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Speaker 1: Buckalo, but hold on tight. We got it all you here.

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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter, subject I'm strong and I

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Speaker 1: can't move on? Who among us wrote this letter? Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go, Tar Steven allegedly right. Dear Steven, Shirley,

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Speaker 1: My ex girlfriend and I have been together for many years,

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Speaker 1: but we recently broke up because she was selfish and

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Speaker 1: didn't want to get married. We broke up about six

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Speaker 1: months ago, but we continue to have sex because that's

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Speaker 1: the one thing that she does very well. We always

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Speaker 1: had amazing sex. I try to get back with my ex,

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Speaker 1: but we just can't get along. So I recently met

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Speaker 1: a new lady that I can see myself having a

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Speaker 1: future with. She treats me better than my ex ever did.

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Speaker 1: She is definitely wifey material. But I have one problem.

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Speaker 1: I can't stop thinking about making love to my ex girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: I want her badly. I'm worried because my ex lives

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Speaker 1: really close to me, and I know just what to

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Speaker 1: say to get her back into bed. I've talked to

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Speaker 1: her on the phone and she feels the same way.

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Speaker 1: She mixes. She misses the great sex, too, mixes what

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Speaker 1: turned this into something altogether different? She misses the great

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Speaker 1: sex too. I told her I have a new girlfriend

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Speaker 1: and I'm trying to do the right thing. I don't

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Speaker 1: think my new girlfriend and I will ever have this

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Speaker 1: kind of chemistry in the bedroom. So what should I do?

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Speaker 1: I feel like if I see my ex girlfriends somewhere

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Speaker 1: or she happens to call, it's going to be on

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Speaker 1: and popping again. The struggle is real. Please help, not really,

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Speaker 1: what do you want us to do? Really? Really? Because

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Speaker 1: you know the answer? You you you you know what

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Speaker 1: the deal is. Figure it out. Uh, you know what

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Speaker 1: is more important to you? Is it more important to

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Speaker 1: have X with the X or is it more important

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Speaker 1: to have a future with your new girlfriend? Okay, come on,

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Speaker 1: this is simple. Uh. It sounds like you want your cake,

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Speaker 1: and it sounds like you want to eat your cake too,

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Speaker 1: And that's that's that's what it is. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: know you're you're about to do just that because your

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Speaker 1: ex is she's with it. Okay, she's down for whatever.

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Speaker 1: I know you're not going to do this. You're not

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Speaker 1: going to listen to this, But here's my advice. I

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Speaker 1: think you need to get over your ex if you can. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's been over there. He's been over to in her house, yeah,

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Speaker 1: in her bail over to her bed. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 1: know if you can get over her, get over her

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Speaker 1: if you can, you know, before you get into anything

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Speaker 1: more serious with this new girlfriend. I mean, you guys

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Speaker 1: are talking about marriage here. You're looking at her already

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Speaker 1: as wifey material. You're leading these women on. You're talking

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Speaker 1: about marriage and all of this. And if you were

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Speaker 1: to marry this woman, this new girlfriend, guess what, You're

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Speaker 1: going to cheat with her with your ex. You are

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Speaker 1: not over your ex. Don't think it's wise for you

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Speaker 1: to get into another relationship while you're thinking about your

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Speaker 1: other girl. It's just it doesn't make any sense to me.

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Speaker 1: You're setting yourself up for failure, and you're setting u

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Speaker 1: these other women up for a lifetime to be cheated

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Speaker 1: on and and to be hurt by you. So so

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Speaker 1: you know what to do, all right, nephew, what you got?

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Speaker 1: And I are all the heavy breathing when somebody get

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Speaker 1: up you start talking. Can you just make me proud time?

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Speaker 1: Can you please? It bothers me when people don't see

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Speaker 1: a blessing you have it? Come on. The only phrase

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Speaker 1: I really want to say to you is won't he

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Speaker 1: do it? Won't he do it? He didn't gave it

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Speaker 1: to you. You got the best of both worlds. Dare

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Speaker 1: you bring the Lord in this? Why they? Why can't

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Speaker 1: you see a blessing? What is all this? The struggle?

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Speaker 1: Why struggle come about? You're struggling for a boy? It's

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Speaker 1: just the greatest thing anywhere? What should I do? Nothing?

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Speaker 1: What you should do? Marry at one woman? To keep

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Speaker 1: going around? She don't live far right, because you're gonna

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Speaker 1: say you need to do and stay woke. That's what Okay,

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Speaker 1: struggles real I'm trying to stay woke. Yeah, ok do

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Speaker 1: you have to contribute to this? When I was a

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Speaker 1: little boy, and girls, a really little boy, we used

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Speaker 1: to eat um these um vanilla wafers, especially in then

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Speaker 1: I found raising cookies, which means, man, raising cookie was

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Speaker 1: a better cookie. And once I found a better cookie,

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Speaker 1: I enjoyed both of him. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Why you You've been introduced to a bit of cook here. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so keep both of these cookies. Yeah, there's nothing wrong

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Speaker 1: with it. Answer man, you never thought we could give

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Speaker 1: a wrong answer. You can mix these two together and enjoy.

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Speaker 1: We didn't love, That's what they call me the cooking.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna try and have part two of this letter

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Speaker 1: when we come back. Of the guy's responses, the subject

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Speaker 1: is I'm sprung and I can't move on. The subject

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Speaker 1: subject should be won't he do it? That's what this

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Speaker 1: letter was written by a man who has been with

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Speaker 1: a woman for many years, but they recently broke up.

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Speaker 1: He says because she was selfish and she didn't want

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Speaker 1: to get married. He says, they have great sex, it's

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Speaker 1: some unbelievable sex, but they just can't get back together

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Speaker 1: as a couple. She doesn't want to be with him

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Speaker 1: and he can't see a future with her. But he

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Speaker 1: have the great chemistry that he and his ex had before.

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Speaker 1: So the problem is he wants to be with the

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Speaker 1: new girl, but he just wants to still have sex

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Speaker 1: sprung and he can't move on, and he's saying the

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Speaker 1: struggle is real, and he wants to know what I

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Speaker 1: think any of us, But yeah, absolutely when I was

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Speaker 1: about thirty six years old, I climbed a tree so

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Speaker 1: was going on. Yeah except me is in a tree.

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Speaker 1: Ain't been messing. She's a kid. Sun. I've been there.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling I had snacks so and had to down

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Speaker 1: type round man, done with you sprung wrong? I did it.

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Speaker 1: I did. I don't have had a mask made of

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Speaker 1: my ex and asked my new girl could she please

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Speaker 1: wear just where this for me? As for me, I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying, just wear this for me. It had the

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Speaker 1: like that. It's okay. Tree climber, I've tried. This is

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Speaker 1: really crazy. I was trying to climb under the gate,

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Speaker 1: that same apartment gate trying to climb over, got caught

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Speaker 1: hands on there. I'm called leaving. Now I'm on the gate.

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Speaker 1: I'm in the headlights as the gate opening. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if they'll called the police on what, but I

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Speaker 1: just said, you don't find your damn business. I got

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Speaker 1: I didn't. Drove to her house down the street, got

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Speaker 1: got into her car. Don't sit in the back seat

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Speaker 1: and find out what the I'm gonna find out what

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Speaker 1: the hell going on? She switched cars at the parking lot.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm in the car damn night right, been in there,

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Speaker 1: huh talking about talking about being strug that's love right,

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Speaker 1: what I had done? Man, Let's tell you I did.

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Speaker 1: What the story this right? What answer her phone? Right?

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Speaker 1: You know I have the three calls you gotta get,

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Speaker 1: you gotta go that three calls. Went over to her house,

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Speaker 1: dump the backyard, fifth did no ship, just got a dog.

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Speaker 1: Dog I'm talking about, been no barking back here. Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you something. I want to tell you something.

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Speaker 1: I have come to her house, hat pulled down overalls

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Speaker 1: on and cut her whole yard and kept passing. I

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Speaker 1: can see who she was when you hit me, But

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to look like a Spanish law guy, and

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Speaker 1: that's who normally. Man. That is wrong. I've been wrong,

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Speaker 1: slash stalker is. Yeah. Let me tell you something far

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Speaker 1: deep go. We didn't broke up, being broke up, but holidays,

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Speaker 1: I still go walking into house. What's going on in there?

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Speaker 1: Like in the bushes. Let me tell y'all. Let me

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Speaker 1: tell y'all a good one. Let me tell you a

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Speaker 1: good one. I'dn't been so sprung. This girl lived in

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Speaker 1: an apartment build and I'm just sprawling on the factor.

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Speaker 1: How beautiful she looks. You understand what I'm saying. Drop

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Speaker 1: dead gorgeous. But I never can see this girl. I

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Speaker 1: it never left my memory. How pretty this girl was. Man,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you something I said today. I don't

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Speaker 1: you y'all, that's just that's just lightweights from you ain't

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Speaker 1: been you know, Scripple Clubs, Cross. You're listening to Harvey

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