1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Hey, this is any and Samantha and welcome to Stephane 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: Never Told You production of iHeart Radio. Y'all. We are 3 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: in episode eleven, so we're one away from the finale 4 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: of season one. We did it not Yeah, we can't 5 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: say we did it yet, have we We're doing it. 6 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: We're doing which is what we're doing on our segment 7 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: of Happy Hour where we watch the we rewatch, we 8 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: rewatching here watch first time watching My Keys, Yes, and 9 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: commentate about these episodes which are bringing in some delightful 10 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: conversations because it definitely is relevant even though it's back 11 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: in the nineties two thousand's early, but it does correlate 12 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: to a lot wherehere we are, where we are today 13 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: and having that conversation, and it's been a delight thus far. 14 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: So what, yeah, let's get in a review before we 15 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: have a rundown. So far, what do you think of 16 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: these Well, again, I've never seen them. This is my 17 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: first time watching them. They are from We're in the 18 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: first season, so that's and I have enjoyed it, and 19 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: it has been It has started a lot of interesting 20 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: conversations that are still relevant today that we're still having today. 21 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: In some ways, that's to starting in other ways. It's 22 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: makes sense to me because relationships are always going to 23 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: be messy. I do like that. Again, the main relationships 24 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 1: seems to be between these four women who are friends 25 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: and trying to figure these things out together. Yes, yes, 26 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: it is very heteronormative. It is also very white, yes, 27 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: so that is a reminder. And it is also very rich, 28 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: upper super class, upper class in general. So yeah, it's 29 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: not as relevant, but its relevant. This is the famous 30 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: thing that we all wanted to grow up l j Orgia, 31 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: I wanted to live in a city in an apartment, 32 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,559 Speaker 1: have my friends, and go to brunch. That is exactly 33 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: what I wanted. I have two of those things. Have 34 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: friends and brunch. You have an apartment. It's not like, sure, 35 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: you know, but they're living. But you're gonna go with that. 36 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: Are we cool now because we have now bypassed Carrie's 37 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: career and we've become podcasters, and then she became a podcaster, 38 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,399 Speaker 1: so we're cool like that. Sure, I will accept this, 39 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: But what I do love, yes, is that fact that 40 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: they have four successful women who can be independent who 41 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: chooses something else. Yes. Yeah, and I like like, again, 42 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: there's some problematic elements for sure of them. You know, 43 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: I got to find this man. But they're still sticking 44 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: together and they're talking about things that were for so 45 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: long taboo, and a lot of instances are still taboo. 46 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: So even for me, who's coming in at this way later, 47 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, Wow, they're talking about vibrators, Are they talking 48 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 1: about blow jobs or all these things? And it's women 49 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 1: doing it, uh, in like a friend group. So sadly enough, 50 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 1: I guess that still feels kind of novel to me. 51 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: It was and it still is, Like I think it 52 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: cut to this point that I'm like, I want to 53 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: be able to talk to my girlfriends like that. Who 54 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: gets to do that? So this has definitely made a 55 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: turn for that. But yes, we are now in season eleven. 56 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: We are at a happy hour. We are drinking all 57 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: the things. I have decided to start drinking some sparkling 58 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: water for this episode. What are you drinking? Well, we're 59 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: we're doing kind of a binge recording right now. So 60 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: this is our third episode in a row, and I'm 61 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: still sipping on the BlackBerry mosa, which is sort of 62 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: a BlackBerry mimosa pine berry kind of like a what 63 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: did you say from Yeah? Without the gin, except now 64 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: you just drinking more of the champagne with berries in it, 65 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: so you're just super fancy. I feel super fancyne prosecco, 66 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: so like we are real fancy. But yes, if you 67 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: are drinking dreak responsibly. We are not sponsored by any 68 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: of these things, including Costco if they wanted to sponsor us, though, 69 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: I'll take it. I have a three membership. Um, I 70 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: have some good food. I believe you. Okay anyway, but yes, 71 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: we are in season one, episode eleven, so over one 72 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 1: away from being the finale. Uh, and we are doing 73 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: some exciting things because you all have said you liked 74 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: it and we like it, so we're gonna keep going 75 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 1: with all ten thousand episodes and movies. Oh I can't wait. Yes, 76 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: and maybe season two and just like that. Although we 77 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: got mixed reviews who knows, who knows? But yes, we 78 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: are here. Can you give us a rundown? Okay? So 79 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,840 Speaker 1: this is the pain ultimate episode. So far, we've had 80 00:04:53,839 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: a lot of conversations around relationships, single women, pregnancy, vibrators. Uh. 81 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: And then we've met dig who I'm assuming it is 82 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: going to be a big part of the finaley uh. 83 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: And we have these threads coming together of I feel 84 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: like Carrie's having a lot of these conversations with him 85 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,799 Speaker 1: about like, well, I think I want to get married, 86 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: do you? Um the kid thing was more like, oh no, 87 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 1: what if I have a kid? So she was fine, Yeah, 88 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 1: she was fine, but there was that moment of her 89 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: being like, so, I think we're moving towards something, some 90 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: confrontation or some dramatic thing that's about to happen. Okay, 91 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: I like it. All right. So this episode is titled 92 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: The Drought. What do you think is about? And you 93 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 1: did a pretty good score on the last one. The 94 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: previous one was awful. Let's see what you Let's see 95 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: what you got. Okay, the drought. I think the drought 96 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: and I'm doing my best not to look at the screen. 97 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: M I think it's a withholding of sex. I think 98 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: it is we're not having sex until some end date 99 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: or some something has been resolved. Um. I guess, like yeah, 100 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 1: discussion around withholding sex and what you can get out 101 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: of that. Okay, alright, let's start it up. Okay, this 102 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 1: is a controversial thing. Okay, Okay, m oh no, is 103 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: that you she farted? It might be worse under there, 104 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,679 Speaker 1: So that was a controversial scene because she really didn't 105 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 1: want that. She didn't want to be farting on set, 106 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 1: and Michael Patrick King who was like, no, no, no, 107 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: this is gonna be amazing. I think this is actually 108 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: his script. And so she runs out after farting under 109 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: a blanket, ran into a door. Were you ever that embarrassed? Honestly? 110 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: Not about the sound, yeah, but if it smelled bad. Oh, 111 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: So she was like really embarrassed and then running a well, 112 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: and he's making a good job. I mean, it is 113 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: that is an issue that we feel like they can't 114 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: any like bodily issue that isn't treaty right. Well, I 115 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: mean we did have this whole little bit of controversial 116 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: on our show when we didn't add about a poop spray, 117 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: and we didn't know that the scripted because we were like, 118 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: we can't do it to their satisfaction. So that scripted 119 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: what they put on our show was really offensive, like 120 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: you're supposed to hide it from then, and we're like, no, 121 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: that's not we advocate for. Do I fart in front 122 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: of my partner? Yes? Do I think it's funny? Yes? 123 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: Do I think when he does it all the time 124 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: that I want to punch him in the throat sometimes yes, 125 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,559 Speaker 1: and I was beginning to worry. Three times try three months. 126 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: So now they're getting their nails done talking about the 127 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: fact that she has not had sex with them three 128 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: nights in a row after this incident, Miranda has been 129 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: three months. Do you know what? Though I did not 130 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: have sex until I was much older. We talked about this, 131 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:42,599 Speaker 1: like my choice sex and I have like even in relationships, 132 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: I will go months without sex and it doesn't bother me. 133 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: Maybe you should because this conversation made me think that 134 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 1: I was a little off. Yeah, and I think we've 135 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: talked about this too, But there were so many kind 136 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: of toxic, problematic scripts we were getting from entertainment where 137 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: it gave you a timeline like on the state, you 138 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: should have done this, on this date, you should have 139 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: done this, you should be having sex, this happen and 140 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: all this stuff, and it's different for everybody. Communication is key. 141 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: I don't think there's like one thing that is like, oh, 142 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: you have had sex on that long this is a problem. Right, 143 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 1: So here we are. This is a really great episode. 144 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: I was excited about this because she's blaming the fart 145 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: on the reason they even had sex in three days. Uh, 146 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: and then him talk hard to talk about him being perfect, 147 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: and because she's farted, she's now seen as perfect not 148 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: perfect and to manly she said one of the boys, 149 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: such a weird concept. Even when I originally was like, 150 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: really is it that bad? But the episodes like this 151 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: are the wasn't like, well obviously I can't. Well that 152 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: just taught me that I have to be feminine in 153 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: every way and a lot of the places like there's 154 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 1: a whole level of like why did they It's funny 155 00:09:54,800 --> 00:10:03,719 Speaker 1: but it's problematic. Oh yeah, absolutely, I don't say what 156 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: makes fool once one time one day, but to time 157 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 1: one Also, this is the worst to me. So right 158 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: now she's interviewing random people about how much how much 159 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: sex they have and what's normal. And then they have 160 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: the Asian woman who is the nel salon saying that 161 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: she has sex once or twice oh day, And I 162 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: was like, do you have oversexualized Asian women? Once again? 163 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: This is one of those things like this is probably 164 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 1: like it's funny, but it's so problematic that I become like, 165 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: maybe we should backtrack on this one. Yeah, well run 166 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: your backs, Like god, I suppose this would make me 167 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 1: feel so uncomfortable too. It's like a yoga scene where 168 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 1: all the people are pretty much women in the class, 169 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: but the teachers a man, and he is holding onto 170 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: her pelvis. He's yeah, holding Samantha's Minutes and three animal 171 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,719 Speaker 1: positions later, Samantha and Sadartha were sipping green tea. She 172 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 1: asked him for a coffee and they went to it. 173 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 1: She is always no inhibitions, and I loved that, but also, 174 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: don't touch women unless they ask you too. I'm so 175 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: ready for anything, Samantha. Yes, I'm celibate. Oh he said 176 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 1: he's celibate. I gave up sex three years ago. Oh 177 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: my god, are more importantly? Why? And she is shocked. 178 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: I once was in a situation where, like looking back, 179 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: both of the dudes were interested and me, and one 180 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: of them said I'm celibate and I was like, oh, 181 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: I didn't really know what the band. I was like, okay, cool. 182 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 1: Another guy was like are you so an? He was 183 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: asking me and I was like no. He said, well 184 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: you're a lot less cool now and he walked away. 185 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: What has happened to me? That's an interesting way of 186 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: being like wait, what so was this? What you had 187 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 1: a specific type of party that you didn't know about. No, no, no, no, 188 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: but we were like in freshman year of college. So 189 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: I don't feel a weird way of saying, like I 190 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 1: thought you had a Christian group. No, but he was 191 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: very Christian. Okay, well the one who walked away with Okay, 192 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: that makes a lot more sense then. Meeting a friend's 193 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: new boyfriend for the first time is always a little tense. 194 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 1: What if you don't like him? What if he doesn't 195 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 1: like you? Kevin, this is my good friend, Carrie. Hey, Carrie, 196 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: what if you've already slept with him? Whoops her? Oh dear, well, 197 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 1: kind of we used to go out. Oh well, kind 198 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: of used to go out. Even you used to go out. 199 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 1: That's so funny. Isn't that funny? As close as you were, 200 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: did you do you? I feel like I know most 201 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: of the people like I might not know them face 202 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 1: to face, but I know about them when and I 203 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: wouldn't at least know the name before, right, I would think, 204 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: so serious? Good, why did you break up? You know 205 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: we're in different places, and I just carry they don't 206 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: have time for diplomacy. Just tell me he's a sex maniac. 207 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: So she just found out that the guy that she's dating, 208 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: Charlotte was a sex mania quote unquote corn to carry. 209 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: But they haven't had sex yet, so she really thinks 210 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: that he's being kind. Oh no, more moved by his restraint. 211 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 1: I want you to know how much I appreciate your patience. Mhm. 212 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: We've been so patient with me. Oh, she said, you're 213 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: being so patient with me. That shows how much you care. 214 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: I feel like that should be just a natural, healthy relationship. 215 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:57,439 Speaker 1: There's depthing special about respecting people's boundaries. It should be 216 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 1: the norm. Well, now they're trying. Yeah, oh boy, I 217 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: don't think this is gonna work. Why isn't me? No, 218 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: you're great. I'm just not that sexual guy. It's me 219 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: and I know it's me. Look Um, Carrie told me 220 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: that you were quite sexual. In fact, I believe she 221 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: used the word maniac. That was before for what prosa 222 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: who I used to be such a message, Mr, I 223 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: stay in a dude who understand him self. There they 224 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: were my new neighbors. Mr and Mrs get it On 225 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: a couple so obviously into each other. There was only 226 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: one thing to do Mr and Mrs gooding On, which 227 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: is quite funny. So you do ge to see them 228 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 1: having sex, but it's so almost comical. You're like, that's 229 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: not how sex work. But Carrious turned on, let go 230 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: turned on? All right? So Doritha was helping Samantha along 231 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: her newfound path blocks our connection to whatever. Here's the thing. 232 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: If we're talking about consent again, she he's told her 233 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: he is selibate. She has gone over to do these 234 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: new practices. But in her idea that she can change 235 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: her mind again, that should not be a thing. Yeah, no, 236 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: I agree this idea that oh it's me that will 237 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: change you when I can. It's not respecting the decision 238 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: of someone else, I guess. Is this trying to make 239 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: the point that, like, women can want more sex than men, 240 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: and men might not want sex. This is why I 241 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: will at least say that the showing women as sexual 242 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: and wanting Yeah, and it's pleasurable for them as well, right, 243 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: and men kind of being like, no, I'm not into 244 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: it right now. And also we should be respectful of that. Yeah, Jesus, Carrie, 245 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: come on, but you not got to go off. I'm 246 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: trying to watch this fight. Just find what is wrong 247 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: with you? Why are you acting so nuts? Well, maybe 248 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: I'm not perfect. Maybe I don't fit into your perfect 249 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: you know life with your perfect apartment and your perfect 250 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: pay per view fight. Maybe I should leave the tiny 251 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: TV for such a big apartment. But this is the thing, 252 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: This is the thing of that level of like the 253 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: expectation of like why Carry became the anti like on 254 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: the show and people like she's kind of annoying no offense, 255 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 1: Like is one thing to be absolutely wanting an expectation 256 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: for yourself, but it is. It's an expectation for herself, 257 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 1: Like she put in her head that she had to 258 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: be these things. Isn't based on misogynistic lifestyle that she 259 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: has lived, yes, meaning like not just her because all 260 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: of the patriarchy teaches women to be these things. But yeah, 261 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: it was definitely in her head without communicating that she 262 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: needed to be these things to be the perfect girl 263 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: for him. Yeah, I just I think I'm in love 264 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:34,880 Speaker 1: with him and I'm terrified that he's going to leave 265 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: me because I'm not perfect. All right, So once again 266 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 1: it's this whole like pressure that we put out ourselves 267 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: to be desirable, we must be all the things, and 268 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: Carry plays that epitome to the point that she's not 269 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 1: a good friend. Has she asked any of them their stuff? No, 270 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 1: she just keeps on about big. This is where I 271 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 1: have a problem perfect. It's something about him. I'm not 272 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: And I think this happens to a lot of us 273 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: where we you put on like first dates, you put 274 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 1: on this like air and I am pervate. I don't 275 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: have any issues that I don't have any issues, but 276 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,479 Speaker 1: eventually they're going to come out. You can't keep it 277 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: like a fart. You can't keep it together all the time. Yeah, 278 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: we just talk about We talked about that recently, about 279 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 1: the makeup, about trying to look perfect when we wake up, 280 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 1: and she did the same thing. But it came to 281 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: the point that because she couldn't keep that up, now 282 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: she's losing him right higher standards, by the way, which 283 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: is coming back out as men are on podcast talking 284 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: about how women need to be all of these things 285 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: for them to be desirable and trying to tell women 286 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: what they should be. They want to be married, right 287 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: and if they're not, they're gonna be single forever, which 288 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: is like, okay, yeah, not release and breathe unless you're 289 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 1: planning to move those hands down, get them off me 290 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 1: and done. Dawson, she had reached the end of her 291 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 1: path and her patience forehead. No, she's just randomly asking dudes, 292 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 1: who do you girl that level of commitment? Yeah, one 293 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 1: of Yeah, the Goldia guy ready to go. Samantha spent 294 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: the rest of the afternoon having multiple yogasms yogasms fun. 295 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 1: Later that night, Charlotte was determined to prove she was 296 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 1: stronger than selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors. No, I think it's 297 00:19:54,440 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: starting to Charlotte, it's not and I'm beginning to chief 298 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 1: see this is another problematic. So he's found a way 299 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 1: to stabilize and she's trying to get him to change. 300 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 1: And when he's happy with it, yeah, And then he's like, 301 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: don't you want a stable, good guy rather than a 302 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 1: sex maniac who is an as And she's like, no, 303 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 1: I mean you could have bows, you could have a 304 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 1: stable He's not the one to move it on, but 305 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: still to expect someone to come off of their medication 306 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: sex life not not cool. All I could think was 307 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 1: why aren't we having sex? Is this normal? What's wrong? 308 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: We could discover the sex couple. M Oh, we can 309 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 1: do better than that. He says, are you going to 310 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: pick her up and turn her upside down. No, you can't, 311 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 1: and that's fine, but let's be realistic. Someone's gonna pull 312 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 1: their back. We've got to be real about what's gonna 313 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: happen here. We're all gonna get hurt doing this. It's 314 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: not important. Don't do it if you can, wonderful. I'm 315 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 1: impressed with you, but don't do it for the sake 316 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 1: of showing all No, no, no, all right. So Annie, 317 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: you got half of it right, So you get two 318 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 1: point five stars out of five. Oh. I love that 319 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 1: we're changing the rating system every time because you work correct. 320 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 1: There is like some like sex that sex doesn't happen, 321 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 1: but it's not necessarily anishment withholding it was more of 322 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: like embarrassment being perfect, feeling like maybe your relationship was 323 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: wrong because you weren't having enough sex. Whether or not 324 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,160 Speaker 1: you should have sex all the time? Who needs sex? 325 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: And what's normal for people? Yes, this one overboard and 326 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 1: trying to show that women are sexual. I did appreciate that, 327 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 1: But there are definitely a lot of tropes of like 328 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 1: why are we making the other the the partner feel 329 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,880 Speaker 1: like they have to do something at the same time 330 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: we that we also need to be deserving somehow of 331 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: best sex as well by being perfect, and that is 332 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 1: going to be rewarded all bad. So you get two 333 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: point five out of five, two stars out of four. 334 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 1: We'll see that two out of four, two out of 335 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 1: four because you did get half of it. So I 336 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: don't think that ever really comes up about the withholding 337 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 1: as in like punishing people. That's never really said in 338 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 1: the trying to think about the past episodes. I don't 339 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 1: think that's the thing, because that's a trope in a 340 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:04,719 Speaker 1: lot of of uh comedies and sitcomsin do see like 341 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: a New Girl does that like turning off the tap. 342 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: You're not whatever withholding things, it's supposed to be funny 343 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 1: and then they can't resist each other. But this is 344 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,719 Speaker 1: more of like who deserves it? How are you supposed 345 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: to compensate for it? Is this normal? What is normal? 346 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,640 Speaker 1: So I think that conversation is great. It never really 347 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: talks about lack of sucks. So definitely a sexuality is 348 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,959 Speaker 1: out the door. Celibacy is out the door. It's punished 349 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: and regretted of almost Yeah, yeah, like very sad. Yeah, yeah, 350 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: I mean I think that's really interesting. I think there 351 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 1: is all there of as we talk about with a 352 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 1: lot of things, it's hard to separate what society tells 353 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 1: us is natural and what we should want, and there's 354 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 1: a lot of sexist and misogyny in there um versus 355 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 1: what you actually want, and that can be really hard 356 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 1: to nail down. I am also happy they're showing sexual women, 357 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: and I'm happy they showed men who didn't want to 358 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: have sex, but I feel like they did it in 359 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: a pretty trophy way, like problematic way, um, But I 360 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: am happy that they were, like, you know, men don't 361 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 1: always want sex. Sometimes women do want sex, which is 362 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 1: this very gendered stereotype that we have that women are 363 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 1: always the ones that are like no, and men are 364 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: always like yes, go go go. Yeah. I do want 365 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 1: to come back to I know I always bring up 366 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: a fan fiction, but I read this one fan fiction 367 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: that was about an a sexual character dating someone who's 368 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: really sexual, and the person who was really sexual I 369 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,199 Speaker 1: thought the other person was withholding sex even though they 370 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 1: knew the sexuality, like um, and it was interesting because 371 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 1: he felt he was being punished, but the other person 372 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 1: was just like, oh I didn't it's not a thing 373 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 1: for me, Like I don't think of it in that way, 374 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to communicate that to me, because 375 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: I'm happy to like, I love you and I if 376 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 1: as long as there are multiple things we can do 377 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,239 Speaker 1: depending on where I am and where you are. But 378 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: I just don't think about it like you do. And 379 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: that I cried and cried and cry because I was 380 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 1: like that is exactly like I just don't think about 381 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: it like that. It's interesting to kind of see this 382 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:12,160 Speaker 1: like celibate characters, so tragic that this is happening, and 383 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 1: kind of an evolving of that conversation, like essentially it 384 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:20,400 Speaker 1: was like he was missing out on Samantha, so not 385 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 1: necessarily that he was missing out on sex because he 386 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: was perfectly happy with it. And that's the thing, is like, Okay, 387 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 1: we live it at that um dude who was on prozac, 388 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 1: which I actually did, data dude who was on prozac, 389 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:35,479 Speaker 1: and he had a very live luster sex uh libido 390 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 1: like he did, Like we had sex a couple of times, 391 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: but after that it just wasn't a thing, and it 392 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: made me feel like I was doing something bad. So 393 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 1: it made me feel like I think, and we had 394 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: to have a conversation because I didn't understand it UM, like, 395 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,159 Speaker 1: all right, maybe you should get on the correct if 396 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 1: that's something important. And I guess it wasn't, and it 397 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: may have been me, who knows, uh, And it did, 398 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 1: but it felt a judgment on me because also like 399 00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,479 Speaker 1: it had been from the point like, oh now I'm 400 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: I'm pride him and I've kind of now understand sex 401 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: and a healthy manner, let's go type of conversation, and 402 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 1: then that happened. I did feel like that. But that's 403 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 1: a part of again, the misogynistic tone that the world 404 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: has in places on both all the genders and trying 405 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: to figure out what sexuality is and what normal was 406 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: not and there's not a such thing when it comes 407 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 1: down to it. There's not a such thing that's not 408 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 1: a normal when it comes to sexuality, preference and all 409 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: of that, and like numbers number wise, that's an average statistic, 410 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 1: but that's not necessarily the norm. Yeah, And I think 411 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 1: it's important too to keep in mind, like as with 412 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: a lot of things in relationships, there's a lot of 413 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,160 Speaker 1: projecting going on. I think it a lot of times 414 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 1: it's about you. So for these characters in this episode, 415 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: I feel like the women who are used to being 416 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 1: sexually desired who are used to being the ones that 417 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: have to shut it down when they encounter a man. 418 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 1: And again this is very like stereotypical trophy. But when 419 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: they encounter a man that's like no, it feels like, oh, 420 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 1: there's something wrong with me then, because this men always 421 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: want sex, right, so if they don't, then it must 422 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 1: be me. It's my fault, right. But people, a lot 423 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 1: of times, I really think it's all to do with 424 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 1: like the person, and let's to be with you on 425 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: both side, any sides. It's that's the thing too, was like, again, 426 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 1: there's at least the immediate breakdown was embarrassment, but communication 427 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 1: lack of communication and understanding. That was the media beginning. Uh, 428 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 1: and then it moves on to more things. But then 429 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 1: like the other part too, that to me is that 430 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: whole like three months is too long, week like weekly 431 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: thing and all these things. I'm like, really, because I've 432 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 1: gone years without having sex or a year or several months, 433 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 1: and that I would get confused that with wanting intimacy 434 00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 1: and that just come hug me, you know, yeah, yeah, 435 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:06,439 Speaker 1: from whatever sex that you're attracted to, Like, I just 436 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: want someone to tell me I'm pretty and giving you 437 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 1: a soldier, like a shoulder massage. That's all. I just 438 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: I don't think allowed because it did come from this. Actually, 439 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 1: I would say, I just need someone to lay on me, 440 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 1: and I mean that literally, just lay on top of me. Thanks, yeah, yeah, yeah, 441 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 1: And I am happy that we're seeing those conversations become 442 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 1: more prevalent too. Of like, intimacy can look all these 443 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: different ways. It doesn't have to be sex. It can 444 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 1: be all kinds of things. And there's some things depending 445 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 1: on who you are in the situation that you know, 446 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: like kissing might feel more intimate to you than sex. 447 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: Like there's all these levels, and I'm glad that we're 448 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: moving away from kind of sex and the orgasm being 449 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 1: the and all be all ultimate. It can be. It 450 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: can look so many different ways it is, and it's 451 00:28:55,080 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 1: true and I also love that. But yeah, there you go, 452 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: You got you go. I'm going to do three different 453 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 1: skills that kind of sorry, all right, y'all, and we 454 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: are going to do our finale and hopefully we'll have 455 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: a special guest not to teasing thing too much, and 456 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 1: soon after we would like to do some more things, 457 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 1: including maybe have one of your listeners come and talk 458 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: to us about this show. Give us your perspective. 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