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Speaker 1: Welcome to for the Dads. This is episode four. Whatever

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Speaker 1: you're doing right now, look, we have people calling in

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Speaker 1: from the chair at three am trying to get their

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Speaker 1: little one down. Maybe you're on a road trip. Maybe

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Speaker 1: you're in the delivery room right now. I know our

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Speaker 1: boy's going to be in the delivery room here really

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Speaker 1: soon actually this week as you listen to this, he's

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Speaker 1: probably sitting in the delivering room. But whatever you're doing,

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Speaker 1: make sure you are subscribed to this podcast. Subscribe to

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Speaker 1: first episode on that channel. All the data, all the

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Speaker 1: on Spotify, for the Dad's on Apple, at for the

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Speaker 1: Dad's Pot on all social channels. Fire me up, Shuram.

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Speaker 1: We have a bunch of shit out there, a lot

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Speaker 1: of stuff that you can subscribe to help support up.

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Speaker 1: I was in the coffee shop the other day and

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Speaker 1: Dad was like, oh, hey, I loved your I loved

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Speaker 1: your clip on Instagram and I'm like, yeah, yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: a thank you for tuning in to the show. He's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's a show. How do I get on the show

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Speaker 1: and he's got his phone out and I'm helping him

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Speaker 1: he was so fired up and got my piss hot.

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Speaker 1: But I'm wondering these dads, these guys, you have to know,

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Speaker 1: follow button on Spotify. I think there's a plus button

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Speaker 1: on Apple podcast if that's where you're consuming us. If

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Speaker 1: you're on YouTube right now watching the boys spin it,

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Speaker 1: just make sure please subscribe to the channel. Leave comments.

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Speaker 1: The engagement has been off the charts. But we're fired up. Sure,

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Speaker 1: I know you're nervous. Bro. It is the week. This

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Speaker 1: is the week, this is the weas game day. JP

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Speaker 1: knows what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: And I wish we had the rights to scrill us

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Speaker 2: so bad. I've been playing Scrilla a lot in the car.

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Speaker 1: Now do we get dinged when that comes on? When

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Speaker 1: I dropped that, when I dropped the b Oh for sure?

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Speaker 2: But if you're a listener, you pause this, play Scrilla

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Speaker 2: for like that first five seconds.

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Speaker 1: Come back? Yeah, how you feeling man, dude. Okay, before

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Speaker 1: we get in all that, just letting people know again

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Speaker 1: there's a we're at the farmer's market. Dad loved the

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Speaker 1: hat repping the girl Dad stuff we got for the

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Speaker 1: Dad's Hats BWTB dot com. That's where you can buy

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Speaker 1: or merch. And again, the biggest thing, especially this week

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Speaker 1: is that we have launched this channel before the Dad's

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Speaker 1: Pod channel on YouTube on all the platforms. We want

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Speaker 1: to get better at social media. We were having a meeting,

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Speaker 1: a meeting of the minds myself, you and Chef Jack

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Speaker 1: We have a call in segment. We have Dad hacks.

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Speaker 1: What you need in the survival kit, a lesson or

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Speaker 1: What helps our boys Chef Jack a lot to one

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Speaker 2: It is, it is it opens it up for us

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Speaker 2: Just the amount of times that we get on our pages.

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Speaker 2: You said it was how many voicemails plus five hundred.

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Speaker 2: On the more serious note, we when we do receive

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Speaker 1: Twenty four to seven. It's completely free.

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Speaker 2: That number is eight five five four to two seven

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Speaker 2: to them. We called the number ourselves just to vet them.

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Speaker 1: They're awesome. They're awesome. That's a crack of cold one too,

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Speaker 1: right there, SUREM, because I know you took the liberty

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they come here for the locker room talk. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's a couple that's kind of you know, you got

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Speaker 1: like part of the fatherhood. Okay, I like that one

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Speaker 1: a lot. Papa Team six is strong, Papa Team six

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Speaker 1: black as hell. Yeah. Yeah, you can tell he's been

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Speaker 2: upside Down. The our merch team was on the phone

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Speaker 1: Maybe we let some comments decide. Oh yeah, if you

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Speaker 2: if he's going around telling people he's popping Team six.

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Speaker 1: Let us know in the comments. Comments, by the way,

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Speaker 1: have been have been off the charts. I know, SUREM

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Speaker 1: you're telling me about some some dms and messages that

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Speaker 1: you got, but just looking at you know, whether it's

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Speaker 1: on YouTube, the support has been unreal. Thank you, guys, sincerely.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at one right now from Eli Eli Weinstein?

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Speaker 1: Did I say that right? You think Eli Weinstein as

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Speaker 1: a dad and therapist who works with so many men

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Speaker 1: and couples. This podcast is so needed. Over this is

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Speaker 1: from no nickname. Over an hour is ideal. Charles a

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Speaker 1: call an episode would be sick. Been listening to Busting

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Speaker 1: for years, but man, this podcast is something different. Love

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Speaker 1: this show, Green Bay Bucks. This show is so important

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Speaker 2: It's no more was it called when you wear military

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Speaker 2: I said, bro, you got a call back in. We

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Speaker 5: Hey boys, it's Steven down here from Georgia. I was

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Speaker 2: get me through?

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Speaker 1: It's a sacrifice mentality. You're going to slip up like

432
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Speaker 1: those things might happen. But you've fallen asleep when you

433
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,280
Speaker 1: know you're carrying, you're holding your little girl, and you

434
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Speaker 1: know you just have to self talk. You look, Losers react,

435
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Speaker 1: Winners anticipate. You have to anticipate that these bad nights

436
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: are going to happen, and you have to have you

437
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 1: have to have like some rolodecks going on in your head,

438
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Speaker 1: whether it's quotes, whether it's little reminders of self talk

439
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Speaker 1: that you're gonna have to lean on when these moments

440
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 1: a right, because you're gonna be upset. There'll be times

441
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Speaker 1: where I'll be holding Rue and she's not going down,

442
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Speaker 1: and it's three in the morning, and I'm, you know,

443
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Speaker 1: upset that it's my turn and I gotta get out

444
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Speaker 1: of bed to go to go put Rue back down,

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Speaker 1: and she's not wanting to go to bed. And there'll

446
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Speaker 1: be times when I'm just like, you just have to

447
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Speaker 1: move to sleep, And in those moments, you just you

448
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 1: have to catch yourself and remind yourself that I don't know,

449
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 1: nobody's coming to save you, and only you're gonna get

450
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Speaker 1: your You're only you're gonna get yourself out of this mess.

451
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Speaker 1: And you might be staying up for another hour or so,

452
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Speaker 1: and that sucks, but you just gotta know and you

453
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Speaker 1: have to embrace that suck, because look, when we're old,

454
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 1: we're about to die, and shit, we're gonna wish we

455
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Speaker 1: were in those trenches again. Because they're gonna get older,

456
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Speaker 1: they're gonna be teaching us stuff when they're adults. And

457
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna you're just gonna sit back and think time

458
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,359
Speaker 1: has flown by and it's felt like a blink of

459
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Speaker 1: an eye, and you'll wish you're just back in those

460
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Speaker 1: trenches trying to put them down to sleep because you

461
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 1: just miss you miss those moments because they're fleeting. But

462
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Speaker 1: those are the things you gotta lean on when you're

463
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Speaker 1: just at war. You're gonna crush it. It's not about

464
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Speaker 1: being perfect. It's just about showing up. It's about taking

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Speaker 1: those l's on the chin and know that you're in

466
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Speaker 1: the middle of taking an l. Maybe you're able to

467
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Speaker 1: muster up a little laugh, a little laughter. Maybe you

468
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,640
Speaker 1: just throw in the old podcast before the dads, that's

469
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, and reflect back on this podcast. Maybe

470
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 1: you just drop me a little voice message at nighttime, like, hey, sucker,

471
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Speaker 1: if you're sleeping right now, you feel pretty good that

472
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Speaker 1: your kids are sleeping through the night. But I want

473
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Speaker 1: you to know I'm in hell. Well, I'm and I

474
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Speaker 1: hope you're I hope your sound is on, so this

475
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Speaker 1: might have a chance of waking your punk ass up.

476
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Speaker 1: I just want you to know I hope magging it up.

477
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you get I gotta I Okay.

478
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Speaker 2: In defense of myself, I'm not so worried about the trenches.

479
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 2: It's about like the the next day. That's what I'm

480
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: worried about, like performing, like being at my best offen

481
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Speaker 2: because I know I'm not going to sleep, but I

482
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Speaker 2: just know myself on like light sleep and I'm like, dude,

483
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Speaker 2: I gotta get like good at that.

484
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Speaker 1: And that was my New Year's resolution. Yeah.

485
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Speaker 2: Last year was like owning the mornings, like owning that

486
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Speaker 2: routine and just like I don't know, I want to

487
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Speaker 2: be able to like rock it in the mornings, make

488
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Speaker 2: Jill's mornings easy, get the formula going, get the you know,

489
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Speaker 2: doing the dishes, and shit, I just know myself on.

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Speaker 1: Write it down, bro, Yeah, write these upcoming potential losses down.

491
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Speaker 1: And when it's when it's happening, you just got to

492
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Speaker 1: have you know, if it's if it's uh, waking up

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Speaker 1: before Jill, if it's having this stuff ready before Jill

494
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Speaker 1: gets out of bed, whatever it is, it's just how

495
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Speaker 1: can you remind yourself that this is the standard I

496
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Speaker 1: wrote out? How can I stick to this and just

497
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: nobody's coming coming to save me? Yeah, that's just the mentality.

498
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: You have to anticipate all of it, and when it's coming,

499
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 1: you can't react and be shocked because when you're reacting,

500
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Speaker 1: then you're in your feelings. You're in your emotions and

501
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 1: lean on your boy. No, dude, I'll check you. Yeah,

502
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: I need to lean on my boy. Uh.

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Speaker 2: This week, I've had a ton of dudes shout out Ruben,

504
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 2: shout out Dylan, shout out geartt like a ton of

505
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Speaker 2: my personal friends reaching out, sending text messages, calling me,

506
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Speaker 2: shout out.

507
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Speaker 1: Calling.

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Speaker 2: Like, you know, really pouring in and being like, dude,

509
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Speaker 2: how are you, how's it going?

510
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Speaker 1: So that does me in ton.

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Speaker 2: I love that Jill's mom like showed up early because

512
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 2: it's already got me in, like you got to impress

513
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 2: the mother in law. And I'm in like full dad

514
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 2: mode around the house like there's not a thing out

515
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Speaker 2: of order because I'm you know, make sure we're getting

516
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Speaker 2: dinner for make sure that yard.

517
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Speaker 1: I did a extra weed eating.

518
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Speaker 2: That didn't even need to be done, but like mother

519
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 2: in law's in town, you gotta weed eat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, listen, you just gotta have Jocko willink in

521
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 1: the back of your head when something's going wrong. Good.

522
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: When you're feeling sleepy, you only got two hours of sleep. Good,

523
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Speaker 1: get my ass out of bed. When the baby's not

524
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Speaker 1: going down and you're on duty, good, you might think Jill,

525
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: she she took a little walk. Maybe she's going something

526
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Speaker 1: to take care of herself. Right, and you think the

527
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 1: kid's gonna go down. Okay, here's a three hour window

528
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Speaker 1: that they get to sleep. Maybe I can close my eyes.

529
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: They don't go to sleep, you don't get your nap.

530
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Speaker 1: You gotta think good. I'm covered in shit. Yes, good?

531
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:51,199
Speaker 1: Shit on me? More good? Bombing on me? I dare you?

532
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 1: Oh you danger dip? Oh you shit again? I fucking

533
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: love your enthusiasm. Oh good, I'll change your I'll change

534
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 1: that shit again. Type your dress. Kids overflowd Good. Wife's

535
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: yelling at you because there's a rash now in the

536
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Speaker 1: baby's ass because you wiped it so hard because you

537
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 1: were pissed off. Good, be softer, put the cream on afterwards.

538
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 2: Dogs are pissed off because they're getting less attention, so

539
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 2: they're starting to pee on step so you finally pay

540
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 2: attention to them.

541
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Speaker 1: Good. Kid finally goes down, dog wakes up. They're making

542
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: a lot of loud noise wakes the baby up. You

543
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: go to chase the dog to give it a little

544
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: to give it a little discipline. Dog outruns you, runs

545
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: outside out the front door. Can't get the dog. You

546
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 1: gotta go chase him on the road. You can't find him.

547
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: Good good, You gotta embrace the suck term. It is

548
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: gonna happen. I know you got those dogs and the

549
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: terms always yelling at me at the front door. Keep

550
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 1: them in, keep them in. I hope those dogs out

551
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: run your ass too, And they do, and you're piss off.

552
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:56,640
Speaker 1: I just and think of me. I'm ready, and don't

553
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 1: you dare send the text in you can't show up

554
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Speaker 1: before the dads because I'm just gonna say, hey, this

555
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: is what we prepared for. No good, good, get your

556
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: bunk ass in here.

557
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be on that bus. Yeah every Monday. Yeah,

558
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 2: I gotta be here for for the dad's.

559
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: Good. Good. Let me get to my dad loss because

560
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 1: we gotta keep this saying under an hour we're dirty. No,

561
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: I felt like five minutes. That's perfect because we're in

562
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: our my themes are gonna be around you and having

563
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: your first kid. My dad loss is essentially it's gonna

564
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: stem from this quote. Don't try to fix your partner's

565
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 1: labor pain. Just nod support and seek out what else

566
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 1: you can do. Stay north of the wall, and what

567
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 1: I mean by north of the wall, north of the

568
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 1: curtain unless you want to see the full experience from

569
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,959
Speaker 1: the other side. Yeah, however, don't try to fix your

570
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 1: partner's labor pain. I made that mistake. I talked about

571
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 1: it on a show not too maybe our first episode

572
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: or second episode. Yeah, yeah, where we had a birth

573
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 1: plan at all, went to ship. Everything on the birthplane

574
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,239
Speaker 1: went to ship, and she was She was like, hey,

575
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: it's time to go see section I might say, sweetheart,

576
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: a sea plasure. It seems like you're kind of giving up.

577
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: You're quitting the fucking glare she had in her I

578
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck if you think I'm giving up.

579
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 1: Did she say that? Is something like that? It was blurry,

580
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: It got a little spinny, sweetheart, Do you need me

581
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: to stay rocky about boel mentality? Right now? I'm thinking

582
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: this is what you wanted me for. No, it wasn't.

583
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,479
Speaker 1: But my dad loss is just around the just a

584
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: lesson of don't try to fix your partner's labor pain. Yeah,

585
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna be in it. It's gonna be an experience.

586
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: Excited to hear about it. But don't tell me too

587
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: much if you know what I mean. Let's get into

588
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: a crack a Cold one, some positivity. Oh yes, what

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Speaker 1: fatherhood this weekend with bud Light. Should fuck beautiful. Oh

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Speaker 1: all right, you got anything for crack a Cold one?

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Speaker 2: I do, and it's along the same lines and I

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Speaker 2: wrote down crack a Cold one.

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Speaker 1: It's game day. It's game day. Okay, yeah, I.

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00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: Know this is this is in the same vein of weapons.

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Speaker 1: Just start celebration, bro, You're you're this is a this

609
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: is a huge week. I am super We're excited for you. Actually,

610
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: my lesson quote topic of the week that we do

611
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: at the end of the episode it's I I wrote

612
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Speaker 1: a little something that's for you. So I'm excited for you. Bro.

613
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Speaker 2: I'm I'm so just messed up over like all this

614
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 2: in a good way. Yeah, I would say my thing

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Speaker 2: that is like my true crack of cole One is

616
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Speaker 2: just like the thought of Like Jill said that her

617
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 2: moment that she's been looking forward to the most in

618
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 2: our relationship is seeing me holding Scarlet. She didn't have

619
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Speaker 2: a dad for majority of her childhood, and dude, I'm

620
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 2: so stoked to like, uh be everything that she thinks

621
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Speaker 2: I can be to our daughter. I can't wait to

622
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Speaker 2: hold That's why Crackna get.

623
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Speaker 1: A little down. Hey, you cry like a bitch, though

624
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: I cry like a bitch. We're all such ugly. Cry

625
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: like a bitch. I gotta break it up with your talk.

626
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: You cry like a bitch. Stop crying. You're making me cry, Papa, Si, No, no,

627
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: don't cry now. Actually yeah we do, We do all

628
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: the time. Oh my crack, a cold one is going

629
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Speaker 1: to be getting one up on your wife. This isn't

630
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: this isn't about fatherhood. I'm gonna set that aside for

631
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: a second. But every Sunday, my my my wife, she

632
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: as you guys know, she operates, she runs. She owns

633
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: the Bar three studios here in Nashville. So if you're

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Speaker 1: looking for a little sweat, Bar three, so she'll teach,

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00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: she'll spot teach throughout the week. But usually she runs

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Speaker 1: a couple of classes on Sunday, So it's usually you know,

637
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: Daddy Daughter Day on Sunday mornings. And you know how

638
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: I'm the guy who's forgetful Lilily last week, shit me

639
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: with shit me with just having to remind me to

640
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: do you know, a lot of different things. It'd be

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Speaker 1: nice if I can think on my feet and think

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Speaker 1: ahead a little bit. She's she's not wrong. I get that.

643
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: Every week, yeah, yeah, every week. Yeah, But she's been

644
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 1: on a run now to where she's forgotten the car base,

645
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: the car seat base a few weekends in a row,

646
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: and when I'm going to take the kiddos somewhere and

647
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: the car seat base isn't sitting out in the garage

648
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: to where I can put it in my truck. And

649
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: then we got Scottie. I know people are thinking, oh,

650
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: we need a couple of car bases, why don't you

651
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: have more than one? We do, the nanny has the

652
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 1: other one, and we just kind of we kind of

653
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: mix up what happens. But for those people, shut up.

654
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: This is this is this is my moment right now. Well,

655
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: she forgot that base, and I just got to send

656
00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: a text, Hey, sweetheart, you forgot the base again, just

657
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: letting you know. And I'm kind of smiling behind my

658
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 1: phone because i know when she reads it, she already said,

659
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: looks like I'm the one that has to get reminded

660
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: now because there's something that's like and it shouldn't but

661
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: it elats my soul when I'm like, you get them

662
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: on something that they just beat you to the ground

663
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: four at times, and you just you beat yourself down

664
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Speaker 1: to the ground because you're like you stupid idiot who

665
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: has CT brain and everything else. You can't remember to

666
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: do these little things. But it was nice. So my

667
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: kraikacle was just getting one up, getting one up on

668
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: the old wife.

669
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Speaker 2: That's the best feeling in the entire world. Whenever I

670
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 2: find some of Jill's clothes, I hit her with the

671
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,719
Speaker 2: is that where this goes? Because that's why I get

672
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 2: hit with every time he needs a home. Oh yeah,

673
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 2: and that's usually I get a slug in the shoulder

674
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 2: or something. It doesn't go over well, yeah, but I

675
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 2: do have to remind her. I'm like, hey, is that

676
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 2: where that goes?

677
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't think so.

678
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 2: Also, an awesome comment that we got at oh that made.

679
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 1: Me think not to shift the energy. Okay, losing them,

680
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 1: losing them, losing Sam, keep it under an hour.

681
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: Sam reached out and he said, hey, for the dads

682
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 2: that love the pod and their wives want to listen

683
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 2: to while they're listening, we one episode should do thirty

684
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 2: minutes of just glazing the wives so that the husbands

685
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 2: can be like, honey, this is the show I've been

686
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 2: listening to, you know, that show that I've been telling

687
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 2: you about. For the dads, it's teaching me to be

688
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 2: a great dad. Check this thing out first thirty minutes.

689
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 2: We're just glazing the wives.

690
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: I don't hate that at all. I don't either, because

691
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: they deserve most to shine.

692
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 2: Yeah they do, they do. But I thought that was

693
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: a great comment. Yeah, chef said, we should put a

694
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 2: code word in the title to let know this.

695
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: Is one that Hey, if you're if you feel like

696
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: your wife might be on the fence for just a

697
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: dad community bitching about our own shit. Well, they're thinking

698
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: about planing it out the entire week. What are we

699
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: eating this week? Here's what here's the shopping list, here's

700
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 1: all the ingredients we gotta get. We gotta make sure

701
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: dinner's on the table for everybody. Like sweet, we can't

702
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: just you can't just run and gun. No, that answer

703
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: is no, you got to be prepared. And uh yeah,

704
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: well yeah, the moms do need the moms do need shine.

705
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 1: I would moms do have shine.

706
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 2: They have shine. They're the superheroes. Will say that we

707
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 2: know that we are inferior.

708
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: Yes, pains me to say, because I just want to

709
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 1: run up my stats, change a couple of diapers. You know,

710
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: what was your list that you knocked out Uh, you're

711
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 1: talking about the one that went uh this weekend, oh

712
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: this weekend. Yeah, yeah, I was talking about big Dad Day,

713
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: Massive Dad Day, changing filters, taking a outdoor furniture to

714
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: a drop off, hide and seek with rue. But you

715
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 1: know that's a that's a heavy day right there. For

716
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: that's a heavy day. Yeah, I I I love, I

717
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: love messing around with that stuff.

718
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, And I sent this message to somebody. I

719
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 2: can't find it, but I said, if for the Dad's

720
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: was a treehouse, there's no sign on the outside of

721
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 2: it that says like no girls.

722
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 1: Allowed, No dude, we have we have wives and moms

723
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 1: like in the comments, Oh for sure enjoy this so far,

724
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: which was I guess surprising because I'm thinking, like, you know,

725
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 1: this would be some some good dad fund, some good

726
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: dad banta. Let's hope the wives don't really tune in

727
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 1: a whole lot because this ship you're listening to, you

728
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: think you got a hard live buddy bucco. What does

729
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: it mean to have your heart turned black? Honey? That's concerning. Yeah, honey,

730
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:49,919
Speaker 1: you don't get it. Oh they're complained about this. Oh man,

731
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: I love it though. We by the way, we are

732
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: going to have, We'll be having our wives on. We'll

733
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: love to get God. That would be hilarious. We'd love

734
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 1: to do collaborative podcast Yeah, because again we love the

735
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: band around, locker room talk. Make it about the dads,

736
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: grow the community.

737
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 2: That would be a ton of fun to collab with

738
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 2: some mom podcasts.

739
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be hilarious.

740
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 2: Just see them pick us apart? I would love it.

741
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 2: I would sit there and take notes of.

742
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: Pick us apart. We'd we'd have our own offense. We

743
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: would we would bring some stuf to but secretly would

744
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: be what'd you say? Was what we do? Yeah? But yeah,

745
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: I love that. That was your Cracker col One? Yeah,

746
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: that was my Cracker cold one. Okay, cool. We want

747
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: to spit into what are the odds? Yes? Uh this

748
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: What are the Odds is really badass. Shout out Fandel

749
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: sports book.

750
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 2: Shout out Fandel sportsbook. We have this one came from

751
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: Dean Nielsen, So what are the odds?

752
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: From Dean Nielsen.

753
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 2: His son Robbie, was given a less than one percent

754
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: chance to survive and spent seven days in the neek

755
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:08,760
Speaker 2: you when his wife's placenta ruptured. He provided some pictures

756
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 2: of his kid on the bed fighting for his life.

757
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 2: He said, my wife went from role playing on how

758
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 2: we're going to explain to our three year old daughter

759
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 2: that brother went to heaven to now having a miracle boy.

760
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 2: We're celebrating his first birthday on six thirteen, so that's

761
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 2: in the past now, right, Yeah, June thirteenth, So Robbie

762
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 2: had his first first birthday. He's a thousand percent of

763
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 2: getting in the credits. It's him at a baseball game.

764
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: He said, this story is meant to remind the dads,

765
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 2: no matter how hard things get, to remind yourself how

766
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: lucky we are to have our kids and to be dads.

767
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: Not a day goes.

768
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 2: By where I don't think about what my little dude

769
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: battled through and him now he'll have the best pregame

770
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 2: speech that you can ever have, which I just love

771
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 2: that idea of you know, being told less than one

772
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: percent chance and just beating the odds. So the what

773
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 2: are the odds? This week goes to Robbie Nielsen that

774
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 2: just celebrated his first birthday.

775
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:24,959
Speaker 1: Shout out Robbie, dude, do I could not imagine less

776
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 1: than one being told there's essentially a less than a

777
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 1: one percent chance and your kids fighting the nick you

778
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: and you're trying to think of stories to tell the

779
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:36,879
Speaker 1: other one.

780
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I read that first thing. When I woke

781
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:43,800
Speaker 2: up e DM me this morning. I had tears of

782
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: eyes before I even got out of bed, and I

783
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: knew that we had this episode and you were probably

784
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 2: gonna cook up something that would make me cry. I

785
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 2: would probably say some shit that would make me cry.

786
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: So I was just like, oh God, this is just

787
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 2: gonna be ugly.

788
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what Dad's emotions are on the fence.

789
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: I feel like at all times, especially when stories like that,

790
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: like it's hard to watch movies now involving like very

791
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 1: sensitive moments and I'm not thinking about my daughters, you

792
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Oh yeah, it's ah we're sensitive, man.

793
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:16,919
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. I just can't.

794
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 2: I literally cannot wait for the day because Robbie looks

795
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 2: like he'd be a little mic linebacker, just ready to

796
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 2: get in the egg gap. Oh dude, and his halftime

797
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: speech when they're down three tuddies.

798
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: I didn't the egg gap, but life, they gave me

799
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: less than one percent.

800
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:37,760
Speaker 2: One percent, dude, that room's gonna be silent. They're gonna

801
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 2: talk about the day Robbie dropped that halftime speech, and

802
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 2: they came back out and beat that ass, came back

803
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 2: down three touchdowns.

804
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 1: It's just electric. Dude, who sent that again? That was

805
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 1: Dean Nielsen shut out, Dean man. That's uh. I'm fired

806
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: up that you celebrated the first birthday. And I can't

807
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 1: imagine the fear that you and your wife had, yeah,

808
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 1: a year ago. Truly could not imagine. It's crazy. There

809
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: was even something like rue was in the nicke you

810
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:12,919
Speaker 1: for seven days. I think, Oh, I didn't know that. Yeah,

811
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: when she when she got delivered, she had uh it

812
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: was essentially she had swallowed like I forget what the

813
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: word the term that they used, but like her own shit.

814
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 1: Essentially it's like melconium or oh yeah, and that's like

815
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: kind of that's common, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's not.

816
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: It's not like an uncommon thing. But you sit there

817
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 1: and like you you cut the cord and everything else,

818
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: and you wouldn't hold her. But they got to take

819
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: her back pretty quickly, pretty swiftly to like, you know,

820
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 1: get her going to help her lungs and everything else.

821
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 1: But just in the spot to where you were at

822
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: the hospital for a week and it's only like visiting time.

823
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: This was like during COVID too, so you can only

824
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,360
Speaker 1: like it can only be you and one other person

825
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: just going back and visiting her and spending time with

826
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: her to like breastfeed and try to hold her and

827
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 1: do skin on skin and then like going going home

828
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: and basically just sleeping her knowing that your baby's not

829
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: home yet. Like that was. That was tough at times

830
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: for myself in CHARROI, but I could not imagine and

831
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: being in that situation right there. I know there's just

832
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: so many that you hear about that. Just give your

833
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: self perspective on shit can just be. Stuff can be

834
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: way worse. Situations can be way worse. Circumstances could be

835
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:18,280
Speaker 1: way worse.

836
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, counting your blessings in general. And as you

837
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,240
Speaker 2: were talking, I was like, since we're throwing out merch

838
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: like popsicles, Dean needs some merch. I'll get his address.

839
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:32,439
Speaker 1: We gotta we gotta keep it rolling because we gotta

840
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 1: keep this under an hour. What are we at Chef two?

841
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: We're moving and grooving.

842
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: We are kind of moving and grooving. We're gonna lose

843
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 2: subscribers though, if we go under an hour, they said

844
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 2: the unsubscribed.

845
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: They might, but I feel like the Hey the Fatherhood

846
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: or pop A Team six being a part of that crew,

847
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,479
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of hard to unsubscribe from. That's true.

848
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: They're just trying to scare that we do one thing,

849
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: that one thing that we do need because you know,

850
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: boys will be boys with their phones and not spreading

851
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: the good word. But we need you guys to hit

852
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: your dad group chats, help get this brand, Help get

853
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: these episodes out to your friends, anybody that you think

854
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,959
Speaker 1: would enjoy this, because that's kind of how you help.

855
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: That's how we all help grow a brand organically. So

856
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: that's a big call to action that we need from

857
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 1: the boys from the from the Boys in the Fatherhood

858
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: or from the Papa Seles and Papa Team six. Again,

859
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 1: we'll leave that name up, that name up for debate

860
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 1: with our audience, see how they feel. But help spread

861
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 1: the word. Let's spread the good word about the this

862
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 1: new show. Survival kit. You may rip this one off, Yeah,

863
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: my survival kit again. Theming around yourself and that if

864
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: you're a new dad first week, maybe something your wife

865
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: might not be privy to. Maybe you're in trimester one,

866
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: try mester two and you're just starting to kind of

867
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: dive into the tricks of the trade. But if you

868
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: bring this to your wife, she'll be thinking, Oh, he's

869
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 1: on his toes, he's diving in he's thinking about stuff

870
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: like this. So my survival kid is apps to track feedings.

871
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,720
Speaker 1: I know my wife and I we use the OVA

872
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: parenting app. There's also pump Blog, there's also milk Maid.

873
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: And again that might be like a small simple thing

874
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: like yeah, of course you need to like track your feedings.

875
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, it's such a world that you

876
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: don't know what's what what to think about. Oh, we're

877
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: putting this in the backpack, Oh we need this for

878
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 1: going to the hospital. She's putting stuff in the backpack

879
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: or by so hey can you go grab that? And

880
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: you're just thinking, how did we get to this point

881
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: to where it looks like we're traveling for a vaca,

882
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 1: a three day vacation going into the hospital. But the

883
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 1: smallest things matter. The smallest things matter. And gentlemen, if

884
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,240
Speaker 1: you're thinking on your toes, and it hasn't been brought

885
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: to light yet, but just something like of a you

886
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 1: bringing something to the table that's like, hey, if we

887
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: thought about an app, she might look at you a

888
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 1: little crazy, but it's a thought that counts, Like she'll

889
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: probably think, of course, I've I have an app on

890
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: my phone that's been trying X, Y and Z the

891
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: whole time, just telling you, but doing a little research

892
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: on my own. But mine's gonna be apps to track

893
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: your feedings, because that was big time at first I

894
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: was doing it. I had a whole structure on whiteboard.

895
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: You know I'm a big whiteboard Yeah, yeah, yeah. And

896
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: I spent an hour trying to put this whiteboard together

897
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: and I went to show Chorro and she came out

898
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: to the garage to see it, and I was like,

899
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:32,399
Speaker 1: you know, the ounces, the what else is it? The

900
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: ounces if you're still breastfeeding left boob, right boob, the

901
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 1: minutes in each one to where if you're breastfeeding, it's

902
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: kind of hard to track how much that they're actually getting.

903
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: And I put this whole thing together on a whiteboard

904
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: and she was just like, yeah, I mean, they give

905
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 1: us we have an app that we can do this on.

906
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: I just took the air right out of my balloon.

907
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: Gonna give me a little pat like I love that

908
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 1: you're thinking about this stuff.

909
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 2: She definitely appreciated it though, and that you have the

910
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 2: physical manifest state of the white board. Yeah, she saw

911
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 2: the work that you put into and you might think

912
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 2: it's dumb and not needed. Maybe your wife is just

913
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 2: doing it and you're not necessarily thinking about her. She

914
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 2: might ask you what times you feed her, how long

915
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 2: was it or how much.

916
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: Did she have And you might be coming off a

917
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: long nap and forgetting, forgetting some of that because there's

918
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: so much information that goes. I mean, you're this this

919
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: thing's eating now several times throughout the day and you

920
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: might not remember. But just plugging it in on the app,

921
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 1: I'm telling you it helps you. It helps you track everything,

922
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: remember everything, because you'll be surprised how easily that you

923
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: can forget. And after a long night and she's like, hey,

924
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: you know, how much did you feed her? How much

925
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: was this? And you're kind of like, I think it

926
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 1: was between two and three? What was it? Two? Was

927
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 1: it three? I don't know. I thought she did this

928
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,439
Speaker 1: it was around this time. I can't remember which time.

929
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. The apps, the apps that can definitely help.

930
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 2: I have I have a question because we're going to

931
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 2: try and breastfeed if like, do you have to wake up.

932
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: Jill as you can't breastfeed? Sure? Well, but like could

933
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: she stay asleep? We're gonna try to breastfeed. Can she

934
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: stay asleep? I know that's some weird Yeah. I think

935
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 1: they call it like dream feeding, so you can't do that. Yeah.

936
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 1: So Charle was big on not wanting the baby in

937
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: the room. So I want to say, what's the little

938
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 1: thing of basting that Yeah, yeah, bascinet that would sit

939
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: by the bed. I want to say Rue was in

940
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: the room for maybe two nights tops. But Charle was

941
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,479
Speaker 1: really big on separating the our room being our room,

942
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: and then Rue just getting her as acclimated, doesn't matter

943
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 1: how early it is, like to her room and knowing

944
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: that these are her surroundings when she goes to bed

945
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: every night. Yeah, so Charle was big on not having

946
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: the baby in the room. I know a lot of

947
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 1: people will sleep they'll sleep with the baby so that

948
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: way they can just roll over, slip the nip in.

949
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: They'll be in the baths and that next right next

950
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: to the bed, so they can get out feed them.

951
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: Maybe they leave the room, maybe not. Maybe they have

952
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 1: a little chair or a little room set up for feedings,

953
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: like in a baby's room. So everybody's different. There's no

954
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: right or wrong way. But the way we did it

955
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 1: is Charlie would just we would be on this schedule

956
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: because I want to say, they you know, they feed

957
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,919
Speaker 1: and they sleep for you're hoping that stretches for three

958
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: hours at a time before they wake up and want

959
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 1: to feed again. And she would just go upstairs. She

960
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: would just go upstairs the Rue's room and feed because

961
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: we had the little monitor. You know, you swallow their

962
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: little ass up, tuck them in tight so their arms

963
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: can't get out, but you can't get on the swaddle game.

964
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: Watch some videos. Yeah, they'll teach you the hospital, but

965
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: watch videos because again you'll forget. And we just watch

966
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: them monitors. So whenever we hear, charl would go up

967
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: to feeder and Charlie would also pump, so we also

968
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:37,760
Speaker 1: had bottles. I forget how early we started doing the

969
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: the pumping. Maybe early, I don't know, I can't remember.

970
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: So that way, if I was on watch, if I

971
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: was on the night's watch then and these were my hours,

972
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 1: say eleven pm, two am, is what I'm trying to

973
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: hit with Rue. Yeah, I would just out here, wake up,

974
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: I'd go get the I'd go warm up some milk,

975
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: and then I would go up there and feeder. But

976
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 1: we would do all the feedings like in her room. Okay,

977
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 1: that's answer your question. Yes, say she was in a

978
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: basinet next to you. Yeah, she's breastfeeding and it's all

979
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: her doing it. There's no pumping or anything involved. Yes,

980
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 1: she'd be able to take the baby baby feeds. I'm

981
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: sure they both fall asleep their dream feeding is what

982
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 1: they call it. And I just sit there.

983
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 2: I make sure you know she's not rolling over blah

984
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: blah blah like okay, I and.

985
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 1: Oh buddy, I'm you're sitting there. I gotta stay up

986
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: right now. I'm just gonna be like I'm gonna be

987
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: so nervous. See, I asked to go to sleep, Like, hey, sooner,

988
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: can I just fall back to sleep? What do you

989
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: need from me right now? It seems like it seems

990
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: like there's a one man job.

991
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're the one feeding her, I'm not really

992
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: feeding I. That's interesting with the bassinet too, because she

993
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 2: was talking about we're gonna have it in the room,

994
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 2: but I don't know for how long.

995
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: Dude, it's it's it's your own parade. I'll ask her

996
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: that I feel like an asshole given like unsolicited advice

997
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: because it's not like my unsolicited anything, because all we've

998
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: done is like how how we go about it, and

999
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: it's like people do a lot of differferent things. So,

1000
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: got a buddy of mine is kids still sleep So

1001
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: I think he's eight years old. I'm just kidding. It's

1002
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 1: we're joking here, joking. We can't tell movie quotes on

1003
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: the show.

1004
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, for my he's a grown man.

1005
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: He's still sleep with the twenty one years old?

1006
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 2: No, no, you're fine right now. For my survival kid,

1007
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 2: I have the douna because it's my first baby. God,

1008
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 2: I blank so hard. It's like my first baby equipment

1009
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 2: that I've dealt with, and I went into it thinking

1010
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 2: this doing the thing is gonna be a whole ordeal

1011
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 2: to put it into my car and a.

1012
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: You're talking about the little car seat, yes, the little

1013
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 1: like the actual the base the base Yeah, yep, so easy.

1014
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: You have a duna. I know, I think you have.

1015
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 2: A nuna related not related, two separate things. We have

1016
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 2: both a duna and a nuna. The Nuna and correct

1017
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 2: me if I'm wrong. Dad's at home supports a like

1018
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 2: wider range of weight for the carrier. The Duna is

1019
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 2: more of like your newborn. It's kind of lighter, it's

1020
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 2: kind of smaller. It's it's for a newborn baby. And

1021
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 2: so I was putting the Duna base into the car.

1022
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 2: It was the easiest thing in the entire world. It

1023
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 2: was incredible.

1024
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: Base are crazy. You just connect those little metal things. Yes,

1025
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: in the seat. That makes sense now I know the command.

1026
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 1: Then you just put the car seat on top, clicks in. Yes. Fascinating.

1027
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 1: Oh dude.

1028
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 2: I looked like an absolute hero when I put that

1029
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:54,439
Speaker 2: into my car. Jill was like, oh, do you get

1030
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 2: it already? I said, yeah, where's your base. I'll put

1031
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 2: it in your car too, just acted like it was

1032
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:00,839
Speaker 2: this whole thing. I was putting it in there, came

1033
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 2: back in, Hey, yours is yours?

1034
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,280
Speaker 1: Ready to get locked and loaded? Yeah, that's a good one.

1035
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:09,359
Speaker 1: So that's my that's my survival kid, Duna Nuna whatever,

1036
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: get on it. Dad hacks my dad hack for you.

1037
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: Learn a lullaby. Learn a lullaby. I think this is well. Look,

1038
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: when you're in the trenches, you need to have some

1039
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,280
Speaker 1: go to tunes that daddy is singing, that mama is singing,

1040
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 1: that the baby is going to recognize, because they want

1041
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: to feel safe. They feel safe they're in your arms.

1042
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 1: They're going to know they're in your arms, and they're

1043
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:36,280
Speaker 1: gonna hear your voice. They're going to know your voice,

1044
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: and you're just gonna want to sing some tunes just

1045
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: to pass some time. My go to lullabies were Sweet

1046
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 1: Nothing by Taylor Swift. I spy with my little tired

1047
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:51,439
Speaker 1: I know he is. I kind of forgot a little

1048
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 1: bit last d Sweet Nothing. I would humme it. I'm

1049
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: more of a hum I love that one I will

1050
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: sing is uh this African lullaby? Imbo wimbo. What do

1051
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: you remember watching the movie Mighty Joe Young?

1052
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,840
Speaker 2: Yes, the gorilla that escapes the zoo or they're like

1053
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 2: trying to get them to the pertures.

1054
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 1: Are trying to kill these gorillas? Yes, Mighty Joe Young,

1055
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: King Kong looking motherfuckers. Yeah, dude, there's a salala by

1056
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 1: in there that has always stuck with me since watching

1057
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: that movie. No way, and it's uh inmba.

1058
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 6: Wimbo wa hoopio walk coty No No Tom o imba

1059
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 6: wimboo wa hoopioo wakcty.

1060
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:49,760
Speaker 1: No no toim and I'll just run that on repeat,

1061
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: humming singing it. It's my go to bro. You know it? Yo? Yeah,

1062
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: I I love it I and I'm so happy about

1063
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:03,919
Speaker 1: it because RU will Now I'll sing this to Scotti. No, yes, Bro, Hey, Hey,

1064
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 1: do you want to sing inbo winbow to Scotti? Or

1065
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: when I put Scotty down and she wants dadd had

1066
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: to come up, say Mama did bedtime? I want Dadda

1067
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: to come up and give me hug and a kiss

1068
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: and three squeezes like one two three, I love you.

1069
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: I want dad to come up, and then she'd negotiate

1070
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 1: that I want you to sing inmbo wimbo and I

1071
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: would like lay down next to her bed like as

1072
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: they got with it and as they got older, he

1073
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: be like im and I would I sung that song

1074
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: to her from from birth, bro, every time I sat

1075
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: down with her fetter bottles singer to sleep. Yeah, Ever

1076
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 1: it is inba Wimbow's to go to What is it about?

1077
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: I don't know that's the best part. I don't know.

1078
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,359
Speaker 1: I've just always loved that song. It's like in the

1079
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 1: movie Sad. It's sad story, like poachers come they kill

1080
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 1: Mighty Joe Young's mom Gorilla like as they're poaching her

1081
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 1: and the gal I forget, is it Charlie's Charlie's what

1082
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: Oh Charlie Star, Yeah, charlist. She's one of her earlier

1083
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: one of her earlier films, and she's the daughter in

1084
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: this scene and her mom, like her crew, they helped

1085
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: protect gorillas against poachers and keep gorilla safe in their

1086
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: habitat and everything else. And I want to say, her

1087
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 1: mom gets shot and they're sitting there. It's Mighty Joe Young, Baby,

1088
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: Mighty Joe Young, Mighty Joeyen's mom just got just got

1089
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: killed by the poachers. Yeah, and it's Mighty Joe Young.

1090
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:28,919
Speaker 1: Charlie Charlie Surelese. Anyway, her sitting there as a daughter

1091
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 1: with Mighty Joe Young and her mom's and they're holding

1092
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 1: them both and she's just telling them, hey, hey, you're

1093
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 1: gonna be safe, get back to you know, you're gonna

1094
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 1: get back to camp, and just keeping them making her

1095
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: feel safe as possible, knowing that she's probably about to

1096
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: die because she got shot or something happened, and she's

1097
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: just singing her this lullaby Imbo Winbow. The character grows

1098
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 1: up taking care of mighty Joe Young sings this song

1099
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 1: to Mighty Joe Young like trying to make sure to

1100
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: keep him safe, calm him down anytime he's acting up

1101
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 1: because they try to put him a zoo, put him

1102
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,280
Speaker 1: in containment. She knows no, he needs to be running

1103
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 1: out in Africa. Yeah, bro, And I've just I love

1104
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: that movie, had the little VHS cassette tape everything. I

1105
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 1: love that movie. I've always loved that song and that

1106
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 1: was like one of my initial thoughts when singing real lullaby,

1107
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: So get to noa lullaby. There's a lot of a

1108
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: lot of good stuff out there.

1109
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 2: I just love that in general because I've always said that,

1110
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 2: like those African choirs or like even the child choirs

1111
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:27,400
Speaker 2: and stuff, there's nothing happier than some of those African languages,

1112
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 2: like when they're just singing in Unison. Dude, when the

1113
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,240
Speaker 2: World Cup was in South Africa and all those South

1114
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 2: African World Cup songs were bangers.

1115
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, a wuka, Hey, it's time for Twinkle Twinkle, little Star.

1116
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 1: You'll sing all the classics that you know you remember

1117
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 1: Hollelujah from Shrek. Oh yeah, I would do stuff like

1118
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 1: that and I would try and uh and dad's mom's dads.

1119
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: They might they might be on this wave too, but

1120
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:00,200
Speaker 1: you sing them so much that you start trying to

1121
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 1: figure out your own lyrics for the song that's tailored

1122
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: towards them. It was like once there was this little

1123
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: girl and her little name was Serulian, and she was

1124
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: so good. She always smiled. We all try to sing

1125
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 1: her this like when she was like acting out. Yeah yeah,

1126
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 1: she was just like stare at me. Her eyes were

1127
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: like the ocean blue, her dad's her wait her name

1128
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: was after the ocean blue. Her eyes the same, her

1129
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 1: daddy's too. And she was so good, she always smiled.

1130
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 1: Then I would like make something up until I got

1131
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: it into hallelujah. You all have fun, dudes. Bro, he's

1132
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 1: rocking it. He's rocking. Don't let me get hot right now.

1133
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: He's rocking it with the lullaball because the blue oceans,

1134
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 1: the color blue. Yes, get me start acting up. Her

1135
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 1: eyes are blue, her daddy's too. O My eyes are blue.

1136
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 1: That's why I wrote it like that. That's why I

1137
00:57:57,960 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: wrote it like I don't know if you felt that

1138
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: bar for it, I put it in there. It's deeper.

1139
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 1: It's deeper than you, your server. You look at me

1140
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: like you don't get it. Like, dude, I love that.

1141
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 1: I love that.

1142
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 2: My dad hack is it's so dumb because I was

1143
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 2: just trying to think of something funny, but it it

1144
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 2: does work. And this is for the cats out there

1145
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 2: that aren't fully dead's. This is just for if you're

1146
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 2: living with your significant other. Okay, you time out that

1147
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 2: yard work to where you still have the grass a

1148
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 2: little bit on you. It's on your shoes, it's on

1149
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 2: your socks, it's on your shirt. You're sweaty, dude, and

1150
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 2: you time out that you're finishing the yard work right when.

1151
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: She's pulling up. There's just I'm just telling you. It

1152
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: works with my girl.

1153
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 2: I don't know if it works for every girl, but

1154
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 2: there's something about them coming home seeing you covered in

1155
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 2: sweat and you got the grass all over you. They

1156
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 2: see how beautiful the yard work or yardwork looks.

1157
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: Take off the shades, put them on your head.

1158
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, and just give just give him a

1159
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 2: little show, just a little taste, and Venmo, here's another

1160
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 2: dad hack. Venmo for some uh what was it? The

1161
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 2: manny petty shoot her a venmo and just say Manny

1162
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 2: petty unsolicited while you're doing the yard. That's some game, churm.

1163
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 2: You hit her some game. You hit her with the

1164
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 2: Manni petty venmo. She comes back from the many petty

1165
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 2: because she was already out shopping. You're covered in sweat

1166
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 2: and grass it and you don't think you're not taking

1167
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 2: a shower with it.

1168
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:35,919
Speaker 1: Just put you on game.

1169
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 2: I know that that's that's so shallow compared to afterr lallaby.

1170
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 2: But I don't have a kid yet. Yeah, so that's

1171
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 2: just like that's some game. Name spots here for.

1172
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, so with the spots here for I'm

1173
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 1: gonna take a quick leak do it, drain the main vein,

1174
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 1: take a little potty break, and when we get back,

1175
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:54,760
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1176
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:58,040
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Speaker 1: Back to the episode.

1194
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 2: As we get back into it, Chef pulled up that

1195
01:00:56,400 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 2: wallaby and we were I googled that uh lallaby for

1196
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 2: a mighty Joe Young. It's called the wind song. Do

1197
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 2: you want to hear the translation to that song?

1198
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:10,439
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1199
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 2: Sing a song and for a moment you will be

1200
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: visited by the wind. Sing a song and for a moment,

1201
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 2: dreams sweetly of the Wind sleep now until the night

1202
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 2: is dawn, the wind and the night song they are there. However,

1203
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 2: the song My Child Will go On Forever, that is

1204
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 2: the wind song, and Chef played it for me.

1205
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 1: It's it hits. Yeah, yeah, there's more lyrics. I just

1206
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: don't like. I can't. I couldn't remember. In Mighty Joe Young,

1207
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 1: it mainly hit those first couple of lines and then

1208
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 1: I would just repeat it.

1209
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah. He played it and also shout

1210
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 2: out no free shout out Bill Paxson. Dude, what yeah

1211
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 2: the actor, Yes, yeah, what a legend. Ri Ip is

1212
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 2: in the chap for Bill Paxson.

1213
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 1: He is awesome. Yeah, yeah, if we want to be,

1214
01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 1: if we want to be, yeah, or do we want

1215
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 1: to get to some call ins? Yes? We got to

1216
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 1: keep this one under an hour. We got to keep

1217
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 1: it under an How where we at chef? Yea, where

1218
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 1: are we at chef hour and one minute? Okay, we

1219
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 1: gotta figure out a way to get this under an hour. Yeah,

1220
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: we'll get there.

1221
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 2: I'll just be what we do every week that we

1222
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 2: just get under an hour. To keep this one under

1223
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 2: an hour, and we're actually doing really well. We're at

1224
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 2: hour forty five. I know we said we're going to

1225
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 2: try and get under an hour guys, but now we're

1226
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 2: just we're under two hours, so we're actually doing well.

1227
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 2: First caller, Uh, this is a do we want to

1228
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 2: do the P word?

1229
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 1: One? First? Uh? This comes from Caleb. Caleb, this is

1230
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 1: a dad win, all right, Caleb excited to hear about

1231
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 1: this dad win.

1232
01:02:55,720 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 3: This is Caleb, the biggest fan from from Busing. This

1233
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 3: is a message coming from the trenches. Doctor. Our baby's

1234
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 3: about to be two. She's a girl. Doctor says, we've

1235
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 3: got to get rid of the P word. That's the

1236
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 3: pacifier we know in our house, can't say it right now.

1237
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 3: We're on day seven and no pacifier, and for seven

1238
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 3: days bedtime has been hearts black, Hearts of stone. Got

1239
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 3: a fight to get her down today. Just got back

1240
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 3: from a road trip. It's currently seven pm, right at

1241
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 3: her normal bedtime. We do bedtime routine, set the expectations

1242
01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 3: like laid out on the show. Put her in the cribs,

1243
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 3: no P word, she's out. No fussing, no holding, no negotiating.

1244
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 3: Thank you for your advice, Just letting you know that

1245
01:03:56,920 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 3: right now, the battle of the past car has been

1246
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 3: one by the Dad, Let's go for the Dad. Love

1247
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 3: you boys.

1248
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 1: Let's go Caleb. Hey, that's big time. That's big time.

1249
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: Bus from the show worked. He say things had turned

1250
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 1: black and turned to study turned black, laid the expectations

1251
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 1: like you heard on the show. No p words dropped,

1252
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: she slept. The passive fire is hard. Bro Rue was

1253
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:36,880
Speaker 1: massive in the Passivefire game. Yeah, dude, and we essentially

1254
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 1: like there's a few ways to go about it. You

1255
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: go cold turkey, you can go clean. It sounds like

1256
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 1: our boy Caleb did had to fight that battle for

1257
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 1: seven days. They'll be like, you know, you can get

1258
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: some advice on the internet that might give you like

1259
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 1: different time frames, whether it's like say six months, a year,

1260
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 1: a year and a half or whatever. Yeah, you can

1261
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 1: pull holes to where the air kind of you know,

1262
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 1: it's out. They don't enjoy it as much. Roue didn't

1263
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:01,920
Speaker 1: give a ship. We have the whole poke stuff. We

1264
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: try the whole poke stuff. It's always passing. And Tiger

1265
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:07,920
Speaker 1: we have this little uh webbing ub which, by the way,

1266
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: webb and we got some webbing webbing ubs are we

1267
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: got that's game right there? Is that what Tiger is.

1268
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 1: Tiger was a webbing nub lost his passy off the end,

1269
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: got fought through, you know, fought through some battles of

1270
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 1: his own. But Tiger's been like her, you know her

1271
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:27,720
Speaker 1: like pacifier as like a stuff. Yes, she's Tiger. Yeah,

1272
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 1: Tiger's like her. Her. Tiger's are main ud. Yeah, Tiger's

1273
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 1: here main a little bit. I was like slow to

1274
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 1: say that because kids showing, the parents showed. Yeah.

1275
01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 2: I asked her if Tiger had a voice, and she

1276
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 2: was talking for Tiger.

1277
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, she's got a whold Tiger loves to play

1278
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:51,360
Speaker 1: hide and seek. I gotta find Yes, that's right, Tiger

1279
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 1: loves to play hide and seek. Oh my god. But

1280
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 1: getting rid of the pass he was a tough hurdle

1281
01:05:56,360 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 1: for us. We essentially we positioned it as when she

1282
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: turned three, we're gonna go take her passes to the

1283
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 1: passy ferry. So we take her somewhere. You take them

1284
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 1: to a store, Yeah, and you exchange passes and then

1285
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 1: you'll get a you'll get a little like a toy

1286
01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: or a game in return. But you donate them and

1287
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 1: give them to the passy ferry. Passive ferry takes him.

1288
01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 1: This is like the circle of life. This is the natural.

1289
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: This is what we do with passes. I love this. Yeah,

1290
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 1: so we took her to the passy Ferry, like a

1291
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 1: took her to a store that does this, and we

1292
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 1: got a little we got a little board game, little

1293
01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 1: board game in return, and the board game is sick.

1294
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 3: What is it?

1295
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 1: I got to look at it. Wait, was this? This

1296
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 1: is a physical store that you broughsical store? Yeah, where

1297
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: they do passy ferry or they you donate them, you

1298
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 1: donate the passes, they do whatever with them. Oh that's sick.

1299
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: And yeah, you you hype it up like this moment,

1300
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:53,959
Speaker 1: she's gotta let go of pass now. Bedtime was tough

1301
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: at first. I will say I got lucky personally. My

1302
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 1: wife was battling this or my wife this is the

1303
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 1: superhero of the story. I was we were traveling somewhere

1304
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: for busting, so we got timed up to watch. Charo

1305
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 1: had to do the bad time. I want to say.

1306
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 1: Bedtimes were hard the first couple of days. And she's like,

1307
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 1: real convenient that you wanted to I think I remember this.

1308
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 1: This was since I've been here at the office. Yeah. Yeah,

1309
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 1: So Charo had to kind of handle the first couple

1310
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 1: of bed times but when I got back and I

1311
01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 1: was doing bedtime, like she would still just a weird moment,

1312
01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 1: so where she kind of starts having a tantrument. She

1313
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 1: wants passy, sweetheart, we took pass you to the passy ferry. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1314
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 1: I want Scotty's passing. Those passes are for Scotti. Uh huh.

1315
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: And you got to kind of keep her away, kind

1316
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,840
Speaker 1: of shift her brain, say, oh, look at that truck,

1317
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 1: or hey, look at your stuff animal. He needs some help,

1318
01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 1: just fell over. Yeah, look at Tigy. Oh what's that Tigy.

1319
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:51,440
Speaker 1: I know she gave her passes the passy ferry, but

1320
01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 1: she probably doesn't want to hear that right now. Oh

1321
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 1: you want to give her a hug? I don't know.

1322
01:07:56,120 --> 01:08:00,120
Speaker 1: I'll ask her if you let me. Hey, Ty, he

1323
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: would like to give you out because he sees that

1324
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 1: you're having a hard time right now. It seems like

1325
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: he really wants to give you a hug. Would you

1326
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 1: want to give him hug? Yeah? And she like hugged

1327
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 1: Tigy And then you'll create a conversation with her and

1328
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 1: Tigy to kind of get their brain shifted somewhere else.

1329
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 1: Let me look up this board game, kids, board game,

1330
01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,000
Speaker 1: troll and Unicorns.

1331
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 2: I just love the thought of Chara like fighting the

1332
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 2: pacifier thing. And if I think it was the A

1333
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 2: and M trip, uh was when you're doing the pacifier, Well, we.

1334
01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:39,600
Speaker 1: Were trying to. You were trying, you were trying to

1335
01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 1: do the cold Turkey, and we just we couldn't. I

1336
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:45,600
Speaker 1: don't know, we weren't badass enough to just do it

1337
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:48,879
Speaker 1: because you just you feel for him. You're so emotionally

1338
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 1: wrapped up in their in their story too. You feel

1339
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 1: for him, and when they're just losing your mind, you're

1340
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 1: just like, all right, take the bass. Jesus Christ, it's

1341
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 1: not gone. I had in my back pocket, take the bat.

1342
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,040
Speaker 1: I don't want any problems. You can put the gun down,

1343
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 1: give mein. Yeah, Terr's the win. So then we had

1344
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: to we had to reorganize because I think we're gonna

1345
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:13,040
Speaker 1: do it like around two and a half years, which

1346
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 1: would have made sense for the Texas A and M game.

1347
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 1: So then we shifted. We're like, all right, three, when

1348
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 1: she has her third birthday party, we're gonna talk to

1349
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 1: her about it for like a month at a time. Hey,

1350
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:23,680
Speaker 1: whenever you turn three, you get to go take your

1351
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 1: passes to the PASSI faerure like that's what you do

1352
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,560
Speaker 1: at three years old, and had to get her like

1353
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:31,160
Speaker 1: get her on board. That is right. So that's how

1354
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,439
Speaker 1: we kind of shifted it because she was again she

1355
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 1: still had her pass. He found the game. Oh here

1356
01:09:36,320 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 1: we go this. I would save this for another Crack

1357
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 1: of Cold one or dad Hack Survival Kit, because this

1358
01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 1: is a good one. Share and Sparkle Unicorns. It's a

1359
01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 1: peaceable it's a peaceable Kingdom cooperative board game, and it

1360
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 1: is a fun game. Bro, it's a fun game. I'll

1361
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 1: have I'll have crack a cold one for this game

1362
01:09:58,400 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 1: because I have a I have a couple of fun

1363
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:03,640
Speaker 1: stories that pertain to this. But Share and Sparkle Unicorns.

1364
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 1: This is again a cooperative multiplayer game to where if

1365
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 1: we all played US three me Sherman Chef, we would

1366
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 1: be battling the troll. We can't let troll get all

1367
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 1: the stones and you roll dice. You you draw these

1368
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: stones out of a bag, out of a little baggy

1369
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 1: and if you know you get you start filling up

1370
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: your colors. If you have say, say you have two

1371
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 1: green slots and you draw green, you put the green

1372
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:31,840
Speaker 1: on your green slot. If you already have two green

1373
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 1: and you draw a third green one, you have to

1374
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: give that one to the troll, and if the troll

1375
01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:40,560
Speaker 1: fills up his back first, troll wins. You're trying to

1376
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:42,760
Speaker 1: get all of you and your teammates to fill up

1377
01:10:42,800 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 1: your your own little board. If I if my board

1378
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:49,160
Speaker 1: is filled up anytime I draw, I'm not trying to

1379
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: give them to my teammates. But there are some red

1380
01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:54,519
Speaker 1: there are some red stones. If you get a red stone,

1381
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 1: that means that's a troll card. You gotta flip over

1382
01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:58,680
Speaker 1: the troll card and you probably have to give one

1383
01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:00,200
Speaker 1: back to the bag, which kind of hurts. It's the

1384
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:02,960
Speaker 1: whole chemistry, got to take the year out of you.

1385
01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:05,760
Speaker 1: But it's a fun game. Sure looks fun. Share and

1386
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 1: sparkle unicorns. I might bringing in. We could just do

1387
01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: it as a for a team builder with Bustle with

1388
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 1: the boys. It's a great game, all right, Next call in,

1389
01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 1: I gotta keep this one under an hour. Yeah, let's

1390
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: stick to under an hour.

1391
01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:21,800
Speaker 2: This one comes from Oh, I'm excited for this one.

1392
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:25,960
Speaker 2: This one comes from matt Uh his daughter face a

1393
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 2: little bit of trash.

1394
01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 1: Talk at school. Fa trash talk, A little bit of

1395
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:33,800
Speaker 1: trash talk towards his daughter. Again, this is not a

1396
01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:37,600
Speaker 1: show about giving expert advice. I'll handle this as the

1397
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: call comes in, but who knows if I'll handle it

1398
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:48,679
Speaker 1: the right way. I think you'll like this one, Hey Will.

1399
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 1: My name is Matt.

1400
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 5: I'm actually from Lincoln, Nebraska, CoA skirts also a girl dad.

1401
01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:59,760
Speaker 5: How do something maybe you can bring up in a conversation.

1402
01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 1: On the show. I have a daughter.

1403
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 5: Who's just going into first grade, and she came home

1404
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:15,400
Speaker 5: today and was very upset because some boys at her

1405
01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 5: school had told her that because she's a girl, she

1406
01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:24,280
Speaker 5: can't wear football jerseys and soccer jerseys because those are.

1407
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 1: Only for boys.

1408
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 5: And she put them all on a pile and wanted

1409
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 5: to get rid of them. And so maybe that's something

1410
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,720
Speaker 5: that the boys could talk about. And being a dad

1411
01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:39,880
Speaker 5: who's into sports and coaches and kind of how our

1412
01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:41,880
Speaker 5: daughters have to deal with that uphill battle, move and

1413
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 5: throw forward.

1414
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:45,679
Speaker 1: So love the show, Keep up the great work.

1415
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 5: Hope to hear from me soon.

1416
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 1: Oh, Matt, thank you for calling in. Bro shout out

1417
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:57,639
Speaker 1: the skurts. I'm pissed off that one gets me. Heated

1418
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:00,040
Speaker 1: that one gets me heated buddy out of one and

1419
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 1: a hey, who are these little boys? Point them out

1420
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 1: to me? Probably it's Billy and Ryan. Hey, Billy, Ryan,

1421
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:13,439
Speaker 1: one of your folks show up. When did they get here?

1422
01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:15,000
Speaker 1: Point them out if they're in the crowd right now.

1423
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:19,719
Speaker 1: But that's my dad right there. I know that wouldn't

1424
01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 1: be the way to go about it, but I would

1425
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 1: be internally fuming about that because that would piss me off.

1426
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:27,799
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to imagine if rue Love's wearing jerseys.

1427
01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 1: She knows dad watches ball on the weekend. She's into

1428
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:32,360
Speaker 1: cheering for the Huskers. She's in the cheering for whichever

1429
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:34,599
Speaker 1: team mom and dad are cheering for, and she wants

1430
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 1: to get jerseys, and she thinks they're cool. And she

1431
01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 1: goes to school and she gets told like, oh, only

1432
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 1: boys wear jerseys. I'm thinking, fuck that, dude, Fuck that.

1433
01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:46,760
Speaker 1: I how old? How old is she going into first grade?

1434
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:48,639
Speaker 1: Going into first grade? So this wouldn't be one where

1435
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:50,760
Speaker 1: she probably has a young where she could just play

1436
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:52,800
Speaker 1: a clip for these boys. You know what we should do?

1437
01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 2: I have an idea, but you go ahead. I hope

1438
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 2: it's the same idea we should get since.

1439
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 1: They're Husker fans. Yes, get a will Compton jersey made Yes,

1440
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:05,559
Speaker 1: and I go and give her this jersey at the school,

1441
01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 1: one hundred percent.

1442
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:10,200
Speaker 2: And I didn't want to put any pressure on him,

1443
01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 2: but Dylan Raila as well. That would be yes, insane

1444
01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 2: if you and Dylan rolled into her school and said.

1445
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 1: Coach rule, coach rule, would do it?

1446
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:25,599
Speaker 2: Dude, he's got girls, Yeah, he got girl Yes, rules

1447
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:26,520
Speaker 2: there tomorrow?

1448
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:29,559
Speaker 1: Should I get you? Want me to get this guy's

1449
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 1: information over to you, because if he's in Lincoln, then

1450
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:36,000
Speaker 1: next time we go to Lincoln. I was trying to

1451
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 1: get out to a couple of training camp days in August.

1452
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 1: They're probably not in school right now. We'll have to

1453
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: figure that out. Those kids just made the biggest mistake,

1454
01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:48,639
Speaker 1: the biggest mistake of their lives. I'm gonna take those

1455
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 1: kids on a walk. I'm gonna take those first graders

1456
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:53,519
Speaker 1: on a walk, just selfie video. Hey, come and step

1457
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 1: into the pantry, boys, Billy and Ryan, I'll just fucking

1458
01:14:57,960 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 1: around that way.

1459
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:02,680
Speaker 2: Jerseys are different only for girls, yeah, or they're only

1460
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 2: for boys only for boys?

1461
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 1: That yeah, that that that gets the piss hot. But

1462
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 1: get that piss hot.

1463
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 2: That would be the most incredible moment for that girl.

1464
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:14,680
Speaker 1: That would be so sick. Yeah, Matt, you just tell

1465
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:20,639
Speaker 1: your daughter that show her just this video. I wish

1466
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 1: we knew her name. I know, I wish we knew

1467
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:24,080
Speaker 1: her name so we could talk to her.

1468
01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 6: I know.

1469
01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I want to send him, Matt, let's

1470
01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: get his information so that way I can send him.

1471
01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 1: I'll send him a video. Yeah, I'll send him a

1472
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: video that he can show his daughter because that sucks, dude.

1473
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:37,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the fact that she had it all laid

1474
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:40,640
Speaker 2: out all of her jerseys and said I don't want

1475
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 2: to wear these anymore.

1476
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 1: And for any first grade boys out there watching this

1477
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 1: podcast right now, like they're just telling YouTube, make sure

1478
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:50,719
Speaker 1: you're subscribed first. But we need to encourage and embrace

1479
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 1: and support anytime somebody's trying to uplift the sport of football,

1480
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:58,160
Speaker 1: any sport. You need to make all the girls, all

1481
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:02,160
Speaker 1: the women, think it's the coolest thing on earth, because

1482
01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:04,360
Speaker 1: that's what we have to do. Bro. I hate that

1483
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 1: a little girls getting told, hey, only boys were jerseys,

1484
01:16:08,280 --> 01:16:10,639
Speaker 1: Like that's bullshit. I would love to meet these boys

1485
01:16:10,720 --> 01:16:12,240
Speaker 1: in the a gup, but they're boys, so I can't

1486
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:14,599
Speaker 1: say that these are first graders in eighteen years, I'd

1487
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:17,960
Speaker 1: love to be but my first grade self. Them kids

1488
01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 1: will be eating through it too. Hey, hey, just kids,

1489
01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 1: just joshing, just josh. Maybe the parents are friends of

1490
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 1: the show. This is only the beginning of this story.

1491
01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:31,600
Speaker 1: That's what gets me stepped. Yeah, bros, gonna cut up

1492
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:34,559
Speaker 1: Jay Terry right now. Our the equipment guy at Nebraska,

1493
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 1: I say, ours the equipment guy at Nebraska, and be like, hey,

1494
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: we need to get a jersey made for this first grader,

1495
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:42,320
Speaker 1: and we gotta figure something out because that would be

1496
01:16:42,400 --> 01:16:45,040
Speaker 1: sick electric. Yeah, that would be really cool. Rules all right.

1497
01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:47,560
Speaker 2: He doesn't even know what's going on, he's already on it.

1498
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:49,559
Speaker 1: And just to know, if I did come across these boys,

1499
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: I would handle it. I wouldn't be fucking around like

1500
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:53,880
Speaker 1: I am on this show right now, Like it would

1501
01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 1: be a you just want to talk to him about it.

1502
01:16:57,479 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 1: I encourage him, talk about how you know they should

1503
01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:03,080
Speaker 1: go about it. A Husker is a Husker last time

1504
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 1: I checked. And it's just a football fans a football fan, man.

1505
01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 1: Come on. Yeah. A lot of thoughts run through my head. Yeah, yeah,

1506
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 1: a lot of thoughts. But I think that would be sick.

1507
01:17:14,960 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 1: That would be cool. Thank you, Matt. Shout out madh Skers,

1508
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:19,040
Speaker 1: go big red.

1509
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:21,599
Speaker 2: Shout out mad Ghostkers. Check your phone because we've probably

1510
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:25,599
Speaker 2: already texted you by this time. Yeah, all right, last

1511
01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:27,880
Speaker 2: call is from j D.

1512
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:35,679
Speaker 1: German, will Buddies.

1513
01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:37,600
Speaker 7: I don't know if you can hear this in the background.

1514
01:17:41,960 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 7: That's my seven day old.

1515
01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:48,920
Speaker 1: Boy, seventh day Old Boys fan of the show, Willie.

1516
01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:53,040
Speaker 7: I got a question for you, man, how do you

1517
01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:56,720
Speaker 7: get through these first couple of weeks? Been home for

1518
01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 7: about a week now, well, have been home for a

1519
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 7: week with the nights are absolutely brutal, Sleep is nonexistent.

1520
01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:11,720
Speaker 7: Any advice would be appreciated for doing the shifts. My

1521
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 7: wife and I were doing everything, man, but I can't

1522
01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:20,599
Speaker 7: even think right now. I'm half asleep, Sherman. You'll get

1523
01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:24,599
Speaker 7: to this soon, combats to you and Jilly Bean. But yeah, man,

1524
01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 7: frustration sets in in the middle of the night, knowing

1525
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:29,880
Speaker 7: you're doing everything you can for the little one and

1526
01:18:30,000 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 7: he still isn't sleeping. Love your thoughts, How you get

1527
01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 7: through these restless nights? How you continue to convince yourself

1528
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:41,679
Speaker 7: that the end is near and anything in between? Again? JD.

1529
01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 7: Out of Chicago.

1530
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: Thanks boys, JD, thanks for calling in brother. He's essentially

1531
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:51,640
Speaker 1: he's asking how you deal with these early weeks not

1532
01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:55,280
Speaker 1: getting any sleep. You can tell my man's he's on

1533
01:18:55,400 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: his last limp. He's battling, he's burning thin right now.

1534
01:18:58,560 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 1: He is in the foxhole in the trenches. You know.

1535
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:06,320
Speaker 1: When he got off the pontel, he's like pleasus, he goes,

1536
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:08,240
Speaker 1: I don't know if you can hear this right now,

1537
01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:17,000
Speaker 1: and I guarantee you is just look we were talking

1538
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:19,759
Speaker 1: about it earlier in the episode. Yeah, with just embracing

1539
01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:25,000
Speaker 1: the suck. Losers react to, Winners anticipate. If you fail

1540
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 1: to prepare, you prepare to fail. The whole layout that

1541
01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:31,040
Speaker 1: Charro and I would have because we both have our

1542
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:34,479
Speaker 1: off days right where we're operating on e somebody's you know,

1543
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 1: usually her, she's operating in a way less capacity because postpartum,

1544
01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 1: that stuff is real. They're going through a lot of shit,

1545
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 1: So it's hard to it's hard to bitch about your

1546
01:19:42,160 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 1: own stuff because there's really no there's no place for it.

1547
01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:51,559
Speaker 1: And I would have everything just planned out. So for example,

1548
01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:56,160
Speaker 1: the baby's going stretching every three hours is around the

1549
01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:58,120
Speaker 1: goal of what you're trying to accomplish. When you get

1550
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:01,759
Speaker 1: to nighttime, it's all right, who's on the eight pm shift,

1551
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:05,920
Speaker 1: who's on eleven pm, who's on two am, who's on

1552
01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:09,680
Speaker 1: five am, who's on eight am? Right, that's kind of

1553
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:12,640
Speaker 1: how we would cycle everything through. Usually we're both up

1554
01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:15,360
Speaker 1: on the eight pm mark. But let's just say, for example,

1555
01:20:16,640 --> 01:20:19,200
Speaker 1: Charle's running on e and she needs to get some

1556
01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 1: much needed rest and she's somebody who would pump, so

1557
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,680
Speaker 1: I would have the bottles ready to go. Yeah, I

1558
01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 1: would handle the first half, so I would handle eight pm,

1559
01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:30,840
Speaker 1: I would handle eleven PM, and I would handle two am.

1560
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:33,439
Speaker 1: Once I go down for two am, Charo knows Charle

1561
01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:35,760
Speaker 1: now would know that she is active, whether whether or

1562
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:37,760
Speaker 1: not she wants to be active. That is how we

1563
01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:41,200
Speaker 1: structured our nights. Or Charo would do the first the

1564
01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 1: first part, and I would do the back half. And

1565
01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 1: that's two to what sorry, every three hours, so two

1566
01:20:47,080 --> 01:20:49,600
Speaker 1: am five am, oh okay, So if you're on the

1567
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:52,080
Speaker 1: morning shift, it would be five am and eight am.

1568
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 1: Charl would more often than not take on the five

1569
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:58,040
Speaker 1: am and the eight am because that's when I would

1570
01:20:58,080 --> 01:21:00,000
Speaker 1: get going to whether it's gonna work out in the morn,

1571
01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:02,360
Speaker 1: get going with the day, for busting with the boys. Yeah,

1572
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 1: but that's how we structured everything else. So and you

1573
01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:07,679
Speaker 1: just gotta know that some nights are just not going

1574
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:10,800
Speaker 1: to go your way, and you just gotta fucking accept it.

1575
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:13,600
Speaker 1: Because my whole goal, my priorities in my head is

1576
01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 1: parents that would always say like, oh wait, till you

1577
01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:17,760
Speaker 1: have a kid, your whole life's gonna change. You're not

1578
01:21:17,800 --> 01:21:19,519
Speaker 1: gonna get any sleep. You're not gonna get this, You're

1579
01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:21,040
Speaker 1: not gonna get that, You're gonna be a whole different

1580
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 1: human being. Oh watch y'at, watch out. It's gonna suck

1581
01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:25,320
Speaker 1: to be around Will because he's gonna be tired. And

1582
01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:27,720
Speaker 1: this boulder would build on my shoulder that I just

1583
01:21:27,800 --> 01:21:30,559
Speaker 1: wanted to prove that kind of shit wrong. So it'd

1584
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:32,640
Speaker 1: almost be the intention would be in my mind that

1585
01:21:33,120 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 1: all right, there's gonna be nights you are not gonna

1586
01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 1: operate off a lot of sleep. And then whenever you

1587
01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 1: go into the building, you wanna kind of have high

1588
01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:40,800
Speaker 1: spirits for the boy's enthusiasm. But everybody was great around me.

1589
01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 1: They would know that, you know, Will just had a kid.

1590
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:44,880
Speaker 1: If Will needs to go he's gotta go, like guys

1591
01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:47,000
Speaker 1: would try to make me do you know, as less

1592
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:49,000
Speaker 1: as possible, and just you guys are supportive as hell

1593
01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 1: during all that. But I just those voices would be

1594
01:21:51,360 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 1: in my head to where I knew like I wanted

1595
01:21:53,320 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 1: to be on when I'm just anticipating being on and

1596
01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 1: not be somebody who would be reactive have the loser mentality.

1597
01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:03,320
Speaker 1: So I would just I would structure it. My advice

1598
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:07,880
Speaker 1: would be to plan, uh, plan out what your nights

1599
01:22:07,960 --> 01:22:10,719
Speaker 1: look like. If you're gonna be on the night shift

1600
01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 1: all night long, then just know that you're going to

1601
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 1: battle that pissed off mood and you're not gonna let that.

1602
01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:20,400
Speaker 1: You're not gonna let that shit happen. Two things you

1603
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:23,320
Speaker 1: can always control, always, no matter what, no matter how

1604
01:22:23,360 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 1: tired you are, no matter how beat down you are,

1605
01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:27,599
Speaker 1: no matter what it is, you can always control your

1606
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 1: attitude and effort. And if you're having a bad fucking

1607
01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:33,800
Speaker 1: night again, it's like having quotes, having things to lean

1608
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:35,439
Speaker 1: on that's kind of helping you get through it. Because

1609
01:22:35,439 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 1: there's gonna be nights where you fall short and you

1610
01:22:36,880 --> 01:22:38,439
Speaker 1: feel like less of a dad or you feel like, man,

1611
01:22:38,479 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 1: I didn't really handle that the right way, and that's

1612
01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:42,479
Speaker 1: just gonna fucking happen, and you gotta have grace with yourself.

1613
01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:44,320
Speaker 1: You gotta know that it's gonna be okay. But I'm

1614
01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 1: telling you, anticipate the struggle, anticipate the bullshit, anticipate the suck,

1615
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:51,080
Speaker 1: all of it, and just figure out a way to

1616
01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:53,680
Speaker 1: embrace it. That's really the only way. It's all. It's

1617
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 1: all mentality, it's all knowing that, okay, it's not gonna

1618
01:22:57,320 --> 01:23:00,439
Speaker 1: be perfectly eight eleven to two, all of that stuff.

1619
01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:03,479
Speaker 1: And as you get into it, they're gonna need a

1620
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:05,719
Speaker 1: little bit less. Like you start winning off the night feedings.

1621
01:23:05,960 --> 01:23:07,920
Speaker 1: They're gonna be sleeping and stretching that three hours to

1622
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:09,479
Speaker 1: four hours and you're gonna catch a little bit of

1623
01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 1: a winn and you're gonna feel good about it. That

1624
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:17,320
Speaker 1: would be That would be my advice. It's not going anywhere.

1625
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:21,200
Speaker 1: It's gonna it's gonna keep fucking happening, and it's all

1626
01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:24,160
Speaker 1: about embracing the suck and just know that you're gonna

1627
01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:25,439
Speaker 1: be in it. You know your boys are in it

1628
01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:30,679
Speaker 1: with you, not physically but emotionally. This podcast The Fatherhood, Yeah,

1629
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:33,600
Speaker 1: Pop a team six who owes his name j D.

1630
01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:38,040
Speaker 1: J D from Shytown. J D from Shytown. We're with you,

1631
01:23:38,200 --> 01:23:41,320
Speaker 1: j D. Drop comments in the comment check section. We're

1632
01:23:41,360 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 1: with you, JD. You just gotta keep battling, dude, keep

1633
01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:48,280
Speaker 1: showing up, laugh at yourself. No, it's gonna be fucking hard. Yeah,

1634
01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:50,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna think about leaving your kids and your family,

1635
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:55,680
Speaker 1: but you won't. But you won't. And just know that

1636
01:23:55,760 --> 01:23:58,080
Speaker 1: you are gonna wish that you had those moments back.

1637
01:23:58,120 --> 01:24:00,439
Speaker 1: As hard as it feels like they are right now,

1638
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:02,840
Speaker 1: as long as those nights seem right now, just know

1639
01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:05,200
Speaker 1: that you are gonna want those back because they're gonna

1640
01:24:05,240 --> 01:24:07,800
Speaker 1: start moving, They're gonna start crawling, they're gonna start hitting milestones.

1641
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:10,439
Speaker 1: You're gonna, man, remember when they just had the smallest fingers,

1642
01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:12,800
Speaker 1: the smallest little hands. They're just staring at you while

1643
01:24:12,800 --> 01:24:15,040
Speaker 1: they're feeding. They're not feeding, but they're still just kind

1644
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:17,680
Speaker 1: of looking at you. They're throwing their head around. They

1645
01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:19,600
Speaker 1: don't want the bottle. It's gonna piss you off, but

1646
01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:23,400
Speaker 1: do your best to cherish every fucking moment. Dude.

1647
01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:27,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that answer, But by the time he

1648
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:30,040
Speaker 2: hears this answer, I'll probably be in the trenches as well.

1649
01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:32,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and look I was in the trenches too, and

1650
01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:34,960
Speaker 1: there'd be a lot of times where I'm like, you know,

1651
01:24:35,200 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 1: bitching about it mentally. If it's just me maybe talking

1652
01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 1: to the kid, I'll just start, you know, you just

1653
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:42,479
Speaker 1: start riffing and improving with the kid about just how

1654
01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 1: hard it is, how hard their life is making, how

1655
01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:46,360
Speaker 1: hard they're making my life. The next day if they

1656
01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:49,400
Speaker 1: don't go down to sleep. You know, if I get

1657
01:24:49,439 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 1: too mad, I can start making a lot of noise

1658
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:52,400
Speaker 1: to where Mom feels like she has to come up

1659
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 1: and intervene. You understand that, right, that's gonna piss everybody off. Hey,

1660
01:24:57,560 --> 01:24:59,400
Speaker 1: when are you getting go? I was doing the math.

1661
01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 2: I was like in his will sleeping with that schedule.

1662
01:25:03,120 --> 01:25:05,479
Speaker 2: If you have the eight eleven and two.

1663
01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 1: Shift, I'll fall asleep. So I would let's say all

1664
01:25:10,640 --> 01:25:13,320
Speaker 1: was watching Tulsa King. I remember Tulsa King being a show.

1665
01:25:13,360 --> 01:25:15,400
Speaker 1: I was kind of watching knowing that I'm bunkering up

1666
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 1: for the night on the couch because I would just

1667
01:25:17,280 --> 01:25:18,639
Speaker 1: tell sar, Hey, I want you to get some sleep.

1668
01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:20,000
Speaker 1: Troub back. You can sleep in the bed and just

1669
01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:21,560
Speaker 1: get up whenever she goes. I'm like, yeah, I know,

1670
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:23,040
Speaker 1: but if you hear the monitor and you wake up

1671
01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:25,120
Speaker 1: at all, Like, guys, just don't want to interrupt your sleep.

1672
01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:27,240
Speaker 1: You sleep in the bed, I'll sleep on the couch

1673
01:25:27,360 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 1: out in the living room, and then I'll just go

1674
01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:31,080
Speaker 1: up and handle it whenever I need to handle it. Yeah,

1675
01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:35,040
Speaker 1: so I would like binge a show, and then if

1676
01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:37,599
Speaker 1: say I wanted to fall asleep or sleep until at

1677
01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:39,800
Speaker 1: eleven PM, I would just have an alarm on my

1678
01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:41,840
Speaker 1: phone and it would just go off at eleven unless

1679
01:25:41,880 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 1: the monitor woke me up beforehand. Then I would go

1680
01:25:44,040 --> 01:25:46,800
Speaker 1: up and feed or go down and sleep from let's

1681
01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:50,840
Speaker 1: just say eleven thirty eleven forty five until the next round. God,

1682
01:25:51,040 --> 01:25:52,760
Speaker 1: so I'll sleep, you know, get an hour and a half,

1683
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:56,600
Speaker 1: two hours in sleeping until two am. Get up, go

1684
01:25:56,720 --> 01:25:58,840
Speaker 1: feed or know that. Okay, now after this one, say

1685
01:25:58,840 --> 01:26:00,640
Speaker 1: it's two thirty and I'm crawling in bed, I now

1686
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:02,960
Speaker 1: get to sleep until six thirty.

1687
01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:06,360
Speaker 2: I very obviously have not read the twelve by twelve

1688
01:26:06,439 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 2: book yet, because I was in that I was like, Oh,

1689
01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:12,879
Speaker 2: you're up for that three hour window, but really.

1690
01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:14,680
Speaker 1: Don't have to. You're only up if you're into the

1691
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:16,360
Speaker 1: show and you're just kind of staying up and you

1692
01:26:16,479 --> 01:26:18,080
Speaker 1: just know it's gonna be a fucking tough night. You're

1693
01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:20,320
Speaker 1: doing it to yourself. Yeah, Yeah, that's why. I You know,

1694
01:26:20,479 --> 01:26:22,240
Speaker 1: if we were on Goon and I would goon, the

1695
01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:25,040
Speaker 1: monitor would be sitting there, the monitor would be sitting

1696
01:26:25,040 --> 01:26:28,040
Speaker 1: there while I'm playing the video game, and then you're

1697
01:26:28,120 --> 01:26:31,080
Speaker 1: just going through the night. That makes all the sense

1698
01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:33,240
Speaker 1: in the world. Now, get two am feeding. You not

1699
01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:36,720
Speaker 1: got that two am feeding. You crawl in the bed

1700
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:38,760
Speaker 1: and get whatever sleep you can until the next till

1701
01:26:38,760 --> 01:26:41,120
Speaker 1: the next whatever we had, or say we had a

1702
01:26:41,200 --> 01:26:43,479
Speaker 1: meeting at like a thirty in the morning, I would

1703
01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 1: sleep until like seven thirty, wake up at seven seven thirty.

1704
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:49,559
Speaker 2: I think, I'm I'm probably gonna do the eight pm

1705
01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:51,559
Speaker 2: eleven to two shift.

1706
01:26:52,320 --> 01:26:53,400
Speaker 1: I would like to do that.

1707
01:26:54,280 --> 01:26:56,320
Speaker 2: And then I feel like it makes it easier for

1708
01:26:56,439 --> 01:27:00,800
Speaker 2: her in the morning Slash. I live so close to

1709
01:27:00,920 --> 01:27:04,240
Speaker 2: the office that I really can kind of yeah, sleep

1710
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:06,600
Speaker 2: until that. Yeah, and if you hit a one in

1711
01:27:06,640 --> 01:27:08,280
Speaker 2: the daytime, it's on me. Like they're gonna just be

1712
01:27:08,400 --> 01:27:10,160
Speaker 2: combined to those walls of the house.

1713
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:12,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're gonna be out at work, right you're

1714
01:27:12,600 --> 01:27:15,679
Speaker 1: gonna be out tasting the fresh air everything else. Obviously

1715
01:27:15,760 --> 01:27:18,160
Speaker 1: she can get her in the stroller, walk with her,

1716
01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:20,640
Speaker 1: get out and about. I would definitely recommend that. But

1717
01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:22,960
Speaker 1: those moments where it's like if you when you do

1718
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:26,439
Speaker 1: get to the bottle, they take a few hours and

1719
01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:28,560
Speaker 1: go do whatever they want. You handle the bottle, you

1720
01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:31,640
Speaker 1: handle the stuff at home, because more of a like

1721
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:34,599
Speaker 1: when I would get home around you know, three thirty

1722
01:27:34,680 --> 01:27:37,240
Speaker 1: or four. Every day you just be on. So you

1723
01:27:37,320 --> 01:27:41,040
Speaker 1: got eight pm, five pm, two pm, and again, all

1724
01:27:41,080 --> 01:27:45,760
Speaker 1: they do is like eat shit and sleep, feed them,

1725
01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:52,240
Speaker 1: burp them. They might shit themselves. They sleep a lot hopefully, yeah, hopefully,

1726
01:27:52,760 --> 01:27:54,600
Speaker 1: but you know, there's not a whole lot that they

1727
01:27:54,680 --> 01:27:57,000
Speaker 1: do for the first few months other than other than

1728
01:27:57,080 --> 01:28:00,799
Speaker 1: that Jill had and we were religious with twelve hours

1729
01:28:01,800 --> 01:28:04,439
Speaker 1: in twelve weeks. That method, Yeah, we need to get that.

1730
01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:06,479
Speaker 1: It's a good method. Man. It's not too aggressive, like

1731
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:09,280
Speaker 1: there's some it's like, let's say, it's like taking care

1732
01:28:09,320 --> 01:28:11,200
Speaker 1: of babies or the ones where you like let them

1733
01:28:11,280 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 1: cry or you're you're you're doing all those things. I

1734
01:28:14,560 --> 01:28:17,720
Speaker 1: like this one because it's a it's an entire philosophy

1735
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:21,839
Speaker 1: on on the kid, the child entering your guys' lives

1736
01:28:22,040 --> 01:28:25,400
Speaker 1: versus you adapting everything in your life around the child.

1737
01:28:25,520 --> 01:28:27,679
Speaker 1: Obviously you're doing that like when you become a parent.

1738
01:28:28,439 --> 01:28:31,439
Speaker 1: But charl would be big on going out and still

1739
01:28:31,520 --> 01:28:35,000
Speaker 1: doing farmers' markets on Saturdays, or still taking them around friends,

1740
01:28:35,040 --> 01:28:36,320
Speaker 1: and if they kind of miss a little bit of

1741
01:28:36,360 --> 01:28:38,080
Speaker 1: their nap window or they're up a little bit longer,

1742
01:28:38,160 --> 01:28:40,599
Speaker 1: it's like the baby is in is in our world.

1743
01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:45,200
Speaker 1: They're acclimating. They're acclimating to us, versus us sacrificing everything

1744
01:28:45,240 --> 01:28:47,519
Speaker 1: to kind of be on a very strict structure with them.

1745
01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:49,640
Speaker 2: That makes all the sense in the world. I know

1746
01:28:49,800 --> 01:28:55,960
Speaker 2: Jill has some sort of sleep plan, whether it's from

1747
01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:57,760
Speaker 2: a book or like some kind of something that she

1748
01:28:57,920 --> 01:29:00,760
Speaker 2: looked into, but I need to have that conversation with

1749
01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:03,720
Speaker 2: her obviously, I mean we're like two days out, but yeah,

1750
01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:06,840
Speaker 2: figure out what that plan is. And then the other

1751
01:29:06,960 --> 01:29:08,479
Speaker 2: thing that I was going to bring up.

1752
01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:11,519
Speaker 1: You could simply chat GPT the twelve hours and twelve

1753
01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:13,320
Speaker 1: weeks and kind of see the methods and then as

1754
01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:15,040
Speaker 1: they put it, log it all out for you just

1755
01:29:15,120 --> 01:29:18,719
Speaker 1: ask why in certain areas, so then you can figure

1756
01:29:18,760 --> 01:29:21,519
Speaker 1: out a little bit about the why behind it.

1757
01:29:22,680 --> 01:29:24,800
Speaker 2: One quick question, because I could probably hate you with

1758
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:28,599
Speaker 2: like a million of these. If you smell that they've

1759
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:32,320
Speaker 2: like shit themselves while they're asleep, do you just let

1760
01:29:32,400 --> 01:29:34,560
Speaker 2: that pony ride until they wake up or like what?

1761
01:29:36,760 --> 01:29:44,720
Speaker 1: It's a great question. Depends depends depends how long they've

1762
01:29:44,760 --> 01:29:47,920
Speaker 1: been sleeping, if you hear them kind of if you

1763
01:29:48,160 --> 01:29:51,120
Speaker 1: if you hear them kind of shit like and it's

1764
01:29:52,200 --> 01:29:54,720
Speaker 1: say they might have thirty or forty five minutes left, Yeah,

1765
01:29:54,880 --> 01:29:56,800
Speaker 1: let them sleep until you wake them up. If they're

1766
01:29:56,800 --> 01:30:01,200
Speaker 1: still sleeping, if it's early, I probably I usually we

1767
01:30:01,280 --> 01:30:04,360
Speaker 1: would change them or I would change them, Yeah, because

1768
01:30:04,360 --> 01:30:07,360
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, I just got her down, she just shit, Like,

1769
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,600
Speaker 1: let me let this ride for a minute. Those she

1770
01:30:10,600 --> 01:30:12,240
Speaker 1: would happen. Let me see if they wake up, because

1771
01:30:12,240 --> 01:30:13,240
Speaker 1: they'll get uncomfortable.

1772
01:30:13,400 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure that they would probably inevitably wake them

1773
01:30:16,920 --> 01:30:19,759
Speaker 2: up with you know, having a shit in their diaper.

1774
01:30:20,160 --> 01:30:23,960
Speaker 2: But the way, like how fast you change diapers, I'm

1775
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:26,360
Speaker 2: sure that I'll probably get to that speed as well.

1776
01:30:26,439 --> 01:30:28,519
Speaker 2: And then at that point I can see why you're like,

1777
01:30:29,160 --> 01:30:31,080
Speaker 2: just change it, yeah, just because.

1778
01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:33,320
Speaker 1: You'll have to take them out of the swaddle. You

1779
01:30:33,400 --> 01:30:37,280
Speaker 1: gotta like unbutton their onesie or whatever with their onesie,

1780
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:39,559
Speaker 1: get to the diaper, like you're gonna wake them up. Yeah,

1781
01:30:39,960 --> 01:30:42,160
Speaker 1: there's not really a method where they're kind of stay asleep.

1782
01:30:42,200 --> 01:30:44,120
Speaker 1: Maybe you're lucky, maybe your kids just just knocked out

1783
01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:48,080
Speaker 1: while you're changing them. But it all depends and all

1784
01:30:48,200 --> 01:30:49,120
Speaker 1: know what to do in the moment.

1785
01:30:50,080 --> 01:30:52,560
Speaker 2: Absolutely, And also a huge shout out to everybody that

1786
01:30:52,680 --> 01:30:56,080
Speaker 2: was like Sherman, anything with buttons on it is a

1787
01:30:56,200 --> 01:30:59,800
Speaker 2: no go. Yeah, we have been purchasing a lot. There's

1788
01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:02,320
Speaker 2: like these new ones where it's all magnets.

1789
01:31:02,960 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 1: N Yeah, dude, magnets are good. It's just like it.

1790
01:31:08,120 --> 01:31:10,680
Speaker 2: Literally just comes off with like a good tug on it,

1791
01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:12,240
Speaker 2: but they can't get it off.

1792
01:31:12,439 --> 01:31:15,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I don't even use like we have pajamas

1793
01:31:15,320 --> 01:31:17,479
Speaker 1: where it's like all the buttons go like underneath like

1794
01:31:18,000 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 1: the end seam of their of their leg up under

1795
01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:22,599
Speaker 1: their crotch all the way to the other end seam. Yeah,

1796
01:31:22,960 --> 01:31:24,920
Speaker 1: I don't even use those anymore. For me, it's just

1797
01:31:24,960 --> 01:31:26,960
Speaker 1: all the zipper from the toe up to the up

1798
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:28,160
Speaker 1: to the up to the neck.

1799
01:31:28,400 --> 01:31:32,080
Speaker 2: That's what everybody's been saying, Like zippers snaps and Max.

1800
01:31:32,320 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 1: They'll be wiggling, they'll be moving. He just fly. Then

1801
01:31:38,360 --> 01:31:40,160
Speaker 1: you be holding them on there something, just letting them

1802
01:31:40,280 --> 01:31:42,200
Speaker 1: know that, like, yeah, I can hold you down. If

1803
01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:46,240
Speaker 1: I want to hold you down, you're probably Scotty's moving now.

1804
01:31:46,320 --> 01:31:48,639
Speaker 1: She's trying to crawl and army crawl and stuff. Yeah,

1805
01:31:48,760 --> 01:31:52,040
Speaker 1: so she'll like get that strong that strong bridge in

1806
01:31:52,120 --> 01:31:54,559
Speaker 1: her back and just like you know, trying to wiggle

1807
01:31:54,600 --> 01:31:58,880
Speaker 1: and hold her little less down. No, yeah, that's daddy,

1808
01:31:58,960 --> 01:32:02,000
Speaker 1: that's daddy right there. You're about to get so many

1809
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:06,120
Speaker 1: texts for gooning. Yeah, for playing video games. I'm gonna

1810
01:32:06,120 --> 01:32:08,080
Speaker 1: starty hitting you up so much. But it's like, you know,

1811
01:32:08,160 --> 01:32:10,240
Speaker 1: you got your little methods that you'll go by. At nighttime,

1812
01:32:10,280 --> 01:32:12,800
Speaker 1: maybe you feel awake. You feel like, even though you

1813
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:14,800
Speaker 1: might have low energy, you have just some jolt at

1814
01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:16,240
Speaker 1: nighttime where it's like, all right, I don't want to

1815
01:32:16,280 --> 01:32:18,479
Speaker 1: go to sleep, like I wanna, I'm wanna watch this show.

1816
01:32:18,520 --> 01:32:20,960
Speaker 1: I would recommend you sleeping you know where you can.

1817
01:32:20,960 --> 01:32:24,799
Speaker 2: But yeah, i'd And that's to bring in full circle,

1818
01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:27,400
Speaker 2: that's one of the reasons why I am worried about

1819
01:32:27,400 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 2: the lack of sleep is because.

1820
01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:32,960
Speaker 1: I know I am good at I can stay up.

1821
01:32:33,880 --> 01:32:36,719
Speaker 2: Yeah once I get once my brain turns to that mindset,

1822
01:32:36,840 --> 01:32:38,720
Speaker 2: and then it's like, well, when am I gonna go

1823
01:32:38,840 --> 01:32:39,200
Speaker 2: to sleep?

1824
01:32:39,280 --> 01:32:40,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? Because then you get that.

1825
01:32:40,560 --> 01:32:43,360
Speaker 2: Kind of like you're tired, but your heart's racing, your

1826
01:32:43,400 --> 01:32:44,080
Speaker 2: head's racing.

1827
01:32:44,640 --> 01:32:47,160
Speaker 1: But and what happens is you'll have this snowball effect

1828
01:32:47,920 --> 01:32:49,920
Speaker 1: of when you're not getting the sleep when you know

1829
01:32:50,040 --> 01:32:52,240
Speaker 1: you should be like the one where the quote the

1830
01:32:53,720 --> 01:32:55,920
Speaker 1: journal entry last week from Daily Dad, just go to bed,

1831
01:32:56,080 --> 01:32:57,640
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah yeah. And when you don't do that,

1832
01:32:57,720 --> 01:33:00,320
Speaker 1: the first thing you'll start sacrificing is your own like

1833
01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:02,680
Speaker 1: your own health. Like you'll stop doing the exercises that

1834
01:33:02,760 --> 01:33:05,120
Speaker 1: you have long like that you wanted to do for yourself.

1835
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:08,280
Speaker 1: You'll stop. You'll eat whatever because you're just on the

1836
01:33:08,360 --> 01:33:10,760
Speaker 1: go and you've just chalked it up as like I'm

1837
01:33:10,840 --> 01:33:13,519
Speaker 1: a beating down man. If anything's gonna make me feel good,

1838
01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:15,280
Speaker 1: I want it to be this food. So you start

1839
01:33:15,360 --> 01:33:18,479
Speaker 1: letting yourself go health wise, which in the long run,

1840
01:33:18,680 --> 01:33:22,040
Speaker 1: it just starts. You'll start getting upset with yourself. You

1841
01:33:22,120 --> 01:33:24,280
Speaker 1: don't know where it's coming from. You start projecting. So

1842
01:33:24,920 --> 01:33:27,280
Speaker 1: it's important to get to sleep when you can, so

1843
01:33:27,360 --> 01:33:30,120
Speaker 1: you can keep yourself true to whatever your principles want

1844
01:33:30,160 --> 01:33:33,400
Speaker 1: to be with health and exercise and everything, because that'll

1845
01:33:33,400 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 1: be like the first thing to go. You'll start you'll

1846
01:33:35,080 --> 01:33:37,200
Speaker 1: start feeling so sorry for yourself and you'll just eat whatever.

1847
01:33:38,200 --> 01:33:40,400
Speaker 1: I'm bad at that. Dude, stress See the boys and

1848
01:33:40,479 --> 01:33:42,360
Speaker 1: Dad's out there put on way to their own. Yeah,

1849
01:33:43,800 --> 01:33:46,559
Speaker 1: I stress eat one. Yeah I feel Yeah, I feel

1850
01:33:46,560 --> 01:33:49,280
Speaker 1: like it's just stress eating. You just start stressing yourself out,

1851
01:33:49,760 --> 01:33:51,360
Speaker 1: and that'll be the first thing that goes, and you

1852
01:33:51,400 --> 01:33:53,479
Speaker 1: don't want that because there'll be some long term it'll

1853
01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:54,120
Speaker 1: just snowball.

1854
01:33:54,240 --> 01:33:57,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, And I'm already I'm I'm on. We talked

1855
01:33:57,240 --> 01:34:00,800
Speaker 2: a little bit about this with Jill's just station Will Diabete. Yeah,

1856
01:34:01,120 --> 01:34:03,720
Speaker 2: that it got me on a healthier train. So like

1857
01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:07,280
Speaker 2: I'm going in a good trajectory with like a lot

1858
01:34:07,320 --> 01:34:11,320
Speaker 2: of proteins, a lot of veggies. Yeah, I don't want

1859
01:34:11,360 --> 01:34:14,120
Speaker 2: to get off that because I'm moving, I'm feeling better.

1860
01:34:14,880 --> 01:34:17,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well I'll try and stick to a buddy. Yeah,

1861
01:34:18,280 --> 01:34:20,240
Speaker 1: your accountabil buddy. Please. All right, we got to keep

1862
01:34:20,280 --> 01:34:20,840
Speaker 1: this under an hour.

1863
01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:23,920
Speaker 2: We do add quick reminder eight five five four two

1864
01:34:24,040 --> 01:34:28,080
Speaker 2: seven two seven three six. That's a national parent and

1865
01:34:28,240 --> 01:34:31,479
Speaker 2: youth hotline. If you have a major issue that you

1866
01:34:31,600 --> 01:34:33,639
Speaker 2: need to call in, get off your chest, make sure

1867
01:34:33,640 --> 01:34:34,439
Speaker 2: you call those guys.

1868
01:34:34,920 --> 01:34:36,800
Speaker 1: And if you're wanting to leave a voicemail for the

1869
01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:40,559
Speaker 1: dads for this show six to oh one, The Dad's

1870
01:34:40,920 --> 01:34:42,799
Speaker 1: six oh one the Dads six o one the Dads.

1871
01:34:43,680 --> 01:34:45,479
Speaker 1: Give us the topic that you're covering or the segment

1872
01:34:45,520 --> 01:34:50,080
Speaker 1: that you're covering, and share your story. But shout out

1873
01:34:50,120 --> 01:34:52,719
Speaker 1: you guys, Yeah, shout out. And before we get onto

1874
01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:55,559
Speaker 1: the lesson, I do want to say we were we're

1875
01:34:55,560 --> 01:34:58,719
Speaker 1: going to try and ramp up the sharing of stories

1876
01:34:58,800 --> 01:35:01,840
Speaker 1: on Instagram, engaging more on social media, whether it be

1877
01:35:01,960 --> 01:35:06,439
Speaker 1: on X, whether it be on TikTok or Instagram. We've

1878
01:35:06,439 --> 01:35:08,760
Speaker 1: been seeing a lot of dads, you know, sticking to

1879
01:35:08,840 --> 01:35:11,519
Speaker 1: the weekly traditions of whether it be Pizza Friday. We

1880
01:35:11,600 --> 01:35:13,120
Speaker 1: didn't have mine on Friday, and I put out a

1881
01:35:13,160 --> 01:35:14,680
Speaker 1: little tweet like I want to live through the other

1882
01:35:14,760 --> 01:35:17,280
Speaker 1: dads out there that are celebrating Pizza Friday getting a

1883
01:35:17,360 --> 01:35:19,519
Speaker 1: lot of photos. But we need to start doing that

1884
01:35:19,680 --> 01:35:26,840
Speaker 1: through or for the Dad's brand for sure. For sure,

1885
01:35:26,880 --> 01:35:29,799
Speaker 1: I mean pizza Friday's Pizza Friday. Like, if you celebrate,

1886
01:35:29,880 --> 01:35:31,800
Speaker 1: you celebrate Pizza Friday. But for the dads and the

1887
01:35:31,840 --> 01:35:35,080
Speaker 1: families out there that are doing their weekly traditions, whether

1888
01:35:35,120 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 1: you're teaching your son or daughter to take out the

1889
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:39,360
Speaker 1: trash to the curb. I know, Rufe. She actually asked

1890
01:35:39,400 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 1: me the other day like that, I want to take

1891
01:35:40,760 --> 01:35:42,559
Speaker 1: the trash out with you. I was like, sweetheart, Wednesday,

1892
01:35:42,600 --> 01:35:44,800
Speaker 1: Big Day. Wednesday, Big Day will get you up, We'll

1893
01:35:44,800 --> 01:35:46,280
Speaker 1: get you dressed ready to go, and you can take

1894
01:35:46,280 --> 01:35:48,559
Speaker 1: the trash out to the curb with dad. Dad, I'll

1895
01:35:48,600 --> 01:35:51,240
Speaker 1: do a little selfie video. So that way, we just

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Speaker 1: make sure to tag at for the dad's Yes. Can

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Speaker 1: I give a good example of that really quick?

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Speaker 2: Colton on Twitter uh tagged for the dads and then

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Speaker 2: he tacked a little video of him negotiat this is

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Speaker 2: his words, negotiating with the terrorists. He gave his daughter

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Speaker 2: she looks like tewish a little cheese wheel and said,

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Speaker 2: you can have the cheese wheel if you have two

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Speaker 2: more bites of chicken. You can see it in this

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Speaker 2: girl's face as soon as he hands that cheese wheel.

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Speaker 2: There is no more chicken going down. You are so

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Speaker 2: dumb that you just gave me this, I replied back.

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Speaker 2: I said, hey, you know, even if it didn't, no

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Speaker 2: more chicken was consumed, I still feel like everyone won

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Speaker 2: in this situation. He said, Not only was there no

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Speaker 2: more chicken consumed, she somehow swindled M and M and

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Speaker 1: So shout out.

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Speaker 2: Colden for trying. Yeah, and shout out for sending that

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Speaker 2: to the boys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah to see it. Should we get into the lesson? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the lesson theme? This week I wrote a little something

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Speaker 1: for you. Sure, okay? You being a dad this week? Yes?

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Speaker 1: So this is around, you know, I guess a letter

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Speaker 1: to dads and potential dads that are having their first kid.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready to go? I'm ready to go. You're

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Speaker 1: about to be drafted into the toughest league there is fatherhood.

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Speaker 1: Are you No bye weeks, no offseason, just back to

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Speaker 1: back blowouts mentally, emotionally and literally. You're gonna get pissed on,

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Speaker 1: Don't overthink it, love hard, and remember the goal is

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Speaker 1: in perfection its presence. Be the dad who gives a shit,

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Speaker 1: be the dad who takes the l and keeps showing up.

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Speaker 1: They're not looking for a superhero. They just want dad

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Speaker 1: in the flesh, in the moment, loving them even when

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Speaker 1: you think they hate you. The days will feel long,

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Speaker 1: but they're fleeting. And I was saying it a couple

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Speaker 1: weeks ago that kids don't really remember much from their

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Speaker 1: first four years of life, no vivid memories, no long

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Speaker 1: term recall. And at first that can sound sad. Maybe

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Speaker 1: you'll think, oh, I can miss this or that because

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Speaker 1: they won't remember. And when you, when you sit with

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Speaker 1: it and think about it, it almost feels like those

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Speaker 1: years are for us, the parents, to soak it in,

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Speaker 1: to be needed in the most raw, primal way a

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Speaker 1: human can be needed. So don't get caught up trying

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Speaker 1: to be the perfect dad, because there's no game plan,

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Speaker 1: no film study, no depth chart to compare yourself. To

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Speaker 1: just be in it. Fully, put the phone down, rock

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Speaker 1: them a little longer, let them fall asleep on your chest,

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Speaker 1: Stare at their little hands and feet, Cherish the little

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Speaker 1: noises they make when sleeping or looking around at the world,

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Speaker 1: laugh when it's chaos, and love the hell out of

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Speaker 1: every minute you get. You won't remember everything, they won't

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Speaker 1: remember everything, but you'll feel it, and they'll feel it

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Speaker 1: even if they can't recall it. Welcome to the fatherhood,

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Speaker 1: brother Like that I did almost I almost started to

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Speaker 1: fall off the tracks there for a second.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that I cried earlier. Yeah, I got it out. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm really really excited. I feel like this entire

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Speaker 2: opportunity of just this show like is incredible, but like

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Speaker 2: what comes along with it is also like the such

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Speaker 2: a high calling as well. I'm like very overwhelmed in

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Speaker 2: this part of life. And I'm like so thankful to

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Speaker 2: everybody here at Bustin', including you and Taylor. I'm thankful

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Speaker 2: for everybody in my life that has like come around

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Speaker 2: me and supported me. Rather that's even people in the

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Speaker 7: It.

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Speaker 1: It's like very like undeserved.

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Speaker 2: Feeling of like there's so many dads out there, and

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Speaker 2: like there's just a lot of dads. But like I

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Speaker 2: get I'm getting to do this show that's a ton

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Speaker 2: of fun, and now I'm getting the opportunity to be

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Speaker 2: a dad. And I don't know what I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: say other than like I'm just incredibly thankful.

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Speaker 1: And I cannot wait.

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Speaker 2: I'm like terribly excited. And like I said, my krack

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Speaker 2: of cole One is just that I want to I

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Speaker 2: want to hold Scarlet and I want her to look

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Speaker 2: just like her mom, and I want to like teach

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Speaker 2: her all these fun things.

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Speaker 1: Like I just can't wait. Dude, buddy, It's gonna be awesome.

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Speaker 1: And all the dads, the support, they everybody puts their

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Speaker 1: arms around you because it is the best thing in

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Speaker 1: the world. It is the best thing in the world.

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Speaker 1: It's fucking hard, yeah, dude, but it is the best

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Speaker 1: thing in the world.

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Speaker 2: Dude, And just shout out you of not like this

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Speaker 2: is so sick, Like this show is so sick. It's

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Speaker 2: so much fun and the reaction to everybody, but like,

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Speaker 2: just shout out you for like being a really good dad.

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Speaker 2: It's not common. You know, there's a lot of dads

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Speaker 2: out there, like I said, but there might not be

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Speaker 2: like a whole lot of great ones. They're like really

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Speaker 2: elite ones, and you kind of having this like not

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Speaker 1: But just like an expectation for yourself. It's just really

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Speaker 1: cool that like.

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Speaker 2: You're like making being a dad like cool and like

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Speaker 2: being able to talk about the hard stef cool and

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Speaker 2: giving this safe space. Like just a lot of the

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Speaker 2: conversations that we've had has made me so confident that

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Speaker 2: I'll be able to be a good father.

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Speaker 1: And I thank you for that. I'm done, but thank you.

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Speaker 1: We gotta we gotta stop crying on every episode. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: but you're the man. I love you, brother, You're a

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Speaker 1: rush man. We gotta got to stand her an hour.

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Speaker 1: We gotta stand her out. Hey, thank you guys for

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Speaker 1: tuning in. Please make sure to subscribe to our new channel.

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Speaker 1: Share this episode, Share our channel with everybody, share the

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Speaker 1: brand with everybody. We look forward to hearing that if

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Speaker 1: we should go with the Fatherhood or Papa Team six,

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Speaker 1: shout out to you, bro, You're gonna be a new dad.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be welcomed into the Fatherhood or Papa Team

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Speaker 1: six and take out your trash new YouTube channel on

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Speaker 1: what did I did I say? Something wrong. Yeah. For

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Speaker 1: the dad spot Yeah yeah, make sure you subscribe. New

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Speaker 1: YouTube channel. We are on a new YouTube channel. We're

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Speaker 1: on all different channels for the dads on Spotify, Apple,

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Speaker 1: new YouTube channel. Again, spread the good word all the

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Speaker 1: dad groups and even moms wives. You guys out there

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Speaker 1: listening or watching right now or soon to be dads,

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Speaker 1: or maybe you're not even a dad yet and you're

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Speaker 1: into this stuff and you feel like a buddy of

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Speaker 1: yours or your husband or your spouse, whoever would be

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Speaker 1: into it, please share. Encourage you to share, just as

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Speaker 1: you can tell. We loved it. We love this shit, dude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sick. Yeah, and we need to start that

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Speaker 2: Facebook group. I've been getting a couple d I got

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Speaker 2: two dm have a Facebook of a Facebook group. I

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Speaker 2: was like, we actually been talking about that. Chef was

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Speaker 2: bringing up and Will was bringing it up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, love you guys,