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Speaker 1: This week on Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: When you do a freezing cold shower for three minutes

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Speaker 2: in the morning, it's making you tough for the rest

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Speaker 2: of the day because it's freezing and it's and it

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Speaker 2: never gets easier, and you mentally have to be like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I just have to do this, and you feel so

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Meela. Happy Wednesday, Happy Wednesday everyone. It's hump day, y'all.

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Speaker 3: How's your day going, Dear, It's going great.

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Speaker 1: I'm in West Hollywood looking at an amazing view.

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Speaker 4: This is an amazing view, speaking of deer. We're at

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Speaker 4: the very classy Dear Media Studio and you will see

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Speaker 4: if you're on our Patreon. We are very classy, wearing

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Speaker 4: headphones and everything I know.

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Speaker 1: And we are here with Lauren Bostic, the host of

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Speaker 1: the Skinny Confidential podcast and just overall entrepreneur, beauty guru, author,

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Speaker 1: Mama Mama.

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Speaker 2: Thanks guy is God? We kicked Michael off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we were with her husband earlier and then we

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Speaker 1: told them to get the fuck out.

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Speaker 2: Yep, this is the only threeesome we want today.

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Speaker 3: I think he was good. I'm out.

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Speaker 4: After you blast him about watching Real Housewives, He's done

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Speaker 4: with you.

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Speaker 2: He loves Orange County, he loves them all, he loves

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Speaker 2: New York. Don't let any of it get to you.

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Speaker 2: He knows.

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Speaker 1: I used to watch reality TV, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think I went down a really dark, deep hole

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Speaker 1: when I started watching love and hip Hop, and then

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Speaker 1: I was like, I can't watch any of this.

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Speaker 2: I need to watch that. Everyone talks to me, Okay,

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Speaker 2: are you sure? Just don't love Island and not.

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Speaker 1: Everyone I highly recommend is Jocelyn's Cabaret is on Zeus

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Speaker 1: Network and it's a ratchet.

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Speaker 2: I'm watching it tonight, New York Done. That's how I

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Speaker 2: like do therapy and meditation. I just like Watcheen. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna watch it.

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Speaker 3: It's been on the air for like a year. She

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Speaker 1: Don't watch TV. I'm old school. I don't know anyway.

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Speaker 1: So on our show, we be typically well every episode

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Speaker 1: we pull a card just to kind of see what

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Speaker 1: the what the spirit is feeling on this episode. So

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Speaker 1: I just pulled a card and it's the Five of Pinnacles,

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Speaker 1: and I really wanted to just like put it back

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Speaker 1: because I don't really like this card.

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Speaker 3: Why don't you like the five of Pinnacles.

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Speaker 1: Well, it says five of pedacles financial hardship, however temporary.

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Speaker 1: It could be on the way this Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't like this card.

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Speaker 3: Wait, it says wet on Wednesday. It's gonna be.

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Speaker 1: It could be on the way. It could be on

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Speaker 1: the way. So brace yourself for some bad news. What

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Speaker 1: really matters, however, is not what happens, but how you

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Speaker 1: react to it. You can fight your way through this

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Speaker 1: relatively easily if you get creative about ways to increase

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Speaker 1: your income and decrease your outgoings. Key interpretations emotional or

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Speaker 1: because my bank account's looking decent these days. So I

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Speaker 1: or worry. So that card, I don't know. Does that

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Speaker 4: Do you feel that really pissed me off? So I

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Speaker 4: looked at another one. I'm glad you looked at another

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Speaker 4: I din't get another car, but I didn't need some

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Speaker 4: more insight on that car. Yeah, because that's pissed. It

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Speaker 4: says you may have recently lost your job, your home,

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Speaker 4: Your ego maybe also be bruised, especially since success often

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Speaker 4: correlates to financial wealth. Losing either it can be a

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Speaker 4: The upside is that this is a minor arcane. I

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Speaker 4: can't know how to say this oarkaic no arcane card

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Speaker 4: This is this too shall pass, okay, So what my

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Speaker 3: But what it's telling us is that you need to.

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Speaker 4: Really tap into your own source of independence, your own

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Speaker 1: So we usually ask our guests to share an affirmation. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I think my affirmation in all areas of my life

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Speaker 2: There's no in between for me, and I try to

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Speaker 2: us tend to settle because of society's expectations. We talked

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Speaker 2: And sometimes I think it's just better not to settle.

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Speaker 1: Amen.

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Speaker 4: SAME's safe, the same secure. Oh like Bill is cool,

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Speaker 4: he has a good job, you know, like, the Bill's

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Speaker 2: Bill's not it. Just because the Bill has.

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Speaker 3: A good job doesn't mean it.

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Speaker 4: Bill is like getting your panties wet before you come home.

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Speaker 4: You know, Like, you gotta don't settle because it's safe.

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Speaker 2: Bill's got to be funny. Bill's got to have a big, big, big, big,

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Speaker 2: big personality. Bill's got to have big other things, bank account.

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Speaker 2: The Bill's got to be fun You gotta be childlike.

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Speaker 2: Bill's got to have a lot of things.

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Speaker 3: I had to be emotionally sure, feminist.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all the things.

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Speaker 1: Amen, Yes, where's Bill? Where the fuck is my Bill?

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Speaker 3: Watch fucking Housewives?

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Speaker 1: Yeah me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you always got They peripheral it. They actually don't

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Speaker 1: So you have Skinny Confidential. I was researching you a

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Speaker 1: little bit, and you started it in college, right, and

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Speaker 1: now you've built this entire I would say, empire, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I have a lot more to do. But that's very nice, I.

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Speaker 1: Know, but you know, I feel you because it's really

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Speaker 2: Thank you. That's very very nice, especially coming from both

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Speaker 2: of you. You guys have built an incredible community. I've

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Speaker 2: had Skinny Confidential for thirteen years. So I started blogging.

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Speaker 2: And this was when blogging was not cool. There was

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Speaker 1: So then you did, so then you did have the

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Speaker 2: Essentially hunt the whole time, I was like, I'm building

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Speaker 2: And so you know, I didn't make one dime for

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Speaker 2: Everyone looked at me like I was fucking crazy. What

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I'm so glad you said that too,

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Speaker 1: have followers, it automatically equates to success, automatically equates to

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Speaker 1: and like, how are you how to monetize? How to

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Speaker 1: For sure, I mean someone in that way. I do

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Speaker 4: we have a little game we like to play, play

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Speaker 4: the games called trigger. Okay, and we're just going to

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, are you ready?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the same thing, okay four hundred times a yes.

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Speaker 2: Marriage, Like you want me to just say one word?

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Speaker 2: One word you say too, I'll say to It depends love,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I have the best weed mints.

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Speaker 3: What okay? Sorry? Bad habits.

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Speaker 2: A skinny margarita with jalapeno with a half from assault

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Speaker 3: That's a good habit. Favorite sex position.

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Speaker 2: Taylor, don't pop a boner. A favorite sex position doggy

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Speaker 5: Vibrator, that's a good one. Monogamy, it depends, kids, It depends.

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Speaker 5: Skinny confidential race race. I think people need more empathy

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Speaker 2: I want to say it depends, but I'm not going

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Speaker 2: Definitely lesbian porn. I'm not. I don't need a bunch

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Speaker 2: Your childhood, non judgmental.

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Speaker 3: That's beautiful.

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Speaker 6: Celebrity crush Ruby Rose, Oh my god, me too.

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Speaker 3: She is really hot. Thong or panties.

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Speaker 2: Fucking the most granny disgusting panties that you've ever seen.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting that.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. In regret, I feel like it's telling

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Speaker 3: Same. I think my my high school quote was no regrets.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's yellow.

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Speaker 2: Boxers make your deck look so much bigger. So I

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Speaker 3: Taylor's like, leave me the fuck out of this.

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Speaker 4: Okay, the thing that's all that Taylor can handle today.

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Speaker 3: If you keep going, he goes, and you just keep going.

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Speaker 2: Marriage I think is not for everybody. And I don't

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Speaker 1: We've been married.

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Speaker 2: We've known each other since we were twelve.

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Speaker 2: Dated. I put that in quotes from twelve to fourteen.

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Speaker 2: My dad caught us in the closet half naked, fourteen,

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Speaker 2: We've been married for shit, I should fucking know this

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Speaker 2: I think it depends how you do it, right, So, like,

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Speaker 3: What about mushrooms?

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Speaker 2: Love them? I was a horrible postpartum anxiety and depression

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Speaker 2: You can't look at your phone. You gotta put your

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Speaker 2: like LSD, and like the mushroom is like mother Earth.

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Speaker 2: So put your phone away. No TV, don't sit inside,

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Speaker 2: Yeaest I love mushrooms. I hope it becomes legal in everything.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that happens with weed too.

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Speaker 4: Updated people and then started smoking and then be like wow,

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Speaker 2: You know what My favorite thing to do is go

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Speaker 1: Is it because like, is it because it's it's hard

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00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,400
Speaker 1: for him to open up when he's not.

438
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:33,160
Speaker 3: Or because he can't lie on mushrooms.

439
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 2: I think with men in general, women want more from

440
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 2: them always. I'm like that meme, like how much attention

441
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 2: do you need? It's like I need all of it

442
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 2: plus plus some. So like with the mushrooms, it's you're

443
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 2: able to like really get in there, whereas men are

444
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 2: like there are sometimes a few words, so that mushrooms

445
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,280
Speaker 2: is great for that. It's like playing a game of operation.

446
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 2: Remember that game where you like go in with the

447
00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: like the Tweezers and and get the spleen. He's fucked.

448
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 3: I'm going to make you emotional today. Come here.

449
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very very fun.

450
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 3: Well, we agree. We're totally mushroom advocates too. We love.

451
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 4: I agree, like it's necessary, it's good for depression anxiety.

452
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 4: It really saved me in the COVID situation last year.

453
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 2: So how do you like to do it? Do you

454
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 2: like to micro doose? Are you like eating chocolate? Are

455
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: you eating an actual mushroom?

456
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 4: I've done it all of the above. I like the chocolates.

457
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 4: Erica micro dosed me in Costa Rica. I must have

458
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,959
Speaker 4: got the strong micro doose that day because I was tripping.

459
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 4: I was like, what the fuck is wrong with me? Like,

460
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 4: oh my god, you gave me a mushroom with my vitamins.

461
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 4: So it kind of threw me off. But then I

462
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 4: surfed and I was fine. But it just depends like

463
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 4: what vibe you'ran. If're gonna try to go all the

464
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 4: way deep and cry and shit and try to really

465
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 4: figure some shit out where you're just like walking in

466
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 4: the park and need a little extra creativity.

467
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: You probably felt better after you surfed because you connected

468
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 2: with the earth. Yeah, I honestly think that people, everyone's

469
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 2: obviously going through this COVID situation. Everyone needs to connect

470
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: with the earth. And that sounds so woo woo, but

471
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 2: people don't understand the healing benefits of putting your feet

472
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: in the sand or the soil or the ocean. It is,

473
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 2: there is so many studies if you google grounding and

474
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 2: earthing and what it can do to change your mood,

475
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 2: and if you really think about it right now, when

476
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 2: is the last time that you actually put your feet

477
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 2: to the earth. You put it to your you know,

478
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 2: carpet or wood floor or tile, But when is the

479
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: last time Taylor probably has never touched the earth. Taylor's

480
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 2: like beating his meat to some porno And can't you

481
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 2: need like an earthing mat underneath your porn setup, Taylor,

482
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 2: like it's so important earth to put your feet in

483
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 2: the sand.

484
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 1: And I think we're also told like put shoes on,

485
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 1: put the shoe, put your shoes on, don't go out

486
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: the house without any shoes or you know, like it's

487
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: so true, and I think I'm guilty of it. I'm

488
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:59,199
Speaker 1: guilty of like it hurts, like, uh, what I step on? Aw, Like, oh,

489
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 1: let me put shoes on. But you know, me and

490
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: Mila recently went to Costa Rica for two weeks and

491
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: we were literally just naked pretty much half the time

492
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 1: and without shoes and just doing everything in nature, and

493
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: it was it was something that I it reminded me

494
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: that how important that is and how important it is

495
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 1: for my mental health, and how important it is for

496
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: my daughter too, and that we're actually going back in

497
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: about a week and a half and we're taking our kids.

498
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: And I'm just so excited because growing, you know, grow.

499
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,120
Speaker 1: I grew up here in LA and my daughter's growing

500
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 1: up here in LA. And not only is she growing

501
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: up in LA, she's growing up here in such a

502
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 1: strange time with what's happening, with what the world, and

503
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 1: on top of that, just social media, tablets, so much access,

504
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 1: everyone has so much access. There's not a lot of,

505
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: i think, emphasis on nature at all. And I'm just

506
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: really excited to ground her ass and bring her out

507
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: there and take her shoes off and show her. And

508
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: I think kids innately they know when they get in

509
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: that space because there's so much there's so there's so

510
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 1: much closer to the source than we are. Like my

511
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: daughter's six years away from source. I'm like thirty three,

512
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 1: and I feel like when she gets there, at least,

513
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: this is my hope, is that she really understands, like

514
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: why it's so important to create a life where you

515
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: can do that, and because it's it's taken me now,

516
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 1: like thirty three years or however long it's been since

517
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 1: I've lived on my own to really understand and remember

518
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: how important that is to me, and how like I

519
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: do feel so much better near water. I mean, I'm

520
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: a scorpia, I'm a water sign, but I feel so

521
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: much better in water and in nature. And I come

522
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 1: back to like earth or here, and I'm just like

523
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,120
Speaker 1: back to anxiety, back.

524
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 3: To like it's like it's like the new Generation's church.

525
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 2: It's so you're so right, that is such a good example,

526
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: especially because of COVID. It made it so we're all

527
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 2: everyone's like that. I was like, went to Colorado, Everyone's

528
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 2: like sanctuary, sanctuary, Sanctuary. For me. It happened when I

529
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 2: was pregnant. I all of a sudden was like, wait,

530
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 2: all these buildings, all these phones, all these like what's

531
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 2: going on? And then COVID happened and I was just like,

532
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,360
Speaker 2: get me out of here. And that's why we moved

533
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: to Austin. Like, our house is totally different vibe than

534
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: it is here. I think you're you're so right about kids.

535
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 2: Someone gave me such a good tip, they said, and

536
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do this with my daughter. They said, garden,

537
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 2: because with gardening, you're touching the soil, you're touching the earth,

538
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 2: you're planning the seeds. It's interactive, you can't use your phone,

539
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 2: and you're growing something and so you see progress. And

540
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 2: they said it's really good for kids to have a garden,

541
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 2: and all those elements that we're all talking about come

542
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 2: together in that. So I think that a garden is

543
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: like a cute idea if you have a kid. It's easy,

544
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 2: and it's it's cheap. You get some seeds, and you go, well.

545
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: It really teaches them just nurturing anything in their life.

546
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 4: We actually had an event last weekend or two weekends ago,

547
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 4: and in one of the activations, it was for kids

548
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 4: grow Chella. It was beautiful and like Erica and I

549
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 4: are witchy bitches and we're always talking about manifesting, and

550
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 4: like we actually had a station where kids were planning

551
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 4: their own seeds and like putting like a crystals in there,

552
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 4: putting their mind to whatever it is that they wanted

553
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 4: to manifest, and then like putting soil over it. And

554
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 4: then you know, recently, it started to sprout in the window.

555
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 4: So I showed Luna when she came home, and I

556
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 4: was like, what do you remember what you manifested and

557
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 4: what you planted, what your intentions were, And she was.

558
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 3: Like, I wish for butterflies.

559
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 4: And it's so crazy because someone had come in from

560
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 4: outside and he brought it was like those one of

561
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 4: those things with the butterflies and there were six beautiful

562
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 4: real butterflies. But he just found it outside. But this

563
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 4: was before I showed it to her, and I was like,

564
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 4: oh my god, Luna, it happened. You got your butterflies. Wow,

565
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 4: that is so cute, but like just planning those little

566
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 4: seeds of grounding. I always tell Luna, like take off

567
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,919
Speaker 4: her shoes. Me and my grandma tell her like to

568
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 4: put her third eye to the tree. Yeah, just like

569
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 4: just like doing things that your kids don't forget their

570
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 4: mad because as adults, like as society, we move away

571
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 4: from that, we move away from like our capabilities and

572
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 4: then we have to watch The Secret forty seven times

573
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 4: to remember. But in reality, like we have the ability

574
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 4: to manifest these things. Like even for the New Moon,

575
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 4: we did some like spells. I try to like pumper up,

576
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 4: like we're gonna do some spells, We're gonna take a bath,

577
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 4: we're gonna put some potions in, you know. And she's

578
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 4: like all witchy because she's a dark Sagittarius and she's

579
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 4: like into it.

580
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 3: So it's just like.

581
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 4: Grounding and kind of cultivating your own spirituality. You know,

582
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 4: like our generation has come so far away from religion.

583
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 4: You know, if you're religious, that's great, but like it's

584
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 4: it's fact that most people are more spiritual than they

585
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 4: are religious now. But it's just like not not being

586
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 4: really like I'm not with religion, but I am with

587
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 4: spirit and with like God, and how we can transfer

588
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 4: those things to our children in like alternative ways versus

589
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 4: the structured, like if you sin, you're gonna go to hell,

590
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 4: you know.

591
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 2: But it's so true and I love again the moon

592
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 2: that's so earthy and like ground. It's like it's like

593
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 2: it's important to show our kids this.

594
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 3: What's your sign Gemini? What's your birthday?

595
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 2: May twenty first? Oh?

596
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 3: Your cuspy?

597
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 2: Like, how do you guys know? Like all of this stuff?

598
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 3: Those are crazy?

599
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: All I know is I have two personalities and don't

600
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:14,479
Speaker 2: fuck with me, Michael.

601
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah for Also, it makes sense that you're a

602
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: serial entrepreneur because all my Gemini friends that are well

603
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: men and women, you guys are just like go getters.

604
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 2: We are. Yeah, I'll take it.

605
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 4: We're month apart. I'm June twenty second, so I'm on

606
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 4: the other cuffs. You're you're a Taurus Gemini?

607
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 2: Yes, how do you even know that?

608
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: Geez from La Da?

609
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

610
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 3: Our favorite question?

611
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 2: Wait? Is your sign Gemini? Too?

612
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 3: Or I'm a cancer but I'm on the Gemini cuss

613
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 3: so I do have some.

614
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 2: So you have fucking three personalities? Okay, I love it. Yeah,

615
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 2: sorry to anyone that dates you you do too, you

616
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 2: oh bitch, I guess I have four and.

617
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 3: Taurists are crazy.

618
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 4: My mom's the tours and she will cut my dad

619
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 4: at any given time, so I Michael will be careful.

620
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you better watch out. He's an aries.

621
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: Wait, so how old is your daughter?

622
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 2: She she's one and a half.

623
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: So you're I guess if you're like a new mom,

624
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: you're like in the I'm a new mom, your new mama.

625
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: Would you say, like, what is the biggest I guess

626
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: surprise that you've learned in motherhood, Like maybe something that

627
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: you thought would be one way and now you're realizing

628
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: is different.

629
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 2: I thought it was going to be easier. What I

630
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: mean by that is I cannot believe how much mom

631
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 2: guilt there is. I was the type of person that

632
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 2: was not dreaming of when I was gonna have kids.

633
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: I wasn't like super maternal. My husband's actually more maternal

634
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 2: than me. When I had the baby, I was like,

635
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a nanny and I want I want

636
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 2: you know this, the schedule and the babysitter and the like.

637
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 2: I wanted all the things. And now that I have

638
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: a baby, I constantly feel guilty and even if it's

639
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 2: just you have to leave for an hour, you feel guilty.

640
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: And I think it's not talked about enough. I think

641
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 2: people are like, oh yeah, mom, guilt, but like, no,

642
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 2: you feel guilty, like for even like being on your

643
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 2: phone when they're eating breakfast.

644
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: Wait till she tells you to get off your phone.

645
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 3: You're always on your phone. Mom.

646
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 2: Yes, it's like every little thing feels like you're not

647
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 2: doing enough. It's never enough. That's with my business, I

648
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 2: feel like I can like check a box, but with

649
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 2: mom it's like mommy hood. It's it's hard because you

650
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: feel like anything you're doing is not the right thing.

651
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 2: So that's been the most surprising thing is how much

652
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 2: one I want I don't want a nanny all the time,

653
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: and two I feel guilty when I leave.

654
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: I love that, like the idea of being able to

655
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 1: check a box on your business and not being able

656
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: to in motherhood. No, that's like, so it's so beautifully

657
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: put that way. I've never thought about it that way,

658
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: but it's so accurate.

659
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: It's wishy washy's there's no one to tell you like

660
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 2: you're doing it right. There's no set of rules with

661
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: like finances and business and all these things. There's more,

662
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 2: there's more of a formula.

663
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 4: Like milestones that you can hit and you know you're

664
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 4: doing a good job.

665
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: And then I'll look back and I'll be like, oh

666
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 2: my god, I wasn't. I didn't spend every waking second

667
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 2: with her when she's a newborn and she's never going

668
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: to be a new again.

669
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 6: So you carry like all this guilt through each stage.

670
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: It's weird. Do you think dad's Do you think dad's

671
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 2: not at all? I haven't seen it. I mean now

672
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. If you're a shitty dad,

673
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 2: maybe you have dad guilt hopefully shit. But the ones

674
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 2: that are good dads, I don't see the dad guilt

675
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 2: like the mom guilt.

676
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I agree. I was gonna. I wanted

677
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: to ask Michael that because some guy that we were

678
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: when we were speaking on this panel in Nashville, we

679
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: were saying that men don't experience dad guild and this

680
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: guy was like, fuck that, yes I do. And I

681
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to like not count his feelings,

682
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: but I.

683
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,959
Speaker 2: Maybe some dads do have dad guilt. I don't know.

684
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to blanket, but I just it feels

685
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 2: different with women because now we're not you know, twenty

686
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: years ago a lot of people were staying home or whatever.

687
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 2: It's different. Now we're so multifaceted, I think, and not

688
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 2: that we haven't always been, but like it's we're really multifaceted.

689
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: You're launching merch, you got your podcasts, you guys are

690
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: doing your trip. You have to be a mom, you

691
00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 2: have to be a businesswoman, you have to show up

692
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 2: on the mic. There's a million fucking things to do.

693
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: And the dad doesn't feel the same.

694
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: No, yeah, I don't think so.

695
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 3: If anybody has a curative mom, gil Callus.

696
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: Is there anything that like your parents maybe you know

697
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: how they raised you, that maybe you are choosing to

698
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: do different with your daughter, or that you think you'll

699
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 1: do differently. I know you said that you came from

700
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: and your childhood was very open minded. I don't know

701
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: if you were speaking about your parents allowing you to, like,

702
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: you know, be open minded and explore. But is there

703
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: anything that you're gonna you feel like you're doing different

704
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: or you plan to do differently.

705
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 2: One thing that I first, I'll have to tell you.

706
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 2: One thing I like is that my parents raised me

707
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 2: in an environment where if you want something, you figure

708
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 2: it out. The theme of my childhood was figure it out.

709
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: Oh you want that, go get it. Like it was

710
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 2: always me having to figure out, like how to get

711
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 2: something I wanted. And I think that put me in

712
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 2: a really good position later because now when someone says,

713
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 2: you know, oh no, you can't go in the house.

714
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,719
Speaker 2: All the doors are locked and the windows are locked too,

715
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 2: I'm coming down the fucking chimney like I'm going to

716
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 2: figure out a way to get into the house. And

717
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 2: I think they really set me up for that. And

718
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 2: then another thing that they did that I think was

719
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 2: great was what I mentioned earlier was not being judgmental.

720
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: I could have told my parents and I wanted to

721
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: be anything, and there was no judgment. And as I

722
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,919
Speaker 2: interview really successful people, that's not the case. They were told,

723
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 2: you have to be a doctor, you have to be

724
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 2: a lawyer, you can't pursue entrepreneurship. I think my parents

725
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 2: were really good at they were entrepreneurs. So I think

726
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 2: they were really good at instilling in me that I

727
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 2: can do whatever I want if I go work for

728
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 2: it and figure it out. So that's I have to

729
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 2: shout out something they did good something that I think

730
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 2: that I'll do differently. God, that's a good question. I

731
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 2: think that I I don't know. I feel like I

732
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: had like a pretty good parent. I think that my

733
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: mom sometimes maybe hid things for me. With what you

734
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 2: said earlier, how you're you're open in front of your daughter.

735
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 2: I like that. I like the idea of having sort

736
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 2: of an open communication as opposed to that generation kind

737
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,439
Speaker 2: of felt like they had to hide things from us,

738
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 2: And I don't think that that is strategic in the

739
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 2: long run. I'd like how you just smoke weed, like

740
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 2: you just show this is my life. There's no secrets.

741
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 2: It doesn't feel secret energy, if that makes sense.

742
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 4: Well, secrets like make curiosity. So that's what happened. Yes,

743
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 4: ask kids when you're like secrets, they have secrets about stuff.

744
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 4: I have a question, like, you and Michael have been

745
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,359
Speaker 4: together for so long, your new parents, and obviously you.

746
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 3: Work together, Like how does that work?

747
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 4: Like, first of all, new parenthood is like being a

748
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 4: new parent as hard as fuck. Me and Erica work

749
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,439
Speaker 4: together and do four hundred things together, and it's hard

750
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 4: when we don't even and we're not sleeping together. How

751
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 4: do you maintain your relationship? You know, like your entrepreneurship,

752
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 4: you and your parenthood in the same household and also

753
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 4: work together.

754
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 3: Is it hard.

755
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 2: It's very, very hard. But this is what I'll say,

756
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: and you guys can both relate to this. Probably it's

757
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: one of the biggest challenges of my life, but it's

758
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 2: the biggest reward and you'll find that too, as you

759
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 2: guys are best friends. Is who's better to start an incredible,

760
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: thriving business with than your best friend or your partner.

761
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 2: I think what it comes down to, and this is

762
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 2: really important when you're in any kind of partnership. So

763
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 2: many times I see marriages where each one of them

764
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: is pushing a different boulder up a different hill. Michael

765
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 2: and I have been very thoughtful and purposeful on pushing

766
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: the same boulder up the same hill. What happens in

767
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,720
Speaker 2: marriage is sometimes people are pushing the boulder, pushing the boulder.

768
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 2: It's going separate directions. And I think even with you guys,

769
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: my advice would be like, what is your three month plan,

770
00:36:58,200 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: what is your five year plan? What is your ten

771
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 2: year plan? And are we both pushing the same boulder

772
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 2: up the same hell. It's really important because some people,

773
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 2: you know, may want money for material things, but other

774
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 2: people like what I want money for is autonomy and

775
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 2: being able to wake up and do what I want

776
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 2: to do and create what I want to create, And

777
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 2: I want money for my time. I like things to

778
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 2: be convenient and efficient. So I think these conversations are

779
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 2: important if you're in a relationship or in business with

780
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 2: someone that's your best friend, your friend, your sister, your husband, I.

781
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,959
Speaker 1: Think it's also important too. And I would say even

782
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: in our relationship, which you know sometimes we have to

783
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: work on balancing, is remembering Like because you're running a business,

784
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: it's like the moment you wake up, you're talking about business,

785
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: like your whole you got to be careful about becomes

786
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: the business and you forget about the relationship. You got

787
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: to be careful about that friendship. And I think I'm

788
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 1: guilty of that even in our relationship. Is like sometimes

789
00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm like I need to check in with Jamila and

790
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 1: like her friend because like al, I'm all we're talking

791
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 1: about all the time is like we got we have

792
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: this or this. There's so many shit, there's so much

793
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: shit to get done.

794
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: You're more like Michael, I'm I know how to compartment

795
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 2: menalize and shut off, And I don't know if that's

796
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: a good thing all the time. That's not always a

797
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: good thing. I know how to how to put it

798
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 2: away and tuck it in the box. And he's more

799
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 2: like you like, but you just have to set boundaries,

800
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 2: like no, I don't want to talk about quick books

801
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 2: and my bank account at eleven thirty at night when

802
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 2: I'm winding down with my weed mint watching Housewives. So

803
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 2: now there's no business in the bed. If he wakes

804
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 2: up and checks his phone, I'm like, what do I

805
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 2: don't check my phone for two hours when I wake up.

806
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 2: I think it's seriously it will change your life if

807
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 2: you can wake up tomorrow and not check your phone.

808
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I have to wake up at four am.

809
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: I know, don't check your phone, because what ends up

810
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 2: happening is you're reactive to everyone else. You're not being

811
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 2: proactive to work on the things that you want to

812
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: work on. You're reacting to everyone's to do list, their

813
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: text messages, their emails. Then you're sucked into social media,

814
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 2: your cousin's sister's aunt's friend. It's it's really just acting.

815
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 2: In the mornings, I find and with Michael, like I'm

816
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 2: not asking. You did it off for two hours, but

817
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 2: like when you wake up, like for the first twenty minutes,

818
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 2: no phone, so you just start to like it's like

819
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 2: a dance. You start to learn how that other person dances,

820
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: and then you create what works around you. If that

821
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: makes sense right?

822
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,280
Speaker 1: So would you say then you do you have boundaries

823
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: in your marriage?

824
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 2: Then oh, one hundred percent, you have to have boundaries.

825
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: What are they?

826
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: Like? I said, I don't want to talk about work

827
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 2: in the bed. My love language is touched, get on

828
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 2: board or move. I think when we're reading books in bed,

829
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 2: it should be a hard book because or else we're

830
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: just on our phone and our iPads in front of

831
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 2: our daughter, other boundaries. I truly try to encourage him,

832
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 2: and I try to lead by example not to check

833
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 2: your phone. I will insist in the morning sometimes. And

834
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 2: you guys have to try this. If you haven't to

835
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 2: do whim Hoff breath work, it's ten minutes. What is it,

836
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 2: you'll get high?

837
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 3: What's the method.

838
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna text you guys what it is. It's whim

839
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 2: Hoff breathwork.

840
00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 3: On YouTube Stroll one.

841
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: Nope, you just breathe in and out, you hold the breath,

842
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: you feel like you're on crack afterwards. It feels amazing.

843
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 3: Someone told us that recently.

844
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 2: It's really I mean, that's another thing that's changed my life.

845
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 2: It's just doing ten minutes of breath. I like it

846
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 2: way better than meditation, and you truly get high, like

847
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 2: I can't explain it. And then right after that, I

848
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 2: do a freezing cold, three minute shower.

849
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I just read about that too. I

850
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 4: feel like it's a sign from God.

851
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 2: You gotta try it. Everyone's like, I don't have time

852
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 2: to do that, but you take a fifteen minute shower

853
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 2: every day, so actually you have ten minutes for breath

854
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 2: and three minutes for a freezing cold shower. That's fifteen minutes.

855
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 2: So it's like, I'm always about how to optimize time.

856
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 2: How can I optimize my life instead of taking a

857
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 2: shower for fifteen minutes and just you know it being

858
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 2: hot and comforting. It's like, okay, no, let's start my

859
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: day off on a really positive foot and optimize that

860
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes. So I try to like sprinkle that into

861
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 2: his life too.

862
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: So do you only take a three minute shower or

863
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,399
Speaker 1: then do you put the hot water on or it's

864
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: just it's just cold.

865
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 2: It's freezing cold for three minutes. But here's the things

866
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: are cold. No, not at nighttime. I never take a

867
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 2: freezing cold shower. It's always warm, so I'll do a

868
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 2: warm shower to wind down. I think when you do

869
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: a freezing cold shower for three minutes in the morning,

870
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 2: there's nothing that's hard the rest of the day, right,

871
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 2: So guess what it does. It builds your mental toughness.

872
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 2: And who taught me this? I got to credit them,

873
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 2: Tony Robbins, Like you're building that muscle of like, Okay,

874
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 2: it's making you tough for the rest of the day

875
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: because it's freezing and it's horrible and it never gets easier,

876
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 2: and you mentally have to be like okay, I just

877
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 2: have to do this, and you feel so good afterwards.

878
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 4: It's kind of primitive too, right, like just like walking naked,

879
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 4: like being naked or grounding.

880
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 3: It's just like going back to the beginnings.

881
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 4: I also agree with you, like breathwork for meditation works

882
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 4: best for me because I have serious add so like

883
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 4: even like chanting, I do that as like a visualization

884
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 4: or meditation because as long as I'm doing something in

885
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 4: the meditation, I can stay awake. But if I'm just

886
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 4: sitting up trying to meditate, my ass will fall asleep,

887
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 4: like I'm tired. But if I'm doing like if I'm

888
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 4: dancing and I'm meditating, if I'm breathing, if I'm meditating,

889
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 4: if I'm chanting and I'm meditating, then I can be

890
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:14,959
Speaker 4: focused on the one thing and like not think about

891
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 4: anything else. But it's hard for me to just I'll

892
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 4: just lay out and go to sleep if I'm just

893
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 4: quietly meditating, I have to work on that.

894
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 2: I feel like you after talking to you, are you're

895
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 2: really gonna like breath work. You seem like you like

896
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 2: a lot of spiritual, holistic like I think that you'll

897
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 2: really like it.

898
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 3: I also like to moan when I breathe.

899
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good. The only time I've tried it during sex,

900
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 2: But I gotta try it during my breath work.

901
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 3: The thing we like.

902
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 4: We reserve moaning for sex, but like bringing joy and

903
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 4: pleasure to other things, Like.

904
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 2: I try it with me, Taylor, get your penis out

905
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 2: of here.

906
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: He never wants to do it.

907
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 3: Taylor wants to join it.

908
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: Taylor join in. He's moaning back there.

909
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 3: I have a movement. It's called me.

910
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 2: I love it. You never know what Taylor is doing

911
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 2: behind there. You never know what he's watching, even though

912
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: there's a reflection and I can see it, and he

913
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 2: doesn't know that.

914
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 4: I mean, there's so many there's so many ways to

915
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 4: reach peace. And yes, like I told you, I was

916
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 4: working on your show. You guys, go check out our

917
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 4: episode with them. But about just rituals and routines is

918
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 4: not my strong point. But I am looking to commit

919
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 4: to myself more in that way for like the next

920
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,720
Speaker 4: six to twelve months. And I feel like the cold

921
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 4: showers and the breath work I'm taking that.

922
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 2: Here's the thing. Don't be overwhelmed because people will look

923
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 2: at the morning routine that I've created over the last

924
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 2: ten years.

925
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 3: Can you tell me the full morning?

926
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, psycho, But like, but like it's one thing at

927
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 2: a time, you know, It's just little things like just

928
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: change not going on your phone for twenty minutes, easy,

929
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 2: Just change instead of a warm shower, Okay, Like let's

930
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 2: start slow, do warm, and then do two minutes of

931
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 2: cold or a minute of cold. Just make little tiny changes.

932
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: I think they add up.

933
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

934
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: I need to know your morning routine.

935
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 2: It's really crazy Okay, the audience is going to be like, well.

936
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 3: I see you here with like four vitamins in front

937
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 3: of it.

938
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 2: I know, I know, but I try to squeeze it

939
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 2: in where I can. Now. Before I was a mother,

940
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 2: it was like even more crazier, but now that I'm

941
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 2: a mother, I think I try to wake up at

942
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 2: seven the same time every single day. I'm a huge

943
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 2: fan of sleep. I'm not one of those people or

944
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 2: entrepreneurs that's like no sleep, Like I like nine hours.

945
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,880
Speaker 2: Like I want to be in bed early nine hours

946
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 2: of sleep, maybe eight, And the second I wake up,

947
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: I do this thing called light movement hydration, and everyone

948
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 2: can do this. You open the shades so the light

949
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 2: comes in, which is really important to your circadian rhythm,

950
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 2: and then you move. So what we typically do is

951
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 2: We'll go take a walk with the baby, and while

952
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 2: I'm moving, I'll hydrate. So such an easy tip is

953
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,720
Speaker 2: like having a huge hydroflask by your bed, putting lemon

954
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 2: and mint in it, and you wake up it's still

955
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 2: freezing cold, so you have your hydration. You'r hydrating, and

956
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: then I come back and I try to do the

957
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 2: breath work. The freezing cold shower if I have time,

958
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 2: I'll try to, you know, write down what I'm grateful for.

959
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 2: I think that can change your mindset. I don't always

960
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 2: have time to do that. Still have not checked my phone,

961
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 2: and then I make the bed, and instead of looking

962
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 2: at my phone as I make the bed, I just decided, Okay,

963
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 2: how can I use this as an opportunity to learn?

964
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 2: And so I think that's turn on a podcast, turn

965
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 2: on an audible. I think in the morning too, you

966
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 2: should be intuitive on what you're consuming. So, like, I

967
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 2: don't want to start the day off with a gossip podcast.

968
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 2: I don't want it in the night by the way,

969
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: with I love Gary Vee, but his energy is really high. Yeah,

970
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 2: you want to maybe wind it down different. I think

971
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 2: you need to pay attention to where your energy levels

972
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 2: are and adjust around that with the podcast. So the

973
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 2: only time I really would touch my phone is to

974
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 2: turn on the podcast. I think just not touching the

975
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 2: phone is so beneficial though, But that's probably my morning routine.

976
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,280
Speaker 2: Maybe it's not as psycho.

977
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 3: No, it's not psycho, that makes sense.

978
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 2: It's just when I can set the foundation of my day,

979
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 2: I have a better day. I just don't set the tone.

980
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 1: It's crucial, I believe. I mean, I know I go

981
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: in and out of routine, and when I'm in routine,

982
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: I feel the best. I don't know why it's so

983
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 1: hard to fucking it's like working out. It's like why

984
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,800
Speaker 1: it's so hard to take care of yourself because it

985
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: feels good, but then like not taking care of yourself

986
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: also feels good sometimes and then until it doesn't, Yeah,

987
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: until it doesn't, and then you're like back to square

988
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: fucking one and you.

989
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 2: Can start all over again.

990
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 4: We've definitely all been into a place where you let

991
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 4: someone else set the tone for your day and you're

992
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 4: like pissed for hours and you're like, how the fuck

993
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 4: did that just happen?

994
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 3: I just woke up.

995
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 4: So I agree that the tone setting is important for

996
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 4: the full twenty four hours.

997
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think like not letting anyone dictate the tone

998
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 2: of your day besides yourself, I feel like it's taking control.

999
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 2: And I don't care if it takes me an hour

1000
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,439
Speaker 2: to be my best self for the whole day, I'll

1001
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 2: take I'll do that. And there's ways to work around

1002
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 2: things with the baby, you know, or kids, like you

1003
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: can get very creative when someone tells me, they don't

1004
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 2: have time. I just I think there's there's ways to

1005
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 2: work around it.

1006
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: There absolutely is. I think when people say that it's this,

1007
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: they don't want to find a solution.

1008
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they're scrolling through social media for four hours.

1009
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: Or you could wake up earlier then, yeah.

1010
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 2: Or go to bed earlier or yeah, or go to

1011
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 2: bed earlier or or you know, just little things, little

1012
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 2: things that you can add, little habits make the biggest difference.

1013
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 2: You know, grounding your feet outside, walking outside, having your

1014
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 2: coffee outside instead of inside. There's little tiny hacks that

1015
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 2: you can do all day. I even this is like

1016
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 2: going off on a tangent, but I even take my

1017
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,439
Speaker 2: conference calls on one day a week and that day

1018
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 2: I'm walking, so I'm able to at least be outside

1019
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: and walk on the calls, like instead of sitting in front.

1020
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 2: I don't like video. I won't do video zoom. I

1021
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 2: just want to talk on the phone so I can walk,

1022
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 2: I can move. I think when you make those little tweaks,

1023
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 2: it makes it. It does make a big difference over time.

1024
00:47:56,400 --> 00:48:01,280
Speaker 1: Okay, I have one more question. What is the the biggest,

1025
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: like the best advice that you've gotten in motherhood, and

1026
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: then what is the best advice you've gotten in business.

1027
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 2: Motherhood. I did not google one thing when I got pregnant,

1028
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 2: good not one. I didn't look at Pinterest, I didn't

1029
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: I didn't text a friend, I didn't read anything about it.

1030
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:29,359
Speaker 2: I just trusted myself, and I think that that has

1031
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 2: helped me keep my blinders on. For instance, I'll give

1032
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 2: you an example, there's six thousand ways to feed a baby.

1033
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 2: There's like baby led weaning, and like all this fucking

1034
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 2: shit that they make over like you can feed like

1035
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 2: formula or whatever. I just I just did what worked

1036
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 2: for me, and what that was was anything I was eating.

1037
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 2: She ate and that's what worked. And I don't know

1038
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 2: if that's like proper or whatever. I just did what

1039
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 2: worked for me. So my advice would be, don't listen

1040
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,320
Speaker 2: to advice, do what works for you. When it comes

1041
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 2: to running a business, I think that it's like baking

1042
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 2: a There is so many different ingredients in the cake.

1043
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:12,240
Speaker 2: There is consistency, discipline, patience. Patience is a big one.

1044
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 2: There's quality content, There's all different kinds of things, and

1045
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 2: you have to make sure that you're constantly sort of

1046
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,439
Speaker 2: nurturing each of those areas I think it's important. It's

1047
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 2: not a one size fits all, there's no secret formula.

1048
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 2: But I think if you can wake up every day

1049
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 2: and do one thing, I do this every night when

1050
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 2: I lay my head down on the pillow and think,

1051
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 2: what is one thing I did to move the needle

1052
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: closer towards my goal? And it can be as little

1053
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,240
Speaker 2: as I did a giveaway for my followers that engage

1054
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 2: them and you know, deepened our relationship. Whatever it is

1055
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 2: that makes me happy. And I think that's how I've

1056
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 2: grown the business. There's been no epiphany. It's not been overnight.

1057
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 2: I've not gone viral. It's not a huge deal that

1058
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 2: I got. It's been just laying my head down every

1059
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 2: night and being like, Okay, I did this little thing.

1060
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 2: I did this little thing, I approved a merch design.

1061
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 2: I just little things that take you closer towards the goal.

1062
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 2: That's how I think you build a long term business

1063
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 2: because it's not short term, and we don't want it

1064
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 2: to be short term.

1065
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 1: No, I'm so glad you said that too, because actually

1066
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: me and Miela were working yesterday and at when I left,

1067
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: she was like, did we get anything done?

1068
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 3: We did good? Today, right, did we get anything done?

1069
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 1: And I was like, as you asked me that question,

1070
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 1: and I said, I think, yeah, you know, there's still

1071
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: so much to be done. And then I got in

1072
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 1: the car and I literally thought about all this shit

1073
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: we did yesterday, and I was like, we did so

1074
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:36,839
Speaker 1: much shit, Like we designed like three merch items. Like

1075
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: we designed like three merch items. We did so many

1076
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 1: we approved like a box, we like, we did so

1077
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: many things. We had a meeting about our retreat. We had.

1078
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,399
Speaker 1: We did like at least ten things. And the fact

1079
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: that I even hesitated to wonder if I had done

1080
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Speaker 1: anything was absolutely nuts. And I was like, wow, I'm

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Speaker 1: fucking crazy, and I really have to learn how to

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00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: just celebrate the small wins and not like look for

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00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: these major, huge shifts that I guess identify as like

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Speaker 1: I did a lot today, Like you know, it's just.

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Speaker 2: You got it. You gotta There's always to be done,

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00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: It never ends, it doesn't matter. There's always something to do.

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Speaker 2: But you guys are doing a great job.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, So are you. You're doing an amazing job.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I really like how you like have a community style

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00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 4: even in a beauty brand, you know, like you're asking

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00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,879
Speaker 4: your audience, you're asking your customer, what do you think

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00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 4: we should do? I think that was that's super unique,

1094
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 4: and like people miss that. You know, people want to

1095
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 4: be involved in the process. People want to know what's

1096
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:41,240
Speaker 4: going on. And I mean us too. It's a community effort.

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00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 4: It's not just us because you know, obviously we make

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00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 4: the decisions, but we've created this space for people to

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00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 4: feel welcome, like please come sit with us. We want

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00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 4: you here. So I think, like that's pretty cool, and

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00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 4: just like being present in it because like you said, sometimes,

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm sure you look back and when you're

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00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 4: twenty blogging, you know, and you're like, damn, never did

1104
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 4: I imagine I'd be sitting in the studio overlooking West

1105
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 4: Hollywood and my own shit.

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00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 3: But like just being.

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00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 4: Grateful for every step of the way. And I got

1108
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 4: we got some good advice at the podcast movement or

1109
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 4: I think from Twila, and what she said was like,

1110
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 4: you know, people struggle with figuring out their thing.

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00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 3: What's your thing?

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Speaker 4: Like your whole fucking twenties and sometimes your thirties, is like,

1113
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 4: oh God, like am I going to be successful at

1114
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 4: the thing? What is the thing that I love?

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Speaker 3: To do.

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00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,919
Speaker 4: But you know, when it comes to the thing, when

1117
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 4: you find it your passion, your purpose, you won't give

1118
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 4: a fuck if it takes three years until you make

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00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:36,880
Speaker 4: any money, because.

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Speaker 2: Bingo, that's the unlock. That's the secret formula. You know

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00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 2: what's your thing. You don't give a fuck if you

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00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 2: don't make money because you know the money will come

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Speaker 2: because you're doing what you love to create.

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Speaker 3: Yeap, and you're like, only I can do that's the unlock.

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Speaker 2: That's that is.

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Speaker 4: It's like when you when you when you sleep, eat

1127
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 4: and shit that thing, when you go to sleep thinking

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00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 4: about it and you wake up thinking about it, that's

1129
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 4: when you're That's when you're on your way. You know,

1130
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,439
Speaker 4: even if it takes five years, two years, the consistency

1131
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 4: and like the I know for without a doubt that

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00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 4: this is what I'm supposed to be doing. The money

1133
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 4: is gonna come. That that's the thing, Like, I know

1134
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,720
Speaker 4: the money's gonna come. You know, even when the money

1135
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Speaker 4: wasn't coming at all, I'm like, the money's coming. I

1136
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 4: don't know when or from who, but it's coming. You know,

1137
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 4: there's no question. Because we were so clear about what

1138
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 4: it is that we were starting in the community that

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00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 4: we were like creating, and so I just think, yeah,

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00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:27,240
Speaker 4: that's really good advice.

1141
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 2: You guys gave great advice on our podcast too. You

1142
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 2: guys got to go listen to them. Please.

1143
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: Yep, can you tell our people where to find you.

1144
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 2: At Lauren Bostic at the Skinny Confidential for product, we

1145
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 2: just launched an ice roller and an oil.

1146
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 1: So your product. I love your packaging. I'm a packaging

1147
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Speaker 1: like thank you.

1148
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 2: That means actually a lot coming from you.

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00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:48,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it's it's based because of my mom. My

1150
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: mom is like obsessed with packaging, and so now I'm

1151
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: obsessed with packaging and it's important.

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Speaker 2: It's important. That's very very nice. I'm so happy that

1153
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Speaker 2: you guys like it. And my book is on Amazon,

1154
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 2: Get the Fuck out of the Sun. It's skincare tips

1155
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Speaker 2: and tricks from a hundred of the top tier influencers, podcasters, celebrities, doctors, everything,

1156
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 2: and a bunch of my tips and tricks.

1157
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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited. I'm so inspired by you.

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Speaker 2: You guys get a book, oh we do. Yeah, and

1160
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna send you vibrators.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm like, this bitch has a book, she got

1162
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 4: a podcast, she got a vibe spent thirteen years got

1163
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 4: it is going.

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Speaker 1: To be pink, and it's gonna look super cute. I'm

1165
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Speaker 1: gonna set all my shit up in one corner.

1166
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,280
Speaker 2: I called the beauty blenders in here.

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Speaker 1: It is yes.

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Speaker 4: I was like, Eric, are you wearing pink today? Because

1169
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 4: you know her favorite color is pink. And then I

1170
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 4: started looking see my closet, like, damn, I don't even

1171
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 4: have anything.

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Speaker 2: You know what's funny for my business, not for my

1173
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Speaker 2: home or my clothes.

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Speaker 3: Because you probably picked out at the business.

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Speaker 2: I'm pinked out, like, no more pink. The beauty blender

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Speaker 2: is in here a lot. I can't believe I didn't

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00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 2: tell your mom that, Oh you should talk. Thank you

1178
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Speaker 2: guys for having me. You guys are both amazing. I

1179
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Speaker 2: can't wait to re listen to your threesome episode.

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Speaker 1: All right, you guys, you know where to find us

1181
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: at Good Mom's under Score Bad Choices on Instagram, and

1182
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 1: make sure you go rate and review us on Apple

1183
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: Podcasts because reviews matter. And you can watch this episode

1184
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: on Patreon. That's patreon dot com. Backslash Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 1: If you are in your city, you're lonely looking for

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Speaker 1: a mom, a woman, a tribe, anything. Make sure you

1187
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Speaker 1: join our Patreon. We will connect you to our Slack

1188
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Speaker 1: community where we have hundreds of women ready to meet

1189
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Speaker 1: up with you guys and connect. We talk with you

1190
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 1: guys every single day on there, and we share a

1191
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: lot of funny shit over there. There is some funny

1192
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: shit happening.

1193
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 3: There is like imagine our stories times one hundred.

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00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of like dating photos, app photos,

1195
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Speaker 1: naked photos. Anyway, we'll see you guys next week. Bye

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Speaker 1: bye e solo record. Then let's us stay us