Worley had gone over to 0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:12.600 Sony and he had a full roster of females, so 0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:15.280 he couldn't do it. And so they offered me a 0:34:15.360 --> 0:34:19.440 full fledged record deal, and I just I couldn't believe 0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:21.759 it was finally happening. And it was eight years after 0:34:21.800 --> 0:34:23.960 I moved to town. It was a long process. 0:34:24.080 --> 0:34:25.920 What I hear, and I think what everybody should hear, 0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:31.319 is your big break was actually you grinding it out, 0:34:31.320 --> 0:34:33.839 taking advantage of a very small break, turning that with 0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:37.560 your work, ethic and talent into a mid break. You 0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:40.839 stayed focused, somebody happened like you were prepared when the 0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:44.000 opportunity hit. Then it wasn't like here's a platter and 0:34:44.040 --> 0:34:46.080 here's your life. You now get to have a record deal. 0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:48.840 It was like you worked hard and took one small 0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:50.960 thing and that just kept leading to another to another, 0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:52.960 and then before you know it, you're an overnight success. 0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:57.440 Well, it was such a heartbreaking process. Because I went 0:34:57.480 --> 0:35:02.280 and sang for Curb Records and Electro record and Sony, 0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:06.319 you know, and and they all showed interest in you know, 0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:09.160 I even had one of them tell Woodie she's probably 0:35:09.160 --> 0:35:12.439 the most powerful country singer, female country singer I've heard 0:35:12.440 --> 0:35:14.000 in a really, really long time. But it's not what 0:35:14.040 --> 0:35:16.760 we're looking for. And there were a lot of tears. 0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:16.920 You know. 0:35:16.960 --> 0:35:19.000 I'd go home and my husband at the time and 0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:21.600 I would, you know, just be like, what's it going 0:35:21.680 --> 0:35:25.520 to you know, one heartbreak after another. But every door 0:35:25.560 --> 0:35:28.080 that closed, another one open. And there was always like 0:35:28.120 --> 0:35:33.719 that carrot dangling that kept me focused, and I just 0:35:33.800 --> 0:35:36.520 something inside told me not to give up. That the 0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:39.439 right opportunity was going to come along. And when Luke 0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:41.560 and Keith signed me, that was the right place for 0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:44.600 me to be. And Keith was Alan Jackson's producer Randy 0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:47.680 Travis like he he got the country thing. He wasn't 0:35:47.680 --> 0:35:49.920 trying to turn me into something else. He signed me 0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:53.759 because of that, and you know, I really appreciated the 0:35:53.920 --> 0:35:58.759 artistic freedom they gave me, especially on my fourth album 0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:02.279 that was not as mainstream. They were really great. They 0:36:02.280 --> 0:36:03.839 were a great label for me to be on, and 0:36:03.840 --> 0:36:05.160 that worked out the way it was supposed to. I 0:36:05.200 --> 0:36:06.200 just had to wait a little while. 0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:10.880 Do you ever perform not in a cowboy hat? Yeah? 0:36:11.000 --> 0:36:13.880 I have. Yeah, there are when I do solo shows 0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:16.520 there there is mostly for those ones. Sometimes I'll kind 0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:18.799 of wear it for half the show. But you know, 0:36:19.320 --> 0:36:22.000 I realized it's such a trademark that that I really 0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:24.840 don't take a cowboy hat. I do a rock encore 0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:27.440 in my show. I do a rock medley of you know, 0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:29.840 pop and rock songs, and I'll take it off for 0:36:29.920 --> 0:36:33.080 that and and just just for something a little bit different, 0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:34.120 but then I put it right back on. 0:36:34.320 --> 0:36:36.640 Have you had to sign thousands of cowboy hats? Oh? Gosh, yeah, 0:36:36.680 --> 0:36:37.480 probably the number one thing. 0:36:37.520 --> 0:36:40.080 Oh absolutely a lot of cowboy hats. And I hate 0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:42.560 those ones that are those really cheap ones that that 0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:45.279 that look like they've been woven. They're hard to they're 0:36:45.280 --> 0:36:48.319 hard to sign, they got holes in them. Real hat. 0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:51.719 And I learned John Parties a friend of mine, and he, 0:36:52.320 --> 0:36:54.440 you know, has given me cowboy hats. I'm not a 0:36:54.440 --> 0:36:57.719 cowboy hat guy, but he's like, you wear like a 0:36:57.760 --> 0:37:00.600 felt I could be wrong, like a felt hat in 0:37:00.600 --> 0:37:03.080 the winter, and definitely a straw type hat in the summer. 0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:04.200 Do you do that o real day? 0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:05.080 Yeah? 0:37:05.120 --> 0:37:07.680 Are you kidding? Like the white like you can't wear white? 0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:10.440 You can't wear So do you have different kinds of 0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:11.640 hats depending on the weather? 0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:15.040 Yeah? I usually switched to straw, you know, June first 0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:17.200 or right after Memorial Days. It's the thing to do. 0:37:17.520 --> 0:37:22.239 And yeah, And I honestly was wearing straw hats because 0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:23.879 I had a bit of a deal with a hat 0:37:23.920 --> 0:37:27.200 company for a while, and they didn't really make great 0:37:27.239 --> 0:37:30.279 felt hats, So I wore straw hats for a good 0:37:30.360 --> 0:37:32.919 ten years all the time. And then when that deal 0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:34.680 was over, I'm like, I'm going right back to the 0:37:34.719 --> 0:37:38.880 whole Texas Cattleman's crown cowboy hat, and I'm gonna do 0:37:38.960 --> 0:37:40.920 it the right way, you know, felt in the winter 0:37:41.520 --> 0:37:43.840 and fall and straw in the summer. 0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:47.080 Two more hat questions because I just thought about them. 0:37:47.200 --> 0:37:49.120 Your hat has been in a specific way. It's very much 0:37:49.400 --> 0:37:52.640 your shape. Yeah, who does that? 0:37:52.760 --> 0:37:53.239 I do it? 0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:55.040 And how do you do it? Do you have like 0:37:55.080 --> 0:37:57.120 a mold now that's just the tarry mold, and you 0:37:57.120 --> 0:37:57.560 put it in. 0:37:57.520 --> 0:38:00.560 The hat steamer. You use the steamer and and you 0:38:00.600 --> 0:38:02.239 can shape a hat the way you want. In fact, 0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:04.480 this is a funny story. I had to go get 0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:06.600 a hat for a photo shoot and I was in 0:38:06.600 --> 0:38:08.560 the middle of another move, so all of my felt 0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:12.200 hats were in storage. So I went down town to 0:38:12.480 --> 0:38:14.799 I think it's a boot Country down on a lower 0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:17.560 Broadway to get a felt hat. And I walked in 0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:20.080 and bought the hat and they wouldn't let me shape it. 0:38:20.760 --> 0:38:22.600 They said, it's just we have to do it, and 0:38:22.600 --> 0:38:25.840 I said, oh God please. So funny thing is, I 0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:28.040 used to work at boot Country in Hendersonville before I 0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:29.840 got a record deal, and the same guy owns the 0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:31.680 whole chain. So I said, can you call ed Smith 0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:33.759 and telling him his former employee with like the shape 0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:37.400 her own hat got him right, so they did. They said, well, 0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:39.040 let just let her do it. They made the exception 0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:41.040 it's an insurance thing. The steamer can burn you or 0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:43.359 something like that. So because I was going right from 0:38:43.400 --> 0:38:45.120 the store to the photo shoot, I didn't have time 0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:47.000 to go home and do it. But that's how you 0:38:47.000 --> 0:38:48.960 shape them. You use a steamer and it makes them 0:38:49.000 --> 0:38:50.640 soft and you can shape them. But yeah, I do 0:38:50.760 --> 0:38:53.160 kind of have my own shape. I never just wear 0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:54.520 a hat the way it is off the shelf. 0:38:54.600 --> 0:38:56.160 If you don't wear a hat, well, there were people 0:38:56.200 --> 0:38:58.200 that don't recognize you that should that, you know, because 0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:00.799 I've not worn my glasses, and executives past me didn't 0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:01.319 even know it was me. 0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:05.640 Right, Yeah, it's definitely your glasses are your trademark. You know. 0:39:06.239 --> 0:39:08.360 People you could somebody could draw a caricature of you 0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:09.879 with with your life, they'd know it too. 0:39:09.960 --> 0:39:11.920 Yeah, Or Harry Carey one of the two. All right, 0:39:12.000 --> 0:39:15.560 carrect Okay, so look, we're gonna play some stuff from 0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:19.239 your record, and you're just so fun to talk to you. 0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:21.920 So let me say this. She's doing She has like 0:39:21.920 --> 0:39:24.960 twenty dates left this year. The record is out, Terry 0:39:24.960 --> 0:39:29.040 Clark Take two. I think we'll play the Ashley Better 0:39:29.080 --> 0:39:32.319 Things to Do in its entirety. Okay, I like I 0:39:32.360 --> 0:39:33.680 like this one a lot too, because I like both 0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:35.400 of you, and I think this is the song I 0:39:35.440 --> 0:39:37.400 think about. Is this most people's number one song with you? 0:39:38.160 --> 0:39:40.360 I would say it's the number one streamer, But the 0:39:40.960 --> 0:39:44.520 Cody Johnson Kelly Clarkson duets on Take two are blowing 0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:46.200 up stream Wark. They're doing really well. 0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:48.480 I guess I mean just in general with your songs. 0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:50.440 My songs. Yeah, that's the one I think most people 0:39:50.680 --> 0:39:53.880 identify me with. Yeah, it was the first one. It 0:39:53.960 --> 0:39:56.000 was you know, that whole pan from my boots all 0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:58.320 the way up, you know, and I'm this super skinny 0:39:58.320 --> 0:40:00.640 twenty six year old girl. That's the thing. Remember And 0:40:00.920 --> 0:40:03.480 the T shirt sleeves rolled up in the hat with 0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:06.120 the electric guitar. That was the very it was a 0:40:06.320 --> 0:40:09.759 very uh it was it was. Yeah, it was a 0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:14.960 very defining moment in your show. Yes, I play it last, 0:40:15.000 --> 0:40:17.759 and the audience gets to sing and it's a big 0:40:17.800 --> 0:40:20.239 party and it's it's so much fun. And we're doing 0:40:20.280 --> 0:40:23.080 the new the new arrangement from the new record. Actually 0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:25.600 on that one, it's not that different, so I don't 0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:27.440 even know if nobody notices it. But it's fun for 0:40:27.480 --> 0:40:29.279 the band, you know, I'm going I'm playing electric on 0:40:29.320 --> 0:40:31.839 it now and I used to play acoustic, and we uh, 0:40:32.040 --> 0:40:34.600 we're enjoying playing some fresh takes on these. 0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:36.279 The melodies are the same, though, r because the worst 0:40:36.320 --> 0:40:38.120 thing is when you go watch an artist and it's like, 0:40:38.360 --> 0:40:39.880 here's a song that was a hit for me, but 0:40:39.920 --> 0:40:41.800 I'm now going to do it operatic style. 0:40:42.120 --> 0:40:44.480 No yeah, no, no, no, no, no, I think you 0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:46.480 the customer is always right, and they're they're buying a 0:40:46.520 --> 0:40:49.000 ticket to hear something that they can sing along to. 0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:52.120 Don't mess with the business. That is the business. You 0:40:52.120 --> 0:40:55.640 don't mess with. And I'm not going I'm not going 0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:58.320 to go see James Taylor, Fleetwood Mac or somebody or 0:40:58.400 --> 0:41:01.640 Bonnie Rate and want to hear something and completely off 0:41:01.680 --> 0:41:04.120 the wall of a song that I love so much, 0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:04.520 you know. 0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:06.680 Or a whole lot of new stuff. I'm good with 0:41:06.680 --> 0:41:07.120 a couple of news. 0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:07.799 Oh yeah, I don't want. 0:41:07.800 --> 0:41:08.799 I don't want a whole show on news. 0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:11.400 Yeah yeah, I I you know, I even play like, 0:41:11.440 --> 0:41:14.560 if I need more content in my show, I'll play 0:41:14.640 --> 0:41:17.759 some stuff that were hits in Canada that but but 0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:23.200 weren't here. But I'll also, you know, I'll also play 0:41:23.200 --> 0:41:26.920 songs that maybe weren't huge hits here, but were singles 0:41:26.960 --> 0:41:29.120 like dirty Girl and three Mississippi. 0:41:29.200 --> 0:41:31.000 And I don't even mind new stuff, but as long 0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:31.879 as like five in a row. 0:41:32.719 --> 0:41:35.520 Yeah, yeah, no, I think it's I think it's important 0:41:35.520 --> 0:41:38.479 for artists to stick to a roadmap as it hits 0:41:38.600 --> 0:41:40.440 in their show because that's what people really want to 0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:43.799 and nineties countries kind of this thing now that people 0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.359 have really gone back to and are digging deeper. And 0:41:46.920 --> 0:41:49.680 you know, some of them may have heard your songs 0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:53.400 for the very first time listening to a playlist, and 0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:55.040 they're gonna show up and buy a ticket to your 0:41:55.040 --> 0:41:57.560 show and it's gonna sound completely different. Yeah no, that 0:41:57.600 --> 0:41:58.120 would suck. 0:41:58.480 --> 0:42:01.880 Okay, Now it's our straight to talk wireless question, Terry 0:42:01.920 --> 0:42:04.120 to stay grounded. Who tells it to you straight? 0:42:04.520 --> 0:42:06.640 Well, I'll tell you that my manager, Clarence is no 0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:10.319 bs at all, like he is very very honest, and 0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:14.520 he will give me the real story. And I think 0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:17.600 that's really important. My mom, when she was alive, was 0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:20.719 definitely that person. And I've got friends that I ate 0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:23.000 dirt with in my life that have been around for 0:42:23.000 --> 0:42:27.799 forty years who are very very honest with me. You know, 0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:31.560 I have I have some and music fans in general 0:42:31.760 --> 0:42:36.120 and see artists and ask questions about the industry. But 0:42:37.160 --> 0:42:39.920 that I can lean on for you know, when you 0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:43.280 go to a show or Okay, if somebody really iconic, 0:42:43.400 --> 0:42:45.800 not me, I'm talking about a James Taylor or somebody, 0:42:45.880 --> 0:42:50.200 it makes a new record, Are you excited about that? No, okay, 0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:55.120 like it's sort of that. It's that honesty, like do 0:42:55.160 --> 0:42:57.600 I make another record of new music or not, I 0:42:57.640 --> 0:42:59.600 don't know if I do it, I'm doing it for me. Yeah, 0:42:59.600 --> 0:43:02.040 I'm gonna do it because it's something I really want 0:43:02.080 --> 0:43:04.960 to do without any kind of expectation of an outcome, 0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:07.759 because it's the only reason to do that stuff now. 0:43:07.800 --> 0:43:10.080 But you know, I do talk to my friends. I 0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:14.319 have people in my life that are very honest and 0:43:14.480 --> 0:43:17.480 always will be and people who's, you know, opinions I 0:43:17.520 --> 0:43:18.200 really respect. 0:43:18.640 --> 0:43:21.160 I have found that the people that I care about 0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:22.759 that will tell me when something's not good are the 0:43:22.760 --> 0:43:24.439 people that I care about when they tell me something 0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:27.759 is good, because it's anybody. You know, people say all 0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:29.200 kinds of good stuff to you if things are going 0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:30.640 well for you because they want to be around they 0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:33.839 run the success, right, So it's really I only take 0:43:33.880 --> 0:43:36.920 good from the people that I care about, and we'll 0:43:36.960 --> 0:43:37.640 hear bad from it. 0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:40.120 It's well, it's amazing who I'm hearing from, you know, 0:43:40.160 --> 0:43:42.720 who's texting me because now I'm talking about this project 0:43:42.760 --> 0:43:44.640 and I'm a little more in the forefront as far 0:43:44.640 --> 0:43:47.400 as you know, doing some interviews and press and stuff. 0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:51.239 And it's like, oh, look who just texted me? Right, 0:43:52.520 --> 0:43:55.160 It's just you know, you have to take take it 0:43:55.200 --> 0:43:55.840 as it comes. 0:43:55.880 --> 0:43:57.880 And I try not to take criticism from anybody. I 0:43:57.880 --> 0:43:59.200 wouldn't take advice from. 0:43:59.520 --> 0:44:01.359 Absolutely, because that's right. 0:44:01.400 --> 0:44:05.640 Everybody wants to offer criticism out of nowhere. 0:44:05.640 --> 0:44:10.040 Everybody's an armchair expert, you know, and and thinks they know. 0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:14.600 You know, there was somebody who the comments on the 0:44:14.600 --> 0:44:16.640 new record have been all so positive and so great, 0:44:16.640 --> 0:44:18.360 and everybody's loving it. But you know, there's always a 0:44:18.400 --> 0:44:21.480 couple and one person was like, uh, why does your 0:44:21.520 --> 0:44:24.040 voice sound like it's in a wind tunnel. It's compression, right, 0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:29.160 But people who aren't engineers, engineers mix records now with 0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:32.719 different effects because you know how most people listen to 0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:36.520 music through their iPhone speaker, Like a lot of people 0:44:36.640 --> 0:44:38.279 just run around listening to stuff through. 0:44:38.160 --> 0:44:40.799 And there are engineers. 0:44:40.600 --> 0:44:43.280 They have to almost like the volume has to be different, 0:44:43.320 --> 0:44:45.759 like it's a whole different it's a whole different world now. 0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:50.120 Terry Clark Take two with music from obviously all Terry songs, 0:44:50.200 --> 0:44:52.480 but Laura Alaina, Paul Brant, Kelly Clarks and Cody Johnson, 0:44:52.480 --> 0:44:55.560 Ashley McBride Carly Pierre spin rector Laney Wilson also go 0:44:55.600 --> 0:44:57.880 to Terry Clark dot com. A bunch of shows all 0:44:57.920 --> 0:45:00.160 the way through twenty twenty. You have a show in 0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:01.600 twenty twenty five on the list, I. 0:45:01.680 --> 0:45:04.560 Know, And there's a whole bunch of shows that I 0:45:04.680 --> 0:45:07.040 have that we haven't announced yet that are coming up 0:45:07.200 --> 0:45:11.080 this winter, and we're adding stuff all the time, so 0:45:11.200 --> 0:45:13.000 we're all in all, we're probably going to be at 0:45:13.080 --> 0:45:15.080 seventy five shows for the year by the time we're done, 0:45:15.080 --> 0:45:16.000 which is a really good year. 0:45:16.200 --> 0:45:19.600 Final final question. I washed dishes for about a year 0:45:19.600 --> 0:45:21.520 and a half. Is I did too? It's a terrible job. 0:45:21.719 --> 0:45:22.520 I washed dishes. 0:45:22.560 --> 0:45:24.480 It's terrible. I watched the restaurant's a terrible job. I 0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:25.880 had to work out of that to be a bus boy. 0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:28.520 But and I am not somebody who likes gross. I 0:45:28.520 --> 0:45:30.240 don't do well with gross. But I washed dishes. 0:45:30.600 --> 0:45:31.640 You don't do well with gross? 0:45:31.719 --> 0:45:32.000 I don't. 0:45:32.040 --> 0:45:34.040 And that's the grossest job, especially if you don't have 0:45:34.080 --> 0:45:35.759 a good wait staff that's helping you, at least on 0:45:35.800 --> 0:45:37.560 the front side cleaning like scraping the plate. 0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:38.120 It is. 0:45:38.320 --> 0:45:41.239 It is horrendous. Did you have the big Sprayer. Yes, yes, 0:45:41.760 --> 0:45:43.839 I did that in high school for my high school job. 0:45:43.880 --> 0:45:45.800 Yeah. What did you learn from washing dishes? 0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:47.360 That people are gross? 0:45:47.640 --> 0:45:51.800 Exactly exactly and I try to not be so gross 0:45:51.880 --> 0:45:55.239 because of that. Yes, Sarah Gross. Terry Clark, great to 0:45:55.320 --> 0:45:58.200 see you. You're one of my favorites. Now, you're one 0:45:58.239 --> 0:45:59.560 of my favorites. And I didn't know you, but now 0:45:59.600 --> 0:46:01.400 that I know you, like, you're one of my favorites. 0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:04.520 Thank you, Bobby, You're You're absolutely one of my favorites. 0:46:04.560 --> 0:46:07.640 Maybe the favorite interview ever that I've gotten to be 0:46:07.680 --> 0:46:11.279 a part of today. It's not we'gotten, no, I mean 0:46:11.760 --> 0:46:13.680 I really enjoy talking to you, Like I would sit 0:46:13.719 --> 0:46:15.279 and have dinner with you and we could have some 0:46:15.560 --> 0:46:19.000 really like, you know, off the record conversations that would 0:46:19.000 --> 0:46:21.960 be I think, really meaningful. So I like getting that 0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:23.840 feeling from somebody I'm talking to and I appreciate it. 0:46:23.880 --> 0:46:25.640 Yeah, I'll seecretly recorded and bring it on the next day, 0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:34.919 but it would be good, though, Terry Clark. Everybody, here's 0:46:34.920 --> 0:46:36.799 a voicemail from Stephanie and Sacramento. 0:46:37.040 --> 0:46:41.080 What do you do if your dog or pet hurts 0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:45.440 an animal? So today, Michelden retriever caught a bird and 0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:48.359 it didn't die, and it was injured and could not fly. 0:46:48.680 --> 0:46:50.520 I put it in a box with some paper towels, 0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:52.960 and I called a local wildlife rescue that has a 0:46:53.040 --> 0:46:55.640 bird nursery, and I took it in and sadly, both 0:46:55.640 --> 0:46:57.279 of its legs are broken and it's not going to 0:46:57.360 --> 0:46:57.560 make it. 0:46:57.800 --> 0:46:59.440 If this happens again, what should I do? 0:46:59.560 --> 0:47:00.480 What's the right thing to do? 0:47:00.600 --> 0:47:01.160 What would you do? 0:47:01.520 --> 0:47:04.080 Leave it out for nature to take its course, or 0:47:04.520 --> 0:47:05.480 did I do the right thing? 0:47:05.719 --> 0:47:06.600 Or what would you guys do? 0:47:06.680 --> 0:47:07.240 I'm curious? 0:47:07.360 --> 0:47:08.439 Thanks so much, love the show. 0:47:08.520 --> 0:47:10.080 I don't think there's a wrong thing to do here. 0:47:10.080 --> 0:47:12.400 I think if you're from the country, you shoot it. 0:47:12.640 --> 0:47:14.640 If you have a gun, you put it out of 0:47:14.680 --> 0:47:17.839 his misery from the country, country. If you are from 0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:19.279 the city, or like, why is a bird here? This 0:47:19.440 --> 0:47:24.520 is the city? You're just confused, right, Yeah, there are 0:47:24.560 --> 0:47:26.680 so many diseases on wild animals. I don't think I'm 0:47:26.719 --> 0:47:30.040 touching it. That sucks. But I think if you if 0:47:30.040 --> 0:47:32.759 you're Arkansas Keith, my stepdad, you probably shoot it. But 0:47:32.800 --> 0:47:34.759 I don't think there's a wrong answer here. YEA sounds 0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:36.799 like what she did was you had a good heart. Yeah, 0:47:37.000 --> 0:47:39.840 big heart, totally the right thing for what needed to 0:47:40.000 --> 0:47:42.920 be done. You could stomp it. Oh no, you could 0:47:42.920 --> 0:47:43.520 stop its head. 0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:46.480 No, that's that's traumatic for me. 0:47:46.920 --> 0:47:48.960 No, No, I hear you. You could. I'm saying, if 0:47:48.960 --> 0:47:50.960 you don't have a gun, you you could. How I 0:47:51.040 --> 0:47:53.239 grew up. If an animal there's no bouncy back, you 0:47:53.280 --> 0:47:56.040 put out of its misery as fast as possible? Shouble, 0:47:56.560 --> 0:47:58.759 Can you let the dog finish it off? You can't. 0:47:59.120 --> 0:48:00.480 But the problem with that is I don't want to 0:48:00.520 --> 0:48:02.400 do that. Then the dogs I got it in the 0:48:02.480 --> 0:48:05.359 holl the dog you don't want to do. Not feel 0:48:05.400 --> 0:48:07.400 bad about this. This is my point. You did nothing 0:48:07.480 --> 0:48:10.040 wrong here. Do not feel bad about it. That's a 0:48:10.160 --> 0:48:13.319 terrible situation. You have a big heart, and I think 0:48:13.400 --> 0:48:15.560 any of the options would have been big heart. It 0:48:15.760 --> 0:48:17.200 stinks I have to kill an animal like that. 0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:19.839 I have to answer her specific question about it. If 0:48:19.880 --> 0:48:21.760 she should what she should do the next time it happens. 0:48:21.800 --> 0:48:23.560 If it happens, do exactly that again. 0:48:23.640 --> 0:48:26.399 The dog. The bird may live and may be totally fine. 0:48:26.440 --> 0:48:28.000 And okay, who's going to take care of a bird 0:48:28.080 --> 0:48:28.919 with two broken legs? 0:48:28.960 --> 0:48:30.719 It can't function but bird sanctuary. 0:48:31.280 --> 0:48:34.400 Okay, you know what, big heart, love it all right? 0:48:34.440 --> 0:48:35.520 Play the next one please. 0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:36.560 Good morning studio. 0:48:36.719 --> 0:48:38.080 This question goes out to lunch box. 0:48:38.200 --> 0:48:40.839 So I have a dating question for you. Actually, I've 0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:43.319 been seeing this girl write for almost a month now, 0:48:43.680 --> 0:48:45.640 and you know, we're getting to the point where instead 0:48:45.640 --> 0:48:47.440 of just like go on the specific dates, we're kind 0:48:47.440 --> 0:48:49.160 of just hanging out. Now I've been on more than 0:48:49.239 --> 0:48:51.200 like seven days by now. But anyways, I have the 0:48:51.360 --> 0:48:53.359 questions right, So I'm starting to thinking about this first 0:48:53.440 --> 0:48:55.719 kiss with her. I'm wondering, do I go fool out, 0:48:55.760 --> 0:48:57.799 make on sesh, you know, just make out with her, 0:48:57.920 --> 0:49:00.440 you know, come bare or you know? Are you going 0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:01.800 to go for a little peck on the list and 0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:04.120 let her be much about figured you'd be Ananda tummy. 0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:06.000 So you tell me what I should do and I'll 0:49:06.040 --> 0:49:08.040 do it. What is wrong with you? 0:49:08.080 --> 0:49:09.640 You've been hanging out for a month and you haven't 0:49:09.719 --> 0:49:10.400 French kissed her. 0:49:10.440 --> 0:49:13.000 You have been gone days, he said, more than seven. 0:49:13.160 --> 0:49:16.080 That's ridiculous. You gotta go full on tongue all up 0:49:16.080 --> 0:49:16.680 in her mouth. 0:49:17.360 --> 0:49:19.439 When would you have gone full on to a tongue 0:49:19.520 --> 0:49:19.960 up in her mouth? 0:49:20.200 --> 0:49:22.040 Probably first night yeah. 0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:23.880 Did you have to go full on tongue up in 0:49:23.920 --> 0:49:25.200 her mouth before you ever knew their name? 0:49:25.360 --> 0:49:25.560 Yeah? 0:49:25.600 --> 0:49:27.799 Oh oh yeah, I still I mean I can still 0:49:27.920 --> 0:49:30.080 name some of the girls, like what they're wearing. Don't 0:49:30.120 --> 0:49:34.080 know their name, but you know what's wearing, yeah, green dress, 0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:37.239 because she was in my phone as green dress. 0:49:38.360 --> 0:49:41.960 No idea, is she still in your phone as green dress? 0:49:42.760 --> 0:49:44.560 Did you ever clear all of them out? Like did 0:49:44.600 --> 0:49:45.239 you in check? 0:49:46.040 --> 0:49:48.040 Because I you know, I wonder if like if they 0:49:48.120 --> 0:49:50.400 get rid of their phone number, does it like delete 0:49:50.440 --> 0:49:51.320 from my phone. 0:49:51.120 --> 0:49:55.640 Now she just calls whomever answers. Now, would you ever 0:49:56.160 --> 0:49:56.719 how to ask this? 0:49:57.040 --> 0:49:57.160 Uh? 0:49:57.600 --> 0:50:00.600 Gently? Would you ever do more with that? Knowing their name? 0:50:01.400 --> 0:50:04.400 Yeah, no, it's not in there for some reason Green dress. 0:50:04.680 --> 0:50:06.560 No, maybe it didn't transfer over when I got an 0:50:06.600 --> 0:50:08.719 iPhone because I used to have a flip phone back 0:50:08.719 --> 0:50:09.239 in those days. 0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:12.360 Yeah, yeah, of course green dressing the flip phone day's 0:50:12.360 --> 0:50:12.839 flip phone. 0:50:12.920 --> 0:50:15.759 Yeah yeah, no, Yeah, there's definitely girls I did more 0:50:15.800 --> 0:50:16.920 with it. I didn't even know their name. 0:50:17.560 --> 0:50:18.399 They were just hot. 0:50:18.680 --> 0:50:20.839 Do you think they knew your name? Oh for sure, 0:50:20.920 --> 0:50:26.000 probably for sure. Probably did they know it as lunchbox? Yeah, yeah, 0:50:26.280 --> 0:50:28.520 there was no real name given, no need for that. 0:50:28.719 --> 0:50:29.800 Is that why they hooked up with you? 0:50:29.880 --> 0:50:33.160 Probably is that I was good looking, thought I was funny, 0:50:33.239 --> 0:50:36.320 thought I was entertaining, and yeah, being a celebrity it helps. 0:50:37.200 --> 0:50:40.239 No, he knew you. I always thought those girls were 0:50:40.239 --> 0:50:40.800 trying to get to you. 0:50:41.400 --> 0:50:45.920 You thought they come to my house. Wow, he's like 0:50:46.040 --> 0:50:49.920 the opening band. I don't want to be on that stage. 0:50:50.880 --> 0:50:53.600 I'm off that venue and the no bill I'm not there. No, 0:50:53.800 --> 0:50:55.839 I don't think that's I never thought that was the case. 0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:59.440 If you weren't lunchbox and whatever that means, could you 0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:00.839 still got these girls? Yes? 0:51:01.880 --> 0:51:03.040 I got skills, all right? 0:51:03.520 --> 0:51:06.480 Okay, Okayay, So your advice to this person is oh, 0:51:06.600 --> 0:51:09.000 full on tongue and I mean, dude, you have I 0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:10.359 don't know why you waited seven days. 0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:11.080 This is ridiculous. 0:51:11.080 --> 0:51:13.960 No, No, everybody goes at their own pace. It totally fine. 0:51:14.200 --> 0:51:15.800 I hear you. But this pace is even for me. 0:51:16.000 --> 0:51:16.680 Seven dates. 0:51:16.760 --> 0:51:18.479 That's like she thinks you're her buddy at this point. 0:51:18.560 --> 0:51:23.000 Oh man, we're just pals. Okay. A lot is defined 0:51:23.040 --> 0:51:26.200 in the first couple to three. That's good luck, though. 0:51:26.280 --> 0:51:28.840 Man, some people don't even give still their wedding. 0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:29.680 Oh that's not sure. 0:51:29.840 --> 0:51:30.160 Who does? 0:51:30.200 --> 0:51:32.680 Like three people who like that's a new story when 0:51:32.719 --> 0:51:36.799 it happens, because that never happens. Thank you. You guys 0:51:36.840 --> 0:51:40.359 can call us anytime. Eight seven, seven seventy seven Bobby. 0:51:40.719 --> 0:51:41.880 Bobby Bone Show. 0:51:43.239 --> 0:51:43.560 Today. 0:51:44.239 --> 0:51:48.040 This story comes us from Pennsylvania. Eight twenty two year 0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:50.439 old man was going to visit his buddy in jail, 0:51:50.480 --> 0:51:52.640 and his buddy's like, hey, I need you to bring 0:51:52.760 --> 0:51:55.239 me a gun. He's like, man, I don't know if 0:51:55.239 --> 0:51:56.960 I can get the gun in, but I'll do my best. 0:51:57.440 --> 0:52:00.359 So he hid the gun in his shoe walk. Then 0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:04.560 beppeep metal detector goes off. He goes, oh, must be 0:52:04.680 --> 0:52:08.440 my nose ring, takes out the nose ring, tries to 0:52:08.480 --> 0:52:12.279 go through the metal detector again, beppppepep, and they. 0:52:12.280 --> 0:52:14.800 Do his search and they finally gun like, eventually. 0:52:16.040 --> 0:52:18.600 They're gonna find whatever that metal is. Right, did he 0:52:18.680 --> 0:52:20.759 think if he took his nose ring out they would 0:52:20.760 --> 0:52:22.840 be like, that must be it. You're good to go, 0:52:23.120 --> 0:52:25.400 no need to go back through. We found it. I 0:52:25.480 --> 0:52:27.319 wonder if he said, like, uh, I guess it wasn't 0:52:27.320 --> 0:52:31.520 the nose ring. He's confused. I wonder what they'll find 0:52:31.560 --> 0:52:32.800 this time. You know, that's when you could run. You 0:52:32.880 --> 0:52:35.000 get out of there. All right, thank you, I'm munch Box. 0:52:35.080 --> 0:52:38.399 That's your Boneheads story of the day. All right. 0:52:38.440 --> 0:52:40.800 I think we all can agree that tipping culture is 0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:43.400 it's a bit out of control. Oh yeah, but you 0:52:43.440 --> 0:52:45.680 don't have to tip in some places where they're like 0:52:46.080 --> 0:52:48.440 you did this, You can't tip. Some places you probably 0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:52.200 should tip, but it's all on a who you are, 0:52:52.280 --> 0:52:52.759 what you believe. 0:52:52.800 --> 0:52:52.920 Man. 0:52:53.000 --> 0:52:54.640 But yes, there are too many tip lines. I will 0:52:54.680 --> 0:52:56.600 even agree with that. And I'm someone who feels like 0:52:56.640 --> 0:52:58.399 I need to tip everywhere because I people will tip 0:52:58.480 --> 0:53:00.719 me with all my jobs going up, Morgan, what is 0:53:00.719 --> 0:53:02.200 your question? So I went to a. 0:53:02.239 --> 0:53:05.360 Restaurant and they automatically had the gratuity included. 0:53:05.440 --> 0:53:06.279 This is just a two top. 0:53:06.360 --> 0:53:08.200 It wasn't a big group or anything, and it was 0:53:08.280 --> 0:53:12.439 a twenty two people. They automatically Wow, it wasn't even 0:53:12.480 --> 0:53:12.879 a question. 0:53:13.000 --> 0:53:14.160 It was like and she told us. 0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:15.680 The server was like, hey, just so you know, it's 0:53:15.719 --> 0:53:17.160 automatically added into the bill. 0:53:17.400 --> 0:53:20.879 What's what was it twenty Was it twenty twenty percent? Wow? 0:53:20.960 --> 0:53:22.560 I've never heard it. Okay, go ahead. 0:53:22.640 --> 0:53:25.960 Yeah, And so but we signed that, and we were 0:53:25.960 --> 0:53:27.920 sitting there like, do we still tip? They're still a 0:53:27.960 --> 0:53:30.520 tip line. But this is the first time we've ever 0:53:30.600 --> 0:53:33.040 been at a situation with two people, not like a 0:53:33.080 --> 0:53:36.279 big group where they've automatically included it. So do you 0:53:36.480 --> 0:53:37.800 add an additional tip. 0:53:37.680 --> 0:53:39.000 Or are you like, okay, we're good. 0:53:39.360 --> 0:53:39.960 That was the bill. 0:53:40.320 --> 0:53:43.799 Uh. If you would have tipped twenty percent, you're good, 0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:46.360 you're good. If you wanted to tip more, if you 0:53:46.360 --> 0:53:49.400 would have tipped more, anyway you can add another few bucks. 0:53:50.440 --> 0:53:53.360 And even the fact that the waiter, waitress whomever knew that, 0:53:53.600 --> 0:53:55.520 that's them also saying, hey, you don't have to add anymore, 0:53:56.120 --> 0:53:58.520 like for them to go, hey, it's already added. You 0:53:58.600 --> 0:54:00.560 don't have to add anymore. They're also tell you this 0:54:00.680 --> 0:54:06.160 is kind of weird. So if the problem is, let's say, 0:54:07.239 --> 0:54:09.560 and I'm not I always tip at least twenty percent, 0:54:09.640 --> 0:54:12.000 but let's say you didn't want to tip twenty percent 0:54:12.400 --> 0:54:14.239 and they've already added in twenty the problem is that 0:54:14.560 --> 0:54:16.520 they just have that money. You can't take that off. 0:54:17.040 --> 0:54:18.120 You're gonna have to call a manager. 0:54:18.280 --> 0:54:18.400 Right. 0:54:18.440 --> 0:54:21.160 A little minus can type like a minus because imagine this, 0:54:21.239 --> 0:54:22.960 what if you did a minus for all that you 0:54:23.040 --> 0:54:25.879 paid and you got everything free. I've bet no one's 0:54:25.920 --> 0:54:29.080 done that. Let's flip that around. I think that's a 0:54:29.120 --> 0:54:31.359 little bizarre. I've never heard of that. At a two top, 0:54:31.480 --> 0:54:33.520 for sure, parties of six or more, we had a 0:54:33.560 --> 0:54:35.920 tip built in, for sure, because you just didn't want 0:54:35.920 --> 0:54:37.279 to spend and put a lot of effort into a 0:54:37.400 --> 0:54:39.919 friggin six top with a baby in a high chair 0:54:40.040 --> 0:54:42.640 and they get stabbed with no tip. You just dedicated 0:54:42.680 --> 0:54:44.759 a bunch of your night to it. But I think 0:54:44.800 --> 0:54:46.880 you don't have to tip anymore. The expectation is not 0:54:46.960 --> 0:54:49.560 to tip anymore, and if you do, that's great. But 0:54:49.719 --> 0:54:51.480 I haven't heard of that. But I think you're totally cool, 0:54:51.520 --> 0:54:53.120 and I think the weight person knew that too. 0:54:53.920 --> 0:54:56.200 What would you add if you decided to add some 0:54:56.840 --> 0:54:58.000 what would be the threshold? 0:54:58.040 --> 0:54:59.440 Would it be like five dollars? 0:54:59.480 --> 0:55:00.800 Would it be two dollars? 0:55:01.200 --> 0:55:04.120 That's how good you are at math, so you can 0:55:04.200 --> 0:55:07.400 break down the percentages, or at twenty percent, Let's say 0:55:07.440 --> 0:55:10.879 your bill was twenty eight bucks, right, you could add 0:55:10.880 --> 0:55:13.920 another three or four bucks because anything over that is 0:55:14.120 --> 0:55:18.000 that's that's just that's money. What's twenty percent of twenty eight. Well, 0:55:18.040 --> 0:55:19.719 so ten percent of twenty eight would be two dollars 0:55:19.719 --> 0:55:22.719 and eighty cents, right, okay, now double that that would 0:55:22.719 --> 0:55:25.319 be five or sixty. That's fast, it's slow down. 0:55:26.560 --> 0:55:27.160 I got a question. 0:55:27.239 --> 0:55:28.680 No, I did it slow so I can explain to 0:55:28.719 --> 0:55:29.480 you how it works. 0:55:29.520 --> 0:55:31.440 Go ahead, So now the waiter really doesn't have to 0:55:31.480 --> 0:55:33.400 do a good job and you get they get twenty percent. 0:55:33.560 --> 0:55:34.680 Yeah, that is so stupid. 0:55:34.719 --> 0:55:36.600 Can you tell me the restaurant it's off my list? 0:55:36.840 --> 0:55:39.920 Well, it is a nicer restaurant, so it was already 0:55:39.920 --> 0:55:43.040 off your listing. Yeah, it's a nicer restaurant. It's offulous already. 0:55:44.520 --> 0:55:46.799 Good question. Never heard of that or two. But also 0:55:46.840 --> 0:55:48.719 they must be doing it because people aren't tipping. 0:55:49.239 --> 0:55:51.880 I think, And it takes out that question of you know, 0:55:51.960 --> 0:55:54.439 you're at a nice restaurant. It's already included. Don't worry 0:55:54.480 --> 0:55:54.800 about it. 0:55:55.280 --> 0:55:57.200 They should write that, don't worry about it unless you 0:55:57.280 --> 0:55:58.719 really want to worry about it. Do you think people 0:55:58.760 --> 0:56:02.560 aren't tipping? No, but some people will tip away less. 0:56:03.040 --> 0:56:05.160 That's crazy, like I don't know less people will do that. 0:56:05.680 --> 0:56:08.440 I think some people are like revolting against tipping culture 0:56:08.440 --> 0:56:10.120 and tipping way less just to be like, I hate 0:56:10.120 --> 0:56:11.719 tipping culture, but it's like some of those places you 0:56:11.760 --> 0:56:14.000 have to tip because they're making two bucks an hour. 0:56:14.600 --> 0:56:16.520 But no, it's a good question, and I think a 0:56:16.520 --> 0:56:17.880 lot of people probably wonder that. But you're fine, you 0:56:17.960 --> 0:56:19.719 have to tip anything. Did you tip anything? On top 0:56:19.760 --> 0:56:22.040 of that? I didn't. You weren't supposed to because I 0:56:22.160 --> 0:56:24.279 was like twenty percent. Sweet, Okay, you're not a loser. 0:56:24.320 --> 0:56:26.359 You're not a loser. I would tell you if you were. 0:56:26.440 --> 0:56:27.800 Don't worry everybody