1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand jewils dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hey, 2 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: what's up? You texted in it four one or six 3 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: one that you have a dirty little secret and this 4 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: is a Jewels show and we'll call you back to 5 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 1: ask you what your dirty little secret is. So hello, 6 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: oh okay, yeah, let's let's do it. All right, let's 7 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: do it. If you can do it, we can do it. 8 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: I can all do it. We have eyes and ears 9 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: and dolls and we can all get it. So um, 10 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 1: like something that said at the Swingers party, we can 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: all we can all get it. We got guys, ears, 12 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: no worries here. All right, let's all get it then, 13 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: all right, um okay. So my daughter is in our 14 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: early teen she's thirteen, and uh she has yeah, exactly 15 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: has a cell phone, you know, like a lot of 16 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: them do. And she's real secretive. Everything she does top secrets. 17 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: She didn't tell us anything, you know, stuff like that. 18 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: But you want to you want to make sure that 19 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: they're like, you know, I'm safe and doing the right 20 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: things and all that kind of stuff. So I work 21 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: in cybersecurity and h I you know, have a particular 22 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 1: set of skills. A teenager terrible to have a pair 23 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: of the works of cybersecurity these days. Yeah, so every 24 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: once in a while, I'll you know, tap into her 25 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: cell phone you shouldn't, and I just to make sure 26 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: she's safe, like make sure she's you know, doing what 27 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: you knowing exactly. Yeah, So recently I found some stuff, 28 00:01:55,680 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: and I don't know what I can do about it, 29 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: like because you know, talking about things and you know, 30 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: there's a little guy to school and it's you know, hey, 31 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: how about this, let's meet up at the park and 32 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff, and I want to say something, 33 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: but how do I say something? Is is it? I 34 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: think I'm not sure, not sure. I think that I 35 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: think it's just like a normal teenage thing to do. 36 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: I think that you know, you, as her parent, having intuition. 37 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: As far as like what the messages said, I would 38 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: be worried if they said certain things. But if it's 39 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: like an innocent thing, I think that's just such a 40 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 1: super normal teenage thing to do. Yeah, you could also 41 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: just show up opportunity words. You could show up at 42 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: the park, Like I've definitely shown up with places that 43 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: I knew my daughter was out that she wasn't supposed 44 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: to a few times I can just see you, like 45 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: walking up like, oh yeah, no. Her friends saw me 46 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 1: coming and warn her that was such a fun day though. 47 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: That was such a fun day. We had binoculars. Oh 48 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: my god, we've done it several times and she was 49 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: there with a guy. Yeah, I love it, but you know, 50 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: and she even told me that she you know, she 51 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: she doesn't she wasn't even interested in boys then, and 52 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: like I was, you know, I was like, maybe, like, well, 53 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: when we she likes girls, which I don't care, but 54 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: like she didn't talk about girls either. So when I 55 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: showed up in the park, I'm like, I have to 56 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: know because it just does not seem right that she's 57 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: not talking to a boy, like and I'm super open 58 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:30,839 Speaker 1: as a mom, like I don't care, I'm super laid back. 59 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,399 Speaker 1: And then come to find out she like definitely likes 60 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: boys and she's definitely in the park with boys. So 61 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: I walked up on her and she was shocked. Her 62 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: face was hilarious. She was sitting there next to some boys. 63 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: So you actually have the messages and you know when 64 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: they're going to meet up, you could actually do it. Yeah, yeah, 65 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: I definitely The Jubil Show on Demand