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Speaker 1: Dad's Merry Christmas Eve. Don't forget to leave the cookies out.

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Speaker 1: Choose joy over stress. If there's one thing you want

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Speaker 1: Operation Christmas Chaos is upon us. This New York Air

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Speaker 1: has taken down my entire family. I'm sitting in the

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Speaker 1: we were keeping this one under an hour today. Gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: this is a challenge. Operation Christmas Chaos operation. Keep it

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Speaker 1: what makes this thing great. And by the way, speaking

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Speaker 3: Spotify comments are going nutso.

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Speaker 3: It's from being in the industry, like the podcast industry.

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Speaker 3: It is very interesting to see how many secos are you. Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna send back scrolling us. I like seeing like

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to limit my scream time lately and

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Speaker 2: Congratulations on that, kJ.

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Speaker 1: Now I can watch the pod and have no temptation

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Speaker 1: to start doom scrolling YouTube shorts. You guys are the best.

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Speaker 1: Love you boys, kJ for the Dad's pt sikoh.

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Speaker 2: This is fatherhood right here.

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Speaker 1: cards that fans sent in. Dropped him off of my

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Speaker 1: Not not going down. But I'm glad we got to

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Speaker 3: And I feel I feel terrible because I brought some

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's because I was sick. Awesome home and Germ

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Speaker 3: And you're in the business of keeping wife happy and

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Speaker 3: Good good. You just you get some extra FaceTime with

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Speaker 3: They're saying, hey, I want you to know that everything

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to give this reservation up. They're on

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Speaker 2: She's like, hey, where you at.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know we were by Central Park?

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Speaker 2: Spots like Rockefeller.

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Speaker 1: the tweet on like, you know, I was saying that

442
00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,440
Speaker 1: the look they sell my ornament here from the Big

443
00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:41,000
Speaker 1: Six that happened against Georgia. But they have this cool

444
00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,040
Speaker 1: little village in or Holiday Village where they got all

445
00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:47,080
Speaker 1: these little shops where you can buy ornaments, and they

446
00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:49,320
Speaker 1: got these little eatery spots like everything right there on

447
00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,640
Speaker 1: the street. I'm thinking, I want street food in New York.

448
00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,159
Speaker 1: We wanted to get a bite to eat. We get sandwiches.

449
00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:55,960
Speaker 2: But guess what. Rue didn't want a sandwich.

450
00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,960
Speaker 1: She wanted this fruit stick that she saw somebody else

451
00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:02,040
Speaker 1: eating like ten feet away. So I go get the

452
00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,320
Speaker 1: fruit stick and guess what, Sure, it's not the exact

453
00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,200
Speaker 1: fruit stick that she wanted.

454
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,920
Speaker 2: She wanted strawberries and grapes. What not strawberries grapes.

455
00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:14,359
Speaker 1: Not strawberries grapes, blueberries and oranges. She wanted just strawberries

456
00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:16,399
Speaker 1: and grapes, and not the green one. She wants the

457
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,720
Speaker 1: purple grapes. And she's having a panic attack. It felt

458
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:23,439
Speaker 1: like like losing her mind. Don't go back, Let me

459
00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,520
Speaker 1: go back and get the strawberries and grapes.

460
00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:29,000
Speaker 2: That is. Oh, I get so happy thinking about it

461
00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:32,119
Speaker 2: because I just want more. I want more adversity.

462
00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, what a great call from your daughter, and how

463
00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:39,000
Speaker 3: and uh just say, how dare you to will uh

464
00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,639
Speaker 3: for even thinking otherwise?

465
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:42,240
Speaker 2: Yeah?

466
00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,560
Speaker 1: Like, sweetheart, we got the sandwiches, got salami on it

467
00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,600
Speaker 1: where I'm he fronts Pepperoni's has got Pepperoni's on the sandwich,

468
00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:49,720
Speaker 1: Like you gotta eat some quality food. And she's like

469
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:52,680
Speaker 1: pointing at this chick eating like a fruit stick or whatever.

470
00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, let's just I.

471
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,439
Speaker 1: Gotta walk around and figure out where this fruit stick is.

472
00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,119
Speaker 1: Bring it back, got you one? All the different fruits

473
00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,600
Speaker 1: of variety, almost strawberries and grapes. Strawberries and grapes are

474
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 1: right there on the stick. I want just strawberries and grapes.

475
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:07,280
Speaker 1: I don't want the green grape. I want the purple grape.

476
00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,760
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh god, good, good, little nippy a

477
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 1: little cold, so we take care of that. But again, hey,

478
00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,359
Speaker 1: great time, great great Christmas in New York, right there

479
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:20,679
Speaker 1: by Central Park. We're having moments, we're snapping photos, we're

480
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 1: taking pictures. It's a great time. The next day we

481
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 1: go to everybody says to go to the Fao foa

482
00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:31,879
Speaker 1: Fao storey Schwartz. Yeah, Fao Schwartz toy store, which, by

483
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 1: the way, it's a banger. But we get there. It's

484
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 1: raining outside, so we get the umbrellas going. I'm kind

485
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,280
Speaker 1: of standing in it, thinking like, you know, here's Jock o' Willie,

486
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,359
Speaker 1: like good we want rain, good drink the rain. We

487
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 1: get there at the Fao store and we're kind of

488
00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:46,120
Speaker 1: going up to the door. We see a little line.

489
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 1: We're like, oh snap, we kind of start walking back

490
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,280
Speaker 1: to line. The we like pause, we like look down

491
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:54,040
Speaker 1: the road to this line is all the way down

492
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 1: the street. And so I'm doing one of those things

493
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,919
Speaker 1: where I'm pushing the stroll and I look at Charo

494
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,639
Speaker 1: line love lines, dude, I love lines. Let me find

495
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 1: the longest line in New York City and let me stand.

496
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 1: And as I'm like putting the stroller, I'm trying to

497
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 1: feel out char and I'm thinking to myself. I'm thinking

498
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 1: in my head, like, are we really walking to this

499
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 1: to the back of this long ass line, and we're

500
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:18,840
Speaker 1: just gonna wait to get in this toy store?

501
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 2: Like it looks like chaos in there.

502
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 1: It looks like anarchy inside that store because it is

503
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 1: Christmas time.

504
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 2: Kids are going nuts. I got this double stroller where

505
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 2: we're gonna put the stroller, Like he said, I just

506
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,720
Speaker 2: look at Charno. I'm like, hey, we're gonna wait.

507
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 1: Line.

508
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 2: We'll let you see how long it is. I'm looking

509
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 2: down the road. I'm like, this is pretty fucking long, dude,

510
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 2: standing there and then you can do you do the thing.

511
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 1: Where you both kind of walk and you're you're thinking

512
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: one thing in your head, like.

513
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 2: You are we gonna turn? Are we you know, a

514
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: port mission, like.

515
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 1: Let's figure out a pivot here, and we kind of

516
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: mosey to the end of the line. We just stand

517
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 1: in there and I look and I'm like, so it

518
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 1: looks like we're standing in the line. Looks like we're

519
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: waiting to get in this toy store. She's like, Oh,

520
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:54,359
Speaker 1: we can just do it for a few minutes. How

521
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 1: long how fast it goes? Line does move quicker, but

522
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: it's still like I'm timing it on my watch, Like

523
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 1: I just right there. I'm like, okay, I'm going to

524
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 1: start this time r and I'm going to figure out

525
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 1: how long it took to get to the to the

526
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 1: front of the store. Thirty minute wait, thirty minute wait

527
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:09,360
Speaker 1: in the rain? Good, like I.

528
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: Said, drink the rain.

529
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,439
Speaker 3: And it's and it's a freezing rain too, which is

530
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 3: really nice, dude.

531
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 1: I loved that I started. I took off my jacket,

532
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: I took off my hoodie.

533
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 2: I was out there shirt list just bind.

534
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm looking at all the Dad's like, yeah, let's see

535
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: you do it, Like this boar right here.

536
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: Let's see you take on this a gap like Willie

537
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 2: one shelf.

538
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:35,439
Speaker 3: And I know that all the diaper changes out in

539
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 3: public uh in New York City. I'm sure those bathrooms

540
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 3: are very kind.

541
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 1: Oh they're so spotless, they're so clean. There's nothing to

542
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,320
Speaker 1: worry about when you go in those public restrooms in

543
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,719
Speaker 1: New York City and there's a billion people.

544
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 2: And another thing.

545
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 1: I was talking to you about this last night, but

546
00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 1: work related stuff comes up.

547
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 2: While I'm on while we're on this span.

548
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: To where all of a sudden, there was an emergency

549
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 1: to get a decision made about a brand to like

550
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: do some work together in twenty twenty six, and I'm

551
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: just thinking, are we not able to wait till Monday?

552
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,360
Speaker 1: Why all of a sudden do we have is why,

553
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, as your urgency became our emergency

554
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,400
Speaker 1: to where we have to get you an answer, Like, dude,

555
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm in the middle of a family vacated, like doing

556
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 1: Christmas in New York with the family. I get hit

557
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 1: up at about like eight pm, I think it was

558
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: on Thursday. It was Thursday or Friday eight pm, and

559
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 1: it's like, hey, will sorry to Bob. We need answers

560
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: about X, Y, and Z. I'm thinking what. Then Taylor's

561
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:37,959
Speaker 1: shared like, hey, we'll get this to you by end

562
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 1: of day. Will's out of New York right now. Like

563
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 1: our schedule was pretty jam packed last week, and I

564
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: guess I got a phone call that was like, hey,

565
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: we needed an answer to night, and I'm kind of

566
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: get starting to get a little beside myself some thinking

567
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 1: what in.

568
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 2: The hell is going on?

569
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: And because we're at dinner at this moment, I'm trying

570
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 1: not to look at my phone, but I'm checking my phone.

571
00:23:59,160 --> 00:23:59,959
Speaker 2: I see these messages.

572
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: I put the phone back in my pocket because I

573
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: don't want to respond because we're at dinner. We go

574
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: back and again, as we're doing dinner, you get kind

575
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: of overtime with bedtime. So we get home or we

576
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: get back to the hotel and we're trying to put

577
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: the kids down and do bedtime, do the bedtime routine,

578
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: everything else. So I'm into doing that, and then all

579
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 1: of a sudden, rue in charo they want to watch

580
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: a Christmas movie in bed, So let's watch a Christmas

581
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: movie in bed. Oh wait, people involved with our bus

582
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 1: and team needs on urgent answer that night, and they

583
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 1: can't wait until Monday because communication sucks. And now I

584
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: have to sit out in the hallway for an hour

585
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: trying to solve a problem with my wife and daughter

586
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: watch a Christmas movie.

587
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 3: That's ideal. How was that a carpet in the hallway

588
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 3: of the hotel. I bet that was comfy to sit

589
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 3: on for an hour?

590
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

591
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: I sat on that for about thirty minutes. I went

592
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: to this little you know they got the little day beds.

593
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: I'm like laying completely horizontal on that on the phone

594
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: with like three different people.

595
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 3: That's perfect right there by the elevators.

596
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: It is amazing, like a wonderful time of the year.

597
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 2: It is.

598
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 1: And when you're in the Christmas spirit and you got

599
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: to do work stuff and you're trying to do the

600
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 1: family stuff and you're just chaos.

601
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 2: You're enjoying the moments. You're taking a lot of photos.

602
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 1: Charl has this little camera she likes to bring, which

603
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: is all time, by the way, like big time a

604
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,679
Speaker 1: plus move by her, because we're capturing like all these moments,

605
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: like Charlie we went.

606
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 2: They ice skated.

607
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 1: Charlie Ice skated while I was holding Scotty and kind

608
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: of walking around with Scottie and it was sick, dude, Like,

609
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: I'll have to show you these pictures to where it's

610
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: the ice skating like Home Alone, all a lot of

611
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 1: spots on Home Alone too.

612
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were at because it was around Central Park.

613
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 1: So the ice skating that happens in Central Park, the

614
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 1: backdrop is incredible. We went and saw the Rockefeller Christmas

615
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 1: Tree again. We were at the toy store, seeing Roue

616
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 1: light up at the toy store, having to negotiate with

617
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: her that hey, we can talk to Saan about the

618
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 1: possibility of this toy, like you can't get this toy

619
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 1: right now.

620
00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 2: Ended up walking out of the toy store with some

621
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:00,360
Speaker 2: magic markers.

622
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 1: Because the guy was just wowing everybody with these magic markers.

623
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: It was fun though again the highs were highs and

624
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 1: all those good moments that I alluded to. You could

625
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 1: just every parent knows those moments where you get back

626
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 1: from a trip and you're trying to tell your boy,

627
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 1: You're trying to tell everybody like, hey, it was fun,

628
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: and they kind of see the chaos that ensued in

629
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: your eyes.

630
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 2: Because there was chaos.

631
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: But then again, when you pull yourself out of it,

632
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: you're just like yo, you're literally trying to build some

633
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: of these memories and foundations now because one time I'm in.

634
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 2: There, we were at breakfast Scott or Row. I can't remember.

635
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: Somebody was causing chaos and we're both kind of the

636
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: little drained at this point. Intro just mentions like hey,

637
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 1: Christmas time, like this is the chaos we want. This

638
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: is the chaos that we have to embrace and look

639
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: forward to, because this is basically what it's going to

640
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 1: be like forever, especially when you're trying to make memories

641
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 1: and do all of these things and doing things out

642
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: of your ordinary routine or chaos kind of hits the fan.

643
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 2: But it was good dude again, up and down, up

644
00:26:58,840 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: and down.

645
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 5: You know, will if it makes you feel any better.

646
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 5: My dad just sent a picture to me and my

647
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 5: brother like two weeks ago of like a seven years

648
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 5: ago or eight years ago, and its meing my dad

649
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 5: and brother in New York City and something like that.

650
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 5: He's like, hey, I always remember this trip, so you know,

651
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 5: for all the chaos that ensues, hopefully that's the end goal, right,

652
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 5: That's what do.

653
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: One hundred percent like again watching Rue and Charo uh

654
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: do the ice skating. We're riding on the carriage where

655
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: you know, a horse is taking us around Central Park.

656
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: Rue's having a blast, We're having fun, we're taking self heause,

657
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: we're doing all things like this is going to be

658
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: an insanely memorable trip. Who knows if I ever go

659
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: back because of what this place did to my family

660
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: the moment we got back. We got back Saturday, and

661
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: Rue got hit with the fever Saturday night.

662
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 2: And then, as you know, I'm sitting.

663
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: Here podcasting right now, barricaded in this back office and

664
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: well everybody else that's out there in the little six zone.

665
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 3: That's crazy that she contracted that so quickly coming back

666
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 3: to Nashville. There's no way. I don't think she would

667
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 3: get that at New York. That's the part that doesn't

668
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 3: make sense for me. The second thing I'll say in

669
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 3: regards to last week, I really did. I loved the

670
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 3: thing that you read off of Instagram of Uh, you know,

671
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 3: we're eighty years old now and my husband grabs my

672
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 3: wrinkled hand and says, honey, what do you want for

673
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 3: Christmas this year? And Will just saying, oh, I don't know,

674
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 3: another one last trip to New York City.

675
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love another.

676
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: We love another moment for code read Dad con five,

677
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: go to New York, come back sick for the next

678
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: few days, right on the week of Christmas.

679
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 2: Because you're right, that is the perspective.

680
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 3: Like that, like you, we laugh because we both know

681
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 3: we can't have that. Yeah, but New York dude, to

682
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 3: pile on and be a good co host and join

683
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 3: you in your love for New York's city. I love

684
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 3: New York City just as much as you, and arguably

685
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 3: maybe more. I actually, when I was there for the

686
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 3: two weeks I lived and worked there right out of college,

687
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 3: I pad on the set of the Netflix maybe The Irishman,

688
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 3: and that was being shot during Christmas. I was there, yes,

689
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 3: and so I got to experience all the lovely, lovely

690
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 3: parts of New York City during Christmas while working, which

691
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 3: that was phenomenal. And will I gotta tell you, I

692
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 3: think my favorite part of New York City is at

693
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 3: three o'clock or four o'clock in the morning, you're coming

694
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 3: home from a night shoot and that steamer starts coming

695
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 3: down cleaning the streets. You just get to see all

696
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 3: the lovely magic of New York City just rise off

697
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 3: those streets. You get the smell it, you get to

698
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 3: inhale it, and uh, that's the kind of stuff that

699
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 3: would Honestly, I wish you had had Rue out in

700
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 3: about at three or four o'clock in the morning so

701
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 3: she could have inhaled that. I think it would have

702
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 3: helped prevent what she caught, because that's the stuff that

703
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 3: makes a kid. That'll put some hair on your chest.

704
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: That type of street dirt'll put some hair on your chest.

705
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 3: And I joke, I New York does have it's it

706
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: does have its wonderful Uh. Christmas in New York was

707
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 3: really really really cool.

708
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: But just like the type of uh, the type of

709
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: like guy I am, like I would outside if my

710
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: if it was my wife's idea, Like I personally would

711
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: never be looking to go do Christmas in New York.

712
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: I would never be personally going to seek out trips

713
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: in New York because I'm just not being around a

714
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: bunch of people is just.

715
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: Not my vibe. Yeah, I'm just so easier.

716
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: You're you're walking around, you're kind of bumping into people,

717
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: You're trying to avoid a lot. There's just so many

718
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: people and you want to go in It's like when

719
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 1: I go into stores or shops or whatever. It is,

720
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: Like I love to kind of have space and think

721
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: about what I might get if I ever do go shopping.

722
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm like in my mind.

723
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: Taking so much time internally, I hate thinking about store

724
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: workers looking at me, coming up and asking, hey, do

725
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: you need any help?

726
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just I don't.

727
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: I don't want any Like I'll come up to you

728
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: if I'm looking for something and I need help. Like,

729
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: I just hate that potential social factor that goes on

730
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: with all of these people around you at all times.

731
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: Then you're in the aisle and there's a bunch of

732
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: people in the aisle, it's like, man, I'm kind of

733
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:39,959
Speaker 1: messing with it. I kind of want to sit here

734
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: and think or look at all these different if we're

735
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 1: in the toy shop, look.

736
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 2: At all these different toys. But then you feel people.

737
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: To your right left, You're kind of like, are we

738
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: got to like swiftly move through this aisle?

739
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

740
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: Oh?

741
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 3: A million percent. And unfortunately, when Jill got pregnant, this

742
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 3: is actually a really sad story. When Jill got pregnant,

743
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 3: my mom, sorry, it kept on bringing up, and you know,

744
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 3: my dream I just can't wait is to do this

745
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: annual trip girls trip to New York City and with

746
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 3: y'all's unborn daughter and you, Jill and myself and we

747
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 3: get to shop and we get to go around and

748
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 3: take pictures and Dad's not invited. I'm sitting there like,

749
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 3: are you kidding me? I don't get to go on that.

750
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:29,479
Speaker 3: How messed up is that? I go, Okay, if that

751
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 3: makes you all happy, y'all can go do your girls

752
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 3: strip to New York.

753
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's allowed. Fine. I will never hold this over

754
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: your head. Go have fun, but just come alone.

755
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 3: But when she was bringing up that, she would be

756
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 3: willing to check that box off because Jill, very Jill

757
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 3: is very very similar to Jarro. It seems like with

758
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 3: the adventure, with the exploring, the traveling. Oh yeah, Jill.

759
00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: Love like that.

760
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: You know all the time you go to destin or

761
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: travel to We've been in the Hawaii deston Canada this

762
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: past year, in Banff, we were over in Italy. Like

763
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: that's all charl put, you know, getting us to go

764
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: do different things as a family together and you.

765
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 2: Come back with so many great moments and memories.

766
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: Hey, but you want to know the funny thing, So Charles,

767
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: since Rue was born was always doing this annual.

768
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 2: New York trip, like she's always going to take root

769
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 2: in New York. So she's done it.

770
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: Rue's what three now, so this was where this was

771
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: the third time she went. But Charle usually like it

772
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: was gonna be like a girls thing, and this stings

773
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: between us, like, I know my wife listens to the podcast,

774
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: but this is where she has some mute and not

775
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: listen her kind of fast forward.

776
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you bet too.

777
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: Not sweetar year one. In year two she takes Ruth.

778
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: So I'm at the house. It's sad, boy, you know,

779
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: sad that they're in New York. I have to stay home.

780
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: And this year when they're like, hey, we need to

781
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: do Christmas in New York, I'm thinking of my head

782
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: like I thought it was always going to be a

783
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: girls thing.

784
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 2: Dude, Like, you can't get me out of my routine.

785
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 3: So are you saying that now my mom's dream of

786
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 3: doing an annuals girls strip. Dad might get the invite

787
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 3: one year.

788
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 2: That'll come up.

789
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna flip the script on how just when

790
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,399
Speaker 1: we have to stay home, but hold on to them

791
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: doing annual traditions in New York, just.

792
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: As girls like, hold on to that as tight as

793
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 2: you can. Hopefully you never have to let it go.

794
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:28,280
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get I'm gonna get them custom matching outfits

795
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 3: for when they travel. I'll play in the whole damn thing.

796
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 3: I'll get the itinerary, I'll be the travel agent.

797
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 2: Make sume do you want to go with this this year?

798
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 2: And you just kind of look at your watch. I

799
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 2: don't think I can do.

800
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 3: I want to go with every fiber in my being,

801
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 3: can I I don't think I gotta make it work.

802
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, sweetheart, my mom said, annual girls trip every year.

803
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 1: I don't want you guys to break your code.

804
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 3: She said, no guys allowed. She specifically said that, and

805
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 3: I can't.

806
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do if we do it again, if it

807
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: happens again, which we might have a few year cushion.

808
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 1: Now now that we got sick, that's kind of more

809
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 1: of a kind of more of a foundation to build on.

810
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 2: Telling Charlie, I was sure we were like last time,

811
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 2: everybody you all got taken down.

812
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: But when, if, and when we go again, you're you

813
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: and the fans coming with us. And then when the

814
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: chaos is issuing, I'm just gonna be in the corner

815
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: looking at you like, yeah, that's that's like a Christmas

816
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,320
Speaker 1: in New York needs to be a PT six batch.

817
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 3: Hey, New York.

818
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 2: Hey. I was saying that so many times.

819
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: When char was when I'm like pushing Scottie and Charles

820
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: kind of like I'm starting to figure out. I'm starting

821
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 1: to realize, like I messed this dinner reservation. I messed

822
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: up this dinner set up. Yah.

823
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 2: Wait somewhere, Fortunately we found this newer spot.

824
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: It was a packed. I went and I talked to

825
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: the ladies. She got a seated and dude, why would

826
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: we come in? A couple of dads or a couple

827
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: of boys were talking about Papa teams.

828
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 3: In New York.

829
00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah in New York.

830
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, bros is getting love in New York or the

831
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: getting a couple guys there.

832
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 2: You know, you can tell they're busting fans.

833
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: But then every guys like, yo, I love what you do,

834
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 1: and it just it felt like a dad exchange.

835
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 3: Did did you all go to Dumbo again? The down

836
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 3: under the Manhattan Bridge overpass? That area they all went.

837
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 3: Didn't you go there with Jara last time?

838
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, yes, yes, that was the.

839
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 3: One area that when I was in New York. I

840
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 3: was like, this is really freaking cool. It's like Cobble

841
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 3: Street or cable Boles Street, Like, don't.

842
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 2: Get it twisted, Like it is very cool.

843
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 3: It's cool.

844
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: It's just if you're if you're one of the dads

845
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 1: and you feel like everything that I'm saying when I

846
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: talk about New York or a lot of people and

847
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: everything else, and you're like, oh, that is me to

848
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 1: a t. I'm telling you those things aren't going to

849
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: leave you when you're in New York. But you are

850
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: going to go over there and you're going to appreciate

851
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: everything you're seeing, and your fame's going to be happy.

852
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 2: Like there's nothing like seeing your girls smile and everything else.

853
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 2: I can think, I'll get over this low back pain.

854
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,240
Speaker 2: I'll get over all these things that's going on inside

855
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,240
Speaker 2: of my head. And the cool thing too, bro.

856
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:06,240
Speaker 1: Is we got back and on Saturday night, I realized

857
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: Ru's getting fever when I went over to give her

858
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: a kiss on the cheek, and I'm just like, yo,

859
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,919
Speaker 1: you feel pretty hot. But we were watching Home alone too,

860
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: so we were kind of doing pizza Saturday and movie

861
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: night because we got back and we're just beat like

862
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 1: Scotty was a demon on the flight home.

863
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 2: A demon. This is Scotty on the flight home is.

864
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: Where I got this. I got this scratch on my neck.

865
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 1: She reaches up, she gets her claws in my neck.

866
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: She gets her claws like in my nose, and it's

867
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 1: like lifting my nose. I'm trying to rock her. Rue's

868
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: not sleeping on my lap, which was great. Charlie and

869
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: I are drain. We're trying to like, we're hoping Scotty

870
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: just falls asleep because she hadn't napped yet, and she

871
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: falls asleep, like, Yo, we're gonna get to take a

872
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: little nap on this flight home and it's gonna be love.

873
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: We didn't get to fall asleep really at all. I

874
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: dozed off a couple times when Charlo haad Scotty. But

875
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: Scotty was just a she was a menace on the

876
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: right home. And so we get home and Charles's parents,

877
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: Lowland op are here. They were kind of watching the house.

878
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: They spend dinner time and everything else with us. They

879
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: watched the movie. So we're watching home alone too, seeing

880
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: all the spots in New York that we got to visit.

881
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 2: We're like, oh, Rue, you Ice skated there. Rue, we

882
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: got to see this, Rue, we got to see that

883
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 2: there's the tree that you got.

884
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: To stand by, and uh, I realized Rue has a fever.

885
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: But in the part of the movie is when what's

886
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: the old boy's.

887
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 3: Name, n cole McAllister Kevin McAllister Macaulay Culkin.

888
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, so Kevin is I think he's on the phone

889
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: or he's Oh, he's standing by the Christmas tree, the

890
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 1: rock and Filler Christmas tree where we got to see, Yes,

891
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: and he's talking. He's basically talking to the tree or

892
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: like you know, praying aloud whatever it is, saying like

893
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: if I could have anything, it would just to be

894
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 1: to see my mom and talk to her again for

895
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: just even if it was like two minutes. Even this

896
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: he's like he's having the scene where he just wants

897
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: to see his mom again. And so I'm having a

898
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: moment of perspective because four years ago is when my

899
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 1: mom passed away, and it happened.

900
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 2: On December nineteenth.

901
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: So we were in New York during you know that time,

902
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: like when the nineteenth hit. A couple my boys sent

903
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: me up families. You know, we're all kind of talking

904
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: about Charles. You know, asking how I'm doing and everything else,

905
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: Like it's it's kind of like another day.

906
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 2: You sit there and you think.

907
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: About it, you remember, you remember the emotions and the

908
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: feelings you had when it happened.

909
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 2: Because I was in a hotel when it did happen.

910
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: We were about to play the Cleveland Browns the next

911
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: day when I heard when I found out and heard

912
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: the news that my mom had suddenly passed. But that

913
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: happened on the day of December nineteenth. So the full

914
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: circle moment I'm happening with another appreciation of going out

915
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 1: there to New York and seeing those things and seeing

916
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: the Rockefeller Tree. Is Kevin McAllister sitting there at the

917
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: very end of the movie saying if he could have

918
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: one more thing, it would be just to like talk

919
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:47,280
Speaker 1: to his mom again.

920
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 2: So as I'm watching that, I'm just.

921
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: Like putting it all together, and I'm thinking, you know,

922
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: sometimes there are coincidences, sometimes there are none. And that's

923
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: on where I'm having like a moment of perspective on

924
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: like it felt that this was not a coincidence. I'm

925
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: watching this movie right now and seeing that scene of

926
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: him talking about it and feeling those same things that

927
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: he's saying yeah, yeah, and we got to be in

928
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: the presence of that tree like we were out there

929
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 1: in New York during that time.

930
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 3: That is a really good full circle, especially with the

931
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 3: way that you were probably feeling in New York. To

932
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 3: then be back home and to be able to be like, hey,

933
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 3: you know, we're worth it. Family is worth it, Like

934
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,240
Speaker 3: it truly is good. As much as we joke around

935
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 3: of like I'm gonna find the biggest fucking line in

936
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,359
Speaker 3: New York, That's what.

937
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 2: This show is for.

938
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: Man, We're gonna, we're gonna we're gonna talk about the

939
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: suck in the most sucking way. We're gonna do our

940
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: best to grab ourselves, pull us out, zoom out, and

941
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 1: have perspective on it. Because on the nineteenth, when we're

942
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: walking around all these you know, all the beautiful buildings

943
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: in New York, tall, big, sleek, modern, all these little

944
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: shops everything else.

945
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 2: And then in the middle of it, in the area

946
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: we were.

947
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:04,240
Speaker 1: Is this massive Saint Patrick's Cathedral. Like I grew up Catholic,

948
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,280
Speaker 1: my mom was a Catholic school principal. In this massive

949
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,439
Speaker 1: church is you're sitting there, gorgeous, bro, and we're walking

950
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: through it was like Charles like, do you want to

951
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 1: go in there and light a candle? And I was

952
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,359
Speaker 1: kind of just more in the I don't want to

953
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: run toward I don't want to run toward the emotion today.

954
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

955
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no, we can just kind of keep moving.

956
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 1: I'm kind of just sitting there appreciating how big this

957
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: church is all I.

958
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 2: Oh, my mom would have love this.

959
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 3: I didn't also did not know and should have known

960
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 3: about the nineteenth No, no, no, no, You're fine, no no,

961
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 3: but I do just want to say that did not

962
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 3: know and.

963
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 2: You weren't in my life on that day that year.

964
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

965
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, even if you were, it's not like I'm expecting

966
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 1: you to remember that day.

967
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 3: I know that, I know that. I just I know

968
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 3: how much that that stuff means to you. But what

969
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,760
Speaker 3: a what a cool place to be, what a beautiful

970
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 3: place to be on the date. Yeah, it is kind

971
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 3: of like a little dreamy winter wonderland. That That was

972
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 3: the other thing I was gonna say of I was

973
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 3: staying in an apartment. Shout out George Catsopolis, by the way,

974
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 3: he's the guy that hired me to work on The Irishman,

975
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 3: and he put me up in his own apartment. Uh

976
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 3: so I could go up there and work. But his

977
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 3: apartment was in the Bronx, I believe. And yes, dude,

978
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 3: and the Bronx. Every single inch of street in the

979
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 3: Bronx is covered with garlands and lights. It's crazy, insane,

980
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 3: the most rundown, dumpy street you can think of in

981
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 3: the Bronx. You go there during the month of December,

982
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 3: there's gonna be snow, and there's gonna be garlands, and

983
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 3: there's gonna be ribbons and lights. I was like, this

984
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 3: is just a winter wonderland. This is crazy.

985
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: There's nothing but constant Christmas uson just playing in your

986
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: head as you're walking around seeing everything.

987
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I do I selfishly, I want to bring

988
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:10,760
Speaker 3: up I got some gifts for the boys, some Christmas gifts.

989
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:12,439
Speaker 2: It did drop off.

990
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: I see a lot of stuff by the way, but

991
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 1: we get to the gifts. Shout out all the fans.

992
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 1: There's a bunch of Christmas cards.

993
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 3: You got a bunch of Christmas.

994
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,720
Speaker 2: Cards, A bunch of Christmas cards.

995
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 3: We'll try not to docks anybody, I know.

996
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: It's like I want to It's like I want to

997
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 1: shout out the families but I don't know if they

998
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: want me to shout them out, maybe to be comfortable

999
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 1: with me, like saying their last name.

1000
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like they would love that. As long

1001
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 3: as their addresses on there, I feel like that.

1002
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 5: And if they're not DMN SRM not me, oh yeah,

1003
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 5: yeah yeah, I'll do a great job of family's.

1004
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: Got a fun little happy grinchmss. We got the Russian family,

1005
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: the Rushing family that's sending a card. I'm looking at,

1006
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: uh this the this brow family they sent in a

1007
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: Christmas card.

1008
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 2: I love this, the stoves Let's see here. Who else

1009
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: we got? The love It's send in a Christmas card?

1010
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 2: Love it?

1011
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 5: Hey?

1012
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 3: K wait? Can I ask you a question on the

1013
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 3: love its?

1014
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1015
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 3: Can you show me the love its? I know I

1016
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 3: love it's. I just wanted to see if okay, never mind,

1017
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 3: they not the love its I was thinking of. I

1018
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 3: was like, that would be hilarious if they had sent on.

1019
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: Then another one here from the silvas.

1020
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 3: I love that.

1021
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: That's for the PT Sickos for life guys written on

1022
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: the back.

1023
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 2: I got more here to open as well.

1024
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:41,919
Speaker 1: There's another person that's sent in just a digital shot

1025
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 1: us a Christmas card that I hate Jameson.

1026
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 2: He gives a kind of a good story.

1027
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: The PT Sixers and Milk Team sixers out there grinding

1028
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 1: every day in the trench is good.

1029
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 2: I wanted to drop.

1030
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: In like old Saint Nico on Christmas even say what's

1031
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,720
Speaker 1: up and drop the Christmas card photo for all you guys,

1032
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: especially for Chef and Derek since they didn't get a

1033
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 1: Christmas card from some people.

1034
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 2: We might know.

1035
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: Won't mention any names. Hah mavy, Merry Christmas and a

1036
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: happy New Year. Good writtence to Delila. Also stay away

1037
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: from Tennessee as well.

1038
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 2: G B O, g b R.

1039
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 6: Thank you.

1040
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 3: Hey what if Raila ended up at Baylor? I just

1041
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 3: thought about that they were in the market for a QB.

1042
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 3: Oh oh my god.

1043
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 2: But yeah, I.

1044
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: See that there's a there's a Christmas gift here with

1045
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: my name on it that you dropped off.

1046
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, if we want to do this back from you,

1047
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 3: oh Willy one, show that one's from me. The book

1048
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:36,760
Speaker 3: is from Derek. And if we want to do Derek's first,

1049
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 3: we can do Derek's first.

1050
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: Okay, will why.

1051
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 5: Do you.

1052
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: My Christmas if can't be opened? I got all the

1053
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: boys in mobile car detail and by the way. How

1054
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: sick is the detail chef?

1055
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 4: Sure, buddy, it's incredible.

1056
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 3: I'm incredible my car.

1057
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 4: Cleaned like that.

1058
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:54,720
Speaker 3: In my life.

1059
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,280
Speaker 4: It is one of the best gifts I've ever gotten.

1060
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 3: Where did my phone go?

1061
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 4: To Christmas? Thank you so much.

1062
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: It does feel like one of the best gifts ever too,

1063
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: because it's truly something you never I feel like I

1064
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:10,240
Speaker 1: never thought about doing, like finding a mobile detailer.

1065
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,760
Speaker 2: I'm thinking, you got to go in all these spots.

1066
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 1: And on my birthday, my wife got me the detailed

1067
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: package that I got you guys. So I woke up

1068
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: on my birthday and she gave me a card and

1069
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 1: something else, and then you know, I step outside and

1070
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 1: this dude just going to work on my truck and

1071
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, Yo, what's going on out there? She's like,

1072
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: I also, I got you a detail and due when

1073
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: I got in the truck after the detail, I was like,

1074
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: this is the sickest gift that I just would never

1075
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: think about getting. I'd never think about treating myself to me.

1076
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 1: So when Christmas is coming around, I was like, Yeah,

1077
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 1: I'm going to get the boys details because it's so bad.

1078
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 2: It makes you feel so good too.

1079
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 3: Well and not only is it a great gift for us,

1080
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 3: but Jill might be the biggest detail sicko of all

1081
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 3: time on getting her own card detailed. So just know

1082
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,879
Speaker 3: that that when she came rushing into my room when

1083
00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:00,800
Speaker 3: the detailer, you know, I'm dead in bad and the detailers

1084
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 3: at our house and she comes right in. She's like,

1085
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 3: they're gonna detail your car. I was like yeah. She

1086
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 3: was like like, oh dude, dude.

1087
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 1: For all the Milk Team sixers out there, like nky sneaky,

1088
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: A plus gift is getting a detailer over to the

1089
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 1: house to detail your husband, your hubbies, your PT sixers,

1090
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,439
Speaker 1: truck or car whatever it is, like, it's it is unbelievable.

1091
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 3: Will I have our chef go ahead?

1092
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: Please want to?

1093
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 5: I want to put this in first year of doing

1094
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 5: a proper eye by gifts for people I love. I

1095
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 5: missed out on the four of their Dad's Crew, but

1096
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 5: I think we'll all have.

1097
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,240
Speaker 4: Something by next episode.

1098
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 5: And I know, Sharon, we've already talked about it and

1099
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 5: sure said you're fine, done about this. I'm miss now

1100
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 5: I dropped the ball on this and you're gonna next episode, Chef, you.

1101
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: Continue because there's there's it's such a confusing.

1102
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 2: I don't have the words.

1103
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: To break down how how okay it is that you

1104
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:00,720
Speaker 1: didn't get anything?

1105
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? And I say that because in my.

1106
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: Own shoes, I'm thinking of last minute Christmas shopping, I'm

1107
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: currently doing gifts that i'm forgetting about to get people like,

1108
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: I feel just so much shame, feeling like even though

1109
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 1: I know the other person would say there's no expectation,

1110
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: I feel like I have an expectation internally that I'm

1111
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: feel like I'm letting down. I don't know, but all

1112
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: to say, I promise you it is totally okay that

1113
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: you didn't get us one. And I have been saying

1114
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: those words because I know even when I say those words,

1115
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,359
Speaker 1: if they were being said to me, I'm thinking I

1116
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: willly I hear you.

1117
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 2: But it's also not okay with me.

1118
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: So I look, I don't know, but I promise you

1119
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: there's no feeling other than if I would just joke

1120
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: on you, but just know that joke would have zero.

1121
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 4: Truth to it.

1122
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, and look like you just said, it's an internal expectation.

1123
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 5: I love getting people gifts. It's like one of my

1124
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 5: favorite things to do. Yeah, so like it's to me,

1125
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 5: it's even more of a thing. But it's like, yeah,

1126
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 5: it's that first year of like, hey, I actually have

1127
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 5: a real job. Now I can get people. People don't

1128
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,439
Speaker 5: expect it, but it's like I didn't have a job,

1129
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 5: like I need to get loved one stuff. So I

1130
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 5: think next episode, we'll all I might be coming in

1131
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 5: with a couple of goodies.

1132
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 3: I was about to say being the being the second

1133
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 3: closest to Chef, am I older or no, Derek's older

1134
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 3: than me, but uh, yeah I was. I was a

1135
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 3: young buck. And when I envision Chef, like I know

1136
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 3: that this is his first big boy job. I was

1137
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 3: sitting at my desk when Chef had just got hired

1138
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 3: on and he did a little whistle underneath his breath

1139
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:43,720
Speaker 3: and he goes first check hit man. That's a good feeling.

1140
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 3: And I got to be sitting right there for it.

1141
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 3: So I envisioned you exactly how I was my first

1142
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 3: big boy year of like you you don't you know?

1143
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 3: That was my realization of oh, I can get gifts

1144
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 3: for people now because I can actually afford but you.

1145
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: And again this new group of people that you work

1146
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: with that you do love, but they've just never been

1147
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: in your I guess like stratosphere or thought process of

1148
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: like when you do do your annual gift giving for everybody,

1149
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 1: like around Christmas, and then it's like the only thing

1150
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: that has to happen for that domino to fall is

1151
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: somebody else gets gifts for people in the workspace. And

1152
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: then you were like, oh snap, like I love these

1153
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: people too. I completely forgot about the whole gift factor thing.

1154
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 2: I want to get gifts. Now I feel like do

1155
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:33,280
Speaker 2: I get gifts?

1156
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: And now it's like I'm trying to compete with somebody

1157
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 1: else who just brought in Like it's a I feel

1158
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: like it's just a bizarre mental world when you're thinking

1159
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: about gift gifting for everybody.

1160
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,879
Speaker 5: And to add on, Jpep got me a gift too.

1161
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 5: He got me a little Star Wars It's like a

1162
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 5: little holographic It's death star light up thing for my desk.

1163
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 5: It's a little lamp that looks like a hologram. And

1164
00:50:57,960 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 5: I was in the same thing. I was just like,

1165
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 5: it's on, Like you didn't need I didn't even really know.

1166
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 5: But now that I know, I'm like, oh yeah, I

1167
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 5: like to give people gifts and it's fun, you know,

1168
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 5: other than like gifting's not.

1169
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 2: My love language.

1170
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm not a gift gift I like, I'm not a

1171
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: I'm not a big gift guy.

1172
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: Same.

1173
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,359
Speaker 5: I love doing it, but it's like and with you guys,

1174
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 5: I actually know that this is the first year of

1175
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:21,400
Speaker 5: getting girlfriend gifts or like actually we always got to

1176
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 5: use more than just like one or two and buddy,

1177
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 5: I've been in it. It was a three week blender

1178
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 5: of like I also, I ordered something for her for

1179
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 5: her birthday. It was a it was a little ring

1180
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 5: that had her birdstone and her sisters that she mentioned

1181
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 5: to me a while back, A Big Pool on me,

1182
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 5: remembering that one come on Big Pool as a Team

1183
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 5: six chef got canceled. So I showed up to Knoxville

1184
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 5: back with her birthday's day before mine showed up. Hey

1185
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 5: this guy, I don't know what's going on. I had

1186
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 5: something there for that she loved. But then I was like,

1187
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 5: so now it's like Christmina's coming up in a month.

1188
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 5: I'm like I have to show up.

1189
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 2: I have to.

1190
00:51:57,480 --> 00:52:00,280
Speaker 5: Like it's not even about she doesn't care, like she's awesome.

1191
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 5: She's like, yeah, you get me. I'm like, no, this

1192
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 5: is what I want to do. Is I want to

1193
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 5: make sure I come correct.

1194
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, the lady. Now that I know the different story, I'm.

1195
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 1: Thinking of all just the workplace, new people, like different

1196
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: people that come into.

1197
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 2: Your life, you know what I mean.

1198
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, And then now that I know that this is

1199
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:20,760
Speaker 5: kind of like I got a little bit of parameter,

1200
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 5: I'm excited because I'm now I'm already thinking of what's

1201
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 5: sick Nebraska memorabilia I can find Will that will get

1202
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 5: him to chuckle? What do you get a man who

1203
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 5: has everything you gotta? You gotta think, you gotta think

1204
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 5: outside the box. And that's a challenge that.

1205
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was asking myself. I was gonna say, I

1206
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 3: was asking myself the very the very same thing and target,

1207
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 3: uh the other day, what do you what do you

1208
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 3: get Will Compton for Christmas?

1209
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 2: Look, I don't even know.

1210
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 3: I think I may have nailed it. I don't want

1211
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 3: to brag, but I think I may have nailed it.

1212
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 3: Real quick, do we want to open our And I

1213
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 3: have a note from Derek for each person that he

1214
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 3: wanted me to read on the pod for you guys, yes.

1215
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,320
Speaker 1: And then also a question for the BT six community

1216
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 1: again because I live in this this this mental world

1217
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 1: of get do I get these gifts, Like when friends

1218
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: get your kid's gifts.

1219
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 2: Is the etiquette or the obligation now to get.

1220
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 1: Their kids' gifts, because then what if you don't know

1221
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: what they want?

1222
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, But that's for the BT

1223
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 2: six community.

1224
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 1: It's like when friends get my kids gifts, I don't

1225
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 1: really want them to get my kid's gifts because I

1226
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: like my kids will get they'll get their gifts for

1227
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: Christmas and everything else. I don't want them to have

1228
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: too much, like so many gifts, so many presents, so

1229
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: many toys.

1230
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 2: Like well, Charlo and I.

1231
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 1: Both don't want a whole lot of gifts being had

1232
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: for birthdays and Christmas, like we of course we won't

1233
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,439
Speaker 1: have a great time. We want them to get things

1234
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 1: that they want, but we don't want it to just

1235
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: be a showering of presence and gifts like on the

1236
00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: day off.

1237
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 2: So then when friends do it, I'm like, ah, I

1238
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 2: need to do a.

1239
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 1: Better job of communicating this is completely unnecessary, Like I

1240
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 1: would rather you not do it, because then you give

1241
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: me gifts. Now I'm thinking I got to get your

1242
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: kids gifts exactly.

1243
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 3: In a great move from the nineties, this is a

1244
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 3: very nineties gift. But something my parents would do as

1245
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 3: a family gift to another family is if you went

1246
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 3: on a trip with them, if you had some holiday

1247
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 3: party with them or whatever, where y'all may have had

1248
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 3: a big group picture or a big family picture together.

1249
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 3: Let's say, like you and Hallett went on that Colorado trip,

1250
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 3: y'all probably got a picture of all y'all together, right, yeap,

1251
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 3: get a real nice picture frame, nothing too crazy. I

1252
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 3: like that, Put the picture in there and write a

1253
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 3: really sweet thought out note on the back of how

1254
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,319
Speaker 3: much the Compton family loves the Howett family. And that's

1255
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 3: like a great hey for my family to yours and

1256
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 3: they can have it forever.

1257
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: I need you to stop saying to hell, because Nick's

1258
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: gonna text me and say I'm expecting a photo now.

1259
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:02,720
Speaker 3: You probably will.

1260
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:05,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay. The book.

1261
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:11,839
Speaker 1: Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins talking to uh, We're

1262
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 1: going through clips and then if you come up on

1263
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 1: my Instagram through Mel Robbins that I absolutely love for

1264
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: parenting and like social circles and philosophies and thought processes,

1265
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: and so we were talking about this book.

1266
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: So, Derek, thank you very much for this book. Right here.

1267
00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:31,399
Speaker 2: They Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins.

1268
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 3: And Uncle Derek Funcle. Derek says, Will your book I

1269
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 3: have not read yet, but I know you're interested in

1270
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,400
Speaker 3: the Mel Robbins and to Let Them Theory. Although I've

1271
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 3: never Although I have never read it, it is a

1272
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 3: great reminder that even though outside noise can be loud,

1273
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 3: letting the loud noises be loud can help us, and

1274
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,800
Speaker 3: that is what is important.

1275
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,760
Speaker 2: M love when Derek Wax is poetic.

1276
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Chef, you want to go next?

1277
00:55:58,719 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 4: I would love to.

1278
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 5: This is Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara. Sorry if I

1279
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,879
Speaker 5: butchered that name. I remember him speaking about this. I'm

1280
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 5: excited to hear what he says.

1281
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 2: My wife loves that book.

1282
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: Just say. Look, just came in during that moment. She's like,

1283
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: she pointed at the library. I was like, look, it's

1284
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: right there.

1285
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 3: Stay strapped.

1286
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 2: She stays strapped.

1287
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 3: This is what Derek had to say for Chef. He said, Chef,

1288
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 3: your book is my personal favorite that I've ever read.

1289
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 3: It is about the number fifty restaurant in the world

1290
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 3: going to number one, and it took my takeaway was

1291
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 3: more than just cooking a good meal, but uh. To

1292
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 3: get there is a great story and a great reminder

1293
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 3: that everybody needs to be on the same page for

1294
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 3: the ship to sail correctly.

1295
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 5: Derek, I know you're listening to this because after we

1296
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 5: fucked up the episode, we're watching them all the way

1297
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,359
Speaker 5: through to make sure audio doesn't screw up.

1298
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 4: Thank you so much. This is incredible.

1299
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:08,399
Speaker 2: You know me. I am.

1300
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 4: I love to cook.

1301
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 5: I love everything restaurant focused. And I remember you telling

1302
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 5: me a little bit about this book. I'm really excited

1303
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 5: to give it a read and get back in my

1304
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 5: reading back because that's something that I've been wanted to do.

1305
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 2: I uh, do something last week's chef, what's up? You

1306
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 2: mess up something last week?

1307
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 5: No?

1308
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 4: I remember the uh?

1309
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 2: I remember, I just never knew what really happened it was.

1310
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 5: It wasn't actually our fault. It was a computer error,

1311
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Speaker 5: but we didn't catch it.

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00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 2: That was kind of the gotcha.

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00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 3: From the sound of it. Derek made it to how Mike,

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00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 3: it's a it's a easy catch, easy remindered type of situation.

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00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 5: It was something when we rendered it, yeah, yeah, and

1316
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 5: then I would go back and premiere and look and

1317
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 5: it was perfectly fine. So it's like the when we

1318
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 5: finished it to like basically for people, long story, but yeah,

1319
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 5: it was kind of like a weird circumstance.

1320
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 2: But the book you got there, that's a popular one.

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00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 3: Yes, I have The Creative Act by Rick Rubin. He said, Sherman,

1322
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 3: your book is one of my favorite books on the planet.

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00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: Uh, and.

1324
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 3: You got my favorite books of a planet that I

1325
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 3: bring up and read all the time. It currently sits

1326
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 3: on my desk. It is from the great music producer

1327
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 3: Rick Rubin. In any time I hit a creative roadblock,

1328
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 3: I look up a chapter in this book.

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00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 2: I love that.

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00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 3: Derek, thank you so much for these. This really is

1331
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 3: a very thoughtful gift. That's very kind. He was not

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00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 3: planning on doing this on the podcast. He was going

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00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 3: to give it to us, but since you know, because

1334
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 3: of all the chaos of traveling and everything, it just

1335
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 3: worked out. And I said, well, I think it would

1336
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 3: be really nice if you know, we opened it on

1337
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 3: the podcast and read the little out I thought, I

1338
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 3: thought that would be fun.

1339
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 4: Thank you.

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00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 2: I got to open yours now, Shirvan.

1341
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 3: Yes, please, I have a gift for Reu, Scottie and

1342
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 3: yourself in there.

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00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: Right there, right right there. As we were talking about

1344
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 1: that earlier. Now I'm opening up a gift and you're like,

1345
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 1: I got you a gift. Ru's gotta gift. S guy's

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00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: got a gift. Now, I'm like, I gotta get Scarlet.

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00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 3: Aw When you see their gifts, you will go, oh,

1348
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 3: I don't, I don't think of them anything. Hey, that's

1349
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 3: a hangar and a leveler, and you got two different

1350
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 3: levels on their will. You can hold it vertically or horizontally,

1351
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 3: and you're able to mark with those little pins at

1352
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 3: the bottom. It puts a nice little mark in the

1353
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 3: wall that's not going to mess up the paint. I

1354
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 3: know that y'all got the new house that you're moving into,

1355
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 3: and Charles's gonna be putting you to work hanging up

1356
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,920
Speaker 3: some stuff, And so I thought I would I would

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00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 3: give Old one shelf a little handicap.

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00:59:56,440 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 2: Little Willie one shelf a little handicap just for Waffle.

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01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 3: That's for scott Zilla. I thought it was about time

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01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 3: that scott Zilla got her own water ball, her own

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01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 3: water ball. She's always playing with Waffles water bowl, and

1362
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 3: we've been hearing about on the pond.

1363
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 2: I said in the middle of the floor.

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01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 3: I said that girl needs her own water bowl man,

1365
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 3: she jumbo crowns crowns.

1366
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 2: Oh was gonna love this?

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01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you brought up that menu that you brought home,

1368
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 3: and so I was like, oh, okay, we'll get We'll

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01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 3: get her some coloring book.

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01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 2: Loves coloring. Man loves coloring. Yeah. Did I see the

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01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 2: dad hack last week?

1372
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: Or I'm like, get extra bringing home?

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01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, that's what it made me think of

1374
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 3: that that gift.

1375
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 2: She loves loves coloring, loves like artwork and stuff.

1376
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 3: And then the note is for off the pod. But

1377
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 3: there's a card on the bag as well.

1378
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 2: Oh that's for off the bod. Yeah, yeah, thank you brother.

1379
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 2: That's funny. The water bowl hilarious. I go, it's this wabbles.

1380
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: You're like, all know Scotty's got Scotty a couple of gifts.

1381
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 2: She got Scotti her own water bowl to knock to

1382
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 2: fillip them. Thank you your name Hang on, fellas.

1383
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 3: No, you're fine, Chef, if you want to go ahead,

1384
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 3: go ahead and go.

1385
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 2: While we're waiting, I.

1386
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 3: Got Chef some some Semen Team six essentials, and I

1387
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 3: got him some PT six essentials as well.

1388
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 5: Lights flashlights gave and uh, I'll just point out the camera,

1389
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 5: shure them if you want.

1390
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 3: To, got him a nice little box of Jimmy hats there. Well,

1391
01:01:58,320 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 3: since he's still seeming Team six want the boy out

1392
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 3: there having fun but being safe about it, being responsible.

1393
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 3: Whenever you're ready to join the ranks of PT six,

1394
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 3: we're here waiting with open arms.

1395
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 4: Thank you, Yes, yes, time.

1396
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:20,080
Speaker 2: Should we had some comments again? I know we're pushing. Yeah, absolutely, Ah,

1397
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 2: where we at.

1398
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 5: Jef, We're at ten minutes, We're good to go, ten

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01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 5: minutes left.

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01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 2: No, we're at an hour, right, I did want to

1401
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 2: keep this one under an hour.

1402
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 5: I know we'll push there, we'll start rocking and rolling,

1403
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 5: all right, So we're gonna rip some comments again if

1404
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 5: you want to.

1405
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 1: If you want opportunities to be featured on for the Dads,

1406
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 1: you can leave comments on YouTube, on.

1407
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: Spotify, social media.

1408
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 1: Uh the voice soccer throwing picks several we read them

1409
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 1: on the show. If you want to be featured on

1410
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,640
Speaker 1: the Pop via voicemail, you can call into the number

1411
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: six and one the Dad's leave a voicemail of a

1412
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 1: dad win loss, whatever the story is. You call in,

1413
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 1: leave a VOICEMAI I will feature on the show. To

1414
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 1: the callers, we ship you guys merch and if you

1415
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 1: can't call because you're international, you just email us at

1416
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: six on one of the dad's at gmail dot com

1417
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: and we read emails as well. We'll dive into some comments.

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01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 1: I have some general comments. I have some new dad

1419
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: and dad life comments. This alms comes from Max Welkin

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01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: thirty three eighty three on YouTube Buddy Pop, a Team

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01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 1: six member with an eight month old girl.

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01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 2: I've been on Operation night al as.

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01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 1: Our baby girl has been waking up frequently throughout the

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01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: night and can only be comforted by being held tough.

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01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 2: Oh good. After two attempts of putting.

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01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: In the crib and going from dead to sleep to

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01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 1: eyes wide open staring in my soul good, I brought

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01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: her back in the rocking chair and thought, WWWOSD, what

1429
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: would Willie Winshelf do started? So I started terminal list

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01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 1: and will now help me get through Operation night out.

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01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 1: All I needed was a classic great bollipop. In all seriousness,

1432
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 1: I appreciate the pod and relatable content. I say to myself,

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01:03:55,560 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 1: I get to do this during these late nights. I

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01:03:57,920 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: won't be able to hold my baby girl like this forever.

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01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 1: And I can already see how fast things change. Thanks boys, Max,

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01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 1: that is a hell of comment. Thank you brother, and

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01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 1: again just that that's tough, like Scotty was kind of

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01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: like being held. You put her down, her eyes get

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01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: wide open. One thing I would start doing is, you know,

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01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: as I'm saying, Sae, my routine is, I'm in the

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01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: rocking chair and then I get up. I'll go from

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01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 1: the rocking chair and stand up, because obviously movement happens,

1443
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 1: so they might wiggle a little bit as you stand up.

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01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 1: I kind of sit there and I count to myself

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01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: for thirty seconds as I do this way back and

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01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: forth move and I need her to be in a

1447
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: dead sleep, like no movement, no harm, movement, know anything

1448
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:38,439
Speaker 1: else before go the final like ten seconds in my head.

1449
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 1: But I get this routine pat going on where it's

1450
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: like I'm like, say, I'm popping like this or I'm popping.

1451
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 1: Then I skip one, pop again, skip another one, skip

1452
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 1: another one. And then as I continue to get going,

1453
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 1: I'll keep letting them out to where it gets slower,

1454
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 1: it gets lighter, it gets all these things. And then

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01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 1: as I transition to put her in the crib and

1456
01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: she might wiggle and wake up, I immediately try to

1457
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 1: get her on her side and mimic the routine path

1458
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 1: that I was doing, so she kind of stays in

1459
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 1: that element move.

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01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 2: That's a win. And then again I just keep going.

1461
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:14,280
Speaker 1: I knock out the every other one to where it's

1462
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:15,600
Speaker 1: one every few seconds.

1463
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 2: I get lighter and lighter, and then to.

1464
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: Where my hand is or I'll hold my hand like

1465
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: on her butt so she still feels that pressure, and then.

1466
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 2: I lightly lightly bring it off.

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01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:28,840
Speaker 3: And we're and now we're out. We're out, We're now

1468
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:29,840
Speaker 3: we're out.

1469
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 1: Because you're gonna have to make those transitions anyway whenever

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01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 1: you want them to get used to being put down,

1471
01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 1: because where you're going to really knock it out is

1472
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:38,440
Speaker 1: when you're able to kind of put them down and

1473
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:40,200
Speaker 1: they're still kind of awake, and then they can put

1474
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 1: themselves asleep, like that's the goal.

1475
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 2: So that way you can put them down and then

1476
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 2: walk out of the room.

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01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 1: So I would just go from that whole routine going

1478
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 1: down to where she stays asleep. Then if she's waking up,

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01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to do the same thing. She might

1480
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 1: whine a little bit, but I'll keep the bat going

1481
01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: and I'll get down on her knee and keep doing

1482
01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 1: the pat and kind of southe through my voice just

1483
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 1: to let her know, hey, I'm here, You're safe, that

1484
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: I can't pick you up, because we're trying to teach

1485
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 1: you that you can't just be held the entire.

1486
01:06:03,680 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 2: Time for you get to get to sleep.

1487
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 1: Then eventually they'll start getting the routine and go and

1488
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,919
Speaker 1: it'll be it'll continue continually get better. But those would

1489
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 1: be kind of my steps if you are struggling where

1490
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: they have to be held the entire time on trying

1491
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 1: to figure out that progression to where you'll eventually be

1492
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 1: able to put them down.

1493
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 3: The good shot, I think a serious dad hack.

1494
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 1: That's a serious daddad hack because it gets it gets

1495
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:28,000
Speaker 1: you know, you think good, you think all these things,

1496
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 1: but you're in there just like godly, come on man,

1497
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: like being a dead sleep Please, for the love of God,

1498
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 1: don't wake up when I put you down. So I'll

1499
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:36,920
Speaker 1: just find these things that kept attaching her to what

1500
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 1: she might have felt being in my.

1501
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 2: Arms with the pats.

1502
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 1: Put her down, keep the same pack going, hopefully she

1503
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:45,520
Speaker 1: doesn't move. If she does, you get to a level

1504
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 1: of where you're just on the outside of the crib.

1505
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 2: Talking to or.

1506
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 1: Not looking at them, but talking to him, letting them

1507
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 1: know they're says they're gonna.

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01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 3: Be all right, Jill, Jill's gonna hate me out. Keep

1509
01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 3: this quick, and Jill is going to hate me bringing

1510
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 3: this up because I haven't brought it up to her yet.

1511
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 3: But I'm starting to notice when Jill's doing bedtime, Scarlet

1512
01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 3: has two or three little cries before she finally gets

1513
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 3: to bed. Yeah, and when dad has does bedtime, y'all brother,

1514
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 3: she's out on my shoulder like a light.

1515
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 2: Ain't no crying, ain't no cry.

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01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:24,160
Speaker 3: Hey, what what happened the other night? When I hopped

1517
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 3: on the game with you? I go Scarlet Stern, hold on,

1518
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 3: let me go get no, it was gooman hey and

1519
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 3: knock on wood. I'm setting myself up for some kid.

1520
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 3: Yos you are.

1521
01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 1: Because what happens is you start to let him know, like, hey,

1522
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,760
Speaker 1: what's going on? Like if you ever are tell them

1523
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: what I would tell Charo is because.

1524
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 2: She hits me with all They're different with me than

1525
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 2: they or you.

1526
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 1: YadA YadA, listen, it is what it is. I know

1527
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:51,440
Speaker 1: what I know what kind of process I roam. Once

1528
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:53,720
Speaker 1: I get in that room and I tell her. I'm like, hey,

1529
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:56,520
Speaker 1: if you ever want to come shadow me, well you

1530
01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 1: you can wash me from afar to see if like

1531
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 1: you're hitting the things that you need to hit.

1532
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 3: Because when that seven thounds goes down, Scarlett's gull it

1533
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 3: and I get her up on right here, right here,

1534
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 3: Oh dog, this game over. I'm not even patton. She's

1535
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:17,840
Speaker 3: already slump on my shoulder. And then I'm just did

1536
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:20,519
Speaker 3: did to do as long as I want, singing maybe

1537
01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 3: one or two songs, and she's out like a light.

1538
01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:25,519
Speaker 3: And I've kept it to myself. This is my first

1539
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 3: time kind of talking about Jill's gonna hear this and

1540
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 3: be pissed because I kind of alluded to it on

1541
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 3: her third like to go check on her, I go,

1542
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:37,840
Speaker 3: do you think she might want? Like like she is

1543
01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:39,719
Speaker 3: she old enough to kind of like know the difference,

1544
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:41,639
Speaker 3: And she was like no, then no.

1545
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 2: That's slow.

1546
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, like, hey, look, I know you

1547
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 1: crushed it. I've noticed a couple of things. We won't

1548
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 1: bring them up, but I do want you to know

1549
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 1: the offer is always there if you want to come

1550
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: shadow in the room while I do bedtime.

1551
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 5: Sure, I'm not a dad and that's scary. You're bringing

1552
01:08:57,120 --> 01:09:00,920
Speaker 5: up a universal language. I mean you apply to just

1553
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:03,519
Speaker 5: we're walking down a treacherous path.

1554
01:09:03,600 --> 01:09:06,719
Speaker 3: I'm just like, Hey, you know, you think she wants

1555
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 3: me to go in there and go, you know, put

1556
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 3: the passy back in. Maybe yeah, her a little bit.

1557
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 2: Hey, you need me to close this deal?

1558
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 3: And how does that sound? Scarlet? Does that work? Yeah?

1559
01:09:23,760 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 3: I think we can go to bed. I have a

1560
01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:33,719
Speaker 3: comment from Tyler Schiller. Pass this along to sherm babysitter tip.

1561
01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 3: Have your wife find a local Nashville babysitter Facebook group

1562
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 3: and post it in there. This is where we find

1563
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 3: most of ours. Make sure they work in the healthcare fields.

1564
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 3: That may that way when the blowouts happen for them,

1565
01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:51,639
Speaker 3: they aren't phased. Love the pod Boys Go Tigers from

1566
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 3: Betton Rouge, best regards Tyler Schiller and he also provided

1567
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 3: his phone number.

1568
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 1: I love that I have some new dad and dad

1569
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 1: life once. This one is from Wardo twenty one on Spotify.

1570
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,559
Speaker 1: Hey boys, jumped on the Spotify train from Apple Podcasts

1571
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 1: and YouTube. Grateful for the pod as it helps me

1572
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 1: get through each week as I fight tooth and nail

1573
01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 1: with a five.

1574
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:13,200
Speaker 2: Month old God bless you brother.

1575
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:16,479
Speaker 1: My son Asher is putting the wife and I through

1576
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:19,840
Speaker 1: the ringer lately, but the troops are battle tested. Shout

1577
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: out to the boys, Mary, Christmas and happy holidays. Bottles

1578
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:26,000
Speaker 1: are full and drum mag of Pacifiers is ready for

1579
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:29,719
Speaker 1: the dads to the moon. Hashtag grinding appreciate your WARDO

1580
01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:30,320
Speaker 1: twenty one.

1581
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:34,760
Speaker 3: Let's go. Connor Macgooter on Spotify. Old Magooter says, sure,

1582
01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 3: thanks for ruining the end of goodies for me. Sorry, Connor,

1583
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:42,600
Speaker 3: that's about Hey, that's on me.

1584
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 1: I got a Milk Team six, Papa Team six, back.

1585
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:47,760
Speaker 2: And forth on here.

1586
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:52,519
Speaker 1: This is from from Marie Bouchard from re Bouchard Bacon

1587
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:55,559
Speaker 1: on X. Shout out to the dads out there who

1588
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:58,599
Speaker 1: do the mom task because they don't see it, because

1589
01:10:58,640 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 1: they don't see.

1590
01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:00,720
Speaker 2: It that way, and because they want to help take

1591
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 2: a load off, like.

1592
01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 1: Reading books and getting their kids up and ready for

1593
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 1: school on a twenty degree day when no one in

1594
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:08,800
Speaker 1: the house slept. Well heroes with several emojis and then

1595
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 1: tagged her hubby Clifton Bacon Clifton Bacon and why I'm

1596
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 1: assuming from New York.

1597
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 2: Cliff responds, you're the best. Maybe I'll be featured on

1598
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 2: for the Dad's Pod. Marie Bouchard Bacon, you should be

1599
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:20,759
Speaker 2: with the kiss emoji.

1600
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 3: He got the kiss emoji?

1601
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 2: You got? You said.

1602
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 1: They're watching it right now, smiling, kind of nudging each

1603
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 1: other back and forth.

1604
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 2: Say hey, come on, man, hey we Mountain the Knights.

1605
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:37,760
Speaker 1: We don't know really, do you got daddy featured on

1606
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:40,600
Speaker 1: for the dance They got your roller coasters up in

1607
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: New York.

1608
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:47,639
Speaker 3: They I will also very quick shout out for Empty

1609
01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 3: six just because I'm seeing this across the board on

1610
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 3: social media, so many dads that are wearing our gear

1611
01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:58,679
Speaker 3: for Christmas. They have come in from the Black Friday

1612
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:02,639
Speaker 3: sale or whenever they're shouting out their wives for thank

1613
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:06,160
Speaker 3: you so much, blah blah blah. These MT sixers are

1614
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 3: the ones supplying these PT sixers with the gear, and

1615
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:11,760
Speaker 3: I gotta give a huge shout out to the MT sixers.

1616
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 2: Have too, dude.

1617
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: I would love to see a dad like the White

1618
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 1: videos dad opens a gift and then it acts like

1619
01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:19,240
Speaker 1: a kid on Chrystal always showing the PT six shirt.

1620
01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:23,840
Speaker 3: That would be electric and the special shout out and

1621
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:27,639
Speaker 3: we can put it in the episode. Chef the Three

1622
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 3: guys that all got the matching PT six shirt. That

1623
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:36,720
Speaker 3: was incredible. Deek, did you just read or did I?

1624
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 2: I can't remember. I think I did.

1625
01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:44,400
Speaker 3: Okay, Earl La laberte PT six. I've been deployed on

1626
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,640
Speaker 3: a mission to find the perfect beverage and thanks to

1627
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:51,440
Speaker 3: your top secret ops with Ollipop, mission success has been achieved,

1628
01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:56,240
Speaker 3: perhaps a bit too successfully. Classic Grape has officially infiltrated

1629
01:12:56,280 --> 01:13:00,000
Speaker 3: my daily rations and now I'm completely hooked. I can't vote,

1630
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 3: i can't sleep, and I'm always reaching for the sweet,

1631
01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:07,240
Speaker 3: healthy carbonation of an ollipop. You've created a new recruit

1632
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:10,080
Speaker 3: in the ranks of Ollipop addicts. I'm now a proud

1633
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 3: member of pt SICCO and a certified great Commander.

1634
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: Hey, there's some stuff in the works with Ollipop and

1635
01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 1: for the dads, it's all I'll say, I'll leave.

1636
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 3: Wait hey, wait dead all right, we'll talk after the

1637
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:26,160
Speaker 3: pod because I want to hear about that.

1638
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:31,240
Speaker 1: Or the dads busts and Ollipop just stuff in the works.

1639
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:34,639
Speaker 2: And again, a lot of the really a lot.

1640
01:13:34,439 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 1: Of the feedback from from Ollipop is they absolutely love

1641
01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: how the dad community embraces embraces it on for the

1642
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 1: dads like how we kind of talk about it.

1643
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 2: Every week. We got people talk about allipop and comments,

1644
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:48,560
Speaker 2: calling in voicemails, making videos.

1645
01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:51,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I just tell our people, I'm like, yeah,

1646
01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 1: it is a match made in Heavan, man, Like this

1647
01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:54,759
Speaker 1: is a partnership that needs to happen.

1648
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:57,320
Speaker 2: Hey, come on, man, come on man.

1649
01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:02,040
Speaker 1: Here we go from my be on spot the last

1650
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:02,679
Speaker 1: one here.

1651
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:06,680
Speaker 2: Recently new PT six member with a five week old girl. Congratulations.

1652
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 1: Mike, a colleague of mine, shared the pod while in

1653
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:13,000
Speaker 1: basic training and pregnancy, but didn't start listening until deep

1654
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:15,640
Speaker 1: in the trenches of the first few weeks, looking for

1655
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 1: any form of acknowledgment helpful tips. Turned on the pod

1656
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:21,720
Speaker 1: during a two am feed. First time I laughed in

1657
01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: weeks and validated that I wasn't the only one in

1658
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 1: the suck. I just want to say thank you, will

1659
01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:27,720
Speaker 1: and sure them and let you know the impact you

1660
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 1: guys are having. Order my shirt hashtag PT six, hashtag good.

1661
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 2: Good, I gott you me up.

1662
01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,800
Speaker 1: Hey, sure them Any quick tips from my man who's

1663
01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:40,560
Speaker 1: got a five week old right now?

1664
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 3: Honestly, dude, you are an employee of your wife now,

1665
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:49,720
Speaker 3: Like if you weren't already, you are now her employee.

1666
01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:50,719
Speaker 2: She is your.

1667
01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 3: Boss, and think about how you try to make your

1668
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:57,800
Speaker 3: boss happy at work. Flip that script. The house is

1669
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 3: now your office, and she it's your boss that you

1670
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 3: just gotta impress. And you're looking to get that promotion.

1671
01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 3: Just apply that to whatever you're doing and you're gonna

1672
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:07,679
Speaker 3: kick some ass.

1673
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1674
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:11,760
Speaker 1: The baby's the product that you have to retest, retest,

1675
01:15:11,840 --> 01:15:14,400
Speaker 1: retest until perfection, until that's what.

1676
01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:15,640
Speaker 2: There is no perfection there.

1677
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:19,599
Speaker 3: You look up eighteen years and then you know they

1678
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 3: ship off and I don't know, but you be.

1679
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 2: Proud of you back. This is it, all that damn word.

1680
01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:31,200
Speaker 3: And you still never got the promotion eighteen years later.

1681
01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 2: Still you'll never get things for it.

1682
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:33,439
Speaker 1: No.

1683
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 3: Brad from Spotify has a legendary one. He said last night,

1684
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:40,880
Speaker 3: middle of the night, I gotta do you not hear

1685
01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:46,320
Speaker 3: her crying and your boy, your boy faked being asleep

1686
01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 3: because I gotta work in the morning.

1687
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:50,040
Speaker 1: My fault.

1688
01:15:51,040 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 3: Brad from Spotify. Hey Brad, we been Hey, just the

1689
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 3: just the Chara and Jill fast forward through this bar.

1690
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:18,000
Speaker 3: Huh what what what she's been crying for for ten minutes?

1691
01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:22,120
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh? Oh oh okay, all right, yeah, yeah,

1692
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:24,320
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You're gonna go get her? You want me?

1693
01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:24,960
Speaker 2: You want me to?

1694
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Were you not awake?

1695
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 2: Did you just wake up? Well? I'd like for you

1696
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 2: to go up and get her, all right?

1697
01:16:32,080 --> 01:16:34,600
Speaker 1: So what does that mean I have to or you

1698
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: just like for me too, because I'll be honest, I

1699
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 1: don't want.

1700
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 3: Because I'd like to ride the shockwave right now. But

1701
01:16:43,920 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 3: it looks like that hit the cards. So what are

1702
01:16:47,160 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 3: we talking about? You wake me up talking crazy like this?

1703
01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:51,560
Speaker 3: Let's go.

1704
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 1: I'd like you to go to boy, I'd like somemeracurse,

1705
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 1: but we don't see that happening.

1706
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:56,800
Speaker 2: So does that mean I gotta go up there?

1707
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:02,800
Speaker 3: All right?

1708
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 2: Just Josh and just we're just joking, charging.

1709
01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:10,639
Speaker 3: Jill, you can you can press play now we're back.

1710
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:15,719
Speaker 3: I have another one ZS fifty nine goat on YouTube

1711
01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:20,960
Speaker 3: you said fellas good as an abstin abstinent couple waiting

1712
01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:24,719
Speaker 3: for marriage, so pumped to propose to my old lady

1713
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:30,000
Speaker 3: here soon hashtag mount up. This show fires me up

1714
01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:33,960
Speaker 3: to be the best father slash husband, slash man. I

1715
01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 3: can be shout out you boys hashtag abstinent sicko out

1716
01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:45,320
Speaker 3: and you want to talk about a certain platoon of St. Sikos.

1717
01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:49,639
Speaker 3: You want to talk about the first time those bars

1718
01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 3: of shock wave just klink and lock you in. And

1719
01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 3: it's right before that that little incline. We haven't even

1720
01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:01,559
Speaker 3: started to go up the ching ching ching ching chin chink, like,

1721
01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 3: we're just we're kind of waiting there. And you're looking

1722
01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:09,040
Speaker 3: at the guy with the controls and he's he's balding terribly,

1723
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,280
Speaker 3: but he still has like the longest hair ever. He's

1724
01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 3: got the Ben Franklin going, and he just kind of

1725
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:15,559
Speaker 3: looks at you and he gives you that little smile

1726
01:18:16,240 --> 01:18:18,599
Speaker 3: and that finger just drops on that red button, baby.

1727
01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:22,000
Speaker 1: And when that figure it's the red button, it's like

1728
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:24,800
Speaker 1: this scene in the Titanic or the water just breaks through.

1729
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:27,920
Speaker 2: It just floods the entire the entire floor.

1730
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:32,280
Speaker 3: Oh man, congrats to you, Congrats to the old lady

1731
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 3: for for that future future experience.

1732
01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 2: And I that's gonna be a spiritual experience.

1733
01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:43,400
Speaker 3: Spiritual experience. And I'm predicting a honeymoon baby, Oh God,

1734
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 3: maybe a wedding night baby. We might get. We might

1735
01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:47,040
Speaker 3: get a wedding night baby.

1736
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:50,200
Speaker 1: Possibly, it's gonna be so much it just might drown

1737
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 1: all of them out.

1738
01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, There might be too many.

1739
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:53,920
Speaker 2: It's gonna be New York.

1740
01:18:53,720 --> 01:19:02,880
Speaker 7: City in there, the math, the steam coming off the

1741
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:04,440
Speaker 7: bathroom tiles.

1742
01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:09,120
Speaker 3: Hey, honey, will it sherp said, make sure you breathe

1743
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:12,479
Speaker 3: that in That keeps me forgetting sick. That's that stuff

1744
01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:13,559
Speaker 3: to put the hair on your chest.

1745
01:19:18,280 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 1: This is where we're just up late rub late night

1746
01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:23,719
Speaker 1: on Christmas Eve right now, laughing over the dumbest stuff.

1747
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1748
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:29,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, my first time, it was like New York

1749
01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:30,400
Speaker 2: City over day.

1750
01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 3: I would I would pack some liquid ivs. I would

1751
01:19:36,080 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 3: pack some lollipops. Yeah, you know you're gonna stay hydrated.

1752
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,439
Speaker 1: Stay hydrated. And just imagine he gets done. He's sitting

1753
01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:43,120
Speaker 1: on the edge of the bed.

1754
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:49,799
Speaker 2: Here. You want one of these classic grapes. They're tasty.

1755
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 3: We got some ridge rushes too, but it tastes like

1756
01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 3: like a thousand skittles hit in your mouth that once.

1757
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:58,679
Speaker 3: I don't know if it want that. That's whatever, Love you, babe.

1758
01:20:01,360 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 3: Do you have any other comments? I have two more

1759
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:04,120
Speaker 3: I can vot he through.

1760
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:06,719
Speaker 1: Oh read one more, because I got it. Your boys

1761
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:08,200
Speaker 1: gotta get rolling. I was serious.

1762
01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:09,639
Speaker 2: About we got to keep it under an hour. We're

1763
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:10,840
Speaker 2: roll over an hour, so we get a.

1764
01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:14,519
Speaker 3: Roll, all right, we got roll Timmy j forty two boys.

1765
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:17,640
Speaker 3: Willie talked about the Daddy watch Me stage. Well, I

1766
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:19,880
Speaker 3: got one. My two year old son is in the

1767
01:20:20,080 --> 01:20:26,000
Speaker 3: Daddy I do this stage. Good wants to port his

1768
01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:29,080
Speaker 3: own water water all over the floor. Good wants to

1769
01:20:29,120 --> 01:20:31,759
Speaker 3: feed the dogs dog food all over the floor. Even

1770
01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:34,360
Speaker 3: Better wants to get his own food out of the fridge,

1771
01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 3: food everywhere. Good wants to put sprinkles on the cookie,

1772
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 3: dumps half the sprinkle can all over, half of half

1773
01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:44,479
Speaker 3: of the cookie and half on the floor.

1774
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 2: Good that right there. He just brought up the eye.

1775
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:52,719
Speaker 1: I do this stage like that is for sure coming

1776
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:55,400
Speaker 1: with Rue, Like she's missing the bend and she wants

1777
01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:57,439
Speaker 1: to do everything. Sometimes I got to stop her from

1778
01:20:57,479 --> 01:20:59,000
Speaker 1: doing stuff like this, so you know this is gonna

1779
01:20:59,000 --> 01:20:59,680
Speaker 1: be a disaster.

1780
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:01,240
Speaker 2: Uh.

1781
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:06,360
Speaker 3: One of our favorite family inside jokes is a family friend.

1782
01:21:06,400 --> 01:21:10,679
Speaker 3: I'll use the name Sarah to stay anonymous, but one

1783
01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:14,840
Speaker 3: time the mom said, hey, you better listen because I'm

1784
01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:17,679
Speaker 3: the boss, and her little two year old turned around

1785
01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 3: and said, no, Sarah the boss. And that's like our

1786
01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:28,240
Speaker 3: most quoted like inside joke of the family of just

1787
01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:32,639
Speaker 3: like those little kids are like, I am the captain now.

1788
01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 1: Sar Jora was saying that Rue hit her with I

1789
01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:38,639
Speaker 1: forget what Charles said to her, but Rue hit her with, no,

1790
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:40,400
Speaker 1: I'm my own person.

1791
01:21:40,720 --> 01:21:44,880
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, Rue.

1792
01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I am my own person.

1793
01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:51,960
Speaker 3: That's the herd turn in black. That's what we need.

1794
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that. That's welcome to the aga. Yeah.

1795
01:21:57,920 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 4: I'm praying for you, buddy.

1796
01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:00,519
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, Bro.

1797
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:05,240
Speaker 1: She's she's she's strong willed, she's going to be she's tough.

1798
01:22:06,120 --> 01:22:08,320
Speaker 2: But you see the potential. I'm fired up for.

1799
01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:15,960
Speaker 3: Absolutely. We have h what'd you say, yeah, Collins voicemails.

1800
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 3: We'll just do one.

1801
01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's say one voicemail because I got a couple

1802
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:26,960
Speaker 1: of emails here too. We'll do one voicemail in three

1803
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:27,799
Speaker 1: total emails.

1804
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 4: This is recreating outfits.

1805
01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 6: Hey, PT six, Mike from Cleveland.

1806
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:36,519
Speaker 8: I wanted to also say something from the last episode

1807
01:22:36,520 --> 01:22:38,680
Speaker 8: that Sharan was talking about this a little bit of

1808
01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:41,479
Speaker 8: a dad hack, because Sharan was talking about how he

1809
01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 8: was catching a little flak from daycare about how it

1810
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:48,799
Speaker 8: looks like Dad picked out the outfit. And they ratted

1811
01:22:48,880 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 8: him out to mom, and just to put you on

1812
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 8: some game. A little bit of a hack that I

1813
01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:59,000
Speaker 8: came across and had been doing is that I'd throw

1814
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:02,760
Speaker 8: on outfits from pictures that we have, you know, like

1815
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 8: everyone's got that little family album. I go into the

1816
01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 8: family album sometimes and I'll look at pictures that I

1817
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:10,080
Speaker 8: know Mom, you know, I had put together that my

1818
01:23:10,120 --> 01:23:11,000
Speaker 8: wife had put together.

1819
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:13,799
Speaker 6: So I just recreate what she's done before.

1820
01:23:14,360 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 8: Sometimes you got to look recently and the other day.

1821
01:23:18,439 --> 01:23:20,240
Speaker 6: Because I do all pick up and drop off too.

1822
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 8: Sure my wife is is a nurse, just like your wife,

1823
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:24,880
Speaker 8: and so uh so I'm picking up and dropping off

1824
01:23:24,880 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 8: and dressing sometimes in the morning where she's got to

1825
01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:29,760
Speaker 8: be there early. And so they recently just said, this

1826
01:23:29,840 --> 01:23:32,040
Speaker 8: is like the best dressed baby that we got coming

1827
01:23:32,080 --> 01:23:34,880
Speaker 8: in here. And and uh you know, of course I

1828
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:37,479
Speaker 8: can't let them know that Mom's calling the plays. Mom

1829
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 8: wrote the playbook. I'm just the quarterback that's executing them.

1830
01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:42,840
Speaker 8: So you know, you get to catch a little credit there.

1831
01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:45,160
Speaker 8: So for all the other dads not sure what's going

1832
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:46,960
Speaker 8: on and what to pick off from the drawer, that's

1833
01:23:47,120 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 8: a little hack h to get you by all right, boys,

1834
01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 8: stay shraw pt six out.

1835
01:23:52,000 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 4: I love it.

1836
01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:57,480
Speaker 2: That's a great phone call. That's a great love that.

1837
01:23:59,560 --> 01:23:59,840
Speaker 3: I get.

1838
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:03,640
Speaker 1: Humility. He's like, my wife's the coordinator on the quarterback. No,

1839
01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:06,400
Speaker 1: your wife's the head coach. You're the coordinator on the field.

1840
01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 1: Call in the places. You might have the book ready

1841
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:10,840
Speaker 1: to go, but somebody you got to be instinctual when

1842
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:12,439
Speaker 1: you're out there making these plays, you're the.

1843
01:24:12,360 --> 01:24:13,000
Speaker 2: One doing it.

1844
01:24:13,160 --> 01:24:14,080
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah.

1845
01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:17,519
Speaker 1: Whenever in the future people start looking, you start to look,

1846
01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:18,040
Speaker 1: and I'm.

1847
01:24:17,880 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 2: Gonna get promoted. I'm gonna go be a head man somewhere.

1848
01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:22,240
Speaker 1: This is These are the philosophies and the books you

1849
01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:24,200
Speaker 1: keep prepared and ready to go for whenever you do

1850
01:24:24,280 --> 01:24:26,640
Speaker 1: get that big payday and leave your wife and go

1851
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:27,599
Speaker 1: command your own team.

1852
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:31,680
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, ah, leave that. That was such a

1853
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:34,599
Speaker 3: great call. What was that guy's first name? Just so

1854
01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:38,799
Speaker 3: I can does he say it? At the very beginning?

1855
01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:40,599
Speaker 5: I don't want to go back into the computer speel

1856
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:42,520
Speaker 5: can see you're chef.

1857
01:24:42,680 --> 01:24:43,800
Speaker 4: I don't think you said his name?

1858
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:46,360
Speaker 6: No shit, did he.

1859
01:24:47,920 --> 01:24:51,920
Speaker 3: All that being said? Dude, great call in and love

1860
01:24:52,000 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 3: that your wife is also a nurse. Love that you're

1861
01:24:54,240 --> 01:24:57,160
Speaker 3: doing the pickup drop offs. I felt so heard by

1862
01:24:57,200 --> 01:24:59,920
Speaker 3: that voicemail Like that truly made my heart so happy.

1863
01:25:00,320 --> 01:25:03,800
Speaker 3: And a grid Dad Hacket heard.

1864
01:25:03,840 --> 01:25:06,400
Speaker 1: And there's a solution in there that you can you

1865
01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:07,920
Speaker 1: can legitimately learn from.

1866
01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:11,200
Speaker 2: Yes, apycat league man, copycat.

1867
01:25:10,680 --> 01:25:14,840
Speaker 3: Lee, copycat league. That's an easy one. I'll apply that

1868
01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:19,480
Speaker 3: this next week. Uh, did you have some emails?

1869
01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:21,639
Speaker 2: Yeah? So I got a couple of emails. Here one.

1870
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:25,040
Speaker 2: This first one is from Daniel Edwards. Boys. I'm a

1871
01:25:25,080 --> 01:25:26,880
Speaker 2: father of three, a ten year old, a three year old,

1872
01:25:26,920 --> 01:25:27,599
Speaker 2: and a newborn.

1873
01:25:27,840 --> 01:25:29,920
Speaker 1: I just found your podcast about a week ago and

1874
01:25:29,960 --> 01:25:31,679
Speaker 1: it is already my new favorite podcast.

1875
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:34,360
Speaker 2: Shout out, Daniel. Let's go. All the stories are relatable,

1876
01:25:34,400 --> 01:25:35,719
Speaker 2: and I love knowing I'm not alone.

1877
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:39,759
Speaker 1: Your advice, your advice about everything being good and putting

1878
01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:42,800
Speaker 1: in the relief pitcher got me in trouble. I just

1879
01:25:42,840 --> 01:25:45,400
Speaker 1: got home from work when my wife immediately handed me

1880
01:25:45,439 --> 01:25:48,479
Speaker 1: the baby saying she saying he needed a nap. I

1881
01:25:48,479 --> 01:25:51,360
Speaker 1: started rocking in the living room chair. Meanwhile, the toddler

1882
01:25:51,360 --> 01:25:54,240
Speaker 1: wanted to see how loud she could be. Good, She

1883
01:25:54,439 --> 01:25:56,080
Speaker 1: threw the toys everywhere.

1884
01:25:56,240 --> 01:25:56,559
Speaker 2: Good.

1885
01:25:57,200 --> 01:25:58,920
Speaker 1: The ten year old needed help with her homework. And

1886
01:25:58,960 --> 01:26:01,040
Speaker 1: it's the new math, not the mat that we grew

1887
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:03,400
Speaker 1: up on. It's the new mat that they're doing. Now good.

1888
01:26:04,040 --> 01:26:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm sitting here trying to rock the baby and see

1889
01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:07,920
Speaker 1: that mom is getting flustered. I think to myself, this

1890
01:26:08,080 --> 01:26:11,519
Speaker 1: is it. She's gonna put in the lefty. I smile

1891
01:26:11,600 --> 01:26:14,960
Speaker 1: and think I get to deal with this. I'm smiling

1892
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 1: ear to ear. The call comes into the bullpen, but

1893
01:26:17,439 --> 01:26:18,639
Speaker 1: it comes with a pep talk.

1894
01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,920
Speaker 2: Why are you smiling? This is not funny. You deal

1895
01:26:22,000 --> 01:26:22,280
Speaker 2: with it.

1896
01:26:22,960 --> 01:26:26,000
Speaker 1: I love the podcast and thank you for making one

1897
01:26:26,040 --> 01:26:28,200
Speaker 1: that shows that it's okay to mess up.

1898
01:26:28,240 --> 01:26:31,160
Speaker 2: We're all human. That's nice to a Milk Team sixer.

1899
01:26:31,640 --> 01:26:33,400
Speaker 2: She doesn't even know she's a Milk Team sixer. What

1900
01:26:33,400 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 2: are you gritting about? What are you smiling about? This

1901
01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:36,759
Speaker 2: ain't funny because.

1902
01:26:36,560 --> 01:26:40,240
Speaker 3: I've been waiting for this moment in my entire life. Yeah, yeah,

1903
01:26:40,360 --> 01:26:41,680
Speaker 3: this is what it's all about.

1904
01:26:42,080 --> 01:26:43,559
Speaker 2: What do you mean while am I smiling? These are

1905
01:26:43,600 --> 01:26:44,639
Speaker 2: the moments I prayed for.

1906
01:26:45,000 --> 01:26:47,360
Speaker 3: You know, there's two men that I think when you're

1907
01:26:47,400 --> 01:26:49,080
Speaker 3: talking to me like this, you ever heard of a

1908
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:54,800
Speaker 3: fat staff or Willie one? Shall they talk about this

1909
01:26:54,840 --> 01:26:57,920
Speaker 3: a lot? Honey talk about this exact moment.

1910
01:26:58,479 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is exactly and when the Cavs is just

1911
01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:05,839
Speaker 1: funling in, just chaos and suing, you sit back, you smile.

1912
01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:06,599
Speaker 2: Good.

1913
01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:10,960
Speaker 3: He's doing a villain monologue, like he's monologuing before he

1914
01:27:10,960 --> 01:27:14,519
Speaker 3: even jumps into help. Just letting the wife know. I

1915
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:17,720
Speaker 3: have two fun comments that are very short, and then

1916
01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:18,880
Speaker 3: you can read another email.

1917
01:27:18,920 --> 01:27:20,160
Speaker 2: You want to do that, let's do that.

1918
01:27:21,080 --> 01:27:25,360
Speaker 3: This one comes from our friend Josiah comedian Discovery. He said,

1919
01:27:25,400 --> 01:27:29,160
Speaker 3: Willie h Vac reporting for duty. Love watching the Diddy

1920
01:27:29,200 --> 01:27:31,320
Speaker 3: doc while my three year old colors good.

1921
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:36,559
Speaker 2: Well the three year old.

1922
01:27:37,800 --> 01:27:40,240
Speaker 3: This is a Christmas card. I wanted to make sure

1923
01:27:40,280 --> 01:27:42,080
Speaker 3: that we got on the pot. It was email to

1924
01:27:42,160 --> 01:27:45,960
Speaker 3: us as well, so that came from the Schroeder family.

1925
01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:50,639
Speaker 3: So shout out the Schroeder family. Eli writes, Merry Christmas

1926
01:27:50,640 --> 01:27:53,719
Speaker 3: from the Schroeder family fellas, thank you guys for creating

1927
01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:57,240
Speaker 3: such an uplifting and supportive community. I'm proud to be

1928
01:27:57,280 --> 01:28:01,680
Speaker 3: a pt SICKO, my wife Megan, my daughter Eleanor, and

1929
01:28:01,760 --> 01:28:05,000
Speaker 3: I wish all of you a happy holidays.

1930
01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:08,080
Speaker 2: Eli Schroder, Happy holidays, Ela.

1931
01:28:08,800 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 3: Happy holidays. Eli.

1932
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:14,840
Speaker 1: I got a all right this last email comes from Anissa.

1933
01:28:15,080 --> 01:28:17,760
Speaker 1: Hey guys, my name is Anissa, and yes I'm a woman.

1934
01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:20,080
Speaker 3: It's called.

1935
01:28:22,640 --> 01:28:24,960
Speaker 1: I found the podcast and my husband Jordan, who listens

1936
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:28,280
Speaker 1: to you all religiously. He's even gotten a few words

1937
01:28:28,320 --> 01:28:30,080
Speaker 1: of the dads that we have in our family to

1938
01:28:30,120 --> 01:28:31,200
Speaker 1: start listening as well.

1939
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:33,880
Speaker 2: From bustling with the boys to now for the dads.

1940
01:28:34,240 --> 01:28:38,080
Speaker 1: We ourselves are not parents, not by choice, but because

1941
01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:40,920
Speaker 1: of myself being infertile due to having stage four.

1942
01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:45,880
Speaker 2: Endo matriosis. We tried.

1943
01:28:46,160 --> 01:28:48,120
Speaker 1: We tried for about two years to have a child,

1944
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:50,760
Speaker 1: but the odds were against us, and we decided to

1945
01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:54,040
Speaker 1: stop all fertility treatments and came to the conclusion that

1946
01:28:54,080 --> 01:28:57,240
Speaker 1: we are happy with just us and our cat. We

1947
01:28:57,320 --> 01:28:59,599
Speaker 1: are we pour all of our love into our eleven

1948
01:28:59,640 --> 01:29:00,639
Speaker 1: nieces and nephews.

1949
01:29:00,960 --> 01:29:03,080
Speaker 2: My husband has shown me the episodes.

1950
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:04,799
Speaker 1: Where Will has talked about his and his wife's journey

1951
01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:06,080
Speaker 1: with fertility and IVF.

1952
01:29:06,520 --> 01:29:08,280
Speaker 2: Thank you guys for being so opened with that.

1953
01:29:08,560 --> 01:29:11,320
Speaker 1: We know it can be a very sensitive subject and

1954
01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:13,080
Speaker 1: to talk about, and I just want to say how

1955
01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:15,240
Speaker 1: appreciative we, and I'm sure many others are that you

1956
01:29:15,240 --> 01:29:18,160
Speaker 1: have talked about it so openly. My husband's not a dad,

1957
01:29:18,160 --> 01:29:20,120
Speaker 1: but I know he would have been the best because

1958
01:29:20,120 --> 01:29:23,240
Speaker 1: he's an amazing uncle and the best cat dad. Thank you,

1959
01:29:23,240 --> 01:29:25,439
Speaker 1: guys for making this podcast for what it is, and

1960
01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 1: for not getting not giving only my husband, but many

1961
01:29:27,920 --> 01:29:30,920
Speaker 1: others a fun, safe place to come together.

1962
01:29:31,479 --> 01:29:35,120
Speaker 2: So much love to you and your family. Stay blessed God.

1963
01:29:35,280 --> 01:29:36,760
Speaker 3: A man, that's that.

1964
01:29:36,840 --> 01:29:40,080
Speaker 2: Thanks you deal. The tears are almost gonting to come

1965
01:29:40,080 --> 01:29:40,519
Speaker 2: on that one.

1966
01:29:41,200 --> 01:29:47,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, the the infertility stuff, I can only imagine

1967
01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:50,040
Speaker 1: being in their shoes and getting to a point to

1968
01:29:50,040 --> 01:29:51,960
Speaker 1: where you're just like, all right, it's just not going

1969
01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:54,759
Speaker 1: to happen for us. I'm sure those conversations are super heavy.

1970
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure super emotional. I'm sure both sides feel like

1971
01:30:00,240 --> 01:30:01,160
Speaker 1: it's their fault.

1972
01:30:01,200 --> 01:30:01,839
Speaker 2: At times.

1973
01:30:02,720 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 1: Each side probably gets concerned or scared or fear creeps

1974
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:10,040
Speaker 1: in at the other like, Hey, I know you're my teammate.

1975
01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:12,120
Speaker 2: Are we sure we're okay with this? Are you sure

1976
01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:13,080
Speaker 2: you're okay with this?

1977
01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:15,800
Speaker 1: I know you want to fail, like you know those

1978
01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:19,320
Speaker 1: conversations that I'm just assuming they're having those conversations.

1979
01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:20,320
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that they are.

1980
01:30:22,080 --> 01:30:26,200
Speaker 1: Well, I'm sure that's very that's that's very difficult. And Anna,

1981
01:30:26,320 --> 01:30:28,800
Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you for writing in. George, shout out

1982
01:30:28,800 --> 01:30:30,400
Speaker 1: you for listening to Bus with the Boys, shout out

1983
01:30:30,439 --> 01:30:31,599
Speaker 1: for listening before the Dads.

1984
01:30:32,320 --> 01:30:34,479
Speaker 2: I'm glad you love this podcast.

1985
01:30:36,080 --> 01:30:40,720
Speaker 3: I will say this because I haven't talked to them.

1986
01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:44,799
Speaker 3: I need to. But I had a couple of friends

1987
01:30:44,800 --> 01:30:48,759
Speaker 3: that I've brought up to you outside of the pod before,

1988
01:30:50,040 --> 01:30:53,000
Speaker 3: and yeah, they had been trying for a while and

1989
01:30:54,080 --> 01:30:56,840
Speaker 3: like a very long time, and they just found out

1990
01:30:57,000 --> 01:31:02,280
Speaker 3: that they're pregnant. And it like getting to see that

1991
01:31:03,240 --> 01:31:10,680
Speaker 3: desire like firsthand, and like knowing how much they wanted it.

1992
01:31:10,680 --> 01:31:13,719
Speaker 3: It just makes comments like that like hit so much harder.

1993
01:31:14,360 --> 01:31:19,960
Speaker 3: And so it was George and Anissa correct Jordan's and

1994
01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:25,200
Speaker 3: Aissa apologies. Yeah, just so much love goes out to

1995
01:31:25,240 --> 01:31:30,320
Speaker 3: you guys, especially around the holidays, and y'all just sound

1996
01:31:30,439 --> 01:31:35,840
Speaker 3: like incredible people. Y'all sound like you have a great

1997
01:31:35,920 --> 01:31:40,400
Speaker 3: view and great optics on your life and just planning

1998
01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:45,200
Speaker 3: your family and loving others well. And we're really really

1999
01:31:45,280 --> 01:31:48,479
Speaker 3: lucky that there are people like that in this world

2000
01:31:49,240 --> 01:31:55,479
Speaker 3: and are deserving and I wish more than anything, uh

2001
01:31:55,560 --> 01:31:59,280
Speaker 3: that you know, maybe one day, but gosh, y'all are

2002
01:31:59,320 --> 01:32:03,120
Speaker 3: so deserving. You sound incredibly delightful.

2003
01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:07,080
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And how lucky are those nieces and nephews

2004
01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:10,360
Speaker 1: or they have Like again, it's so easy to write

2005
01:32:10,360 --> 01:32:12,919
Speaker 1: it down that we pour into our nieces and nephews.

2006
01:32:12,920 --> 01:32:15,639
Speaker 1: If they do that, they do do that, them doing

2007
01:32:15,720 --> 01:32:19,680
Speaker 1: that intentionally knowing all the probably pain, anger, fear that

2008
01:32:19,720 --> 01:32:23,599
Speaker 1: they've had throughout the entire process. And to have that

2009
01:32:23,680 --> 01:32:26,280
Speaker 1: perspective when going into the room around your nieces and

2010
01:32:26,360 --> 01:32:30,160
Speaker 1: nephews and not having like an envy or jealousy which

2011
01:32:30,200 --> 01:32:33,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure creeps up at times, like we're all human. Yeah,

2012
01:32:34,000 --> 01:32:36,840
Speaker 1: and just to know like that stuff to side, because hey,

2013
01:32:37,040 --> 01:32:39,040
Speaker 1: this is how we are going to get to do

2014
01:32:39,080 --> 01:32:41,519
Speaker 1: this is by pouring into our cat, pouring into our

2015
01:32:41,560 --> 01:32:43,000
Speaker 1: nieces and nephews.

2016
01:32:43,320 --> 01:32:45,400
Speaker 2: Like you said, they sound like wonderful people.

2017
01:32:45,720 --> 01:32:48,719
Speaker 3: That's the luckiest cat in North America. I can probably

2018
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:49,639
Speaker 3: be lucky.

2019
01:32:49,640 --> 01:32:50,919
Speaker 2: He's getting North America.

2020
01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:54,400
Speaker 3: Man, that thing is getting some belly scratches out the wazoo.

2021
01:32:54,800 --> 01:32:57,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, But thank you for writing in Anessa. We

2022
01:32:57,760 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 2: love you, guys.

2023
01:32:58,360 --> 01:33:02,000
Speaker 1: We appreciate your k Smith's Happy holidays.

2024
01:33:01,920 --> 01:33:05,200
Speaker 3: Happy Honuicah, have at Gwanda. All of it, man, all

2025
01:33:05,240 --> 01:33:05,760
Speaker 3: of it man.

2026
01:33:06,680 --> 01:33:08,120
Speaker 2: The only person to quote.

2027
01:33:08,640 --> 01:33:11,080
Speaker 1: Anything I got for you guys this week is just

2028
01:33:11,439 --> 01:33:12,799
Speaker 1: what I said in the very beginning.

2029
01:33:13,640 --> 01:33:15,800
Speaker 2: Joy over stress again.

2030
01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:18,320
Speaker 1: There's a lot of families out there where they have

2031
01:33:18,439 --> 01:33:21,240
Speaker 1: families visiting. You're going to visit, you're traveling with kids,

2032
01:33:21,280 --> 01:33:24,280
Speaker 1: you're hosting a lot of whatever it is. There's gonna

2033
01:33:24,280 --> 01:33:27,080
Speaker 1: be families out there that probably don't have anybody coming over.

2034
01:33:27,120 --> 01:33:30,960
Speaker 1: It might just be them, and things will feel very stressed.

2035
01:33:30,960 --> 01:33:33,240
Speaker 2: So things can feel very stressful on the holidays.

2036
01:33:33,240 --> 01:33:36,439
Speaker 1: Myself, I lost my mom right before Christmas four years ago,

2037
01:33:36,800 --> 01:33:39,800
Speaker 1: So Christmas time to me, I adore Christmas. I love

2038
01:33:39,960 --> 01:33:41,840
Speaker 1: everything that we're about to do and about to get

2039
01:33:41,840 --> 01:33:44,280
Speaker 1: to and I always have those fleeting thoughts of this

2040
01:33:44,439 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 1: time and the way I felt four years ago around Christmas.

2041
01:33:47,760 --> 01:33:48,639
Speaker 2: To the holiday season.

2042
01:33:49,880 --> 01:33:53,639
Speaker 1: So there's a lot of stress that can easily pour

2043
01:33:53,720 --> 01:33:56,240
Speaker 1: into your mind and body, like when holiday season is coming,

2044
01:33:56,320 --> 01:33:58,599
Speaker 1: especially the day of when your kids are shredding presence.

2045
01:33:58,640 --> 01:34:00,920
Speaker 1: They're doing this, Oh, we want to the dinner first,

2046
01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:03,360
Speaker 1: we should eat breakfast before we do breath. There's gonna

2047
01:34:03,360 --> 01:34:05,160
Speaker 1: be chaos all over the place. Kids are gonna want

2048
01:34:05,200 --> 01:34:06,560
Speaker 1: to play with their toys, and not do what you

2049
01:34:06,640 --> 01:34:11,440
Speaker 1: thought you had planned, but just choose joy over stress.

2050
01:34:11,760 --> 01:34:14,120
Speaker 1: That would be my biggest That is what I'm thinking

2051
01:34:14,120 --> 01:34:16,520
Speaker 1: as we go in because as this week was unwinding

2052
01:34:16,560 --> 01:34:18,640
Speaker 1: on me now, I felt behind the eight ball with

2053
01:34:19,360 --> 01:34:22,320
Speaker 1: busting and the rub being sick, and then you know,

2054
01:34:22,439 --> 01:34:24,479
Speaker 1: getting back from traveling and being gone in New York

2055
01:34:24,520 --> 01:34:26,360
Speaker 1: for a few days to trying to get back in it.

2056
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:27,840
Speaker 1: It's hard to get back in it. Your little one

2057
01:34:27,880 --> 01:34:30,280
Speaker 1: gets sick, the charl and Scotty, the other ones get sick,

2058
01:34:30,520 --> 01:34:32,639
Speaker 1: tower House is sick. Hey, we might not be able

2059
01:34:32,680 --> 01:34:34,040
Speaker 1: to do for the dad say, I don't think I

2060
01:34:34,040 --> 01:34:35,840
Speaker 1: could shoot show up to the locker room like all

2061
01:34:35,880 --> 01:34:37,960
Speaker 1: the things where it's like my parents are coming.

2062
01:34:38,040 --> 01:34:41,040
Speaker 2: Damn, I forgot to get gifts for a few different people.

2063
01:34:41,320 --> 01:34:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm doing all this last minute stuff to where it

2064
01:34:43,320 --> 01:34:46,639
Speaker 1: just feels stressful at times, and I'm just the approach

2065
01:34:46,680 --> 01:34:49,479
Speaker 1: that I'm thinking of now is brother, choose joy over stress,

2066
01:34:49,560 --> 01:34:51,200
Speaker 1: Like these are the moments you want, these are the

2067
01:34:51,200 --> 01:34:52,000
Speaker 1: moments you've looked for.

2068
01:34:53,520 --> 01:34:58,599
Speaker 3: I could not retweet you harder. That's my exact message.

2069
01:34:59,320 --> 01:35:04,320
Speaker 3: I had a thing written out, but basically it breaks

2070
01:35:04,360 --> 01:35:06,840
Speaker 3: down to I think the only Christmas where I really

2071
01:35:06,880 --> 01:35:11,080
Speaker 3: remember gifts was when we got our Nintendo sixty four

2072
01:35:11,560 --> 01:35:17,760
Speaker 3: and I got my hands on GoldenEye and Hockey. Your boy.

2073
01:35:17,800 --> 01:35:22,200
Speaker 3: Will never forget bawling my eyes out and fighting and

2074
01:35:22,200 --> 01:35:25,400
Speaker 3: crying with my brother. That's Will's age four years older

2075
01:35:25,439 --> 01:35:29,160
Speaker 3: than me, as he was saying all the video games

2076
01:35:29,160 --> 01:35:31,400
Speaker 3: that were the good ones, those were all his. But

2077
01:35:31,640 --> 01:35:34,240
Speaker 3: I could have Mario Kart, but he got to have

2078
01:35:34,280 --> 01:35:35,759
Speaker 3: all the big boy video games.

2079
01:35:36,479 --> 01:35:40,400
Speaker 2: But same with Second Genesis. I'll always remember open up

2080
01:35:40,400 --> 01:35:41,360
Speaker 2: a Second Genesis.

2081
01:35:41,439 --> 01:35:44,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, dude, Oh yeah, it's always.

2082
01:35:44,040 --> 01:35:47,000
Speaker 2: A video game console. Outside of that, Yeah, you go on,

2083
01:35:47,080 --> 01:35:47,639
Speaker 2: you continue.

2084
01:35:47,720 --> 01:35:52,559
Speaker 3: Well, just all that being said, like gifts, I feel

2085
01:35:52,640 --> 01:35:56,120
Speaker 3: like that's kind of the overarching Everybody always says, hey,

2086
01:35:56,120 --> 01:35:59,400
Speaker 3: it's not about the gifts, But what I would go

2087
01:35:59,439 --> 01:36:02,280
Speaker 3: a step for there is I feel like my family

2088
01:36:02,320 --> 01:36:05,360
Speaker 3: did a really good job of making memories on Christmas

2089
01:36:05,439 --> 01:36:09,200
Speaker 3: Day or the days around it, of we would go

2090
01:36:09,280 --> 01:36:13,240
Speaker 3: on jeep rides with my aunt. She fixed up old

2091
01:36:13,280 --> 01:36:16,439
Speaker 3: jeeps and we would go with the top down. She

2092
01:36:16,840 --> 01:36:19,200
Speaker 3: lives in Tallahassee, and we'd go on these jeep rides

2093
01:36:19,240 --> 01:36:21,880
Speaker 3: like around Christmas ay, and I remember like being wrapped

2094
01:36:21,880 --> 01:36:24,320
Speaker 3: in the blankets, like in the back of her jeep

2095
01:36:24,400 --> 01:36:26,240
Speaker 3: with all of us like crammed in there, and like

2096
01:36:26,320 --> 01:36:31,080
Speaker 3: giggling and blasting Christmas music and my grandmother being in

2097
01:36:31,120 --> 01:36:38,360
Speaker 3: there and going horseback riding, going we did a bike

2098
01:36:38,479 --> 01:36:40,719
Speaker 3: ride on a nature trail one year. Like we would

2099
01:36:40,720 --> 01:36:44,040
Speaker 3: always do these activities, and like that's what I think

2100
01:36:44,080 --> 01:36:47,639
Speaker 3: of whenever I think of Christmas. It's like those really

2101
01:36:47,640 --> 01:36:49,920
Speaker 3: fun activities that we would do. And so I would

2102
01:36:49,960 --> 01:36:52,599
Speaker 3: just say to any pt sixers, empty six ers looking

2103
01:36:52,600 --> 01:36:56,680
Speaker 3: to create magic, planned some kind of fun little adventure

2104
01:36:57,320 --> 01:37:00,960
Speaker 3: to do on Christmas Day or around Chris Smith's, those

2105
01:37:00,960 --> 01:37:03,040
Speaker 3: are the memories that the kids are gonna.

2106
01:37:02,840 --> 01:37:07,439
Speaker 1: Remember Well, said bro Well said even those moments too,

2107
01:37:07,640 --> 01:37:11,080
Speaker 1: like where it's like it's not about gifts, people are right,

2108
01:37:11,120 --> 01:37:14,800
Speaker 1: but also think about the moment around opening a gift

2109
01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:17,000
Speaker 1: that you were wanting or expecting or whatever.

2110
01:37:17,000 --> 01:37:17,320
Speaker 7: It is.

2111
01:37:18,960 --> 01:37:21,599
Speaker 1: Excitement that your parents are we like, as parents are

2112
01:37:21,640 --> 01:37:25,400
Speaker 1: going to pour in when those moments are happening that

2113
01:37:25,479 --> 01:37:26,839
Speaker 1: they will remember.

2114
01:37:26,880 --> 01:37:28,439
Speaker 2: It's like, all right, dude, I remember being so.

2115
01:37:28,479 --> 01:37:31,080
Speaker 1: Fired up, saying Genesis, my dad was fired up for me,

2116
01:37:31,200 --> 01:37:33,760
Speaker 1: my mom was fired up for me brother.

2117
01:37:33,840 --> 01:37:35,360
Speaker 2: You're sitting there kind of like, oh is this ours

2118
01:37:35,439 --> 01:37:36,040
Speaker 2: or is this mine?

2119
01:37:36,080 --> 01:37:37,720
Speaker 1: You know, you're kind of going back and forth there,

2120
01:37:37,760 --> 01:37:41,679
Speaker 1: But just the environment and moment around the gift opening

2121
01:37:42,600 --> 01:37:45,880
Speaker 1: is uh, dude, it's special. I'm excited we got we

2122
01:37:45,960 --> 01:37:48,759
Speaker 1: got Rue. Can't tell her U can't listen to the podcast,

2123
01:37:48,760 --> 01:37:51,360
Speaker 1: but we got her. She wanted two things. She wanted

2124
01:37:51,400 --> 01:37:55,640
Speaker 1: a bike, and she wanted, for whatever reason, she wanted binoculars.

2125
01:37:57,720 --> 01:38:00,639
Speaker 1: So so we got her a bike. I'm so fired

2126
01:38:00,720 --> 01:38:03,040
Speaker 1: up for her to see her bike. Oh and then

2127
01:38:03,080 --> 01:38:06,240
Speaker 1: the binoculars, Like I'm I'm just excited to see what

2128
01:38:06,320 --> 01:38:08,559
Speaker 1: her reaction is going to because I'm thinking it's crazy

2129
01:38:08,600 --> 01:38:09,520
Speaker 1: she wants binoculars.

2130
01:38:09,520 --> 01:38:11,719
Speaker 2: But hey, that's what you told saying you wanted.

2131
01:38:12,080 --> 01:38:14,639
Speaker 3: You know what the lesson of the week of Rue

2132
01:38:14,800 --> 01:38:18,240
Speaker 3: is this week is that girl knows what she wants

2133
01:38:18,960 --> 01:38:20,639
Speaker 3: and I can admire that.

2134
01:38:20,920 --> 01:38:23,080
Speaker 4: Hey will, Yeah, you know what you need to do?

2135
01:38:23,800 --> 01:38:27,439
Speaker 5: Have your the old trick of hide it somewhere else.

2136
01:38:27,479 --> 01:38:29,920
Speaker 5: That's not like around the tree, get all the gifts

2137
01:38:29,960 --> 01:38:33,280
Speaker 5: done you Christmas is over. Yeah, you hit her with

2138
01:38:33,320 --> 01:38:36,880
Speaker 5: the Hey the rider, Rue, can you can you go out?

2139
01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:38,599
Speaker 5: We need to go to the garage to grab something.

2140
01:38:38,640 --> 01:38:42,040
Speaker 5: You hide it somewhere like away. It's the smoking mirrors,

2141
01:38:42,080 --> 01:38:43,960
Speaker 5: it's a it's a great play.

2142
01:38:44,120 --> 01:38:47,759
Speaker 3: Hey, it's the Red Rider. Be begun real real quick.

2143
01:38:48,120 --> 01:38:51,920
Speaker 3: Shout out the Christmas. My parents got me a dirt bike.

2144
01:38:52,040 --> 01:38:54,840
Speaker 3: First off, my parents were so fucking awesome now that

2145
01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:57,439
Speaker 3: I like think back to the gifts. I had a

2146
01:38:57,439 --> 01:38:59,320
Speaker 3: go cart and a dirt bike because we lived out

2147
01:38:59,320 --> 01:39:00,559
Speaker 3: in the cornt And country.

2148
01:39:02,200 --> 01:39:04,280
Speaker 2: Will any boys that had a go car?

2149
01:39:04,400 --> 01:39:04,599
Speaker 1: Bro?

2150
01:39:04,960 --> 01:39:05,320
Speaker 6: Oh?

2151
01:39:05,400 --> 01:39:07,760
Speaker 3: Boys, I'm telling you. And we lived like in this

2152
01:39:07,880 --> 01:39:12,240
Speaker 3: big abandoned creek bed, like I mean ripping through there.

2153
01:39:13,439 --> 01:39:17,400
Speaker 3: Y'all would have loved hanging out my place. But uh yeah.

2154
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:21,840
Speaker 3: They had the dirt bike hiding at our neighbor's house

2155
01:39:22,320 --> 01:39:25,519
Speaker 3: for like a week, and the neighbors came and rolled

2156
01:39:25,560 --> 01:39:26,519
Speaker 3: it into the garage.

2157
01:39:26,600 --> 01:39:26,840
Speaker 2: Dude.

2158
01:39:26,920 --> 01:39:31,719
Speaker 3: The magic of them us going outside and the garage

2159
01:39:31,720 --> 01:39:34,240
Speaker 3: door opening and my dad who clicked that, Hey, what's

2160
01:39:34,280 --> 01:39:38,040
Speaker 3: going on? The garage door opening? What is that? What's

2161
01:39:38,040 --> 01:39:41,360
Speaker 3: that right there? Oh my god, I was staring that

2162
01:39:41,479 --> 01:39:44,920
Speaker 3: dirt bike down, like, bro, there is so much magic

2163
01:39:44,960 --> 01:39:45,679
Speaker 3: and gift giving.

2164
01:39:46,040 --> 01:39:47,800
Speaker 2: That's so there is there is.

2165
01:39:49,760 --> 01:39:52,960
Speaker 1: I can't wait, man, dude, every year. I don't know

2166
01:39:52,960 --> 01:39:55,360
Speaker 1: if I said this last week or not, but every

2167
01:39:55,439 --> 01:39:58,000
Speaker 1: year it would be you know, my mom, no matter

2168
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Speaker 1: what the Christmas story had to be on.

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Speaker 2: Did I say that last week?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes, TNT Marathon, Baby Marathon, The.

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01:40:05,760 --> 01:40:08,240
Speaker 2: Red Rider be begun? What's that? What's what's that over there?

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01:40:10,160 --> 01:40:10,479
Speaker 6: It up?

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01:40:10,520 --> 01:40:12,559
Speaker 2: That's the scene, that's the moment, that's.

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01:40:12,439 --> 01:40:15,720
Speaker 4: The I forget when. But my dad did that to me.

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01:40:15,880 --> 01:40:18,599
Speaker 5: I think it was with a bike where he was like, hey,

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01:40:18,640 --> 01:40:21,040
Speaker 5: you need to go grab this out of the out

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01:40:21,040 --> 01:40:23,519
Speaker 5: of the fridge out in the garage, and I went

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01:40:23,560 --> 01:40:25,559
Speaker 5: out there and he pulled there was something like that

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01:40:25,600 --> 01:40:26,920
Speaker 5: where he pulled a double look.

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01:40:26,760 --> 01:40:29,160
Speaker 4: On me, and it's as a kid, it's like the

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01:40:29,200 --> 01:40:29,880
Speaker 4: best thing ever.

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01:40:30,200 --> 01:40:31,759
Speaker 6: It's oh yeah, because.

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01:40:31,520 --> 01:40:33,080
Speaker 5: You're a little down, you've been asking for it for

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01:40:33,120 --> 01:40:35,760
Speaker 5: like four months. Oh yeah, dude, God I could, I could?

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01:40:35,800 --> 01:40:37,559
Speaker 5: You could get everything else off the tree. If it's

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01:40:37,560 --> 01:40:39,880
Speaker 5: just this one thing, you get rid of it all.

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01:40:39,960 --> 01:40:42,320
Speaker 5: And then you're in Christmas and it's like you're grateful,

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01:40:42,360 --> 01:40:46,160
Speaker 5: of course, because you're you know, got all these awesome gifts.

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01:40:46,160 --> 01:40:48,280
Speaker 4: But then it's like the switch in and you're like,

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01:40:48,320 --> 01:40:50,280
Speaker 4: oh my god, this might be the best fucking Christmas.

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01:40:50,320 --> 01:40:53,360
Speaker 3: Hey, last Dad hack, last Dad hack, And I meant

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01:40:53,360 --> 01:40:57,160
Speaker 3: to say this. My dad and mom were crazy good

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01:40:57,160 --> 01:41:00,679
Speaker 3: at the Santa stuff. One year we were getting a puppy,

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01:41:00,720 --> 01:41:04,240
Speaker 3: but we had to pick up the puppy from the breeders.

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01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:06,880
Speaker 3: And so the way that my dad was able to

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01:41:07,400 --> 01:41:09,719
Speaker 3: trick us and make it into like a really great

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01:41:09,760 --> 01:41:12,320
Speaker 3: surprise is that we were going to go run an

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01:41:12,439 --> 01:41:14,920
Speaker 3: errand and we were out running the errand in his car.

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01:41:15,040 --> 01:41:17,519
Speaker 3: He rolled down the window because he had to spit

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01:41:17,600 --> 01:41:20,799
Speaker 3: out the window and he had a note from Santa

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01:41:21,240 --> 01:41:24,719
Speaker 3: that he did a little sneaky whoop and it flew

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01:41:24,760 --> 01:41:28,639
Speaker 3: back into the back. Didn't say a word. So Jordan

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01:41:28,760 --> 01:41:31,519
Speaker 3: and I, my brother, go, what was that that just

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01:41:31,680 --> 01:41:33,719
Speaker 3: flew in my dad's Like, what are you talking about?

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01:41:34,160 --> 01:41:37,200
Speaker 3: It's a letter from Santa saying go to this address,

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01:41:38,040 --> 01:41:41,640
Speaker 3: I have this gift for you. Like that, you know,

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01:41:41,720 --> 01:41:44,240
Speaker 3: I want you to bro It was a move of

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01:41:44,320 --> 01:41:47,639
Speaker 3: the century. I thought until I was twelve years old

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01:41:47,640 --> 01:41:50,280
Speaker 3: that Santa magically made that note fly into our car.

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01:41:51,200 --> 01:41:52,800
Speaker 2: Yo. I love that.

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01:41:53,400 --> 01:41:55,759
Speaker 3: Such a move, for sure, such a move.

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01:41:56,960 --> 01:41:59,400
Speaker 2: I love that, dude. That is a great move.

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01:41:59,560 --> 01:42:02,479
Speaker 3: Good dude, and you just let the kids kind of,

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01:42:02,840 --> 01:42:04,719
Speaker 3: you know, fill in all the blanks.

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Speaker 1: Know when you're young too and your mom gets you

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01:42:06,760 --> 01:42:08,639
Speaker 1: like stud you know. I don't know if your guys

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01:42:08,680 --> 01:42:11,280
Speaker 1: experience did this, but like whether it be in a

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01:42:11,320 --> 01:42:14,320
Speaker 1: gift or in my stocking and be like a pack

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01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:16,519
Speaker 1: of underwear or a pack of socks.

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01:42:16,680 --> 01:42:18,720
Speaker 2: And I was just like, what is this hadn't been

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01:42:18,760 --> 01:42:22,800
Speaker 2: on any of my lists. I've written Santa Claus, some

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01:42:23,000 --> 01:42:25,160
Speaker 2: like Fruit of the Loom or Hanes Underwear.

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01:42:25,240 --> 01:42:28,000
Speaker 5: I'm just like, look that this isn't the trampoline, the

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01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:29,000
Speaker 5: full size trampoline.

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01:42:29,080 --> 01:42:33,120
Speaker 3: I at that was the that was the benefit of

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01:42:33,200 --> 01:42:36,559
Speaker 3: having miss Amy as my mom and just the goofy, fun,

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01:42:36,720 --> 01:42:39,959
Speaker 3: creative artist brain that she had of like our stocking

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01:42:40,000 --> 01:42:44,439
Speaker 3: gifts every year were that underwear socks, you know, just

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01:42:44,479 --> 01:42:48,479
Speaker 3: like like essentials, Yeah, essentials, but she would always get

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01:42:48,600 --> 01:42:53,519
Speaker 3: just the weirdest, quirkiest fuzzy socks or this type of

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01:42:53,560 --> 01:42:57,479
Speaker 3: funny underwear and dah dah dah, and like that's that's

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01:42:57,479 --> 01:43:00,120
Speaker 3: a nice little dad hack for anybody out there. You know,

2233
01:43:00,280 --> 01:43:02,640
Speaker 3: get the socks to get the underwear, for sure, but

2234
01:43:02,880 --> 01:43:05,960
Speaker 3: like you can get fun and creative with it, and

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01:43:07,120 --> 01:43:09,640
Speaker 3: I always have thought it was so funny. Like just

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01:43:09,680 --> 01:43:12,080
Speaker 3: the little stocking stuffers my mom would get were just

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01:43:12,160 --> 01:43:15,559
Speaker 3: like where do you even find this stuff? It wasn't

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01:43:15,600 --> 01:43:17,920
Speaker 3: like it was expensive or nicer thing. It was just

2239
01:43:18,000 --> 01:43:21,960
Speaker 3: like where did you actually get? Yeah, it was like

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Speaker 3: the air mall. What was that called on airplanes back

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01:43:25,720 --> 01:43:29,559
Speaker 3: in the day, you know, the little magazines and the

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01:43:29,720 --> 01:43:32,280
Speaker 3: airplanes that would have like the Harry Potter WANs and

2243
01:43:32,320 --> 01:43:36,120
Speaker 3: all those. I would say, I stopped seeing a sky mall.

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01:43:36,400 --> 01:43:38,040
Speaker 3: Sky mall, that's what it was called. It was in

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01:43:38,080 --> 01:43:41,000
Speaker 3: the back of your airplane seat. You would pull out

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01:43:41,040 --> 01:43:46,800
Speaker 3: the sky mall magazine and oh brother, you were probably

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01:43:46,840 --> 01:43:49,960
Speaker 3: from ages eight to sixteen.

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01:43:50,280 --> 01:43:51,240
Speaker 2: I bet got she was.

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01:43:51,720 --> 01:43:54,719
Speaker 1: I never got a I never rode a plane until

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Speaker 1: after my senior year high school.

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01:43:58,680 --> 01:44:00,320
Speaker 3: Oh for nebrassa guy.

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01:44:00,960 --> 01:44:04,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, essentially, my first plane ride ever was when I

2253
01:44:04,520 --> 01:44:08,040
Speaker 1: went to the like Offense Defense High School All American

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01:44:08,080 --> 01:44:12,120
Speaker 1: Game in January of two thousand of two thousand and eight.

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Speaker 2: That was my first time and I flew by myself.

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01:44:15,880 --> 01:44:20,200
Speaker 3: And was that chartered? Like was that flight for the players?

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01:44:21,120 --> 01:44:23,280
Speaker 1: No? No, no, no, no, They're like I got picked to

2258
01:44:23,320 --> 01:44:23,840
Speaker 1: go to the game.

2259
01:44:23,960 --> 01:44:26,080
Speaker 2: So I we driveled the Saint Louis Airport.

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01:44:26,560 --> 01:44:29,960
Speaker 1: I get on the flight, probably Southwest fly down to Miami.

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01:44:30,200 --> 01:44:33,240
Speaker 2: Got it first time flying solo doo too.

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01:44:33,840 --> 01:44:37,559
Speaker 3: Did you feel like just such an adult, such a groan,

2263
01:44:37,800 --> 01:44:39,000
Speaker 3: like an adult nervous?

2264
01:44:39,160 --> 01:44:41,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, because was my first plane. You know what I mean?

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01:44:41,520 --> 01:44:43,519
Speaker 1: Like you, it's not like my mom could go past

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01:44:43,560 --> 01:44:44,880
Speaker 1: security and everything else with me.

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01:44:46,200 --> 01:44:48,439
Speaker 2: And now you're nervous, like, oh, okay, I can't miss

2268
01:44:48,439 --> 01:44:48,720
Speaker 2: this flight.

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01:44:48,800 --> 01:44:51,080
Speaker 1: I figure out what all these letters and numbers mean

2270
01:44:51,200 --> 01:44:52,240
Speaker 1: getting to the gate.

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01:44:54,439 --> 01:45:03,360
Speaker 3: And that Christmas in New y jungle something, it's something.

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01:45:03,920 --> 01:45:08,080
Speaker 2: None and you can't too. All right, boys, we got it, roll.

2273
01:45:08,560 --> 01:45:10,679
Speaker 3: Get out of here. Hey day, Thank you for making

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01:45:10,720 --> 01:45:11,200
Speaker 3: this happen.

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01:45:11,640 --> 01:45:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely shut up.

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01:45:12,680 --> 01:45:16,800
Speaker 1: Off a team sixty guys, girls, everybody, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays.

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01:45:16,800 --> 01:45:19,280
Speaker 1: We love you, we appreciate you. Are we gonna see

2278
01:45:19,320 --> 01:45:20,759
Speaker 1: him next week? Or is next week like a best

2279
01:45:20,760 --> 01:45:23,519
Speaker 1: of best best of episode?

2280
01:45:23,560 --> 01:45:25,880
Speaker 2: Next week? It's been a phenomenal year.

2281
01:45:26,000 --> 01:45:28,920
Speaker 1: Let's start getting right for the new year's New Year's resolutions.

2282
01:45:28,960 --> 01:45:31,360
Speaker 1: I feel like just a piece of.

2283
01:45:31,400 --> 01:45:31,920
Speaker 2: Work, dude.

2284
01:45:31,960 --> 01:45:34,080
Speaker 1: I gotta really look at myself in the mirror but

2285
01:45:34,360 --> 01:45:34,960
Speaker 1: happy eyes.

2286
01:45:35,000 --> 01:45:37,120
Speaker 2: Merry Christmas. I hope you guys have a wonderful holiday.

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01:45:37,600 --> 01:45:40,760
Speaker 1: And uh yeah, take out the trash, clean up all

2288
01:45:40,800 --> 01:45:41,599
Speaker 1: the wrapping paper.

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01:45:42,000 --> 01:45:44,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, clean up all the wrapping paper. Good