WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: There's Something About Maya

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<v Speaker 1>You found it at the home of the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>we actually are a full radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>I know rio and we are talking on it and

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<v Speaker 1>we do a brand new full hour episode every day

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<v Speaker 1>on our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>And we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like

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<v Speaker 1>relationship drama. We're kind of experts on it, and we

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot of other segments, including this one awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily always a romantic relationship with these.

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<v Speaker 2>It was always awkward and tricky.

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<v Speaker 1>So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call

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<v Speaker 1>on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>Totally.

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<v Speaker 2>It starts right now.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys, ever feel like if there's one person in

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<v Speaker 4>the world who you truly connect with and you just

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<v Speaker 4>think man timings all off, but they could have really

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<v Speaker 4>been my soulmate. Is it ever too late to finally

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<v Speaker 4>tell someone how you feel.

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<v Speaker 5>No, never.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a real question. I mean, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of variables here, but.

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<v Speaker 4>You think it's okay for love, bro it's always okay.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Jose get ready because we're gonna call Brook's

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<v Speaker 4>mom here so you can.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know they're still married.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well it can be more awkward than I thought that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm getting the popcorn. So Brooke, be quiet because you're

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<v Speaker 4>about to get a new stepdaddy, ladies, vitamins.

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<v Speaker 5>Be a good friend, Brook.

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<v Speaker 4>I need your support here.

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<v Speaker 2>I really like her. Okay, Stepdaddy, Oh this is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, don't talk back to me, all right. And while

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<v Speaker 4>we're doing that, one of our listeners wants to call

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<v Speaker 4>a girl that he's had a secret crush on for

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<v Speaker 4>the last three years. Yeah, your mom is quite popular

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<v Speaker 4>around here, so we're gonna find doubt and he's going

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<v Speaker 4>to tell her exactly how he feels. And we do

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<v Speaker 4>a brand new awkward Tuesday phone call a Well, we'll see.

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<v Speaker 2>I just got a text from my mom. She is excited.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we're going to do it next.

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<v Speaker 5>It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>How far are you willing to go to make love happen?

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<v Speaker 4>You're willing to go five feet ten feet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just when you emphasize make love instead of make

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<v Speaker 1>love happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Came off like my mind was some Okay, now we're

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<v Speaker 2>back to make club happened.

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<v Speaker 4>I would go up thousand. Would you go across the pond?

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<v Speaker 5>Make absolutely?

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<v Speaker 4>Some of our listeners have met people over in Europe

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<v Speaker 4>and they say, I'm gonna fly over there and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to spend my whole life savings and meet him,

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<v Speaker 4>and then they end up on the loser line a

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<v Speaker 4>couple days later.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, yeah, wasn't really big Ben.

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<v Speaker 4>But one of our listeners, Carter, is willing to put

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<v Speaker 4>everything at stake. You can even ask a bunch of

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<v Speaker 4>dumb radio people for help just to make love happen

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<v Speaker 4>for him.

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<v Speaker 2>I love love. Let's do this.

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<v Speaker 4>This is probably the worst decision of your life. But

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<v Speaker 4>welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, let's okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, vot a confidence right from the beginning. Yeah, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited to hear about this.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, tell us about the situation that you're in and

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<v Speaker 4>why you're reaching out to us.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I feel really guilty honestly. Uh oh oh

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<v Speaker 3>even yeah, even doing this. But it's like it's something

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<v Speaker 3>that's eaten, eating away at me. And I hope you

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<v Speaker 3>guys can help.

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<v Speaker 1>Love shouldn't make you feel those things, guilt, shame, like

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<v Speaker 1>they're starting in a dark place.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it gets better. Okay, So you have any of

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<v Speaker 3>you ever had like a crush on your friend's significant other?

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<v Speaker 6>Was attracted to me, but I never ever heard, I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know about friends.

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<v Speaker 4>If you say coworkers, you might have a weird answer

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<v Speaker 4>from Brooks.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a crush on you, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's a messy situation though.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I mean I have a friend Eric. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>we're not like best friends. You know, we don't really

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<v Speaker 3>we don't hang out one on one. We've known each

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<v Speaker 3>other for a long time. We daft last week, if

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<v Speaker 3>that means anything. Yeah, you know you have like we

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<v Speaker 3>have a handshake.

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<v Speaker 4>Handshake Oh yeah, okay, close enough to but not any closer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like you're a smoker, that's where regard to all Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So he's like he's like a buddy who hangs out

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<v Speaker 1>in the group of your friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's one of the Yeah, he's one of the groups.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, gotcha.

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<v Speaker 3>His girlfriend Maya, I'm in I'm head over heels for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Whooa, that's a big statement.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you know her just through him?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's the crazy part is we all met Like

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<v Speaker 3>I met her at the same party, the same time,

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<v Speaker 3>three years ago, and he beat me to the punch basically.

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<v Speaker 3>Then it was just like, oh my god, So then

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<v Speaker 3>I have enough yer whenever the friends get together and

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<v Speaker 3>stuff and brutal.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that makes it.

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<v Speaker 6>That makes it sound better. It's still not a good thing,

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<v Speaker 6>but it makes sound like, yeah, I've known him for

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<v Speaker 6>years and.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I'm forming a crush.

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<v Speaker 6>You all meant at the same time, same party, and

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<v Speaker 6>he just kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Peeps to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So for three years, I mean, you met this woman,

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<v Speaker 1>and now you've gotten to know her, and your feelings

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing have only deepened.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you're saying, Way way deepened?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like I am smitten.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man, those are strong words.

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<v Speaker 3>And here we are a few weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess what they got engaged?

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<v Speaker 3>No, they broke up.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh way better, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Way better.

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<v Speaker 3>I know. I know it's great news, but it's also

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<v Speaker 3>terrifying news because this is why I'm calling you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I mean, it's I'm going to try

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<v Speaker 3>to do something, but I wanted to know what you

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<v Speaker 3>guys think about. What I was thinking I should do

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<v Speaker 3>is talk to Maya first and just see if there's interest,

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<v Speaker 3>because maybe we don't even have to get Eric involved.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm kind of yeah. I don't like confrontation, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not great talking to females or males.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you I mean, do you know was it a

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<v Speaker 1>messy breakup or was it just like, hey, we tried

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<v Speaker 1>this for three years, it's just not gonna work.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know much about it. I know that happened.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually does that make a difference.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think so, because if like Eric cheated on

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<v Speaker 1>her or like did something terrible like that to end

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship, then I don't think Eric gets a say anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's my opinion. It's like you screwed that up,

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<v Speaker 1>bad man.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's kind of strange that you haven't asked

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<v Speaker 4>your buddy about it first. That seems like as a friend,

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<v Speaker 4>you asked your you always ask your friend first. Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>do you mind if I move in on your ex?

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<v Speaker 2>I get why you'd want to avoid doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think he has a good point to call

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<v Speaker 1>her first before he even brings it up with Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like getting a new job, right, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily need to tell your old job until.

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<v Speaker 2>You know for sure the new job wants.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I was thinking it's exactly what my thoughts were.

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<v Speaker 3>That like, if there's no reason to get Eric involved,

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<v Speaker 3>if this isn't gonna happen, then that'd be good to know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you have obviously known Maya for at least three years. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>what's the vibe between you two? Has there ever been

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<v Speaker 4>any connection there? Or have you always been really discanting?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? That's the thing that's crazy is that there's been

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<v Speaker 3>so many group settings where we've ended up just in

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<v Speaker 3>a corner talking to each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Any anything more than that, I hope not.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no, we've never done anything. But I tell you, like,

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<v Speaker 3>Eric will be off doing a cake stand or something

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<v Speaker 3>and we're off talking together. So it's like it seems

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<v Speaker 3>like there's some flirtation.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you two dap romantic sap?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 2>OK, So we're going to call her.

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<v Speaker 4>So now we're calling Maya.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, I guess so.

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<v Speaker 2>And then next week we call Eric.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, I guess first we have to hear what

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<v Speaker 4>Maya has to say. Is that's true, We're going to

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<v Speaker 4>play a song. We'll come back. We'll give you a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit of advice on what to do and actually

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<v Speaker 4>probably not to do. Yeah, we'll probably, but we'll come

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<v Speaker 4>back and we'll let you do your awkwad Tuesday phone

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<v Speaker 4>call right after this. All right, awesome, all right, hold on.

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<v Speaker 5>Oay, it's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>Navigating this situation is going to be a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>challenging because not only are there land mines everywhere, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>but there are friendships at stake here, Like if you

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<v Speaker 4>say the wrong thing, if you focus on the X

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<v Speaker 4>for too long, or you seem super thirsty, like I've

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<v Speaker 4>watched and waited for you for the past years. Now

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<v Speaker 4>that you're available, I'd like to smell your hair this time,

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<v Speaker 4>when you're awake.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the vibe that he would say it like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, we probably asked have you

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<v Speaker 4>been smelling her hair? Carter? I mean when she's sleeping.

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<v Speaker 3>You want me to answer that honestly?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Now, look man, I don't want it to come

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<v Speaker 4>across like we're painting you as a stalker or a

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<v Speaker 4>weird all. He's a normal guy, just a regular guy

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<v Speaker 4>who's harbored a secret crush for his friend's girlfriend. And

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<v Speaker 4>with that said, let's get some advice from somebody who's

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<v Speaker 4>been there, Brooke in her hometown. There had to be

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<v Speaker 4>some crossover. Take a shot at Brooke. Well, it's easy.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you do, bro I don't disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the thing I think, because especially because you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how her relationship ended with your buddy, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you just don't mention him at all, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>say that, hey, you heard through the grapevine that she's single.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretend he's dead. No, no, okay, pretend the friendship never existed.

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<v Speaker 1>Just pretend like you don't know anything about her past relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>because you really don't.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, don't bring up Eric Jose. What do you think?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I just think in general, moving out of the

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<v Speaker 6>friend zone into like a romantic sense with somebody is

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<v Speaker 6>very difficult. So you need to make her laugh in

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<v Speaker 6>a flirty way.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if you guys have a history together, you

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<v Speaker 4>can look back on a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>That you shared inside Joe.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and that'll bring some familiarity, make it a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit less awkward. Let's give it a shot. Feel ready, Carter,

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<v Speaker 4>Ready as ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Due that can happen is that you're right back to

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<v Speaker 1>where you started, where she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you technically. Worst thing is that it gets over

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<v Speaker 4>to your friend Eric and then don't think about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember we're pretending Eric is dead. Now we're going to

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<v Speaker 4>dial the number. Good luck, we'll be here, ready to

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<v Speaker 4>jump in. You need a little bit of help. Here

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<v Speaker 4>we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hey, Maya, Hey, it's Carter. Hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good? Yeah, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 3>What's up? I was hey? You remember it was a

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<v Speaker 3>long time ago. You remember that party? That party we

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<v Speaker 3>all went to. I think it was about three years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember by the plants. We talked for a while.

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<v Speaker 7>What party was for us?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? It was it was uh, it was the one

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<v Speaker 3>at the at the girl at the girl's house. What

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<v Speaker 3>was the name?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>And Emily and Natalie Katie Katie. Uh, there was something

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<v Speaker 3>like really bad. It's a basic name. You know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about three years ago?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>A party, yeah whatever, I know, it's too I mean

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<v Speaker 3>it was I was just I was just thinking about

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<v Speaker 3>you a lot after that party, you know, because I

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<v Speaker 3>remember that that night you're wearing that dress and there

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<v Speaker 3>you look great. You look so great that night, and

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, you know, I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 3>ever told you that I was thinking. I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't tell you that. I can tell you that. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you anyway. I mean, yeah, so you know, I I

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<v Speaker 3>guess I heard about I heard about you and Eric.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry that.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just I mean just means it just means

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<v Speaker 3>you're single now.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, Yeah, yeah, I guess so cool cool?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I mean it's not cool too. There have

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<v Speaker 3>mean some cool stuff and some not cool stuff about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>This might sound sort of I don't know, uh like quick,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe it's not. Maybe it's not that, but maybe out

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<v Speaker 3>of the blue or something. I don't know. I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>trying to. I'm just trying to. I'm trying to gauge, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so how much I don't know how much is there?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe there's some interest. Maybe it's not interest, but like,

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<v Speaker 3>is there interest going on? You know here? Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>You want you want to gauge my interest in you?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, Like I'm just feeling things out with

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<v Speaker 3>my antennas, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>Hold on, hold on on, Carter, I need you to

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<v Speaker 7>like take a breath. Uh are you asking me out

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<v Speaker 7>right now? Is that what's happening?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. That's a good question, am I.

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<v Speaker 7>Does Eric know that you're doing this?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 7>You know, like he and I dated for like three years,

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<v Speaker 7>and aren't you guys like good friends or something? Isn't

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<v Speaker 7>there like a something?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't say we're good friends. I mean, I you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I I kind of hate him too, like you probably

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<v Speaker 3>hate him now too. I mean we always kind of

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<v Speaker 3>hate him, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Well I don't hate him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean either, I think exactly the same way

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<v Speaker 3>you do about him. I mean probably like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like medium like like not super hate, but like it's

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't know, because it goes up and down

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes I'm like, hold on, hold.

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<v Speaker 7>On, hold on, Carter. Are you single right now?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I I mean I could single pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop so many Hello, Hey, Maya. Hello, Hi, you're on

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<v Speaker 4>the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>We're rescuing you from that car.

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<v Speaker 4>It's more on the radio than you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 7>What is going on? I don't understand what's happening like

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<v Speaker 7>at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he did not do a very good job of

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<v Speaker 1>explaining it, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>We're helping out, Carter. You wanted to have a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit of a strange conversation with you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's had a crush on you and wanted to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you out. But what is this, Carter.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not a huge crush. It doesn't matter very healthy crush.

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<v Speaker 5>Carter.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you single or not? You didn't tell us that piece.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh yeah, I mean I can be. I'm close. We're

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<v Speaker 3>like sort of seeing each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea, Maya. Have you met his maybe maybe not girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't I think so. I know, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>he's been like using the absence stuff and like he's

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<v Speaker 7>brought a couple of girls, but like I haven't really

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<v Speaker 7>like hung out with a group in a couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, like since Eric and I broke up.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't sound that serious to me. Okay, Let's not

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<v Speaker 4>worried about the other people, about Eric and about you know,

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<v Speaker 4>Rando Carter girl, Let's focus on the two of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you surprised to hear some of these things that

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<v Speaker 4>are coming out from Carter right now?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean like a little bit because someone else in

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<v Speaker 7>their friend group literally was doing the same thing to

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<v Speaker 7>me yesterday. Uh, I mean it was Rick, But like,

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<v Speaker 7>come on.

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<v Speaker 1>What a loser, like the worst friend group ever.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe Rick would do that. Rick jumped in

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<v Speaker 3>and block.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, hold on.

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<v Speaker 6>You doesn't know you're, you know, shooting your shop.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say no to then?

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<v Speaker 7>Maya?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Like it all just seems like really fast or

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<v Speaker 7>really weird. And like now that now that Carter's doing this,

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<v Speaker 7>like like is this like a joke? You know what

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<v Speaker 7>I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, is this some no joke?

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<v Speaker 4>And actually we talked to Carter a little bit about

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<v Speaker 4>this before we called you, and it seems like there's

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of genuine feelings there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, a lot more than Rick.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I mean, Carter, you didn't do a very good

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<v Speaker 1>job of explaining your feelings to her.

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<v Speaker 4>I was nervous, Okay, I couldn't tell.

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<v Speaker 5>You.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything you want to tell her now?

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<v Speaker 3>So at that party when we met three years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>Eric and you met, but I also met you that

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<v Speaker 3>day and ever since then, every time I see you,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to hang hang out with you and be

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<v Speaker 3>with you. And I just got so excited that this

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<v Speaker 3>might be my opportunity. And I'm scared that I screwed

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<v Speaker 3>it up. But maybe we can go on one date

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<v Speaker 3>and see if I can't put this back together.

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<v Speaker 7>It was really sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh it's a good start.

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<v Speaker 2>It isn't a good start.

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<v Speaker 7>I does. I'm just feel very confused and caught off

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<v Speaker 7>guard and like I've only been single for three weeks

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<v Speaker 7>and like I think maybe I need, like I need

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<v Speaker 7>like more time away from this group.

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<v Speaker 1>That Yeah, yeah, that's not bad. You know she's not

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<v Speaker 1>saying no forever. She's just saying give her some space

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<v Speaker 1>for right now. I mean, how does that feel to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Carter?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it kind of pisses me off about the Rick thing,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Going for him at least. Rick was fully single when he.

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<v Speaker 4>Asked, I don't want to bring it up, and I

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<v Speaker 4>would challenge Rick to a gentleman's duel if the friendship

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<v Speaker 4>group has done. Then after this airs, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how much is going to be left, but it sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like Carter, she needs a little bit more time to

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<v Speaker 4>just let things marinate and think things over. Are you

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<v Speaker 4>willing to wait, give her like a thirty day grace

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<v Speaker 4>period before you ask again?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I can do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Just keep her away from the rest of your friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>What kind of friend is Rick to Eric asking her

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<v Speaker 3>out like immediately? I waited at least the day.

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<v Speaker 4>Carter, you are a true gentleman. Go back to your

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<v Speaker 4>other girlfriend

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.