1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: Celebrity Gobble Gobble club Kids. It's Thanksgiving, which means we're 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: taking the week off, but we thought we'd dip back 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: into the archives for a really thematically important episode. 4 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 2: We found one of the most famous Massachusetts Pilgrim settlers. 5 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: Because Thanksgiving was a time when Pocahontas and John Smith said, 6 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: let's just spend the night in make the Charlotte Posta. 7 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 2: And if Pocahontas was Ilaria Baldwin and John Smith was 8 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: out of Baldwin, then we would be in business anyway. 9 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 2: Please enjoy Ilaria Baldwin, Mama of seven, and maybe you're 10 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: around the turkey right now with seven of your. 11 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: Rascals, because Thanksgiving is ultimately about togetherness and family, and 12 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: no one loves to be with her family Familia Vamilia 13 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: than Hilaria Baldwin. So please enjoy this episode from the 14 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: vault as you break. 15 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 2: Bread and maybe get inspired for healthy sides for Thanksgiving. Okay, 16 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 2: don't be pressured to have you know, Grandma's buttered yams. 17 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 2: Maybe it's more grand nieces. 18 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: Queen Wa Kale, shout out to all my grandnieces. Happy Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving. 19 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 1: What's up? Club kids? 20 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,839 Speaker 2: Stephen and I right now are both in chair pose. 21 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: Arms up. You have to arms the sky, which. 22 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 2: Means we're not sitting on a chair. We're pretending we're 23 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: sitting on a chair and we're engaging our course straight up. 24 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: Well, oh my god, it's so painful. 25 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,919 Speaker 2: Ten seconds engage your bread. 26 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: Yes, I won. 27 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: I could have go on for longer, but again, I'm saying, 28 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: with a mysterious sinus infection. 29 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is horrifying. Who's that knocking at 30 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: the door. It's all your friends, you filthy whrr Your 31 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: husband's gone and we've got books and a bottle of 32 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,399 Speaker 1: wine to kill. It's Hollywood, it's books, it's gossip. I'm 33 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: sure it's memoir. It's Martini. 34 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 2: Celebtly poop Club. 35 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: Read it while it's hot. 36 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 2: Celebrity poop Club. 37 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: Tell your secrets. We won't talk celebrity books. No boys 38 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:40,399 Speaker 1: are a loud cele say it loud and poud celebty 39 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 1: book club. 40 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 2: Buzz me in. I brought the queer. 41 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: Voe ohmga go. 42 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 2: Bien k pasa. 43 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: Movie biano theme mon amiga. 44 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 2: I'm grieving Tapa right now. 45 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: I'm also craving I love the octopus of my of 46 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: the country. Vacation and as a child Spain, it is 47 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: so important to me. 48 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 2: Do you know what I had for lunch? 49 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: Let me guess, cilantro. 50 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: E nice cucumber? 51 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: Oh, cucumber, cukarma cucumber. 52 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 2: Yes, I did bread. Wow, but it was it was 53 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 2: a farmer's rye. 54 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: Oh, well then it is a fiddle with that. 55 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 2: Of sliced, chunky, heavenly summer tomatoes. 56 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: And tomatoes no, but they were looking red. 57 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: Okay, and como cities say cucumber. 58 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: Oh, that's so healthy. I had. I had a sandwich. 59 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: We'll get into die in a second, but perhaps we 60 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: can just jump right into this episode. 61 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: Right and it's too exciting, and it's too urgent. 62 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: Nothing has ever been more urgent. 63 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 2: We read and uh an amazing. 64 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 1: And immersed ourselves in one of the most important spiritual 65 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: teachers of our generation. 66 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 2: You all know her, maybe as al Baldin's wife. 67 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: Some of you know her as Lily marn It's former, 68 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: some of you know her as the Rachel Dolazol, but 69 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: Spanish version say. 70 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 2: It with me. Today we read a book by. 71 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 1: Elaria Balden, also known as Hilaria Baldwin, and her book 72 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: The Living Clearly Method, five principles for a fit body, 73 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: healthy mind, and joy joyful life. So she of course 74 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: is the yoga wife of Alec Baldwin. I think she 75 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: just popped out her seventh. 76 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think seven. 77 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: Her thing is just constantly being pregnant with Alec Balban's children. 78 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: He's always like sixty five and just like, oh god, 79 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 1: I had another one. 80 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 2: And then she's always having like twins again, and then 81 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 2: it's another like a single one and then a twin. 82 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: She is fertile as fat. 83 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: She is famously known for fully changing her accent to 84 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: having a Spanish accent sometime. 85 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: Let's get into that right off the bat, before we 86 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: even get into the other. So, you know, so she's 87 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,720 Speaker 1: from Massachusetts. She's basically me slash u because her parents 88 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 1: are doctors. Her dad worked at MGH. Her mom like 89 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: also worked at Harvard. 90 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, her marbors at Harvard. They would vacation in Spain. 91 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 2: But also, as we learned this book, had family land 92 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: in Vermont, the Latin land of Vermont. 93 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: And specifically in Majorca, which is like just as far 94 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: as Spain goes, like, that's pretty kind of as fancy 95 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: as it gets over there. 96 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 2: Let's also just start with it. She was, and this 97 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 2: is my favorite phrase, a senior when I was a 98 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 2: freshman at favorite school of Buston. She was a senior 99 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 2: when I was a freshman. 100 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 1: And that was about the time that she, as she 101 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: discusses in this book, her any disorder was going off, 102 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: but also so was her love of flamenco. 103 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 2: Which here we go. So, as I knew her when 104 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 2: she was a senior and I was a freshman, her 105 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 2: name was not Ilaria. It was going to go ahead 106 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 2: and be Hillary. 107 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:48,359 Speaker 1: That is so crazy because Loca, that is Loka Chica. 108 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: Her name is Hillary. But it was Hillary Thomas, like 109 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: Hillary Lynn Thomas. Yeah, just the most daughter of a 110 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: Harvard medical professor. 111 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 2: And also Harvard Medical US. 112 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: He can't be Spanish, Oh absolutely not. You can be 113 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: Spanish as fuck over there in Cambridge. But they named 114 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: her Hillary like her parents low key were like you, 115 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,239 Speaker 1: our white ass daughter is going to be named Hillary. 116 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: I'm sure if you go to her birth records at 117 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 2: you know, Brigham or Beth Israel, it's gonna go ahead 118 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 2: and be Hillary. 119 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: She was literally going by Hillary when she was a 120 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: senior refreshman. 121 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 2: Fully Hillary. But now, in defense of her Spanish heritage, 122 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: is that like in high school every time? So we 123 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 2: have these epic assemblies. I don't know if anyone for 124 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: lates out there where we had assembly coordinators which were 125 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 2: basically kind of the Jimmy Fallons or the David Letterman's 126 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 2: of Assembly, and you know a lot of times maybe 127 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 2: there'd be a special program, and it felt like almost 128 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 2: every other assembly was literally Ilaria coming, then Hillary coming 129 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: with her Flamenco partner and doing Flamenco dance for the 130 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 2: school at assembly. 131 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: Okay, so she was committed to the Spanish drag at 132 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: that point quite yes, like. 133 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 2: Yes, she was going by Hillary, But I was like 134 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 2: everyone just kind of knew her as like the Flamenco 135 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: dance girl, and she had like very like wet curls, 136 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 2: would wear full do the Flamenco outfit. Had her partner, 137 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 2: who I feel like was a random older guy, was 138 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 2: very dancing with the stars. And then it would be like. 139 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: So she was bringing in like her outside dance with 140 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: the Stars partner to class. She was not a school person. 141 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 2: And then it'd be like, okay, let's settle in for 142 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: another one of like Hillary's Flamenco performances. And it was 143 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: being so like literally flamenco. So I'm like, okay, you 144 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 2: are Spanish. 145 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: Questions and she and she was slaying. She was an 146 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: amazing in a tear dress with castanettes and. 147 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 2: Show yes castanettes. Like it felt very like, oh, this 148 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 2: is a custom dress made at a Newton dance recital 149 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: Clovier studio. And the guy would wear like such a 150 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 2: like early two thousands, like shiny black express buttoned down 151 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 2: like snatched waists like big dancers slacks, and they would 152 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 2: just be snapping, snapping away. 153 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: Clacking away, and it's like eight thirty in the morning, 154 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 1: and you're being just like where's my coffee? More like 155 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: where's my weed? Because you were a Stoneer. 156 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 2: Fuck yeah, even though I like only spolled to weed 157 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 2: once during high school because I was like, I mean 158 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: during class, because I was like afraid because I'm actually 159 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 2: like a poster and as you said, I'm like the 160 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 2: biggest goody. 161 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: Two shoes, Yes you are. 162 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 2: And then you know, years later, an announcement comes out 163 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 2: us weekly Alec Baldwin, Mary's yoga teacher, Ilaria Thomas. 164 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: And you were like walk it back one minute. 165 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 2: And rumbles started in the in the CSW alumni community 166 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: where we're like, hold on, Ilaria. And then some people 167 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 2: were like, wait, no, she was a yoga teacher at CSW. 168 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,479 Speaker 2: And then I was like, no, wait, she was Flamenco girl. 169 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: And you were like, yeah, she got so flamenco girled 170 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: that she literally got taken away and Hillary dropped off. 171 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: And she was like, you know, it would be absolutely 172 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: hilarious if I changed my name to hilarious Hilaria hilarious. 173 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 2: Like, I don't think actually anything has been more hilarious 174 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 2: than the name change from Hillary to Andaria. 175 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 1: Bunniest thing that's ever happened. Sorry, Like she is a genius. 176 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 1: She is a comedian. Her and Donald Trump, we are 177 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 1: the two funniest people in America period. Okay, And like 178 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: this is where so in the book, and this is 179 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 1: like situating her in your high school. My first love 180 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: was ballet, which I started as a toddler before quitting 181 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: in a three year old's rebellion against the two strict teachers. 182 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's a total bad us. 183 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 2: Which is why she probably on CSW a school for rebels. 184 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, huge rebels, the forty five thousand dollars a year rebels. 185 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: By age seven, I found my way into gymnastics. My 186 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: small stature and agility made me a natural fit for 187 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: its complex moves and rigorous training. By my early teens, 188 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: I fell headlong into the world of Latin ballroom dance. 189 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 2: Add in clamshell sounds. 190 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 1: Equally demanding, but with tiny sequined dresses and gold lemee 191 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: heels as a bonus. I love the combination of music, costumes, 192 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: and artistry, and this part kills me. Latin ballroom was 193 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: arduous yet glamorous in a fake tan in fake eyelashes 194 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: kind of way. I love this, the subtle ownership of 195 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: her round place. 196 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like, yeah, you know what was really fun 197 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 2: getting a fake tanning? And yes, was spray tans really 198 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 2: popular in the early two thousands, Maybe they were. You 199 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: would take lunch breaks, But did you start by going 200 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 2: by Stefano? 201 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 1: I really wish I had the fucking gumption. Yeah, I 202 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 1: wish I had the balos this los balos that Ilaria 203 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: did to go by Ilaria. If I just said I'm Stephano. 204 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 2: I'm Stephano and I love dance. 205 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: I am thinking bout dance And also just. 206 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 2: Her general always vagary about like what country like She 207 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: finally settled in Spain. 208 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: But then she also said, according to her wiki, when 209 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: I love to do all my research, she says she's 210 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 1: culturally fluid and same girl. 211 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and that was the things. I was reading a 212 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 2: very recent article about her and Alec escaping after he 213 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 2: shot someone, and it was like they escape to a 214 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 2: home in Manchester, Vermont, where Ilaria's family has owned for generation. 215 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: Well, some of the earliest conquistadores actually were settled in 216 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: at sugar Bush. 217 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 2: They were Colombo Ski Mountain. 218 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, Fernando, I believe it was Pizaro. He actually 219 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 1: had a condo at Stowe. 220 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 2: Killington was too expensive. 221 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: It really was no back then because a lot of 222 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 1: that gold that they were plundering that had to go 223 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: back to the King and Queen over there in Spain. Then, 224 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: oh my goodness, don't get me started. 225 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 2: So it seems like after she left the wonderful school 226 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 2: of Camera School of Weston, she went to the city 227 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 2: of New York City to study dance. I'm guessing it 228 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 2: was n Yu or Juilliard. 229 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: It was to n Yo. Well, her origin story is 230 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: that she saw a yoga studio on her way to 231 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: class while she was a student. N Yu I'm like, 232 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 1: I just love how much she owns being just like 233 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 1: the most making normal ass fake, just like rich suburban 234 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: Boston girl and her being like I have this crazy 235 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:10,959 Speaker 1: story where I went on Vacca to span Now when 236 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: I was like Key. Then then when I was at 237 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: I saw a studio the yoga I'm making her like 238 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: so Italian and now. 239 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 2: But in the West Village. And also when the whole 240 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: cucumber video which I'm referring to is when she went 241 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 2: on like Good Morning America or like one of those 242 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 2: even like faker morning food shows. She went on and 243 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 2: they were like making a salad and she lifted up 244 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 2: a cucumber and she said almost ice cucumber, and then 245 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: so everyone Then of course the csw alum started. 246 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: It was like her name is Hillary, and there. 247 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 2: Was like this whole article and then her big defense 248 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 2: came out. She was like, well, I was always traveling 249 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 2: back and forth with my family to Majorca. 250 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 1: And well, and why shouldn't you, you know. 251 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 2: Get confused and take the culture. 252 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: All culturals appropriation. At the end of the day, all 253 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: culture comes from somewhere else, and why wouldn't you absorb 254 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: the space you're in on vacation as a child, I 255 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: was forced to summer on Nantucket and and my way 256 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: of copying my coping strategy. 257 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: Turning into whale sound Stephen, what do you want for dinner? Who? 258 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: Because that was the culture at the time. So she does. 259 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: She suffers through anorexia and bolimia. Her nails were brittle, 260 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: her hair was falling out. My period was mia, my 261 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: energy had tanked. That's when I found yoga. I was 262 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: hustling across the East village to my NYU classes one 263 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: day when I saw a sign for a new yoga studio. 264 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: I didn't know much about the practice, but I heard 265 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 1: it gave people relief from stress and physical aches and pains. 266 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: Instinctively sensing that yoga might help sustain my dance career, 267 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: I grabbed a flyer and then stared at it for 268 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 1: a week, working up the courage to try something new, 269 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: not easy for a perfectionist and competitor like me. I 270 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 1: finally summed up the nerve to try a basic class. 271 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 1: Wearing baggy sweatpants and a tank top. I tipped out 272 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: of the backgrow with me, Now, wow, this is bold, brave, terrifying. 273 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 2: I'm also a little bit like my high school, Like 274 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 2: I am so not yoga, Like I even took yoga 275 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 2: in high school. 276 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: No, I know, he was like, bitch, you already knew 277 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: what yoga was. 278 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 2: It's like my high school was that you could take 279 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 2: yoga one yoga too, and there was like so many 280 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 2: Kundalini masters always coming to our hyamphus and like there 281 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 2: are fast African drummers to join the Kundalini and then 282 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 2: a dance. It's like maybe she was spending so much 283 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: time off campus in. 284 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 1: Her like with her flamm. 285 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 2: Flamming cobrace, so she wasn't taking yoga one for like 286 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 2: her athletics. 287 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: I just when she goes i'd heard of it. 288 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 2: I've heard of it. 289 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we never actually mass m I just like also 290 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: like hustling kind of trying to subtlely evoke hustler culture. 291 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,679 Speaker 2: I feel like this whole what you is, This entire 292 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 2: book is her talking about like hustle culture and how 293 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 2: you need to make bowls for hustle culture. 294 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: She's like, we're all. 295 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,719 Speaker 2: So busy, and I'm always so busy and my hours 296 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 2: are crazy, and I was teaching yoga basically till three am, 297 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 2: so I wasn't feeding myself. 298 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 1: I was burnt out and I wasn't listening to my body. Okay, 299 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,919 Speaker 1: so then she so. Then the next sort of element 300 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: of her origin story is that she breaks her hip 301 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: slash leg randomly right as she's about to open Yoga Vida, 302 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: her own yoga studio, and. 303 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:42,880 Speaker 2: She literally has to open Yoga Vita in a wheelchair. 304 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:48,199 Speaker 1: Yeah. So just imagine that for a second. Okay, a 305 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: yoga opening a yoga studio in a wheelchair. 306 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, mondays were hard. 307 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:57,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you could You know, that really puts her 308 00:17:57,480 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 1: in this difficult space, and that's how she has to 309 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: find all of the other elements of yoga, and not 310 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: just the physical, but really start to get in touch 311 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 1: with the mental and the spiritual and emotional aspects of 312 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: her practice. And that's when she begins to develop the 313 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 1: Living Clearly method five principles to incorporate into your life. 314 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 2: I will say overall, and we're going to go through 315 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:26,199 Speaker 2: all the methods. This to me is much more of 316 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 2: a book of how to get control of an eating 317 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 2: disorder versu a book about how to lose weight. 318 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: Y Yeah, okay, okay, hair, I mean the book itself 319 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: is just random, random, and it's so much completely generic 320 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: information that is like circular and repackaged, where she's just 321 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: saying things like before you do something, stop and create 322 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: space through perspective you mean, And you're like, yoh, you 323 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: mean think? Are you talking about thinking? Is that your 324 00:18:58,560 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: hot tip? Hilarious? Book? 325 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 2: Could not be like more general, more fake, more where 326 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 2: you're like, okay, so it will just be like try 327 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 2: whole grains and fish and you're like, is this a 328 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 2: whole food's pamphlet that I picked up nine years ago? 329 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: So her first principle of the Living Clearly method is perspective, 330 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 1: and it's sort of like how you look at the 331 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: world and you're like, oh, that's true. I need to 332 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 1: kind of like think about that more. And there she 333 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:28,959 Speaker 1: talks about these things when you like get stressed and 334 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: you need to pull back for a second. And then 335 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: she has within the five principle there's other like so 336 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: within the first one perspective, there's like four different steps 337 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 1: and it's like first pause, then zoom out, then ask 338 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 1: a question, then make a choice, and it's like and 339 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: her example is like so like like before you eat 340 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: something bad, pause, then zoom out and think about like, wait, 341 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: what am I doing? Am I eating? Then ask a question, 342 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,400 Speaker 1: how will this big mac make me feel? Or will 343 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: I like what it does to my dress size in 344 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: five years? I know. 345 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:06,880 Speaker 2: It's like everything. And it's also like she has four methods, 346 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 2: but they're all that like they're all the same. I 347 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 2: feel like every page I turned to was like, well 348 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 2: that second class of wine really make you feel better? 349 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 1: Right, And you're like, and again, you're kind of just 350 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: saying the process. 351 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:21,360 Speaker 2: Is thinking, and then she's like, what if you breathed. 352 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: One of her other prospective moments is so here this 353 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,199 Speaker 1: photo her doing cher pots on the street, which is 354 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 1: again just so satire of stock photography and it's iconic 355 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: on like a West village street. She's driving her stroller 356 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: one spring afternoon when I was pregnant with Raphael Alec 357 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: and I took gutniment so and she just names all 358 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: her kids fully Spanish names. Yeah. 359 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:43,199 Speaker 2: Everyone, You're like, it's I would say this book is 360 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 2: mostly about Carmen being two and annoying her. And it's like, wow, 361 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 2: sounded like Carman was really annoying you during this book. 362 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and I'm sure that kid is like 363 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: really spoiled. We talked and laughed as we walked down 364 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: the street. As we approached a corner, a woman nearly 365 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: collided with Carmen's stroller. She looked at me, rolled her 366 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 1: eyes and said some not so yogic words laudernav for 367 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 1: Carmen to hear. I was surprised, but an effort to 368 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: diffuse the situation, I simply said thank you. Well, that 369 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: made her furious, and she launched into an angry ant 370 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 1: about how I nearly crushed her foot with Gotaman's stroller. 371 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 1: I'll admit that it was pretty tank like many strollers 372 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: are these days, but we were walking slowly and carefully. 373 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:25,880 Speaker 2: You know, it was like a three thousand dollars McLaren Suv. 374 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: And I love that she's admitting that, because, you know, 375 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,399 Speaker 1: this is one of my biggest pet peeves and we 376 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 1: kind of touched upon this in the Naughty episode about 377 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: car size. But strollers these days are SUV's. They are 378 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:37,959 Speaker 1: absolutely massive. 379 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 2: They have eight cup holders, they have like full screens. 380 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: It's like there's so many cup holders and ancillary bags 381 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,199 Speaker 1: and storage facilities on the stroller and it's kind of 382 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 1: just like, at this point, you're not using it to 383 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: cart your kid around you're carting half your apartment around 384 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: with the. 385 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 2: Ste Hello, here's a part a passage about how maybe 386 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 2: kind of passionate her and Alex relationship is, but also 387 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 2: like they do fight a lot. I find that my 388 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 2: relationship with how it gives me the good ades opportunity 389 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 2: to practice balance. Like getting married couple, we sometimes bicker 390 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 2: and argue, often know for silly things, and because we 391 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 2: both have strong personalities, our fights have the potential to 392 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 2: escalate quickly. 393 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: Before we know it. 394 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 2: We're both agitated and then angry and resentful. These days, 395 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 2: though we rarely move into hurtful arguments as we continually 396 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 2: integrate each principle into our lives. 397 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: Hmm, I'm sensing from that that he is basically storming 398 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: out of the room while she's in chair posts. 399 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 2: Yes, and she's like, get in jurors pose. 400 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: Oh. 401 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 2: By the way, when she says chair pose replaces coffee, 402 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 2: it energizes you. 403 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I will say, I am feeling striked up 404 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: after we just did twenty seconds of chair post like. 405 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: It is a very intense post. For those of us 406 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,680 Speaker 1: who don't really work on their quads because they don't 407 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: want big quods, it's a lot because the one that 408 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: I was er I was, I go to a lot 409 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 1: is putting the legs up on the wall, which I 410 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: think is really great for getting blood flow, because your 411 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: blood usually pools in your feet throughout the day and 412 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: so then it falls back down into your chest cavity, 413 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 1: and that. 414 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 2: Is okay, the blood Master. 415 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: It's great for a balance. 416 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 2: I have a problem in the summer where I feel 417 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,719 Speaker 2: like and maybe I need to live the Living Clearly 418 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 2: method and they eat more on zookie beans, but I 419 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 2: feel like in the summer, like blood goes to my 420 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 2: hands and my hands feel like heavy with blood. 421 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's actually sign of pre diabetes. May I 422 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 1: want to get that checked out book club. 423 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,880 Speaker 2: She's very pro meal planning and making bowls, and it's 424 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,919 Speaker 2: kind of like, I guess this book was written in 425 00:23:55,720 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 2: what twenty sixty, Okay, so the beginning of bowl culture. 426 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'd say bull culture had kind of started before. 427 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: I think bull culture was in pretty full swing at 428 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 1: that point. 429 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:11,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, just saying literally, she didn't invent bulls. And it's 430 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 2: just like, Babe, we know what a bowl is. And 431 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 2: she just says chemoa nine million times. But she tells 432 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 2: Alec she's like, okay, so we meal plan and make bowls. 433 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 2: But then sometimes I will go to an old school 434 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 2: NYC restaurant with Alec and they will serve a fluffy, 435 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 2: oven made cornbread and I will have a slice of that. 436 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: She says that cornbread isn't that bad for her because 437 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 1: she's not diabetic. But let's just say you were, maybe 438 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 1: you want to stay away from the corn bed. She's like, 439 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 1: I can occasionally indulge in cornbread because I'm not diabetic, 440 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: just so you guys know. But she's like, my monthly 441 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: cornbread is okay. When we go to Las Colia, Yeah. 442 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 2: She's like, I'm okay to have this one slice and 443 00:24:55,680 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 2: she savors it. It's also this insane thin girl thing 444 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 2: that I've seen girls do that she tells you to do, 445 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 2: which is either smell something or have one bite and 446 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 2: put it down and then you're fine. 447 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: So I do think though this was an interesting point 448 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 1: that she was making though about having one bite, because 449 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: she talked she references from chef who says that basically, 450 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: by the third bite, what you're trying to do is 451 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: recreate the magic of the first bite, which I think 452 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: is a fascinating concept. There's such a law of diminishing 453 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: returns with eating, and I think that like we actually 454 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: are chasing that, And so whether or not you struggle 455 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: with overeating or or your weight or you're trying to 456 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,640 Speaker 1: lose weight or not, like, it's actually something to be 457 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,919 Speaker 1: really mindful of when eating, because I think that this 458 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 1: sort of panic almost sets in. It reminds me a 459 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 1: little bit of Jacks famous piece. It's like, first slice, 460 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 1: you don't even know you're eating yet, second slice you 461 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 1: can only enjoy it if you know the third one's coming. 462 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 1: But then it's like by the third what you're doing 463 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:01,880 Speaker 1: is trying to recreate the joy. 464 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 2: Of that the first and the second, and you're just like. 465 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,360 Speaker 1: And when you were actually enjoying the pizza, it made 466 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: me think. 467 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 2: Of it's a little more animal mentality. 468 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like whether or not it's a bowl 469 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,400 Speaker 1: of cereal, like that first bite is always the best 470 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: because it starts to get sauger and soggiar, right, and 471 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: you're never as hungry as you were in the first bite, 472 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: and hunger is the best spice. I think about even 473 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: some of the fact you know, and this is why 474 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 1: I think you know the fancy or of the restaurant, 475 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 1: the small the dish is going to be because they 476 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 1: know by that, you know, tenth bite or whatever, you're 477 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: not going to be impressed anymore. 478 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 2: No, and that's why you always actually are a little 479 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:38,919 Speaker 2: bit surprised at a tasting menu like our Foam restaurant 480 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 2: in Chicago. I actually was very full by the end, 481 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 2: even though. 482 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: Right because you are eating enough, even though you're not. 483 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: But our brains, our American brains, are trained to think 484 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: will only be sated if we have this big, huge 485 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,679 Speaker 1: flavor with an eight ounce porterhouse on top of it. 486 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,400 Speaker 2: I want to talk about a woman, Sue's. I think 487 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 2: her name is Susan Sanna. 488 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. The Susanna story actually kind of 489 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: really got me a little bit. So Susannah. So this 490 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: is the chapter I'm breathing. So breathing is another one 491 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: of the principles of living Cleuey, and this principle I 492 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: found to be a lot more helpful than perspective breathing 493 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: because does help. Breathing is real. And here's something to notice. 494 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: I literally never notice when I'm breathing. And okay, so 495 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 1: everyone listening to this podcast right now, Okay, if you 496 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 1: are walking down the street, if you're sitting on it 497 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 1: in your car, if you're at the gym, I want 498 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 1: you to literally just stop right now, breathe and pay 499 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: it and breathe. 500 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 2: And here, why don't you stop talking and let's breathe. 501 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 1: Wow, are you breathing? But pay it. But it's also 502 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: about it's not just breathing slowly, because breathing slowly works. 503 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 1: Why because your body responds to the speed of breath. 504 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: She actually has this really fascinating thing where she's like, 505 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: if you are breathing quickly, it actually it'll make your 506 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 1: mind race. So do this thing where you breathe slowly 507 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,479 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh yeah, I find myself slowing down, 508 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: calming down. But then try breathing quickly. Your mind will 509 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,280 Speaker 1: start to race. You'll start to have all these other 510 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 1: little thoughts. 511 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:21,360 Speaker 2: I found that when I noticed that I'm not breathing, 512 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: which actually helped with my driving immensely. And you may 513 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 2: find this with other skills. Is I think when I 514 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 2: was the worst driver, if like I was merging or 515 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 2: getting on the highway and it was stressful, I actually. 516 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:34,640 Speaker 1: Were holy your breath. 517 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 2: I would completely stop breathing, which makes you completely more anxious, 518 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 2: lose function in the brain because you're not getting oxygen there. Yeah, 519 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 2: and then and then when I was like, oh my god, okay, wait, 520 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 2: let's just breathe, and then you become a better driver. 521 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 2: And of course the stakes practice. 522 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: Okay, no, it does. I mean like even while you 523 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: were just talking just then I forgot to breathe also captivated. 524 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 1: I was absolutely captivated with your storytelling. 525 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 2: And were you trying to get new crazy thoughts you 526 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: were like, okay, oh yeah, what is that called? Like 527 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 2: thought play where you hold your breath and rip another 528 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,239 Speaker 2: time of breath work, like honestly less than yoga. I 529 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 2: remember working for Jerry Springer. I was always running, running, 530 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 2: running back and forth. 531 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 1: And one of the things you're also I think smoking 532 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: a lot of menthol cigarettes, which was not good for 533 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: your breath work. 534 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 2: No, yeah, they like I was forced to smoke with 535 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 2: all of the guests because I would take them all 536 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 2: for smoke breaks and they'd be like, are you gonna 537 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 2: smoke with us? And I'd be like, okay. And this 538 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 2: hot Pa was like, You're actually gonna become more out 539 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 2: of breath if you keep on. 540 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 1: And she was hot, and so that's why you listened 541 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: to her, Yeah, And I think that's also one of 542 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: the less because she's like, at the end of the day, 543 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 1: like I'm hot, so you need to listen to me 544 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 1: because I have a banging little body and I nabbed 545 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: gazillionaire in The Hottest Bachelor of New York and this. 546 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 2: Book is just being like, yeah, I like this guy 547 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 2: now is like was like fat, but he's like so 548 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 2: horny for me, so like I got him to eat 549 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 2: bowls and to eat pasta prima vara with tofu. 550 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,959 Speaker 1: Good pussy, what have you eating tofu? 551 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,000 Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk about soup. But back to Susannah for. 552 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: A SECONDA she was really really stressed and type A 553 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 1: and she was coming in to yoga class like being 554 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 1: such a bitch to Hilaria and like always being like, actually, 555 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: I think your class is actually kind of like you're 556 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 1: going through the poses like and you're not your transitions 557 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 1: aren't good, and it's like making me stressed, and also 558 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 1: like I'm mad at everyone, and like she's just dissatisfied 559 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 1: with everything all the time. And then Hilaria, without telling her, 560 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: kind of shifts their practice to be just about breathing, 561 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 1: and then she was like, Oh, when I got this 562 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 1: bitch to actually focus on breathing, she like had to 563 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: stop criticizing herself and me and everyone around her, and 564 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: like a few weeks later she actually became nicer. And 565 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 1: then I revealed to her she was like, girl, we've 566 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: been actually just doing breath work for the past month, 567 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 1: and like then she was like, oh fuck yeah. 568 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 2: She bait and switch, but day and switch then on 569 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 2: another little case study. She doesn't The case studies are 570 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 2: like the most interesting part of the book because it's 571 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 2: like any detail and the rest of it is just 572 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 2: being like, mmm, buy almonds and bulk. She keeps on 573 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 2: saying bulk produce like it's this thing that no one's 574 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 2: ever heard of. She's like, actually your local grosser or. 575 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I mean, to be honest, I don't 576 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 1: have the room for bulk produce in my New York 577 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: City apartment. And I found that to be really fucked 578 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: up in privileged of her to tell me to find deals. 579 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,480 Speaker 2: This is actually I just said everyone knows what bulk 580 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 2: produce is, but now I'm realizing, you actually don't know 581 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 2: what bulk purtose is. 582 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: Because I don't have I don't have seven children with 583 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 1: Spanish names. So I'm not buying eight heads of cabins 584 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: a wee. 585 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 2: Bulk like bulk grains doesn't mean you're getting like a 586 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 2: Costco litter cat litter size of kinwall. It just means 587 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 2: you go to the bulk section and you can like 588 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 2: get how muchever you want and like little baggies. 589 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 1: Oh they don't have that in my supermarket. They don't 590 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 1: have that associated. 591 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 2: Okay, wait, so actually you are of this book is 592 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,440 Speaker 2: for you, like you do need to like come over 593 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 2: to tipmus, I'll take here's the bulk produce section where 594 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 2: you can get dates and instead of sometimes I know, Stephen, 595 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 2: you like to keep a little log of cooky doo 596 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 2: in the freezer and when you gnaw on it, what's going. 597 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 1: Through your mind? 598 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 2: Do you stop? No? 599 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,239 Speaker 1: I am being mindless and I'm not breathing and I'm 600 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 1: attacking the cookie doo because I'm not listening to my 601 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 1: body and the mind body connection is severed and my 602 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 1: body just wants pleasure and my mind is being like 603 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't care. This is gonna make 604 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 1: me feel right now? 605 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 2: What if we replaced it with one? Will go to 606 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 2: a book produce section, and she suggests get it. 607 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: Positive dates, Oh, bulk dates. 608 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 2: And which I've started getting from my co op and I, oh, 609 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 2: I love dates too. Let's have a date date. Okay. 610 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 2: This woman who like comes to her and like went 611 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 2: through menopause and started gaining weight. And she's like, but 612 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 2: I exercise all the time, Like, I don't get why 613 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 2: her name is Margaret, And she told Margaret to keep 614 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,479 Speaker 2: a food journal. Well, turns out Margaret and her husband 615 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 2: Paul were life on New Yorkers. They loved wine and 616 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 2: making dinners. But then so she cuts out. She's able 617 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 2: to like cut down the wine a little, She's able 618 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 2: to like do She's being very like fish. But then 619 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 2: the last thing is coffee. But this I found so funny. 620 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: I felt her steely grip loosening on this established way 621 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 2: of doing things. She and her husband unlimited their drinking dinner, 622 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 2: and her weight continued to melt away. Empowered by this 623 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 2: incredible weight loss, Margaret then turned towards her coffee habit. 624 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 2: I had asked her what would happen if I didn't 625 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,240 Speaker 2: drink mocha every morning? 626 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: His client is so mocha. 627 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:20,759 Speaker 2: I know like this. I love this Simes woman and 628 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 2: being like, I need my mocha. It's like, who has 629 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 2: a mocha every day? She started slowly decreasing her mocha 630 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 2: consumption to a few days a week, and the weight 631 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,280 Speaker 2: continued to roll off. 632 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: There we go, honey, it was the it was the 633 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:37,400 Speaker 1: mocha pound. 634 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,919 Speaker 2: It was the mocha pound. So it's like, I guess 635 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:44,480 Speaker 2: she was getting the most like Starbucks, like whole milk 636 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 2: mocha every morning. And then her and her husband, this 637 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 2: is a tip, she had started doing green tea mornings 638 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 2: and she started. 639 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: Looking forward to that time with her husband and the tea. Yeah. 640 00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: I mean, this is all one of those things where 641 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 1: the whole self care industry has basically been like anything 642 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: that makes you feel good is like good for you, 643 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: and like it's important to like give yourself these moments. Well, 644 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 1: you know what, my morning latte, my iced lattai from Honeymoon, 645 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,320 Speaker 1: the new coffee shop around the corner for me does 646 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 1: make me feel good. And yes, it is like twelve 647 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,240 Speaker 1: dollars a day. And then you're just kind of like, well, 648 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,640 Speaker 1: maybe you need to use my brain more and honey. 649 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 2: Conversation and we'll talk about that. 650 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we'll circle back on. 651 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,360 Speaker 2: Which is so funny because today I was trying to 652 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 2: be so living clearly and I went and got a 653 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 2: green juice at one of my local coffee shops milk 654 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 2: and honey. To your point, it's like it's always like, oh, 655 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 2: instead of getting your twelve dollars latte, maybe just take 656 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 2: a walk around the block or right. 657 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: But it's like, there's a way to justify the latte 658 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,399 Speaker 1: as being something that keeps me grounded, which is her 659 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 1: third principle, which is basically just about noticing gravity and 660 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,359 Speaker 1: being like wherever you are. And I do encourage our 661 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 1: listeners right now, please notice if you're standing, notice the 662 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 1: way your feet feel on the ground. 663 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 2: The first exercise I did from this book, I was 664 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,800 Speaker 2: completely lying down, feeling very sick, and it just said 665 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 2: you can lie down and just feel the world and 666 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:23,799 Speaker 2: your body curling you up like a blanket. How does 667 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 2: your feet feel sinking into the couch? How does your 668 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 2: head feel? Yoga's obsessed with like telling you to feel 669 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 2: something that you can't feel. Do you know what I mean? 670 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:42,720 Speaker 2: Like Yoga's always being like feel your collar bone. 671 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, going to the left. 672 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 2: Feel your jaw raising when you're watching TV that's all yoga. 673 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: It's so feel your collarbone and you're kind of like, okay, 674 00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 1: I yeah, let me just really quick, please circle back 675 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: with my collar bone. 676 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 2: And any time I've been a yoga class, I'm always 677 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:08,760 Speaker 2: like okay, and I think I have it for a second, 678 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, no, no. 679 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,879 Speaker 1: Totally, let's talk about our yoga experiences. Let's yea, lets 680 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,000 Speaker 1: do it. I I have occasionally done yoga throughout my life, 681 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 1: and every single time I'm in yoga, it's I'm one 682 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: of two men in the room, and like the other 683 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,840 Speaker 1: guy is such a like you know, bun on the 684 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 1: top of the head, like whatever you like. Guy who 685 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,240 Speaker 1: like also like does it have like a great body, 686 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 1: but has this like yoga body where it's kind of 687 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 1: like he's got good posture, but he's like not so 688 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: toned and he is just being so like yoga pants 689 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 1: and like Bernie jon. 690 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 2: Van Ness is how I imagine like most other men. 691 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:50,839 Speaker 1: In yoga one hundred percent it's only jvns. And then 692 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 1: it's all these women, you know, range of body types, 693 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: and they're all like doing the poses so perfectly imbalancing, 694 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 1: and I'm just like I cannot keep up. I don't 695 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 1: know what the fuck they're saying. Vinyasa's going into hivinyasa 696 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 1: in like two seconds flat. Everyone's like and circle back 697 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 1: and round three robin and back up to dead cow 698 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 1: and down to round cow. And I'm just like, I really, 699 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,719 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing. And I'm sweating so much, 700 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 1: I'm falling over, and it's discouraging. 701 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,719 Speaker 2: And it's intimidated that for those reasons. But then the 702 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 2: second time, you're like, uh, well, I remember Hilaria style 703 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,360 Speaker 2: did in for your high school senior project. You do 704 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 2: hot yoga. 705 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 1: I did as. 706 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 2: You had heard of technically, according to Ilaria, you had 707 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 2: heard of yoga before Eli, Before Ilaria. My and my 708 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 2: first yoga experience was positive because it was this is Cambridge. 709 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 2: My mom's like private yoga teacher Candace, who was like 710 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 2: a hot fifty year old with a tight bod see 711 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 2: a theme here, And it was just me, my mom 712 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 2: and my sister and she did like a lesson for us, 713 00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 2: and I feel like she was and I was so 714 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 2: afraid clumsy, but she was being so like and lift 715 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:06,320 Speaker 2: one leg. And then I'm always the personal I assume 716 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,480 Speaker 2: you are when they're like if you need to use 717 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 2: a block for this feel free. 718 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: The condescending language around if you need the block, if 719 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: if I. 720 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 2: Need the block, and it's always this thing where I'm like. 721 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,800 Speaker 1: You're so fat and wobbly that you need a block, 722 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 1: got one. But if you're able to find your center 723 00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:30,400 Speaker 1: and not be a baby, then no, consider just actually 724 00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: doing the posts. 725 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,759 Speaker 2: And e Lauria is being kind of is being so 726 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 2: if you need a block to the woman who's addictioned 727 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,280 Speaker 2: to Mocha's when she talks about her in the beginning, 728 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 2: she's like, yeah, Marker was coming to my class and 729 00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 2: she was able to keep up even though she was 730 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 2: really overweight. And it's like, I'm sure this woman was 731 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,319 Speaker 2: just kind of a chubby, like fifty year old, and 732 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 2: she's like, can you believe it? She was able to 733 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 2: do a pose? 734 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 1: I mean, how do you think I feel as a 735 00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 1: traditionally thin Spanish woman going into yoga and I see 736 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 1: literal private women doing the post is better than me? 737 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, how is your center of gravity 738 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 1: more in tune than mine? 739 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 2: Because they're breathing? 740 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:15,920 Speaker 1: Because well, yeah, it's true, it's because they're breathing. I also, okay, 741 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 1: the bar some of her other insane types at the 742 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 1: end where she's trying to incorporate like exercise in true life, 743 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,280 Speaker 1: a do pigeon posse while vacuuming, and you're just like, okay, 744 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 1: is the series like is the vacuum on? Or am 745 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,279 Speaker 1: I turning the vacuum off and just doing pigeon and 746 00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 1: then going back to the vacuum. Then the part where 747 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 1: she says, grocery shop on your tippy toes, So I'm 748 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 1: in the bulk section and I'm just tippy toeing and 749 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 1: there's like an insane photo shoot ever doing it. 750 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 2: And then there's a photo where she is kissing al 751 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 2: Baldwin while doing a handstand. 752 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 1: Wait, no, that part is insane. Also the photo where 753 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: she's he's like wait oh. 754 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,280 Speaker 2: Wait, the one where he's pressing a blending. 755 00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's doing a headstand and on their massive kitchen 756 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 1: island and then he's like holding the blender. This photo, 757 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,799 Speaker 1: I mean it needs a bottle pussy whipped in this. 758 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 1: It really is giving this magazine. I'm sorry, this is 759 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 1: like twenty ten net art right now, literally. 760 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 2: Full net art where yeah, it's like the amount albow 761 00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 2: is fussy whipped. 762 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:24,839 Speaker 1: It's so like satirical consumeris like luxury aesthetic like. 763 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:28,719 Speaker 2: What and the house, the apartment that they're in is 764 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,320 Speaker 2: such an apartment I would clean and then get complaints 765 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 2: about from the client. It's giving sixth ave and eighteenth 766 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:37,799 Speaker 2: five bedroom. 767 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 1: Hold on the part where she describes her their meeting 768 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 1: when she's at dining elfresco with her girlfriends, I'm sorry 769 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,840 Speaker 1: this part literally, I was like, did we did I 770 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 1: write this? One night, I headed out with two girlfriends 771 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,759 Speaker 1: for a meal. I was feeling celebratory. I was fit 772 00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 1: and healthy. My business partner I had found a second 773 00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 1: location for expanding yoga studio. We decided to beat ourselves 774 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 1: to a glass of wine al fresco as it was 775 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: an unseasonbly war meving enjoying ourselves. My girlfriends and I 776 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:12,360 Speaker 1: chatted about everything from work to fitness to dating. Feeling 777 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 1: very clear about what I wanted, I declared to the 778 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,879 Speaker 1: sky universe, I'm ready to meet someone and fall in love. 779 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: Little did I know that, by a stroke of destiny, 780 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 1: my husband to be with sitting just two tables away. 781 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 1: My girlfriend whacked me on my leg, whispering, Hilaria, shut up. 782 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 1: Alec Baldwin is looking at you. 783 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,560 Speaker 2: This is literally something you would write for like a 784 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:37,799 Speaker 2: women's like Earth Friendly Boot company. So I'm sitting with 785 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:43,920 Speaker 2: my girlfriends talking about politics, entertainment, dating, love, and exercise. 786 00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 1: My girlfriends and I chatted about exercise over wine. 787 00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,920 Speaker 2: Of course, yes, was I having two glasses of a 788 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 2: zingy a labrino. But I was celebrating, and I'm allowing 789 00:42:56,120 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 2: that because I've been making feminine chema meal bowls all week. 790 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: I peered over to his table and saw him staring 791 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,880 Speaker 1: at me. I recognized him, but only barely because I 792 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:08,839 Speaker 1: hardly ever went to the movies or watch TV. As 793 00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 1: I left the restaurant, he grabbed my hand, looked me 794 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,319 Speaker 1: square in the eye, and said, who are you? I 795 00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 1: must know you? And then they started dating also then 796 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,760 Speaker 1: he She says that they only shook hands for the first. 797 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,040 Speaker 2: Three months, but then they got married in like five 798 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:22,719 Speaker 2: months or something. 799 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:37,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, they got married five months and had like thirty children. Boom. 800 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 1: How does k vida KOs she manga? That's Italian. 801 00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 2: K Yeah, but I'm since I went to Mexico in a. 802 00:43:52,640 --> 00:44:00,439 Speaker 1: Week, abi is maybe where? So listen, what is she wear? 803 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 1: Yoga pants? 804 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,399 Speaker 2: Yoga pants? 805 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,839 Speaker 1: When off her tips? Is wear yoga pants and then 806 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,120 Speaker 1: you'll be ready to exercise. No one will know. 807 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,719 Speaker 2: I do think if you wear something you like when 808 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 2: you're exercising, it will encourage you to exercise. 809 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,319 Speaker 1: And that's why this podcast is sponsored by fableat x. 810 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 2: By two and get five off with our special code 811 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:25,360 Speaker 2: hid Aria. 812 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,840 Speaker 1: And then just like she's so basic and like she's 813 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:31,880 Speaker 1: I feel like she has the ability to make like 814 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,240 Speaker 1: Burg Dwarfs look like Macy's. 815 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,240 Speaker 2: Yes, like everything in here again like looks like something 816 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 2: a detective from NCIS Las Vegas would wear, Like prop 817 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 2: leather jacket. 818 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 1: It's very Risolian aisles, like off duty vibes. And yet 819 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 1: I bet she is going to like blooming Dails or 820 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 1: Burg Dwarfs and paying like six hundred and fifty dollars 821 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,319 Speaker 1: for that leather jack right, and. 822 00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,240 Speaker 2: It's like a brand you have, it's a three thousand 823 00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,560 Speaker 2: dollars like Auricough leather jacket. 824 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:00,080 Speaker 1: She's so. 825 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 2: And she's like, oh it's beautiful orakof and then like 826 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 2: boots again Italian leather maybe or Spanner sorry when maybe 827 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 2: she goes to a special boot maker in my. 828 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:22,360 Speaker 1: Work, Yeah, she loves to go to the Marquesa in 829 00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 1: Barcelona on her way back from Majorca and talked to 830 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 1: all the shops and. 831 00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 2: No, it's very Christian cavalry where she was went into 832 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 2: that guide for her Demi Fine Jewelry line where she's like, 833 00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 2: I'm meeting a boot maker today. Yeah, how does she live? 834 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 2: I mean, as I was saying, like, this is very 835 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:47,600 Speaker 2: like it's bed bath and beyond in this way where 836 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 2: like everything is like it's cream and grays. But I 837 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,040 Speaker 2: do feel like it's clean. But there's still a lot 838 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:58,080 Speaker 2: of toys and there's a maid like picking them up constantly, 839 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:02,160 Speaker 2: and everything kind of a wipeable service because they surface 840 00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 2: because they have nine hundred children. 841 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think it's very cream and Nancy 842 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 1: Myer's and it's pretty boring and there's mad maids. I'm 843 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,799 Speaker 1: like me and like, I guess my only question is 844 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 1: like does Alec Baldwin get a man cave in there 845 00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:19,760 Speaker 1: at all? Or No? 846 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,919 Speaker 2: No, I think he has an office that he gets 847 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 2: to that's like in the West Village. 848 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: He just rents an office space and that's like actually 849 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 1: a townhouse. 850 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,280 Speaker 2: Where he has like a secret yeah cigar or whatever. 851 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 2: I can even like smell it. Those rooms that are 852 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 2: like with it's like a Miss Myer's baby soap and 853 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 2: the crib and the diaper trash and it's. 854 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,640 Speaker 1: Like, oh that diaper smell and everything. 855 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,640 Speaker 2: It's like it. Basically, it probably is a more expensive 856 00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 2: version of that's just like a Kia rocking chair. 857 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:56,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, and there's you as well, say, I feel like 858 00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,880 Speaker 1: there's actually not such an influencer room full of like 859 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,319 Speaker 1: weird fake products. I just don't think she's actually getting 860 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 1: sent all this stuff. 861 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:04,719 Speaker 2: I don't think she is either. I think everyone is 862 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,319 Speaker 2: just like, what is wrong with her? And then I 863 00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:11,080 Speaker 2: think she has her what you imagine her bulk produce 864 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 2: pantry of a zuki beans and farrow and bulgar and millet. 865 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 2: People always i'll hear theme of grains. I feel like 866 00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:22,879 Speaker 2: people are mostly cooking quenwop when they're writing a book 867 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 2: like this. They love to throw and millet and I'm 868 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 2: just like. 869 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: Right to try and be so medieval. 870 00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,280 Speaker 2: And it's like, honey, you're not making a millet bowl 871 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,359 Speaker 2: with like a miso glaze. I just don't believe it. 872 00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,759 Speaker 1: You're not doing me some millet reel it in? 873 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 2: Who are you in the bug? Obviously, I'm like mocha addicted. 874 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:47,400 Speaker 1: Margaret, your mocha, mocha, Margaret, Moca Margaret. I mean I 875 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,880 Speaker 1: was seeing myself in Susannah and I did. I was like, uh, like, 876 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,600 Speaker 1: you know, I can focus on the negative a lot 877 00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,920 Speaker 1: and forget to breathe. And I was I was seeing that. 878 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 1: I was like, God, if I just slowed down, I 879 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:01,600 Speaker 1: might be able. 880 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,680 Speaker 2: And would you go in and correct the teacher. 881 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:08,239 Speaker 1: I don't think I would be so bold as to 882 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 1: correct the teacher, but I'm sure I would afterwards be 883 00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,279 Speaker 1: telling you being like, and here's the thing about the 884 00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: teacher is that she was actually going through the moves 885 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,719 Speaker 1: into chipperk way, and I would actually be talking so 886 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,839 Speaker 1: much about her and without maybe looking with them and 887 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 1: trying to just do the work and be grateful for 888 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 1: the experience and breathe. 889 00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:29,400 Speaker 2: So reading wise, okay, if this was just a photography book, 890 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:32,840 Speaker 2: I would give it five millet balls out of five. 891 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 2: But as a general book, I'm having to give it 892 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:46,600 Speaker 2: a a one out of a one, or a coffee 893 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:50,280 Speaker 2: leather jacket out of five. You mean you mean, oh sorry, 894 00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 2: Uno out of sinco. 895 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 1: Also, do we forget to talk about how their wedding 896 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,360 Speaker 1: rings have a Spanish phrase engraved on them. 897 00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:01,520 Speaker 2: So mus, okay, we need those rings. 898 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,960 Speaker 1: We are a good team. I'm just like you've somehow 899 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,839 Speaker 1: wrangled Alec into your Spanish cosplay. 900 00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,080 Speaker 2: Like right, he's walking around with this ring. I mean 901 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:12,400 Speaker 2: also wife. 902 00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,720 Speaker 1: He's pretending Majorca is important to his culture. 903 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 2: Wife Illuminati. All the reviews on the back or one 904 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:19,880 Speaker 2: is from Howard's. 905 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 1: Wife, They're all from wis. 906 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 2: And then it's Christie Brinkley, and I mean Maria Manuna's 907 00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 2: she guess she's a wife, but she's more famous than 908 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,520 Speaker 2: her husband. So thank you, thank you, and I believe 909 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,320 Speaker 2: we're in Manunas is also from like Bedford or something. 910 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 1: She is a Boston girl because I remember seeing her 911 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 1: on the cover of Boston Common magazine. Okay, I never 912 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:49,400 Speaker 1: forget it. She tore that cover, mother mother, oh hell Laria. Yeah, 913 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm giving it like those seeks bedroom 914 00:49:55,680 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 1: villas in Majorca out of day because again, yeah, I 915 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: I love the photography, and I think this satirical like 916 00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 1: consumerist like stock photography is very funny, and I love 917 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:12,120 Speaker 1: Alec Bobbin's role in the photography. However, there's so much 918 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 1: filler in this book and the few points that she 919 00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 1: makes are like so hard to get to. When I 920 00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,759 Speaker 1: think about someone like Kate Hudson's book, which is also 921 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,879 Speaker 1: like a lifestyle book, it's so much more fun. There's 922 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:24,799 Speaker 1: worksheets and call out boxes and it's just quizzes and 923 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,800 Speaker 1: like it's all in it just like it's just easy 924 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 1: to consume. And quite frankly, this book was It's at 925 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 1: two hundred and sixty pages, was a bit of a 926 00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:34,400 Speaker 1: slow huk. 927 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,359 Speaker 2: A bit of slow you for saying that. The other thing, 928 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,000 Speaker 2: even if I wanted to like learn her crunches and stuff, 929 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 2: it's always like, okay, the bicycle crunch. Actually you'll find 930 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,919 Speaker 2: instructions to that on page sixty seven, Like it's. 931 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're kind of like, just just put the bicycle 932 00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,759 Speaker 1: crunch in there. And then she's also wasting so much 933 00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,319 Speaker 1: time being like and then here's four pages on like 934 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:55,759 Speaker 1: this Vinasa flow and you're just like, I know what 935 00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 1: yoga is. I'm gonna either go to go to a 936 00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 1: yoga class or not. But I don't need to die. Damn. 937 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,759 Speaker 2: I'm gonna walk to Adrian, but I'm not gonna like 938 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 2: be like wait what. 939 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,719 Speaker 1: And obviously the writing is just so Monica Lewinsky, and 940 00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:12,879 Speaker 1: she keeps being like the information information super high rates, 941 00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,640 Speaker 1: so it is so stressful nowadays more than ever. We're 942 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,040 Speaker 1: connected to her phone. 943 00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:21,360 Speaker 2: So its like and she's like, are you reading Twitter 944 00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 2: dot com while you eat and reading news about the world? 945 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:28,360 Speaker 2: Think about your. 946 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:33,840 Speaker 1: Food anyway, I would recommend that everyone pay attention to 947 00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 1: their breathing. 948 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,640 Speaker 2: Yes, and don't recommend this book, but pay attention to 949 00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,920 Speaker 2: your breathing and maybe yeah, try eating and paying attention 950 00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,600 Speaker 2: to the flavors. Maybe use tumeric or. 951 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:51,640 Speaker 1: Me so tumberc and miso and savor it the third bite, 952 00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 1: the third bite. Don't chase the first bite forever? 953 00:51:55,800 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 2: Okay, well best uh Lutra grassows yeah, grass basis. 954 00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 1: Bien venido or credit. So the Celebrity Book Club. We 955 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:24,239 Speaker 1: are produced and edited by Derby Masters, and we are 956 00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:36,360 Speaker 1: PRODUCTO supervisor by and our engineero is uh Bahi Fraser, 957 00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 1: and we are executive of Producto by Christina Everett. She's 958 00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 1: also so Bela. And our graphic design is by Terry 959 00:52:53,719 --> 00:53:00,640 Speaker 1: Blanks Blanks Banks Blank Tank Clankings. 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