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Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi.

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Speaker 2: Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On Titty's episode, we're

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Speaker 2: going to get into the untimely death of Kelly Clarkson's husband.

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Speaker 2: Brandy Glanville's face is back in the news this week,

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Speaker 2: so we're going to talk about that. Another weird accident

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Speaker 2: on a cruise, fake doctor who is doing home genital exams,

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Speaker 2: a teen who went missing and texted his mom for

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Speaker 2: help before being found dead, and a viral video of

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Speaker 2: a woman's drassic face change during pregnancy. All that and

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Speaker 2: more on Titty's episode, Let's get started with Brandon Blackstone,

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Speaker 2: who is Kelly Clarkson's ex husband.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you just made the same exact error I

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Speaker 3: know I'm gonna make is that his last name is

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Speaker 3: black Stock, but I think also saying black Stone, and

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Speaker 3: when I was writing my notes, I just kept writing

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Speaker 3: black Stone instead of black Stock.

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Speaker 1: It's like this.

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Speaker 3: Weird error we're both making. But last week, Kelly Clarkson

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Speaker 3: posted that she was postponing her Vegas residency to be

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Speaker 3: with her kids because their father, her ex husband, was sick,

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Speaker 3: and that kind of shocked everybody because she doesn't really

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Speaker 3: often share her personal life. And the very next day

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Speaker 3: reports came out that he died.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really sad because he's only forty eight, right, So,

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Speaker 2: and they said he was battling it for three years.

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Speaker 2: So just imagine getting diagnosed with something. I mean, that's

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Speaker 2: how old I am. It's just devastating to get some

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Speaker 2: it was actually kind of weird because I don't know

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Speaker 2: who these people are really, but I do remember, I mean,

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Speaker 2: she was like an American Idol person or one of

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Speaker 2: those types of people, like where did she come from?

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Speaker 2: She came from American Idol, but and she had like

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Speaker 2: the most probably I would say she had the most

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Speaker 2: successful career coming from that show.

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Speaker 1: And she was very successful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I heard her songs and stuff. It's

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Speaker 2: just it's not my kup of tea. But like, I

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Speaker 2: know who she is. So I just remember vaguely hearing

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Speaker 2: in the news over the past couple of years that

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Speaker 2: she was getting divorced and it seemed that it was

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Speaker 2: it was like really messy.

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Speaker 3: Right, Well, this is what's really interesting. So her agent

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Speaker 3: was her ex husband's father, initially, so his name was

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Speaker 3: Narvel black Sock and he was married to Riba for years.

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Speaker 3: I think like over twenty years they ever married. So

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Speaker 3: him and Riba ended up getting divorced because she Riba

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Speaker 3: said that their marriage was basically all business, like all

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Speaker 3: interesting because Brandon Blacksog ended up managing Kelly Clarkson at

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Speaker 3: some point in their marriage, and it seemed like he

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Speaker 3: was doing the same deal, like making a bunch of

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Speaker 3: deals without her consent, charging her a lot of fees

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Speaker 3: after they got divorced, or maybe that came to light,

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Speaker 3: and that's why they got divorced, because she was like,

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Speaker 3: you're taking advantage of me, and you're my husband and

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Speaker 3: we have children together. But they got divorced in twenty twenty,

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Speaker 3: and after that it was just so contentious. He was

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Speaker 3: trying to get all this money from her. She had

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Speaker 3: to pay him this slump sum of over a million dollars,

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Speaker 3: and then she had to pay him this astronomical spousal

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Speaker 3: support on top of child support. Then a couple of

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Speaker 3: years ago. He ended up owing her all this money

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Speaker 3: because they proved that he was charging her an excessive

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Speaker 1: It's been a mess.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand how he's charging her fees if they're married, Like,

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Speaker 2: isn't it all the same?

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Speaker 3: Well? I guess not, because a typical agent fee would

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Speaker 3: be like ten percent of deal. And if he's broker

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Speaker 3: in the deals. Think about if Gabe was brokering deals

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Speaker 3: fifteen or twenty percent, not the average ten percent. You

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Speaker 3: And then I was thinking, like God, this all was

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Speaker 3: going down when he went cancer, when he was going

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Speaker 3: they were divorced. I guess, Well, so they're saying he

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Speaker 3: was privately battling it for three years. So let's say

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Speaker 3: So like their legal problems were going on into his diagnosis,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's let's talk a little bit about the

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Speaker 2: cancer he has, which was which is melanoma. So it's

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Speaker 2: a it's I wouldn't consider it to be a rare

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Speaker 2: skin cancer, but it's not as common as other types

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Speaker 2: of skin cancer.

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Speaker 1: And it's been in the news a lot.

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Speaker 2: We've definitely talked about it on Mother No's death often

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Speaker 2: because of Teddy Mellancamp. She has stage four melanoma.

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Speaker 2: Chloe Kardashian had had it removed. She had a pretty

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Speaker 2: large resection done on her face for melanoma. And when

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Speaker 2: you get diagnosed with it initially, if you get it

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Speaker 2: the better. So I didn't even know who this guy is,

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Speaker 2: someone like my son in law Ricky, who's like a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just like people that have.

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Speaker 2: Especially people that have light hair, like blonde, blue eyes,

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Speaker 2: And then secondly, men who are over fifty years old

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Speaker 2: So we even knew a kid that had a lesion

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Speaker 2: so it could happen. It's not that it doesn't happen.

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Speaker 2: But her husband is he's fairly light skin, but he

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Speaker 3: No. But they also lived on a pretty big ranch

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Speaker 2: It is possible. I mean, obviously it's possible it happened.

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Speaker 2: We don't know where it started. All we know is

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, and with everything I knew they were

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Speaker 2: You know, it's yeah, I feel badly hard on them

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Speaker 2: though it seems like she was trying not to talk

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he had two other kids too from a previous marriage,

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Speaker 1: That's what I was telling you.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, like, I just was wondering, like if they

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Speaker 3: I think I've heard, like when Katie Perry did it,

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Speaker 3: totally wrong about this. I'm just going off of what

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Speaker 3: I remember. I think she was playing on the weekends,

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Speaker 1: Because if you live in.

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Speaker 2: All Right, So okay, let's stop talking about this now

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Speaker 2: because it is it's kind of sad, So let's talk

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Speaker 2: about another. This is another sad case honestly on Brandy Landvil.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she's extra stressed out or she's acting out

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Speaker 1: I don't know. We'll stay on top of this really

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Speaker 3: Well for me it is, and probably like five people

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Speaker 3: So all right, our next story is another cruise incident.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like this many cruise incidents are always

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Speaker 1: Because I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because like I never cared about a cruise because

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is just really weird. But okay, So on

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Speaker 2: could look out of it. Usually it's like a bright

439
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Speaker 2: colored acrylic plastic thing, you know, bright red or bright

440
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 2: green or something, but this one had a section that

441
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 2: was clear that looked like glass, but it was acrylic.

442
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,919
Speaker 2: So that broke somehow, which is actually weird because it

443
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 2: doesn't appear that it's at the seam. It just appears

444
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 2: that it's like randomly in the middle of it, which

445
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 2: is like such a weird place. And you know what

446
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 2: really scares What scares me about it, I guess is

447
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 2: that prior to starting the rides every day, I assume

448
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,120
Speaker 2: that they're checking them to make sure that that there's

449
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 2: no situation like this. And I would think that if

450
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Speaker 2: the acrylic was weak in one spot, like you've ever

451
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 2: seen a piece of plexiglass or something like, you could

452
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Speaker 2: tell that it's kind of cracked and it looks like

453
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 2: it's about the break or something. It's it's just you

454
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 2: would think that that would have been visible. But maybe

455
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 2: they're only checking the seams because that would be the

456
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 2: most likely place that something would break. Unless the guy

457
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: that went on the slide was over the weight it

458
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 2: that you should be able to go on it. Like,

459
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 2: we don't know any of those details, but apparently, like

460
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Speaker 2: favorite word, they said that he got lacerations on his

461
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 2: back and on the back of his thighs. So, in

462
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 2: my opinion, if a piece of acrylic plastic like that

463
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 2: is broken, it's almost going to be as sharp as

464
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,719
Speaker 2: a sharp weapon like a knife, right, Oh, totally, And

465
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 2: that would not really cause a laceration because a laceration

466
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Speaker 2: would be caused by blunt trauma, such as getting hit

467
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Speaker 2: in the back of the leg by a baseball bat

468
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 2: or a blunt object. And when you get an injury

469
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 2: that is from a sharp object such as glass or

470
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 2: even very sharp plastic, that would be considered a sharp

471
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Speaker 2: force injury or an incisional wound. And it's not a laceration,

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Speaker 2: And they misuse it all the time, and it drives

473
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Speaker 2: me fricking crazy.

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Speaker 3: I feel like there's another story coming up this week

475
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 3: where they misused it too. I don't remember off the

476
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 3: top of my head. I have it as a note somewhere.

477
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 2: So I think so too. But I think one of

478
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,479
Speaker 2: them is actually correct for once, So I don't know.

479
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's just constantly is driving me crazy.

480
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Speaker 3: So you know, Louis brought up a really good point too,

481
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 3: that he said he thought from pictures it appeared that

482
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Speaker 3: part of this slide went like over the edge of

483
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Speaker 3: the boat, and can you imagine it breaking there and

484
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 3: then falling into the ocean or something.

485
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Speaker 1: If you fell off.

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Speaker 3: I don't know this. It's so scary to me. Anything

487
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,959
Speaker 3: that happens on these boats is scary. And then I

488
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 3: was reading also that the crews didn't tell anybody what happened,

489
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Speaker 3: So unless you saw it online or you were on

490
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Speaker 3: the poll deck when it happened, you just had no

491
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 3: idea this happened.

492
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I know.

493
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Speaker 3: They closed the water slide afterwards, a big deal. And

494
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 3: then as of this morning, it was reported that the

495
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Speaker 3: guy that got injured has retained a lawyer, which I

496
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Speaker 3: would say lawsuit word, yes, because.

497
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Speaker 1: I can't even imagine how scary that is. But it's cool.

498
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 2: It's it is kind of cool that they interviewed all

499
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 2: these people that were witnessing it and taking the videos

500
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: and stuff, and they're like, I am never going on one.

501
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: Of those again.

502
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Speaker 2: Like obviously, I don't even want to go on one

503
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Speaker 2: again after seeing that.

504
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 3: Remember that I don't even know if it was on

505
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 3: this or if it was a gross room post or

506
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 3: what it was. In the last couple of years, there

507
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 3: was that roller coaster that had the crack in this

508
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 3: oh yeah beam, Yes, that's what I was and it

509
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 3: was like shaking and it wasn't attached. I know it

510
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 3: really when you watch the video, it almost makes you

511
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 3: panicked to watch this hole and hearing the people scream

512
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 3: to stop the ride, when you're just like, oh my god,

513
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 3: what if they don't hear and no one's communicating with

514
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 3: them and they send like a kid down and the

515
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: kid falls.

516
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Speaker 1: Out of the hole or something, or an adult whatever

517
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Speaker 1: like it.

518
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: The whole thing is just like it gives you that gross,

519
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 2: panicky feeling that you could see something really bad is

520
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 2: about to happen.

521
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 3: I wonder if they have some type of emergency alert

522
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 3: system on the ground.

523
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: I'm sure.

524
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 2: I'm sure they do, because usually when you go on

525
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 2: rides like that, you see the people have some kind

526
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 2: of like micro or like an intercom like a walkie

527
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 2: talkie situation or whatever. But yeah, that it's also weird

528
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: too because if I'm correct, that's their newer ship right,

529
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,640
Speaker 2: Like it's it's only a year or two old. It's

530
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 2: not like this is a water slide that's been there

531
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Speaker 2: for ten years. It's a pretty new one.

532
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I believe you're correct with it because it's I

533
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Speaker 3: think it's currently considered the largest active cruise liner, but

534
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,159
Speaker 3: their new ship is bigger. Than that, and that's going

535
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 3: to be it's either about to launch or like it's

536
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 3: going to be ready in the next couple Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, I mean just because I feel like a couple

538
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 2: of incidents that we talked about have been with this

539
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: particular ship. But obviously I feel like it holds almost

540
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: double of what was on our ship.

541
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Speaker 3: So you're going to have Is this the same boat

542
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Speaker 3: as the other incident from the last couple of weeks

543
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 3: I believe, So, oh.

544
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Speaker 1: My god, I didn't even put that to I.

545
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 2: Think I think at least the the the one with

546
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 2: the with the person falling over the edge of the pool,

547
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,959
Speaker 2: but that's like that was a human error too. And

548
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: oh the murder one, Yeah, that one too, I believe,

549
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 2: the one where the guy killed his the woman and

550
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 2: then yes, and then he like or he tried to

551
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 2: kill the woman and then he jumped overboard.

552
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I believe.

553
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 3: So, yeah, they need to really maybe put this boat

554
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 3: on boss and see what so much shy They should

555
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 3: hold crime con there because that would be like an

556
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 3: active investigation. The CRI have a whole entire on the

557
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 3: crime cruise, just have a whole entire time talking about

558
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 3: all the incidents that happened on that particular ship.

559
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Speaker 1: That is a great idea.

560
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Speaker 3: Kelly or Kevin, if you're listening, I think this is

561
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 3: the way you should get for the crime cruise.

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590
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592
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593
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594
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598
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Speaker 3: like so many hours doing ultrasounds to complete his education.

599
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Speaker 3: So they go to his house and agree to it,

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601
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602
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:02,840
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603
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, so one of the guys went home and told

604
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Speaker 2: his wife film was like, that was kind of weird,

605
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: and then she agreed and they reported it and this

606
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: all came out. But I mean, so he was doing

607
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 2: ultrasounds on guys genitals and then video taping it and

608
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 2: then probably like doing something really disgusting after they left

609
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: with the videos.

610
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean they said totally separately. He stood trial

611
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Speaker 3: in April on a misdemeanor charge of voyeurism, but he

612
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 3: was acquitted and then this comes out later.

613
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Speaker 2: I just we say this all the time, especially with

614
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Speaker 2: people that are working in medicine. To be a medical

615
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: resident is not an easy thing to do. You know,

616
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Speaker 2: you have to go to four years of undergrad college

617
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Speaker 2: and then you have to do four years of medical school,

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Speaker 2: and then you have to get a residency. The whole

619
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620
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Speaker 2: to pass, to get through all of these these different

621
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Speaker 2: parts of medicine, and then you finally get a residency,

622
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Speaker 2: which is you're considered to be a doctor, but you

623
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 2: don't you're not an attending physician yet. You still have

624
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Speaker 2: to finish that and usually do fellowships afterwards. But to

625
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 2: think that a person would go through all this and

626
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 2: then do something like this. I can't even imagine that

627
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: if he was even allowed to finish his residency and

628
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: become an attending physician, that any place in their right

629
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 2: mind would hire somebody that's that's.

630
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Speaker 1: Done something like this. No, I highly doubt.

631
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 2: I don't even know what his residency was in, but regardless,

632
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 2: it's just it's just really bizarre. And but I have

633
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 2: to tell you about some of the comments posted underneath

634
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 2: one guy I like, I really love the comments section

635
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: sometimes on just anything in general. Gabe and I always

636
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: send videos back and forth to each other, and it's

637
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: just like read the comments. There are some like true

638
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: comedic geniuses out there that just aren't aren't showing it

639
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 2: with some of the comments that people write. I mean,

640
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: this one's not like completely genius. I just thought it

641
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 2: was funny, but someone put great free handy no copay,

642
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: I'm in so funny, But I mean, the whole situation

643
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 2: is not funny. And the way that the story's written,

644
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 2: you're you're just like, Okay, what person in the right

645
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 2: mind would just go to someone's house to get this done?

646
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 2: But I could see I guess he was trying to

647
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 2: say that he was doing some kind of like research

648
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: or something to help people with their health, and he

649
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: wanted to do I don't know, Like, I guess you

650
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 2: could see how people fell for this, Yeah.

651
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 1: I mean it must.

652
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Speaker 3: I think it was one of those things too, where

653
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Speaker 3: it happens and you like, you're saying, this guy goes

654
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Speaker 3: home and talks to his wife about it, and he's like,

655
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Speaker 3: I feel weird about this, But do you also think

656
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 3: it's weird because it's like a really unusual situation. Because

657
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Speaker 3: I think everybody in their right mind wants to think

658
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Speaker 3: the best of everybody. You don't want to think that

659
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 3: a guy you were in a running group with just

660
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 3: took you back to his apartment and totally took advantage

661
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 3: of me for his own perverted needs.

662
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: And the wife was probably staring at him like, yeah,

663
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 2: that's weird. You know, when you hear it from from

664
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 2: being outside the situation, she was probably like.

665
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,479
Speaker 1: What are you Like, of course he was. I just

666
00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 1: think it's funny.

667
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 3: Remind me at a time that, uh, when we were

668
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 3: living in the city, Ricky went out to get us

669
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 3: coffees and he comes in the house and he goes

670
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 3: some guy just pulled a machete on me, and I

671
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 3: was like what, and he's like, yeah, he just he

672
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: just started screaming at me and pulled a machete on me,

673
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 3: and then you know, then he drove away because he

674
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 3: was in the car. And I'm like, Okay, well we

675
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 3: have to call the police. And he's like, I don't

676
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 3: really think it's that big of a deal, Like what

677
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 3: are you talking about?

678
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you're just like, that's I do think that

679
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 2: that's happened. Sometimes that you have an experience and you

680
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: don't really realize it's as bad as like someone hearing

681
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 2: the story outside does you know, It's just like a

682
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 2: weird thing people's brain does.

683
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 3: Because you know me, I immediately was like so upset

684
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 3: about it, and he was just like.

685
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 1: What's the big deal? What are you talking about it?

686
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: You're like, that person probably shouldn't be going around the

687
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 2: city if.

688
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 1: Like driving like a minivan.

689
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 2: The police whatn't even would they even came if you

690
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 2: called them? At that point?

691
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 1: Anyway?

692
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 3: No, I I called and reported and they're like do

693
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 3: you have a license plate? And I was like no,

694
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 3: and they're basically like, well, what do you want us

695
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 3: to do.

696
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 2: What do you want them to do? Oh, you're in

697
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 2: the city of Philadelphia. There's millions of people, and you're like, oh,

698
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: there's a guy in South Philly in a minivan.

699
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: Like that's not helpful even a little bit, Like you

700
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: should you shouldn't even have bothered. All right, a shit,

701
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: let's talk.

702
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 2: So this case has been circulating the news with this

703
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 2: week about this this teenager which has just had an

704
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: incredibly sad ending, which unfortunately is what I suspected would happen.

705
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, So he's eighteen years old. His name's Giovanni Pelatier.

706
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 3: So he was visiting Florida with his mother and her fiance,

707
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 3: hoping to reconnect with his dad's side of the family.

708
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 3: So his dad was in jail, but he had made

709
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 3: plans to meet up with his cousins. A couple of

710
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 3: days in the trip. The cousins pick him up at

711
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 3: one thirty in the morning. They said they were going

712
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 3: to be making a three hour trip back to where

713
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 3: they lived. I guess on the other I think they

714
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 3: were on the Gulf side and the cousins lived on

715
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 3: the h the Atlantic side. So the kid gets picked

716
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 3: up one thirty in the morning and only twenty five

717
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,760
Speaker 3: minutes later, texts the mom help, but she was sleeping

718
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 3: so she didn't see it until the next morning, and

719
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 3: he had texted a couple other family members for help too,

720
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 3: And by the time the mom wakes up and she

721
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 3: gets in contact, the kid is gone.

722
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: She talks to the cousins. They're like, oh, I don't know.

723
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 3: We were smoking weed and he pulled a knife out

724
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 3: and was acting crazy and he got out on the

725
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 3: side of the road, like totally against his character according

726
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 3: to the rest of the family. Yeah, And so when

727
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 3: I heard this, I was just like, you know, we've

728
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 3: talked about this with with weed in the past, and

729
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 3: just how some of it is a lot stronger, like

730
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: more potent strains of it, and especially with kids of

731
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 3: this age, that there's this increased risk of psychosis happening

732
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 3: with marijuana that we've been seeing documented cases of. So

733
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 3: I'm wondering if it's something as simple as that, or

734
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 3: the weed had something else in it that was causing Like.

735
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: I don't think that it's that.

736
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 2: It might not be untrue that he smoked something and

737
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 2: started having psychosis and it freaked the cousins out to

738
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 2: the point where they dropped him off and were like, yo,

739
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 2: because they don't really know him either, right.

740
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 3: Well, I it seems like the leading theory is that

741
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 3: they did something to him. But do you think if

742
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 3: he did smoke weed and it was we didn't do

743
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,320
Speaker 3: psychosis that it would kick in in twenty five minutes.

744
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:00,800
Speaker 3: I mean that seems pretty fast.

745
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, why not?

746
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 2: I mean, you get I don't think that that's out

747
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,359
Speaker 2: of the rama possibility at all. It gets especially smoking it,

748
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 2: it gets in your system so fast. I just they

749
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,399
Speaker 2: you know, they're doing an autopsy, obviously they so they

750
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 2: so go go ahead and tell about how they found

751
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: the body and stuff.

752
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so his phone and backpack were found on the

753
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 3: side of the road about an hour away, and then

754
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 3: they ended up finding his remains in a retention pond

755
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,280
Speaker 3: off of I seventy five. But the family's mad because

756
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 3: they said the police had initially looked in that area

757
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 3: and did not find him, and it wasn't until later

758
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: when they had a private investigator look into it that

759
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 3: that person ended up finding him. So I also read

760
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 3: this morning that they want the FBI to get involved

761
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 3: because they just felt like they were blown off about

762
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 3: the search for the kid. He was missing for over

763
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 3: a week.

764
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 2: Well, the family has and I don't know what the

765
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 2: deal is with the private investigator, but the family has

766
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 2: definitely made it a point to make social media posts

767
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: to say like they are the ones that found the body,

768
00:37:58,640 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 2: not the police.

769
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't.

770
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 2: Really know how they I guess I mean obviously, like

771
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 2: I would do the same thing if I called the

772
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 2: police and they weren't really doing anything. And we hear

773
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 2: this from time to time on stories I we cover

774
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: on this show that especially if you call the police

775
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 2: and say you can't get a hold of an eighteen

776
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 2: year old, they don't really take that seriously unless the

777
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: person's missing for X amount of days or something. And

778
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 2: it's unfortunate because technically an eighteen year old as an adult,

779
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,760
Speaker 2: but it's if you're a mother, that's still your baby

780
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 2: and you know how they act. And I feel like

781
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 2: with the text messages that said help me, that should

782
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 2: have maybe had police take it more seriously, because it's

783
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 2: not just like, oh, I can't get a hold of

784
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 2: this kid, like he literally was like helped me. And

785
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 2: the whole situation is he's with people that I'm not

786
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 2: sure that he ever met before that. The whole thing

787
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 2: is weird anyway, Like who pays someone up for a

788
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 2: family of reunion at one thirty in the morning to

789
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 2: drive three hours across the state. Of course, the mother

790
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 2: was sleeping, because like that's what people do in the

791
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 2: middle of the night, is sleep. Yeah, but I do

792
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 2: think that it has I mean, his body was found decomposed, unfortunately,

793
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 2: which is terrible way if the family was involved and

794
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 2: saw him that way. But they're saying it doesn't look

795
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 2: like there was any foul play yet, So to me,

796
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 2: it's like, well, he doesn't look like he was shot,

797
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 2: he doesn't look like he was stabbed, and he doesn't

798
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 2: look like he was beat up. But like, obviously they

799
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 2: have to do the autopsy and do X rays and

800
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: do the internal examine to toxicology. But I understand that

801
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 2: they're saying that it looks like the cousins did something

802
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 2: to him, but very well their story could be legit

803
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: that he was just I mean, listen, they're gonna be

804
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 2: I assume that they can be charged with with something

805
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 2: because if he was having some kind of a mental condition,

806
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 2: you can't just drop especially he's not from there or anything.

807
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 2: You can't just drop a person off at the side

808
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 2: of the road and like, let let them fend from

809
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 2: themselves when they're in that situation.

810
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really curious to see what the autopsy's gonna

811
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 3: show up, like turn up, because I think that's gonna

812
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 3: you know, I'm hoping it's straightforward because if it's not

813
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 3: inconclusive or whatever, could it be inconclusive because of the

814
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 3: state of his body. I'm saying that because I could

815
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 3: see it. If it doesn't give a clear cut answer

816
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 3: as to what happened, is turning into a really sensationalized I.

817
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 2: Think that he was decomposed, but I don't know that

818
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: he like how decomposed he was. I mean, he was

819
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 2: only missing for like not too long, right, he was

820
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 2: missing over a week, And it's ford they'll still be

821
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 2: able they'll still be able to see a lot of

822
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 2: things with the autopsy, like, for example, if he was

823
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: in any kind of a fight, they'll they'll sometimes they

824
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: could still see the hemorrhage in this off tissue, but

825
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 2: they'll definitely be able to see if there's any kind

826
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 2: of broken bones or any kind of wounds on the

827
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 2: bones that would indicate that he was stabbed or something

828
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 2: like that. And obviously if he was shot the same thing,

829
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 2: so they'll they'll be able to tell, and they'll also

830
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: be able to get some fluid for toxicology to see

831
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: what's going on there. I mean, we'd we like we're

832
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 2: saying weed's potent and stuff right now, which could just

833
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 2: happen with like regular weed. But weed is laced with

834
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 2: shit all the time too, knowingly and unknowingly. So I mean,

835
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 2: if you're if you're buying it obviously from like a

836
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 2: legit pharmacy around here, you're good as far as it

837
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 2: not having some other kind of drug mixed in with it,

838
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 2: but you could have like angel dust, PCP, anything like

839
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 2: that inside it, which is also a hallucinogen. And like, honestly,

840
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 2: I'm not I don't want to say, because the whole

841
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 2: situation's weird, But you just can't blame either side right

842
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 2: now because we don't know anything. But I mean, if

843
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 2: I picked up a cousin that I've been talking to

844
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 2: on Facebook for a couple of years that I never

845
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 2: met in real life, and we decided to smoke weed

846
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 2: together and they pulled a knife out and started acting crazy,

847
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 2: I might want to drop them off at the side

848
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 2: of the road too, like.

849
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 3: Well, you know what, you know, if that's what happened,

850
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 3: what happens, Oh yeah.

851
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: We don't. But I just hope that they stay open

852
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 1: minded in situations like that because we don't know.

853
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I hope the family just gets the answers

854
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 3: they need, like cause I just see it the potential

855
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 3: for it to end up being like a Karen Reid

856
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,360
Speaker 3: type of thing, like there's not conclusive answers to what happened.

857
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: Is going to be like this from now on because

858
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 1: of the Internet, no, I know.

859
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 3: So hopefully the autopsy is conclusive and they get answers

860
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 3: so they can try try to find peace with it,

861
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 3: you know, because it's a tragedy, all right. So this

862
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 3: video is going around where this woman is claiming that

863
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 3: when she got pregnant, her face just became completely unrecognizable.

864
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 3: So in this video she shows before and after pictures,

865
00:42:55,320 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 3: and this video has gotten millions of views, one hundred

866
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 3: and sixteen million views, and so many people are Obviously

867
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 3: people are interested in it because she looks drastically different

868
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 3: from picture one to picture two, but also so many

869
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 3: people are like, yeah, you don't look like that, so

870
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 3: we don't even we don't even believe you right now

871
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 3: and then, so she said she's not posting about it

872
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 3: anymore because she's gotten so much backlash over it. So

873
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 3: I went on her TikTok page because yes, the before

874
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 3: picture they use is extremely face tuned. I mean, it's

875
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 3: impossible to tell what this person really looks like, but

876
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,359
Speaker 3: when you do go look at other videos of her,

877
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,240
Speaker 3: I could see what she kind of looked like minus

878
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 3: all the filters beforehand. I don't think she had this

879
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 3: drastic situation going on her face before she claims she

880
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 3: got pregnant.

881
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: So what do you think?

882
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 3: Oh?

883
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 2: Great, I agree, like I think, and I don't know,

884
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 2: is that is the picture that's in this article, the

885
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: one that she was using to be like, this is

886
00:43:58,480 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 2: what I looked like before, and this.

887
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:00,879
Speaker 1: Is what I look like now.

888
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, in the video that is, But I don't think

889
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 3: that was an accurate representation.

890
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 2: It absolutely wasn't. Like when I looked at that, I'm

891
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 2: just like, she looks she looks like one of those

892
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 2: like an anime care, like an anime care just.

893
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 3: Because it's so it's there's like settings on face tune

894
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 3: and they were just clearly turned all the way up.

895
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:22,439
Speaker 1: It's like the ninety chick, And this is just.

896
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 2: Like something I want to talk about in general, because

897
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 2: like all of these people are are putting these pictures

898
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 2: like on their profile and they're like, is that girl

899
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: legitimately think that that's what she looked like? Because she

900
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: didn't look like that, And you're trying to tell us

901
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 2: that's what you look like, and like, you don't look

902
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: like that.

903
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 3: The thing that I thought was weird though, is if

904
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 3: you go through her page, the other content she has

905
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 3: is not as heavily filtered like that. So I don't

906
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 3: understand why that was the reference point. Maybe she's just

907
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,919
Speaker 3: a social media genius and she used that one because

908
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 3: she knew it would get a lot of debate in

909
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 3: her a lot of views.

910
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 2: Well yeah, exactly, and that could totally be possible. But

911
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: I do think that there there are people though, that

912
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: try to pass that off.

913
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: Is that is that what that's what they look like?

914
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 1: And that's what I was just gonna say.

915
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 3: That chick from ninety Day Fiance Darcy, I mean Teresa

916
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 3: gu Jidas from Real House West in New Jersey, she

917
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 3: does it that extreme and it's like, what is happening?

918
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 3: You're on television?

919
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 2: People, you could tell yeah, but you could tell us

920
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 2: that that's what you look like. And like, god, Chloe

921
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 2: Kardashian was doing it hardcore a couple of years ago,

922
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 2: and they're just like, dude, you could sit there and

923
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 2: tell us that that's what you look like, but you don't.

924
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: Look like that.

925
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 2: It's I hate those I hate those filters. I hate

926
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 2: any filter, honestly, Like I just think it's I was

927
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 2: very happy when I met someone in Atlanta and they

928
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 2: were like, you look exactly the same, and I'm like, yeah,

929
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,240
Speaker 2: cause I I don't put a weird filter on my face,

930
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 2: Like this is what I look like in real life.

931
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 1: Take it or leave it, like anyway, all right.

932
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: So we're so when you look at what she really

933
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 2: looks like and then what she looks like in pregnancy,

934
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:08,399
Speaker 2: it's still very drastic, but it's also believable because when

935
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 2: you're pregnant, lots of different things go on with your body,

936
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 2: and you could talk about this, like, just talk to.

937
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 1: So many women.

938
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 2: And actually, I wanted to tell you guys, if you

939
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,439
Speaker 2: guys have any stories of like crazy things that happen

940
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,800
Speaker 2: to your body when you're pregnant, you could always email

941
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 2: us and let us know, because I think we're going

942
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 2: to start doing some emails on top of the questions

943
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 2: that we do at the end of this episode, just

944
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 2: because we want to hear your stories as well. But so,

945
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: when you're pregnant, a couple different things happen, and one

946
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 2: is when you get towards the end of pregnancy, after

947
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 2: thirty weeks, you actually start making more blood in your body,

948
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,840
Speaker 2: which is really cool that women can do this, and

949
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 2: it's kind of like this evolutionary thing because there's so

950
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 2: much blood lost doring childbirth, So you have this increase

951
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 2: of blood in your body not only for that but

952
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 2: just to help this growing parasite inside of your body.

953
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 2: And you also have an increase of estrogen, which dilates

954
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 2: the blood vessels as well. So in your nose, for example,

955
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 2: you know when you're sick and your nose just gets

956
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 2: kind of swollen, it's it's very red, and it just

957
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: looks like it's bigger than it normally is. That's because

958
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: your nose is just different than the skin on your cheek,

959
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 2: for example, because you have all of these mucus cells

960
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 2: and everything underneath of that, and when all of that

961
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 2: gets angry and inflamed, it could just make it seem

962
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 2: like it's larger because on your cheeks like you have fat,

963
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,760
Speaker 2: but in your nose there's not really fat or anything.

964
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 2: So and you're staring in the mirror and you're looking

965
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 2: and it's just like, Okay, this looks huge compared to

966
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 2: how it did look. So there's not an official condition

967
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 2: called pregnancy nose, but lots of different women have experienced it,

968
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 2: and it's something that, like legit can be explained physiologically

969
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 2: what's going on in a preguate body. And then so

970
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,360
Speaker 2: that would explain why her nose looks so much larger.

971
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 2: And then she also looks like she has pregnancy acne

972
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 2: as well.

973
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's not like a couple pimples. It's it

974
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 3: looks like she has an insane rash on her face.

975
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, I mean this is what you So people

976
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 2: that get pregnancy acne are usually people that if you

977
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 2: get it like in the first week of your period,

978
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 2: you're more likely to get it in the first trimester

979
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 2: of pregnancy, and then you could carry on with it

980
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 2: throughout the rest of your pregnancy. And the problem is

981
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 2: is if you're I mean, like some people like you

982
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 2: and I for example, are people that get like a

983
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 2: ZiT here or there, but some people that have full

984
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: on acne. If you've seen people that have it really

985
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 2: severe as a teenager, they have to go on some

986
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 2: pretty hardcore medications to really treat it and get rid

987
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 2: of it. And if you're prone to that, you can

988
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 2: get which I'm not.

989
00:48:58,840 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: This is just my opinion.

990
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 2: I'm just making I'm not trying to diagnose her by video,

991
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 2: but I am at the same time, like her skin

992
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,840
Speaker 2: without the filter looks like she had an acne problem

993
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 2: at some point in her life. She just has like

994
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 2: scars that would be consistent with acne. So now she's pregnant,

995
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 2: she's at an increased risk of getting it again. And

996
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 2: you can't take like the acutine. I don't even know

997
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 2: if acutine is the proper or you can't take anymore,

998
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 2: but you can't take any anny, So that could be

999
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 2: why it just looks extra angry, or whatever she was

1000
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 2: doing to treat it could just make her skin like

1001
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 2: it looks like she's got full blown acne on her face,

1002
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 2: but on top of that it looks very swollen and angry,

1003
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 2: which just makes it look more drastic. So I I

1004
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 2: don't believe that that part of the story is fake

1005
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 2: even a little bit, like that photo looks like something

1006
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 2: that could really happen, and it is even strikingly different

1007
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 2: from her real appearance, and lots of like I could

1008
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 2: tell you, like my feet got bigger when I was pregnant.

1009
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,800
Speaker 2: There's just like different things that happen to everyone's body.

1010
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 2: So I am curious if you've guys have had anything

1011
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 2: like that. I don't really recall my nose getting bigger,

1012
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 2: but I do know that my nose gets like it

1013
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 2: was big last week because my nose was like super

1014
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 2: inflamed because of allergies and stuff. So like you've noticed

1015
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 2: that right on yourself, Like yeah, like you know when

1016
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 2: you get that like weird like burning in the tip

1017
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 2: of your nose and like the snot is like pouring

1018
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:30,720
Speaker 2: out of your face.

1019
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when I'm sick. I've definitely noticed. Yeah, so

1020
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 1: it's kind of a similar thing.

1021
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 3: It's like being pregnant must be hard enough, and then

1022
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 3: you have to deal with all this other bullshit too.

1023
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 3: It just seems really unfair, it really is.

1024
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 2: There's there's lots of I had a friend that got

1025
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 2: a really crazy rash on her arms, being pregnant and

1026
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 2: it left like permanent scarring on her arms. There's like

1027
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 2: there's a lot of things that could happen. That's why

1028
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 2: when people used to be a surrogate, I'm always like,

1029
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 2: that's like pregnancy isn't considered just like a benign kind

1030
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 2: of condition your body goes under.

1031
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: It's a lot, no, But you.

1032
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 3: Know, there's like people like mo Mom that are like

1033
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,280
Speaker 3: I felt the best I ever did when I was pregnant,

1034
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 3: and I just I mean, I haven't been so like

1035
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 3: I just can't imagine that's gonna.

1036
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: Be my experience.

1037
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 3: But like I feel like I don't know, you could

1038
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 3: speak for your own pregnancies, but I feel like witnessing

1039
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:26,240
Speaker 3: you it wasn't like the best experience of your life.

1040
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, there were definitely good parts of it

1041
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 2: because I didn't get any headaches the entire time I

1042
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 2: was pregnant, which was awesome. Like I didn't get my

1043
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,879
Speaker 2: period obviously when I was pregnant, So those things are

1044
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 2: are always a positive. But like there's just so many

1045
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 2: other things that happened, like and I was I was

1046
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 2: kind of fine, Like I never got sick with the

1047
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 2: throwing up and all that stuff. I never had that ever,

1048
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,760
Speaker 2: And some people like really go through it and feel terrible,

1049
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 2: but I was opposite, Like as far as like my

1050
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 2: appetite went, I was never nauseous and like definitely feeding

1051
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 2: for two, if not five.

1052
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,720
Speaker 3: So you were on a big, big meg kick with Lilian.

1053
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, big, like, oh my god, it's just terrible and

1054
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 2: cupcakes and just like terrible. I gained so much weight,

1055
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:21,879
Speaker 2: and I remember my obstetrician was like, oh, why don't

1056
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,919
Speaker 2: why don't we send you to a nutritionist because you're

1057
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 2: we have to see why you're gaining so much weight.

1058
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 2: And I was just like I eat like two donuts

1059
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 2: every day for breakfast, and like like I know why

1060
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,879
Speaker 2: I'm gaining weight. There's no one that's going to tell

1061
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 2: me how to change my diet. I know that I can.

1062
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: I just don't want to because I just want to

1063
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: eat everything in sight. It was terrible.

1064
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 3: All right, Let's move on to Questions of the Day.

1065
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 3: Every Friday, at the A Mother Knows Death Instagram account,

1066
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 3: you guys can head over to our story and ask

1067
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:56,280
Speaker 3: whatever you want. First, could you do anything within CSI

1068
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 3: or the lab while being colorblind?

1069
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: So this is a this is actually a really good question.

1070
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 2: So I believe I went to cytology school such a

1071
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 2: long time ago, back in two thousand. I do recall

1072
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 2: them giving off the color blind test, and I do

1073
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 2: recall it being an issue if you were a colorblind.

1074
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 2: I didn't have any particular students in my class that were.

1075
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 2: But especially when you're doing cytology and you're looking at

1076
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:28,879
Speaker 2: cells under the microscope and you really need to know

1077
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 2: if because some of the cytoplasm turns different colors in

1078
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 2: certain situations, and you really need to know. You really

1079
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 2: need to be able to accurately see the colors in

1080
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 2: order to see different changes in the cells. So I

1081
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 2: would say, depending on what kind of color blindness you had,

1082
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 2: you would not be able to be a cytotechnologist for sure,

1083
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 2: I believe you. I don't see why it would be

1084
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 2: a problem in the other parts of the lab, like

1085
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 2: the clinical laboratory. If you're a medical technologist doing like

1086
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 2: hematology or blood bank or something like that, I don't

1087
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 2: see that being a problem.

1088
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: Being a PA, you definitely should be able to.

1089
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 2: Recognize different colors and the disease process for certain situations.

1090
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 2: But I still don't think that that would be considered

1091
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,280
Speaker 2: a deal breaker because you could just see other things

1092
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 2: associated with it.

1093
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know.

1094
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 2: I mean, we we have to describe the colors of

1095
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 2: things sometimes, but I don't know if it's that that

1096
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 2: that important as it is. Was psychology so and then

1097
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 2: cs I I I'm not sure exactly because I don't

1098
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 2: I never worked in that field. But I'm missing l Yeah,

1099
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: we could, we could ask Cheryl for sure. I'm just

1100
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm assuming no, like you should be fine, you know,

1101
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think that you would be like

1102
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 2: excluded for that.

1103
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: So, but that's a good question.

1104
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 3: All right. If a loved one passed away, would I

1105
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 3: be able to request to keep a tooth? So you

1106
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 3: I listen, if you ever want something like that, you could.

1107
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:19,799
Speaker 3: That would be something that I would recommend that you

1108
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 3: ask the funeral home. I feel like because of what

1109
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 3: happened with David Scoonce, I don't think they're allowed to

1110
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 3: take teeth.

1111
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: Out anymore now. I don't they could, But that has

1112
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:31,839
Speaker 1: nothing to do with.

1113
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 2: Like, if you have a written permission for him from

1114
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 2: a family, that's why wouldn't they.

1115
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 3: Do that, because then he would fake a written permission for.

1116
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: Who?

1117
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 3: Remember they were taking all the people's teeth out for

1118
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 3: their fillings and stuff. I feel like after that some

1119
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 3: regulation was passed where they're not allowed to remove things

1120
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 3: like that anymore.

1121
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's true. I really don't know

1122
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 2: what happens in the funeral home. I could just tell

1123
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 2: you we've had a couple of situations like that.

1124
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: People.

1125
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: The only thing that we would ever give back to

1126
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 2: a family is like if a person was wearing like

1127
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 2: a wedding ring or something. I would never ever cut

1128
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,720
Speaker 2: off a body part and give it to a family member.

1129
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 2: But we've had requests like can I have a lock

1130
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: of this person's hair or something like that, and we

1131
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 2: just say, we're sending the body to the funeral home

1132
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 2: and you could deal. They could deal with that, Like

1133
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:26,280
Speaker 2: that's nothing that we would ever do. And I suppose

1134
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 2: that the funeral home has the ability to pull out

1135
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:34,359
Speaker 2: a tooth, but like they really, I mean they could.

1136
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 2: They could use a pair of pliers, honestly, like it

1137
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 2: would work. But there's like Maria was talking about this

1138
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 2: case of the Lamb Funeral Home. What was the name

1139
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 2: of that documentary on Netflix? Yeah, The more Titian on HBO,

1140
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 2: The Mortician on HBO. There's never a situation that I

1141
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 2: could foresee that a funeral home would have to take

1142
00:56:55,480 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 2: out someone's teeth. But also people have sometimes people have

1143
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 2: like a grill, or they have like gold in their teeth.

1144
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 1: That's that.

1145
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 2: And people might they might have a gold tooth with

1146
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 2: an initial that somebody would want to keep. And I

1147
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 2: don't I don't see what the problem is if the

1148
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 2: family requests that getting that, it just would have to

1149
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 2: be documented properly. And I mean, I'd love to just

1150
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 2: talk to a funeral director and hear some of the

1151
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 2: weird requests that people have, because I'm sure it's I'm

1152
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 2: sure people have asked for legit body parts, like who knows,

1153
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 2: you know, it's just people. People have some weird requests.

1154
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 3: So all right, less, what's an important quality you try

1155
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 3: to instill in your kids?

1156
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:41,920
Speaker 1: I didn't even really think about this.

1157
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 2: I obviously I have lots of life lessons. So now

1158
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 2: they're so now they're approaching being teenagers, so like a

1159
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 2: huge one is And I think that this was with

1160
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 2: Maria too. Was just trying to have them have like

1161
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 2: a true establishment of their self and not going along

1162
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 2: with what everyone is going along with which is hard

1163
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 2: because I feel like it's even it's even worse now, right,

1164
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 2: Like Gabe and I went to the boardwalk recently, and

1165
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 2: you're just like you're walking on the boardwalk and you

1166
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 2: see all these kids that, like, you don't even know

1167
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 2: where they're from. They could be from around here, they

1168
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 2: could be from Philly, or they could be from another state, town, country,

1169
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 2: even lots of people come from Canada and stuff. And

1170
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 2: Gabe was just like, all these kids are dressed the same,

1171
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 2: like from all over because they all they all do

1172
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 2: Pinterest and they all do TikTok and Instagram, so that

1173
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 2: they all like look the same, right, And I guess

1174
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,919
Speaker 2: something could be said about that from it's a little

1175
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 2: bit different than when we were kids. But like, there

1176
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 2: was definitely a part in the eighties where it was

1177
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 2: like everyone was dressing like Madonna and everybody was dressing

1178
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 2: like Debbie Gibson and all the you know, just things

1179
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 2: like that. But it almost is interesting to think about

1180
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 2: having let's say, for example, back in the eighties, like

1181
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 2: kids from California versus kids from New Jersey, where like

1182
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: they all dressed the same and it probably would not

1183
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 2: be the same just because regionally.

1184
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:18,440
Speaker 1: You only know what you know and.

1185
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 2: What you see on TV basically, so, but it's not

1186
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 2: it's not just about the clothes and everything though. It's

1187
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 2: just about because that transfers over into them when they

1188
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 2: get older, like their friends having sex and their friends

1189
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 2: doing drugs and their friends drinking and stuff.

1190
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: And I just.

1191
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 2: Really try to say that to them all the time,

1192
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 2: just like you do what you want to do and

1193
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 2: be who you are and don't change for any of

1194
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 2: your friends or to fit in. And I think that's

1195
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 2: that's hard, like a hard lesson, don't you think so?

1196
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:59,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's easier to just go with the flow,

1197
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,919
Speaker 3: oh obviously, and just.

1198
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 2: Like stupid things like when and everyone's guilty of it

1199
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 2: to a certain extent throughout their life. And it's just

1200
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 2: like certain things when I got older and I was

1201
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 2: in college and everyone wanted to go to the bar

1202
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 2: and go drinking, and I'd be like, okay, and then

1203
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 2: I would go and I would just be miserable all night,

1204
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 2: and then I would think something was wrong with me.

1205
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I.

1206
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 2: Really wish like all these people are drinking and having

1207
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 2: fun and like I'm just like I hate this so bad.

1208
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 3: Why do.

1209
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 2: I hate this so bad, and really I should have

1210
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:34,800
Speaker 2: just been like, you know what, like been honest with myself.

1211
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 2: That's not for me, and I don't want to do that.

1212
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 2: I'm going to stay home when you guys go out.

1213
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 2: I'll be happier being home. Just there's nothing well, but

1214
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,720
Speaker 2: like sometimes you're worried that people are gonna like judge you.

1215
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: For that, you know, because you don't want to do that.

1216
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 3: On a similar note to that, because we're very similar

1217
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 3: with drinking stuff, Like it took me until you know,

1218
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 3: my late twenties really in the last couple of years

1219
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:00,440
Speaker 3: to just be like, if I do go out, I

1220
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 3: don't have to drink because everybody else is drinking.

1221
01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a it's like a peer pressure thing

1222
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 2: in a way even, and it just it takes a

1223
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 2: lot for you to be strong enough to just be like, no,

1224
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,479
Speaker 2: this is what I want to do, and I don't

1225
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 2: have to do with all you are doing, and we

1226
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 2: could all still hang out and be friends.

1227
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

1228
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 3: Like it's just a matter of like really not caring

1229
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 3: what other people think of you. And it's hard to

1230
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 3: live like that. It really is hard to live like that.

1231
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 2: And when you're a little kid like my kid's age,

1232
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 2: it's hard, like you're you're kind of you're desperate for friends.

1233
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 2: Desper you just want to have friends because it's the

1234
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 2: center of your life right now. As friends and who

1235
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:46,000
Speaker 2: they make friends with is very important as to how

1236
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 2: they grow up and who they surround themselves with. And listen,

1237
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 2: We've had a couple of situations where kids have been

1238
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 2: like they just suck and you I have to sit

1239
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 2: there and talk to the kids and just be like, listen,

1240
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 2: like would you Because Lilian especially has the best friend

1241
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 2: that like is just the best, right, and she's now

1242
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 2: the comparison for every other person that she becomes friends with.

1243
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 2: When she has problems with other friends, I just say, like,

1244
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,439
Speaker 2: would you fight with so and so like this? Would

1245
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 2: they ever say that to you? Would they ever treat

1246
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 2: you like this? And you just have to There's just

1247
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 2: a lot to teach them about having respect for themselves

1248
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 2: now and what they tolerate and how they tolerate being treated,

1249
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 2: because I feel like that bleeds into them dating and

1250
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 2: that's when shit could get really bad, like them taking

1251
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 2: shit from a guy or a girl whoever they decide

1252
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 2: to date, like not being treated well because that could

1253
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 2: go all the way into adulthood and their marriage and

1254
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 2: everything else. So it's just like it all goes together,

1255
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 2: you know, And that's like, I guess that's the biggest

1256
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 2: thing is that I just am trying to work on,

1257
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 2: like them being confident in themselves and like who they're

1258
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 2: being friends with.

1259
01:02:57,880 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: Well.

1260
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 3: On a funny side note about dressing in the eighties

1261
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 3: and being trendy, I think I want to show our

1262
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,920
Speaker 3: YouTube people this picture of momm in the eighties in

1263
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 3: her hair where it looks like she was electrocuted, but

1264
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 3: she claims that it was perfectly on brand and trendy

1265
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 3: for the time.

1266
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 1: But look at this, Oh my god.

1267
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 2: Wait, Like, okay, so how old am I in that picture?

1268
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 2: I was in That was when she was trying.

1269
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 3: To show the extended picture, so this is you.

1270
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:33,360
Speaker 2: I hated that fricking crown too. So this was in

1271
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:36,920
Speaker 2: nineteen eighty seven. She was pregnant with Louis, which means

1272
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 2: that I was eight years old.

1273
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:39,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so.

1274
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 3: She was in that photograph. She's thirty. Put it back up,

1275
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 3: she said, she was thirty. Yeah, she's my age in

1276
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 3: this picture.

1277
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: Just put it back up. Ricky said, she looked like

1278
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 1: Marv from the Woods.

1279
01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 2: Like her hair is seriously a solid six inches.

1280
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 3: If it was the trending hairstyle.

1281
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:07,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's just no way.

1282
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 2: Why does she look better approaching seventy than she did

1283
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:13,160
Speaker 2: when she was thirty?

1284
01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 1: Like, really, we.

1285
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 3: Really should do a photo montage of some of her

1286
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 3: best looks. I nobody wanted to do this, but on

1287
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 3: the cruise, I was like, for dinner, we should do

1288
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 3: the Chris Jenner thing and all dressed like one of

1289
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 3: her outrageous outfits.

1290
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to do that. You know, you should

1291
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 1: do it with that picture.

1292
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 2: You should put it in like an AI program and

1293
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 2: put a normal haircut on her and be like you,

1294
01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 2: like you would have been like the hottest chick ever

1295
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 2: if you just had normal hair. She always let me

1296
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 2: let me see pop up next next to her. He

1297
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 2: looks exactly the same, So he was like, forty up, Yeah,

1298
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 2: he really does look exactly the same. He's just like

1299
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 2: not like collar her. Her head is like bigger than

1300
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 2: the entire picture. It's outrageous.

1301
01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 1: I literally cannot.

1302
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: I'm kind of like jealous at her hair could even

1303
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 2: get that big, Like.

1304
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: Like, what is even happening there.

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Speaker 3: I bet you we get it techulated. That says humpers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she calls she calls us humpers, and that was. Wait,

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Speaker 2: I should find that that conversation was like a little

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Speaker 2: bit we don't get understand.

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Speaker 3: Completely unhinge that conversation.

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Speaker 1: It really was.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to look for it, like in one of

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Speaker 2: our family group chats, like a family group chat. I'm

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Speaker 2: trying to because that was kind of a while ago.

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Speaker 2: But oh wait, this might be it. So we don't

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Speaker 2: even know where she got that. So she calls us,

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Speaker 2: she calls us humpers because we were like making fun

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Speaker 2: of her over something, because my brother and sister also

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Speaker 2: make fun of her all the time too. So then

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Speaker 2: I send her back this screenshot that I took from

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Speaker 2: that remember that website Urban Dictionary, and it says humper.

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Speaker 2: A morbid, obese man who is obsessed with humping random

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Speaker 2: objects around is home. He spends most of his time

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Speaker 2: in his bathroom humping the shower curtain. He also fantasizes

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Speaker 2: about a Hispanic girl named Vanessa watching him as he

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Speaker 2: humps the objects. Oh what fun he has? And she right,

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Speaker 2: she writes back and puts you ruin everything, like I'm

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Speaker 2: the problem here right now, right?

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Speaker 1: It was?

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Speaker 2: And then I said, I'm sorry, does it have a

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Speaker 2: nicer meeting? And she's like, it's a term of endearment,

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Speaker 2: like she claims it's.

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Speaker 1: Some British term of endearment.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, any anybody from the UK that's listening, please

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Speaker 2: fill us in to what humper means because we have

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Speaker 2: no idea and it just doesn't sound right coming out

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Speaker 2: of an old lady's mouth.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: So your guy's favorite guest, Bequall's aka momm calls all

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Speaker 3: of her children and grandchildren humpers. A man that humps

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Speaker 3: inanimate objects, shower curtains. Real nice, All right, guys. We

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Speaker 3: will be in crime Con from September fifth to the seventh.

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Speaker 3: This schedule is a fish out. You guys have to

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Speaker 3: check it out. It is so outrageous. I like, we

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01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 3: are geeking out over half the sessions. We can't wait

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01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:08,800
Speaker 3: to be there. If you have a review for us,

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Speaker 3: please leave it on Apple or Spotify and subscribe to

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Speaker 3: our YouTube channel and send us stories to stories at

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Speaker 3: mothernosdeath dot com. Is that where they could also send

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Speaker 3: us comments too, Yeah, they could send us their own

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Speaker 3: personal experiences comments, whatever they want to that email. You

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Speaker 3: know what else too, I want to say like if

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Speaker 3: I mean, we would like to say your name, if

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Speaker 3: you're okay with that, but just like I guess just

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Speaker 3: let us know if you want to be anonymous or not.

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Speaker 3: But but yeah, we have we really want to like

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Speaker 3: share some of your stories and stuff, so that would

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Speaker 3: be pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we will see you guys tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: All right, sayah, thank you for listening to Mother nos Death.

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Speaker 2: As a reminder, my training is as a pathologist assistant.

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Speaker 2: I have a master's level education and specialize in anatomy

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Speaker 2: and pathology education. I am not a doctor and if

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Speaker 2: not diagnosed or treated anyone dead or alive without the

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Speaker 2: assistance of a licensed medical doctor. This show, my website,

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Speaker 2: and social media accounts are designed to educate and inform

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Speaker 2: people based on my experience working in pathology, so they

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Speaker 2: can make healthier decisions regarding their life and well being.

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Speaker 2: Always remember that science is changing every day and the

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Speaker 2: opinions expressed in this episode are based on my knowledge

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Speaker 2: of those subjects at the time of publication. If you

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Speaker 1: Or hospital.

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Speaker 3: Thanks