1 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, how are you? 2 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 2: I heard gorgeous, and I thought you were. 3 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: Talking about I was talking to all my stunning listeners. 4 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: That is also true. 5 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: Have you seen some of the listeners? Have you seen 6 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: most of the listeners? 7 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I get follows from the good listeners, and. 8 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone's slapping. Everyone's been working on their summer bods. 9 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: One of the cringiest moments of all my time on 10 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: reality TV what when I drunkenly walked up to the 11 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: group and said, I can see that some of us 12 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: have not been working on our summer bodies. Yes, horrendous 13 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: wind loser. Maybe it's gotta be said, And that's why 14 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: we're approaching seven years of sobriety, one day at a time, 15 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: still fucking up, But it's fine. 16 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: Tomorrow, we'll drink tomorrow. 17 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: What did you say the other day? 18 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: Oh that blew my mind? 19 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: What always happened? 20 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 3: What always happens but never, or what's always coming but 21 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: never happens? 22 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: Tomorrow tomorrow. Easton attempted to make a bracelet that said tomorrow, 23 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:19,960 Speaker 1: but it was a little too big on the wrist, 24 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: so we we narrowed it down to an acronym of 25 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: TMR W. 26 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 2: And now it's not enough letters. 27 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: Now it's way too small. 28 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 2: So we just added some skulls. 29 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: Used a bead that was an M instead of a W. 30 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: So now I can't get that Levine song out of 31 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 1: my head where she's like tomorrowum is a different day. 32 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, it doesn't even look like a W. 33 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: O okay for me? All right, you're right, it didn't 34 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,279 Speaker 2: look like a W. But I was searching. 35 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 3: We had to take it that far, a little aggressive, 36 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 3: but I'll take it. But the bag, I thought, like, 37 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: you know, I looked through I couldn't find a W. 38 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: I was like, maybe the ms you just flip upside down? 39 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: No, absolutely not. It was I found a double in 40 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: a matter of seconds. Just don't be a man to 41 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: do any job. 42 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: It's because I got it to the top. 43 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: So I could not believe how many people have been 44 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: obsessed with Love Island this season. I heard last season 45 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: was incredible, but this season, last. 46 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 2: Season tops this season by what I've watched. 47 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: But why last season were they not having these giant 48 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: watch parties. 49 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 2: Because we didn't. America didn't have this much of. 50 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: A say, so walk me through that? What is that? 51 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: So? 52 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 3: Also, I'm new to Love Island pretty much just started 53 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 3: this season because of the Happy Detours podcast that we 54 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 3: have Calvin and I that we've been watching. 55 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: But Calvin Cobb was on on season two, I believe 56 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: of Love Island Island. 57 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 2: He was on the COVID where it was in Vegas, 58 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 2: Sally and he. 59 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: Was easton what he was on the season of the 60 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: guy who I reached out to. 61 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: What's his name? 62 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: I'm not outing him. 63 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: Well, we'll just say it and we'll bleep it, but 64 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 3: I want to know because I think I think his 65 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 3: name was. 66 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 2: From what I've seen. 67 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 3: It was voting at the end when it was like 68 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 3: the four couples or the three whatever they get to, 69 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 3: and this season was like you could vote, like we 70 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 3: voted to keep a Landry and Nick like both of 71 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 3: them were voted off. 72 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: Back in the day, that would have been a thing. 73 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: They would have been gone. 74 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 2: They would have been gone. 75 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 3: But because they wanted America and all of this to 76 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 3: be so involved, they were like, if you guys want 77 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 3: to couple up, you guys can go back to the villa. 78 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 2: But if you don't, then you have to go home. 79 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: So it's like so basically you have to like someone 80 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: that you don't even like really. 81 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, to keep going on. 82 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 3: So people loved Nick and Landria together, so we pretty 83 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 3: much just voted them as a crew and they got second. 84 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 3: So we got them second. It wasn't even based off 85 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 3: of them liking each other. Even to the final round. 86 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: What do they get? 87 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 2: I think like one hundred and fifty grand or one 88 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 2: hundred grand, all. 89 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: Right, and with taxes they take hash yeah, so but. 90 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 3: I mean all you get a lot of followers and 91 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 3: a lot of opportunity. 92 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: That's worth a lot, that's worth a ton. 93 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 3: I think it wasn't authentic because we were forcing people 94 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 3: into relationships when that relationship wasn't authentic, when like we 95 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 3: saw real, like. 96 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: Real authentic relationships and they would give voted off, they 97 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,799 Speaker 1: would give voted off or like pressed into a different 98 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: you know. So it was mostly based on like the individual. 99 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 3: It was hunger games for all of us to just 100 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 3: like throw them on an island and just say we 101 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,679 Speaker 3: will have them do this now, let's make the weather 102 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 3: this way, let's do this hunger gameish of like how 103 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 3: can we have more of a say? And that's why 104 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 3: these watch parties started going because because. 105 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: You would vote start time, yes, genius. 106 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 3: And then you would vote with your friends, so you 107 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 3: were like, well who are you going to vote for? 108 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 3: And then you had a conversation of why. So it 109 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 3: is fun, but it's like back to my point of Bravo. 110 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 3: Sometimes you give people too much say and this is 111 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 3: where it happens. 112 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 2: This is what happens. 113 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 3: Okay, you know, like I mean, people are getting death 114 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 3: threats from that show. 115 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 2: They never had to put a like a. 116 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 3: Disclosures clear of like please do not cyber bully, do not. 117 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: They put that on. 118 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 3: Put that on the show because Huda is getting them. Venna, 119 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 3: this the pretty girl who had nothing to do other 120 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 3: than just to go show face is now getting called 121 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 3: like real things. 122 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 2: Like even her mom is like stay off the internet. 123 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: And she's beautiful understanding. 124 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing that people to be because we're 125 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 2: giving them a say. 126 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: So now they think that no, but that's Easton. It 127 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: is normal for people to have a say. That is, 128 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: we have voices, we should always use them. But and 129 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 1: it's happening on the valley now too. Like anytime someone 130 00:05:56,160 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: enters this world, this vortex people, it gives them the 131 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: right to say whatever the fuck they want. 132 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: That's why I brought Bravo into it when. 133 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: It's productive, please sound off. I literally posted a clip 134 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,799 Speaker 1: of our Q and a bonus that we did last 135 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: week and my hot take on the Valley, and I 136 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: asked people in the comments section on the Give Them 137 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: Lalla pod page, how do we feel about this season 138 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: of the Valley? Please make your comments productive. I don't 139 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: need to see these like hateful, venomously want you. 140 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 3: To a certain person about the thing as as a whole, 141 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 3: Like I just don't like the way it's vibing, the 142 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 3: way people are getting along, not just outing somebody. 143 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: I don't love that this person always goes below the belt. 144 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: Productive love it, but it is wild out there right now. 145 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: It's it's so intense that it's really really shitty that 146 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: there's so many times where I look at my kids 147 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm just so happy right now. I'm 148 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: in my bubble. I'm not really out there like that. 149 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: And then I remember, oh shit, I have to be 150 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: out there like that because I have bills to pay 151 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: and I always wanted to be an entertainment So I 152 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: have to be on Instagram. I have to you know, 153 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: be here. I have to maintain a level of relevance. 154 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: To where people are commenting and interacting. I no longer 155 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: have the luxury to be like I'm going to delete 156 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: my Instagram. I just want to like be a mom 157 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: and make lunches because that's where I feel peaceful. I 158 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: and then it dawns on me. We have bills to pay. 159 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, so. 160 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: It's just a different I don't know when it switched 161 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: to where people have so much hate in them to 162 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: just spew everywhere, and in the same breath they're saying, 163 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: so someone needs to get therapy. They're watching someone on 164 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: TV saying they need therapy, and then rage commenting. 165 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 3: I'm like the one thing thinking mirror that Calvin said 166 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 3: that actually stuck and like he said his like his 167 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: was nowhere near this, but like he was saying, it's 168 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 3: nice that, like it was nice to be able to 169 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 3: do what he did without having the people have a say. 170 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: That's all. 171 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: It was like you were living in authentic moments. You 172 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: weren't living for Oh, I want the vote, so I 173 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: need to it's more calculated. 174 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to, you know, curate this relationship with 175 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 3: this person because I actually like them. No one has 176 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 3: a say when we get to the final people get 177 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 3: to say who they liked best of the relationship, who 178 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 3: was actually authentic sore. 179 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: Now it's like you're just voting for. 180 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 3: The person you just like best, which is fine, but 181 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 3: it's not the couple like Huda is, Like I I 182 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 3: like Huda just to let everybody else know. I think 183 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 3: she's great. She's authentically her. She's nuts in her own 184 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 3: you know, in her own love. 185 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 2: And that's the other thing. People are like, why is 186 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 2: so many people? 187 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 3: It's like because hood is a crash out, and everybody 188 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 3: loves to watch a crash out. 189 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 2: We all love to. 190 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 3: See an accident, right rubber necking, and hooda is a 191 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 3: walking accident. 192 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 2: We love to see it. 193 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: Oh relatable. 194 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: But that's the thing. I mean, I'm a walking accident. 195 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 1: You're a people who are walking accidents. And I love 196 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: people who cannot help but to be anything but themselves. 197 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 2: But that's the thing, Like, it's she's just her. 198 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 3: But now people are like calming death threats, this and that, 199 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 3: and it's like, calm down, We've given you too much. 200 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 2: Say let's take that. 201 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 3: Away, abused, Like America's got talent, there's where we need 202 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 3: your voices. 203 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: You know, that's a bummer that I'm hearing that because 204 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: I really wanted the. 205 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 2: Bonus theme to be summer fling. 206 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, like kind of like love islandy like summer fleeings 207 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: or like was it a fail or like very like Greece. 208 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: You know where they're all singing, Tell me more, tell 209 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: me I hear a about it all. 210 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: Let me hear about because they're all twenty three twenty four. 211 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: They should call it voters Island. 212 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 2: They should call it the Hunger Island. 213 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: They should call it the Vote. 214 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 3: The vote there it is, yeah, because like here's the thing. 215 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 3: You could have the best relationship with Doug, okay, and 216 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 3: it's real authentic. 217 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: You like you, I love Doug, Doug and I are 218 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: you get married? 219 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: You are planning children? 220 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 3: Okay, But Ricky over here, people are like Law and 221 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 3: Ricky need to be together. We need to vote that together. No, 222 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 3: you and Ricky you're just friends. You like Ricky playing 223 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 3: the women. You don't need to be played. You and 224 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 3: Doug are doing fine. 225 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: Okay. 226 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 3: The vote puts you a Doug or with Ricky because 227 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 3: everybody wants to see you and Ricky because you're a 228 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 3: great one. 229 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 2: So that forces you into Ricky. 230 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 3: Now, you and Doug, your authenticity of who you guys 231 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 3: are in a is separated. 232 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: So maybe the show should be called the Arrangement. 233 00:10:55,440 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 3: The arrangement we're getting somewhere, so we're getting somewhere. 234 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 2: But honestly, I don't like Love Island. 235 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 3: Ah, well, you're the only one know. There's a couple 236 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 3: of normies like me. 237 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't like secondhand embarrassment, and I don't. 238 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: Like you should never watch reality TV. 239 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 3: No, No, that's why when you're like you. 240 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: Have to watch other people. I've had it for my 241 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: own self, you. 242 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: Know, I get it. When I get it for somebody else, 243 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 3: it's almost worse than it is for me because I 244 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 3: feel so bad for you. 245 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 2: But when it happens to me, I'm like, I don't care, 246 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 2: shake it off, shake it off this. I can't watch it, 247 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:38,359 Speaker 2: and like, oh, it's so just cringey. 248 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 3: Some of the conversations they have with these women. I'm 249 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 3: telling you, turn it off. 250 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: Cringey for I watch anybody have to have like conversations 251 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: with their unless they've been together for like years on act, 252 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: anybody just meeting like even for me, I'm like, you're 253 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: not gonna film me going out to like meet somebody. No, 254 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: I don't know how to do that with cameras are 255 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: on me. Now you want to film me doing it? 256 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 2: What? I yes, could you have? 257 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 3: I can't even imagine going on a date and being like, oh, 258 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 3: and by the way it's filmed. 259 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 2: I'd be like, I can't wait to not say me 260 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 2: and I had to do a date. The hatfish. 261 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: He hatfish. Mom told me the and I'm not going 262 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: to out him. Mom told me the other day, you 263 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: have to watch this episode of Watch Happens Live because 264 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 1: I saw a guy on there that's really cute and 265 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 1: I think you'd be into it. So I'm watching and 266 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 1: I pause it and I immediately get on Instagram and 267 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: he's always in a hat, and I was like, it's 268 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: not happening because there was a guy that did. 269 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 3: You see him without a hat? Though this gentleman was 270 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 3: on wal now you haven't even seen him. 271 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 1: Without a hat never he had a hat on. He 272 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: had a hat on his He wears a hat on. 273 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 3: His show We Need Did you look up just like 274 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 3: on Google like hat out. 275 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: Of hat, hats, hats, hats hats and you know Dad 276 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: was weird like that too, And then he shaved his 277 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: whole head and I was like you're a fucking star. 278 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 3: Dad. Dad is kind of like Joe, who's Joe Nick 279 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 3: and Joe. Joe says he looks terrible in hats and 280 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 3: he won't wear him. Dad hated wearing hats. Oh if 281 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 3: I was just a bit older, I could have helped 282 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 3: you out. 283 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: Oh you helped him. You're the one that told him 284 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: to shave his head and he did and he looked 285 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: so good. 286 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 2: He What a man? 287 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: What a man? What a man? Do you have a 288 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:44,320 Speaker 1: summer fling or summer fail? We're all wrapped up in one. 289 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a fling and fail if it 290 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: doesn't work. 291 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 3: Fling, Yeah, I mean a fling is always a fail. 292 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: I mean fling, isn't that. 293 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: I think a fling just means like it's supposed to be, 294 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: like this is for right now. 295 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I had a couple, but. 296 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: I mean you just know, you know, no, because I'm 297 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: not a man, I get emotionally attached. 298 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 3: Oh see, like I only had like two summer flings 299 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 3: where it was like but we actually talked. She was 300 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 3: like we were just chatting and she was like, Hey, 301 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 3: I don't want anything, but it would be fun to 302 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 3: do this. 303 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 2: Would you be an interest. 304 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 3: So I was like, yh yeah, you know we did 305 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 3: it and even like once it like became winter and 306 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 3: I respect her. 307 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 2: I didn't catch feelings. 308 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 3: She was great, but after like it was getting come 309 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 3: like cuddle season, you know, like this, Yeah, the pumpkin 310 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 3: spice was coming out. 311 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: And she was like, hey, made it into the fall. 312 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 3: Well almost, we were going in there and that's when 313 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 3: she was like, hey, this is where like I kind 314 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 3: of needed to be away. I catch feelings because of NA. 315 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 3: She was like, so we're done. I was like, all right, 316 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 3: sounds good. 317 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: Still chatting and still. 318 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: Talk emotionally intelligent human. 319 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 2: No, she had her shit together. That was the last. 320 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 1: Fling, So of course, why would you ever want to 321 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: commit to her. She's emotionally stable, has her shit together. 322 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 2: We don't want that. 323 00:14:57,760 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 3: Well, let's put it this way. If she liked me, 324 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 3: she would have been like, let's try this out. 325 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: But she said she catches feelings, so like you're. 326 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 2: Indy, he knew if she kind of liked me, should she. 327 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: Let the ball into your court and you dropped it? 328 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: You want to hear my summer fling. 329 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 2: Never had one. 330 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: That's absolutely untrue. I'm going to use two of the 331 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: most recents because they kind of overlapped and fizzled both 332 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 1: of them very quickly. The first one he was amazing introduced, 333 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 1: so I guess for me, for him, it was probably 334 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: a summer fling. For me, it was like, oh, this 335 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: could like potentially go somewhere. He we had met in 336 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 1: the fall, and he somewhat I want to say, he 337 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: loved bombed me. And I met him through a friend 338 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: of mine, and I remember going to New York and 339 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: I had been talking to a basketball player who now 340 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: was living in New York, right, and he was texting 341 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: me this guy will call him Bruce, call him Marvin. 342 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: I like Marvin butter Marvin. Marvin was texting me like 343 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: love bombing me. I saw him the night before I 344 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: left for New York, and I was super giddy because 345 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 1: I was going to New York to see this other 346 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: guy we'll call him Trey. So I'm so proud of 347 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: Marvin sends me this like love letter and I'm like, wow, 348 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: this is like a little strong, but because me, I'm 349 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: used to love bombers, and I think that that's intimate 350 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: and cute rather than red flag, I'm like, oh my gosh, 351 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: I like him and he's like six or five, built, 352 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: incredibly well, not urpy. He has tattoos everywhere, like totally 353 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: my type. So hot. So I get back to LA 354 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: to see him after I hang with Trey, and I'm like, 355 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: I think that, like this is someone I really am into. 356 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: He ends up like just falling off the face of 357 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: the earth, like sends me one really cute text one night. 358 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: I text him the next day responding because I go 359 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: to bed at nine, responding never here for him again, 360 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 1: you guys gone. I thought he died. I called my friend. 361 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: I was like, yo, dude, like, is Marvin good? She 362 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, he's fine. We shaw him like last weekend. 363 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:14,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, piece of shit. While summer rolls around and 364 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 1: Marvin reappears and I'm thrilled about it. I'm thrilled about it. 365 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:22,479 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, Marvin's back. I'm super hyped. 366 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 1: We hang out, We do all of the things that 367 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: people do, and we're like going out together. So it's 368 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: not like we're just kicking it at someone's house. We're 369 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 1: seeing each. 370 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,919 Speaker 2: Other and you're seen by people out and about. Correct. 371 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: He's coming with my friends, I'm going with his There's 372 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 1: a night in August, Okay, And he says to me, 373 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: I would like you to start staying the night, like 374 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: when you don't have your daughter and she's with her dad, Like, 375 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:57,400 Speaker 1: could you start staying the night. And I said to him, 376 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: I don't love that. I yeah, because I get attached, 377 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: so that makes me nervous. Never heard from him again, 378 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: Never heard from him again. He's gone, gone, wiped off 379 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: the face of the earth. I don't fucking know. 380 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 2: He's out of La Law's world. He's out of law Lawland. 381 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:25,959 Speaker 1: He certainly is cut to this tray guy. He invites 382 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:30,679 Speaker 1: me out to a bar. I have to do other things. 383 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: I'm working while I'm in New York. And I tell 384 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: him I'm going to go grab dinner with some girlfriends 385 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: and then I'll let you know where I'm at. He says, 386 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:43,880 Speaker 1: I'm coming. I'm going home from this bar. Just meet 387 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,160 Speaker 1: me at my house. So I go to the house. 388 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm on my way there and he's we're texting on 389 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,880 Speaker 1: the way there, and he says, where did you tell 390 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: your friends you were going. I said, I told my 391 00:18:56,920 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: friends I was coming to kick it with you. He 392 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: lost He didn't lose his mind, but he was like, 393 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 1: you know I don't like my business out there like that. 394 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 1: I call him on the phone. I'm in the uber 395 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: on the way there right. I say, here's the fucking deal, bro, 396 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: I need you to understand. You're not Lebron James. No 397 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: one gives one fuck about you. I'm not Kim Kardashian. 398 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 1: No one gives a fuck about me. If someone were 399 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: to see the two of us out, no one would 400 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,919 Speaker 1: think a thing about it, and my friends certainly wouldn't 401 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: think a thing about it. So I arrive outside his 402 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: door and he was like, you're here. I'm gonna come 403 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 1: down and grab you and we can talk about it. 404 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not coming in. I've actually just 405 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: rebooked this uber to take me back to the city 406 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: brow So I leave. I want to see if I 407 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 1: still have this text, because if I do, I want 408 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: to read it to you. Because I was so fucking 409 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 1: proud of myself, I may have deleted it. Uugh Hudson, 410 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:02,439 Speaker 1: that's not his name. I just used that word. I 411 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: basically told this fool. I said, here's the deal about 412 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: last night. I need to get this off my chest. 413 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: The reason I told my friends I was going with 414 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: you was number one it's not a big deal. I 415 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: told people what I was going to do. Number two, 416 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: I don't know you. Let's just say you choose to 417 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: murder me. I dumped my body in the Hudson. I'm 418 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: going to need my friends to be able to tell 419 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 1: the police. The last person I was with Bro and 420 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,639 Speaker 1: then I never spoke to him again. He was like, 421 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,360 Speaker 1: I would never hurt you, and I was like, well, 422 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: you hurt my heart. 423 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 2: I would never hurt you, said Freddy Krueger. Fuck. 424 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: Those are my most recent summer flings. 425 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, those are tip top notch. Did we get any 426 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 3: from the listeners? 427 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 1: Oh? I got two really funny ones from the listeners. 428 00:20:53,760 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: Sorry, I forgot about him. It was that one question. 429 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: No, but I posted this and most people are just 430 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 1: asking random questions like what being like, what's what's your 431 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: worst summer fleeing. I'm like, oh, this is about for 432 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: you guys, is how's your eye? I'm like, I'm looking 433 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 1: for summer flings. So this one from kluts and a 434 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: half one oh one says I was in a relationship 435 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,360 Speaker 1: for most of my end of high school slash undergraduate 436 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 1: college time. The year I turned twenty one, my birthday 437 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: was Memorial Day weekend. Hey. 438 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 2: Same. 439 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: So I was kicking off my first single summer in 440 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 1: a very long time as a twenty one year old. 441 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 1: I met this adorable guy, very handsome. We met each 442 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: other at a few parties through my very good friend. 443 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 1: I went on one date with him. We walked to 444 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 1: the Brooklyn Bridge, we went to a park, we went 445 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 1: to a delicious pizzeria. It was like a fairy tale day. 446 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 1: We went back to his apartment and had the longest, 447 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: most silent, horrible sex I've ever had in my life. 448 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 1: It was so quiet you could hear people walking in 449 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: the halls in the apartment building and people talking outside. 450 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 1: Big summer fail. Flash forward five years and he's finally 451 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: out as gay. So mystery saw. 452 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 2: I was just about to say. Five years later, we 453 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 2: named our kid Frank and. 454 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:22,360 Speaker 1: Coming back from quiet intimacy pet well unless unless you're 455 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 1: watching like a show or like, you know. 456 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 3: What, I'm doing this to see if I like it, 457 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 3: And in the middle of it, he's. 458 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: Like, what, I don't like it. I don't like it. 459 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 2: I don't like it at all, like crying, He's like, 460 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:35,880 Speaker 2: poor guy. 461 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 1: PS met my husband at the end of this summer 462 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,200 Speaker 1: and We're married seven years with two beautiful baby girls. 463 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 2: Oh congrats. 464 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 1: So her summer fail ended up being a marriage the 465 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:52,160 Speaker 1: like brightest future of her life, she said, husband, right, Yeah, 466 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: they've been married. 467 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 2: I know. 468 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: Malcaurri Connor told me his ex was crazy, kicked her 469 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: out of the house, got her pregnant as we were dating. 470 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 3: Sorry for laughing, that's just like I. 471 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 2: Got kidding you. So many people deserve reality TV shows. 472 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, That's what I'm saying. 473 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: Though, I'm like, hold on, everyone is so judgmental in 474 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,719 Speaker 1: the comments section, and I'm like, bitch, if I were 475 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: to put a camera, you would make fabulous TV and 476 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: we would all be commenting on how fucked up your 477 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: situation is. 478 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 3: Well, that's the other thing. It's like, yeah, throwing rocks 479 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 3: at your glasshouse. 480 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: We're all living in glasshouses, talking rocks, shattering our own 481 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,360 Speaker 1: damn houses. It's like, when are we gonna learn. 482 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 2: Just a bunch of hypocrites we are? I know It's fine. 483 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 1: Though, my listeners and friends, fan base, my hoace, my pod, 484 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: I have never seen any of them go into a 485 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 1: comment section and lift me up while dragging someone else down. 486 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 1: Where I have so many people who are fans of 487 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: other people, and they'll tear me down to build someone 488 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: else up. And my my homies have never like I've 489 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: never seen that. They're like totally normal and chill. Yeah, 490 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: And a lot of people are close with their moms. 491 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,400 Speaker 2: I like that we love our mom. 492 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: I love when someone comes up to me and they're like, 493 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: my mom loves you. 494 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 3: Also, one thing that I have to say on this 495 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 3: podcast because I've had it the last couple of days. 496 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 2: Or past couple of weeks. 497 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 3: Okay, when you guys see this beautiful lady my sister out, 498 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 3: please do not be afraid because people you'll like it 499 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 3: was a time where we were ordering like Wetzel's pretzels 500 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:44,719 Speaker 3: and then like another food from a different place, and 501 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 3: like you order and like you go back and you 502 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 3: take the stuff to the kids, and like every time 503 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 3: they're like, I just want to tell you how much 504 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 3: I love her. And it's like, tell her it's really 505 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 3: if you are listening to this, tell her. She likes 506 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 3: to hear it just as much as I like hearing 507 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,959 Speaker 3: it about her, So that is I do. I was like, 508 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 3: both of us. 509 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 1: Like it's really good. 510 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 3: They were like, well, I just feel like and I'm like, no, 511 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 3: like she she loves it. 512 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 2: She wants it, so yes, because you don't tell me 513 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 2: you don't like it, you love it. Well, No, it 514 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 2: feels great. 515 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: Of course it feels great, especially because I feel like 516 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 1: the past few years, my safest space is just in 517 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 1: my little bubble. So when I kind of go out 518 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: and I'm seen, it's very vulnerable for me. I don't 519 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: want to say I've lost my confidence, but it has 520 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 1: been dinged. 521 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,439 Speaker 2: Here's the thing. You haven't lost it. You just have 522 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 2: a child under one. 523 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 3: Let's put it that way, Like you'll you'll figure like 524 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 3: you're gonna get all that. 525 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 2: That what you think you've lost, You haven't lost it. 526 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 2: You're just a. 527 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 3: Mother to a nine ten month old. Yeah, and once 528 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 3: you get there. You did it with Ocean, you'll do 529 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 3: it with her. 530 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:50,640 Speaker 2: You just mode. Yes. 531 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: But I used to be able to put on armor 532 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 1: when I would go out into the real world or 533 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: enter Instagram or TikTok. It was like I was and 534 00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 1: like different. I don't want to say a different person, 535 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 1: but it was like something that happened subconsciously where I 536 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: was like, I'm tough, this is who I portray out here, can. 537 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 2: I see that's what you're gonna hit again. 538 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 1: You're gonna just well, see, I don't know since having SOSA, 539 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: and it could be postpartum hormones, it could be PTSD 540 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: from you know, the last time I was on TV. 541 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 1: Whatever the case. The line is, so it's non existent 542 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: now like me at home and who I go out 543 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: into the world as feel very uh one and the same. 544 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 1: I feel like I have zero protector And in a way, 545 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: I feel like that's another reason why, like even like 546 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: summer fleeings, dating, the whole thing, it's like, you know what, 547 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: we're just good right now. We're good in our piece, 548 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 1: We're good in our safe space, and I'm gonna know. 549 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna feel it when it's right and it's not trauma, 550 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: it's not any of those things. We've talked about this 551 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: a million one times. I feel like it's all we've 552 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 1: been talking about for the past two years, four years. 553 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to know when the time is right to 554 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: re enter that world. 555 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,880 Speaker 3: And exactly, And that's where I'm saying, like you feel 556 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 3: this way now, yeah, but subconsciously, there's just going to 557 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 3: be a turn and you'll it's going to happen. And 558 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 3: right now, you just got a nine and ten month old? 559 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 2: What is she. 560 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 1: Ten months? 561 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,879 Speaker 3: So that right there is where I'm like, Okay, of 562 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 3: course your armor's down. You're very protective of her, You're 563 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 3: very you know, even you are quieter around her. 564 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 2: Your armor is off when you're with her. Yeah, will 565 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 2: come back up when things start to change, when she 566 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 2: gets a little older. Yeah, you know. Yes. And that's 567 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 2: where I know you'll get it because I saw it 568 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:45,919 Speaker 2: with Ocean. 569 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, Ocean is a magical being. 570 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,679 Speaker 2: She I could cry right now just thinking of her. 571 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: She's magical and I adorse so so when people ask 572 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 1: me what's the biggest difference between Ocean and So? Ocean 573 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: is an old soul. Now she hasn't fully tapped out. 574 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 1: She's gonna come back a few more times. But she's 575 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 1: been here before, Sosa. 576 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 2: Brand new me and her brand new. 577 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 1: Brand new. She's like looking at everything like she's never 578 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: been here in her whole life. The way she will squeal, 579 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,959 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you've never heard a voice before. 580 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:29,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's crazy. It's so crazy how different they are 581 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 3: but the same. Yeah, very different. 582 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 2: And I can't wait for like So said, to hit 583 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 2: like one and a half too. 584 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 3: I know that freaks you out, but like for her 585 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 3: to just start waddling and stuff. 586 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 1: I'm excited for that. 587 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I yeah, I'm do ocean is boy energy though, 588 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 3: I know. 589 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: But can I tell you you'd be like, hey, I would. 590 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 2: Jump off these stairs with me when she's one and 591 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: a half. 592 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: No, that's why I'm carpeting the stairs tomorrow. I am 593 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: getting them carpeted tomorrow. Because of that. I looked into this. 594 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: I was h with a friend of mine and she 595 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 1: goes off of like the the Chinese like gender calendar, 596 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 1: and I told her, I said, next May is when 597 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 1: I would like to start trying to get pregnant. She goes, 598 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 1: if you do conceive in May, you'll have a boy, 599 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: and she goes every single person that I have done 600 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 1: this with, like, wouldn't was said to be a girl during? 601 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: What is it? 602 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 2: Would if you got May, wouldn't it be February? Yeah? 603 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: I had to count on my fingers. 604 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 2: Before, don't worry. I was counting on the side of. 605 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 1: The couch and I was I'm like, maybe I do. 606 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm okay with a boy. 607 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 3: You know, I'll have kids myself. I know that, but 608 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 3: I for you, would love for you to have a boy. 609 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: And then we would call it a day. 610 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 611 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just would love for you to have a boy, 612 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 3: because I think the structure of like the family would 613 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 3: be really well balanced the youngest boy. Like, yes, the 614 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 3: sisters put him in check like Sosa and Ocean, you know, yeah, 615 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 3: put him in check. But like when there is danger, 616 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 3: that is the dude putting. 617 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 2: Everything else in check. 618 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 3: Yes, you know, And I think that's really good. Like 619 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 3: I love our relationship of like you're the older sister. 620 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 2: I love that dynamic. But like when she gets real 621 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 2: for mom and you like I do step up. 622 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 3: Of course she knows it, you know, But like the 623 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 3: being the youngest, I do, and I feel like it's 624 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 3: good for Like I don't know if I would like 625 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 3: to be the youngest sister, but when you're a brother 626 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 3: and you're the youngest, kind of you totally you know. Yeah, 627 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 3: he'll grow up a bit quicker. Yes, in my opinion, yep, yeah, 628 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 3: I think a boy would be very good for you. 629 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: All Right, Well, let's see if the Chinese calendar were 630 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: and I would. 631 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 2: Love to be will be Yeah, another little nephew, Yeah. 632 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: That would be sweet. Back to summer flings. This will 633 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: be my last one. This was like not a podcast. It. 634 00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 2: I feel like I've just been alban. 635 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: Summer Tangents, Samantha two a's one two two. Wish I 636 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: was sexcapading, haven't had sex in four years? Ready to 637 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 1: hot back on one. I'm twenty four. I find that. 638 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 2: Twenty four and she hasn't had sex and help, but 639 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 2: she was twenty good for you? I think that could. 640 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I just think that that sounds smart. 641 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 2: No, it is. 642 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's basically freaking deal. 643 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 3: And I hate to maybe say it, but like, even 644 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 3: if she goes and has sex, she's gonna be so 645 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 3: disappointed if it's not somebody she's. 646 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 2: Actually interested in. 647 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,120 Speaker 3: You have waited so long that you have to find 648 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 3: somebody you actually are emotionally attached to. 649 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 2: Like enough, yeah, yeah, Like if I. 650 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: Were just like I've got it, I got it, that's 651 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 1: what things not men, and I don't want it. 652 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 2: I think that's the other thing. 653 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 3: Like as a man, like I couldn't just be like, 654 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 3: there's fifteen girls right here, I just gotta pick. 655 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 2: One and have sex. 656 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 3: I'd be like, no, let me have like some sort 657 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 3: of relationship with you. 658 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, let me get to know conversation. 659 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 1: She just sounds like a very mature twenty four year old. 660 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 1: And some people will maybe say that's not healthy, she 661 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 1: needs to do this. 662 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 2: I think it's too healthy and too healthy? Is too great? 663 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: Too healthy? Too great? 664 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 2: Wow? I love that when people are like that's too healthy. 665 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, sorry, but is that even a real thing? 666 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 1: Because I hear about these people. They're like Steve was, 667 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 1: you know, so active, he ran five miles a day, 668 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,480 Speaker 1: was a biker, had a heart attack and died. And 669 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: then I'm looking at this ninety seven year old and 670 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: all she does twenty packs a day and SIPs whiskey, 671 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 1: and I see that what is your Yeah, stress, any 672 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 1: type of stress will kill you before anything else. 673 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 3: But like they're like, so what do you what do 674 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 3: you contribute to living this long term? 675 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 2: They're like the grandma's like. 676 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 3: I have a package hanger atte to day, whiskey in 677 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 3: the morning, bacon. 678 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 2: It's like, how the fuck are you alive? 679 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 3: How are you one hundred and three? I know my 680 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 3: arm's popping out of my socket. I have a piece 681 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 3: of meat. I am on the toilet for six weeks. 682 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: Christy Brinkley attributes her fabulous look she's in her seventies 683 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,959 Speaker 1: now to not eating meat since she was a child, 684 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I just don't buy anything. We're all 685 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: just you can sit out. 686 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 2: You got lucky, bitch, that's what you did. 687 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 1: I don't think you can call Christy Brinkley a bitch. 688 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 2: You got lucky, sweetheart. 689 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 1: Yes, much better. 690 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 3: Well that's the other thing. It's like, I know people 691 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 3: who like Mom. I hate to say it. Mom doesn't 692 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 3: eat meat. She doesn't like to. No, Mom needs meat 693 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 3: at least once a week. 694 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, what does this bonus even about. I don't know. 695 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 2: We're on a tangent of life. I hope you guys 696 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 2: are enjoying it, though, because I sure. 697 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 1: Am Happy Monday. We're just putting all of the thoughts 698 00:33:54,960 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 1: we've had all weekend into the jar and detour. Yeah right, 699 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 1: you guys, Thank you for listening to another bonus episode 700 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 1: of Then Give Them Lalla podcast. Thanks for contributing to 701 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 1: the actual topic. Make sure you catch Esin's new podcast 702 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 1: with Calvin Cobb called Happy Detours. When does it come out? Tea? 703 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 3: We got the first episode up, and we've got a couple. 704 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:18,799 Speaker 2: We've got two episodes up. 705 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 1: Okay, mondays can you catch new episodes? 706 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: We were going to release every Monday. 707 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: Every Monday, but make sure you hit the bonus first 708 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 1: and they give them Lalla pod. I love you guys. 709 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: Will catch you on Wednesday for a normal episode and 710 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 1: back again on Monday. B