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Speaker 1: My ex's father called me a man or.

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Speaker 4: Hey, krats okay, So I'm going to.

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Speaker 1: Try to keep the main essentials. I twenty one mile,

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Speaker 1: met Meghan Meghan nineteen female last summer and we began dating.

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Speaker 1: We were both inexperienced at intimacies at time. I messed

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Speaker 1: around with other girls before, but never had actually gone

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Speaker 1: all the way before She basically saw it and I

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Speaker 1: already lost my V card though she has really conservative

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Speaker 1: parents as I do, so who believed that you should

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Speaker 1: hold off until marriage to have spicy sleep, et cetera.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Ross Raiders and if

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Speaker 1: rsash okay stories. I'm Subreddit, I'm Riley, I'm Dakota, and

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Speaker 1: I'm Keon. So long story short. After dating for a while,

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Speaker 1: we began having spy Oh.

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Speaker 4: But they specifically told you not to.

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Speaker 1: But we always had protection and we're careful.

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Speaker 4: Ah, not in the eyes of the lord.

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Speaker 1: I just want to stress the fact that she was

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Speaker 1: eighteen at the time we started dating, and she turned

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Speaker 1: while I was already in college. While we dated. Her

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Speaker 1: dad once asked me if I ever had spicy sleep before,

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Speaker 1: and I lied and told him no. What's that? She

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Speaker 1: had told me to lie for us, so I did.

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Speaker 1: And he knew where my parents work, so I guess

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Speaker 1: call me paranoid, but they have history for doing rash decisions,

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Speaker 1: so I didn't want there to be a chance where

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Speaker 1: what I had done. Your parents work at the church.

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Speaker 5: Probably this is where you make a power move and

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Speaker 5: you go yes and it was your daughter, And then

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Speaker 4: And they he's.

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Speaker 1: Kicked out of the house if he does that.

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Speaker 4: Ah man, bummer, But that would.

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Speaker 1: Be a fantastic power move. We broke up in February

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Speaker 1: because the relationship wasn't working. There was a lot of fighting,

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Speaker 1: and we saw the split ways wasn't exactly amicable. But

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Speaker 1: been civil. I've tried to push that whole relationship out

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Speaker 1: of my life since hand moved on. So to the

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Speaker 1: that she doesn't have her V card anymore and that

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Speaker 1: after we broke up. Her sister told her parents, so

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Speaker 1: I didn't really think anyone would bother contacting me, so

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Speaker 1: it at that. Now, our dad just sent me a

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Speaker 1: I saw the little notification on my phone. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: do realize that I'm twenty one, and if he tells

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Speaker 1: which they don't. But they believe about waiting till marriage

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Speaker 1: and most definitely make a rift an our relationship have

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Speaker 1: already had a rocky relationship with them, and I don't

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Speaker 5: About this, Oh yeah, oh yeah, because I was this guy.

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Speaker 4: Oh, you're like, I can't let them know that I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you guys in on some family stuff.

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Speaker 1: Whenever I moved out of my apartment in Tennessee, my

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Speaker 1: a rapper. You guys can come up to that.

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Speaker 2: Which rapper jay z J Cole?

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Speaker 4: Which rapper were you edging?

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Speaker 1: And she found that and then she was she had

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Speaker 1: And everyone was like my dad was like, yeah, your

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Speaker 4: She'd be like, no, it's for Pokemon car.

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Speaker 4: I'm not a baby boy no more. I'm making babies.

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Speaker 1: Boy. That was embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: Excuse where you're like, I was just practicing.

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Speaker 5: Like I took a class in college and I was curious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, don't touch the fruits and orbits.

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Speaker 1: Ah yeah, yeah, So I see where this is coming

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Speaker 1: from because my parents also say to wait till marriage.

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Speaker 1: But I am a sin filment creature that can be.

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Speaker 1: God still loves me, though, and I've figured that out.

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Speaker 1: But anyways, enough of me. Yeah, I know where this

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Speaker 5: I just imagine anyways, enough of me and then like

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Speaker 4: Enough of me.

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Speaker 1: That was what I wanted to happen. So Opie's question,

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Speaker 1: if he contacts my parents and tells them? Should I

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Speaker 1: just about the situation with my experience. I really appreciate

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Speaker 1: and advice and support you guys can offer. Boys, do

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Speaker 1: do we talk to the dad?

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Speaker 4: I mean to your dad?

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Speaker 1: No? No, No, her dad, her dad, ex's dad.

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Speaker 4: I'm going that's just me. Though this guy, I'm sure

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Speaker 5: Well, sir, I apologize that I had to let you

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Speaker 5: know now that I have spoiled the sanctity of your

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Speaker 5: child outside of the laws of the Lord. And I

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Speaker 5: think that's dumb and you should go. But that was

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Speaker 1: If I was at this point, I would probably message

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Speaker 6: But it's just like, dude, ask and you shall receive

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Speaker 6: my job. No, you're asking if you're asking about it

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Speaker 6: and we broke up. By the way you hit him

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Speaker 2: The oug ref right now is a little like jaw

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Speaker 5: But like you gotta get a soundboard with a bunch

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Speaker 1: That's what you.

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Speaker 2: Know.

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Speaker 1: You're ignoring it.

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Speaker 2: I'll just respond back and be like, you can't handle

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Speaker 5: Sorry, I mean, like the real answer is like what

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Speaker 2: Like block, But if you block him, I feel like

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be He's one of those dads who will

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Speaker 2: literally shove to your house and it's just the scary one. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So update. So I've been reading all of your comments

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Speaker 1: and I appreciate everyone it's been saying. I decided not

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Speaker 4: This isn't even your problem, it's their problem.

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Speaker 1: She texted me again, telling me that she was sorry

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Speaker 1: and she had come clean to her dad and hope

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Speaker 1: everything works out and he doesn't take measures for measurements.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. Frankly, I don't care.

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Speaker 1: I agree this is between him and her. We've been

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Speaker 1: to text me, and told me not to ignore her

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Speaker 1: dad because he has my parents' phone number and will

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Speaker 1: call them if he has to. I talked to my

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Speaker 1: my apartment. They advise me to message him back, but

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Speaker 1: fill out the conversation, not to omit anything, and just

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Speaker 1: not justify anything. It is what it is, it happened,

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Speaker 1: and honestly don't see what he gets out of talking

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Speaker 1: I do hope he doesn't call my parents because that

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Speaker 1: would be a real wianer thing to do with him.

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Speaker 1: For literally no reason at all, this whole thing has

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Speaker 4: Go, uh huh.

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Speaker 1: We have the conversation. We go to the dad, We

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Speaker 1: sit down with him. He says, hey, I heard that

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Speaker 1: you had intimate relations with my daughter, and you say, no, sir,

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Speaker 1: I did not. The actual reason that we broke up

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Speaker 4: Don't you just tell them.

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Speaker 1: To stop talking to you know, I'm gonna start spreading rumors.

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Speaker 2: No, because they just that it just goes around, what

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Speaker 2: comes around. You don't want to do that.

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Speaker 1: Well, well it's she's been going around and now it's

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Speaker 4: You go, sir. It was strictly over the genes, sir.

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Speaker 5: We observed the laws of God and man, and we

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Speaker 5: kept it strictly over the genes. Not even really that good,

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Speaker 1: We did the we did the loophole, and actually she

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Speaker 1: still has a reco if you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: But she lost her gene card. She cannot return those

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Speaker 1: That what Bill Clinton did.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's why I said, all right, Bill Clinton, he

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Speaker 2: was like, I did not have spicy relations with that woman.

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Speaker 4: I did not have.

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Speaker 2: He made a public address to saying I did not

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Speaker 2: all know he did.

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Speaker 7: I did not have spicy relations with that woman. Good job,

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Speaker 7: but I did have a little fun. It doesn't count

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Speaker 7: if it's over the genes. It doesn't count if it's

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Speaker 7: over the pain.

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Speaker 1: What did Sam used to quote this acronym all the time?

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Speaker 1: Oh tp J oh T p HJ over the pants

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Speaker 1: and drum.

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Speaker 2: You didn't need to say it didn't he didn't. We

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Speaker 2: all knew what.

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Speaker 4: We all saw it.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, on a real level, these people, these kind

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Speaker 5: of people are so annoying to me. I would like

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Speaker 5: go out of my way to try.

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Speaker 4: To make him as uncomfortable as possible.

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Speaker 5: If you've got to want to come around and ask

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Speaker 5: him about stuff you don't want to hear get ready

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Speaker 5: to hear it in the worst possible way.

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Speaker 4: Okay, have fun with that, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, we're getting back to the story. Update two. Wow,

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Speaker 1: this is really blown up. Blah blah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: I woke up this morning and my dad called me.

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Speaker 1: Can I have permission to just slime in it? Sir?

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Speaker 4: May I have your permission to slay the pounani?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great one day that will happen. I'm

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Speaker 4: You can't really fix that.

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Speaker 1: I have a theory of how to fix it. What

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Speaker 5: You time travel and then you but then you have

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Speaker 1: My dad just told him he was sorry. He was

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Speaker 4: Oh, Dad's gonna handle it.

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Speaker 1: Dad, He's gonna handle it.

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Speaker 2: Dad's gonna fix this.

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Speaker 5: Dad's gonna talk to the other dad and be like, look,

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Speaker 5: my boy bangs, and regardless of how not in accordance

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Speaker 1: Dude, how do you fix you can't fix this?

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Speaker 4: Then those two dads are gonna awkward conversation.

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Speaker 2: An emotions going through my brain and probably his brain

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Speaker 4: This is how they're gonna fix it. He's like, I'm

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Speaker 5: The two dads are gonna meet up for a boxing match,

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Speaker 4: That's I think that's what they're gonna rock with here.

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, okay. He talked to him some more and

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it's it's the man. Your son bang my daughter.

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Speaker 5: It's like, oh, oh, he's gonna do the what was

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Speaker 1: Just imagine your dad in this conversation. What did you

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Speaker 5: No, the American's a movie, so it's a yeah, I know,

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Speaker 5: I don't spoiler alert.

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Speaker 4: Sorry that movie's been out for almost thirty years now.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Sorry, I American pied your daughter. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I need to My dad called me and told me

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Speaker 5: Put an asterix down there beneath him, or it's like,

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Speaker 1: I am a medical claimed doctor. I am a doctor.

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Speaker 4: Emphasis right under it. He's lying. He's lying.

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Speaker 1: Yes, gonorrhea, skirts aria and scurrits aria.

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Speaker 4: I don't want that one.

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Speaker 1: Diarrhea skirts Aria.

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Speaker 5: Name GONERIEA and herbies and my name's Tony Skurtz Area.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, we got a little bit left here of this

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Speaker 4: Them on a real level.

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Speaker 5: If the parents are like you didn't even think about

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Speaker 4: You, stupid.

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Speaker 5: You should have taught your your son about the dangers

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Speaker 1: This person was raised and his parents are religious, the

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Speaker 1: all you get school education right there, that's that's that

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Speaker 5: And look, I remember that was my biggest fear because

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Speaker 4: It's like, if you have a baby, your life is over.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, so it was. It was scary,

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Speaker 4: But that's why you used this things. You used the protection.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that was a thing for a really

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Speaker 4: You gotta know how to by the way you gotta

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Speaker 5: And I'm not gonna explain it because I don't want to.

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Speaker 1: I went home this past weekend to pick up something

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Speaker 1: and she made so many jokes about how one would

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's the update. All this well, for now,

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Speaker 1: many awkward conversations were had. Relationships with parents is pretty

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Speaker 1: disappointed to Nope, he's dad apologizing to the ex girlfriend's

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Speaker 4: Uh huh uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Well, I try to concern myself with the personal intimate

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Speaker 1: they can discuss it with each other, don't call me

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Speaker 1: on the other hand, do TOK. Yeah, that's that's how

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Speaker 1: the dad did the most best thing by blocking the number. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's how he fixed it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just this is I don't know, this is a thing.

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Speaker 5: It's said, happened and will never speak again.

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Speaker 4: Bye forever. A good deal with that? In how whatever

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Speaker 4: way do you.

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Speaker 1: Want to yup, Guys, we got another story.

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Speaker 5: I caught my boyfriend in bed with my best friend and.

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Speaker 1: Sister A lot of people in one room.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 5: I'm twenty one female from the Philippines, currently finishing my

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Speaker 5: final requirements to graduate this September with a degree in

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Speaker 5: civil engineering. My boyfriend River twenty three. Mail and I

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Speaker 5: had been together for two years. We met back in

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Speaker 5: junior year of high school and were friends for years

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Speaker 5: before we started dating on July nineteenth, twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 5: I genuinely thought that our long history and deep friendship

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Speaker 5: I was clearly wrong, and that realization would shatter everything I.

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Speaker 4: Believed about love and trust.

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Speaker 5: By the way, this comes from a deleted user on

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Speaker 5: the Charlotte Doobray YouTube subreddit, and if you want to

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Speaker 5: Olgange story name jump ready.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm Dakota, I'm Riley, I'm key On Yay. He's

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Speaker 5: So last week was our second anniversary. The night before,

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Speaker 5: he texted saying he was sick and couldn't celebrate. I

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Speaker 5: cooking his favorite warm porridge from scratch, carefully cutting up

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Speaker 1: No, she's pulling a sophia.

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Speaker 4: She's cooking porridge.

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Speaker 2: She's putting the you know containers, she's using ice cream containers.

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Speaker 4: Ice cream containers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's Filipino.

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Speaker 5: I wanted to surprise him and take care of him,

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Speaker 5: because that's what you do for someone you love. Right,

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Speaker 5: Using the spare key he'd given me months ago, a

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Speaker 5: key that once symbolized the trust in our future together,

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Speaker 5: I quietly entered his house. What I walked into was

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Speaker 5: the most devastating, soul crushing scene of my entire life.

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Speaker 5: He was in bed with my best friend Camilla twenty

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Speaker 5: two female, and my oldest sister Bianca twenty five female, together,

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Speaker 5: all three of them. Oh my gosh, he never trusted Camilla.

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Speaker 1: Threesome, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 5: Hmmmm mmmm, in the very bedroom where we used to

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Speaker 5: I froze completely, feeling my entire chest cave in like

443
00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,359
Speaker 5: someone had physically.

444
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 4: Given me the old one.

445
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 1: Two.

446
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 5: The containers of food slipped from my hands. I couldn't

447
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,240
Speaker 5: process what I was seeing in my mind went blank.

448
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,080
Speaker 5: Without making a single sound, I turned around and walked

449
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 5: out like a ghost. I sat in my car in

450
00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,359
Speaker 5: the driveway, crying until I couldn't breathe properly, gasping for

451
00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,760
Speaker 5: air between sobs. Eventually, when I could see clearly enough

452
00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 5: to drive, I went to a close friend's house let

453
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 5: me stay the night without asking too many questions. The

454
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,639
Speaker 5: betrayal cut deeper because I'm still a virgin by a

455
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,840
Speaker 5: personal choice. Early in our relationship, I was completely honest

456
00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 5: with River about wanting to wait until after college and marriage.

457
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,080
Speaker 5: This wasn't about religion or conservative values. It was about

458
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 5: wanting to finish my education, prove myself professionally, and be

459
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:53,640
Speaker 5: with someone who truly valued me and saw a.

460
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 4: Real future together.

461
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 5: I wanted my first time to be meaningful with someone

462
00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 5: who loved and respected me completely.

463
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 4: And River said, I don't care about all that.

464
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 1: Riverside, Yeah, said do that.

465
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,160
Speaker 4: Why is your older sister's name.

466
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 1: River said, that's really unfair for your boyfriend.

467
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 4: Oh that's me.

468
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 5: He said, oh yeah, your boyfriend probably not like that

469
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,359
Speaker 5: for rit This is just River. This is not for

470
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 5: all men, and this is just how.

471
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 4: River was talking. Would have talked, maybe.

472
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 1: Oh his name is River? Oh I thought I thought

473
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 1: her best friend was No, he's River. Oh okay, okay.

474
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 1: He said, Oh, that's really unfair for me. That's what

475
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 1: I say.

476
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 7: Yeah.

477
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 5: River would occasionally try to be subtle about it. He'd

478
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:40,119
Speaker 5: say things like you love me when I so, why

479
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:45,160
Speaker 5: can't we boy, or we've been together so long, don't

480
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 5: you trust me?

481
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 4: Or other couples our age are doing it.

482
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 5: Each time, I'd patiently explain my reasons again, and he

483
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 5: would nod and say he respected my decision. He'd even

484
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 5: say things like I love you for who you are,

485
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 5: not what you can give me. Looking back, now, maybe

486
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,439
Speaker 5: those were all lies. Maybe he never really respected my

487
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 5: boundaries at all. Bianca has always harbored resentment towards me,

488
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 5: though I never fully understood why until now. She's four

489
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,400
Speaker 5: years older and was an only child for a long

490
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 5: time before I came along.

491
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 4: No, four years Well.

492
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,880
Speaker 5: I guess that actually is a pretty crucial formative age

493
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 5: for a sibling to come along.

494
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 4: Huh. I wouldn't know.

495
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. Sam and Sophia, myself and my sister.

496
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:25,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

497
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 5: They don't seem like they just hate each other, because

498
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 5: it's like girl, I had it.

499
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 4: Made only child, only child, I had it made you did.

500
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 1: Sorry.

501
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 5: She's four years older and was an only child for

502
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 5: a long time before I came along. Growing up, she

503
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 5: would make cutting comments that made me feel unwanted and unloved,

504
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,640
Speaker 5: saying things like I had stolen our parents' attention from her,

505
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 5: or that our family was happier.

506
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 4: Before I was born.

507
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: How would she know?

508
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 4: She's a baby.

509
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,880
Speaker 1: That's weird, but you're a baby.

510
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 4: You're both babies in this situation. Mm mm hmm.

511
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 5: She's never missed an opportunity to remind me that I

512
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 5: was the accidental child, even though our parents never made

513
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 5: me feel that way. Despite all her coldness and cruelty,

514
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 5: over the years, I kept trying to bridge the gap

515
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 5: between us. I would buy her thoughtful gifts, include her

516
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 5: in my plans, and defend her when friends criticized her behavior.

517
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 5: I genuinely wanted a sisterly relationship, but she never let

518
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 5: me in. Camilla was different, like the sister. I never

519
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 5: had best friends since kindergarten. I trusted her with everything,

520
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 5: including my suspicions about my boyfriend possibly cheating. She acted

521
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 5: shocked and angry when I mentioned it. Now I wonder

522
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 5: if that was all fake, if she was part of

523
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 5: the betrayal all along.

524
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: That is so wild. I hate that, dude. I'm so sorry,

525
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: Opie getting portrayed by three people two and a half,

526
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: two and a half. The sister not.

527
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 5: Give her the one yeah yeah, getting it from all sides.

528
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: He was getting it from all sides.

529
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 5: Oh ah. I'm caught between wanting to find this funny

530
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 5: and understanding that this is probably the worst thing that

531
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 5: has ever ever happened to this person, Like, I want

532
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 5: to make this funny so bad, but this is just

533
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 5: straight up the worst thing that has ever happened to

534
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 5: op Yeah.

535
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, ever you can, this is what we think making

536
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: light of it is helpful.

537
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 5: So I haven't told my family yet, and the thought

538
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 5: terrifies me. We come from a wealthy but deeply conservative

539
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 5: household where appearances matter immensely. My father built a successful

540
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 5: business from nothing and we live very comfortably.

541
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 4: But with that comfort comes expectations.

542
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 5: I've always felt enormous pressure to behave perfectly and stay

543
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 5: quiet about problems and never cause drama or bring shame

544
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 5: to our family name. Here in the Philippines, cultural norms

545
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 5: are different. Most of us live with family until marriage

546
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 5: or finishing school.

547
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 4: Moving out at.

548
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 5: Eighteen and starting over isn't realistic or socially acceptable like.

549
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 4: It might be in other countries.

550
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 5: I'm essentially trapped in this situation until i can figure

551
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 5: out how to navigate it properly.

552
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, that's triggy that the family name thing is

553
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: a hard part of this because you can definitely out

554
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: your sister to your parents and say, hey, this is

555
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 1: what happened. Being the people pleaser you are, it's a tricky,

556
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: uh puzzle to solve.

557
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean the family name thing is very uh.

558
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 4: It happens all over the place. You know. It's just

559
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 4: like a if i'd some friends like that where it's

560
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 4: like you cannot you cannot bring shame upon.

561
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 5: Actually it'd be more like you cannot bring shameful family night.

562
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 5: It's really like Georgia, small town Georgia, small town Georgia,

563
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 5: big big, big, old, big breeches, big bitches in small

564
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 5: town Georgia.

565
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about.

566
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 5: Shoey dog hunters can't have no problems in the family. Yeah,

567
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 5: your big riches down there and.

568
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,640
Speaker 1: You just gotta let it happen. Oh boy.

569
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 5: Yeah. I told a few trusted friends who urged me

570
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 5: to confront all three of them, But I'm not confrontational.

571
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 5: I hate arguments and freeze up when emotions run high.

572
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 5: If I tried confronting them, I'd just break down while

573
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 5: they denied everything. It made me feel small. What could

574
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 5: they deny you were you saw them?

575
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: OPI has been won by the sister, made feel very small,

576
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: like a small person, and never like respected by her sister.

577
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: Her best friend was the one that portrayed her and

578
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, I can't believe your boyfriend. Whatever she

579
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 1: on you blah blah blahlah blah, and three she trusted

580
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: her boyfriend that I think they would all they know

581
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: what kind of person she is and they know how

582
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: they can take advantage of her people pleasing self, So

583
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: they would deny be like, you don't even know what

584
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: you have. You have no proof, I don't know what

585
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: you're talking about. That's crazy that I would ever do that,

586
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 1: while the sister would be his sister would be making

587
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 1: face like this. I would never do anything like that

588
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: all the time.

589
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 4: Be be you know what you're talking about?

590
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: Bet exactly.

591
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 5: So instead of confronting then I blocked them with no

592
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 5: warning and no final words, I just left. Now I

593
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 5: keep wondering was I wrong for cutting them off without

594
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 5: saying anything? Should I have confronted them first, or did

595
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 5: they not deserve even that. I'm not seeking revenge. I

596
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 5: just wanted to protect my piece and hold on to

597
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 5: what little dignity I have left. But part of me

598
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 5: still wonders if I'm handling this right. I'm heartbroken and angry,

599
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 5: missing school for almost a week because I could not

600
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 5: face the Yet and there is an update.

601
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: I mean, do you have the possibility of moving away too,

602
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 1: or can you.

603
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: Just block them and studying? Yeah?

604
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: Can you just block them and just not talk to

605
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: your sister about you're at home? You still have to

606
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 1: see your sister. This is a very tough thing.

607
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 5: Will be another threesome with another set of people. Find

608
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 5: Rivers brother and also his best friend.

609
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: But she doesn't want to do that. She was the way.

610
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 4: It's not about revenge. It's about principle.

611
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 1: It's not about revenge. It's about finding Joe. It's about

612
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 1: finding Vinlin.

613
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 4: I'm just joking.

614
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: That would be a power movie. No, no, no, no, not

615
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 1: Rivers brothers Dad. Gross?

616
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 4: Uh?

617
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 1: How's that gross?

618
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 5: I don't know, man, this story is. I don't know

619
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 5: what to say about any of this other than just

620
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 5: like arch Nemesis, it's really unfair that this is now

621
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 5: somehow your burden to bear when it should just be

622
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 5: like your family should be coming to.

623
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: Terms with your your aid and banish.

624
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 4: Yeah exactly. And it's just really unfortunate that it's kind

625
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,719
Speaker 4: of thing and shaming her. That sucks. That big sucks.

626
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 4: So like, yeah, what does SO do?

627
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 5: I don't know, man, get yeah, get out of there

628
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 5: if you if your life is gonna be like miserable

629
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 5: in the Philippines, get out of Philippines.

630
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 4: Finish your school, and then get out of the Philippines.

631
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll trade spots with you. Op.

632
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 1: Really, you don't want to hang out with us anymore?

633
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 2: Key on, No, you guys can come visit me in

634
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 2: the Philippines.

635
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to hang out with us anymore.

636
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 4: Check and he'll take over the family business and then

637
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:35,719
Speaker 4: we'll be rolling in it.

638
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 1: Wait, you have family business in Philippines.

639
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got some I got some farms and stuff.

640
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that. You never told me that.

641
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 5: I was talking about the story, But this is news

642
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 5: to me. You have farms in the Philippines. Family Okay,

643
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 5: all right, Farmville.

644
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 1: Let's go. I got a tree farm back, throw it back.

645
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have mango trees. And stuff throw it back.

646
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: I love that for you.

647
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's get to the update.

648
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 5: My parents and I went to a quiet before I

649
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 5: told them everything. I was shaking, unable to eat despite

650
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 5: their insistence. Once we finished, I finally shared what happened. Initially,

651
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 5: they didn't believe me, which is understandable when it involves

652
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 5: their own daughter.

653
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 4: You know, you're their own daughter as well.

654
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 5: They've always emphasized how we sisters should stick together, saying

655
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 5: you're supposed to be each other's best friend. But then

656
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 5: I showed them the photo I'd taken and I broke down,

657
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 5: completely ugly, crying, where your whole body aches in a

658
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 5: way I had lost someone. We went straight home afterward,

659
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 5: so they just didn't acknowledge that you just had a

660
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 5: complete breakdown, and they just like sat there in silence

661
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 5: and did nothing.

662
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 4: Your parents suck and I hate.

663
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: Them, and you brought shame to the family.

664
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what, they should be ashamed.

665
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 5: They should be ashamed that they're completely inept parents who

666
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 5: can't emotionally be there for their daughter when she's just

667
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 5: literally had like the worst thing that could ever happen.

668
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: You know, you know it happened to her. So they suck.

669
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 4: I don't have anything else to say.

670
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, Yike's Bianca was casually popcorn and watching a movie

671
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 5: when we arrived, acting like nothing happened. Hold on chance

672
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 5: to redeem right here. When my dad saw her, he

673
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 5: snapped at her.

674
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:09,719
Speaker 4: Okay.

675
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 5: Bianca cried and tried defending herself, even blaming me for

676
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 5: ruining everything.

677
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 4: But this time our parents didn't take her side. They

678
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 4: told her to leave. Okay, we're redeeming. We're redeeming.

679
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: Go to River's house.

680
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 5: Dad cut off her credit cards, Mom packed her things,

681
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 5: and she was removed from the premises that night. No yelling,

682
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 5: no long goodbye, just silence and disappointment.

683
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: Holy cown.

684
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 4: I know my parents are hurting. She is still their daughter.

685
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 5: But they told me they had to draw the line

686
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 5: and were proud of me for speaking up.

687
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 4: They protected me.

688
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 5: When I felt so small, and I'm grateful. I take

689
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 5: back everything I said earlier.

690
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 4: I take it back.

691
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, they didn't.

692
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 4: I was wrong.

693
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: I handle that though, right, William, Although.

694
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 5: I would have liked to hear some kind of like oh,

695
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 5: and then they gave me a big hug.

696
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 2: Uh.

697
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: They just hey that this is a thing and just

698
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: removed the bad thing. From and now they're not gonna

699
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: talk about it.

700
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 4: I have I think you're right.

701
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 5: Actually, they they literally just did this like a logical

702
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 5: like this was a business decision. They've weighed the scales

703
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 5: and they're like, the worst person here is Bianca, So

704
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 5: then we'll we'll be mad at her, but we're not

705
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 5: going to be the be emotional about this.

706
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 4: This is a this is just a logic decision.

707
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: Two daughters, No, we only have one. We only have

708
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: one daughter. We've always had one daughter.

709
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 4: We only had one, only ever had one.

710
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: I've never heard of that.

711
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 5: So as for River, I saw him at school Monday.

712
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 5: He looked happy to see me, like nothing had happened,

713
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 5: which is insane. When he called my name and approached,

714
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 5: I looked him straight in the eyes and said.

715
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 4: We're done. We are done, and then I walked away

716
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 4: without crying or flinching. I was just done.

717
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 5: It still hurts, and I have nightmares every night and

718
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 5: moments we're remembering makes me sick. But I won't let

719
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 5: this destroy me. As Judge Lauren Lake once set, the

720
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 5: best revenge is success. Shout out, shouts out skis to

721
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 5: that lady.

722
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: I love that mid story. Never have you ever gotten

723
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: that before. Just like Judge Larson once said.

724
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 5: Judge Lincoln Lawyer once said, all right, all right, all right,

725
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 5: I fully intend to live by that mantra. Two months

726
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 5: from now, I'll officially be a civil engineering graduate. That's

727
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 5: where my energy will go, rebuilding myself, proving that betrayal

728
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 5: doesn't break me and it redirects me. As for Camilla,

729
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 5: I haven't seen her again. I heard she dropped out

730
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 5: after her parents found out and disowned her. I didn't

731
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 5: expect that, and while I didn't contact them directly, the

732
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 5: truth found its way. Actions have consequences. I'm healing slowly, painfully,

733
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 5: but getting there. Thank you to everyone who reached out.

734
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 5: You reminded me I'm not alone. And there's a final update.

735
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 3: Hey, John og Host, We're gonna get back to the stories,

736
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 3: but a quick freemanute break of ads from our sponsors.

737
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 4: Godly, dude, golly.

738
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: I think the parents could have gone about this better

739
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: and not abandoned their child, and I think everything else.

740
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: You're not gonna talk to your best friend anymore. I

741
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: know that for a fact, and telling you're done, I'm surprised.

742
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: And when Beyonger got kicked out, she didn't hit up

743
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: River's phone said hey, this is what happened.

744
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 4: You know what? The boy?

745
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, why did the bionca not hit up the

746
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: river and be like hey, can I state your place?

747
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: Or I got caught or yaha ya YadA.

748
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 4: I don't know.

749
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 5: It seems like they were literally acting like it didn't happen,

750
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 5: Like it's like a little hey, so that that was crazy?

751
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: Right now, when you saw those ghosts, I'm thinking like,

752
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: did it happen?

753
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 4: Did you took too many benadryls? Babe? You tried to

754
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 4: hog you down, not the hog you day?

755
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 5: And if you don't know what the heck I'm talking about,

756
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 5: you need to watch our stream from yesterday, August twelfth,

757
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 5: nineteen eighty six.

758
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 4: A great day. Yeah, final update.

759
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 5: I saw Camilla's post and replies last Wednesday, the day

760
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 5: I had planned to update you, but I lost courage

761
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 5: reading it broke me in ways I didn't think I

762
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 5: could still break.

763
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 4: Let's just finish this story. Do I deserve this?

764
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 7: No?

765
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,719
Speaker 4: Depending on the karmic you know, retribution of your previous lives,

766
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 4: you didn't. Maybe, but I would say no, yeah.

767
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: You did not deserve this. Sister didn't deserve this.

768
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 5: Either, Was I really that naive and easy to betray?

769
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 5: I gave him everything except my body, my time, my

770
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 5: unwavering love, my emotional support, my care and attention. I

771
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 5: was the one helping him with his toughest assignments when

772
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 5: he was struggling, working on his projects until three am,

773
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 5: supporting him through his demanding internship, and listening to all

774
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,760
Speaker 5: of his family problems for hours when he needed someone

775
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 5: to vent to, to lean on.

776
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 4: To celebrate with.

777
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 5: I was always there, without question always Why did she

778
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 5: pretend to care about my feelings and offer advice about

779
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 5: my relationship while she was actively destroying it from the inside.

780
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 5: Why does it feel like everyone around me knew what

781
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 5: was happening except me? Should I look for answers or

782
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 5: will finding the truth hurt more than help. I don't

783
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 5: know how to move on yet, but I'm trying. This

784
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 5: isn't for pity. It's for me to breathe and release

785
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 5: and remind myself I'm still here even though I'm broken.

786
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 5: To anyone going through something similar, you are not alone.

787
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 5: Maybe someday we'll look back and be proud of the

788
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 5: strength it took just to survive. For now, it day

789
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 5: by day, Please be kind. I think that is the

790
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 5: end of that story.

791
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: I think to find closure is the main goal, so

792
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: do you If you need to find more evidence, not

793
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: more evidence, but more information and figure out what happened

794
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 1: to achieve closure, that's what you have to do. But

795
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 1: I think the biggest thing is just close that chapter

796
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: in your life and to move on. However you do,

797
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: that is what you gotta do. Girl, New life.

798
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're so close new life. You literally said it yourself.

799
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 2: You're so close to what being a civil engineer?

800
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, new life.

801
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 2: Focus on your schoolwork now you have less distractions, Focus

802
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 2: on yourself, focus on a support group that's good for you,

803
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 2: your friends, your family, and get out of there. Go

804
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 2: to somewhere and you start new and.

805
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: Start a new world.

806
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 4: I agree, get out.

807
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: I can't believe that's the end of that story. Can

808
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: you see there's an update?

809
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 2: I will check. I found it.

810
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 4: No, yeah, you found it found on his post? Okay,

811
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 4: are you gonna put it in? How long is it?

812
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: It's not that long actually, But it also just seems

813
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 2: like rage bait. The title is literally, am I the

814
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 2: a hole for something? Sleeping with my best friend's boyfriend

815
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 2: and joining a treesome with him and her sister.

816
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 4: Like, yes, stupid, of course you are.

817
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 2: I don't think we need to read that.

818
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 4: Yes, dumb, dumb, Oh that's not her sister, that's the friend.

819
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: That's the friend. It's it's it's not the sister's post,

820
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 2: it's a friend's post.

821
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, if yeah, we don't need to read that. Of course.

822
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 4: Of course you're the a hole for that. Stupid.

823
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 2: It just doesn't make sense because again, like op deleted

824
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 2: this post deleted, that just sounds like rage bait to me.

825
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 4: Who knows, dude, it's it's certainly.

826
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 2: Like apparently Okay, so I'm reading it. Yeah, karma ming ming,

827
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: rage bait, karma farming. Yeah, they apparently they were doing

828
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 2: this little thing. I guess the river was cheating for

829
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 2: six months oka.

830
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's just yet they suck. He sucks. Move on,

831
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 4: I'm reading that was funny.

832
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 2: I'm reading this. This is such rage bait. It's like

833
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 2: you're reading it.

834
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 4: I thought you were being like, no, I'm gonna read it.

835
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 2: The snippets that I was reading it is like it

836
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 2: just type, it's typed out.

837
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 5: It's gonna be like yeah, It's like I didn't really

838
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 5: want to but it's like then like, I don't know.

839
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 4: He looked at me.

840
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 5: He said I was cute, and I was like, I

841
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 5: mean I have to sleep with you.

842
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 3: Now.

843
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: The title alone, guys, the title alone is just like,

844
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 2: am I the hate a hole for doing that to

845
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 2: my best friend? Yeah? The answer is yes, a little

846
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 2: different sentences throw away account because yeah, things got messy

847
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 2: and apparently people are posting private drama here now, yeah.

848
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 4: People are posting private drama on the internet.

849
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 2: Do fast, I'll do a poll, but I really people

850
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: when I found the friend's post, but it's so rage

851
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 2: rage bait. It's just rage bait. The title of it,

852
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 2: Riley is.

853
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 4: Am my friend friend?

854
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 2: What's the It's literally like, am I the a hole

855
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: for sleeping with my best friend's boyfriend and joining a

856
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 2: threesome with my with him and her sister?

857
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 4: Yes?

858
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 2: Do you okay, do you guys really want to read it?

859
00:37:59,200 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 1: Yes?

860
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 2: I I don't think I will put in the story,

861
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: but I'm just.

862
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: Why not it's not relevant? But do you mean it's

863
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 1: not relevant?

864
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,959
Speaker 5: She's just being like, yeah, I stup with this guy

865
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 5: and okay whatever, everyone wants to hear it, Okay, go

866
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 5: ahead and read it.

867
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I'm going to just go ahead and have

868
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: you guys read it? Who I want? Who wants to

869
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 2: read it?

870
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 4: No, you don't want to read it?

871
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 2: Want me to read it. I I'm looking away from

872
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 2: the camera.

873
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: That's why we're gonna put on the chat one. So

874
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 1: you look at the camera.

875
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 2: All right, ladies and gentlemen, let me wait this one

876
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 2: short wait. Yeah, because the original post was on there too.

877
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: But the original post is this just.

878
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 4: Feels like someone trying to get on that. I don't know.

879
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna hold read it.

880
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 5: I want to rage, stop it. Why would you want that?

881
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 5: Why would you want to rage? That's not cool.

882
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 2: I found we found out that that he was cheating

883
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 2: for six months.

884
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: I think this is fake. Yeah, this is fake.

885
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 2: I never meant to hurt anyone. I just followed my heart.

886
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: Her and I were happy. He chose me, not her.

887
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 2: He was even planning to break things up with her

888
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 2: and be with me instead. I was loyal. I just

889
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: in my own way. So read it? Am I they able?

890
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

891
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 4: No, no, no, this is Scott zero up vote.

892
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, I was your best friend. Yeah, I slept

893
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: with her boyfriend. Yeah, I joined to treat him with

894
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: him and her sister, But am I they a whole

895
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 2: It's like, come on.

896
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 4: Guys, yeah you are.

897
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 5: It's we're not gonna just raise our blood pressure for

898
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 5: absolutely no reason.

899
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 1: Yeah it's fake because one, that's not kind of the

900
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 1: character that Opie described her friend having. In two, there's

901
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: zero up votes, and three no one really commented on this.

902
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,760
Speaker 1: This isn't real, and it's from deleted.

903
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:28,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're deleted from both op and the friend. Yeah yeah,

904
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 2: someone did say off the chance, on.

905
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 4: The off chance this is real?

906
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah real?

907
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 4: Nobody is this dumb?

908
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 1: Right, I'm moderately reiterated. This is what it did. It

909
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: reiterated what happened in the story, added a few fault

910
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 1: like things to it, and then basically confirmed what happened.

911
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 1: It didn't say, but it didn't give us new information

912
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,919
Speaker 1: of hey, I try to reach out to Ope and

913
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: try to get things to work out. It doesn't mention

914
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: anything like that ago.

915
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 5: It's because it's and it's also like throwaway account because

916
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 5: things got messy. And then it says I'm Camilla. It's like,

917
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 5: what are you talking about? Why you need you are?

918
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 2: You're putting the names of literally the same characters. I'm Camilla. Bianca,

919
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 2: the sister's name River.

920
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not actually given the real names. Yep, weird

921
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,280
Speaker 1: all right. Anyways, we're gonna get to the next story.

922
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: I can't trust my boyfriend after he lied for his

923
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: best friend deception. My boyfriend, Chris twenty eight mal and

924
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: I twenty six female, have been dating for three years.

925
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: We're both teachers and met at work. For this incident,

926
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: I would have gone on about how I found the

927
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: most perfect man, that he was the one. Chris was

928
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: at school for the four years before I joined. About

929
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: seven years ago, the school was taking on quite a

930
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: few trainees. Ten other training teachers joined alongside him and

931
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 1: created a tight knit friend group. By the way, this

932
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: comes from deleted and if you want to spit your

933
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 1: own stories, go to the r slash Showkase stories. I'm Suburdt,

934
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 1: I'm Riley.

935
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 4: I'm Dakota, and I'm Keon.

936
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 1: So the holiday together best man slash made of honor

937
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: at each other's weddings type of friends. Since Chris and

938
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: I have started dating, I've been adopted into this new group.

939
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: I have no issues with any of them, but it's

940
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: been implied that I'm being tolerated by some of them

941
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: for his sake. I really don't care. I keep to

942
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: myself and only feel comfortable around select people. There's been

943
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 1: some drama in group recently that it's caused me to

944
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: re evaluate my relationship. Two teachers joined the group, Bethany

945
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: and John joined the same time as Chris did and

946
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 1: started dating within the first year. John proposed to her

947
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: about two years ago, but as far as I know,

948
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: they haven't thought of wedding planning at all. Chris said

949
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 1: John proposed to Bethany because he felt he had to

950
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 1: after so many years. About a month ago, we had

951
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:38,959
Speaker 1: a week off and the group went on a night out.

952
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: I joined them after Chris insisted, and only stayed until

953
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: about eleven since I wasn't feeling very well. I asked

954
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 1: Chris the next morning if anything of note happened, and

955
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: he just shrugged and said he couldn't remember since he

956
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: got so pissed and wasted, and that they were just

957
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: being idiots. I didn't think anything of it and we

958
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: enjoyed her holiday. This Monday, I went into the secondary

959
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,760
Speaker 1: staff room for lunch and saw Bethany sitting by herself

960
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: from there. The staff room is situated on the second floor,

961
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,720
Speaker 1: of the school, and apart from myself and one other teacher,

962
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 1: no one comes here unless they need to hide something

963
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: when our rooms get inspected. I asked why she was

964
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: in here today instead of eating lunch with John. She

965
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 1: glared at me and left, slamming the door on her

966
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 1: way out. I told Chris what happened, and he told

967
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: me just to ignore it and not to get involved,

968
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: that John and her were going through a rough time.

969
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: I saw both of them at school a couple of

970
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: times this week, and she either looked on the verge

971
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: of tears or furious, and he seemed absolutely normal. At

972
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: the end of the day. Yesterday, I was packing up

973
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 1: and getting ready to leave for the day when Bethany

974
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: knocked on my door and asked to speak with me

975
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: real quick. Any theories.

976
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 4: Somebody kissed someone they shouldn't have.

977
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, Chris kiss Bethany.

978
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 4: It's just like a It's.

979
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 2: A rock and a hard bit started out with a kiss.

980
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: How did it end up like this? Yes, it was

981
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 2: only a kiss. It was only a kiss, like a pet.

982
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: Rock hates it when I say that.

983
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 4: This guy's crazy.

984
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 5: I feel like we all know what's going on. It's

985
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 5: gotta be like an ultimatum type situation.

986
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 4: You go, look, dude, you either.

987
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 5: Tell her what happened, or like, I'm gonna have to

988
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 5: say something or black men, but like you should say

989
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 5: what happened, cause it's like you did something. Chris, whoever's

990
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 5: the offending party needs to you know, if you're actually

991
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 5: like you know, if you're friends with everyone here, like

992
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 5: this has happened me once before a friend reached out

993
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 5: and was like, I did this thing. I don't know

994
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 5: what to do, and I'm like, you have two I'm like,

995
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 5: I don't know this other person. I have no skin

996
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 5: in the game. You have two options. I've known you

997
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 5: for a decade more, I've known you forever. You your

998
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 5: option is either tell them immediately or never ever say

999
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 5: anything and deal with it for the rest of your life.

1000
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 5: Those your two options. I guess you're gonna have to

1001
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,479
Speaker 5: pick one. I think I know which one I'd pick.

1002
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 5: Not the one that would torment me for the rest

1003
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:54,919
Speaker 5: of my life.

1004
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: M yeah. So at the end of the day yesterday

1005
00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: I was packing up and getting ready to leave when

1006
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: Beth and He knocked on my door and asked to

1007
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: speak to me. I didn't want to have a conversation

1008
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: with her after her reaction on Monday and the way

1009
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: she was snapping all week, But she looked so angry

1010
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't say no. Bethy and I had never really

1011
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 1: gotten along when I first joined. She would purposely do

1012
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: stuff for leave me out, like turn her back towards

1013
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 1: me when I tried to talk to her in the

1014
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 1: friend group, or talk about plans in front of me

1015
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 1: that I was not invited to. She made some comments

1016
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: when Chris and I started dating, like he was settling

1017
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: for me. Really drew an all mean girl stuff. She

1018
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: came in fully stormed towards me and said I was

1019
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 1: a fake witch for not telling her the truth. I

1020
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: had no clue what she was talking about and told

1021
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 1: her she needed to step back or I report her

1022
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: a HR that seemed to snap her out of it.

1023
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: She started snobbing suddenly and literally sat on the floor.

1024
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 1: I felt like I was dealing with an unruly student.

1025
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: I had no clue what to do. I tried to

1026
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: calm her down and asked her what happened. She told

1027
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: me John had slept with someone the night everyone went

1028
00:44:55,040 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 1: out and I left early. Hmmm, apparently all the guys

1029
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: left the pub. We were initially at to go to

1030
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: a club and there was a teacher assistants who also

1031
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: works at the school. Jess joined them and her and

1032
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 1: John had spicy sleep in the bathroom. So the ta

1033
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,360
Speaker 1: and John had spicy sleep in the bathroom.

1034
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 4: Okay, how'd we find that out? How do we know

1035
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 4: about that?

1036
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 2: She was just assisting him in the bathroom?

1037
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 1: And is there Johnson? I was about to come out

1038
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 1: of this.

1039
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 2: John's John john Son Son, John John, Yeah from Mars.

1040
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: Just keep your Johnson and your pants. John. Hey, it's

1041
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: John here.

1042
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 3: We're gonna get back to this episode, but a quick

1043
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 3: three minute break with aswerm Our sponsors.

1044
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: I asked how she found out. She told me she

1045
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: saw some text between Jess and John that night they

1046
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: had slept together, and they slept together three more times.

1047
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: She told me she also saw texts between Chris and John,

1048
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,439
Speaker 1: and that Chris knew about what had happened that night

1049
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 1: and that he had covered for John that night. I

1050
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 1: told her I needed a proof and that I wasn't

1051
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: going to believe her over my boyfriend and Chris got

1052
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 1: home yesterday after the gym, I decided to talk to

1053
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: him about it. I told him straight out what Bethany

1054
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: said to me, and that she accused him of hiding it.

1055
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: He was quiet for a moment, but I already knew

1056
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: the truth. He looked too guilty. I felt sick in

1057
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: that moment. Bethany had been his friend for years and

1058
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 1: he let her get betrayed in such a big way

1059
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: and hid it as well. He tried defending himself and

1060
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: said he told John to tell her the truth and

1061
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't his place to expose him. I said, I

1062
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 1: wanted to see it. I wanted to see the evidence

1063
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 1: of him telling John to come clean. We're not the

1064
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 1: type of couple that checks each other's phones and stuff.

1065
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: I've never not trusted Chris, even before we started dating.

1066
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: He was my closest friend, and I've always felt like

1067
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: my heart was safe with him. I've always believed him

1068
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 1: if he told me something, but finding this out shook

1069
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: my confidence in him. He handed over his phone and

1070
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: I looked through the messages between him and John. The

1071
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: first one regarding this incident was the following morning, where

1072
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: John was kind of laughing off that what he had

1073
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: done as a little oopsie, and Chris just wrote back,

1074
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 1: you aft up just make sure you drink enough over

1075
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,360
Speaker 1: the half term to forget about. Great advice from a

1076
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: good old friend.

1077
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 5: Not really the advice I was hoping to see.

1078
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: I just become a little alcoholic. They don't have to

1079
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 1: remember it.

1080
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 4: Well, if you binge drink, you might forget you did it.

1081
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 4: Ah bad, That not a great not a great look.

1082
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: There was nothing there about owning up to his mistake

1083
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 1: and telling about the need of the truth. I look

1084
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: through the messages and every time they reference that night,

1085
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: it was with such cavalier, nonchalant attitude, like John had

1086
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 1: it committed the ultimate betrayal. Chris insisted he had told

1087
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: John to come clean, but that they had talked about

1088
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: it face to face. But I don't know if I

1089
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: believe him. I do sincerely believe you are the company

1090
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: you keep. And while I really didn't enjoy how lad

1091
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: Chris would get when he was around John and the

1092
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: rest of the group, I really did think they were

1093
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 1: good people and albeit a bit immature. But John is

1094
00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: basically quite vile person, and seeing Chris laugh off his

1095
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: transgressions has made me cautious.

1096
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 4: Mm So's saying, it's like he becomes like a little

1097
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 4: lads lads, lads, boys, Boys, Boys for the Boys.

1098
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:13,840
Speaker 1: For the boys, for the boys.

1099
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 5: I mean, like you can do that, but like if somebody, dude, like,

1100
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 5: if anyone in this room like cheated on any one

1101
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 5: of their partners and I witnessed it, I'd be like,

1102
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 5: that's literally like you literally ultimately have to tell them,

1103
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 5: because why should I have to tell them?

1104
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 4: That's messed up? Well, I don't want to have to

1105
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 4: do that.

1106
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 1: If I saw anyone's room cheating, I would ultimate them

1107
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: and be like, you either tell them or I'm telling

1108
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: them at the end of the week.

1109
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 5: You have X amount of time to come clean about

1110
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 5: this or I'm gonna have to And that's so dumb.

1111
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: Mm hm ah yeah ah. I don't want to break

1112
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: up over this. How do I tell him that his

1113
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: reaction has caused me to lose some trust in him

1114
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: and that it's made me think that he is also

1115
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: capable of doing the same thing to me. I talked

1116
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: to my sister about this. She thinks this is a

1117
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,439
Speaker 1: break up offense. But I've had a couple of people

1118
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: say I'm overreacting. Am I overreacting? You sleep with the dogs,

1119
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: you get the fleas.

1120
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Speaker 2: Damn.

1121
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 4: Dang you sleep with the dogs, you get the fleas.

1122
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: Dang yep, dang.

1123
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean accurate, accurate, accurate.

1124
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 2: Good job. I've ever heard that actually, really yeah.

1125
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: I've heard that so many dolls much all of them

1126
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 1: thought everybody.

1127
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 4: Dogs you get to flee. I mean, like, is this

1128
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 4: a breakupa offense like it could be? It just depends

1129
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 4: on like.

1130
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 5: Where you're It depends on where you're at, you know,

1131
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 5: like beyond his like reaction to it, I think if

1132
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 5: he would have just been honest about it and been like, yeah,

1133
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 5: like I don't know. I just like made a joke

1134
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 5: about it because I was like super uncomfortable.

1135
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 4: I didn't know what to say. That's one thing.

1136
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 5: But the fact that he was like, no, I totally

1137
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 5: told him he had to, you know, he's like I

1138
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:46,839
Speaker 5: told him.

1139
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1140
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 5: The fact that he lied about what he said makes

1141
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 5: me feel like it's that's what's more breakup worthy than

1142
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 5: the fact that he Because not everyone's gonna be like,

1143
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 5: oh you have to tell her, I will.

1144
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 4: It's like, but that doesn't necessarily make them bad.

1145
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 5: It's just some people mind their own business and that's

1146
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 5: the code that they live by.

1147
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, they didn't want to get caught in the crossfire,

1148
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,399
Speaker 2: you know, like it's your drama, not mine kind of things.

1149
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:15,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's minds, weak mindset. Honestly, Well, you don't

1150
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: care about your friends enough to keep him accountable. Weak minds.

1151
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well, I mean some people are just not strong.

1152
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 4: There's a spectrum of friends.

1153
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 5: But if these guys are best best friends, then yeah,

1154
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 5: it should definitely be more like a you know, it

1155
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 5: just depends like there, there's definitely a spectrum on like

1156
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 5: how much I would have to know somebody before I'm like,

1157
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 5: I'm gonna stick my neck out and like insert myself

1158
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:39,240
Speaker 5: into this situation.

1159
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 1: Read yeah, you have an update. I like to think

1160
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: of myself someone with strong morals, and after reading the comments,

1161
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: I felt like I had been my beliefs because I

1162
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: loved my boyfriend and in turn had some kind of

1163
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: betrayal myself. So I had a good, long decision with

1164
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: Chris the day after I posted, and told him how

1165
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: disappointing his behavior was and if he could hide such

1166
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 1: a big seat for John, then he was capable of

1167
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 1: hiding something like this for himself as well. I couldn't

1168
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: be with someone who not only was fine with cheating,

1169
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: but actively lie to a friend about it, since Chris

1170
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: and Beth and he were friends as well. He looked

1171
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: awfully ashamed as I vented out my feelings, and the

1172
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: only time he was defensive was when I said he

1173
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: was capable of cheating on me. He said he loved me,

1174
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:24,840
Speaker 1: that he would never touch another woman and risk losing me.

1175
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 1: I believe he hasn't cheated on me, but after this incident,

1176
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 1: the unshakable trust I had in him wavered slightly, and

1177
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: I let him know.

1178
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 4: That I mean it is.

1179
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 5: It is pretty crazy to probably read like, ah, if

1180
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 5: you just like drinking, if you'll forget about it.

1181
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 4: It's like, have you done that? Yeah?

1182
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 2: Have you?

1183
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 4: Have you done that?

1184
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: You have been drinking a lot recently. Does that mean?

1185
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, what are you trying to forget?

1186
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 4: Yeah? It's just a bad It's bad. It's bad.

1187
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 1: It's really bad. I told him I expected better that

1188
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: if a friend of his behaved in such a bad way,

1189
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: then he would take the time to correct them, or

1190
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,280
Speaker 1: at the very least cut contact with people like that.

1191
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: That kind of mindset where cheating becomes acceptable, it's almost contagious.

1192
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: He said, he completely understood where I was coming from,

1193
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: and that he was disappointed in himself for letting us

1194
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: both down, and that he got caught up and being

1195
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: a wiener head with the guys. I said, if hanging

1196
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,800
Speaker 1: out with those guys makes you a wiener head and

1197
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 1: stop effing being around them, it's not that hard. He

1198
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: fully acknowledges that real quick before the end the story. Boys,

1199
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:29,720
Speaker 1: any other thoughts.

1200
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 2: It's gonna be how it's not. How he responds is

1201
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 2: how you know his actions Like, Okay, you acknowledge that, great,

1202
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 2: and you're listening to Op now, but where do you

1203
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 2: go from here? Is he really gonna do that? Do

1204
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 2: you really think he's going to separate himself from the boys?

1205
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1206
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 1: That's a good point.

1207
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is one of those like the company you

1208
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 5: keep type things.

1209
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: You know, at some point, show me your five friends

1210
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:55,799
Speaker 1: and I'll show you who you are.

1211
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

1212
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 5: It's funny when I lived in New Mexico, when my

1213
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 5: neighbors would always say weird he was married, and he

1214
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 5: would always say weird comments about other women and like

1215
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 5: women in general, and you know, even though he's married,

1216
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:12,799
Speaker 5: and I'd always.

1217
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,919
Speaker 4: Be like, dude, you're married, why are you, Like, what.

1218
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 3: Do you do?

1219
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 4: I'd be like, ha, like what are you doing? You're married?

1220
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 4: But it's like I don't know well enough.

1221
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 5: To like try to like put like put like the

1222
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 5: screws into him. I'm like, you know whatever, Yeah, And

1223
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 5: it's not like I'm no authority over this guy that

1224
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 5: I'm like an acquaintance with. But guess what found out

1225
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 5: recently no longer with his wife and.

1226
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 4: It's probably with some girl that he cheated on her with.

1227
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 5: So it's like when people talk like that, it's like, yeah,

1228
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 5: they're not people's you listen, listen to people the way

1229
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 5: that they are.

1230
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: It's like people's talks lead to their actions.

1231
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then people, you know that, they're just like

1232
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 5: they could just justify it or whatever.

1233
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 4: I don't know, it's people.

1234
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: Justifying things is scary. I used to justify buying camera

1235
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: women all the time. That was a scary time. A

1236
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,439
Speaker 1: little bit left here, I said, I wanted to see

1237
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 1: more than words, to stay with my sister for a

1238
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:04,439
Speaker 1: couple of days while he fixes his mistakes. He says

1239
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: he would proved to me that he could be better.

1240
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: So far in the past week, I know he had

1241
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 1: apologized to Bethany by hiding John's cheating since she came

1242
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: and told me. She said she wasn't ready to put

1243
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:19,839
Speaker 1: everything behind them just yet, but appreciated Chris actually apologizing

1244
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: for hurting her. Since John hasn't bothered at work, Chris

1245
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:25,439
Speaker 1: and I have been cordial and no one knows we're

1246
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: not living together currently. He comes and he eats lunch

1247
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 1: with me instead of going to smoke with the guys

1248
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: like he used to do when we had just began dating,

1249
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: and even put up some shelves in my room for

1250
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,839
Speaker 1: me since the site team was taking too long. He

1251
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:41,320
Speaker 1: hasn't asked me to come back home yet, but says

1252
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: that he misses me and wants to give me my time.

1253
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 1: Him and John are still friends, and I can't imagine

1254
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 1: Chris will ever fully cut him off, no matter how

1255
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: big a prick he can be. But I can see

1256
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 1: that Chris is trying to make amends, and while I

1257
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: still feel upset and disappointed in his behavior, my heart

1258
00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: softened towards him again, especially when I see him trying

1259
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 1: so hard. A part of me is worried that if

1260
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: we get back to normal, he'll eventually go back to

1261
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:07,919
Speaker 1: being a lad again. I do miss him a lot,

1262
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: but just need some objective advice. I like it. It's

1263
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: giving little love bomby, but it's good steps.

1264
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,799
Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean like you just got to go your gut, dude.

1265
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, like if you feel like it's like this thing

1266
00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 5: that's gonna be like an irreversible thing because.

1267
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 4: He did lie.

1268
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 5: He lied, He lied right to your face, because he

1269
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 5: knew that what he did was going to be bad. Yeah,

1270
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 5: and he lied any lied until it was like he

1271
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 5: couldn't maintain the lie anymore and he had to be like, Okay, well,

1272
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 5: I guess I well, and then he lied again, and

1273
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 5: he said I talked to him in person, and that's

1274
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:39,879
Speaker 5: what I said.

1275
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: He finally saw the consequences of his lying, and now

1276
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: he's trying to make up for it. Which it sucks

1277
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 1: that you had to have your girlfriend talk to you

1278
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: about it instead of being a man and taking accountability

1279
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: for your actions and keeping accountability for your freaking friends.

1280
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god. True, there's like, yeah, just keep drinking

1281
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 1: so you forget about it.

1282
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,760
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's' And I think I saw some comments

1283
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 5: about the my story about my neighbor. I feel like

1284
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 5: there's that's the difference between like a friend and an acquaintance. Yeah,

1285
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 5: it's like, I'm not going to go out of my

1286
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 5: way for someone I like barely know and be like

1287
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 5: this is what you I'm like, I'm just gonna be like, Okay,

1288
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 5: well I feel bad for that guy's wife, like and

1289
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 5: I'm gonna move on because trually, I only have so

1290
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 5: much I can everyone only has so much of a

1291
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:25,840
Speaker 5: battery to like do that kind of stuff or like

1292
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 5: how much there's like the buckets or the cups or

1293
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 5: whatever you want to call it. It's like, if you're

1294
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 5: gonna get involved in someone's business, it better be somebody.

1295
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:33,439
Speaker 4: That you actually care about. And it's like that there's

1296
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 4: like some level of weight there wait or.

1297
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: Influence you can have on them. Yeah, I agree. Well

1298
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 1: that is the end of that story. That is a

1299
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: cursed episode all the way.

1300
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 4: Around, a cussing episode.

1301
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: But guys, end of that episode. If you love us,

1302
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Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe, We love you and see you tomorrow.