1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, are more. 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARVIFM dot com 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. 7 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 2: Buggle up, hold on time. We got it for what 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 2: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: Thanking a few subjects. He's so good at cheating it's scary, 10 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, My brother is so good at cheating 11 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: that it's scary. I lived with him and my sister 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 1: in law for a year after I got out of rehab. 13 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: I was in a boating accident and my leg was 14 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: messed up, so I stayed in a rehab facility for 15 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: three weeks. When I got out, my cheating brother wanted 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: me to stay with him until I was fully able 17 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: to walk again. After only three days of living with 18 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: he and his wife, he started using me as interferent 19 00:00:56,400 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: and an excuse to cheat. His side chick came to 20 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: the house during the day and they would have sex 21 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: in the formal living room. If he ever got caught 22 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: the side chick was supposed to be my physical therapist, 23 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,639 Speaker 1: and she even wore scrubs when she came to our house. 24 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 1: I find it hard. I found it hard to look 25 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: at my sweet sister in law and know that she's 26 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: being cheated on by a man that had no respect 27 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: for her nice living room furniture. He gave his girlfriend 28 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: my phone number, and she'd call late at night, and 29 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: he'd come to my room to tell her good night 30 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: on my phone while he left his phone on the 31 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 1: charger in his bedroom. His girlfriend could cook her behind off, 32 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 1: so she would drop off food for him, and he'd 33 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: tell his wife that my friend dropped it off. My 34 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: sister in law never became suspicious, and I wanted to 35 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: drop hints to her so badly, but I had to 36 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: be loyal to my brother. Now I'm in my own 37 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: apartment and I met a new guy. Whenever his phone 38 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: rings and he ignores it, I get very paranoid. I'm 39 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: dealing with baggage that never happened to me directly, but 40 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: I was caught in the crossfires. I lash out at 41 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: this new guy and he hasn't done anything. My brother said, 42 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: I cannot blame this on him. Should I trust my guy, 43 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: or keep an eye on him, all right, Well, in 44 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: any situation, it's always good to keep your eyes open 45 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: and pay attention to the red flags. Okay, but in 46 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: your case, your man hasn't really given you a reason 47 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: to accuse him of anything. His not answering his phone 48 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: could be something, and it could not be. So only 49 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: time will tell that. Now. What your brother did, of course, 50 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: was completely wrong, completely out of line, and not to mention, 51 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: really stupid for bringing the woman to his home. It 52 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: was very disrespectful. All of that, we know that. But yes, 53 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: he should have used He was using you, I should say, 54 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: and you're being there, and the fact that he knew 55 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: that you wouldn't snitch on him because he's your brother 56 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: to do his dirt. He used you to cover up 57 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: his blatant cheating although his wife. If his wife caught 58 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: him having sex in the living room, I don't know 59 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: how he could say that was therapy. I don't know 60 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: that was your physical therapy. Anyway, you saw what you 61 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: saw and you cannot unsee it. 62 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 2: At this point. 63 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: The main thing is, please don't get involved. Please don't 64 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: do that, because their marriage truly is none of your business. 65 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: I mean you saw it, but what can you do? So, yeah, 66 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: watch your new guy, but don't compare him to your cheating, 67 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: low down brother. Don't do that. If you want to know, 68 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: just ask him about his unanswered phone calls and see 69 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: how he reacts. 70 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: Steve, Wow, I've never seen a letter come in like 71 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: this where the subject matter for ninety nine percent of 72 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: the letter the subject matter was about someone else, and 73 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 3: then zero point nine one percent is just you want 74 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 3: to know if your new dude is cool or not. 75 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 2: I be damn. 76 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 3: This is a perfect case of worrying about something that 77 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 3: first of all, you have no control over, worrying about 78 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,279 Speaker 3: something that has yet happened, and worrying about. 79 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 2: Something that ain't your business. 80 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 3: And now you done took on somebody's woes, concerns, and problems, 81 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 3: and you done took them all and packed them on 82 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 3: your back. And now you got all the same woes, 83 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: troubles and problems because in your mind, this is what 84 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 3: you come up with. 85 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 2: This is letter. 86 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 3: Is nothing ridiculous you talking about Now your brother is 87 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 3: so good at cheating is scary. This is really not 88 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 3: a good cheater. I'm gonna tell you something, man, This 89 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 3: dude is like this is. Damn, they're stupid. This is 90 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 3: my seat. Good cheaters at least? Man, Damn, you want 91 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 3: to reduce your chances. 92 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to involve anyone else. 93 00:04:58,480 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 2: You don't. 94 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 3: You want to reduce your chances and limit your exposure. 95 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 3: Anything that exposes you, man is that's stupidity. If this 96 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 3: dude is this loyal, dishonest, he's so good at cheating, 97 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 3: that is scary. I lived with him and my sister 98 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 3: in law for a year after I got out of rehab. 99 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 3: I was in a boating accident. My legs was messed up, 100 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 3: so I stayed in rehabiting. You know, Okay, that's what 101 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 3: you're saying. Huh Where you hurt your leg in a 102 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 3: boating accident and the black people hurt their leg You 103 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 3: just coming out of rehab. Okay, you wanted to be 104 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 3: a boating accident? 105 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 2: Mine with me? 106 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 1: Why can't it be a boating accident. 107 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 2: I know what rehab he was in. I know that. 108 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 3: That's what you got to tell people when they ask 109 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 3: you what you I'm in rehab? What hell boating accident? 110 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 3: There's your ass on the boat and hurts your. 111 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: Damn legs, so they can't check it. 112 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:57,239 Speaker 2: On the water. 113 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, boo, you don't even know what to call for 114 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 3: the break. See that received boat and rehab. That's very 115 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 3: that's a special. 116 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 2: Boating rehab rehab. So Finn, Hell, well, you know I 117 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 2: know what's going on. Anyway. 118 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 3: When I got out, my cheating brother wanted me to 119 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: stay with him till I was fully able to walk 120 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 3: again three days of living with After only three days 121 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 3: of living with he and his wife, he started using 122 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 3: me as interference and an. 123 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 2: Excuse to cheat. 124 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 3: His side shit came to the house doing to day 125 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 3: and they would have sex in the formal living room. 126 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 3: What we come back, ladies and gentlemen, The stupidity has begun. 127 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, We will have part two of your 128 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: response coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour. 129 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter subject He's so good at cheating it's scary. 130 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 131 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: hard morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 132 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. He's so good at cheating, it's scary. 133 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 3: So this woman got this brother that cheats, and he's 134 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 3: so good at it it's scary. 135 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: She went to stay with him. Atter she got out 136 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 2: of rehab from a boating accident. She hurt her legs 137 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: on some water. 138 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 3: Okay, she heard run out on some water or you 139 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 3: was in rehab. But that's the best damn rehab excuse 140 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 3: I've ever heard. 141 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,559 Speaker 2: I was in a boating accident and hurt your legs 142 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 2: on the water. You hurt your legs on some water. 143 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 2: It's possible. What oh, okay, we all know what the rehab. 144 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 2: You're in here just drinking or something. You drinking, you 145 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 2: know her anywhere? 146 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 3: Anyway, she got out and her brother asked her to 147 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 3: stay with him till she got back on the feet, 148 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 3: but he used her as interferes because he was using 149 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 3: her as excuses while he cheated on his wife. His side, 150 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 3: chick came to the house during the day and they 151 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 3: would have sex in the formal living room. Damn man, 152 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 3: we can't go shut a door or nothing. We're just 153 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,239 Speaker 3: out here in front of the flat. 154 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:18,559 Speaker 2: Scream. 155 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: We just. 156 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 3: But in the formal living room though, it's where we 157 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 3: got the Oh, we're on the velvet couch. We're in 158 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 3: the formal living room, the one with the buttons in 159 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 3: what's happening here? 160 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 2: Prediture? 161 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,199 Speaker 3: If he ever got caught. The side chick was supposed 162 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 3: to be my physical therapist. And she even wore scrubs 163 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 3: when she came to our house. This will load down 164 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 3: health for right here. This chick, the side chick, she 165 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 3: load down. She is load down. Her self esteem is 166 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 3: so low. Not only are you the side chick, you 167 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 3: gonna come to my house and then you gonna be 168 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 3: in the sky and you're gonna be posed as a 169 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 3: physical therapist for my sister who just got out of 170 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 3: rehab from a boat and accident. She hurt her leg 171 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 3: on the wall. Now you're dressing up in scrubs to 172 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 3: come over here. Man, it's a low down chick right here. 173 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 3: And this dude is dumb. Let me here's the exposure. 174 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: You know about it, You at your own house, neighbors 175 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 2: know about it. 176 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 3: And now you'd have brought this girl to your house 177 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 3: posy as a physical therapist and she's not one, and. 178 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: Now she know about your exposure. Is incredible. Man. 179 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 3: I found it hard to look at my sweet sister 180 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 3: in law know that she was being cheated on by 181 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 3: a man that had no respect for her nice living 182 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 3: room furniture. Wait, man, hold on, it had no respect 183 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 3: for her nice living room fronture. He ain't had no 184 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 3: respect for her. He didn't have no respect for the marriage. 185 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 3: He didn't have no respect for their home. Damn the 186 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: nice living room furniture. He had no respect for her 187 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 3: as a person, for their hole. This dude right here, 188 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 3: the side chickens low down and he low down. He 189 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 3: gave his girlfriend my phone number, and she called late 190 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 3: at night, and he come to my room to tell 191 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 3: a good night on my phone. Man, This dude right here, boy, 192 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 3: he got everybody involved in this. This is not going 193 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 3: to last because the ain't no foundation for this right here. 194 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 3: His wife ain't. 195 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 2: Dead, nothing to him. He just doing what he want 196 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 2: to do. And he thinks he's slick. This ain't gonna last, man, 197 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 2: it can't. The exposure is too high. He's not a 198 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: good cheetah. He's stupid. 199 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 3: His girlfriend could cook her behind off, so she would 200 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 3: drop off food for him. 201 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 2: And he tell his wife that my friend drops it off. 202 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 2: What she is friend? 203 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 3: You be calling me a night, you take the phone off. 204 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 3: Why don't you know the call? You ever thought about 205 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,239 Speaker 3: getting out of this? Not participating. 206 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 2: Anyway. 207 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 3: My sister in law never became suspicious that I wanted 208 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 3: to drop hints to her so badly. But I had 209 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 3: to be law to my brother. That's real, God, be 210 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 3: law to the brother. But you got to distance yourself 211 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 3: from this right here. Now, I'm in my own apartment 212 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 3: and I met a new guy. Whenever his phone rings 213 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 3: and he ignores it, I get very paranoid. I'm dealing 214 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 3: with baggage that never happened to me directly. But I 215 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 3: was caught in the crossfires. I last shot at this 216 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 3: new guy and he hasn't even done anything. My brother said, 217 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 3: I cannot blame this on him. Of course, your brother 218 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 3: saying you can't blame it on him because your brother 219 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 3: ain't wrong. He ain't wrong for the side chick. He 220 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 3: ain't wrong for bringing into his home. He ain't wrong 221 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 3: for having sex with in the living room. He ain't 222 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 3: wrong for making her dress up in a scrub disguise. 223 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 3: He ain't wrong for giving her your phone number. He 224 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 3: ain't wrong for coming to your room at night to 225 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 3: say good night? Are you kidding me? And you expect 226 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 3: him to own up to something? Are you serious? Lady? 227 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 3: And then all of that to get to this right here, 228 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,719 Speaker 3: and oh, by the way, Iden told you you done 229 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 3: brought some baggage from a relationship that wasn't even yours. 230 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 3: Most women that have baggage have baggage from a previous 231 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: relationship or something that happened to him. That's more understandable 232 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 3: than this. You bringing baggage from some hearsake and something 233 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 3: you saw, lady, you and your brother. I don't know 234 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 3: how y'all be thaying on who y'all mommy and daddy? 235 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 2: Was that? 236 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 3: Y'all missed a lot of lessons on how it's supposed 237 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 3: to go. Should I trust my new guy? Keep out it, 238 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 3: keep iw it. Every time you stay with somebody, you 239 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 3: gotta keep on somebody. Damn Now you're in your house 240 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 3: keeping eye on somebody. 241 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 2: What hell? 242 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 3: Why don't you just try to enjoy your damn life 243 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 3: for women and quit creating scenarios that you don't have. 244 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you. 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