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Speaker 1: You found it at the home of the second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and thanks for

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Speaker 1: being here on.

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Speaker 2: The weekend with us in our home.

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Speaker 1: And I know we have a lot of new listeners

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Speaker 1: from all over the world since we've been in the

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Speaker 1: you know, top ten charts of podcasts.

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Speaker 2: Yes, also, which is awesome. And if you don't know,

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Speaker 2: we actually are a full radio show.

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Speaker 1: I know rio and we are talking on it and

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Speaker 1: we do a brand new full hour episode every day

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Speaker 1: on our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: And we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like

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Speaker 1: relationship drama. We're kind of experts on it, and we

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Speaker 1: do a lot of other segments, including this one awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 2: Yes, love it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily always a romantic relationship with these.

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Speaker 2: It was always awkward and tricky.

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Speaker 1: So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 1: on Sunday.

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Speaker 3: Totally.

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Speaker 2: It starts right now.

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Speaker 4: You guys, ever feel like if there's one person in

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Speaker 4: the world who you truly connect with and you just

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Speaker 4: think man timings all off, but they could have really

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Speaker 4: been my soulmate. Is it ever too late to finally

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Speaker 4: tell someone how you feel.

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Speaker 5: No, never.

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Speaker 2: I had a real question. I mean, there's a lot

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Speaker 4: You think it's okay for love, bro it's always okay.

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Speaker 4: All right, Jose get ready because we're gonna call Brook's

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Speaker 4: mom here so you can.

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Speaker 2: I don't know they're still married.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well it can be more awkward than I thought that.

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Speaker 4: I'm getting the popcorn. So Brooke, be quiet because you're

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Speaker 4: about to get a new stepdaddy, ladies, vitamins.

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Speaker 5: Be a good friend, Brook.

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Speaker 4: I need your support here.

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Speaker 2: I really like her. Okay, Stepdaddy, Oh this is beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Okay, don't talk back to me, all right. And while

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Speaker 4: we're doing that, one of our listeners wants to call

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Speaker 4: a girl that he's had a secret crush on for

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Speaker 4: the last three years. Yeah, your mom is quite popular

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Speaker 4: to tell her exactly how he feels. And we do

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Speaker 4: a brand new awkward Tuesday phone call a Well, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: I just got a text from my mom. She is excited.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we're going to do it next.

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Speaker 5: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: How far are you willing to go to make love happen?

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Speaker 4: You're willing to go five feet ten feet.

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Speaker 1: It's just when you emphasize make love instead of make

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Speaker 2: Came off like my mind was some Okay, now we're

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Speaker 2: back to make club happened.

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Speaker 4: I would go up thousand. Would you go across the pond?

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Speaker 5: Make absolutely?

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Speaker 4: Some of our listeners have met people over in Europe

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Speaker 5: You know, yeah, wasn't really big Ben.

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Speaker 4: But one of our listeners, Carter, is willing to put

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Speaker 4: everything at stake. You can even ask a bunch of

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Speaker 2: I love love. Let's do this.

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Speaker 4: This is probably the worst decision of your life. But

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Speaker 4: welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 3: Hey, let's okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, vot a confidence right from the beginning. Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited to hear about this.

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Speaker 4: Well, tell us about the situation that you're in and

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Speaker 4: why you're reaching out to us.

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Speaker 3: I guess I feel really guilty honestly. Uh oh oh

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Speaker 1: Love shouldn't make you feel those things, guilt, shame, like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it gets better. Okay, So you have any of

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Speaker 3: you ever had like a crush on your friend's significant other?

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Speaker 4: If you say coworkers, you might have a weird answer

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Speaker 2: Have a crush on you, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's a messy situation though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean I have a friend Eric. You know,

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Speaker 4: Handshake Oh yeah, okay, close enough to but not any closer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're a smoker, that's where regard to all Right,

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Speaker 1: So he's like he's like a buddy who hangs out

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Speaker 3: His girlfriend Maya, I'm in I'm head over heels for her.

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Speaker 2: Whooa, that's a big statement.

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Speaker 2: How do you know her just through him?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's the crazy part is we all met Like

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Speaker 3: Then it was just like, oh my god, So then

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: Well that makes it.

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Speaker 6: That makes it sound better. It's still not a good thing,

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Speaker 6: but it makes sound like, yeah, I've known him for

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Speaker 6: You all meant at the same time, same party, and

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Speaker 1: So for three years, I mean, you met this woman,

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying, Way way deepened?

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Speaker 3: And here we are a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Guess what they got engaged?

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Speaker 3: No, they broke up.

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Speaker 3: I know. I know it's great news, but it's also

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, it's I'm going to try

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of yeah. I don't like confrontation, and you know,

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Speaker 1: Do you I mean, do you know was it a

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Speaker 1: this for three years, it's just not gonna work.

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Speaker 3: I don't know much about it. I know that happened.

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Speaker 4: Actually does that make a difference.

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Speaker 1: I do think so, because if like Eric cheated on

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Speaker 1: That's that's my opinion. It's like you screwed that up,

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Speaker 4: I think it's kind of strange that you haven't asked

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Speaker 4: you asked your you always ask your friend first. Hey,

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Speaker 4: do you mind if I move in on your ex?

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Speaker 1: I do think he has a good point to call

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Speaker 1: because it's like getting a new job, right, you don't

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Speaker 2: You know for sure the new job wants.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was thinking it's exactly what my thoughts were.

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Speaker 3: That like, if there's no reason to get Eric involved,

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Speaker 4: Okay, you have obviously known Maya for at least three years. Now,

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Speaker 3: Yeah? That's the thing that's crazy is that there's been

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Speaker 4: Any anything more than that, I hope not.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, we've never done anything. But I tell you, like,

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Speaker 4: So now we're calling Maya.

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Speaker 3: Yep, I guess so.

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Speaker 2: And then next week we call Eric.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I guess first we have to hear what

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Speaker 4: Maya has to say. Is that's true, We're going to

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Speaker 4: little bit of advice on what to do and actually

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Speaker 5: Oay, it's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: Navigating this situation is going to be a little bit

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Speaker 4: challenging because not only are there land mines everywhere, okay,

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Speaker 4: for too long, or you seem super thirsty, like I've

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Speaker 4: that you're available, I'd like to smell your hair this time,

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Speaker 4: when you're awake.

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Speaker 2: It's the vibe that he would say it like that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, we probably asked have you

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Speaker 4: been smelling her hair? Carter? I mean when she's sleeping.

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Speaker 3: You want me to answer that honestly?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Now, look man, I don't want it to come

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Speaker 4: across like we're painting you as a stalker or a

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Speaker 4: weird all. He's a normal guy, just a regular guy

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Speaker 4: who's harbored a secret crush for his friend's girlfriend. And

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Speaker 4: with that said, let's get some advice from somebody who's

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Speaker 4: been there, Brooke in her hometown. There had to be

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Speaker 4: some crossover. Take a shot at Brooke. Well, it's easy.

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Speaker 2: What do you do, bro I don't disagree.

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Speaker 1: So here's the thing I think, because especially because you

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Speaker 1: don't know how her relationship ended with your buddy, I

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Speaker 1: think you just don't mention him at all, Like you

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Speaker 1: say that, hey, you heard through the grapevine that she's single.

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Speaker 4: Pretend he's dead. No, no, okay, pretend the friendship never existed.

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Speaker 1: Just pretend like you don't know anything about her past relationship,

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Speaker 1: because you really don't.

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Speaker 4: All right, don't bring up Eric Jose. What do you think?

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Speaker 6: Well, I just think in general, moving out of the

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Speaker 2: That you shared inside Joe.

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Speaker 1: Due that can happen is that you're right back to

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Speaker 4: Like you technically. Worst thing is that it gets over

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Speaker 4: Remember we're pretending Eric is dead. Now we're going to

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hey, Maya, Hey, it's Carter. Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Hi, how are you doing?

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Speaker 7: Oh? I'm good?

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Speaker 3: What's up? I was hey? You remember it was a

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Speaker 3: long time ago. You remember that party? That party we

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Speaker 7: What party was for us?

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Speaker 3: Uh? It was it was uh, it was the one

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Speaker 3: And Emily and Natalie Katie Katie. Uh, there was something

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Speaker 3: you look great. You look so great that night, and

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Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry that.

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Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, yeah, I guess so cool cool?

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Speaker 3: This might sound sort of I don't know, uh like quick,

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Speaker 3: Maybe there's some interest. Maybe it's not interest, but like,

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Speaker 3: is there interest going on? You know here? Oh?

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Speaker 7: You want you want to gauge my interest in you?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like I'm just feeling things out with

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Speaker 7: Hold on, hold on on, Carter, I need you to

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Speaker 3: I don't know. That's a good question, am I.

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Speaker 7: Does Eric know that you're doing this?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 7: You know, like he and I dated for like three years,

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Speaker 7: and aren't you guys like good friends or something? Isn't

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't say we're good friends. I mean, I you know,

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Speaker 3: I I kind of hate him too, like you probably

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well I don't hate him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean either, I think exactly the same way

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Speaker 7: On, hold on, Carter. Are you single right now?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I mean I could single pretty quickly.

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Speaker 4: Stop so many Hello, Hey, Maya. Hello, Hi, you're on

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Speaker 4: the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: We're rescuing you from that car.

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Speaker 4: It's more on the radio than you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 7: What is going on? I don't understand what's happening like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he did not do a very good job of

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Speaker 4: We're helping out, Carter. You wanted to have a little

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Speaker 1: He's had a crush on you and wanted to ask

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Speaker 1: you out. But what is this, Carter.

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Speaker 4: You're not a huge crush. It doesn't matter very healthy crush.

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Speaker 5: Carter.

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Speaker 2: Are you single or not? You didn't tell us that piece.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I mean I can be. I'm close. We're

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Speaker 2: Yea, Maya. Have you met his maybe maybe not girlfriend?

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Speaker 7: I don't I think so. I know, like, you know,

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Speaker 4: It doesn't sound that serious to me. Okay, Let's not

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Speaker 4: Rando Carter girl, Let's focus on the two of you.

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Speaker 4: Are you surprised to hear some of these things that

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Speaker 7: I mean like a little bit because someone else in

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Speaker 1: What a loser, like the worst friend group ever.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe Rick would do that. Rick jumped in

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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on.

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Speaker 6: You doesn't know you're, you know, shooting your shop.

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Speaker 2: Did you say no to then?

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Speaker 7: Maya?

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Like it all just seems like really fast or

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Speaker 3: Like, is this some no joke?

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Speaker 4: And actually we talked to Carter a little bit about

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot more than Rick.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, Carter, you didn't do a very good

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Speaker 4: I was nervous, Okay, I couldn't tell.

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Speaker 5: You.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything you want to tell her now?

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Speaker 3: So at that party when we met three years ago,

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Speaker 7: It was really sweet.

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Speaker 4: Oh it's a good start.

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Speaker 2: It isn't a good start.

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Speaker 7: I does. I'm just feel very confused and caught off

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Speaker 1: That Yeah, yeah, that's not bad. You know she's not

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Speaker 3: Well, it kind of pisses me off about the Rick thing,

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Speaker 2: Going for him at least. Rick was fully single when he.

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Speaker 4: Asked, I don't want to bring it up, and I

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Speaker 4: period before you ask again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I can do that.

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Speaker 2: Just keep her away from the rest of your friends.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: What kind of friend is Rick to Eric asking her

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Speaker 4: Carter, you are a true gentleman. Go back to your

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.